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Hi Maryla, Scott and Cali - just popping in to say hi, at 11:30 at night I'm sure its better than calling. Thinking of you all and of course Caedan! Went by CBD on Commissioners today and it seems like yesterday we had the car wash (I could almost hear the laughter!) and yet it seems so long ago too, how can we experience both feelings once? Life in the new job (since March! - not so new) has been hectic, but I would much perfer that than not busy enough. Talk to you soon, luv Beth, Pat, Dylan and Dawson.
Beth Sutherland
London, ON Canada - Tuesday, November 8, 2005 10:25 PM CST
Hi Maryla,

Thinking of you this weekend. Just a short walk down memory lane has us plotting our best route down Maple and daring each other to soap windows! I hope that Cali gets a good haul on her rounds tomorrow. Annie has upgraded her treat bag to XXL in hopes of covering her candy supply for the year :)

Love, Jane <jacornett@sbcglobal.net>
chicago, il USA - Sunday, October 30, 2005 10:57 PM CST
I was just thinking about Caedan tonight and I thought I would check out his caring bridge website again. I read your last entry and it certainly touched my heart. I am ALWAYS here if you need to chat or take a walk down memory lane. I would love to get to know Caedan better. He sounds like such a precious and lovely kid! You're in my thoughts.

Take good care
Carole

Carole Varin
London, ON Canada - Thursday, October 27, 2005 6:47 PM CDT
Just wanted you to know you are on my mind tonight :-)
Karen M
Waterloo, - Tuesday, October 18, 2005 9:49 PM CDT
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LOVE ALWAYS BRENDA My Loving Dad's Site <brurka@shaw.ca>
EDMONTON,ALBERTA CANADA, - Wednesday, October 12, 2005 1:23 PM CDT
Maryla, thank you so much for sharing the link which took me to Caedan's page. I didn't know Caedan, but I have read his story and a lot of the journal, my heart goes out to you and your family, he was a very special little boy.

Joanne Geddes <joanne.geddes@lhsc.on.ca>
London, - Thursday, October 6, 2005 10:52 AM CDT
i really miis you and i would do anything to have you back.:-(
jonny comstock <jonny_96_@msn.com>
London, ont Canada - Wednesday, October 5, 2005 3:02 PM CDT
Hi Maryla. Good to see you at the ChildCan meeting last week. Keep up the good work - your leadership is appreciated!
John & Cathy Young
Camlachie, ON Canada - Tuesday, October 4, 2005 8:31 PM CDT
Hi Maryla, I haven't checked in for a while and was thinking about you, I'm so sorry to hear about your Dad. Caeden has his grandparents with him now, and you have another guardian angel. Take care of yourself.
Love Lisa

Lisa <plbaxter@sympatico.ca>
St. Thomas, - Wednesday, September 21, 2005 1:22 PM CDT
Dear Maryla, Scott and Cali - Hi all, I wanted just to drop in to say that of course we did not forget Sept 12th - Caedan is too special to forget. We think of him a lot, but instead of the pain and sadness you have, we smile to have known such a great kid, who has influenced us all positively as we are better people because we had a chance to know him. Think of you often too..more often than I write. Take care, Love, Beth, Pat, Dylan and Dawson XO
Beth Sutherland
London, On Canada - Monday, September 19, 2005 1:22 PM CDT
My Dear Friend Maryla
Thinking of you today and remembering Caedan. Please know that you are still always on our prayers and thoughts.
Big Hugs for you and your family.

Adriana, Al, Sergio, Andrew and Anthony Lesik <al.adriana@sympatico.ca>
London, Canada - Sunday, September 18, 2005 7:26 PM CDT
Maryla;
I haven't posted for a while, but you all are in my thoughts each day. I was sorry to hear about your father. We lost my future father in law in February, and sprinked him out west in the summer. It was nice to see you in the school even though I didn't get to say hello. Hopefully next time. Thinking of you all.

Amy Bilyea (and Andrew McGregor) <amy.bilyea@rogers.com>
London, - Friday, September 16, 2005 6:01 PM CDT
Maryla, Scott and Cali,
Thinking of you and Caedan tonight.

Love, Sylvia and Christine 7 West <christinehoover4@hotmail.com>
London, - Friday, September 16, 2005 0:36 AM CDT
Thinking of all of you at this time. Remembering Caedan all the time!
Sandy <smschram@hotmail.com>
London, On Canada - Tuesday, September 13, 2005 8:03 PM CDT
{{{{{{{{Maryla}}}}}}}}}} If you still have that Teddy Bear that I gave to you in London at the hospital that day, get it out and hug it tightly my dear friend.....that is me putting my arms around you and holding you close. There are no magic words to ease your pain Maryla, I am in awe of your ability to put one foot in front of the other every day for the past three years. My heart aches for you Maryla and for your grief which is so consuming. Caedan has never been forgotten in our home and never will be I promise you.

Love, Tami

Tami Watchurst: mom to Alexander 12 yrs of age: dx: A.L.L. Long-Term Survivor <leapco@rogers.com>
Orangeville, Ontario Canada - Tuesday, September 13, 2005 8:03 PM CDT
BIG HUGS to you, Mar. And Scott and Cali, too.
Thinking of you and missing you in Amherstburg

Sandy Bolton <sbolton@itwfoils.com>
Amherstburg, ON Canada - Tuesday, September 13, 2005 10:30 AM CDT


(((((Maryla)))))

Elaine <elainevezina@sympatico.ca>
Ottawa, - Monday, September 12, 2005 9:21 PM CDT
Maryla, no one expects you not to feel his absence immensely. He was your baby, your first born, your only son. Even if you had ten more sons you'd feel his absence. Its a testament to how much of an important member of your family Caedan was, that you miss him so much. I just hope Cali comes to know what a wonderful big brother she had.
Chris Gooch's mom
- Monday, September 12, 2005 9:07 PM CDT
Hi Maryla, Scott and Cali. We were remembering Caedan on this beautiful day. We send our love and best wishes.
John & Cathy Young
Camlachie, ON CANADA - Monday, September 12, 2005 8:53 PM CDT
Hello Gallaghers,
We're thinking of you all today, remembering Caedan today and every day.
We're sending all our love and holding each of you close.

Julian, Noah, John and Christie <twobrides@hotmail.com>
- Monday, September 12, 2005 6:57 PM CDT
Dear Maryla,

Thinking of you all on this day and remembering Caedan always.

Susan, Ken, Daniel and Miranda

Susan Pigott <susan.pigott@lhsc.on.ca>
London, On Canada - Monday, September 12, 2005 5:08 PM CDT
Thinking of you and remembering Caeden today.


Lisa <lisa.hawthornthwaite@lhsc.on.ca>
London, On Canada - Monday, September 12, 2005 3:21 PM CDT
Thinking of you all with all my heart.
Tina Herzog <Tina.Herzog@sympatico.ca>
- Monday, September 12, 2005 2:31 PM CDT
Maryla, Scott and Cali. Caedan and all of you are in our thoughts and prayers especially on this day. It is fitting that is such a wonderfull day - that is what Caedan would have wanted. I remember his smile and his great sense of humour and his zest for life. Keep strong and live strong. Sincerely, Mike Rombouts on behalf of Sandra, Kaitlyn, Alisha and Matthew.
Mike Rombouts <mrombouts1010@rogers.com>
Delaware, ON Canada - Monday, September 12, 2005 12:06 AM CDT
Gallaghers,

You are all always in my thoughts and prayers, but especially today. We will never know why things happen as they do - maybe one day, when we are all together again - it may make sense. For now, all we can do is accept the reality. But the biggest thing is to never, ever forget and always keep our loved ones in our hearts, thoughts and minds.

Love,
Sharon, John and Trevor Simpson
Angel Cody's birthday was Saturday.

Sharon Simpson <sharon.simpson@international.gc.ca>
Windsor, ON - Monday, September 12, 2005 7:37 AM CDT
Thinking of you all...
Tracy M Hug a Bug <tmangin@sympatico.ca>
Windsor, ON Canada - Sunday, September 11, 2005 6:17 PM CDT
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I'M SORRY ABOUT THE PASSING OF YOUR DAD.I JUST LOST MY DAD TO IN DEC 25.2004,

BRENDA My Loving Dad's Site <brurka@shaw.ca>
EDMONTON,ALBERTA CANADA, - Friday, August 26, 2005 1:28 AM CDT
Hello!
I never was blessed with the opportunity to meet Caeden, but he sounds like a wonderful boy who loved life. He has such a supportive, loving family. My younger sister is fighting cancer now, and we also live in Byron! Her website is at http://www.caringbridge.org/visit/julie

Caitlin MacInnes <all__that__jazz@hotmail.com>
London, Ont Canada - Monday, August 22, 2005 12:50 AM CDT
Hi Maryla, Scott (Cali too). I've been thinking and thinking of you and not acting on that instinct. My belated sympathy for the loss of your Dad/Grandpa. I saw Cali at Dawson's swimming lessons (behind Charlenes) so we had a little chat. You know, oh so little. Kids have been in many camps and loving the summer - not too keen about going back to..you know where! Busy at my new job and so's Pat. Hardly ever see him! Anyway hope to see and talk with you soon. Take care, sending love, Beth, Pat, Dylan & Dawson


Beth Sutherland <bethcesutherland@sympatico.ca>
London, ON Cda - Tuesday, August 16, 2005 10:23 PM CDT
Please accept my deepest sympathy in the loss of your dear Dad. You are so right, its always so hard, we are never ready. What a nice way for your Dad though. He didn't have to suffer anymore.
Mary Lou Thomson
Exeter, ON - Friday, August 12, 2005 8:56 AM CDT
I am so sorry to hear about your dads passing. You've lost 2 of your favorite men, of course it hit you hard. the biggest shame is what Cali will miss out in getting to know from them....
Chris Gooch's mom
- Thursday, August 11, 2005 7:56 PM CDT
I'm so sorry for the loss of your father; you're right, it doesn't matter who it is you lose, it's still a big hole in your life. I hope in time your happier memories will bring you comfort.
Denise Ward <deniward@shaw.ca>
Winnipeg, Canada - Thursday, August 11, 2005 6:29 PM CDT
Hi Mar,
Just thinking about you and yours today and sending our love. Once again, we're so sorry to hear about your Dad.
Looking forward to seeing you all soon.
Big hugs from us to you,

Christie, John, Noah and Julian <twobrides@hotmail.com>
- Wednesday, August 10, 2005 12:40 AM CDT
Happy birthday (belated) from a long time visitor who hasn't visited Caedan's site in a while. Thanks for sharing your thoughts and feelings and helping us stay connected.
Doug
Troy, MI USA - Tuesday, July 26, 2005 12:21 AM CDT
Four more sleeps till Maryla's birthday!!

All my love

Annie <anniebowers@shaw.ca>
Victoria, BC Can - Tuesday, July 12, 2005 12:57 AM CDT
Just wanted to let you guys know we're thinking about you. Tonight at dinner we were remembering Caedan reciting the alphabet backwards. John tried to demonstrate to Noah but he couldn't get past zyx!
Love to you from us,

Christie, John, Noah and Julian <twobrides@hotmail.com>
- Tuesday, July 12, 2005 0:05 AM CDT
Scott;
Best wishes on Father's Day to someone who has proven himself to be a great Dad!

Karen and the Waterloo Gang <hbyc7@rogers.com>
Waterloo, ON - Sunday, June 19, 2005 1:52 PM CDT
Hi Maryla and family,
I wanted to let you know that I thought of Caedan on his birthday. I put out the card you sent to my Henry with the Earth on the cover in honour of Caedan on his day. Thought you might like to know that the red "Friends of Caedan" hat is Henry's favourite and is proudly worn all over Timiskaming Shores. Thinking of you!
Love Amy, Dalas & Henry Forget

Amy Forget <amy.forget@timisk.ccac-ont.ca>
Haileybury, Ontario Canada - Thursday, June 16, 2005 8:33 AM CDT
Will keep thinking of you during Relay for Life and hope we can help you exceed your goals. The Relay for Life in Waterloo was on the last week-end of May ... WCI and Bluevale high schools alternate hosting it each year but make it a joint venture. I didn't hear the final tally yet, but the schools are amazingly enthusiastic and always do well in fundraising.
Karen M <hbyc7@rogers.com>
Waterloo, ON - Monday, June 13, 2005 4:08 PM CDT
Maryla,

Sorry I won't see you at the Relay this year. I was supposed to be on a team called Shimy Shakers - my best friend is a belly dancer and she has a team going in. She is doing her relay in memory of Cody. So I was going to be on her team. Then I found out Trevor's graduation is - you guessed it - June 24th. (who has a graduation on a Friday night?!)
Anyway, if you happen to see a whole group of belly dancers, look for the tall blonde, her name is Vicki. Tell her you are Caedan's mom - she would love to meet you.

I'd say that I'd try to get out to see everyone after the grad, but my mother will be here from Nova Scotia, so I guess I won't be going anywhere.

Have a great time (that sounds so funny to say - it's such an mixed-emotion night!)

Love, Sharon

Sharon Simpson <sharon.simpson@international.gc.ca>
Windsor, ON Canada - Monday, June 13, 2005 10:53 AM CDT
Hey I'm proud of you! The link really works!! Can hardly wait to see you again at the event.

I think we're going to need hats...that's if they are available.

Frances, Paul and family @ Lucas' page <hammonds@wincom.net>
A'burg, - Tuesday, June 7, 2005 10:50 PM CDT
Just stopped by to leave a warm, friendly HI :-)
Karen M <hbyc7@rogers.com>
Waterloo, - Friday, June 3, 2005 4:33 PM CDT
Hi there! It has been a while since we last saw you...must be pretty busy too. Hope that things are going well with you and that you are out enjoying this nicer weather too. We have been so busy...Brandon and Jeremy are playing soccer this year, and Theo is Brandon's coach. So 3 nights a week are busy with soccer. We are looking forward to school being over soon too..as are most kids I am sure! Are you going to camp this summer? day camp? Take care, and stay in touch.

Diane, Theo, Jeremy, Brandon and Danielle Schelhaas <tschelha@execulink.com (www.caringbridge.org/canada/brandon)>
Strathroy, ON - Saturday, May 28, 2005 8:33 PM CDT
Hi Guys, just thought I'd say hello! Weather's warming, but we haven't seen you walking. Hopefully we'll catch up to you soon. D and D are playing baseball this year for a change, and really enjoying it! Take care, talk to you soon, Luv Beth, Pat, Dylan and Dawson
Beth Sutherland
London, On Canada - Friday, May 27, 2005 8:13 AM CDT
Hi Gallaghers,

Just wanted to drop you a line & let you know that we're thinking of you!

Jane, Annie & Alex <jacornett@sbcglobal.net>
chicago, il - Wednesday, May 25, 2005 11:46 PM CDT
Hi Maryla, Scott and Cali..Thought I'd check in to say hello! We had a great vacation in the Gatineau's and Caedan's balloons went racing across Lac Ste. Marie and up, up and away. Dylan had some oysters and taught our friend Mike how to eat them with tobasco, so Scott you have recruited another! I just can't believe we hardly see each other living so close, but you know we are thinking of you!

Patty Wagon is opening this Friday (at Tony Clark's Garage on Springbank Drive), and the Optimist consession (Patty Wagon TOO) will have ICE CREAM!!!! this year, so come on up and enjoy! See you soon! Luv Beth, Pat, Dylan and Dawson

Beth Sutherland
London, On Canada - Wednesday, May 11, 2005 8:39 AM CDT
Happy Mother's Day, Maryla. We're thinking about you and both of those great kids and wishing you a beautiful day.
Christie, John, Noah and Julian <twobrides@hotmail.com>
- Sunday, May 8, 2005 10:06 PM CDT
Happy Mother's Day to a wonderful mom of two wonderful children. Lunch is still calling.....
Nancy Lawrence <n.lawrence@rogers.com>
St. Thomas, ON - Saturday, May 7, 2005 3:21 PM CDT
Maryla hoping you have a Happy Mothers Day with Cali, and spend the day remembering the good times with Caedan.
Chris & Gooch
- Friday, May 6, 2005 10:46 PM CDT
Hi There
Birthdays are a very hard time, But he is haveing a endless party. We let balloons go too, to mark there birthdays. Leah's Birthday was May the 2nd she would have been 17.(www.caringbridge.org/canada/leah) Hard to believe. We are looking forward to the Blood Donor Clinic and Silent Auction on Sept 20th in Memory of her (Leah's Wish).
Think of you often

Barb & John Vandenbor <barbara_Vandenbor@hotmail.com>
Walkerton, On Canada - Wednesday, May 4, 2005 6:21 PM CDT
Just checking in.
Tracy M <tmangin@sympatico.ca>
Windsor, ON Canada - Monday, May 2, 2005 2:23 PM CDT
Hi Gallaghers,
We sent off our balloons from the beach where we had a picnic dinner and sang Happy Birthday. It was a beautiful day again this year and we watched the yellow bouquet against the blue sky until we couldn't see them any longer. Interestingly enough, Noah could see them for much longer than us old folks. Either he was fibbing or our eyes really are getting bad.
Happy Birthday Caedan.
Love to all of you fom all of us.

Uncle John, Auntie Christie, Noah and Julian <twobrides@hotmail.com>
- Tuesday, April 26, 2005 11:10 PM CDT
I had a good time releasing balloons here in St. Albert. It was very windy, a perfect day to send them off on their journey. Couldn't get a butterfly one, instead got some yellow, birthday and Winnie the Pooh ones. They headed off to the east, did you see them in London or was there SO MUCH SNOW that you missed them??? LOL - hey, we always get snow in April, now you know what it is like!!!
love Valerie

Valerie Sawyer <tvsawyer@shaw.ca>
St. Albert, AB - Monday, April 25, 2005 12:55 AM CDT
Hi Gallaghers;
All week I have been remembering the exciting time of Caedan's arrival 12 years ago. It rained here last evening and I was hoping the rain may have held off while you sent off balloons. Still, how appropriate to have the much needed rain for the flowers and grass on Caedan's Earth Day :-) Love you all,

Karen M
Waterloo, ON - Saturday, April 23, 2005 3:49 PM CDT
Happy Birthday Caedan! I hope you liked the balloons.
Sandy <smschram@hotmail.com>
London, On Canada - Saturday, April 23, 2005 1:21 PM CDT
Happy Birthday to Angel Caedan, our wonderful boy , always in our memory.
Love,
Aunt Mary

Mary LeBlanc <maryjake@nb.sympatico.com>
Fredericton , NB Canada - Friday, April 22, 2005 9:18 PM CDT
Launch complete!!!!
The Mangin's <tmangin@sympatico.ca>
LaSalle, ON Canada - Friday, April 22, 2005 6:27 PM CDT
Maryla, Scott and Cali
Sending you good wishes for the best Caedan celebration yet! Sending those balloons is such a beautiful image. I wonder if he's catching them.
Oh, we're going to join Friends of Caedan this year for the Relay. We are sooooo looking forward to it!

Frances, Paul and family @Lucas' page <hammonds@wincom.net>
Amherstburg, - Friday, April 22, 2005 12:57 AM CDT
Happy Birthday Caedan! Watch for your balloons in LaSalle tonight!
Tracy M <tmangin@sympatico.ca>
Windsor, ON Canada - Friday, April 22, 2005 12:34 AM CDT
Happy Birthday to a Very Special Person - you are never forgotten, Caedan.

Maryla,

Would you be good enough to re-send me the message about the ChildCan day at MacDonald's - we've been having computer problems at home. Please send it to sharon.simpson@international.gc.ca.

Thanks and love to all,

Sharon, John, Trevor, Maya (our puppy) and Angel Cody

Sharon Simpson <sharon.simpson@international.gc.ca>
Windsor, - Friday, April 22, 2005 12:28 AM CDT
Happy Birthday to Caedan, and much love from Annie, David, Robyn, Cory and Marian. You are in our thoughts today.
Annie <anniebowers@shaw.ca>
Victoria, BC Canada - Friday, April 22, 2005 10:58 AM CDT
Sending Birhtday Wishes your way
XOXO

Jennifer Thompson <jthompson@lon.imag.net>
St Thomas, on Canada - Friday, April 22, 2005 9:16 AM CDT
Hey there, we are thinking of you guys...happy Birthday Caedan...always thinking of you...Love Liz, Ramon, Andrew, Jordan, Olivia and Allison...
Liz Pache <LizP@ettravel.com>
Exeter, Ont Canada - Friday, April 22, 2005 8:45 AM CDT
Good Morning,
Happy Birthday Caedan. We all miss you.

Tracy Besterd <bestbet@sympatico.ca>
London, On - Friday, April 22, 2005 7:06 AM CDT
Maryla and Scott (and Cali of course):
The pictures are wonderful, so many memories of such an amazing child. We are sending you love, and strength, and will launch ballons with Noah and Julian tomorrow at 4:20pm (you'll have to watch carefully). Lots of love.


Uncle John, Aunt Christie, Cousin Noah and Cousin Julian <twobrides@hotmail.com>
Vancouver, BC Canada - Thursday, April 21, 2005 10:30 PM CDT
Happy Birthday Caedan. Maryla I hope Cali remembers her brother, as much as she can, she was so young, I know. He was a remarkable little guy. Wishing you all peace
Chris Gooch's mom Share the Love
- Thursday, April 21, 2005 10:01 PM CDT
Hey Maryla... we will celebrate Mike's birthday every year too. It so feels like the right thing to do. How could we not? We send balloons too - every time we do Taylar's gets caught in the tree or hydro wires. He says it's so his Daddy can read it easily - it only stays there for little bit and then it takes off up to heaven.

We wish you, Scott, Cali and of course "Angel Caedan" a happy birthday tomorrow. We'll be thinking of you and sending birthday wishes and yellow balloons his way...

Kristyn <kdarling@hay.net>
Mt. Carmel, On Canada - Thursday, April 21, 2005 7:26 PM CDT
We had the pleasure of celebrating many birthdays with Caedan and we'll also be celebrating it tomorrow.
Happy spring,
Susan, Ken, Daniel and Miranda

Susan <susan.pigott@lhsc.on.ca>
London, - Thursday, April 21, 2005 4:47 PM CDT
Thinking of you on this beautiful sunny day. May happy memories fill Caedan's special day tomorrow and may you find comfort in knowing others care.
Mary Lou Thomson
Exeter, - Thursday, April 21, 2005 10:45 AM CDT
Thinking of all of you, and celebrating Caedan's life with you.
Big hugs,

Lisa Agee www.caringbridge.com/page/ross <lagee67@hotmail.com>
Camden, AL - Wednesday, April 20, 2005 9:12 PM CDT
Hey Gallaghers!,

I guess you'll have to look REALLY hard to see our yellow balloons going up but keep an eye out because Annie insists that there be a pink one in there for her friend Cali. We're planning a summer trip in August this year & hope to see you then.

Happy Earthday Birthday Caedan!

love Jane, Alex & Annie <jacornett@sbcglobal.net>
Chicago, IL USA - Wednesday, April 20, 2005 12:03 AM CDT
I saw an awesome butterfly balloon at the grocery store on the weekend, and thought it would be perfect for this year's launch. What do you think? Have you ever seen the balloons that you can put things inside? Usually they are used for gifts, but it might be fun to send some special things up to Caedan. You can get them at the "better" dollar stores - we have them at one called Great Canadian.
Happy birthday Caedan! Sending extra wishes to your special mom, I know you'd be happy to share your wishes with her.
Love to you and yours Maryla.

Valerie Sawyer <tvsawyer@shaw.ca>
St. Albert, AB - Wednesday, April 20, 2005 0:57 AM CDT
Hi Gallagher Family
Just dropping a line to say hello and tell you I think of you guys every day.
Love, Kellie

Kellie <gman@jet2.net>
LaSalle, ON Canada - Tuesday, April 19, 2005 7:15 PM CDT
Hello to all of you from all of us here in Vancouver. We've been talking lots about Terry Fox with Noah this week, and about Caedan, too. There's not a chance Caedan will ever be forgotten, he deeply touched so many lives. Rarely does a day go by in our house that his name isn't mentioned. We all remember.
Love you guys.

Noah, Julian and co. <twobrides@hotmail.com>
- Wednesday, April 13, 2005 11:43 PM CDT
Maryla, Scott and Cali!
Thinking of you at this special time of year!

Happy Birthday, Caedan!

Marion <m.moynihan@tvdsb.on.ca>
London, ON Canada - Wednesday, April 13, 2005 9:41 PM CDT
Hi Maryla, Scott, and Cali..me again! Thought I'd say hi! We will be heading off for a weeks holiday in Quebec on Thursday 21st, but will send off Caedan's balloons on the 22nd from Mte. Ste. Marie in the Gatineau mountains and hopefully they go up vs. sideways! this year! Think of you you-all lots! Love Beth, Pat, Dylan and Dawson
Beth Sutherland
London, ON Canada - Tuesday, April 12, 2005 9:33 AM CDT
Hi Maryla, I know it is a little early, but we will have our balloons ready. This must be a difficult month for your family. Just know that there are so many people thinking about Caeden and your family. Take care.
Love Lisa

Lisa Baxter <plbaxter@sympatico.ca>
St..Thomas, - Monday, April 11, 2005 8:21 AM CDT
April. Forever it will remind me of Caedan. Hope you guys are getting a taste of this wonderful spring weather!
Tracy M <tmangin@sympatico.ca>
Windsor, ON Canada - Tuesday, April 5, 2005 4:30 PM CDT
Just thinking of you folks on this snowy day:-)
Karen M
Waterloo, ON - Sunday, April 3, 2005 2:56 PM CDT
Hi Maryla,Scott and Cali, just popped in to see what you were up to? No news-sorry I missed you at the hill. Talk to you soon. Thinking of you always! Beth
Beth Sutherland
London, On Canada - Saturday, April 2, 2005 3:53 PM CST
Well, its clear that Amherstburg Residents have you in our hearts...
Thinking of you today. And Caedan. Especially when I turned the calendar page to April.
HUGS

Sandy Bolton <sbolton@itwfoils.com>
Amherstburg, ON - Friday, April 1, 2005 3:00 PM CST
Hi Maryla, I was thinking about you today and just wanted to say hi. You have a remarkable ability and courage to be able to write down and share your most private thoughts with others. My heart goes out to you. Take care.
Dee Petrozzi <petrozzi@mnsi.net>
Amherstburg, ON - Thursday, March 31, 2005 8:54 PM CST
Hi Maryla, you are right, he was too special to forget!
Cali sweetie Happy Easter.....

Chris - Gooch's mom
- Sunday, March 27, 2005 9:42 AM CST
Hello Maryla

Thinking of you and your family on this blessed holiday.

Sandy <smschram@hotmail.com>
London, On Canada - Saturday, March 26, 2005 10:50 AM CST
Hi Mar and Scott,
Just stopping by to let you know I was thinking of you today.

Daniel
Vancouver (aka the Couvster), BC - Thursday, March 24, 2005 5:11 PM CST
Happy Easter guys!
Tracy M <tmangin@sympatico.ca>
Windsor, ON Canada - Thursday, March 24, 2005 3:14 PM CST
Maryla;

What an honor it is that you have put a link to Lucas's website on Caedan's Caringbridge Page. Lucas is so excited everytime he receives a new police or fire patch in the mail. As you can see he's very proud of the collection he's gotten so far. Frances and I think of him as our little hero, so how appropriate is it that he started this collection.

Thanks again,

Paul & Frances Hammond <hammonds@wincom.net Or <a href=>
Amherstburg, Ont Canada - Monday, March 21, 2005 10:45 PM CST
Just checkin' in to say hi on this first day of spring. So ... where is spring?
Karen M
Waterloo, ON - Sunday, March 20, 2005 2:36 PM CST
Just me.....
Tracy M <tmangin@sympatico.ca>
Windsor, ON Canada - Saturday, March 19, 2005 9:41 AM CST
Everyone is different, some people choose never to update the site again, even years after. Others need to, its a release. Please just be sure you save it all if you do stop updating. Seriously, or ask me and I will get it printed out for you
Chris - Gooch's mom
- Saturday, March 12, 2005 10:09 AM CST
Maryla,

I just want you to know that even though I've never me you or had the honor to know Caedan, you both remain in my thoughts and prayers. Thank you for sharing your feelings so beautifully with us.

Lisa Agee www.caringbridge.com/page/ross <lagee67@hotmail.com>
Camden, AL - Thursday, March 10, 2005 8:03 AM CST
I saw Winnie the Pooh last week, and it made me think of you, and of course the oh-so-wise Caedan.
Tracy M <tmangin@sympatico.ca>
Windsor, ON Canada - Wednesday, March 9, 2005 11:36 PM CST
Mar....

You have the gift to express your thoughts through words like no other person I know. It is such an honour that you allow us into your heart. But please know that if you choose to not use this forum as a way to express yourself, always, always know that there is not one single person on this site that will ever forget Caedan. Ever!

I love you to pieces Mar!!!!

Tina Herzog <tina.herzog@sympatico.ca>
Windsor, ON - Wednesday, March 9, 2005 5:28 PM CST
It is good to read of your honesty, Maryla. Last night a parent was sharing of their being in TO a year ago and of the daily report parents had to each other on their child's blood counts in post transplant. Even though there were language barriers as some were in a strange land, "thank you Jesus" became a slogan!
Memories of that parent lounge are so vivid and so of course as he shared it took us on a swirl of emotion, as the tears flowed. Another young fellow shared a poem of a tragic event where 5 youth friends of his were killed 12 yrs. ago. He broke down in sharing, but our leader brought out the beautiful fact, that even though that happened so long ago, the message of their lives is still so alive. What comfort remembering brings, even as the tears flow in our deep longings. With you, we think of Caedan and Joshua being where only joy can abound for boys!

Leonard & Lucille Weber <llweber@sgci.com>
WestMontrose, Ont. Canada - Monday, March 7, 2005 9:00 PM CST
Hi Maryla, Scott and Cali... it is my routine to check in..perhaps to see some new messages from you or to read the guest book messages,it is comforting to know that others are thinking of you all too. Just to make sure you know, with or without the website, you will always be on our minds and in our hearts. Caedan's personality, and wisdom beyond his years, will always be remembered by us.

Looking foward to coming out of hibernation (after March break of course!) as I'm hoping the snow will last until then. All our love, Beth, Pat, Dylan and Dawson

Beth Sutherland
London, On Canada - Monday, March 7, 2005 7:25 PM CST
Hi Maryla:
Yes, I am still here too. Things have been busy for us here, too. Thanks for the Christmas card. Your words are always so kind. Say hi to the Karen's for me!!

Valerie <cuff31@aol.com>
Ottawa, - Monday, March 7, 2005 6:16 PM CST
Hello Maryla -
Has spring found you yet?
It was so nice to actually speak to you last week! That was probably one of my best birthday gifts! And the card was lovely.
Don't worry, Caedan will never be forgotten. You all are embedded in our hearts forever.
love Val

Valerie Sawyer <tvsawyer@shaw.ca>
St. Albert, AB - Sunday, March 6, 2005 10:00 AM CST
Dear Maryla,
Just checking in on you... I know that you'll do whatever feels right in your heart so please know that regardless of what happens to this website, you & Caedan will always be in our thoughts.

lovejane <jacornett@sbcglobal.net>
Chicago, Il - Saturday, March 5, 2005 4:51 PM CST
Dear Maryla,
Thinking of you.
Love Nurse Stephanie (the quiet one)

Stephanie Carter <step_carter@hotmail.com>
London, ON Canada - Wednesday, March 2, 2005 6:21 PM CST
Hi Maryla,

You must know how generous it is of you to share your thoughts with all of us. And how grateful anyone would be to know that their guestbook entries make a difference for you. Anything you decide to do with this website will be okay. We love you and never stop thinking of you, and we will always be loving and missing Caedan.

Annie <anniebowers@shaw.ca>
Victoria, BC Canada - Wednesday, March 2, 2005 12:37 AM CST
Hi Maryla,
Just checking in to let you know that I still think about all of you.

Christine 7 West <christinehoover4@hotmail.com>
St. Thomas, On - Tuesday, March 1, 2005 1:48 AM CST
Oh Maryla, How could we ever forget Caedan. He taught us so much. I miss him every day. I look across the court at Cody and Cali playing in the snow and think that Caedan should be there too. It really isn't fair. I miss him in the afternoons when the boys are in the rec room fighting. I miss hearing him say, "cut it out guys or your mom's gonna make me go home". I miss having him over for pizza lunches. I'd love to hear his thoughts on our phone conversations. Like when you called last week and I answered and said, "how much sour cream do you need?" Sorry, I can't type anymore, there are too many tears for me to see what I'm typing. Just know you and Caedan are in my thoughts constantly.
Tracy B <bestbet@sympatico.ca>
London, On CA - Monday, February 28, 2005 7:55 AM CST
Dear Maryla, I can certainly understand your mixed feelings about keeping this website going. Whatever you choose to do, I hope that you know that we will always remember Caedan.
Susan <susan.pigott@lhsc.on.ca>
- Sunday, February 27, 2005 8:12 PM CST
Maryla
Just checked in tonight and my thoughts were the same as you wrote. I wondered if you were continuing with your thoughts, writing your feelings, expressing the love you have for Caeden, and how his memory will live forever as long as he is in our hearts. He is a reminder of how precious our children are, watching them in those moments they don't see us watching, asking ourselves what have we done so wonderful that God has placed these blessings in our hands so freely. Maryla, although I write to you so little, I want you to know I think of you often, I think, as a mother myself, what the loss of their child would be, a grief so overwhelming, how we are made to continue in this live, not that we would forget but that we go on remembering, holding each thought as a everlasting memory. I can't image time passing and the pain deminishing, so I was not surprise to hear that the process of grieving also includes not being able to place into words, what you are feeling today. The numbing of it all. I continue to check in, to read your entries, and pray that as each day passes you find strength, and continue in your courage. You are a wonderful example of strength and love to all of us who read your entries.... God Bless you today, Maryla..

As a side note I ran into an old friend of ours from high school yesterday..... Tracey Endo..... it was so nice to see her, I almost cried. She is still as beautiful as she was in high school... Maryla. Thinking of you.......

Nicole Collison <j.collison@sympatico.ca>
Amherstburg, ON Canada - Sunday, February 27, 2005 6:54 PM CST
Maryla,
I see you in the hallways at work and we chat briefly, but it's never the right time or place to tell you that every time I meet a new family somewhere along their journey at CHWO, I think of you, Scott, Cali - and, of course Caedan. And I think of the lessons I (and I suspect many others) learned from your family. I don't know why things happen in life the way they do, or why things are as unfair as they sometimes are. I think, though, that our search to uncover these answers can make us better people, better parents, and better friends. Maybe that's the answer.....I do know that I feel I'm a better person for having known Caedan and for knowing you now.
Take care
Nancy

Nancy Lawrence <n.lawrence@rogers.com>
St.Thomas, ON - Sunday, February 27, 2005 6:29 PM CST
JUST WANTED YOU TO KNOW THAT I AM PRAYING FOR YOUR FAMILY.



CARINGBRIDGE.ORG/WV/FREDAFOX

RUTH <BLUEEYED_FEMALE@MSN.COM>
HINTON, WV - Thursday, February 24, 2005 1:52 PM CST
Scott and Maryla -- Yes of course I'm still here and checking in! It is a 'connection' to you and a way to keep remembering Caedan - a place that we can bring our hearts that still grieve. It is somehow settling to see Caedan's photo still here and to think of how inspiring he was to so many. And I'm sure I'm not the only one who loves to watch Cali grow and mature through your photos.
Karen M <hbyc7@rogers.com>
Waterloo, ON - Wednesday, February 23, 2005 7:19 PM CST
I'm here! Actually, I don't know that I've ever signed your guestbook before, but I've been following your story for a couple years now ...
Justine Kessler
Madison, WI - Tuesday, February 22, 2005 8:13 PM CST
Hey Maryla, was wondering how you guys, especially Cali, are doing?
Chris - Gooch's mom
- Monday, February 21, 2005 9:57 PM CST
I'm still checking in. Had a busy week. Drew (my fiance) just lost his father on Saturday Feb 12 to ALS, so I've been busy with Drew and his family. Never realized how hard it would be and all the firsts...(first week, first Valentines day..first birthday on Feb 21st.)
However I still check this page and see how things are.


Amy <amy.bilyea@rogers.com>
- Saturday, February 19, 2005 10:30 PM CST
Hi Maryla! Yep, still checking in, and we all think of you often, Scott, Cali, and of course Caedan too. I say hi to him everyday as I pass his park on the way to work. See you at the video store! Luv Beth, Pat, Dylan, and Dawson
Beth Sutherland
London, On Canada - Saturday, February 19, 2005 12:56 AM CST
Maryla,

We are always here and thinking of you.

Sandy <smschram@hotmail.com>
London, On Canada - Saturday, February 19, 2005 9:47 AM CST
Definately still here! :)
Lisa Agee www.caringbridge.com/page/ross <lagee67@hotmail.com>
Camden, AL - Friday, February 18, 2005 8:35 PM CST
Hello,
I'm here. We don't know each other but I seen the website and wanted to write a little something. My brother, 17yrs old, was diagnosed with AML this past Nov. He's undergone his third cycle of chemo and will be getting prepared for his BMT in a couple weeks. I just wanted to let you know that I'll keep you in my thoughts. God's blessings...

Mindy <mindykruger@mchsi.com>
Mason City, IA - Thursday, February 17, 2005 1:10 AM CST
Yes, I am most definitely still here. I think about you all the time and check fairly often for updates. I keep looking for one. Know that you are loved and cared for. I know the days are still very hard and want you to know you aren't forgotten.
Khalita My Caringbridge Site Duke Peds BMT Aplastic Anemia <khalita@hecaresonline.org>
Lexington, NC - Thursday, February 17, 2005 0:09 AM CST
Maryla, I'm back again just a few days later because I couldn't get you off of my mind. I noticed that it had been a while since you had written in your journal and I was concerned about you. I think of you so often Maryla, more than you will ever know.

Tami

Tami: Mom to Alexander: 12 yrs: Long-term Survivor: Leukemia <leapco@sympatico.ca>
Orangeville, Ontario Canada - Wednesday, February 16, 2005 6:10 PM CST
Nice to see new pictures. Keeping you in my prayers.
Mary Lou
Exeter, - Wednesday, February 16, 2005 10:21 AM CST
Of course I'm still here....
Tracy Besterd <bestbet@sympatico.ca>
- Wednesday, February 16, 2005 8:17 AM CST
Maryla,

Im here. Still checking :)

Elaine <elainevezina@sympatico.ca>
Ottawa, Ont - Tuesday, February 15, 2005 8:45 PM CST
Maryla, I have thought of you so often and today especially you came into my mind. I pray for you and your family always and want you to know that your son Caedan will always hold a special place in my heart.

Love, Tami

Tami Watchurst; Mom to Alexander: 12 yrs of age: Long-Term Survivor A.L.L. <leapco@sympatico.ca>
Orangeville, Ontario Canada - Monday, February 14, 2005 5:23 PM CST
Thinking of you today.
Lisa Agee www.caringbridge.com/page/ross <lagee67@hotmail.com>
Camden, AL - Saturday, February 12, 2005 8:46 PM CST
Hi
It's been a while since we had a chat.I was just reading over some of the entries.Boy,what our Children went through,and what we faced day to day. It's nice when someone leaves a note in their guestbook,that they still remember, them as well as us. Just thinking about you.
Barb (www.caringbridge.org/canada/leah)

Barb <Barbara_vandenbor@hotmail.com>
Walkerton, On Canada - Tuesday, February 1, 2005 8:01 PM CST
Hey Maryla...

Stopping in to say hi. LOVE the pics of C & C. That little girl of yours is going to be a star some day. Looking forward to seeing you guys in the spring for Relay... Bryan will be there this year, so be warned, anything could happen. :)

Hugs,

Karen <Karen@sdsc.edu / www.caringbridge.org/ca/bryanbanister>
San Diego, CA USA - Saturday, January 29, 2005 12:51 AM CST
Just stopped by to say HI. Glad I did as you had posted photos I hadn't seen yet! Loved them, as always. Guess you add photographer to your may talents as you are so good at catching perfect moments.
Love,

Karen M <hbyc7@rogers.com>
Waterloo, ON - Wednesday, January 26, 2005 11:47 AM CST
Psst - It's donation time again!
Tracy M BWC <tmangin@sympatico.ca>
Windsor, ON Canada - Tuesday, January 25, 2005 9:06 PM CST
Just wanted to let you know that you remain in my thoughts and prayers. Blessings to you in this coming year. I know your heart continues to be broken and that you are missing Caedan. I am so sorry. I will keep you close to my heart and remember your sweet boy.
Khalita My Caringbridge Site <khalita@hecaresonline.org>
Lexington, NC - Sunday, January 16, 2005 4:46 PM CST
Happy New Year Maryla....I hope this year is filled with many wonderful moments for you and your family.

Love always,

Aili <amalm@sfu.ca http://www.caringbridge.org/canada/bryankinney>
Vancouver, BC Canada - Saturday, January 15, 2005 0:49 AM CST
Time to donate again....I went Tuesday with my fiance, and have my next one schedualed before I head to Kentucky for March Break...

SO GO DONATE :o)

Amy
London, ON - Thursday, January 13, 2005 2:18 PM CST
Happy New Year too! Have been a bit awal on email lately so haven't checked in since before Christmas and I certainly wish I had of before now, as we were by Caedan's park on Christmas Day and could have easily turned in to light the candle! We waved, but that's just not the same. Pat's busy up at the Ski Hill and really enjoying the new atmosphere. Dawson starts ski lessons tomorrow. I hope 2005 brings you and Scott and Cali, peace, joy and happiness! See you soon, Love Beth, Pat, Dylan and Dawson
Beth Sutherland
London, On Canada - Monday, January 10, 2005 8:04 PM CST
Same to you, Maryla.
May health and peace be with you this year.

Karen M <hbyc7@rogers.com>
Waterloo, ON - Tuesday, January 4, 2005 12:19 AM CST
Maryla, I have thought of you so very often while preparing for Christmas, knowing that you would be doing everything possible to make this a special time for Cali, but feeling the pain of your loss of Caedan. This is such a bitter-sweet time of year for anyone who has lost someone that they love, but particularly painful for those of you who have lost a prescious child. I want you to know that Caedan will always be remembered by our family and that you and Scott and Cali are always in our prayers. Sending you a cyber hug....{{{{{{{{{{{Maryla}}}}}}}}}}}.

Love, Tami

Tami: Mom to Alexander 11 yrs of age: High Risk A.L.L. (Long Term Survivor) <leapco@sympatico.ca>
Orangeville , Ontario Canada - Thursday, December 30, 2004 8:02 AM CST
Hi there, and Merry Christmas from Strathroy! We hope that your memories will help you through this time. Know that many people are thinking of you....
Diane, Theo, Jeremy, Brandon and Danielle Schelhaas <tschelha@execulink.com>
Strathroy, ON - Saturday, December 25, 2004 1:26 PM CST
Maryla ~
It's been awhile but I do still think of you and your family often. I just wanted to stop by and wish you a peaceful day tomorrow for Christmas.
Remembering Caedan during the holidays and always ~
Stacey (Chad's mom)

Stacey Wada <SLW6204@aol.com>
Las Vegas, NV USA - Saturday, December 25, 2004 0:05 AM CST
A PRAYER FOR CHRISTMAS


God Give Us eyes this Christmas
To see the Christmas Star.
And give us ears to hear the song
of angels from afar

And, with our eyes and ears attuned
for a message from above,
Let "Christmas Angels" speak to us
of hope and faith and love

Hope to light our pathway
When the way ahead is dark,
Hope to sing through stormy days,
with the sweetness of the lark

Faith to trust in things unseen
and know beyond all seeing
That it is in our Fathers love
We live and have our being

And love to break down barriers
of color, race and creed,
Love to see and understand
and help all those in need.

Lord, bless those we love this Christmas Day,be they near or far away Bless those good friends who mean so much and those with whom we're out of touch. We bring them all to You in prayer, and ask You to keep them in Your care.

Please know that you are thought of, in a very special way, not just this beautiful season but every day.

Chris Ullrich - Bella's Grammy <c_ullrich@msn.com, caringbridge.com/page/isabellaledesma>
- Friday, December 24, 2004 9:48 PM CST
I'm sure it's hard to be Merry when a part of your heart is gone away with Caedan. Please know that I am thinking of you this Christmas and praying that you will get to spend some nice quality time with the ones you love. Blessings to you.

P.S. I don't think you're a Grinch at all...I think you have had to face one of the hardest things anyone could ever have to face and it's completely understandable why things are very difficult emotionally.

Khalita My Caringbridge Site <khalita@hecaresonline.org>
Lexington, NC - Friday, December 24, 2004 0:34 AM CST
Thinking of you this Christmas,

Love

Viks



viks <viks@postpals.co.uk>
- Thursday, December 23, 2004 11:24 AM CST
Hi Maryla, Scott and Cali. Just wanted to say hi and that I am thinking of you all as always. Your never far from our thoughts.
Kaeleigh <kaeleighbarney@yahoo.ca>
Woodstock, Ontario Canada - Thursday, December 23, 2004 8:58 AM CST
Hi Maryla, I was thinking you probably did an update! This is a very tough time of year for many many folks and my thoughts and heartfelt wishes are with you, Scott and Cali! Cali must have really wanted to go outside yesterday as both Dylan and Dawson were very content to play in their PJ's all day yesterday. Had turkey with my brother's family on Sunday so our tradition has changed a bit this year too. Personally I would like to go somewhere hot and forget the Santa stuff and reflect on the real reason for Christmas, but alas the family doesn't agree. Maybe next year too! Nice to see you and Cali at the 'Bizzar' (my own personal word for it!). Thinking of you always, Beth, Pat, Dylan and Dawson. PS: dropped a note on Hannah's website and I will continue send our prayers to her over the holiday's
Beth Sutherland <bethcesutherland@sympatico.ca>
London, On Canada - Tuesday, December 21, 2004 3:02 PM CST
Hey Maryla, I miss you!!!! We haven't talked in ages!!! You are always in my thoughts, and I wish I could help take away whatever you are feeling. Can I come visit you sometime soon.
We are starting a new Christmas tradition this year, we will be going to visit our dear Mike, and leaving our mark by making snow angels. We miss him so much. We love you Maryla, Scott and Cali!!!! Peace

Liz,Ramon, Andrew, Jordan, Olivia and Allison <LizP@ettravel.com>
Exeter, ON Canada - Monday, December 20, 2004 1:34 PM CST
Maryla,
Just want you to know you are in my thoughts today. I hope that good memories of Caedan at Christmas time will help ease the pain this year.
God bless,

Lisa Agee www.caringbridge.com/page/ross <lagee67@hotmail.com>
Camden, AL - Monday, December 20, 2004 10:23 AM CST
Hoping this finds you & yours well. I know that Christmas is certainly not the happy time it is made out to be. If we could just enjoy the season like children we would be so much better off. Personally, I enjoy the late candlelight Christmas eve service at the church the best. Lightly falling snow coming out of the church is the most beautiful finishing touch. Thinking of you and sending love and best wishes.
Mary Lou Thomson
Exeter, Ont - Thursday, December 16, 2004 8:51 AM CST
Hi
Just reading some of the notes from friends and family. Isn't it nice that they always remember our little ones. The impact our children had in this world,is pretty amazing for their ages. Wishing you a Merry Christmas as we remember Jesus's birth.

Barb & John Vandenbor <barbara_vandenbor@hotmail.com>
Walkerton, Ont. Canada - Monday, December 6, 2004 7:55 PM CST

Just stopping in to say hello.

Tracy Eckhardt (BWC) and Christopher <teckhardt@sympatico.ca>
Kitchener, ON Canada - Monday, November 29, 2004 9:49 PM CST
Hi Maryla, Scott & Cali,

Long time no type! Just wanted to drop you a line to say hi. We survived American Thanksgiving weekend and shared it with all the kids I work with who couldn't get home to their families. While I'm on the topic of giving thanks, I wanted to let you know that I'm thankful for your friendship (even though we don't see each other or stay in touch as much as we probably should!). Hope all is well in your corner of the planet, we think of you often. Love xx

Jane, Annie & Alex <jacornett@sbcglobal.net>
Chicago, Il us - Sunday, November 28, 2004 11:59 AM CST
Hi Maryla, just in to say hi! working from home today so I can spend a little time on personal stuff too. Haven't seen you at school, maybe the bizzar? Talk to you soon! B
Beth Sutherland <cebethsutherland@sympatico.ca>
London, On Cda - Monday, November 22, 2004 1:14 PM CST
Hi Maryla,
It has been a while since I have written but you are always in the back of my mind. Things are starting to get busier in my life, must be that time of the year. First we must get through hosting our friends from across the country for Grey Cup. I haven't decided yet if I am cheering for the 'blues' or 'blacks'. Regardless, I think I am being a good sport by sitting through the rain and cold. 'Hot paws' better work!!

Valerie <cuff31@aol.com>
Ottawa, - Thursday, November 18, 2004 3:46 PM CST
Hi Maryla,

Just dropping in to say "hello". Thinking of you often..


Teri <teri.cussen@videotron.ca>
QC Canada - Sunday, November 14, 2004 11:43 AM CST
Just dropping in to say hello. Have a wonderful holiday season, Laura
.org/ca/coltonmeyer
- Tuesday, November 2, 2004 4:29 PM CST
Happy Halloween!!
Tracy M <tmangin@sympatico.ca>
Windsor, ON Canada - Sunday, October 31, 2004 7:40 AM CST
Thinking of you this Halloween

With love, Everyone at Post Pals

viks <viks@postpals.co.uk>
- Saturday, October 30, 2004 4:47 PM CDT
I gave on Wed. night, Mar....I'm down to only 10 minutes. Of course, then I spend 15 eating cookies....sheesh!
Love,

Lori <thewightmans@aol.com>
Amherstburg, ON Canada - Friday, October 22, 2004 7:29 AM CDT
Hi Mar, I think of you as I donate every 56 days! Ok, I think of you more often than that, but especially then. ;-) I'll try to advertise more at work, and encourage more people to give.
Daniel
Vancouver, - Wednesday, October 20, 2004 9:36 PM CDT
I missed the blood drive from work last week and was supposed to call and make myself an appointment. I forgot, until now. Thanks for the reminder - I'll call first thing tomorrow morning.
Tracy M BWC <tmangin@sympatico.ca>
Windsor, ON Canada - Monday, October 18, 2004 10:47 PM CDT
I'm rolling up my sleeves again soon to donate.....If I can get away from colds and flus, and virus'. I love my job, however the illnesses I get with it aren't fun!!!! Seven years of Child Care and I'm STILL not immune to it all!!!!! *smiles*
Amy <amy.bilyea@rogers.com>
London, - Monday, October 18, 2004 8:39 PM CDT
I always forget you guys have a wacky Thanksgiving, I am used to late Nov. here. I can imagine how hard it was facing the other families at the funeral, and I am sure they all appreciated each other being there. Its a shame ANY of you have to be there though....
Chris ~ Gooch's Site ~
- Sunday, October 17, 2004 9:31 AM CDT
Hi Maryla, Scott and Cali! Was thinking of you (as always) and thought I'd pop in to say hi! My folks already headed south, so we had our TG Dinner early this year and on the weekend had a lovely steak dinner to celebrate TG. Dawson thought it was a rip off as he believes Turkey should be on the table not steak. Eventhough we had many vegies and even a TG Cake. I guess trying to shake things up a bit, just doesn't appeal to everyone! Anyways, We are all thankful for your friendship, and especially for
Caedan's and all that he taught us! Talk to u soon, Luv Beth, Pat, Dylan and Dawson

Beth Sutherland <cebethsutherland@hotmail.com>
London, On N6K 3A3 - Wednesday, October 13, 2004 4:29 PM CDT
Happy Thanksgiving!
Thinking of you,

Diane, Theo, Jeremy, Brandon and Danielle Schelhaas <tschelha@execulink.com>
Strathroy, ON - Sunday, October 10, 2004 6:35 PM CDT
Hey Maryla!
Just stopping by to wish you guys a great holiday weekend! Hope it's filled with lots of smiles.

All our best-

Karen & Bryan <Karen@sdsc.edu / www.caringbridge.org/ca/bryanbanister>
San Diego, CA USA - Saturday, October 9, 2004 3:00 PM CDT
Maryla

Thinking of you and your family this weekend. Happy Thanksgiving.

Sandy <smschram@hotmail.com>
London, Ont Ca - Saturday, October 9, 2004 12:10 AM CDT
Happy Thanksgiving!
Tracy M BWC <tmangin@sympatico.ca>
Windsor, ON Canada - Friday, October 8, 2004 9:23 PM CDT
Wishing you sunshine this Thanksgiving week-end :-)
Karen M <hbyc7@rogers.com>
Waterloo, - Thursday, October 7, 2004 7:52 PM CDT
Hi Maryla,
Thinking about you today.

Christine 7N/W <christinehoover4@hotmail.com>
St. Thomas, - Saturday, October 2, 2004 8:44 PM CDT
Out of the mouths of babes......
Tracy M <tmangin@sympatico.ca>
Windsor, ON Canada - Friday, October 1, 2004 12:24 AM CDT
(((Maryla))),

Still praying for you.

Lisa Agee www.caringbridge.com/page/ross <lagee67@hotmail.com>
Camden, AL - Saturday, September 25, 2004 10:24 AM CDT
Maryla, you will manage the years to come just as you have the past two years - with courage, strength and a whole lot of support. You are one of a kind - one that has a ton of people admiring you. You are an inspiration to us all, just as Caedan is. Like mother - like son...

Take care my friend...

Kristyn Darling <kd.mail@sympatico.ca www.caringbridge.com/canada/mike>
Mt. Carmel, On Canada - Friday, September 24, 2004 2:03 PM CDT
Maryla, I have been thinking of you all the past week wondering how you were holding up. I wish that I could push my arms through the monitor and give you one of those big bear hugs that you and I enjoy so much! Maryla, when we came back from camp I had sent you a big email, I don't know if you received it because I never got a reply (not complaining dear friend trust me!). I will re-send it just in case.

Love, Tami

Tami Watchurst <leapco@sympatico.ca >
Orangeville, On Canada - Thursday, September 16, 2004 2:59 AM CDT
Hi Maryla:

I thought of you often yesterday and dropped in today...I am always amazed at your ability to express your grief so coherently and so beautifully....I'm looking forward to our coffee date,

Susan

Susan Pigott <pigotts@lhsc.on.ca>
- Monday, September 13, 2004 8:20 PM CDT
Thinking of you all....
Tracy M BWC <tmangin@sympatico.ca>
Windsor, ON Canada - Monday, September 13, 2004 10:27 AM CDT
Hi Maryla, Scott and Cali, Just thinking about you at what must be a very difficult time, Glad everything is going better than expected. Hope Cali enjoys her time at school.
Take care, one day at a time.

Love Lisa, Phil and girls <plbaxter@sympatico.ca>
St. Thomas, - Monday, September 13, 2004 8:35 AM CDT
Remembering you and sending positive thoughts and prayers your way. Hope you are enjoying this bit of summer we are getting.
Mary Lou Thomson
Exeter, Ont - Monday, September 13, 2004 8:01 AM CDT
Always in my heart!
Marion Moynihan <m.moynihan@tvdsb.on.ca>
London, ON Canada - Sunday, September 12, 2004 9:07 PM CDT
Just a note to say I was thinking of you today...I hope Caeden was able to send you a few smiles. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Teri
Nashville, TN - Sunday, September 12, 2004 8:16 PM CDT
Just saying hello and sending our love your way. We were looking at photos of Caedan holding a screaming 6 week old Noah and remembering Caedan's willingness to do dances and entertain him while we struggled with his diaper...
Took Noah to the PNE (fair) a few weeks back (he loved it) and loved remembering going with Caedan (must have done the bumper cars twenty times and that lovely boy Caedan even went on the big roller coaster...).
Take care, we love you.

John, Christie, Noah and Julian <twobrides@hotmail.com>
Vancouver, BC CANADA - Sunday, September 12, 2004 6:24 PM CDT
Maryla, Scott and Cali Beth, Thinking of you all today and remembering Caedans great smile and special sense of humour. Always in our thoughts and prayers
Liz and Kaeleigh Barney <kaeleighbarney@yahoo.ca>
Woodstock, Ontario Canada - Sunday, September 12, 2004 3:11 PM CDT
Hoping some unexpected good memories come flooding in to outweigh some of the sadness today...
Chris ~ Gooch's Site ~
- Sunday, September 12, 2004 10:11 AM CDT
Hi Maryla, Scott and Cali.. we have not been very visable on this site this summer (although we have popped in, and of course always on our minds and in our hearts). Dylan & Dawson and I went to Caedan's park yesterday and left some pansy's. They looked like they were reaching to the sky and smiling (you know how they can kind of look like flower people!)so we knew they were the right ones to leave.

We were wondering about Cali and school and I hope to bump into you there soon (could be our new meeting spot other than the video store!)

As always we'll continue to send you love and hope it helps to know that we are thinking of you all especially this time of year! Love Beth Pat Dylan and Dawson.

Beth Sutherland <bethcesutherland@sympatico.ca>
London, On Canada - Sunday, September 12, 2004 8:44 AM CDT
Hi Mar,

I'm sending a big, comforting hug your way.
Love you,

Lori Wightman <thewightmans@aol.com>
- Sunday, September 12, 2004 7:39 AM CDT
Maryla,

Thinking of you and your family on this special tear provoking weekend. Take note that extra prayers are being sent your way.

Sandy <smschram@hotmail.com>
London, On Ca - Saturday, September 11, 2004 9:45 AM CDT
Maryla,
Thinking of you this weekend. I know you'll continue to make it thru. Love the pic of Cali on the beam, she's got guts! She's so lucky to have such an amazing mom!!
Love,

Karen <karen@sdsc.edu / www.caringbridge.org/ca/bryanbanister>
San Diego, CA USA - Friday, September 10, 2004 5:59 PM CDT
Maryla,

It was so nice to finally see a new update from you. You are doing great - what an inspiration to all of us.

Today is Cody's 11th birthday and also our little puppy's first birthday (actually, we don't know the exact date, just around mid-September - it was Trevor's idea to make it the 10th!). At least we can do a little celebrating.

I know exactly what you mean about breaking down when you least expect it and not breaking down when you're all ready for it. I guess it's just another one of those non-understandable (is that a real word?) mechanisms that God has built into us to help us deal with our loss and grief. I think "making it" through some of the times we think we can't helps us to realize that we can go on and not "making it" through the "easy" things shows us that we will never "get over it" or ever forget - no matter how much time passes. Isn't human nature fascinating.

Anyway, I'm trying to convince John to go to Paula's for dinner on Wednesday (this is a public service announcement - Paula's Place in Leamington is having their ChildCan day on Wednesday, September 15th. Proceeds go to ChildCan.) If we go, I hope we'll see you there.


Sharon Simpson <sharon.simpson@international.gc.ca>
Windsor, ON - Friday, September 10, 2004 12:38 AM CDT
Today, for some reason, I was remembering your moving post from awhile back on the ALL-kids list, so I decided to check on you. I am glad that you are continuing to update this journal. Your writing is so heartfelt and brings tears to my eyes. Thank you for continuing to try to find the words to describe your experience to everyone who is reading.
Jennifer (ALL-kids) mama to Sam www.caringbridge.org/canada/sam <samno@telus.net>
Vancouver, BC Canada - Friday, September 10, 2004 7:44 AM CDT
Oh Maryla, I can imagine how hard it was to sit there and answer no to the other siblings question. I'd kind of think the school would have told Cali's teacher.. but then again, everything is privacy laws nowadays. Its not a sign of weakness to miss your son, to break down. Theres no timetable for this, you'll miss him til the day you die, no matter what anyone says about grieving and moving on. You still have your sense of humor (albeit warped), so thats a plus.
Chris ~ Gooch's Site ~
- Friday, September 10, 2004 7:29 AM CDT
Great to see you guys last week! Thanks for a wonderful dinner, and for sharing Cali-Beth with me and Miya for a few hours.
Tracy M BWC <tmangin@sympatico.ca>
Windsor, ON Canada - Sunday, August 29, 2004 11:29 PM CDT
Just a public service announcement - I'm going to donate blood tomorrow - when's the last time the rest of you went??
LOL - friendly reminder.
I hear a certain curly-haired princess is asking about a certain straight-haired princess. Let me know when you're back in town, there may be a plan in the works for next week.

Tracy M BWC <tmangin@sympatico.ca>
Windsor, ON Canada - Tuesday, August 17, 2004 5:33 PM CDT
Just a quick note to let you know that I do drop by to listen in. Where are you? Finding some sun somewhere? Not too much warmth and sun here. Maybe we can expect a snowy winter.
Valerie Hammell <cuff31@aol.com>
Ottawa, - Wednesday, August 11, 2004 11:08 PM CDT
Just checking in because I was thinking of you :-)
Karen M <hbyc7@rogers.com>
- Monday, August 9, 2004 8:45 PM CDT
Hey Mar,
Just thought I'd pop in and say hi.
I do love to see new pictures...and I agree with the previous post...beautiful, beautiful kids.

Lori <thewightmans@aol.com http://journals.aol.ca/thewightmans/TheWightmans>
- Wednesday, August 4, 2004 8:55 AM CDT
Beautiful photos, as always. You were truly blessed with two beautiful children (inside and out). Love to you.
Karen M <hbyc7@rogers.com>
Waterloo, ON - Friday, July 30, 2004 8:36 AM CDT
Nuts, nuts, nuts... I can't believe I forgot to send you and Scott birthday wishes. I won't make excuses other than I wasn't around you enough this year to hear the million or so reminders you usually send out. Sooooo sorry Mar. Hope you can forgive me.

We'll have to get together mid August for a birthday treat.
Talk to you soon.......kd

Kristyn Darling <kd.mail@sympatico.ca www.caringbridge.com/canada/mike>
Mt. Carmel, On Canada - Friday, July 30, 2004 8:35 AM CDT
Happy Belated Birthday Maryla...we hope you had a great day!
Diane, Theo, Jeremy, Brandon and Danielle Schelhaas <tschelha@execulink.com>
Strathroy, ON - Sunday, July 18, 2004 2:15 PM CDT
Happy Belated Birthday Maryla!

Your last post was great...you really are a fabulous writer!

Lots of love,

Aili <amalm@sfu.ca http://www.caringbridge.org/canada/bryankinney>
Canada, BC Canada - Sunday, July 18, 2004 10:56 AM CDT
*head hangin in shame*
Happy Birthday Maryla! Hope you had an awesome day.
Sorry, I know I'm late, and I even told Miya we would send you a computer card, but, well, I forgot!! You'd think since you and dad have the same birthday I'd remember, but I didn't!!
Anyway, hope you enjoyed your day!!

Tracy M <tmangin@sympatico.ca>
Windsor, ON Canada - Saturday, July 17, 2004 11:12 PM CDT
Happy Birthday Maryla!!!!
Hope your day is great...
Give little Cali a smooch for me.

Karen <karen@sdsc.edu / www.caringbridge.org/ca/bryanbanister>
San Diego, CA USA - Friday, July 16, 2004 2:10 PM CDT
Happy Birthday Maryla! Hope your day is fabulous. Looks like its going to be a beautiful sunny one. You share your birthday with my Dad. If he was living today, he would be 92...that's so hard to imagine...he's been gone 35 years. Have yourself a hot fudge sundae...mmmmm
Mary Lou Thomson <mlt.csi@hay.net>
Exeter, Ont - Friday, July 16, 2004 7:40 AM CDT
Maryla,

I wish you the best of birthdays. Enjoy your day!

Love, Sharon

Sharon Simpson <sharon.simpson@dfait-maeci.gc.ca>
Windsor, ON Canada - Friday, July 16, 2004 7:33 AM CDT
T minus one day and counting.....
Tracy M BWC <tmangin@sympatico.ca>
Windsor, ON Canada - Thursday, July 15, 2004 9:13 PM CDT
HAPPY BIRTHDAY MARYLA!!!! I hope you are having a wonderful summer!

Patricia Fisher <pfisher@allstate.ca>
London, on - Thursday, July 15, 2004 3:42 PM CDT
Happy Pre-Birthday Mar!
I just finished that Lolly Winston book myself a couple of weeks ago...I really liked it too.
I also liked your Dave Barry one, good for lots of giggles.
Love you bunches,

Lori <thewightmans@aol.com>
- Wednesday, July 14, 2004 9:06 AM CDT
Maryla, thanks for the beautiful memory. The problem for us vegans is that those little tofu's don't have 'wish bones' and grabbing each side of a carrot just isn't the same. I wish I could grant us all your wish.
Love from all of us out here (John, Christie, Noah and ?...not quite yet).

John Gallagher <twobrides@hotmail.com>
Vancouver, BC Canada - Tuesday, July 13, 2004 11:57 PM CDT
Happy Birthweek Mar!!!!

I didn't see a posting letting everyone know its that time of year again.....So I thought I'd do it for you. Have a great birthweek and birthday on Friday. Cheers and Chocolate!

Sandy Bolton <jandsbolton@aol.com>
Amherstburg, ON - Monday, July 12, 2004 1:34 PM CDT
nice pic on the front. Hope the rest of your summer goes well... Laura
www.caringbridge.org/ca/coltonmeyer
- Monday, July 12, 2004 11:34 AM CDT
Hope you had an AWESOME Canada Day!!
Tracy M <tmangin@sympatico.ca>
Windsor, ON Canada - Friday, July 2, 2004 8:24 PM CDT
Thanks for making two very nervous people so welcome. Drew and I had a blast at the Relay. I have some pictures on my camera if I ever get them uploaded. Thanks again everyone.

P.S. Isn't it close to blood donation time again????

Amy and Drew <aunthame@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, July 1, 2004 4:22 PM CDT
Hi Maryla!
This whole group of people will never cease to amaze me! What a wonderful job done by all!
Apparently there was some confusion over the weekend about who was bringing your dessert! I wish I'd known, I would have sent you a special treat. I'm preplanning for next year though! If you have any requests just let me know!
Angela

Angela Thoman <angelathoman@sympatico.ca>
Amherstburg, Ont Canada - Thursday, July 1, 2004 8:42 AM CDT
Hi Maryla, Scott and Beautiful Little Cali,

It was so great to meet you guys at Relay over the weekend!! I think my stomach still is sore from all the laughing. Lori is already gearing up for next year, so I think I might have to make an annual trip - next year with Bryan too!

Hugs all around,

Karen <karen@sdsc.edu / www.caringbridge.org/ca/bryanbanister>
San Diego, CA USA - Monday, June 28, 2004 6:45 PM CDT
It was great to see you over the weekend! Congratulations to the whole Friends of Caedan team for hanging in there!!
Tracy M BWC <tmangin@sympatico.ca>
Windsor, ON Canada - Monday, June 28, 2004 9:37 AM CDT
I know you guys were into the 600's and I really hope you got to your goal of 720 pics, that would be great. I cant help but see the baby pics of Caedan and think.. who knew what was to come.... I guess none of us ever do...
Chris ~ Gooch's Site ~
- Friday, June 25, 2004 10:21 PM CDT
Maryla, Beautiful pictures of your prescious son. Tonight as you participate in your Relay for Life in Windsor, Alexander and I will be participating as volunteers at the Relay for Life in Brampton. I will be thinking of you dear lady throughout the evening/night and when those illuminaries are lit I will remember Caedan.

Love, Tami

Tami Watchurst mom to Alexander 11 yrs of age :High Risk A.L.L. (Leukemia) Survivor <leapco@sympatico.ca>
Orangeville, ontario Canada - Friday, June 25, 2004 4:56 AM CDT
What a cutie! As Rebekah says, he looks like he would have been a little ripper! Yes, the 11-year-old boys are showing some height already. How good to have eternity to anticipate!
Leonard & Lucille Weber& family <llweber@sgci.com>
WestMontrose, Ont. Canada - Thursday, June 24, 2004 8:41 PM CDT
Wow, what curls!!!
What a doll... thanks for sharing those beloved pictures.
Can't wait to meet you in in a few days - Bryan says hi but I think he is anxious for me to get going b/c he has plans with the guys. Plenty of "Nerd Fun" planned!

Karen <karen@sdsu.edu / www.caringbridge.org/ca/bryanbanister>
San Diego, CA USA - Wednesday, June 23, 2004 0:06 AM CDT
Oh, Mar....I love those pictures....
Lori Wightman <thewightmans@aol.com>
Amherstburg, - Tuesday, June 15, 2004 6:02 PM CDT
Hi there, I've read all about Caedan and your "Friends of Caedan" team on other caringbridge sites. I think the photograph idea is wonderful. I'd love to make a free animated banner for you. Just drop by my site and request one...I'll leave it to you if you want one!
HelenH <geordielass999@hotmail.com>
IS YOUR FAMILY BUSY KICKIN' CANCER'S BUTT?, uk THE BANNER SITE - Tuesday, June 15, 2004 5:25 PM CDT
I emailed you quick with my order...
Lori Wightman <thewightmans@aol.com>
Amherstburg, ON Canada - Monday, June 7, 2004 7:14 PM CDT
good luck to your family, Laura
www.caringbridge.org/ca/coltonmeyer
- Friday, June 4, 2004 11:29 AM CDT
Maryla,
My son, Lucas was diagnosed with ALL in January and is being treated in London. We live in Amherstburg (just moved here from Guelph in July) and know your friend, Lori. Her kids and my kids go to the same school. We emailed her a photo of Lucas, as soon as we found out about Friends of Caedan, and are excited about going to see the tent the night of the relay. I understand that you are still in need of photos. With your permission, I would like to pass this information along to an online support group that I belong to so that you can reach that goal. Please let me know before I proceed.

Frances Hammond - www.caringbridge.org/canada/lucashammond <hammonds@wincom.net>
Amherstburg, On - Thursday, June 3, 2004 11:30 PM CDT
just dropped by to say hi!!!
cindy lavin <cinlavin@aol.com>
belle river, on canada - Monday, May 31, 2004 1:01 PM CDT
Hello, just dropping by to send a hug to you









Love Viks on behalf of everyone at Post Pals


viks <viks@postpals.co.uk>
- Sunday, May 30, 2004 5:22 PM CDT
Hi Maryla,
Stopping thru to say hi!
Well I bought my plane ticket tonight, and it's official, I'm walking! Looking forward to meeting you (in person :) )!

Karen <Karen@sdsc.edu / www.caringbridge.org/ca/bryanbanister>
San Diego, CA USA - Thursday, May 20, 2004 10:30 PM CDT
Organizing a blood drive again at work. I "used" the story of Caedan asking for people to give blood in his honor for his birthday, and how that started me donating to try and inspire others. Hope you don't mind!
Tracy M <tmangin@sympatico.ca>
Windsor, ON Canada - Thursday, May 20, 2004 5:12 PM CDT
What a lovely boy...how precious. I was brought here by a friend whose child has cancer as well. My Robert's story is similar to your Caeden's story...I am going to get a photo over to you via email as soon as I can. Yes, it would be quite a sight to see your tent full of photos of those whose lives have been changed because of cancer...keep up the good work. Love, Kathy
P.S. I too think your little girl looks much like a pixie dancing around that beautiful stone, thank you for sharing the picture.

Kathy Charlton www.caringbridge.org/fl/robertmitchel <ckcharlton@aol.com>
- Wednesday, May 12, 2004 2:27 PM CDT
Happy Mother's Day Maryla! Hope it was a good one for you.
Getting some pictures coming in slowly....but we'll get em!!

Tracy M <tmangin@sympatico.ca>
Windsor, ON Canada - Sunday, May 9, 2004 10:35 PM CDT
Hi Maryla,
I just wanted to wish you a Happy Mother's Day. It's been a while since I have signed in, but I always check in. I wanted to let you know I sent your friend Lori a picture of my parents with my neice and nephew to put on the relay tent. My mom being the survivor, and in the picture she with who makes her smile and her life fuller, I thought it was suiting. I hope this note finds you well, and that it reminds you how often you and your family are thought of and how many lives you all have touched. Take care.
Love, Jennifer

Jennifer Brinklow <jennbrinklow@aol.com>
Newport Beach, CA USA - Sunday, May 9, 2004 10:04 PM CDT
Mothers Day Prayer

I Pray for you that on this special Mothers day,
God fills your heart in a truley beautiful way.
And may, He in His reach from heaven above,
Flow the wonderful family spirit, of His love.
I pray He grant, truley sweet and Angelic care,
That you may know, He is, always there.
I pray within God's great vast Love for you
In life, daily onward, In all that you may do,
You feel His love, His strength, His peace,
This Mothers Day blesses a spiritual release.

Have a Blessed Mothers Day

Chris Ullrich - Bella's Grammy <c_ullrich@msn.com, www.caringbridge.com/page/isabellaledesma>
- Thursday, May 6, 2004 12:48 AM CDT
Hello! I will be carrying my digital camera with me for the next week or two, and capturing photo's of anyone affected by this horrible beast. Maybe other's can do this too! There WILL be 720 photos on that tent!
Say hi to Cali and Scott!

Shannon, Derek and Miya <staylor@wecas.on.ca>
Amherstburg, - Thursday, May 6, 2004 11:48 AM CDT
I'll put the word out wherever I can.
Say hi to Princess Cali for me!!

Tracy M. <tmangin@sympatico.ca>
Windsor, ON Canada - Tuesday, May 4, 2004 9:35 PM CDT
Maryla - what a sport you were trekking through the mud in the cold yesterday with Calli at Circle R!
Alex Martiniuk
London, ON - Monday, May 3, 2004 4:08 PM CDT
Hi Maryla and Scott, Just wanted to let you know we are thinking about you.
Lisa Baxter <plbaxter@sympatico.ca>
St. Thomas, - Monday, April 26, 2004 9:12 AM CDT
Maryla, I just received this in an email from our cyber friend, Syd Birrell, dad of James. In case you or your friends did not receive it I am posting it here. It is very appropriate that it arrived this week, don't you think?
Syd wrote this on December 18th, the second anniversary of James' death:
 
 It's two years since our loss, yet I realise I am still just a beginner. Here are some observations of that beginner.
1. Grief has no rules
2. The grieving process is different for each member of our family.
3. There is no timetable
4. Grieving is very exhausting
5. The goal is not to "get over it". The goal is to find out how to live productively with a gaping hole in the middle of your life
6. I have three children. Always will. Period.
7. Grieving is not linear. It's more like a spiral, as you move away from the sadness for a spell before plunging right back into the thick of things
8. Creating new memories is a very good goal
9. Grieving brings with it the gift of experieincing the world in a much more powerful way. New depths of sadness allow new heights of happiness.
10. Ritual is a gift
11. Much of grieving is about choices.
12. "Ya can't let cancer ruin your day."    Thank you James.

May this help all of us to see what you, and so many others are going through. Remember, we love you!
 

Valerie Sawyer <tvsawyer@shaw.ca>
Edmonton, AB - Saturday, April 24, 2004 11:15 AM CDT
*Does the I gave blood dance* Six minutes and I was done giving blood. The fastest time I have ever been. Usually I'm thirty or fourty minutes. They asked me to join the Donors for Life program, and I did. I also signed Drew up as well!
Thinking of you three still each day.*And Caedan as well*
Amy

Amy <aunthame@yahoo.com>
London, - Saturday, April 24, 2004 10:26 AM CDT
Happy Birthday in Heaven Caedan.
Maryla, no, this wasnt supposed to happen, you're right.
This wasnt supposed to happen at all....

Chris ~ Gooch's Site ~
- Friday, April 23, 2004 8:46 AM CDT
Maryla, Scott, Cali
The three of us are thinking about you and Caedan. We let eleven balloons go down at the water today and there were two eagles flying about and I can't really believe that all of this happened and I am not sure what else to say except that I hope you can feel our love and know that Caedan was one exceptional child and that I will never forget him. Noah got a new book from the library and it is written in a sarcastic but loving tone about a messy little sister and there is something in the tone that reminds me exactly of Caedan's inflection when telling a story. I'm not sure if it is a good book but I love to read it.

John, Christie, Noah and the soon to be baby. <twobrides@hotmail.com>
Vancover, CA - Thursday, April 22, 2004 11:08 PM CDT
Happy Birthday Caedan
Maryla, my thoughts have been with you all day
Jennifer
xoxo

Jennifer Thompson <jthompson@lon.imag.net>
St Thomas, ON Canada - Thursday, April 22, 2004 10:38 PM CDT
I have been thinking about you all day today. Maryla, we love you.
Annie <anniebowers@shaw.ca>
Victoria, Canada - Thursday, April 22, 2004 8:56 PM CDT
Happy 11th Birthday Caedan .... You have been on my mind all day today, as I remember it is your birthday like my daughter's who is also 11. Enjoy your birthday in heaven sweet Caedan. You are not forgotten and still remembered today and always.
Hugs to you all, especially you Maryla.

Alice Friesen (mom to Alexandria - remission 2 years from AML) <howahaya89@yahoo.ca>
Ruthven, Ontario Canada - Thursday, April 22, 2004 8:51 PM CDT
Happy Birthday Caedan...

Daniel is wearing his "Friends of Caedan" cap proudly today...Hang in there guys,

Susan and family

Susan Pigott <pigotts@lhsc.on.ca>
London, Ont Canada - Thursday, April 22, 2004 8:23 PM CDT
Hi Maryla, Scott and Cali:
I have been thinking about you all day today. I was telling the kids that today is Earth Day too, and then I remembered a story the nurses from 7West told us of Caedan and his strong convictions to reduce, reuse and recycle. We are sending you a great big hug, and know that you and your family are never far from our hearts and minds. Sending you strength and love this day.
Happy birthday Caedan!

Diane, Theo, Brandon, Jeremy and Danielle Schelhaas <tschelha@execulink.com (www.caringbridge.org/canada/brandon)>
Strathroy, ON - Thursday, April 22, 2004 4:56 PM CDT
Dear Maryla, Scott and Cali...Have been thinking of you all day today and we are going to Caedan's park in a few minutes. I thought the kids would want to let the balloons go here, but they want to be as close to Caedan as they can, so off we go. You know I believe he watching and eventhough we are sad he's not with us, he's happy we still remember his special day! Lots of love, Beth, Pat, Dylan and Dawson
Beth Sutherland
London, on cda - Thursday, April 22, 2004 3:56 PM CDT
Happy Birthday Angel Caedan!
Hugs to mom and family too.
Its hard to be strong. Its hard to find comfort in memories, especially on days such as these.
This is the first time I have visited, you have a beautiful family and I am truly sorry for your loss.

Elizabeth <e_spehr_99@yahoo.com>
Washington, DC USA - Thursday, April 22, 2004 1:00 PM CDT
Dear Maryla,
Words cannot express the sorrow I felt as I read your journal entry today. I'm sure some of your darkest moments trying to deal with this unfair tragedy are spent alone despite all the love and support of your family and friends. I think we all wish we could bear some of that pain for you. Your strength and courage to carry on amaze me. Please know that Caedan will never be forgotten and that he and his mother are an inspiration to all of us.
Happy Birthday Caedan!
Hugs to you Maryla on this difficult day.
Sincerely,
Patricia Fisher

Patricia Fisher <pfisher@allstate.ca>
London, on - Thursday, April 22, 2004 9:59 AM CDT
As I was walking up to the before school program this morning I wished Caedan a happy birthday. Tonight I am giving blood in his memory. I have my Winnie the Pooh Shirt on for luck!
Happy Birthday Caedan.
Thinking of you three Maryla, Scott and Cali!

Amy (LSAP) <aunthame@yahoo.com>
London, - Thursday, April 22, 2004 8:23 AM CDT
Happy Birthday Caedan!
The skies of LaSalle will have some color this evening...hope you enjoy it!

Tracy M <tmangin@sympatico.ca>
Windsor, ON Canada - Thursday, April 22, 2004 7:49 AM CDT
Hi Gallaghers,

Happy Birthday Caedan!

Maryla, those sunflowers and balloons will not be missed. Caedan is watching over you and will see and feel all the love that is being given his way and yours.

Thinking about you always,
Love Sharon, John, Trevor and Angel Cody

Sharon Simpson <sharon.simpson@dfait-maeci.gc.ca>
windsor, ON - Thursday, April 22, 2004 7:36 AM CDT
Hi Maryla, Scott and Cali,
No, it's not fair. We are thinking of you today. Happy Birthday Caedan.

Love,
Tracy, Tim, Cody and Kyle

Tracy B <bestbet@sympatico.ca>
London, On ca - Thursday, April 22, 2004 7:17 AM CDT
Thinking about you on this special day, sending positive thoughts and wishing that things could have been different. So how to understand. Concentrate on the happy memories and hug Cali and Scott more times today
Mary Lou Thomson
Exeter, ON - Thursday, April 22, 2004 6:55 AM CDT
Mar,
Today, in my mind, I am giving you a big hug all day long.
Love you,

Lori Wightman <thewightmans@aol.com>
- Thursday, April 22, 2004 6:14 AM CDT
Hi Mar. Don't be so sure that the sunflowers and balloons will go unseen by Caedan. I'll bet the cardinals will see them and report back!!!
Happy birthday Caedan.
Love Jenn and Dan

Jennifer Friesen <tallerthanbob@hotmail.com>
Vancouver, - Wednesday, April 21, 2004 11:04 PM CDT
Hello, my little Maryla,
Just wanted to let you know that I gave blood today in Caedan's name as a birthday gift to him.
I have a WHOLE story to tell about it...beginning with the fact that is was so long since I gave blood they decided to treat me as a first time donor...and ending with the nurse telling me that I shouldn't go parachuting right after donating (DUH!)
Lots of love,

Lori <thewightmans@aol.com>
- Wednesday, April 21, 2004 6:06 PM CDT
Hi Maryla: I was just thinking about you and realized it had been a little while since I stopped by Caedan's site. Sorry to hear about Garfield. Kitties just have a way of wrapping themselves around your heart.
Ann Klinck
London, Ont - Wednesday, April 14, 2004 9:33 AM CDT
Hi Maryla, Scott and Cali:
Sorry to hear about Garfield. We don't have any pets at our home...Brandon and Danielle and scared of dogs...and we tried fish one time, but the kids lost interest in them pretty quickly and they too died. Although Danielle's first word ever was "fish"!! Hope you had a good Easter, and have fun at IKEA!

Diane, Theo, Brandon, Jeremy and Danielle Schelhaas <tschelha@execulink.com (www.caringbridge.org/canada/brandon)>
Strathroy, ON - Wednesday, April 14, 2004 9:00 AM CDT
Hi Maryla, Scott and Cali - sorry to hear about Garfield - pets are supposed to touch your heart, so can understand your feelings. We just entered the world of pets in February - the kids are now proud owners of 2 "Fancy" Rats - yes I said rats! They seem to be very smart (come when they are called - tricks etc), but still creep me out a bit, but the kids love them and that's what counts.

The kids want to send off baloons again this year for Caedan's bd and I'm sure we will see more up there destin for Caedan! Talk to you soon, have fun at Ikea! Nice seeing you at the movie shop!
Lots of Lov, Beth, Pat, Dylan and Dawson

Beth Sutherland <bethcesutherland@sympatico.ca>
London, on Canada - Tuesday, April 13, 2004 12:41 AM CDT
I'm sorry to hear about Garfield. We've got lots of pets (3 dogs, 2 cats) and I know how much a part of our family they are. I like to think that our beloved pets go to heaven too....and I'm sure Caedan is having fun with Garfield right now!
Lisa Agee, mom to Ross <lagee67@hotmail.com>
Camden, AL - Tuesday, April 13, 2004 9:43 AM CDT

Thinking of you this Easter, Love everyone at Post Pals






viks <viks@postpals.co.uk>
- Saturday, April 10, 2004 5:56 PM CDT
Maryla, Scott, Cali

I just wanted to say Happy Easter.

Sandy <smschram@hotmail.com>
London, Ontario Canada - Saturday, April 10, 2004 9:02 AM CDT
Hi Maryla... just checking in on you now that April is here I have some free time - not sure if that's good or bad. I'm making the road trip to Amherstburg to see the relay in June. We're doing the Goderich one for Mike. I think I have 4 teams entered. Hoping to raise lots of funds so we can get rid of Leukemia forever.

Take care and I'll talk to you soon......kd

Kristyn Darling <kd.mail@sympatico.ca www.caringbridge.com/canada/mike>
Mt. Carmel, On Canada - Thursday, April 8, 2004 5:52 PM CDT
Hey Mar,

Are you going to do a "Balloon Day" again for Caedan's birthday? Caleb has already asked me about it ...

Troy <troy@bay-net.on.ca>
- Saturday, April 3, 2004 9:37 PM CST
Well woman, this proves that every ounce of you is amazing! Even your blood and blood products are working round the clock to help others. Is there no end to your generosity? You continue to inspire, and prod us all to action. I will book my blood giving this week in honour of Caedan's birthday.
Valerie <tvsawyer@shaw.ca>
St. Albert, AB - Saturday, April 3, 2004 12:44 AM CST
We've been talking about Caedan's upcoming birthday lately....I can't give blood this year since I just did, but we'll come up with something.
Very very very excited about the call from Red Cross. What a gift you will be able to give!!

Tracy M. <tmangin@sympatico.ca>
Windsor, ON Canada - Friday, April 2, 2004 7:36 AM CST
My next donation is April 22nd at the Roaming Clinic in Oakridge. I am elegable to give earlier, but wanted to do it on Caedan's Birthday.
Amy <aunthame@yahoo.com>
London, - Thursday, April 1, 2004 9:57 AM CST
Guess where I went tonight? (Yes, it's that time again). Gave my blood donation down at Canadian Blood Services. We did a blood drive of sorts at work, and had 20 people booked. I don't know if everyone made it out or not, but when I left we were up to 14 that had shown up.
So, just my reminder to you all that there are LOTS of people that good use a gift of life, so pick up the phone and make your appointment!!

Tracy M. <tmangin@sympatico.ca>
Windsor, ON Canada - Monday, March 29, 2004 6:20 PM CST
Trying to convince my fiance to join the team with me. His mom just finished chemo for liver cancer, so it may be too early for him. I would love to join with him at my side. Never know.....
Amy (LSAP) <aunthame@yahoo.com>
London, - Sunday, March 28, 2004 6:52 PM CST
Hi Maryla. It was nice to see you the other day again. You are such an inspiration. Thank you.....
Diane, Theo, Brandon, Jeremy and Danielle Schelhaas <tschelha@execulink.com (www.caringbridge.org/canada/brandon)>
Strathroy, ON - Friday, March 26, 2004 5:21 PM CST
Maryla, I just read your post about the Relay for Life and decided to sign up as a volunteer for the event. I went on-line as you suggested and easily went through the steps to send my personal/contact info. through the magic of Cyber space. I also registered for illuminaries in Memory of your prescious son Caedan, my dear sister Sherri-Lee and in honour of my mom Mary and my son Alexander. I tried to then pledge for your team.....and realized that my brain isn't what is used to be.....could not figure out how to do that! So, I completed the info. for the illuminaries with the credit card info. Now that I have figured out the name of your team (yeah I know it was on your post!)....I will go back into cyber-space and pledge your team.

I was just talking/typing about you to an old friend of both of ours. Terri from All-KIDS....she just joined another list-serve that I belong to and we were sharing memories of how you and she met on-line and our journey's together.

You are never far from my thoughts dear friend. You continue to inspire me Maryla. Your son will always be remembered in my home as a very loving and courageous warrior against the Beast.

Love, Tami

Tami Watchurst: mom to Alexander 11 yrs: Leukemia Survivor <leapco@sympatico.ca>
Orangeville, Ontario Canada - Monday, March 22, 2004 5:24 PM CST
Here is a direct link to make a pledge to "Friends of Caedan"
https://secureccs.ca/eventmodule.aspx?lng=en&did=2&eid=14&pg=donation_step1
My niece participates in this even in Hamilton every year, and loves the luminaries. Good luck Maryla, I'm sure you will win for most pledges!

Valerie <tvsawyer@shaw.ca>
St. Albert, AB Canada - Sunday, March 21, 2004 10:05 PM CST
Maryla
I found you... i am going to read the journal in the morning when the light is shining through my windows (you know what I mean) I would love to help with pledges. What do I do? Thank you for your email and please stay in touch. Thank you for visiting Marcus site. Our sons are playing together and watching over us...nice feeling isn't it. Your daughter is so cute. Hope all is well. Talk soon
Teresa (mommy to Angel Marcus...www.caringbridge.org/mn/markie)

Teresa <trrn@sympatico.ca>
Scarborough, On Canada - Monday, March 15, 2004 10:15 PM CST
Hi Everyone,
Just so you know, you can sign up to join the team at WWW.cancer.ca (just click on Relay for Life). You can also make a pledge to the team the same way. Remember our team name is "Friends of Caedan". The Relay is June 25 at 7pm to 7am. at Villanova highschool. Feel free to email me any questions ...and any pictures of loved ones you may want us to include on our tent. Be sure to put "relay" in the subject line. Thanks so much everyone.

Lori Wightman <thewightmans@aol.com>
Amherstburg, On Canada - Friday, March 12, 2004 7:17 AM CST
Maryla,

I'm so glad to see that you're coming to "our neck of the woods". Count me in to join "Caedan's team". I wanted to take part in the event last year, but it was just too soon after Cody passed away. Just let me know what I need to do or what I can do to help the "team". I am really looking forward to this. One of Cody's friend's participated last year and lit a couple of luminaries for him. The stories from his mother about the entire event were so touching.

You are all always in my thoughts and prayers. Can't wait to spend another sleepless night with you - if only the boys could be lying beside us again!

Love, Sharon

Sharon Simpson <sharon.simpson@dfait-maeci.gc.ca>
Windsor, - Friday, March 12, 2004 7:02 AM CST
And also when is it so we know if we have time to send pledges in...
Chris ~ Gooch's Site ~
- Thursday, March 11, 2004 8:17 PM CST
So where do I sign up?????
Tracy M <tmangin@sympatico.ca>
Windsor, ON Canada - Thursday, March 11, 2004 11:14 AM CST
The "Relay for Life" is an awesome night and I encourage everyone who can to attend. John, Hannah and I walked the "Survivor Lap" last year in Sarnia and it was a very emotional but wonderful experience. Hannah was the youngest survivor present at 2 years old and we were so proud of her.

"Save the Whales" next year?? Come on, Maryla, how about "Save the Farmers"? :)

Cathy Young <jyoung@attcanada.net>
Hospital for Sick Kids, Toronto, - Wednesday, March 10, 2004 9:41 PM CST
Hi Maryla, Scott and Cali, I popped in today to say hello, I was in a couple of days ago, but didn't say hi, as I'm guilty of not even owning a camera! Dawson is in a little Drama and Arts club at the school, so I'm buying a throw away to capture it, more than in memory. Spring is around the corner and looking forward to everybody coming out of hybernation. See you soon, Luv Beth, Pat, Dylan and Dawson
Beth Sutherland <bethcesutherland@sympatico.ca>
London, on Can - Wednesday, March 10, 2004 3:49 PM CST
Hi Maryla, Just thinking about you today.

Christine <christinehoover4@hotmail.com>
London, - Tuesday, March 9, 2004 9:37 PM CST
im sure you must get bored of hearing it, and i wish i could find something more orginal to say, but i AM thinking of you,






Love viks from BWC and Post Pals




viks <viks@postpals.co.uk>
- Monday, March 8, 2004 6:19 PM CST
Hi, just checking in to say Hello. Yes...we are taking lots of pictures of our family...recent ones are on Brandon's website. Thinking of you often,
Diane, Theo, Brandon, Jeremy and Danielle Schelhaas <tschelha@execulink.com (www.caringbridge.org/canada/brandon)>
Strathroy, ON - Monday, March 8, 2004 6:15 PM CST
Hi there Maryla. I ran across a link to your site from another site. I was really surprised when I read your journal entry. I too was a part of the radiothon for CHWO. I did a telephone interview and there was also a musical montage. I guess it really is a small world. We spent four months in London after my son had complications with the removal of a brain tumour. It's quite an amazing place. Take care.
Paula Smith
www.caringbridge.org/ca/judson

Paula Smith <jpjcsmith@hotmail.com>
Lion's Head , Ont Canada - Monday, March 8, 2004 5:45 PM CST
Maryla,
Yes, taking lots of pictures of my two puppies and amazing husband. Been talking to Lori, trying to join the "Friends of Caedan" team...

Karen <Karen@sdsc.edu / www.caringbridge.org/ca/bryanbanister>
San Diego, CA USA - Sunday, March 7, 2004 8:13 PM CST
Thinking of you today and Judy's funeral. Hope your flu is better....
Alex Martiniuk
London, ON Canada - Thursday, March 4, 2004 4:48 PM CST
Hi Maryla,

I've been meaning to write. Loved hearing Caedan's and your story on the radio. You are such an inspiration.

Val Wade (RN) <val0274@aol.com>
London, canada - Monday, March 1, 2004 11:52 AM CST
Hi Maryla,

I've been meaning to write. Loved hearing Caedan's and your story on the radio. You are such an inspiration.

Val Wade (RN) <val0274@aol.com>
London, canada - Monday, March 1, 2004 11:52 AM CST
Hi Maryla, wondering how you are doing, and little Cali.
Chris ~ Gooch's Site ~
- Monday, March 1, 2004 7:32 AM CST
Taking lots of pictures? Big YES from this family!!! :)
Tracy M <tmangin@sympatico.ca>
Windsor, ON Canada - Sunday, February 29, 2004 8:34 AM CST
Maryla, you are INCREDIBLE and great support for Mike - he was one of my friends cousins. She said what great support you were for the famliy.

I also heard you on the Radiothon and your diary entrys touched my heart. Infact, everytime I heard your voice on the radio I cried cause I could hear the pain in your voice.

Just wanted you to know I am always thinking of you. Take care girl. Jen

Jen Fallowfield
St. Thomas, ON - Friday, February 27, 2004 10:24 AM CST
Thanks for the reminder regarding the picture taking! Never hurts to have too many.
Sandra <kamrombouts@hotmail.com>
Delaware, - Friday, February 27, 2004 7:02 AM CST
Maryla~
It's been awhile since I have written, but I have been busy with my family. All is well, I am getting ready to head back to California and to work after being off for six weeks. I couldn't agree with you more about taking pictures of your family. I have been clicking my camera since the moment I got off the plane. Family and friends are greatest treasures, and never to be taken for granted. Thanks for the reminder. I hope you and Scott and Cali are doing well. I am sorry to hear about your friend Mike, I know Caedan will entertain him with his whit and wonderful stories. Take care, know you remain always in my thoughts.
Love, Jennifer

Jennifer Brinklow <jennbrinklow@aol.com>
Huntington Beach, CA USA - Thursday, February 26, 2004 9:19 PM CST
Maryla, it's been ages since we've spoken but you have been in my thoughts everyday. Just wanted you to know that. Maybe we'll hook up again one day soon.....

Teri
Thomas' Page

Teri <teri@communication-visuelle.net>
Montreal, QC Canada - Tuesday, February 24, 2004 5:24 PM CST
We are sorry to hear of the passing of your friend Mike. May you and his family find comfort and strength in the days ahead.
Diane, Theo, Brandon, Jeremy, Danielle Schelhaas <tschelha@execulink.com (www.caringbridge.org/canada/brandon)>
Strathroy, ON - Tuesday, February 24, 2004 1:15 PM CST
Sorry for the loss of your friend Mike...another beautiful Angel to grace the Heavens above.
Judy(Angel Dustin's Mom)
Chatham, Ont - Monday, February 23, 2004 4:49 AM CST
Mar,
Just got news of Mike's passing and I thought
you might need a hug, so here I am.
Love you lots, sweetie.

Lori <thewightmans@aol.com>
- Sunday, February 22, 2004 3:40 PM CST
Maryla-
We too are praying for Mike.
Thanks for putting the word out for him.
HOpe you are are well, Cali too.
lots love love,

Karen <Karen@sdsc.edu / www.caringbridge.org/ca/bryanbanister>
San Diego, CA USA - Saturday, February 21, 2004 3:26 PM CST
Well, I did it. I donated blood - first time for me. Went to the donor clinic in December but it didn't work out. So, last Wednesday I tried it again. Have stayed well for 1 week, 2 more weeks to go and then hopefully somebody who really needs the blood gets it. I have a nice big bruise to identify myself!
Mary Lou Thomson
Exeter, Ontario - Tuesday, February 17, 2004 12:21 AM CST
Thanks Maryla.... you are the best.

Miks is still critical but stable. I am beginning to rely on that word - stable. I'm not sure if I could get through a day without it.

Take care........kd

Kristyn Darling <kd.mail@sympatico.ca www.caringbridge.com/canada/mike>
Mt. Carmel, On Canada - Saturday, February 14, 2004 8:55 AM CST
Maryla...I was driving around on the weekend of the radiothon and all of a sudden I heard your voice and I knew right away what it was about. Your readings about your journey with Caedan brought tears to my eyes. I still remember sitting in the church with Ross when everyone said goodbye to him. It was truly a moving experience for me. Your readings were wonderful even though so full of sadness. I am hoping Pooh is looking out for you, Scott and Cali too!
Adrian Hey <ahey@uniserve.com>
London, On Canada - Thursday, February 12, 2004 11:32 AM CST
Maryla,
I wish I could have heard you on the radio. I know Caedan is so proud of you.....

Lisa Agee <lagee67@hotmail.com "www.caringbridge.com/page/ross">
Camden, AL - Thursday, February 12, 2004 8:36 AM CST
Maryla: We listened to your story on the radiothon, and we were once again reminded what a strong, brave woman you are. You are an inspiration to all of us. Your story brought tears to our eyes, and our hearts go out to you. Thinking and praying for you and your family,
Diane, Theo, Brandon, Jeremy and Danielle Schelhaas <www.caringbridge.org/canada/brandon (tschelha@execulink.com)>
Strathroy, ON - Tuesday, February 10, 2004 9:32 AM CST
maryla
You were amazing on the radio. I listened on my way home from work Saturday morning and felt like I was in Caedan's room again listening to his gentle voice and his wise comments on life. We miss him lots and will never forget all he ( and you) taught us about enjoying and savouring every moment of life!!
Bless you!!
Karen Dailleboust, RN Level 7

Karen Dailleboust <kjdybes@scsinternet,.com>
Wingham, ON Canada - Monday, February 9, 2004 9:27 PM CST
Maryla: I have come to Caeden's site many times and prayed for your family. You do not know who we are but we are friends of Cathy, John and Hannah Young. You have such amazing strength and are an inspiration to many. We are very blessed with 4 children. Three of them spent some time (no more than a week) in the Pediatric Intensive Care Unit when they were first born. I can't imagine the strength that you all have spending so much more time in the hospital with Caeden. He was smiling down as an angel today very proud of his mommy as she was being extremely brave on the radio. The love you have shined brightly today as you gave so much of yourself to help the Children's Hospital of Western Ontario. I often read your comments on Hannah's site too and I know that they help the rest of us who don't know what to say or can't imagine the horrible things that you all have experienced.
Janice Kyle <pjkyle@sympatico.ca>
Drumbo, ON Canada - Sunday, February 8, 2004 7:32 PM CST
I missed it!!! I did hear a couple of the journal entries being read though - was almost worse hearing it the second time. You have an incredible strength Mar, and never stop amazing me. See you soon! Glad to see Annie was able to listen in too!
Tracy M. <tmangin@sympatico.ca>
Windsor, On Canada - Sunday, February 8, 2004 7:24 PM CST
Maryla, thanks to Tracy M., who was very helpful showing me how to go on-line, I was able to listen to your interview today. Marian and I listened together, me in tears, and Marian just quietly beside me with her arms around me. Thank you for being so generous and sharing yourself with all these listeners. Love to you and Scott and Cali,
Annie <anniebowers@shaw.ca>
Victoria, BC - Sunday, February 8, 2004 6:01 PM CST
Maryla....

You are a huge fighter, and a strong woman. Your courage to speak on the radio today about Caedan was amazing. Caedan is surely loved and missed by many.
Thank you for letting us into your world even for a few minutes today. My fiance and I were in tears.

Amy And Drew <aunthame@yahoo.com>
London, - Sunday, February 8, 2004 4:09 PM CST
Hi Maryla,

We love the pictures...and will be listening tomorrow via the web...gotta love technology!

All of our love,

Aili and Bryan <amalm@sfu.ca http://www.caringbridge.org/canada/bryankinney>
Vancouver, BC Canada - Saturday, February 7, 2004 4:16 PM CST
Maryla,

The daycare staff got together this morning and some of them were talking about your readings, all thought you did a wonderful job.

I like your pictures. Cali seem VERY comfortable a Caedan's Park.

Sandy <smschram@hotmail.com>
London, On Canada - Saturday, February 7, 2004 1:07 PM CST
Okay....I've found a way to listen in. Go to the link Maryla has posted.... www.childhealth.ca
Click on the spot where it says radiothon. There you will see something that says "listen to the radiothon". I clicked on the 97.5 FM link. You will then go to their web site, then you'll have to download the SurferNetwork program. Am listening right now!!

Tracy m. <tmangin@sympatico.ca>
Windsor, ON Canada - Friday, February 6, 2004 11:10 PM CST
I was just popping in to say you have been on my mind, only to find out I missed the radio thing. Darn!
Oh, how I would love to see you in a cowboy hat and bandanna.
You are an amazing woman, Mar. Someone I am proud to call friend.
Love,

Lori <thewightmans@aol.com>
- Friday, February 6, 2004 6:48 PM CST
As I sit here working at my desk, I just heard you reading entries from Caedan's journal. I then went to Caedan's website and read your update. What an amazing woman you are! Too bad there weren't a whole lot more people like you in this ol' world. It would be a much better place to live.
Mary Lou Thomson
Exeter, Ont - Friday, February 6, 2004 1:52 PM CST
Heard one of the things on Caedan. Brought some tears to my eyes.

I checked on the real radio guide I have here on the net for those radio stations and I can't find any site that allows us to listen to it over the net. Sorry. Hopefully someone else can find one for you Annie.

Amy <aunthame@yahoo.com>
London, - Friday, February 6, 2004 12:24 AM CST
Hi Maryla! I wonder if there's any way for us westerners to "tune in" on line?

We are thinking about you here.

Lots of love

Annie <anniebowers@shaw.ca>
Victoria, BC Canada - Thursday, February 5, 2004 8:04 PM CST
Maryla-
I wish I lived in radio distance, I'd love to hear and donate to Radio-a-thon. You are really awsome to be giving back so much. Keep up the good work, people like you make this world a better place!!!

Karen <karen@sdsc.edu / www.caringbridge.org/ca/bryanbanister>
San Diego, CA USA - Thursday, February 5, 2004 2:12 PM CST
Okay, now I'm going to have to figure out how to get those radio stations down here.....I know there's a way to do it on the internet, so I"ll have to start practicing. Kudos to you on putting all the entries on tape - I know it wasn't easy!!
Tracy M. <tmangin@sympatico.ca>
Windsor, ON Canada - Thursday, February 5, 2004 7:58 AM CST
Hi Maryla, It worked! Last night Leonard & I were able to go to the Red Cross Clinic in our local town and donated what our sons would receive. Of course it tugged to see all the blood related happenings. Sometimes when Joshua's blood was drawn for testing, he'd wonder if that couldn't be reused some way...all those many vials...freely ye have received...freely give...Blessings to you and your's.
Leonard & Lucille Weber
WestMontrose, Ont. Canada - Friday, January 30, 2004 8:37 AM CST
i fell soooo sorry for you wat happen to cadean im sorry
Kyle Hillman
London, Canada London - Thursday, January 29, 2004 10:04 PM CST
Hi Mar;
Have been thinking of you guys a lot these days. Cali is the most beautiful Tinker Bell ever with all that beautiful hair and big smile! Just stopped by to say hi.
Love Kellie

K. Drouillard <gman@jet2.net>
- Thursday, January 29, 2004 12:21 AM CST
I'm with you Maryla on the BLOOD DONATIONS. Like you I know the importance and vitality it holds. My next donation if Feb 28th...

Hope you are all keeping well *HUGS*

Judy(Angel Dustin's Mom) <lifeizsosweet@msn.com>
Chatham, On - Wednesday, January 28, 2004 5:00 PM CST
Hi Maryla,
Just dropping by to say hi.
What a beautiful park for Caedan to be.
Thanks for sharing the pictures.

Karen <karen@sdsc.edu / www.caringbridge.org/ca/bryanbanister>
San Diego, CA USA - Wednesday, January 28, 2004 2:20 PM CST
woooohooooo!!! I've been reading a whole lot of CB pages lately, and a lot of them have been mentioning a blood shortage. Glad to see we're getting out there and doing what we can! (Eight people from work went last week, plus me, then mom and dad on Monday).
Hey Mar - funny you should mention Hannah. I just "met" her yesterday. I'm a Bear Who Cares now - a cool group of mostly ladies who have "adopted" a bunch of mostly Canadian kids - and Hannah is on our list. So far sounds like she's doing well.....I'm keeping my fingers crossed. Take care!!

Tracy M. <tmangin@sympatico.ca>
Windsor, ON Canada - Wednesday, January 28, 2004 10:34 AM CST
Hi Tracy M, Tracy B here. Great minds think alike. I donated blood last week. We got an urgent call at work from Blood Services. 20 minutes later, we had 12 people packed into a mini bus. One of the guys, you know the type, 6ft, big. Anyway, he was saying he felt sorry for me. Being so small, I would probably be stuck in the chair for a long time. HA!!! Fooled him. I was done in under 10 min. I might be small, but I'm mighty!

Come on out there, DONATE!!! It doesn't hurt and makes you feel good knowing you're helping someone else.

Tracy B <bestbet@sympatico.ca>
London, ON - Wednesday, January 28, 2004 6:54 AM CST
Thinking of you and Cali and Scott....

When was my last blood donation you ask Tracy??? Ummm I am gearing up for some more of that good ol Winnie the Pooh Luck for my donation on Feb 10th.....Here's crossing my fingers.....GO DONATE EVERYONE!!!!! *Smiles*

Amy *L.S.A.P* <aunthame@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, January 27, 2004 7:04 PM CST
Dear Maryla
Thank you so much for sharing the absolutely, beautiful photos of Caedan's Park!
I can understand why it is such a special and comforting place for you.
Cali makes a perfect Tinkerbell too!
Take care
Love & cuddles
XO XO XO XO XO

Liz Cruickshank (Adam's Mum) <meajbc@bigpond.com>
Melbourne, Vic. Australia - Saturday, January 24, 2004 7:38 AM CST
Maryla, what wonderful pictures. Cali is certainly a most beautiful young girl. No wonder that her brother thought the sun rose and shone on her. Caedan's resting spot does look so tranquil. I'm so glad you find comfort there. Hope this winter is treating you well.
Mary Lou
Exeter, Ont - Friday, January 23, 2004 2:00 PM CST
Just because I haven't done this in a while.....time for a public service announcement!! :)
I visited the wonderful nurses and volunteers at the Canadian Blood Services last night, gave them a bit of blood, and they gave me cookies and a nice hot cup of tea. Can't beat a deal like that!! When's the last time YOU donated?????
K - commercial over.

Tracy M. <tmangin@sympatico.ca>
Windsor, ON Canada - Friday, January 23, 2004 7:50 AM CST
Hi Maryla, just working from home today so I popped in to say hi. Thanks for sharing your photo's with "us". Dawson and Dylan always mention something about Caedan when we drive by Caedan's park and just recently asked to visit. So as much as it is difficult to see Caedan's headstone photo's it is a part of life and very much a part of your lives. Anyone could tell by looking at them that the care you put into it, and the displays on it, show Caedan is loved and very much alive in your memories.

Sooo, are you loving this snow! I am, as we now have someone other than me - responsible for removing it! Pat's freezing his butt off at the wagon these days, but still loving it! Did you see him in the paper on Monday?

Gotta run..thinking of you guys, as always. Love Beth, Pat, Dylan and Dawson

Beth <bethcesutherland@sympatico.ca>
London, on Cda - Wednesday, January 21, 2004 10:41 AM CST
I come by I just dont know what to say. Cali looks gorgeous, in a heartbreaking way considering where she is standing.... I think of you but just am at a loss for words mostly I guess
Chris ~ Gooch's Site ~ <Chrisrusso_@hotmail.com>
- Monday, January 19, 2004 6:24 PM CST
Thanks for sharing those new pictures with all of us. Cali is such a beautiful girl!! Thinking of you,

Diane, Theo, Brandon, Jeremy and Danielle Schelhaas <www.caringbridge.org/canada/brandon (tschelha@execulink.com)>
Strathroy, ON - Monday, January 19, 2004 6:04 PM CST
You were on my mind today - I'm glad I stopped by. The new pictures are beautiful. Thank you for sharing them with us.
God bless,

Lisa Agee <lagee67@hotmail.com www.caringbridge.com/page/ross>
Camden, AL - Wednesday, January 14, 2004 3:46 PM CST
Maryla.

Thank you for sharing Caedan's resting place with us. You are right though.....it is not something that we would have thought was so very important....before the death's of our children. I too believe that Eric's resting place is *magical* for lack of a more appropriate word. For when I am very sad confused lonely or just missing him so....I often find myself out at his spot...just talking. Somedays in the warmth of the spring and summer winds....I will take a Timmy's coffee and a sandwich out there and have lunch. Just he and I.
Eric craved Tim Horton's coffee while only on chemo....a small double double. I find there....is where I am closest to him....and I do find great comfort.
Yet there are days where my heart can not drive in the laneway of that place. So many emotions.
Caedan's stone is beautiful and his *park* looks very serene. I do understand M. Cali is sure turning into a very gorgeous little girl. She reminds me of a twinkle fairy. Thank you again for sharing a very personnel part of your life with us. Hugs to you.
xxxx Sue

Sue Thiessen <thiessen@amtelecom.net>
Aylmer, - Tuesday, January 13, 2004 1:22 PM CST
Maryla,
What awesome pictures you have added for our enjoyment. Cali makes a wonderful pixie and she is posed so perfectly in that photo. Thanks for sharing your life with us.

Sandra <kamrombouts@hotmail.com>
Delaware, - Tuesday, January 13, 2004 9:33 AM CST
The picture takes my breath away. It's magical.
Stacey <stacey@staceylane.net>
Portland, OR - Monday, January 12, 2004 10:32 PM CST
What wonderful pictures, Maryla. You are right, Cali looks rather angelic "in costume".

Thinking of you always.

Marion Moynihan <m.moynihan@tvdsb.on.ca>
London, ON Canada - Monday, January 12, 2004 7:42 PM CST
Maryla~
Thank you for sharing pictures of Caedan's park, I have often wondered where is it and what it looked liked. It is beautiful, just like Caedan. I hope 2004 is treating you well so far. Take care and know you are always in my thoughts.
Love, Jennifer

Jennifer Brinklow <jennbrinklow@aol.com>
Huntington Beach, CA USA - Monday, January 12, 2004 1:30 AM CST
Beautifully Breathtaking-Thank You Maryla!!
Judy(Angel Dustin's Mom Forever & A Day)
Chatham, Ont - Sunday, January 11, 2004 6:53 PM CST
Mar,
Caedan's monument is beautiful...and as for his park, I can see why you would go there to meditate.
Always thinking of you...
Lori

Lori Wightman <thewightmans@aol.com>
- Sunday, January 11, 2004 1:43 PM CST
Excellent photos. Cali really does look like tinkerbell -she's a sweetheart!

I love the verse on the stone. I meant to tell you that the other day when I stopped by. I couldn't wait to get to the hospital to tell Mike. Great idea - yet another one of your ingenious ideas!

Take care and we'll see ya soon........kd

p.s. Mike should be back in the hopsital in a couple weeks. Right now we are just enjoying him being home.


Kristyn Darling <kd.mail@sympatico.ca>
Mt. Carmel, ON Canada - Saturday, January 10, 2004 4:13 PM CST
Gorgeous pictures, Maryla. Thanks for sharing them with us. Now I know why you find comfort there, it appears to be a peaceful and you say it is.
Valerie Hammell
Ottawa, - Saturday, January 10, 2004 2:24 PM CST
Hi Maryla, Just letting you know that I am thinking about you.
Christine <christinehoover4@hotmail.com>
London, On - Tuesday, January 6, 2004 7:33 AM CST
Maryla and Family
Wishing you an easier, smoother peaceful 2004.

Sandy <smschram@hotmail.com>
London, Ont Canada - Saturday, January 3, 2004 11:12 AM CST
Dear Maryla, Scott and Cali..2004! I can't believe it either..just keeps on ticking! I read somewhere that over our life, we are supposed to be happy 50% of the time. Maybe that's why it goes by so fast? If it's not 50% now, it is said, that it will eventually even out to be(sometimes it will be more, sometimes less). So each day will bring smiles and frowns and it's those little smile moments that keep us going. We are all recovering here..all stayed up past midnight. Dawson's first time! Pat and I made it way past and declared today to be a sleep day (1st me - now him!) Boys finally got electronics this year and have been playing nicely together since it was hooked up! If I had of known this..we would have brought one a lot sooner! Hope to see you soon in 2004..as you know we think of you often, and only a block away! Love Beth, Pat Dylan and Dawson
Beth Sutherland
London, on Cda - Thursday, January 1, 2004 3:12 PM CST
Amen, Tracy!!! Thanks for speaking for a lot of us!!!
Jenn Friesen
Vancouver, BC - Thursday, January 1, 2004 11:31 AM CST
Didn't you ask yourself how you'd make it through 2003? I know you did, and somehow, you did it. It wasn't easy, and some days were worse than others, but you did it. I don't pretend to know how you get up each day and manage to put a smile on your face and be the same Maryla we all know, but whatever it is is a part of you, and was a part of Caedan, and it will carry you through 2004 and each year after that. I always think of Caedan as an "old soul". I had often heard people described that way, and never really knew what it meant until Caedan. The short span of his life was never reflected in the way he talked, the way he thought, the things he did. I've said it before, and I'll say it again....Caedan and the battle he fought changed lives - sometimes in small ways, sometimes in big ways - but he changed the lives of every single person who has ever signed this guest book, or read your journal and left because they couldn't find the right words to say. Whenever you think you can't face another day, week, month or year, remember that. In nine short years Caedan made a difference in people, whether it was a face in the hospital, a name in a guest book, or a person you don't even know about who heard his story through a friend. Most people can only HOPE to make that kind of impact. When you're having a "bad" day I want you to think of all those people who are different for having known you,( and by that I mean all of you) and I hope that those thoughts at the very least ease your pain, if only for a moment.
My New Years Wish for everyone? Peace, health and happiness - and the chance to know a spirit like Caedan's.

Tracy M. <tmangin@sympatico.ca>
Windsor , ON Canada - Tuesday, December 30, 2003 10:48 PM CST
Maryla.

For as long as I have known you....you have never failed to amaze me with the strength that you so obviously carry. It shows...in your voice...your positiveness....your being. I have always admired you. Each year will always be filled with questions and what *ifs* and you will always be thinking about everything *that could have been*. Hopefully for parents like you and I and as well as everyone on this list.....2004 will bring a year of happiness.....hope....a closeness to God and hopefully a cure for some of these cancers and sickness these children are enduring. In the many years without Eric....I have to hope that someday no parent (or few) will ever have to walk the road you and I are on. I am so proud of you for continuing strength....and yes Maryla.....I know it is not always like that....in the quiet....it is verrrrrry difficult. You are a very good and loving woman....I remember seeing your true love for Caedan....way back when.......Eric was first dx. Caedan was just a little wee of a 2 year old....was he not? I knew back then that you were a very good Mom....and I know you definetly still are. 2004.....I pray.....is good to us all.
Stay Safe dear Friend.
Love Sue

Sue <thiessen@amtelecom.net>
- Tuesday, December 30, 2003 6:28 PM CST
Hi Mar, Scott and cutie Cali....
Hope your holidays are going well... ours have been ok.... the anticipation always outweighs the actual day, I'm convinced...always a treat with the wainwrights, you know. great pix!
Love to you all.
Lore, Dave and Julia

Lore <lore.wainwright@bell.ca>
- Monday, December 29, 2003 7:28 PM CST
Maryla... an amazing thing happened today. Everytime I drive down Wonderland to the hospital I drive very near Caedan's park and say I need to stop by. Today I had just made up my mind that I would take the time and visit and not even 5 seconds later the song "Hero" came on the radio. I have always thought of Caedan as a Hero - he conquered so much and prepared Mike and I for the unknown. It was amazing that this song played at almost the very moment I had thought of him. I think that says something. With a smile on my face, I went to the "park" and wished Caedan a Merry Christmas and you know what that made my day!

Just had to share this with you... talk to you soon

love from me.....kd


Kristyn <kd.mail@sympatico.ca>
Mt. Carmel, On Canada - Saturday, December 27, 2003 10:38 PM CST
Dear Maryla, Scott & Cali
Wishing you a Merry Christmas and joy and peace for you this holiday season. I know that there are very special angels watching over and guiding us through the season.
Love Cathie

Cathie Crawford <cathiecrawford@hotmail.com>
Belmont, - Thursday, December 25, 2003 11:11 PM CST
Maryla, Scott, Cali and Angel Caedan,
I just wanted you all to know I'm thinking of you on this day and my hope is that this holiday season brings with it further comfort and peace to all of you.
Reading over the guestbook entries from even just the last year is just amazing...to think one little boy touched so many people...it leaves me awestruck.
Thanks again, my friends, for letting us into your life in such a personal way.
I love you.

Lori <thewightmans@aol.com>
- Thursday, December 25, 2003 12:50 AM CST
Merry Christmas, Maryla ~

I'm thinking of your family and remembering Caedan at Christmas time and always...

Love ~
Stacey

Stacey Wada <SLW6204@aol.com>
Las Vegas, NV USA - Thursday, December 25, 2003 1:08 AM CST
Hello Maryla, Scott and Cali:

We have visited this site often, and today we leave a message for you. We wanted to wish you and your family a Merry Christmas and blessings and strength for the new year. We think of you often, and other friends who have to go through this season missing a loved one. Know that our hearts go out to you and our arms are surrounding you with hugs!

Diane, Theo, Brandon, Jeremy and Danielle Schelhaas <www.caringbridge.org/canada/brandon (tschelha@execulink.com)>
Strathroy, ON - Wednesday, December 24, 2003 8:40 PM CST
Ooops....Sorry we missed you open house. I've been too busy with last minute shopping to log on....I do a lot of last minute shopping too (I finished at 5 today), so Scott has my sympathy. Just wanted to let you know that our thoughts are with you all,


Susan <pigotts@lhsc.on.ca>
- Wednesday, December 24, 2003 8:15 PM CST
Tomorrow a new tradition starts, the lighting of the Christmas Candle. I will be lit in memory of our boys as well as all the children both you and I came to know over the years. When Christmas is done with for another year, I will wrap it with love and put it away to be brought out again next year and all the years after that.

Have a Beautiful Christmas Maryla and family

Judy (Angel Dusin't Mom) <jtddrury@sympatico.ca>
Chatham, On - Wednesday, December 24, 2003 7:42 PM CST
I know a family that will be with you in spirit!! Enjoy today the best way you now how, and let tomorrow take care of itself. And there is a standing invitation just a couple hours down the road....
All the best to you all!

Tracy M. <tmangin@sympatico.ca>
Windsor , ON Canada - Wednesday, December 24, 2003 12:27 AM CST
Hope your open house is a wonderful time. My family has done a christmas even open house for as long as I can remember. My mom bakes for weeks and weeks, and then she sets out more food then her five kids, their spouses, and the grand kids can eat (and my fiance Drew can really eat a lot). There's always goodies left over for me to eat on New Years eve.

Have the best one you can have. I'm thinking of your family and of Caedan this season.

Amy

Amy (LSAP) <aunthame@yahoo.com>
LONDON, ON Canada - Wednesday, December 24, 2003 8:22 AM CST
Maryla, I cannot be there in person to "drop in" as you welcomed anyone and everyone to do! I am thinking of you dear friend and your prescious son Caedan. Surround yourself with friends and know that you have many more people who continue to remember and pray for you and Scott and Cali especially at this time of year when your wounds are even more raw.....as if that were possible. I will always be thankful for having known your son and his beautiful loving mother.

Love, Tami

Tami Watchurst: mom to Alexander 10 yrs: Leukemia: in remission <leapco@sympatico.ca>
Orangeville, On Canada - Wednesday, December 24, 2003 6:21 AM CST
Maryla,

On a day once set in cement with smiles.....from ear to ear...after the loss of a precious child that holiday is looked upon through a totally different set of eye glasses.
This will be our 7th Christmas without Eric and none...to be honest....have ever been the same. Yes Alyssa ()now 18) and Nick (now 4) have made Abe and I both .....keep it together....but it has never been the same....the smiles do not seem to go from ear to ear anymore.
I want you to know that somehow....in time....it never gets *easier* dear friend.....your heart just understands that little bit more. It seems to come to terms with the hardest thing any parent has to come to terms with....the absense of their darling child. In time you will learn that Caedan would only want to see those ear to ear smiles...for him...for Daddy....for Cali and especially for his Mommy. Thinking of you so much at this most *festive* time of the year. My heart thinks of all of us parents who are soooo missing their children at Christmas and for those parents who's children are enduring this disease. Happy Holidays.
Love from the Thiessen's.

Sue <thiessen@amtelecom.net>
Aylmer, - Tuesday, December 23, 2003 1:22 PM CST
Hi Maryla: Why is it that we do so much running around for just one day? (It used to be at least two days, but those of us in retail now recognize Christmas as just one day off.) I realize that everthing will work out just fine, but this lead-up-to is pretty exhausting. The boys have come down with 'something' and have been laying on the sofa wanting NOTHING since Sunday evening. With two Grandparent homes to visit on Thursday I am wondering if we should just delay the date. Work is just CRAZY with staff and customers emotions rising. OKAY!! I feel better, now. Thanks for letting me vent. From the Hammells to the Gallaghers, have a Peaceful Holiday Season and Bestest Wishes for the 2004 Year. Maybe we will see each other then?
Valerie <cuff31@aol.com>
Ottawa, - Tuesday, December 23, 2003 12:57 AM CST
Hello Maryla, Scott and Cali...we are still in buying mode here. Tonight Pat is going out to finish up his stuff and I still have a couple of things to pick up (hopefully today). Then there is food shopping (I'll get Pat to do that tonight too! - yeah that sounds good). Didn't get the cards out, so expect an Easter one. We are waiting to hear if Dawson has scarlet fever or just a rash from the bubble bath I got from the Delta many moons ago! He's running around, excited about the count down, so I'm 99.9% sure it's just a skin irritation. I'm off unil the 5th now, so that's some consolation that there will be time to rest eventually. Loved the lights on the tree (I didn't realize it was so big, until I saw the lights on!). Love and Merry Christmas, we'll be thinking of you, Beth, Pat, Dylan and Dawson.
Beth <bethcesutherland@sympatico.ca>
London, On Cda - Tuesday, December 23, 2003 9:42 AM CST
Merry Christmas Maryla, Scott and Cali (and Angel Caedan too)!

You will have a good Christmas I know it, and I am sure Angel Caedan will be there to get you through it. Enjoy your time with your family and friends. This Christmas too, will be one to remember. Take care and Best Wishes for 2004!

Thanks for being there for me too - you are truly one of a kind - and the good kind too! .........love from me kd

Kristyn Darling <kd.mail@sympatico.ca>
Mt. Carmel, Canada - Monday, December 22, 2003 5:11 PM CST
Sending peace and comfort this holiday season to you, Mar.
And Scott and Cali. And to all of your friends who send such love through Caedan's website. Their support is surely something you can give thanks for this Christmas.
Big hugs and all my love,



Sandy Bolton <jandsbolton@aol.com>
Amherstburg, ON Canada - Wednesday, December 17, 2003 7:36 AM CST
Hi Mar,
Don't feel bad, I am also running around yelling "ACK ! The shopping!! I forgot to do the shopping!!!"
As a result I madly run through stores throwing things in a basket willy-nilly, with not much thought or planning.
I'm sure Gord will love those pink maribou slippers and the kids are probably just itching for that foot massager. My mother-in-law has asked for that 3-in-1 drill press...I'm sure of it...and the karaoke machine will be perfect in my Grandmother's retirement home.
See, it all works out in the end.
Lots of love,(your sister in disorganization),

Lori <thewightmans@aol.com>
- Tuesday, December 16, 2003 1:37 PM CST
Hi Maryla,
I am also on of those people...........A LURKER!.....I check Caedan's site often but fail to sign in! I wanted to let you know that you are always in my thoughts and prayers, especially now that the holidays are upon us. I know you must miss Caedan every moment of every day and this time of year must be so painful. I hope that you have some peace and joy with Cali, Scott and the rest of your loving friends and family this Christmas. Take care of yourself over the holidays.

Patricia FIsher <pfisher@allstate.ca>
London , On Canada - Tuesday, December 16, 2003 12:13 AM CST
Hi Maryla, Scott and Cali..Thanks for the update Maryla, and don't be hard on yourself. I know you want it to be normal, but what's normal anyway? I think that's the problem, normal keeps changing! We will be sure to drive by and see the tree, I'm sure Caedan is happy to see the lights shining!

I haven't started my cards (they usually arrive before Easter....or then for the rest, I send Easter cards) I also have been very lax on buying presents this year (I was hoping to win a trip and take me away too!) but haven't heard anything so I better get in gear. I find Friday and Saturday nights are best to shop, no-one around. My spirit isn't very high this year either - but maybe if I talk my self into it! I think it is from reflecting over the tough year we had. My Mom has been very sick, but comes home on Wednesday, so seeing her will help I'm sure. Talk to you soon, I know you know we think of you all often! Luv Beth, Pat, Dylan and Dawson

Beth Sutherland
London, On Canada - Monday, December 15, 2003 9:58 AM CST
Dear Maryla,

Christmas is a beautiful time of the year and is supposed to be * the season of giving and love*. It is.....because of our children. It is outstanding to me at how much Caedan...my Eric and all these other little children have taught all of us. The impressions that they have left on our hearts....is priceless.

This Christmas will be our 7th without Eric....and it does not get any better (on the heart) on the outside people think that we have *moved on* but inside that aching and missing Eric just gets *easier* to shuffle in the everyday stream of life. I will say that Christmas has NEVER been the same since 1996.
This year Abe and I have decided to take some money (that would normally be spent on Xmas gifts for Eric) and donate it to The Make a Wish Foundation in his memory...not the same I know....but helping another child that is going through a hell of his or her own.
Even though I know you feel like this....because I do too....you are not alone.....he is with you....Caedan is with you.

Love You.

Sue

Sue Thiessen <thiessen@amtelecom.net>
Aylmer, - Sunday, December 14, 2003 7:47 PM CST
Maryla, The Christmas Season is here and I know that you want to do everything that you can to allow Cali to feel the wonder and magic of this time of year but I know you are deeply feeling the pain of the loss of Caedan. I know that you feel it every day of your life, but the longing and aching feels even more cruel right now because you cannot hold your son in your arms. It's understandable that you would want to just sleep right through the next two weeks. When you have lost someone you love this time of year can be so very bitter-sweet. You have prescious memories that can make you smile one minute and then feel so filled with sadness the next. As you know I have not walked down the same road that you have in grief. I have lost my beloved sister Sherri to the Beast, having been diagnosed on Christmas Eve and awakening in I.C.U. on Christmas morning only to be told by me that she had Cancer and a colostomy as a result of the 5 hour surgery she endured on Christmas Eve. She loved Christmas and so did I and because of that I try to keep the spirit alive in my home and in my heart. It's not easy believe me I know. Don't for a second think that I am comparing the loss of my sister to the loss of your son. I am not. I believe with all of my heart that there is no greatest loss than the pain of having your child taken from you. I think of you and Caedan so very often. We still talk about Caedan and remember him when we say our bedtime prayers. Alexander often asks God to take care of Caedan until we see him again. We also ask God to have Sherri take care of him...she was in the process of becomming a Child Life Worker when she was stricken with the Beast and taken from us and kids adored her.

It may be hard for you to believe but you are so often present in the back of my mind and heart and I pray for you and Scott for healing and strength. I pray for you to be supported by loving friends and family.

Please know that you and your son have changed our lives and taught us so many lessons that I know have made us better able to appreciate moments in time. I capture moments in my day to day life of experiences with my sons and hold them inside to cherish always.

Caedan will never be forgotten, I promise you.

Love, Tami

Tami Watchurst: mom to Alexander 10 yrs: Leukemia: in remission <leapco@sympatico.ca>
Orangeville, On Canada - Saturday, December 13, 2003 6:02 AM CST
Maryla, you are amazing you know. You are helping me in my time of crisis yet you are still struggling with your own. I want you to know I am so very appreciative of your support and caring.

You will get through Christmas and each Christmas ahead. Cali will make sure of that and I know Caedan will be there to help you too. He wants you to enjoy the holiday season as hard as it is to do, he wants you to. So try to (actually never say try it gives you an out, instead just do it) enjoy Christmas this year and remember Caedan has his special Christmas angel wings on helping you through.

I think of you guys everyday and include you all in my prayers. Merry Christmas!

Kristyn Darling <kd.mail@sympatico.ca>
Mt. Carmel, - Friday, December 12, 2003 9:27 AM CST
Maryla,

It's been a while since I've written but I check in all the time to see how you are all doing. As you know, this is our first holiday season without Cody and I know exactly what you mean about not wanting to be very festive. But I also echo Judy's sentiment - we still have Trevor and it's not fair to him to not move forward. As heart-wrenching as it is, nothing can bring Cody or Caedan or Dustin or Brennan or any of the other dear angels back to us.

My wish for all the grieving is that they can continue with their lives - obviously not as they were before, but with a "new normal".

All our love and support during this holiday season.
God bless all of you.

Sharon Simpson <sharon.simpson@dfait-maeci.gc.ca>
Windsor, - Friday, December 12, 2003 7:16 AM CST
Dear Maryla, Scott and Cali,
I just wanted to check in and see how things were going for you all. Know you are always in my thoughts, as is Caedan. Take care over the holiday season.
Love, Jennifer

Jennifer Brinklow <jennbrinklow@aol.com>
Huntington Beach, CA USA - Thursday, December 11, 2003 11:00 PM CST
Dear Maryla, Scott and Cali,
I just wanted to check in and see how things were going for you all. Know you are always in my thoughts, as is Caedan. Take care over the holiday season.
Love, Jennifer

Jennifer Brinklow <jennbrinklow@aol.com>
Huntington Beach, CA USA - Thursday, December 11, 2003 10:59 PM CST
I gently wrap warm thoughts of you
in my christmas prayers
For Heaven to smile on you
For Angels to watch over you
and the love of Jesus to fill your heart
Have A Merry Christmas
God Bless You And Your Family This Holiday

Have a Marry Christmas and a Blessed New Year

Chris Ullrich - Grand daughter dx with AML M5 <c_ullrich@msn.com, www.caringbridge.com/page/isabellaledesma >
Hemingford, Ne USA - Thursday, December 11, 2003 8:41 PM CST
Maryla, I am right with you about dealing with the pending holidays *sighs* But...we do both have a child to help nurture through the years...we both have a child that needs to continue to grow with us and to continue to move forward with warm wholesome memories of their brothers...I miss them too...*tears*
Judy (Angel Dustin's Mom) <jtddrury@sympatico.ca>
Chatham, Ont Canada - Thursday, December 11, 2003 5:06 PM CST
Dear Maryla and Family:
For one that normally has no problem with words, every time I come to visit, I cant seem to find the right things to say. I dont know what to say. You and your family will be in my prayers.

Russell Storring <storring.rd@forces.gc.ca>
Kabul, Afghanistan - Thursday, December 11, 2003 12:35 AM CST
Mar, sweetie,
Hugs from me too, ok? I wish I could do more.
Always thinking of you,

Lori <thewightmans@aol.com>
- Thursday, December 11, 2003 7:49 AM CST
Dearest Mar,

All I want to do is give you the biggest hug right now.

I love you.



Tina Herzog <Tina.Herzog@sympatico.ca>
Windsor, ON - Wednesday, December 10, 2003 9:33 PM CST
I put on my Winne the Pooh overalls, and my Winnie the Pooh socks for luck. I went to the blood donation tonight hoping and praying I was okay. MY IRON IS GOOD!!!!!! I almost cried. I told my fiance that this was the FIRST time since Caedan's birthday that I was able to donate. It was then they sent me away cause my iron was low. YEAH YEAH. I am back in the donating world! 8th donation for me tonight.....
Amy *L.S.A.P* <aunthame@yahoo.com>
London, ON - Tuesday, December 9, 2003 7:55 PM CST
Hi there! Tomorrow I'm planning on going to donate blood for the first time. Hope all is going well with you and that this season is not too hard to get through. Here is a big pat on the back for helping all those people you have met through your cancer journey. Merry Christmas and Happy New Year.

Mary Lou Thomson
Exeter, ON CANADA - Tuesday, December 9, 2003 8:47 AM CST
Hellooooooooooooooooo there........... any body home?? I have been recruited for GB duty on the 19th. This could be FUN FUN FUN!!! See you then!
Tracy M. <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor , ON Canada - Tuesday, December 9, 2003 7:55 AM CST
Maryla-
Great new pics!
Cali is a doll!
Loved the Caedan no front teeth pic too!!!
Hope you guys are hanging in there and staying warm-
you are in our thoughts and prayers always-

Karen <karen@sdsu.edu / www.caringbridge.org/ca/bryanbanister>
San Diego, CA USA - Monday, December 8, 2003 10:18 PM CST
Thanks for the most recent photos posted ... especially the adorable one with missing teeth :-)
Karen
Waterloo, - Saturday, December 6, 2003 8:45 PM CST
Blood Donation for me on Tuesday. *Crosses fingers* here's hoping the iron count is good. Thinking of you....

Amy *L.S.A.P* <aunthame@yahoo.com>
London, - Friday, December 5, 2003 8:34 PM CST
Hi!
I enjoyed the new pictures.

Debbie Nagy
St. Louis, MO - Thursday, December 4, 2003 0:03 AM CST
Hey Mar..how you doing darlin? Not much activity on my Angels site anymore. Been visiting other families pages. I always stop here, always will. Thinking of you often.

Judy (Angel-Dustin)
Chatham, On - Wednesday, December 3, 2003 5:05 PM CST
Okay, so did you really get a half a foot of snow like they are telling us you did down here??? In case you're wondering, we didn't get a flake!!
Tracy M. <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor , ON Canada - Wednesday, December 3, 2003 11:12 AM CST
Hi Mar,
I was just sitting here on this cold, cold Sunday morning and thoughts of you popped into my head so I thought I'd stop in and say hello. Hello.

Lori <thewightmans@aol.com>
- Sunday, November 30, 2003 8:34 AM CST
I'm here!! Sending you a "Hello" and letting you know that you are constantly in my thoughts.
Christine 7West <christinehoover4@hotmail.com>
London, - Sunday, November 30, 2003 0:19 AM CST
Hi Maryla
Yes it is another "lurker" who checks the website but doesn't leave messages. You are always never far from my thoughts. Hope you and Cali and Scott are starting to enjoy the upcoming Season although I know it can not be easy. Take care

Cathie Crawford <cathiecrawford@hotmail.com>
Belmont, - Friday, November 28, 2003 10:28 PM CST
Nice Hair Maryla! You know I'm "out there"! Have a good day. Beth
PS: I start a real job on Monday - in an office and everything..I feel so grown up!

Beth <bethcesutherland@sympatico.ca>
London, On Canada - Friday, November 28, 2003 9:10 AM CST
Neat photos....they put a smile in my day!

Take care.......kd

Kristyn Darling <kd.mail@sympatico.ca>
Mt. Carmel, - Thursday, November 27, 2003 9:49 PM CST
We're here too...thanks for the new pictures....

Susan, Daniel, Ken, and Miranda <pigotts@lhsc.on.ca>
- Thursday, November 27, 2003 5:05 PM CST
Happy holidays to you, Laura
www.caringbridge.org/ca/coltonmeyer <foryoucolton@aol.com >
- Thursday, November 27, 2003 12:09 AM CST
Oh my Gosh!!!!!!! Adrian's 27???? It's just not possible!!! that would mean I can't be 29 anymore..... Great pics, even if I do feel O-L-D now!
Tracy M. <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor , ON Canada - Thursday, November 27, 2003 11:02 AM CST
Hi there Maryla,

Im one of the guilty ones. I check in here often to see how your doing but fail to leave you a note saying hi. So a big HELLO from me. I was wondering if I can add your website to mine and I would love to have a pic of Caedan for our *Faces of Motivation* page. What do you think? Check it out if you have a minute please. Lots of good thoughts coming your way.
www.nrtco.net/~hazelgreen/

Elaine <elainevezina@sympatico.ca>
Ottawa, Ont - Wednesday, November 26, 2003 9:15 PM CST
Hey there,
so many of us check Caedan's site at work and are guilty of not signing in.....so here is a big hello from everyone on the 7th floor. Our thoughts are always with you.

with love Nurse Heather <kidthompson77@hotmail.com>
- Wednesday, November 26, 2003 4:01 PM CST
Are you trying to catch us awake?
Hope all is well and you guys are coping okay...
I know you miss Caedan to infinity...

Chris ~ Gooch's Site ~
- Wednesday, November 26, 2003 11:51 AM CST
Okay, I'm guilty - I'm one of those "lurkers" Shannon mentioned. Never thought I'd hear you wondering if we were paying attention!!! Never fear, we're always thinking of you, even if you don't see it posted here. Hope you guys are all well!
Tracy M. <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Wednesday, November 26, 2003 11:02 AM CST
YOU, my friend, are too, too funny.
Don't worry...we are all here, all the time.
Love you,

Lori Wightman <thewightmans@aol.com>
Amherstburg, ON Canada - Wednesday, November 26, 2003 8:40 AM CST
Ask and you shall recieve....Yes, we are here. So many of us lurkers (and so many checking in from work, looking over the shoulder to see if the coast is clear!!) not signing in. Although many don't sign in, never think that you, Scott, Caedan and Cali are far from our thoughts.

Wondering how that pedicure sounds? Even if we don't do GB's, I would be happy to come up just to give you some time out....Miya would love to play with her "sister".


Shannon, Derek and Miya <staylor@wecas.on.ca>
- Wednesday, November 26, 2003 7:35 AM CST
Yes, I'm here. Right next door! Wattsamatter, you don't need any sour cream?
Tracy B <bestbet@sympatico.ca>
London, on ca - Wednesday, November 26, 2003 7:25 AM CST
I'm out here. And I am keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. I love you. Blessings.
Khalita My Caringbridge Site Duke Peds BMT Aplastic Anemia <khalita@hecaresonline.org>
Lexington, NC - Wednesday, November 26, 2003 0:33 AM CST
Hi Maryla...you don't know me but I read the article in the London Free Press in September and I have been checking in ever since. I hope you are well.
Sheri <sasey1026@yahoo.com>
St. Marys, ON Canada - Tuesday, November 25, 2003 9:59 PM CST
I'm still here too.... thanks for all your support this week. We'll see what we can do about the mask?!

Take care and see ya soon.......kd

Kristyn <kd.mail@sympatico.ca>
Mt. Carmel, Canada - Tuesday, November 25, 2003 9:54 PM CST
HELLLLLLLLLOOOOOOOOOOOOO
Karen M <hbyc7@rogers.com>
Waterloo, ON - Tuesday, November 25, 2003 6:47 PM CST
Hey there! We're here and thinking of you!!
love, Annie <anniebowers@shaw.ca>
Victoria, BC - Tuesday, November 25, 2003 2:01 PM CST
MARYLA . . . Maryla . . . maryla . . .
I'M HERE . . . Here . . . here . . .

Hmmm, does seem to be a little empty here!
Just checking in to say Hi!

Daniel <damnearfreezin@hotmail.com>
- Tuesday, November 25, 2003 1:10 PM CST
Maryla... thanks for your words of wisdom today. I thank you for teaching me the way to travel the road that lies ahead. You are a great mentor. I think of you guys often and even more so now that we are back in that dreaded hospital. And oh yes we do miss the smell and taste of that bread.........kd

p.s. nice hats those Gallagher boys wear so proudly.

Kristyn Darling <kd.mail@sympatico.ca>
Mt. Carmel, - Wednesday, November 12, 2003 8:41 PM CST
Hi Maryla, Scott and Cali, just stopping by to say hello..you guys are never very far from mind! (however when you drive by, I never see you! - Dylan said it was you honking at us the other day - sorry I didn't honk back - glad Dylan waved!) Dylan and I were talking about Caedan last night and he is adding a bulletin board to his room and wants Caedan to be a big part of it. Dylan said he wants Caedan to know that he is still thinking of him, and "when Caedan sees the board, he will know for sure". All's well here, some changes, but all in all good. Patty Wagon is having fun! Talk to you soon, Love Beth, Pat, Dylan and Dawson. PS: very moved by Mike's vision
Beth Sutherland <cebethsutherland@hotmail.com>
London, On Canada - Monday, November 10, 2003 9:14 AM CST
I'm so sorry....
God bless,

Lisa Agee <lagee67@hotmail.com (www.caringbridge.com/page/ross)>
Camden, AL - Saturday, November 8, 2003 9:55 AM CST
So sorry to hear about another new angel when mom got home. But you continue to amaze me - where you find the strength to be such a pillar of support for someone who is living the nightmare you have been going through absolutly astounds me. It sounds strange to say it's a gift, because it's not a gift anyone would ever want, but it's something that I don't know if I could do. Take care of yourself!!
I hear a train ride is in Cali's future - hope it's soon!

Tracy M. <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Thursday, November 6, 2003 7:59 AM CST
There is nothing to write....but passing on my love and support to you as you too pass along your love and support to the Howes...
Alex Martiniuk <alexmartiniuk@hotmail.com>
London, - Wednesday, November 5, 2003 7:27 PM CST
The service yesterday was beautiful and to know that you are there for the Howe family is very comforting to us all. As well, knowing that Caedan is there to guide and comfort Brennan somewhat puts my heart at ease. I'm here if you need me. X0X0
Julia <juliarajan4@homtail.com>
London, On Canada - Wednesday, November 5, 2003 12:38 AM CST
We were just checking in and found the news about Brennan. Our thoughts and love are going out to you guys and to Brennan's family, too. There are no "right words" to say, but just know that you are in our thoughts.
Love to you from us,
Christie, John and Noah

Noah <twobrides@hotmail,.com>
- Tuesday, November 4, 2003 9:34 PM CST
When sitting in the pew today, I more or less subconsciously closed my eyes, & had the most incredible visions run through my mind – the experience lasted but 30 seconds - however, the shear emotion and joy that consequently overwhelmed me were like nothing I’ve ever felt.

At first, all I saw was a magnificent waterfall surrounded by lush greens and cavernous rock. Perhaps foreshadowing they who were about to appear. There was a perfect balance of sun and cloud, and down from the soft blue sky flew beautiful Brennan with her wings, she was dressed in a wonderful white, frilly gown and adorned on her precious little head was the crown only a true princess could be wearing, she was laughing, giggling and overwhelmed with freedom and joy. I was in such awe with the dynamic smile which earlier I had been looking at only in pictures that to this point I was starring solely at her face. However, when I withdrew my focus for a broader look - beside her as they flew by - I saw Caedan holding her hand and together they flew so happily and calmly.

They took me on a journey from the waterfall to a vast dessert, and onward to the artic – not a land was untouched. The scenery they flew above was magnificent, images - with unparalleled details - of things I’ve never seen before were so vibrant and crystal clear. The smiles and peacefulness on the faces of these two precious angels is something I will never forget.

As a soft stir filled the church I began to consciously realize that my head was fiercely tingling from such an overpowering experience. I’ve never felt as overwhelmed as I was in that pew today, and I felt I had to share what I could put into words. It would be impossible to try to describe in any lengthy detail how incredible this was and even if I tried I surely could not capture the true essence of this experience.

Sincerely,

mike <gins16@hotmail.com>
london, on ca - Tuesday, November 4, 2003 6:44 PM CST
I'm signing in to let you know that I'm thinking of you and praying for you. I know that you are still grieving so much and will until...I want you to know you're not forgotten and you won't be. Blessings to you. I'll continue to check in on you.
Khalita My Caringbridge Site Duke Peds BMT Aplastic Anemia <khalita@hecaresonline.org>
Lexington, NC, - Tuesday, November 4, 2003 4:26 PM CST
Dear Maryla,


I am so sorry to hear about Brennan. I truly am. I know Rob and Lisa's nightmare...we all do. Truly my deepest sympathies. Brennan will never be forgotten.....thinking of all of you as this passing of Brennan opens so may unhealed and raw wounds...thinking of you all.
Love Sue

Sue Thiessen <thiessen@amtelecom.net>
- Tuesday, November 4, 2003 10:39 AM CST
Maryla,

I am so sorry to hear of Brennan's passing. Saying "I'm sorry" just seems so inadequate, but you know that it carries all the heart-wrenching emotions a mother who's gone through this can send. I won't be able to make it to the visitation today and I'm sure Lisa will understand that I can't do the funeral tomorrow. Please give the entire Howe family my deepest sympathies and all my love and support.
A huge hug to you as well, this is not an easy time to for you, either.

Love, Sharon

Sharon Simpson <sharon.simpson@dfait-maeci.gc.ca>
Windsor, ON - Monday, November 3, 2003 10:40 AM CST
Hi Maryla, Brennan's family are lucky to have you in their lives to show them the way. I think you are also right about Caedan greeting Brennan and showing her the way. We all have a purpose which can change daily! (which is a good thing). I'm truly filled with sorrow thinking about you having to re-live the experience. I'm here if you need me! Love Beth, Pat Dylan and Dawson
BethSutherland
London, on Cda - Monday, November 3, 2003 9:03 AM CST
My friend,
I can't speak, I can't breathe.......I'm just frozen. If there was only something that could be said or done. Hugs to you for being such a strong support to Lisa and Rob......hugs to them as there new nightmare begins. Thanks for calling on Fri. I miss you.


Lori
- Monday, November 3, 2003 6:30 AM CST
its all just so unfair
mike <gins16@hotmail.com>
london, on canada - Sunday, November 2, 2003 6:40 PM CST
Happy Birthday to Paige!
I can't remember a nicer Hallowe'en, weather-wise - no snow tonight, Maryla! It is a balmy 16 degrees C here.
Yes, it was pizza night.

Karen M <hbyc7@rogers.com>
Waterloo, ON - Friday, October 31, 2003 7:25 PM CST
Happy Halloween Everyone!

Hope that the weather holds out for you all tonight.

Shannon, Derek and Miya <staylor@wecas.on.ca>
- Friday, October 31, 2003 1:46 PM CST
Maryla,

Bryan and I hope that this Halloween is a happy and safe one.

Thanks for keeping us updated...it means so much!

Aili and Bryan <amalm@sfu.ca http://www.caringbridge.org/canada/bryankinney>
Vancouver, BC Canada - Wednesday, October 29, 2003 9:13 PM CST
Dear Maryla,

Things are very somber here this week.I am sad to hear that little Brennan has been having such a very difficult time. I continue to pray for her....she has had to fight a very very long and extremly hard road as the both of us can atest too. Today the Dr's at Sick Kid's told us that our little guy was a very very sick little boy....today he slipped into his coma....never to speak another word to me....even when I told him how much I loved him...how much his Daddy and I were proud of him....how much he meant to us. Two days later on the 1st of November we told Eric all of this again and gave our consent for Eric to join Jesus and as I am fighting through tears as I write this...he did die in my arms and our lives have never been the same....dear friend. We have each other and we will always have our children...no one can ever take that away M...because a child that is so loved like our children are...never die.... My deepest prayers and thought's for Brennan and her family.
Love Sue

Sue Thiessen <thiessen@amtelecom.net>
Aylmer, ON - Wednesday, October 29, 2003 1:23 PM CST
Maryla and Scott,
Just thought I would write and say how much you are in our thoughts at Southwood. The students at the school refer to our bench as "Caedan's Bench" and often ask if they may sit on it (I think the Memorial Service has taught them to treat it with a great deal of respect - as we had hoped.) Suffice is to say that parents, students, and younger siblings not yet attending school frequently visit the bench and remember, fondly, all that Caedan has brought to our lives.

Thinking of you (especially on Sundays),

Marion Moynihan <m.moynihan@tvdsb.on.ca>
London, ON Canada - Thursday, October 23, 2003 9:24 PM CDT
Hi dear partner in sorrow. We were so sorry to have missed the memorial on Sunday. It would have been so special to be with you. Comfort keeps coming in various ways, but having been away for several days with Leonard and then returning home...the aching missing of Joshua hits sharper... This poem was waiting for us:
With Hope
This is not at all how
We thought it was supposed to be
We had so many plans for you
We had so many dreams
And now you are gone away
And left us with the memories of your smile
And nothing we can say
And nothing we can do
Can take away the pain
The pain of losing you, but
Chorus:
We can cry with hope
We can say goodby with hope
'Cause we know our good-bye is not the end, oh no
And we can grieve with hope
'Cause we believe with hope
(There's a place where we'll see your face again
We'll see your face again.
And never have I known
Anything so hard to understand
And never have I questioned more
The wisdom of God's plan
But through the cloud of tears
I see the Father's smile and say well done
And I imagine you where you wanted most to be
Seeing all your dreams come true
'Cause now you're home
And now you're free, and
Chorus
We have this hope as an anchor
'Cause we believe that everything
God promised us is true, so
We wait with hopej
We ache with hope
We hold on with hope
We let go with hope

Lucille Weber <llweber@sgci.com>
West Montrose, ON Canada - Wednesday, October 22, 2003 2:46 PM CDT
Hi Maryla,

I woke up this morning thinking of you... just in case it's ESP- I figured I'd better stop in & say hi. :)

lovejane <jcornett@rcn.com>
CHicago, Il - Tuesday, October 21, 2003 9:40 AM CDT
Hi Mar & Scott,
Just letting you know I'm thinking of you.
XO

Daniel <damnearfreezin@hotmail.com>
Vancouver, - Monday, October 20, 2003 10:06 PM CDT
Maryla

Just checking in to see how things are for you and your family. Sorry things are so rough.

Bye for now

Sandy <smschram@hotmail.com>
London, Ont Canada - Monday, October 20, 2003 4:20 PM CDT
Hi Maryla-
Thinking of you and hoping this Sunday was a fun day for you and Cali. Keeping you all in my prayers.

Karen Banister <Karen@sdsc.edu / www.caringbridge.org/ca/bryanbanister>
San Diego, CA USA - Sunday, October 19, 2003 9:21 PM CDT
Maryla & Cali
To see you both today at the Children's Memorial was such wonderful thing, you both looked so well. I must say that ChildCan hosted a most beautiful service in memory of all of our precious children. A day I will hold dear to my heart. Take good care, you are thought of more than you will ever know.

Love Judy (Angel Dustin's Mom)

Judy <jtddrury@sympatico.ca>
Chatham, Ont - Sunday, October 19, 2003 7:41 PM CDT
You were on my mind this morning ~ just wanted to stop in and say hi and let you know I prayed for you today.
God bless,

Lisa Agee <www.caringbridge.com/page/ross>
Camden, AL - Thursday, October 16, 2003 9:21 AM CDT
Still thinking of you often.
Sylvia and Christine, 7 west
London, - Sunday, October 12, 2003 2:06 AM CDT
Maryla and Scott, not one day goes by without thoughts of you. I'll think of you even more on Sundays, and wish that I could be there with you.
love always,

annie <anniebowers@shaw.ca>
Victoria, BC - Thursday, October 9, 2003 11:34 PM CDT
Maryla, they say the parent who was by the childs side 24x7 has it so much harder when child passes away. All the time and energy that used to be focused on Caedan is just a big void in time and space unfilled now. Not that you dont love your daughter, but naturally things she does will remind you of Caedan, and of course, he did them all first. I hope you realize what you're feeling and the depth of it is normal....
Chris ~ Gooch's Site ~
- Thursday, October 9, 2003 8:18 AM CDT
Thanks for updating, we still check in on a regular basis, too.
Noah was delighted to see photos of Cali, he's counting down the days till he gets to see her and now that he's seen pictures of her friends he wants to play with them, too!
Love you guys.

Noah and folks
- Sunday, October 5, 2003 9:43 PM CDT
Hi folks,

Just wanted to let you know, I'm still checking on your web page on a very regular basis. I just don't always sign the guestbook.

My thoughts and prayers are with you always.

And please know, if you ever need a break from Cali, just send her my way. Cody & Kyle love to take care of her.

Actually, Kyle has been asking lately if he can have a little sister.

Now that I hope I've put a smile on your face if only for a moment, I have to pull dinner out of the oven.

Love you always!

Tracy B
- Sunday, October 5, 2003 5:21 PM CDT
I can't imagine how hard things are for you every day. I want you to know that I continue to keep you close in thought and prayer and will certainly continue to check on you here. Prayers for a better day tomorrow.
Khalita My Caringbridge Site Duke Peds BMT Aplastic Anemia <khalita@hecaresonline.org>
Lexington, NC - Sunday, October 5, 2003 4:24 PM CDT
Hi Maryla... just stopping by to say "hello" and let you know the boys love their hats!! Have a great day!
Kristyn Darling
- Tuesday, September 30, 2003 8:57 AM CDT
Just a hi - thinking about you today and checking your site.
Karen M
Waterloo, - Sunday, September 28, 2003 1:11 PM CDT
Hi Mar,
I was just stopping in to say hi and noticed that this website has logged over 100,000 hits!! Amazing!
Give each other big hugs from me and....
Happy Belated Birthday Cali!!!!!
Love,

Lori <thewightmans@aol.com>
Amherstburg, Canada - Sunday, September 28, 2003 8:30 AM CDT
Congratulations on completing the run - hope your back has fully recovered by now. WELL DONE!!!
Jacqui Whittington <whitti.family@virgin.net>
England - Saturday, September 27, 2003 10:53 AM CDT
Cali,
I'm a little late but wanted to wish you a great big *H*A*P*P*Y B*I*R*T*H*D*A*Y!!! I loved the announcement....what a funny and special way to break the big news!
God bless,

Lisa Agee <www.caringbridge.com/page/ross>
Camden, AL - Wednesday, September 24, 2003 11:44 AM CDT
Happy birthday Cali!!!

I hope your dinner tonight is fantastic! A word from the wise - you are in the mall anyway and parents are not allowed to say 'No' to you on your special day so take advantage while you can!!! Enjoy!


Love Julia! <jarajan@rogers.com>
London, On Canada - Friday, September 19, 2003 3:14 PM CDT
Happy Birthday Cali-Beth! I can't believe you're 4 - pretty soon you'll be as old as me. Okay, well, maybe not THAT old! Hope you got all the presents a princess like you deserves!!
Tracy M. (Aunt T.) <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Friday, September 19, 2003 3:07 PM CDT
Happy Birthday Cali!!!

Eat an extra piece of cake for me...

Love, Jane <jcornett@rcn.com>
Chicago, - Thursday, September 18, 2003 10:18 PM CDT
Maryla-
The run sounds like it was a huge success - and lots of fun too! Our thoughts were with you - even from 2,000 miles away!

Karen Banister <www.caringbridge.org/ca/bryanbanister>
San Diego, CA USA - Thursday, September 18, 2003 2:31 PM CDT
Dear Maryla, Scott and Cali,

It was a privilege to have been involved with the memorial program last Friday. Caedan’s classmates were a delight to work with as they shared their hearts and talents with all. Last Friday was one of those moments that need to be frozen in time. We were in another place, joining, reflecting and celebrating together.

Your presence on Friday brought a focus, warmth and compassion to us. Bittersweet experiences make us examine our feelings and values. Some images will always be with me from that day.

A playful breeze never knowing what it will do especially with balloons and streamers.

The sunshine filtering through the trees.

The rise and fall of music and movement.

The stillness of 400 children as they quietly and respectfully approached.

The sound of a single balloon bursting as many of our hearts were too.

The outstretched arms of Cali as she ran to loving arms, a safe haven.

The silhouette of two friends on Caedan’s bench as they reminisced about their friend.

The flowing material and streamers symbolizing the movement of life and the spirit of a young person who had to leave us too soon.

Though I did not have the privilege of working closely with Caedan at Byron Southwood, I often heard colleagues and families comment about Caedan’s spirit and love of life. I will be thinking of you all especially during this weekend. May family, friends and the Byron Community support you as you continue to live with the memory of Caedan. May the remembrance of these days help you to know how loved he was.


Sincerely,

Donna Schulz


Donna Schulz
London, Ont. Canada - Wednesday, September 17, 2003 9:58 PM CDT
Hi Mar,
I'm so glad to hear that the Run went well.
I so wanted to be there...Darn those family commitments...I was with you in spirit though.
I can't wait to get my cap.

Lori <thewightmans@aol.com>
Amherstburg, on Canada - Wednesday, September 17, 2003 2:51 PM CDT
Hi Maryla: Hope your first day back was not too stressful!! How was Sunday? Not too hard on the body?
Valerie
Ottawa, - Tuesday, September 16, 2003 4:47 PM CDT
Hoping your return to work went smoothly! I can't imagine how tough it would be going back after being away so long!! You'll probably be ready to drop tonight - that will get better eventually I hope!
Tracy M. <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Tuesday, September 16, 2003 9:42 AM CDT
Maryla my heart goes out to you and your wonderful family. I only met Caedan once but his personality stayed with me to this day. When I read the article on the weekend it brought your suffering and perserverance to light in a very touching manner which made me grateful for what I have and I vowed to never take anything for granted again. God bless you and yours.
Donna Hammond <donna.hammond@lhsc.on.ca>
London , On Canada - Tuesday, September 16, 2003 9:20 AM CDT
Caedan would be so proud of his Mom for her strength and perseverance. I didn't get the Toronto Star on the 6th, remembered too late, but went into the internet and read the article. It should serve as a great inspiration to all. When we are healthy we take all too much for granted! Good luck on your return to work. I'm sure Caedan is smiling a big ear-to-ear smile for you. And congratulations on your participation in the Terry Fox run/walk for cancer!
Mary Lou <mlt.csi@hay.net>
Exeter, ON Canada - Tuesday, September 16, 2003 8:34 AM CDT
Wanted you to know that you are never far from my thoughts and prayers. I have never forgotten you and never will. Blessings and lots of love.
Khalita My Caringbridge Site Duke Peds BMT Aplastic Anemia <khalita@hecaresonline.org>
Lexington, NC - Monday, September 15, 2003 3:37 PM CDT
Thank you so much for sharing such an imtimate time in your life. I have no doubt it will help others.
Wendy Vlasic
- Monday, September 15, 2003 1:50 PM CDT
I was sent your webpage by a group of women in an MSN chat room. It took me over three hours to read your journal. I have two beautiful children of my own and your journal opened my eyes and made me realize how precious time is and how little of we have to share with our loved ones. I made a vow to myself and my children to be there more. To spend more time just watching the clouds float by with them. To giggle more at the funny things we see every day. Thank you for sharing your story as hard as it must have been. You are an insipration to mothers everywhere. God Bless.
Heather <nightwhispers76@hotmail.com>
Allentown, PA USA - Monday, September 15, 2003 10:07 AM CDT
Maryla, I hope all goes well with your transition back to work. And I hope Caedan sees how much of an impact he had on so many people.
Chris ~ Gooch's Site ~
- Monday, September 15, 2003 7:58 AM CDT
Maryla,

I'm so happy that you & Scott & Cali managed to get to Caedans ceremony (You are all so much stronger than you know). I was with you in spirit. Much love....

Jane <jcornett@rcn.com>
Chicago,, IL - Sunday, September 14, 2003 10:08 PM CDT
Hello Maryla, Scott, and Cali

I just wanted you to know that the stone you picked for Caedan is beautiful.I didn't realize how close Sarah Burrows and little Christopher Delany were to Danielle and Caedan. I'm sure they are all in heaven playing together and thinking of us all. The bench dedication service was really nice. You have so much support! Keep smiling!
All the best,
Lois

Lois Grimes <childcan@lon.imag.net>
London, - Saturday, September 13, 2003 9:07 PM CDT
{{{{{{{{{{{Maryla and family}}}}}}}}}}} Thinking of all of you!!

Jan -- mom to Colin going through treatment for relapse ALL <jan866@aol.com>
Glendale, WI - Saturday, September 13, 2003 1:17 PM CDT
hope caeden can see how honered he is today
janelle
london, ont canada - Saturday, September 13, 2003 9:24 AM CDT
John took some time out of work and we went for a walk this morning in the bright sunshine and talked about Caedan as we strolled around the neighbourhood. Thought about you folks at the school today and all the people remembering and honouring Caedan and when we came home we lit a candle beside his picture on our little "altar".
We're sending you our love.


Christie, John and Noah
- Friday, September 12, 2003 6:52 PM CDT
Hi Maryla
The dedication at the school was awesome. Lisa & I went to see the head stone, It is absolutely beautiful. The sunflowers are perfect.
Thinking of you
Luv Jennifer XOXO

Jennifer Thompson <jthompson@lon.imag.net>
St Thomas, ON Canada - Friday, September 12, 2003 5:16 PM CDT
Maryla, You have inspired us to follow in your footsteps....literally. The other day when I was making the on-line pledge to you for the Terry Fox Run, Alexander came into the office and asked me what I was doing. I explained about your involvement on Sunday and of course explained who Terry Fox was and how his legacy lives on because he inspired thousands upon thousands of people to never give up. Well Maryla, Alexander asked me if only adults and big people could do this. I said, no I don't think so, anyone can be involved. He said, "Then I want to do it, I want to do it for Caedan and Auntie Sherri". That was Monday Maryla. I had no idea what was involved in participating in the event. With the help of the internet I learned pretty darn fast and we printed out our pledge sheets and hit the street the very next evening which was Tuesday. I am proud to report that as of this moment....Friday evening we have collected $500.00 in pledges. We will be walking in memory of your prescious son and my sister and Alexander's Aunt Sherri-Lee both of whom lost their viscious battles with the Beast. Tonight we are lighting a candle and saying a special prayer to Caedan in heaven. On sunday we will walk together in honour of the two of them who were taken from us way too soon. You and Caedan continue to inspire us. We will be thinking of you Sunday.

Tami Watchurst, mom to Alexander 10 yrs (High Risk Leukemia: in remission)
& Max 7 yrs (Master of the Mario Brother's World & Alexander's best friend)
Daughter to Mary (dx 98-07-08-Stage IV Stomach Cancer: currently in remission)
Sister to Sherri-Lee (dx 99-12-24 Stage IV Burkitt's Lymphoma-earned her
wings on 2000-03-07 always missed + forever loved)
& Wife to Jonathan (my constant port in the storm for 16 years)

Tami Watchurst: mom to Alexander 10 yrs of age: A.L.L. o/t: 1998 <leapco@auracom.com>
Orangeville, Ontario Canada - Friday, September 12, 2003 5:09 PM CDT
Will be thinking of you and your feet and your body on Sunday. Best of luck and an early "congratulations" for completing.
Valerie
Ottawa, - Friday, September 12, 2003 4:00 PM CDT
Hi Maryla. Thinking of you today, and remebering Caedan and his amzing sense of humour, his strength and determination. Sending hugs your way.
Kaeleigh and Liz Barney <kaeleighbarney@yahoo.ca>
Woodstock, Ontario Canada - Friday, September 12, 2003 2:08 PM CDT
Dan and I add our love and support to the pile you already have accumulated. We hope you find strength in your outing to Caedan's school today. Love you.
Jenn and Dan
Vancouver, BC - Friday, September 12, 2003 12:19 AM CDT
Remembering a bright smile, a great sense of humor, and a brave warrior, with a smile in my eye and a tear in my heart. I hope today's events bring you some sense of peace.
Tracy M. <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Friday, September 12, 2003 9:59 AM CDT
{{{{{Gallagher Family}}}}}
Thinking of you all, and especially sweet Caedan, this morning. You are always in my thoughts and prayers. Wishing you peace and much love ~
Stacey and family

The Wada Family <SLW6204@aol.com>
Las Vegas, NV USA - Friday, September 12, 2003 9:49 AM CDT
Hi Maryla, We are thinking about you, as I'm sure many, many people are today, and also wanted to wish you luck on Sunday, Caeden will carry you through it.
Lisa, Phil, Chelsea, Stephanie, Samantha and Kristen

Lisa
- Friday, September 12, 2003 9:16 AM CDT
Hi Maryla,
I just wanted to know that we are all thinking of you today and to let you know how amazing you are!
Lots of love from Stephanie, Kelly, Jacob, Jordan and Kate

Stephanie Paterson <stephanie@robertq.com>
London, ON Canada - Friday, September 12, 2003 9:02 AM CDT
Maryla, Scott and Cali

Just to let you know that we are thinking of you all today. I hope all of the festivities celebrating Caedan bring you some peace and comfort.

Mar, we'll be thinking of you too as you battle your way through the Terry Fox run. Just remember that little train "I think I can...I think I can...."

Can't wait for an update to hear how everything went!

Shannon, Derek and Miya <staylor@wecas.on.ca>
- Friday, September 12, 2003 7:12 AM CDT
Maryla, Scott and Cali,

XOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXO

Sharon Simpson <john.simpson6@sympatico.ca>
Windsor, Ontario - Friday, September 12, 2003 6:52 AM CDT
~DEAR CHILD IN HEAVEN~
~AUTHOR UNKNOWN~

You were a blessing to us all
you were a special child.
And we're so glad God sent you
to be with us awhile.

You filled our home with happiness
and made our life complete.
The time we had with you
was far too short, but oh so sweet.

Some things we don't find easy
to accept or understand.
Until we realize they're part of
our Creator's perfect plan.

Now it comforts us to know
you're with the angels up above.
While in our hearts we hold you close
Surrounded by our love.

Mom of an Angel
- Friday, September 12, 2003 4:38 AM CDT
Dear Maryla, Scott and Cali

You are constantly in my thoughts and especially today.
I keep a close eye on your website and how you are all doing.
I hope that the knowledge that so many people
are thinking of you and holding you close in
our thoughts will help to get through today.

With fond memories,

Cathie Crawford
Belmont, - Thursday, September 11, 2003 10:43 PM CDT
Way to go!


Amy
- Thursday, September 11, 2003 5:51 PM CDT
Hi Maryla,
You and Scott are in my thoughts and I wish that I could be at the dedication with you on Friday. You also know that Cali will be in good hands when you go back to work, just like Caedan was...So get that credit card out and take Cali and let her help you pick out some pretty princess dresses with matching hats. Love Kate.

Kate Lupson <slupson@rogers.com>
london, Ont. - Thursday, September 11, 2003 5:43 PM CDT
Actually, Mar, your total is $1020.00 - at least it was last time I checked.
I don't think people are gonna stop just because you reached that $1000.00 goal.
Way to go!!
Love you,

Lori <thewightmans@aol.com>
- Wednesday, September 10, 2003 3:49 PM CDT
You reached the $1000.00 mark???? Way to go Mar! What a tribute to Caedan to know that people are still thinking of him (and you all) a year later. Congrats!!
Tracy M. <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor , ON Canada - Wednesday, September 10, 2003 12:21 AM CDT
You reached the $1000.00 mark???? Way to go Mar! What a tribute to Caedan to know that people are still thinking of him (and you all) a year later. Congrats!!
Tracy M. <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor , ON Canada - Wednesday, September 10, 2003 12:21 AM CDT
Maryla,
You've reached your $1000 goal....more to come I'm sure! As usual, you will exceed your own expectations! This is a tough month for both of us, so here is what I've decided to focus on....In the blur that must have been your week one year ago, I told you that my Dad said he'd keep an eye out for Caedan in Heaven. Dad died Sept. 21. He had a wonderful sense of humour, and a great love for kids. So - I envision him with Caedan, plotting another practical joke, laughing and playing fetch with Pepper, my niece's Dalmation. And both are pain free. Thinking of you always.
with love
Nancy

Nancy Lawrence <seebs@sympatico.ca>
St. Thomas, On Canada - Tuesday, September 9, 2003 7:50 AM CDT
Hi Mar,

I returned back to work after some time off to find your most recent post and the Toronto Star article on my desk! It was beautiful. And you are amazing! Everyone remembers Caedan and many from my work donated to Caedan's Wish. Just wanted to let you know how many people still have you and Scott and Cali and especially Caedan in their hearts. Hoping all the words of support will help you through what we know will be a tough week for you.

P.S. I'm still watching the posts....just amazed that you have had 97,671 hits! And that doesn't even come close to the number of times you are thought about in our hearts!

P.S.S. Good luck on the run!!

Take good care my friend. I'll be thinking of you and Scott and Cali and praying that September 12th will bring happy memories of your beloved angel and make you smile. Love and Hugs

Sandy Bolton <jandsbolton@aol.com>
Amherstburg, ON Canada - Tuesday, September 9, 2003 7:36 AM CDT
I was amazed at how you can cope. you will never have to fear you will always be in my heart and prayers. september 12 is it not amazing that that is my birthday?
your friend, Terri

Terri Kwok (grade 6) <terbeary@hotmail.com>
- Monday, September 8, 2003 7:31 PM CDT
Maryla, The article is incredible. I am so proud of you. You have made people realize in spite of the progress made in the treatment of Childhood Cancer that not all of the stories end with celebration. Children still suffer and some die from the ravages of the disease that we call the Beast. Reading the article and especially reading the journal posts brought back incredible memories of our journey through cyber-space with you and Caedan and your family. You have reached out to even more families in need by sharing your journey with them in this article. Because of your willingness to open up your heart and share intensely personal experiences, you have shown other parents that there are supportive sources which they may never have otherwise known. You continue to give by allowing more people to learn about Caedan and about your journey.

Maryla, I am as always so amazed at your spirit. I have read of your participation in the Terry Fox Walk and I have joined your other friends and family in pledging you on-line. Aw, the wonders of cyber-space again eh my friend? I am with you as always in prayer and thought. Alexander's annniversary of diagnosis was Sept. 5th. I looked at him so many times that day and realized how fortunate we are and how much my heart holds out to you from one mother to another. Leukemia Road is a journey that no one wants to take, thank God for the people we meet along the way who support us, love us and feed our souls.

We will be thinking of Caedan and looking at his pictures that you have sent on the net on September 12th. We will light a candle and tell him that we will see him again someday. Alexander says this when we pray at night before bedtime and ask for healing for you and Scott.

I still believe Love is the Best Medicine of all Maryla.

Love, Tami, Jonathan, Alexander & Max xxxx oooo

Tami Watchurst: mom to Alexander 10 yrs of age: A.L.L. o/t: 1998 <leapco@auracom.com>
Orangeville, o Canada - Monday, September 8, 2003 6:04 PM CDT
Yet again Maryla you amaze me! The article was so you - honest, sincere, caring, the list goes on... I've never doubted where Caedan got his strength and determination - it's simple, it's you!

Take care this week, all of you - it will be a tough one. But remember what I said the other day. It will be a beautiful day September 12, 2003 - whether sunshine or rain - Caedan will be smiling down with a huge smile.

p.s. sent my cheque for the hats. thanks again.

Kristyn Darling
Mt. Carmel, On Canada - Monday, September 8, 2003 12:22 AM CDT
Maryla,
I know all of us grieving parents "deal with it" in our own way, but I truly admire you for being able to share your ordeal, your life, your raw emotions with the entire world. Reading the Star article took me back to all those times in the hospital together and how, no matter how sick the boys were, they were always handling everything much better than us.
This is going to be a tough week of firsts for both of us and please know that you are all in our thoughts and prayers as well.
Lots of love,
Sharon (Mom to Cody Sept 10/93 - May 24/03)

Sharon Simpson <john.simpson6@sympatico.ca>
Windsor, - Monday, September 8, 2003 7:23 AM CDT
Marina - I do not know what to say to any parent that has lost their child. I know half of the feeling as I just lost my 4 year old nephew on august 11/03 suddenly after his 10 month battle against Osteosarcoma bone cancer. It is the hardiest thing to cope with and remember that your family will always be in my prayers. My nephew also has a website in his name from a bowl a thon that was held for him, the address is www.helpdeen.com
Just remember always that your son is an angel and he is protecting you and your family. All my love and please take care.

Marina Mohideen <mmohid1980@hotmail.com>
Scarborough, ont canada - Sunday, September 7, 2003 8:24 PM CDT
Were you thinking that you would find so many new friends when that article appeared?? I just printed a copy from the web, since we didn't know to look for the Toronto Star on Saturday until today, and I went to 6 stores this morning looking for a copy, with no luck! Hope mom or Shannon have better luck!
Your story has always amazed me, saddened me, uplifted me, and changed me....reading it in the paper brings that all back, and more. I know this will be a terrible week for you, but know you are thought of every step on the way, every day. Take care of each other!

Tracy <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Sunday, September 7, 2003 12:54 AM CDT
To The Gallagher's:
Your story touches my heart in ways only people who have felt the effects Cancer can have on a family. Reading your journal made me cry. It is as if I had written it my self, as I watch my Dad fight AML.
Your son was a beautiful couragous boy, as are you all for facing all you have.
My sincerest and most heart filled wishes of comfort go to you all at this very difficult time in your lives.

Mark Fitzsimons
Kitchener, Canada - Sunday, September 7, 2003 0:10 AM CDT
I'm keeping you in my thoughts and prayers as you remember your precious son Caedan on his first angel day anniversary. I hope this day brings you peace in your happy memories of Caedan and the love he brought into your lives. As bereaved parents, we draw on our children's strength and determination to get through our days without them. Their bravery gives us strength to tell their stories and let people know that children are still losing their battles against this horrible disease. Thank you for sharing Caedan story and his brave battle with us.

Hugs, Lisa,
Mommy of Angel Shad,
June 16, 1995-Sept 5, 2000
www.geocities.com/shadmckell
Shad lost his battle with medulloblastoma brain tumour at the tender age of five.

Lisa McKell <lmckell@sympatico.ca>
Toronto, On Canada - Saturday, September 6, 2003 9:35 PM CDT
Such a beautiful way to educate us about the personal side of the dreaded disease. I have cried for many cancer survivors & those who have passed on to a a better world. Yes, I did cry & I would not hide it for all of the glory in the world. Please keep strong, your son is so proud!
Allison Greer <rngreer@cogeco.ca>
Burlington, ON Canada - Saturday, September 6, 2003 8:30 PM CDT
Caedan's eyes are beautiful. Eyes are the windows of the soul, and proof enough for me that the soul exists and transcends the physical realm. Thank you for your family's story; you have given me inspiration and good energy. I wish you all the best.
Leah Hendriks <zwibble@sympatico.ca>
Montréal, Canada - Saturday, September 6, 2003 6:41 PM CDT
To The Gallagher's:
I wanted to drop you a note and tell you that the story in the Star broke my heart.I sobbed through most of it.
God bless you for sharing your story with us- it is truly an inspiration to others.
When I feel I have the weight of the world on my shoulders, I have vowed to come onto your web-site and realize how blessed I am, and to say a little prayer for your family.
When I try to communicate with a relative who is drug addicted just how fortunate they are to be alive and healthy (so far) I am going to let them read Caedan's story and maybe that will make them see that they only get one chance here on Planet Earth, and it may make them thankful to be alive.I thank you again for your generous hearts and may God bless you with peace and joy!!!!

Cherie Perks <c.perks@sympatico.ca>
Ayton, ON Canada - Saturday, September 6, 2003 5:05 PM CDT
Thank you for sharing your story.. Even though it will soon be five years since we lost our son Mathew to a Bike accident, stories such as your just bring back too many memories. It does get easier and eventually the roller coaster of sadness gives way to happiness again... but there will always be a place in our home and our hearts for him... Its stories like yours that allow us to remember

I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers

Thank you for sharing

Kathy
Barrie, - Saturday, September 6, 2003 3:03 PM CDT
I really don't know what to say after reading something like this, except that my prayers are with you and your family. God bless you all.
Adrienne
Toronto, On - Saturday, September 6, 2003 1:24 PM CDT
Hello Maryla, Scott 7 Cali,
We just read the story from the Star. Very moving.
We have ordered our hats and continue to warm up for the big run next weekend.
Hugs to everyone
The Cordiners

Kelly
London, - Saturday, September 6, 2003 12:38 AM CDT
No words to describe how your T.O. Star article effected me. Just tears. I hope it inspires others to run for cancer, sign up for the bone marrow registry, and do what ever they can to stop cancer and the pain it causes everyone. My thoughts are with you.
Lisa <Lisa.B@rogers.com>
Ajax, - Saturday, September 6, 2003 12:35 AM CDT
Maryla, I too saw the article in todays Star. Your words pulse through my veins - I hold you close. It is so great that you were and are able to journal...it really is a healing tool. I am an arts therapist and work at Toronto's Ronald McDonald House. I launched a website that is both for children receiving care, their siblings and for parents to journal, write poems, create pictures, and create Angel Catchers and Heartlinks. I hope you take a peek at it and maybe you have something you would like to post on my site! :-)
Miles of Smiles - Cher
cher@bigheartstudio.com

cher curshen <www.bigheartstudio.com >
toronto, on canada - Saturday, September 6, 2003 12:30 AM CDT
The article in the Star has me in tears... Thanks for the salmon last week and the tickle-me-toes by Cali under the table - I missed you guys.
Alex Martiniuk <alexmartiniuk2@hotmail.com>
London, ON - Saturday, September 6, 2003 10:43 AM CDT
Hi Maryla,
I saw the article today in the Star and a flood of emotion took over as I read your story . This was my life 5 years ago when I lost my daughter Kristina on October 14 to A.L.L.at age 10. She too had the relapse and BMT throughout our 4 year ordeal.
Everyone should know that our kids are the most special because they have shown us stregnth that can't be described. You are in my thoughts as Sept.12 approaches and please know that I truly understand.

maryann hyde <hydemaryann@hotmail.com>
woodbridge, ont canada - Saturday, September 6, 2003 8:35 AM CDT
Maryla -- I think of you often. I know this is an extremely difficult time for you right now. How wonderful that the school is dedicating a bench by the school play area for Caedan. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

http://caringbridge.org/wi/colin/

Jan -- mom to Colin <jan866@aol.com>
Glendale, WI - Saturday, September 6, 2003 8:16 AM CDT
I have just read your article in the T.O. Star and just when I thought MY troubles were bigger than anyone has had to try to overcome, I find myself sitting back and rethinking...thankyou for sharing your son, his life, and your wisdom!

Sharyn Saunders <sharynsaunders@yahoo.com>
Oakville, Ontario Canada - Saturday, September 6, 2003 5:46 AM CDT
I was deeply moved when I read about Caedan, and wanted to let you know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. Reading your journal has inspired me to run in the Terry Fox run this year, in Kabul Afghanistan, with the Canadian Contingent to ISAF
MCpl Russell D Storring <storring.rd@forces.gc.ca>
Kabul , Afghanistan - Saturday, September 6, 2003 4:38 AM CDT
Ordered my hat from Susan Robinson, and sponsored her and Josh for the Terry Fox event. I'm hoping my fiance and I can be there to "cheer" on everyone we know.
Amy
P.S. Blood donation in Byron Tuesday....Yeah!!!!

Amy
- Friday, September 5, 2003 6:14 PM CDT
Hi Maryla-
Dropping by to say hi and that I'm thinking of you. Wish I could run with you guys.

Karen Banister <www.caringbridge.org/ca/bryanbanister>
San DIego, CA USA - Thursday, September 4, 2003 12:03 AM CDT
*Hey there! I am just sending a brief message today. The bench at my school, Byron Southwood looks beautiful! Tomarrow is Thursday and there is an assembly, I am doing a speech on Terry Fox infront of the whole school!Wanting to let you know, Byron Southwood is always thinking of you!
love sent from the whole school! :)

*Paige Rudland <cottoncandee2@hotmail.com>
London , ON *canada* :o) - Wednesday, September 3, 2003 5:23 PM CDT
This is my first time here. I was reading your entries over the past year. I don't know what to say to parents that has lost a child. I so sorry. I don't want to say the wrong thing. When you haven't walked in someone elses shoes you don't know what to say. I just want you to know I will be thinking about you and your family and will be praying for you in the next couple of weeks. I truely am so, so sorry for your loss. I wish I could put into words how sorry I am. I can not find the words, I feel there are no words.. ))HUGS((
Kasey Gunde <kasey.gunde@delta.com>
Mount Holly, NC US - Wednesday, September 3, 2003 1:21 AM CDT
It is an impossible time of year. There are no words, just that we love you and are thinking of you always. Thinking always of Caedan, too, remembering him and holding him in our hearts.
Looking forward to wearing those hats.
Love you guys.

Noah and co.
- Tuesday, September 2, 2003 9:44 PM CDT
Maryla,
Just checking in to let you know I'm still praying for you. I wish I could give you a big ((((hug)))) in person.
God bless,

Lisa Agee <www.caringbridge.com/page/ross>
Camden, AL - Tuesday, September 2, 2003 9:30 PM CDT
Hi Maryla,Scott and Cali: Wish I could help you get through this day! (and all the rest)! Dylan talked about Caedan and school a few times this morning - and just now at lunch too. He is missed by all his friends. Josh R and Dylan are back finally together again in the same. Hopefully knowing we are thinking about you (and sending happy thoughts!) helps you through your day! Your Pals,Love, Beth, Pat Dylan and Dawson
Beth Sutherland <bethcesutherland@sympatico.ca>
London, On Canada - Tuesday, September 2, 2003 11:46 AM CDT
Mar,
I don't know how you are supposed to go on...I don't know how you've come as far as you have.
I think, however, that you do the best you can and you lean on those who love you. There are so many people, that both you and Caedan touched, that would stop anything to be of help and comfort to you. Lean on us, and know that we love you.
Sending hugs to you,

Lori <thewightmans@aol.com>
- Tuesday, September 2, 2003 7:58 AM CDT
Checklist for September:

1. Make my pledge (check)
2. Get some cool hats (check)
3. Watch for photo updates of Caedan's bench
4. Watch for photo updates of you "running"!!
5. Give blood (check)
6. Think of you everyday (check)


Love, Jane <jcornett@rcn.com>
Chicago, Il - Friday, August 29, 2003 9:28 PM CDT
I think its awesome that Caedans school does that in his honor. Will be getting a cap soon! Maryla, hugs sweetie. I give you credit for just getting up and trudging on.
Chris ~ Gooch's Site ~
- Thursday, August 28, 2003 9:01 AM CDT
Mar, Scott and (Curly hair) Cali,

So glad to hear that Caedan's life will be celebrated at his school. A little sunshine on such a day will surely help. Thinking of you all, wishing there was more to do...


Shannon and Miya
- Thursday, August 28, 2003 8:28 AM CDT
Hi Maryla,
Marilyn and I are still training hard(most of the time) for the Terry Fox Run. We have been working towards the run since last January. We will run proudly in Caedan's honor. I look forward to wearing the hat.
Hugs Kelly

K.Cordiner <kbcor@sympatico.ca>
London, - Tuesday, August 26, 2003 2:37 PM CDT
Hi Maryla. Just wanted to say hi, and that I was thinking about you. That's great that you are going to participate in the Terry Fox Run. I bet Caedan would be very proud. I'll be thinking of you, and remembering Caedan alway's. P.S. Say hi to Cali Beth for me.
Kaeleigh Barney <kaeleighbarney@yahoo.ca>
Woodstock, Ontario Canada - Tuesday, August 26, 2003 1:31 PM CDT
Hi Maryla, Scott and Cali, we just got back from a weeks vacation and got caught up on your site. The hats are a great idea and we'll be out there too! Dylan is very excited about the run and is telling all of his out-of-town relative etc, to be ready to pledge! It seems to have been a long year (we lost 5 friends to the monster this year) - and I'm looking forward to a "new year". For me, it starts in September,with school - forever a kid at heart. Patty Wagon still grounded?? Love to catch up in person. Just let me know! Thinking of you all the time! Beth, Pat, Dylan and Dawson!
Beth Sutherland <bethcesutherland@sympatico.ca>
London, on Canada - Monday, August 25, 2003 8:49 AM CDT
Hello Maryla, Scott and Cali~
Sorry it's been so long since I have signed in, saying I have been busy is no excuse. I do check in to see how you are all doing,and I have to say Caedan would be very proud. I have made my pledge to you for the Terry Fox Run/Walk, and I hope to be able to order a hat from you as well. Supporting cancer research is very important to me because of my mom and because of the kids I work with each and every day. I wish you the best in your fundraising efforts, and please let us know how we can order hats, afterall I need one here in California and my family members can always use a new and very special hat. Take care, and I will check in again soon. Oh, and I love the new pictures posted, they are awesome.

Jennifer Brinklow <jennbrinklow@aol.com>
Huntington Beach, CA USA - Saturday, August 23, 2003 7:44 PM CDT
To my dear friends Maryla, Scott and Cali;
First of all, it's a good thing to see all of your entries. Second of all, it's never the time that heals, it's what you do with your time. You sound like you are doing everything possible to keep Caedan alive in yourselves and that is wonderful. Last summer at our visit to Ottawa, it was the Terry Fox statue that the boys asked the most about and I told them that we would find the video for them to watch. Good luck with the run and I want to order the hats. love and kisses, always thinking about you

Sharon Butler <but7@rogers.com>
Stratford, Ont Canada - Saturday, August 23, 2003 8:09 AM CDT
Wow - hats and blood drives and runs and donations....you sure got busy all the sudden!! What a simply perfect idea for a fundraiser - got the happy/sad teary eyed thing going on here now...for a whole bunch of reasons. Can't wait to see the hats. Good luck in the Run/Walk/Child Labour (Cali pulling you in her wagon) thing!! Will be hitting the link to pledge shortly.
Tracy M. <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor , ON Canada - Friday, August 22, 2003 4:48 PM CDT
Hi Mar!

So glad to hear the excitement in your voice! I LOVE the idea of "Caedan's Friends" hat. And what a perfect connection with the Caedan's Wish star.
Those on line pledges are so convenient - receipt and all! Can't wait for my hat.
Cali's photo is just gorgeous. You have your dad's knack for taking such beautifully natural photos. I still remember the one of you looking over your shoulder with Jasper walking down the road. Uh oh. There's that memory again!
I know the sun is shining in London today!

Sandy Bolton <jandsbolton@aol.com>
Amherstburg, ON Canada - Thursday, August 21, 2003 11:34 AM CDT
Can't wait to order a hat. I'm calling Liz right now!
And Terry Fox, yes, what a guy! I have practically all the London Free Press newspaper clippings from his journey across Canada in the 80's. He's been an inspiration to me since the day he started that journey. We donate every year to his run. This year I may try a walk/jog thing and participate????
Glad to hear happiness and excitement in your voice. Take care and we'll talk to you soon.

Kristyn <kristynd@ettravel.com>
Mt. Carmel, On - Thursday, August 21, 2003 9:15 AM CDT
Hi Maryla and Scott, love the pictures, Cali is so adorable. Just wanted you to know we are thinking about you, can't believe a year has almost past. Take care
Lisa Baxter
St. Thomas, - Thursday, August 21, 2003 8:43 AM CDT
Hello Maryla, Scott and Calli,

I have been volunteering at the local blood drives for about a year now and we just had one (sort of!!) last Thursday - yep, the day the province went black. I was actually on the table almost finished my donation when we lost all power. The nurses were able to finish me off by using a scale to weight the bag of blood - these are some serious vampires!! It was too bad the clinic did not happen as we actually had a record-high 96 appointments scheduled and we usually get a lot of walk-in trafffic as well. Oh well, we'll just have to make it up in October.

Maryla, I was very excited to read about Caedan's school's participation in the Terry Fox Run. Cody's school has been so wonderful throughout our whole journey. I will talk to the principal to see if they may be interested in doing something for the occasion as well. If they cannot, I will certainly plug your on-line pledge sheet to everyone I know.

Things are very different this summer - Trevor has been so busy that we've only seen him for a total of about two weeks since the end of school. He is currently at Camp Trillium. He was very excited to go, but I don't think he realized how hard it may be for him to be there without Cody. I know it's hard for us to think about that.

Love the new pictures, keep up the good work with that scanner!
Love and prayers to you all,
John, Sharon and Trevor

Sharon Simpson <john.simpson6@sympatico.ca>
windsor, - Thursday, August 21, 2003 8:40 AM CDT
Yup, it's time again! Funny you should mention it, when I've got my blood donor appointment today. I'm even wearing my red shirt in honor of the day.
Daniel Friesen
Vancouver, BC - Wednesday, August 20, 2003 11:09 AM CDT
Hey all just a reminder to donate blood again. It should almost be 56 days since the last reminder to donate. I will be at the Byron Firehall on September 9th to donate *hopefully if Iron is good*.

Amy
- Tuesday, August 19, 2003 6:57 PM CDT
(((Maryla)))),
Once again, thank you for so eloquently expressing yourself to us. I think the realistic thing to hope for is that as time goes by more good memories replace the bad ones. Hang in there - you're doing great.
God bless,

Lisa Agee (mom to Ross dx ALL 10-4-00) <www.caringbridge.com/page/ross>
Camden, AL - Tuesday, August 19, 2003 6:18 PM CDT
We think of you all the time. Its so very true memories bring happiness and sadness and tears but the important thing to remember is how lucky you are, to have memories that remind you of such a terrific kid!!
You'll get through these sad days ahead I know it.

Kristyn
Mt. Carmel, Ontario - Tuesday, August 19, 2003 1:05 PM CDT
I'm sure a lot of people are thinking about last year at this time. I feel the inadequacy of not being able to think of anything to say that could possibly bring you and Scott even the smallest amount of comfort. I don't think I'm alone in this feeling. I can only continue to give you what I've got - my love and friendship, my prayers for some comfort, and a bucketful of hugs and kisses - and hope that you both can stagger through this next month somehow.
xoxoxoxoxoxxoxoxooxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo

Jenn and Dan Friesen
Vancouver, BC - Monday, August 18, 2003 9:01 AM CDT
Theres nothing to be said to lessen your pain
if there is, it hasnt dawned on me yet
Hugs,

Chris ~ Gooch's Site ~
- Monday, August 18, 2003 8:31 AM CDT
Mar,
Sending hugs to you and Scott and Cali...I wish there were more I could do...
Love you,

Lori <thewightmans@aol.com>
Amherstburg, Canada - Monday, August 18, 2003 7:49 AM CDT
Hi Maryla,

I'm sure you're stuck in the black-out, as I got a message from Lori and she's in the black-out too. Hope you guys are doing ok... I think of you guys often. Hang in there and give Cali a big hug from her friends in San Diego!

Karen Banister <www.caringbridge.org/ca/bryanbanister>
SD, CA USA - Saturday, August 16, 2003 10:26 PM CDT
Hey Maryla, Just checkin' in to say hi & let you know I'm thinking of you.
Love, Jane <jcornett@rcn.com>
Chicago, - Saturday, August 16, 2003 9:37 AM CDT
Hi all,

Just letting you know we are thinking of you. Did the power outages hit your area?

Aili and Bryan <http://www.caringbridge.org/canada/bryankinney>
Vancouver, BC Canada - Friday, August 15, 2003 11:34 AM CDT
Touch Of An Angel



I felt an angel's touch today,
in the midst of my despair.
Twas sent by God, Himself, to say,
"be still and know I'm there."

To lead through days of darkness,
and light your way with love.
Be still and know, deep in your heart,
I'm reigning from above.

I'll lift you when you stumble,
I'm with you all the time.
I understand and share your pain;
remember child of mine,

The end is coming quickly;
the Lord shall soon appear.
To resurrect the righteous ones,
I love and hold so dear.

And bring them home, into a place,
where broken hearts are healed.
And promises I made to you,
will finally be fulfilled.

This life is but a spot in time,
a place for lessons learned.
Heaven holds the key to all,
your broken spirit yearns.

I sent an angel down today,
to show my words are true.
You're never far, beyond the arms,
of all God's love for you.

All material copyright @Judy Van Meter

You are in my heart and prayers. If you ever need someone to talk to or lean on, please email me. May God draw near and give you strength and hope and allow you to feel the touch of your angel.
Love and hugs
Judy
http://www.catchanangel.com

Judy <tnderheart@yahoo.com>
- Friday, August 15, 2003 6:41 AM CDT
Was sitting here at work and realized how long it's been since I've checked up on you...hope you are all enjoying summer. Tough time of year for you, and us, I know, so I hope you've found a way to make it a little easier.
I was looking through some pictures on my dad's computer the other day and found a really cute one of Cali and Miya in the sandbox. If you haven't seen it, let me know and I'll have him email it to you.

Tracy M. <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Thursday, August 7, 2003 1:56 PM CDT
Hi Mar,
Just thought I'd stop by and say hi and let you know I was thinking of you.
xoxo

Lori <thewightmans@aol.com>
- Tuesday, August 5, 2003 10:05 PM CDT
Just letting you know that there are others out here who know your pain and emptiness and hope that peace and serenity has found its way to you. Sending our love from high above - ANGEL COLBY JAMES COLE AND CREW.
jack - colby's daddy forever and ever
www.caringbridge.org/pa/colby, UNIONTOWN PA - Tuesday, August 5, 2003 9:44 PM CDT
Maryla, you said in your last post that we should count our blessings. That is exactly what I have been doing and will continue to do. I think of you all of the time. I don't post to this web-page because I feel a sense of guilt (being totally honest here Maryla). I am so aware of how lucky I am because my son survives.

I read the posts and something inside stops me from typing. I am uncomfortable about adding to your pain (as if that were possible). Who am I to pretend that I can understand your loss? When you were in the midst of the battle I felt like I could offer my support albeit through cyber space. Since Caedan has physically left us I feel that now I am a reminder of what "should" have been. Caedan and Alexander should both be 10 years old.....should both be going to Camp Trillium just like we had hoped for last summer. I look at Alexander and I know that I have truly won the lottery. Winning is wonderful, but knowing that other people do not share in your bounty makes you feel guilt and pain for their ongoing pain. I hope that I am making sense.

Your family is in a place that I have not been, thus far. I remember so well being with you and Caedan in his room in the hospital and looking at his beautiful artwork. I remember walking out of his hospital room and getting in the elevator and shaking from head to toe....feeling your fear and wishing, hoping and praying for that miracle to happen. It doesn't seem like very long ago at all to me. Maryla, I know that you have wonderful lifelong friendships with dear friends that I had the priviledge to meet at Caedan's celebration of Life. I am thankful that you have those people in your life. I know that they count their blessings as well, looking at their own children. I don't think however, they can understand why I feel the survivor guilt so strongly. They have not faced the Beast with their own child, and I don't think that they can ever understand that those of us who have share a deep understanding of the battle scars and the pain. Caedan continues to be in my thoughts. When we say our prayers at night with my boys, we tell him that we will see him again. I believe that, they believe that too. We are leaving today for Camp Trillium at Rainbow Lake. You and your family and your prescious son will be in my thoughts as we spend the week with families who are just starting their journey, those who have made it through to the end of treatment and those like yourself, whose child did not survive. You will be in my thoughts and prayers for healing, particularly when we sing the "Goodnight song" at campfire.

Love, Tami (mom to Alexander 10 yrs: High Risk Leukemia: in remission + Max 7 yrs)

Tami Watchurst: mom to Alexander 10 yrs of age: A.L.L.: in remission <leapco@auracom.com>
Orangeville, On Canada - Sunday, August 3, 2003 7:15 AM CDT
Hi Maryla ~
Just thought I'd stop by and catch up on the last few journal entries I missed. As usual, your words touch my heart and soul, have me smiling with tear filled eyes, and counting my blessings all over again. Thanks.
Chad's due to go OT this November, so close yet so far. He's stuck at home with low counts now.
I think of silly Caedan often.......love the goofy photo of him on the stairs! My heart hurts, knowing how much you miss your son.
Take care, and keep taking it one day at a time. What else can we do, right?
Sending lots of cyber hugs from afar ~
Stacey

Stacey Wada <SLW6204@aol.com>
Las Vegas, NV USA - Saturday, August 2, 2003 11:57 AM CDT
Hi Maryla,
Although we have not had a computer for about 6 months due to a virus that is now fixed, we have checked Caedan's site regularly to check in with your family. You are a very amazing, strong woman and i just wanted you to know that i am, among many others, very proud of you. Prayers have never stopped, even though we couldn't write. Please give Cali a hug from folks in CT. and a belated happy birthday to you (great photos!)

Erin and Kelly <tekm@attbi.com>
Berlin, CT - Tuesday, July 29, 2003 10:47 PM CDT
I don't want to think about this time last year either Mar...continue to enjoy your summer with those who love you. *WARM HUGS*
Judy(Forever Angel Dustin's Mom)
Sombra, ON Canada - Tuesday, July 29, 2003 8:14 PM CDT
Hey there!
I LOVE THE PICS!
especially the aquarium and cali with the cats, shes adorable!
Hope things are going good. happy belated birthday.
x0x-Paige Rudland-x0x


Paige Rudland <cottoncandee2@hotmail.com>
London, ON Canada :o) - Monday, July 28, 2003 6:49 PM CDT
Mar,
Thanks for the update...it must be very hard to hear of the trials of other children with this awful disease. If you would like to read a "good news" posting, go to my new friend, Katie's website...www.caringbridge.org/canada/katelynn...
Always thinking of you,
Lori

Lori Wightman <thewightmans@aol.com>
Amherstburg, Canada - Saturday, July 26, 2003 5:41 PM CDT
Maryla, happy belated birthday! I have been on a chocolate break & just cant think straight! I know I havent been by in a while, been keeping busy but thats no excuse. Theres just been so much bads news on Cb I had to take a breather, you know? It just seems never ending. I'm trying to figure out are more kids actually getting and succumbing to cancer than ever before, or am I just so much more aware of it now that I am in "the loop"? I guess its both.... I love the fish aqaurium! Caedan did an awesome job.
Chris ~ Gooch's Site ~
- Wednesday, July 23, 2003 8:40 AM CDT
Hi Maryla. We just wanted to wish you a Happy Happy Birthday!!!! We hope you had a great day. P.S. Say hi to Cali for us.
Kaeleigh and Liz Barney <kaeleighbarney@yahoo.ca>
Woodstock, Ontario Canada - Monday, July 21, 2003 1:33 PM CDT
Happy Belated Birthday!

The new pictures are great. The one of Cali and the cats is too cute!

Love from Vancouver,

Aili and Bryan <http://www.caringbridge.org/canada/bryankinney>
Vancouver, BC Canada - Sunday, July 20, 2003 11:49 AM CDT
Happy Belated Maryla!

I loved that picture of the fish tank. It looks like it was made with TONS of love!


Karen Banister <www.caringbridge.org/ca/bryanbanister>
San Diego, CA USA - Friday, July 18, 2003 3:29 PM CDT
Happy Belated BD Maryla and Happy BD to you today Scott! I knew it was both your birthdays as it was registered in my palm pilot, however it's up to the human running the technology to actually do something about it! Sooooo, I could sing you both a tune, (but luckily for you the sound is not available on these entries) I could dance a jig for you, (good thing that running video is also not available- as that might be a bit scary). So at this point I'm left with thinking of you both - with all my heart and soul and hope that you get the message that you are always on our minds, but especially the 16th and 18th of July! Hope your week is filled with good memories and good friends! Love, Beth, Pat, Dylan and Dawson.
Beth <bethcesutherland@sympatico.ca>
London, on Canada - Friday, July 18, 2003 8:14 AM CDT
Happy Birthday Scott!! If I was a scotch drinker, I'd have a Jamison's and think of you, but since I'm not, you'll have to drink one for me. (Somehow, a birthday toast with Diet Coke just doesn't fit the bill). Anyway, enjoy your day!!
Tracy M. <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Friday, July 18, 2003 7:29 AM CDT
Maryla,

Happy Birthday! Caedan's project for you is one of my best moments as a CLS. I remember it kept us busy for weeks, although I never was quite sure what he was creating! With Caedan, I always followed his lead and the outcome was amazing! He was so proud to do something for you. I think is was a way for him to express his appreciation for all you did for him. Thinking of you always!

Lisa <hawthorl@lhsc.on.ca>
London, ON CA - Thursday, July 17, 2003 7:37 AM CDT
(to the tune from the Lone Ranger) Happy happy Birthday, Happy happy birthday, happy happy birthday, happy happy birthday....happy happy happy happy happy happy birrr-rth-day, happy happy happy happy bir-rr-rr-rrth-day! Whew (repeat as necessary).
Much easier to type than it is to sing. Hope you have a great day. Shame, Fannie Mae Chocolates won't ship from May-October, so I'm eating your 1/2 pound assorted present and thinkin' of you (look for the replacement when the temperature drops)

Love, Jane <jcornett@rcn.com>
Chicago, IL - Wednesday, July 16, 2003 9:00 PM CDT
Dear Maryla,

Funny thing. I was picking up my son in Picton today after a two week Quest program at Camp Trillium. On the way home he was telling me he spent a few days at Rainbow Island working with the kids there. I thought of you and Tami and your families. That's why I popped in here tonight, Im so glad I did. Hope your day was a special one Maryla, you deserve it.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY.

Big hug.


Elaine
Ottawa, Ontario - Wednesday, July 16, 2003 8:21 PM CDT
Maryla,
I was at Dunlope Lake(in Elliot Lake) today having a s'more on you! Here's to happy memories on your birthday!

Sandy <smschram@hotmail.com>
London, Ont Canada - Wednesday, July 16, 2003 7:02 PM CDT
Bonne fete, Maryla!! We are at the cottage and are feasting on our Hershey treats that we picked up at the Hershey factory tour yesterday. You should promise yourself a tour and a grand visit to their candy shop as a gift to yourself. It can be a big "oink"!! If you need any kind of directions (I won't give up!), just let me know.
Big Hugs and lots of Kisses sent your way.

Valerie
Ottawa, - Wednesday, July 16, 2003 6:49 PM CDT
Happy Birthday Maryla, and Scott,Hope you do something very special. Love Lisa
Lisa Baxter <plbaxter@sympatico.ca>
St. Thomas, - Wednesday, July 16, 2003 3:37 PM CDT
Hi Maryla.

Happy Birthday. Do you know why I think birthdays like yours mine and other Mom's are so very special. I say Thank God for our Mother's for having us because of that (along with our husband's) were were able to give birth to our children. So to me...it is a pretty cool circle. Our children are the circle that keeps us rolling and moving every day...even if some days the circle may not feel as round as it should. Abe is due to give blood again soon. Sadly I can not give blood because of my epilepsy...it's not because of my meds...but because of the meds the blood donation would take from my system...I have always been very discouraged over that but I am on the national Bone Marrow Donors List....I am proud of that.

Thinking of you Scott and Cali as always. All my Best.

Sue Thiessen
Aylmer, - Wednesday, July 16, 2003 3:25 PM CDT
Happy Birthday Maryla and Scott,
Hope you are having a beautiful sunny day like we are in Windsor. If not, you certainly should be on such a special day.
Enjoy,
Love
Sharon, John and Trevor

Sharon Simpson <john.simpson6@sympatico.ca>
Windsor, ON - Wednesday, July 16, 2003 12:02 AM CDT
Appy-hay Irthday-bay !!!

Lori And Gord Wightman <thewightmans@aol.com>
Amherstburg, Canada - Wednesday, July 16, 2003 11:17 AM CDT
Happy Birthday Maryla!! Hope you have a great day!
Daniel Friesen
Vancouver, BC - Wednesday, July 16, 2003 9:39 AM CDT
Happy Birthday Maryla!


Susan, Ken, Daniel and Miranda

Susan Pigott <pigotts@lhsc.on.ca>
London, Ont Canada - Wednesday, July 16, 2003 8:49 AM CDT
Happy Birthday Mar!! Wondering if you've had your fill of chocolate yet, or if that's even possible for you. Enjoy you're day!!
Tracy M. <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Wednesday, July 16, 2003 7:27 AM CDT
Hey...I was wondering when you would remind us about your b-day. Just thought I would stop by and say hi as well as wish you and Scott both a very happy b-day.

Take care!

Kristyn
- Tuesday, July 15, 2003 2:03 PM CDT
Just stopping by to say Hi!
sam (www.caringbridge.org/ak/aarynandfamily)
- Monday, July 14, 2003 12:54 AM CDT
Have a wonderfully chocolate birthday week, Mar!
And happy birthday to you too, Scott...
Love and Hugs

John and Sandy Bolton <jandsbolton@aol.com>
Amherstburg, ON - Monday, July 14, 2003 7:48 AM CDT
"Gods Finger Touched Him And He Slept"

Random Acts of Kindness


*HUGS*
- Wednesday, July 9, 2003 8:55 AM CDT
Wishing you and all parents of Beautiful Angels an abundance of Sunshine. This time last year Maryla, Dusty was back in hospital with many troubles ahead of him...his last day home was a year ago yesterday...time passes far too fast...11 months today too fast. Thinking of you, Scott and Cali always.
Judy (Angel Dustin's Mom) www.caringbridge.com/canada/dusinbmt/ <jtddrury@sympatico.ca>
Sombra, Ont Canada - Wednesday, July 9, 2003 5:43 AM CDT
Blood Donation at Byron Firehall is July 8th. I'm at 5:30, hopefully lots of Byronites will be out in full force at this one. I agree with an earlier comment about the sceanery too!


Amy
- Sunday, July 6, 2003 4:07 PM CDT
-->*.HAPPY BIRTHDAY ON THE 16TH, YOUR WONDERFUL.*<--
*ALwAyS iN my THouGhTs*
-PaiGe RudlAnd-

Paige Rudland <cottoncandee2@hotmail.com>
London, ON Canada :o) - Saturday, July 5, 2003 12:54 AM CDT
(I use the public library too.) I have my appointment booked right after my week's holiday in July. I'll try even harder to convince someone to come with me this time. Isn't the warm weather wonderful!
Sandy at Growing Concern
- Saturday, July 5, 2003 9:11 AM CDT
I know what you mean about wondering what people's stories are...my curiousity usually gets the better of me and I ask...gets some funny looks, but usually some really interesting stories!

Hope your summer is going well and happy (almost) birthday!

Aili and Bryan <http://www.caringbridge.org/canada/bryankinney>
Vancouver, BC Canada - Friday, July 4, 2003 11:07 AM CDT
Wow!! Great minds really do think alike Mar! Glad to see lots of people are donating - it gives me the warm fuzzies every time I go. I asked about Plasma donations here in Windsor, and the closest place they do plasma is, yep, you guessed it - London. Oh well, I guess I have to stick to my every 56 day routine.
Tracy M. <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Thursday, July 3, 2003 2:45 PM CDT
Hi Folks,
Sorry I haven't signed the guestbook in awhile. I have been hitting the webpage tho.
I'm off next week and was planning on doing the blood drive at the Byron Firehall. After all, the scenery isn't too bad. Know what I mean?
Kyle enjoys tagging along when I go to visit the "vampires".
I remember going to the firehall after 9/11 to donate. The firemen were great. Walking around asking us if we wanted anything. I settled for cookies. Anyhoo, Kyle was with me that day and a fireman asked if it would be ok to show him the firetruck. It was fine by me, but I warned him that Kyle knew where the siren was. Thanks to Caedan's picnic. A moment later, off goes the siren, and about a dozen donators just about hit the ceiling. Yup, you got it, Kyle!!
Maryla, let me know, and we can make arrangements to go together.

Tracy B
London, ON CA - Thursday, July 3, 2003 5:16 AM CDT
Tried to Donate on Caedans birthday and was refused, low iron. Going to the BYRON firehall on July 9th to try to donate this time. I will tell them that I am there in Caedans memory. My fiance will donate again. He's been a regular donater ever since I told him about Caedan!

Amy <albilyea@*NOSPAM*rogers.com>
London, - Wednesday, July 2, 2003 7:03 PM CDT
Time for another public service announcement: July 16 is Maryla's birthday, a mere 14 days away. How shall we celebrate? I can tell you one thing - I'll be having something chocolate that day...
Annie <anniebowers@shaw.ca>
Victoria, BC Canada - Wednesday, July 2, 2003 5:23 PM CDT
Have a wonderful 4th of July!!!
sam (www.caringbridge.org/ak/aarynandfamily)
- Wednesday, July 2, 2003 5:12 PM CDT
Time for a public service announcement, brought to you all by ME!
I'm on my way to Red Cross to give blood. When's the last time YOU donated?? It's easy - call 1-888-2DONATE.
K - 'nuff of that stuff.

Tracy M. <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Wednesday, July 2, 2003 2:48 PM CDT
Maryla-

Came by to say hi - and LOVED your description of the last day of school. Brought me back 15 years - I wish we had a summer vacation from work. Hang in there!


Karen Banister <www.caringbridge.org/ca/bryanbanister>
San Diego, CA USA - Wednesday, July 2, 2003 12:18 AM CDT
I READ YOUR PAGE TODAY AND I WAS SO AMAZED BY YOUR WONDERFUL SENSE OF LIFE.MY SON ALSO HAS CANCER ( A BRAIN TUMOR)HE HAS RELAPSED ONCE AND NOW HAS BEEN CANCER FREE 4 MONTHS I WORRY EVERYDAY BUT YET TRY TO MAKE EVERYDAY FILLED WITH FUN AND SPECIAL MEMORIES IN CASE HIS CANCER RETURNS AND THEY HAVE SAID THERE ARE NO MORE OPTIONS, I WONDER HOW I COULD LIVE WITH OUT MY SON.I LOST HIS DAD 7 YEARS AGO AND AS TIME HAS GONE BY THE DAY TO DAY LIVING HAS GOTTEN BETTER AS I SEE MY CHILDREN GROW AND PLAY.I LOOK TO THE FUTURE FOR THE MANY YEARS I WILL HAVE FILLED WITH LOVE AND WISH I COULD REVERSE DEATH TO LET THEIR FATHER SEE THEM BUT THEN AGAIN I THANK MAYBE GOD IS LOOKING AFTER US AND HAS HELPED TO BRING PEACE TO MY HEART.I HAS REMARRIED A COUPLE YEARS AGO AND WAS BLESSED WITH A WONDERFUL MAN WHO TAKES CARE OF MY BOYS LIKE THEY WERE HIS OWN.I HAVE ALWAYS SAID THAT IT WOULD BE MUCH HARDER TO LOSE A CHILD I COULD ONLY HOPE TO BE AS STRONG AS YOU IF THAT DAY SHOULD EVER COME.I PRAY FOR GOD TO BRING PEACE TO YOUR HEART...WITH LOVE FROM ANOTHER MOM
BETTY,IKIKA,JOSE,MIKAYLA,BILLY <WWW.CARINGBRIDGE.COM/MT/IKIKA>
kevin, MT - Monday, June 30, 2003 8:14 AM CDT
-->*.Thinking of you, and your many struggles you will over come, especially with your perspective and how unbelivable you are. Your the strongest I know, Keep up the good work!.*<--
!In MY tHOUGHTs!

*Paige Rudland <cottoncandee2@hotmail.com>
London, On Canada :o) - Sunday, June 29, 2003 8:23 PM CDT
Dear Maryla, It's so hot here today, and I was wishing for a nice cold swim, which got me thinking about all those hot LaSalle summers when we were kids, and how much fun we all had, and what a good friend you were....which got me to thinking about what a good friend you ARE, and how much I miss you. I'm thinking of you & keeping you in my prayers.
Love, Jane <jcornett@rcn.com>
Chicago, IL - Saturday, June 28, 2003 3:57 PM CDT
Maryla,
Just wanted to let you know you were on my mind today, and remain in my prayers.
Love,

Lisa Agee <www.caringbridge.com/page/ross>
Camden, AL - Friday, June 27, 2003 11:36 PM CDT
((((Maryla)))) thinking of you!!
Jan -- Colin's Mom <jan866@aol.com>
Glendale, WI - Thursday, June 26, 2003 1:56 AM CDT
Sending our love to all of you.
Noah et al.
- Wednesday, June 25, 2003 9:44 PM CDT
Even though we have never met, I still think about you and your daily challenges. You are one strong, very determined woman going through life missing your precious Caedan. I only wish I could wave a magic wand and change the outcome of Caedan's cancer. Years and years ago my grade 7 teacher gave her class a bunch of questions to answer before lunch one day. I can only imagine her surprise when she read my answer to 'If you could have one wish come true what what you wish for?' I wished that my Dad could be alive again. I know you wish the same for your son. I hope that you and Cali have a wonderful day at the beach. I'm so glad you have her.
Mary Lou Thomson <mlt.csi@hay.net>
Exeter, Ontario Canada - Wednesday, June 25, 2003 9:19 AM CDT
Mar,
You are my hero...to do what you do and to still have the strength to let us all in is amazing to me.
I will be thinking of you all day today and hope that you get some comfort knowing that there are many like me who care so very much and would do anything to ease your pain if even for a minute.
I love you.

Lori <thewightmans@aol.com>
Amherstburg, ON Canada - Wednesday, June 25, 2003 7:14 AM CDT
thinking of you and praying for you. i am so sorry for your deep, deep pain. i can only imagine. you are loved & cared for.
Khalita My Caringbridge Site Duke Peds BMT Aplastic Anemia <khalita@hecaresonline.org>
Lexington, NC, - Wednesday, June 25, 2003 1:05 AM CDT
Maryla and family, I can tell you miss little Caedan so much. My heart breaks for this heavy burden you face everyday. Caedan was, and always shall be but it must be so hard to face life without having him around. May love, comfort and inspiration come to you everyday.

STEP BY STEP
He does not lead me year by year;
Nor even day by day,
But step by step my path unfolds;
My Lord directs my ways.
Tomorrow's plans I do not know,
I only know this minute;
But He will say, "This is the way,
By faith now walk ye in it."
And I am glad that this is so,
Today's enough to bear;
And when tomorrow comes, His grace
Shall far exceed its care.
What need to worry then, or fret?
The Lord who gave His Son
Holds all my moments in His hand
And gives them, one by one.
Barbara Ryberg

Vicki, mom to Nathaniel
Portage, IN USA - Wednesday, June 25, 2003 0:16 AM CDT
Maryla,
I just wanted to check in today and let you know Cali had a great time it the water today. She is always a little sad first thing in the morning but quickly gets settled in to have lots of fun.

Sandy <smschram@hotmail.com>
London, Ont Canada - Tuesday, June 24, 2003 5:36 PM CDT
Hi Maryla. Just wanted you to know that we are thinking of you, and remembering sweet Caedan each and every day. He was such a great kid and I think he had one of the best personality's anyone could possibly want. Stay strong, and know that you are always thought of here in the Barney home. P.S. Say hi to Cali for me.
Kaeleigh Barney <kaeleighbarney@yahoo.ca>
Woodstock, Ontario Canada - Tuesday, June 24, 2003 1:38 PM CDT
Hmmm. Some of my/Caedan's sunflower plants have disappeared. I might have just lost track of some among the other plants that have grown up (I have to let them grow until they bloom to know which are flowers I want and which are weeds)or it might be that some animal just couldn't wait. I have chipmunks and rabbits that think I keep planting things just for them. But I do still have a few sunflower plants coming along in the garden along the driveway. They are taking their time growing, though they are getting more nurturing than the rest of the garden! I think of Caedan and you folks daily as I water them. Lots of love to you guys,
Karen M <hbyc7@rogers.com>
- Monday, June 23, 2003 8:12 PM CDT
Just thinking of you and your family this morning. One day at a time... Have you thought about planting a special tree in Memory of Caedan? Planting flowers is one of Kelly's favorite things to do, it seems to calm the soul.

God Bless,


Steven, Kelly, Sarah Anne, Emma Grace Hicks <www.caringbridge.org/al/sarahanne>
Birmingham, Alabama USA - Monday, June 23, 2003 8:32 AM CDT
Hey, Mar
Just wanted to pop in and say hi...Hope your having a good day.
Love you

Lori Wightman
Amherstburg, on Canada - Saturday, June 21, 2003 5:52 PM CDT
Thinking of you and sending (((hugs))) your way....
God bless,

Lisa Agee <www.caringbridge.com/page/ross>
Camden, AL - Saturday, June 21, 2003 9:18 AM CDT
Hi Maryla: Just to let you know that I still drop by and check on you. We have two cheeky chipmunks at the cottage(I call them Chip and Dale)who follow me around when I go near the garden. I'm sure they are sourcing out there next dinner. Would love you and the gals to drop by ANY time.
Valerie Hammell <cuff31@aol.com>
Ottawa, - Tuesday, June 17, 2003 7:57 PM CDT
Hi Maryla,
keep going strong! We all miss Caeden very much and theres no doubt in my mind that he is now watching over us all Take care.
shana

shana dowdell <minny_m0use@hotmail.com>
windsor, canada - Friday, June 13, 2003 3:50 PM CDT
Thinking of you and your family. Thanks for your positive thoughts!
Aili and Bryan <http://www.caringbridge.org/canada/bryankinney>
Vancouver, BC Canada - Friday, June 13, 2003 1:47 AM CDT
Hi Maryla, Scott and Cali
At night when we put Noah to sleep we go through a check list of all the people he loves (wuv) and all the people that love him and your guys and Caedan are always on the list. I say 'and your cousin Cali loves you' and Noah says 'hein' (which for some reason is his word yes, even though he can say yes' and then he says 'Noah too, wuv' back to all of the those listed. If he is getting really sleepy he will node his head 'hein, hein, hein' and then close his eyes...of course, he is usually up a few hours later but it is sweet nonetheless. Just wanted you to know that your in our thoughts.

John, Christie and Noah <twobrides@hotmail.com>
Vancouver, BC - Thursday, June 12, 2003 11:47 PM CDT
Hi Maryla,

Wanted to stop by to say hi as I was thinking about you today.

Huge hugs

Elaine
Ottawa, - Thursday, June 12, 2003 8:21 PM CDT
Hi Marlya, just popping in to say "hello" and see how you are doing... amazing as usual!
You really are one inspiring woman! Take care and enjoy the sunny weather.
p.s. good luck with the squirrels.

Kristyn Darling
Mt. Carmel, On - Wednesday, June 11, 2003 1:44 PM CDT
Hello my name is Jenna, and i was born with a rare bone disease. I have an inspirational webpage on the net, and I thought it might encourage you in some way. I am from Kamloops BC.Canada
http://www.matmice.com/home/fighterandchampion




Jenna <hockeykid@telus.net>
Kamloops, BC Canada - Wednesday, June 11, 2003 1:44 AM CDT
You were right, Maryla. We should all take lots and lots of photos. I don't remember seeing the first two of the new ones you have put up - they are SO precious.

Good thing Caedan's birthday was in April so I planted my sunflower seeds indoors and they got a head start. I transplanted them outside on Saturday and so far, so good. The rain is helping them and I added some premium soil where I planted them.

I also spent $5. on strawberry plants that I planted on Saturday and our local rabbit devoured them already! He could have at least waited for the berries!

Karen M <hbyc7@rogers.com>
Waterloo, - Tuesday, June 10, 2003 6:48 PM CDT
Mar,
Getting out into the sunshine can only be a good thing. I hope you know that I'm thinking of you far more often than I say. Everyday you are in my heart and on my mind.
Love you.

Lori Wightman <thewightmans@aol.com>
Amherstburg, On Canada - Tuesday, June 10, 2003 4:17 PM CDT
Hey Maryla-
Thought I'd stop by the site to see how you are doing. Glad that gardening is providing you with something to enjoy. Bryan is starting maintenance chemo next week, once that's over (18 mo.) maybe then we can get a house with a big yard - as I get older I appreciate flowers and trees a lot more. Anyhow - keep putting one foot in front of the other.

Karen Banister <www.caringbridge.org/ca/bryanbanister>
San Diego, CA USA - Tuesday, June 10, 2003 2:33 PM CDT
Mar and Cali:
The squirrels kept eating my sunflower seeds too, so I went on the net, and found that if you stick some chicken wire over the garden, the squirrels will get discouraged and ignore the seeds all together. The holes in the wire have to be small enough for the squirres to not bug it, but big enough the plant can get through.
Hope this helps. I've never tried it. Let me know if you do and it works.

Amy Bilyea (L.S.A.P) <albilyea@rogers.com>
London, - Tuesday, June 10, 2003 12:04 AM CDT
Hi Maryla. I just wanted to say hello, and that we think of you, your husband, and Cali all the time. Caedan was such a great boy, and he is missed each and everyday by many, many people. Sending lot's of hugs your way. P.S. Say hi to Cali Beth for us...
Kaeleigh Barney <kaeleighbarney@yahoo.ca>
Woodstock, Ontario Canada - Monday, June 9, 2003 2:13 PM CDT
You are so right. I feel we are in an alternate universe, one that others dont see and arent aware of, dont realize how many kids are tossed into. We are losing way way too many children. They didnt do anything to deserve all that is thrust up on them to endure, and as Caedan said, for what outcome? It just stinks.
Chris ~ Gooch's Site ~
- Monday, June 9, 2003 10:17 AM CDT
Dear Maryla, Scott and Cali~
I want to start off by saying I am sorry to hear about Cody, he was a great kid with a lot of spunk. He, like Caedan, was always so full of energy and always had that mischivious smile on his face. I can only imagine the feelings and emotions that you must live through every day, and with each loss of another child. I just wanted to let you know that I think of you all often, and I hope that all those yellow balloons in the heavens shine a little light your way.

Jennifer Brinklow <jennbrinklow@aol.com>
Huntington Beach, CA USA - Monday, June 9, 2003 0:16 AM CDT
Dear Maryla, Scott and Cali,
I just wanted to say HI and to let all of you know that you are in my thoughts.
Take care,
Emilyn

7 West Nurse
- Saturday, June 7, 2003 4:13 PM CDT
Indeed it can be very sad. Having been in this situation for 23 years, it's gut wrenching how many of my friends I have seen die--and people I don't even know too--the number is in 3 digits...and that's just the ones I can name off the top of my head. I can't wait until Jesus comes back...I want you to know I'm continuing to keep you in my thoughts and prayers. I can only imagine how you feel as a parent who has lost a child. But, I know the pain I feel from just losing friends and from losing a parent. If my pain is this intense I can imagine yours is infinitely multiplied. That being the case, I continue to lift you up to the Lord for support that only HE can provide in your darkest moments. Know that I love you. Blessings...
Khalita My Caringbridge Site Duke Peds BMT Aplastic Anemia <khalita@hecaresonline.org>
Lexington, NC, - Saturday, June 7, 2003 12:29 AM CDT
Dear Maryla
You so eloquently write your thoughts and I feel exactly the same way about this dreadful disease. It can completely upset the balance of so many families of the adults who suffer from this as well as the children. It is always difficult to see my children with so many questions about WHY? and so few answers to give them.
You, Scott and Cali continue to be frequently in my thoughts. Hopefully this dreadful weather will improve soon so you can get outside with Cali to enjoy the summer.
Fondly, Cathie

Cathie Crawford
Belmont, - Thursday, June 5, 2003 8:12 AM CDT
Maryla.

I am very sad to hear of the loss of your dear friend Cody. My deepest sympathies to his family and to his friends. As a Mom of a child that also lost his little life to cancer it still leaves me speachless at times at how this disease has forever ruined so many beautiful children and has forever changed the lives of their families. Words seem inadequate....at best....when trying to search how ones heart truly feels. Sometimes there are just no words....just know that many people love and understand. I being one out of sadly.... many.
Love Sue

Sue <thiessen@amtelecom.net>
Aylmer, - Wednesday, June 4, 2003 8:00 AM CDT
Maryla,
So sorry to hear the news of Cody. Perhaps he and Caedan are together having giggles right now. I think of your family daily and am sending love and hugs. Take care

Jason Wood <jpwood@shaw.ca>
Victoria, BC - Wednesday, June 4, 2003 0:09 AM CDT
Maryla I am glad to see you and Cali having some fun together. Deciding whether or not to go back to work, thats a tough one I bet. I hope you are surrounded by understanding coworkers when you do go back. Many of us are still thinking of you and how hard this must be for you.
Chris ~ Gooch's Site ~
- Sunday, June 1, 2003 12:38 AM CDT
You were on my heart today and I wanted to take a minute to stop by and let you know. If I let you know every time you were on my heart...let's just say you'd be able to fill up several pages of guestbook entries just from me. Blessings to you and know that I care and am continuing to pray for you.
Khalita My Caringbridge Site Duke Peds BMT Aplastic Anemia <khalita@hecaresonline.org>
Lexington, NC - Saturday, May 31, 2003 10:47 PM CDT
Hello family, thinking of you lots over here.
The little girl next door came over and was wearing a pink shirt and a white hat and it made me think of Cali Beth so give her a kiss for me and one from her cousin Noah as well.
Lots of love

John, Christie and Noah
- Thursday, May 29, 2003 10:47 PM CDT
Hi Maryla ~
Just wanted you to know that someone is thinking of you this morning......
I hope you and Cali have more fun together this week!
Just stopping by to say HI, and always remembering Caedan's smile.......
Love ~
Stacey

Stacey Wada <SLW6204@aol.com>
Las Vegas, NV USA - Tuesday, May 27, 2003 10:03 AM CDT
Hello my friend,
It's been a while. Listen to your heart. For work well remember our conversation at Sabatini's. What works well for one person isn't always going to work for you. That's what's so frustrating about this process, having lost Gillian a year before Caedan I should have some magical recipe to help......but I don't. Gillian's monument is also Laurentin Green. We also wanted something a little unique. It's beautiful in the sunshine. Take care of you. Ithink we're due for a tea date!!
Love you!!

Lori <lnh.sashegyi@sympatico.ca>
London, ON - Tuesday, May 27, 2003 7:29 AM CDT
Baby-steps Mar, nothing more, nothing less. You know that I share with you daily, the pangs and heart tugs of learning to live without our little boys as do far too many other mom's and dads..death doesn't come with a manual of knowing what to do to make it through every second of ever day...however we do learn to live, even if its just breathing, or blinking an eye...it all takes time and much energy but well worth it for the ones we still need to live for. For me, going back to work served as a therapy, gave me a chance to do something for me, to keep my mind occupied, but never to let it forget. I miss you Mar...*hugs*
Judy (Angel Dustin's Mom) www.caringbridge.com/canada/dusinbmt <jtddrury@sympatico.ca>
Sombra, Ont - Monday, May 26, 2003 6:25 PM CDT
Maryla,
I know Cali is enjoying spending time with you....does she like to eat the cookie dough as much as my daughter does?!? LOL Thanks so much for being my "long distance" friend who always finds time to send me an encouraging email just when I need it.
God bless,

Lisa Agee (www.caringbridge.com/page/ross) <lagee67@hotmail.com>
Camden, AL - Monday, May 26, 2003 2:40 PM CDT
Glad to see you updated. I think of you and pray for you often. Take care and know that you are loved. Blessings to you.
Khalita My Caringbridge Site Duke Peds BMT Aplastic Anemia <khalita@hecaresonline.org>
Lexington, NC, - Sunday, May 25, 2003 8:55 PM CDT
Hi Maryla, I had been checking, but thought too you might have needed a rest, but happy to hear your spring time news. Enjoy your Windsor trip. I was able to get off to NYC with some "girls" from Ottawa last weekend and had a great time. Dawson's BD tomorrow so it's off to fleetway! Talk to you next week. Beth
Beth
London, On N6K 3A3 - Saturday, May 24, 2003 7:56 PM CDT
Hello Maryla,

I finally got a chance to use the internet computer at the library and saw your new photos. I had to read over the messages sent on Caedan's Birthday. They brought smile to may face on such a gloomy Saturday morning.

P.S. Thanks for the cupcakes. Cali's friends enjoyed them in the afternoon.

Bye for now,

Sandy <smschram@hotmail.com>
London, Ont Canada - Saturday, May 24, 2003 8:23 AM CDT
Hi Maryla. Just wanted to say hi,and to let you know that a day doesn't go by that we don't think of you, or Caedan. Give Cali a hug for me, and we'll talk to you soon.
Kaeleigh Barney <kaeleighbareny@yahoo.ca>
Woodstock, Ontario Canada - Friday, May 23, 2003 7:22 AM CDT
Hi Mar,

Just dropping in to say hi and to let you know I'm thinking about you and Scott and hoping your days have more smiles than tears.
I bet Caedan's still smiling from all those birthday balloons!! Thanks for sharing the photos!
Lots of love and big hugs too.
Take care,

Sandy (and John) Bolton <jandsbolton@aol.com>
Amherstburg, ON - Wednesday, May 21, 2003 7:08 AM CDT
I just wanted to stop by and let you know that you are being thought of and prayed for FAR more often than I come here and sign in. God's blessings to you as I know you are still grieving tremendously. I have not forgotten you and will continue to lift you up to the Lord.
Khalita My Caringbridge Site Duke Peds BMT Aplastic Anemia <khalita@hecaresonline.org>
Lexington, NC, - Tuesday, May 20, 2003 6:44 PM CDT
Hi Maryla, Just wanted to drop you a quick note while Annie naps to let you know I'm thinkin' of you. Whew, this mom stuff is HARD! Hope you and Cali are getting some springlike park weather, it's pretty damp here in Chicago. Hoping to make it to Ontario in June for my moms 81st b-day (I'll try to swing through London).
Jane Cornett <jcornett@rcn.com>
Chicago, IL USA - Monday, May 19, 2003 12:57 AM CDT
Hi Maryla, just a hello, to say I'm thinking of you. Please give my love to Scott and Cali (and an extra big hug for her).
love, Annie <anniebowers@shaw.ca>
Victoria, BC - Sunday, May 18, 2003 10:08 PM CDT
Hi Maryla. Can't believe the time that has gone by... I just wanted to let you know we still think of you daily AND tell you the boys had the best time launching their balloons!!! Taylar was so cute, he was yelling "Happy First Birthday in Heaven Caedan, you're Mom LOVES you very much!!!" He sang Happy Birthday and danced around the front lawn in the cold. I thought you would like to hear how much we all enjoyed launching our balloons. We were counting down the day. Thanks for letting us share in such a special day! Better go now. Take care, I'll check in again soon.
Kristyn
Mt. Carmel, On - Friday, May 16, 2003 11:42 AM CDT
Hi Mar

The past few days have been a blur, sending belated Mothers May Greetings to you. I hope life is finding you and yours well. Thoughts of you stay with me daily.


Judy (Angel Dustin's Mom) www.caringbridge.com/canada/dusinbmt <jtddrury@sympatico.ca>
Sombra, Ont - Thursday, May 15, 2003 6:30 PM CDT
Hi Maryla-
Checking in and saying hi. Loved your new pics from the balloon launch. I hope this week is going ok for you. Keeping you guys in my prayers.

Karen Banister <www.caringbridge.org/ca/bryanbanister>
San Diego, CA USA - Wednesday, May 14, 2003 11:36 AM CDT
Hi Maryla..a few days late but Happy Mothers day to you too. I was presented with peanut butter on toast and an apple in bed which was nice, but a bit early as our Beach party didn't wrap up until 2a.m.! The boys and I went for a long walk with my Mom and Dad. Started out sunny and ended up freezing and tornado like conditions! Isn't it May?
Checked out your photo's, we haven't taken ours in yet!, but as soon as I do I'll pop over with a copy. Talk to you soon! Lov Beth

Beth <cebethsutherland@hotmail.com>
London, On Canada - Monday, May 12, 2003 6:49 PM CDT
Happy Mother's Day Maryla. Your love for your babies is so strong...I feel it in every word you say.
Aili and Bryan <http://www.caringbridge.org/canada/bryankinney>
Vancouver, BC Canada - Monday, May 12, 2003 1:20 AM CDT
Happy Mother's Day Maryla
I know Caedan is very proud to have had you, as you were of him.

Chris ~ Gooch's Site


- Sunday, May 11, 2003 4:38 PM CDT
Maryla.

Hello Friend. You are so correct in how much joy and love our children are. Today is a special day and in saying that I would like to wish you a Happy Mother's Day. I know that Caedan and Cali are very lucky to have been brought into this world by you. Thinking of you as always.
All my Best. Love Sue

Sue <thiessen@amtelecom.net>
Aylmer, - Sunday, May 11, 2003 11:50 AM CDT
Best Wishes on Mother's Day, Maryla ... to an extraordinary Mom!
Karen M <hbyc7@rogers.com>
- Sunday, May 11, 2003 9:47 AM CDT
Love all the pics!! Thanks for sharing them with everyone. I have a cute story to tell you that has to do with Caedan's birthday. Miya,(for those of you who don't know, she's 3), was part of the birthday celebration. She is very familiar with balloons, because she gets one every time she goes for groceries with my parents. Needless to say, we're forever telling her not to let go of her balloon, or else she'll lose it, so convincing her to let go of her balloons at the lift off took a bit. We told her that Caedan was an angel and that we wanted to send some balloons to heaven for his birthday. Surprisingly, it worked, and she let her balloons go along with the rest of us. A couple of days ago, she had a balloon at home, when all the sudden she told her mother she had to hurry up and take her balloon outside, so she could send it to her friend "Katie" in heaven. Not a bad memory for a 3 year old, eh? And, since she only knows Caedan from pictures, I was really impressed. You've started something bigger than you imagined Miss Maryla....lol
Tracy M. <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Saturday, May 10, 2003 8:44 PM CDT
Hi Maryla!
The picture of Grampa now adorns our computer desktop. Love it! (Don't be jealous, Anne, we'll put your pix up next!)
Love to all,

Carol & Mike <AVision4U@luxmail.com>
London, ON - Friday, May 9, 2003 5:04 AM CDT
Hi Mar,
I loved the new pictures...especially the one of your Dad. What an awesome way for all of us to be able to celebrate Caedan's life. Thanks, my friend for letting us all share.
Love you lots,
Lori

Lori Wightman
Amherstburg, On Canada - Wednesday, May 7, 2003 7:54 PM CDT
Hi Maryla. Just wanted you to know that were thinking of you, and we also sent a few balloons off to heaven for Caedan. I bet he had a great b-day(Earth Day) in heaven and recieved all of the colourful balloons and messages that were sent to him. Thinking fo you.
P.S. Say hi to Cali Beth for us.

Kaeleigh Barney <kaeleighbarney@yahoo.ca>
Woodstock, Ontario Canada - Wednesday, May 7, 2003 2:42 PM CDT
Hi Maryla-
Thanks so much for signing Bryan's guestbook. Your advice was wonderful, and really appreciated. Do what you can, when you can. Words to live by. I already gave that advice to someone else.

Karen Banister <www.caringbridge.org/ca/bryanbanister>
San Diego, CA USA - Sunday, May 4, 2003 9:47 PM CDT
Happy belated birthday to Caedan, and love to his amazing family.
Aili and Bryan <http://www.caringbridge.org/canada/bryankinney>
Vancouver, BC Canada - Sunday, May 4, 2003 2:52 PM CDT
Hi Maryla! It was good to see you at White Oaks last week-- forgot to mention to you that I said a special Happy Birthday for Caedan. maybe next time we'll have time for coffee or something. Look after yourself!
Charlene Lancaster - 7 W <charbrent@execulink.com>
London, ON Canada - Wednesday, April 30, 2003 11:58 AM CDT
Hi Maryla, Scott and Cali, I've been meaning to "stop" in to the website and update you about our balloon lift off! We invited Luke F, over for it and at 7:20 sent 10 bright yellow ones off. I took pictures, however it was soooo windy, I'm not even sure they will be visable. They didn't really go straight up they kind of went sideways then up(three didn't even make it out of our yard and were stuck in the trees). We sang the happy birthday song and each yelled our own personal message to Caeden over the wind. We figured Caedan was probably finding our "lift off" quite funny as we were all jumping around and he'd think..don't forget about the trees...with his chuckle! We could see others flying by our house and felt proud to be part of it. Thanks, Love Beth, Pat, Dylan and Dawson
Beth <bethcesutherland@sympatico.ca>
London, On Canada - Tuesday, April 29, 2003 12:02 AM CDT
Thanks to you Mar, for letting us in on a wonderful idea, and a way to celebrate Caedan's life.
I'll be celebrating again on May 6 when I visit the Red Cross for my blood donation. Anyone else up to that? ( a challenge/service announcement).

Tracy M. <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Monday, April 28, 2003 2:49 PM CDT
Big hugs to you, Mar. You are always on my mind and in my heart.
Love,
Lori

Lori Wightman <thewightmans@aol.com>
Amherstburg, ON Canada - Monday, April 28, 2003 7:54 AM CDT
On Tuesday the skies over Tillsonburg were brightened by the balloons released by my kids and I. We all sang happy birthday as we released them from the park down the street (closest to heaven in Tillsonburg). The wind carried the balloons quickly to the sky. My kids asked a lot of questions afterwards which was good for them to understand that it is OK to celebrate a difficult time. My heart goes out to all of you.
Becky Nichols, 7 West <nicholre@execulink.com>
Tillsonburg, - Thursday, April 24, 2003 1:42 AM CDT
Dear Maryla Scott and Cali,
Yesterday the kids and I let green balloons float into the heavens
I think of you guys often and always with fond memories of Caedan.

Sylvia Drummond
London, - Thursday, April 24, 2003 1:31 AM CDT
Happy Birthday Caeden! I sent a single orange balloon up yesterday and watched it until it disappeared into heaven.
Karen Banister <www.caringbridge.org/ca/bryanbanister>
San Diego, CA USA - Wednesday, April 23, 2003 6:51 PM CDT
Jason joined Marian and I as we sent off our yellow balloons at 7:20 (7:20 our time, that is!) from Beacon Hill. They were supposed to go soaring over Juan de Fuca Strait, but the wind was blowing the other way and instead they sailed into the park, to the confusion, no doubt, of the nesting herons and eagles. Then we ran down the hill and went for ice cream. Pictures on the way!
Annie <anniebowers@shaw.ca>
Victoria, BC - Wednesday, April 23, 2003 3:51 PM CDT
It was a beautiful emotional sight. All those ballons lifting above the ski hills in Byron. I was pleased to share the momemt with your dear friends, Dahlia, (2) Karen's, Jay and all our families. The kids counted down to 7:20 and we had lift-off. We sang happy birthday with some tears and watched the kids roll down the hill. I am touched by all the wonderful messages from across the country. The skys of Canada were surely brighter last night. Love and Hugs.
Kelly C.
London, - Wednesday, April 23, 2003 9:11 AM CDT
Mar, Scott and Cali,
An unbelievable amount of yellow and multicoloured balloons left the ground of River Canard park yesterday at 7:20 representing West Bloomfield, South Windsor, River Canard and Amherstburg...most of them floated up, up and away ...except for the few that got stuck in a tree. You would think that between 6 adults, 8 kids and a dog we would be able to avoid the one lone tree in the center of the park.
Then, the kids spent time throwing their shoes up at the tree to dislodge the ones that stuck...worked for a few. Somehow, I can picture Caedan laughing and laughing. (Do you think maybe he had a hand in that?)
We may or may not have been competent enough to get pictures. Remember who you're dealing with.
We love you!...Happy Birthday Caedan!!!!!....John, Sandy and Colt Bolton, Tina, Robert, Zachary and Michael Herzog, Dina, Patrick and Stephen Kenkel, Lori, Gord, Meghan, Katie and Joe Wightman.

Lori Wightman <thewightmans@aol.com>
River Canard, ON Canada - Wednesday, April 23, 2003 8:59 AM CDT
Happy birthday Caeden! What a beautiful, special boy he was. Even though I never had the pleasure of actually "meeting" him, he was so inspiring. Maryla, Scott & Cali - you remain in my thoughts and prayers.
God bless,

Lisa Agee (www.caringbridge.com/page/ross) <lagee67@hotmail.com>
Camden, AL - Wednesday, April 23, 2003 8:34 AM CDT
Happy birthday Caeden. And hugs to your family. I am picturing balloons going up all over the place for Caeden today. What a great idea.

Thinking of you!!

Jan L., mom to Colin dx ALL 11/17/97; relapsed 9/9/02 <jan866@aol.com>
Glendale, WI - Wednesday, April 23, 2003 1:00 AM CDT
The Howes have lift off! We sent off our rainbow of pink, green and yellow ballons this evening as we sang Happy Birthday to our dear friend Caedan. It was a great breazy night that took our balloons and thoughts quickly to him. What a wonderful idea I am sure I could see him smiling! Talk to you soon.
Love & Thoughts
Lisa, Rob, Jordan, Morgan, Brennan

Lisa Howe <HowesatHome@aol.com>
London, Canada - Tuesday, April 22, 2003 9:24 PM CDT
It has rained here off and on for the last ten days and the next ten-day forecast is for more rain, but today the sky was clear and blue, the air was fresh and there was a beautiful breeze. We drove up to the lookout just before Whistler Mountain, with the most amazing view of the mountains, still covered in snow. At 7:20 (4:20 our time) we wished Caedan a Happy Birthday and let go our balloons. First a single yellow one with "Happy Birthday", then a soccerball balloon along with a bunch of ten yellow ones. Earlier, we'd written notes to Caedan and we tied these to the balloons along with a picture of Caedan and a prayer scroll we'd been saving from our trip to Tibet. We said prayers and made wishes as we watched the balloons float away until they were out of sight. Noah was very excited about the balloons "flying" and he shouted "Happy Day"!
When we couldn't see them anymore we sat in the sun and read to Noah the book that Caedan made for him when he was born. Noah loved the pictures. A beautiful reminder of Caedan's sense of humour, fabulous artwork and great storytelling. We looked at some photos off him that we'd brought along and then told stories about him on the ride home.

Happy Birthday Caedan Gallagher! We miss you. We love you always.

We love you, too, Scott, Maryla and Cali Beth!

Noah, Uncle John and Aunt Christie
- Tuesday, April 22, 2003 9:21 PM CDT
We actually made it to the highest point in St. Albert, AB at exactly 7:20 p.m. Ethan was happy to send wishes to Caedan, even though he didn't know him, he feels a connection via Luke Schindler. Charlotte was at school helping out her teacher, so she missed the fun. Caedan sent us a beautiful Earthday/Birthday - it was 21 degrees here in Northern Canada when we launched our yellow balloon. It was very moving to watch it head off to heaven - we were all amazed at how long it stayed in view. Thanks to the big Alberta sky, I guess. What's a birthday without treats? Tom, Ethan and I headed off to DQ right away. Even Ethan, who at 12 is already a bit cynical, proclaimed that "This was a fun night". Will send photo if it works out. Must run and finish raking - it will probably snow again before we know it. Thanks Maryla for letting us all share in this special day.
PS - you really are awesome!!!!

Valerie Sawyer <tvsawyer@shaw.ca>
St. Albert, AB Canada - Tuesday, April 22, 2003 9:21 PM CDT
Maryla, 10 balloons (8 yellow, 2 blue with Happy Birthday written all over them) were successfully launched in Orangeville, Ontario. It was very windy, and cold and yes there were snow flurries! but they sailed away up to the Heavens nonetheless. Each of the family took one balloon at a time and sent their own heart-felt wishes up to Caedan. We wished him a Happy Birthday in Heaven and told him that we will meet again. We will never forget Caedan. We felt part of something greater than ourselves tonight with this balloon send off. I told Alexander that there were hundreds of balloons being sent up to the skies all over Canada and the States along with our ten. It was a special moment for our family to yours.

Love, Tami, Jonathan, Alexander and Maxton xxxx oooo

Tami Watchurst: mom to Alexander 10 yrs of age: A.L.L. o/t: 1998 <leapco@auracom.com>
Orangeville, Ontario Canada - Tuesday, April 22, 2003 8:50 PM CDT
Happy Birthday to a very special angel, our balloons were launched at 7:20 in St.Thomas.
Lisa
St. Thomas, - Tuesday, April 22, 2003 8:26 PM CDT
Dear Maryla, Scott and Cali,
From the top of tobaggon hill, a bunch of us let go a bunch of bright yellow balloons and watched them rise to the heavens. We saw yours and others as well on the same windy highway to Caedan. We sang happy birthday, got teary, and watched the kids roll down the hill. All in all, a great birthday gathering for a great little boy. Thought of you all day. All my love, Dahlia.

Dahlia Reich
London, - Tuesday, April 22, 2003 8:25 PM CDT
Balloons were launched at 7:20 from Huron St. in LaSalle...we watched them until they were too small to see, and sang Happy Birthday. Hope you enjoyed your launch too!
The Mangin Clan <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
LaSalle, ON Canada - Tuesday, April 22, 2003 8:11 PM CDT
Happy Birthday Caedan! I sent my balloon earlier today from New York, bright yellow with a special wish.
Take care all of you, and know that you are thought of often.

Jennifer Brinklow <jennbrinklow@aol.com>
Morristown, NJ USA - Tuesday, April 22, 2003 7:01 PM CDT
Marian and I will be up on Beacon Hill at 7:20 to send our balloons. Happy Birthday Caedan!

Love,

Annie <anniebowers@shaw.ca>
Victoria, BC - Tuesday, April 22, 2003 6:39 PM CDT
~~Happy Earth Day/Birthday Caedan~~

Celebrate with the Angels!
Love and miss you!



Judy(Angel Dustin's Mom) www.caringbridge.com/canada/dusinbmt/ <jtddrury@sympatico>
Sombra, Ont Canada - Tuesday, April 22, 2003 6:32 PM CDT
Hi Guys:

We've got our yellow helium balloons ready to go. Daniel is planning on standing on the climber in our local park, so that he'll be up high enough....On the other hand, I suspect that Miranda will refuse to part with her balloons at all (being two)...Oh well, we'll be sure to take a picture.

Susan, Ken, Daniel and Miranda

Susan Pigott <pigotts@lhsc.on.ca>
London, On Canada - Tuesday, April 22, 2003 6:24 PM CDT
Counting down the minutes. Heart full of memories. Happy Earth/Birth Day!
Stacey <stacey@staceylane.net>
Portland, OR - Tuesday, April 22, 2003 6:00 PM CDT
happy birthday Caedan i miss you alot
Alyssa Lawrence <sk8ergurl_4@hotmail.com>
london, - Tuesday, April 22, 2003 5:33 PM CDT
Maryla, Scott, Cali

I'll be planting seeds in my garden at 7:20 but will stop and look at the sky.
"Happy Birthday Angel Caedan" -- we love you and remeber you often.

Take care Maryla, Scott, Cali. I don't want to be late so I better say good bye for now.

Sandy <Growing Concern>
London, Ont Canada - Tuesday, April 22, 2003 5:30 PM CDT
Dear Maryla, Scott and Cali,
Thinking of you on this very special day - I'll be looking for that rainbow of balloons tonight!

Stephanie Carter <step_carter@hotmail.com>
London, ON Canada - Tuesday, April 22, 2003 5:11 PM CDT
Thinking of what a treasure you received 10 years ago tonight and what a happy time it was.
I have sunflowers to plant in Caedan's honour. I have never grown them before. I expect the squirrels will harvest them long before me but I would think Caedan would approve of me planting squirrel food for his Earth Day.

Karen M <hbyc7@rogers.com>
Waterloo, ON Canada - Tuesday, April 22, 2003 5:09 PM CDT
Hi Maryla...Thank you so very much for emailing me. I just wanted to wish Caedan a very happy ANGEL birthday!! Even though it is raining here I will send off a balloon to reach up to him!!!! I'm sure he won't mind sharing at least one balloon with Angel Kassie!! Please keep in touch...and I'm praying that all is starting to heal with you and your family. Angel kisses to ANGELS Caedan & Kassidy xoxo
Carol Pendleton <dcpendleton@rogers.com / www.kassiescourage.com>
Bowmanville, ONT - Tuesday, April 22, 2003 4:52 PM CDT
Thinking of you on this difficult day. We'll all be looking for those balloons!! Wishing you all the best on Caedan's 10th birthday. Happy Birthday Caedan!
Love Donna, Lynn, Carol, Nancy, Starla, Karen 7W
London, on Canada - Tuesday, April 22, 2003 4:42 PM CDT
Dear Gallaghers,
We intend to send balloons to Caedan tonight to celebrate his special day. Cody mentions him often.
God be with all of you today and every day. Your strength is an inspiration to us all.
Love, Sharon, John, Trevor and Cody

Sharon Simpson <john.simpson6@sympatico.ca>
Windsor, - Tuesday, April 22, 2003 1:33 PM CDT
Hi guys. Sending birthday hugs via yellow balloons to "Angel Caedan" and big cyber-hugs to all of you on this special day! Our balloons will be ready for a 7:20pm lift off tonight... see you in the skies!
Kristyn
- Tuesday, April 22, 2003 12:50 AM CDT
The weather prediction here today was for heavy rain and thunder, but as I sit here and look out the window, the sky is baby-blue, the sun is shining, and the clouds are just beautiful. There's no doubt in my mind this gorgeous day is for Caedan. He still changes the world.
~ Happy Birthday ~
Love ~
The Wadas

Bill, Stacey, Bryce, and Chad <SLW6204@aol.com>
Las Vegas, NV USA - Tuesday, April 22, 2003 10:59 AM CDT
Maryla, we will be sending our balloons up to the heavens for your prescious son Caedan this evening at 7:20 p.m. You and Scott and Cali are in my every waking thoughts today as you struggle to make this very difficult day a special one in memory of your beloved child. We are all connected through cyber-space and our love and thoughts will be floating into the evening sky with our messages of hope and love. My arms cannot reach you at this moment, but my heart sends you my love nonetheless.

Tami xo

Tami Watchurst (mom to Alexander: A.L.L. o/t 98-09-10) <Leapco@auracom.com>
Orangeville, Ontario Canada - Tuesday, April 22, 2003 10:25 AM CDT
Maryla...thanks so much for email yesterday. It was so nice to hear from you!! I just wanted to wish "Angel" Caedan a HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!!!!! We are going to do the same thing - send balloons out for "Angel" Kassidy's 3rd birthday on June 20th!! I'll be sure to send one out to Caedan today.... I know that Caedan will let Kassie play with one for a while..hehe. I'll be sure to keep in touch now. Praying that we all keep our babies in our hearts!! Kisses to ANGELS CAEDAN and KASSIDY xoxoxo
Carol Pendleton <dcpendleton@rogers.com / www.kassiescourage.com>
Bowmanville, ONT - Tuesday, April 22, 2003 9:31 AM CDT
Our thoughts are with you today. I see some birthday confetti falling from heaven. Can't wait to see the yellow sky in Byron tonight.
Hugs and Love
The Cordiners

Kelly
- Tuesday, April 22, 2003 9:27 AM CDT
You know you are in my thoughts today. I know you will treasure each second of this day as the perfect time to reflect and remember all the beauty and love that was bestowed upon you from your incredible son.

It is a wonderful gift you are giving Caedan, Cali, Scott, and yourself. Not to mention Caedan's countless admirers. A celebration of life. A way for everyone to feel close to Caedan and you, and each other, despite distance, you have once again brought everyone to together to honour Caedan.

We love you. We will honour 7:20 p.m. as well.

Love to you, Scott and Cali.

Love Lisa, Colin, Andrew, Grant, and Eric <colin.hill@quicklinks.ca>
Lindsay, - Tuesday, April 22, 2003 9:22 AM CDT
Thinking of you all today. I can't imagine what mixed feelings this day brings to you. I will remember Caedan and smile at his sense of humour, and his courage. Take care of each other...
Tracy M. <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Tuesday, April 22, 2003 8:56 AM CDT
Thinking of you on this most special day and sending love and best wishes to celebrate Caedan's 10th birthday. Also, happy 10th anniversary Maryla!
Mary Lou <mlt.csi@hay.net>
Exeter, ON Canada - Tuesday, April 22, 2003 8:49 AM CDT
Hi Maryla.

Today is the day God gave you your son. Happy Birthday to Caedan. I am thinking of you Scott Cali and Caedan. Today Nicholas and I are going to Canandale's Nursery to buy my *herbs* for my herb garden...in memory of Caedan...something green for his earth day.
A memory of Caedan....Maryla....I can close my eyes and picture Eric and Caedan playing with Lisa in the the Child LIfe room on the clinic side...way back when....and I am sure they are both playing togther up in Heaven......smiling...
Love Sue

Sue Thiessen <thiessen@amtelecom.net>
Aylmer, ON - Tuesday, April 22, 2003 8:29 AM CDT
Mar, Scott and Cali,
Just wanted you to know you are all in my thoughts today. We'll be ready with balloons at 7:20 tonight. Happy Birthday Caedan.
Big hugs to you.
Love you,
Lori

Lori Wightman <thewightmans@aol.com>
- Tuesday, April 22, 2003 7:57 AM CDT
Mar and Scott, thinking of you always and especially today.
Happy Birthday to your dear Angel Caedan on his 10th birthday. I'm sure he'll be smiling at all the beautiful balloons we will be sending up to him in heaven tonight...at exactly 7:20pm.
Big Hugs

Sandy & John Bolton <jandsbolton@aol.com>
Amherstburg, ON CANADA - Tuesday, April 22, 2003 7:45 AM CDT
Maryla, Scott and Cali,

Thinking of you all today, hoping that today brings you some happiness with the tears. The skies will be thick with balloons here in Windsor too, as we remember dear Caedan on his birthday.

Shannon, Derek and Miya <staylor@wecas.on.ca>
- Tuesday, April 22, 2003 7:28 AM CDT
Dear Maryla, Scott and Cali
I just wanted to wish you a Happy Easter. I will be watching the skies Tues for the rainbow of colours as I add mine to it. Thinking of you often with fond thoughts and warm memories.
Cathie

Cathie Crawford
Belmont, - Sunday, April 20, 2003 1:13 AM CDT
I am not sure what to say Maryla, as I dont want to pretend to even begin to imagine what you are going through. But I wanted to drop by and extend our condolences and wishes that Caedan is pain free and at peace, looking over you all. Will be out with our balloons 7:20 Tuesday......
Chris ~ Gooch's Site


- Saturday, April 19, 2003 4:11 PM CDT
I hope you are having a Happy Easter Weekend
Sandy <growingcocnern@hotmail.com>
London, Ont Canada - Saturday, April 19, 2003 10:09 AM CDT
We look forward to seeing the London sky transformed with the fresh colours of spring..Thinking of you often! Our prayers are with you as you continue the healing journey. All our love to you, Scott and Cali.

Becky and Sylvia, 7N/W Nurses

Becky Nichols <nicholre@execulink.com>
Tillsonburg, ont Canada - Thursday, April 17, 2003 11:55 PM CDT
John is going to take the afternoon off and we're going to drive up to Whistler, to the lookout where you (Maryla), Caedan and John stopped when you came to visit in 2001. That is where we will send our balloons off. As you said, close to heaven.
Much love.

Noah, John and Christie
- Tuesday, April 15, 2003 9:02 PM CDT
Hello there Gallaghers ~
It has been a while since I have written, but I try to check in regularly. So there's a birthday coming up that needs to be celebrated, and your idea of balloons taking off is great. I wish I could be there to see the rainbow of colour. On Caedan's birthday, April 22, I will be in New York City. Maybe if I'm at the top of the Empire State building I can see the balloons and let one go to join them. Then maybe a silent toast at the irish pub, Langans. I think Caedan would like that. I know this day will be one of your most difficult yet, but know Ceadan's big eye's will be smiling down at you.

Jennifer Brinklow <jennbrinklow@aol.com>
Morristown, NJ USA - Monday, April 14, 2003 11:01 PM CDT
For Caedan's birthday I will be at the Blood Donar Clinic on Commisioners Road in London giving Blood. I have been delaying giving blood, and never really figured out why. Deep inside this nagging feeling said "wait". I called the Blood Donar Clinic and said I need an appointment and it HAS to be on April 22. The time I got was 6:30 pm. Earliest I could go due to my work schedual. So in Caedans honor and memory I will give blood.
Amy <albilyea@rogers.com>
- Monday, April 14, 2003 9:35 PM CDT
Hey there..I just actually finished a scrapbook, and you may think im too young, 13, but I really like the idea of a scrapbook in caedans memory. i think that would be very special and important. And i would be MORE than happy to do the scrapbook. Will you let me? I would include photos of all of the balloons taking off and I could print off the photos off of this site. I could include poems (I am now a published author, my poems comming out in a book called "Poems for the young hearts" in August! :o) ) And some details on Caedan. If you would not like me to do this, then just please tell me that at cottoncandee2@hotmail.com. And if you would allow me to do this , on april 22nd would everyone please take photos of the balloons and whatever they might be doing to celebrate his birthday. Anyone with any suggestions PLEASE e-mail me at cottoncandee2@hotmail.com.. thanks!!! :)
Paige Rudland <cottoncandee2@hotmail.com>
London, ON Canada!!! :-) - Monday, April 14, 2003 10:38 AM CDT
I will be watching the skies over London on Caedan's Birthday to see the rainbow of balloons!!
Christine 7 West <christinehoover4@hotmail.com>
London, On - Saturday, April 12, 2003 5:17 PM CDT
Sounds great! We will be lifting them off in Mt. Carmel too. I'll be sure to tell Liz. What a fantastic and uplifting idea - You're amazing!
Take care, we are thinking of you guys as always!

Kristyn
Mt.Carmel, - Saturday, April 12, 2003 7:24 AM CDT
Maryla, Scott, Cali

Terrific idea. I am now looking forward to Caedan's Birthday. Thank you for the wonderful idea.

Sandy <growingconcern@hotmail.com>
London, On Canada - Thursday, April 10, 2003 5:46 PM CDT
Great idea...we'll be sending of our balloon(s) too!

Susan, Ken, Daniel and Miranda

Susan Pigott <pigotts@lhsc.on.ca>
London, On Ca - Wednesday, April 9, 2003 10:08 PM CDT
Just yesterday John and I were in the car talking about Caedan's upcoming birthday and wondering what we would do to celebrate him. I love the idea of balloons.....we'll definitely be sending some off from here. I can already hear Noah cheering them on, "up, up, up". Yellow is perfect.
I think we might read a little Winnie-the-Pooh, too.
Sending our love.

Christie, John and Noah
- Wednesday, April 9, 2003 9:38 PM CDT
For Caedan's birthday, I think I will plant something in my garden in his honour. Something that I can nod to periodically and chat with if I find myself weeding or pruning nearby. Something yellow... like a Forsythia maybe! I'll look into it this week so that I will be ready for the 22nd.
Jenn
Vancouver, BC - Wednesday, April 9, 2003 3:50 PM CDT
Maryla-
Wanted to say hi and let you know your family is still in my thoughts and prayers.

Karen Banister <www.caringbridge.org/ca/bryanbanister>
San Diego, CA USA - Wednesday, April 9, 2003 11:27 AM CDT
Here's what I'm going to do on Caedan's birthday. I'm going to gather up every available child and teenager (rounding up teenagers is probably a bit like herding cats) and we are going for ice cream. I will then buy the brightest, shiniest yellow balloon I can find. Maybe I'll buy two, one for Marian and one for Caedan. If she agrees (BIG if) we will let one of them go from the top of Beacon Hill and let it sail over Juan de Fuca Strait, straight to Caedan. I love you.
Annie <anniebowers@shaw.ca>
Victoria, BC - Wednesday, April 9, 2003 11:18 AM CDT
Hi Maryla, we will definitely join in in your balloon lift off. I'm sure the kids will like the idea of sending baloons to Caedan to celebrate his birthday. Since we are on the hill here, we will take pictures from our vantage point and share them with you (and you know me and my belief's, Caedan will also enjoy the celebration from his vantage spot!) I'm sure the kids will think of something more to, so once I talk to them, I'll pass it on. Thinking of you all. Hi to Scott and Cali too. Love Beth, Pat, Dylan and Dawson
Beth Sutherland <bethcesutherland@sympatico.ca>
London, ON Canada - Wednesday, April 9, 2003 9:59 AM CDT
Well, last year on Caedan's birthday I donated blood for my very first time - I can't do that again this year though, because they don't want to see me again until May 6. Maybe there are people out there who wouldn't mind doing that in my place in 2 weeks?? ( A small public service announcement for the Red Cross) :)
Sorry I missed you and Cali yesterday! It was a long day for me, since the hospital wouldn't let me beyond the front doors. But, I DID do some shopping while I was waiting, so it wasn't a total waste!
I'll try and think of something else we could do on Caedan's birthday - balloons are great, but if Miya is around it may be kind of hard to convince her to let them go - three year olds are like that. Talk to you soon!

Tracy M. <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Wednesday, April 9, 2003 7:54 AM CDT
Only you, Maryla, could change Caedan's birthday into something we can all plan for, celebrate and capture memories of. You are incredibly inspiring!
I read somewhere that "There are years that ask questions and years that answer". In this, the 10th year of Caedan's birth, may you find some answers to those difficult questions we've all been asking.
I'm going out to buy my balloons...and get some film... the skies will be filled on Tuesday, April 22nd.
Sending lots of love and big hugs to you, Scott and Cali.

Sandy & John Bolton <jandsbolton@aol.com>
Amherstburg, ON Canada - Wednesday, April 9, 2003 7:49 AM CDT
Maryla, I have been planning on having a balloon send off to the heavens on Caedan's birthday and then I read your post. Now I know the exact time to launch. We remember Caedan and we have his pictures to look at his beautiful smile. The only thing I wasn't sure of was what colour for the balloons, I will follow your lead on that one. This birthday will be a very difficult one for you and Scott and Cali, we will be with you as we all send our heart-felt thoughts and love up to the skies for your prescious son.

Love, Tami

Tami Watchurst (mom to Alexander: A.L.L. o/t 98-09-10) <Leapco@auracom.com>
Orangeville, on Canada - Wednesday, April 9, 2003 7:25 AM CDT
Can we tie balloons to the trees in the court? Will the city get mad at us? Why should they, they don't do anything in the court anyways.
Cody checked in to the web page last night. It's been a long time for him to do that. He loved the picutre of Caed with the pumpkins.

Tracy B
- Wednesday, April 9, 2003 7:25 AM CDT
We'll definitely launch balloons from here in Edmonton. And I think I will make a cake.... One of my resolutions for this year was "more cake"! This seems like a great time to bake from scratch. What a great idea Maryla. I can really hear in your voice, even across the miles, that you are "back". Caedan must be very proud of you. (we all are!)
Valerie Sawyer <tvsawyer@shaw.ca>
Edmonton, AB - Tuesday, April 8, 2003 11:30 PM CDT
hmmm 7:20 huh? okay. I hope if anyone else does anything they take pix so maybe you can make a scrapbook of everyone releasing balloons, notes, etc....
Chris ~ Gooch's Site


- Tuesday, April 8, 2003 9:48 PM CDT
Maryla,

I loved the story.... and I can just picture Caedan as a beautiful angel, adding little bright spots here and there to your day. You remain in my prayers.
God bless,

Lisa Agee (www.caringbridge.com/page/ross) <lagee67@hotmail.com>
Camden, AL - Monday, April 7, 2003 0:00 AM CDT
A Soul’s Anguish

Overwhelming he who tries to understand are only darkness and pain,
Bewilderment and broken hearts are all that remain,
Time heals wounds they say,
So why does it hurt more with each passing day?

The yearning heart’s fury burns deep,
Just to hear one more word, see one more smile,
How could such a little boy climb a mountain so steep,
With the courage of a lion he walked each uncharted mile,

Powerless, I can only hold him with tears,
Please don’t take away my sweet baby boy,
Always, his eyes assure me he has no fears,
Oh please g-d let me keep my pride and joy,

Cherished are the memories,
Tarnished are the dreams,
9 years seem so momentary,
Down from heaven my angel’s spirit gleams

Mr Marty Mcfly
Hill Valley , CA USA - Sunday, April 6, 2003 5:47 PM CDT
Bless you as you grieve. Our family just had a story accepted in the upcoming book, Chicken Soup for the Nascar Soul. It will be out at the end of April. I lost my mother to lung cancer, though I know it would be much harder to lose a child. I am sure your child is just fine, watching over you, encouraging you on. Remember, it must be frustrating for your child too, wishing YOU were ok... In the end, we will all be reunited with those we love. You take care! Love, Colton's family
www.caringbridge.org/ca/coltonmeyer
- Saturday, April 5, 2003 10:05 AM CST
Hi -- I just found your site through the Cancer Kids web page. I'm so sorry to read that Caedan passed away from this horrible disease. My son Colin was dx with ALL in 1997 when he was 19 months old. He did 2 1/2 years of chemo. He relapsed on September 9, 2002. I notice the very similiar time frame as your son. Right now Colin is going through 2 more years of chemo. http://caringbridge.org/wi/colin/
Jan <jan866@aol.com>
Glendale, WI - Saturday, April 5, 2003 2:35 AM CST
HI Maryla. What a great story that was. I also enjoy reading Chicken Soup books. I'm actually reading "Chicken Soup for the Unsinkable soul" right now, and it's really good. Anyway we just wanted to let you know that a day doesn't go by that we don't think of you, or Caedan. He was such a great kid,and such a fighter and he or his wonderful personality will never be forgotten. Lot's of prayers, and strength sent your way..
Kaeleigh Barney <kaeleighbarney@yahoo.ca>
Woodstock, Ontario Canada - Friday, April 4, 2003 5:06 PM CST
MARYLA,

I JUST REMEMBERED YOU HAD NEW PICTURES AND I HAD TO RETURN TO THE SITE. I LOVE THE PICTURE OF CAEDAN AND ROBERT.

SANDY <GROWINGCONCERN@HOTMAIL.COM>
LONDON, ONT CANADA - Thursday, April 3, 2003 7:25 PM CST
Hi Scott, Maryla and Cali, I believe that story is true, and that Caedan body has transformed to be strong and allows him to do what ever he wants, which of course includes visiting you, when you are thinking of him. (which I know is almost always!) Thinking of you. Beth, Pat, Dylan and Dawson
Beth Sutherland <bethcesutherland@sympatico.ca>
London, On Canada - Thursday, April 3, 2003 7:07 PM CST
Maryla,

Thanks for the help with the Krispy Kream Fund Raiser. It was nice to have a chance to gab with you.

I know it's not too good to wish time away but I do want to get rid of the cold weather.

Take care and see you soon.

Bye for now,

Sandy <growingconcern@hotmail.com>
London, Ont Canada - Thursday, April 3, 2003 6:10 PM CST
Maryla:
Way over here on the west coast we are all thinking of you (well, I can't speak for the entire province but the Gallagher/Woodin family most certainly is).

We love you, hope you can feel that, it is very true.

Call anytime for anything (might as well we are usually up anyway).

Your brother
John

John, Christie and Toddler Noah <twobrides@hotmail.com>
Vancouver, BC - Wednesday, April 2, 2003 11:05 PM CST
Maryla:
Way over here on the west coast we are all thinking of you (well, I can't speak for the entire province but the Gallagher/Woodin family most certainly is).

We love you, hope you can feel that, it is very true.

Call anytime for anything (might as well we are usually up anyway).

Your brother
John

John, Christie and Toddler Noah <twobrides@hotmail.com>
Vancouver, BC - Wednesday, April 2, 2003 11:05 PM CST
Maryla, what a beautiful story. I know my Dad is right near to me every time I think/talk to him. Just 'cause I can't see him, doesn't mean he doesn't hear.
Valerie
Ottawa, Ont - Wednesday, April 2, 2003 3:28 PM CST
Mar...

What a perfect story. A perfect perfect story.

I love you.

Tina Herzog <tina.herzog@sympatico.ca>
Windsor, Canada - Wednesday, April 2, 2003 9:31 AM CST
Mar,
What a beautiful story.
This is what I believe, that Caedan and all our loved ones are happy and healthy and that they do tell us they are ok. Everytime I dream of my Dad I take it as a message from him that he is ok.
I also believe kids are more receptive than us adults. I betcha Cali dreams of her big brother.
All my love, my friend,
Lori
P.S. Can you imagine ME with email capabilities to Heaven?

Lori (Richards)Wightman <thewightmans@aol.com>
Amherstburg, ON Canada - Wednesday, April 2, 2003 8:44 AM CST
Dear Maryla.

Thinking of you today. Thinking of alot of things today.....it seems to be a *heavy* day for one's soul. I second Judy's entry....I miss our little boys as well.
You see M......it has been 7 years since Eric has been gone and yet in my heart....like today....it hurts beyond words. Photo's are worth their weight in gold.....you can never have too many.....the non posed and natural ones really capture their true essence....just look deeply at them.
All my love dear Friend.
Sue

Sue Thiessen <thiessen@amtelecom.net>
Aylmer, ON - Monday, March 31, 2003 1:03 PM CST
Maryla,

I just want to thank you for keeping up this web page and for inspiring me each time I read it. Have you had any word on whether or not you might be a match?

God bless,

Lisa Agee (www.caringbridge.com/page/ross) <lagee67@hotmail.com>
Camden, AL - Sunday, March 30, 2003 8:41 PM CST
I miss our little Angels...
Judy(Angel Dustin's Mom)
Sombra, Ont Canada - Sunday, March 30, 2003 8:16 AM CST
Hello my friend,
Just thought I'd say "hi". What great pictures!! You are absolutely correct you can NEVER have too many. Hope you are enjoying the warm weather. It's amazing what a warm sunny day can do for the soul. Hopefully we can do tea soon. Hugs to you!!

Lori <lhn.sashegyi@sympatico.ca>
London, - Wednesday, March 26, 2003 8:08 AM CST
HI Maryla and Cali. Just wanted to say hi and that we think of you guys each and every day. Thanks for posting some new pics of Caedan, we really enjoyed seeing them. You guys are in our thoughts and prayers everyday, and Caedan and his wonderful personality will never be forgotten.
Kaeleigh Barney <kaeleighbarney@yahoo.ca>
Woodstock, Ontario Canada - Monday, March 24, 2003 4:38 PM CST
Thanks for the reminder that photos of everyday life are important along with the special moments. It's good to know that YOU are consenting to be photographed these days. I must remember that the next time we are together. I really love the new photos you've got up! Thank you for sharing them with us.
Jenn Friesen
Vancouver, BC - Monday, March 24, 2003 8:15 AM CST
Maryla,

I will try to keep that in mind. What wonderful advice. Tim gave me a digital camera for Christmas. I just have to figure out how to use it. You're the technical genius, come on over and give me a hand.

Thank you so much for taking those pictures. We have the picture of Cody & Caedan on our wall unit. I look at it constantly and remember what good friends are all about!

Tracy B
- Monday, March 24, 2003 7:09 AM CST
Glad you're enjoying the Krispy Kreme's. It's so funny for us to see everyone going so wild over them. Krispy Kreme started here and we have done them for fundraisers and just gone to get them for as long as I can remember, and I am 27. We have lots and they're also in all the grocery stores--no big deal, but it's so funny to see everyone else to get so excited about them. I'm actually in the process of trying to work out a deal for them to help raise money for children with life threatening diseases since the corporate office is in my back yard. So, we'll see how that goes. Also, I just want you to know that you are constantly in my thoughts and prayers. Blessings to you and keep in touch when you are up to it.
Khalita My Caringbridge Site Duke Peds BMT Aplastic Anemia <khalita@hecaresonline.org>
Lexington, NC - Thursday, March 20, 2003 12:16 AM CST
Krispy Kreme? What is this Krispy Kreme? Everyone seems to know all about it, except for this west coast exile. Someone explain!!!
A big hug to Cali, and to you and Scott!

Annie <anniebowers@shaw.ca>
Victoria, BC Canada - Thursday, March 20, 2003 10:45 AM CST
I hate to tell you guys this, but there is a KK right where my hubby works --- and cops and firemen get them for free. all you have to do is go in uniform. He felt bad, he was getting like 2 dozen and a half dozen coffees for the guys at work, and they were like no, no.. you dont pay! And he doesnt even like donuts, thinks they are TOO sweet!
Maryla - I am thinking of you as always.

Chris ~ Gooch's Site


- Thursday, March 20, 2003 8:31 AM CST
MMMmmmmm... Krispy Kreme!!
Can't make it to London, but will it be okay if I just have some here in Windsor?? I'll be thinking about you guys every bite!!
Fact or Fiction: Is it true that when they light up the Krispy Kreme sign, it means that they are giving away free donuts cuz they are making new ones?? Always wondered....
Have a WONDERFUL time at the Childcan event. They are lucky to have you...
Big Hugs

John and Sandy Bolton <jandsbolton@aol.com>
Amherstburg, ON Canada - Thursday, March 20, 2003 7:13 AM CST
Ahhhhh....Krispy Kreme. There is a big KK store nearby the hospital and Laura ALWAYS requests a box of chocolate when we come home! And as for snow...it was 80* here today, so not much chance of it! I think we've skipped spring and gone straight to summer!
Take care,

Lisa Agee (www.caringbridge.com/page/ross) <lagee67@hotmail.com>
Camden, AL - Wednesday, March 19, 2003 8:26 PM CST
Mar
I can't believe Windsor has something London does not. Hate to tell you, but you could have had them straight from the oven last weekend. The good news is now that we know, we will bring them each time we come to London!
Miya is still talking about her "best friend" Cali. It was so nice to see you guys (and so nice to wake up alone)

Take care and say hi to Scott and Cali

Shannon Taylor ( Mangin) <staylor@wecas.on.ca>
- Wednesday, March 19, 2003 2:54 PM CST
Maryla-
My husband is battling ALL (27 years old, pre B, -PH). I am moved by your amazing courage. I wish you and your family only the very best, you deserve it. One day at a time, my friend.

Karen Banister
San Diego, CA USA - Tuesday, March 18, 2003 2:54 PM CST
Hi! I haven't checked on you in a while so I thought I would jump in & see how you are doing. You are in my thoughts & prayers.
Sheila
Peru, IN USA - Monday, March 17, 2003 6:28 PM CST
Hey Mar and Scott,
Not a day goes by that I don't think about you guys and how you are doing. I am due back to Windsor in May and I am hopeful that we can get together. My love and prayers are always with you both. Love Cheryl

Cheryl Legault <leggo100@hotmail.com>
- Monday, March 17, 2003 10:29 AM CST
Hi Maryla... haven't written a note in a while but not a day goes by that I don't think of you and say a little prayer at night. Each time I check in I see how amazing you are doing. Each day different, sometimes good, sometimes not so well. However the amazing and important thing is you are making your way through these days - especially the "firsts" you've been through and the many more to come. But your doing it and that is a huge and wonderful thing.

As for Cali, she is a saviour. A special someone who you get to enjoy and make a UNIQUE bond with. Each of our children are different and they bring very unique things to our lives. Caedan and you shared a bond only you and he can ever have - and Cali is sharing an equal bond but totally different from Caedan's. Keep enjoying her. She likes to keep you on your toes and put fun, laughter and a challenge in your days.

You are doing GREAT Maryla! Take care, I'm thinking of you always......kd


Kristyn Darling
Mt. Carmel, On Canada - Sunday, March 16, 2003 2:03 PM CST
Hi Maryla: Just to let you know that not a day goes by without someone checking in on you. Know that just because we don't sign the guestbook, doesn't mean we are not still here. My fingers are crossed that someday you may be a donor.
Valerie H.
Ottawa, Ont - Friday, March 14, 2003 8:06 PM CST
Maryla,
It is so amazing that you may be a possible marrow donor. How exciting! I hope that you are a perfect match and can give another family the gift of life. I won't even begin to say I know what you are going through in dealing with Caedan's loss, but want you to know you remain in my prayers. Hang in there, my friend.
God bless,

Lisa Agee (www.caringbridge.com/page/ross) <lagee67@hotmail.com>
Camden, AL - Thursday, March 13, 2003 9:32 AM CST
Yes its true, my mom's been gone almost 30 years now, and I still wonder what it would have been like to get to know her. I might actually have been able to cook or sew... Caedan's death was a big blow to the Caringbridge family and of course will emotionally impact you guys forever. Sometimes I sit back and think of Caedan and Zack, {another friend's son} and honestly cant believe how long its been.. you must feel like you are constantly in a battle to not forget the little things, the favorite things - from food to clothes, his pet peeves and all the little things that made Caedan unique. Caedan was unique Maryla, and a remarkable person. The first of everything is heartwrenching and I wish I could promise you the seconds will be easier... but in all honesty missing Caedan will take a lifetime... the load may lighten, but it will be there....

Chris ~ Gooch's Site


- Thursday, March 13, 2003 8:05 AM CST
Yes, It is a year of firsts. Your comment about your Mom really touched a spot with me. My Dad's been gone 17 years now and I still miss him. Thinking of you always.

P.S. I have a ton of spaghetti sauce in "your" freezer. Thanks!!

Tracy B
- Wednesday, March 12, 2003 7:49 AM CST
How ironic..."a year of firsts" sounds like it should be a good thing. Remember always that there are many people that care and who would do any little thing to help. Thinking of you often.
Love Lori

Lori Wightman <thewightmans@aol.com>
Amherstburg, Canada - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 7:00 PM CST
Hi Maryla, Haven't signed in for awhile, so I thought I'd drop by for a "Hi". We are almost 1 year OT now and very grateful for that. Rosie was finishing just as Caedan was preparing for transplant. Sigh. Just wanted you to know that we are still praying for you guys. Take care.
Amy & Rosie Rumberger <Rumberger@alamedanet.net>
Alameda, CA USA - Sunday, March 9, 2003 10:12 AM CST
Hi Maryla ~
I'm just thinking about you tonight so I thought I'd let you know. I am excited to read about your call from the registry.........the timing is really incredible! I think we're all going to be checking back here after your blood test, that's for sure!
Sending love and friendship to your family, and remembering Caedan always ~
Stacey

Stacey Wada <SLW6204@aol.com>
Las Vegas, NV USA - Saturday, March 8, 2003 11:27 PM CST
I am thinking of and praying for you as always. I won't stop. Blessings to you and lots of love.
Khalita www.caringbridge.com/nc/khalita Duke Peds BMT aplastic anemia <khalita@hecaresonline.org>
Lexington, NC - Saturday, March 8, 2003 11:27 AM CST
Hi Maryla
What an exciting call. I am thrilled for you. This opening has divine timing. I continue to keep you in my thoughts and prayers. Take care of you XOXO

Jennifer <jthompson@lon.imag.net>
St Thomas, - Friday, March 7, 2003 2:17 PM CST
Call it what you will....I think it's the best phone call you could have gotten, and the timing couldn't be better. I'll keep my fingers crossed that you are a match. I think someone "up there" is smiling today.
Tracy M. <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Thursday, March 6, 2003 12:32 AM CST
Call it what you will....I think it's the best phone call you could have gotten, and the timing couldn't be better. I'll keep my fingers crossed that you are a match. I think someone "up there" is smiling today.
Tracy M. <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Thursday, March 6, 2003 12:32 AM CST
Hi Maryla. its shana. i hope u remember me. well i been thinking of u and wondered how u were doing. you're a strong person and i just want u to know i was always and will always be praying for u and your family. i hope you're a match for whoever that person may be and thanx for signing my guest book. be strong. take kare
love shana

shana dowdell <minny_m0use@hotmail.com>
windsor, canada - Thursday, March 6, 2003 10:14 AM CST
Maryla, What if... Wouldn't it be wonderful. I will say a little prayer that you are a match. It was nice to see you outside yesterday. Even if you were shovelling the driveway. Scott, I thought that was supposed to be your job.
Tracy B <bestbet@sympatico.ca>
London, on Ca - Thursday, March 6, 2003 7:32 AM CST
I will pray that you are a perfect match as a potential donor for whoever you have been called for. I hope you would be able to do this, even though it would be difficult to think of the fact that your dear Caeden did not survive the same ordeal. If this happens I believe it could be a very healing experience for you. Bless you as you face the days ahead. I am also on the registry and would consider it a great honor to be able to fulfill such a mission. This is no coincidence, it is God's plan.
In Him,

Debbie Nagy
Manchester, MO - Wednesday, March 5, 2003 10:22 PM CST
I didn't quite know what I could say after reading your last entry. I guess I just want to say that however you are feeling on any given day is perfectly normal - I don't believe there are certain stages that are only supposed to last a certain length of time and if you are in that stage beyond that time you are not "grieving properly". Some days (I hope) you will smile and giggle with Cali and never shed a tear. Other days you will have a hard time functioning at all. With time, and love, the smiley days will become a little more frequent, and the hard days a little less hard. When those hard days come, I want you to read back through these pages and remember the inspiration that was Caedan, and the people who remember him and the rest of you with wonder, and awe. You WILL get through this - Cali is one reason, the rest of us are another.
Tracy M. <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Tuesday, March 4, 2003 9:23 AM CST
God bless Cali...and the brother who thought she hung the moon...I think you are right, Mar...I think he knew all along. Lots of hugs to you all.
Lori Wightman <thewightmans@aol.com>
Amherstburg, ON Canada - Monday, March 3, 2003 10:42 AM CST
Maryla,
Six months may seem like a long time, but when considering everything you've been through, it's not. Take it day by day, my friend, and give yourself as much time as it takes.
Thinking of you always,

Lisa Agee (www.caringbridge.com/page/ross) <lagee67@hotmail.com>
Camden, AL - Sunday, March 2, 2003 2:35 PM CST
Oh Maryla, I'm so sorry. I guess you learn to shelve your emotions better, for the sake of others around you (Cali) or others who feel you should, but thats all it really is -- shelving them, they dont go away. Please consider contacting Rosemary Smith at childrenofdome.com, she can be very helpful. She lost 2 sons on the same day.. she has sent packets to over 700 bereaved families...... This loss is not something that will go away, the lack of Caedan's presence is a huge loss in your life..

Chris ~ Gooch's Site


- Saturday, March 1, 2003 7:41 PM CST
Maryla

Tami....Alexander's Mom could not have said it any better.
Dear Friend....no one expects you to hide any of your emotions....that would physically be impossible....do not be scared to show your emotions...thats what true friends and family are all about. We have to be there for each other....this is truly the hardest time of our lives...and will sadly...always be. I know that I have sent you emails privately but I guess tonight I just wanted to send one to you and everyone else on this list that has truly and cleary supported you Scott Cali and best of all Ceadan....because we love you and care deeply about all of you. Continuing to think of you and keep you all in my heart and in my prayers.

Love Sue

Sue Thiessen
Aylmer, ON - Friday, February 28, 2003 8:26 PM CST
Maryla, It has been 6 months, but you have loved Caedan for over 9 years and you will continue to love him as long as you live. I am so sorry for the pain that you are feeling. I think of you all of the time, I remember you in my prayers and I remember Caedan. I always will. You don't have to hide anything from those who care for you. We are not expecting or pushing you towards some magical time period when all of your pain will disappear. We are praying for you to feel our love and support. I have been thinking about Caedan's birthday coming up in April and knowing how difficult it is going to be for you and Scott. This cyber space world is one which allows us to send you our thoughts and our love to you and your family. Thank you for continuing to share your journey with us.

Love, Tami Watchurst

Tami Watchurst (mom to Alexander: A.L.L. o/t 98-09-10) <Leapco@auracom.com>
Orangeville, Ontario Canada - Friday, February 28, 2003 7:17 AM CST
I came across your webpage for your precious Caedan and am just in tears. I am so very sorry for your loss. I have an online childrens memorial...and would be honored to add a star in memory of Caedan if you would like one.
My thoughts and prayers will be with you and your whole family....Praying that God's love will be a source of comfort and strength to you - now and in the days ahead…
God bless
Laura/Heavenly Lights Childrens Memorial
http://www.heavenlylights.homestead.com

Laura/Heavenly Lights Childrens Memorial <heavenlylights@charter.net>
mn - Thursday, February 27, 2003 8:03 PM CST
Good morning, Mar.
I was delighted to see that you had made another post, and then terribly saddened to read the pain in your words. Sending big hugs your way.

Sandy Bolton <jandsbolton@aol.com>
Amherstburg, ON - Thursday, February 27, 2003 8:21 AM CST
Oh Mar,
I wish there was something I could do, something I could say that would ease your pain. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers. All my love to you, Scott, Cali and Caedan.

Lori Wightman
- Wednesday, February 26, 2003 10:01 PM CST
My heart aches for you as I read your last journal entry. No mother should ever have to bury her 9 yr. old child. I will pray that the Lord will give you comfort and strength to deal with each new and difficult day. He loves you so much and does not want you to be in this pain. None of us can understand why he allowed your son to die at such a young age, but I pray that you know Him and believe that His timing is perfect. He loves you deeply, may you feel His presence.
Love in Christ,

Debbie Nagy
Manchester, MO - Wednesday, February 26, 2003 4:41 PM CST
Maryla,
Your strength to write your deepest thoughts and feelings to all of us in the guestbook, is to be admired. Your constant pain. I can't imagine it. I can only wish that each new day allows your pain to be a little more bearable. Our family always says hello to Caedan when we drive by his park. Dillon always shares a personal memory of Caedan. How smart he was at math. How funny he was. How brave he was during his treatment playing at soccer games. I'm thinking of you, Scott and Kali. May tomorrow's step be a little lighter.

Kelly C.
London, - Wednesday, February 26, 2003 4:32 PM CST
Mar...you are not alone in your anguish, I too don't like the place that our children are. The reality of what has happened hits hard and deep..*tender hugs* for you.


Judy (Angel Dustins Mommy)
- Wednesday, February 26, 2003 3:47 PM CST
Hi Maryla. I just wanted you to know that I'm thinking of you today, and alway's, and remebering our dear Caedan each and every day. Just remeber that when your in your darkest day's, think of the wonderful memories of Caedan, because nobody can ever take those away. Thinking and praying for you.
Kaeleigh Barney <kaeleighbarney@yahoo.ca>
Woodstock, Ontario Canada - Wednesday, February 26, 2003 3:08 PM CST
Maryla, Scott & Cali,
I'm sorry that you're going through a rough time. I only hope that one day it won't hurt so much.

P.S. Mike, I loved your joke. I could just see Caed saying that.

Tracy B
- Wednesday, February 26, 2003 11:55 AM CST
YOU ARE GREAT PARENTS AND HE WAS LUCKY TO HAVE YOUR LOVE. I AM SURE HEAVEN BECAME A HAPPIER PLACE WITH HIS ARRIVAL. KISSES IN YOUR HEART.
ROSE
BRASILIA, DF BRAZIL - Tuesday, February 25, 2003 3:11 PM CST
Mar, Scott and Cali,
Just wanted you to know you were in my thoughts today.
Love

Lori Wightman
Amherstburg, on Canada - Monday, February 24, 2003 9:02 PM CST
Hi there.
I don't know you, but just reading a couple entries on your site really show how brave and strong you and your family are. You might have heard of me, maybe..? I'm a 17 yr old girl who has AML and was diagonsed in October 2002. I wish you and your family the best and a good time on your trip.
Take Care

Chelsey Fournie <yourlilgoddess@hotmail.com>
London, ON - Thursday, February 20, 2003 9:13 PM CST
Maryla,
Your strength and attitude have really inspired me in some of my toughest times. Just wanted you to know that. I hope you and Cali have a wonderful trip...you deserve it!
Love,

Lisa Agee (www.caringbridge.com/page/ross) <lagee67@hotmail.com>
Camden, AL - Monday, February 17, 2003 9:52 AM CST
Happy Valentines Day Marlya and Cali. Hope you have fun on your trip. Thinking of you alway's, and remebering all of the great memories of Caedan.
Kaeleigh Bareny <kaeleighbarney@yahoo.ca>
Woodstock, Ontario Canada - Friday, February 14, 2003 2:33 PM CST
Hi Maryla
Happy Valentines Day
Enjoy your trip away with Cali. Thinking of you
XOXO

Jennifer <jthompson@lon.imag.net>
St Thomas, ON Canada - Friday, February 14, 2003 7:23 AM CST
Valentines to Heaven...
Sent on the wings of love...
To my precious child...
In Heaven above.

Lovingly remembering Caedan and Dustin and all of our precious children on Valentines Day.

Special Valentine HUGS for Cali. Please take good care.
www.caringbridge.com/canada/dusinbmt/

Judy (Angel Dustin's Mommy) <jtddrury@sympatico.ca>
Chatham, ON Canada - Friday, February 14, 2003 6:36 AM CST
*This is a joke Caed told me just before transplant last year - i got this version off the net, but editted it as he did (he and i enjoyed, hope you do too!).

Drunk Superman

This guy walks into a bar on the top of a very tall building. He sits down, orders a huge beer, chugs it, walks over to the window, and jumps out. Five minutes later, the guy walks into the bar again, orders another huge beer, chugs it, walks over to the window, and jumps out again. Five minutes later, he re-appears and repeats the whole thing. About half an hour later, another guy at the bar stops the first guy and says, "hey, how the heck are you doing that?!" The first guy responds, "oh, it's really simple physics. When you chug the beer, it makes you all warm inside and since warm air rises, if you just hold your breath you become lighter than air and float down to the sidewalk." "WOW!" exclaims the second man, "I gotta try that!" So he orders a huge beer, chugs it, goes over to the window, jumps out, "splat" on the sidewalk below. The bartender looks over to the first man and says, "Superman, you're a real buthead when you're drunk."*

Maryla, Scott, Cal, you know this, but Caed will never cease to be at the forefront of my mind

mike <gins16@hotmail.com>
london, on can - Thursday, February 13, 2003 4:54 PM CST
Have fun with Dina! And Happy Valentine's Day to you all!
Tracy M. <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Thursday, February 13, 2003 12:22 AM CST
Maryla, many of us are thinking of you, and some just dont know what to say. Happy Valentine's Day sweet Cali, and Caedan, well we know all your days are still filled with love, just no more pain.
Chris ~ Gooch's Site


- Thursday, February 13, 2003 12:08 AM CST
Family,
I thought I would send a few more good wishes your way. You sort of have to with the beautiful sun shine.

Sandy <growingconcern@hotmail.com>
London, Ont Can - Wednesday, February 12, 2003 2:22 PM CST
Hi Mary-la!

Sending you many good wishes and also many hugs. Glad to read that you and Cali had a good day inspite of it all. Keep that lovely smile going.
Think of you often!

Chetna <cbhatt@rogers.com>
London, - Monday, February 10, 2003 9:09 AM CST
Just saw the change in photos you posted. I love the one on the carousel where Caedan looks so much like a mini Scott
:-)

Karen M <hbyc7@rogers.com>
- Saturday, February 8, 2003 9:59 PM CST
Hi Maryla ~
Thinking of you today and sending good thoughts always. Your journal entry made me smile.......I'm glad you and Cali had a good time. I love the photos of Caedan too, I will never forget his beautiful smile!
Take care ~
Stacey and Chad Wada

Stacey & Chad Wada <SLW6204@aol.com>
Las Vegas, NV USA - Saturday, February 8, 2003 2:32 PM CST
Maryla, Scott and Cali~ I just thought that I would check in and say hello. I am in New Jersey now, and enjoying myself and where I work. Glad to hear that you and Cali got out and had a little fun with Caedan. I'm sure he was smiling for you both. Take care, and know I think of you all often.
Love, Jennifer

Jennifer Brinklow <jennbrinklow@aol.com>
Morristown, NJ USA - Saturday, February 8, 2003 1:31 AM CST
Hello Caedan & Family ... Just wanted to stop by to say hello and give you a big hug. I belong to a group of ladies who stitch virtual quilts for children. When you & mom have a moment to spare please stop by Quilts of Love by clicking on the graphic and have a look around. We would love to make you a Quilt of Love of your very own.
Respectfully,
The Quilting Angel's

Gramma Mimi (Quilts of Love) <grammamimi@quiltsoflove.com>
FL - Saturday, February 8, 2003 1:22 AM CST
Hi Maryla,
I love the pictures of Caedan. Brings back lots of memories of him at that age. Glad to hear you and Cali had a fun day together- especially liked the snow angel part. She is a beautiful little girl, and I can just picture the two of you with the toboggan-makes me smile.
Kate

Kate Lupson <slupson@rogers.com>
London, Ont Canada - Friday, February 7, 2003 8:30 PM CST
Just checkin' in to say "hi" and hoping that every day brings you a happy surprise just like last week with Cali at Caedan's special place. Thinking of you always.
P.S. noticed that the Caringbridge graphics on the guest book changed...looks great! (please don't tell me it changed some time ago.....It'll just confirm my suspicion of that "sometimers" disease!)
Have a wonderful weekend!

Sandy Bolton <jandsbolton@aol.com>
Amherstburg, ON Canada - Friday, February 7, 2003 8:34 AM CST
Maryla,
It made me smile to think of Cali making a snow angel for Caedan. What a wonderful day. I hope you have many, many more soon! Thinking and praying for you always.
Love,

Lisa Agee (www.caringbridge.com/page/ross) <lagee67@hotmail.com>
Camden, AL - Thursday, February 6, 2003 11:31 AM CST
Hi there! Im signing to let you know that i visit almost every day, and love beign updated..and im glad you had a fun time with Cali!!
Thinking of you, keep smiling~

*--->Paige R <---*

--->Paige<--- <cottoncandee2@hotmail.com>
London, On canada - Thursday, February 6, 2003 10:18 AM CST
Hi Maryla: Glad to hear that your day turned out to be a good one afterall. Thanks for sharing the "new" pictures in the photo album. I'm sure the happy memories and good times will live in your heart forever. Think of you every day.
Mary Rooke <Mary. Rooke@lhsc.on.ca>
Ingersoll, Ontario - Thursday, February 6, 2003 7:44 AM CST
Just saying Hi and letting you know I had a visit to your web site today.
Karen M <hbyc7@rogers.com>
- Wednesday, February 5, 2003 3:01 PM CST
Maryla,
Here's to more moments like theses. I hope you find they are becomming more frequently. Hugs to all.

Sandy <growingconcern@hotmail.com>
London, Ont Canada - Tueday, February 4, 2003 3:45 PM CST
Hi Marlya and Cali. Just wanted to say that we are thinking of you, and I check your website all the time for new updates. Last night I was going through some things and came across that adorable valentine Caedan had made me last year. It was the one he had done all by himself, and alot of work was put into it. Just seeing that brought a huge smile to my face. I will cherish it forever, and keep it to remind me of his great sense of humour. Thinking of you and your family, and remebering Caedan alway's.
Kaeleigh <kaeleighbarney@yahoo.ca>
Woodstock, Ontario Canada - Tueday, February 4, 2003 3:17 PM CST
Maryla, I have been checking your website on a regular basis. My thoughts are with you and your family. If you ever are in Old South and would like to go for a walk in the old neighbourhood just call on me. I would welcome another walking buddy... Sandy.
Sandy Wagner <swiper@rogers.com>
London, ON Canada - Tueday, February 4, 2003 1:34 PM CST
M - I'm glad you and Cali had fun and there was a bright spot, however temporary, in all this darkness.....

Chris ~ Gooch's Site


- Tueday, February 4, 2003 9:06 AM CST
Hi Maryla, Scott and Cali! Beth here...I just realized when we want to visit awhile, we can read your update and have the feeling we have had a little visit, but if we don't enter the guestbook, you don't know we've had one! So just read your update and smiled all the way through. Kids will be kids and I'm glad Cali is trying everything on for size! Gotta find out what works and what doesn't. We are always thinking of "you all" and of course, Caedan too. Love Beth Pat Dylan and Dawson
Beth Sutherland <bethcesutherland@sympatico.ca>
London, on Canada - Monday, February 3, 2003 6:34 PM CST
Maryla. I'm so glad to hear your day turned out so well. Thinking of you all. Once the weather's nicer I promise to take Cali out for a pony ride. There's a really cute little guy out at the farm that would be just perfect.
Tracy B
- Monday, February 3, 2003 7:08 AM CST
Hi Maryla, Just checking in. Glad to read that you and Cali had a good day. Still praying for you guys. Rosie is well at 10 months OT, but the fear is still there. Wish I could move past it and find peace. Peace is the thing I pray for us all. Much love.
Amy & Rosie Rumberger <TimRumb@aol.com>
Alameda, CA USA - Saturday, February 1, 2003 5:27 PM CST
Hi Sweets,
I'm glad you had a good day and it was wonderful to hear a smile in your words...See, there is light at the end of the tunnel, it's just that sometimes it's blinking.
Love to you all

Lori Wightman
Amherstburg, ON Canada - Saturday, February 1, 2003 11:47 AM CST
Hi Maryla and Cali.
Thanks so much for adding the pictures of Caedan. He is so cute, and even when he was little alway's had that bright smile. Thinking of you.

Kaeleigh Barney <kaeleighbarney@yahoo.ca>
Woodstock, Ontario Canada - Friday, January 31, 2003 at 07:37 PM (CST)
I think I heard a smile and maybe even a giggle in that entry! YAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHOOOOOOOOO!!! There are probably lots of lessons to be learned from that, but lets forget about all that and just hope for lots more to come.
Tracy M. <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Friday, January 31, 2003 at 04:40 PM (CST)
Way to Go Maryla and Cali...feels good to smile and laugh, I am proud of you both!!
Judy(angel Dustin's Mom) <jtddrury@sympatico.ca>
Chatham, On Canada - Friday, January 31, 2003 at 03:58 PM (CST)
Thank goodness for those unexpected bright spots. I hope more come your way...

Jenny Reich
Montreal, QC - Friday, January 31, 2003 at 03:52 PM (CST)
I can't begin to imagine your pain, but I will say a prayer for you and your family. I have a 10 year old and a 1 year old, and am in tears reading your story. Thank god that you had the time you did with your son.
You'll be in my prayers.
MO - Friday, January 31, 2003 at 03:39 PM (CST)
Dear Maryla,
I'm so glad to hear that you had a great day with Cali. May the road ahead be filled with more and more of them for all of you.
Thank you for the wonderful pictures you put on the site. They are absolutely beautiful.
Cody and I will be in PMDU this coming Monday.
Have a peaceful weekend and here's to warmer weather soon!
Love, Sharon

Sharon Simpson <john.simpson6@sympatico.ca>
Windsor, ON - Friday, January 31, 2003 at 03:21 PM (CST)
WOW!

We got throught January here's to a warmer February. Love to all

Sandy <growingconcern@hotmail.com>
London, Ont Canada - Friday, January 31, 2003 at 12:47 PM (CST)
WOW!

We got throught January here's to a warmer February. Love to all

Sandy <growingconcern@hotmail.com>
London, Ont Canada - Friday, January 31, 2003 at 12:46 PM (CST)
What beautiful words....so very meaningful.
Tracy M. <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Thursday, January 30, 2003 at 08:14 AM (CST)
Love and hugs to the Gallagher's from Ottawa. The longest skating rink in the world is in excellent condition so if you want to find new muscles, we have an extra bed!!
Valerie <cuff31@aol.com>
Ottawa, - Wednesday, January 29, 2003 at 04:11 PM (CST)
Maryla, that is an incredible poem. I agree those we love, and lost in the physical sense are never truly gone from our lives when we continue to remember and to love them. This earthly world is but a part of our journey. Love transcends the soil, the air, the oceans. I think of my sister Sherri-Lee and your prescious son Caedan every single day. They remain part of my thoughts, part of my experience in this world and part of my own personal journey. I have learned from knowing them in this earthly world and I continue to learn from them as I continue my journey. I cannot see them, but I believe with all of my being that they go on.....and I also know that I will see both of them again. I have continued to read your posts on this website, wanting to write something that will make you feel even a tiny bit better. I know that the only people who can truly understand your pain are parents who have lost their children. I would never pretend to truly know the pain that you feel. That doesn't negate the fact that I care about you Maryla, and that my heart feels pain for what you are going through. I have forwarded a message onto you from Syd Birrell who lost his son James to Neuroblastoma. Syd gave me his permission to do so this morning. I am hoping that it will somehow let you know that you are not alone. I am praying for healing for you Maryla, for continued support from family, friends, neighbours and strangers.

Love, Tami

Tami Watchurst: mom to Alexander: 10 yrs High Risk A.L.L. O/t: 98-09-10 <leapco@auracom.com>
Orangeville, Ontario Canada - Tuesday, January 28, 2003 at 09:45 AM (CST)
Good morning,
What a beautiful and meaningful poem from Kristy's website.
Hoping today the memories of Caedan make you smile.
Sending lots of love,

John and Sandy Bolton <jandsbolton@aol.com>
Amherstburg, ON - Tuesday, January 28, 2003 at 07:38 AM (CST)
Beautiful. I will remember going to see Pokemon 2000 with 3 boys. And knitting in the dark. I will remember Caedan & Kyle playing on Ellie's soccer team. I still have the t-shirt she made for the kids. I will treasure it always.
Tracy B
- Tuesday, January 28, 2003 at 07:18 AM (CST)
Dear Maryla,
We have just returned from a week's trip to Mexico and could not agree with you more about the cold weather. How could it be that last week we were drinking margaritas around the pool and today I feel like the ice cubes from my drinks!! We returned on Wednesday evening and Thursday Cody and I were back in Maryland for a check up. He has just started his third round of the new drug and we'll have a CT in mid-February. So we'll see then how things are going.
After reading your last message, my heart ached more for all of you than it already does. I wish there were magic words or actions that could take away your pain, but since there are none, I hope that the love and prayers of all your friends can help in some small way.
As it stands right now, I believe Cody and I will be in London next Monday, the 3rd. It would be nice if we couldd maybe grab a tea together, but only if you are up to it.
Love and prayers to all,
Sharon

Sharon Simpson <john.simpson6@sympatico.ca>
Windsor, ON - Monday, January 27, 2003 at 12:23 PM (CST)
Hi Maryla,
Just thinking of you this morning. It's been cold here in Alabama....I can only imagine what it's like there! My southern blood couldn't handle it!
Take care,

Lisa Agee (www.caringbridge.com/page/ross) <lagee67@hotmail.com>
Camden, AL - Monday, January 27, 2003 at 09:11 AM (CST)
We think of you often. You should of taking me to Cuba with you. I would of made a good translator you know, and I am good at asking for that Cuban mojito or Cuba libre drinks. I am glad you had a good time. It is a lovely place. It is nice that you were able to get away and make some new memories to warm and give peace to your hearts. Keep going, you are doing fine! One day at a time.
Adriana <al.adriana@sympatico.ca>
lonodon, Canada - Saturday, January 25, 2003 at 04:02 PM (CST)
Hugs and kisses to the Gallaghers...thinking of you
Lori Wightman
Amherstburg, On Canada - Saturday, January 25, 2003 at 09:10 AM (CST)
Some day my friend you will be able to look at a picture or see some of his things and not feel quite so terrible as you do now. Until then, take it one day at a time.
Tracy M. <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Thursday, January 23, 2003 at 08:32 AM (CST)
Hi Maryla
I just wanted to say hi and let you know I am always thinking about you.
With fond thoughts and memories,

Cathie Crawford
- Wednesday, January 22, 2003 at 10:37 PM (CST)
Maryla, as much as it hurts to be reminded of him, it is also a comfort, although I know it can never ever replace Caedan's presence. Thinking of you and I know this must be so painful for you...
Chris ~ Gooch's Site


- Wednesday, January 22, 2003 at 06:50 PM (CST)
Just wanted to say we think of you all the time. Say hi to Cali for me. Your alway's in our thoughts.
Kaeleigh and LIz arney <kaeleighbarney@yahoo.ca>
Woodstock, Ontario Canada - Wednesday, January 22, 2003 at 02:19 PM (CST)
Hi MaryLa
Well, Rhonda and I went to donate blood again, this was my third time. I think I'm on a roll thanks to your donar drive. I was to say "Hi" to you from Trudy. As a song says, Breath in and out and put one foot infront of the other. Take each hour as it comes. Thinking of you.
Nancy Craig

Nancy Craig <nancycraig@hotmail.com>
London, - Wednesday, January 22, 2003 at 10:23 AM (CST)
I just wanted you to know I am thinking off you. Things will get better. I know you dont see how or when but it will. The night my uncle died of brain cancer my aunt has the family take out his hospital bed, wheel chair, meds and clothes out of the house.. That was two years ago and we still catch her crying all the time.. Sorry for this pain.
Reva <Revalynn@hotmail.com>
Mesquite, TX - Wednesday, January 22, 2003 at 09:17 AM (CST)
Hi Maryla,Scott and Cali

Just a note to say we're thinking of you.

Tracy B <bestbet@sympatico.ca>
London, On Ca - Wednesday, January 22, 2003 at 05:05 AM (CST)
Hi Auntie maryla and everyone my dad said he would talkt to you about us comming up to see you and I dont think he has gotten around to it cause he didnt mention anything to me.Anyways I hope you had a good time in cuba and I hope to see you soon.
paige bindner-bowers <paigebb@sympatico.ca>
LaSalle, Canada - Tuesday, January 21, 2003 at 09:43 PM (CST)
Saying many prayers for you & your family. I'm glad you were able to go on vacation during the holidays. Hopefully you got the hokey pokey dance on tape :-). Thanks for updating us so we know how to prayer for you.
Candice Behm <candice333@netzero.net>
Portland, OR USA - Tuesday, January 21, 2003 at 03:30 PM (CST)
Maryla,

I know you don't see any improvment but there was a time you couldn't go into the daycare centre. Then you went in but couldn't talk to anyone. Now you have gone on some trips with the preschoolers. That's improvment!

Here's to better days.

Sandy <growingconcern@hotmail.com>
London, Ont Canada - Tuesday, January 21, 2003 at 01:39 PM (CST)
Hi Maryla
glad to hear your trip was a break from this winter, brrrr. I can see you up doing the hokey pokey, bringing a smile to others, you have a way of doing that. I would like to send you hugs and smiles. Take care of you
Jennifer XOXOXO

Jennifer <jthompson@lon.imag.net>
St Thomas, ON - Monday, January 20, 2003 at 10:58 PM (CST)
Was thinking of all of you, and wanted you to know I am hoping for better days to come.
Tracy M. <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Monday, January 20, 2003 at 07:59 AM (CST)
Maryla--I pray for you and your family continually. I can only imagine the pain and I know that God is the only one who can really help you get through anything at this point. I pray that He will give you exactly what you all need to endure. Blessings and know that I will check on you. You're certainly cared for.
Khalita www.caringbridge.com/nc/khalita Duke Peds BMT Aplastic Anemia <khalita@hecaresonline.org>
Lexington, NC - Sunday, January 19, 2003 at 08:21 PM (CST)
Maryla -

I glanced in my boys room today and saw their dirty clothes hanging from the arcade basketball machine, like the one we had sent to Caedan, I was getting ready to scream out to them about it (they are not supposed to do that) and I instantly thought of Caedan. It was like God was reaching out and telling me not to sweat the small stuff. So I shut my mouth, and was glad those clothes were hanging there.

So I decided to come to see how you were, if you were still posting. My heart breaks for you, I cannot imagine the depth of your sorrow. No words will help, no matter how nicely put or well meant. But just knowing others care, should bring some peace, if only for a moment.

While we don't always understand the seasons of our lives, I know that each test makes us stronger, little by little. Until one day when we are able to look out from our own world - and see someone just starting the journey we just took. We can then take their hand and help them along, "yes, I've been there"...

"Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest." Matthew 11:28

"Be devoted to one another in brotherly love" Romans 12:10

Suzanne /ShareaCard.org <suzanne@shareacard.org>
Murrysville, PA USA - Sunday, January 19, 2003 at 02:43 PM (CST)
Mar I too am in a "rough patch". I can't seem to pull away from it as it grips me more and more each day. I miss our boys so much that words will never say how it truly feels. Thank you for your kind words. Thank God for memories.
Much Love
Judy

Judy (Angel Dustin's Mom)
- Friday, January 17, 2003 at 01:09 PM (CST)
I just wanted to stop by and say that I am thinking of you and your family...
Reva <Revalynn@hotmail.com>
Mesquite, TX - Thursday, January 16, 2003 at 09:14 AM (CST)
Words fail. If only there was more we could do than cry and love you and remember Caedan always.

We could tell you a funny story.....it won't help, but it might make you smile. Maryla, do you remember buying Noah that great noisy firetruck? He loves it. Plays with it all the time, all the while exclaiming in his great loud, deep baby voice, "oh, truck!". The only problem is that he can't pronounce "tr" and instead says "f". At the top of his little lungs as he plays with his firetruck or as we walk down the street and he sees a real one out there on the road....."oh, *uck", while we say TRuck, it's a TRuck, TR, TR, TRuck.

If there is ever anything we can do, big or small, just name it. In the meantime, know that we love you guys and are here for you anytime.

Baby Noah and folks
- Wednesday, January 15, 2003 at 10:56 PM (CST)
Maryla,

I am crying with you. I wish I could help. All I can do is to pray for peace! Love to all

Sandy <growingconcern@hotmail.com>
London, Ont Canada - Wednesday, January 15, 2003 at 03:02 PM (CST)
As I read your Jan. 13 journal entry today, I just wanted to cry, cry, cry with you. I am so, so sorry you lost your precious Caedan. I wish I had the words that would make the pain and grief just go away. This world of cancer is an absolute nightmare that I wake up in every day. All I know to do is take it one day at a time. I will keep you and your family in my prayers. Matthew 5:4.
Kim Rutherford
Knoxville, TN USA - Wednesday, January 15, 2003 at 02:34 PM (CST)
If You Could See Me Now

I know that you are heartbroken
and sad that I am gone.
But I am in Heaven now, Momma,
and I've never once been left alone.

Oh I wish you could see me now.
Heaven is a beautiful place to be.
Jesus is the light that shines here.
And He walks daily with me.

Oh, the skies are never gray here.
And it never ever rains.
And, although I know you still feel it...
Up here, there is no pain.

Angels are always singing for me.
Their voices are beautiful and clear.
I am in the presence of loved ones.
And Momma, I haven't seen one tear!

I know that you are hurting for me.
And I can't make your pain disappear.
But if you could see me now, you'd know
I am happy in Heaven
and I still love you from here!

~Author~
Kaye Des'Ormeaux
Copyright 2000




Chris & Gooch <chrisrusso_@hotmail.com>
- Wednesday, January 15, 2003 at 10:39 AM (CST)
Maryla, Scott and Cali,
We are thinking of you, and wishing you weren't feeling so much pain and sorrow , you know you can vent through us anytime, there are a lot of people that would do anything they could in order to make things a little easier for you, don't be afraid to ask. Take care.
Love the Baxter's

Lisa
- Wednesday, January 15, 2003 at 09:02 AM (CST)
Hi. You do not know me but I found your page through another brave child's link. Although I cannot begin to understand your loss, please know that I pray for you and your family to gain strength to go on. Your words are truly inspirational to me.....and make me appreciate everything in my life that much more. May you and your family find inner peace. Love, Lori
Lori Dietz <nevlor_2000@yahoo.com>
Baldwin Park , CA USA - Tuesday, January 14, 2003 at 04:12 PM (CST)
Hey kiddo,
from the outside looking in, you are doing remarkably well. Maryla - you did the hokey pokey in front of a room full of people and brought JOY to you, Scott and Cali for a brief moment. Only you know if that's something you could have done one, two, or three months ago but I think a daily dose of the hokey pokey with Cali is a wonderful idea. I think of you often. Coffee is on me if you ever want to.....

Nancy Lawrence
- Tuesday, January 14, 2003 at 03:07 PM (CST)
Mar and Scott,
My heart goes out to you both (and precious little Cali). If only I could take your pain away.

Lori Wightman <thewightmans@aol.com>
Amherstburg, On Canada - Tuesday, January 14, 2003 at 02:46 PM (CST)
Mar and Scott,
The pain in your words, Mar, is simply heart breaking.
We feel so helpless being witness to this awful struggle.
Sending prayers to Caedan; and love, peace and hugs, to you our dear friends.

Sandy and John Bolton <jandsbolton@aol.com>
Amherstburg, ON, - Tuesday, January 14, 2003 at 01:12 PM (CST)
Dear Mar
We have nothing useful or comforting to say to you and Scott after reading that entry. Time has not changed our own sorrow or our feelings for you. We may not vocalize our support as much as we did at the beginning of this nightmare but our offers of support still remain and are very genuine.
Love

Jenn and Dan
Vancouver, BC - Tuesday, January 14, 2003 at 09:59 AM (CST)
Oh Maryla, I along with so many others wish we could make your life easier. There is nothing that can be done to bring your dear Caedan back to earth, no words can be said to truly help you along your grief journey. Grieving for someone you loved so dearly is so, so very hard. I will keep you and yours in my prayers.
On a different note, I'm glad to know that you & Scott & Cali left your home filled with all those memories and went to Cuba for the holidays. I went to Cuba mid November and enjoyed my week away even though the weather was iffy. The new Sandals Hicacos was fabulous. I'm glad that you had lots of sun and were able to spend your days at the beach. I'm glad you have each other to help you along this awful stretch in your life. I'm sending lots of encouragment and happy thoughts your way. Crying is all right too, Maryla.

Mary Lou <mlt.csi@hay.net>
Exeter, Ont Canada - Tuesday, January 14, 2003 at 09:15 AM (CST)
If there were a magic word, or a deed that could make the pain seem more bearable, there are hundreds of us out here that would say them or do them in a heartbeat. No one can know what's really going on inside of you, but we feel FOR you, and are here for you, and as always, are thinking of you.
On a happier note, I'm so very glad that Cuba was a success for you all. And Cali is one pretty lucky little girl to have Santa remember to visit her in TWO places!

Tracy M. <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Tuesday, January 14, 2003 at 08:00 AM (CST)
Maryla I wish I could tell you it would all be better on such & such day. But I cant. Caedan's passing left a tremendous hole and it wont be filled easily. Never, and especially not easily. Please just know so many people who Caedan touched are thinking of you all.
Chris
Gooch's Site

- Monday, January 13, 2003 at 10:46 PM (CST)
You continue to be in our prayers.
Lynn
www.caringbridge.org/pa/jessiespage, PA - Monday, January 13, 2003 at 11:41 AM (CST)
May you have peace in the New Year.
Sandy <growingconcern@hotmail.com>
London, Ont Canada - Friday, January 10, 2003 at 10:39 AM (CST)
hey there, Peace, hugs and kises + best wishes in 2003!

Paige <paigieumz@aol.com>
London, ON canada - Tuesday, January 07, 2003 at 03:08 PM (CST)
*HUGS* for the Gallaghers...Peace be with you in 2003.
www.caringbridge.com/canada/dusinbmt/

Judy (Angel Dustin's Mommy)
Chatham, ON Canada - Tuesday, January 07, 2003 at 06:55 AM (CST)
Happy New Year! May 2003 bring you peace, and joy.
Tracy Mangin <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Sunday, January 05, 2003 at 06:24 PM (CST)
Wishing your family a new year of health, happiness and peace. Maryla - thank you so much for your support...even though we've never met, you've meant a lot to me! I think of your entire family often and continue to pray for God's blessings on you.
Lisa Agee (www.caringbridge.com/page/ross) <lagee67@hotmail.com>
Camden, AL - Sunday, January 05, 2003 at 02:11 PM (CST)
Hi guys... just thought I would send you a note to say I still think of you every day - I say a little prayer for you each night. The holiday season is over and you must be relieved. I can't imagine how hard that was. How ever hard each new day and new year is to face you will always have the "best memories" of Caedan to help you get through them.

As difficult as it is to say, "Happy New Year to you", we do. You'll never forget 2002 and we know you are strong enough to face whatever 2003 brings your way.

Take care...

Kristyn, Mike, Todd and Taylar
Mt. Carmel, On Canada - Sunday, January 05, 2003 at 01:10 PM (CST)
Sending blessings to your family.


DeAnna <www.caringbridge.org/ga/chasesmiracle/>
Ga USA - Saturday, January 04, 2003 at 10:23 PM (CST)
May you find some happiness in your New Year too.

Much Love

Jenn and Dan
Vancouver, BC - Friday, January 03, 2003 at 11:23 PM (CST)
Missing Caedan. Loving all of you.
John, Christie and Noah
- Thursday, January 02, 2003 at 10:46 PM (CST)
Maryla, Scott and Cali;
Sending a big new year's hug to you all.

Love

Karen <hbyc7@rogers.com>
Waterloo, ON - Thursday, January 02, 2003 at 09:05 PM (CST)
Maryla and Family,

God Bless You. Hugs and kisses for you all to finish off the season.

Sandy <growingconcern@hotmail.com>
London, Ont Canada - Thursday, January 02, 2003 at 11:55 AM (CST)
Dear Gallaghers,
Just wanted to wish you all a peace-filled New Year. Hope you have found your quite time restful and fulfulling. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.

Sharon <john.simpson6@sympatico.ca>
Windsor, ON - Wednesday, January 01, 2003 at 02:00 PM (CST)
Maryla, Scott, Cali-

Just a quick one to let you know we are thinking of you on the eve of 2003. Wishing you peace & sending you our love.

Jane Cornett & Alex Neyfakh <jcornett@21stcentury.net>
Chicago, IL - Tuesday, December 31, 2002 at 08:12 PM (CST)
With all the people who come here to post, whose lives you have all touched,
I wish there was something we could all do for you so your lives wouldnt feel so empty.
I wish you peace in the new year, what else can I say.....

chris
Gooch's Site

- Tuesday, December 31, 2002 at 11:13 AM (CST)
I am very much thinking of you Maryla. I can only imagine how difficult these past days have been. I have been praying for you and will continue. Blessings to you.
Khalita www.caringbridge.com/nc/khalita Duke Peds BMT aplastic anemia <khalita@hecaresonline.org>
Lexington, NC - Tuesday, December 31, 2002 at 09:34 AM (CST)
Always thinking of you. Stop by Dustin's page sometime when you feel up to it. Take Care, God Bless.
www.caringbridge.com/canada/dusinbmt/

Judy (mom of Angel-Dustin)
Chatham, ON Canada - Monday, December 30, 2002 at 06:52 PM (CST)
Maryla, I have thought of you every single day over this Christmas holiday. For you and anyone else who has lost their child getting through each day is painful enough, but getting through the time of year when the focus is on children and family and memories must be heart-wrenching. I always include you and your family in my prayers and I am going to pray for you to continue to be supported by your extended family and friends especially during this very difficult and emotional holiday period. You are never far from my thoughts. One day at a time dear Maryla, one hour at a time.

Love, Tami

Tami Watchurst <leapco@auracom.com>
Orangeville, Ontario Canada - Monday, December 30, 2002 at 06:20 AM (CST)
Thinking of your family.


DeAnna <www.caringbridge.org/ga/chasesmiracle/>
Ga USA - Sunday, December 29, 2002 at 10:48 PM (CST)
Thinking of you and sending you hugs and prayers.
Heather, Mom to Brianna (ALL-KIDS)

www.caringbridge.com/ny/mylittlesunshine
Syracuse, NY USA - Friday, December 27, 2002 at 06:58 PM (CST)
Good evening friends,
This year hasn't been as challenging as last but still brutal. Know that I've been thinking about you. I hope you liked the small gift I left with Scott.....I finally fixed her tummy!! Hope to hear from you soon. Hugs to everyone.

Lori (mom of angel Gillian) <lnh.sashegyi@sympatico.ca>
London, On - Thursday, December 26, 2002 at 09:47 PM (CST)
Christmas Greetings of Love dear ones. Yesterday we gathered around Joshua's spot at Hillside Cemetery. We were given some teddies to take and we tried to sing Away in a Manager. How we feel for you and pray for our fellow sorrowing ones. Keep looking to Jesus He'll carry you through. Love Lucille
Leonard & Lucille Weber <phil.ber@sympatico.com>
West Montrose, ON Canada - Thursday, December 26, 2002 at 06:47 PM (CST)
Just wanted to stop by and say hello and to tell you I am thinking of you around the holidays.

Blessings,

Bonnie grandma to ^i^ James dx t-cell ALL Leukemia 12/15/98 ~ Angel Wings 12/19/00 <http://www.caringbridge.com/page/jamiebowman>
Columbus, Ohio - Thursday, December 26, 2002 at 04:01 PM (CST)
Maryla, Scott and Cali Beth,
I've been thinking of you all this holiday and I've been hoping that you've gotten a little comfort knowing you are in our hearts and prayers. I agree with the entry a few back...no need for "thank you's" to me...I thank you for letting us into your life and for sharing your son with us.
Love to you all,

Lori Wightman
Amherstburg, ON Canada - Thursday, December 26, 2002 at 01:53 PM (CST)
I understand what you mean by getting through Christmas. We lost our Seth 11/30/02. Our friend Tom sent us this and I thought I would share;

My First Christmas in Heaven


See the countless Christmas trees around the world below,
with tiny lights, like Heaven's stars, reflecting on the snow.
The sight is so spectacular, please wipe away the tear,
For I am spending Christmas with Jesus Christ this year.

I hear the many Christmas songs that people hold so dear,
But the sounds of music can't compare with the Christmas choir up here.
I have no words to tell you, the joy their voices bring,
For it is beyond description to hear the angels sing.

I know how much you miss me. I see the pain inside your heart,
but I am not far away. We really are not apart.
So be happy for me dear ones. You know I told you dear,
And be glad I'm spending Christmas with Jesus Christ this year.

I send you each a special gift from my heavenly home above,
I send you each a memory of my undying love.
After all "love" is the gift more precious than pure gold,
It was always most important in the stories Jesus told.

Please love and keep each other, as my Father said to do,
For I can't count the blessings or love he has for you.
So, have a Merry Christmas and wipe away that tear,
Remember, I am spending Christmas with Jesus Christ this year.

Ruthie (Seth's mom) <www.caringbridge.org/fl/sethlovestrains>
North Palm Beach, Fl - Wednesday, December 25, 2002 at 10:13 PM (CST)
Wishing you some sense of peace this holiday season....
chris
Gooch's Site

- Wednesday, December 25, 2002 at 02:16 AM (CST)
Thanks for updating the page. We're sending you our love, always, but especially over these holiday weeks.
Thank-you cards? Am I the only one out here who thinks that's crazy? There are no thank-yous required........that's what family and friends and community are all about. It was a joy and an honour to have known Caedan, to have been part of his life in any way. I think I speak for lots of us when I say that you can cross thank-you cards off of your list of things to do. I'm still in awe of you both for getting out of bed every day and carrying on.
Love to all of you and a big kiss to Cali from Noah.

Baby Noah and co.
- Tuesday, December 24, 2002 at 03:27 PM (CST)
Scott, Maryla and Cali
Just a short note to let you know we are thinking about you during this holiday season, as you are never far from our thoughts. Giving you our love, strength and peace ... God Bless
Joel, Lisa, Dylan and Mackenzie

L & J Rehill
Ridgetown, On Canada - Monday, December 23, 2002 at 02:53 PM (CST)
Sending you love and happy thoughts during this time of year, and always. You are stronger than you think, and in a few short days the holiday season will be over and you will suddenly realize you made it through.
All the best to the Gallaghers!

Tracy M. <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Monday, December 23, 2002 at 12:54 PM (CST)
Maryla I understand exactly what you are saying in your most recent post. As difficult as it is, I know you and your family will make it through this holiday season in any way you see fit. Every first will bring memories of the past. Take it one day at a time girlfriend. Please know you are not alone in your sorrows. Remember our children (Caedan & Dustin) will be ours ~Always & Forever~ God Bless

www.caringbridge.com/canada/dusinbmt/

Judy (Mom of Angel-Dustin) <jtddrury@sympatico.ca>
Chatham, ON Canada - Monday, December 23, 2002 at 09:17 AM (CST)
Maryla, Scott and Cali~
Just wanted to let you know that you never stray from my thoughts or my heart. Wishing you all a safe holiday season. Take care.

Jennifer Brinklow <Jennbrinklow@aol.com>
Hartford, CT USA - Saturday, December 21, 2002 at 10:33 PM (CST)
Dear Maryla, Scott and Cali
I just wanted to let you know that I think of you everyday and my thoughts are with you over this difficult holiday season .

Cathie Crawford
Belmont, ON - Saturday, December 21, 2002 at 05:17 PM (CST)
I'm thinking of you today Maryla and I wanted you to know. Praying for you too--as always. Blessed Holidays to you.
Khalita www.caringbridge.com/nc/khalita Duke Peds BMT Aplastic Anemia <khalita@hecaresonline.org>
Lexington, NC - Saturday, December 21, 2002 at 04:31 PM (CST)
Hey! happy holidays
i was thinking of you last night
i though t of how caedan was cheering me on when i was in Cross counrty...2 years ago i think, and i wanted to pass his encouragement on...keep going...its raining now..bt there will soon be a rainbow..
Happy holidys to you all
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Paige Rudland <Paigieumz@aol.com>
London, Canada - Saturday, December 21, 2002 at 01:41 PM (CST)
To Maryla, Scott and Cali,
Just thought I'd let you know that my thoughts are with all of you's over the holidays.
Take care,
Emilyn

7 West Nurse
- Saturday, December 21, 2002 at 12:43 AM (CST)
Dear Gallaghers, I can't thank you enough for the wonderful, thoughtful treats we got at work the other night!
You continue to be in my thoughts and prayers.

Stephanie Carter <step_carter@hotmail.com>
London, ON Canada - Thursday, December 19, 2002 at 11:19 AM (CST)
I know that even though this is supposed to be a joyful time of year, those of us that have experienced loss in our lives, find it a most difficult time. Please know that you are in my prayers. Have fun with your daughter as I'm sure she'll be very excited.
Mary Lou Thomson <mlt.csi@hay.net>
Exeter, On - Thursday, December 19, 2002 at 08:21 AM (CST)
Dear Mar, Scott and Cali,

May you spend the holidays in quiet comfort with each other, enjoying your time together.
We wish you peace during this difficult holiday season.
Please know you are loved and thought of often. And so is your angel Caedan.

Sandy and John Bolton <jandsbolton@aol.com>
Amherstburg, ON - Wednesday, December 18, 2002 at 08:32 AM (CST)
Hi Maryla, Scott and Cali Thinking of you often at this time of year. I wish you all the best this season. Thank you Maryla for the hug I received from you (through Julia); and thank you soooo much for the goodies last night at work. You are always in my thoughts.
Christine

Christine <christinehoover4@hotmail.com>
London, On - Wednesday, December 18, 2002 at 07:30 AM (CST)
I stop by each and everyday. Wishing you a happy and safe holiday season.
www.caringbridge.com/canada/dusinbmt/

Judy(Mom of Angel-Dustin) <jtddrury@sympatico.ca>
Chatham, ON Canada - Tuesday, December 17, 2002 at 06:35 PM (CST)
Maryla,

I just wanted to write you a note at long last and express my condolences and sadness about Caeden's passing. I feel very privledged to have gotten to know you and Caeden while working for a brief time on 7N/W. You both never failed to make me laugh and smile - and leave work looking forward to returning for my next shift. It is families like you - who's strength in a difficult time is so incredibly inspiring... I have fond memories of Caeden that will last me a lifetime... just an example of another life that he touched.

Thanks for letting me work with you and your family.

Eyes to the horizon...

Abby Bezant <aebezant@hotmail.com>
Toronto, ON Canada - Tuesday, December 17, 2002 at 02:57 PM (CST)
Maryla,
Just thinking of you and your sweet family and wanted to let you know.
God bless,

Lisa Agee (www.caringbridge.com/page/ross) <lagee67@hotmail.com>
Camden, AL - Tuesday, December 17, 2002 at 09:42 AM (CST)
Hello Maryla and Scott - just a quick note to say I'm thinking of you, as always. Please give my little Cali a hug for me and tell her I would like to make porridge soup with her again soon.
Love

Annie <anniebowers@shaw.ca>
Victoria, BC Canada - Monday, December 16, 2002 at 06:53 PM (CST)
I will keep praying for you and your family. I am sorry that your son lost his battle with leukemia. But he WON the WAR which means when he went to Heaven, he is no more suffering leukemia. My second cousin (my mom's cousin's son) have retinoblastoma, an eye cancer. Please pray for him. Thank you and God Bless You.
Vaishnavi Bhatt <Vaishub99@netscape.net>
Scarsdale, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, December 14, 2002 at 01:37 PM (CST)
Hi Maryla,Scott&Cali; Just wanted to wish you "Happy Holidays". Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.

Charlene Lancaster - 7 W <charbrent@execulink.com>
London, On Canada - Friday, December 13, 2002 at 12:08 PM (CST)
Hmmm.....swimming in January? Any one else think that's a bit nuts??? Sounds like a fun day, so make sure to remind us all when to show up. Show up to WATCH that is. BRRRR!! I get cold even thinking about it. I'm just glad to know that Child Can is making itself known in these parts - God knows too many families around here have first hand knowledge of the incredible things they do, it's nice to know we Windsorites can do our part to help them out.
Thinking of you as always.

Tracy M. <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Thursday, December 12, 2002 at 02:37 PM (CST)
Mar,
The ChildCan thing sounds fun...can we switch it from Jan. to maybe July?...I guess that would mean we couldn't call it a Polar Bear dip...maybe it could be a Koala Bear dip?
Doesn't that sound..how can I put this? ...less insane?
We hope to make it (mostly just to watch)
Lori

Lori Wightman <thewightmans@aol.com>
Amherstburg, - Thursday, December 12, 2002 at 01:13 PM (CST)
Maryla,
Great job on the ChildCan plug!
The sun is shining brightly today in Delaware, hopefully it is in Byron too. The sun and the warmer temperatures may mean a trip outside to clear the head! Hope you're having a good day. Talk with you soon,

Sandra Rombouts
- Thursday, December 12, 2002 at 11:57 AM (CST)
Maryla,

I cannot imagine how hard Chirstmas is going to be for you and Scott. Please know that there are so many of us thinking and praying for you. We all have our own ideas of what life is like when we leave this earth. I can't help but think of Caedan, and know that your mom is with him. She would be so proud of you for starting up this tradition with Cali, and somehow I am sure Caedan has convinced her to let him hang his crafts on the good tree!

I know you can't think past today right now, but Maryla, your writing is amazing! You have the ability to make everyone who visits this site feel as though they know you. You somehow have even made swimming in freezing waters sound fun! I really hope that one day, you will use your talent to write a book, motivate people, or even do recruitment for fundraising.

Thinking of you all daily

Shannon Taylor ( Mangin) <staylor@wecas.on.ca>
- Thursday, December 12, 2002 at 09:46 AM (CST)
Maryla, Scott and Cali,
Hello from Bethesda. We arrived Monday afternoon and so far, so good. Cody began his new protocol this morning and, knock wood, no side effects so far.
Just wanted to check in to see how you were all doing. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.
Love, Sharon

Sharon Simpson <john.simpson6@sympatico.ca>
Windsor, on cANADA - Wednesday, December 11, 2002 at 08:54 PM (CST)
hi everybody what nice weather your having i hear its snow and lots of it!! I hope you enjoy your holidays!and snow!see you soon!
paige bowers <paigebb@sympatico.ca>
LaSalle, Canada - Wednesday, December 11, 2002 at 08:01 PM (CST)
Dear Maryla Scott and Cali

I know how extremly painfull and difficult this first Christmas Season is going to be for you all... without Caedan. Even all your love that I know you have for Cali....it is not going to be the same. I know. Maryla....dear friend....please hold this thought in your heart....that the birth of Jesus Christ and the death of him also...is the reason why Caedan and Eric are able to live eternity in the blessed presence of God....the beautiful Heavens are where are young little men are....waiting for us...when our time is right. I know that our little boys should be here happy and healthy with us but that is not how their little lives were planned out. Know that we think of you and your family during this Holiday Season and hold you close to our hearts. God give you strength and especially peace. Caedan and Erics spirit will be with you and I always...they will guide us through the many difficult days that will lay ahead of us. All the special little Angels that have been called home...way too early...are with us....for a child that was truly loved while here on earth...can never really die....for they live on forever in the ones that truly love them.
All of our love.

Sue Thiessen
Aylmer, ON - Wednesday, December 11, 2002 at 08:39 AM (CST)
Hello my wonderful family, thanks for the update. Noah keeps running around our house with his pink stroller looking for Cali (round and round but he can never catch her). This summer we will all have to get together and watch them run in circles.
John, Christie and Noah
- Wednesday, December 11, 2002 at 12:44 AM (CST)
Dear Maryla,
I think of you guys often. Please let me know if there is anything I can do to help your family through this difficult time. If it's any consolation (which I know it won't be...but what the heck), I'm not putting a tree up or any decorations either AND you only need 1 or 2 layers to go outside, here in Dallas. You're welcome to visit any time.
Love,
Korri

Korri Lane <korrilane@yahoo.com>
Dallas, TX - Tuesday, December 10, 2002 at 02:17 PM (CST)
Just checking in! Good idea about the little tree, we used to have one when I was little too. Maybe when I grow up, I can have a nice fancy one in the living room, for now..it's a country tree with mostly wooden or unbreakables on it! I saw some cork cut into christmas shapes and decorated with sparkle glue and fabric paint! They looked fun and very unbreakable!

Wish I could help you with those tough questions, but no-one really knows that answer, and maybe it would help Cali if she knew that! We always tell Dawson that Caedan was needed more in heaven than here (as he taught us so much!). Still doesn't really make sense, but he's ok with that answer. Talk to you soon, Beth, Pat, Dylan and Dawson!

Beth Sutherland <cebethsutherland@hotmail.com>
London, On Canada - Tuesday, December 10, 2002 at 02:12 PM (CST)
Hello Scott, Maryla and Cali
We think of you nightly
All our love,
Joel, Ann and Jacob LeBlanc

Joel LeBlanc <joeljleblanc@hotmail.com>
Fredericton, NB Canada - Tuesday, December 10, 2002 at 02:19 AM (CST)
Hi. Just wanted you to know I was thinking of you and checked in here.
Karen
Waterloo, ON - Monday, December 09, 2002 at 09:32 PM (CST)
Grading final papers yesterday... Can you believe a college student went to a Barbie-Q? I swear. Can tell he/she (I've got to protect confidentiality here) has never been to Texas, eh? Lots of love. Of course.
Stacey <stacey@staceylane.net>
Portland, OR - Monday, December 09, 2002 at 07:49 PM (CST)
Hi Scott, Maryla and Cali...just a short note to say hi and let you know that you and Caedan are constantly in our thoughts and prayers.
Mark, Tracy, Trevor and Alyssa <mat.lawrence@rogers.com>
London, ON - Monday, December 09, 2002 at 06:15 PM (CST)
Pruitt strung popcorn and made Christmas ornaments??? That's a tough one to picture!! I wonder if he's kept his hand in it or not.

Love

Jenn and Dan
Vancouver, BC - Sunday, December 08, 2002 at 11:55 PM (CST)
Hi,
Just wanted to write and tell you that we still check this page daily hoping for news of your family because we care. Please know that many of us are praying that each day brings healing and hope. Thank you for updating..it means so much for those of us who check this site. Give hugs to Cali

Erin <www.caringbridge.com/ct/kelly>
Berlin, CT - Sunday, December 08, 2002 at 11:21 PM (CST)
I continue to think about you and pray for you. And that's what I'll keep doing. Blessings...
Khalita www.caringbridge.com/nc/khalita Duke Peds BMT aplastic anemia <khalita@hecaresonline.org>
Lexington, NC - Sunday, December 08, 2002 at 08:38 PM (CST)
Hey, Its Paige.
Aw..poor Cali.
At Lewis Craft, if you have spare time, you can buy white ornament you paint for 1 dollar each. You then buy a smalll tray of paints for 7-10 dollars. Me and My grandparents make them eevryyear...even the simplist would be very difficult for Cali though. Just a Mom project. But ive got to go to bed, so e-mail me back...about the hospital choice. Peace hugs and Kisses! bye

Paige Rudland <paigieumz@aol.com>
London, Byron, ON Canada - Thursday, December 05, 2002 at 10:22 PM (CST)
Thinking of you today. Wishing some warm, good days for you all. It is brrrr out there. I know what you mean about the cold I agree with you, too cold to do anything but sit by the fire and read a heartwarming book with a good cup of coffe of course. Prayers and thoughts are with you always.
Adriana <al.adriana@sympatico.ca>
London, Canada - Thursday, December 05, 2002 at 03:38 PM (CST)
Thoughts & prayers are with you.
Candice Behm <candice333@netzero.net>
Portland, OR USA - Thursday, December 05, 2002 at 01:37 PM (CST)
Dearest Maryla
I think of you so often.......especially when I'm cleaning the kitchen floor with my socks. You helped me thru so many sleepless nights, I so wish I could do the same for you now. Thinking of you, Scott and Cali

Cindy Cusack <cece3@comcast.net>
- Wednesday, December 04, 2002 at 07:27 PM (CST)
Hugs to all.
Sandy Schram <smschram@hotmail.com>
London, Ont Canada - Wednesday, December 04, 2002 at 02:41 PM (CST)
I can't even begin to imagine what feelings you must go through on a daily basis. I can only echo Kellie's thoughts on your courage, and the strength you have, even if most days it doesn't feel like it.
If thoughts had the power to take away your pain, you would all be pain free now, judging by the number of us still checking the site hoping for news of how you all are coping.
Take it one day at a time, one hour at a time if that's easier.

Tracy M. <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Wednesday, December 04, 2002 at 09:08 AM (CST)
Maryla I am so sorry for all that you have to go through.
I too wonder why Caedan had to die. I dont get it. But you do whatever feels right for you, what you cant imagine doing this year might feel better doing next year. You're right that Cali shouldnt have to lose her brother & all the holiday traditions too. But just take it one step at a time.

chris
Gooch's Site

- Wednesday, December 04, 2002 at 08:49 AM (CST)
Hi Scott and Maryla; We are thinking about you and imagining your little tree. Cali might like to make some playdough ornaments for the tree. You can use the purchased stuff or do the homemade dough and either precolour it or paint it when dry. Little Christmas wreaths are easy from the dough or use cookie cutters for bells or other shapes. I hope some sunshine or a light snowfall might entice you out on a walk (I should talk!).
Karen <hbyc7@rogers.com>
Waterloo, ON - Wednesday, December 04, 2002 at 07:33 AM (CST)
Oh Mar,
My heart breaks for you. You are a wonderful mother to put that tree up for Cali. Only God knows how you are managing to do even that right now.
I'll keep my eyes out for decorations for that little tree this year. You can never have too many...Even if you choose to bring out Caedan's again some day.
Take care and keep warm.
Lots of love

Sandy Bolton <jandsbolton@aol.com>
Amherstburg, ON - Wednesday, December 04, 2002 at 07:25 AM (CST)
Hi Scott,Maryla and Cali,
Tim still hasn't put our lights up so you're not the only one on the court. I'm really not pushing it this year. But Kyle may just have his way this weekend. My thoughts are with you all constantly.

Tracy B <bestbet@sympatico.ca>
London, ON CA - Wednesday, December 04, 2002 at 05:17 AM (CST)
Hi Mar;
Your Christmas gift to me has been your courage...even if you didn't feel courageous, in my eyes you were. Thank you for the beautiful gift, I will treasure it.
Keeping you as always in thought and prayer
Love, Kellie

Kellie Drouillard <gman@jet2.net>
LaSalle, ON - Tuesday, December 03, 2002 at 03:42 PM (CST)
I'm thinking about you and praying for you Maryla--just wanted you to know. I'll check back again soon. Blessings.
Khalita www.caringbridge.com/nc/khalita Duke Peds BMT aplastic anemia <khalita@hecaresonline.org>
Lexington, NC - Monday, December 02, 2002 at 10:03 PM (CST)
Hi Maryla and Cali.
It was really nice seeing you both yesterday at the Christmas party. Cali is still as cute as ever, with those adorable blonde ringlets. Thanks so much for putting up the pictures of Caedan, it means a lot. Take Care, and we'll be thinking of you both.

Kaeleigh Barney <kaeleighbarney@yahoo.ca>
Woodstock, Ontario Canada - Monday, December 02, 2002 at 05:10 PM (CST)
Hi Maryla, I'm with you..you'll see mine lights up right around Christmas (they come out with the tree!) Our hydro bill was through the roof! so I may not even participate in outdoor lighting. Two years ago we were the only humbug house on the whole street. Inside looked good though!

I love the picture change, Dylan and Dawson came in to see and we all had some nice words about Caedan.

Holistic Dr. Mom, (me), suggests vit B+ or Greens+. It will give you energy and take some of the "stress" feelings away.

Hi to Scott and Cali! They could probably use the vit's too! Talk to you soon. Love Beth, Pat, Dylan and Dawson

Beth Sutherland <cebethsutherland@hotmail.com>
London, On Canada - Sunday, December 01, 2002 at 06:52 PM (CST)
hey, im Paige...not bowers..i go to byron Southwood, ive left a few entries. I was just asking for your opinion.
I have bought 20 beanie babies, to give to pople who need or deserve them this christmas. I decided to give them to the Hospital. I was wondering what one you think i should donate them to?
please e-mail me back!
Paige rudland, age 12.

Paige <paigieumz@aol.com>
London, On Canada - Saturday, November 30, 2002 at 08:17 PM (CST)
Finally got my computer up and running so I thought I'd drop in....I have to admit I was one of those people that put their lights up early. But my neighbours must have been cursing me because just as I got up on the roof to put them up it started pouring rain and I was stuck up there because the ladder proved to be too slippery. Lesson learned. The lights are not on yet...but soon.
Thinking of you and the family
p.s. thanx for putting those pictures up!!!

Heather T, 7 west
- Friday, November 29, 2002 at 09:34 PM (CST)
Just dropping by to wish you happy holidays. I sure know what you mean about being tired... I am exhausted all the time too. I think kids illnesses really wear us out. Take care, Laura
www.caringbridge.org/ca/coltonmeyer
- Friday, November 29, 2002 at 09:31 PM (CST)
Tomorrow I have promised to take Marian to the Santa Claus parade, and it's not even December yet. On December 1 I have agreed to decorate. Marian will see that I stick to the schedule. What this means is that I have to buy some rum and eggnog (first), and then get up on a chair to fasten about 200 origami snowflakes (made by Cory, Master of Origami Snowflakes) onto the living room ceiling. I have to do this every year. It will all be okay, but I think it's a little early for this kind of thing, don't you?
Maryla, I hope you are getting all the bubble baths you require. I love you.

Annie <anniebowers@shaw.ca>
Victoria, BC Canada - Friday, November 29, 2002 at 06:02 PM (CST)
Hey Mar,
How about this...my Christmas tree is up but there are no decorations on it and my Christmas lights are out but I don't turn them on. Don't ask, I don't really have any explanation.
I read Sandy's message about the bubble bath on kitchen cleaning day...um...somehow I'm picturing either Sandy in a bubble bath while John cleans the kitchen or vice versa and I'm not sure why but it's easier to picture John in the bubble bath...sort of seems like something he'd do.
Clean kitchens are entirely overrated and I'm finding myself tired more lately too. Maybe it's the weather.
The photos were great and my girls were glad to see them, I'm not sure why but they always ask to see pictures of Caedan so thanks to you from them. And thanks to you from me for letting all of us into your life. I 'm thinking of you often.
Love you, Lori

Lori Wightman <thewightmans@aol.com>
Amherstburg, ON Canada - Thursday, November 28, 2002 at 10:02 PM (CST)
I know the Christmas holidays are going to be very difficult for you this year. I can only imagine how difficult. You will be in my thoughts and prayers as always. Blessings and I'll definitely keep checking on you.
Khalita www.caringbridge.com/nc/khalita Aplastic Anemia Duke Peds BMT <khalita@hecaresonline.org>
Lexington, NC - Thursday, November 28, 2002 at 08:31 PM (CST)
Thanks for sharing the photo's, it means alot to see and remember his smiles.
Lisa <hawthorl@lhsc.on.ca>
London, On Canada - Thursday, November 28, 2002 at 05:24 PM (CST)
But for goodness sakes, plug in the Chanukah Menorah!!! You'll be right on time.
Dahlia

Dahlia Reich <dahlia.reich@sympatico.ca>
- Thursday, November 28, 2002 at 12:16 PM (CST)
hey, can you leave those pictures on for a while??? :)
love mike

mike <gins16@hotmail.com>
london, on ca - Wednesday, November 27, 2002 at 11:57 PM (CST)
just wanted to let you know we are all thinking of you and we enjoy seeing Cali's beautiful face at the daycare. Take care of yourselves.
Jen Young,Growing Concern <jugglehound@rogers.com>
london, - Wednesday, November 27, 2002 at 06:55 PM (CST)
Maryla

I am with you. I am always pleading to wait until at least Dec 1st -- nobody listens. The Santa Claus parade always marches past my house the 2nd Sat in Nov so it gets the ball rolling. Can you believe our staff Christmas party is this Saturday? You have a very tough couple of months to go through and my prayers of peace are with you.

Love to all

Sandy <smschram@hotmail.com>
London, Ont Canada - Wednesday, November 27, 2002 at 12:53 PM (CST)
Want to hear an early Christmas lights story? There is a house across the street from the office that didn't even bother with Halloween this year - they had all the wreaths and bows and lights and Santa's up the Monday BEFORE HALLOWEEN!!!!! I don't care if you are a Christmas person or not....that's just silly.

Tracy M. <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Wednesday, November 27, 2002 at 12:13 PM (CST)
Maryla, it was so,so nice to run into you at the mall ... Kali looked ever so adorable and those shoes, I want a pair too!
I agree with you that the Christmas lites are on way too early this year.
I am sending tonnes of hugs your way!!
me(the WINNING looser)

Chetna <cbhatt@rogers.com>
London, - Wednesday, November 27, 2002 at 10:07 AM (CST)
Hi Maryla,
My usual routine with Christmas lights is to have Mike put them up on December 24 (just after he returns from doing ALL his Christmas shopping). Then, we leave them up until the end of January.
Luv, Carol

Carol Fuller
London, ON Canada - Wednesday, November 27, 2002 at 08:46 AM (CST)
Hi Mar, I check the web page daily. I agree with the Christmas lights. Remember last year, with Kyle and the cherry picker? Still makes me laugh. Thanks for all the pictures. I love Cherios Man!
Tracy B
- Wednesday, November 27, 2002 at 08:33 AM (CST)
Hi Mar,

I agree about the Christmas lights. Whoever tries to get them up when the weather is nice is just CRAZY---you have to do it when its freezing rain; just to watch your husband curse you out for "needing" them on the roof every year!!!
And about that kitchen thing, heck, doesn't everyone need a rest after cleaning up the kitchen?? I say when kitchen cleaning is on the agenda...the rest of the day should be warm bubble baths and lots of pampering!
Will be thinking of you often during this difficult holiday season. Does this mean skiing is out??
Big Hugs

Sandy Bolton <jandsbolton@aol.com>
Amherstburg, ON - Wednesday, November 27, 2002 at 07:07 AM (CST)
I know this is going to be a really hard time Maryla.
The first of everything is awful.
We're all thinking of you....

chris
Gooch's Site

- Tuesday, November 26, 2002 at 10:09 PM (CST)
We agree with Noah's folks - we're big fans of Super Cheerios Man too, and we are so happy to have the chance to see that photo and the others posted again! Thanks for thinking that we'd like to see them - you were right!
Much Love

Jenn and Dan
Vancouver, BC - Tuesday, November 26, 2002 at 09:53 PM (CST)
I agree the lights are up WAY too early this year! December 1st sounds fine with me. I'm thinking of you this season, and thinking of your son smiling down on you all.
Amy (L.S.A.P) <albilyea@rogers.com>
London, - Tuesday, November 26, 2002 at 08:26 PM (CST)
Thanks for the new pictures.......we love Super Cheerios Man.
Always thinking of you guys and sending our love. Always thinking of Caedan, too, with simultaneous smiles and tears.

Baby Noah and folks
- Tuesday, November 26, 2002 at 07:32 PM (CST)
Awww - thanks. I just checked the photo page. You put up one of my favourites - CheerioMan!
Karen <hbyc7@rogers.com>
Waterloo, ON - Tuesday, November 26, 2002 at 01:33 PM (CST)
I second Maryla's observation that Christmas lights *seem* early in November. On the other hand ... thank goodness for the early ones that get me thinking in the right direction in time! Just to let you know you are in good company Maryla, I still have a hurriedly put together wreath of fall leaves on my front door. I figure I can get away with it at least until Americans finish Thanksgiving. Right?

P.S. I trust that coffee is caffeinated. I'll join you with a caffeine boost from hot chocolate.

Karen <hbyc7@rogers.com>
Waterloo, ON - Tuesday, November 26, 2002 at 01:29 PM (CST)
CHRISTMAS IN HEAVEN

I see the countless Christmas trees around the world below
with tiny lights like heaven's stars reflecting on the snow.

The sight is so spectacular please wipe away that tear
for I am spending Christmas with Jesus Christ this year.

I hear the many Christmas songs that people hold so dear
but the sounds of music can't compare with the Christmas choir up here.

I have no words to tell you of the joy their voices bring
for it is beyond description to hear the angels sing.

I know how much you miss me, I see the pain inside your heart
for I am spending Christmas with Jesus Christ this year.

I can't tell you of the splendor or the peace here in this place
Can you just imagine Christmas with our Savior face to face?

I'll ask him to lift your spirit as I tell him of your love
so then pray for one another as you lift your eyes above.

Please let your hearts be joyful and let your spirit sing
for I am spending Christmas in heaven and I'm walking with the King.




Thinking of You
- Tuesday, November 26, 2002 at 12:08 PM (CST)
Mar
My lights are on, my tree is up and its all because my little angel whipsered sweetly into my ear to remember the meaning of Christmas. I did this for Dustin, this is his first Christmas in Heaven and he wants to see the lights shine from earth to the Heaven's above. I am sure Caeden will let you know soon that he wants to share the lights and glory of Christmas with you, listen and you will hear him. *warm hugs*

Take Good Care My Friend
www.caringbridge.com/canada/dusinbmt/

Judy(Mom of Angel-Dustin) <chaz2765@yahoo.com>
Chatham, ON Canada - Tuesday, November 26, 2002 at 12:01 PM (CST)
Hi Maryla! Hello Scott!
Thinking about you. Tina and Dina and shopping? Was Scott a little nervous? Miss you Mar. I pass the cemetary almost everyday and smile over to Caedan.
Love to Cali.....Lore

Lore <lore.wainwright@bell.ca>
London, - Monday, November 25, 2002 at 10:17 AM (CST)
Hello, its Sandra from Camp Trillium. I just wanted to say hi and let you know that I always keep you guys in my prayers. I hope Cali is doing better, I read that she was sick with the flu. Well I hope that everything is going ok and perhaps if you guys are going to the ChildCan christmas party I will see you there. Well till then take care.
Toodles
Sandra
P.S Maryla: If you could possibly send me the link to dustin's caring bridge page I would really appreciate it, so I can send Judy a quick little hello. My email is sandra_magalhaes@hotmail.com . Thanks so much for being so awesome.

Sandra <sandra_magalhaes@hotmail.com>
London, Ont Canada - Saturday, November 23, 2002 at 09:21 AM (CST)
God is keeping you close in thought and prayer. Please know that. Blessings to you.
Khalita www.caringbridge.com/nc/khalita Duke Peds BMT aplastic anemia <khalita@hecaresonline.org>
Lexington, NC - Friday, November 22, 2002 at 10:43 PM (CST)
Sister Maryla and Brother Scott:
Love you both, don't forget.


Aunt Christe, Uncle John and Baby (getting bigger) Noah
Vancouver, BC CANADA - Friday, November 22, 2002 at 10:25 PM (CST)
Sister Maryla and Brother Scott:
Love you both, don't forget.


Aunt Christe, Uncle John and Baby (getting bigger) Noah
Vancouver, BC CANADA - Friday, November 22, 2002 at 10:25 PM (CST)
Hi back! Hope my letter made it to your mailbox by today.
Karen <hbyc7@rogers.com>
Waterloo, ON - Friday, November 22, 2002 at 07:20 PM (CST)
Hooray for the "ina's"
Hooray for Anne
Hooray for the little steps...take the little joys when they come Mar...you deserve them.
Big hugs to you and yours.
Love, Lori


Lori Wightman <thewightmans@aol.com>
Amherstburg, On Canada - Thursday, November 21, 2002 at 06:20 PM (CST)
Wow! A weekend with the Ina's!! Hope you all had some giggles together. Hope Cali is feeling better, and that you and Scott didn't catch her bug too!
Tracy M. <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON CANADA - Thursday, November 21, 2002 at 03:48 PM (CST)
Maryla,

You're on my mind today. Hugs to everyone.

Sandy at Growing Concern Child Care Centre <smschram@hotmail.com>
London, Ont Canada - Thursday, November 21, 2002 at 02:42 PM (CST)
Maryla, I have been checking often on the site and not one day has gone by since Caedan's death that I have not thought of you or Scott or Cali and the daily struggle that each of you face to get through one more day without your beloved son and brother. I know that there are no magical words that I can type which will change your heart or your circumstances. I wish there were because I would gladly sit here and fill the guestbook to infinity if it would help ease your pain. I know better. I am praying for healing in your home, I am praying for healing in your heart, but I am not foolish enough to pray for you to get "over" this loss. That would be impossible. You will never "get over" the loss of your beautiful child. Sometimes there will be a song, or a child playing on the street of the same age as Caedan and your tears will flow again. Each day will pass, you will get up in the morning and brush your teeth, comb your hair, make breakfast and do all the mundane things that we all do and sometimes you will start to weep without any trigger mechanism. That is okay. It hurts beyond words, and that is because you love him beyond measure. Not physically having him to hold or laugh with or care for is something that you have lost. Your love for him will never be lost. You will always love Caedan and he will always be a member of your family. He was and is your baby, your child, your son.

I read one of the posts which mentions Syd Birrell's article about James. I have been receiving updates/emails about James for the past couple years and have thought that Syd would be able to offer you some words of comfort and true understanding as he no longer has James to physically hold in his arms. I too suggest that you visit the web-site. I have an email for Syd if you wish to contact him directly as well.

I am so pleased that you spent some time with your friends. They are amazing women. They love you dearly and they will carry you along on those days when your feet are in wet cement and your soul feels empty. I know that I am one of the lucky ones. I look at Alexander and realize just how lucky we are to have him with us still. I feel guilt about that too. I am being honest with you Maryla. I know that it would be very painful for you to see my son right now because of his age, dx, tx similarities etc. with Caedan and that would be hard for you and for me to ignore. My heart aches for you Maryla. I am praying that your support system remains intact and that as your journey continues your know that there are so many of us out here who care for you, became entwined in your battle and will never, ever forget Caedan. I promise you. I am still here, and my heart is full.

Love, Tami

Tami Watchurst (mom to Alexander: 9 yrs of age: High Risk A.L.L. o/t: 98-09-10) <leapco@auracom.com>
Orangeville, Ontario Canada - Thursday, November 21, 2002 at 12:15 PM (CST)
Always thinking of you and yours. *HUGS*
www.caringbridge.com/canada/dusinbmt

Judy(Mom of Angel-Dustin) <chaz2765@yahoo.com>
Chatham, ON Canada - Thursday, November 21, 2002 at 09:10 AM (CST)
Maryla,
So glad to see that you were able to spend some "me time". I truly believe that it does the soul good as well as the body. Cody's last Phase I trial was unsuccessful so we are going to try another at the National Institute of Health in Bethesda, MD starting in mid-December. Whenever possible, I will still follow your site, but please know that you (that's the Royal "you" meaning the entire family) are always in my thoughts and prayers.
Regards, Sharon

Sharon Simpson <john.simpson6@sympatico.ca>
Windsor, ON - Thursday, November 21, 2002 at 09:04 AM (CST)
Maryla, We never met, but clearly you are a mother who has given all. You did your best, and I hope you can continue to do so, even as you live with such a terrible loss. Syd
Syd Birrell
- Thursday, November 21, 2002 at 03:25 AM (CST)
Maryla I'm glad you updated, something made me check twice today. I know you are doing as well as can be expected. I wish I could tell you a magical day or date when things will be bright and purposeful again, but I cant. I hope you feel our cyber hugs of support....
chris
Gooch's Site

- Wednesday, November 20, 2002 at 11:28 PM (CST)
By the way, I should add that you can access James' website at www.JamesBirrell.ca
Valerie Sawyer
- Wednesday, November 20, 2002 at 08:34 PM (CST)
Maryla and all - I was reading the latest issue of Canadian Living (December) in bed last night and couldn't believe what I found. There is an article on page 217 entitled "You Gotta Use Every Day". It was written by the father of a nine year old boy (James Birrell) who died from neuroblastoma a year ago. James, like Caedan, had a web site run by his dad Syd. 100,000 people were scanning the website at the time of James' death. Maryla, this is a "soul mate" family for you and Scott. You must read their story as they know exactly what you are going through. I hope it inspires you and reminds you just how Caedan and your family have inspired us all.
Valerie Sawyer <tvsawyer@shaw.ca>
Edmonton, AB - Wednesday, November 20, 2002 at 08:09 PM (CST)
(((((Maryla)))))
Elaine
Ottawa, Ont - Monday, November 18, 2002 at 08:03 PM (CST)
Hi Maryla, Scott and Cali. Sending a quick note to let you know I think of you every day and pray every night that your days get easier to face. That will happen over time and when you are ready. For now, take care and live each day the best you can.

p.s. Cali, hope you are feeling better!

Kristyn
Mt. Carmel, on - Monday, November 18, 2002 at 12:05 PM (CST)
Hi Maryla,
Just wanted to let you know that I still think of you often and check in here, just to see.... I hope Cali got over her flu bug alright. I also have one of those Energizer bunnies in Braeden, but I think bedtime is getting a bit better now. It sure is exhausting as a parent, though. I know as time goes on, you will have more good days and fewer bad days. I'm here if you need to chat (good day or bad!). All the best

Mary-Anne <maryanne.davies@lhsc.on.ca>
London, - Monday, November 18, 2002 at 11:08 AM (CST)
Mar,
Still praying for you, for Scott, for Cali. Big hugs to you all. Remember all the people that are here for you if you should need anything...anytime...anywhere.
Love you,

Lori Wightman <thewightmans@aol.com>
Amherstburg, On Canada - Monday, November 18, 2002 at 10:35 AM (CST)
Hi Maryla,
Just wanted to drop you a line & let you know we're thinking of you.
Love Jane

J.Cornett <jcornett@21stcentury.net>
Chicago, IL - Sunday, November 17, 2002 at 10:39 PM (CST)
hi aunie maryla there is no snow down here i cant belive there is snow up there i find that funny!I hope cali will end up makeing her snowman!luv you guys
hope to see you soon!!

paige bowers <paigebb@sympatico.ca>
LaSalle, Canada - Sunday, November 17, 2002 at 05:43 PM (CST)
Hope Cali feels better enough this week to build a snowman :-)


Karen <hbyc7@rogers.com>
WATERLOO, ON - Sunday, November 17, 2002 at 11:09 AM (CST)
hi auntie maryla poor cali has the flu i hope she gets better how are cotton and garfield? are they getting into any mischief ? tell them that paige says hi i hope to see you soon i miss you all very much!
paige bowers <paigebb@sympatico.ca>
LaSalle, Canada - Friday, November 15, 2002 at 02:54 PM (CST)
Maryla:
I have so often wanted to write to you over that past year since I have been introduced to your son's website. I read your entries, read the guestbook, wrote many notes I could never send, my thoughts were always, how can I enter into her life now, when her trial is so great, why didn't I keep in touch...I would sign in only on condition that I offer a prayer to you and Caedan and all your family and friends. I signed in each time, praying I would read that a miracle had transpired. I know he was healed the day he closed his eyes to his family and friends and opened them with his Heavenly Father. I read a sign this morning that made me think of Caedan, "Please remember our children for they are the angel's that are among us". I really believe that. I'm sorry I didn't write before, I'm sorry I waited until now...your entries give so many (even those who have not had to face a trial in life to this degree)strength. You will not see it today, you may not see it in a year to come, but I saw it with every entry you wrote, every message given. I never expected to see any more entries after your warrior received his wings, but I'm glad you have kept that window open. The doors will open in time...

Nicole Collison (Roy) <j.collison@sympatico.ca>
Amherstburg, ON Canada - Thursday, November 14, 2002 at 12:52 PM (CST)
Maryla, I hope your loss gets a little easier to bear as time goes on, Caedan would want his family to be happy. I really hope Cali feels well soon, and that you and Scott don't come down with anything. Take care and hold on tight to all the happy times and wonderful memories you have Caedan can never be truly gone as long as you have those.
Lisa <plbaxter@sympatico.ca>
- Thursday, November 14, 2002 at 08:07 AM (CST)
I love you Mar.
Tina Herzog <tina.herzog@sympatico.ca>
Windsor, Ont - Wednesday, November 13, 2002 at 06:00 PM (CST)
Poor Cali!! Hope this little bug runs it's course soon - and before it makes it's way to Mom and Dad.

Tracy M. <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Wednesday, November 13, 2002 at 08:40 AM (CST)
Cali, I hope you feel better soon. I know you must feel really yukky when you go to bet that early!

I know what you mean. I keep seeing Caedan on our couch playing Gameboy with Cody or sitting at the dining room table eating pizza. You know, the kind he doesn't eat at home.

Thinking of you all the time.

Tracy B
- Wednesday, November 13, 2002 at 07:20 AM (CST)
Cali, we hope that you feel better soon. We still check this page all the time and think of the spirit that Caedan has left for those of us who met him through caringbridge. Our prayers are sent that your grief will ease a bit more in time.
Erin <www.caringbridge.com/ct/kelly>
Berlin, CT - Tuesday, November 12, 2002 at 10:05 PM (CST)
Hi Mar
I wanted you to know I think about you constantly - I wish I could be there in person and give you a big HUG. Who knows, maybe soon. Sending all our love,

Jacqui, Andrew, Adam and Josh
England - Tuesday, November 12, 2002 at 04:02 PM (CST)
Hi Mar,
Just felt the need to make an entry. I think yesterday was the first day since the start of this webpage that no entry was made. Still a lot of us checking in regularly, though!
Big hugs.

Sandy Bolton <jandsbolton@aol.com>
Amherstburg, ON Canada - Tuesday, November 12, 2002 at 04:01 PM (CST)
Maryla and Scott , how devastating to you and joshua's family it is all too unfair and hard to make any sense of it. I am truly sorry and hope that this short thought lets you know you are loved Kim Cash
kim cash <kimberlycash@sympatico.ca>
la salle, - Sunday, November 10, 2002 at 03:12 PM (CST)
I just wanted you to know that I'm thinking of you today. Blessings to you as you continue to walk this difficult road.
Khalita www.caringbridge.com/nc/khalita Duke Peds BMT aplastic anemia <khalita@hecaresonline.org>
Lexington, NC - Sunday, November 10, 2002 at 01:32 PM (CST)
Maryla, I cant even imagine being in your shoes, and the shoes of the parents on the floor with all the kids going thru this. Its so unfair. I hope you are getting by okay.
Chris
Gooch's Site
<chrisrusso_@hotmail.com>
- Friday, November 08, 2002 at 08:34 PM (CST)
Maryla, Scott and Cali;
Just thinking of you in your time of sorrow. I am so sorry that another innocent was lost to this! I will be stopping by "Caedan's Park" on Rememberance Day. My grandparents are there, and I visit them and Caedan as well.
Your little warrior touch so many lives. I remember him fondly!

Amy (L.S.A.P) <albilyea@rogers.com>
- Friday, November 08, 2002 at 11:11 AM (CST)
If you have a minute or two please have a look at this page. http://www.llangley.com/yoga/wisdom/rightnow[2].htm
Copy it into your address bar, enjoy.

Judy(mom of Angel-Dustin) www.caringbridge.com/canada/dusinbmt/ <chaz2765@yahoo.com>
Chatham, ON Canada - Friday, November 08, 2002 at 06:09 AM (CST)
Maryla and Scott
I was just checking in to see if you had a new update and was saddened to hear the loss of your friend Joshua. My prayers go out to you as well as his family. I hope with all the support and prayers of everyone it helps you in this time of need.

Karen Gorza <m.k.gorza@rogers.com>
ingersoll , ont Canada - Thursday, November 07, 2002 at 08:01 PM (CST)
I was so sorry to read about Joshua. Too much sorrow... I am thinking of you, and now Joshua's family too, always.
Love, Annie <anniebowers@shaw.ca>
Victoria, Canada - Thursday, November 07, 2002 at 01:46 PM (CST)
Maryla, I don't know what to say, just tears,
We are thinking about you, and Joshua's family.
There is a beautiful song by Sade with the lyric
'I'm crying everyone's tears...I have so much to do, I must carry on'
Not sure if you have heard the song, but Noah and I listen to it in the car in the morning (well, I can't say that he is listening but he shakes his head back and forth) and I think of you and my brother
Love
your brother John

John (and Christie who is sleeping) and Noah who is running around
Vancouver, - Thursday, November 07, 2002 at 10:33 AM (CST)
Maryla, Scott & Cali
Another loss for you seems all too much for one to bear. I want you to know that I am thinking of you always and wish I could take some of this unfortunate ongoing pain away. It's somewhat comforting to know that Caedan has a hand to hold in his new peaceful world. However, I struggle with how to express my feelings about so many young angels in heaven.
Sending a hug to all of you and prayers of strength to carry you through each new day.

Kelly Cordiner
London, On - Thursday, November 07, 2002 at 09:59 AM (CST)
It seems so little to say I'm sorry to hear about Josh, but I know you take them in the spirit they are meant. Sending you all hugs!
Tracy M. <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Thursday, November 07, 2002 at 08:03 AM (CST)
Hi Maryla,
This is Dustin's Trace and i wanted u to know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Take care.
Love Trace
P.S. If you ever need or want to talk please feel free to email me,give me your phone # or ask for mine

Trace <trucker@netrover.com>
Chatham, ont Canada - Wednesday, November 06, 2002 at 10:04 PM (CST)
Maryla, Scott and Cali,
I'm glad to know you check in regularly with the guestbook. It's a good way for us all to let you know that we do too...and that we're thinking of you daily.
'Sending a :) your way.

Sarah Inwood
London, Ontario - Wednesday, November 06, 2002 at 07:43 PM (CST)
Maryla,

I am so sorry to hear of your little friend, Josh, passing. So near and close to your precious Ceadan and Dustin and so many other children who have lost thier lives to Paediatric Oncology and for those dear ones who are fighting the disease while I type. We pray for Joshs family, like we do for you and your family. That some how we can *muster* the strength and courage to try to partially come to *grips* with the loss of a little guy-girl that has fought so very valiantly and changed the course of our lives...forever. Holding you all in my thoughts and Prayers.
Love Sue...Mom to *Eric T* Alyssa and Nicholas

Sue Thiessen <thiessen@amtelecom.net>
Aylmer, ON - Wednesday, November 06, 2002 at 11:54 AM (CST)
Oh, I read your posts often. I find them moving to the point that I cry each time. And I find them inspirational. I see such beauty and love in them, and so much pain. I am praying for you all.
Charmaine Graham <mailroom@ivey.uwo.ca>
London, ON Canada - Wednesday, November 06, 2002 at 11:19 AM (CST)
Boy life sure seems so unfair. My hope is that heaven is so much better, that it's only us (here on earth) with that feeling! My heart goes out to you for having to re-live the nightmare all over with Caedan's friend. Love Beth
Beth Sutherland <bethcesutherland@sympatico.ca>
London, On Canada - Wednesday, November 06, 2002 at 08:40 AM (CST)
Oh Mar, so sorry to hear of Joshua's passing --another life taken by the dreadful disease.
The heavens are dancing with three beautiful little boys: Dustin, Caedan and now Joshua, who's time with their families so very short; struggles so very unfair and pain much more than they should have ever known.
Thinking of them playing a game of 3 man soccer right now.
Big Hugs for you today and every day

Sandy Bolton <jandsbolton@aol.com>
Amherstburg, ON - Wednesday, November 06, 2002 at 07:56 AM (CST)
Today I bow my head and pray for the safe journey to Heaven for yet another Post Bone Marrow Transplant child who died this morning.
"God Bless Heaven's Newest Angel Joshua Webber."

IN LOVING MEMORY
Dustin Drury August 9, 2002, Caedan Gallagher September 12, 2002 and Joshua Webber November 5, 2002. May the Heaven's shine brighter as Dustin and Caedan welcome Josh to eternal Peace and Love.

Judy(Mom of Angel-Dustin) www.caringbridge.com/canada/dusinbmt/ <chaz2765@yahoo.com>
Chatham, ON Canada - Tuesday, November 05, 2002 at 09:51 PM (CST)
Mar,
Just checked in to see if there was an entry...so sad to hear of your little friend. You must have so many emotions, I hope it helps to know people care. Send my thoughts and prayers out to his family please. And give yourself a hug from me.
Love Lori

Lori Wightman <thewightmans@aol.com>
Amherstburg, On Canada - Tuesday, November 05, 2002 at 08:43 PM (CST)
I think of you daily but I don't always take the time to leave a note. Today I wanted to do that. Please know that you are continually in my thoughts and prayers. Blessings.
Khalita www.caringbridge.com/nc/khalita Duke Peds BMT aplastic anemia <khalita@hecaresonline.org>
Lexington, NC - Monday, November 04, 2002 at 08:52 PM (CST)
Hi Maryla and Scott, I was thinking of you on Halloween (Paige's Birthday) my thoughts of support were being sent to you. I hope you felt it.I knew it would be a hard day for you both. You are always on my mind and in my prayers. You guys are great and are great for each other. love kim
kim cash <kimberlycash@sympatico.ca>
LaSalle, - Monday, November 04, 2002 at 11:42 AM (CST)
Hi Guys. Sending you a quick note to let you know we think of you everyday. Sounds like your days are getting a little easier to face. You are one amazing person Mar... you always know the right things to say. You put things in perspective for us. Keep up the good work!

Tell Cali to keep giving you a run for your money - she'll keep you going :) Gosh she's a sweetie!

Here's to making it through yet another day!

Kristyn
Mt. Carmel, On Canada - Monday, November 04, 2002 at 10:39 AM (CST)
Just wanted to say Hi and let you know you are all thought of.
Christine <christinehoover@hotmail.com>
London, On - Sunday, November 03, 2002 at 04:03 AM (CST)
hi everybody just wanted to say hi and wanted to wish u a happy jolly day as u know ive been eating candy how is everybody?i hope good well hope to see u soon.from ur one and only paige
paige <paigebb@sympatico.ca>
LaSalle, ONT Canada - Saturday, November 02, 2002 at 03:34 PM (CST)
Hi Gallaghers,
I was just thinking of you and thought I'd say hi...Hope you're having a good day. Lots of love...

Lori Wightman <Thewightmans@aol.com>
Amherstburg, - Saturday, November 02, 2002 at 01:12 PM (CST)
Hi Maryla, Scott and Cali, I really enjoyed your message and the analogy of the room is amazing! The plan was to drop by last night as Dylan wanted to come by to trick or treat, but when it started to pour and I noticed his pants were wet right up to his thighs, I thought we'd better stop the candy collecting, and get into a warm tub. He was another variation of his werewolf theme from years gone by and Dawson was a knight in plastic armour! Not a day goes by that Caedan doesn't enter our family converation and more often than that in our minds. Take care, Beth, Pat, Dylan and Dawson
Beth Sutherland <bethcesutherland@sympatico.ca>
London, On Canada - Friday, November 01, 2002 at 12:06 PM (CST)
To 'the coffeecake fairy',
Just a note to inform you to keep your coffeecake close at hand as we now have a coffeecake thief!!! (Chris swears up,down and sideways that he did not see any cake in the mailbox). Oh well -- I guess there is a greedy little trick-or-treater munching away on your thoughtful gift. Or could it be the mailwoman! Hhhhhhmmmmm! As I wear off my 'leftover-Hallowe'en-candy' sugar high and drift off to sleep I will dream of the the coffeecake that never was -- and it will taste amazing, I'm sure. Thank you anyway!!!

Love Julia! <jrajan@rogers.com>
London, Ont - Thursday, October 31, 2002 at 08:17 PM (CST)
Mar, Do what you can, sweetie, just do what you can.
Big,long, bear hugs to you,
Love Lori

Lori Wightman <thewightmans@aol.com>
Amherstburg, - Thursday, October 31, 2002 at 11:07 AM (CST)
I think of you everyday!
Stephanie Paterson <stephanie@robertq.com>
London, ON Canada - Thursday, October 31, 2002 at 09:26 AM (CST)
What a great comparison Janet made. Makes a lot of sense. And you have an amazing way of putting it into perspective!
Can't help but smile when you can't keep up with Cali. Can just picture your two curly heads running around like crazy people. I'm so glad that you have found a way to face those hard places every so often.
Do what you can tonight...but try to have fun. And if that door opens one two many times, turn out the lights, and either enjoy a walk through the happy places in that room, or try and close that door and get some well deserved rest. And which ever one you do, know that you are never walking through that room alone, because our thoughts are always with you.

Tracy <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Thursday, October 31, 2002 at 08:08 AM (CST)
Maryla,
the day WILL come when you will be able to open that door - willingly and smiling. That smile may turn into tears or it may turn into laugher - likely a little of both. For now, keep your hand on the doorknob (because that's where I believe it already is) and trust your instincts whether it's a moment to open the door or keep it closed. I think of you and your family often and hope that each days brings you a little more healing.
take care
Nancy

Nancy Lawrence <Nancy.Lawrence@lhsc.on.ca>
St. Thomas, ON - Thursday, October 31, 2002 at 07:51 AM (CST)
Hallowe'en thoughts of you folks -

It is 3:30 a.m.. I can't sleep and was thinking of you ... checked your site and found your update ... fitting that I should be thinking of our pizza buddies on this day! I'm also remembering the snow flurries when Paige was born. (Paige, if you read this, Happy Birthday). Similar weather is predicted here again for tonight.

So, you are having trouble keeping up with Cali? We all know from where she inherited those Bunny batteries!

One more thing, don't eat too much Hallowe'en chocolate (oh, what the heck ... go ahead). But have some pizza first.

Love

Karen
Waterloo, ON - Thursday, October 31, 2002 at 02:47 AM (CST)
Hi, There
You All may not know me.
But I am only 15years old my twin sister has the same site but it's about her eyes I would love it if u guys can come & stop by for me http://caringbridge.org/az/jessica/ Thank you I am kinda new at signing this stuff ..But I am prayer for all of you guys by the way my name is Jennifer But thanks again and have a nice day
God bless ya all
Love Jennifer
http://caringbridge.org/az/jessica/

Jennifer <your_lil_angel777@yahoo.com>
Phx,, AZ USA - Thursday, October 31, 2002 at 12:09 AM (CST)
Hi Scott, Maryla and beautiful Cali,
We love you a whole bunch, our little energizer bunny misses your little energizer bunny. Noah got one of those baby strollers that Cali pushed around at Janet's and now it is non stop circles around our house (kitchen, hall, living room, dining room, kitchen...), keeps him happy but man it makes us tired just looking at him.
Big warm hugs

Christie, John and Noah
- Wednesday, October 30, 2002 at 11:13 PM (CST)
I'm thinking of you and praying for you as you face every painful event---and I'm asking God to help you through those things I can't anticipate enough to pray for. I know that He knows what they are. Please know that you're very much in my thoughts in addition to my prayers. Blessings...
Khalita www.caringbridge.com/nc/khalita Duke Peds BMT aplastic anemia <khalita@hecaresonline.org>
Lexington, NC - Wednesday, October 30, 2002 at 10:17 PM (CST)
Maryla
Just wanting to let you know that we are thinking of you and your family. We just wish we could make your pain go away and hope as days go on you will stay as strong as you have been through this loss. Please receive our prayers, hugs and love.

Adriana, Al, Sergio, Andrew & Anthony Lesik <al.adriana@sympatico.ca>
London, Canada - Wednesday, October 30, 2002 at 03:02 PM (CST)
So sorry to hear about Caedan passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Keep taking it a step at a time...one day at a time. Know that we continue to pray for you every day.
Dawn Marie & Houston, Danielle, Raquell & Riel
Sarnia, On - Tuesday, October 29, 2002 at 10:12 PM (CST)
Hi Mar, Hi Scott.
Thanks so much for your updates. They mean alot.
Have you ever gone to the trails in Komoka? I'm telling you Mar, it's like being in another world. Only you could get lost, so if you need a guide, let me know. Or hey, adventure has never been a stranger to you.
Love you all.
Lore

Lore <lore.wainwright@bell.ca>
London, - Tuesday, October 29, 2002 at 02:08 PM (CST)
Well, here I am with first official guestbook entry on my own computer (not the library's). I only wish that Caedan could read it himself. But then again, I bet you he is.
Lots of hugs for all you Gallaghers from all us Wightmans
XOXO
Lori

Lori Wightman <thewightmans@aol.com>
Amherstburg, ON - Tuesday, October 29, 2002 at 11:03 AM (CST)
Maryla, Scott and Cali,
we think of you often. can't find the words to express how sorry we still are and always will be.
keep finding the strength!!
love always!!!!!!

Kim, Heather T and Stephanie, 7 West Nurses
- Tuesday, October 29, 2002 at 12:29 AM (CST)
Maryla, I am glad to see that you check back on Caedan's site. It is good to know that you can be connected by staying in touch with this site. We all care about you and your family and I think of you often too. By knowing that you still make entries, I feel better for you that you are getting by and that you will be ok day by day. Maryla, you have so many people that care so very deeply for you. What a wonderful human being you are !! WE ALL LOVE YOU. HANG IN THERE !! With Love and Tenderness for you, Dianne Gamble
DIANNE GAMBLE <busylife1@rogers.com>
BRAMPTON, ON CANADA - Monday, October 28, 2002 at 08:52 PM (CST)
Maryla:

Come to my house and walk. 8km in the country with no schools or kids anywhere. Won't need the sunglasses or the discman. I hope you enjoy the sounds of birds. The walk is a hour and a half of pure peace and quiet. (For me this is my exercise and relazation)
BONNIE

Bonnie Marceau <bmarceau@excite.com>
Union, ON Canada - Monday, October 28, 2002 at 08:00 PM (CST)
Maryla, Scott and Cali~ I just wanted to let you know that I am thinking of you all often.
Jennifer
Hartford, Ct. - Monday, October 28, 2002 at 02:51 PM (CST)
Maryla: Even though I don't personally know you, my heart still aches for you, Scott and Cali. You have been in my thoughts and prayers ever since August. I was introduced to your special son's website through Kristen and I must confess I have checked it on a regular basis. Unfortunately, cancer hasn't been very kind to my family either. Wouldn't it be nice if a complete cure was found? I'm so sorry for your tough week, hopefully this week will be easier to get through. Probably you've seen this poem, but I will attach it anyway. Special people are chosen for certain tasks here on this earth, and you and your husband sound exceptional. The world is a better place because of caring people like you two!

"I'll lend you for a little time a child of Mine," He said.
"For you to love the while he lives
And mourn for when he's dead.
It may be six or seven years, or twenty two or three,
But will you, till I call him back,
Take care of him for Me?
He'll bring his charms to gladden you,
And shall his stay be brief,
You'll have his lovely memories as solace for your grief.

I cannot promise he will stay, since all from earth return
But there are lessons taught down there
I want this child to learn.
I've looked the wide world over
In my search for teachers true
And from the throngs that crowd life's lanes
I have selected you.
Now will you give him all your love,
Nor think the labor vain,
Nor hate me when I come to call to take him back again?

I fancied that I heard them say: "Dear Lord, Thy will be done!
For all the joy thy child shall bring,
The risk of grief we'll run.
We'll shelter him with tenderness, we'll love him while we may,
And for the happiness we've known
Forever grateful stay;
But shall the angels call for him much sooner than we've planned

We'll brave the bitter grief that comes
And try to understand.



Mary Lou Thomson <mlt.csi@hay.net>
Exeter, On Canada - Monday, October 28, 2002 at 12:15 PM (CST)
((((((((((((Maryla)))))))))))))

Been reading here often.... I think of you daily

Your friend, Teri

Teri
Montreal, QC - Sunday, October 27, 2002 at 06:28 PM (CST)
(((((((((((((Maryla)))))))))))))))))


elaine
Nepean, Ont - Sunday, October 27, 2002 at 06:10 PM (CST)
Good afternoon my friends,
I'm sorry to hear that your week was challenging. You will get those difficult questions....how many children do you have?....and then how old are they?....At this point I'm sure you don't know what to do first...cry or scream. Hang in there my friend. You will always be the mother of two beautiful children. I hope you and Scott are able to get some good shut eye soon. I'll send the sheep over a few streets! Life is some how a bit easier to handle when you've been able to get one or two nights of solid sleep. Enjoy your walks...remember if you'd like a change from Annie to Lori you know where I am. (I'd even wear my walkman so we could just walk together). Take care of you. I hope this week is a bit brighter. Hugs to you!! Love you!!

Lori <lnh.sashegyi@sympatico.ca>
London, ON - Sunday, October 27, 2002 at 12:39 PM (CST)
You don't know me... I only signed your book once before. That was some time ago, and I had been following your son's progress daily for a while. I took a break from the internet however, and when I did come back, I came to this site, only to see he had passed away. Expressing my sorrow to you may seem insignificant, especially when you have so many others who have also expressed their sympathies as well. I wanted you to know I am deeply saddened and very sorry to hear of your loss. My heart goes out to you and your family. I have never had to endure such tragedy, so I can't even begin to imagine what you are going through. I think the reason I wanted to write this is... because even though I never knew you or your son personally, my heart aches for you and your family. I pray that God shall give you the strength to heal your wounded soul, and he lift you up in your time of need.
Always...
Brianne Wedding

Brianne Wedding
Energy, Illinois USA - Sunday, October 27, 2002 at 02:16 AM (CST)
Thinking of your family and saying a prayer for you tonight.
If it be long or short, fast or slow walks are good.

Gerard D <gman@jet2.net>
LaSalle, Ont Canada - Saturday, October 26, 2002 at 10:43 PM (CDT)
Our hearts could never break to the extent yours are but they are FOR you nonetheless. There is nothing anyone can say or do to change the situation, and trust me, we would all love to.
chris
Gooch's Site

- Friday, October 25, 2002 at 09:51 PM (CDT)
Hi Guys

Hang in there
Kevin, Jasci, Steph, Adrian, Cam and Renee

Kevin
- Friday, October 25, 2002 at 08:59 PM (CDT)
I found your site sometime ago and followed your son's courageous battle. I am so sad for your loss but know you must have wonderful memories of your special little boy. God bless you.
Carolyn <robbinsgc@erols.com>
Reston, VA - Friday, October 25, 2002 at 08:38 PM (CDT)
Maryla and Scott, as always I'm thinking of you. I think it's brave of you to be getting out, with or without sunglasses. Walking is good. Sleeping is good too, and I hope that comes in time for both of you. I'm grateful that you are checking the website; it helps all of us here feel connected.
Love, Annie <anniebowers@shaw.ca>
Victoria, BC - Friday, October 25, 2002 at 03:12 PM (CDT)
Maryla, Glad to hear you are getting out. Everything you do is a step in the right direction, even if you have a small set back, you are still headed in the right direction. One small step at a time.
Thanks for the mail, loved the article about your celebrity "moms".
Keep your chin up. Love Lisa

Lisa M.
- Friday, October 25, 2002 at 03:12 PM (CDT)
Lots of prayers coming your way from Wisconsin!
Justine Germaine <jfgermaine@hotmail.com>
Madison, WI USA - Friday, October 25, 2002 at 02:38 PM (CDT)
Hang in there kiddo! Small steps...teeny, tiny steps.
Love
Kellie

Kellie Drouillard
LaSalle, ON - Friday, October 25, 2002 at 01:17 PM (CDT)
Maryla;

You constantly amaze me with your insight and wisdom. So many times, as you've shared your journal entries, I've thought of you as, "Oh, Wise One". This time, as often, I had tears and a clutching tightness in my chest to think of the pain you and Scott are going through ... but still you show such wisdom.

And "Caedan's Park" ... I like thinking of the cemetary like that.

Love,

Karen
Waterloo, ON - Friday, October 25, 2002 at 01:02 PM (CDT)
Hi there,
Thinking of you often.... ! Glad to hear you are getting out a bit. Walks are a wonderful time to reflect and especially this time of year, the trees are so beautiful.

Take care.



Janice Kucy
London, Ont Canada - Friday, October 25, 2002 at 10:54 AM (CDT)
Dear Family,

We are still thinking of you. Hugs and kisses to all.

Sandy Schram <smschram@hotmail.com>
London, Ont Canada - Friday, October 25, 2002 at 10:04 AM (CDT)
Maryla,
You are all always in our thoughts and prayers.
Even getting up and going out for a walk is a step in the right direction (oh, God, pardon the pun!)Just keep walking and listening for as long as you want. No one should be "timing" you to feel better, the three of you just need to worry about being there for each other.
Love and prayers,
Sharon

Sharon Simpson <john.simpson6@sympatico.ca>
Windsor, ON - Friday, October 25, 2002 at 09:28 AM (CDT)
Each time either you or Scott venture out into the "real world", you are taking another step towards healing. Remember that. I won't say "normal" life, because I'm not sure any of us know what that really is, but if you can find the strength to do one small thing every day, you're well on your way.
I think about all of you, and the people I feel like I've gotten to know through reading this guestbook often, and of course I think of Caedan, and still can't quite figure out how so many amazing people were brought together here in cyber space. I'm glad to know that you are still checking the web site, and even happier to know that people are still sending you their thoughts and love and support and that you are able to read them. I hope that when you have rough days like this week, you park yourself in front of the computer and soak up some of the positive thoughts being sent your way!

Tracy M. <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Friday, October 25, 2002 at 08:16 AM (CDT)
Maryla,

I just checked in to see how things are going in London. Aunt Janet will soon be with us here in Halifax and we are all looking forward to her visit. Keeping making your little steps forward! Our prayers and thoughts are with you the Gallagher family now.

Susan Dower <dowerps@ns.sympatico.ca>
Halifax, Canada - Friday, October 25, 2002 at 08:13 AM (CDT)
Oh Mar,

So sorry you had a rough week :(
Bravo for getting out on your walks. I bet people think you are a movie star trying not to be discovered :)

Sending lots of love your way and hoping you and Scott have pleasant dreams of your dear Caedan when you manage a bit of sleep...

Take good care,

Sandy (and John) Bolton <jandsbolton@aol.com>
Amherstburg, ON - Friday, October 25, 2002 at 07:30 AM (CDT)
This is when knowing someone only by e-mail is so tough - we can only reach out to you with our words. But, I am glad to have 'met' you and to have 'known' Caedan and all your family and I suppose without this (e-mail) I would never have learnt so much and got to know such lovely people. Hang in there Maryla - I don't even feel able to imagine what you're going through, but be sure you are never far from my thoughts. love Debbie
Debbie Donnison <debbiedonnison@aol.com>
Dorchester, Dorset United Kingdom - Friday, October 25, 2002 at 02:34 AM (CDT)
Know that you are very much in my thoughts and prayers as you continue to travel this difficult road. If ever you get to the point where you think books may help, please let me know. I have some titles if you'd like them. In the meantime, just take it one second at a time and do what you're doing. I know you're doing a great job and I know it's the longest road you've ever traveled. Much love and many prayers...
Khalita www.caringbridge.com/nc/khalita Duke Peds BMT aplastic anemia <khalita@hecaresonline.org>
Lexington, NC - Thursday, October 24, 2002 at 10:08 PM (CDT)
Gosh, when I read the guestbook, I feel like such a stranger. I've never met you or cooked a meal for you or helped you out of a jam. I just sat here and prayed. I reminded myself to keep breathing and prayed that you would keep breathing too. Those prayers continue as you travel this difficult road Maryla. Much love.
Amy & Rosie Rumberger <TimRumb@aol.com>
Alameda, CA USA - Wednesday, October 23, 2002 at 10:06 PM (CDT)
Hi, I agree. Caedan's cool. I think of him every day. I miss having him over here for pizza and K-D. I miss his quick whit. I miss his sense of humour. I miss Caedan.


Tracy B
- Tuesday, October 22, 2002 at 07:14 PM (CDT)
I feel your pain. I am sorry for your loss and I will keep you in my prayers, Laura
www.caringbridge.org/ca/coltonmeyer
- Tuesday, October 22, 2002 at 03:44 PM (CDT)
Maryla

You may not feel like it, but you are such a piller of strength! It was incredible that you went on the preschool trip with Cali. I'm sure she was thrilled. I am please that we are able to help you out by taking care of Cali during the day. Thank you for letting us do that. Keep on taking it a moment at a time and know that you and your family are thought of every day.

Sandy Schram <smschram@hotmail.com>
London, Ont Canada - Tuesday, October 22, 2002 at 11:55 AM (CDT)
Maryla...dear sister in battle..my heart grieves with you...I still whisper Caeden's name daily...he is one of our dearest angel babies...

I am so saddened you have to deal with this, but if you ever want to vent, I am only an email away.

I told Robby all about your Caeden...about the track meet...he said..."hey, that little kid was cool." I smiled a little smile and agreed...


Cheryl--from the ALL board <c1216@aol.com>
Redwood City, CA - Monday, October 21, 2002 at 09:08 PM (CDT)
hi everybody hope everything is all right enjoy halloween!!
paige bowers <paigebb@sympatico.ca>
LaSalle, Ont Canada - Monday, October 21, 2002 at 07:21 PM (CDT)
Maryla, not one day has passed since the Celebration of Caedan's life that I have not thought of you and Scott and Cali. Not one day has passed without my praying for comfort and compassion for the pain that your family is living with and struggling with every moment. I have checked the website often, for you, for me, for Caedan. We speak of Caedan in my home and we say our prayers every night with Alexander and Max and tell Caedan that we will see him again. We believe that to be a reality, not just a hope. I want you to know that I shared the entire Celebration of Caedan's life and light with Ped-Onc and with Faith (list-serve) support groups. So many people have been following your journey through those on-line support groups and they continue to think of you and Scott and your daughter Cali and they continue to send prayers for healing your way. You are seldom far from my thoughts. Caedan will not be forgotten dear friend, I promise you that we will always remember him.

Love, Tami, Jonathan, Alexander & Max (The Watchurst Family)

Tami Watchurst: mom to Alexander 9 yrs: High Risk A.L.L. O/t: 98-09-20 <leapco@auracom.com>
Orangeville, Ontario Canada - Monday, October 21, 2002 at 07:22 AM (CDT)
Hi Maryla and Scott. I just wanted to let you know that Margaret and I are thinking of you and sending our thoughts and our strength your way. Although I've never met Caedan, I feel know him a little through Anne and through the pictures and words I've found in this place. Keep well and... courage,
love David (Kyte)

David and Margaret <joliette66@hotmail.com>
Hobart, Tas Australia - Sunday, October 20, 2002 at 07:23 AM (CDT)
Hey Mar,
Thought I'd check in and send more hugs to you and Scott. Thank you so much for doing updates...and watch your mail, I don't have to borrow anyone's mailbox to send a letter. Love you kiddo...Hang in there and keep doing what you can.
Love Lori (on a borrowed computer)

Lori Wightman
amherstburg, ON - Saturday, October 19, 2002 at 06:31 PM (CDT)
Thinking of you Maryla & Scott!
Don't know what to say except that you continue to be in my prayers.
Many hugs to you all.




Chetna <cbhatt@rogers.com>
London, - Friday, October 18, 2002 at 01:12 PM (CDT)
Hi Guys;

It's just me, thinking of you at this moment and sending my love.

Karen M <hbyc7@rogers.com>
Waterloo, ON - Friday, October 18, 2002 at 12:54 PM (CDT)
Mar

I have this poem posted on Dustin's guestbook on his web page. It offers me as a mom great comfort, as I hope it may also offer you comfort when the memories are the greatest.

HE ONLY TOOK MY HAND
(In Loving Memory of Caedan Gallager-Sept 12, 2002 and Dustin Drury-August 9, 2002)

Last night while I was trying to sleep,
My son's voice I did hear
I opened my eyes and looked around
But he did not appear.

He said "Mom you've got to listen,
You've got to understand
God didn't take me from you, Mom
He only took my hand

When I called out in pain that night,
The instant that I died,
He reached down and took my hand,
And pulled me to his side.

He pulled me up and saved me
From the misery and pain
My body was hurt so badly inside,
I could never be the same.

My search is really over now,
I've found happiness within,
All the answers to my empty dreams
And all that might have been.

I love you and miss you so,
And I'll always be nearby.
My body's gone forever,
But my spirit will never die!

And so, you must go on now,
Live one day at a time.
Just understand-
God did not take me from you,
He only took my hand.
(unknown)

Much Love
Judy xoxo

Judy(Angel-Dustin) <chaz2765@yahoo.com>
Chatham, ON Canada - Friday, October 18, 2002 at 07:05 AM (CDT)
Hi Mar, just letting you know that I think of you guys everyday and pray every night that each day will be easier for you to face.

Take care, cherish your memories and know that you are truly a wonderful person! You too Scott.

Kristyn
Mt. Carmel, - Thursday, October 17, 2002 at 07:09 PM (CDT)
Maryla, You are never far from my thoughts and are in my prayers. Rosie has started kindergarten...nothing is taken for granted. Peace be with you. God bless you.
Amy & Rosie Rumberger <TimRumb@aol.com>
Alameda, CA USA - Wednesday, October 16, 2002 at 06:48 PM (CDT)
Gallagher family,

Many thoughts daily of all of you.
Hugs
The Cordiners

Kelly
London, - Wednesday, October 16, 2002 at 03:24 PM (CDT)
Hi Maryla ~
Just wanted you to know that I am still holding you close to my heart, and praying that your pain eases just a little bit day by day.
Hugs from afar ~
Stacey Wada

Stacey Wada <SLW6204@aol.com>
Las Vegas, NV USA - Wednesday, October 16, 2002 at 11:58 AM (CDT)
Mar, Scott.
Love you both. Huge kisses to Cali. Haven't forgotten about our date with our running shoes Mar.
Dave, Lore and Julia XOXOXOX

Lore <lore.wainwright@bell.ca>
London, - Wednesday, October 16, 2002 at 08:23 AM (CDT)
Thinking about you all this past weekend
and Caedan's beautiful voice too: especially the way he said "and thennnn"

alex martiniuk <alexmartiniuk@hotmail.com>
london, On - Tuesday, October 15, 2002 at 09:35 PM (CDT)
Maryla, thinking of you often. I would like to offer you this quote...

"Just the fact that we continue to move forward is more important than the speed!"
-Marlene Cornelis-

take care of you
Jennifer

Jennifer <jthompson@lon.imag.net>
St Thomas, ON Canada - Tuesday, October 15, 2002 at 10:07 AM (CDT)
Maryla,
It must be so hard for you. I'm so sorry that you have to experience this grief and anguish.
Love, Carol

Carol Fuller
London, ON - Tuesday, October 15, 2002 at 09:13 AM (CDT)
Hi Gallaghers, Well it's Thanksgiving. I'm thankful this year for having known and loved you all. Hugs & Kisses.


Tracy B
- Monday, October 14, 2002 at 07:53 PM (CDT)
Maryla ~ Thinking and praying for you constantly. Wish I could give you a (((HUG))) in person.
God bless,

Lisa Agee (www.caringbridge.com/page/ross) <lagee67@hotmail.com>
Camden, AL - Monday, October 14, 2002 at 08:29 AM (CDT)
Hi Mar
This is mainly a message for Robyn -
Robyn, you are a striking beauty, girl! I truly believe that beauty comes from within, and now that your hair is not distracting attention from your face, when people look at you they will be able to see directly into your eyes and into your soul and they will realize how even more beautiful you are inside than they ever knew!

Troy (school friend of Maryla's) <troy@bay-net.on.ca>
- Sunday, October 13, 2002 at 07:12 PM (CDT)
We love you madly.
Mike and Carol <mbowers@ody.ca>
London, Ont - Sunday, October 13, 2002 at 07:00 PM (CDT)
((((((((((((((((((Hug))))))))))))))))))))))
Tracy M. <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Sunday, October 13, 2002 at 01:19 PM (CDT)
I just looked at the pictures... Robyn, you have guts girl!
chris
Gooch's Site

- Sunday, October 13, 2002 at 01:19 PM (CDT)
Hi Mar and Scott
I also feel, in my own way, that this month has been both excruiatingly long, and has passed in a wink. As it has been for the last couple of years, Caedan and the Gallaghers continue to wander through my daily thoughts and prayers.

Jenn Friesen
Vancouver, BC - Sunday, October 13, 2002 at 10:01 AM (CDT)
Hi Maryla and Scott and Cali,
I just wanted to let you know that you are constantly in my thoughts and my prayers. I am settled here in Hartford, but my heart is still in London with everyone there. I can not fathem your feelings and emotions that you go through on a daily basis. ButI know how strong you both are and the great family and friends you have to lean on for support. I know you probably don't think of your former nurses as friends, but know we are always here for you. i must be off, I will keep in touch.
P.S. Can you please say hi to the Smith's for me and let them know I am thinking of them as well. Thanks Maryla.

Love, Jennifer B. (former Nurse 7N/W) <brinklow@hotmail.com>
Hartford, CT USA - Friday, October 11, 2002 at 10:09 PM (CDT)
Mar: You give me strengh more than you could ever imagine. I've always admired your character, sense of humour and I am so very proud to know you. I only wish I'd had more time to spend with you while I was in Ontario. You always gave the the best hugs my dear friend, so if you can feel this, I'm giving you a BIG HUG right now! Be strong. Lots of Love,

Rosemary (Lyon, Bai..Ly...Hall...)

Rosemary Hall <rosemaryh@jameson.on.ca>
Calgary, AB Canada - Friday, October 11, 2002 at 03:51 PM (CDT)
Hi Mar, I was at the Meet this year with Dave and smiled so wide when I thought of Caedan and his proud finish! It was so nice to see Julia and Cali in the park too that day.
Been thinking about you guys.
Love, Lore

Lore <lore.wainwright@bell.ca>
London, - Thursday, October 10, 2002 at 01:21 PM (CDT)
Hi Maryla, haven't stopped thinking about you guys or Caedan. Dylan and Dawson speak of him everyday and have wonderful thoughts and comments of him playing in heaven. Just keep on doing what you are doing - you have friend's pulling for you! Love Beth, Pat, Dylan and Dawson
Beth Sutherland <bethcesutherland@sympatico.ca>
London, On Canada - Thursday, October 10, 2002 at 01:08 PM (CDT)
Just visiting again, wishing somehow we could make all your pain go away.
All our love,

Sandy & John Bolton <jansbolton@aol.com>
Amherstburg, ON Canada - Thursday, October 10, 2002 at 07:51 AM (CDT)
Maryla, here we two Heathers' are sitting on North wing thinking of your family and wondering how you were doing.....what a wonderful surprise to see an update from you....it must be such a struggle each day but there you are, taking each day at a time. what a wonderful gesture to take Mary something to eat....to face this place must have taken every ounce of courage and yet you selflessly take the time to touch someone elses life.....once again we are awe inspired.....you are truly an amazing woman!!!!!!!!!!
lots and lots of love sent your way. thank-you for the update. missing you and your family

the Heathers, 7 north peds
- Thursday, October 10, 2002 at 01:46 AM (CDT)
Make "one" goal each day to accomplish, no more and no less than one. It took me a couple of weeks to open that door and step outside. Now when I see children playing, I smile, because I know my child is playing too. You have to survive, you have to find reason to smile, you know Caedan would want to see mommy happy, be happy for him, and from there you will begin to feel happy for yourself, for your daughter and for Scott.

Hang in there sweets, never walk alone. I walk with you in your grief, we share one common area, we lost our boys 5 weeks apart, and now they are close and buddies in heaven. Its up to us, to make the time here the best we can so when we join them, we can tell them of the joys they brought to our lives.
Judy(mom of Angel-Dustin)

Judy Drury www.caringbridge.com/canada/dusinbmt/ <chaz2765@yahoo.com>
Chatham, ON Canada - Wednesday, October 09, 2002 at 05:31 PM (CDT)
Hi Maryla, just to let you know we are thinking about you.
Lisa, Phil and girls
- Wednesday, October 09, 2002 at 01:18 PM (CDT)
Maryla, I now its got to feel like strangers are taking a peek at your personal thoughts in your diary here. But I hope you know we have only good intentions and want the best for you. Unfortunately, our plans wasnt God's plan, and we just want you to heal and hold onto the memories.
I cant imagine being in your shoes and wont pretend to. Did you get the Children of the Dome book yet? I asked her to send it, I dont know if it would be support or not to tell you the truth. There is a very good set of "rules" for grieving parents on Nathan's site, I really liked it. They feel your pain and posted what they got at a bereavement suppport group. Its on the main page right now at:
http://caringbridge.org/page/nathanschewe/

chris
Gooch's Site

- Wednesday, October 09, 2002 at 10:42 AM (CDT)
Oh Maryla, Please don't move. I could never replace my bestest neighbour.
Please just take it one step, one day at a time.
I'm amazed that you made it up to the hospital. I could not have done that. You are just so amazing.
Just remember, all of us are thinking of you and passing on as much strength as we can.

Tracy B
- Wednesday, October 09, 2002 at 09:54 AM (CDT)
Hats off to Robyn!! Or should that be hats on?? Either way, what a way to celebrate Caedan and his battle.
Remember Maryla, every step forward, no matter how small, is a step forward.
Thanks for posting and keeping us updated on how you and Scott are getting by. I can't even begin to imagine how tough it is, but I feel better each time I see something new.
Always in my thoughts...

Tracy M. <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Wednesday, October 09, 2002 at 09:39 AM (CDT)
Good for you Mar for making attempts to get out. Remember....Small steps forward. Never underestimate the value of a small step forward, even if these steps are days apart.
Keep up the fight Mar.
Keeping you as always in thought & prayer.
Love, Kellie

K. Drouillard
LaSalle, ON - Wednesday, October 09, 2002 at 08:01 AM (CDT)
know that I'm still checking on you and praying for you. take your time. time is something that you do have. i can't imagine how painful it is for you. i know that God will bring you the comfort that you need. don't worry about what you don't share and what you do. anything on your mind is worth sharing if you want to. that's what friends are for. HUGS! i'll be back by soon to check on you.
Khalita www.caringbridge.com/nc/khalita Duke Peds BMT aplastic anemia <khalita@hecaresonline.org>
Lexington, NC - Tuesday, October 08, 2002 at 10:58 PM (CDT)
Robyn, you are one beautiful girl, with hair and without. Caedan would have laughed. You are obviously a gutsy, confident, unique and wonderful kid. We applaud you.
Dahlia Reich.

Dahlia Reich
London, Ont. , - Tuesday, October 08, 2002 at 07:25 PM (CDT)
Maryla, hope you dont mind me adding a ribbon in memory of Caedan for the Childhood Cancer Awareness tree in Washington.
chris
Gooch's Site

- Tuesday, October 08, 2002 at 07:08 PM (CDT)
Robyn, you rock, little sister!!!! Time to go Hat Shopping!!! Thanks for the inspiration!
Jenn and Dan Friesen
Vancouver, BC - Tuesday, October 08, 2002 at 09:41 AM (CDT)
BRAVO to Robyn!!! It's no surprise to me that she is your neice Mar!
Thanks for putting this smile in my day.
We love you guys so much,
xoxo
Dina

Dina Kenkel <erabankers@aol.com>
West Bloomfield, Mi U.S.A - Tuesday, October 08, 2002 at 08:20 AM (CDT)
I can shed tears now that you are gone, or I can smile because you have lived. I can close my eyes and pray that you'll come back, or I can open my eyes and see that you were here.
My heart can be empty because I can't see you, or I can be full of the love we shared. I can turn my back on tomorrow and live yesterday, or I can be happy for tomorrow because of yesterday. I can remember you and only that you're gone, or I can cherish your memory and let it live on. I can cry and close my mind, be empty and turn my back, or I can do what you'd want me to do.....
Smile, open my eyes, love and go on.

Author unknown
- Tuesday, October 08, 2002 at 08:16 AM (CDT)
HI Maryla
Just wanted to let you know that you are thought of often. Sending you a big hug.
Jennifer XOXO

Jennifer <jthompson@lon.imag.net>
St Thomas, ON Canada - Monday, October 07, 2002 at 04:41 PM (CDT)
Greetings from your west coast family. Maryla and Scott, just wanted to let you know that the Cops for Cancer Tour de Rock (http://www.copsforcancer.com/tourderock/index.htm) had another successful fund-raising tour, cycling Vancouver Island from tip to toe over the last two weeks, raising money for kids with cancer. One of their last stops was at shopping plaza near Robyn's school. (For anyone reading this, Robyn is Maryla's 15 year old niece and my daughter; she's famous for her unique style and carefully cultivated dreadlocks). Robyn had decided to participate in this year's event because she really wanted to do something in honour of Caedan. On Friday morning she joined a number of volunteers at the Tour de Rock event and got her head shaved. She herself raised over $200, and her school raised over $1000. We're very proud of her. She loves you guys!
I'll email you some of the photos Maryla. You are in my thoughts daily, with much love.

Annie <anniebowers@shaw.ca>
Victoria, BC Canada - Monday, October 07, 2002 at 12:18 PM (CDT)
Hi Maryla,

Just wanted to drop you a note and let you know I'm thinking of you, Scott and Cali.

Thanks for putting Witchipoo up yesterday. At first, I thought it was Kyle!

Mar, you make me want to be a better parent. I don't think I'll ever reach your level but I keep striving every day.

Love T

Tracy B
- Monday, October 07, 2002 at 09:51 AM (CDT)
Hello. I am Paige Rudlad. I am in 7th grade at Byron Southwood. I just wanted to tell you, i prayed for Cedan eveyday, but now he has no pain. Thats better, we'l all someday see him again. Heathy. H E was the cutest kid i ever saw. The only time i ever talke to him our conversation went like this (we bumped into each other)CAedan:im very sorry, did i hurt you? Paige: NO, its alright, you go back and play with your friends Caedan: Okay bye Paie: Have fun!:) i am so sad he's gone, i wish he had longer. but now hes happier. remember that.
I know im young but if you ever need anything such as helping yo in he garden or sovelig snow (as you mentioned) o ANYTHING i will help. ALWAYS
remeber that okay?
*HUGS* and *KISSES*
Paige

Paige Rudland <paigieumz@aol.com>
London, On Canada - Sunday, October 06, 2002 at 01:43 PM (CDT)
Maryla ~ Just want you to know that I'm thinking and praying for you and your family. Caedan was so special and touched so many lives. Thank you for sharing him with us.
God bless,

Lisa Agee (www.caringbridge.com/page/ross) <lagee67@hotmail.com>
Camden, AL - Sunday, October 06, 2002 at 11:32 AM (CDT)
WOW Maryla!.....thank you for your beautiful words and also for sharing those of your friends.
Your lovely family and of course, your precious Caedan, are so often in my thoughts.
He is another CHAMPION angel who has left such an impression on my heart, which will remain with me always.
Take care.
Lots of love & cuddles,

Liz & her precious gang, from Down Under
XO XO XO XO XO

the Cruickshank family (ALL-KIDS) <meajbc@bigpond.com>
Melbourne, Vic. Australia - Sunday, October 06, 2002 at 06:58 AM (CDT)
Hello dear friends,
I have nothing insiprational or wise to share......I just wanted to say good morning.

Lori <lnh.sashegyi@sympatico.ca>
London, - Saturday, October 05, 2002 at 07:46 AM (CDT)
Maryla,
You're amazing. There, I said it. You may not feel like you are, but it's true. To have the strength and personal insight to realize what you have to do to grieve, to grow, to heal........that's incredible. Caedan lives on in our hearts and in our memories forever. I'm keeping you, Scott, and Cali in my prayers. I am so thankful that you shared your dear son with us.
Keep doin' what you're doin'.
God Bless you all ~
Stacey Wada (ALL KIDS)

Stacey Wada <SLW6204@aol.com>
Las Vegas, NV USA - Friday, October 04, 2002 at 05:58 PM (CDT)
hi everybody i hope your day is going as good as mine only 27 more days til my birthdat yeah.thanksgiving is coming up yeah!hope to see you soon!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
paige bowers <paigebb@sympatico.ca>
LaSalle, ONT Canada - Friday, October 04, 2002 at 03:14 PM (CDT)
I just wanted to let you know that you're constantly in my thoughts and prayers. I can only imagine how hard things are for you. And, I know that God will bring you through as time continues to pass. He makes the memory of Caedan burn brighter every day!
Khalita www.caringbridge.com/nc/khalita Aplastic Anemia Duke Peds BMT <khalita@hecaresonline.org>
Lexington, NC - Friday, October 04, 2002 at 02:56 PM (CDT)
Mar, Scott and Cali,

I hope this finds you well and your days a little brighter with memories of your beloved Caedan.
I can't help but notice there are still so many hits to this site every day. I confess, I too, am a guestbook junkie!
Even though I am sending you emails directly to your home, I, like the others in your (or should I say "our") website family, check here to make sure you are still getting all the love and support you could ever need. I rejoice when I see a new post from you 'cuz to me that means you are managing to face another day and -- good or bad -- we get an opportunity to see how you are doing though your words.
We love you and think of you often, hoping you can manage to smile every once and a while.
Big hugs from Amherstburg.


Sandy Bolton <jandsbolton@aol.com>
Amherstburg, ON, - Friday, October 04, 2002 at 11:17 AM (CDT)
Beautiful warm memories of OUR Angels, Caedan and Dustin flourish within my heart and my mind every minute of every day.



Thinking of you....

Judy(mom of Angel-Dustin) www.caringbridge.com/canada/dusinbmt/
Chatham, ON Canada - Friday, October 04, 2002 at 10:38 AM (CDT)
Dear Maryla & Scott,

Just checking in, and wanted to let you know that I continue to think of your family often. I will give you a call soon.
Hang in there!

Lois Grimes <childcan@lon.imag.net>
London, ON - Wednesday, October 02, 2002 at 10:38 PM (CDT)
I wanted you to know how sorry I was to hear about Caedan. Marian would often update me on Caedan's progress and my whole class was very hopeful that Caedan would make a full recovery. It must be very difficult for you and I wanted you to know that my thoughts are with you right now.
Debbie Marchand (Marian's teacher at South Park School)
Victoria, , B.C. Canada - Wednesday, October 02, 2002 at 09:55 PM (CDT)
Checking the website is part of our bedtime routine. Even on days when there wasn't an update and even now when we don't expect you to write, it has been and continues to be comforting in some way to see all the guestbook entries from so many people, known and not known to us, who were touched by Caedan and who loved him.
We're sending you all our love and would gladly get on the next plane to shovel that driveway if that could help.
Big hugs to all of you from all of us.

P.S. Baby Noah wants Cali to know that he misses her terribly. An extra hug and kiss for her.

John and Christie and Noah
Vancouver, BC - Wednesday, October 02, 2002 at 08:45 PM (CDT)
Thanks for the update Maryla. It was just good to hear your "voice." Our prayers for you and your family continue.
Amy & Rosie Rumberger <TimRumb@aol.com>
Alameda, CA USA - Wednesday, October 02, 2002 at 04:53 PM (CDT)
Love you guys.
So odd. In a more occurring event, Julia and I in prayer, Julia brought Caedan into our conversation. It seems she can't equate God without Caedan. I'm starting to believe that they have a very unique insight.

Lore <lore.wainwright@bell.ca>
London, - Wednesday, October 02, 2002 at 10:50 AM (CDT)
Hi Scott Mar and Cali Beth, I've started this entry a thousand different ways, and I don't know what to say....I don't want to say the wrong thing and I don't want to sound cliche, God knows I've heard it all too...so I will just close with a "I'm thinking of you everyday and it gives me comfort to know that maybe Caedan will meet my Olivia up there and they will look after each other....Caedan was an incredible person".
Love Ursula

Urs Braun <rubraun@hotmail.com>
Niagara Falls, - Wednesday, October 02, 2002 at 08:33 AM (CDT)
Hi guys
Alex Martiniuk <alexmartiniuk@hotmail.com>
London, - Tuesday, October 01, 2002 at 10:27 PM (CDT)
Your Family is in my thoughts and prayers.
Love,
Dana, Zackie's mom (Dx JMML 5/01, BMT 10/04/01)

Dana
Zachary's web link
- Tuesday, October 01, 2002 at 09:10 PM (CDT)
Maryla
You are so very blessed to have so many people to love and support you. I can't imagine how it must feel to know that for every corner you turn, there is someone waiting for you, to offer you what ever it is you may or may not need. God knows this is the most difficult time in your life. I may not know exactly how you feel about your tremendeous loss, I do however know how I feel about my loss as I am sure we do in some way share many similar heart wrenching emotions. I have found the past two months the most lonely and empty moments of my life. One day I hope that I can be surrounded by even a glimmer of what you have here and now. You are and always be a remarkable woman, mother and wife and friend.

Judy (Mom of Angel-Dustin)
Chatham, ON Canada - Tuesday, October 01, 2002 at 06:51 PM (CDT)
Maryla,
My mere words certainly pale in comparison to yours and those of your friend. She (I am assuming she is a she!) has said everything that all of us wish we could say.
I confess, too, to still checking the guestbook. I'm glad when I see an update, but definitely do not expect to see one each time I visit. I think I'm just more or less making sure that all those past "cyber friends" are still with you and supporting you. I expected they would be, but it just makes it more real when you see the print.
If you never feel like updating this site again, that is your decision and yours alone. Each and every person deals with sadness, loss, grief and coping in different ways. If we didn't, why would the book stores be full of all those self-help books telling us how to do these things!! However you, Scott and Cali decide to deal with your situations is the right way for each of you. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise.
Although it took two sick boys to do so, I am so glad we were able to meet. I feel I am a much better person for having met you and experienced your true courage and strength. I thank you for that.
May God grant you all comfort in your memories and a smooth journey to find peace (no matter how long it may take - you are not being timed!)
God Bless to the Gallaghers.

Sharon Simpson
Windsor, ON Canada - Tuesday, October 01, 2002 at 01:31 PM (CDT)
Maryla, I am still thinking of you guys and of course hoping you all find some peace. I know Caedan has.
chris
Gooch's Site
<chrisrusso_@hotmail.com>
- Tuesday, October 01, 2002 at 12:28 PM (CDT)
Maryla and Scott, you are amazing people and I know you will make it through this "terrible" time in your lives. So keep pluggin away, you are doing a great job!
Kristyn
Mr. Carmel, on - Tuesday, October 01, 2002 at 09:09 AM (CDT)
Maryla and family,
I write you with tears in my eyes after reading your beautiful and heartfelt words. You have amazing friends, as your guestbook shows, and that must be because you are amazing people. Go day by day and if that is too hard, take it minute by minute. Know that you will go on because the world needs you and Caedan needs to know that you will continue, but take this journey in your own way and time. Your friend is a wonderful writer..all those thoughts in our heads she put so eloquently into words (just as you have always done and continue to do on this site.) Please know that our family will continue to check the site (even if you don't choose to update) because it's our way of letting you know that we are still here thinking about and praying for your family.

Erin Foy <www.caringbridge.com/ct/kelly>
Berllin, CT - Monday, September 30, 2002 at 11:27 PM (CDT)
You are an amazing woman Maryla.
May God bless you and keep watch over your entire family.

Alice Friesen (mom to Alexandria - remission March, 2002 - AML) <howahay89@yahoo.ca>
- Monday, September 30, 2002 at 08:01 PM (CDT)
hi auntie maryla and uncle scott and cali,i miss you all and same with cotton and garfield!
love paige

paige <paigebb@sympatico.ca>
LaSalle, ont Canada - Monday, September 30, 2002 at 07:56 PM (CDT)
Maryla, I read the update and will try to take it to heart. It's just so tempting to pop next door to see if you need anything while I'm out. I know now that if you want anything, you will just call and ask for it. Sorry about the cream cheese. Actually, I just tossed some out on the weekend. I just didn't trust the expiry date. Kinda like the sour cream thing. What happens to sour cream after the expiry date? Does it get more sour?

Please tell Pooh Bear next time you're talking to him that I really appreciated his note in this guestbook. Cody & Kyle thought it was just wonderful.

Love you bunches!


Tracy B
- Monday, September 30, 2002 at 07:38 PM (CDT)
Maryla, I think that brushing your teeth is a great accomplishment. If tomorrow you feel like brushing your hair and your teeth (with different brushes perferably) that too will be an accomplishment. If you are not able to master both those tasks in the same day, so be it. How long should you be feeling this way? Hmmmm, lets see, what is the formula used to measure appropriate grief? I know that I have my grief calculator somewhere in the house, perhaps in my purse. No, it isn't there sorry about that Maryla. Darn it, I cannot remember how the formula goes, is it one day of love for another equals 1 minute of gut-wrenching grief? No, that cannot be right, maybe it is 1 minute of love for another equals one day of gut-wrenching grief. I know that it is a very simple straight forward logical formula. I just cannot seem to remember precisely how to do the calculations. Math never was my forte Maryla sorry.

I am still with you on your journey Maryla, and the climb back up the mountain may now actually be the slowest and most painstaking journey that you will ever attempt. You need to find a pace that is workable for you, no one else can determine your pace. Don't let anyone ever make you feel that you are not doing what you should be (whatever the hell that is!) or that you are "lingering" in your pain "too long" or dwelling on your loss (as if anyone would "chose" to feel that type of heartache any longer than their body, mind and soul could bear?! The only person who can truly know when to take that next step up the mountain is you. As someone who deeply cares for you, I can accompany you on your journey but I would endanger you if I should try to push you or pull you up the mountainside. You must gingerly and cautiously look for the next foothold. When you feel safe to take that next step do it, and not a moment before.

Dear friend, remember that I am still with you on your journey and that I will always, always remember Caedan....until we meet again.

Love, Tami xo

Tami Watchurst (mom to Alexander 9 yrs O/t High Risk A.L.L. currently in remission) <leapco@auracom.com>
Orangeville, Ontario Canada - Monday, September 30, 2002 at 06:19 PM (CDT)
Okay, I read it once. I'll read it again and again. Hugs to your "friend" for putting into words how we all feel out here in cyberspace. Whoever it was is much better at putting things into words that I can ever hope to be.
I must confess, I am one of those people who can't seem to stop checking the website, even though I don't expect to see anything here. It's a habit, I do it without even thinking. But somehow, seeing that people are still sending you their love and support, I feel better. Maybe it's because I know that you will see it too, and I hope that it helps even in the smallest way possible.
And who ever said there was a way you were supposed to be grieving and a way you're not supposed to anyway???
Still thinking of you all!


Tracy M. <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Monday, September 30, 2002 at 03:40 PM (CDT)
Hi Maryla, Scott and Cali...just wanted you to know that my thoughts and prayers are still with you - I will always remember Caedan as one of the most intelligent, eloquent children I have ever known. He was a joy to meet and to care for.
Stephanie Carter <step_carter@hotmail.com>
London, ON Canada - Monday, September 30, 2002 at 02:57 PM (CDT)
Oh Mar! Boy, did your friend ever get it right. So few people have ever had to walk in your shoes, and we just don't know the right things to do or say. And we know that nothing that we do or say will make it easier or better. I am glad that you are still asking for help. It makes us feel better to just to hear it.

I love the part of the "Caedans' Stranger's Family" There are so many people that I work with and know that check this site too. People that have included Caedan and your family in their thoughts and prayers. At the luncheon after the funeral, I cannot tell you how many times I was both asked and overheard the question "What was your name again?" Even the people in your guest book feel like part of a family, trying to put faces to the names of the people who "lurk" here.
I too, drone on and on...., but please know that the things that are said by those who love you are always said with the best intentions.

Shannon Taylor
- Monday, September 30, 2002 at 02:24 PM (CDT)
Maryla,I can imagine the sadness that you are going through and want you to know that I am thinking of you and praying for you.
Mary, former ALL kids member and mom of Aidan

Mary Neary <nearyme@aol.com>
Juneau, AK USA - Monday, September 30, 2002 at 12:20 AM (CDT)
I don't know you but I'm praying for you. I'm so sorry that you are going through this horrible time. May God give you strength and peace.
Laura
Michigan, - Sunday, September 29, 2002 at 09:04 PM (CDT)
MARYLA AND SCOTT, WISH I COULD CHANGE IT ALL,PLEASE KNOW THAT I AM THINKING OF YOU BOTH. LOVE KIM AND PAIGE P S THE CAW CANCER PREVENTION COALITION DEDICATED A SONG TO CAEDAN AT A RECENT FUNDRISER THAT I WAS AT IT WAS CAT STEVENS SONG A WILD WORLD.( I'LL ALWAYS REMEMBER YOU LIKE A CHILD)
KIM CASH <kimberlycash@sympatico.ca>
LA SALLE, - Saturday, September 28, 2002 at 06:53 PM (CDT)
So glad to see you post! You are all moving in the right direction. Keep your chin up!!
Sheila
Peru, IN USA - Friday, September 27, 2002 at 05:27 PM (CDT)
Thanks for the update, Mar. do what you can, sweetie, and remember there are tons of people for you and Scott whenever and however you need us. XOXO and big hugs too!
Lori Wightman
Amherstburg, - Friday, September 27, 2002 at 10:29 AM (CDT)
((((((((((((((Maryla)))))))))))))))
Elaine
Nepean, Ontario - Friday, September 27, 2002 at 10:12 AM (CDT)
Hi Maryla, Scott and Cali, yes we are still popping in - Sue and I spoke tonight and she had mentioned your message had changed - it's nice to see your update (and no-one would expect any more from you)! The hits tell you - you are thought about constantly by all who have been travelling this journey along "with you". We'll keep checking and I'll get Pat to leave you a voice mail message (lucky you!) Love Beth, Pat, Dylan and Dawson
Beth Sutherland <bethcesutherland@sympatico.ca>
London , On Canada - Thursday, September 26, 2002 at 07:30 PM (CDT)
Maryla & Family
Thinking of you
**HUGS**
Jennifer

Jennifer <jthompson@lon.imag.net>
St Thomas, ON - Thursday, September 26, 2002 at 10:14 AM (CDT)
There will be a tomorrow that exists without me. And I know that. When that day arrives, I want this world to have seen greater beauty because I existed. I want my life to have meant something. I want this world to be brighter. I want this world to be happier. I want people to have smiled more and to have laughed more because I've spent time here. I want others to have seen and felt the uniqueness of my spirit. And if I accomplish that, when my soul does move on and my gift stays here and
makes just one ripple. I will look down and I will smile. I will smile wide.


- Mike Litman


erica (the collapsed cot mom) CHOW July 2001 <erica@steele.on.ca>
- Thursday, September 26, 2002 at 10:10 AM (CDT)
Oh, Maryla, what a painful journey! I can't truly comprehend the pain. I just found out from Sandy Wagner, and I still remember my delightful visits with you and Caedan- the breastfeeding barracuda. You hung on despite pain. Hang on now, despite constant pain. I pray that it will get less constant and you get more frquently surprised by joy. It seems like it was quite a privilege to have to be a parent to Caedan and one I have no doubt you deserved, but oh, how devestating not to have even the struggle and the worries and a Caedan to hug. He is strongly still there, though, and he'll touch you in his new way constantly. My prayers will be with you and your family.
With a full heart, Anita

Anita Kinsella <jeff.kinsella@sympatico .ca>
St. Thomas, - Wednesday, September 25, 2002 at 10:57 AM (CDT)
Maryla, Thank you for your update. Just remember. One breath, one step one day at a time. Thinking of you, Scott and Cali constantly. Please tell Mike the food is still in the freezer.
Tracy B
- Wednesday, September 25, 2002 at 10:25 AM (CDT)
Maryla, you need to do nothing more than BE for the next little while. The number of hits on the website doesn't surprise me a bit...that's the impact you all have had on so very many people. If you feel you need to vent, do it here. If you just need to feel comforted, come here. If you don't want to do anything, then don't. But remember that we are all keeping all of you (that means Mike too) in our thoughts.
Tracy M <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Wednesday, September 25, 2002 at 08:07 AM (CDT)
Maryla:
I was so sad to hear about Caedan and my heart cries for your suffering and loss. I am sure that Caedan is smiling down on you - I am just so sorry that this is how it is. This website for Caedan is wonderful - the love and generosity literally pours out of it. Please accept my sad ness and condolences. Nancy

Nancy (mom to Lizzie, Cliffy and Audrey) (former ALL_KIDS mom) <njbastian@aol.com>
Philadelphia, PA - Tuesday, September 24, 2002 at 09:05 PM (CDT)
We love you guys so much.
Baby Noah and his folks <twobrides@hotmail.com>
Vancouver, BC - Tuesday, September 24, 2002 at 08:58 PM (CDT)
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Alex Martiniuk <alexmartiniuk@hotmail.com>
London, ON - Tuesday, September 24, 2002 at 08:29 PM (CDT)
Breathing is enough right now Maryla. I am so glad you posted an entry on the website. You are in our prayers for peace. God bless your dear family.
Amy & Rosie Rumberger <TimRumb@aol.com>
Alameda, CA USA - Tuesday, September 24, 2002 at 07:33 PM (CDT)
One minute at a time...know that you're loved, cared for and prayed for.
Khalita www.caringbridge.com/nc/khalita Duke Peds BMT aplastic anemia <khalita@hecaresonline.org>
Lexington, NC - Tuesday, September 24, 2002 at 06:46 PM (CDT)
Maryla
Updates are really not in order honey. It is still horribly diffiult for me to get up daily too. We both share the pain of the loss of our chilren. Focus on only today, reflect on the memories of yesterday. When you are feeling more at ease, I'd like nothing more than to sit down and talk with you. I miss Caedan and Dustin, very, very much. *HUGS*

Judy(Mom to Angel Dustin) http://www.caringbridge.org/canada/dusinbmt/
Chatham, ON Canada - Tuesday, September 24, 2002 at 05:33 PM (CDT)
May peace be with you during this difficult time and know that your precious son has a special star in the sky each night.
Kelly Johnson www.caringbridge.org/nv/baileyaustinjohnson <BAJ31199@aol.com>
Lake Tahoe, NV USA - Tuesday, September 24, 2002 at 03:20 PM (CDT)
Maryla

I am so glad to see your entry. I have been thinking of you, Scott and Cali daily, and will continue to do so.
I hope that you will continue to use this sight as an outlet, or to ask for help if needed, or to see all of the lives that Caedan has touched.


Shannon Taylor (Mangin)
- Tuesday, September 24, 2002 at 02:01 PM (CDT)
Maryla we are all concerned and thinking of you and praying you find some speck of peace and comfort daily.
chris
Gooch's Site
<chrisrusso_@hotmail.com>
- Tuesday, September 24, 2002 at 11:34 AM (CDT)
Just to let you know we are still praying for your family Maryla, and especially for you and Scott and Cali. No words are adequate, so that leaves us only with prayers for peace and healing. The Lord bless you and keep you.
Amy & Rosie Rumberger <TimRumb@aol.com>
Alameda, CA USA - Monday, September 23, 2002 at 04:26 PM (CDT)
Dear Maryla and Scott,
My thoughts have been with you both and your family during this time and I am so sorry for your tremendous loss. I will always remember how much Caeden loved popcorn and everytime I pop a bag at work I think about him and his unique and wonderful insights and comments. I always thought Caeden was a wise old man in a little person's body. The two of you are amazing parents and amazing individuals, Caeden was blessed to have you both as his parents. Please give Cali a hug and kiss for me, and wish her a happy belated birthday. My thoughts and prayers are with your family always.

Jennifer Zorzit, 7 West
London, Ontario, Canada - Sunday, September 22, 2002 at 10:01 PM (CDT)
Dear Maryla, Scott, and Cali,
My thoughts and love are with you. Please know that I am here for you at any time.
With love,
Mar

Mary Jane Babcook <mjbabcook@sympatico.ca>
Toronto, Ont. Canada - Sunday, September 22, 2002 at 05:15 PM (CDT)
We were so saddened to hear of Caedan's death. May your beautiful and special memories spent with Caedan during his life bring you peace. He was such a fighter. Love The Cleminson Family, Windsor, Ontario (We met all of you one summer at Rainbow Lake Family Camp).
The Cleminson Family <jclem@mnsi.net>
Windsor, Ontario, Ontario - Sunday, September 22, 2002 at 10:17 AM (CDT)
Maryla, Scott and Cali,
Thinking of you at this time and wanted you to know that my prayers are with you. Caedan was special, so inquisitive! I feel honoured to have cared for him and will always remember your family's devotion and sacrificial love. God Bless.

Sara Myers (7N/W) <cemyers2002@hotmail.com>
Burlington, ON Canada - Saturday, September 21, 2002 at 08:31 PM (CDT)
Maryla, Scott and Cali,
I just wanted to let all of you know that my thoughts and prayers are with you always.
Caeden touched the lives of so many people and he will be deeply missed.
Thinking of you always, Emilyn

7W Nurse <emilyncastro@hotmail.com>
- Saturday, September 21, 2002 at 01:09 AM (CDT)
Maryla and Family,

I was so sorry to hear your sad news. I know how hard Caedan fought the beast, and how you were there for him every step of the way. I hope your thousands of beautiful memories will sustain you, and that the magnificent spirit that supported him is trebled in heaven.

Kim Warren <skpabc@aol.com>
CT USA - Friday, September 20, 2002 at 09:41 PM (CDT)
My deepest sympathies.Words cannot express what an honour it was to get to know your family. I admire your strength, and the love you have for your children. Caedan touched many hearts, he will be missed, but never forgotten. Thinking of you.
Lynn S. 7W <lsulli@care2.com>
London, Ont Canada - Friday, September 20, 2002 at 01:51 PM (CDT)
God bless Winnie the Pooh

(see 3 items below)


thankful friend,
- Thursday, September 19, 2002 at 09:51 PM (CDT)
Dear Maryla, Scott and Cali
sending big hugs, lots of chocolate and happy birthday wishes
Jennifer
XOXOXO

jennifer <jthompson@lon.imag.net>
St Thomas, ON Canada - Thursday, September 19, 2002 at 09:47 PM (CDT)
Dear Gallaghers,
Hope all is calm and Cali had a most wonderful day for 3rd birthday. We'll talk soon,

Sandra <kamrombouts@hotmail.com>
Delaware, - Thursday, September 19, 2002 at 07:48 PM (CDT)
Maryla, Scott and Cali~
I don't really know what to say to you tht hasn't been said already. I am still in Bancroft at my parents and I found out late Sunday evening. Please know that I am sorry that you are having to go through this. Caedan was such an amazing young boy. He always cracked out a smile and had such interesting knowledge to share with his nurses. I never knew so much about Star Wars until Caedan gave me the low down on all these crazy episodes! I know you never looked forward to being in the hospital but I always looked forward to taking care of you.
I am so sorry that I could not be there to celebrate Caedan's wonderful life with you, but please know I wanted to be there. I leave next week but I will check in and keep in touch with you from Hartford.
Take care of yourselves and that sweet little Cali, and know that you will forever be in my thoughts and in my heart.

Love, Jennifer Brinklow (formerly of 7N/W) <brinklow@hotmail.com>
Bancroft, - Thursday, September 19, 2002 at 03:58 PM (CDT)
Dear Gallaghers
Oh Bother, being a bear of very little brain, sometimes I forget what I want to say.....oh yes, that's right....I want to say thank you for sharing me and Tigger and Piglet and Eeyore and all the others here at The Hundred Acre Wood with Caedan for the past nine years. And thank you even more for reading my story to Caedan on Tuesday. As Christopher Robbin always told me: "You're braver than you believe, and stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think." I think Christopher Robbin is the best sort of friend to have. Even when he says,"Silly Bear" it sounds to me like, "I love you." Of all the moms in the world who have read my stories to their children, I liked it best when you read them. I am looking forward to sharing my stories with Cali Beth and want to say HAPPY 3rd BIRTHDAY to her today. Thinking about the cake is making me feel rumbly in my tumbly and I think I have to go now and get a smackerel of honey. Just remember, "If you listen to your honey (or your heart or tummy), it may call you back home.
Love Winnie the Pooh

Winnie, Tigger, Eeyore, Piglet, Rabbit, Owl, Kanga and Roo
Hundred Acre Woods, - Thursday, September 19, 2002 at 11:16 AM (CDT)
Sending special birthday wishes to Cali Beth! Hope you have a wonderful day. You deserve it.


Kristyn <kristynd@ettravel.com>
Mt. Carmel, On Canada - Thursday, September 19, 2002 at 10:19 AM (CDT)
As your mom read you the final bedtime chapter of Winnie the Poo on the day we layed you to rest, my heart smiled as I cried.

Good night dear Caedan. Sleep tight.

Sandy and John Bolton <jandsbolton@aol.com>
Amherstburg, ON Canada - Thursday, September 19, 2002 at 07:20 AM (CDT)
Maryla, Scott and Cali,
Your strength and love as a family has truely blessed the lives of many people. Words cannot describe how special I and many others feel to have known and loved our angel Caedan. I greatly admire the love and support you have shown as a mother, father and friend and one day wish to be able to provide my own family with the same enthusiasm for life as you two have shown for Caedan and Cali every day.
Rest assured that Caedan is up in heaven telling jokes and drawing beautiful sunsets for his loved ones to enjoy as night falls.
Thinking of your family always.
p.s. wish Cali a big happy birthday for me!!

Heather T, 7 west
- Thursday, September 19, 2002 at 12:14 AM (CDT)
Maryla, Scott, and Cali
I wanted to let you know that the service yesterday was beautiful. You are all loved dearly by many people.Happy Birthday to Cali tomorrow. I hope she has a very special day.

Hugs and kisses!!!!

Lois Grimes <childcan@lon.imag.net>
London, ON - Wednesday, September 18, 2002 at 08:48 PM (CDT)
Dear Maryla,Scott, and Cali,
We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Our prayers are with you during this most difficult time.
Pam and David Crawford

pam crawford <davidacrawford@sympatico.ca>
Bracebridge, ON Canada - Wednesday, September 18, 2002 at 01:32 PM (CDT)
My dear friend, Maryla.... I wanted so badly to be with you yesterday. You and your family have been in my thoughts constantly. I was so shocked and saddened by your loss of Caedan... please know that I am only a phone call away.... my heart breaks over and over again as I return to this page - wishing it was all just a bad dream. Luv ya Maryla....

Thomas' Battle with Leukemia

Teri
Montreal, QC Canada - Wednesday, September 18, 2002 at 11:24 AM (CDT)
Dear Maryla, Scott and Cali,
My heart broke when I heard of Caedan's passing. It is so unfair after you all fought so hard and for so long. I know he is at peace and no longer in pain, but he will be missed desperately.
May God bless you and comfort you.
With much love,
Lisa
Mom to Brian (17) ALL 5/96, off treatment since 11/98
and Kevin (9) ALL 2/98, off treatment since 8/00

Lisa Tignor <
thetiglady@aol.com>
Dumfries, VA USA - Wednesday, September 18, 2002 at 09:01 AM (CDT)
Maryla, my heart knows that the pain that I feel is but a glimpse of the pain in your heart. I am so thankful that we were able to be with you yesterday for your celebration of Caedan's life here on earth. I sat there in that church before the service began with my 9 year old beside me singing along with the perfectly chosen music playing all around us. You did an amazing job up there Maryla. Caedan was honoured by the music, the pews filled with loving friends and family but most of all by his Mom standing up at that Altar and reading Winnie the Pooh. The pictures in the reception area were wonderful and we thoughtfully took the time to appreciate the captured moments in each of them. You are surrounded by an outpouring of love and support which was evident by the quantity and quality of the people gathered in that church yesterday to support you and Scott.

I had the priviledge of meeting some of those special people yesterday. Birds of a feather obviously Maryla, they exude love and generosity. You mean the world to them and I know that they are prescious to you as well.

You will be in our prayers today as you were last night. I know the Cali's birthday is going to take all of your remaining strength, I am praying for you to be surrounded by friends and family to share this effort. Having met them yesterday I feel confident that this will happen.

My family met yours through the wonder of a keyboard as we shared our fears, our hopes and our dreams. We were priviledged to have met Caedan at Sick Kid's with you and Scott as you faced the B.M.T. Yesterday we were honoured to participate in celebrating Caedan's light and Life here on earth. I know that we will see him again, of that I have no doubt.

Remember Maryla, I am only a keystroke away. My heart will always have a special place in it for you dear friend.

Tami,

Tami Watchurst (mom to Alexander 9 yrs O/t High Risk A.L.L. currently in remission)
Orangeville, Ontario Canada - Wednesday, September 18, 2002 at 04:25 AM (CDT)
{{{{ooommmff}}}}}

[that's a hug:)]

Alex Martiniuk <alexmartiniuk@hotmail.com>
London, ON - Tuesday, September 17, 2002 at 11:05 PM (CDT)
Dear Maryla and Scott:
Just to let you know that you are in our thoughts. The service was lovely...I will always remember all the children decked out in their Hawaiian best to honour their friend, Caedan (and I'll remember the Shrek music too, of course!).

Susan, Ken, Daniel and Miranda <pigotts@lhsc.on.ca>
London, Ont Canada - Tuesday, September 17, 2002 at 09:00 PM (CDT)
Maryla & Scott,
Wanted to check in and let you both know I'm thinking of you this evening and hoping you get a restful night. Heaven knows you will need it if you are going to be hosting a 3 year olds birthday party. Enjoy the day tomorrow - wish Cali a happy birthday from our family. Aren't little people a wonderful distraction? Caedan will be grinning from ear to ear watching from above as his little sister enjoys her doll house. Take care of yourselves and hopefully we can meet soon for Tims'.

Sandra & Mike Rombouts <kamrombouts@hotmail.com>
- Tuesday, September 17, 2002 at 08:22 PM (CDT)
Maryla & Scott
Your strength is to be admired. You gave your warrior a most beautiful service at church today. Maryla, I don't know if there was a dry eye during your reading of Winnie the Pooh. I believe Caedan was looking down from heaven watching how brave and strong you were today. He would be so proud. Truly touching! May time begin to heal your wounded hearts and treasure the terrific memories of Caedan that you hold so dear. Many arms embrace you from near and far.

Kelly Cordiner <kbcor@sympatico.ca>
London, Ontario - Tuesday, September 17, 2002 at 03:07 PM (CDT)
Maryla It was so nice to see you today, I only wish it was under different circumstances. I just want to say that you are a truly amazing person, an inspiration, and I am honoured to know you. Caedan was truly blessed to have you and Scott as parents. Take Care Lisa
Lisa <plbaxter@sympatico.ca>
St. Thomas, - Tuesday, September 17, 2002 at 02:50 PM (CDT)
Dear Maryla and Scott
I have been with you in heart and spirit at every moment today and through these past weeks.
All my love,

Annie <anniebowers@shaw.ca>
Victoria, BC Canada - Tuesday, September 17, 2002 at 01:54 PM (CDT)
Dear Maryla, Scott, Cali and family; We are deeply saddened by the loss of your brave son/brother Caedan. He is now with our little angel Aidan.
Love and hugs to you all.

Sharon,Martin,Ryan and Mitchell Butler <but7@rogers.com>
Stratford, ON Canada - Tuesday, September 17, 2002 at 07:49 AM (CDT)
I am so sorry for your loss. I know that your wonderful son is in Heaven playing with all of the OTHER angels. I understand so well what you are going through and even tho we never met, I checked on your special angel through Gooch's page. If you ever need to talk to someone who has been there, please feel free. God Bless you and your family in this difficult time. gina geddings
gina geddings, mommy of angel morgan <mimor2@aol.com www.caringbridge.com/sc/morganspage>
beech island , sc - Monday, September 16, 2002 at 10:33 PM (CDT)
Dear Maryla, Scott and Cali,
There are no words to express our sincerest sympathy for your family. Hopefully Caedan is in heaven celebrating his new life with no pain or suffering and is sending his hugs to you from above. Our prayers are with your family.

Kelly, Erin, Tom and Meghan Foy <www.caringbridge.com/ct/kelly>
Berlin, CT - Monday, September 16, 2002 at 08:44 PM (CDT)
Dear Gallagher Family,
I can never imagine the sorrow and pain thats flowing in your hearts like a raging river. Nothing I could manage to mustard up could ever ease the loss of your child, Caedan.
He reached out to ALL and made his impression heart felt to
all. My thoughts and prayers are with you in your darkest hour of need. I ask God to place his hand upon your shoulders and give you the strength you need.

Joe Rommel <joer@aga-engineering.com>
Jupiter, Fl USA - Monday, September 16, 2002 at 07:18 PM (CDT)
Thoughts continue to be with you and your entire family as you take one step, one foot in front of the other and one day at a time. Words could not express how badly we feel. May Caedan send his love and strength to you, and know that he is watching and guiding you at all times, every moment of every day. God bless.
Thoughts and Prayers,

Ron and Sandra Lohnes (friends of the Boltons)

Ron and Sandra Lohnes <rlohnes@cogeco.ca>
Windsor, Ont - Monday, September 16, 2002 at 06:04 PM (CDT)
Maryla, Scott, Cali...

What to say about your little fighter. Know that all you learned from Caedan about courage & grace, and determination, he learned from you first.

I am ashamed to say that I have been staring at this guestbook for the past 3 days. I desperately wanted to write something meaningful, something that could ease your pain, something that could help. I wanted to not sound angry at the unfairness of it all.

It is unfair, and I am angry.

I am also full of sorrow. I wish that I could be with you tomorrow. Please know that my heart & thoughts are.

Love, Jane

Jane Cornett & Alex Neyfakh <jcornett@21stcentury.net>
Chicago, IL USA - Monday, September 16, 2002 at 05:04 PM (CDT)
In times like this mere words do not express the amount of sorrow that we feel. All of our love and prayers for your family. God Bless
Cheryl & Family <mmgal_martin@yahoo.com>
Tulsa, OK USA - Monday, September 16, 2002 at 02:18 PM (CDT)
To all the Gallagher family:
My heart goes out to you in your time of loss. I am glad to say that I had the opportunity to know Caedan. He was an incredible child with the strength and courage of 1000 armies and the humour of the best comics. I will always treasure him in memory. I know he will be watching over his little sister and whole family from heaven.
Sincerely,
Rhonda Springer

rhonda springer <rhondaspringer@hotmail.com>
london, - Monday, September 16, 2002 at 12:14 PM (CDT)
We were so very saddened to hear the news of Caeden's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
neville, helen & gabriel <nsuskin@uwo.ca>
London, ON CA - Monday, September 16, 2002 at 11:41 AM (CDT)
Our family was away on vacation last week and we are just now getting the news! I am so sorry, and I know you guys are going to miss Caedan so much! I know he is in heaven now and he has been made perfect in the arms of our God. For that I am so thankful! Please know our hearts are heavy!

Praying for peace & strength for your family.


Steven, Kelly, Sarah Anne & Emma Grace Hicks <hicks@cbse.uab.edu>
Birmingham, AL USA - Monday, September 16, 2002 at 09:22 AM (CDT)
It was heartbreaking to see Caedan's death listed in Saturday's paper. I send you and your family my deepest sympathy. I hope that knowing so many others care, help you through the hardest time you will ever face in your lives. May the many wonderful memories you and Caedan shared lighten your heart.
Mary Lou Thomson <mlt.csi@hay.net>
Exeter, On Canada - Monday, September 16, 2002 at 08:26 AM (CDT)
My deepest sympathy's are with you and your family. Angel is a powerful word, and that's what Caedan's life was and still is. I will celebrate his life forever. I look so forward to watching him continue to grow through Cali. He showed her so many positive things about life, that she will have with her for the rest of her life. His smiles we will see in her, his soft words we will hear her say, his kind ways we will watch her display and yes, even his silly jokes he would play we will someday see Cali do. His life is one to be totally, cherished, honored, respected and definitely celebrated. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Nancy Craig <Nancycraig@hotmail.com>
London, ont Canada - Monday, September 16, 2002 at 06:51 AM (CDT)
Maryla, Scott and Cali,

My deepest sympathies to you all as well as your extended family, on the loss of your beautiful son/brother. Caedan is in a pain free place now and I am sure he is singing and dancing with the other angels. may God and Peace be with you all.

Gail, Brian and Victoria
Brampton, ON Canada - Monday, September 16, 2002 at 06:02 AM (CDT)
Maryla, Scott & Cali:

We have only been following Caedan's difficult journey through my sister -Karen McCulloch - but we felt attached to Caedan and his struggles nonetheless. I had shared Caedan's story with Mike's parents - Ted & Muriel Gamble when he was the "STAR" featured child in Share a Card this past summer. They were only too happy to be able to send a card to help bring interest and caring to Caedan from even complete strangers. Like all of us they too are very saddened to learn that Caedan has left this place and moved on. I see that they have sent you their condolences earlier today.
Karen tells me Maryla, that Caedan is now with your mom and that has to be of some comfort. We share our love with your family at this overwhelming and sad time. Love Dianne and Mike Gamble, Brampton, Ont.

Dianne and Mike Gamble <busylife1@rogers.com>
Brampton, Ont. Canada - Sunday, September 15, 2002 at 11:01 PM (CDT)
Maryla and Scott, I am so very sorry about the loss of your precious Caedan. May God give you peace in the days and months ahead.

Pat Lee, Katie's mom, formerly of ALL-Kids

Pat Lee
Orlando, FL USA - Sunday, September 15, 2002 at 06:19 PM (CDT)
Dear Scott, Maryla and Cali:

We are so saddened to hear of your loss of Caedan. You are right about him being an "Angel". He will now help your little family through this terrible terrible time in your lives.

If I can be of any help please don't hesitate you know where I am.

God Bless and love each other.

Gisele & Pat <patrick_lavigne@sympatico.ca>
London, ON Canada - Sunday, September 15, 2002 at 05:21 PM (CDT)
Dear Maryla, Scott and family,
I am a friend of Carol's who has followed Caedan's life on this site in recent times. I send you my most sincere condolences on your son's passing.

Susan Salo <ssall@rogers.com>
London, ON - Sunday, September 15, 2002 at 04:57 PM (CDT)
Dear Maryla,
My heart goes out to you and your family. Tara has kept me informed about Caedan. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. I am sure Caedan will be a guardian angel to you all. Keep the faith and remember we are all here for you. Don't hesitate to keep in touch, I am a great listener. Take care,
Barbara Johnson

Barbara Johnson <albarbjohnson@sympatico.ca>
Barrie, - Sunday, September 15, 2002 at 04:05 PM (CDT)
I had not forgotten about you. I just wanted to wait just a little bit to sign. There are no words for a time like this. If I was there in person, I would give you a hug. Since you can only read my words on the screen, know that you are in my thoughts and prayers so much. I am here...for a shoulder or prayer need anytime. Please use me in any way that I may be of help. You have my email and may reach me online at anytime via my website. Blessings to you and your family at this exceedingly difficult time.
Khalita www.caringbridge.com/nc/khalita Duke Peds BMT aplastic anemia <khalita@hecaresonline.org>
Lexington, NC - Sunday, September 15, 2002 at 04:04 PM (CDT)
We are extremely saddened by the tragic news of Caedan, our hearts go out to you. He was, indeed, a fighter to the end. Our deepest sympathy and love to you all.
Jennifer & John Roper <but7@rogers.com>
Stratford, Ont Canada - Sunday, September 15, 2002 at 02:45 PM (CDT)
I am very sorry for your loss. I only today found this website- from Gooch's page. I know that he is in Heaven, with the angels. I will pray for peace for your family. Love, Colton's mom
www.caringbridge.org/ca/coltonmeyer
- Sunday, September 15, 2002 at 02:25 PM (CDT)
Scott, Maryla, Cali,

We were just remembering Caedan and reviewing the website. We just wanted to let you know that we are praying for you.

The Krogmans <krogie6@sympatico.ca>
London, ON Canada - Sunday, September 15, 2002 at 12:44 PM (CDT)
My love and prayers are with you, and I am certain that all the joy that you shared with Caedan throughout his life will be with you and him forever.
God Bless

Suha
- Sunday, September 15, 2002 at 12:39 PM (CDT)
At a moment like this, any words we might have fail to express our sorrow at your loss of Caedan. Be certain Caedan goes to a better place, and one day we will all meet
again. Our deepest sympathy to you all.

Muriel and Ted Gamble <cadneh@csolve.net>
Innisfil, Ont Canada - Sunday, September 15, 2002 at 11:53 AM (CDT)
Maryla and family ~
My prayers continue for you all as you cope with Caedan's passing. I am truly heartbroken. I will never ever forget Caedan's amazing spirit and incredible sense of humor. He will always remain a very special little boy in our hearts.
Take care of one another. And know that you have friends world-wide who love you and care for you.
Always ~
Stacey Wada and family (ALL KIDS)

The Wada Family <SLW6204@aol.com>
Las Vegas, NV USA - Sunday, September 15, 2002 at 10:23 AM (CDT)
Maryla, I dont know what to say, or if there is anything anyone can do to help this time go easier for you guys. We are all so very sorry that it ended like this. Your hearts must be shattered. Please accept all of our condolences and heartfelt sentiments. We love you and are here for you.
chris <chrisrusso_@hotmail.com>
- Sunday, September 15, 2002 at 09:31 AM (CDT)
Dear Maryla,Scott and Cali. Our prayers and thoughts are with you at such a difficult time. We hope you will find all the Love and support your Family and Friends give you at this time will help you. Brenda,Andrew, and Kevin Roper
Brenda Roper <roperbrenda@hotmail.com>
London, Ont. Canada - Saturday, September 14, 2002 at 08:18 PM (CDT)
Dear Maryla, Scott and Cali,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I had been thinking about him a lot lately and wanted to come and see you. I told Kiri that he was not doing very well and she said that is so sad. She remembers having lots of good times with him at daycare and I am glad that I still have their graduation picture to remember him by. My thoughts are with you at this time and just remember that he will always be with you in your heart. Just think that when you look at the stars that one of them is Caedan's spirit looking down at you and thinking about you too.
Thinking of you, Carolyn and Kiri

Carolyn (7S) and Kiri <cmanddj@sympatico.ca>
London, on Canada - Saturday, September 14, 2002 at 07:59 PM (CDT)
Dear Maryla, Scott & Cali,
My sincerest sympathies. May you find comfort in knowing how huge an impact Caedan has made on so many people. People from all over the world and even those who were never blessed with meeting him, have been touched by his life. He, is like you, a true giver of himself, making people smile and laugh and always thinking of others. Thank you sharing Caedan's 9 years with so many people. Wishing you peace. You're in my thoughts and prayers today and always....Love Jennifer XOXOXO

Jennifer <jthompson@lon.imag.net>
St Thomas, ON Canada - Saturday, September 14, 2002 at 06:48 PM (CDT)
I am sorry to read of your loss.
God Bless you all. You are in my thoughts & prayers.

Sheila
Peru, IN USA - Saturday, September 14, 2002 at 06:42 PM (CDT)
Maryla, Scott & Calli
Our hearts go out to you. We were so sorry to hear of your loss. You have been such a pillar of strength and courage for so very long. May love surround you and help you find peace in your hearts.
Our deepest sympathy,

Nicole & Chris Dyck
Toronto, On Canada - Saturday, September 14, 2002 at 06:04 PM (CDT)
After talking with the kids in the before and after school program friday of Caedan's passing, I came to realize how many lives your son has touched, including mine. His strength, laughter, and smile will never be forgotten by myself or the kids in the program. My mom and I have followed Caedan for a long time now, and we express our deepest sympathies on your loss.
Amy Bilyea <albilyea@rogers.com>
- Saturday, September 14, 2002 at 02:55 PM (CDT)
Mar, Scott & Cali
All our love and thoughts are with you at this time. There are no words.
All our love and support.
Jacqui, Andrew, Adam and Joshua Whittington

Jacqui <whitti.family@virgin.net>
Crawley, Sussex England - Saturday, September 14, 2002 at 01:33 PM (CDT)
We are heartbroken to hear of Caedan's passing and at a loss for words that might comfort...but reading this guestbook we are struck by the number of lives that Caedan has touched in his short lifetime. Our thoughts are with you.
Susan, Ken, Daniel and Miranda <pigotts@lhsc.on.ca>
London, On Canada - Saturday, September 14, 2002 at 12:19 PM (CDT)
Maryla, Scott and Calli,
There are heavy hearts at the Simpson household. Rest assured that Caedan is in our prayers as the newest Angel and that all of you are in our prayers for peace and comfort. Caedan was an incredible boy, much wiser than his 9 short years. He, as well as all of you, was an inspiration to us all.
God be with you during these difficult days ahead.
Love, Sharon, John, Trevor and Cody Simpson

Sharon Simpson <john.simpson6@sympatico.ca>
Windsor, ON - Saturday, September 14, 2002 at 10:23 AM (CDT)
Mar, Scott and Cali
I've been trying to think of something to write that will make you feel better... there are no words, I'm sure, that can do that right now...but know this, you are all loved so very much and Caedan lives on in the many lives he touched. You're in my prayers.

Lori Wightman
Amherstburg, On - Saturday, September 14, 2002 at 10:14 AM (CDT)
Dear Maryla, Scott and Cali,
So very sorry to hear about Caedan. Sending hugs and warm thoughts of comfort to you all. What a strong young man he was in his battle.

Julie Ruttinger, Mom to Keaton 9 (dx 12/98, tcell, CCG 1961, OT 4/02) <jjkk3@attbi.com>
Tecumseh, MI - Saturday, September 14, 2002 at 10:01 AM (CDT)
Dear Gallagher Family,
I'm so sorry about your loss. You're all in my thoughts and prayers all the time.

Cameron Parkes, student of Byron Southwood Public School. <cool_dog_dude@hotmail.com>
London Ontario, Canada - Saturday, September 14, 2002 at 09:39 AM (CDT)
I read the paper today (Windsor) and seen that your son had passed.My daughter and myself have been keeping an eye on the web page.To tell you we are sorry seems so small a jesture.We hope you know that we are thinking of you and your family now.Our prayer and thoughts are with you all.Your little angel is at peace.
Melissa Baker <mbaker322@cogeco.ca>
Windsor, Ont. Canada - Saturday, September 14, 2002 at 09:39 AM (CDT)
Maryla, Scott & Cali:
There are no words. Caedan touched so many lives, many of whom never met him. That is quite a legacy.
God Bless............
Adele

Adele <adele.jim@symptico.ca>
London, Ont. Canada - Saturday, September 14, 2002 at 09:35 AM (CDT)
Maryla and Scott,

May the beautiful and loving memories that you will always hold dear of precious Caedan, help to ease the awful pain your hearts and souls are feeling. I am so sorry to hear of Caedans passing. I can not even begin to express my sorrows to you at this time. Thinking of you all.
In Deepest Sympathy,
The Thiessen Family.

Sue
Aylmer, ON - Saturday, September 14, 2002 at 08:17 AM (CDT)
Maryla, Scott and Cali:
My deepest sympathies. I am so sorry for the pain you must feel. Caedan has had a huge impact on the lives of the staff who cared for him throughout his illness. We are so privledged and extremely grateful to of shared in your lives.

Lisa <Hawthorl@lhsc.on.ca>
London, Ontario Canada - Saturday, September 14, 2002 at 08:10 AM (CDT)
I'm so sorry to hear about your tremendous loss. I have never met you or Caeden but feel like I know you through the ALL-KIDS list. May God give you peace beyond our understanding in the next difficult weeks and months.
Juli Dalene <eddal@prodigy.net>
Waterford, CT USA - Saturday, September 14, 2002 at 08:09 AM (CDT)
Our dear friends,
Our deepest sympathy to you and your family at this time. Remember what I told you on Tues. Our paths are similar, although I haven't walked in you shoes. Just know that I am walking right beside you every step of the way. If you stumble I'll help you back up. If you need a hug..you don't have to look far. One short year ago you were there for me and for that I'll always be thankful. I'm now here for you and Scott. Hoping you'll find peace in your heart. We'll chat soon. Love you.

Lori, Hube, Isabel and Angel Gillian xox <lnh.sashegyi@sympatico.ca>
London, - Saturday, September 14, 2002 at 07:19 AM (CDT)
Maryla, Scott and Cali:
Words would not be able to express the sincere sympathy that is being offered to you. Although, we have never met I feel that I know you, through the Bolton's, who have updated me about your son's battle with Leukemia. I am so touched by his courage and your willingness to let others share in his battle and in his passing. You have touched so many lives and he has touched so many hearts, even those who have never had the pleasure of meeting him. I know that he is now at peace, away from the doctors, the needles and the pain. I pray that you are able to find some peace and comfort in knowing that he is in the arms of the Lord and thanking you from Heaven for your unending love and strength. May you somehow feel the arms of love, friendship and spiritual guidance to help you through the next few days of the visitation, funeral and the unbearable struggle of going home and beginning the next journey. Thoughts are with you today and for the days ahead. Sincere Condolences, Ron and Sandra Lohnes (friends of John and Sandy Bolton)

Ron and Sandra Lohnes <rlohnes@cogeco.ca>
Windsor, On Canada - Saturday, September 14, 2002 at 06:53 AM (CDT)
Hello,
I am a friend of Christie, John and Baby Noah's. I have been thinking so much about all of you this week. I know the struggle of Caedan's illness must have been beyond what words could ever describe. I'm here in Vancouver sending love and comfort to all of you. May the endless prayers and thoughts hold you and hug you through these trying times. I was moved to tears by your entry today "your warrior has taken on angel wings." I felt some peace.
Blessings to all of you.
Ryvr Tupper
p.s. Remember to BREATHE!

Ryvr Tupper <lance_cowan@telus.net>
Vancouver, BC Canada - Saturday, September 14, 2002 at 12:28 AM (CDT)
Hello,
I am so sorry for your loss...Although you do not know me I have been following your site through Gooch's site. My heart is so heavy thinking of what you have been through. I know though that our Lord will carry you through till the end. Our thoughts and prayers are with you through these very difficult days ahead.

Lynn, mom to Jessie www.caringbridge.com/pa/jessiespage <candlys@aol.com>
Hazleton, PA - Friday, September 13, 2002 at 11:32 PM (CDT)
Maryla, Scott & Cali

A star is shining brightly in heaven tonight.....
Caedan's beautiful soul shall never be forgotten.

God Bless

Jane Johnson <johnsonja@rogers.com>
London, Ont Canada - Friday, September 13, 2002 at 10:40 PM (CDT)
We cannot express how sad we were to hear the news.love and peace for all of you .Your son touched our lives even though we never met him.take care of each other.
love Rashmi, Robert and baby Aman

Rashmi Singh
- Friday, September 13, 2002 at 10:02 PM (CDT)
Dear, dear Maryla,

I'm joining my tears with others from around the country to yours tonight to mourn your dear Caedan's passing. :*(** I'm sending my heart, broken as it is, in the hopes that you will feel, over the many miles that separate us, the deep caring that is in it for you and your family. Countless prayers come along with it, for strength and grace to carry you through these terribly difficult days.

Big, big hugs, too.


Beth, mom to Bobby, dx ALL 12/87, & McQuin family from ALL-KIDS <CancrRider@aol.com>
Mt Airy, MD USA - Friday, September 13, 2002 at 09:58 PM (CDT)
I feel I was truly blessed to have the opportunity to be Caedan's soccer coach. He played with such intensity! You knew he loved the game. I'm sure he didn't feel great, but he never complained. His warm sense of humour was felt by us all on those fields in Byron. We will miss you!
Hugh Rawling <rawling@rogers.com>
London, On Canada - Friday, September 13, 2002 at 08:49 PM (CDT)
Deepest sympathy from your Friends at ShareaCard.org, we mourn your loss with you.
Suzanne /ShareaCard.org <suzanne@shareacard.org>
Murrysville, PA USA - Friday, September 13, 2002 at 08:45 PM (CDT)
Dear Maryla & Scott,

I feel the pain you are feeling today. Just know that our little angels in heaven are gone but not forgotten.
MOTHERS HOLD THEIR CHILDREN'S HANDS FOR JUST A LITTLE WHILE, BUT THEIR HEARTS FOREVER.
Thinking of you at this sad time.

Lois Grimes <childcan@lon.imag.net>
London, ON - Friday, September 13, 2002 at 08:38 PM (CDT)
Dear Maryla,
May God give you and your family the strength to deal with your loss of Caedan. May your memories of Caedan's strength and spirit give you comfort and the knowledge that Caedan has joined the Angels. Our love and prayers are with you.
Love, Lorna



Lorna Bickerton <lbickerton@ottawaheart.ca>
Kanata, Ontario Canada - Friday, September 13, 2002 at 08:21 PM (CDT)
God bless you and your little angel.
Jean B - shareAcard friend
Malibu, CA USa - Friday, September 13, 2002 at 08:03 PM (CDT)
Maryla and Scott.
All these beautiful words, from all these people. My what an incredible boy Caedan has become and always will be.
Our hearts are heavy and we love you very much.

Lore and Dave and Julia <lore.wainwright@bell.ca>
London, - Friday, September 13, 2002 at 07:40 PM (CDT)
My deepest sympathies in the loss of Caedan. May you find confort in knowing that Caedan is in the arms of the Angels.
Angel-Dustin's Trace <trucker@netrover.com>
Chatham, On Canada - Friday, September 13, 2002 at 07:31 PM (CDT)
So sorry to hear the bad news.
Our prayers and wishes are with you at this difficult time

Love Kevin, Jasc, Stephan, Adrian, Cameron and Renee

Kevin
- Friday, September 13, 2002 at 07:26 PM (CDT)
Dear Maryla, Scott & Cali.
We are so sorry for your tremendous pain. Your precious Caedan is another inspiring angel who has left such an impression on my heart and who has had to leave this world far too soon. He fought so hard to stay. A true warrior. A true hero. A true CHAMPION!
Our love, thoughts & breaking hearts are with you all and also with the rest of Caedean's family and friends.

Loads of love & BIG cuddles to you all.
Liz, Murray, Adam, Joshua & Bethany XO XO XO XO XO

the Cruickshank family (ALL-KIDS) <meajbc@bigpond.com>
Melbourne, Vic. Australia - Friday, September 13, 2002 at 06:59 PM (CDT)
My thoughts and prayers are with your family. Caedan is a hero to so many people & his courage and strength are truly inspiring. He will not be forgotten.

Hugs,

Maren - Mom to CJ (ALL-Kids) <mar6732@aol.com>
Frederick, MD US - Friday, September 13, 2002 at 06:33 PM (CDT)
Dearest Maryla,Scott and Cali,
I just don't have the words to tell you how very sad I am to read your words....After all these years of fighting this horrible disease together, I really thought we would all come out on the other side of it. I am brokenhearted for you and so very much wish there were something I could do.Please know that you will be in our thoughts in the following days, and that Caedan will always be in our hearts.

Cindy Cusack ( Charlie's mom from ALLkids) <cece32@comcast.net>
- Friday, September 13, 2002 at 06:30 PM (CDT)
Maryla--how do I write to another mother who has lost her child to this horrible disease....tears are running down my cheeks....I am sending major cyber hugs...please, please know my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Cheryl J--Robby's mom from the ALL list <C1216@aol.com>
Redwood City, CA USA - Friday, September 13, 2002 at 05:51 PM (CDT)
There are never words to express your loss or to comfort your heart, but please know my thoughts and prayers are with you. I am praying that Jesus would somehow comfort you and give you strength in enduring the loss of Caedon. May God Bless you!
Linda Kelm <sylvtweet@att.net>
Columbus, OH USA - Friday, September 13, 2002 at 03:36 PM (CDT)
I just heard the sad news on ALL Kids - My thoughts and Prayers to your entire family.
Marlene Sorota (Samantha's Mom ALL Kids) <MarleneS@aol.com>
Pembroke Pines, FL - Friday, September 13, 2002 at 02:12 PM (CDT)
Dear Gallaghers,
Our love and prayers are going out to your family to try to ease some of the pain and sorrow. Throughout his short journey in life Caedan has touched so many people and made a huge difference. Our words will never make it right again, but please know we care deeply. Deepest sympathies,

The Rombouts Family
Delaware, - Friday, September 13, 2002 at 01:55 PM (CDT)
Dear Maryla,Scott and Cali,
We are so very saddened at your loss. In his short nine years, Caedan had such a positive impact on the lives of so many people, including those he never actually met.
His memory will live on forever and we know there will always be a special place in Mike's heart that no one else will ever fill.
It is with such heavy hearts that we sign off- not only for the unimaginable loss and emptiness you must be feeling, but for the world- for once in a while, a truly gifted person comes along, with huge potential, to make a difference. And from what Mike has told us, Caedan had such potential, was so smart and so brave. He surely would have reached the stars.
You can be so proud of your son and brother - he was one very special boy.
Our love and our thoughts are always and will always be with you.
Karen and Jon Ginsburg and all Caedan's other "brothers" Jason, Antony and Matthew.

Karen Ginsburg <jon.ginsburg@sympatico.ca>
Grimsby, ON Canada - Friday, September 13, 2002 at 01:34 PM (CDT)
I am so so sorry that this has happened. May God and His angels suround you and give you the strength to get through this. Caeden touched so many people in his life, and will continue to be with you each day as he watches over you with his angel wings. I wish there was something I could do to ease your pain. Please know that your family continues to be in our thoughts and prayers. Much love,
Heather, Mommy to Brianna (All-Kids)

www.caringbridge.com/ny/mylittlesunshine
Syracuse, NY USA - Friday, September 13, 2002 at 01:11 PM (CDT)
Dear Maryla,
I can't even put into to words how sorry I am. I'm praying that God will wrap His arms around you right now and that you find comfort in knowing that Caedan is happy and healthy once again. A very special angel has joined the heavens.
God bless,

Lisa Agee (www.caringbridge.com/page/ross) <lagee67@hotmail.com>
Camden, AL - Friday, September 13, 2002 at 01:10 PM (CDT)
Mar, Scott and Cali
I don't have the words...I can only hope you can take some kind of comfort in knowing that in his short time here, he touched, and changed, so many people. Look at what he did for me - with my fear of needles, one plea from him and off I went to give blood. I can now proudly say I have booked my third appointment for later this month. Not only did he change me just a little bit, but now that donation is helping countless others. Let's not forget the inspiration he was with his strength, determination, and sense of humor during all he went through. You're willingness to share his battles and triumphs is an example of the unselfish, loving family you are, and we were lucky to have known him.
Know that you are never far from my thoughts,

Tracy M. <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Friday, September 13, 2002 at 01:08 PM (CDT)
Maryla, Scott and Cali
If only words and prayers could ease your pain at this time. May you take some comfort in knowing that Caedan will live on in the hearts of tens of thousands of us that were touched by him. May there be solace in knowing that his name will be spoken daily as we teach our children about courage and love.
I am sure that Caedan is pain free up in heaven, surrounded by those who were waiting for him there. I can even hear your Mom laughing as she says "Poke - e - WHAT?"
Love Always

Shannon T (Mangin) <staylor@wecas.on.ca>
- Friday, September 13, 2002 at 12:56 PM (CDT)
Maryla, Scott and Cali,
Our deepest, deepest sympathies go out to you and your family. I'm glad I had the opportunity to meet your very brave and courageous son. He has touched so many lives. May God give you the strength to get through this.

Kevin and Dee Petrozzi <petrozzi@mnsi.net>
Amherstburg, ON Canada - Friday, September 13, 2002 at 12:49 PM (CDT)
Dear Maryla: My thoughts are with you and your family more than ever. May you have some comfort in knowing that Caeden is now at peace and his pain and suffering has come to an end. Will be thinking about you a lot during this difficult time.
Mary Rooke <mary.rooke@lhsc.on.ca>
Ingersoll, Ontario, - Friday, September 13, 2002 at 12:39 PM (CDT)
Oh God Maryla, I am so sorry. I hesitated all morning, not wanting to sign thinking it was all a mistake. I am so sorry for your grief and pain. I wish there was something we could do for you. For those of you, like myself, who arent sure, evidently he passed away September 12th, someone notified the ShareACard site where Caedan was featured.

chris
Gooch's Site
<chrisrusso_@hotmail.com>
- Friday, September 13, 2002 at 12:29 PM (CDT)
Scott, Maryla, & Cali
No mere words can convey the deepest sympathy that is being felt for your family at this time. Caedan was such a brave child and so wise beyond his years. Your family has been an inspiration to so many and that is the only sense that I can make of this tragic loss. In your brave and courageous battle so many were able to take comfort and be truly uplifted by each of you. Rest assured that Caedan will certainly have the same impact on all the angels in heaven that he had on each of us on earth. His smiles, his wit, his intuitiveness are not gone but rather being enjoyed elsewhere and by others. He has inspired and touched more lives in his 9 years than many of us could ever hope to touch in 10 fold. Prayers and love are with you during your grief.
Take Care
Karen P.

Karen Palmer <k.palmer@lhsc.on.ca>
Aylmer, Ont Canada - Friday, September 13, 2002 at 12:12 PM (CDT)
I am praying for all of you so very hard right now. My heart is breaking for you all. Charmaine Graham (carol's daughter)
Charmaine Graham <mailroom@ivey.uwo.ca>
London, ON Canada - Friday, September 13, 2002 at 11:38 AM (CDT)
Maryla, Scott and Cali.
I'm sorry I haven't written sooner. I just can't find the words. I'm sorry just doesn't cut it. You are in our thoughts constantly.

Tracy B
- Friday, September 13, 2002 at 11:36 AM (CDT)
I do not have the courage to call right now - but I want you to know that my thoughts and prayers are with you, Cali and Caedan.

I pray that God give you the strength to deal with your terrible loss, and that He take Caedan into His arms and give him his light and peace. He must need Caedan more.


Nasir
- Friday, September 13, 2002 at 11:36 AM (CDT)
Maryla,Scott, and Cali:

my heart goes out to you and your family with the news of your loss. I was very saden to hear of Cadean passing, he was a great little boy. I hope all the prayers and comfort from friends and family will help you in this time of sorrow.

karen gorza <m.k.gorza@rogers.com>
ingersoll, on canada - Friday, September 13, 2002 at 11:34 AM (CDT)
Dear Maryla, Scott and Cali
So very sorry to hear about Caedan. He fought so long and hard. In some ways, it is comforting to know his long battle has ended peacefully. We are so thankful to have known him and been a part of his and your lives. The inspiration and strength that you and all of your friends bring is a great gift. Take great care .
with love from Mary, Blair and Matt

The Robertsons
- Friday, September 13, 2002 at 11:32 AM (CDT)
I am deeply saddened to hear of Caedan's passing. I can only imagine your grief. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Mary

Mary Neary <Nearyme@aol.com>
Juneau, AK 99801 - Friday, September 13, 2002 at 11:31 AM (CDT)
Dear Maryla, Scott and Kali,
I am so sorry for your great loss. It is a shock, despite his illness. To lose him and to lose him this way seems unimaginable to me. I cannot imagine what you are suffering and I just want to add my name to the many who send their love to you in your grief. I wish you some kind of rest and hopefully some peaceful moments when you can feel Caedan at peace. Somehow it seems that he may be free and able to be as joy and light filled now as his spirit surely was. I pray for you all and for his sweet light. He did not want his beautiful family suffering and I am sure he will send peace to you if he can. Love to all there.

jen fisher & lauren howes

jennifer fisher <laurenhowes@hotmail.com>
Vancouver, BC - Friday, September 13, 2002 at 11:11 AM (CDT)
Maryla, Scott and Cali

May it console you to know others care, think of you warmly, and in every prayer ask God to bless you with courage to bear the sorrow that now fills you heart. ~Caedan is now an Angel in Heaven, God Bless you sweet child~

Judy Drury (mom of Angel-Dustin August 9, 2002) <jtddrury@sympatico.ca>
Chatham, ON Canada - Friday, September 13, 2002 at 11:02 AM (CDT)
dear gallaghers, my heart goes out to you, you're in my thoughts and prayers today and always....
ursula braun
niagara falls, - Friday, September 13, 2002 at 11:00 AM (CDT)
I am so sorry to har about Caedan. He was a very brave young man. Who fought a long and hard battle. But know he his up there with all the other Angels playing and having a good time pain free.
Hugs and Prayers,

Dawn Gresham (All-Kids) <bdmtg@hotmail.com >
Warrenville, SC - Friday, September 13, 2002 at 10:32 AM (CDT)
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of sorrow.
Mary-Anne <maryanne.davies@lhsc.on.ca>
London, - Friday, September 13, 2002 at 09:51 AM (CDT)
My thoughts and prayers are with you, your family, and the many people who loved Caedan. I am praying God will comfort you and carry your through these times.
Cindy; www.caringbridge.com/ga/hillarycoffman <ccchocolatelover@aol.com>
Cumming, ga - Friday, September 13, 2002 at 09:35 AM (CDT)
Dear Maryla, Scott and Cali,
I am saddended by the news of Caedan's passing, yet in my mind I feel he finished his fight and his pain is gone. I imagine your pain is still very deep and heavy. When I told Bailey about Caeden last night she paused for a moment, looked up at me and said " Now he can play with Olivia and Papa ( Kevin's father )! I am constantly amazed at how children deal with such adult situations and I think you know first hand what I mean. Take special care and know you are in our thoughts. XO XO

Rachel , Kevin, Bailey and Casey Olsen <rachel.olsen@regional.niagara.on.ca>
St Catharines, on Canada - Friday, September 13, 2002 at 09:28 AM (CDT)
You are all in our thoughts and prayers.
Shanna and Colleen Zrini <colleen.zrini@LHSC.on.ca>
London, Ont - Friday, September 13, 2002 at 09:28 AM (CDT)
Scott and Maryla, THANK YOU for giving us Caedan. He made a huge impression and difference in so many lives. He will stay in our hearts forever as the is the little boy who touched our hearts with his strength, courage and determination that changed us forever. We will miss him...

Take care of yourselves. Your memories of Caedan will help you face each day.

Kristyn, Mike, Todd and Taylar
Mt. Carmel, on - Friday, September 13, 2002 at 08:31 AM (CDT)
I have been checking daily and praying for a miracle, I am so sorry to see that was not to be. God be with you, I cannot imagine your pain.
Janna <jannaw@centurytel.net>
Whitefish, MT USA - Friday, September 13, 2002 at 08:30 AM (CDT)
Maryla, Scott & Cali, An ocean of tears are in our hearts for your loss. Caedan will always be remembered by our family. Maryla, your loss is felt by every mother who has walked down Leukemia Road. Your pain is shared by each of us.

Tami, Jonathan, Alexander & Max

Tami Watchurst (mom to Alexander 9 yrs O/t High Risk A.L.L. currently in remission) <leapco@auracom.com>
Orangeville, Ontario Canada - Friday, September 13, 2002 at 08:12 AM (CDT)
Our thoughts and love are with you.
Caedan clearly made a huge impact on so many lives and will always be cherished.

Karen and Ian <hbyc7@rogers.com>
Waterloo, ON - Friday, September 13, 2002 at 08:09 AM (CDT)
Words cannot express what you and all of the family feel , please know that we love you and that Caedan was and will always be a beautiful version of the two of you. I"m Holding you from a distance and sending my Paige down to support and grieve with you. love Kim
kim cash <kimberlycash@sympatico.ca>
Lasalle, - Friday, September 13, 2002 at 07:48 AM (CDT)
Maryla, Scott and Cali,
Dylan, Dave and I extend our deepest condolences to you during this time of sorrow. Our thoughts and prayers are with you always. We are truly honoured to have known Caedan and will remember him always.

Dylan, Dave and Anne Marie Dyson <luckystrike@rogers.com>
London, - Friday, September 13, 2002 at 07:33 AM (CDT)
I'm so sorry for your loss, you are in our thoughts and prayers. Take care,
Lynn Louwagie and family
London, - Friday, September 13, 2002 at 06:51 AM (CDT)
You are constantly in our thoughts. Remember, we are always nearby if you need us.
XXXXOOOO

Love Chris and Julia < jrajan@rogers.com>
London, On - Friday, September 13, 2002 at 06:46 AM (CDT)
We are so sorry about your loss.Our thoughts are with you always.
Stephanie Paterson, Kelly Mehlenbacher and Family <stephanie@robertq.com>
London, on Canada - Friday, September 13, 2002 at 06:42 AM (CDT)
I am so very sorry for your loss. Caedan has touched so many peoples lives what a special little guy he was.
Lisa <plbaxter@sympatico.ca>
- Friday, September 13, 2002 at 06:32 AM (CDT)
My thoughts are with you this very sad time. We are going to miss him so much.

Love Miss Rhea xoxoxo

Rhea Dufily <jeepnyj@rogers.com>
London, On canada - Friday, September 13, 2002 at 06:16 AM (CDT)
Caed,
I love you little brother.

mike <gins16@hotmail.com>
london, on canada - Friday, September 13, 2002 at 01:04 AM (CDT)
Dear Maryla, Scott & Cali,
My very heavy heart goes out to each of you. I am blessed to know you and Caedan and your incredible strength and love for each other. My very deepest sympathy to you.
Love Cathie

Cathie Crawford <cathiecrawford@hotmail.com>
- Thursday, September 12, 2002 at 11:40 PM (CDT)
Dear Maryla, Scott, and Cali,
We have been blessed by having known and loved Caedan. Our hearts grieve with yours.

Stephanie and Janice (7W) <step_carter@hotmail.com>
London, ON Canada - Thursday, September 12, 2002 at 11:22 PM (CDT)
Dear Gallaghers

So many people are with you in spirit right now. We are all united in an outpouring of emotion, love and support for you. How lucky for us to be blessed by the light of your beautiful son's smile. Caedan's very special light will continue to burn forever in our hearts. Tonite and always I will let his little light shine.

Troy
- Thursday, September 12, 2002 at 11:11 PM (CDT)
You are always on our minds and in our hearts. Sending big hugs your way.
xxxxxooooooo

All the nurses on level 7
- Thursday, September 12, 2002 at 10:53 PM (CDT)
Maryla & Scott,
There are no words to say what hearts feel. Just thinking of you constantly.
Love, Mike and Carol

Mike & Carol
London, ON - Thursday, September 12, 2002 at 10:41 PM (CDT)
ALL OF MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU ALL TONIGHT
MISS.JEN GROWING CONCERN <JUGGLEHOUND@ROGERS.COM>
LONDON, - Thursday, September 12, 2002 at 10:33 PM (CDT)
Marlya and Scott and Cali;
Thinking of you.
Amy

Amy
- Thursday, September 12, 2002 at 10:24 PM (CDT)
Maryla, Scott, I love you.
Annie <anniebowers@shaw.ca>
Victoria, BC Canada - Thursday, September 12, 2002 at 10:01 PM (CDT)
Thinking of you
Jennifer
XOXOXO

Jennifer <jthompson@lon.imag.net>
St Thomas, ON Canada - Thursday, September 12, 2002 at 09:42 PM (CDT)
Maryla & Scott,

Hang in there, call if you need to talk.
Thinking of you always!!!

Lois Grimes <childcan@lon.imag.net>
London, ON - Thursday, September 12, 2002 at 09:33 PM (CDT)
Thinking of you all the time

Kerry, Patsy & Shaney
Woodstock, On - Thursday, September 12, 2002 at 09:18 PM (CDT)
We love you.
Sue, Dave, Carter and Sam

Susan Gray <sgray@fanshawec.ca>
London, ON - Thursday, September 12, 2002 at 09:12 PM (CDT)
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.Wish I could be there.
Valerie Hammell and family
Ottawa, - Thursday, September 12, 2002 at 08:40 PM (CDT)
Thinking of you and saying prayers.
Mary

Mary Neary <Nearyme@aol.com>
Juneau, AK 99801 - Thursday, September 12, 2002 at 08:24 PM (CDT)
Two more sleeps till Charlyn's trip! She'll arrive in London from her stay in Toronto on Sept 21 or 22. She says she can't wait to give you a hug.
I continue to hope every moment for improvement. I love Tami's words: "Love is the Best Medicine of all." She is so right! All my love,

Annie <anniebowers@shaw.ca>
Victoria, BC Canada - Thursday, September 12, 2002 at 06:14 PM (CDT)
Dear Maryla and Scott,
I was complaining this morning that anything I seem to write might sound trite, so I will say only that my thoughts and prayers are for you and sweet Caedan every day. Each day I burn all manner of stinky new age incence, say blessings and try to conjure up magic thinking that will send whatever kind of hokey love/healing/relief vibes I can. At least I am comforted by the fact that if Caedan could see me he would have a good laugh and do somekind of dance with me in front of my lil shrine. I will never forget his quick as lightning wit, when John would toss out words or expressions for him to interpret in his creative charades game... no object was too banale, he would create a voice, character and an opinion for a patio chair in seconds ! I will never forget the kind of brilliant fire he had that day. I was so lucky to get to hang out with him , however briefly. I just want you to know I am way out here on the coast, but in my thoughts I am with you all there....
love jen

jennifer fisher <laurenhowes@hotmail.com>
Vancouver, BC - Thursday, September 12, 2002 at 06:13 PM (CDT)
Thinking about your son. Saying prayers for Caedan's highest good and for the difficult time you are going through. I do not know your family personally but as a mother of three and grandmother of seven I can only imagine how hard this has been for you. Please take care of yourselves and know we are with you in spirit.

Trish <tvance@fvg.ca>
London, On Canada - Thursday, September 12, 2002 at 02:35 PM (CDT)
TO CAEDAN AND FAMILY,

You are always on my mind. Good wishes and easier times are being sent your way. I have said it before and I will say it agian -- your strength is amazing. Prayer and Love to all.


Sandy

P.S. The staff has been bring in meals for you (they are just in the frezer), let us know when you are running out and we'll run them over to you.

Sandy Schram <growingconcern@hotmail.com>
London, Ont Canada - Thursday, September 12, 2002 at 11:45 AM (CDT)
Hi, this is Jenny, Dahlia's sister again. Since I last wrote, I have been checking Caedan's Website every day and wishing him - and all of you - the very best. Your entire family is the finest example of strength that I have ever seen.

Love,
Jenny

Jenny Reich
Montreal, - Thursday, September 12, 2002 at 09:08 AM (CDT)
Maryla,
Thoughts of you Caedan and your family have occupied my heart and by the looks of all these other notes and letters of love and support, they have also kept you Caedan and the family close to their hearts and in their prayers.
Praying so much for Caedan and you all.
Love
Sue

Sue <thiessen@amtelecom.net>
Aylmer, ON - Thursday, September 12, 2002 at 07:43 AM (CDT)
Maryla, we are constantly speaking of you and Caedan and your climb to get back up that mountain. Our love and prayers are unwavering. Our greatest wish is for a miracle for your son. Love is the Best Medicine of all.

Love, Tami, Jonathan, Alexander and Max

Tami Watchurst mom to Alexander: 9 yrs: High Risk A.L.L. O/t:98-09-10 <leapco@auracom.com>
Orangeville, Ontario Canada - Thursday, September 12, 2002 at 07:17 AM (CDT)
Good morning Mar and Scott,

Just checking in. Wishing you a good day. Sending a BIG huge to both of you. Rub that velvet hair for me!! Our prayers are with you always. Love you bunches!!

Lori Sashegyi <lnhsashegyi@sympatico.ca>
- Thursday, September 12, 2002 at 06:47 AM (CDT)
Caedan, Cali, Scott and Maryla,
We are thinking and praying for you constantly. Cody & Kyle send their love. Cody is going through GW. Gameboy Withdrawal. He has no one to play with that's at Caedan's level. Kyle, well, he's looking forward to "babysitting" Cali. Take Care, Love You.

Tracy B
London, On Ca - Thursday, September 12, 2002 at 04:59 AM (CDT)
Dearest Maryla, as we look into the empty LARGE kernels bag we are reminded of your never ending thoughtfulness....keep it coming, we are starving, overworked nurses here on west. Thoughts and prayers are sent down to you each day and night by numerous staff members(regardless of the popcorn--but it wouldn't hurt for an extra large bag next time...the lord does work in mysterious ways). Take care. Love, Heather T. and Emilyn
7West Nurses
- Thursday, September 12, 2002 at 02:00 AM (CDT)
Maryla & Scott & Caeden & Cali
You are in our thoughts 24hrs a day. We are sending all of our strength, love and prayers to you. We are desperately hoping a miracle is on its way! Sorry I missed you today but I'll speak with you soon and trust that you will call whenever you need to or need anything. Always in our hearts and prayers.
Love Lisa, Rob, Jordan, Morgan & Brennan

The Howes <HowesatHomes@aol.com>
London, Canada - Wednesday, September 11, 2002 at 09:06 PM (CDT)
Maryla, Scott, and especially Caedan,
Thinking of you and sending strength, love and prayers your
way.
Love, Kate

Kate Lupson <slupson@home.com>
London, Ont Canada - Wednesday, September 11, 2002 at 08:31 PM (CDT)
Maryla, Scott, Caedan & Cali
you are in my thoughts and prayers
sending you big hugs
Jennifer
XOXOXO

Jennifer <jthompson@lon.imag.net>
St Thomas, ON Canada - Wednesday, September 11, 2002 at 08:15 PM (CDT)
Maryla & Scott
You are in my thoughts always. This summer has been difficult for many families,it seems. Knowing that so many people care helps. You are in good hands - at the hospital, within the worldwide community that is supporting you, and from above.
Nancy

Nancy Lawrence <LawrenceSeburn@aol.com>
St. Thomas, ON - Wednesday, September 11, 2002 at 06:07 PM (CDT)
my wishes and prayers never waver, hoping all will be well soon. Stay strong we are all holding you from afar. Love Kim and Paige
kim cash <kimberlycash@sympatico.ca>
lasalle, - Wednesday, September 11, 2002 at 03:25 PM (CDT)
Maryla, Scott, Caedan and Cali,
I wanted to write and say a quick "see ya later". I am finished now and heading home to my parents for a few days and then will be back to move in about a week. I am sorry I didn't get to see you before leaving, but you know I will continue to check in on you even from Bancroft. Yes they have computers there, but they are very slow! Anyhow, all my thoughts and best wishes and even hugs to you all. Caedan, I am honoured I had the pleasure of meeting you and taking care of you. I learned so much from you, especially about Star Wars! Anyhow, you hang in and get better soon because there are some new nurses on level 7 who have not been blessed by your presence, and sense of humour. You are an awesome person as are your parents and the rest of your family and friends. So take care and I'll keep in touch.

Love, Jennifer <brinklow@hotmail.com>
Hartford, CT soon!, - Wednesday, September 11, 2002 at 02:30 PM (CDT)
Dear Maryla, Scott Cali and Caeden

Please know that I think about you all constantly. You are all so brave and your inner strength is encouraging for us all. Everyone I know is pulling for you and hoping for the best.

I am here to lean on if you need me Maryla.

Juli
- Wednesday, September 11, 2002 at 01:15 PM (CDT)
May God hold you and give you peace and strength. May God provide comfort and healing for Caedan. As part of the leukemia family, I remember well the fear, exhaustion and intensity of it all. You will be in my prayers daily.
Kathleen (Leslie's mom)
- Wednesday, September 11, 2002 at 12:58 PM (CDT)
Dear Maryla and Scott,
Shadows simply mean there is a light shining somewhere nearby. I pray you see happy rays of sunshine soon.
Hoping for less tears and more smiles; less pain and more progress in London today.
Keep fighting, Caedan.


Sandy and John Bolton <jandsbolton@aol.com>
Amherstburg, IN - Wednesday, September 11, 2002 at 12:44 PM (CDT)
Like everyone else, I'm still keeping you all in my thoughts. I bet Caedan never knew so many people even know who he is! Prayers and thoughts and love from around the world.... absolutely amazing!!
Tracy M. <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Wednesday, September 11, 2002 at 08:09 AM (CDT)
Hi Caedan. It's Alyssa. We miss you. Hope you feel better soon and come back to school. You have Mr. McCavitt and you sit beside one of my friends named Stephanie. Every night I snuggle with the beanie baby you gave me. I will be praying for you. Hope to see you soon.
Alyssa Lawrence <mat.lawrence@rogers.com>
London, ON - Tuesday, September 10, 2002 at 08:06 PM (CDT)
Still checking the website daily and praying constantly. Keep your faith and Caedan, keep up the fight! Believe in miracles and the power of prayer!!!
Erin and Kelly Foy and family www.caringbridge.com/ct/kelly
Berlin, CT - Tuesday, September 10, 2002 at 07:14 PM (CDT)
Hi Maryla, Scott, Cali and our buddy Caedan! Caedan I know you know this but the need to tell you over and over is overwhelming! You are never very far from all of our thoughts and travel in our hearts with us (where-ever we are work/school/play/sleeping etc!) Dylan asks about how you are doing (so we are hitting your website many times a day) and also wishes he could do more than think good thoughts for you and pray/wish! If your out-of-towners need to venture home, we are certainly willing to do what it takes to fill in! (we can be your new best friend! - ha ha) Let us know. Scott, thanks for taking the time out to talk with Pat on Saturday. Love Beth, Pat, Dylan and Dawson
Beth Sutherland <bethcesutherland@sympatico.ca>
London, On Canada - Tuesday, September 10, 2002 at 06:22 PM (CDT)
I HAVE ADDED MY VOICE TO THE VERY MANY PLEAS GOING TO THE HEART AND EARS OF OUR SAVIOR--- WHO REALLY DOES CARE!!!!
SHERRI SCALA
FREEPORT, NY USA - Tuesday, September 10, 2002 at 12:23 PM (CDT)
I'm just back from vacation and was hoping for better news, as were we all. You are in my thoughts and prayers many times each day. What a wonderful thing to have this website so that we can keep abreast of Caedan's progress and to let you know how much we care without taking up your precious time. Lots of love to all of you.........
Adele <adele.holmes@lhsc.on.ca>
London, Ont Canada - Tuesday, September 10, 2002 at 11:13 AM (CDT)
As a friend of a friend, I don't know you, but have been so inspired by your faith, strength and love. I am continually astounded at how the world puts bad and good things together, and while, of course, I wish your journey was different, I am thankful that I have been able to track it as it has changed me for the better. Caedan's spirit really has spread far and wide. You must be very proud. Sending many prayers.
Valerie Sawyer <tvsawyer@shaw.ca>
Edmonton, AB Canada - Monday, September 09, 2002 at 11:15 PM (CDT)
All our best from the seventh floor (W). We hope to see you up here again soon. Peace and Love to you all.
John and Cathy Young (Hannah's parents)
London, ON Canada - Monday, September 09, 2002 at 10:26 PM (CDT)
We will continue to hope and pray

Kevin, Jasc, Steph, Adrian, Cam and Renee

kevin
London, - Monday, September 09, 2002 at 09:10 PM (CDT)
You are ALL thought of often.
God Bless.

Alice <howahya89@yahoo.ca>
- Monday, September 09, 2002 at 09:08 PM (CDT)
Dear Maryla, Scott, Caedan and Cali,

Nanny Rose always said that God broadens the shoulders of those who carry the greatest burdens. You certainly have proven that.

Your "Fredericton Family" continues to pray for dearest Caedan and all of the "Gallagher Family".

God Bless,

Love from all of us.

Aunt Helen, Aunt Mary, Uncle Jacques, Uncle Paul and all of your cousins.


Helen Janssens
fredericton, N.B. Canada - Monday, September 09, 2002 at 08:11 PM (CDT)

Caedan & Family,
We have never met, I found you from Gooch's page. No matter
what I manage to say would never be enough to comfort you
nor remove all the pain & uncertainties that you must be feeling. Caedan, You are one of my heroes! Your stronger &
tougher than all the athletes of this world! Mom, I know your heart just aches with pain. Dad I'm sure you are replaying all your fondness memories with your son. I don't want to give you any false hope, but my son was in
bad shape & on a ventilator too! Through prayer & faith God
intervened & he was returned to us. I will be following real close & praying day & night for 10,000 angels to come
and swim in your sons body, to heal him from the top of his
prescious little head to the tips of his toes! I'll ask him to give you strength & faith in these darkest hours.
I know how powerless you feel, Stand Strong, Jesus loves you all!


The LORD is my shepherd;
I have everything I need.

He lets me rest in green meadows;
he leads me beside peaceful streams.

He renews my strength.
He guides me along right paths,
bringing honor to his name.

Even when I walk
through the dark valley of death,
I will not be afraid,
for you are close beside me.
Your rod and your staff
protect and comfort me.

You prepare a feast for me
in the presence of my enemies.
You welcome me as a guest,
anointing my head with oil.
My cup overflows with blessings.

Surely your goodness and unfailing love will pursue me
all the days of my life,
and I will live in the house of the LORD
forever.


Joe Rommel <joer@aga-engineering.com>
Jupiter, fl Gods Country - Monday, September 09, 2002 at 07:54 PM (CDT)
I am sending big hugs and prayers your way. We miss you!

Thinking of you,
Miss Rhea and the staff at Growing Concern! xoxoxox

Rhea Dufily <jeepnyj@rogers.com>
London, On Canada - Monday, September 09, 2002 at 07:29 PM (CDT)
Always in my thoughts.
Judy (Mom of Angel-Dustin) <chaz2765@yahoo.com>
Chatham, ON Canada - Monday, September 09, 2002 at 07:21 PM (CDT)
Thinking of you guys all the time.
Keep your spirits high.
If you would like Cali to come for a visit some time, let us know.
Call if you want to talk

Patsy, Kerry & Shaney
Woodstock, Ont - Monday, September 09, 2002 at 07:14 PM (CDT)
Sending you my love and energy.
Love,
Betty Lane

Betty Lane
LaSalle, ON - Monday, September 09, 2002 at 05:08 PM (CDT)
I'm very glad that you guys are still standing. But you can lean on us. We are here. Even if we aren't there with you in person, you know we are here behind you supporting you!!!

Take care

Cheryl <mmgal_martin@yahoo.com>
Tulsa, OK USA - Monday, September 09, 2002 at 05:04 PM (CDT)
My prayers are with you. You all have the world over praying that sweet Caedan gets well and Soon! No child should have to suffer. The emotional rollercoaster is torcher. Hang in there, so many people love you and your family.
Deedee and family <deonne10769@msn.com>
bowling green, ky - Monday, September 09, 2002 at 02:06 PM (CDT)
Dear Gallaghers,
Thanks for the update. The tone of your words has uplifted me and I am grateful to know such a wonderful person. Your friend, Dahlia has been giving me some updates since I seen you on Friday. Caedan, Scott and yourself are doing an absolutely amazing job! Your family never stops amazing me - I wish I had an ounce of your strength. I'm on for lunch tomorrow - hope to see a glimpse of you. Sending our prayers and love your way.

Sandra & Mike and kids
Delaware, - Monday, September 09, 2002 at 12:49 PM (CDT)
Scott and Maryla, I am sure you know that those of us who can't be there are hugely grateful to the folks who are with you right now. The rest of us are with you in every other way we can be!
Charlyn is counting the sleeps until her flight to Ontario. Mike & Carol call regularly to keep me up to date. If there's anything I can do from way out here, just say the word. I love you.

Annie <anniebowers@shaw.ca>
Victoria, BC Canada - Monday, September 09, 2002 at 12:32 PM (CDT)
Maryla, Hoping that Caedan comes above the midline TODAY and reaches a NEW HIGH, his personal best. I am so sorry to read that he is still struggling so. We continue to pray for his full recovery TODAY. God bless you all.
Amy & Rosie Rumberger <TimRumb@aol.com>
Alameda, CA USA - Monday, September 09, 2002 at 11:01 AM (CDT)
Every guitar solo Mike played this weekend was for Caedan. Sending love & Hugs,
Carol

Carol Fuller <avision4U@hotmail.com>
London, ON Canada - Monday, September 09, 2002 at 10:54 AM (CDT)
Maryla,
I came to Caedans site this morning looking for an up-date and I am so very saddened to read that Caedan still has to fight and struggle,way far more, than any child should have to. Maryla, from a Mom to a Mom who has been in your shoes and watched her little boy fight so very very hard, know that I think so profoundly high of you and am constantly thinking of Caedan and your family at this most very difficult and emotionally exhausting time. God most certainly has blessed us with our children, they are more amazing beyond any words but also remember that God has also blessed those beautiful children with Moms and Dads that are xxxxxxx special, almost like a full and complete circle. I wish like everyone on this list, that I could do something for you Caedan and your family. I pray for you all continually. Keep strong.
Love from the Thiessen Family.

Sue <thiessen@amtelecom.net>
Aylmer, ON - Monday, September 09, 2002 at 10:43 AM (CDT)
Amen to those blessing The Gallagher's support system right now.
Thank you, thank you Stacey. And also to Mike, Dahlia, the Mangins and all the rest of you wonderful people giving your time and love to our dear friends. And my favorite...
"The 'ina's" (I just love that!!) who would be there every moment if they could.
Big hugs to you all.
Special prayers for Caedan.
Love you Mar & Scott.

Sandy and John Bolton
Amherstburg, On - Monday, September 09, 2002 at 10:37 AM (CDT)
Dearest Gallagher Family ~
Our heartfelt prayers continue for Caedan's complete and total healing!! You are blessed to be surrounded by the love and support of your dear friends and family. Though you must be near exhaustion at times, please know that your family is an inspiration to so many - and Caedan especially is our Hero!! We won't stop praying!!
Love ~
Bill, Stacey, Bryce, and Chad (age 10, dx ALL 9-19-00)

The Wada Family <SLW6204@aol.com>
Las Vegas, NV USA - Monday, September 09, 2002 at 09:24 AM (CDT)
God bless Stacey, and Janet, and John and Christy, and Mike, and Dahlia, the 'inas, and all the other dear friends who have been able to give Mar and Scott the 'hands on' support that we, who are 'away', long to be able to give.
Jenn and Dan
- Monday, September 09, 2002 at 09:16 AM (CDT)
Scott and Maryla - you both have our total admiration as parents. The prayers are still coming from our family and we want you to know that my mother, who met Caedan for the first time last summer, is also praying hard for him. So London, England is also on alert! Hang in there and stay strong and positive.
Love, hugs, & more spaghetti sauce!
Juin

Juin Burnett <Juin_Frank@yahoo.ca>
London, ont Canada - Monday, September 09, 2002 at 08:59 AM (CDT)
You have given us an image to focus on as we send our energies to Caedan ... like the little train, "I think I can, I think I can, I think I can ..." as our energies help to push him up the track, past the mid-height, and eventually, ALL THE WAY TO THE TOP.

Love,

Karen <hbyc7@rogers.com>
Waterloo, ON - Monday, September 09, 2002 at 08:25 AM (CDT)
Scott and Maryla you guys are amazing! You keep pluggin away one day at a time, facing whatever the day brings. You are exhausted but still go on... Caedan and Cali are so lucky to have parents like you.

And Caedan, well big guy you are our hero. You are an inspiration to everyone who has, will have, or did have cancer. You never give up and that is so important! Being positive is a huge part of why you are still here. So keep up the good work and always remember you have helped us and so many other cancer patients get through it. We thank you. Now get back to your concentrating on getting better. We think of you always and pray for you every day. Take care.

Kristyn, Mike, Todd and Taylar
Mt. Carmel, On Canada - Monday, September 09, 2002 at 08:21 AM (CDT)
Maryla and scott, it must take great effort on your part to keep us all updated, thank you for that strength and time. Don't worry about falling, you will hold each other up. I remember when you first met and you both knew at that moment that it was true love, you both have such incredable awarness of each other, neither of you will fall. Your strength is incrediable and enduring and so is your love for each other and your children.Caedan will continue from midline to up soon!! Love Kim and Paige
kim cash <kimberlycash@sympatico.ca>
lasalle, - Monday, September 09, 2002 at 08:10 AM (CDT)
If and when you or Scott do finally stumble, I think that there are enough people there to carry you until you can do it again. If not there physically, there in spirit and thoughts and prayers. Your son is the most amazing person I have ever known, with strength and determination far beyond his years. Always in my thoughts....
Tracy M. <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Monday, September 09, 2002 at 08:07 AM (CDT)
Dear Scott & Maryla,

Thanks for taking the time to update Caedan's page. It's really nice of you to share your journey with everyone concerned. I know that you are both probably exhausted right now, just know that you have a ton of people who love and care for Caedan and your family. I will be up soon with more treats for you Marlya!!!

Lois Grimes <childcan@lon.imag.net>
London, ON - Monday, September 09, 2002 at 08:02 AM (CDT)
To the Gallaghers, You guys are just so amazing. I don't know how you are doing it. My first thought when I wake up in the morning is of you. The last one at night is of you. I think and pray for you constantly throughout the day. YOu are truly an amazing and wonderful family.
Tracy B <bestbet@sympatico.ca>
London, On Ca - Monday, September 09, 2002 at 06:53 AM (CDT)
Dear Mar;
Thank you so much for your latest updade. We've been holding our breath waiting to hear from you. You have a tremendous fighter in Caedan and we continue to pray for his strength.
{{{{{{{{{{hugs of comfort to all of you}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}
Love Kellie

The Drouillards
LaSalle, - Monday, September 09, 2002 at 06:40 AM (CDT)
Hi Guys
When people look up the word FAMILY in the dictionary, I am sure they see the Gallagher Family. Your families strength and togetherness is an insperation to us all. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Is there anything I can do to help?
Nancy Craig

Nancy Craig <Nancycraig @hotmail.com>
London, Ont Canada - Monday, September 09, 2002 at 06:38 AM (CDT)
Oh sweetie! I don't know what to say. THank you so much for the update. You truly do make me want to become a better mother. Please give yourself, Scott, Caedan and Cali a BIG hug and kiss from me.

xoxoxox
TIna Herzog

Tina Herzog <Tina.herzog@sympatico.ca>
Windsor, Ont - Sunday, September 08, 2002 at 11:33 PM (CDT)
Oh Maryla, I was praying for a much brighter update.
So many people are here pulling together and praying for Caedan & you guys and your wonderfully supportive friends and family.

Chris
Gooch's Site
<chrisrusso_@hotmail.com>
- Sunday, September 08, 2002 at 11:10 PM (CDT)
hey! thanks for your entry on my guestbook. come back sometime and put a pin on my guestmap. i wanna see where everyone is from! and I'm still praying for Caedan. I started an online chat session mondays at 9pm EDT for anyone who wants to come pray. it's to pray together in agreement for all the kids and families who are going through a particularly difficult time. i (or "we" if anyone else shows up) will be featuring caedan along with some others this week. i have the general requests on my site, however, if there's something more specific you'd like us to pray for then just leave a message on the message board at www.dukealumni.com/cc/cope and we'll be sure to pray for that too. love and hugs your way.
Khalita www.caringbridge.com/nc/khalita Duke Peds BMT aplastic anemia <khalita@hecaresonline.org>
Lexington, NC - Sunday, September 08, 2002 at 09:13 PM (CDT)
Just to send thoughts of strength and hope your way again. Our computer sort of crashed during our thunderstorms but we are halfway up and running again and we checked your site...although the computer was down, the prayers have never stopped!! Caedan, keep up the fight!!! Mom and Dad, you are so strong..we figured out where Caedan gets his power from. Many prayers are still being sent your way!!!!

The Foys www.caringbridge.com/ct/kelly
Berlin, CT - Sunday, September 08, 2002 at 09:09 PM (CDT)
Hi Maryla,Caedan and Cali.
Sending lots of strength and prayers your way, and hoping you will soon get through this tough and frustrating time. Thinking of you often.

Your Friend,Kaeleigh Barney <kaeleighbarney@yahoo.com>
Woodstock, Ontario Canada - Sunday, September 08, 2002 at 05:40 PM (CDT)
Maryla, Scott, Caedan, Cali and Mike,
Please know that you are forever in the thoughts of everyone on level 7. Stay strong, let us know if there is anything we can do.


Jennifer Brinklow <brinklow@hotmail.com>
- Sunday, September 08, 2002 at 05:35 PM (CDT)
Hi Maryla and Scott
I'm just sitting here thinking of what I can write to you that someone hasn't already said. We all feel the same about you and hope that you get some strength from the network of people that are behind you. I'm not kidding when I say you guys are my first thought in the morning and the last thought before I lay my head to sleep. Andrew asks daily about you Caedan, you are always in our hearts. I had the pleasure of seeing Cali in the market on Fri. She was licking an ice cream cone with not a care in the world, innocense is bliss. May the sun shine your way. Always thinking of you.
Love Lizzie XOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXO

Liz Pache
Exeter, ON - Sunday, September 08, 2002 at 05:10 PM (CDT)
None of you are far from my thoughts.
Maryla - I have a certain little doll for a certain little blonde haired cutie..... I think you know the one I mean. We'll get it to you somehow.

Tracy M. <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Sunday, September 08, 2002 at 03:40 PM (CDT)
Hi Maryla, Scott, Caedan and Cali,
Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. You are missed on the 7th floor!
Hugs, Stephanie Carter

Stephanie Carter <step_carter@hotmail.com>
London, ON Canada - Sunday, September 08, 2002 at 03:00 PM (CDT)
TO ALL OF YOUR FAMILY, GOD DID NOT PROMISE A LIFE WITHOUT PAIN AND SORROW. JESUS PROMISED TO BE WITH US ALL OF THE TIME IN LIFE AND DEATH. HE WILL UPHOLD US. THAT IS WHAT KEEPS ME GOING. KEEP THE FAITH.
ALICE LIST
GRANADA HILLS, CA USA - Sunday, September 08, 2002 at 11:15 AM (CDT)
Hi everyone!
Still keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. Kathy Elsworthy wanted me to let you know, Maryla, that she had two drinks for you last night! She's thinking about you alot while she's away. Adelaide, Karen and I are thinking of you.

Charlene Lancaster <charbrent@execulink.com>
London, On Canada - Sunday, September 08, 2002 at 10:50 AM (CDT)
Thinking of you constantly.
All my love,

Annie <anniebowers@shaw.ca>
Victoria, BC Canada - Saturday, September 07, 2002 at 11:42 PM (CDT)
Hi Folks,
Just to let you know, we're all thinking of you. Take care, Love you bunches!

The Besterds <bestbet@sympatico.ca>
London, On Ca - Saturday, September 07, 2002 at 09:59 PM (CDT)
Dear Maryla
My heart & thoughts are with you all and I too will pray for Caedan to improve. I hope & pray he is comfortable and not in any pain. He is such a CHAMPION and WARRIOR!........an inspiration to SO many all over the world!
Take care.
Loads of love & BIG cuddles to you all.
Liz & her precious gang XO XO XO XO XO

the Cruickshank family (ALL-KIDS) <meajbc@bigpond.com>
Melbourne, Vic. Australia - Saturday, September 07, 2002 at 09:53 PM (CDT)
hi everybody lotes of hopes and preares to you all love
paige

paige bowers <paigebb@sympatico.ca>
LaSalle, Ont. Canada - Saturday, September 07, 2002 at 04:49 PM (CDT)
Hi,
Caedan it's me J.P.. I know tour fighting so hard but don't forget 1,2,3,4,5,6,7,8,9.....percent is all you need.

Jeremy ,Paul and Lily Seed <hockeymnc@hotmail.com>
London, Ont Canada - Saturday, September 07, 2002 at 03:45 PM (CDT)
Hello Maryla, Scott and Caedan. Caedan I hope you get better soon. Scott and Maryla, I admire your strength and hope and pray that Caedan will make a full recovery – he’s such an incredible kid!

Take care,

Kevin Nugent
Vancouver, BC - Saturday, September 07, 2002 at 01:55 PM (CDT)
Caedan,
get well soon. We are all praying for you. Here's a joke for you. your Mom will tell it to you when you are feeeling better
there were 10 copy cats in a boat. One jumped out. How many were left? Do you think 9? Nope, its 0 ... they were copy cats remember? Your friends ,
meghan and Katie Wightman and Joe

The wightman's
Amherstburg, - Saturday, September 07, 2002 at 01:18 PM (CDT)
Maryla & Scott,
Still praying... thinking of you all the time.
Lots of love, Lori

Lori Wightman
Amherstburg, - Saturday, September 07, 2002 at 12:44 PM (CDT)
Dear Maryla, Scott, Caedan and Cali,

You all have so much strength and courage to continure this fight. I will not give up either. Many more prayers are being sent your way. Kisses and hugs to all.

Sandy


Sandy <growingconcern@hotmail.com>
London, Ontario Canada - Saturday, September 07, 2002 at 10:09 AM (CDT)
Maryla, we are praying for a Miracle for your prescious child. I have passed Caedan's name along to many of my fellow prayer Warriors as well. We are storming the heavens for Caedan.

((((((((((((Maryla, Caedan, Scott, Cali}}}}}}}}}}}}}}

Love, Tami, Jonathan, Alexander & Max

Tami Watchurst (mom to Alexander 9 yrs O/t High Risk A.L.L. currently in remission) <leapco@auracom.com>
orangeville, Ontario Canada - Saturday, September 07, 2002 at 09:03 AM (CDT)
Maryla, Scott & Cali:

Just wanted to let you know that I'm keeping you all in my heart, thoughts and prayers. We're all here for you if you need anything at all. By the way, Kathy Elswothy e-mailed me from Barbados to see how Caedan was and that she's keeping you in her thoughts as well.

Love and Prayers

Charlene Lancaster <charbrent@execulink.com>
London, On Canada - Saturday, September 07, 2002 at 08:09 AM (CDT)
We will be praying for you & your family here in St. Louis, Missouri. Your Caedan is a "warrior" of the highest order.

Sincerely,

Grant, Alison, Alexandria [ALL 11q23 dx 11/2000, relapsed 7/2002 www.caringbridge.com/page/alexandriasangels] Hunter, Hayden, & Addison Haddock

Grant Haddock <AGHaddock@msn.com>
O'Fallon, MO - Saturday, September 07, 2002 at 05:47 AM (CDT)
Hello Gallagar family,
just sending our love to all of you and chisty ,john and noah. our thoughts are with you.
love
Rashmi, Robert, baby Aman and leila

Rashmi singh
Vancouver,, B.C. Canada - Saturday, September 07, 2002 at 02:10 AM (CDT)
Hi Maryla, Scott, and Cali
Just a little note to let you know you are thought of everyday. All the staff on level 7 miss you up there and think of you all often.

Christine <tgorrill@sympatico.ca>
London, On Canada - Saturday, September 07, 2002 at 01:34 AM (CDT)
Maryla, Scott and Calli,
My heart and prayers go out to you tonight. We all wish Caeden could be up on 7th but that is not to be right now. We miss you and send you hugs and all our prayers.

Becky Nichols <nicholre@execulink.com>
Tillsonburg, On Canada - Friday, September 06, 2002 at 11:44 PM (CDT)
Dear Caedan and family: I hope you feel better soon. We are praying for you. I hope you liked the bracelet.
Alyssa Lawrence <mat.lawrence@rogers.com>
London, - Friday, September 06, 2002 at 09:59 PM (CDT)
Maryla Scott Cali and Caedan,

Like everyone, we are all sending our love and prayers to you all. We think of you guys alot and keep you in our thoughts.
Love the Thiessen Family

Sue <thiessen@amtelecom.net>
Aylmer, ON - Friday, September 06, 2002 at 09:49 PM (CDT)
no need to try and form words. God listens to the heart. praying hard here!
Khalita www.caringbridge.com/nc/khalita Duke Peds BMT aplastic anemia <khalita@hecaresonline.org>
Lexington, NC - Friday, September 06, 2002 at 08:17 PM (CDT)
Maryla, Scott, Caedan and Cali,
all of the nurses and fellow staff are sending our love and support for your family. Words cannot express how much all of you are cared for upstairs on level 7. Never-ending thoughts and prayers sent your way.
xoxoxo

Heather T
- Friday, September 06, 2002 at 07:48 PM (CDT)
My Dear Friends
May the peace of the Lord be with you in this time of such sorrow. May the peace of the Lord be with Caedan who is so young to suffer so much.
Hugs

Marg
Grand Bend, - Friday, September 06, 2002 at 07:45 PM (CDT)
Maryla, Scott, Caedan & Cali
my thoughts and prayers are with you. Sending you big hugs.
Remember to take care of you
Jennifer XOXOX

Jennifer <jthompson@lon.imag.net>
St Thomas, ON Canada - Friday, September 06, 2002 at 07:36 PM (CDT)
Scott and Maryla,

You are in our thoughts and in our prayers. The strength and spirit you've demonstrated has always amazed us! What a brave and strong family you are! God bless.

The Burnett Family <heatherburnett310@yahoo.co.uk>
London, On Canada - Friday, September 06, 2002 at 07:17 PM (CDT)
Mar, Scott, Cali and Caedan
More prayers, more good thoughts, more love all being sent your way... from us and everyone I talk to... Keep fighting Caedan!!
love you,
Lori & family

Lori Wightman
Amherstburg, - Friday, September 06, 2002 at 05:21 PM (CDT)
You are all in my thoughts every day. XO to Caedan.
Mrs. I

Sarah Inwood <sinwood@southwood.com>
London, Ont Canada - Friday, September 06, 2002 at 04:58 PM (CDT)
Hi Team!
Chris and I are both praying for all of you. This was not the news we were hoping to hear. If there's anything in Toronto that we can do for you let us know. We are sending every bright spirit and more your way so hold on - there is a silver lining in this storm cloud!
Much love & friendship

Nicole & Chris Dyck <dyck14@yahoo.ca>
Toronto, ON Canada - Friday, September 06, 2002 at 03:56 PM (CDT)
Maryla,
Please know that many, many prayers are being lifted up for you guys. I know this is a crazy, horrible time for you right now ~ try to get yourself some rest (easier said than done, I know).
God bless,

Lisa Agee (www.caringbridge.com/page/ross) <lagee67@hotmail.com>
Camden, AL - Friday, September 06, 2002 at 11:12 AM (CDT)
Dear Gallaghers,
Maryla, thank you so much for the update. I realize how much it means for you to redirect your focus from Caedan to everyone else who cares so much for all of you. Please know that it is truly appreciated.
God is a complex person and has a reason for all things. You may never now the "why" you all have to go through this, but rest assured that you are only given as much as you can handle. Caedan has proven time and again that he can handle what he is given and bounce back to his old self again. Continuous prayers are being said just to give him that added support. Your entire family is in our prayers and thoughts constantly.
Love,
Sharon, John, Trevor and Cody

Sharon Simpson <john.simpson6@sympatico.ca>
Windsor, ON - Friday, September 06, 2002 at 11:08 AM (CDT)
Oh my goodness Maryla. Your family seems blessed by exhaustless spirit and hope. You and Scott are surely why Caedan has had it in him to fight so long. I am praying and mostly telling stories about Caedan - his humour, his energy. I believe his spirit is infinite, no matter what. I want you to know I am thinking of you every day you go through this with him. I send my love to all there. I am getting updates from Johnny. But I want you to know we are praying here and sharing some of the great laughs that Caedan generously gave me and evoking his endless toddler energy when I spent most time with him.
Jen Fisher x0

Jennifer Fisher <laurenhowes@hotmail.com>
Vancouver, - Friday, September 06, 2002 at 10:58 AM (CDT)
Dear Maryla ... I have been thinking of you & Caedan ... sending you lots of hugs & saying many prayers too.
God bless you & the family!

Chetna <cbhatt@rogers.com>
London, - Friday, September 06, 2002 at 10:24 AM (CDT)
Maryla
I have not been able to get you and Caedan off my mind for the past three weeks. There are so many prayers being said for all of you right now that I know you must feel enveloped in love and concern. Always in my prayers.
Strength to all.
Karen

Karen Palmer <k.palmer@lhsc.on.ca>
London, ON Canada - Friday, September 06, 2002 at 10:10 AM (CDT)
Caedan and Family,

I wish I could do more. I'm sending more prayers your way.

Sandy

Sandy <growingconcern@hotmail.com>
London, Ont Canada - Friday, September 06, 2002 at 09:59 AM (CDT)
Dearest Maryla ~
I appreciate your taking the time to update us. I have been checking back often for news. I am not giving up hope nor will I stop praying for Caedan's lungs to heal and for him to improve and get better. He's a strong kid!
Keeping you and your family close in thought and prayer.
Love ~
Stacey

Stacey Wada <SLW6204@aol.com>
Las Vegas, NV USA - Friday, September 06, 2002 at 09:56 AM (CDT)
Dear Scott & Maryla,

I know your hearts are so heavy right now and you just want to focus all your energy on Caedan. That is so understandable and we thank you so much for the update. Please know that we are praying for healing, strength & peace for Caedan.

Prayerfully,

Steven Hicks (Sarah Anne's Dad) <hicks@cbse.uab.edu>
Birmingham, AL USA - Friday, September 06, 2002 at 09:32 AM (CDT)
Oh, Mar, how I had willed for the next update to bring some sense of relief for you and Scott. Our hearts are breaking but we will never give up hope. Hold on Caedan...hold on.
Sandy and John Bolton
Amherstburg, ON, - Friday, September 06, 2002 at 09:30 AM (CDT)
Hi Scott and Maryla , I find myself constantly thinking about all of you, but mostly Caedan. Those nurses and docs., will come up with a solution that will work for Caedan in the long term, his lungs will improve and his kidneys will stay strong for him.He knows you both love him and he feels it. Stay strong as I know you are, hold tight to hope. The rest of us (family and friends) will continue to pray knowing that it will make a difference. All my love and hugs of strength from afar. kim
kim cash <kimberlycash@sympatico.ca>
lasalle, - Friday, September 06, 2002 at 08:59 AM (CDT)
Hi,
Although we don't know each other...these pages have a way of bringing families together.... I have been praying for your family..its so hard as a mom to just stand by and watch...i know it was so hard for me to do......praying was all I could do.... So I will pray that God holds your whole family in His loving arms while you all go through these very dificult days.. God Bless you.

Lynn ww.caringbridge.com/pa/jessiespage
PA - Friday, September 06, 2002 at 08:08 AM (CDT)
What can I say to you that hasn't already been put into words here? Caedan has touched so many lives during this battle, and now we all sit here wondering how we can repay the favor. Somehow prayers don't always seem like enough, but I know that somehow they will be. You are an amazing family, and I think of you all constantly.
Tracy M. <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Friday, September 06, 2002 at 08:01 AM (CDT)
Maryla, prayers going up for strength for you and the family, and healing for Caedan. Hang in there.
Pat Lee (former e-friend from ALL-KIDS) <danpatlee@juno.com>
Orlando, FL - Friday, September 06, 2002 at 07:33 AM (CDT)
Love and prayers and hugs to you.
Mary-Anne <maryanne.davies@lhsc.on.ca>
London, - Friday, September 06, 2002 at 07:32 AM (CDT)
Hang in there guys!
We love you all

Kerry, Patsy & Shaney
- Friday, September 06, 2002 at 07:12 AM (CDT)
Mar & Scott, hang in there, Caedan is a FIGHTER and he has the power of prayer on his side too.
{{{{{{{{{{{{hugs of comfort to all of you}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}
with love. Kellie

Gerard, Kellie, Mallorie & Elise
LaSalle, - Friday, September 06, 2002 at 06:17 AM (CDT)
My first time signing your book, but not my first visit. Please know that although we have never met, our family prayers include you all especially Caedan.

May his lungs clear, and that he feels peace.

Love,
Gail, Brian, and Victoria Wiliams

Gail
Brampton, ON Canada - Friday, September 06, 2002 at 06:06 AM (CDT)
Our dear, dear Maryla and Scott,
Not a wink has been slept.
Every ounce of my heart, body and soul continue to pray. Our Caedan continues to show us the true meaning of not giving up.

All,all my love,
Dina

Dina Kenkel <erabankers@aol.com>
West Bloomfield, Mi U.S.A - Friday, September 06, 2002 at 05:18 AM (CDT)
Sending all of my strength to you (and especially to Caedan's lungs) from the other side of the country.

Aili [http://www.caringbridge.org/canada/bryankinney]
Vancouver, BC Canada - Friday, September 06, 2002 at 12:59 AM (CDT)
Dear Maryla, Scott, Caedan and Cali,
I just wanted you to know that I'm thinking of you tonight...I'm praying very hard. I'll be down to see you when I come back to work this weekend.

Stephanie Carter <step_carter@hotmail.com>
London, ON Canada - Thursday, September 05, 2002 at 11:26 PM (CDT)
Maryla, Scott, Caedan & Cali,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you
Bertha & Don Goodwin & Family
Kelowna, B.C.
Carol Fuller is my cousin

Bertha Goowin <bg-goodwin@shaw.ca>
Kelowna , BC Canada - Thursday, September 05, 2002 at 11:22 PM (CDT)
Dearest, dearest Maryla and Scott,

You have all our hope, love and prayers.

Love,
Tina, Rob, Robert, Zachary and Michael.

xoxoxo

Tina Herzog
Windsor, - Thursday, September 05, 2002 at 11:12 PM (CDT)
My dearest Maryla, I'm going to bed tonight with a heavy heart hoping upon hope to wake to a miracle. Your beautiful boy has shown us all each and every day the incredible power he has within. You should be so proud. So very proud. He has done wondrous things. He has made us all think and feel and marvel and love a little deeper. He has taught us about courage and humour and resilience. He has brought together an army of people from far and wide to share in a common bond of caring. He has redefined what it means to be great parents. You should be proud, so very proud. All my love, Dahlia.
Dahlia Reich
London, Ont. - Thursday, September 05, 2002 at 10:52 PM (CDT)
We are patient for the updates because we know that you are devoting yourselves to where you need to be most. Caedan is proving himself to be such an incredible fighter. We will continue to hope for a turn for the best ... for periods of stability that will allow him to gather the strength his body needs.

Love and prayers,

Karen <hbyc7@rogers.com>
Waterloo, ON - Thursday, September 05, 2002 at 10:37 PM (CDT)
Mar, every ounce of our willpower, strength and resolve is being channeled towards Caedan and you. Every breath is a prayer and every thought is positive.

Jenn and Dan
- Thursday, September 05, 2002 at 10:35 PM (CDT)
You break my heart... May God be with you and your precious one. We are all here still praying for you and will never give up hope on Caedan. He's come too far! God's blessings to all of you.
Alice (mother of Alexandria - AML remission Mar./02) <howahya89@yahoo.ca>
- Thursday, September 05, 2002 at 10:32 PM (CDT)
We will not give up hope. I love you and wish I could be by your side. I'm sending all my love and every good thought for healing, for improvement.
Annie <anniebowers@shaw.ca>
Victoria, BC Canada - Thursday, September 05, 2002 at 10:21 PM (CDT)
Oh God Maryla, I am so sorry that things look so bad right now. We are all praying for him.
Chris
Gooch's Site
<chrisrusso_@hotmail.com>
- Thursday, September 05, 2002 at 10:05 PM (CDT)
Dear Maryla, Scott, Cali and Caedan,
I am thinking of you all and praying for Caedan. Your strength is humbling. I selfishly wish that soon I will be teaching Caedan again and sharing in his wonder for learning and his welcoming sense of humour. Caedan buddy fight!

John Ashenden (Mr. A)
London, ON - Thursday, September 05, 2002 at 10:00 PM (CDT)
Hello Gallaghers, just wanted to let you know that I am thinking about you all. Many many prayers are be said for that great little boy of yours and I'm sure everyone will continue to do so. Know my heart goes out to you.
Jennifer Brinklow <brinklow@hotmail.com>
London, On - Thursday, September 05, 2002 at 08:40 PM (CDT)
Hi folks,
Just wanted to let you know you're in our thoughts constantly.

Tracy B
- Thursday, September 05, 2002 at 08:15 PM (CDT)
hi auntie maryla and everybody im praying for caedan to get better alot and hope to see you soon
from paige
p.s you can email me on my own email address now

paige bindner-bowers <paigebb@sympatico.ca>
LaSalle, ont Canada - Thursday, September 05, 2002 at 07:51 PM (CDT)
Maryla and Family:
You are continuously in our thoughts and prayers throughout our days and nights. May God give Caedan and your entire family the strength and courage you need to get through this. All our best to you always.....

Alice Friesen (mother to Alexandria - remission AML - March, 2002) <howahya89@yahoo.ca>
- Thursday, September 05, 2002 at 07:18 PM (CDT)
Hi Maryla, Scott, and especially Caedan.
Just letting you know that I am thinking of you and praying things will get better.
Lots of hugs, Kate

Kate Lupson <slupson@rogers.com>
London, Ont Canada - Thursday, September 05, 2002 at 06:00 PM (CDT)
Mar, Scott, Cali and Caedan,
Sorry it's been so long, I have no excuse and I will be sending all my messages far more often. Close your eyes and feel all the prayers that people are sending... all that love and strength and hope, all to you guys and especially to Caedan. It can't help but work right?
Love and Prayers to you.

Lori Wightman
Amherstburg, - Thursday, September 05, 2002 at 05:46 PM (CDT)
Maryla:
There is not one day that goes by that I am not thinking about you guys or praying for Caedan. Give him a BIG hug for me and tell him to keep up the fight. Wishing you nothing but the best.

*Kaeleigh Barney* <kaeleighbarney@yahoo.com>
Woodstock, Ontario Canada - Thursday, September 05, 2002 at 04:53 PM (CDT)
Dear Maryla,Scott, Caedan and Cali,

There is not an hour in the day that you are not in my thoughts and prayers.

Love from all of us,

Aunt Helen

Helen Janssens <paul_h_janssens@hotmail.com>
fredericton, N.B. Canada - Thursday, September 05, 2002 at 03:03 PM (CDT)
Dear Maryla, Scott, Caedan and Cali! Can't tell you enough how much you are all on our minds, in our thoughts and in our daily prayers. That's it for now, I'll sign off with an invisable hug to you all.. Beth, Pat, Dylan and Dawson
Beth Sutherland <bethcesutherland@sympatico.ca>
London, ON Canada - Thursday, September 05, 2002 at 01:24 PM (CDT)
Keeping you in my heart and in my prayers.
Tracy M. <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Thursday, September 05, 2002 at 01:10 PM (CDT)
Caedan and Family,

You can never have enough prayers. I am sending another one your way.

Sandy <growingconcern@hotmail.com>
lonon, ont canada - Thursday, September 05, 2002 at 12:50 PM (CDT)
The poem from Mark, had me crying for an hour, but what a beautiful tribute to a parents feelings,. Keep that strength Scott and Maryla, P.S., I hope having Pruitt with you has given you comfort Maryla. Love Kim and Paige
kim <kimberlycash@sympatico.ca>
- Thursday, September 05, 2002 at 07:55 AM (CDT)
He's My Son
from "Mark Schultz"
by Mark Schultz


I'm down on my knees again tonight
I'm hoping this prayer will turnout right
See there is a boy that needs your help
I've done all that I can do myself
His mother is tired
I'm sure you can understand

Each night as he sleeps
She goes in to hold his hand
And she tries not to cry
As the tears fill her eyes

Can you hear me?
Am I getting through tonight?
Can you see him?
Can you make him feel all right?
If you can hear me
Let me take his place somehow
See, he's not just anyone
He's my son

Sometimes late at night I watch him sleep
I dream of the boy he'd like to be
I try to be strong and see him through
But God who he needs right now is You
Let him grow old
Live life without fear
What would I be
Living without him here
He's so tired and he's scared
Let him know that You're there

repeat chorus


Can you hear me?
Can you see him?
Please don't leave him
He's my son.
©2000 Mark Schultz Music/BMI



Jeff Bradshaw
London, ON Canada - Wednesday, September 04, 2002 at 10:43 PM (CDT)
Hello Guys;
Just letting you know that I am checking daily for updates, and hoping and praying for the best. All of us at Byron Southwood L.S.A.P as well as the staff and students are pulling for you Caedan. Your courage and bravery (you too Scott and Maryla and Calli) is a HUGE inspriation to us all! We love you and are praying for you! KEEP FIGHTING!

Amy <albilyea@rogers.com>
London, - Wednesday, September 04, 2002 at 09:22 PM (CDT)
Caedan, get well, we all love you!! I know you can do it!! YOU ARE AN INSPIRATION TO US ALL WITH GREAT STRENGTH AND SPIRIT. LOVE KIM AND PAIGE
KIM CASH <kimberlycash@sympatico.ca>
LASALLE, - Wednesday, September 04, 2002 at 06:07 PM (CDT)
Dear Caeden, Maryla, Scott and Cali:
We are thinking of you and sending love & ladybugs (a very good thing) your way!
Tatiana and Mary

Tatiana Russell and Mary Di Salvo <tatiana_russell@hotmail.com>
London, ON Canada - Wednesday, September 04, 2002 at 05:03 PM (CDT)
And my hopeful thoughts and prayers.
Bethany <bchinsch@yahoo.com>
Annandale, VA 22003 - Wednesday, September 04, 2002 at 04:47 PM (CDT)
Best Wishes.
Bethany Hinsch <bchinsch@yahoo.com>
Annandale, VA USA - Wednesday, September 04, 2002 at 04:44 PM (CDT)
All my love ...
Alex Martiniuk and all your Camp Trillium friends <alexmartiniuk@hotmail.com>
London, ON - Wednesday, September 04, 2002 at 03:35 PM (CDT)
Sending lots of prayers and strength your way Caedan. Keep up the fight, and know that you have me and many other people to back you up. Thinking of you. xxoo
Your Friend,*Kaeleigh Barney* <*kaeleighbarney@yahoo.com*>
Woodstock, Ontario Canada - Wednesday, September 04, 2002 at 02:53 PM (CDT)
Dearest Caedan,
Over 3,250 hits in less than a week. This is the number of times people are thinking of you and wishing with all their might that the next update they read from your Mom will find you awake and smiling. That's how very special you are. I bet by the time I finish writing this, there will be many, many more.

And to my dear friends, Mar and Scott: You were blessed with an abundance of strength and courage - more than most of us can even dream of having, and certainly more than anyone should ever need. I'd give anything if I could take your pain away and give your bruised hearts and souls a break - if just for a moment. If you are managing to get any sleep at all, may your dreams be the sweetest ever.

Sandy Bolton
Amherstburg, ON - Wednesday, September 04, 2002 at 01:48 PM (CDT)
Hang in there Maryla and Scott
Sending lots of love and prayers.

Lisa Baxter <plbaxter@sympatico.ca>
- Wednesday, September 04, 2002 at 01:14 PM (CDT)
Caedan,

Sorry you are having such a rough time. Lots of hugs and kisses your way

Sandy <growingconcern@hotmail.com>
london, ont canada - Wednesday, September 04, 2002 at 01:13 PM (CDT)
We just keep on sending you our love and hope for strength and healing. You are all amazing. We love you.
Annie and Charlyn <anniebowers@shaw.ca>
Victoria, BC Canada - Wednesday, September 04, 2002 at 10:05 AM (CDT)
You are all constantly in our thoughts and prayers,
Love, Sharon, Cody, Trevor and John

Sharon Simpson <john.simpson6@sympatico.ca>
Windsor, ON - Wednesday, September 04, 2002 at 09:12 AM (CDT)
It is hard to imagine the nightmare you are living through. All my family is constantly with you in our thoughts.

I noticed Laura Gibson's post (below) mentioned the idea of silver to attack bacteria. If you and your doctor do consider it and wish more information, I will give you the contact for my brother-in-law in the Faculties of Medicine and Science at U. of T.. He has been doing research on medicinal use of silver. Also, a few people with CF have experimented with inhaling silver.

I do trust that the doctors and you are giving Caedan the best care possible and all our love and prayers continue.

Karen M <hbyc7@rogers.com>
Waterloo, ON - Wednesday, September 04, 2002 at 08:55 AM (CDT)
Sending lots of hugs of strength and courage to help you continue to be strong enough to get through each day.


Kristyn
Mt. Carmel, ON Canada - Wednesday, September 04, 2002 at 08:26 AM (CDT)
Still praying for Caedan to keep up the fight and sending hugs of comfort.
The Drouillards
LaSalle, - Wednesday, September 04, 2002 at 08:21 AM (CDT)
Thinking of you all.
Tracy M. <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Wednesday, September 04, 2002 at 07:56 AM (CDT)
Hi Caedan, Maryla, Scott and Cali,
Just wanted to let you know we're all thinking of you. Tons of hugs and kisses.

Tracy B <bestbet@symptico.ca>
London, On Ca - Wednesday, September 04, 2002 at 04:55 AM (CDT)
Hi Caedan, Maryla, Scott and Cali,
Just wanted to let you know we're all thinking of you. Tons of hugs and kisses.

Tracy B <bestbet@symptico.ca>
London, On Ca - Wednesday, September 04, 2002 at 04:54 AM (CDT)
Maryla, your love for your son will give you the strength that you need to get through this battle. You are his friend, his advocate, his confidante, his playmate but most importantly his mother. Love him, talk to him, be with him. We are sending you are constant prayers for healing and strength. Love is the Best medicine of all.

Tami, Jonathan, Alexander & Max

Tami Watchurst (mom to Alexander 9 yrs O/t High Risk A.L.L. currently in remission)
orangeville, Ontario Canada - Wednesday, September 04, 2002 at 04:50 AM (CDT)
To Caelan and his family,
I am another 'cousin' of Bruce and Carol, and I wish to add my prayers to the others that have signed your guestbook. It sounds as if Caelan is a brave child who has had a difficult time thoughout his life. My prayers and thoughts, and those of my family, are with you,
with love,
Eleanor, Bethany, Sara & Jason

Eleanor A. Hinsch <ehinsch@optonline.net>
Freeport, NY USA - Wednesday, September 04, 2002 at 02:24 AM (CDT)
Just wanted to let you know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. Take care.

Stephanie Carter <step_carter@hotmail.com>
London, ON Canada - Wednesday, September 04, 2002 at 01:46 AM (CDT)
Hello Maryla, Scott, Cale and Caeden,

My name is Laura Gibson, I am a second cousin to Carol Fuller and Bruce Hildebrandt. Bruce emailed me about Caeden's grave illness. I will add my prayers to yours. May God give each member of your family the strength you need for each day. I want to share some information that could help the unknown infection Caeden is battling. Look up on the internet for information about Colloidal Silver. It is very effective in killing harmful one-celled organisms such as bacteria, fungi, viruses, ameobas, etc. Also it does not harm the bodies "good" bacteria. Ask your doctor about it. I have personally found it very effective, I have been using it as needed for over a year. I buy it at a health food store. My email address is lauragibson@shaw.ca if you wanted to contact me about this.

Laura Gibson
Duncan, BC Canada - Wednesday, September 04, 2002 at 01:45 AM (CDT)
maryla and scott, pruitt is on his way and I'm praying daily with paige.all our thoughts are with you all and hope is never lost, I'm hugging you both from a distance and keeping Caeden im my constant prayers. love Kim and Paige.
kim <kimberlycash@sympatico.ca>
lasalle, - Tuesday, September 03, 2002 at 09:44 PM (CDT)
Hi Everyone
Just want you to know that you have been in my thoughts everyday. I am back to work tomorrow and will stop in to see you all. My prayers are with you.
Christine Hoover

christine hoover <tgorrill@sympatico.ca>
london, On Canada - Tuesday, September 03, 2002 at 09:14 PM (CDT)
Thinking lots about your family. Praying for improvement for Caedan. Take care and hope your night goes well.
Sandra Rombouts <kamrombouts@hotmail.com>
Delaware, - Tuesday, September 03, 2002 at 08:56 PM (CDT)
I am still thinking of your family and praying for all of you.May all of the prayers be answered soon. Judy (Aunt Carol's Friend)
judy <judimath@enoreo.on.ca>
london, on canada - Tuesday, September 03, 2002 at 06:10 PM (CDT)
Hi Caedan, this is Matthew Sterner. I hope you feel better soon.
Matthew Sterner
London, Ont. - Tuesday, September 03, 2002 at 05:54 PM (CDT)
Hello! I am a friend of Carol F. Checking my e-mails while doing a pit-stop in Bowling Green Kentucky on my way back home. Just wanted to add my prayers and hugs to all. God Bless!
Elaine H.
London, ON CANADA - Tuesday, September 03, 2002 at 03:33 PM (CDT)
Gallagher family ~
We are continuing to pray, pray, pray for Caedan's recovery. You are a very special family with friends who are thinking of you and praying for you from all over the world!!
Sending ONLY good thoughts and well wishes ~
Bill, Stacey, Bryce, and Chad Wada (ALL KIDS)

The Wada Family <SLW6204@aol.com>
Las Vegas, NV USA - Tuesday, September 03, 2002 at 12:15 PM (CDT)
If love can help Caedan through this, you're there already as there are so many people invisibly trying to hold you all up and willing those lungs to mend.

Again much love from your friends in the UK

Debbie, Graham, Callum and Robbie the dog sends a very sanitised lick over to Canada.

Debbie <debbiedonnison@aol.com>
Dorchester, Dorset United Kingdom - Tuesday, September 03, 2002 at 11:57 AM (CDT)
If love can help Caedan through this, you're there already as there are so many people invisibly trying to hold you all up and willing those lungs to mend.

Again much love from your friends in the UK

Debbie, Graham, Callum and Robbie the dog sends a very sanitised lick over to Canada.

Debbie <debbiedonnison@aol.com>
Dorchester, Dorset United Kingdom - Tuesday, September 03, 2002 at 11:57 AM (CDT)
We are here praying for Caedan!!!

Sending lots of love & strength,

Hicks Family <hicks@cbse.uab.edu>
Birmingham, AL USA - Tuesday, September 03, 2002 at 11:56 AM (CDT)
Hi Scott and Maryla
Still bugging St. Jude incessantly! Caedan is a brave little fighter and so are you two, so we'll keep bombarding heaven until God gets fed up listening and grants what we all want! Lots of love and hugs
Frank, Juin, Michelle, Niall, Heather, and David

Juin Burnett <Juin_Frank @ yahoo.ca>
London, Ont Canada - Tuesday, September 03, 2002 at 11:55 AM (CDT)
Sending you lots of love & hugs & postive vibes. Maryla, my mom sends her love as well...(unfortunately she knows how to operate her computer DESK better than her actual computer or she'd post you some love herself!). We're praying very hard for you guys. Hang in there!
Jane Cornett & Alex Neyfakh <jcornett@21stcentury.net>
Chicago, IL US - Tuesday, September 03, 2002 at 09:26 AM (CDT)
Dear Caeden, Maryla, Scott and Cali:

I was so saddened to hear of Caeden's latest battle from Carol, and I pray that his condition improves soon. Your courage is incredible and so inspiring. Remember that so many of us are behind you and send you love and support.

Denise and Kirsty Ritchie <dritchie@ivey.uwo.ca>
Byron, ON Canada - Tuesday, September 03, 2002 at 09:17 AM (CDT)
Maryla, Scott, Caedan, and Cali,
Sending lots of love and hugs your way as you work through this difficult time. My prayers are with you for Caedan's speedy recovery and for your continued strength.

Mary-Anne <maryanne.davies@lhsc.on.ca>
London, - Tuesday, September 03, 2002 at 09:16 AM (CDT)
Hi Mar,
So glad Dina and Tina went up to lend their hearts and shoulders. I trust they fulfilled my request to give you big hugs from John and I?
Day by day I think of your strength and continue to be amazed. You too, are our warrior.
Here's a smile for ya...My mom has been trying to post for two weeks now. She swears she followed all the steps, but I still see nothing. Those darn high technology computers! Maybe she should give her computer to Lori?
Anyway, she sends a ton of love and prayers from Florida!
We all love you very much. Keep up your wonderful spirit.

Sandy Bolton <jandsbolton@aol.com>
Amherstburg, ON - Tuesday, September 03, 2002 at 07:40 AM (CDT)
I am praying for each member of your family and hope that Cadean gets better very soon. Big hugs to you all.
Charmaine Graham <mailroom@ivey.uwo.ca>
London, ON Canada - Tuesday, September 03, 2002 at 07:29 AM (CDT)
{{{{{{{{{{{{{Maryla, Caedan, Scott, Cali}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}

Thinking of you constantly, praying for strength for each of you and sending all of our love.

Tami, Jonathan, Alexander & Max

Tami Watchurst (mom to Alexander 9 yrs O/t High Risk A.L.L. currently in remission)
orangeville, Ontario Canada - Tuesday, September 03, 2002 at 06:41 AM (CDT)
Major, positive thoughts and prayers coming your way, from across the ocean. Please give you precious, champion, warrior son, a GIANT cuddle from us! We are all cheering him on from the side lines, in the game of his life.
GO CAEDAN GO!!!

Loads of love and BIG cuddles to one and all!
Liz, Murray, Adam, Joshua & Bethany XO XO XO XO XO

the Cruickshank family (ALL-KIDS) <meajbc@bigpond.com>
Melbourne, Vic. Australia - Tuesday, September 03, 2002 at 02:03 AM (CDT)
I couldnt sleep and wanted to come down and check on Caedan.
I am praying tomorrow brings good news.

Chris
Gooch's Site
<chrisrusso_@hotmail.com>
- Tuesday, September 03, 2002 at 12:25 AM (CDT)
Dear Maryla, Scott and Caedan

Just a short note to let you know that you are constantly in my thoughts. I hear he is on his back again and hanging in there. He is truly a warrior! I will be in again on Wednesday to see Caedan. Take care! He is a very lucky and blessed boy to have the parents that he has.

Cathie Crawford <cathiecrawford@hotmail.com>
Belmont, Ontario - Monday, September 02, 2002 at 11:05 PM (CDT)
Dear Maryla, Scott and Caedan,
Just a short note to let you know that you are constantly in my thoughts. I heard he is on his back again and hanging in there. He is a truly a warrior. I will be in on Wednesday to see him. Take care.


Cathie Crawford <cathiecrawford@hotmail.com>
Belmont, Ontario - Monday, September 02, 2002 at 11:00 PM (CDT)
Hi Maryla - Dianne here - Karen's sister in Brampton. Karen has been keeping us posted. I update Mike and my girls regularly. We all share in your anxiety, hope, fear and love. We hope that you can feel the overwhelming sense of loving care and support that everyone is sending to you.
My in-laws - Ted and Muriel Gamble from Innisfil, Ont. (by Barrie) sent Caedan a card earlier this year. When I told them about Caedan and showed them the website through shareacard - they were hooked on Caedan too! He is such a beautiful strong-minded boy! They have not forgotten Caedan and ask about his health regularly. I have kept them updated. They too will be sending silent magical wishes for improvement!! We love and admire you all! Love Dianne

Dianne Gamble (McCulloch) <busylife1@rogers.com>
Brampton, Ont. Canada - Monday, September 02, 2002 at 09:31 PM (CDT)
Dear Gallagher Family,
I was so saddened to get updated on the website. Computer had been out of commission with house renovations and I had not spoken with Lisa since Friday morning so was not aware of the troubles Caedan was having. We will continue to pray for Caedan and send our thoughts your way. Let me know if you need some company or anything else.

Sandra <kamrombouts@hotmail.com>
Delaware, - Monday, September 02, 2002 at 08:20 PM (CDT)
Hi Guys
We will continue to think of you and pray things improve.

Kevin Jasc, Stephan, Adrian, Cam and Renee

Kevin Armstrong
- Monday, September 02, 2002 at 07:48 PM (CDT)
Maryla:Caedan is in our thoughts and prayers everyday, and we are sending you guys positive thoughts and strength, so you will soon get through this bump in the road.Thinking of you often.
Kaeleigh Barney <kaeleighbarney@yahoo.com>
Woodstock, Ontario Canada - Monday, September 02, 2002 at 07:35 PM (CDT)
Maryla ~
Caedan is in our thoughts and prayers constantly as we keep checking back here for news of improvement.
Sending healing thoughts and loving prayers to you all ~
Stacey and Chad Wada (ALL KIDS)

Stacey and Chad Wada <SLW6204@aol.com>
Las Vegas, NV USA - Monday, September 02, 2002 at 06:56 PM (CDT)
Oh, Mar - Heading "back to school" tomorrow with loving thoughts of you - you were such a shining light in our classroom and your continuing magnificence has profoundly impacted so many of us. How I wish that your biggest task tonight was preparing for Caedan's "back to school". We send caring, peace-filled, healing thoughts to envelop you, Scott, Caedan and Cali.
Love you! Sue, Dave, Carter and Sam xo xo xo xo

Susan Gray <sgray@fanshawec.ca>
London, ON - Monday, September 02, 2002 at 06:40 PM (CDT)
Hi Maryla , Scott Caedan and Cali,
I have been away also and am so saddened to see that Caedan has been so ill again. Matt and Blair and I are praying for his comfort and ease of breathing and return to good health.
Lots of love and hugs

Mary Blair and Matt Robertson
London, - Monday, September 02, 2002 at 04:53 PM (CDT)
Hi Maryla and Scott, I just got back to civilization from the hinterland of Manitoba, at my sister Janet's cottage, and have finally had a chance to catch up on your reports. I'm sickened to hear of the rough go you guys are having, and am sending you all the positive thoughts and prayers I can; Janet sends her best wishes as well.
Lots of love,

Daniel Friesen <dfriesen@ibigroup.com>
Vancouver, BC Canada - Monday, September 02, 2002 at 04:22 PM (CDT)
Hang in there !!!

Prayers!

Cheryl <mmgal_martin@yahoo.com>
Tulsa, OK USA - Monday, September 02, 2002 at 03:23 PM (CDT)
Hi, I Christy and Tami shared your site with us. There are many of us from an ACOR list, called FAITH that have been praying for you. I lost my 2 year old daughter to AML leukemia 2 years ago.
I am PRAYING for your family. I pray God will HEAL Caedan's lungs and give him something to fight with...I know he has a beautiful supportive family to fight for.
I will be checking back and keeping up with Caedan and your family. God Bless
http://www.geocities.com/ourangeljordyn/Welcome
(Jordyn's website)

Christy Fitzpatrick...Angel Jordyn's Mommy <Ourangeljordyn@aol.com>
Fort Riley, KS USA - Monday, September 02, 2002 at 02:37 PM (CDT)
We are all praying for an improvement you guys
Hang in there

Chris
Gooch's Site
<chrisrusso_@hotmail.com>
- Monday, September 02, 2002 at 12:27 PM (CDT)
Hi Maryla,
Thanks for the update. I've been up the last few nights thinking and praying for you. Caedan is definitely the bravest person I know. Not to mention his parents. Tons of hugs & kisses...

Tracy B
- Monday, September 02, 2002 at 11:34 AM (CDT)
(((((Caedan)))))
(((((Maryla)))))
(((((Scott))))))

Love, Mike & Carol

Mike Bowers & Carol Fuller <avision4U@hotmail.com>
London, ON Canada - Monday, September 02, 2002 at 11:31 AM (CDT)
Hi Maryla,
I will be at WC on Tuesday afternoon and will drop by.
Hugs and Prayers


Marg
Grand Bend, On Canada - Monday, September 02, 2002 at 11:03 AM (CDT)
Hi Maryla,Scott+ Caedan,Just a note to let you know we're thinking and praying for you.
Love Jay,John,Zach,Jordan,Natalie.
ps Tell Caedan,Jordan+co are planning another play for Caedan to watch + they promise it won't be as long + boring as the last one!!!!!

Jay Cahill
- Monday, September 02, 2002 at 11:02 AM (CDT)
Hi Caedan, It's me Dylan. We have been checking your website a couple of times a day and I'm glad you are stable and that your Mom and Dad and the Doctors are taking good care of you. We have a lot more playing to do so I hope you can feel me thinking of you and that it helps you feel better. Love you, Dylan
Dylan Lariviere <bethcesutherland@sympatico.ca>
London, On Canada - Monday, September 02, 2002 at 09:38 AM (CDT)
Hello Scott, Maryla and Caedan,
I'm a friend of Aunt Carol and wanted to post to you to let you know I'm thinking of you often and wish you all the most peace that can come to you.
With much respect,
John Wesolowski

John Wesolowski <jweso@comcast.net>
Columbia, MD USA - Sunday, September 01, 2002 at 07:47 PM (CDT)
Just got home from being away for a week. Haven't finished unloading the car ... you have been in my thoughts and prayers all week and the first thing I wanted to do was check on Caedan. I had called my Dad mid-week to check your web site and I have been wishing on stars each night for Caedan. I hope you can feel my heartfelt love flowing out to you as I say more prayers for healing for Caedan and strength for you all.

Much love,

Karen M <hbyc7@rogers.com>
Waterloo, ON - Sunday, September 01, 2002 at 07:24 PM (CDT)
Just a note of support from WAY out west! In B.C! Please know that you & your family are in my friends & family's thoughts & prayers. MY two little ones Jessica (7) & Steven (4)
are thinking of you too Caedan!

Pamela <mistress_lala@hotmail.com>
Maple Ridge , B.C. Canada - Sunday, September 01, 2002 at 04:33 PM (CDT)
Mar (and rest of the gang)
I have had trouble accessing Caedan's site since last Saturday (don't know why) but JENN has been keeping me posted with updates but I've still felt so helplessly out of the loop. I've been phoning and bugging the nurses in the CCU but they won't tell me anything. Today Jenn sent me her link to this site (all on her own!) and here i am!! FINALLY!! I want to come up, but I know you've got a crowd up there and feel I might be in the way. I want to help so badly, but don't know what I can do. All I really wish I could do is to make Caedan better, but as I can't do that my family and I will pray with all our might. Caedan is an amazing boy and you guys have been blessed with so many miracles throughout this battle, that I know another miracle is waiting for you just around the corner ...

BIG GIGANTIC hugs to Maryla from Jenn and I
warm fuzzy feelings and healing energy to Caedan
more hugs for Scott and Cali
and a hug for Mike
and one for Janet and Karen and Dina (and anyone else up at Children's supporting the Gallagher's right now)
go team!

Troy, Marley, Ethan, Caleb
- Sunday, September 01, 2002 at 03:51 PM (CDT)
Maryla, Scott, Caedan and Cali, our thoughts are with you constantly. Charlyn sends her love.
And I send mine.

Annie <anniebowers@shaw.ca>
Victoria, BC Canada - Sunday, September 01, 2002 at 03:03 PM (CDT)
Dear Maryla and Scott,
Prayers and Love Peter, Janet, Jacob and Joe

Soley <peter.soley@ns.sympatico.ca>
Truro, NS - Sunday, September 01, 2002 at 02:21 PM (CDT)
My Dear Friends,
Hugs and prayers for Caedan.....
Love You

Marg
Grand Bend, On Canada - Sunday, September 01, 2002 at 12:52 PM (CDT)
Dear Maryla and Scott, Cali and of course, Caedan,

My thoughts and prayers are with you all. May you find some peace each day to give you hope and strength to make your way through each and every day.

Sending love and light to you all,
Bruce (Mike and Carol's brother)

Bruce Hildebrandt <brucelh@sprint.ca>
Fonthill, Ontario Canada - Sunday, September 01, 2002 at 11:36 AM (CDT)
I don't have the words to say that would explain to you how often you are all thought of. Mom lets me know each time she hears something. I pray for a call that says things have changed for the better again. Until then, I'll be thinking of you all.
Tracy M. <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Sunday, September 01, 2002 at 11:36 AM (CDT)
Gallagher Family,It is the wish of everyone that your little warrior gets well and strong!If everyone reading these messages says a collective prayer it will happen.God be with all of you.Your friends,Jen,Doug,Alex,Ben
The Harrison`s <douglas.harrison@3web.net>
London, - Sunday, September 01, 2002 at 11:17 AM (CDT)
Maryla, we are checking in on the site often for news and we are praying fervently for some improvement....any improvement. You and your son are on our minds constantly. We are praying for strength for you and Scott to get through this nightmare.

Love, Tami, Jonathan, Alexander & Max

Tami Watchurst (mom to Alexander 9 yrs O/t High Risk A.L.L. currently in remission)
orangeville, Ontario Canada - Sunday, September 01, 2002 at 10:50 AM (CDT)
We just got back from vacation and read your recent entries....Our thoughts are with you all....
Susan, Ken, Daniel and Miranda <pigotts@lhsc.on.ca>
London, Ont Canada - Sunday, September 01, 2002 at 08:08 AM (CDT)
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Paul, Lily and J.P

Paul Seed <pseed@sprint.ca>
St. Joseph, Ont Canada - Sunday, September 01, 2002 at 08:08 AM (CDT)
Your Fredericton family is in touch and praying. Mary, Jacques, Helen, Paul, Kelly, Ryan, Monique, Paul, Tully, Chantelle, Joel, Ann, Jacob, Nicole, Guy, Adele, Jean Marc and Kerri.
Nicole
- Sunday, September 01, 2002 at 06:15 AM (CDT)
Your Fredericton family is in touch and praying. Mary, Jacques, Helen, Paul, Kelly, Ryan, Monique, Paul, Tully, Chantelle, Joel, Ann, Jacob, Nicole, Guy, Adele, Jean Marc and Kerri.
Nicole
- Sunday, September 01, 2002 at 06:15 AM (CDT)
Oh thank God
I am so glad things are improving
God hears us all Maryla!

Chris
Gooch's Site
<chrisrusso_@hotmail.com>
- Saturday, August 31, 2002 at 09:09 PM (CDT)
Korri's reading over my shoulder and handing me Kleenex. Prayers o' plenty here continue. For Caedan's strength and courage, and more. And I know that the Universe is listening. We love you. Thank you Dina.


Stacey and Korri <stacey@staceylane.net>
Portland, OR - Saturday, August 31, 2002 at 08:43 PM (CDT)
You guys are all doing great! Caedan is one tough cookie and will make it through this, yet another obstacle is his life. We are still praying and think of you all non-stop. Keep up the fight Caedan!

Take care all...


Kristyn, Mike, Todd and Taylar
Mt. Carmel, On Canada - Saturday, August 31, 2002 at 08:34 PM (CDT)
Maryla,

The boys and I have just finished reading your last two entries. We were so happy for you that he woke up and responded to your voice...it will happen again Maryla. Your "warrior" will win the next round. There is not a minute that goes by that I am not thinking about you and your family. The boys will say a special prayer tonight. We all will.




Dee, Kevin, Dylan and Spencer Petrozzi <petrozzi@mnsi.net>
Amherstburg, ON Canada - Saturday, August 31, 2002 at 08:03 PM (CDT)
Maryla ~
SO thankful to read that Caedan is improving! We won't stop praying for him though! I am looking forward to your next update, when you tell us he is getting even better.
Keeping the faith ~
Stacey Wada

Stacey Wada <SLW6204@aol.com>
Las Vegas, NV USA - Saturday, August 31, 2002 at 07:53 PM (CDT)
Hi Caedan and family,
My mom has written in your guestbook a couple of times and I just wanted to tell you to have faith and pray. Caedan is a warrior as you've said yourself and he will pull through this. Just keep the bright spirits and listen for the laughter. My prayers will stay with your family. God bless. Sincerely, Kelly Foy

Kelly Foy www.caringbridge.com/ct/kelly/
Berlin, CT - Saturday, August 31, 2002 at 07:13 PM (CDT)
Maryla, Scott, Caeden and Cali
Our thoughts and prayers are with you, Caeden is a fighter, we can never give up hope, so many people care about you and are thinking of you. Love the Daters.

Tami, Brad and Aaron Daters
- Saturday, August 31, 2002 at 06:26 PM (CDT)
May God's will be done in your lives. I believe you have all struggled through some very rough times and I pray that you have the strength to keep going on, no matter what.
Robert Hiebert <lonemonk@aol.com>
Elfrida, AZ USA - Saturday, August 31, 2002 at 05:35 PM (CDT)
Maryla and Scott, as a friend of Carol's in one of her email groups, I want you to know I am thinking of you and Caedan today. The strength of your family is awe-inspiring! I ask of the heavens comfort for you all.
Kathryn Stewart <paralaxvu@earthlink.net>
Chula Vista (south of San Diego), CA USA - Saturday, August 31, 2002 at 04:36 PM (CDT)
Maryla, our family is sending you our love and prayers. We are heart-sick to read what is happening to Caedan's body. We will not give up on him. We will not give up on hope.

Love, Tami, Jonathan, Alexander & Max

Tami Watchurst (mom to Alexander 9 yrs O/t High Risk A.L.L. currently in remission)
orangeville, Ontario Canada - Saturday, August 31, 2002 at 04:30 PM (CDT)
Maryla and Scott,
We are thinking about you and praying Caedan will take an upward turn. Don't loose hope.
Love The Hills

Lisa, Colin and boys
- Saturday, August 31, 2002 at 03:37 PM (CDT)
Hi guys, I'm sending you all my love and prayers and I hope that Caedan gets through this tough time.
Ursula Braun
- Saturday, August 31, 2002 at 03:22 PM (CDT)
All our love, and prayers.
Cheryl <mmgal_martin@yahoo.com>
Tulsa, OK USA - Saturday, August 31, 2002 at 03:17 PM (CDT)
Oh my God Maryla, I cant comprehend the the emotional roller coaster you must be on.
We are all in shock and praying praying praying your next update is better news.

Chris
Gooch's Site
<chrisrusso_@hotmail.com>
- Saturday, August 31, 2002 at 02:46 PM (CDT)
Maryla Caedan Scott and Cali,

We are all so very very sorry to hear that Caedan has to yet again struggle so very very hard.
I am so sorry Maryla that you have to endure watching your sweet little boy go through soooo much....
Many prayers from all of us will go out to you your family and especially your little warrior.
Sincerly,
Sue

Sue Thiessen <thiessen@amtelecom.net>
Aylmer, ON - Saturday, August 31, 2002 at 02:27 PM (CDT)
My thoughts and prayers are with your whole family. I am a dear friend of Carol F.'s and know how much love and support Caedan has received in his short life , he has been blessed to have such a loving family and you have been blessed to have such a remarakable son. JUDY
JUDY <judimath@enoreo.on.ca>
LONDON, On CANADA - Saturday, August 31, 2002 at 02:01 PM (CDT)
Scott and Maryla, Our thoughts and prayers are with you. You have always amazed us with your incredible strength. You have, in Caedan, a truly brave and strong son! God bless.
The Burnett family <heatherburnett310@yahoo.co.uk>
London, On Canada - Saturday, August 31, 2002 at 12:45 PM (CDT)
Maryla and family,
Our thoughts and hopes for a turn for the better are with you.
The Parkes family

Louise Parkes <j.l.parkes@sympatico.ca>
London, On Canada - Saturday, August 31, 2002 at 12:28 PM (CDT)
Maryla and Scott,
We are devastated for you. Mike read your post early this morning and went up to the hospital at 5 a.m. and stayed for about an hour. We will come up tonight.

Anne phoned this morning. Ruth phoned a few minutes ago. We all have nothing but you and Caedan on our minds.

Sending all the love and strength we have,
Love from Mike and Carol

Carol <avision4U@hotmail.com>
London, ON Canada - Saturday, August 31, 2002 at 11:48 AM (CDT)
Maryla ~
Storming the heavens with prayers for Caedan's lungs to heal and for him to get stronger every minute. I am keeping the faith and thinking of your family, and will look for good news soon.
Many hugs and lots of love,
Stacey, Bill, Bryce, and Chad

The Wada Family <SLW6204@aol.com>
Las Vegas, NV USA - Saturday, August 31, 2002 at 11:05 AM (CDT)
I'm sorry to hear the news. We're all thinking of you constantly. Tracy, Tim, Cody & Kyle
Tracy B <bestbet@sympatico.ca>
London, On - Saturday, August 31, 2002 at 10:43 AM (CDT)
These rollercoasters emotions are certainly difficult to understand! Our thoughts and prayers are still behind you and riding along with you! Beth, Pat, Dylan and Dawson
Beth Sutherland <bethcesutherland@sympatico.ca>
London, On Canada - Saturday, August 31, 2002 at 10:36 AM (CDT)
We are praying like never before. Our hearts are filled with sadness. We only hope that Caedan has a hidden strength to beat this horrible infection. God bless you all. BIG HUGS!

The Cordiners <kbcor@sympatico.ca>
London, Ontario - Saturday, August 31, 2002 at 10:27 AM (CDT)
Our thoughts and prayers are with you like never before at this crucial time. May Caedan be given all the strength of the world to fight this.
The Fishers <patriciafisher407@rogers.com>
London, on - Saturday, August 31, 2002 at 09:57 AM (CDT)
Maryla & Family
I am praying like never before for Caedan, and for your entire family. Honey, I can honestly say I understand the enourmous emotional heartache that is being felt at this difficult time. When I pray at night before sleep I ask Dustin "My Angel in the Heavens above" to ask God to help Caedan...the love is never ending....God Bless.

Judy (Mom of Angel-Dustin & Tyler)
Chatham, ON Canada - Saturday, August 31, 2002 at 09:40 AM (CDT)
Oh Maryla, you poor dear baby. He has been fighting so hard and he has such a strong will. We are praying for your Warrior and for his wonderful mom.

Love, Tami, Jonathan, Alexander & Max

Tami Watchurst (mom to Alexander 9 yrs O/t High Risk A.L.L. currently in remission)
orangeville, Ontario Canada - Saturday, August 31, 2002 at 09:37 AM (CDT)
Just adding my prayers. God bless all of you and give you strength to continue this battle.
Carolyn Robbins <robbinsgc@erols.com>
Reston, VA - Saturday, August 31, 2002 at 09:35 AM (CDT)
My darlings, you will get through. He's a fighter. I love you.
Annie <anniebowers@shaw.ca>
Victoria, BC Canada - Saturday, August 31, 2002 at 01:10 AM (CDT)
Hi Everyone: Karen keeps me updated daily about the lastest developments. Thinking of you VERY OFTEN. I guess that happens when your daughter spends time at the cottage with her Uncle Don and couisins Rob and Meredith. If you need any child care for Cali---CALL--CALL ASAP. Hang in there.
Bonnie Marceau <bmarceau@excite.com>
Union, Ontario Canada - Saturday, August 31, 2002 at 12:04 AM (CDT)
Just know that I am thinking of you all, Caedan you hang in there. I am working all weekend so I will be in to see you throughout the days. Remember we are only a few floors up if you need anything at all.
Jennifer
London, ON - Friday, August 30, 2002 at 08:14 PM (CDT)
Caedan, You're doing it buddy! Keep up the fight. You'll beat this thing yet. Everyone here says hello. If Indigo is feeling lonely over there he's more than welcome to come back to our place for a visit. We look forward to seeing you soon. Love Ya!!!!
P.S. I know you wanted your dad to lose 5lbs. but this isn't the way to do it!

Tracy B
- Friday, August 30, 2002 at 05:39 PM (CDT)
YEAH!!!!!! I am so happy that things are improving. Keep going Caedan! I know you can do it.
Hugs and prayers, Kate

Kate Lupson <slupson@rogers.com>
London, Ont. Canada - Friday, August 30, 2002 at 05:22 PM (CDT)
Dear Caedan,

You are one tough fellow. Every few moments my thoughts turn to you and this battle you are fighting. I am sending all my love and prayers to you. I wish I it was more. Here are some more good wishes, hugs and kisses to hold you through the night.

God Bless You and Your Family

Sandy <growingconcern@hotmail.com>
london, ont canada - Friday, August 30, 2002 at 04:04 PM (CDT)
It's great to hear that things have improved. I can go back to the Before and After School program when school starts on Tuesday and give all the kids the update. I've been checking the site over the summer and have been pulling for you all. I will definately post a message about Caedan on our board for all to read on Tuesday! GO CAEDAN GO! If you need anything let me know. I would be more then happy to help out in any way possible!
Amy Bilyea (Supervisor of the Before and After School Program at Byron Southwood)

Amy Bilyea <albilyea@rogers.com>
London, ON CANADA - Friday, August 30, 2002 at 03:56 PM (CDT)
Its great to hear that things are improving! Keep up the good work and we'll keep praying and sending positive healing thoughts.
Mary, mom to Aidan 8 ALL ot 10/98

Mary Neary <nearyme@aol.com>
Juneau, AK 99801 - Friday, August 30, 2002 at 02:47 PM (CDT)
yahoo, I am so darned happy to read this update ! and so glad that he got to see you Maryla for the few minutes he was awake. prayers and new agey healing energy sending thoughts are being sent from the healing energy west coast ! love and hugs to all there
Jen Fisher

Jennifer Fisher <lolahowes@hotmail.com>
Vancouver, BC - Friday, August 30, 2002 at 01:40 PM (CDT)
Great News!

It's a step in the right direction! Hugs and love!

Cheryl <mmgal_martin@yahoo.com>
Tulsa, OK USA - Friday, August 30, 2002 at 01:12 PM (CDT)
So happy to hear the great news! Keep your chin up & hang in there!!! Things sound to be getting better!!!
Praying hard in Indiana!!


Sheila
Peru, IN USA - Friday, August 30, 2002 at 12:27 PM (CDT)
YES YES YES!!!!!!! So very happy to read the good news about Caedan! My Mom read the page over my shoulder and summed it up quite well ..."thank goodness for small mercies". We are all thinking about you guys and sending lots of prayers for Caedan.

Sue Sterner
London, Ont - Friday, August 30, 2002 at 12:21 PM (CDT)
Hi Maryla and Scott, Cali and of course, Caedan - Glad to read the improvements made, it sure has made our day! Pat left awhile ago with lunch, but he forgot the salad dressing so hope you can scrounge some up or don't mind it plain! Take care, you are never far from our thoughts and hearts! Pat, Beth, Dylan and Dawson
Beth Sutherland <bethcesutherland@sympatico.ca>
London, on Canada - Friday, August 30, 2002 at 12:13 PM (CDT)
Well "Glory be to God" (as your Great Nanny Rose would say), Caedan you are so great. We continue to pray for all of you.

Love and hugs,

Great Aunt Helen

Helen Janssens <paul_h_janssens@hotmail.com>
fredericton, N.B. Canada - Friday, August 30, 2002 at 12:05 PM (CDT)
Wow. Happy tears. I've tried emailing (your home email account) but keep getting a failure message. I'm going to try your hotmail account next.

Love to you all.

Stacey <stacey@staceylane.net>
Portland, OR - Friday, August 30, 2002 at 11:37 AM (CDT)
Maryla,
I received an email from Sharon Simpson to check on Caedan's page. She said I would need happy face kleenex. Wow this is great news. Every little lit of improvement is a huge accomplisment. Caedan is so lucky to have so much love and support from his friends and family.Keep Smiling!!!

Lois Grimes <childcan@lon.imag.net>
London, ON CAN - Friday, August 30, 2002 at 09:40 AM (CDT)
I am Dahlia's sister in Montreal, and she told me all about Caedan. I have been sitting here at work (!) reading all about him and his wonderful family and friends... and wishing everyone the best.
Jenny Reich
Montreal, Quebec Canada - Friday, August 30, 2002 at 09:23 AM (CDT)
You know you could make a fortune if you bought shares in Kleenex!!!! Have a million and one things to do today before Cody and I escape for the long weekend to Halifax to visit my family but had to check in on Caedan and everyone one last time before I leave. I am sooo glad I did!!! God is hearing our prayers. Way to go Caedan, keep up the good fight. Everyone is rooting for you and your family and sending lots of love, prayers and strength to all of you.
Lots of love,
Sharon Simpson

Sharon Simpson <john.simpson6@sympatico.ca>
Windsor, ON - Friday, August 30, 2002 at 09:18 AM (CDT)
Oh my gosh Maryla, I'm balling over here this morning. How great of Caedan to wake up a bit and give you a sign of his enduring strength. He must have known you needed it. Go Caedan go!!!! Let's hope for more momentous steps today. I gotta go find a Kleenex. Love Dahlia.
Dahlia Reich <dahlia.reich@sympatico.ca>
London, - Friday, August 30, 2002 at 08:34 AM (CDT)
You don't know me, but thanks to Kristyn I have been following your journey over the last week or so. Your family has been in my thoughts and prayers constantly. I'm so happy that Caedan is improving, slowly (but slow and sure always wins the race). He sounds like a real little fighter! I'm hoping and praying that the days ahead will be brighter for you and that Caedan returns to good health and is able to go home. I'm sure you and your husband are exhausted but know you will be given strength to keep trudging forward. God bless you and those around you and all the best of luck in the days ahead.
Mary Lou Thomson <mlt.csi@hay.net>
Exeter, On Canada - Friday, August 30, 2002 at 08:18 AM (CDT)
The best way to start my day....an update that brings me tears of joy, and hope that each day brings more and more good news.
What a relief!! I have spread the news around the office, and all the ladies are thinking of you all too.

Tracy M <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Friday, August 30, 2002 at 08:02 AM (CDT)
TEARS OF JOY!!!!! SUCH WONDERFUL NEWS!!!
Keep the fight up Caedan! You're incredible strength never stops amazing me.
We love you buddy, and can't wait to hear what your first words will soon be!! The prayers keep coming....
Love Dina, Matt, Patrick, Stephen and Sarah

Dina Kenkel <erabankers@aol.com>
West Bloomfield, Mi U.S.A - Friday, August 30, 2002 at 07:52 AM (CDT)
BIG SIGHS OF RELIEF
I am SOOO happy to read this, Mar!
Caedan, Bravo - you are so strong! What strength! Keep fighting!
BIG BIG smiles from Amherstburg. We are with you every step of the way!

Sandy Bolton <Jandsbolton@aol.com>
- Friday, August 30, 2002 at 07:11 AM (CDT)
Oh Maryla, what incredible news, Caedan has such strength. He hears your words of love and encouragement and feels the optimism and inspiration in the room from all of you.
Lisa <Hawthorn@motionlink.net>
London, ont Canada - Friday, August 30, 2002 at 07:05 AM (CDT)
Way to go Caedan,

KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK!

Sandy <growingconcern@hotmail.com>
London, ont canada - Friday, August 30, 2002 at 05:39 AM (CDT)
PRAISE GOD, PRAISE GOD, PRAISE GOD.

One step at a time Maryla, the mountain is more treacherous than we had anticipated, but you are up to the task. I can only imagine the feelings in your heart when you were told that he was waking. Our love and prayers are with you dear friends, every slight improvement is a victory in this battle. Hold onto each other knowing that you have the love of so many of us out here in cyber space. We would definitely not fit into that little hospital room!!! We are here rest assured and we are storming the heavens for your family.

Love, Tami, Jonathan, Alexander & Max

Tami Watchurst (mom to Alexander 9 yrs O/t High Risk A.L.L. currently in remission)
orangeville, Ontario Canada - Friday, August 30, 2002 at 04:56 AM (CDT)
THANK YOU GOD!!!!!!
I was SO relieved to see this update!!!!!!!

Chris
Gooch's Site
<chrisrusso_@hotmail.com>
- Thursday, August 29, 2002 at 10:37 PM (CDT)
Dear Maryla,

Just a note to let you know that I am thinking of you and your family. I will continue to pray for Caedan and hope to see you both soon. Let me know if you need anything at all.Hugs to all!!

Lois Grimes <childcan@lon.imag.net>
London, ON CANADA - Thursday, August 29, 2002 at 10:25 PM (CDT)
Oh I am praying for you all so hard. Keep fighting Caedan! Rosie had her LAST LP (God willing) today...so we are really done (for now)and we want you to join us in "Remission Forever Land", OK??? Amen to that! Please keep us posted when you can. Our prayers will continue.
Amy & Rosie Rumberger and Family <TimRumb@aol.com>
Alameda, CA USA - Thursday, August 29, 2002 at 06:56 PM (CDT)
You do not know me but I work in the same building as Scott. My prayers and thoughts are with you and love hearing the news as things progress positively. It sounds like your son has a strong will!
Trish
London, Ont Canada - Thursday, August 29, 2002 at 03:50 PM (CDT)
You do not know me but I work in the same building as Scott. My prayers and thoughts are with you and love hearing the news as things progress positively. It sounds like your son has a strong will!
Trish
London, Ont Canada - Thursday, August 29, 2002 at 03:47 PM (CDT)
Maryla: I will try once again to send my heart felt wishes and prayers. I think of you and your mom and dad so often. The memories are all good ones. I can not imagine what you are going through, my heart prayers and wishes go out to you, your husband and your little sweart heart Caeden. All my love and keep the faith. Love Lyn Paterson (Sandy Stiers Mother)


Lyn Paterson <Rentals@exitrealtyforidakeys.com>
Key Colony Beach, Florida U. S. A. - Thursday, August 29, 2002 at 03:45 PM (CDT)
Maryla and Scott, wishing and praying constantly, my parents and my sisters are as well. Paige and I are checking daily and we know that no news is good news. Glad to see ann and charlyn are in touch as well . your family loves you and Scott Caedan and Cali. talk again soon, keep up the good work, both of you . love Kim and Paige
kim cash <kimberlycash@sympatico.ca>
la salle, on - Thursday, August 29, 2002 at 03:04 PM (CDT)
Maryla Scott Caedan and Cali,

Love, like you all know is truly so spiritual for the soul and the healing. If love was the only cure there would be no childrens hospitals, but alas there is. So we pray to our Heavenly Father that he will cure Ceadan and all the other sick children. And we are all praying Maryla. A huge circle of friends. Caedan has been added to my girlfriends church pray list.
I am thinking of you Ceadan Scott and Cali and I do know how hard this is for you all. If it is of some comfort to you, I am holding Caedan very close to my prayers. I am so very sorry to hear that life has YET again thrown Caedan and you a very twisty windy long road, yet AGAIN you both have to travel.....but not travel alone....we are all here for you.
Love
Sue

Sue Thiessen <thiessen@amtelecom.net>
Aylmer, ON - Thursday, August 29, 2002 at 01:53 PM (CDT)
Boy oh boy, Caedan, are you loved!
It's now Thursday and the last post was Monday. There have been over 1600 hits on your website in three days!

Mar, your first words in that post read "Today is a better a day". Gosh how we hope each day really IS getting easier. I think of you guys every hour of the day and hope and pray that Caedan's experience will go down in the medical books as "an amazing and complete recovery"!

This weekend will mark the one year anniversary of "Caedan's Wish". And wishes really do come true.....
Keep up your awesome spirit; I am thrilled you and Scott are still getting a laugh in here and there. (big smiles!)

Sandy (and John) Bolton <jandsbolton@aol.com>
Amherstburg, ON - Thursday, August 29, 2002 at 01:49 PM (CDT)
Hey Caedan!
Just wanted to say hi and that I hope you feel better.
Keep chillin'!

Andrew Hill <thematrix115@hotmail.com>
Lindsay , Ont Canada - Thursday, August 29, 2002 at 01:28 PM (CDT)
Hi Maryla,
Just last week, I was thinking that Caedan would be getting ready for school and how exciting.....so you can imagine my horror when Adele told me about this setback. I was at the hospital so we went to PCCU right away....did have a chance to give Scott a hug. Well, you want prayers......I feel so helpless, but as a Catholic, I sure know how to pray.
Hugs
Marg

Marguerite
Grand Bend, Ont Canada - Thursday, August 29, 2002 at 11:44 AM (CDT)
We are the parents of Mark Coulston and we live in Mississauga.We are pulling for Caedan and our thoughts are with him every day.
Ralph Coulston
Mississauga, Ont. Canada - Thursday, August 29, 2002 at 11:03 AM (CDT)
Maryla, I am thinking of you every moment. Charlyn will be there in a couple of weeks! I wish I could join her. May every day bring strength and healing. Love to Caedan, and to you, Scott and Cali.
Annie <anniebowers@shaw.ca>
Victoria, BC Canada - Thursday, August 29, 2002 at 11:02 AM (CDT)
Caedan, We have just returned from camping and were thinking about you everyday. I know you would have just loved catching frogs and roasting marshmallows with Andrew and the boys. I think next summer when you are feeling healthy that your dad and you should go camping with Colin and the boys, while your mom and I stay at a hotel (because I know your mom would love camping as much as I do!!!!) Sounds good to me, keep getting healthy and strong and we will count on a camping trip with you in 2003. Keep smiling buddy, you are an incredible kid.

Love from the Hills.

Lisa, Colin, Andrew, Grant and Eric
- Thursday, August 29, 2002 at 09:31 AM (CDT)
They say no news is good news, so things must still be okay with all of you. Wishing you all the best, and thinking of you!
Tracy M. <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Thursday, August 29, 2002 at 08:44 AM (CDT)

Hi guys! Just wanted to let you know that we are thinking of you constantly. Chris went in for surgery yesterday to have his gallbladder removed (in St. Thomas)and he was wondering how Caedan was doing. He's just in for a few days and can't imagine how you guys do it. He also wanted me to let you know that he pulled out a can of white paint for Scott the other day - something about a basketball court??? I thought the idea sounded pretty cool! Rub Caedan's head for me and tell him I'll pay the fee when he gets back up on 7.

Love Julia and Chris <jrajan@rogers.com>
London, Ont Canada - Thursday, August 29, 2002 at 07:25 AM (CDT)
WHICH OF YOU WONDERFUL PEOPLE WANT TO HELP? My name is Dahlia Reich and I'm a friend of Maryla's (like who isn't?)
It's a very helpless feeling watching the Gallaghers struggle during this excrutiating time, but one thing local fans and friends can do is keep Scott and Maryla well fueled with great food. I've been scheduling meals to be dropped off at the hospital and they have been greatly appreciated. I'm looking for more of you who would like to help in this way. If you are willing and able, please email or call me --432-5177 -- and leave your name and phone number. Please DO NOT start cooking and dropping in at the PCCU. This must be carefully arranged so that it's a help and not a bother. Thanks so much. Dahlia

Dahlia Reich <dahlia.reich@sympatico.ca>
London, On. - Wednesday, August 28, 2002 at 09:09 PM (CDT)
Cadean and family,
Praying for you constantly, and hoping you will be out of the pccu real soon, so I can come and see you up on 7. Keep up the fight,I'll be praying for you.
Keep Smiling.

Your Friend,Kaeleigh <kaeleighbarney@yahoo.com>
Woodstock, Ontario Canada - Wednesday, August 28, 2002 at 06:54 PM (CDT)
Dear Caedan and Family
Here are some extra Hugs and Kisses

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P.S. ---I'll send more tomorrow.

Sandy <growingconcern@hotmail.com>
london, ont canada - Wednesday, August 28, 2002 at 06:37 PM (CDT)
Dear Caedan and Family,

I billion and two prayers for each of you.
You are all in our hearts.

Sandy Schram <growingconcern@hotmail.com>
London, Ont Canada - Wednesday, August 28, 2002 at 06:28 PM (CDT)
Hello, just checking in and so relieved to hear about small miracles... love to all there and glad that the family's around, I am sure they are providing small distractions as relief. Wish I was there to hug and get in the way generally -there in spirit though, and I pray to god/skies/anything - here. Prayers to my Dad's spririt to send Caedan strength. (He passed away this summer) No resource seems unappealable to at this point. You are brave people and I hope someday Caedan will make some sense of this in a beautiful novel he will write or maybe his one man show on broadway ! His spirit, surely is so powerful he will get through...that's what I pray on. I wish you a bit of sleep and more of that inexhaustable hope.
oooo jen

Jennifer Fisher <laurenhowes@hotmail.com>
Vancouver, - Wednesday, August 28, 2002 at 05:32 PM (CDT)
Our prayers are closely tied to Caeden. We are friends of John and Sandy. She has kept us posted about how your son is doing. Keep the faith and he will make it through this huge set back. Again, our thoughts and good wishes are right there with you all.
Ron and Sandee Lohnes <rlohnes@cogeco.ca>
Windsor, Canada - Wednesday, August 28, 2002 at 02:17 PM (CDT)
Hi Guys, Just thought I'd check in. The prayers are still going strong here on Haliburton. I made a huge pot of spaghetti sauce yesterday. Yes, in this weather, Maryla. It's in the freezer now and has your name on it. It was nice to see Scott the other day. I'm just sorry I missed your pit stop. Caedan buddy, you just hang in there, everything will be just fine. Your strength and sense of humour amaze me. Love Tracy, Tim, Cody & Kyle.
Tracy B <bestbet@sympatico.ca>
London, On - Wednesday, August 28, 2002 at 11:29 AM (CDT)
Hi everyone,
Glad to hear that things are improving a little. Caedan is such a strong and strong-willed person (I wonder where he got that from!?). You are all constantly in our thoughts and prayers. Cody and Trevor are at Camp Trillium right now. I had to take Cody to HSC for an MRI yesterday to see about the possibility of surgery then he went back to camp. Sorry I missed you, Maryla, but hope that you can use the little present I left. I know you are probably sick of Tim's, but at least you can get a nice hot cup of tea. I also hope you found the hugs that were tucked in between each page. I know Caedan is getting lots of them from everyone, but those hugs were for you to help you keep strong and know that you are being thought of constantly.
Keep the faith.
Sharon

Sharon Simpson <john.simpson6@sympatico.ca>
Windsor, ON - Wednesday, August 28, 2002 at 11:19 AM (CDT)
Dear Maryla and Scott,
Love and prayers sent from Peter, Janet, Jacob and Joey

Soley <peter.soley@ns.sympatico.ca>
Truro, NS Canada - Wednesday, August 28, 2002 at 10:17 AM (CDT)
Maryla,Scott,Caeden and Cali, You are all in our thoughts and prayers. Keep up the upbeat attitude things can only get better,hopefully soon. Can't wait for some happy news. Hang in there.
Love Lisa, Phil and girls

Lisa Baxter <plbaxter@sympatico.ca>
St. Thomas, Ont. Canada - Wednesday, August 28, 2002 at 09:46 AM (CDT)
My name is Brianne Wedding and I came here because, I have read many entries from Judy and Dustin's page about your son. I would just like to say that I have your son in my prayers as do many others, and I hope he gets through this very rough time safely. Judy is one of the best people I have ever had the opportunity to get to know. Dustin was so small, yet full of strength, and he through that strength, managed to teach all of us with amazement, how full of patience and pure vigilance children can be. Your son has this strength and vigor within him as well. My best wishes go with you and your family.
Sincerely,
Brianne

Brianne Wedding <wildchild513@hotmail.com>
Johnston City, Illinois USA - Wednesday, August 28, 2002 at 09:36 AM (CDT)
Thanks so much for dropping in on Joshua and us at PMDU, Maryla! How good of you to have such encouraging words for Joshua when your own son is in ICU. As we clasped each other's arms I would have loved to pray with you:
Oh dear Father God, how good and full of love You are! You are suffering so very much with Cadaen and his family in Your deep care for each one. You are the Strength-giver and as our Maker desire for us to draw close to You. Thankyou so much that through Jesus who died for us, You provide forgiveness and such a personal relationship. How much we ask of You for Your perfect will to be done for Cadaen and his family. May Cadaen be bathed with such an awareness of You being right there close with him. Father into Your hands we commit them all: Cadaen and Cali, Dad and Mom. In Jesus' Name Amen.
Much Love, The Webers

Leonard & Lucille Weber <phil.ber@sympatico.com>
West Montrose, ON Canada - Wednesday, August 28, 2002 at 08:38 AM (CDT)
Maryla & Caedan
Wanted you to know that I am thinking of you, and to send you a hug XOXOXOetc.....
Jennifer

Jennifer <jthompson@lon.imag.net>
St Thomas, ON - Wednesday, August 28, 2002 at 08:07 AM (CDT)
Good morning my dear friend,
Barb gave me your message, thank you. I've been thinking about you none stop. I work 7-3 this weekend and I'm hoping to drop off some food so you're not stuck with Mr. Horton's 24/7. I wish there was something I could do for Caedan but right now all I can do is to continue to pray and give you lots of hugs. Tell Caedan his hugs are going into the hug bank on reserve for when he's back to the 7th floor. Thank you for updating the web page. I know you are exhusted emotionally, mentally and physically but your updates are appreciated. Hang in there my friend. Remember what I said last Thursday. Love you!!

Lori Sashegyi <lnh.sashegyi@sympatico.ca>
London, - Wednesday, August 28, 2002 at 07:45 AM (CDT)
I PRAY today is an even better day than Monday was.
I was hoping for an update but know you have your hands full. Please know we are all praying for you.

Chris
Gooch's Site
<chrisrusso_@hotmail.com>
- Wednesday, August 28, 2002 at 07:42 AM (CDT)
Hi Maryla ~
Thought we'd check in with Caedan and are so saddened to hear he is inpatient! We are keeping your family in our thoughts and prayers and will watch faithfully for news of Caedan's improvement.
Take care, we are with you in spirit and through cyberspace!
Love, Bill, Stacey, Bryce and Chad (ALL KIDS)

The Wada Family <SLW6204@aol.com>
Las Vegas, NV USA - Tuesday, August 27, 2002 at 05:52 PM (CDT)
Maryla & Scott, Our prayers remain steadfast for your beautiful son. You have friends that cannot physically put their arms around you to hold you up when your knees are feeling like they are going to buckle beneath you.....but we are all out here and we are with you nonetheless in our heartfelt prayers for healing and strength for Caedan.

Love is the Best Medicine of all.

Tami, Jonathan, Alexander & Max

Tami Watchurst (mom to Alexander 9 yrs O/t High Risk A.L.L. currently in remission)
orangeville, Ontario Canada - Tuesday, August 27, 2002 at 05:04 PM (CDT)
Maryla ,Scott, Caedan and Cali,
We are praying for your family that Caedan continues to get better and can be released from the ventilator and ICU and that you all keep up your strength and spirits and have better days ahead soon.
Much Love,
Mary, from ALL-Kids, Aidan 8 , Cailey 11 and Husband Patrick

Mary Neary <nearyme@aol.com>
Juneau, AK USA - Tuesday, August 27, 2002 at 03:48 PM (CDT)
Well wishes & prayers being sent! Hang in there!
Sheila
Peru, IN USA - Tuesday, August 27, 2002 at 02:31 PM (CDT)
Maryla, Scott, Cali - and most of all Caedan - My heart is with you. Just praying and hoping to hear better news from over here in England. (I'm an expat Canadian though and my brother lives on Tecumseh St. in London)
XX Gloria McShane, ALL-KIDS, mother of Maximilian, 18, T-ALL with CNS <gmcshane@btinternet.com>
Richmond, North Yorkshire, United Kingdom - Tuesday, August 27, 2002 at 02:22 PM (CDT)
hello maryla, scott, cali, and to especially you, caedan. i'm so very happy that improvements are happening--keep up the good fight. the first time i met you,caedan- you were kicking a soccer ball the size of the earth at the caedan's wish barbeque. you were able to move that ball so well and i know you can kick this too... all our prayers and thoughts are with you. ps. lori wightman is at my house now and we are e-mailing together- so she doesn't need her own computer now-- take care
sue and joe mayrand, and our girls-kristin, jessica, melissa. and sara too <mayrand 6 @aol.com>
amherstburg, - Tuesday, August 27, 2002 at 11:08 AM (CDT)
Maryla, Scott, Caedan and Cali,
Good news! I'm still praying and remember even the tiniest steps forward are still steps FORWARD! Good thoughts of strength to all of you.
P.s. Mar, about that computer thing, maybe it's just a fad ...do you really think they are gonna catch on?
Love to you all, Lori

Lori Wightman
Amherstburg, - Tuesday, August 27, 2002 at 10:58 AM (CDT)
Maryla, I am constantly amazed at how you remain upbeat. You are a source of inspiration to the rest of us. You know that our thoughts and prayers are with you always.
Adele <adele.holmes@lhsc.on.ca>
London, Ontario, Ont. Canada - Tuesday, August 27, 2002 at 09:30 AM (CDT)
Dear Maryla and family: Continue with your up-beat spirit during this difficult time. May the love and support of your many friends give you strength, and may there be brighter days ahead for all of you real soon!
Mary Rooke <mary.rooke@lhsc.on.ca>
Ingersoll, Ontario - Tuesday, August 27, 2002 at 08:28 AM (CDT)
Glad that there is some improvment re: the ventiltor settings, hoping that you and Scott are getting enough rest so you both stay healthy, I'm still praying and so is Paige,Your baby Caeden will be healthy again soon!! Kim and Paige
Kim Cash <kimberlycash@sympatico.ca>
LaSalle, ont ca - Tuesday, August 27, 2002 at 07:45 AM (CDT)
I am continually amazed by Caedan's strength and determination, and the courage you show him and all of us. Know that you are all thought of constantly. If there is anything we can do for you from this end, please let us know.
Tracy M. <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Tuesday, August 27, 2002 at 07:27 AM (CDT)
Mar, Scott... You two have been incredible through out all of this. I know Caedan is strong because of you and will come out triumphant. Julia chatted with God last night and reminded me that God was Caedan's friend. From the mouth's of babes... Love you all. Lore, Dave and Julia
Lore <lore.wainwright@bell.ca>
London, CAN - Tuesday, August 27, 2002 at 06:45 AM (CDT)
Hi Maryla and Scott. I'm having one of those nights so thought I would take the opportunity to say hello again. Sounds as if the day continued to improve. I am thrilled! Thanks for updating your journal. You know how I am glued to it but please take the chance to sleep or go for a walk when you can. Please give Caedan a squeeze from his bud Josh. Talk to you soon xo Susan
Susan Robinson
London, - Tuesday, August 27, 2002 at 01:32 AM (CDT)
Maryla,

What can I say! You are the most amazing woman I know. i really appreciate your journal updates, I hate to call and bug people to find out how things are going. You seem to have a tremendous amount of support and prayers . Let Caedan know that when he is back on his feet, I will be up with his monthly magazine and some other treats.
(chocolate for mom as well) You could probably use it about now!! My heart goes out to you all, Best wishes and hope to see him back up on 7 West really soon.

Lois Grimes <childcan@lon.imag.net>
London, ON CAN - Monday, August 26, 2002 at 11:12 PM (CDT)
Hi Maryla! Was leaving children's emergency just now with Carter (don't worry) and saw Liz. She gave us Caedan's update and we, in turn, are sending our most heartfelt, loving prayers to all of you. Your journal entries leave me in awe of your magnificence as a mother and as a friend.
Love you, Mar, and love to Scott, Caedan and Cali...
Sue (plus Dave, Carter and Sam) P.S. told Carter about the "hi, hi!" story - he was delighted!

Susan Gray <sgray@fanshawec.ca>
London, ON Canada - Monday, August 26, 2002 at 10:04 PM (CDT)
Caedan sweetie!!!

You are gonna get rid of that darn ventilator! You are gonna be back to healthy very soon! We are all pulling for you in Oklahoma! Keep fighting sweetheart! We love you!

Cheryl <mmgal_martin@yahoo.com>
Tulsa, OK USA - Monday, August 26, 2002 at 09:02 PM (CDT)
When you are tired and discouraged
from fruitless efforts . . .
God knows how hard you have tried.
When you've cried so long
and your heart is in anguish . . .
God has counted your tears.
If you feel that your life is on hold
and time has passed you by . . .
God is waiting with you . . .
When you're lonely
and your friends are too busy
even for a phone call . . .
God is by your side.
When you think you've tried everything
and don't know where to turn . . .
God has a solution.
When nothing makes sense
and you are confused
or frustrated . . .
God has the answer.
If suddenly your outlook is brighter
and you find traces of hope . . .
God has whispered to you.
When things are going well
and you have much to be
thankful for . . .
God has blessed you.
When something joyful happens
and you are filled with awe . . .
God has smiled upon you.
When you have a purpose to fulfill
and a dream to follow . . .
God has opened your eyes
and called you by name.
Remember that wherever you are
or whatever you're facing . . .
God knows.
- Kelly D. Caron

Maryla - I hope this helps - you are constantly in my prayers.

Alice Friesen - mother to Alexandria (AML - remission March, 2002) <howahya89@yahoo.ca>
- Monday, August 26, 2002 at 08:54 PM (CDT)
Hi Maryla, Scott Cali and a big warm hello to Caedan! (wish we could send hugs through e-mail!) We just got back from our yearly trip to Ottawa & Quebec and were sorry to hear that Caedan has returned to the hospital. Dylan wants him to know that we thought about him a lot while we were away and we will continue to, now with added prayers. Please let us know if we can help at all! We are here if you need us! Beth, Pat, Dylan and Dawson (new e-mail address)
Beth Sutherland <bethcesutherland@sympatico.ca>
London, On Canada - Monday, August 26, 2002 at 08:28 PM (CDT)
Dear Maryla and Scott:
I am a friend of Kristyn and Mike's. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and Caedan.
Carol

Carol Powe
Centralia, On, - Monday, August 26, 2002 at 06:54 PM (CDT)
Great news,praying and thanking God for every small step forward.You are all in my thoughts Ipray you and Scott will maintain the strength you need to get through this.On my way to give Bob some good news.
Carol Mangin <smangin@mnsi,net>
LaSalle, - Monday, August 26, 2002 at 06:15 PM (CDT)
SOOOOO glad to hear of Caedan's slight improvement. We'll take ANY amount of improvement! We are continuing to pray for Caedan and keep good thoughts. Sending tight squeezy hugs of comfort to you Mar & Scott
Kellie, Gerard, Mallorie & Elise
LaSalle, - Monday, August 26, 2002 at 06:15 PM (CDT)
It was great to get your update. Your Fredericton family is thinking of you lots. Caedan sounds like such a cool kid. He was only 2 years old when I met him. I'd sure like to meet the legend again some day soon. P.S. Adele took four steps by herself today!
Nicole Desaulniers
Fredericton, N.B. - Monday, August 26, 2002 at 05:27 PM (CDT)
We are thinking and praying for you everyday.Caedan, keep digging deeper , and I know you will get through this bump in the road. You have been fighting hard for so long, I know you can do it. Remember we are survivors!! As soon as you are back up on 7, we are coming to see you. ~Keep Smiling~
Kaeleigh and Liz Barney <kaeleighbarney@yahoo.com>
Woodstock, Ontario Canada - Monday, August 26, 2002 at 05:17 PM (CDT)
Maryla and Scott,

Just in from the cottage and read the update. I was talking to your Aunt Mary Catherine a few minutes ago and she is praying so very hard for all of you. You are in our thoughts all the time.

Love, Aunt Helen

Helen Janssens <paul_h_janssens@hotmail.com>
fredericton, N.B. Canada - Monday, August 26, 2002 at 05:03 PM (CDT)
Dear Maryla & Scott,

I know you are running the gamut of emotions right now. So I want you to know that there are so many people who love & care about your family and are sending prayers for Caedan. I am so glad to hear of the improvement today. Caeden is no doubt a fighter!

God Bless,

Steven, Kelly, Sarah Anne & Emma Grace Hicks <hicks@cbse.uab.edu>
Birmingham, AL - Monday, August 26, 2002 at 04:43 PM (CDT)
Maryla thanks so much for keeping us updated! Caedan, your strength and determination is beyond belief. You are the type of kid songs are made of. Constantly in my thoughts and prayers. Constantly!
Tina Herzog
Windsor, - Monday, August 26, 2002 at 04:18 PM (CDT)
Keep fighting Tiggerman! I know that you will be bouncing in no time. Maryla if there is anything you need - help with Cali etc., just let me know.
Sending you lots fo good thoughts, Kate

Kate Lupson <slupson@rogers.com>
London, Ont Canada - Monday, August 26, 2002 at 04:04 PM (CDT)
I've just read the update - what good news!! All my love to you guys, we're keeping you in our thoughts.
Love, Annie and Charlyn <anniebowers@shaw.ca>
Victoria, BC Canada - Monday, August 26, 2002 at 03:56 PM (CDT)
Wow, All those Hail Mary's are helping. I'm soooooo glad. Actually, there are tears in my eyes as I type this. I have your mail and newspapers. The tomatoes are watered. Love you bunches. Caedan, you are just so amazing. Keep up the good work. Mrs. K. says hi too!
Tracy B. <bestbet@sympatico.ca>
- Monday, August 26, 2002 at 03:06 PM (CDT)
Maryla, Scott and Cali
What an amazing kid! So nice to hear you are able to breath a little easier! One may question God's will during times like these, but He sees a bigger picture than we do, in that Caedan was blessed with two very loving, brave and strong parents to help him in his journey.

Thinking of you all minute by minute.
Shannon Taylor

Shannon <staylor@wecas.on.ca>
Windsor, on - Monday, August 26, 2002 at 02:58 PM (CDT)
Maryla & Scott keep climbing up that mountain. Our prayers are being heard. Maryla all of my thoughts and hopes are focused on your family. Alexander has participated in our family prayers focusing on Caedan's needs and he sends his love to Caedan. The prayers will not stop and the hope has no limits.

Love, Tami, Jonathan, Alexander & Max

Tami Watchurst: mom to Alexander: 9 yrs: High Risk A.L.L. o/t: 98-09-10: currently in remission <leapco@auracom.com>
Orangeville, Ontario Canada - Monday, August 26, 2002 at 02:56 PM (CDT)
Just read the update... Gotta a big smile on my face now!Caedan you are one amazing trooper! Keep up the good work. Maryla, Scott and Cali you guys are in the dictionary for the definition of the word "family" and "support". You have been there for Caedan from day one. Through good and bad. We are so proud of you all for helping get Caedan to this point. Love is very powerful medicine. You guys keep up the good work too! :)

Not a minute goes by that we do not think of you all. Praying for more good news to come soon. Take care!

Still sending lots of hugs full of strength.

Kristyn
Mt. Carmel, - Monday, August 26, 2002 at 02:44 PM (CDT)
Caeden and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. It's amazing how so much strength and courage can exist in one small child - and his family. There are people across the globe pushing for your son to come out on top of this beastly disease! Stay strong and don't be afraid to lean on others when your strength is drained. I hope one day your thoughts and time will be spent getting Caeden ready for his first date, his drivers license, graduation, etc. and not on hopsitals, PICU, and chemotherapy.
wishing peace of mind and body for your son

Dana
NY, NY USA - Monday, August 26, 2002 at 02:22 PM (CDT)
So sorry for all that you are going through. I just wanted to let you know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Debbie Stiers Blain ( Sandy's sister in B.C.)

Debbie Stiers Blain <Debralyn@hotmail.com>
White Rock, B.C. Canada - Monday, August 26, 2002 at 01:35 PM (CDT)
Hi,
Just checked in after being away for a while and cannot believe so much has happened so fast. Keep strong. Lots of love coming your way.

Debbie, Graham and Callum <debbiedonnison@aol.com>
Dorchester, Dorset UK - Monday, August 26, 2002 at 12:37 PM (CDT)
Hello Maryla,
My name is Lauren, I am Jen Fisher's partner (and Noah's hairy aunty). I just wanted to send you a message of love, strength and courage for Caeden and your family, our prayers are with you.

Lauren Howes <laurenhowes@hotmail.com>
Vancouver, BC - Monday, August 26, 2002 at 12:20 PM (CDT)
Hang in there Caedan!

Prayers, love and best wishes from Oklahoma. We are here for you! You are not alone.

Cheryl <mmgal_martin@yahoo.com>
Tulsa, OK USA - Monday, August 26, 2002 at 12:03 PM (CDT)
Hello, I wanted to let you know my love and prayers are with ya. I have been carrying this picture of Caedan around with me he's about 7 and he is doing this great lions roar, full of life and ferocious! Its my favorite. I am praying for you all and for Caedan's amazing strength.
love jen fisher

Jennifer Fisher <laurenhowes@hotmail.com>
Vancouver, BC - Monday, August 26, 2002 at 12:01 PM (CDT)
Hey guys,
Just wanted to let you know, we are still praying and thinking of you all. Stay strong. Love to all of you and thoughts of health and strength to Caedan.
P.S. I think the librarian is starting to wonder about me.

Lori Wightman
Amherstburg, - Monday, August 26, 2002 at 11:14 AM (CDT)
Maryla - please update us when you can. We are all praying for you guys and Caedan's rapid return to good health.
Chris
Gooch's Site
<chrisrusso_@hotmail.com>
- Monday, August 26, 2002 at 10:34 AM (CDT)
Maryla; All of my thoughts and love to you. Stay strong, think positive. PCCU is an amazing place with miracles happening every day.
Caedan, buddy; keep up your strength and courage, we love you. Sharon,Martin, Ryan and Mitchell

Sharon Butler <but7@rogers.com>
Stratford, ON Canada - Monday, August 26, 2002 at 08:49 AM (CDT)
Caedan and Family,
Praying for you here in Montana, keep up the fight.

Janna
Whitefish, MT - Monday, August 26, 2002 at 08:40 AM (CDT)
Prayers being sent from Indiana. I pray for a change for the better soon.
God Bless!

Sheila
Peru, IN USA - Monday, August 26, 2002 at 07:43 AM (CDT)
Caedan, when you get better and are able to read this, I just wanted you to know that as of today, people visited your site to check and see how you were doing 37,305 times. Wow! With your strength & will, your parents love & devotion, and our hope & prayers - we can move mountains.
Keep up the fight.

Sandy and John Bolton <jandsbolton@aol.com>
Amherstburg, - Monday, August 26, 2002 at 07:24 AM (CDT)
Maryla, my every thought is of you and Caedan. Prayers are constant. With love all things are possible.

Tami, Jonathan, Alexander & Max

Tami Watchurst: mom to Alexander: 9 yrs: Pre-B Cell High Risk A.L.L. o/t 98-09-10: currently in remission <leapco@auracom.com>
Orangeville, Ontario Canada - Monday, August 26, 2002 at 07:10 AM (CDT)
Hi Caedan, Maryla, Scott and Cali,
We're all praying and hoping for you here on the court. I'll water the tomatoes today and keep an eye on the place. Mrs. Kravitz is here so don't you worry. You just take care of yourselves. Caedan, when you get home, I have a hilarious story about me and a squirrel! But Scott, be warned, I may need you to represent me! We love you all and you are in our thoughts and prayers. I wake up in the morning thinking of you, think of you throughout the day, and dream about you in my sleep. Cali, if you're up for it, I'll take you to the barn with me for a pony ride this week..

Anyhow, take care. We're all praying for you.

Love you!

Tracy B <bestbet@sympatico.ca>
London, On Ca - Monday, August 26, 2002 at 05:59 AM (CDT)
May the Lord substain you and keep you safe. I pray that you will be able to feel his peace and love. Also that all of these prayers, thoughts and well wishes will bring about healing. Thinking of you and adding you to my prayer list. With ALL my love.
Nicole Beard Montgomery <speedracer24@casscomm.com>
Beardstown, IL - Sunday, August 25, 2002 at 02:15 PM (CDT)
Continuing to think of you all. Sending prayers and love...
Tracy M. <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Sunday, August 25, 2002 at 02:07 PM (CDT)
Maryla Scott, Cali and Caedan
Thinking of you daily, hourly and by the minute. I will keep in touch with Janet, and please remember I am only 2 hours away if you need me.

Carol Mangin <smangin@mnsi.net>
LaSalle, ON Canada - Sunday, August 25, 2002 at 11:16 AM (CDT)
Maryla,
Praying that this Sunday morning finds your family experiencing hope and the Lord healing Caedan,
Jehanne

Jehanne Henry <bobandjehanne@aol.com>
Camp Verde, AZ usa - Sunday, August 25, 2002 at 11:08 AM (CDT)
I cant even believe you are using the words dire straits, he was doigng so well I just dont understand where all this is coming from... I hope and pray you are getting a break and some sleep and things take a huge turn upwards very soon.

Chris
Gooch's Site
<chrisrusso_@hotmail.com>
- Sunday, August 25, 2002 at 10:11 AM (CDT)
Maryla,Scott,Calli and especially Caedan!Hope and prayers are being sent minute by minute from us.We are hopeful with even little improvements in Caedan`s condition.Keep up your strength Maryla and call on your friends for help.
Jennifer,Doug,Alex and Ben <douglas.harrison@3web.net>
London, - Sunday, August 25, 2002 at 10:02 AM (CDT)
You're all in our thoughts and prayers........to give you strength and for Caedan to be relieved of this latest setback and up & about real soon!
Take care & BIG, MAJOR CUDDLES to you all, especially Caedan!
Love, Liz & her precious gang, from Down Under.
XO XO XO XO XO

the Cruickshank family <meajbc@bigpond.com>
Melbourne, Vic. Australia - Sunday, August 25, 2002 at 08:34 AM (CDT)
Hi dear friends! On Tuesday we saw Cadaen's name on the door in PMDU. On Thurs. we had to go back for a repeat cycl.blood test and asked to talk with you on 7th when we were told the very disappointing news. On your web you asked for anyone to water the tomatoes and flowers. When we were at London on Tues. God watered them for you as it rained. May it remind us God is watching out for Cadaen and all of us. He does care for the pain even though we will not try to understand how He permits it all. Words are so hard to use in times as this but God reads out hearts and can meet our greatests in spirit. Much Love, Joshua and his parents, Leonard and Lucille
Leonard & Lucille Weber <phil.ber@sympatico.com>
West Montrose, ON Canada - Sunday, August 25, 2002 at 08:12 AM (CDT)
Maryla, you and Caedan were my final thoughts before falling asleep last night and upon my waking this morning. We are praying my friend, as this is one way that we can actively participate in your battle. Thank you for taking the time to update the site, I have been checking it every hour for news.

You have our love and prayers for Caedan to become strong enough to keep climbing up that mountain. He is an amazing little boy, and how could he not be.....he came from you. {{{{{{{{{{{{{{{Maryla & Caedan}}}}}}}}}}}}}

Love, Tami, Jonathan, Alexander & Max

Tami Watchurst (mom to Alexander 9 yrs O/t High Risk A.L.L. currently in remission)
orangeville, Ontario Canada - Sunday, August 25, 2002 at 06:08 AM (CDT)
Hi Caedan, Maryla, Scott and Cali,
We haven't met in person, but I somehow feel a strong bond to you all, because our sons, Mike and Caedan have become so close (Mike refers to Caedan as his fourth brother).
Mike speaks of Caedan with such admiration, respect and love. "He's the neatest kid I've ever met, he's wise way beyond his years and he has the most amazing sense of humour."
It sounds to me that he has inherited his amazing strength of character and qualities from truly remarkable parents.
I want to thank you for your incredible thoughtfulness tonight at my birthday dinner - the champagne was enjoyed by all and when it was time to make my birthday wish - believe me, every ounce of my being went out to a very special boy.
Caedan, keep up the fight.
Our love and thoughts are always with you.
With our very best wishes and thanks again,
Karen, Jon, Mike, Jay, Ant and Matt Ginsburg

Karen Ginsburg <jon.ginsburg@sympatico.ca>
Grimsby, Ont Canada - Saturday, August 24, 2002 at 10:52 PM (CDT)
Maryla and Scott, I'm still praying, I know that Dina is down and that is great support for you , although I also know she wouldn't be there if things were improving. Stay strong both of you pray hard and know that many many will pray with you and for you love Kim and Paige. P.S. your brother is worrying and will come when needed.
kimberly <kimberlycash@sympatico.ca>
LaSalle, ony Canada - Saturday, August 24, 2002 at 07:58 PM (CDT)
{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{Maryla}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}

We are praying, my on-line support group members are praying, we are all sending you our positive energy, our strength to support you through this horrendous obstacle on your journey up that mountain. Even when you think that you are not strong enough to keep climbing you will be....your love for your child will give you that strength.

Love is the Best Medicine of all.

Tami

Tami Watchurst (mom to Alexander 9 yrs O/t High Risk A.L.L. currently in remission)
orangeville, Ontario Canada - Saturday, August 24, 2002 at 05:56 PM (CDT)
Hi Gallagher Family,
Just letting you know that you are in my thoughts. Caedan is strong ( just like his parents) so I know he will beat this!
Hugs and Prayers, Kate

Kate Lupson <slupson@rogers.com>
London, Ont Canada - Saturday, August 24, 2002 at 04:26 PM (CDT)
Maryla, Scott, Cali and Caedan,
Faith and Love, Mar, these two things are coming at your family in waves and waves. Keep fighting Caedan, you CAN do this! XOXOXO & lots of prayers

Lori Wightman
- Saturday, August 24, 2002 at 02:47 PM (CDT)
I'm sorry to hear things are so hard right now. Know that you're in my thoughts and prayers. Blessings!
Khalita <khalita.jones@duke.edu>
Durham, NC - Saturday, August 24, 2002 at 02:15 PM (CDT)
Dear Maryla, we are thinking of you constantly. We're sending many, many hugs. Tell Caedan we love him.
Love, Annie, Charlyn, Marian, Cory and Robyn <anniebowers@shaw.ca>
Victoria, BC Canada - Saturday, August 24, 2002 at 11:23 AM (CDT)
Hi I'm a friend of Shannon Taylor and I wanted you to know that she brought me to your sight. You are truely a strong lady.Your family must be very proud as i know Shannon is.keep srong and know that you and your family are in our prayes.God bless your little Caedan.
Missy Baker <mbaker322@cogeco.ca>
Windsor, on Canada - Saturday, August 24, 2002 at 10:58 AM (CDT)
To Caeden,
Hi buddy you dont know me but I just wanted to let you know that your an inspriation to alot of people and your my personal hero. My prayers are with you Caeden. I speak for all the people from Full Throttle Racing League we are with you.

Love, Chad (Mokey_FTRL)

Chad Stacey <mokeyftrl@hotmail.com>
Wilmnigton, DE New Castle - Saturday, August 24, 2002 at 09:39 AM (CDT)
Maryla, Scott and sweet Cali, Thinking of your family and sending you love and strength. Remembering what Caedan said, your hugs are his best medicine!
Lisa <Hawthorn@motionlink.net>
London, Ont Canada - Saturday, August 24, 2002 at 07:30 AM (CDT)
Hello dear friends,
I hope Caedan's night was a good one. I hope you and Scott were able to catch some zzz's too. You all need to keep up your strength. Like everyone else you are in our thoughts and prayers. We love you to pieces! I'm sure you may need a couple more hugs since I saw you on Thursday.....so here you go. XXXXXXXXXXOOOOOOOOO I look forward to when I can give them to you in person. Please tell Janet we're home all weekend. Take care of you. God bless.

Lori Sashegyi (Mom of Angel Gillian and Little Isabel) <lnh.sashegyi@sympatico.ca>
London, On - Saturday, August 24, 2002 at 06:59 AM (CDT)
Hi Gallaghers, just know that I am thinking of you all. Keep strong and give Caedan's head a rub for me.

Jennifer - Level 7 nurse
London, On - Friday, August 23, 2002 at 10:43 PM (CDT)
You don't know me but you have hit the Nascar boards. Great friends to have. I will pray for your family. God Bless You buddy. You hang in there ;-) Love, MG24
Margaret
Charlotte, NC USA - Friday, August 23, 2002 at 09:36 PM (CDT)
Maryla, my thoughts and prayers have been focused on you all day. I have asked my on-line support group for prayers for Caedan tonight. We are all with you, you are not alone. Checking the site for the latest update and pouring my heart into prayers for your beautiful child.

Love is the Best Medicine of all.

Tami

Tami Watchurst (mom to Alexander 9 yrs O/t High Risk A.L.L. currently in remission)
orangeville, Ontario Canada - Friday, August 23, 2002 at 09:31 PM (CDT)
Maryla, Scott and little Cali, not a minute goes by these days that I have not thought of you. My heart aches with your fears and sadness. I am hoping and praying that Caedan you will have the strength to continue your fight against this monster. You, big guy, are one amazing kid! Keep up the good work. We are rooting for you.

Lots and lots of hugs, strength and courage are being sent your way. Take care!

Love, Kristyn, Mike and boys

Kristyn, Mike and boys
- Friday, August 23, 2002 at 07:17 PM (CDT)
Hey Maryla, Scott, Caedan, and Cali
Thinking of you all from morning until night! My mom and dad send their love. Please dont hesitate to call if you need anything, I'm just a phone call away. Need laundry done, or if you want a home cooked meal delivered to you at no extra charge- I'm there. Thanks so much for keeping us all posted. Caedan, you are our hero!!!!! Lots of love to you all.
Liz, Ramon, Andrew, Jordan, Olivia, and Allison

Liz Pache
- Friday, August 23, 2002 at 07:11 PM (CDT)
Prayers for Caedan!


Cheryl <mmgal_martin@yahoo.com>
Tulsa, OK USA - Friday, August 23, 2002 at 06:31 PM (CDT)
Maryla we are all praying for him

Chris
Gooch's Site

- Friday, August 23, 2002 at 05:57 PM (CDT)
Hey, my name is Courtney and I also have ALL, im 15, jus wanna let u kno that I'm praying for you xox
Courtney <angel_in_yur_dreams@hotmail.com>
- Friday, August 23, 2002 at 05:19 PM (CDT)
I can't believe it,This has come up so fast! Please know that we are praying for Caedan's healing.

Your Friends,

Hicks Family <hicks@cbse.uab.edu>
Birmingham, AL - Friday, August 23, 2002 at 05:10 PM (CDT)
My heart goes out to you all. I will be saying a special prayer for Caedan.
Hugs and Prayers,

Dawn Gresham (Tommy's Mom ALL-Kids) <bdmtg@hotmail.com >
Warrenville, SC - Friday, August 23, 2002 at 02:36 PM (CDT)
Thinking of you often. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Janice Kucy <kucyj@lhsc.on.ca>
London, Ont Canada - Friday, August 23, 2002 at 01:45 PM (CDT)
Thinking of you all, and keeping you in our prayers.
Tracy & Carol Mangin <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Friday, August 23, 2002 at 01:16 PM (CDT)
Thinking of you guys and praying that things will get better soon. Hang in there!

God bless,

Lisa Agee (www.caringbridge.com/page/ross) <lagee67@hotmail.com>
Camden, AL - Friday, August 23, 2002 at 08:33 AM (CDT)
Holds you hand in silent prayer........God Bless.
Judy (mom of Angel-Dustin & Tyler) <chaz2765@yahoo.com>
Chatham, ON Canada - Friday, August 23, 2002 at 07:12 AM (CDT)
Scott, Maryla and Cali,
We are all praying for you and sending you all of our love! Caedan is a tough little guy and we all know he will overcome this. Please let us know what we can do.

Rod, Jackie, Chris and Julia <jrajan@rogers.com>
London, ON/Atholville, NB , - Friday, August 23, 2002 at 06:24 AM (CDT)
{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{Maryla & Caedan}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}

Maryla, I am sitting here at 5:00 a.m. reading your site before I head off to work. My heart feels like it is going to hit the floor and my eyes are filled with tears after reading your last two posts. I will storm the heavens with prayers for a turn-a-round for your beautiful child. This damn BEAST digs it's talons in and slithers away and then without warning pounces at you once again. I HATE THIS DAMN DISEASE!!!!! I have been reading your updates and letting the family know what is happening. Jonathan and I had just looked at the lastest photos a few days back and we were so happy that Caedan was able to be participating with friends finally. And now this. This is so unfair. Stupid statement I know, but it is so unfair. Caedan, our little friend we are going to shake up the heavens with prayers for your body to rebound and get stronger. ENOUGH ALREADY IS RIGHT.

Maryla, my heart, prayers, hopes and dreams are all focused on you and your child and your family right now. You are not alone. I want you to get that Mother's Day Beanie Buddy that I gave you and hold it in your arms and then close your eyes. That is me holding you my friend. I am afraid for you because of what is happening. There are not enough words in the English language to describe the emotions running rampant through you right now my dear friend, of this I am sure. You are not alone, there are so many friends out here praying for you and your prescious son. Prayers are constant. Love is forever.

Tami, Jonathan, Alexander & Max xxxx oooo

Tami Watchurst (mom to Alexander 9 yrs O/t High Risk A.L.L. currently in remission)
orangeville, Ontario Canada - Friday, August 23, 2002 at 04:16 AM (CDT)
Exactly at this time after BMT Pascale got very sick and we almost lost her but God gave us a miracle.Keep hope and ask for your miracle.We are praying very strongly.
sylvie carpentier <carpe18@mschn.com>
columbia , mo us - Thursday, August 22, 2002 at 09:52 PM (CDT)
Darn it! I'm so sorry to hear about all the trouble. I will step up the prayer once again. Know that you're thought about, prayed for and loved. HUGS!
Khalita <khalita.jones@duke.edu>
Durham, NC - Thursday, August 22, 2002 at 09:50 PM (CDT)
Maryla & family,

Dillon and I had a long hug and prayed strongly for Caedan to recover from yet another setback. We keep you in our thoughts and cross our fingers and toes.

Hugs from the Cordiners

Kelly, Dillon, Josh & John <kbcor@sympatico.ca>
London, On Canada - Thursday, August 22, 2002 at 09:20 PM (CDT)
Maryla, Scott & Caedan,
Keep up the strength and courage. Our thoughts and wishes for a speedy recovery are with you all.

Todd Klingbyle <tklingbyle@cogeco.ca>
Windsor, ON Canada - Thursday, August 22, 2002 at 07:34 PM (CDT)
Dear Gallaghers,
Maryla, don't you even think about anything but being strong for Caedan. Leave the worrying to the rest of us. Of course, you are all in our thoughts and prayers all the time.
Keep your faith and that will see you through this setback. Caedan is a remarkable boy.
Love and prayers and hugs,
John, Sharon, Trevor and Cody Simpson

Sharon Simpson <john.simpson6@sympatico.ca>
Windsor, ON Canada - Thursday, August 22, 2002 at 06:37 PM (CDT)
Maryla, Scott, Caedan and Cali,
Charlyn and I are sending our love. You are constantly in our thoughts.

Love, Annie <anniebowers@shaw.ca>
Victoria, BC - Thursday, August 22, 2002 at 06:18 PM (CDT)
Dear Caedan, Maryla, Scott and Cali,

I want you to know that your family here in Fredericton are praying for all of you. You are constantly in our thoughts. We send you our love.

God Bless you all. Aunt Helen


Helen Janssens <paul_h_janssens@hotmail.com>
fredericton, N.B. Canada - Thursday, August 22, 2002 at 05:32 PM (CDT)
Maryla, Scott, Caedan and Cali

You are all in my thoughts and prayers.


Shannon Taylor (Mangin) <staylor@wecas.on.ca>
- Thursday, August 22, 2002 at 02:46 PM (CDT)
hi auntie maryla and uncle scott and caedan and cali i just heard about caedan and im very sorry im sure caedan will pull himself together and be all write im praying very hard for him and miss him.Know for cali,hi cali its paige it must be tuff for you that your brother is in the hospital but understand that he will be all write and make sure that you keep your mom calm and focosed[parden my spelling]anyways its tuff on your mom so you be a good girl ok. i love you lots everybody.paige
paige bb <paigebb@sympatico.ca>
LaSalle, Ont. Canada - Thursday, August 22, 2002 at 02:45 PM (CDT)
Marly and Scott, I just heard about Caeden and we are praying very, very, hard. Paige is very concerned and I will keep her posted. Let us know if you need us. We are keeping all of you especially Caeden in our hearts. be brave , stay focused he will pull throgh!!! Kim and Paige
kim Cash <kimberlycash@sympatico.ca>
Lasalle, ont canada - Thursday, August 22, 2002 at 02:38 PM (CDT)
Oh My God Maryla. I havent checked in on you in a couple of days, not many at all, so was SHOCKED to read all of this. I am so sorry this hurdle has popped up, and am praying all is well. Please try to be strong and let all of us do the worrying.

Chris
Gooch's Site
<chrisrusso_@hotmail.com>
- Thursday, August 22, 2002 at 12:51 PM (CDT)
Maryla you are an amazing person. Caedan could not have come this far without you. He will make it through this obstacle with you by his side. We're worrying and praying extra hard right now so you can concentrate on getting him through it. Tell him we are thinking of him always, and are so proud of him.

Lots of hugs and courage are being sent your way!

Take care!


Kristyn <kristynd@ettravel.com>
Mt. Carmel, On Canada - Thursday, August 22, 2002 at 09:58 AM (CDT)
Maryla I am available any time and on call 24 hours a day if you need me. Please call.

Love, Liz

Liz Pache
Exeter, - Thursday, August 22, 2002 at 09:50 AM (CDT)
Maryla, Scott, Caedan and Cali,
I just heard the news and am praying like you wouldn't believe. If there is anything I can do don't hesitate. Know that you are in my thoughts every second. Hang in there Caedan!

Lori Wightman
Amherstburg, - Thursday, August 22, 2002 at 09:19 AM (CDT)
Maryla,

Our thoughts and prayers are with you everyday. Love Dee, Kev and boys

Dee Petrozzi <petrozzi@mnsi.net>
Amherstburg, - Thursday, August 22, 2002 at 08:37 AM (CDT)
Maryla & Scott. I can be anywhere you need me in about 20 minutes. I'm on vacation next week and Cody & Kyle are at day camp. I'm here and saying my prayers.
Tracy <bestbet@sympatico.ca>
London, On CA - Thursday, August 22, 2002 at 07:37 AM (CDT)
Mar & Scott
I can be there Thurs. night & Fri. if you need anything.

Kellie
LaSalle, - Thursday, August 22, 2002 at 07:20 AM (CDT)
Maryla

I want so bad to reach out and hug you so tight, honey I am so sorry that this is happening to Caedan. He is in the best place he can be. They are an amazing group of medical professionals both medically and emotionally. Caedan is in my prayers sweetie. *HUGS* If I was able too, I would come to London to just sit with you, to hold your hand. I am not able too. My older son Ty underwent emergency surgery yesterday(wed). With the passing of Dustin, and Tylers emergency surgery, the overwheling feelings caused me to passed out in the recovery room and I remain feeling not so well. Maryla, I am with you in spirit honey, stay strong. We all Love you and your family.
Love Judy

Judy <chaz2765@yahoo.com>
Chatham, ON Canada - Thursday, August 22, 2002 at 06:39 AM (CDT)
I just want to write to tell you that Caedan and your entire family are being sent extra prayers for strength, hope and a positive recovery. Please remember that a lot of folks are praying for Caedan so try to let us worry and you just stay with Caedan and talk to him and hold his hand.
Have faith!!

Erin Foy www.caringbridge.com/ct/kelly
Berlin, CT - Thursday, August 22, 2002 at 06:09 AM (CDT)
Maryla, Scott, Caedan and Cali
Every ounce of strength, love and encouragement are being sent your way. I only wish there was something more I could offer to all of you, especially Caedan. Our prayers are with you and lots of love.


Lori Sashegyi <lnh.sashegyi@sympatico.ca>
London, ON Canada - Wednesday, August 21, 2002 at 10:44 PM (CDT)
Hey Caedan/Maryla/Scott/Cali:
We are out here in Vancouver thinking about you all and praying for Caedan. We're so sorry about the news and are sending you strength and hope.
Caedan:
I'll tell you what, you get yourself better and you can have that blue train of mine. Okay? Deal.

Lots of love

Uncle John, Aunt Christie and Cousin Noah
Vancouver, BC - Wednesday, August 21, 2002 at 10:23 PM (CDT)
Dear, dear Maryla - how I wish I was close enough to water the tomato garden! I'm sorry to hear that Caedan had to be admitted. I hope it's a passing thing and he'll be home again very soon.
All my love, Annie <anniebowers@shaw.ca>
Victoria, BC - Wednesday, August 21, 2002 at 12:23 PM (CDT)
Darn those germs!

Keep your chin up guys. You'll get thru this one too. It's just hard when you really wanna be discharged. Take care.

Cheryl <mmgal_martin@yahoo.com>
Tulsa, OK USA - Wednesday, August 21, 2002 at 09:34 AM (CDT)
I am so bummed out!- YOU have come so far. Are you and Mike taking turns at holding down the fort in the hospital? You leave he comes in. He leaves you come in. What's up?

On a serious note though... we know you will get through this too Caedan. Just keep plugging away big guy. It's just a little bump in the road. We're thinking of you and singing the "stay away, we don't want any bugs" song. (we were singing that when Mike was in the hospital too)

Take care!

Krsityn Darling
Mt. Carmel, On Canada - Wednesday, August 21, 2002 at 09:03 AM (CDT)
I am thinking about you. Call me if you need anything. I'm available evenings too. I can do anything to help.

Love Liz

Liz Pache
Exeter, - Wednesday, August 21, 2002 at 08:44 AM (CDT)
Sorry to hear you're inpatient again! I hope there's no nasty bugs, the temp stays down and you can break out of there soon!
Sending positive thoughts from afar.
Love & cuddles,
Liz, Murray, Adam, Joshua & Bethany XO XO XO XO XO

the Cruickshank family <meajbc@bigpond.com>
Melbourne, Vic. Australia - Wednesday, August 21, 2002 at 06:20 AM (CDT)
Dang! I am so sorry Caedan has been admitted. But with a fever it must be so. Hope the fever is GONE and you are home in a couple days. I'll keep praying for that until I hear the word that you are HOME AGAIN!
Amy & Rosie Rumberger <TimRumb@aol.com>
Alameda, CA USA - Tuesday, August 20, 2002 at 08:41 PM (CDT)
Hi Caedan;
What a bummer to be back in hospital! Keep up the fight Caedan. Sending you squeezy hugs and good thoughts to come home soon.

The Drouillard Family
LaSalle, - Tuesday, August 20, 2002 at 07:36 PM (CDT)
Hi Caedan,

Gosh we are all sorry here in Fredders that you are back in hospital. Hopefully that darn old bug will be caught and you will be out and about soon.

Love Great Aunt Helen

Helen Janssens <paul_h_janssens@hotmail.com>
fredericton, N.B. Canada - Tuesday, August 20, 2002 at 06:47 PM (CDT)
Hi Caedan,
Hang in there buddy, and keep your chin up! We're praying that it goes down as suddenly as it came up! Stay strong.
Love, Dina

Dina Kenkel <erabankers@aol.com>
West Bloomfield, Mi U.S.A - Tuesday, August 20, 2002 at 06:26 PM (CDT)
Hey Cadean!!
Sorry to hear about the fever, I hope it goes away soon, and you get out of there. I know exactly what those fevers are all about, they are a real pain, that is one thing I know for sure. Well keep up the fight, and keep smiling. From: *Kaeleigh*

*Kaeleigh* <kaeleighbarney@yahoo.com>
Woodstock, Canada - Tuesday, August 20, 2002 at 04:28 PM (CDT)
Darn those fevers!
Keep up the strength, Caedan.
Just kick that 'ole fever in the butt and get outta that silly old hospital bed in a jiffy.

John and Sandy Bolton
Amehrstburg, ON - Tuesday, August 20, 2002 at 03:49 PM (CDT)
Hi Caedan and family
Wanted to say hello from Fredericton. Glad your strength is improving. Must feel great to be more independent. Speaking of independence, my little girl, Adele, is starting to take a few walking steps alone. Problem is that once she realizes she's done it, she won't try again for a few days! Very stubborn.
We were very sorry to hear about your friend Dustin. I hope you find comfort in talking with your family and knowing how lucky you were to have known him.
Love,Cousin Nicole

Nicole Desaulniers
FREDERICTON, N.B. - Monday, August 19, 2002 at 06:42 PM (CDT)
hi caden, hope you are getting swimming in at your neigbours. Thought I would drop you a line or two . Paige is busy and growing taller by the minuet. she will be writing soon. Kim $ (paige's mom)
kimberly Cash <kimberlycash@sympatico.ca>
ls salle, ont. canada - Monday, August 19, 2002 at 07:04 AM (CDT)
Caedan,
I'm so sorry to hear about your friend Dustin. Sometimes things happen that we can't explain and that makes us feel really scared and sad. The thing is, we're not supposed to understand everything....we just have to trust in God. I'm praying for you guys.

Love,

Lisa Agee (www.caringbridge.com/page/ross) <lagee67@hotmail.com>
Camden, AL - Sunday, August 18, 2002 at 11:30 AM (CDT)
Hey Caedan,

It's Sandra from Camp Trillium. I haven't seen you in awhile so I was just emailing a quick hello. I hope everything is going great and that you're enjoying your time at home. I was with your mom on tuesday and she was telling us all about the stuff you're doing with Mike.. It sounds like you're having tons of fun. Well hopefully I'll be able to catch up with you one day in clinic, but til then take care and have fun.

Sandra

Sandra Magalhaes
London, ont. Canada - Thursday, August 15, 2002 at 02:24 PM (CDT)
Hi Caedan,
We are very sorry to hear the sad news about Dustin. It is so hard to lose a friend and always seems especially unfair when they are young like Dustin. We're sending you a great big hug and our sympathies.

Much love to you,
Uncle JOhn and Aunt Christie and Noah
(lots of love to Cali and Scott and Maryla, too)

Christie and John
- Thursday, August 15, 2002 at 12:05 AM (CDT)
Dearest Caedan, we are so very sorry to hear of the loss of your pal, Dustin. We hope you have happy memories of your good friend that will last a lifetime.
Our thoughts are with you today and always.

John and Sandy Bolton
Amherstburg, ON - Wednesday, August 14, 2002 at 09:59 AM (CDT)
Dear Caedan,
I heard about how much you love basketball. That is so cool.I am into basketball myself and i play for a team at my school. Well keep being strong. Sincerely, Danielle
Age 13

Danielle Brewster <d_brewser@hotmail.com>
- Tuesday, August 13, 2002 at 10:25 PM (CDT)
Dear Caedan,
I heard about how much you love basketball. That is so cool.I am into basketball myself and i play for a team at my school. Well keep being strong. Sincerely, Danielle
Age 13

Danielle Brewster <d_breser@hotmail.com>
- Tuesday, August 13, 2002 at 10:25 PM (CDT)
Dearest Caedan,

We were very sorry to hear about the loss of your friend Dustin and send you our love and sympathy at this very difficult time.

Love, Great Aunt Helen, Great Uncle Paul and Ryan.

Helen Janssens
fredericton, N.B. Canada - Tuesday, August 13, 2002 at 08:21 PM (CDT)
CAEDAN; I AM REALLY SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT THE LOSS OF YOUR FRIEND DUSTIN. MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH HIS FAMILY AS WELL AS WITH YOU AND YOURS.
KAREN GORZA <m.k.gorza@rogers.com>
INGERSOLL, ON CANADA - Tuesday, August 13, 2002 at 07:48 PM (CDT)
I am so sorry to hear about Dustin. Sending extra hugs and keeping Dustin's family in my prayers and Caedan as always.
Kellie Drouillard
LaSalle, - Tuesday, August 13, 2002 at 02:55 PM (CDT)
So sorry to hear about Dustin earning his wings. Judy and family will be in our prayers. Try to keep your chin up during these difficult days. Stay strong. God bless you.
Amy & Rosie Rumberger (ALLKIDS) <TimRumb@aol.com>
Alameda, CA USA - Tuesday, August 13, 2002 at 01:07 PM (CDT)
Hello...I just wanted to say a big hello from Smile Quilts. We are a group of ladies who stitch virtual quilts for children. When you have a moment to spare please stop by Smile Quilts and have a look around. We would love to make your child a Smile Quilt of their very own.
Sincerely,
The Quilting Angel's

Quilting Angel Island Princess <mooks@bellsouth.net>
- Monday, August 12, 2002 at 02:34 PM (CDT)
Dearest Caedan and family,

I am so terribly sorry to hear about your friend Dustin. Dustin's family as well as yours will be in my prayers and thoughts.

Love you!

Tina Herzog

Tina Herzog <tina.herzog@sympatico.ca>
Windsor, Ont - Monday, August 12, 2002 at 11:52 AM (CDT)
Sending extra warm thoughts and hugs on these more difficult days.
Tracy M. <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Monday, August 12, 2002 at 07:37 AM (CDT)
Caedan and family,

Found your site on Goochie's page. Prayers for your friend Dustin and family. Prayers for you and yours also!

Cheryl <mmgal_martin@yahoo.com>
Tulsa, OK USA - Sunday, August 11, 2002 at 05:48 PM (CDT)
Hi Maryla and family ~
It is wonderful to hear how Caedan's strength is improving and that your family is having such a good summer! Ah, drive-in movies are the best, aren't they? We try to go when it's not too HOT here in the desert of Las Vegas!! We will say an extra prayer for your friend Dustin tonight. And of course, we are keeping all of you in our thoughts and prayers always.
Take care ~
Love,
Bill, Stacey, Bryce, and Chad Wada (age 10, dx ALL 9-19-00)

The Wada Family <SLW6204@aol.com>
Las Vegas, NV USA - Sunday, August 11, 2002 at 11:55 AM (CDT)
Hello Caedan. I'm glad to hear that you're having a good summer. It's just getting better and better! Marian sends a hug!
Love, Aunt Annie <anniebowers@shaw.ca>
Victoria, BC Canada - Friday, August 09, 2002 at 11:34 AM (CDT)
I'm doing the neutrophil dance down here, just in case. Glad to hear you are enjoying the summer! My sister has been talking about going up to the drive in soon, so I'm glad to hear you've been enjoying it too! Have a great week!
Tracy M. <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Wednesday, August 07, 2002 at 07:28 AM (CDT)
Hi Caedan!
Just sitting around resting today, and thought I would sign your guestbook. I am glad to hear that you are doing well, and hope to see you in PMDU soon.
~Kaeleigh~
P.S.-My hair is coming in really curly, and dark.

Kaeleigh <kaeleighbarney@yahoo.ca>
Woodstock, Canada - Tuesday, August 06, 2002 at 03:21 PM (CDT)
Hello Gallaghers, Great to hear the good news continues....Wow, you guys in London have drive-in movies - none in Windsor anymore. Anyhow all the best wishes in the world from my family to yours xoxo P.S. I hope you got your b-day card Mar, remember September 12!!!!
Lori Wightman
Amherstburg, on Canada - Tuesday, August 06, 2002 at 09:47 AM (CDT)
Maryla and Caedan, So happy to read that you were out and about. That totally makes my day. Rosie is well at 4 months OT and heading for her LAST LP (God willing!) this month. I check the website often and you are always in my thoughts and prayers. So glad things have been going smoother. Take care and hope you get more outings!
Amy & Rosie Rumberger (ALLKIDS) <TimRumb@aol.com>
Alameda, CA USA - Monday, August 05, 2002 at 07:23 PM (CDT)
It sounds like you are having a great time being home. Mike, the boys and I are always checking in to see how you are doing. We must say you are doing fantastic. Keep up the good work!

Here's to keeping the germs away and boosting up the neutrophils!

Kristyn <Kd.mail@sympatico.ca>
Mt. Carmel, On Canada - Sunday, August 04, 2002 at 01:18 PM (CDT)
well, i just added the same thing twice.....i need sleep nite nite
tired
sleeping, zzz asleep - Wednesday, July 31, 2002 at 12:44 AM (CDT)
k Bubba McCasha, heres the stuff i got done tonite......im too tired seeing as how i have to be up early tomorrow to do anymore so i'll need tomorrow nite and probably thursday nite to have a real "bomber" done! but so far so good...and dont worry about the text under the pics.....im gonna change all of that to make it way ezier to read...seeyainafewhoursyadoin!
ole man midnight aka vampire jr. brother of ole man winter aka vampire senior.....oh yeah the site....right right...
http://members.rogers.com/caedster1/

Marty McFly
the future, bttf the future - Wednesday, July 31, 2002 at 12:43 AM (CDT)
k Bubba McCasha, heres the stuff i got done tonite......im too tired seeing as how i have to be up early tomorrow to do anymore so i'll need tomorrow nite and probably thursday nite to have a real "bomber" done! but so far so good...and dont worry about the text under the pics.....im gonna change all of that to make it way ezier to read...seeyainafewhoursyadoin!
ole man midnight aka vampire jr. brother of ole man winter aka vampire senior.....oh yeah the site....right right...
http://members.rogers.com/caedster1/

Marty McFly
the future, bttf the future - Wednesday, July 31, 2002 at 12:42 AM (CDT)
Big smiles and sighs of relief from the Boltons. Gotta love those happy entries!!
Sending lots of love your way...

John and Sandy Bolton
Amherstburg, ON - Tuesday, July 30, 2002 at 06:53 AM (CDT)
Great about the walks Mar! I'd love to take Caedan out some evening or whatever time. I'm a qualified walker, myself (Officially Certified!). Julia's first movie was Spirit on Friday. She was horrified, became catotonic scared. Her granny took her to Stuart Little the following day to redeem the pasttime. Hope Caedan enjoyed as much a Julia. What is it about 2 year-old and bed? I hear ya! Love to all, the Wainwrights.
Lore W
London, - Monday, July 29, 2002 at 08:48 AM (CDT)
Wow Caedan, sounds like you are having a fun summer!! Glad to hear you are feeling good and congrats on being strong enough to tackle all those stairs. Enjoy your summer filled with sleepovers, walks, friends and family.
We miss you lots here on the floor but of course it's nice not to see you at the same time.
Keep up the the beautiful art work....you are a very talented young man!!
love ya and thinking of ya

Heather and all the other 7 west nurses
- Sunday, July 28, 2002 at 10:48 PM (CDT)
Sleepovers and drive ins??? Who would have thunk? Great news Caedan - you're getting better all the time!
Maryla - if no news is good news, I'd be happy if you never had to post here again! Wait - maybe I wouldn't...kinda like being able to keep up with all of you. I guess once a week works well.
Enjoy yourselves, summer will be over before you know it!

Tracy M
Windsor, ON Canada - Saturday, July 27, 2002 at 04:58 PM (CDT)
just checking in to see how you all are doing
Caedan seems to be getting stronger and stronger by the day
Thank God


Chris
chrisrusso_@hotmail.com
Gooch's Site
- Saturday, July 27, 2002 at 11:21 AM (CDT)
Hello to all of the Gallaghers
We haven't been in touch for a while but please remember we think and speak about you often. Glad Caeden is doing well!
Best wishes to all! And Happy Birthday(s)! Mine was the 20th of July. I guess all the great people are born in this month!!!!!!!
Mary Lou Lyttle and Robyn

Mary Lou Lyttle
London, ONt Canada - Friday, July 26, 2002 at 09:30 AM (CDT)
Talk me through your dentist adventures - I go in 2 weeks for my annual(!) checkup. And come visit again, eh?
rr

Rick Rice
Victoria, BC Canada, eh? - Thursday, July 25, 2002 at 12:19 PM (CDT)
I've been visiting the dentist lately too. Know what? I've never liked them much either....but I seemed to have found a really good one this time. Hope you didn't mind your visit too much - and I hope the Sensodyne does the trick!
Tracy M
Windsor, ON Canada - Wednesday, July 24, 2002 at 06:44 PM (CDT)
Gallaghers

It is so nice to check for an update without holding my breath. Glad to hear that everyone is enjoying your time together. Praying that there are no more hospital stays for a very long time.

Shannon Taylor (Mangin)
- Wednesday, July 24, 2002 at 08:42 AM (CDT)
Caedan

Sensodyne works great. I use it all the time.

Glad to hear everyone is enjoying the summer

Sandy Schram
London, Ont Canada - Tuesday, July 23, 2002 at 02:07 PM (CDT)
Very happy to hear you had a good birthday week/weekend. Seems to be settling down for you guys for a change. Glad to see that too!!

Tracy M
Windsor, ON Canada - Monday, July 22, 2002 at 02:59 PM (CDT)
Hi Caedan,
'Just thought I'd check in and say "Hi". I hope you are stretching your artistic side with a little drawing and painting in this sticky heat. I am. It will be great to see you again in September.
Fondly,
Mrs. I.

S. Inwood
London, Ont. Canada - Sunday, July 21, 2002 at 09:43 PM (CDT)
Maryla & Scott - Happy belated birthdays!! And Caedan..that was a neat idea to make a t-shirt design on the computer. I hope all is well for you guys..I think and pray for you all the time.
God bless,

Lisa Agee (www.caringbridge.com/page/ross)
Camden, AL - Sunday, July 21, 2002 at 08:51 PM (CDT)
Hi Caedan,

What a neat gift you gave your Dad for his birthday. Please give your MOM and DAD Belated Birthday Greetings - I've been at my cottage quite a bit lately - so missed the big days. "HAPPY BIRTHDAY MARYLA AND SCOTT".

Love Great Aunt Helen

Helen Janssens
fredericton, N.B. Canada - Saturday, July 20, 2002 at 08:12 AM (CDT)
HAPPY BIRTHDAY SCOTT. hope you get to enjoy at least some of it in your own special way. many happy returns.
tom & carol mangin
lasalle, ont. canada - Friday, July 19, 2002 at 07:30 PM (CDT)
Happy Birthday to Scott, Happy Birthday to Scott, Happy Birthday to Scott, Happy Birthday to Scott!

GREAT to hear that Mr. Caedan is still making improvements. And I bet he's happy to have some company from Paige!! Hope you all enjoy the weekend, and celebrate those birthdays until someone tells you it's time to stop!!

Tracy M.
Windsor, ON Canada - Friday, July 19, 2002 at 07:37 AM (CDT)
Hope you guys are enjoying the weekend. I think you should celebrate Mom's birthday UNTIL Dad's.
And HAPPY BIRTHDAY SCOTT!!! by the way!

Chris & Gooch
Gooch’s Page

- Friday, July 19, 2002 at 01:21 AM (CDT)
To a very special lady, a Happy Belated Birthday wish. You are one of a kind Maryla!!!!!

Love Sue

Sue Thiessen
Aylmer, - Wednesday, July 17, 2002 at 01:40 PM (CDT)
Why would Scott think you are shameless using this web page - Lord knows you used the LHSC staff wide email system when at work!!!!!!
Belated Happy Birthday wishes....any luck on setting a time for lunch yet.

Marguerite
Grand Bend, On Canada - Wednesday, July 17, 2002 at 09:12 AM (CDT)
Happy Birthday dear friend Maryla!!!! You share this day with my husband Jonathan!!!!! He turns 39 years young today!!!!! Blessing to you my friend from the Watchurst Family xoxoxoxoxo
Tami Watchurst (mom to Alexander: 9 yrs: High Risk A.L.L. o/t 98-09-10: currently in remission!) <leapco@auracom.com>
Orangeville, Ontario Canada - Tuesday, July 16, 2002 at 12:45 PM (CDT)
Happy Birthday to Maryla!!!!. Hope you enjoy your special day. Hello to Caedan, enjoy your magazine I left you.I will bring you a new one next month again. Enjoy the beautiful weather.
Lois Grimes <childcan@lon.imag.net>
London, ON Canada - Tuesday, July 16, 2002 at 10:52 AM (CDT)
Happy Birthday to you, happy birthday to you, happy birthday dear Maryla, happy birthday to you!!!
Hope all your wishes come true!

Tracy M. <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Tuesday, July 16, 2002 at 09:35 AM (CDT)
Hey Caedan! Just wanted to let you know that we are all on the mend here. I'm over my cold and Dawson is in the sniffle stage. Pat and Dylan managed to dodge the cold bug. Dylan is at camp this week. 6 days and 5 nights! We really miss him, but I'm sure he's having fun and not missing us (as much). Tonight they sleep out under the stars, so let's hope the bugs and skunks stay away! He'll call you on the weekend. Take care
Beth, Pat, Dylan and Dawson <bsutherland@introtel.com>
London, On Canada - Tuesday, July 16, 2002 at 09:10 AM (CDT)
Hey Mom,
HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!! Blow out the candles and we pray with all our might that you get your wish!! Tell Dad Happy Birthday too (in case we count the days wrong!)
Give Caedan and Cali big hugs from web-friends in Connecticut (isn't Gooch's site a God-send??) Hope you get to have another uneventful week, despite daily housekeeping, and that the only real effort this week is cleaning up the wrapping paper and envelopes from all the wonderful cards and presents you received!

Erin Foy www.caringbridge.com/ct/kelly <tekm@attbi.com>
Berlin, CT - Monday, July 15, 2002 at 10:28 PM (CDT)
Hi Caedan,phew that was hard I finally spelled your name right! I hope your feeling good. We have the internet, now you can e-mail me! See you soon.
Dylan D <luckystrike@rogers.com>
London, Canada - Monday, July 15, 2002 at 08:11 PM (CDT)
Caedan
You won't know who I am, but Kristyn has told me how brave you are. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Your mom has been a big help to Kristyn. I want to thank her for that. Take care - do as you are told and you will finally beat this.

Pat

Pat Darling <pdarling@uwo.ca>
London, Ontario Canada - Monday, July 15, 2002 at 11:30 AM (CDT)
So happy to read you are all home together and all is running fairly smoothly for you!
You're SO right.......NURSES ARE ANGELS!
Caedan you're a CHAMPION and a *STAR*!!
Love & cuddles to one & all!

Liz, Murray, Adam (10), Joshua (7) & Bethany (4)
XO XO XO XO XO

the Cruickshank family (ALL-KIDS) <meajbc@bigpond.com>
Melbourne, Vic. Australia - Sunday, July 14, 2002 at 10:49 PM (CDT)
Hi there! Was glad to read things are still uneventful for you all. Even happier to see that Caedan has been getting in touch with his friends a bit.
Tell Scott that if 2 people ever deserved to get spoiled rotten for your birthdays, it's you two! Shameless advertisements are required to keep us all in the loop! Here's hoping for another uneventful week, and more time spend with friends.

Tracy M. <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Sunday, July 14, 2002 at 03:17 PM (CDT)
Hi Caedan, we are so happy to hear you are spending more time at home, Cali must be head over heels with excitement! Mar, I know what your birthday wish is & I wish I could grant it for you. HAPPY BIRTHDAY.
The Drouillards <gman@jet2.net>
LaSalle, - Sunday, July 14, 2002 at 07:48 AM (CDT)
Well tell Scott if you didnt advertise your birthday on here, he'd probably forget it! Sorry Scott but we gotta stick together....
Glad to hear all is well with Caedan!!!!!!

Chris & Gooch
Gooch’s Page
<chrisrusso_@hotmail.com>
- Saturday, July 13, 2002 at 10:31 PM (CDT)
Happy Birthday to you, Happy Birthday to you. Happy Birthday to Maryla. Happy Birthday to you. Hope you have a wonderful day!!!!

Hey Caedan you are doing super. Keep up the good work. Talk to you guys later.



Kristyn Darling <kristynd@ettravel.com>
Mt. Carmel, On Canada - Saturday, July 13, 2002 at 12:41 PM (CDT)
Okay already we can take a hint! HAPPY BIRTHDAY MARYLA!!!!
Hope all is well there and you gusy are enjoying the weekend!!!!!

Chris & Gooch
Gooch’s Page
<chrisrusso_@hotmail.com>
- Saturday, July 13, 2002 at 12:05 AM (CDT)
Hi Caedan!

I am glad you are doing well at home. I was just wondering if you have counted all your beanie babies yet? I don't know if I told you about a web site with games on it that you might enjoy. It's called coffee break arcade. Take care and I just wanted you to know I was thinking about you and your family.

Cathie

P.S. The drive in has some good kid movies coming and you get to stay in your car .

Maryla- the kids are free there, you just pay for the adults and through the week it is not as busy . They also have a website under the Mustang Drive In London where you can preview what is coming up! Have fun!

Cathie Crawford <cathiecrawford@hotmail.com>
Belmont, Ontario Canada - Friday, July 12, 2002 at 05:40 AM (CDT)
You are reading our thoughts Maryla!!!! I kept checking the web page and saying to myself that no news is good news, and I just read your words with a smile and a feeling of relief and thankfulness. BORING IS GOOD!!!!! One day a week, Praise God. We just dropped Alexander off at Rainbow Lake for residential camp on Monday. I envision next summer when Caedan and Alexander can be together at Camp Trillium. Prayers for healing and strength are with you always. Love, Tami
Tami Watchurst (mom to Alexander 9 yrs O/t High Risk A.L.L. currently in remission) <leapco@auracom.com>
Orangeville, Ontario Canada - Wednesday, July 10, 2002 at 04:43 PM (CDT)
Ahhh, dishes! Bet you are enjoying doing them like never before!!
(at home, in your PJs, with everyone under one roof!)
Glad to hear all is well....
I'll have a piece of cake for you this weekend. How does chocolate/peanut butter ice cream cake sound??? MMmmmmm Baskin Robbins.... (drool)

Sandy Bolton <jandsbolton@aol.com>
Amherstburg, ON - Wednesday, July 10, 2002 at 07:51 AM (CDT)
Glad to hear things have taken a turn for the better. So, have you made a birthday list yet, or should everyone just guess??

Tracy M. <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Wednesday, July 10, 2002 at 07:32 AM (CDT)
Maryla you are too much.
And THANK GOD no news is good news, lets keep it that way!!!

Chris & Gooch
Gooch’s Page
<chrisrusso_@hotmail.com>
- Tuesday, July 09, 2002 at 11:18 PM (CDT)
Hey Guys, Great to hear that the Blood drive went well. We were all on holidays or would have made it.
Smiles and hugs to all

love sharon

Sharon Butler <but7@rogers.com>
Stratford, On Canada - Monday, July 08, 2002 at 10:21 AM (CDT)
HI Caedan and family- glad to hear that the car wash and blood drive were a success! And a decrease in prednisone is always good news!!!!!!!!
I check in on you guys every so often to see how thing are going-glad to see that they are going well.
Happy birthday to you. Happy birthday to you. Happy birthday dear Maryla, Happy birthday to you!!!!!!!!!!
Hugs,

Heather Kline, Mommy to Brianna (All-Kids) www.caringbridge.com/ny/mylittlesunshine <quen1472@aol.com>
Syracuse, NY USA - Monday, July 08, 2002 at 07:07 AM (CDT)
I am so glad that Cadean is home and doing GREAT!!! Way to go Cadean! Happy Fourth of July (even if you are up north LOL).
Renee Curkendall

www.caringbridge.com/ny/my2angels <RCurk@aol.com>
Liverpool, ny - Saturday, July 06, 2002 at 09:50 PM (CDT)
Hi Caedan and family,
It's Nicole Desaulniers from Fredericton (a cousin of your dad's). My mom's computer is on the fritz so I'm sending regards and encouragement from the both of us. She has really missed keeping up to date. Now that I have the website I'll keep her posted on your progress. We are all thinking of you back East, including my little girl, Adele Rose, who now crawls and stands and says "uh-oh". She just had her first birthday.What a year. Great web-site. All my love,
cousin Nicole

Nicole Desaulniers <nicoledesaulniers@hotmail.com>
F, - Saturday, July 06, 2002 at 02:19 PM (CDT)
Hello Gallaghers!
I just returned from vacation, and see that you all have had a "vacation" of sorts as well! I hope you enjoyed your time with Paige and Pruitt. Sounds like you did.
It was such a treat to be able to see you last week after the blood drive Caedan. And an even better treat to read that they are bringing down those steroid levels!!
Here's hoping that today finds you feeling marvelous!

Tracy M. <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Saturday, July 06, 2002 at 11:36 AM (CDT)
Hi Caedan! How are you doing? I'm doing good. So I hear that you are finally home, I bet you are very happy about that. I know I was, when I came home for good. I'm off to camp trillium for the first time on July 8-July 19. I have never been there before but I hear it's really fun! Anyway I hope you keep doing well, and I'll be thinking of you. Take Care. Your friend,
~Kaeleigh~

kaeleigh <kaeleighbarney@yahoo.com>
Woodstock, Canada - Thursday, July 04, 2002 at 01:11 PM (CDT)
HIP HIP HOORAY!!!
Glad to hear the blood drive and car wash was a success!!
Before you know it, Caedan, you'll be up and about again - with all these friends and well wishes, I just know it will happen soon!
Mar, wonderful b-day entry! HA HA HA You know I think of the old days every month of July. Celebrate with as much chocolate as your tummy desires. I still think LaSalle ice cream parlor and Gunnings variety (holy cow, I remembered that name) miss our business. You me and Heather Williams (another shocking memory)with every penny of our allowance.
As for the entry below - guess I need to call Miss Lori more often, huh?
Take good care, love you all!

Sandy Bolton <jandsbolton@aol.com>
Amherstburg, ON, - Wednesday, July 03, 2002 at 07:18 AM (CDT)
HEY GALLAGHERS!!!
I just stopped in at the library(groan!) and thought I'd check in on how you are all doing. Imagine my total happiness to discover that you are all together at home. Caedan, you truly continue to amaze me, actually you all amaze me. Keep up the good work and enjoy every victory!!
Lots of best wishes...Lori Wightman (P.S. I had to borrow Sandy's e-mail address...thanks San)

Lori Wightman <jandsbolton@aol.com>
amherstburg, ON Canada - Tuesday, July 02, 2002 at 10:20 AM (CDT)
WOW, what a day! I was so thrilled to be able to be a part of it! I enjoyed seeing you at the clinic. I was also very proud of my co-workers at Compass Group Canada. For a company of that size it always amazes me how they really come together when it counts. I'm sorry I missed Scott but I'm sure I'll see him cutting the lawn this weekend. I can hardly wait to see Caedan in his new t-shirt. Love you tons!!!!!!
Tracy B <bestbet@sympatico.ca>
London, ON Canada - Friday, June 28, 2002 at 09:10 PM (CDT)
I am so glad you guys are home
and PRAY you never see the inside of a stinking hospital again!

Chris & Gooch
Gooch’s Page
c <chrisrusso_@hotmail.com>
- Friday, June 28, 2002 at 06:35 PM (CDT)
Hi Caedan,
Sorry to hear about you relapse. I think our dads went to the same school. Ask him if he remembers a John Creighton, the high school he went to was A.B. Lucas in London, Ontario.
We all live in Revelstoke B.C. now.
Love to hear back from you anytime.
-Nikki Creigthon

Nikki Creighton <nikki_creighton@hotmail.com>
Revelstoke, BC Canada! - Friday, June 28, 2002 at 04:10 PM (CDT)
Hello Caedan and Family,

It was wonderful to see you at the Blood clinic this morning. Have a great weekend everyone!

Sandy Schram <growingconcern@hotmail.com>
london, ont canada - Friday, June 28, 2002 at 01:43 PM (CDT)
Maryla, Caedan, and family ~
WELCOME HOME!!!!!!!!
Oh what great news!! We are so thrilled to hear that Caedan is doing well and you are all back under one roof again. (But how did you lug all those huge puzzles home without them falling apart??)
Sending lots of love, prayers, and good wishes for some relaxing and fun times at HOME SWEET HOME!!
Love ~
Stacey and Chad Wada

Stacey and Chad Wada <SLW6204@aol.com>
Las Vegas, NV USA - Wednesday, June 26, 2002 at 08:30 PM (CDT)
I check in on Caeden from time to time to make sure that he is doing okay. My oldest son is the same age as Caeden and I know how precious children are to their parents and the fact that having them sick; makes parents feel helpless and alone. But you are not alone...our prayers are with you all and enjoy your precious time at home.
Rankin Family (Shareacard)
Allan, Tina, Nathan (8), Sammy (5)
Jonesborough Tennessee

Tina Rankin <rankin4@prodigy.net>
Jonesborough, TN United States - Wednesday, June 26, 2002 at 09:21 AM (CDT)
Hi there:

We finally found Caedan's web page....Glad to hear that you are all at home....Daniel sends his very best to his old bud....

Susan, Ken, Daniel, & Miranda

Susan Pigott <pigotts@lhsc.on.ca>
London, Ont Canada - Tuesday, June 25, 2002 at 08:45 PM (CDT)
I'm sure "Home sweet home" takes on a whole new meaning!!

I can only imagine how excited Cali is!! Thanks for making my week.

Lots of love,

Tina

Tina Herzog <tina.herzog@sympatico.ca>
- Tuesday, June 25, 2002 at 01:17 PM (CDT)
Doing the happy dance for you here in Orangeville!!!!!!! Home Sweet Home!!!!! It has been a long time coming for all of you, so happy to read that post Maryla, short and very sweet indeed. Prayers that your stay at home is peaceful and uneventful. BORING IS GOOD! Love, The Watchurst Family (Tami, Jonathan, Alexander & Max) xxxx oooo
Tami Watchurst (mom to Alexander - 9 years A.L.L. o.t. 98-09-10) <leapco@auracom.com>
Orangeville, Ontario Canada - Tuesday, June 25, 2002 at 12:46 PM (CDT)
Doing the happy dance for you here in Orangeville!!!!!!! Home Sweet Home!!!!! It has been a long time coming for all of you, so happy to read that post Maryla, short and very sweet indeed. Prayers that your stay at home is peaceful and uneventful. BORING IS GOOD! Love, The Watchurst Family (Tami, Jonathan, Alexander & Max) xxxx oooo
Tami Watchurst (mom to Alexander - 9 years A.L.L. o.t. 98-09-10) <leapco@auracom.com>
Orangeville, Ontario Canada - Tuesday, June 25, 2002 at 12:46 PM (CDT)
We're so glad you're home.....we're so glad you're home.....we're so glad you're home....we're so glad you're home.....hey kiddo have I mentioned we're so glad you're home??!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! How were the beans??
Lori, Hube and Little Bel oxox <lnh.sashegyi@sympatico.ca>
London, ON - Tuesday, June 25, 2002 at 12:32 PM (CDT)
HOME! That is the entry I have been waiting so long to see! The Rumbergers are overjoyed that you are all under one roof again! Yeehaw! This is a GREAT day! Thanks so much!
Amy & Rosie Rumberger & Family <TimRumb@aol.com>
Alameda, CA USA - Tuesday, June 25, 2002 at 11:48 AM (CDT)
What wonderful news! Enjoy your time at home, and hopefully Caeden's clinic visits will be kept to a minimum. Please continue to keep us posted!
Mary Rooke <mary.rooke@lhsc.on.ca>
Ingersoll, Ontario - Tuesday, June 25, 2002 at 07:45 AM (CDT)
YYYYYYYYYAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!
Tracy M. <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Tuesday, June 25, 2002 at 07:31 AM (CDT)
Finally!!!! Cody, Kyle and Indigo were wondering when you would get home. Glad to know you're home.
Tracy Besterd <bestbet@sympatico.ca>
London, ON Canada - Tuesday, June 25, 2002 at 07:30 AM (CDT)
Ah, the simples things in life.
Enjoy the home time. Enjoy waking up and having breakfast with the whole family. Enjoy a mid day nap. Enjoy a fun TV show with the kids. Enjoy watching the sunset from your back yard. Enjoy your own bed. Enjoy the sounds of both kids together under one roof as they doze off for the night.
Enjoy Enjoy Enjoy. and then smile.:)

Sandy Bolton <jandsbolton@aol.com>
Amherstburg, ON - Tuesday, June 25, 2002 at 07:14 AM (CDT)
Caedan!! Maryla!!
what's been going on you guys?!? i'm out of touch for a few weeks and the next thing I know, Caedan is up walking around, going for car rides, sleeping at home ... I can't keep up! you go for it Caedan! I'm sure you are SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO happy to be back home!! (and so is mom, i bet!!)
Mar - sorry I've been out of touch. I got a phone call to start a f/t job the day after i saw you - life hasn't stopped since then .... so glad about you guys being home though. (((((( BIG HUGS )))))) to all!!!
xoxoxo
Troy et famille

Troy <troy@bay-net.on.ca>
- Monday, June 24, 2002 at 11:05 PM (CDT)
YEAHOOOOO! Everyone sleeping under one roof. Keep up the fight Caedan. We're still sending daily prayers your way.
The Drouillards <gman@jet2.net>
LaSalle, - Monday, June 24, 2002 at 08:43 PM (CDT)
Yes!!! Yes!!! Yes!!! We're so glad to hear you are going to be back home with the little monkey who loves you so much, and your Mom and Dad, all together. Here's wishing you a really nice summer that will just keep getting better and better.
Waterloo Gang <hbyc7@rogers.com>
- Monday, June 24, 2002 at 06:07 PM (CDT)
Way to go Caedan! We are so happy for you!!! You just made my day with your news. I can't stop smiling. We told you to be outta there by the time Mike returns and it looks like you're doing it. Mike returns Wednesday for his next round of chemo. Enjoy being home with your family.
Kristyn Darling <kristynd@ettravel.com>
Mt. Carmel, On Canada - Monday, June 24, 2002 at 10:03 AM (CDT)
Okay, you did it. You've started my WEEK with the happiest news I can imagine. Congrats to you all - turn off the phone, close the drapes and ENJOY!!!
Tracy M. <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Monday, June 24, 2002 at 07:38 AM (CDT)
I check on your sweet Caedan regularly and it is great news to read you're heading home for good! What a little (BIG!) CHAMPION he is! Keep up the great work of getting better Caedan! You're a *STAR*!
Big cuddles to one & all, from afar!
Liz & gang, from Down Under XO XO XO XO XO

the Cruickshank family (ALL-KIDS) <meajbc@bigpond.com>
Melbourne, Vic. Australia - Sunday, June 23, 2002 at 10:55 PM (CDT)
Caedan,

Well Holy Mackeral you are going home and are we ever "HAPPY". Your Great Aunt Mary's computer is still broken(personally I think she should invest in a new one). What do you think? She is so very, very, glad that you will be going home soon.

Say Hi to your Mom and Dad and your little sister Cali. I bet they are just jumping for joy.

Love from all of us,

Great Aunt Helen


Helen Janssens <paul_h_janssens@hotmail.com>
fredericton, N.B. Canada - Sunday, June 23, 2002 at 05:28 PM (CDT)
A RETURN HOME? AMEN!!!!!!!!`
Chris <chrisrusso_@hotmail.com>
- Friday, June 21, 2002 at 10:25 PM (CDT)
Hello everyone: I am very glad to hear that things are finally looking up for you. I hope that everything continues to go forward. Take care and best wishes to you all.



Karen Gorza < m.k.gorza@rogers.com>
ingersoll, ont canada - Friday, June 21, 2002 at 07:44 PM (CDT)
YEAH CAEDAN!!!!! We were at Dawson's SK graduation today and Mr. A and I were just talking about how great it will be to have Caedan at home, and now it's coming true! WE ARE SO HAPPY FOR YOUR NEWS! Beth, Pat, Dylan and Dawson
Beth Sutherland <bsutherland@introtel.com>
London, On Canada - Friday, June 21, 2002 at 01:34 PM (CDT)
Smiling from ear to ear down here! That's twice this week you've started my day with a smile....gonna be a tough week to follow for you. Looking forward to more good news really really soon.
Tracy M. <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Friday, June 21, 2002 at 10:53 AM (CDT)
Oh my gosh, Mar, you'll be going home??? I am overjoyed for you and Caedan and Scott and Cali!!
BIG SMILES. BIG HUGS. BIG SIGH OF RELIEF.


Sandy Bolton <jandsbolton@aol.com>
Amherstburg, - Friday, June 21, 2002 at 06:57 AM (CDT)
Hi Maryla and Caedan (Scott and Cali too!) Glad to hear you are getting some quality time at home Caedan. (as Dorothy would say "There's no place like home") Maryla, I think I'm going to use that shopping model the next time Dawson needs shoes - maybe there is a business/service in this concept!

Even though Dylan likes school, he is counting the days to get out! I remember that feeling! He's going to camp Kee-mo-kee for 5 nights this summer (big stretch for him, but I think he'll do fine!) Dawson is looking forward to Cali's sleep over - so we'll have to get that in this summer, if she's comfortable with it.

Pat's been talking to lots of parents for the car wash for Caedan's Blood Doner Clinic! So he'll update you later. Just wanted to say Hi. Beth, Pat, Dylan and Dawson

Beth Sutherland <bsutherland@introtel.com>
London, on Canada - Thursday, June 20, 2002 at 09:40 AM (CDT)
GREAT way to start the day! Sounds like you all had a great Father's Day Weekend. Anytime you want to start my day with good news, please feel free. See you in a week - with any luck Caedan will be at home!
Tracy M. <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Thursday, June 20, 2002 at 07:28 AM (CDT)
Helloooooo
None of us could have asked for a more beautiful day than today at the Teddy Bear Picnic!! We sure had an awesome time. Such a treat for our kids to be outside feeling the wind in their hair(it is growing back) and the warm sun on their skin. It was soooo good to see you Maryla and Caedan. Dustin beamed when he saw Caedan. It reminds him that he is not the only little boy recovering from a Bone Marrow Transplant. I can only hope and pray that they will have the opportunity to enjoy many many more such wonderful days as today. You keep getting better Caedan, we want to see you back at the P.M.D.U. a.s.a.p!!!!

*BIG HUGS*

Judy & Dustin (A.L.L. April 1997, Relapsed A.L.L. June 2001, BMT January 2002) <chaz2765@yahoo.com>
Chatham, On Canada - Wednesday, June 19, 2002 at 07:21 PM (CDT)
What a great way to shop!! This opens the flood gate for kids and husbands everywhere who hate being dragged around stores looking for things they don't realize they want! I'm glad you got new sandals and slippers though, Caedan. You'll need those when you get home and have to keep up to (or away from) Cali! Stay focused on getting released from the hospital.
Jenn and Dan Friesen <tallerthanbob@hotmail.com>
- Wednesday, June 19, 2002 at 10:15 AM (CDT)
Yahoo! Sounds like the journey up that hill is going a bit better for each of you Maryla, I am so glad. Sounds like quite the shopping expedition as well, nothing like new shoes to make you feel better eh? Oh yeah that only works for females doesn't it! (LOL). Fingers and toes crossed for Homecare to get in gear to help you make that discharge home a reality. Love and Prayers as always to Caedan, Maryla, Cali & Scott.

The Watchurst Family (Tami, Jonathan, Alexander & Max) xxxx oooo

Tami Watchurst (mom to Alexander: 9 yrs: O/t high Risk A.L.L. ) <leapco@auracom.com>
Orangeville, Ontario Canada - Wednesday, June 19, 2002 at 10:15 AM (CDT)
Yahoo! Sounds like the journey up that hill is going a bit better for each of you Maryla, I am so glad. Sounds like quite the shopping expedition as well, nothing like new shoes to make you feel better eh? Oh yeah that only works for females doesn't it! (LOL). Fingers and toes crossed for Homecare to get in gear to help you make that discharge home a reality. Love and Prayers as always to Caedan, Maryla, Cali & Scott.

The Watchurst Family (Tami, Jonathan, Alexander & Max) xxxx oooo

Tami Watchurst (mom to Alexander: 9 yrs: O/t high Risk A.L.L. ) <leapco@auracom.com>
Orangeville, Ontario Canada - Wednesday, June 19, 2002 at 10:13 AM (CDT)
Yahoo! Sounds like the journey up that hill is going a bit better for each of you Maryla, I am so glad. Sounds like quite the shopping expedition as well, nothing like new shoes to make you feel better eh? Oh yeah that only works for females doesn't it! (LOL). Fingers and toes crossed for Homecare to get in gear to help you make that discharge home a reality. Love and Prayers as always to Caedan, Maryla, Cali & Scott.

The Watchurst Family (Tami, Jonathan, Alexander & Max) xxxx oooo

Tami Watchurst (mom to Alexander: 9 yrs: O/t high Risk A.L.L. ) <leapco@auracom.com>
Orangeville, Ontario Canada - Wednesday, June 19, 2002 at 10:13 AM (CDT)
Yahoo! Sounds like the journey up that hill is going a bit better for each of you Maryla, I am so glad. Sounds like quite the shopping expedition as well, nothing like new shoes to make you feel better eh? Oh yeah that only works for females doesn't it! (LOL). Fingers and toes crossed for Homecare to get in gear to help you make that discharge home a reality. Love and Prayers as always to Caedan, Maryla, Cali & Scott.

The Watchurst Family (Tami, Jonathan, Alexander & Max) xxxx oooo

Tami Watchurst (mom to Alexander: 9 yrs: O/t high Risk A.L.L. ) <leapco@auracom.com>
Orangeville, Ontario Canada - Wednesday, June 19, 2002 at 10:13 AM (CDT)
Well, Caedan, Miss Dina beat me to the punch on this one. She sure is an early bird, isn't she?
Ditto from me! I love starting my day with wonderful news such as this! I hope the next post tells us you are comfy at home!
Keep up the strength and keep smilin'!

Sandy Bolton <jandsbolton@aol.com>
Amherstburg, - Wednesday, June 19, 2002 at 07:11 AM (CDT)
Well look at you go Caedan!! Another AOL and you squeeze in a shopping trip! I love starting my day with this kind of news! We can't wait till you all are HOME!!!
Love you,
Dina, Matt, Patrick, Stephen and Sarah

Dina kenkel <erabankers@aol.com>
West Bloomfield, Mi U.S.A - Wednesday, June 19, 2002 at 06:29 AM (CDT)
We're keeping our fingers crossed that you get out of 'Club Med' really soon. Have you been watching the World Cup Soccer Series? Our guys are cheering for England ;-) and (past tense) Italy :-(
Waterloo Gang <hbyc7@rogers.com>
- Tuesday, June 18, 2002 at 10:31 PM (CDT)
Hi Caedan,Maryla,Scott and Cali, We are thinking of you and praying everything is going well. We are due back in London on July 3rd for the starting of Andrews fourth round of chemo. I will pop up and say hello. All of you keep the faith and god bless.
Ray, Debbe and Andrew Tousignant <rayalan@sympatico.ca>
Leamington, Ont Canada - Monday, June 17, 2002 at 03:55 PM (CDT)
Good afternoon Caedan, Cali, Maryla and Scott
Happy Father's Day to you!! I'm so pleased to hear of your recent LOA and hot tub adventure!! You all need a little R&R, good for you treating yourselves. I looking forward to hearing that you will be coming home soon Caedan. Keep smiling kiddo! We're sending hugs your way.
P.S. Mar how about a quick Seb's date??!! Keep it in mind. Hope to see you soon.

Lori, Hube and Isabel <lnh.sashegyi@sympatico.ca>
London , ON - Sunday, June 16, 2002 at 04:19 PM (CDT)
Hi guys,
hope you guys are all doing well and looking forward to release date, and enjoying the weekend
and a HAPPY FATHER'S DAY to you know who!

Chris
Gooch’s Page
<chrisrusso_@hotmail.com>
- Friday, June 14, 2002 at 11:52 PM (CDT)
Hello Caedan, Maryla, Cali and Scott

How about that hot tub! Hope you enjoyed some good relaxation. Glad to hear that Caedan is getting home for a even a few hours and looking forward to more. I am amazed at your ingenuity... the games and puzzles, homemade bread, that always conjures up good thoughts.


Here's a few for you!
What do clouds weear under their clothes?
Thunderwear!

Seven is an odd number. So how do you make seven even?

Take away the S.

Thinking of you often.



Mary , Blair and Matt Robertson <maryerobertson@canada.com>
- Friday, June 14, 2002 at 06:57 PM (CDT)
Hi Caedan and Marla.

I am so happy you were able to escape for a few hours yesterday. I hope you can do it again on Father's Day.

Mike misses your home made bread. :) He is doing really well at home. We hope you too will be able to come home before Mike returns. You two are a real inspiration to us all. Keep up the good work!

Have a great weekend!

Kristyn <kristynd@ettravel.com>
Mr. Carmel, on Canada - Friday, June 14, 2002 at 02:09 PM (CDT)
Wow! Two trips home in the same week. Good for ALL of you! Whatever it is you're doing, keep doing it. The best news I can think of is that you AREN'T at the hospital when we all show up on the 28th.
Okay, it's another theme day in the joke department. Hope you enjoy 'em!
How does a bird with a broken wing manage to land safely?
-It uses a sparrow-chute.
Which birds steal soap from the bath?
-Robber Ducks.
What do you get if you cross a duck with fireworks?
-A fire-quacker!

Tracy M. <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Friday, June 14, 2002 at 02:07 PM (CDT)
Hi Maryla Caedan Scott and Cali

So glad to hear that you and Caedan are getting *sprung* from the hospital, if even for a few hours to try to somewhat break that *high stress* for lack of a better
phrase, level.
Maryla, I have thought about you Caedan and your family so much and continue to hold you in my prayers.

Sometimes Maryla, it seemslike there is no end, no end to everything Caedan has been through, every drug, every trip to the OR, ALL the side effects of his aggresive treatment, but please know that many many people love all of you and are for you. Thank you so much for taking your time to keep us all updated with this web site, it has been wonderful (in that sense) to keep an eye on Caedans progress, I come on it at least every other day and I appreciate it.
Lots of Love, Abe Sue Alyssa and Nick

Sue Thiessen <thiessen@amtelecom.net>
Aylmer, - Friday, June 14, 2002 at 01:40 PM (CDT)
Hi Maryla, Isn't it great to get those LOA's? It's just too bad that you have to go back to 7 west, but it's a nice break. It's good to see Caedan doing well after transplant. Hope that yeast infection will be history very soon.
Shana loves the peanut butter cookie and fresh bread. She wanted to have more but too shy to ask. Thanks Caedan! And thanks for the tip, robin hood makes good bread.
Take care and God Bless!

Emmie and Shana D. <emmiedowdell@hotmail.com>
Windsor, - Friday, June 14, 2002 at 11:27 AM (CDT)
Hi Caedan;
Glad to hear you are able to come home for a visit, hope you will be making only hospital visits soon.Keep up the fight Caedan! Happy Father's day Scott.

The Drouillards <gman@jet2.net>
- Friday, June 14, 2002 at 09:40 AM (CDT)
hi Guys
Uh oh Fathers Day, thanks for reminding me!
I am glad you had a chance to get out of there
and I hope you are home to stay really soon buddy!!!

Chris & Gooch
Gooch’s Page
<chrisrusso_@hotmail.com>
- Friday, June 14, 2002 at 12:53 AM (CDT)
Maryla and Caedan, Hoping no news is GREAT news! Just wanted you to know I am still checking in daily to see how things are going and keep track of when Caedan gets to go home for good! Rosie is OT two months now and all is well...except she is begging for a BUNNY! Uh, how do I keep our dog from wanting to EAT IT? It's hard to say no to a chemo kid, isn't it? Update soon. You are always in our prayers.
Amy & Rosie Rumberger and Family (ALL-KIDS) <TimRumb@aol.com>
Alameda, CA USA - Thursday, June 13, 2002 at 02:51 PM (CDT)
Well, its Thursday and the last post was Sunday. I sure hope no post is "good post"!
Lets see, if I had one wish today: it would be that you are all snuggling together, under one roof - and it has been that way since Sunday...
Hope to hear on the next post that my wish was granted!

Sandy Bolton <sbolton@aol.com>
Amherstburg, ON - Thursday, June 13, 2002 at 07:06 AM (CDT)
Hi Guys!
I am glad to hear that you are at home for a few days. I saw Cali yesterday and she was all smiles when I mentioned Caedan's name. Have fun!
love, Miss Kate

kate lupson <slupson@rogers.com>
london, ont canada - Wednesday, June 12, 2002 at 04:48 PM (CDT)
Hi Maryla:
I will be up north on the 28th so I have booked in for the 17th and told them it was for Caedan's blood drive.
It is so great for all of you to be home at the same time. Tons of prayers coming from our church for all of you.
Take care.......
Love Adele

Adele Holmes <adele.jim@sympatico.ca>
London, Ont. Canada - Wednesday, June 12, 2002 at 08:05 AM (CDT)
Howdy there! Hope you enjoyed your time at home, and that Cali got a good dose of "day day" time! You came a long way in a little over a week kiddo - I'm proud of you!
Now, I kinda went with a theme for today's jokes. Hope you enjoy them - a couple of them gave me a dose of the giggles.

Who is a bee's favourite singer?
-Sting
Who is a bee's favourite group?
-The Bee Gees
(tell those first two to your mom Caedan, trust me, she'll smile at the very least)
What did the bee say to the flower?
Hello Honey!!
What does a bee get when he goes to McDonald's?
-A humburger!

I hope that nasty yeast infection is all gone by now, and that your still eating lots of bread and cookies and all that good stuff.

Tracy M. <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
windsor, ON Canada - Tuesday, June 11, 2002 at 02:29 PM (CDT)
Caedan,
I'm so happy you are home for a few days. Enjoy!

Sandy Scharm at Growing Concern <growingconcern@hotmail.com>
london, on canada - Tuesday, June 11, 2002 at 11:18 AM (CDT)
Caedan, I am so happy to read that you have been sprung loose from the hospital at least for a few hours! Small steps but on the right track Maryla! Out of hospital only 32 days of the last 157 eh Maryla, unbelievable my friend. Prayers for Caedan to be well enough to be discharged and for both of you to be safely and happily tucked into your own beds at home really soon. I hope that Caedan's fungal infection is clearing up, nasty stuff eh Mar? We are following your journey and continuing to storm the heavens with prayers for continued healing for Caedan and love and support for Scott, Cali and Mama Bear. Thanks for the updates, it helps to feel connected even if just through Cyber space.

Love, The Watchurst Family (Tami, Jonathan, Alexander & Max) xxxx oooo

Tami Watchurst (mom to Alexander: 9 yrs: O/t High Risk A.L.L.: currently in remission) <Leapco@auracom.com>
Orangeville, Ontario Canada - Tuesday, June 11, 2002 at 06:35 AM (CDT)
I liked Uncle John's joke. Is that wrong? So glad you got to go home Caedan! I hope you had a wonderful time. There's nothing like a little sister to keep you on your toes. Maryla, I'm thinking of you!
Love,

Aunt Annie <anniebowers@shaw.ca>
Victoria, BC - Monday, June 10, 2002 at 06:23 PM (CDT)
YYYYYYYYAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!
Tracy M <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Monday, June 10, 2002 at 07:25 AM (CDT)
Well, it sure is great that Caedan got to go home but want I want to know if Caedan was home today was anyone working on the puzzel?
Hey I also heard you got the BIG room again...yaaaa.

Hey I have a joke for you...it is not a very good one

So, this door to door salesman goes up to a door and rings the bell and this little five year old boy answers the door and he is drinking a beer and smoking a cigar and the salesman is taken back a little by the sight of this smoking and drinking child and says...Oh hi, is your mother home...and the little boy says....what do you think?

Uncle John, Aunt Christie and Baby Noah <twobrides@hotmail.com>
- Sunday, June 09, 2002 at 11:41 PM (CDT)
Oh man thats great!
It must feel very weird indeed for all of you to be under same roof though huh?

Chris & Gooch
Gooch’s Page
<chrisrusso_@hotmail.com>
- Sunday, June 09, 2002 at 08:56 PM (CDT)
ayayayya LOA -
alex martiniuk <alexmartiniuk@hotmail.com>
london, - Sunday, June 09, 2002 at 08:42 PM (CDT)
YES! ABSOLUTELY WONDERFUL!!! Music to my ears!!
Caedan, I'm sure you've treasured each minute of your time at home. Not to mention a perfect day for Miss Cali!
You've certainly made our weekend more complete with such great news.
Love you tons,
Dina, Matt, Patrick, Stephen and Sarah

Dina Kenkel <erabankers@aol.com>
West Bloomfield, Mi U.S.A - Sunday, June 09, 2002 at 06:01 PM (CDT)
Okay, appointment all switched. See you both on the 28th.
Hope your eating TONNES of peanut butter cookies and bread and that nasty infection is all cleared up!
Even though I know you're probably sick of Dr.'s, I have a silly one-liner for you.
A man goes to his doctor and says, "Doctor Doctor, will this ointment clear up my spots"? And the Doctor says, "I don't make rash decisions!"
Silly, I know, but don't say I didn't warn you! Enjoy your weekend.

Tracy M. <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Friday, June 07, 2002 at 02:39 PM (CDT)
Hi Caedan,
So glad you are enjoying peanut butter cookies. They happen to be a favorite of mine too. I have heard from Mr. A. about your awesome art work. I am so pleased to know that you have been stretching those talents. Save all those creations please. Your friends here at school, and I would love to see them.
'Thinking of you every day.
xo Mrs I.

S. Inwood <Inwood23@southwood.com>
London, - Friday, June 07, 2002 at 07:46 AM (CDT)
hi guys.........makayla is home and we are thinking about you guys....I am glad to hear caden is doing good...I wish you could be home too............
melissa Goodman <mel_and_ian@sympatico.ca>
- Thursday, June 06, 2002 at 09:42 PM (CDT)
Hi all. Hope today is another laughing kind of day for you up there! I just called Canadian Blood Services, and I can switch my appointment to donate up there, but I kind of need to know where I'm booking it at. If you could post the location for us Mar, that would help. So, put me on your list of volunteers, and I'll make sure I get on the list of donors.
Got a couple jokes today.

What happens when a frog's car breaks down?
-He has it TOAD away.

A duck, a deer and a skunk went out for dinner. They had a great meal, but then the time came to pay for it. Well, the deer didn't have a buck, the skunk didn't have a scent, so they had to put it on the duck's bill.

I kinda liked that one...


Tracy M. <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Thursday, June 06, 2002 at 02:17 PM (CDT)
Wow, Caedan! Fresh Bread and Peanut Butter Cookies. Yumm! No wonder why you had lots of visitors!! Hope your mouth is getting better so you can eat every little thing you make in that "make-shift" kitchen of yours.
I'm keeping my fingers crossed you'll be home soon!!

Sandy Bolton <jandsbolton@aol.com>
Amherstburg, , ON - Thursday, June 06, 2002 at 06:56 AM (CDT)
Hello there,
I am glad no news is pretty much good news, and you know what mom, it also seems you have stopped beating yourself up about being with him all these days in the hospital... and thats great news! We all know its not where you choose to be, but I am glad you dont feel guilt about it as much anymore! There is no need to...praying you'll be out for good soon!

Chris & Gooch
Gooch’s Page
<chrisrusso_@hotmail.com>
- Wednesday, June 05, 2002 at 11:46 PM (CDT)
Hey there. Ready for today's giggle?

What vegetable to you get after an elephant has walked through your garden?
-Squash!!

What is part tree and part pig?
-A porky-pine!

What do you get when you cross a parrot and a centipede?
- A walkie-talkie!

Hope you enjoy them. Ask your mom how the supply of food in the freezer is holding up, and tell her to holler when she's getting low. Hope you are having a good day!

Tracy M. <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Tuesday, June 04, 2002 at 02:41 PM (CDT)
Great job on tv Caedan, Tom& I were at a fund raiser for Child can so I taped it. I have to bring it into work on Thursday for some of the girls who didn't get to see you. See you already have a fan club See you soon Love to all. Carol
carol mangin <smangin@mnsi.net>
- Monday, June 03, 2002 at 06:19 PM (CDT)
Hi Caedan,
We saw you on the Children's Hospital Celebration. You were really great! Dillon wouldn't move off the couch from 7:15 until 7:45. He kept asking.......where's Caeden, where's Caeden. We all went over to the outdoor carnival they had on Saturday by the hospital. John works at the NewPL so we went in the big tent to see how everything was looking for the TV show. Josh and Dillon had fun in the science tent. They saw some experiments with dry ice. Looked into microscopes. Viewed some various bugs and tested their hearts on a monitor while running on the spot.
Only 3 1/2 weeks left of another school year. Dillon sure hopes that you get better during the summertime so he can see you in September.
We were very happy to see you on TV. You did a wonderful job! Take care of yourself. We send big hugs.

Kelly, Dillon, Josh & John <kbcor@sympatico.ca>
London, ON Canada - Monday, June 03, 2002 at 02:22 PM (CDT)
Hey Mr. T.V. Star.... GREAT job!! Now I can say I know a celebrity!I hope you are still continuing to feel better and that you got to enjoy some of the festivities on the weekend. I heard the total was over 2 million, so everyone up there did a good job. Make sure you tell them I said so!
Tracy M. <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor , ON Canada - Monday, June 03, 2002 at 02:19 PM (CDT)
Hi Caeden. Mike and I saw you on t.v. on Saturday night. I took Mike home for a couple hours in the afternoon but we made sure he stayed awake long enough to see your t.v. debut. You are a natural buddy - Great job!

Kristyn Darling <kristynd@ettravel.com>
- Monday, June 03, 2002 at 12:40 PM (CDT)
Caedan,

Your Great Aunt Helen, Great Uncle Paul, Great "OLD" Aunt Mary and Great Uncle Jacques saw you on TV yesterday and you were terrific - the best. I always say that your Great Aunt Mary is old because I am much younger than she is. Just ask Janet. Your Great Aunt Mary is not very happy these days because her computer is busted and she hasn't been able to send you any E-Mails, so Hello from "Great Aunt Mary".

Love from all of us.

Helen Janssens <paul_h_janssens@hotmail.com>
fredericton, N.B. Canada - Sunday, June 02, 2002 at 07:32 PM (CDT)
Colin is so jealous Caedan that you got to meet Natalie MacMaster. She is wonderful!! It's a good thing you didn't tell him or he would have been sneaking in for sure! Love The Hills
lisa, colin, andrew, grant and eric <colin.hill@sypmatico.ca>
- Saturday, June 01, 2002 at 07:30 PM (CDT)
Wow! Quite a treat to have had the personal fiddler..so glad for you! Thankyou so kindly for the delight of a parcel! Activity books are Joshua's interest when energy allows. How did you come up with the magazine idea? Just what hit the mood that day!(: Leanne was interested in the baby patterns for her new nephew.
Yesterday. +l5 Joshua had a poly count of 0.49 at a.m., by p.m. it was up to 0.7. This morning on my way home from TO Leonard called with more good news--Joshua is out of isolation! Polys of 1.14 and WBC 2.0. Praise be to God!

Lucille Weber <phil.ber@sympatico.com>
West Montrose, ON Canada - Saturday, June 01, 2002 at 08:51 AM (CDT)
Hello Caedan,

Wow a TV Star and a performance by Natalie McMaster. Natalie is from Cape Breton and that is where your Uncle Paul is from. If your Uncle Paul was in London he would come and visit and do the "New Waterford Hop" that is a step dance that he does after he has drunk ohh let me see one, two or maybe three beer and maybe Natalie would come and accompany him as they are "True Cape Bretoners".
Caedan it is quite a dance and he is sooo funny. We really enjoy Natalie's music.

We are hoping to be able to see you on TV because we have this dish on the top of our roof that brings in many, many channels and I know there is one that comes from London, Ontario. We'll be watching from 7.15 on (8.15 because we are an hour ahead in the Maritimes). Hope we will be able to see you.

Love,

"Great Aunt Helen"

Helen Janssens <paul_h_janssens@hotmail.com>
fredericton, N.B. Canada - Saturday, June 01, 2002 at 07:49 AM (CDT)
Hi Caedan,

I heard you were being on TV today. I think you should talk about our Pokemon card website. I hope you have fun.
Your friend Luke


Luke Schindler <hes1959@aol.com>
London, Canada - Saturday, June 01, 2002 at 06:18 AM (CDT)
Hi Caedan,

I heard you were being on TV today I think you should talk about our Pokemon card website. I hope you have fun.
Your friend Luke


Luke Schindler <hes1959@aol.com>
London, Canada - Saturday, June 01, 2002 at 06:17 AM (CDT)
Hi, Caeden! I just wanted to say hello and see how you're feeling. Mrs. Inwood told us today that you'll be on tv Saturday night! Everybody will be watching! Have you got any Yu-Gi-Oh cards yet? They are really cool! Hope you are feeling well. Talk to you soon! Ryan G.
Ryan Green <tom.green@sympatico.ca>
London, ON Canada - Friday, May 31, 2002 at 08:07 PM (CDT)
You may just see me up there washing a car or two. Please let me know when and where and all that good stuff. And PLEASE don't tell me that you have plenty of help if you don't - I'm not THAT far away.
I'll keep my eyes peeled for you on the TV tomorrow night.
And congrats on the Natalie McMaster visit....sounds like you guys have an exciting weekend ahead of you. Enjoy!

Tracy M. <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Friday, May 31, 2002 at 04:14 PM (CDT)
Wow! Sounds like you're a pretty busy guy these days. I hope your mom can find out when you'll be on, so I can try and catch your television debut!
So glad to hear about the blood drive too. I go back on June 17 to donate again. (Pretty brave of me, I think!)
Glad to hear you're feeling a bit better too. Keep getting all the rest you can, and good luck on your puzzle!

Tracy M <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Thursday, May 30, 2002 at 02:47 PM (CDT)
Well well well, half way through the Star Wars puzzle AND recording a spot for T.V. AND and blood drive in your name.
How exciting!
You certainly have been a busy beaver this week, Caedan. Glad to hear you have taken a another step on the road to recovery. How nice to hear some happy news.
I'm hoping your TV spot is shown in my area - I'll be watching.

Sandy Bolton <jandsbolton@aol.com>
Amherstburg, - Thursday, May 30, 2002 at 07:04 AM (CDT)
Maryla, so happy to read this latest post....prayers being answered. I tell you for one little boy who is fighting this Beast so hard he is sure accomplishing a lot....puzzle marathons and making his first television appearance!!!!! WOW! Please let us know when this will air, I would love to be able to see it. Praise God for the shortness of breath to be subsiding. You sleep well in your own bed Mama Bear....hopefully it won't be too much longer than the entire family will be sleeping under the same roof again. Love and prayers flow to each of you from the Watchurst Family. Love, Tami, Jonathan, Alexander & Max xxxx oooo
Tami Watchurst (mom to Alexander - 9 years A.L.L. o.t. 98-09-10) <leapco@auracom.com>
Orangeville, Ontario Canada - Thursday, May 30, 2002 at 03:47 AM (CDT)
Yeah Caedan!!! You are going to be on TV!!!!! May I be the first to ask for an autograph!

Glad to hear you are feeling a bit better and keeping yourself busy. Keep up the great progress.

Tina Herzog <tina.herzog@sympatico.ca>
- Wednesday, May 29, 2002 at 10:00 PM (CDT)
Oh Maryla I am SO relieved to hear its improving
you guys (Caedan!) have been thru enough already

Chris
Gooch’s Page
<chrisrusso_@hotmail.com>
- Wednesday, May 29, 2002 at 09:52 PM (CDT)
Hey Caedan! Why was six scared?
Because 7 ate 9!

(My warped sense of humour got the best of me, what can I tell ya)

Tracy M. <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Wednesday, May 29, 2002 at 02:52 PM (CDT)
Hello Gallaghers! We are home from vacation, and glad to see that as of the last posting you are feeling a bit better. Maryla - I gave your dad the copy of that journal, just like you asked. Is Caedan still into Pokemon? And how does he feel about paint by numbers instead of puzzles? Let me know when you can... Love,
Carol M. <smangin@mnsi.net>
LaSalle, ON Canada - Tuesday, May 28, 2002 at 06:43 PM (CDT)
Hi, this is Jean-Marc (Your cousin) and his wife Kerri LeBlanc. We were informed by my mother (Mary LeBlanc) that Caedan had a website. We are happy to hear that Caedan is doing better, we are praying for him. Please send him our love.
Jean-Marc LeBlanc <kerrileblanc@yahoo.com and jleblanc@moderncontinental.com>
Quincy, MA U.S.A - Tuesday, May 28, 2002 at 05:36 PM (CDT)
Well, no news is good news, right? I hope you're feeling much much better than you have been. Got a couple jokes for you!
If you saw a heat wave, would you wave back?

Which city is the most dangerous?
-ElectriCITY

Tracy M. <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Tuesday, May 28, 2002 at 02:22 PM (CDT)
Well Caedan, did you start the Star Wars puzzle? I still can't believe you did all those puzzle so quick! You must have a LOT more patience than I do, because I get frustrated really really fast when it comes to puzzles.
Hope to hear soon that you're feeling more like your old self! In the meantime, I'll keep wishing you well from down here in Windsor

Tracy M. <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Monday, May 27, 2002 at 02:29 PM (CDT)
Hi Caedan, Maryla,Scott..and Cali too! I just wanted to let you know how special Dylan felt yesterday! He's very proud to be Caedan's friend. Looking forward to repeating the experience, just let us know when! Talk to you again soon. Love Beth, Pat, Dylan & Dawson
Beth Sutherland <bsutherland@introtel.com>
London, On Canada - Monday, May 27, 2002 at 12:34 PM (CDT)
Maryla and Caedan and family:

I send you my best wishes and prayers that things will ease up for Caedan. He seems like he just can't get a break . I hope he starts to feel better and things start to look up. Keep up the positive attitude and try the Stars Wars puzzles they are hard. My son and I did one a little while ago. Best wishes and all my prayers go to you both.
Karen Gorza

Karen Gorza <m.k.gorza@rogers.com>
ingersoll , ont canada - Saturday, May 25, 2002 at 06:27 AM (CDT)
Well, here we are on Friday afternoon yet again. Hope you have a good weekend. And since I've been slacking in the joke department this week, here's a few for you.
What's smarter than a talking cat?
-A spelling bee!
What do you call a mouse that can pick up an elephant?
-SIR!!!
Why does a flamingo lift up one leg?
-Becasue if he lifted up both legs he would fall over!!!

Tracy M. <imtmt1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Friday, May 24, 2002 at 01:58 PM (CDT)
Hi guys
I hope this weekend brings better stuff for you guys, mainly Caedan, but you too.
You never ever have to apologize for venting here.... whose page is it after all???!!!

Chris
Gooch’s Page
<chrisrusso_@hotmail.com>
- Friday, May 24, 2002 at 11:48 AM (CDT)
Please Mayla, never ever apologize for anything you put on these pages. Many of us watch it daily for the latest news on the war that Caedan has been fighting, and will continue to do so as long as there is news to read, good, bad or otherwise. Only the truth will do, and whether it brings a tear of joy or sadness, it's the way it is. Sugar coating it won't change it. And you're right, this is your story, and 30 years from now when all this is just like a bad dream, you'll be able to look back at what you wrote here and remember every smile, tear, setback and triumph. You'll also remember how much love and support and prayers you were all sent from your cyber family.
Thinking of you as always...
P.S. I have printed the entry for mom to bring to Pruitt when she gets home from Bermuda.

Tracy M <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor , ON Canada - Thursday, May 23, 2002 at 02:30 PM (CDT)
Maryla,

I know what you mean about getting those feelings out....it seems that I use Ross's page for my own personal diary sometimes. I think it's healthy, though, and a great way to get the word out. Keep on updating us and give Caedan a big hug from Alabama.
God bless,


Lisa Agee (www.caringbridge.com/page/ross) <lagee67@hotmail.com>
Camden, AL - Thursday, May 23, 2002 at 01:57 PM (CDT)
Bravo Maryla,

It is clear to me the tenacity that you and Scott have and that Caedan has inherited your remarkable strengths.

Love to all,

"Great Aunt Helen"

Helen Janssens <paul_h_janssens@hotmail.com>
fredericton, N.B. Canada - Thursday, May 23, 2002 at 12:59 PM (CDT)
Hi folks. I'm at work and feindishly typing this before I get caught! Cody & Kyle have been asking for their buddy. We are thinking and praying for you every day. Please feel free to vent anytime, that's what friends and neighbours are for!
I should fill you in tho. There's been a bit of a "flag war" going on in the court. Tim has his Leafs flag on my car, then there's the Red Wings flag across the way. Tim is talking about getting a huge, programmable sign. The one's they use on road construction. He wants to park it in the centre of the court with "Go Leafs Go" on it. He thought Scott would be upset tho.
Take Care, Hope to see you all soon. Love Ya!!!!!

Tracy Besterd <bestbet@sympatico.ca>
London, On Ca - Thursday, May 23, 2002 at 11:08 AM (CDT)
Hi Mar, I echo what the others have said about your candar in the the WebPage. I anxiously click every day to know what Caedan is doing (and hang on every word), and how you and Scott are. It's really our only window, so please feel free to dump. You should know we're all right there with you. I loved the SendACard entry on Caedan too. The pix's were great! Big hug to Caedan and Cali ...does he get to see these entries?
Love you all, Lore

Lore Wainwright <lore.wainwright@bell.ca>
London, ON Canada - Thursday, May 23, 2002 at 10:18 AM (CDT)
Maryla,

Please know that we are praying for you guys and that we check on ya'll daily. Thanks for the updates and I would never think twice about updating what is truly on your heart. Caedan is one strong little boy! Sarah Anne had her last scheduled spinal tap with chemo, so we are hopefully getting closer to her being finished. Weird feeling, happy but anxious. I am sure you know!

God Bless You Guys,

Steven, Kelly, Sarah Anne, & Emma Grace <hicks@cbse.uab.edu>
Birmingham, AL - Thursday, May 23, 2002 at 09:04 AM (CDT)
Maryla,
Don't think you have to sugar coat anything on this page. If you are not brutally honest about what is going on, the people who love and care for your family cannot fully support you. I look forward to your updates, good or not. This is your place to vent, scream, ask for help or support, and share all of the good news too. Don't hold back. As you said, this is reality and a story of your family's journey. The word's that you write inspire people to be better friends, parents, neighbours and just better people in general.
As always, we are thinking of Caedan, Cali, Scott and yourself, and hoping to see those counts continue to drop.

Shannon Taylor <staylor@wecas.on.ca>
- Thursday, May 23, 2002 at 07:40 AM (CDT)
Hi Caedan,
Wow, a 500 piece puzzle??????????? Now that's what I call mental strength. What a gift you have. It's called the power of concentration. It is by far the most sustaining force there is.And you've got it!! Lucky you!!!!!!!!
Love to all,
Great Aunt Mary

Mary LeBlanc <maryjake@nb.sympatico.ca>
Fredericton, Canada - Wednesday, May 22, 2002 at 04:31 PM (CDT)
Hi Caedan, keep up the fight. We are sending you positive energy & lots of prayers. Hi Mar, thinking of you often & wishing I could ease your worries. Keeping you all in our prayers as always.
The Drouillards <gman@jet2.net>
LaSalle, - Wednesday, May 22, 2002 at 02:59 PM (CDT)
Been thinking about you all. Hope that the breathing is still good and the infection is long GONE! Well, are you ready for the joke of the day?
What type of sandals do frogs wear?
-Open-toad
What did the traffic light say to the Martian?
-Don't look now, I'm changing!
Why are there so many Smith's in the phone book?
-Because they all have phones silly!

Sorry, but that last one still has me giggling. I know, I know, it really isn't THAT funny, but I think I told you before about my warped sense of humor. Anyway, I just wanted you all to know we're hoping for no more complications. "talk" to you soon.

Tracy M. <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Tuesday, May 21, 2002 at 02:23 PM (CDT)
Hi Mamma Bear: God bless you kid - all us Mamma bears are right behind you. Where you get your energy from is beyond me. Our prayers are with you............

Love Adele

Adele Holmes <adele.jim@sympatico.ca>
London, Ont Canada - Tuesday, May 21, 2002 at 10:27 AM (CDT)
Hi Marlya, Scott, Caedan and Cali
Christie and I (and Noah) were away (me on business, them on hanging out with me) so we are just getting caught up on the news. If you need any support on your soapbox we are going to be in London this Friday and we'll be glad to get up there with you. We are really looking forward to seeing you all and hopefully we can help out with some cooking, clearning, Cali sitting and all.
Lots of love
From your family out in BC.

Christie, John and Noah <twobrides@hotmail.com>
Vancouver, - Sunday, May 19, 2002 at 10:02 PM (CDT)
Hi Caedan: Just thought I'd say hi. We are roasting some marshmallows and thought of you. I will eat a few for you. Hope you are feeling better. Your buddy, Josh Z.


Joshua Zimmer <bzimmer@ odyssey.on.ca>
- Sunday, May 19, 2002 at 06:39 PM (CDT)
Maryla, Sounds like things have started to turn a corner...ever so slowly....good news about the CMV virus and the shortness of breath diminishing somewhat. A few more weeks in hospital eh? That is the pits, enough already eh my friend? I am glad that Caedan is still drawing, he is very talented. I was so impressed with the pictures that he had done the day I visited. That is a great outlet for him emotionally as well. Anyway that someone can scan a picture or two and put it on the website? That would be wonderful to see his creations! Much love to you both from our family. You are never alone Maryla, even in the darkest hours of the night, when you are staring at the walls and wondering what tomorrow is going to bring....you are never ever alone. You have more love and positive energy and prayers flowing through to you and your beautiful child than you can ever imagine. Climbing silently behind you on your journey as always, Tami xo
Tami Watchurst (mom to Alexander - 9 years A.L.L. o.t. 98-09-10) <leapco@auracom.com>
Orangeville, Ontario Canada - Saturday, May 18, 2002 at 09:22 AM (CDT)
Hi Maryla & Caedan
I just got my computer back and can not believe you guys are still in there! UGH. You must both be going stir crazy (again)
I am glad to see his counts are on the rise, & as always, will be praying for you

Chris
Gooch's page
<
chrisrusso_@hotmail.com>
- Saturday, May 18, 2002 at 01:18 AM (CDT)
Hi Maryla ~
From one Mama Bear to another: You are so RIGHT to FIGHT for your boy! He absolutely should NOT be around any sickies - techs or otherwise! Sheesh! I am glad to hear his CMV levels are down. We continue to pray for Caedan to heal and feel better! We are thinking of your family and wishing you a peaceful weekend. God Bless you all!
Love ~
Bill, Stacey, Bryce, and Chad Wada

The Wada Family <SLW6204@aol.com>
Las Vegas, NV USA - Friday, May 17, 2002 at 08:38 PM (CDT)
Caedan, Mar and Scott....REALLY thinking about you all. Glad to hear your getting some better meals. Please don't hesitate to call Mar, would love to have Cali with Julia!
Remind me to tell you my story about Dr. Howard! Given his specialty, I'll spare everyone the details but it's oh so good for a laugh.
Cheers and Love from Lore, David and Julia XOXOXOXOXOX

Lore <lore.wainwright@bell.ca>
London, CANADA - Friday, May 17, 2002 at 07:53 AM (CDT)
Maryla.....you go and scream and vent from the top of the biggest soap box you can find! You are not the first person to have noticed it, I'm sure, and as the old saying goes, the squeaky wheel gets the oil.
Glad to hear they didn't find any clots on the latest scan. I keep praying that this nasty little infection clears up as mysteriously as it seems to have appeared.
I'm very glad that the "ready to go" food is working out for you. Let us know when they run out, and we'll plan another day. You and Scott and Cali need to make sure you eat properly and keep your strength up, and I think we've made it our job to see that you do.
Caedan...on those days you think your mom may have lost her marbles, all she needs is an extra hug. I promise that will bring her back to her normal self. So next time she climbs up on that soap box of hers, when she's finished, give her a big old bear hug, and she'll be back to her old self in no time. Honest!

Tracy M. <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Thursday, May 16, 2002 at 09:00 PM (CDT)
Yeah Mamma Bear!
You go girl.Stand up on your soapbox and holler.And as one of your friends said," If there is room we will stand and holler with you."
Love,
The Great Big Aunt Mary




Mary LeBlanc <maryjake@nb.sympatice.ca>
Fredericton , Canada - Thursday, May 16, 2002 at 08:15 PM (CDT)
Hello Gallaghers,
Caeden, Cody and I hope you are feeling much better soon. We know how fun it is to stay in the hospital so we hope you get out of there as soon as possible. We will be in London on May 22nd for a CT scan. If there is anything you would like or need, please just let us know.
Maryla - YOU GO GIRL!!!! If no one says anything, how will anything change!? And you can vent all you want in your journal - people read it because they care about all of you and want to know what is happening. If there is something going on that other people can also help with, maybe they can join the fight as well.
I also wonder sometimes about this continuous battle that we fight, but all it takes is one look in our child's face and all those questions are gone. Any parent in their right mind would do whatever it would take to keep up the fight. We may get a little right jab every once in a while that throws us for a little loop (God bless Keeli), but we shake it off and get right back in the ring. You are doing a wonderful job and don't you dare put away that soapbox - just make sure it's big enough for a lot more people.
Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
Love,
Sharon, John, Trevor and Cody Simpson

Sharon Simpson <john.simpson6@sympatico.ca>
Windsor, Ontario - Thursday, May 16, 2002 at 07:53 PM (CDT)

Hi Caedan,Maryla,Scott,and Cali
Just a quick note before we leave for Bermuda; It was great for me to spend two Sundays with you. Cali and I had great fun.As for Sunday remember we were doing what we wanted to do.It was not a chore.Tom sent the websight over to my sister so we can keep an eye on your progress Caedan. Maryla when someone is ill they need an advocate (child or adult).If you need some help on your soap box say the word and I'm sure there will be others to help. I am hoping Caedan that the next time we come to London you will be home. If not if you are up to company you will be our first stop. You haven't met Miya yet Caedan;she and Cali played pretty well together. Cali told your mom even before she could ask "no I'm not sharing." Once she made it clear the toys were hers she did share. I think they were too busy playing to realize sharing was happening. Take care. Love to all Carol

carol mangin <smangin @mnsi.net>
- Thursday, May 16, 2002 at 07:35 PM (CDT)
Hi Maryla

It has to be hard, but you have to keeping fighting for Caedan and what you think is best for him. Lots of hugs and kisses to all.

Sandy at Growig Concern <smschram@hotmail.com>
london, ont canada - Thursday, May 16, 2002 at 02:04 PM (CDT)
Hi Caedan,
We have finished the E.Q.A.O. testing today. Hooray! On this last activity, the students in the class had different tests from each other. It was luck-of-the-draw whether someone had to do language or math...and it was a surprise!...nobody knew what they were getting 'til they opened the page. I thought of you at that moment, knowing how pleased you would have been to open the page and find a math challenge!
We miss you, but look forward to seeing you before too long.

xo Mrs. I.

S. Inwood <inwood23@southwood.com>
London, - Thursday, May 16, 2002 at 01:49 PM (CDT)
Dear Mama Bear:

Keep doin' what you do best! Thanks for the teary eye and the chuckle. Sending lots of love your way..
... and big hugs OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

Sandy Bolton <jandsbolton@aol.com>
Amherstburg, ON - Thursday, May 16, 2002 at 09:08 AM (CDT)
Maryla and Caedan

If Dr. Howard is seeing Caedan, rest assured that he will do his best to help with the heartburn. He is one of the Dr's that I see at clinic and I have nothing but great things to say.
I hope that the new medicines help Caedan feel better. And Mama Bear, vent away. This is your child, and medical degree or no medical degree, no one knows what Caedan needs right now more than you; medically, emotionally, and spiritually.
Glad you are able to enjoy the meals. Just say the word, and we will be back to do more.

Shannon Taylor (mangin) <talrmade@mnsi.net>
- Thursday, May 16, 2002 at 08:59 AM (CDT)
Maryla:
You keeping fighting for his rights as all of of us mama bears must do for our kids. You go girl. Caedan we are thinking about you every day.
All the mama bears at GCCC.

rhonda springer <rhondaspringer@hotmail.com>
- Thursday, May 16, 2002 at 08:41 AM (CDT)
Hi Maryla, Happy to read that Mr. Noodles is no longer your main source of substenance!!!! Now listen Mama Bear you are doing your job and doing it well. Your concerns are completely valid and I too noticed a lack of cleanliness on the floor that Caedan is staying. Certainly seemed out of step with the standards of Sick Kid's for B.M.T. (Post-B.M.T.) kids, but I didn't say anything to you because I didn't want to appear as if I was putting Sick Kid's on a pedestal because of our affiliation with them. I don't think it takes a brain surgeon to realize that Caedan's immune system is extremely vulnerable and subjecting him to any potential "viruses" from friends, family or staff is the last thing that this little boy needs right now. Hmmm....I think that you had better move over on that Soap Box because I am feeling the need to share your seat!

On a happier note with fond memories for your family, we were at Camp Trillium this past weekend. In the dining hall is a banner signed by families who spent a spring weekend last year (2001)....there is a comment signed by the Gallagher Family....I am assuming that means your clan? I thought of you and Caedan and your family all the time we were at Trillium, knowing how much you would love to be there instead of in hospital. Stay focused on Caedan's needs and vent whenever needed to whomever is willing to listen.....MAMA BEAR protecting her cub! Your son is blessed to have you as his MAMA, his advocate, his friend and his protector. Prayers constant for the virus to be wiped out, the counts to stabalize, the shortness of breath to be resolved and for strength for you and Caedan as your journey up the mountain continues.

P.S. I have contacted KeikiCards and Annette Marie is going to contact you right away.

Love, Tami xo (The Watchurst Family)

Tami Watchurst (mom to Alexander 9 yrs: o/t High Risk A.L.L.) <leapco@auracom.com>
Orangeville, Ontario Canada - Thursday, May 16, 2002 at 06:47 AM (CDT)
Here's hoping today is one of your better days!
I'm going to be away from the office until next Tuesday, and not likely to be near a computer, so I'm gonna overload you on jokes today.
Ready??
What carries around a sack and bites people?
-Santa Jaws!
What's black and white and makes a lot of noise?
-A zebra with a drumkit.
Why did the turkey cross the road?
-It was the chicken's day off.
Why are ghost's such bad magician's?
-You can see right through their tricks.
On which side does a chicken have the most feathers?
-The INSIDE!
Goofy, I know, but I have one of those strange senses of humor. Take care, stay strong, and know you all are never far from my thoughts.

Tracy M. <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Wednesday, May 15, 2002 at 03:40 PM (CDT)
Good afternoon Caedan and my dear friend Maryla,
Just wanted to say "hello", it's been a while. I hope you are both having a good day. I'm sending hugs and smiles your way.
oxoxoxoxox smile, smile, smile...xoxoxoxoxoxxooxoxoxox smile,smile, smile.....xoxoxoxoxoxxooxo smile!!

Lori, Hube and Isabel <lnh.sashegyi@sympatico.ca>
London, - Wednesday, May 15, 2002 at 12:29 PM (CDT)
Hi Maryla Caedan

I was just thinking about you guys and thought I would send alittle note. I hope Caedan is feeling ok and that Dr.C was able to help you with more answers yesterday (she was back on Tuesday, correct). I want you to know that I think of you all often.

I had seen Keeleys picture in the London Free Press a few weeks back and am very sad to hear of her passing. My heart goes out to her family.......they have a long road ahead of them.

Please tell Caedan that we all are praying for him to recover and go home really soon. Take care Maryla and all our best to you.
Love Sue

Sue Thiessen <thiessen@amtelecom.net>
Aylmer, - Wednesday, May 15, 2002 at 11:50 AM (CDT)
Hi Maryla,
I'm glad to hear that you got a bit of a break for Mother's Day. I was thinking about you all day and wanted to send you a greeting but for some reason I couldn't get into the site.Of course my computer skills are less than primitive and that may account for the failure.
I'm sorry to hear thay Caedan is so weak and pray that his strength will return soon.
Tell Caedan that tomorrow Fredericton is getting snow and if he wants some I will try to arrange to send some his way.
We Maritimers are a generous people.
Love,
GreatAunt Mary

Mary LeBlanc <maryjake@nb.sympatico.ca>
Fredericton, Canada - Monday, May 13, 2002 at 04:22 PM (CDT)
Hello there
Hope it has stopped raining there!! It finally did here.
Did you get the answer to my riddle yet Caedan? It was kind of mean of me to make you wait, wasn't it? Are you ready? Want to think about your answer some more? No? Okay, okay.... the answer is A River!
Probably wasn't worth the wait, but what can I say?
I got the chance to see Cali yesterday... she's got a lot of your looks, did you know that? That must mean you're both cutie pies!!
Hope you feel up to eating some of my "special soup" really really soon! Take care.

Tracy M. <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Monday, May 13, 2002 at 03:41 PM (CDT)
Hello Gallaghers
Happy belated Mothers day to youu Maryla. You are the most deserving mother for this day that I know.
How nice for you to be able to sneak away to be with Cali for a while. You have two such beautiful children, any my heart just aches that they have to go through so much at such young ages.. Its just not fair!!!!!!!! Mothers Day in
hospital is just not fun. It sounds like Caedan is really haveing one heck of a time. Your right it is good news, when they find the souce of the fever, but it doesn't help the patient any. They really need a special holiday for pedeatric oncology pts. to celebrate all they indure. They are in my eyes HEROS. wE WILL continue to pray and wish happy thoughts for Caedan and you all. I'll be thinking of you on Tuesday when you finally see Dr. Cairney again for more answers. She is the best...
I'm crying again, like you said Mar, I'm probably the most emotional person you will ever meet. I just wish I could make a wish and this would all go away for you.
Take Care.
Love to you all.
P>S> THAT NEUROBLASTOMA, ITS' SOOOOO NASTY. MY SYMPATHIES
TO THAT FAMILY.
PAM

pam dobbin <kdobbin@xcelco.on.ca>
petrolia, canada - Monday, May 13, 2002 at 06:29 AM (CDT)
Hi Caedan, Maryla, Scott and Cali.
Just a note to let you know we are thinking and praying for you.
Hope the next few days are positive and encouraging.

Happy mothers day Maryla
Hopes and Wishes
Kevin, Jasci, Stephan, Adrian, Cameron and Renee

Kevin Armstrong <kevin.armstrong2@sympatico.ca>
London, ON Canada - Sunday, May 12, 2002 at 10:13 PM (CDT)
Hi Maryla,Scott, Cali and Caedan.

My thoughts and prayers are with you on this very special Mother's day.
love
jane

Jane Johnson <johnsonja@rogers.com>
London, Ont Canada - Sunday, May 12, 2002 at 09:14 PM (CDT)
Hi to Cadean and family! Our website in slow in completing...sorry. Tomorrow Joshua begins TBI. He's been quite well with Daddy . Yesterday his brother Jacob entered emerg at KW hospital and had an appendisectomy. Calls from 9thkw link with 8thsick children's. On God we lean hard. Hopefully the correct meds can speedily heal. It's too bad the test took so long. Jesus Cares!
Lucille Weber <phil.ber@sympatico.com>
West Montrose, ON Canada - Sunday, May 12, 2002 at 05:04 PM (CDT)
Happy Mother's Day Maryla
Hope all is well on your end
let us all know how Caedan is when you get a chance
We love you guys

Chris

Gooch's Page

<chrisrusso_@hotmail.com>
- Sunday, May 12, 2002 at 08:26 AM (CDT)
Hi Caedan!
I hope you feel better soon. I liked seeing the pictures of you and Cali. It is very obvious how much she loves her big brother!
Love Miss Kate

Kate Lupson <slupson@rogers.com>
London, Ont Canada - Friday, May 10, 2002 at 06:26 PM (CDT)
Hello all....
Sending thoughts and prayers you're way...and a few jokes to go with them!
What do sheep do on sunny days?
-Have a baa-baa-cue.
What do you get if Batman and Robin get smashed by a steam roller?
-Flatman and Ribbon

And this one's a bit of a brain teaser....so I won't give you the answer until after the weekend, unless of course you figure it out before then.

What has a mouth but doesn't eat, a bank with no money, a bed but doesn't slep, and waves but has no hands?


Tracy M. <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor , ON Canada - Friday, May 10, 2002 at 03:36 PM (CDT)
Dear Maryla and family: I'm continuing to send good thoughts and prayers your way. Hang in there, and there will be brighter days ahead for you!
Mary Rooke <mary.rooke@lhsc.on.ca>
Ingersoll, Ontario - Friday, May 10, 2002 at 09:47 AM (CDT)
hi Caedan your veary lucky. You don't have to do eqao. It is so boring!

hear's a joke . why did the tiger lose to the race? the other person was a terrible cheata.

Josh Z <inwood23@southwood.com>
Londan, Ont Canada - Friday, May 10, 2002 at 08:39 AM (CDT)
Hi Caedan it's Amber.I bett you don't know me, but i'm in Mrs. Inwoods Grade 2/3 split class.The Grade three part of the class as been doing EQAO testing.But today is a great day for the Grade 2s and Grade 3s,because were at computers then we have a movie then we have gym! Good by Caedan!!
Amber <inwood23@southwood.com>
- Friday, May 10, 2002 at 08:37 AM (CDT)
Hi cadan grade 3 testing is the best I am sure you well do fine



from connor










H
icaedan




connor <Inwood23@southwood.com>
London, - Friday, May 10, 2002 at 08:36 AM (CDT)
Hi caedan We miss you From Marnie

Marnie <inwood23@southwood.com>
- Friday, May 10, 2002 at 08:35 AM (CDT)
Friday May 10 2002.
We gost finished ower A.Q testing. I just wanted to now if you wher filing better or you are in the hospitle or you wher in bed. Talk to you later.


Amanda <inwood23@southwood.com>
- Friday, May 10, 2002 at 08:34 AM (CDT)
Hi Caedan how are you doing? are you at home? The grade threes have been working on EQA testing for a couple of days. have a good day.
Nadeen <inwood23@southwood.com>
- Friday, May 10, 2002 at 08:33 AM (CDT)
Hi Caedan,

Hope your feeling well. I Heard your sick. Hope you get better soon. The Grade threes have finished our EQAO testing For the week.
Your buddy Luke Schindler

Luke Schindler <Inwood23@southwood.com>
London, Canada - Friday, May 10, 2002 at 08:33 AM (CDT)
hi caedan,were done our EQAO testing. so how are you felling. I have a Math question 482+9546= I lost my tooth at scool and I hope you get better.86
codykicks <inwood23@southwood.com>
London, - Friday, May 10, 2002 at 08:32 AM (CDT)
Hi caedan!!!!!!!!!
It's Dillon Hope your feeling beter we are half way throw the E.Q.A.O testing






Dillon <Inwood23@southwood.com>
London, - Friday, May 10, 2002 at 08:31 AM (CDT)
Hi caedan. The grade 2`s and me have been teravaling.But the grade 3`s have been testing.W`ve had more fun then the grade 3`s.


Mark

mark <inwood23@southwood.com>
london, ontaro canada - Friday, May 10, 2002 at 08:31 AM (CDT)
Hi Caedan its me Dylan D gess what I did with the Rogers gift certifiket you got me.I got Lego Racers for N64 you should try it sometime. From Dylan D
Dylan D <Inwood23@southwood.com>
London, Canada - Friday, May 10, 2002 at 08:28 AM (CDT)
Dear Caedan, we have been wroking hard, so we get a day off.We are wroking on a story, we are going to get ideas from Alice in wonderland. Hope you feel beter from Rayna.
Rayna <inwood23@southwood.com >
London, - Friday, May 10, 2002 at 08:28 AM (CDT)
Dear caedan,
I wish you where here the Gr 3's are uko testing.
well by
from casey

casey <inwood23@southwood.com>
canada, - Friday, May 10, 2002 at 08:28 AM (CDT)
hi caedan hope your feeling good right now the time is 9.25am byronsouthwood here is a math problem 9887+856-684= pretty good math problem well bye

from kevin

kevin miller <inwood23@southwood.com>
- Friday, May 10, 2002 at 08:27 AM (CDT)
hay Caedan, how are you.i`m grate.i hope you feel beter soon. i got through to the radio!!! and won a certifacit for mexeycala roses.
aboudi <aboudi_l@hotmail.com>
london, on - Friday, May 10, 2002 at 08:26 AM (CDT)
Hi Caedan, Hope your feeling beter.are You playing? you are lucky because you don t have to do EQAO!! well i would love to here from you.!
KATELYN MILLS <inwood23@southwood.com>
london, - Friday, May 10, 2002 at 08:25 AM (CDT)
HI Caedan how are you doing? We just fineshed EQAO testing but it was easy we hade to make an advencher
story.Next Friday we are having a EQAO party well bye.

Emily Bencze <inwood23@southwood.com>
- Friday, May 10, 2002 at 08:23 AM (CDT)
Hey Ceadan how are you? I hope you had fun when Mr.A came.
we just finished EQA testing for the week. well good bye.

Haley Ritchie <inwood23@southwood.com>
- Friday, May 10, 2002 at 08:22 AM (CDT)
Maryla, it was so wonderful to see you and to give you that hug in person. Tell Caedan that my promise/threat to hug and kiss him has not been forgotten!!! I hope that he enjoys "Rescue".....the name really made me stop and think....strange how life works isn't it Maryla? I am thankful that you have finally found the cause of the infection, but this sounds like a nasty one Maryla.....big time prayers being said for the Engrafted marrow to progress in spite of this Cytomegalo Virus. We are going to Camp Trillium at Rainbow Lake tonight for the spring weekend. Oh how I wish that your family was with there with us instead of being in the hospital. My dear friend, hold onto that Mother's Day Beanie Buddy Bear (that's a mouthful eh?) as your journey continues. You are still climbing in the right direction, albeit weary and afraid of the unknown sights you will see and experience as you ascend towards the peak. Your love for your child will give you all of the strength and courage that you need to keep climbing, of that I have no doubt. Much love to you dear friend. You are a wonderful mother. I will be thinking of you on Sunday. Prayers remain constant. Love is the most powerful medicine in the world.

Tami xo

Tami Watchurst (mom to Alexander 9 years: O/t High Risk A.L.L.) <leapco@auracom.com>
Orangeville, Ontario Canada - Friday, May 10, 2002 at 07:05 AM (CDT)
Happy Mother's Day, Mar!!

We all know the best gift of all would be Caedan's health. Here's hoping that wish comes true. We are praying for you - Keep up the spirit!

Caedan, here's a chuckle - my kittens have learned to knock on our bedroom door. And if we don't open it - they push it till it opens! Can you believe that?? I wonder if you have heard about Cotton and Garfield being that mischievous?

John and Sandy Bolton <jandsbolton@aol.com>
Amherstburg, ON - Friday, May 10, 2002 at 06:50 AM (CDT)
Make sure you save us a piece of bread, we will be back next week! Hope you have a good weekend. Don't have too much fun without us!
Love your nurses, Julia, Val, Heather and Christine <jrajan@rogers.com>
Hospital, - Friday, May 10, 2002 at 02:04 AM (CDT)
Saying a couple of extra prayers tonight for all of you.......and mentioning to the Big Guy (Big Gal?) just what we think of this CMV business. Here's hoping the antibiotics do their job right quick.
Much love from me and my folks,
Cousin Noah xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo

Noah Woodin <twobrides@hotmail.com>
- Thursday, May 09, 2002 at 11:30 PM (CDT)
Well, at least you know WHERE the problem lies. That's step number one! Ready for a little laugh?
What do you call a fairy who doesn't take a bath?
- Stinkerbell
What did the tddy bear say when he was offered dessert?
- No thanks, I'm stuffed.
What did the Pacific Ocean say to the Atlantic Ocean?
- Nothing, it just waved.

Tracy M. <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Thursday, May 09, 2002 at 03:39 PM (CDT)
Dear Caedan, Maryla and Scott,

Relieved to hear the source of infection has been found. Our prayers keep coming. Caedan you are a trooper.

Love, Aunt Helen

Helen Janssens <paul_h_janssens@hotmail.com>
fredericton, N.B. Canada - Thursday, May 09, 2002 at 03:19 PM (CDT)
Maryla & Caedan,

Now that they know the source of infection, I pray the antibiotics will knock it on out! Hang in there and know that you have bunches and bunches of people praying for you guys.

God bless,

Lisa Agee (www.caringbridge.com/page/ross) <lagee67@hotmail.com>
Camden, AL - Thursday, May 09, 2002 at 11:04 AM (CDT)
Hi everyone. Caedan, keep fighting! We are all keeping good thoughts and you are always in our prayers.
The Drouillards <gman@jet2.net>
LaSalle, - Thursday, May 09, 2002 at 10:26 AM (CDT)
Dear Caedan and family,
I read your journal last night and was relieved to hear that they have found the source of your infection. Hopefully, the new medicine will get at the problem and the nasty side effects that you mentioned won't happen.
My daughter, Alicia said she met you yesterday at the hospital and then proceeded to tell me what a smart and friendly guy you were (as if I didn't already know that!) Anyway, it was good to have her tell me you were watching a video and looked good. Perhaps she'll get a chance to visit with you again. Please take care and enjoy Mother's Day.
Love Mrs. Johnston

Diana Johnston <johnston5145@rogers.com>
London, - Thursday, May 09, 2002 at 06:58 AM (CDT)
oh boy, well like you said, at least they know what it is now, and hopefully it will not take long for the fevers to subside.
Chris
Gooch’s Page
<chrisrusso_@hotmail.com>
- Thursday, May 09, 2002 at 06:25 AM (CDT)
Maryla and Scott,
It sounds to me that the source of the problem is discovered and that there will be good progress now. We pray and are with you now.
Thank you so much for helping us to understand what is happening.
Love from Great Aunt Mary

Mary Lelanc <maryjake@nb.sympatico.ca>
Fredericton, Canada - Wednesday, May 08, 2002 at 08:46 PM (CDT)
Hi Gallaghers
Time for the daily giggle!!
What do you get if you cross a steer with a tadpole?
A bullfrog.

Why did the foal cough?
Because he was a little horse!

Why do cows like to hear jokes?
They like to be a-MOO-sed.

What's the easiest way to count a herd of sheep?
-Use a COWculator!!

:))

Tracy M. <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor , ON Canada - Wednesday, May 08, 2002 at 03:42 PM (CDT)
Hi Maryla and Caedan.

I am sorry to here Maryla that Caedan has so much yet to endure. It must be so frustrating (as I do know) for you to wait and see where Caedans source of infections are stemming from.I continue to keep you all in my thoughts and prayers.
Maryla, I may not get back to Caedans site later towards the end of the week so I would like to tell you that Caedan and Cali both are so incrediblylucky to have you as a Mommy. I know you are smiling and saying * Awh, but Sue I am so lucky to have Caedan and Cali as my son and my daughter* and Maryla you are so right, a very wise man that I love dearly ( Dr. Mark Greenberg) said to Abe and I one day at HSC, that Erics will and fight is a true testiment to the love and strength that we share with him as Parents and a child. You and Caedan both have that together, together you guys will get through this, to the end, you have all been through so much....somuch......If I do not get back to this site, Sunday as you know is Mothers Day, so Have a great one with your family, you of all women deserve it.
Lots of Love
Sue Thiessen and Family.

Sue <thiessen@amtelecom.net>
Aylmer, - Wednesday, May 08, 2002 at 10:17 AM (CDT)
Hi Caedan, Dylan and I read your website daily and think of you more often than that! Dylan wants to know if you want to borrow a set of books that his Gran and Grandpa just picked up for him. They are "What would you like to know about" books (kind of kid encylopedias) We'd be happy to drop them off and pick them back up once you've read them. He also wanted me to tell you that you are lucky to be missing the grade 3 tests. Even though he said day one was OK, it is heavy on his mind that there is two weeks of it! If there is anything else you can think of to take away the boredom, just ask! Hey did you know a snail can sleep for 3 years! "Talk" to you again soon. Dylan, Dawson, Beth & Pat
Beth Sutherland <bsutherland@introtel.com>
London, On Canada - Wednesday, May 08, 2002 at 10:04 AM (CDT)
Just letting you know that we are still thinking of all of you and that Nathan prays for Caedan every night. Keep up the faith, you're doing awesome. Best wishes!
Doug, Michele, and Nathan Bladecki <bladerpi@aol.com>
Troy, MI USA - Tuesday, May 07, 2002 at 09:49 PM (CDT)
hi all...it is Makayla's mom.......I am so glad to hear Caedan is doing great....what a relief......we miss you all, but it is for such a good reason!!!! Talk soon.
Melissa

Melissa <melgoodman@hotmail.com>
concord, ont canada - Tuesday, May 07, 2002 at 07:08 PM (CDT)
Glad to hear you're feeling a bit better at least! Sorry that you're bored though...here are a few jokes to make you smile.(I hope)
What animals are poor dancers?
-Four legged ones, because they have 2 left feet.

What happened to the kid who ran away with the circus??
-The police made him give it back.

Why are comedians like doctors?
-Because they keep people in stitches!!

Still praying for a speedy recovery.

Tracy M. <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Tuesday, May 07, 2002 at 03:48 PM (CDT)
We haven`t sent a message for a while but you guys are always on our minds!Hang in there Caedan ,you are an amazing person.Hope to get some good food your way soon Maryla.Love,your friends Jen,Doug,Alex and Ben

The Harrison`s <douglas.harrison@3web.net>
- Monday, May 06, 2002 at 06:13 PM (CDT)
Hope today finds you better than yesterday! They say laughter is the best medicine, so let's see if these help!

Why do you go to bed?
-Because the bed won't come to you.

What's the one word a dog can say?
-BARK!

Why are fish so smart?
-Because they live in schools.


Tracy M. <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Monday, May 06, 2002 at 02:27 PM (CDT)
Dear Caedan and Maryla,
Hey there kiddo!! I just wanted to let you know that those 5 seconds I saw you today in the hall REALLY made my day. Hope your afternoon is going well. I look forward to when Isabel and I can see you for longer!! Lots of love.

Lori and Isabel xoxo <lnh.sashegyi@sympatico.ca>
- Monday, May 06, 2002 at 02:07 PM (CDT)
Maryla
I know this year has been an emotional roller coaster for you, but I know he will be home soon and you can get on with your lives and put all this behind you.
JUST IN CASE
I dont get to you before then,


chris <chrisrusso_@hotmail.com>
/page/gooch - Monday, May 06, 2002 at 01:27 PM (CDT)
Maryla & Caeden ... I continue to send positive get well wishes your way!!You both are amazing considering how much you are going through. Thinking of you all & sending many hugs too!
Chetna <Cbhatt@rogers.com>
London, - Monday, May 06, 2002 at 11:47 AM (CDT)
Hi Maryla and Caedan, waving to you both from across the hall at the hospital. Its been good to see you both, too bad its under these circumstances....anyway, anytime you feel like gabbing, scoot across the hall, I am just maybe 20-30 feet away.

Take Care
Judy and Dustin (3.5 months post BMT)

Judy and Dustin (Inpatient @LHSC) <chaz2765@yahoo.com>
Chatham Ont, ON Canada - Monday, May 06, 2002 at 09:52 AM (CDT)
Maryla, Mr. Noodle eh? Hmmm, sounds like the menu is definitely in need of a pick-me-up!! I am praying that Caedan's counts stabalize and that he is able to go home soon. Listen my friend, I am going to be in London attending a conference for the next 2 1/2 days (at Parkwood Hospital) right across the road from where Caedan is staying. I would love to see you even if just for a few minutes. I know that I cannot see Caedan, but if you are going to be in the hospital in the evening I would love to come over to see you and give you a great big HUG! I am staying at the Bestwestern Lamplighter Inn: 519-681-7151 (Under the name Tami Guilbert). If you are able to give me a call at the hotel and leave a message with a phone number that I could call you back that would be wonderful. CYBER HUG ((((((((((((((((((Maryla & Caedan))))))))))))))))))) until we can give one in person!

Love, Tami

Tami Watchurst (mom to Alexander 9 yrs: O/t: High Risk A.L.L.) <leapco@auracom.com>
Orangeville, Ontario Canada - Monday, May 06, 2002 at 07:56 AM (CDT)
Eaise said than done but dont panic until you know something. and let us know what onc. says tomorrow!

chris <chrisrusso_@hotmail.com>
/page/gooch - Sunday, May 05, 2002 at 08:35 PM (CDT)
Just so you know, I'm still sending every positive thought your way. Let us know what is easiest for you to take up to the hospital, and between me and mom, we'll get it done. I know I've said it before, but maybe I should say it again. All you need to do is ask, and we'll find a way to make it happen!! Got it??
:)

Tracy M <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Sunday, May 05, 2002 at 08:11 PM (CDT)
Oh please Maryla
with all you have been through you need a break
you have been running around physically and emotionally SO much

Chris <chrisrusso_@hotmail.com>
/page/gooch - Saturday, May 04, 2002 at 01:36 AM (CDT)
Hope today finds you feeling at least a tiny little bit better than you did yesterday. I'm sending every good thought I can your way.
Maryla - don't you dare feel bad about the pedicure!! Anyone who knows the smallest bit about what you've all been through since Christmas would not blame you one little bit!! I for one am glad that you got some time to recharge a bit. Take care!

Tracy M <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Friday, May 03, 2002 at 03:38 PM (CDT)
Caedan, hope you are keeping your mind off that hospital stay by thinking up some great riddles for us! I am looking forward to hearing lots more from you in the near future when you feel better.
Mar - you go girl! Its about time you do something for yourself. That pedicure should have lasted 3 or 4 hours. Bravo to Stacey. What a great idea. You of all people deserve at least that, Mar!
Hang in there -- Hoping you are keeping your spirits high!

Sandy Bolton <jandsbolton@aol.com>
Amherstburg, ON CANADA - Friday, May 03, 2002 at 01:05 PM (CDT)
Caedan, I'm sorry to hear you're feeling rough. I hope you're home very soon!
Maryla, you with the beautiful feet, I am glad to hear you went for the pedicure. Scoffing? No. Everyone should go for a pedicure.
Love to you, and Cali, and Scott.

Aunt Annie <anniebowers@shaw.ca>
Victoria, BC - Friday, May 03, 2002 at 10:35 AM (CDT)
Hello Gallaghers,
Sorry to hear that you are back in the hospital, Caedan. I'm beginning to think that maybe your Mom is not such a great cook and that you like the hospital food better than hers!!!!! (Yeah, right!!!!!) Hope you ae feeling better soon and can get back home - I'm sure there's a little girl there who is very anxious to see you.
Maryla, don't you dare feel bad or guilty for getting a pedicure. A friend of mine gave me a certificate for one after Cody was diagnosed. It is bliss!! If nothing else, it is an escape and a chance to relax for a little while. It may not change what is happening, but at least it gets you out of the hospital, away from the kitchen, away from the laundry, or whatever else you may think you should be doing. YOU DESERVE IT - ENJOY!!!
You are all in our thoughts and prayers,
Sharon, John, Trevor and Cody Simpson

Sharon Simpson <john.simpson6@sympatico.ca>
Windsor, ON Canada - Friday, May 03, 2002 at 09:39 AM (CDT)
Hey Caedan,
I was thinking about you today and wishing there was something I could do to make you feel better, 'cause I sure would do anything (even sleep through the night!) to help if I could. If you think of anything, you let me know and in the meantime I'll keep on sending you lots of love and good wishes and remembering you in my prayers. I'm also working on my parents, trying to get them organized enough to bring me out there to visit you........hopefully they'll get it together next month. I'm keeping the pressure on them.
My dad turns 35 tomorrow..........not as old as your dad, but still pretty ancient. He and my mom also send their love to you.

Hugs and kisses,
Cousin Noah

P.S. Hopefully by the time I see you I'll be walking! I'm practicing every day, but I'm still a little nervous to take that first step on my own.

Noah <twobrides@hotmail.com>
- Thursday, May 02, 2002 at 10:23 PM (CDT)
SCOFFING?!?!
are you crazy girl?? i was going to congratulate you on taking the time to get yourself a pedicure .... congratulations! i'm sure it must have been difficult for you to break away and do that, but i am PROUD of you!
thank goodness for Janet! :>
hang in there my dear
(((((((((big hugs)))))))))
troy
xoxo

troy <troy@bay-net.on.ca>
- Thursday, May 02, 2002 at 09:28 PM (CDT)
Caedan and Maryla,
I was sorry to hear that you were not feeling well yesterday. I hope today is better. I'm saying a prayer for you.
Love,
Great Aunt Mary

Mary LeBlanc <maryjake@nb.sympatico.ca>
Fredericton, Canada - Thursday, May 02, 2002 at 03:47 PM (CDT)
So do we Mar! With all our hearts, so do we.
Caedan, we're praying that today is a big improvement from yesterday. Thinking of your amazing spirit and strength constantly. Hugging you tight Mar!
Love,
Dina

Dina Kenkel <erabankers@aol.com>
West Bloomfield, Mi U.S.A - Thursday, May 02, 2002 at 06:37 AM (CDT)
Us,too. We just want Caedan to feel better.
We are sorry for the setbacks and hope they get fewer and farther between.
Wishing Caedan well.

Your Waterloo friends <hbyc7@rogers.com>
- Wednesday, May 01, 2002 at 09:10 PM (CDT)
Hi Caedan
Hope you're feeling better with every moment!! For some reason, I'm into monster jokes today, so hope you are too!!
How do you made a monster float?
Take 2 scoops of your favourite ice cream, a glass of coke, add one monster.....

What's a monster's favourite soup?
Scream of tomato

Which monster eats the fastest?
The Goblin

Hope these brightened your day a bit.

Tracy M <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor , ON Canada - Wednesday, May 01, 2002 at 03:48 PM (CDT)
Hi Kiddo,
Just thought we'd say "hi". Hope your having a good day. Our thoughts are with you.

Lori, Hube and Isabel <lnh.sashegyi@sympatico.ca>
- Wednesday, May 01, 2002 at 12:30 PM (CDT)
Maryla & Caedan, Alexander wants you to know that if he were able he would send Caedan some of his "soldier's....aka White Blood Cells" to help Caedan fight off the bad guys and any infections. Alexander said that he has lots of "soldier's" because it has been a long time since he had chemo and his "army" of soldier's have fully rebuilt themselves! Hey Caedan, Alexander wants to know what your favourite item was from the carepackage that we brought to you at Sick Kid's? Alexander said that his favourite would have been the Bionical. We hope that you are feeling better soon and able to go home again. Love and Prayers for strong "soldier's" continue.

Love, Tami & Alexander Watchurst xoxo

Tami Watchurst (mom to Alexander - 9 years A.L.L. o.t. 98-09-10) <leapco@auracom.com>
Orangeville, Ontario Canada - Tuesday, April 30, 2002 at 04:49 PM (CDT)
Hi Caedan,

Just thought we'd say Hi I thout you were at home but i heard that you are bake at the hospital again so wanted to email you but i do not know my Email adress. So good by until i get my email adass. GOOD BY CAEDAN.

katelyn <grade23@southwood.com>
London, - Tuesday, April 30, 2002 at 01:51 PM (CDT)
Hey Caedan, I was sorry to hear about the fever and the hospital visit. We're checking in every day, and thinking of you always.
Love

Aunt Annie <anniebowers@shaw.ca>
Victoria, BC - Tuesday, April 30, 2002 at 01:49 PM (CDT)
Hi Caedan,
We 're still here...thinking of you. Luke and Mr. A. and the web page are keeping us up-to-date. We hope you received ou great big card of good wishes for your birthday. We rely on Luke and his mom to be our postal carriers! We're glad you are back in London.

Mrs. I.


S. Inwood <grade23@southwood.com>
London, - Tuesday, April 30, 2002 at 01:48 PM (CDT)
Yikes! Hospital again? Good grief!!
Hang in there, Caedan, Mar and Scott. Here's hoping you'll be out of that hospital in no time.
Keep up the great fight, Caedan!

John and Sandy Bolton <jandsbolton@aol.com>
Amherstburg, ON Canada - Tuesday, April 30, 2002 at 07:04 AM (CDT)
oh man.. that poor kid cant catch a break huh?
And by the way Mom - this is so NOT the update I had in mind!!!
Next one better be all good news.. we dont want ANY more fevers!!!

chris <chrisrusso_@hotmail.com>
- Tuesday, April 30, 2002 at 01:17 AM (CDT)
Sorry you're not feeling so hot, or too hot maybe is the better way to put it. Look at it this way, every day you DO get to spend at home is one more day you DIDN'T have to spend in the hospital. Here's hoping you get that fever down right away so you can get back home just as fast as you possibly can!!
Sending hugs through mental telepathy!!

Tracy M. <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor , ON Canada - Monday, April 29, 2002 at 03:46 PM (CDT)
Maryla, so sorry to read this latest post about spiking another fever. (((((((((Maryla & Caedan))))))))))). The journey is so long and it must feel like you are standing in wet cement at times with the heavy load and the long road still ahead. You can do it Maryla and your strength will inspire strength in your darling son Caedan. The only way to prepare is to relinquish control....just like at diagnosis. It is the hardest part, knowing that the difference between a degree or so in temperature is the difference between sleeping in your own bed or putting your car on auto-pilot and heading back to the hospital. Alexander asks every day how Caedan is doing and we are checking the site daily to maintain that cyber space connection. We are strong and are not currently in need of the strength....so we are petitioning the "powers that be" to send you our strength and energy to boost your supply. Friendship, love and prayers are the most powerful tools we can offer....and rest assured that you have all three from our family. One day at a time Maryla...we are with you.

Love, The Watchurst Family (Tami, Jonathan, Alexander & Max) xxxx oooo

Tami Watchurst (mom to Alexander - 9 years A.L.L. o.t. 98-09-10) <leapco@auracom.com>
Orangeville, Ontario Canada - Monday, April 29, 2002 at 03:04 PM (CDT)
Happy Birthday Caedan!!!
Lisa Tignor <TheTiglady@aol.com>
Dumfries, VA USA - Monday, April 29, 2002 at 09:02 AM (CDT)
Hello Caedan the Great
and Maryla the not-so-great-because-we-all-want-an-update!,
I hope you guys are home, feeling great and enjoying the weekend!!!!

chris <chrisrusso_@hotmail.com>
www.caringbridge.com/page/gooch - Sunday, April 28, 2002 at 11:02 AM (CDT)
Hi to Caedan the Great,


Tell your equally great dad that I got his email and that he sounds so much like your grand-dad and my brother Pat that I feel that surely he(I mean Grand-Dad Pat) is still taking care of us.
I am glad to hear that you are home and on the mend.
Be happy you are living in London. It snowed here today and my one tulip that was blooming is hiding its head. But maybe tomorrow it will smile again with the sunshine.
Goodnight and love to all.
From Great Aunt Mary


e

Mary LeBlanc <maryjake@nb.sympatico.ca>
Fredericton, Canada - Friday, April 26, 2002 at 04:50 PM (CDT)
Here's hoping you are getting stronger with rest at HOME! Thought you might like some suggestions for reading material while you get better...
The Artic Ocean, by I.C Waters
Will He Win by Bette Does
Crossing Roads Safely, by Luke Bothways
Making Snacks by San Widge
Igloo Building by S. Keemo
Winning the Lottery by Jack Potts
:)) ............. kind of silly, I know, but I thought they were cute. Enjoy!

Tracy M. <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Friday, April 26, 2002 at 03:07 PM (CDT)
Caedan,
I'm glad that your getting to go home. What a nice Birthday present. HAPPY BIRTHDAY BUDDY!!!!
Hugs and PRayers,

Dawn Gresham - Tommy's Mom ALL-Kids <bdmtg@hotmail.com www.caringbridge.com/sc/tommygresham>
Warrenville, SC - Friday, April 26, 2002 at 12:09 PM (CDT)
Caeden,
I'm glad you are home and that you had a great birthday!
I'm praying for you and your family!

Cindy Coffman <cpcoffman@juno.com; www.caringbridge.com/ga/hillarycoffman>
Cumming, GA USA - Thursday, April 25, 2002 at 08:23 PM (CDT)
Hope you are feeling better by the minute. I guess all our birthday wishes for you came true, since you got sprung from the hospital right away!! :))
Got some brain teaser's here for you when you feel up to it.

Can you spell eighty in two letters?
A-T.
Did you hear the story about the skunk?
Never mind, it stinks.
How can you double your money?
Look at it in a mirror.
How can you make seven even?
Take away the letter S.

Tracy M <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Wednesday, April 24, 2002 at 02:52 PM (CDT)
Happy 9th Caedan! Maryla, so glad to read the good news. We are going through a bit of a scare with Rosie just now (4.7% blasts in the "final" BMA which must be repeated on May 8th)and so we are heading to Disneyworld on a last minute ESCAPE trip...wish I could take you and Caedan with us. Couldn't we all use an escape once in a while? My credit card company is going to be VERY happy! I'll keep you posted, meantime, as Dorothy says, "There's NO PLACE LIKE HOME!" :)
Amy & Rosie Rumberger <TimRumb@aol.com>
Alameda, CA USA - Tuesday, April 23, 2002 at 03:44 PM (CDT)


Doris (Smile Quilt) <cdmaa@insightbb.com>
- Tuesday, April 23, 2002 at 03:38 PM (CDT)
Way to Caedan!! As always, you continue to amaze me! Hope you had a wonderful birthday yesterday!

Keep up the good work! You make me so proud of you!


Tina Herzog <tina.herzog@sympatico.ca>
- Tuesday, April 23, 2002 at 12:48 PM (CDT)
Caedan ~
Well, my dear boy! This has got to be the best belated birthday present yet! HOME SWEET HOME! So glad to hear you'll be sleeping in your own bed tonight! We'll check back again soon to make sure you're all settled! Sending hugs and high fives from Las Vegas, Nevada!
Stacey and Chad Wada

Stacey and Chad Wada <SLW6204@aol.com>
LAS VEGAS, NV USA - Tuesday, April 23, 2002 at 12:45 PM (CDT)
HAPPY (belated) BIRTHDAY WISHES CAEDAN! Glad to hear you are coming home from the hospital again. Enjoy the sunshine today!!
Sandra Rombouts <kamrombouts@hotmail.com>
Delaware, - Tuesday, April 23, 2002 at 11:46 AM (CDT)
Good morning Kiddo!!
Happy belated birthday. Hope you had a good one. All the best!!

Lori, Hube and Isabel <lnh.sashegyi@sympatico.ca>
- Tuesday, April 23, 2002 at 08:44 AM (CDT)
Happy Belated Birthday Caedan!!
I'm really happy to read of your progress. Hope you had a wonderful day and cheers for many more to come!!!
Best wishes Always
xoxox

Ursula Braun <rubraun@hotmail.com>
Niagara Falls, On - Tuesday, April 23, 2002 at 08:03 AM (CDT)
Happy 9th Birthday Caedan!! Have a great celebration!
My Adam just turned 10 last Saturday! A popular month!
Have fun and love & cuddles to all!
Liz, Murray, Adam (just OT), Joshua & Bethany XO XO XO XO XO

the Cruickshank family from Down Under! (ALL-KIDS) <meajbc@bigpond.com>
Melbourne, Vic. Australia - Tuesday, April 23, 2002 at 05:43 AM (CDT)
Hau'oli la hanau (Happy Birthday) to Caedan!!! Hope you enjoy every minute of it!
Janet Guild <guildt001@hawaii.rr.com>
Wahiawa, HI - Monday, April 22, 2002 at 11:01 PM (CDT)
Caedon...Happy 9th Birthday!!! Hope you got everything you wanted!!

Hugs and wishes!!!

Karen <khopson@dcdi.net>
Grace, ID USA - Monday, April 22, 2002 at 10:17 PM (CDT)
Happy Birthday Caedan!

Hope you had a great day!


Annie Thomas <annie@geoplan.ufl.edu>
Gainesville, FL - Monday, April 22, 2002 at 09:20 PM (CDT)
Happy 9th Birthday, Caedan!
Hope that you enjoy your special day.

The Ruttingers http://www.caringbridge.com/mi/keatonspage/ <jjkk3@attbi.com>
Tecumseh, MI USA - Monday, April 22, 2002 at 08:57 PM (CDT)
*H*A*P*P*Y* *9*T*H *B*I*R*T*H*D*A*Y* *C*A*E*D*A*N*

We're SO HAPPY to hear you'll get to go home for a few hours to celebrate! Hope you have a great time and get lots of goodies! We are sending loving prayers and many good wishes for a fantastic year ahead! You are a very special boy!!
Love ~ Bill, Stacey, Bryce, and especially Chad


The Wada Family <SLW6204@aol.com>
LAS VEGAS, NV USA - Monday, April 22, 2002 at 07:35 PM (CDT)
Have a GREAT birthday Caedan! Hope you get everything you are wishing for.
The Drouillards <gman@jet2.net>
- Monday, April 22, 2002 at 07:05 PM (CDT)
HAPPY BIRTHDAY CAEDAN, from the Reich/Gillespie clan of Dahlia, Ian, Jonas, Graeme and Gabrielle. We're over here celebrating with you and for you. All our love on this special day.
Dahlia Reich <dahlia.reich@sympatico.ca>
london, - Monday, April 22, 2002 at 06:07 PM (CDT)
Happy Birthday Caedan, I hope you have a wonderful time at home eating your cake and opening presents. I can't believe that you are 9. I wish the best for you and your family and hope you get lots of cool things for your birthday. Karen Gorza
Karen Gorza < m.k.gorza@rogers.com>
ingersoll, ont canada - Monday, April 22, 2002 at 05:50 PM (CDT)
Happy Birthday To You, Happy Birthday to You! Happy Birthday dear Caedan, happy birthday to you!!
Hope you enjoy the day, and most especially the few hours home having cake and presents and all that good stuff!
I got you a couple of cheesy birthday jokes, hope you like them!
What has wings, a long tail, and wears a bow?

-A birthday pheasant!!

What does a basketball player do just before he blows out the candles on his cake?

-He makes a swish!!!

Tracy M <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Monday, April 22, 2002 at 03:43 PM (CDT)
HAPPY HAPPY BIRTHDAY DEAR CAEDAN!!!!! 9 YEARS OLD! WOW!!!!

Hope you have a WONDERFUL day filled with everything you wish for!!!

Lots of love,

Tina, Rob, Robert Zachary and Michael Herzog


Tina Herzog <tina.herzog@sympatico.ca>
- Monday, April 22, 2002 at 11:52 AM (CDT)
HAPPY BIRTHDAY CAEDAN!!!!!
Hope you have a great day today and that you enjoy your time at home. Birthday cake just doesn't taste the same on hospital plates!!
Cody sends his best wishes and we'll try to stop by tomorrow when we're in London.
The Simpsons

Sharon Simpson <john.simpson6@sympatico.ca>
Windsor, ON Canada - Monday, April 22, 2002 at 11:50 AM (CDT)
Hi Caedan,

Have a HAPPY, HAPPY, BIRTHDAY. NINE YEARS OLD - WOW!!! This means your Great Aunt Helen is getting a little older, but not nearly as old as Great Aunt Mary.

Enjoy the day.

Love, Aunt Helen, Uncle Paul and Ryan

Helen Janssens <paul_h_janssens@hotmail.com>
fredericton, N.B. Canada - Monday, April 22, 2002 at 10:53 AM (CDT)
Hi Caedan: Hope you have a very Special Day today, no matter where you are. Happy Birthday #9!!
Valerie, Cliff, Travis and Reece Hammell <cuff31@aol.com>
Ottawa, Ont - Monday, April 22, 2002 at 10:36 AM (CDT)
Happy Birthday Caedan!!
Wishing you all the best, enjoy your day
Jennifer

Jennifer <jthompson@lon.imag.net>
St Thomas, ON Canada - Monday, April 22, 2002 at 10:30 AM (CDT)
Happy Birthday Caedan!!!!
Lisa <Hawthorl@lhsc.on.ca>
London, Ont Canada - Monday, April 22, 2002 at 10:14 AM (CDT)
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO CAEDAN WHO IS NINE TODAY! WOW!!!!!!!!!!!
We hope you had a great party yesterday. My friend's birthday is today too , but she is much older than you.She is 63,just like me..When she was 9 she looked and talked like Ann of Green Gables,except she had dark curly hair .She wore her hair in long braids and she was very smart and witty and saucy too sometimes just like Ann.If you don'tknow who Ann is ask your mom.She will know.
Bye and love .


Mary LeBlanc <maryjake@nb.sympatico.ca>
Fredericton, Canada - Monday, April 22, 2002 at 09:49 AM (CDT)
Happy Birthday Caedan!

Wow 9!!! You are suach a big boy and an even bigger boy in heart and spirit. If most men could learn from you, this world would be so much for the better. Way to go and enjoy your 5 hours at home with Mom Dad and Cali.
Have fun!
Love from the Thiessen Family

Sue <thiessen@amtelecom.net>
Aylmer, ON - Monday, April 22, 2002 at 08:50 AM (CDT)
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU, HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU, HAPPY BIRTHDAY DEAR CAEDAN, HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU!!!!!!!

So glad you got to go home for your special party! I bet you got all kinds of cool stuff for your Birthday. I hope you can go home soon.

God Bless,

Steven Hicks (Sarah Anne's Dad) <hicks@cbse.uab.edu>
Birmingham, AL - Monday, April 22, 2002 at 08:40 AM (CDT)
HAPPY BIRTHDAY to you Caedan!! WOW, 9 yrs old!! You certainly are much brighter than most 9 yr olds I know,....actually, even many adults!:-)
We are thrilled that you can celebrate at home this evening. Those are a lot of candles to blow out! We'll be thinking of you, and smiling big time!
Love,
Dina, Matt, Patrick, Stephen and Sarah Kenkel

Dina Kenkel <erabankers@aol.com>
West Bloomfield, Mi U.S.A - Monday, April 22, 2002 at 08:06 AM (CDT)
HAPPY BIRTHDAY CAEDAN! HOPE YOU HAD A FUN DAY YESTERDAY FOR YOUR BIRTHDAY CELEBRATION. HERE'S WISHING YOU ANOTHER 100 (AT LEAST) MORE HEALTHY & HAPPY BIRTHDAYS AHEAD!!

JOHN AND SANDY BOLTON <jandsbolton@aol.com>
Amherstburg,, ON - Monday, April 22, 2002 at 06:52 AM (CDT)
Hey Caedan:
Happy Birthday Caedan, nine...nine! I can't believe that you are nine, I was watching the video that your Mom sent me and on it was your 1st birthday (you had cake smeared all over your face...don't think you got any in your mouth..hope you have better luck this year).
I was out with walking Noah in the stroller and we went by the PNE (the fair we went to when you were in Vancouver) and they just opened up and I could see a big line up at the bumper cars and I thought, "man, all those kids are lucky that Caedan and I are not in there or we show them who the bumper car kings are"...
Get your Mom and Dad and Cali to give you extra birthday hugs from us out here in Vancouver.

Uncle John, Aunt Christie and Cousin Noah <twobrides@hotmail.com>
Vancouver, BC V5L 2J7 - Sunday, April 21, 2002 at 10:26 PM (CDT)
*****HAPPY BIRTHDAY CAEDAN*****
I can't believe that you are 9 already!
Have a wonderful birthday and eat lots of cake!!!

Kate Lupson <slupson@rogers.com>
London, Ont Canada - Sunday, April 21, 2002 at 07:53 PM (CDT)
HAPPY BIRTHDAY CAEDAN!!!!!
We love you!!!!

Chris <chrisrusso_@hotmail.com>
- Sunday, April 21, 2002 at 07:38 PM (CDT)
Hi Caedan and family,
Just wanted to wish you a happy birthday tomorrow. I'm glad to hear that you will be able to get home for some birthday fun. I hope you have a great day and an even better year.
It is Earth Week at Southwood. Tomorrow we are supposed to wear green and then your class and Mrs. Lee's are doing an assembly in the afternoon. We have a couple of litterless lunches and walk/bike to school days. To finish off the week there is a used book sale to raise some money for an environment-friendly-good-cause. I think last year we bought some trees for the playground or else bought some flowers for the school garden.
Anyways, take care and enjoy the 22nd.
Thinking of you, Mrs. Johnston,XO

Diana Johnston <johnston5145@rogers.com>
London, - Sunday, April 21, 2002 at 06:06 PM (CDT)
Greetings Caedan, Maryla and family.
Glad to here you are back in town and hoping you can all be home together very soon. If Caedan isnt home, I hope he is feeling improved enough to enjoy turning 9. Matt cant wait himself. Happy Birthday Greetings to you Caedan

from Mary Blair and Matt <maryerobertson@canada.com>
Londong, - Sunday, April 21, 2002 at 03:23 PM (CDT)
Maryla, so sorry to read about Caedan's readmission to hospital, but happy to hear that the source of the fever has been determined. Prayers being said for the antibiotics to kick into action and for the bug to be under control so that Caedan can be back home to celebrate his birthday!!!! By the way Caedan, Alexander said to tell you that being 9 is just great! He's just a few months older than you, he turned 9 at the end of January. We are all sending you the very best wishes for a special Birthday, hopefully to be shared at home with your mom, dad and little sister Cali. Much love to each of you.

Tami, Jonathan, Alexander & Max
(The Watchurst Family) xxxx oooo

Tami Watchurst (mom to Alexander - 9 years A.L.L. o.t. 98-09-10) <leapco@auracom.com>
Orangeville, Ontario Canada - Saturday, April 20, 2002 at 12:59 PM (CDT)


I hope you are doing better Caedan!!!!

Chris & Gooch <chrisrusso_@hotmail.com>
/page/gooch - Saturday, April 20, 2002 at 08:50 AM (CDT)
Maryla,

Been checking up on Caedan's progress on his website, glad to see he (and you) are home at last for some well deserved R & R. Here's hoping for great counts, no infections and clear sailing!

Missy <missy.layfield@cfu.net>
cedar falls, iowa USA - Thursday, April 18, 2002 at 10:26 PM (CDT)
Hi Caedan,

We are giving you a big cheer and home your fever comes down quickly.

Sandy at Growing Cocern Child Care Centre <smschram@hotmail.com>
london, ont canada - Thursday, April 18, 2002 at 03:05 PM (CDT)
Hope today finds you fever free and getting ready to go back home. If not today, then tomorrow!!
Do you know what you get when you cross a joke book with a motorcycle??
A Yama-ha-ha-ha-ha-ha!!!
:)

Tracy M. <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Thursday, April 18, 2002 at 03:02 PM (CDT)
Hi all. Sorry to hear about the fever and hospital visit. Caedan, I hope you're home soon. This is surely just a little 'blip'! We love you!
Aunt Annie <anniebowers@shaw.ca>
Victoria, BC - Thursday, April 18, 2002 at 10:34 AM (CDT)
Hi All - Our thoughts are with you and hope you are all back home soon! When Caedan is feeling up to it, Dylan would love to chat with him over the phone. Beth, Pat Dylan and Dawson
Beth Sutherland <bsutherland@introtel.com>
London, On N6K 3A3 - Thursday, April 18, 2002 at 09:44 AM (CDT)
Hang in there, Mar. We are all praying for Caedan's speedy recovery. Sure hope he's home to celebrate his birthday.
Keep up that positive thinking. Sending good vibes from Windsor!!!

John and Sandy Bolton <jandsbolton@aol.com>
Amherstburg, ON - Thursday, April 18, 2002 at 07:04 AM (CDT)
Oh Man.
I was hoping you guys wouldnt see the inside of a hospital for awhile....Geez.
Please let us know as soon as he's discharged!!! We'll be praying for you guys.

Chris <chrisrusso_@hotmail.com>
- Wednesday, April 17, 2002 at 09:38 PM (CDT)
Hi Guys!
I'm so glad to hear that you are home.All of you! I saw Cali yesterday, and all I had to do was mention Caedan's name and she was beaming from ear to ear. Keep us updated.
Love Miss Kate.

Kate Lupson <slupson@rogers.com>
London, Ont Canada - Wednesday, April 17, 2002 at 04:57 PM (CDT)
What did the fast tomato say to the slow tomato??

KETCHUP!!!
(giggle giggle)
For some reason that one tickles my funny bone!!
Hope you are continuing to get stronger and stronger every day.

Tracy M <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Wednesday, April 17, 2002 at 03:18 PM (CDT)
Hi Maryla, Caedan and family ~
It is GREAT to read that you are all back at home and under one roof again! I am so happy that Caedan continues to heal, recover, and feel good! You are doing the right thing by keeping potential germs and ickies away! Enjoy your precious time together! We are keeping you all in our prayers.
Love ~
Bill, Stacey, Bryce, and Chad Wada

The Wada Family <SLW6204@aol.com>
LAS VEGAS, NV USA - Wednesday, April 17, 2002 at 02:10 PM (CDT)
Maryla, wonderful to read about a quiet and peaceful time at home with your little family. We understand completely about the no visitors situation and want you and Caedan to know that we will be following his journey through cyber space until he is stronger and able to handle our visit. We wish for each of you continued strength on the journey up the mountain. Love and prayers continue as always.

Tami, Jonathan, Alexander and Max (The Watchurst Family) xxxx oooo

Tami Watchurst (mom to Alexander - 9 years A.L.L. o.t. 98-09-10) <leapco@auracom.com>
Orangeville, Ontario Canada - Tuesday, April 16, 2002 at 06:05 PM (CDT)
Hey Caedan, did you hear about the teacher who was cross eyed?
He lost control of his pupils!!!

So glad to hear you all had a great weekend home together! Keep up the hard work big guy!

Tracy M <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Tuesday, April 16, 2002 at 02:23 PM (CDT)
Hello Everyone,

I'm so pleased you are home and able to have some quite family time. Caedan, make sure you take all the time you need to get stronger, we will see you when you are ready.

Sandy at Growing Concern Childcare Centre <smschram@hotmail.com>
London, Ont Canada - Tuesday, April 16, 2002 at 01:14 PM (CDT)
I hope everyone understands how you feel about keeping him as germ free as possible, and hold your ground, even if he really really really wants to - you need to keep him as germ free as possible, as you said.
And what would the C man like for his bday???


Chris <chrisrusso_@hotmail.com>
Bethel, CT www.caringbridge.com/page/gooch - Monday, April 15, 2002 at 10:14 PM (CDT)
Hello All
Hope you enjoyed your first weekend home! Thought alot about you all. Got a little giggle for you.

Why did the turtle cross the road??

To get to the Shell station!!
:))

Tracy M <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Monday, April 15, 2002 at 02:24 PM (CDT)
Hello Gallagher Family....

Great News ! I am so glad to hear that Caedan is home. You all must be so relieved. I hope all is goes well. I think of you often.

Take Care,
Janice

Janice Kucy <Kucyj@lhsc.on.ca>
London, ONT Canada - Monday, April 15, 2002 at 11:57 AM (CDT)
Wahoo! I am so so happy you are going home! This is excellent news! You have made my day! Dorothy said it best, "There is NO PLACE LIKE HOME!" Congratulations!
Amy & Rosie Rumberger <TimRumb@aol.com>
Alameda, CA USA - Monday, April 15, 2002 at 11:34 AM (CDT)
Hi Gallaghers! So, how does it feel to be home and in your own space? Hope everything is going well. You are in my thoughts.

Mary-Anne <maryanne.davies@lhsc.on.ca>
London, - Monday, April 15, 2002 at 08:28 AM (CDT)
Maryla & Caedan
Welcome Home.
Jennifer XOXOetc....

Jennifer <jthompson@lon.imag.net>
St Thomas, ON - Sunday, April 14, 2002 at 09:52 PM (CDT)
Hello, just wanted to let you know that we were thinking of you both and I am glad to hear that you are finally home.
Michelle MacDonald <edmac@oxford.net>
- Sunday, April 14, 2002 at 05:54 PM (CDT)
Hello Gallaghers! Welcome Home! How wonderful what a great job you all did. We look forward to talking to you soon.
Lisa & family

Lisa <HowesatHome@aol.com>
London, Canada - Saturday, April 13, 2002 at 01:21 PM (CDT)
Caedan
hurry up and get home
we wanna see pictures of you running around at home!



chris <chrisrusso_@hotmail.com>
www.caringbridge.com/page/gooch - Friday, April 12, 2002 at 09:42 PM (CDT)
Maryla, Scott, Caedan & Cali
I am so happy to hear of the great news. It will be so nice for you all to be together at home. I can't even imagine how happy Cali will be. We miss you. Stay strong!

Love Miss Rhea

Rhea Dufily (Growing Concern Child Care) <jeepnyj@rogers.com>
London, ON Canada - Friday, April 12, 2002 at 06:53 PM (CDT)
I couldn't think of a joke that would make your smile any bigger than it probably is right now, so you'll have to just be happy with me saying Welcome Home, Congratulations, All the Best.... and any other saying you can think of. Unplug the phone, turn off the computer, and just enjoy each other for a while. And if you're getting hungry, mom and I are taking orders.
Tracy M. <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Friday, April 12, 2002 at 05:06 PM (CDT)
Great news Caedan, Dylan just wrote you on your Mom's email address and is anxious to see you. Have a good drive home and call Dylan when you are up to it! Beth (Dylan's Mom)
Beth Sutherland <bsutherland@introtel.com>
London, On Canada - Friday, April 12, 2002 at 03:11 PM (CDT)
Hi Caedan, we're really glad that you are finally home!
What did you do first when you got home? How are you
feeling?
We are the kids in Mrs. DePrest's grade 2 class and we have been
keeping upto date with your progress.
We are learning about the internet and wanted to send you a
message.
We are also learning about dinorsaurs. Our favourite dinosuaurs
are stegasorous, clubtail, raptors, brontosaurous. What is your
favourite dinosaur?
Could you please write back to us at kjsdgelz@rogers.com we
would love to hear from you.


Mrs. DePrests Grade 2 Class Chippewa Public School <kjsdgelz@rogers.com>
London, On Canada - Friday, April 12, 2002 at 02:22 PM (CDT)
We are glad you are coming back. See you soon. from Rayna
Rayna <inwood23@byronsouthwood.com>
London, - Friday, April 12, 2002 at 01:42 PM (CDT)
Gallagher Family

Have a WONDERFUL weekend together.

Sandy at Growing Concern <smschram@hotmail.com>
london, ont canada - Friday, April 12, 2002 at 01:36 PM (CDT)
Such great news!
We are all following your healthy developments, and are soooooo...happy for you all.

xo Mrs. I. and the gang here at school.

S. Inwood <inwood23@byronsouthwood.com>
London, - Friday, April 12, 2002 at 01:29 PM (CDT)
Hi Maryla!
I am so happy to hear that Caedan is going home! It will be so nice for your family to be together in your own home. Keep up the good work.

The Neary family, Mary, Patrick , Aidan and Cailey <nearyme@aol.com>
Juneau, AK USA - Friday, April 12, 2002 at 12:26 PM (CDT)
GREAT NEWS!!! There's no place like home and your own bed!!
You are such a CHAMPION Caedan! Keep up the good work!
Love & cuddles to everyone!
Liz, Murray, Adam, Joshua & Bethany XO XO XO XO XO

the Cruickshank family (ALL-KIDS) <meajbc@bigpond.com>
Melbourne, Vic. Australia - Friday, April 12, 2002 at 07:53 AM (CDT)
Home is where the heart is....and where Caedan is!!
Ah, the simple things in life!
To quote James Taylor: "The secret of life is enjoying the passing of time". May all of you enjoy every minute of togetherness with your family - at home - where you belong!

John and Sandy Bolton <jandsbolton@aol.com >
Amherstburg, ON - Friday, April 12, 2002 at 07:14 AM (CDT)
Yay, Yay, Yay
Home Sweet Home
Noah is so excited he can't sleep!

Uncle John, Aunt Christie and Cousin Noah <twobrides@hotmail.com>
- Thursday, April 11, 2002 at 10:07 PM (CDT)
Maryla
I am so happy for you!!!!
Now aside from Rachel's bday today is a great day for another reason!!!!
Please relax and spend time with Cali and let the laundry pile up a little.. you need a break.

Chris
www.caringbridge.com/page/gooch
<chrisrusso_@hotmail.com>
- Thursday, April 11, 2002 at 09:15 PM (CDT)
HOME SWEET HOME! How wonderful for all of you to be under the same roof once again. Caedan, wishing you good health as you recover at home.

Where do newfie's keep their army's?

In their sleevies.

Best wishes from the Cordiners

Kelly <kbcor@sympatico.ca>
London, On Canada - Thursday, April 11, 2002 at 09:05 PM (CDT)
caedan and family:
I am very excited for you and your family. I was very pleased to hear that you may be coming home soon. I hope that you continue to do better and get to come home. Everyone is right that there is no place like home. Best wishes to you and your family.

Karen Gorza (Douglas)
Growing Concern Daycare

karen gorza <mikegorza@rogers.com>
ingersoll, ont canada - Thursday, April 11, 2002 at 08:53 PM (CDT)
WOW!!!!! Going home, that is so wonderful. I am truly happy for you all. Will keep you all in our prayers.
Love from the Thiessen Family

Sue <thiessen@amtelecom.net>
Aylmer, ON - Thursday, April 11, 2002 at 07:52 PM (CDT)
How I wish I was there to see Cali and Caedan together!! I can picture her now, simply delighted to be playing next to her "Day-Day", finally at home. What a beautiful moment for you all to treasure! We love you Caedan, and hope to talk to you real soon...Yipeee, at HOME!!!!
XOXOXOXOXO
Dina, Matt, Patrick, Stephen and Sarah

Dina Kenkel <erabankers@aol.com>
West Bloomfield, Mi U.S.A - Thursday, April 11, 2002 at 07:26 PM (CDT)
Now that my computer is fixed I get to see what everyone has been saying. I'm so happy to hear you're coming home tonight, I can't stop smiling! I've been smiling so much since Cody called Caedan that my face hurts. There really is no place like home! Hopefully, I can stay up to see all the vehicles in the driveway. Together!!!!!! Lots of hugs & kisses. Caedan you are our hero!!! Tracy, Tim, Cody & Kyle.
P.S. Michelle Flower sends her love!

Tracy B <bestbet@sympatico.ca>
London, Ont Canada - Thursday, April 11, 2002 at 06:46 PM (CDT)
HURRAY!!! GOING HOME!!! THAT'S SO COOL!!!
I can imagine that Cali will be delighted too. You guys must be SO excited. Wish I could be part of the welcoming committee. I will pass on the good news to Auntie Charlyn and to Marian's class; I know they'll be happy to hear it.
Love,

Aunt Annie <anniebowers@shaw.ca>
Victoria, BC - Thursday, April 11, 2002 at 05:23 PM (CDT)
YAHOO!!!! I have been checking the site every couple hours all day today and I just got home and had the need to check it again and VOILA! "There's no place like home, There's no place like home!". Music to our ears! Sharing your happiness with this latest milestone and praying constantly for continued good news!

Love, Tami, Jonathan, Alexander & Max (The Watchurst Family) xxxx oooo

Tami Watchurst (mom to Alexander - 9 years A.L.L. o.t. 98-09-10) <leapco@auracom.com>
Orangeville, Ontario Canada - Thursday, April 11, 2002 at 04:50 PM (CDT)
Hey there! Did you know it's dangerous to tell a joke to Humpty Dumpty? They say he could crack up!
Tracy M. <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
WIndsor, ON Canada - Thursday, April 11, 2002 at 02:30 PM (CDT)
Hi Caedan its Dylan D in November I'm going to Cuba and I'll bring some soovanears ok?
See you later! Dylan D

Dylan D <inwood23@byronsouthwood.com>
London, Canada - Thursday, April 11, 2002 at 01:53 PM (CDT)
Welcome, welcome, welcome home!! Welcome, welcome, welcome home....Welcome, welcome, welcome home.......welcome, welcome, home!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! We are soooooooooooo glad your back!!!!!!!!
Lori, Hube and Isabel <lnh.sashegyi@sympatico.ca>
london, - Thursday, April 11, 2002 at 01:41 PM (CDT)
What wonderful news!! Hang in there Caeden - you'll soon be sleeping in your own bed.
All the best,

Mary-Anne <maryanne.davies@lhsc.on.ca>
London, ON - Thursday, April 11, 2002 at 12:27 PM (CDT)
Way To Go Caedan.

Great News! Going Home! Your Great Aunt Helen and Great Uncle Paul are sooooooo Happy And Especially your cousin Ryan. Love from all us.

Helen Janssens <paul_h_janssens@hotmail.com>
Fredericton, , N.B. Canada - Wednesday, April 10, 2002 at 08:00 PM (CDT)
Hope you had another good day today!!
Got a joke for you
There were 4 cats in a boat and one jumped out. How many were left?
-None, they were copy cats.
:))

Tracy M <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Wednesday, April 10, 2002 at 03:56 PM (CDT)
Hello Caedan and Family,

I am glad things are going so well. Take good care.
Bye for now

Sandy Schram at Growing Concern <smschram@hotmail.com>
london, ont canada - Wednesday, April 10, 2002 at 02:40 PM (CDT)
Great to read that Caedan is doing well and might be going home earlier than expected! Way to go Caedan!

God Bless,

Hicks Family <hicks@cbse.uab.edu>
Birmingham, AL - Wednesday, April 10, 2002 at 02:33 PM (CDT)
Congratulations to Caeden for making such wonderful progress!! I'm sure even just thinking of being at home as a family again is a happy thought. There will be lots of people in London eagerly awaiting your return, and good thoughts and prayers continue to be sent your way.
Mary Rooke <mary.rooke@lhsc.on.ca>
Ingersoll, Ontario - Wednesday, April 10, 2002 at 01:30 PM (CDT)
Maryla, keep clicking those heels.....! Saying prayers last night with Alexander and Max we were praising God for Caedan's recovery from the B.M.T. process and asking for continued success! Alexander and Max are anxiously awaiting updates about your journey back home. Six months isolation from School...hmmmm.....I haven't shared that with the boys yet, don't want them to get any ideas! (LOL). Give us the word Maryla about when it is okay to do a road trip down to London and we will be there (masks, capes, full body armour whatever it takes!!!!). Maryla, you are doing amazing on your journey up that mountain. A mother's love is the most powerful medicine on earth.
Love, Tami, Jonathan, Alexander & Max (The Watchurst Family) xxxx oooo

Tami (mom to Alexander: 9 yrs: o/t High Risk A.L.L.) <leapco@auracom.com>
Orangeville , Ontario Canada - Wednesday, April 10, 2002 at 06:50 AM (CDT)
Hi! Glad to see that you are almost out of Toronto! (I haven't written before because I am so computer illiterate) P.S. Heather wants you to know Rosie is transferring to Toronto's Sick Kids so she can be close to you!
Kim and Heather 7N/W <kidthompson77@hotmail.com>
- Wednesday, April 10, 2002 at 03:03 AM (CDT)
You know what Maryla
maybe his friends wouldnt mind wearing face masks when they visit?
So they can maybe come often and you wont have to worry so much..
this is gonna be hard enough on Caedan...
I cant wait to see the "WE'RE HOME" update soon!!!


Chris Gooch;s mom <Chrisrusso_@hotmail.com>
- Tuesday, April 09, 2002 at 10:51 PM (CDT)
Gallagher Family
WOW great news. Maryla, I am looking forward to doing lunch, a little closer to home:) Take care of you Jennifer XOXOXO

Jennifer <jthompson@lon.imag.net>
St Thomas, ON - Tuesday, April 09, 2002 at 10:45 PM (CDT)
Hi Caedan and Maryla,

Wow!!! Can't wait to see you guys in clinic! We'll be on the lookout.... Lisa

Lisa Hawthornthwaite <hawthorn@motionlink.net>
London, Ont Canada - Tuesday, April 09, 2002 at 04:23 PM (CDT)
Hi Caedan!
This is your Mom's friend Troy. We just spent the day at your house getting your room ready for you. It's nice and fresh and clean and waiting for you to come home!! :>
So drink up and eat up, get lots of fluids into you and help your body doing its awesome job of getting better!

Caleb has some jokes for you now:
Q:
What do you call a man who does everything at top speed?
A:
Max (hee hee)

Q:
what do you call a man who goes fishing every weekend?
A:
Rod (hee hee hee)

Q:
what do you call a man who steals money for a living?
A:
Robin Banks
HA! Get it? robin banks? robbing banks? get it?
hahahahahaha

ok. we want you to get all rested up for your journey home and hopefully we'll see you soon!!!!

xoxo
Troy and Caleb

Troy and Caleb <troy@bay-net.on.ca>
- Tuesday, April 09, 2002 at 02:49 PM (CDT)
Caeden,

Glad to hear that things are going so well. I will pray that you get home on Thursday. Hope you are doing all your exercises! Take care.
Natasha (your London physio)

Natasha <Natasha.Nunes@lhsc.on.ca>
- Tuesday, April 09, 2002 at 01:35 PM (CDT)
Gallagher Family,
Holy Smokes - What wonderful news! Your family must be so happy and proud! Keep up the good work and have another drink.

Sandra, Mike and kids <kamrombouts@hotmail.com>
Delaware, ON Canada - Tuesday, April 09, 2002 at 12:43 PM (CDT)
Hi Caedan,
Wow! It would be great if you could be home soon. We're starting a new unit in class all about Canada. I told my brother that you are so smart you probably already know all the provinces and their capitals. Glad you are able to play with a few toys now. Hope soon to kick the soccer ball around with you.
See you soon,
Dillon C.

Kelly Cordiner <kbcor@sympatico.ca>
London, Ontario - Tuesday, April 09, 2002 at 10:05 AM (CDT)
Maryla, "There's no place like home, there's no place like home!". Keep clicking your heels and you will be home before you know it!!! This is the best news possible! Look at those counts YAHOO!!!!!! Kinder surprises are the best aren't they Caedan? Enjoy the K-nex, Alexander and Max just love the ones they have. We are so thrilled to read this latest post. Prayers continue and we are sending you all the positive energy we can muster up to get you back on down the road to London!

Love, Tami, Jonathan, Alexander & Max xxxx oooo (The Watchurst Family)

Tami (mom to Alexander 9 years: O/t High Risk A.L.L. ) <leapco@auracom.com>
Orangeville, Ontario Canada - Tuesday, April 09, 2002 at 09:48 AM (CDT)
Now THAT kind of news I could get used to!!! Can't think of any better way to start my day. I'm so VERY VERY happy to hear it!!
Keep up the good work Caedan! I'm proud of you!

Tracy M <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Tuesday, April 09, 2002 at 08:22 AM (CDT)
Hi Caedan! I just got the e-mail for Dylan and printed it for him as he has already gone to school. He'll pass all your messages along at lunch! And Dylan does know Aboudi as they were in JK/SK together and are chums! Dylan will write back tonight. Thanks for keeping us informed! I love great news first thing in the morning - you have made my day and I know Dylan will be excited to hear about Thursday. Bye for now, Beth (Dylan's Mom)
Beth Sutherland < bsutherland@introtel.com>
London, On Canada - Tuesday, April 09, 2002 at 08:14 AM (CDT)
WONDERFUL WONDERFUL WONDREFUL. I will call this morning and get Gramps out of bed with this news;maybe even Uncle Pruitt. All fingers and toes are crossed. Love to all Carol
Carol Mangin <smangin@mnsi.net>
LaSalle Ont, - Tuesday, April 09, 2002 at 08:13 AM (CDT)
Going Home!!!!!!! Wonderful news Maryla and Caedan, we are sooooooooo excited for all of you. Best of luck.
Love the Thiessen Family

Sue <thiessen@amtelecom.net>
Aylmer, - Tuesday, April 09, 2002 at 08:05 AM (CDT)
Woohoo, Hooray, Yippie, Terrific, Spectacular, Stupendous!!!!
You rock, Caedan! Keep up the great work!
Big Hugs to you, Mar and Scott. Caedan certainly has two heros for parents!

John and Sandy Bolton <jandsbolton@aol.com>
Amherstburg, ON - Tuesday, April 09, 2002 at 07:24 AM (CDT)
Thats great news guys!!!
You must be so relieved!!!!

Chris Gooch's mom
www.caringbridge.com/page/gooch
<chrisrusso_@hotmail.com>
Bethel, CT USA - Tuesday, April 09, 2002 at 12:14 AM (CDT)
Wow...wow...wow...what more to say, 25 kinder surprises, now that is good news...
We are so glad for you all, Scott phoned today and immediately he was talking his big talk about lawyers and engineers and inventions and who knows so I knew that there must be good news...
Take care, caedan, drink, drink, drink

Uncle John, Aunt Christie and Cousin Noah <twobrides@hotmail.com>
- Monday, April 08, 2002 at 10:37 PM (CDT)
Sensational news!
Your old and great aunt Mary is cheering for your trip home.She is the same day arriving in Puerto Plata so we will all be having a great day. This country is hot and maybe even sunny. Thatis a lot better than Fredericton which is cold and rainy.
Bye and have a good day tomorrow.
Mary

Mary Leblanc <maryjake@nb.sympatico.ca>
Fredericton NB, Canada - Monday, April 08, 2002 at 10:23 PM (CDT)
What FANTASTIC news!!!


Tina Herzog <tina.herzog@sympatico.ca>
Windsor, ON - Monday, April 08, 2002 at 09:39 PM (CDT)
You Go Caedan!!!! WOW! Possibly Thursday?! That's absolutely wonderful news! You've certainly shown them what you're made of Caedan. No, the apple does not fall far from the tree....
We continue to cheer for you!
Lot's and lot's and lot's of love,:-)
Dina, Matt, Patrick, Stephen and Sarah

Dina Kenkel <erabankers@aol.com>
West Bloomfield, Mi U.S.A - Monday, April 08, 2002 at 08:27 PM (CDT)
Way to go Tiggerman!!!!!!!
Love Miss Kate

Kate Lupson <slupson@rogers.com>
London, Ont Canada - Monday, April 08, 2002 at 07:53 PM (CDT)
Hope you had a good weekend! Up to some giggles?

What happened when the lion ate the comedian?

He felt funny.

What do you get when you cross a leopard with a watch dog?

One terrified watch dog!!!

Tracy M <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Monday, April 08, 2002 at 03:28 PM (CDT)
hope you are felling better!
janelle martineau 4m <rainbowcowpie@hotmail.com>
London, Canada - Monday, April 08, 2002 at 02:04 PM (CDT)
Just wanted to know how the weekend went. Hope all is well in T.O. We're thinking about you. Sending hugs your way!!
Lori, Hube and Isabel <lnh.sashegyi@sympatico.ca>
- Monday, April 08, 2002 at 11:17 AM (CDT)
Hi everyone! Glad to hear that Caedan is doing so much better. Mom and Dad are sending their love and prayers from England and ask after all of you when we speak to them. We will send along the news when we speak to them today. Loads of love and prayers from us. Michelle and Niall (Burnett-Cooke)
Michelle and Niall <m.burnett@ldcsb.on.ca>
London, Ont Can - Sunday, April 07, 2002 at 11:26 AM (CDT)
MMMMM Blue MILKY CEREAL ....
Thinkin' of yuh all

Alex Martiniuk and the Trilliumites' <alexmartiniuk@hotmail.com>
London, - Saturday, April 06, 2002 at 10:53 PM (CST)
Hi. 'Just checking in. I'm thinking about you all again. 'So glad to hear Caedan's up for a little school work. I am looking forward to his next novel!
Mrs. I

S. Inwood <sarahinwood@tvdsb.com>
London, Ont. - Saturday, April 06, 2002 at 03:48 PM (CST)
Hi Caedan and Maryla and Scott and Cali,
I just sent you am email but I dont think it got to you.So I am trying again I am your
Great Anut Maruy Who is a terrible typer amd a terriblo computerist but that is mot going tostop me
Seeif you cam figure out what I am typing .I am not lookigh at the keys. Yes that is the truth.
I an glak the ypu are eating the magic ceriat cause perpes milk sounds real good to me. In Grederictn we unly give white mill ttou our children vut I do kvow that it is defferent in Turonto.
Will goodvye toll next time. And bi patieht because I am very ald........63 goimg on 64
luv .Great Aunt Naru

Mary LeBlanc <maryjake.@nb.sympatico.ca>
Fredericton.New Brunswick, Canada - Saturday, April 06, 2002 at 08:10 AM (CST)
Hi Caeden! Glad to hear you're feeling a little better-- we all miss you here in London! Happy to hear you are enjoying your Magix cereal and that you are eating again. Not much is new here at the hospital -- no exciting stories. Guess we should get back to work now! Take care!
7 West/North nurses - Charlene, Jaclyn, Lisa B., Cheryl, Jennifer E. <charbrent@execulink.com>
London, ON Canada - Saturday, April 06, 2002 at 07:53 AM (CST)
Hi Caedan!
Glad to hear you are feeling a little better. I have to agree with you about the Magix cereal - It is the fav. at our house plus Mickey is on the box. You can't get much better than that.
Love, Miss Kate

Kate Lupson <slupson@rogers.com>
London, Ont Canada - Friday, April 05, 2002 at 06:07 PM (CST)
Hitting the books already Caedan?! Wow, you amaze me buddy! Hoping for a smooth weekend with lots of laughs with your dad!
P.S Patrick and Stephen LOVE Magix cereal! We were all delighted that you felt like eating some!
Sending big hugs, lots of love, and " great appetite thoughts"!
xoxo
Dina, Matt, Patrick, Stephen and Sarah

Dina Kenkel <erabankers@aol.com>
West Bloomfield, Mi U.S.A - Friday, April 05, 2002 at 02:53 PM (CST)
Hi Caedan: Glad to hear that things are going so well - we're thinking of you! The Cleminson's from Windsor (we met you and your family at Rainbow Lake)
The Cleminson Family <elizabethcleminson@sympatico.ca>
Windsor, Ontario, Canada - Friday, April 05, 2002 at 02:51 PM (CST)
Schoolwork eh? Sounds like you are feeling a bit better!! Enjoy you're dad's company this weekend! And now today's riddle...
Two people dig a hole in 5 days. How amny days would it take them to dig half a hole?
-None, you can't dig half a hole!!

Tracy M. <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, On Canada - Friday, April 05, 2002 at 02:29 PM (CST)
Hi Caedan!! Glad to hear you are in-step down and that you had a good Easter. Our Easter here on West was good as the census was low--2 children!! We miss you lots and wish you the best. Keep being strong.

Carol(nurse) is here, and she says Andrea(Essentials) is expecting a baby....Carol wasn't sure if you knew this or not. Rosie here at the hospital misses you terribly and says "hi!!"

7 West/North Nurses (Carol, Heather, Donna, Sarah, Karen. Helen, Nancy and Lynn) <kidthompson77@hotmail.com>
- Thursday, April 04, 2002 at 05:32 PM (CST)
I just wanted to send you my love and prayers. We are thinking about you all and send lots of hugs. Hang in there!

Bev, mom to Angel Brian 2-5-1999

Bev Phipps <Mychemokid@hotmail.com>
Casa Grande, AZ USA - Thursday, April 04, 2002 at 03:44 PM (CST)
Hey Caedan, here's a couple of riddles you can stump your nurses and teachers with.

How are 2+2=5 and your left hand alike?

Neither one is right.

How many beans can you put in an empty bag?

Only one, because then it isn't empty any more!

Keep smiling!!

Tracy M <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Thursday, April 04, 2002 at 03:42 PM (CST)
Hi Maryla and Caedan,

Wow!!!! Step down!!!! Congratualtions to you all. The best news I have heard in a long time. You are on your way down hill Caedan, we are all still praying for a speedy recovery and soon you will be back in London, at your home.
All our love,
the Thiessens

Sue <thiessen@amtelecom.net>
Aylmer, ON - Thursday, April 04, 2002 at 01:37 PM (CST)
Hi Caedan and Maryla. Just to let you know that you did start a trend at school. Josh also had his head shaved (like Dylan L.'s) on the weekend. However, Josh had a barber do it. Guess he doesn't trust his dad. I went to donate blood yesterday, but was told my iron count was not up to snuff (so I will have to go back later when it is). In the meantime, I will have to eat a lot of liver and onions with raisins for dessert. Sounds yummy eh? I wonder what the rest of my family will think of dinner. Hope you are perking up. I'm sure Josh will email you soon when he can bump his sisters and brothers off the computer.
Take care, Mary Zimmer (aka Josh Z's mom)

Mary Zimmer <bzimmer@odyssey.on.ca>
London, ON Canada - Thursday, April 04, 2002 at 01:08 PM (CST)
Hi Maryla and Caedan
I am thinking of you often. Maryla your strength shows through your positive comments in your journal writing. Take care of you XOXOXO etc.......... Jennifer

Jennifer Thompson <jthompson@lon.imag.net>
St Thomas, ON Canada - Thursday, April 04, 2002 at 08:55 AM (CST)
Hi Maryla,
Great news - and going to step down must have seemed nearly as good as getting outside. Will check in with you next week.
Hugs
Marg

Marg <jimandmarg@hay.net>
London, ON Canada - Wednesday, April 03, 2002 at 11:33 PM (CST)
Dear M and Scott, we're with you guys everyday in heart and spirit. Keep the faith!! Love Pat and Ron.(Liz's Mum and Dad).
Pat and Ron Cottrell <Patroncottrell@yahoo.ca>
Exeter, Ont. Canada - Wednesday, April 03, 2002 at 06:17 PM (CST)
Hoping you feel better with each passing day!

Knock knock!!
Who's there?
D-1
D-1 who?
D-1 who knocked silly!!!!!!!!

Tracy M <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor , ON Canada - Wednesday, April 03, 2002 at 03:34 PM (CST)
Hi Caedan . How are you? I hope you feel better soon!!!



FROM: JOSH P.S I could go on much longer BUT I only have 30 minuts to write!

Josh Z <Inwood23@byronsouthwood.com>
londan, ont CANADA - Wednesday, April 03, 2002 at 01:56 PM (CST)
Dear, Caedan

I hope your feelling good. Remember the time you called me? Sorry I hung up on you. My ear slipped on the off
button. See you later pal.

Luke Schindler <inwood2/3@byronsouthwood.com>
London, Canada - Wednesday, April 03, 2002 at 01:56 PM (CST)
Hi Caedan,
We are following your progress, each day. We are so pleased with the developing good news.
'Thinking of you all.
xo Mrs. I.

Sarah Inwood <s.inwood@tvdsb.on.ca>
London, Ont. Canada - Wednesday, April 03, 2002 at 01:48 PM (CST)
Maryla: Think of you often and wondering how you are doing this. BRUTAL!!!!! Heard you had a great dinner with the Sanderson's. And also know of the Sanderson child care hours.(which I also use )

Keep smiling Bonnie

Bonnie Marceau <bmarceau@excite.com>
Union, On Canada - Wednesday, April 03, 2002 at 11:22 AM (CST)
Glad to hear the counts are holding their own
and I hope he is feeling better soon
hang in there too Mom

Chris
<chrisrusso_@hotmail.com>
- Wednesday, April 03, 2002 at 10:36 AM (CST)
Just a short note to you, Caedan, to tell you how very proud we are of you. We just knew you get better faster than expected. So glad to hear that your system is making its own marrow now. Go gettem' Caedan!
John and Sandy Bolton <jandsbolton@aol.com>
Amherstburg, ON - Wednesday, April 03, 2002 at 07:16 AM (CST)
Hello Maryla & Caedan. Our prayers are being heard! Maryla so glad to read that you are getting some more back up support. Friends are a gift at the best of times, they are a treasure when things get tough. We are so often speaking of your names here in our home that even our little Max has your name down pat! That is quite the accomplishment for a 6 year old with both of his top teeth missing!!! We take turns saying our prayers at meal time and bedtime and Max definitely lisps right through Caedan's name but God knows who he is talking about! (LOL)

Much love to each of you. Tami, Jonathan, Alexander & Max (The Watchurst Family) xxxx oooo

Tami Watchurst (mom to Alexander - 9 years A.L.L. o.t. 98-09-10) <leapco@auracom.como>
Orangeville, Ontario Canada - Wednesday, April 03, 2002 at 04:59 AM (CST)
Hello,
I wanted to write again to tell you that I am SO glad that you are getting better. There's a blood donor clinc on Tuesday at Byron United Church and I am going to tell EVERYONE I know to give blood. You are living proof it works.
Take Care Buddy!
xoxoxo Amy LSAP Supervisor @Byron Southwood

Amy <albilyea@rogers.com>
London, - Tuesday, April 02, 2002 at 07:31 PM (CST)
Hi Caedan, Hope your fever has dropped. I had to write to tell you my news. My Dad shaved my head today, my hair is shorter than yours now! Bald is beautiful- that is my motto! Can't wait to see you again! We are working on a new theme at school "Canada". After two months of it we should know a lot! Miss you, Love Dylan
Dylan Lariviere <bsutherland@introtel.com>
London, On Canada - Tuesday, April 02, 2002 at 06:01 PM (CST)
Hi Caedan,

This is your GREAT AUNT HELEN. I've just come back from Ireland the land of your Grandfather's birth and believe you me it is just as green as they say it is and I'm sure I caught a glipse of Leprachauns running around particularly on Saint Patrick's Day. We had lots of fun with all your cousins - Michael Gallagher, Mary Morgan, Collette and Tom Fahey. Gretta and Ian Walmsley and young Ian Walmsley, Susan Walmsley all the way from Australia and your GREAT AUNT MARY and cousin Kelly. We wore the shamrock and of course had a few pints like the good Irishmen that we are.

Your GREAT UNCLE Paul and your cousin Ryan say Hello.

You are all in our thoughts and prayers.

Love, Aunt Helen

Helen Janssens <paul_h_janssens@hotmail.com>
Fredericton, , N.B. Canada - Tuesday, April 02, 2002 at 04:15 PM (CST)
Hi Caedan, I've got a joke for you. What did the alien say to the gas pump?
Take your fingers out of you ears and listen to me. Hehe :)
Hope your feeling better.

The Rice Family <gailrice@rogers.com>
London, ON Canada - Tuesday, April 02, 2002 at 04:07 PM (CST)
Hi Caedan. It's Josh Robinson. Hoping that you are feeling alot better really soon. Our class is thinking of you alot and we are hoping that you will get out of the hospital soon.see you soon Josh
Josh Robinson <Pushka1@rogers.com>
London, Canada - Tuesday, April 02, 2002 at 03:51 PM (CST)
Glad to hear you're getting a bit of a break Mar...if anyone could use the shoulder to lean on, it's you. Congrats to you Caedan on making it to step down early. Hope that nasty fever goes away soon! And now, a joke from one of my co-workers...
Why did the teacher wear sunglasses in the classroom?

Cause her students were so bright!!
:))

Tracy M. <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Tuesday, April 02, 2002 at 03:16 PM (CST)
Hip, Hip, Hooray......Step Down already! Keep up the good work Caedan and Maryla. I know if anyone has the fortitude and gusto needed, it is the two of you. Been thinking about both of you all month and praying that good news will be yours every step of the way. Take Care!
Karen P.

Karen Palmer <k.palmer@lhsc.on.ca>
London, ON Can - Tuesday, April 02, 2002 at 12:39 PM (CST)
Hey Great news!!!! I am once again amazed by all of you, especially you Caedan. Heard the news from Sandy and I was so happy! Remember, I am computer-less, although if someone asks Gord if we have e-mail he now answers "not yet" instead of "no". We are flying into the 21st century at rocket speed . I had a joke for you Caedan but by the time I got to the library (to use the computer) I forgot it...sorry. But watch your mail, jokes are on the way. In the meantime concentrate on all the hugs and love and best wishes that everyone is sending to you... You are awesome. Mar, you too sweetie, all our best wishes to all you Gallaghers.
P.S. I had to borrow Sandy's e-mail address cause I couldn't leave my message without one...(Is that some sort of cruel joke on us technology-deficient people...well I foiled it didn't I ? HA HA HA hA ) Ooops, got a little carried away.
xo xo xo

Lori Wightman <jandsbolton@al.com>
amherstburg,ON, - Tuesday, April 02, 2002 at 11:24 AM (CST)
What wonderful news and how we rejoice with you! Joshua is getting further behind you in your trail as we were told on Good Friday that his disease has come back again. What a shock since he'd been feeling so well. But what an encouragement to hear you're in step-down!!!Hug for Caedon!
Leonard & Lucille Weber <phil.ber@sympatico.com>
West Montrose, - Monday, April 01, 2002 at 09:09 PM (CST)
Hello Kiddo!!
That's great news that you are in step down, way to go. I thought I'd try a new dance!! The neutrophil dance will spin off and become the "increase your appetite dance!!". What do you think? It's worth a try. You keep up the good work. We continue to keep you and your family in our prayers. Take care!

Lori, Hube and Isabel <lnh.sashegyi@sympatico.ca>
London, On - Monday, April 01, 2002 at 04:13 PM (CST)
Hi Caeden,
"Hop" the Easter Bunny was able to have a visit with you. We are so pleased that your counts are on the rise. Great news!!! Maybe we will have a visit soon.


Dillon <kbcor@sympatico.ca>
London, On Canada - Monday, April 01, 2002 at 10:59 AM (CST)
Caedan and Family, just wanted you to know that people all over the world are praying for you! Stay strong and God bless.
Carolyn <robbinsgc@erols.com>
Reston, VA USA - Monday, April 01, 2002 at 10:24 AM (CST)
Hey Caedan:
I've got a joke for you (you might have heard it) but I can never remember jokes so here goes:
What do Alexander the Great and Kermit the Frog have in common?


...they have the same middle name....

Your uncle John

Unlce John <twobrides@hotmail.com>
- Sunday, March 31, 2002 at 09:21 PM (CST)
Happy Easter Gallaghers,
Oh my God, check out those neuts!!! And Step Down already!!! Keep up the great work Caedan. If you are going to still be there when Cody and I come up on the 8th, have your Mom send me a message to let me know what you would like to have - new books, puzzles, games, whatever.
Some people underestimate the power of prayer and faith - you have a perfect reason to ask them why!? Congrats on the great news - keep on doin' the dance!!!
Sharon, John, Trevor and Cody Simpson

Sharon Simpson <john.simpson6@sympatico.ca>
windsor, ON Canada - Sunday, March 31, 2002 at 08:53 PM (CST)
Good news Caedan! I'm so glad things are going well! Happy Easter to all of you, from us. Marian says hi (from within her Easter bunny costume...well, okay, it was Cory's energizer bunny costume from several Hallowe'ens ago, but now it's an Easter Bunny costume). Charlyn sends her love.
Love

Aunt Annie <anniebowers@shaw.ca>
Victoria, BC - Sunday, March 31, 2002 at 08:32 PM (CST)
Hi Caedan! Great news about your move! Josh Robinson's Mom told me, so I ran home and told my family. My Mom woke up this morning, thinking we'd have good news as she dreampt of you last night. Glad you are doing better and can't wait to see you! I think of you a lot. Love Dylan L.
Dylan Lariviere <bsutherland@introtel.com>
London, ON Canada - Sunday, March 31, 2002 at 06:32 PM (CST)
Hey Caedan, Maryla, Scott and Cali! its robyn, the cousin/ neice. i just want to say that im awed by the strength that you guys all have. when caedan came to visit i just couldnt get over what an amazing kid he is. i was very glad to hear that the bone marrow translant went well! i was looking through the pictures on here and id have to say that the cheerios costume is about THE coolest thing i have ever seen. i suppose that wraps it up. one more thing, not to sound incredibly mushy, but someone asked me recently who my hero was, and i said my little cousin caedan.
Robyn (bowers) <rastafarian_robyn@hotmail.com>
- Sunday, March 31, 2002 at 04:33 PM (CST)
Hello caedan. glad to hear that you are doing well. i hear you like jokes, so here's a few i've come accross:

what did the peanut say to teh elephant?
nothing, peanuts don't talk.

what does a potatoe farmer say when his truck breaks down?
"Darn my truck broke down"

hehehe. i hope you enjoyed them. see you later, from your cousin Cory.

Cory McGregor <corymcg@yahoo.com>
victoria, bc canada - Sunday, March 31, 2002 at 02:30 PM (CST)
I knew I liked Easter for a reason other than chocolate...must be that I knew I'd get some good news today or something. I checked in from Dad's computer, so I've already spread the news around here. Congrats on reaching this milestone!! ( I didn't think I knew what a Neutrophil dance was, but whatever I'm doing must be working, so I won't quit). :))
Tracy M. <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Sunday, March 31, 2002 at 01:13 PM (CST)
Praise be to God!!! Wonderful news Maryla about Caedan being moved to the step-down room, and how wonderful that he will be able to have Scott sleep in the room with him. I just told Alexander and Max the news and their collective response was YAHOO! YES!!. HAPPY EASTER GALLAGHER'S!

Love, Tami, Jonathan, Alexander & Max (The Watchurst Family) xxxx oooo

Tami Watchurst (mom to Alexander - 9 years A.L.L. o.t. 98-09-10) <leapco@auracom.como>
Orangeville, Ontario Canada - Sunday, March 31, 2002 at 11:58 AM (CST)
Happy Easter caedan and the rest daddy said that weir going to pick up e cats really soon i talked him in to it im soo excitd to see you auntie maryala when i come up. email me back[auntie maryla] luv yah
paige

paige <kimberlycash@sympatico.ca>
LaSalle, Canada - Sunday, March 31, 2002 at 10:22 AM (CST)
Yahoo!! So glad to hear that counts are on the rise. It can only be uphill from here. We are also doing the poly dance to the Gods I found that it really works!!! Have great Easter guys.

Thinking of you Love The Howes

Lisa Howe <HowesatHome@aol.com>
London, Ont Canada - Saturday, March 30, 2002 at 01:13 PM (CST)
We are doing the Neutrophil dance for you here in Orangeville!!!!! Alexander wanted to know if he could donate some of his Neuts to Caedan?! I told him that was a wonderful idea but the best we can do is do the dance and pray for more soldier's (neuts) and Engraftment! You obviously have had a very tough week Maryla, sending you a cyber hug {{{{{{{{{{{{Maryla}}}}}}}}}}}}}}. Slowly rising up that mountain.

Love and friendship, The Watchurst Family xxxx ooo

Tami Watchurst (mom to Alexander - 9 years A.L.L. o.t. 98-09-10) <leapco@auracom.como>
Orangeville, Ontario Canada - Saturday, March 30, 2002 at 07:58 AM (CST)
I know its not what you had in mind, but I want to wish you guys a happy and healthy Easter
Mom STOP worrying about Cali; she loves you
and when she gets older she will understand
thats IF she even remembers the short time you are NOT with her.
We all feel your pain in not being able to be with her, but you are doing what has to be done.

Chris
www.caringbridge.com/page/gooch
<chrisrusso_@hotmail.com>
- Saturday, March 30, 2002 at 02:58 AM (CST)
WOW!!! Look at them Neutrophils go!!! Great news!!! Hope the weekend finds you all happy and slowly making progress to home. Was so glad to see that Judy and Dustin are going home!! Proof for you guys that your lives will get back to normal one of these days!!! Happy Easter All!!
Tracy M. <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Friday, March 29, 2002 at 06:43 PM (CST)
Hey there Gallaghers!

Just wanted to say hi & let you know I'm thinking of you. It's raining here in Chicago...gee Maryla, I sure wish I had an UMBRELLA!!

Hey Caedan, here are some Easter jokes

Q: How do you catch a unique rabbit?
A: You "neek" up on him!

Q: How do you catch a tame rabbit?
A: "Tame" way.... you "neek" up on him!

Q: What do you get if you pour boiling water down a rabbit hole?
A: Hot Cross Bunnies!

Ok, lame, I know. When you get better, maybe my jokes will too.


Jane Cornett <jcornett@21stcentury.net>
Chicago, - Friday, March 29, 2002 at 01:30 PM (CST)
Hi Caedan,
I heard a new joke and thought you might need one.
Q- Why was the bunny's nose shiny?
A- Because she was wearing her powder puff on the wrong end!

xo Mrs. I.

Sarah Inwood <sjinwood @hotmail.com>
London, Ont. - Friday, March 29, 2002 at 10:59 AM (CST)
Caedan:
I forgot to tell you that your cousin Noah's first words were 'day-day' which some people mistook for Daddy but I know he is really saying 'Caedan' and I'm pretty sure he learned it from Cali in September at your picnic. I'm pretty sure his next words will be 'I miss you day-day' so don't forget you have a little 10 month old buddy here on the west coast.

Uncle John, Aunt Christie, Cousin Noah <twobrides@hotmail.com>
- Thursday, March 28, 2002 at 10:16 PM (CST)
Caedan:
I forgot to tell you that your cousin Noah's first words were 'day-day' which some people mistook for Daddy but I know he is really saying 'Caedan' and I'm pretty sure he learned it from Cali in September at your picnic. I'm pretty sure his next words will be 'I miss you day-day' so don't forget you have a little 10 month old buddy here on the west coast.

Uncle John, Aunt Christie, Cousin Noah <twobrides@hotmail.com>
- Thursday, March 28, 2002 at 10:15 PM (CST)
Oh ya baby!!! We're doin' the dance!!!! We're shaking what our momma gave us!! (Caedan have you seen that silly commerical? It's a Blockbuster movie commerical with the hamster??!!) Anyway what ever works. You keep hanging on you are doing a great job. I'm glad you had a better day. We'll chat soon.
Hugs to you and your mom!!

Lori, Hube and Isabel <lnh.sashegyi@sympatico.ca>
The Forest City, - Thursday, March 28, 2002 at 10:05 PM (CST)
Dear Maryla and Caedan,
Jacob, Joey and Cousin Janet are praying for you.
Love and hope sent your way.

Janet Soley <peter.soley@ns.sympatico.ca>
Hubbards, NS - Thursday, March 28, 2002 at 08:10 PM (CST)
Hi Caedan, Maryla, Scott and Cali,
We were in London today for Cody to have a CT scan and saw Lisa and Brennan Howe. Lisa reminded me of your website so I had to check it out tonight. Maryla, I truly admire you for what you have been doing and continue to do with this website. In light of everything that you are going through (and even though I'm a cancer mom, too, I can't image what this time must be like for you), you still manage to keep the website updated for all to share. I wish I could do something like that because I have so many friends and family living far away. But I just can't seem to find the energy to do such a monumental task. I applaude your tremendous strength.
I am so glad to hear that things may be on the up side with the engraftment. The feeling for Scott must be incredible - as Caedan said "to save his life". And I don't mind telling you that I did need Kleenex after reading that, and other, entries in your journal.
It looks like Cody will be back in T.O. the week of April 8th for another round of chemo. I am going to try, again, to get in to RMH for that week. If not, we will again be staying at the Colony hotel. I will see you on the 8th.
Keep up your strength, there are a lot of prayers and good wishes coming from this way to all of you.
Sharon, John, Trevor and Cody Simpson

Sharon Simpson <john.simpson6@sympatico.ca>
Windsor, ON Canada - Thursday, March 28, 2002 at 08:09 PM (CST)
Hi Maryla

I can honestly say that I can relate to the emotional drain your experiencing. Take it one day at a time, get to bed earlier, take time to care for you. Caedan is in good hands, he needs mom to be well rested and happy. There is light at the end of the tunnel. You are doing a superb job honey, hang in there ok!!!

Dustin and I are finally heading home, transplant is over, recovery is remarkable. Imagine, after 9 months in hospital, he and I can sleep in our own beds tomorrow night. You and Caedan are not far behind us. *Big Hugs*

Take Good Care
Judy & Dustin CHWO (homeward bound)

Judy & Dustin (10 weeks post BMT) <chaz2765@yahoo.com>
Chatham, ON Canada - Thursday, March 28, 2002 at 06:34 PM (CST)
Dear Maryla
I'm so sorry to read of the tough time Caedan is going through. He is so brave and courageous. Sending lots of positive thoughts & strength your way. It is great to read the positive news of the sign of engraftment. May all your news continue in this positive direction!
Please give your CHAMPION son the biggest of cuddles from us in the land down under! Tell him people are thinking and praying for him from far and wide around the world!
Thoughts and prayers also for you, Scott, Cali, your extended family, friends and the medical staff looking after Caedan.
Lots of love & cuddles to everyone!
Liz, Murray, Adam (ALL patient), Joshua & Bethany

the Cruickshank family XO XO XO XO XO <meajbc@bigpond.com>
Melbourne, Vic. Australia - Thursday, March 28, 2002 at 05:31 PM (CST)
Hi Maryla ~
I'm focusing on the positive here: ENGRAFTMENT! Whoopee!
But I wish there was more I could do than just send warm wishes and prayers from so far away! I can only imagine how difficult it is to see Caedan so uncomfortable. I am hugging you from afar, and praying that Caedan feels better soon. Take care and God Bless your family this Easter.
Love, Stacey

Stacey Wada <SLW6204@aol.com>
Las Vegas, NV USA - Thursday, March 28, 2002 at 11:24 AM (CST)
Hi Gang.
Hang in there Mar, we're all with you. Good news on the count! Patiently waiting to hear how things are going via the webpage. Thanks for such detail!
Love you all very much.
Lore, Dave and Julia.

Lore <lore.wainwright@bell.ca>
- Thursday, March 28, 2002 at 10:02 AM (CST)
You are right, you still have an uphill road ahead
but its not as steep at it was this time last week!
My other buddy Zach had his BMT like 3 days before you, and he is doing great, so you are on the way!
Mom - whew
what can any of us say to you, the majority of us have not been in your shoes
and cant imagine how emotionally draining it must be.
Hang in there, home may stil be aways off but it IS on the horizon....

Chris
www.caringbridge.com/page/gooch
<chrisrusso@Hotmail.com>
Bethel, CT - Wednesday, March 27, 2002 at 09:58 PM (CST)
Oh boy do I remember this all too well. I found your web page on ped-onc. My son Zachary had a matched sibling BMT on Oct 4th, 2001. All the funky rashes and allergies when engraphment started...UGH. Zachary's blood pressure went as high as 167/112...he is only 27 pounds and 2 years old! That was thanks to the cyclosporin! Well here we are, 6 months post BMT...no GVHD...no leukemia!
God bless and protect,
Dana

Dana Doctor www.caringbridge.com/nj/zacharyd <dmdoc@msn.com>
- Wednesday, March 27, 2002 at 08:11 PM (CST)
Hi Caedan! I'm sorry to have missed you; you're fast asleep as I type this! But here's hoping that you're feeling a little better next Wednesday, so that we can play a little backgammon, or hockey (and this time, the goalie will stay IN!)

Wishing you well...

Sean (Wed. pm volunteer)

Sean McDonald the Volunteer <seanmon@postmark.net>
Toronto, ON Canada - Wednesday, March 27, 2002 at 05:30 PM (CST)
Hang in there Mar!!!
We await with anticipation every day for an update. And while we know we will hear of the tremendous pressures and pain placed upon you and Scott and Caedan, we also just know that you will always, somehow - through that amazing strength of yours - get through another day and manage to see the bright side of things.
Give Lisa and the Hills a big hello for me and enjoy your time with them.

HOORAY FOR NEUTROPHILS!!! Keep up the good work, Caedan!

John and Sandy Bolton <jandsbolton@aol.com>
Amherstburg, Canada - Wednesday, March 27, 2002 at 04:36 PM (CST)
Maryla,you can do this!You have shown time and again how strong you are and have the most amazing strength!Tell Caedan that we love him and are praying he get`s some relief from his discomfort and anxiety.Hang in there you two and we`ll keep you in our thoughts always.
Jennifer Harrison <douglas.harrison@3web.net>
London, - Wednesday, March 27, 2002 at 04:27 PM (CST)
Maryla:
We all wish there was something we could do to help you out there in T.O. as far as your needs go. Unfortunately all I can say is how very much we appreciate the effort you put into updating Caedan's web site so frequently. We read it every day. Although we can't be there in body we are sending all our support to you and Caedan in spirit.
All the teachers at G.C.C.C.

rhonda springer <rhondaspringer@hotmail.com>
- Wednesday, March 27, 2002 at 04:13 PM (CST)
I checked one LAST time for an update before I left the office!! Once again, a few tears.... some because I know what engraftment means, and some because I can't even imagine what you are going through. Take a break if you get the chance.... and remember we're all with you in spirit!!
Tracy M <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Wednesday, March 27, 2002 at 03:50 PM (CST)
I made my appointment today to donate blood ... I go on April 8... gave myself lots of time to think about it and get all psyched up for it! We'll see if I can convince any one else to do it with me. Hope you are all doing okay...
Tracy M <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Wednesday, March 27, 2002 at 03:27 PM (CST)
Hi Caeden, Maryla and family,
Just wanted to let you know we are thinking about you and checking in to the website often, what a great thing it is to keep everyone up to date. For all the bad breaks your family has had you are all remarkable I'm in awe at how you keep it all together (for the most part) Hopefully your journey will only be uphill from now on. Take care and Happy Easter. Lisa

Lisa Baxter <BaxterPL6@aol.com>
St. Thomas, ON - Wednesday, March 27, 2002 at 02:15 PM (CST)
Hi Maryla and Caedan,

I hope that today is a better day for the both of you. I think of you guys alot and I want you to know that as always I admire Caedans strength and yours too Maryla, it will get better, you are both such great and loving people. We are all praying and pulling for you all. CAEDAN' I have a few jokes for you from my Nicks Chirp Books that he gets through the mail. Here goes:
What has four wheels and flies
A garbage truck!

What do you call a sleeping bull
A bulldozer!!!

Why cant you play games with pigs
Because they always HOG the ball

What did the rake say to the hoe

Hi Hoe, Hi Hoe, its off to work we go.

Take care and we are thinking of you. All our love and best wishes.
Sue Thiessen and Family.

Sue Thiessen <thiessen@amtelecom.net>
Aylmer, ON - Wednesday, March 27, 2002 at 01:02 PM (CST)
Hi folks - I hope things are better today. Maryla, I see that you have a supplier for chocolate, but I'm thinking that by the time Easter is over you may be ready for a treat from Rogers Chocolates! I'll have to see about a care package, hmm.
Ms. Inwood asks about bypassing the email address requirement for the guestbook - maybe she could just establish a new hotmail email account specifically for signing the guestbook, that all the kids in the class could use? Just a thought.
Something is on the way from Marian's kindergarten/grade 1 class.
We love you, our thoughts are with you constantly

Aunt Annie <anniebowers@shaw.ca>
Victoria, BC - Wednesday, March 27, 2002 at 11:47 AM (CST)
I hope today is a better day for you all than yesterday was. Just take it one day at a time... don't think to much further ahead than that. Sometimes that's the best way to avoid making yourself worry more than necessary.
And now, something to make you giggle...
How is the Easter Bunny like Shaquille O'Neal?
-They are both famour for stuffing baskets.

HEY, did you hear the one about the fifty pound jelly bean?
Nevermind, it's pretty hard to swallow.

Oh, by the way, did you hear the one about the Easter Bunny who sat on a bee?
It's a tender tail!

Hope at least one of these brings a smile to your day.
And I am telling everyone in the office to think about giving blood...hopefully they'll spread the word too!

Tracy M <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Tuesday, March 26, 2002 at 02:28 PM (CST)
Hello Gallaghers,
Just a quick note to say hello and that we're thinking of you. Thank you so much, Maryla, for the updates. It's our nightly ritual to check Caedan's webpage before bed.
We were so glad to hear that you got to sneak home to spend some time with Cali on the weekend.......what a great thing for both of you.
Continue to hang in there and know that you are loved and constantly in our thoughts and prayers.
Sloppy kisses from Noah!
(and John and Christie, too)

Noah <twobrides@hotmail.com>
- Tuesday, March 26, 2002 at 11:46 AM (CST)
Our Prayers are with you!
Steven Hicks (Sarah Anne's Dad) <hicks@cbse.uab.edu>
Birmingham, AL - Tuesday, March 26, 2002 at 11:45 AM (CST)
Hang in there guys
this is probably all normal for post transplant
and it WILL get easier
and he WILL be fine

Chris Gooch's mom <Chrisrusso_@hotmail.com>
Bethel, CT - Tuesday, March 26, 2002 at 01:27 AM (CST)
The London School Age Program at Byron Southwood wishes your family all the best. It's heartwarming to see the strength that your mother has Caedan. I wish you all the best. I will try to gather some words from your friends in the program and post them on here at a later date. I will go back and give them an update tomorrow. Happy Easter to you and yours.
Amy <albilyea@rogers.com>
London, ON Canada - Monday, March 25, 2002 at 09:31 PM (CST)
hey caden this josh, i hope that u are feeling better soon, but for now i have a joke for you,,
Q) what does red ridding hood become when she lives a life of crime???
A) red robbing hood, lol i hope u r feeling better your friend josh :)

Josh Zimmer <bzimmer@oddesy.ca>
london, ont canada - Monday, March 25, 2002 at 06:09 PM (CST)
Hey, what would you get if you crossed a skunk with a certain type of Easter candy??

-Smelly beans!!!
Hope you are all doing well. Think of you often around here.

Tracy M <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Monday, March 25, 2002 at 03:41 PM (CST)
Hi Guys!!!

This is Julia - your neighbour from a few doors down! I had no idea you had website until someone told me today. I have been wondering how things are going and I was able to update myself with this wonderful website!!! I'm so glad to hear that everything is going well. I've seen your van come and go and will pop in to visit sometime soon.

Julia ;)

Julia Rajan <jrajan@rogers.com>
London, Ont Canada - Monday, March 25, 2002 at 03:34 PM (CST)
caedan,
We have been making easter cards.they are cool. happy easter

mark



mark <inwoodsa@tvdsb.com>
london, none canada - Monday, March 25, 2002 at 01:57 PM (CST)
Hey Caedan I hope you are feeing pritty good. Today we had a joke from Luke''Knock knock whos there philup Philup who, philup my basket with easter eggs. There`s a great website called Neopets it`s www.neopets.com/
There is allso a great book searies called Redwall.good bye. Haley R.

Haley Ritchie <inwoodsa@tvdsb.com>
- Monday, March 25, 2002 at 01:56 PM (CST)
Hi Caedan,
Our classroom joke of the day was from Luke today, and he has asked me to save it so that he can tell you himself; it's on its way! Meanwhile... I am bound to secrecy. We all hope those nasty headaches disappear soon.
xo Mrs. I.
Maryla - when the children were trying to send a message from the computer lab today, some had trouble because they have no e-mail address, and the guest book requires one. Is it possible to by-pass that step? I have put my own e-mail address in for them for today.
I'm thinking of you, Sarah I.


S. Inwood <inwoodsa@fc.tvdsb>
London, - Monday, March 25, 2002 at 01:52 PM (CST)
Hi Maryla

Just a short note. I think of you and your family constantly. I admire your courage and steadfastness. Don't forget If you every need a Mom type shoulder I'm here. Any time. Take care my dear. Love Juli

Juli <Juli.Troiano@lhsc.on.ca>
London, - Monday, March 25, 2002 at 01:00 PM (CST)
Hello Caedan, Mar and Scott.
Bet your ears were ringing this weekend! Talked a lot about you and thought a lot about you too.
Hope those nasty coughs go away, Caedan. Scott, I trust you are back to great health by now and just recouperating from the College Basketball craze.
Mar, I noticed Paige's entry about the cats and had a good laugh. We're here if you (or the cats) need us.

Sandy and John Bolton <jand sbolton@al.com>
Amherstburg, ON - Monday, March 25, 2002 at 08:11 AM (CST)
Hello Caedan, Maryla and Scott!! Just wanted to say "hi" and hope all is well in T.O. We are sending our love and hugs to you all.
The Sashegyi's <lnh.sashegyi@sympatico,ca>
London, - Sunday, March 24, 2002 at 06:04 PM (CST)
hey auntie maryla here is my email so you can keep me up to date with you and caedan.
www.kimberlycash@sympatico.ca

paige <kimberlycash@sympatico.ca>
LaSalle, Canada - Sunday, March 24, 2002 at 04:49 PM (CST)
Hi auntie marala my dad still hasn't made his decision if hes going to keep the cats or not[not keep just take care of them]can you make sure he says yes ive been buging him for the last mounth about.love you lotsxxxooo
love:PAIGE

paige bindnerbowers <kimberlycash@sympatico.ca>
LaSalle, Canada/Ontario - Sunday, March 24, 2002 at 04:42 PM (CST)
Maryla, you have done an excellent job of explaining the Blood Count variables to the lay people! I remember being given a "Crash Course" on the same topic when we were living at Sick Kid's right after diagnosis. My forte in school was anything to do with English, History, etc. My Grade 11 Biology teacher said that although she liked me very much, she never wanted to have me in her class again because she felt so guilty about my poor marks and having to give me a 52 just to get the credit!!!! (LOL). So when I ended up being given this crash course in Blood Counts upon my first of many sleepless nights at Sick Kid's I really felt like the universe was completely unfair and that I was never, ever going to understand everything that was happening to my son. Praise God that somehow my brain found the ability to understand. All things are possible with Love.

Tell Caedan that Alexander and Max both say hi and that they played their final indoor soccer games yesterday. Just like in a Hollywood Movie.....the underdogs came out on top! Max's team came from the bottom of the pile to win the Championship game....with Max scoring the winning goal (his first!!!! of the entire season). Both of the boys say hi and we are anxiously awaiting Caedan's climb to the peak of the mountain. We will be there with all of you to celebrate. Alexander said that it would be just great if he and Caedan and Max could celebrate by having a game of Soccer! They will ALL be Champions on that day.

Prayers are constant. Love, Tami, Jonathan, Alexander & Max (The Watchurst Family) xxxx oooo

Tami Watchurst (mom to Alexander - 9 years A.L.L. o.t. 98-09-10) <leapco@auracom.como>
Orangeville, Ontario Canada - Sunday, March 24, 2002 at 10:56 AM (CST)
Maryla

Sending you HUMUNGAS hugs from London!! "Each day that passes in Toronto is one day closer to home and recovery". I found that if I said those words to myself daily, that it really made an enormous difference in my day (they seemed to pass more quickly).

Please say hello to Caedan from Dustin and his mom.

Take Good Care!!

Judy & Dustin (http://www.caringbridge.com/canada/dustinbmt/)

Judy & Dustin <chaz2765@yahoo.com>
Chatham, ON Canada - Saturday, March 23, 2002 at 02:17 PM (CST)
Hi Caedan ~
We sure hope the cough clears up soon and you are feeling better. Here are a couple of jokes from Chad again:

Why did the deer go to the dentist?

* Because he had buck teeth! *

Why can't two elephants go in the pool at the same time?

* Because they only have one pair of trunks! *

Boy, you and Chad both have the same sense of humor......you guys will definitely have to get together one day!!
We continue to pray for you to feel better soon! Tell your wonderful mom that her friends in Las Vegas (warm, but windy today!) are thinking of her too!
Love ya,
Bill, Stacey, Bryce, and Chad Wada

The Wada Family <SLW6204@aol.com>
Las Vegas, NV USA - Saturday, March 23, 2002 at 12:40 PM (CST)
Hey Caedan:
This whole Cheerios thing must run in the family. Your baby cousin Noah can't stop eating them. Although I think he needs your help because he is a lot better at putting them in his mouth then he is at actually swallowing them so our house is one large gooey half-chewed cheerio and I keep pulling them off of my socks.
Your cousin needs some lessons from you so hang in there my friend.
Maryla, your umbrella story had me laughing on the floor, I must say you are keeping your humour about you.
Hope you all have a good weekend.
Give that brother of mine a big hug.

Uncle John, Aunt Christie, Cousin Noah <twobrides@hotmail.com>
- Friday, March 22, 2002 at 11:10 PM (CST)
hi cousin!! I miss you hope to see you soon, school is ok just got moved in class I sit next to james hes soooo cute!!! lets get together and go with Dad and Uncle Scott to see a tigers game Dad owes me!!! lOVE YOUR COUSIN pAIGE XXX OOOO
PAIGE bINDNER bOWERS <KIMBERLYCASH@SYMPATICO.CA>
- Friday, March 22, 2002 at 07:06 PM (CST)
hey Maryla you and scott are amazing please know I think of you constantly and am always praying and sending great thoughts your way. I'm glad you saw the Lion King let me know how it was. Please if there is anything at all just ask although I doubt you would know it would never be imposing!!! love to all!! esspecially Caden love KImberly
kimberly cash <kimberlycash@sympatico.ca>
lasalle, - Friday, March 22, 2002 at 06:59 PM (CST)
Hey Caedan buddy
Goochie sent you a LITTLE something
I hope its okay
How are you doing there? Must be bored huh?
This has to be so hard on your family, I pray you are home real soon.

Chris
www.caringbridge.com/page/gooch <chrisrusso_@hotmail.com>
Bethel, CT - Friday, March 22, 2002 at 06:04 PM (CST)
Hello all...
Hope your not freezing up there as bad as we are down here!! Make sure you bundle up good Maryla! Thanks for explaining what all those numbers mean...now at least I'll know how things are going. When Caedan's not feeling too sleepy, here's a couple more jokes for him...
What's as big as an elephant, but doesn't weigh anything?
- An elephant's shadow!
Which is faster - hot or cold?
Hot - because you can catch cold!

Tracy M <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Friday, March 22, 2002 at 02:23 PM (CST)
Hi Maryla and Caedan,

We in this house are glad to hear also that the morphine is helping Caedan with his mouth sores. Hope everything is going as good as can be, we are thinking of you. Here is a joke for Caedan.
Question: What do you call an elephant coming over the hill
Answer: An elephant coming over the hill
Question: What do you call an elephant coming over the hill driving a yellow car
Answer: An elephant coming over the hill driving a yellow car
Question: What do you call an elephant coming over the hill driving a yellow car and wearing sunglasses
Answer: Nothing, because you dont recognize him!!!!

Kind of cute, my neice told me that joke, I laughed, I hope it made you laugh too Caedan.
All our love to you all,
Sue Thiessen

Sue Thiessen <thiessen@amtelecom.net>
Aylmer, ON - Friday, March 22, 2002 at 01:46 PM (CST)
Maryla, Scott & Caedon

Hope you have a wonderful day today. We've been thinking about you and I do plan on visiting tomorrow around 11 or 12 - perhaps a lunch date if you are interested! Take good care of each other!

Nicole Dyck <dyck14@yahoo.ca>
Toronto, ON Canada - Friday, March 22, 2002 at 07:55 AM (CST)
Hi Caedan,
I hear your name in the classroom several times EVERY day. There's always somebody thinking about you! We all miss you a great deal and look forward to being entertained again soon, with one of your wonderful stories. Your chums here at school have written some funny legends. We'll save a few for you to enjoy.

As Easter is not far off, I thought you should begin to collect some rabbit jokes:

WHAT IS A TWIP? A twip is what a wabbit takes when he wides a twain!

fondly, Mrs. I.

Sarah Inwood <Inwoods@FC.TVDSB.ON.CA>
London, - Thursday, March 21, 2002 at 08:28 PM (CST)
Howdy all!
Hope Caedan is still resting comfortably, and the mouth sores aren't any worse!
Hey, did you hear the story about the skunk? Never mind...it stinks.
Ready for today's jokes? Here goes!
What do you get if you cross a cat with a laughing hyena?
-A giggle puss

If Washington's wife went to Washington while Washington's washerwoman washed Washington's woolies, how many W's are there in all?


There's no W's in all!!!!!
:0)


Tracy M <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Thursday, March 21, 2002 at 12:29 PM (CST)
Good Morning Maryla,
Good umbrella story. Remember the ones that were clear and came down over you like a mushroom? Those were the days when our heads were smaller and we could get out. I'd like to try one of those on a windy day. I'm sure with a good gust it could fly you to the moon. Glad to hear Caedan is resting somewhat comfortably. I'm sure you are pleased that Scott is able to spend time with you and Caedan. Everyone in London is sending good wishes and many, many hugs.

Joke from Dillon to Caedan.

Why did the man throw his clock out the window?

He wanted to see how time can fly.

Hope time flys for all of you and that life will return to a "normal" state.

Love and prayers
The Cordiners

Kelly <kbcor@sympatico.ca>
London, On Canada - Thursday, March 21, 2002 at 08:21 AM (CST)
Maryla, I am thankful to read that the morphine is helping with the mouth sores and that his body is able to sleep sufficiently as a result as well. You certainly paint a picture of yourself walking in the dark, damp night of Toronto from H.S.C. to R.M. house, my goodness Maryla maybe I should have packed a raincoat in with that carepackage we brought you!!!!! I am amazed that Scott is able to work in spite of everything that is going on, his concentration skills must be top notch! My own are scattered at best, after fighting the beast for 6.5 years I am afraid that is one element that I have diminished significantly. (LOL). We continue to speak of you and Caedan and include you in our family prayers daily. We are slowly and optimistically accompanying you and Caedan up that mountain, albeit through cyber-space. P.S. Alexander wants to know if Caedan liked his Bionical? Little boys and their toys eh Maryla. Love, Tami, Jonathan, Alexander & Max (The Watchurst Family) xxxx oooo
Tami Watchurst (mom to Alexander 9 yrs: High Risk A.L.L. O/t: 1998-09-10) <leapco@auracom.com>
Orangeville, Ontario Canada - Thursday, March 21, 2002 at 06:34 AM (CST)
Hi guys!
Maryla I love your journal entries - I check every day. Especially love the umbrella discussion - how hilarious!!! So true... We all think of you from here in London and I know Mike wishes he could be there with yuh Caed' even if it meant he was getting the socks beat off him in video games:)


Alex Martiniuk and the Trilliumites' (sounds like a band eh!) <alexmartiniuk@hotmail.com>
London, - Wednesday, March 20, 2002 at 10:19 PM (CST)
It's amazing what you forget about walking when you start driving a car, ain't it? You'll never feel the same way about umbrellas again, will you? Glad to hear Scott is close by for you and Caedan this week.
Got some more jokes for Caedan now...

What did one wall say to the other?
I'll meet you at the corner.

What do people make that you can't see?
Noise!
:)

Tracy M <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
- Wednesday, March 20, 2002 at 03:03 PM (CST)
Dear Caedan,
We hope this note finds you comfortable as your body works to become healthier. It sounds like you are meeting some new and interesting people in Toronto. Did you know that in less than one minute, blood can make a round trip throughout your body-? That means medicine that goes in you viens can do the job that quickly too! Keep up the good work!
P.S. Patient: "How can I avoid that run-down feeling?"
Doctor: "Look both ways before crossing the street."

Lisa and the Child Life Team <hawthorl@lhsc.on.ca>
London, Ontario Canada - Wednesday, March 20, 2002 at 02:45 PM (CST)
Hi Maryla: I'm glad that you continue to keep your wonderful sense of humour, and I can agree with everything you were saying about umbrellas! Hope despite everything you and your family are going through, you can still take time to laugh about the funny things in life. As always, thinking of you, and may each day be a little bit brighter for all of you.
Mary Rooke <mary.rooke@lhsc.on.ca>
Ingersoll, Ontario - Wednesday, March 20, 2002 at 02:34 PM (CST)
Hi Maryla,

A note to say that I hope everything with Caedan is coming along as could as it can under the circumsatnces. I was sitting in my *quiet room* last night thinking about you. I was thinking back to when I was at Sick Kids. You probably dont have to be told what a terrific woman and Mother you are but it always good to here that. I know how lonely you feel and yet how loved you feel, does that make sense. I bet to you it does. You have alot of good people loving you, Scott Caedan and Cali, if love was enough..... I just wanted to write and let you know that each day you take up time in my heart and thoughts. Hang in there all of you.
Love from Sue & Abe Thiessen and Family.

Sue Thiessen <thiessen@amtelecom.net>
Aylmer, - Wednesday, March 20, 2002 at 11:37 AM (CST)
Pretty good answer for my joke Caedan. I can see I'm going to have to work a little harder at fooling you from now on. Sorry to hear about those nasty mouth sores!! Hope they don't bug you TOO much!
Tell your mom she needs to explain what all those numbers mean.. I know what platelets and hemoglobin are, but not real sure about the other one.
I'll post today's jokes a bit later.

Tracy M <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Wednesday, March 20, 2002 at 08:09 AM (CST)
Hey Caedan,
The 'ticked off' answer is really good.
We framed and hung up one of your drawings today in Noah's room (the one you drew when you were out here in BC, Noah in his grape suit with spirals). It looks great and now your cousin Noah can see it everyday when he wakes up.
Oh yeah, I forgot to tell you that we bought Noah his first box of Cheerios at first all he wanted to do was throw them on the floor and spread them around but now...man, does he like Cheerios (they even keep him quiet in the car).

Don't forget that we are all thinking of you.
Good luck my friend.

Uncle John, Aunt Christie and Cousin Noah <twobrides@hotmail.com>
- Tuesday, March 19, 2002 at 10:42 PM (CST)
Hi Caedan and Maryla and Scott,
Thinking of you and as always my prayers are with you. Take care.
Hugs
Marg

Marg <jimandmarg@hay.net>
Grand Bend, Ont Canada - Tuesday, March 19, 2002 at 08:16 PM (CST)
I've got a second answer for Tracy's joke. Ready?

How did the clock feel when no one wound it up?

Ticked off.

Not bad, eh?

Caedan Gallagher <goldribbon8@hotmail.com>
For now, it's Toronto., Ontario Canada - Tuesday, March 19, 2002 at 06:36 PM (CST)
Hi Mar;
Glad to hear you took some time for yourself. I just wanted to thank you for keeping us updated on Caedan's progress. I know you probably don't always feel like doing it, but we do appreciate all the information you give us. Take care.

Love Kellie <gman@jet2.net>
- Tuesday, March 19, 2002 at 06:05 PM (CST)
Good for you, Maryla, in getting to Lion King. I'm proud of you. And I'm so glad you enjoyed that amazing show. You and those other wonder moms deserved the best seats in the house. Hope everything continues to go well with Caedan. I think about you every day. All my best vibes, Dahlia.
Dahlia Reich <dahlia.reich@sympatico.ca>
London, On - Tuesday, March 19, 2002 at 05:44 PM (CST)
I couldn't possibly tell you how many times I checked in today! Each time holding my breath. Thank you, thank you Mar for the update! Your amazing! I always feel like I hear your voice actually reading the page to me.
Scott, I think if I was there, I would transport you wherever you would want to go on my shoulders. So happy it went so smoothly for you.
The prayers continue, and our hearts continue to be with you all!
Love you Caedan!
Dina

Dina Kenkel <erabankers@aol.com>
West Bloomfield, Mi U.S.A - Friday, March 15, 2002 at 07:13 PM (CST)
I was SOOOOOOOO glad to see your update!!! I was sure everything went well yesterday, but really really needed to see proof of it to breathe easier. I just read the update to all the ladies in the office - and they were all really really happy to hear it too! Hope your weekend is nice and peaceful and restful for all of you. Scott - you are a hero!!
Big hugs to you all!

Tracy M <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor , ON Canada - Friday, March 15, 2002 at 03:45 PM (CST)
Hi Maryla,
YEAH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I'm so glad to hear that everything went so well with Caedan and Scott. Keep us updated inbetween your Motherly duties of course.
Love, Miss Kate.

Kate Lupson <slupson@home.com>
London, Ont Canada - Friday, March 15, 2002 at 03:44 PM (CST)
Hi Gallaghers,
It was soo nice to visit with you and Caedan two weeks ago. I can't believe how well everyone is. (except Cali..but I understand she is much better now.) Just wanted to send my good wishes and prayers your way for the next little while. Hoping all went well this past week. Looking forward to more updates.
lots of love and hugs.....

Ursula Braun <rubraun@hotmail.com>
Niagara Falls, On Canada - Friday, March 15, 2002 at 12:20 PM (CST)
sending you all so much love (more than you could imagine, even) and saying extra, extra prayers today (on top of the extra prayers we usually say).

jjjjjjjtyuuytre/kk (Noah wrote this part).
Lots of love.
that last line was from noah.......i think it says "i love you caedan and good luck".
talk to you soon,
christie, john and noah

cousin noah <twobrides@hotmail.com>
- Friday, March 15, 2002 at 10:15 AM (CST)
GOOD MORNING

We just had to sign in to let you know how much we've been
thinking about Scott and Caedan and of course you to Maryla.
We hope everything went well yesterday. I bet it was a day
filled with many incredible emotions. I wish we were a little closer so I could come and give you the warmest of hugs and well wishes. I know there are so many people out there extending to the good Lord above the most powerful of prayers there ever was.
We will continue to check for updates, just please remember
how much you all are loved and cared for around the world, and exp. here in Petrolia.
Take Care
I'll sign in again soon.
Pam

ken and pam dobbin <kdobbin@ xcelco. on.ca>
petrolia, ont, canada - Friday, March 15, 2002 at 07:58 AM (CST)
Hope yesterday went as well as it could.We`ve been thinking and praying for all of you!Hope Scott isn`t TOO sore.Waiting to read your next entry Maryla but in the meantime send a big hug across the room to Caedan!
Jen,Doug,Alex and Ben Harrison <douglas.harrison@3web.net>
London, - Friday, March 15, 2002 at 07:02 AM (CST)
Day 0!! Bone Marrow Transplant Day. I was thinking of you all today. Take each day as it comes and before you know it, Caedan will be in step-down and on his way to recovery. We'll be sure to see you in Clinic in a couple of months. Take good care, please know you are thought of often!!!

We finally made it back to London. It looks like a week or two here then home to recover from transplant.

Good Luck and God Bless
Judy & Dustin (Day +56 post BMT)

Judy & Dustin Drury http:://www.caringbridge.com/canada/dustinbmt/ <chaz2765@yahoo.com>
Chatham, On Canada - Thursday, March 14, 2002 at 08:24 PM (CST)
I know today has been a big big day for you - but you'll be up to reading some funny jokes soon enough, so I'm gonna put some up here any way.

What do you call a crate full of ducks?

A box of quackers!!

Tracy M <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Thursday, March 14, 2002 at 03:53 PM (CST)
Hi there
Since I missed seeing you before you left, thought I would sign on and say hello, let you know I am thinking about you all. I think maybe today is marrow day, so Scott's big day, hope he isn't too sore.

Beth Cairney. <Beth.Cairney@lhsc.on.ca>
London, Ont. Canada - Thursday, March 14, 2002 at 11:51 AM (CST)
Deep prayers and positive thoughts coming from Windsor.

Big Big hugs!




Tina Herzog <Tina.Herzog@sympatico.ca>
Windsor, ON - Thursday, March 14, 2002 at 09:20 AM (CST)
God Bless all of you today and for the days ahead. You are all in our prayers every day but today especially my whole day is being offered for you.

God Bless

Gisele <giselel@pmg.on.ca>
London, - Thursday, March 14, 2002 at 08:59 AM (CST)
Maryla, we are sending all of our energy to you and Scott & Caedan to help you through this special day. We are storming the heavens with prayers for strength, support and love to surround your family. We know that the journey is about to get even more complex and we will pray for engraftment without complications. Much love to each of you. We are with you in spirit. Tami, Jonathan, Alexander & Max xxxx oooo
Tami Watchurst (mom to Alexander 9 yrs of age: High Risk A.L.L. O/t: Sept/98) <leapco@auracom.com>
Orangeville, Ontario Canada - Thursday, March 14, 2002 at 08:26 AM (CST)
I've got everyone in the office saying a little prayer for you this morning. Good luck to both Scott and Caedan!!
Tracy M <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Thursday, March 14, 2002 at 08:02 AM (CST)
Today is the day. I am asking everyone I know to call in their favours from the big guy in the sky for an incredible, speedy, miraculous recovery from this bone marrow transplant.
We will be with you in spirit all the way. Go gettem' Caedan! Our love to the whole Gallagher family today and always!

John and Sandy Bolton <jandsbolton@aol.com>
Amherstburg, ON Canada - Thursday, March 14, 2002 at 07:03 AM (CST)
HELLO FROM PETROLIA
Just another quick hello and best wishes for the days ahead.
I've been checking every day for an update and finially
tonight its here. I don't know why we don;t receive them the
moment you send them, but anyways, we ar so glad to hear
that things are going well so far and the the food is'nt
so bad after all.
It brought tears to my eyes when I read about your feelings
for Cali and having to leave her. I guess i could understand
what you were saying. It hit home for me, and I feel so badly for you, being so far from her. I could at least call
my girls and chat to them ( because they were older), it's just not that easy for you. I'm offering again that if we
can be of any help to you, please call us.
Caedan has been on our minds since last week and of course tomorrow, he and Scott will be in our thoughts and prayers.
You all are such amazing people and such an inspiration to
many of us.. I don't think I handled things half as well as you have Maryla. Caedan is soooooo lucky to have such a
great Mom . You all will have great stories to share.
Take care, and again the best of luck tomorrow..
We love you.


ken & Pam Dobbin <kdobbin @xcelco .on.ca>
petrolia , - Wednesday, March 13, 2002 at 09:35 PM (CST)
Hi Caedan,
Chase & I just wanted to know that we are thinking of you & hope for a speedy recover.

Tutee <http://www.caringbridge.com/ga/chasesmiracle/ chasesmiracle@yahoo.com>
Ga USA - Wednesday, March 13, 2002 at 08:35 PM (CST)
Hello guys.... hope you are having another good day today. Good luck to Caedan and Scott tomorrow. You should be able to FEEL the good thoughts by then, because I'm sure there will be tonnes and tonnes going around.

Joke time. Ready?

What do you call a lion tamer who is really really bad at his job??

Claude Bottom

Tracy M <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Wednesday, March 13, 2002 at 03:34 PM (CST)
Hi Caedan, Andrew & I both read the message you and your mom wrote in Andrew's guestbook. Your website looks great and we really like the pictures. You and Andrew are both pretty special guys! I know you and your family will get through these tough times. We will include you in our prayers. Maybe someday you and Andrew can shoot some hoops together. God Bless you and your family, please keep in touch.
Len Mizzoni <lmizzoni@citynationalleasing.com>
Woodbridge, On Canada - Wednesday, March 13, 2002 at 01:40 PM (CST)
Hello there Caedan and Maryla,
Hang in there kiddo!! Just think in a couple of hours you'll be all done with chemo and radiation. Those are two big Toronto milestones. You are doing a GREAT job. Enjoy all the ice cream you can eat. Isabel and I are doing our warm ups getting ready to do the neutrophil dance. We're sending you all our best to get those counts to 0.4!! Here's a hug for you both!!

Lori <lnh.sashegyi@sympatico.ca>
- Wednesday, March 13, 2002 at 01:03 PM (CST)
Hello Sweethearts! Maryla, Charlyn wants you to watch for a wee package that should be arriving today at noon. She's concerned that it will end up in someone's mail-in tray somewhere. We are thinking of you constantly, and wish we were with you. Caedan, I am so glad that you are doing so well. Hurray for ICE CREAM!!!! What's King Kong's favourite food? Finch and Chimps.
Love,

Aunt Annie <anniebowers@shaw.ca>
Victoria, BC - Wednesday, March 13, 2002 at 11:18 AM (CST)
Maryla:
We can't seem to find your hotmail address, so we can't thank-you and Caeden for the amazing gifts. When on earth do the two of you have anytime to buy gifts for our little boy. Christie was really excited about the blanket wrap, I got to use it this morning at 5:00am and it sure is great and Noah can chew on the fringes. I love the book (all the ways to go to sleep) unfortunately Noah is having trouble understanding the message.
Our hearts and minds are with you guys (all of you).
If you can send a quick email to JGallagher@pulseeng.com with your address we can 'talk' more.
Caeden, glad your having some ice cream and thanks for the gifts.

Uncle John, Aunt Christie and Noah <JGallagher@pulseeng.com>
west coast, - Wednesday, March 13, 2002 at 10:14 AM (CST)
Hi Maryla and all,
Mike and I are thinking of you all of you and hoping everything goes well.

Carol <cfuller@ody.ca>
London, ON - Wednesday, March 13, 2002 at 09:59 AM (CST)
Hi Caedan, Maryla and Scott; Glad to hear Caedan has an appetite for some good ol' junk food, eat it up kiddo! We continue to pray for all of you to have strength and endurance during your stay in TO
Love Kellie <gman@jet2.net>
LaSalle, - Wednesday, March 13, 2002 at 09:50 AM (CST)
Thinking of you Maryla & Caeden while you are in Toronto ... sending many, many hugs too!!
Chetna <Cbhatt@rogers.com>
London, - Wednesday, March 13, 2002 at 08:48 AM (CST)
Dear Caedan,
I am praying for you and your BMT on Thursday. I have already done that and will continue to do so. Your family is in my prayers as well.

Cindy Coffman <www.caringbridge.com/ga/hillarycoffman; cpcoffman@juno.com>
Cumming, GA USA - Wednesday, March 13, 2002 at 07:12 AM (CST)
Dear Caedan and family,

Just checking in you guys....so glad to hear things are progressing. Eat all the ice cream you can!!! I know in my heart things are going to go well. Please know many prayers are being said for you here in Alabama.

Love

Lisa Agee (mom to Ross dx ALL 10-4-00) <lagee67@hotmail.com www.caringbridge.com/page/ross>
Camden, AL - Tuesday, March 12, 2002 at 09:37 PM (CST)
Time for your daily joke. This one is more of a brain teaser then a joke. Hope you like it!

What is full of holes but still holds water?

A sponge.

Tracy M <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Tuesday, March 12, 2002 at 03:30 PM (CST)
Dear Caedan and family,
I have been reading up on what has been happening since your arrival in Toronto. It sounds as though you all continue to be real troupers. I know many people are thinking of you and want all to go well with Caedan's BMT. Please add me to that list. All the best, Mrs. Johnston

Diana Johnston <johnston5145@rogers.com>
London, - Tuesday, March 12, 2002 at 03:26 PM (CST)
Wow I was so excited to find your page! Everyone in London (7north/west) is thinking about you through your treatment! Keep being yourself Caedan and you will end up on top! Best wishes to you and your family!
(nurse) Karen S
- Tuesday, March 12, 2002 at 11:09 AM (CST)
Hi Caedan! How I miss talking to you buddy!!
You have been on our minds, and in our hearts every minute of every day! I keep thinking of that Friday I was able to visit you. What I saw was an incredibly strong minded and courageous boy! You even keep your sense of humour and politeness. You and your family have taught us so much Caedan!
I know you feel the love everyone is sending. Let it totally hug you tight Caedan!
Love, Dina, Matt, Patrick, Stephen and Sarah

Dina Kenkel <erabankers@aol.com>
West Bloomfield, Mi U.S.A - Tuesday, March 12, 2002 at 08:49 AM (CST)
Hi Maryla,
Just letting you know that if you need anything done at this end I'm here. Everyone at school will make sure Cali is fine.
Thinking of you, Kate


kate Lupson <slupson@rogers.com>
London, Ont Canada - Monday, March 11, 2002 at 08:24 PM (CST)
Maryla, glad to read that Caedan enjoyed our carepackage! It was wonderful to meet all of you at Sick Kid's and very emotional for each of us. Sick Kid's holds so many memories for us of our toddler, little boy and now our 9 year old Cancer Warrior. We want you to know that we meant what we said and what we wrote in your cards. We know that the tough stuff is happening, the radiation and the chemo in preparation for Thursday. We are with you all the way. You are being the best mom that you can possibly be by caring for your son right now. Cali will be just fine in spite of the separation. It is never easy to be away from our beloved children, but you have a job to do and your place right now is with Caedan. He is an adorable little boy, we felt that from the moment that we met. I know that Caedan must have thought that I was some crazy person from our antics in sorting through the carepackage but believe me I was covering up a fountain of emotions during our visit. We fully intend to hold you both to the deal we struck.....carepackage in return for an invitation to the celebration of Caedan's remission and successful B.M.T. and return to good health! You tell Caedan that I am a real big hugger....think he got that message from watching you and I embracing! Anyways, tell him that I am going to give him a big bear hug once he is well enough because I was not allowed to hug him the day of our visit!! Our prayers are constant Maryla. I am so glad that there are people that you know from London at H.S.C., makes it a little easier to see some familiar faces. We are following your journey with hope and friendship always. Love, Tami, Jonathan, Alexander & Max (The Watchursts)
Tami Watchurst (mom to Alexander - 9 years A.L.L. o.t. 98-09-10) <leapco@auracom.como>
Orangeville, Ontario Canada - Monday, March 11, 2002 at 01:05 PM (CST)
Hi There!

We've never met, Korri Lane is a really close friend of mine and has just let me know you were in town. I would love to give you any support that I can and if it pleases you, would love to come visit at the hospital. My husband and I live a couple of blocks from Sick Kids - please just give me a quick email to let me know what time and evening would be most convenient for you. If you need anything at all please let me know. God Bless and I look forward to hearing from you with regards to details on the room number etc.

Nicole <dyck14@yahoo.ca>
Toronto, ON Canada - Monday, March 11, 2002 at 10:44 AM (CST)
Thinking of sweet Caedan and the whole family, as transplant approaches. Sending positive vibes your way.
Caedan, always remember, you are a *STAR* and a true CHAMPION!!
Love & BIG BIG cuddles to everyone!
Liz, Murray, Adam, Joshua & Bethany XO XO XO XO XO
(PS. I hope the post card found you!)

the Cruickshank family <meajbc@bigpond.com>
Melbourne, Vic. Australia - Monday, March 11, 2002 at 08:12 AM (CST)
Hello Gallaghers!
Glad to hear you're all doing well. Sounds like Mom needs an extra hug or two Caedan...give her one for me, okay?
We all will be thinking of you a little more than usual over the next few weeks, as well as the next few days. Hope that helps!
Ready for your joke?
What do you get when you cross a crocodile with a flower?
I don't know, but I don't want to smell it!
Thinking of you...

Tracy M <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Monday, March 11, 2002 at 08:04 AM (CST)
M -- I hope Suzanne gets in touch with you and you agree (I emailed you at hotmail about that)
and you HAVE to stop being so hard on yourself about Cali....
its NOT like you do so willingly or chose this so stop beating yourself up about it.
If its ANY consolation my hubby was away for 3 months straight for work (just before Ron was diagnosed)

He could only call after clases very late at night so sometimes little Ron didn't get to talk to him.
When he first came home and got out of the car the girls ran to him,
but little Ronnie wouldnt unclench from around my neck,
he wouldnt go to Ron.. but then he was FINE.
Forgot all about it.
Does NOT remember it now.
Our kids will one day realize you will put your life on hold for EITHER of them.. thats just how it is.
So STOP BEATING YOURSELF UP!


Chris
www.caringbridge.com/page/gooch
<chrisrusso_@hotmail.com>
Bethel, CT - Sunday, March 10, 2002 at 09:15 PM (CST)
hi caedan. hope you're feeling well. what cat should you never play cards with? a cheetah!

JAKE Schindler <klschind@yahoo.ca>
london, ON canada - Saturday, March 09, 2002 at 01:42 PM (CST)
Hi Gallaghers,
I'm glad to here that things are going well in Toronto, but Caedan, hospital food a 10??? It was nice to see your entry in the guestbook, Caedan, and I liked your jokes!
Thinking of you, Miss Kate

Kate Lupson <slupson@rogers.com>
London, Ont Canada - Saturday, March 09, 2002 at 08:23 AM (CST)
Hey Caedan ~
Loved your jokes! Chad has a couple for you:
What do you call a low flying bird?
A Duck!!
Why did they take the bull's credit card away?
He kept charging!!
Anyway, glad to hear you're getting settled in and that the food is so good! We'll keep checking on ya and please tell your mom and dad and sister too, that you are all in our thoughts and prayers!
Keep smiling!
Love, Bill, Stacey, Bryce, and Chad

The Wada Family <SLW6204@aol.com>
Las Vegas, NV USA - Saturday, March 09, 2002 at 12:54 AM (CST)
Hi Everyone
It's Deborah Turnbull (Lore Wainwright's friend) Caedan, my family met you at your day at Springbank
Park this past year. I was the one that was very pregnant (fat I mean) I had a baby girl with a name
very similar to your sister's (Caleigh) Even though we had not officially met I hear a lot about your from
my friends Lore and Dina. I have a little boy,Connor, who is the same age as you are. We just wanted
to drop a line and let everyone know we are thinking of you and our prayers are with you!!

Deborah & Steve Turnbull
Connor, Craig & Caleigh

Deborah Turnbull <stephen.deborah@sympatico.ca>
London, Ont - Friday, March 08, 2002 at 09:41 PM (CST)
Thanks for the jokes Caedan. I like the Lettie one. We're off to see Dina this weekend and we'll all be thinking about you. I'll happen to be in a church (bad girl that I am, it doesn't happen that often), and we'll slip a prayer in for you. I don't think Sarah will mind. Love to you all.

Lore, Dave and Julia

Lore <lore.wainwright@bell.ca>
- Friday, March 08, 2002 at 08:12 AM (CST)
Thanks for the jokes Caedan! I was surprised to see you sign your own guestbook, but I got to make the girls in the office giggle a bit when I told them your jokes. Glad to hear you are enjoying the food, although that does surprise me a bit.
And now your joke for today...

Knock knock.
Who's there?
Tank.
Tank who?
You're welcome

Tracy Mangin <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Friday, March 08, 2002 at 08:03 AM (CST)
Hey Caedan, great jokes below!
Glad to hear you like the hospital food. I bet they will ask you to fill out a comment card so they can frame it and put it on the wall! Also very glad to hear you had such a good day yesterday.
We will be thinking about you every day while you are in the hospital and wishing only the best for you.
Keep smilin'!!

John and Sandy Bolton
Amherstburg, ON - Friday, March 08, 2002 at 07:16 AM (CST)
Hey guys! Glad to hear you have settled in okay.....but I know you are going to miss Rosie and her sexy voice!!
Thinking of all of you. Miss ya already.
love lots
Sylvia, Heather (the one that looks like a kid) and all the other nurses on 7West/North


- Friday, March 08, 2002 at 02:43 AM (CST)
Hey Caedan Buddy
Goochie sent you a little something today
dont know how long the mail will take though :(
hope you continue to enjoy the food there....
Ronnie hated all of it
and that is saying ALOT because I cant cook !


Chris
www.caringbridge.com/page/gooch
<chrisrusso_@hotmail.com>
Bethel, CT - Friday, March 08, 2002 at 01:06 AM (CST)
Oh, oh, now I'm really worried, Caedan is giving hospital food a 10 out of 10 (what are they serving toast fingers?).
Just wanted to sign-in and let you know that we are thinking of you (or at least Aunt Christie and I are, I can't really say what cousin Noah is thinking but he has learned to say 'da da da da da da' so soon he can tell us all).
Huge hugs to you all.

Uncle John, Aunt Christie and Cousin Noah
- Thursday, March 07, 2002 at 11:24 PM (CST)
Hello - This is Caedan. I know my mom's wrote many times but I'm pretty sure I n ever have so I'm doing it now.
Oh, and another thing, since you guys have sent me so many jokes I'm going to tell you every joke i know. Or at least every one on the top of my head.

What's bigger than a bread knife but smaller than a toaster?
The bread that goes inside.

Knock Knock.
Who's there?
Lettie.
Lettie who?
Who cares, just Lettie in.

Final Joke is:
Why did the chicken cross the road?
What are you asking me for? Why don't you just ask her?

Caedan G. <right here>
Toronto, ON Canada - Thursday, March 07, 2002 at 09:23 PM (CST)
Hey Caedan,

I cannot be out done by Miss Kate! I am sending you tripple the number of hugs and kissses and best wishes that Miss Kate is sending your way.
Think good thoughts while you are in Toronto. I hope you are home soon.

Sandy at Growing Concern Child Care Centre <smschram@hotmail.com>
london, ont canada - Thursday, March 07, 2002 at 01:48 PM (CST)
Why did the chicken cross the basketball court?

He heard the referee calling fowls!

Thinking of you all!

Tracy M <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Thursday, March 07, 2002 at 07:57 AM (CST)
Hey guys!! Just letting you know that all the nurses on 7 North/West are thinking of you and wishing you all the best during your stay in Toronto. We're all keeping track of your amazing progress.
Best Wishes and lots of LOVE!!

7 North/West nurses, CHWO
London, - Thursday, March 07, 2002 at 03:31 AM (CST)
I'm writing this on Wed. night. You will all be in my prayers tonight. I will pray that you are all granted enough strength to get you all throught this next while. I'm glad that everything is going on schedule. Love to you all and God Bless. Miss Jeanie
Jeanie Angus-Perkins
- Wednesday, March 06, 2002 at 07:38 PM (CST)
Hi Guys!
Just letting you know that I double all the kisses and hugs that Sandy sent, and that I know my Tiggerman will be bouncing just like a tigger soon!
Love, Miss Kate.

Kate Lupson <slupson@rogers.com>
London, Ont Canada - Wednesday, March 06, 2002 at 07:18 PM (CST)
Hi Maryla:
Like everyone else, I am praying for you and your family. Your are never far from our thoughts.
We have been busy preparing for Marg's retirement party and tea. I know these things are so far from your mind right now (and you wish that's all you had to worry about), but I am just keeping you in the loop.
I miss you at work. There's no one to each chocolate with. Thanks for the web page. It's a great way to keep in touch with the progress without having to feel like I am taking precious time away from you and your family.
Take care of yourself.
Love Adele

Adele Holmes <adele.jim@sympatico.ca>
London, Ont. Canada - Wednesday, March 06, 2002 at 06:01 AM (CST)
I will be thinking of you daily. Take one day at a time, and I wish you all the very best during your stay in Toronto. May you draw strength from the love and support of your family and friends. Take care.
Mary Rooke <mary.rooke@lhsc.on.ca>
Ingersoll, Ontario - Tuesday, March 05, 2002 at 02:54 PM (CST)
Wow.. I was going to say good luck and all that stuff, but I think Sandy from Growing Concerns covered that for all of us!! Just know we'll all be thinking of you even more than normal in the next few days. And since tomorrow is such a big day and I couldn't decide which joke to tell you, you have to suffer through 3 of them today. READY?

What do you call a bee that is always complaining?
A grumble bee

What do you call a dentist in the army?
A drill sargeant.

(I thought this last one was pretty appropriate, considering what is happening in the next few days).

What do you call the best Dad in the world?
Top of the Pops!

Thinking of you all!

Tracy M <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Tuesday, March 05, 2002 at 02:51 PM (CST)
Hello Family

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Sandy from Growing Concern <smschram@hotmail.com>
london, ont canada - Tuesday, March 05, 2002 at 12:47 PM (CST)
Hi Guys,
Wanted to let you know that I have been thinking of you. I wish you all the best. Take care

Jennifer XOXO <jthompson@lon.imag.net>
St Thomas, ON - Tuesday, March 05, 2002 at 09:46 AM (CST)
Maryla, I was so glad to see your post this morning, I have been thinking of you constantly. I am so glad that you will be able to continue the journal while you are at HSC. Alexander and I have been busy making a care package for you and Caedan. We will be at Sick Kid's on the 7th for his appointment and for a trip to Immunology/Genetics. We will take the gifts to the Nursing Station on 8B. It would be wonderful to be able to give you a real hug as opposed to a cyber hug. We shall see what transpires, if you are on the floor at that time maybe we can finally meet in person. Alexander and I hope that Caedan enjoys the care package, we put a lot of thought into putting it together and I hope that it puts a smile on Caedan's beautiful face. Safe trip on Via Rail to T.O. More prayers than you can imagine are being said for your family and your darling son. Fingers crossed that we can have a moment to meet on Thursday at Sick Kid's. Prayers for strength and support are unending. Love, Tami, Jonathan, Alexander & Max (The Watchursts)
Tami Watchurst (mom to Alexander - 9 years A.L.L. o.t. 98-09-10) <leapco@auracom.com>
Orangeville, Ontario Canada - Tuesday, March 05, 2002 at 06:08 AM (CST)
Hi Guys,
Just a short note to let you all know that I will be thinking of you while you are in Toronto.I hope all goes well and hope to see you soon. If you need anything please call me at 1-800-966-0631.
Keep Smiling!!

Lois Grimes <childcan@lon.imag.net>
London, ON Canada - Monday, March 04, 2002 at 10:20 PM (CST)
Hi Gallaghers
Just wanted to send {{{{big hugs}}} before you start yet another journey. We will continue praying and keeping good thoughts.

The Drouillards
LaSalle, - Monday, March 04, 2002 at 06:56 PM (CST)
Hi Caedan,
We are thinking of you today. Sending our best wishes for your journey to Toronto. We had a Dr. Seuss day at school on Friday. Ryan and I dressed up as Thing 1 and Thing 2. There were alot of "Things", some Cat in the Hats, Cindy Lou Who's and Grinches. Wish you could have been with us. I hope everything goes well for your bone marrow operation. Maybe when you are all better you could come and watch Luke and I play soccer. Miss you. Take care of yourself.
YOur friend Dillon Cordiner

Kelly Cordiner <kbcor@sympatico.ca>
London, Canada - Monday, March 04, 2002 at 04:48 PM (CST)
Maryla I know you are working on overload at this point preparing for the trip to Sick Kid's. You and Caedan and the entire family are in our prayers and constant thoughts. We are with you on this journey, praying for a successful B.M.T. at the place of Miracles. (((((((((Maryla, Scott, Caedan, Cali)))))))))))
Tami Watchurst (mom to Alexander - 9 years A.L.L. o.t. 98-09-10) <leapco@auracom.com>
Orangeville, Ontario Canada - Monday, March 04, 2002 at 04:43 PM (CST)
Hi Maryla, Scott, Caedan and Cali.
Hope Cali is on the mend from her "bug". We had the same in January and it was wicked. You are all in my thoughts daily. All the best for your trip to Sick Kids this week. Love and prayers,

Mary-Anne <maryanne.davies@lhsc.on.ca>
London, - Monday, March 04, 2002 at 01:03 PM (CST)
Hi Maryla, Scott Cali and especially Caedan,
I wnated to let you all know that our hearts and our prayers are with each of you. Pam has been good enough to keep me informed about Caedan while I was off the internet.
So you went to Sick Kids. Maryla and Scott a piece of comfort from a Mom who knows about Sick Kids, it is a terrific teaching hospital, they are so advanced and up to date on the newest procedures to offer our children the very best in life. They will take good care of Caedan. If there is anything Maryla, I mean anything we can do for you, I will, without question. Please know you all our in my thoughts and prayers.
Love from The Thiessen Family

Sue Thiessen <thiessen@amtelecom.net>
Aylmer, ON Canada - Monday, March 04, 2002 at 11:21 AM (CST)
Hi from London CHWO!

We have been thinking about you guys and hope all is going well.

Kent is in surgery right now. They are attempting to remove the primary tumour in his tummy and also need to replace his hickman line (that was February's excitement ... the line blow out!). We've had some wonderful time at home and Kent has been feeling awesome. He's walking well and having a great time. It was tough to come back here yesterday but hopefully we're out in a week or so. Then radiation for a month and then to Toronto for his bone marrow transplant. So....time will tell if our paths cross in Toronto - that would be nice.

All the best guys. Hang tough Caedan!

Vicki, Mike and Kent

Vicki Reeve
Kitchener, ON Canada - Monday, March 04, 2002 at 09:24 AM (CST)
Hi Guys
Maryla - this one is Canadian only, please look into them.

http://www.smilesnhugs.com/

chris
www.caringbridge.com/page/gooch
<Chrisrusso_@hotmail.com
>
Bethel, CT USA - Monday, March 04, 2002 at 04:23 AM (CST)
Hi Caedan! We were just sitting at the nursing desk eating our usual bag of popcorn and thinking about you (because we know you are a huge popcorn fan!!!). We heard you are doing awesome! Keep up the good work and remember we are all thinking about you and wishing you a quick recovery! Hugs from your 7n/w nurses!!!xo

- Sunday, March 03, 2002 at 09:42 PM (CST)
Caedan and Maryla - Hello from Victoria! I was talking to Charlyn today, and she asked me to send her love, which I am doing now with a big hug. We are thinking of you, sending all our love. Marian says HI CAEDAN, and wants you to know she's still winning against me at the punch buggy game. She is MUCH better at it than I am!
Love,

Aunt Annie <anniebowers@shaw.ca>
Victoria, BC - Sunday, March 03, 2002 at 09:29 PM (CST)
Dear Caeden,
Hi! I just want you to know that we are praying for you and your family. I love the Cheerio Man suit!!

Cindy Coffman <www.caringbridge.com/ga/hillarycoffman>
Cumming, GA USA - Sunday, March 03, 2002 at 04:47 PM (CST)
DearCaedan
This is from your friend Anthony Lesik. I think you'll remember me from camp and the hospital. I want to wish you luck on all your appointments and procedures at the hospital. My family and I will be praying for you so that everything goes well and we can go to camp together this summer. OK? I remember when I had to be there all the time it was scary and I felt very sick. That is why I don't want you to be so sick and I know you will get well soon like I did. Please take care of yourself and bye for now. Hope I see you at camp!!

Anthony Lesik <al.adriana@sympatico.ca>
London., Ontario, Canada - Sunday, March 03, 2002 at 03:12 PM (CST)
All right Caedan
I got a good one
No really, it is pretty good
ready?
What did the Buddhist say to the hot dog vendor?
"Make me one with everything...."

Hmmmmm I guess you dont know what a Buddhist is huh.... you're not laughing!
Ughghgh
back to the drawing board!

Chris
www.caringbridge.com/page/gooch <chrisrusso_@hotmail.com>
Bethel, CT - Saturday, March 02, 2002 at 11:39 PM (CST)
Caedan,
Keep on going kiddo! You are doing a great job. Before you know it you'll be home from Toronto and getting ready for spring. You and the rest of your family will be in our thoughts and prayers. I hope once you are back home and the weather gets a bit warmer you'll join us at our house for a barb-b-que!! Take care. God Bless. We look forward to seeing you soon!!

Lori Sashegyi <lnh.sashegyi@sympatico.ca>
The Forest City, ON Canada - Saturday, March 02, 2002 at 08:09 AM (CST)
i havent checked in on you in a few days 'cause my computer is in the shop (again)
so I am on my daughter's now
and its the middle of the night and her keyboard is loud
you are getting me in trouble here Caedan!

M - I know how you feel, but my day from heck dealt with stuff coming out the OTHER end,
and that was NO FUN either, let me tell ya!
You guys hang in there
I know its scary and hard
but its the beginning of the freedom
he's going to be getting his normal-before-leukemia life back soon!
Just remember that!

Chris
www.caringbridge.com/page/gooch
<chrisrusso_@hotmail.com>
Bethel, CT - Saturday, March 02, 2002 at 05:05 AM (CST)
Just stopped by to check on Caedan. Glad to hear he is feeling better.

Our Prayers are with you,

Steven Hicks (Sarah Anne's Dad) <hicks@cbse.uab.edu>
Birmingham, AL - Friday, March 01, 2002 at 04:22 PM (CST)
Hi caedan hope you get well soon please write back soon. We were making teepees in art class. by Ryan G .
Ryan green
London, Canada - Thursday, February 28, 2002 at 01:54 PM (CST)
Hi Caedan,
How are you? Have you tried those watercolours yet? I hope so, because I have been looking forward to seeing the results. Send me a little note when you feel up to it to let me know.

Thanks, Mrs. I


- Thursday, February 28, 2002 at 01:53 PM (CST)
to caedan i hope u r feeling beter we all will miss u and please wright back when u feel beter.
i made a website to this is it www.expage.com/zaboo7. from aboudi

aboudi <aboudi_l@hotmail.com>
- Thursday, February 28, 2002 at 01:52 PM (CST)
Hello Gallagher Family.
Hope you are all feeling better!! Sounds like a rough week for all of you.
I managed to get some time in front of the computer, so I thought I'd make up for lost joke days. I'm away from the office again tomorrow and Monday, so I thought I'd give you 3 to make you smile. Ready??
What happened when the cat ate a ball of yarn?
She had mittens.

Why do birds fly south in the winter?
It's too far to walk!

What is the slipperiest country in the world?
Greece!!
I will keep thinking of you all.

Tracy M <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
WIndsor, ON Canada - Thursday, February 28, 2002 at 01:49 PM (CST)
Just wanting to say Hi! Caedan and family from all of your friends from Byron Southwood!Maryla ,I miss having a laugh with you in the parking lot of the school but know that those days will come again soon!Big hugs to Scott and Caedan on Mar.6 and just know that everyone is with you.
Jen,Doug,Alex and Ben Harrison <douglas.harrison@3web.net>
London, - Wednesday, February 27, 2002 at 05:32 PM (CST)
Caedan, it was such a delight to see you on Valentine's Day! You may not have heard my comment to your classmates as you waited to enter the room, but I indicated that your visit was, by far, the best Valentine's gift any of us could ever receive!

As mentioned to your mom, I have included a short excerpt in our school newsletter asking our school community to keep you and your family in their thoughts over the next few weeks and months (check out our web site at www.tvdsb.on.ca/byronsouth).

Please know that our thoughts are with you -- keep fighting buddy! Can't wait to see your smile again!! :)

Marion Moynihan <m.moynihan@tvdsb.on.ca>
London, ON CANADA - Tuesday, February 26, 2002 at 09:46 PM (CST)
My computer has been down and haven't been online, but glad to see you are HOME! Here is the best joke I could come up with:

1st pig goes into a bar, orders a beer, drinks it and asks, "Where the restroom?". Bartender replies, "Down the hall on the right." 2nd pig goes into the bar, orders 2 beers, drinks them and asks, "Where the restroom?". Bartender replies, "Down the hall on the right." 3rd pig goes into the bar, orders 3 beers, drinks them and asks, "Where the restroom?". Bartender replies, "Down the hall on the right." 4th pig goes into the bar, orders 4 beers, drinks them and asks, "Where the restroom?". Bartender replies, "Down the hall on the right." 5th pig goes into the bar, orders 5 beers, drinks them and heads for the door. Bartender stops hims and asks, "Aren't you going to ask about the restroom? And the pig replies, "No, I'm the little piggy that goes wee-wee-wee all the way home."

OUCH! Much longer than I expected. Hope it got a smile! Praying for you always.

Amy & Rosie Rumberger <TimRumb@aol.com>
Alameda, CA USA - Tuesday, February 26, 2002 at 07:19 PM (CST)
Hi caedan
Tracy is away from her computer this week so She told me I have to take over her duties for her. The joke for yesterday is: Where do dogs leave their cars? In the barking lot. The joke for today is When is a door not a door? When it's ajar. I am keeping her updated (Tracy). I hope you are more comfortable today after your procedure yesterday. Tell your dad I hope he feels better soon. Love to all Carol

carol mangin <smangin@mnsi.net>
windsor, - Tuesday, February 26, 2002 at 06:05 PM (CST)
Hello to the Gallagher family.

I hope as I am writing this, you are ALL still sleeping soundly getting some well deserved rest. Hang in there everybody. You have lots of well wishers keeping you in their prayers.

Take good care.

John and Sandy Bolton
Amherstburg, - Tuesday, February 26, 2002 at 08:51 AM (CST)
Hi Everyone (Caedan, Scott, Maryla and Cali).
Maryla thank you for all the updates and thoughts, it is wonderful to 'know' some of what is happening without having to make you repeat all the news when we talk on the phone.
Tell my brother that I hope he starts feeling better soon (Christie and Noah just went through a long bout of the flu so I feel for him...and you).
Give Caedan a big hug from Noah and give Cali a very soft kiss on the cheek from Noah (sort of a sloppy one cause Noah's not a very good kisser).
Take care

Uncle John, Aunt Christie and Cousin Noah
Vancouver, BC - Tuesday, February 26, 2002 at 12:40 AM (CST)
Maryla, I have been checking the site daily since your trip to Sick Kid's. I was so happy that you took the train, good thinking whomever decided that was the least stressful mode of travel. I am praying daily for stability in Caedan's counts so that B.M.T. can proceed as scheduled. I have a massive knot in the pit of my stomach thinking of what you have to face....but I know that there is no better place in the world to face your greatest fears than the place of Miracles. When we were at Sick Kid's we always said that the reason that Oncology was on the 8th floor was because we were closest to God that way. I want you to know that cyber hugs are occuring....whenever you feel afraid or alone or overwhelmed close you eyes and cross your arms over yourself and breath in very deeply and out very slowly. That feeling of calmness that comes over you is actually your cyber friends hugging you and holding you up and sharing your burden. Caedan is in my constant thoughts and prayers. Our little boys are our treasures aren't they Maryla? Your love creates strength even when you think that the well has run dry. I know that you have an unending supply of love therefore you also have the strength to get through anything for your son. Prayers constant as always. {{{{{{{{Maryla, Scott, Caedan, Cali}}}}}}}
Tami Watchurst (mom to Alexander - 9 years A.L.L. o.t. 98-09-10) <leapco@auracom.com>
Orangeville, Ontario Canada - Monday, February 25, 2002 at 06:57 PM (CST)
Hello Everyone,

I hope your days have been a little "sunnier". Take care. Lots of Love


Sandy at Growing Concern
- Monday, February 25, 2002 at 04:04 PM (CST)
Hi Family

Wanted to let you all know you are in our prayers. Maryla after reading Thursday's message, it is you who is giving me the strength and reminding me to count my blessings. As always if you need anything at all at any time, please call or let me know what I can do to help. If nothing else you are all in our daily prayers.

God Bless

Gisele

<giselel@pmg.on.ca>
- Monday, February 25, 2002 at 02:18 PM (CST)
Hi Maryla - just wanted to let you know my thoughts are with you. March 6th will be here before you know it. I pray that Caeden's blood counts are increasing or at least holding steady until he gets to Toronto. Just remember, there are so many people that care and want you to know that a little part of them will be with you in Toronto. Take very good care and God Bless!
Doris Hotz <doris.hotz@lhsc.on.ca>
London, - Monday, February 25, 2002 at 10:14 AM (CST)
Hi Maryla!
Just letting you know that I'm thinking of all of you. Give Caedan a hug for me - But don't squeeze too tight...
Love,Miss Kate

Kate Lupson <slupson@rogers.com>
London, Ont. Canada - Sunday, February 24, 2002 at 05:32 PM (CST)
Hey Caedan
I'm glad you got the letter and jokes
will think of something else to send to help pass the time - tell your mom to give us all some ideas....
you could tattoo your whole body with Spiderman like Ronnie has!

Chris
www.caringbridge.com/page/gooch
<chrisrusso_@hotmail.com>
bethel, Ct USA - Saturday February 23, 2002 9:26 PM CST
Hi! Maryla
Just wanted to say thanks for visiting me while I was in the hospital for my surgery. I hope all is well, you are in my prayers every day. I miss seeing Cali at school but I hope to be back soon! Maryla if you need anything don't hesitate to e-mail me, I really have nothing to do right now but rest!
Talk to you soon,
Love Rhea

Rhea Dufily <jeepnyj@rogers.com>
London, On Canada - Saturday February 23, 2002 4:09 PM CST
Hi guys! We were just checking out the website and wanted to say that we were thinking of you! Hope all is going well! We miss you (but we're glad that you're not here!) Take care!

Charlene, janice, Michelle and Jaclyn

(The nightshift is kind of slow!!!)

P.S. - Charlene wants to know if you've gotten anymore reading done Maryla!)


London, on Canada - Friday February 22, 2002 9:35 PM CST
Dear Maryla, we think of you guys everyday . Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Love, Pat and Ron Cottrell.[Liz's Mom and Dad.]
Pat and Ron Cottrell <Patroncottrell@yahoo.ca>
Exeter, Ont Canada - Friday February 22, 2002 9:26 PM CST
One more silly joke before the weekend.
Why did the chicken cross the playground?
To get to the other slide!

Hope you're resting and relaxing comfortably and enjoying being at home.
Thinking of you all

Tracy M <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Friday February 22, 2002 3:01 PM CST
To the Gallagher Family

You have a very scary road ahead of you. Our prayers are with you all, and with God's help, the road will be a little easier. I wish you peace.

Sandy at Growing Concern Child Care Centre <smschram@hotmail.com>
london, ontario canada - Friday February 22, 2002 1:07 PM CST
Maryla:
You are an incredible woman. The strength an courage you show is an inspiration to all. Caedan gets his remarkable courage honestly. All the staff at Growing Concern are praying for your family every day.
Rhonda

Rhonda Springer <rhondaspringer@hotmail.com>
- Friday February 22, 2002 12:49 AM CST
We are all praying for you and know this is the most tough and trying time for all of you.
Please stay positive.
He CAN still beat this!

Chris
www.caringbridge.com/page/gooch
<Chrisrusso_@hotmail.com>
Bethel, CT - Thursday February 21, 2002 11:30 PM CST
Hi Caedan, Maryla, Scott and Cali! We are here thinking of you. We love you all! Caedan, why are soccer players so smart? Because they always use their heads!
Love,

Aunt Annie <anniebowers@shaw.ca>
Victoria, BC - Thursday February 21, 2002 9:42 PM CST
My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Mary-Anne <maryanne.davies@lhsc.on.ca>
London, - Thursday February 21, 2002 2:17 PM CST
Thinking of you all.
Korri Lane
- Thursday February 21, 2002 1:26 PM CST
Did you know you have such amazing parents Caedan? I bet you do.
You guys are very special people who remind us all of what is really important.
You are all an inspiration.
Love you and thinking of you all the time, The Hills


- Thursday February 21, 2002 11:33 AM CST
Hello Gallagher Family
Just read the latest update... Maryla, you put your thoughts together so beautifully! And you can count on continuing support and good thoughts and prayers from this little corner of the world. I'm glad to know they help.
Now Caedan, it's joke time. Ready?
What did the hat say to the scarf?

You just hang around and I'll go on ahead.
*giggle*

Tracy M <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Thursday February 21, 2002 9:39 AM CST
Hey Mar...You continue to amaze me. You and Scott should remember to hold your heads up high and be proud of what inspiration you provide for all of us.
I love you and please let Caedan know I'm feeling better and would love to see him soon. Kisses to Cali (who I will abduct from your front porch one day!)
Love, Lore

Lore <lore.wainwright@bell.ca>
London, CAN - Thursday February 21, 2002 8:38 AM CST
Hello Family,

How was yesterday? Did the hospital overwhelm you with information?

The contact in Toronto supplied various pieces of info that you probably have already addressed, like getting a parking pass instead of daily parking; or to let you know that the hospital usually provides lodging for family. So there you have it.

God Bless

Gisele <giselel@pmg.on.ca>
- Thursday February 21, 2002 8:03 AM CST
HELLO Scott & Maryla

Well how was your day? Do I dare ask if you consumed all
the info they could give you. I know when we left on the day of Taylor's consultation we were totally overwhelmed.
I'm sure you and Scott have so much to think about.
Our best wishes to you with everything that's goin on in
your lives.
Where will Cali stay while your in T.O.?
She is more than welcome to spend some time here if you need a helping hand. I know she does'nt know us well
but we'd do our best to make her stay pleasant.
How is Caedan doing?
Those darn neutrophils are they staying up?Caedan I hope your enjoying your time at home. Sounds like you got to a movie which one?
Well I'd better run along, I also have a joke which I
heard on the TODAY show last week, Maybe you've already heard it, We thought it was cute and we thought of you.
WHY DID THE COOKIE GO TO THE DR.?
cause he felt crummy!!!!
Take care everyone.
Love the Dobbins

Pam Dobbin <kdobbin @ xcelco.on.ca>
petrolia, on - Wednesday February 20, 2002 9:44 PM CST
Maryla, I have thought of you and Scott all day today, knowing that you were at Sick Kid's and praying for you to be able to absorb the reams of information and praying for you to feel the confidence of the B.M.T. team that will be caring for Caedan upon his admission. I pray as well that your trip back to London will be a safe one with the heavy rains falling throughout Toronto and Southwestern Ontario I know the drive will be exhausting. I will be checking often to see how things are going and praying for stability for Caedan so that his transplant schedule stays on track.
((((((Maryla, Scott, Caedan, Cali)))))))

Tami Watchurst (mom to Alexander - 9 years A.L.L. o.t. 98-09-10) <leapco@auracom.com>
Orangeville, Ontario Canada - Wednesday February 20, 2002 4:11 PM CST
Hope those neutrophils are back up!
Ready for today's silliness?

What's wrong if you keep seeing talking animals??

You're having Disney spells.
:)

Tracy M <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Wednesday February 20, 2002 2:34 PM CST
Hi Caedan,

We are thinking good thoughts for you and your family. Keep it up.

Sandy Schram at Growing Concern <smschram@hotmail.com>
London, Ontario Canada - Wednesday February 20, 2002 12:05 AM CST
good luck in T.O. you guys!
I hope the weather is good for you driving there and back and it proves a very informative and helpful trip.
will await your update when you return
Troy
xo
(thinking high neutrophils...)


- Wednesday February 20, 2002 0:09 AM CST
hey caedan me and my dad are thinking we'll come and visit you soon and we'll have lots of fun

luv paige

paige bindner-bowers <kimberlycash@sympatico.ca>
LaSalle, canada - Tuesday February 19, 2002 6:31 PM CST
As always, my thoughts are with you. I'm sure your trip to Toronto will be an exhausting day for you, with lots of information to absorb. Hope Caeden's counts can keep on track until getting to Toronto. You have many friends who are sending good wishes and happy thoughts your way. Hang in there!
Mary Rooke <mary.rooke@lhsc.on.ca>
Ingersoll, Ontario - Tuesday February 19, 2002 3:28 PM CST
High Neutrofils high neutrofils high neutrofils high neutrofils
Tracy M
Windsor, ON - Tuesday February 19, 2002 2:36 PM CST
Wow! You must have been thinking really really good thoughts for me, because my bloodwork didn't bother me one little bit!! Thanks Caedan!
Ready for your daily joke?
What did one virus say to the other?

Stay away, I think I have penicillin!!!!

Thought you might appreciate that one, with the antibiotics you're on these days. Good luck tomorrow!


Tracy Mangin <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Tuesday February 19, 2002 12:17 AM CST
WOW, what awesome news to be home, and everybody in their own bed for awhile.

Caedan you are such a brave person. You're the person that helps make the rest of us stronger. Thank you.

Joke for you: Where do the esquimos keep their money?
In the "Snow Banks".

Maryla and Scott, I've contacted an uncle in Toronto who is very involved in the Rotary Club to ask if I can pass on his name to you for any assistance - no matter what that might be, while you are in Toronto. Will let you know when I hear back from him.

God Bless and know that you are always in our prayers.

Gisele <giselel@pmg.on.ca>
London, ON CA - Tuesday February 19, 2002 7:44 AM CST
My goodness... school and the movies?? You must be delirious with all these goings on! So good to hear that you've been able to see some friends and be your old self for a little while! I'll keep my fingers crossed for your journey to Toronto this week. And now, a joke for you.
Where do mermaids go to the movies?

The DIVE in!!

Tracy M <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON - Monday February 18, 2002 9:43 AM CST
Wow, great news guys. I will definitely be circling Mar 6 on my calendar.
It's been so nice to see two cars parked in the driveway. We're glad to have you home, if only for a few days. Cody has been on his best behaviour if only out of fear that he won't get his "Caedan fix" for the day.
So how was the movie? I know Cody & Kyle both had a lot of fun. Maryla, you are one brave person. Cody, Kyle and Caedan in a wheelchair to a movie? I know I couldn't do it! I would offer to take in Cotton & Garfield over here but I don't think Michelle Flower would deal with it very well.
Take Care, my thoughts & prayers are with you.

Tracy, Cody & Kyle's mom <bestbet@look.ca>
London, On Ca - Sunday February 17, 2002 2:54 PM CST
Hello Everyone.
WOW what wonderful news, We will mark Mar. 6th on our calender as well and send powerful prayers your way.
I'm so glad to hear you got home. It's true there is nothing like your own bed, although i understand Childcan
bought new cots for the parents..How are they?
I understand your fear of T.O. but once you get there
I think you'll be pleasantly surprized and amazed at that
facility.
Caedan we love you and hope your days at home are funfilled
and restful.
We'll be thinking of you.
Mar--- I did'nt hear you on the radio, but I understand
that the radioathon did very well. I guess they'll get the "giraffe" bed afterall.
I was on at 1:00, but the reception out here was on clear, so we did'nt stay tuned.
We think of you often, and wish we could do more.
we'll keep in touch.
Take care
pam`


- Saturday February 16, 2002 4:47 PM CST
Hello from all of us. I've bookmarked your website and we will be cheering you on from here in Michigan. Sending belated Valentine good wishes!
Denise, jerry, Doug, Evan, Brenna and Genevieve Hendler <jhendler@earthlink.net>
Rochester, MI USA - Saturday February 16, 2002 12:03 AM CST
Maryla, Valentine's Day sounds like it was very special, great for Caedan to see his classmates again. I had been checking the site and there were no updates and I was praying that things were stable and you were just relishing being home with your son, sleeping in your own beds. There's no place like home, there's no place like home. Boy can you relate to those lines eh Maryla? I can only imagine how frightened you are about meeting with the Oncs. at Sick Kid's....so much information, so much to learn. Trust in your heart that your love for your son will see you through and trust that the staff at Sick Kid's will guide you through every single step of the way. I have a good friend who went through B.M.T. at Sick Kid's and he said that the staff were incredibly supportive and informative and helped him as their journey progressed. So happy that you are home with your children and Scott. I am following your journey through cyber space but hope to be able to see you at Sick Kid's to hug you in person!
Tami Watchurst (mom to Alexander - 9 years A.L.L. o.t. 98-09-10) <leapco@auracom.com>
Orangeville, Ontario Canada - Saturday February 16, 2002 6:44 AM CST
One quick joke before the weekend.
What do you give an elephant with big feet>?

Plenty of room!!

:)

Tracy Mangin <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor , ON Canada - Friday February 15, 2002 3:59 PM CST
HOME!!!! YEAH!!!!!!
I hope you all had a sweet Valentine's Day.

Love Karen <hbyc7@rogers.com>
Waterloo, ON - Friday February 15, 2002 1:29 PM CST
You must be so happy to be home for a while, and glad to have a date for Caeden's BMT We are praying for you and wish you all the best. Take care Caeden enjoy your time at home, I'll bet Cali is thrilled that you are home.You'll probably feel the strengh with all the people that will be thinking of you on March 6. Take care Lisa
Lisa Baxter <BaxterPL6@aol.com>
St. Thomas, - Friday February 15, 2002 10:25 AM CST
Hi Caedan, it is wonderful that you are heading home! I was in my daughter Stephanie's grade 2 class the other day and shared your story with them. The kids were all very thoughtful of your situation and thought that you were an amazing kid. They have asked me to keep them up to date on how you are doing. The class is going to be learning about Web Pages in the next month or so, so I am going to give them a preview by having them stop by to say hi. They are really excited to give you a message.
The Grade 2 class from Chippewa will be by soon!
Keep smiling.

Kim <kjsdgelz@rogers.com>
London, On - Thursday February 14, 2002 8:42 PM CST
Home Sweet Home!!!!!
Glad to hear it. You must feel GREAT to be able to sleep in your own room!
I have circled March 6 on my calendar, and will make sure to think extra good thoughts of you all on that day. I go on February 19 for my blood test for the URBM Registry. ( Think really good thoughts of me on that day, because I don't do well with needles). :0)
Ready for today's joke?
Why was the broom late??

Because it over swept.
TeeHee

Tracy Mangin
Windsor, ON Canada - Thursday February 14, 2002 2:37 PM CST
A double Homer "Woohoo" to you, Caedan! The good news just keeps coming and coming. You continue to amaze us with your strength and progress.
March 6th is a very special date for us and now for you too!
Enjoy your time at home and say hello to Garfield and Cotton for me.
Love and Hugs on Valentine's Day

John and Sandy Bolton <jandsbolton@aol.com>
Amherstburg, ON - Thursday February 14, 2002 7:09 AM CST
HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY !!!!
Now that's what you call a short and sweet update!!!!!



Chris {Goochie's mom}
www.geocities.com/goochsplace

<chrisrusso_@hotmail.com>
- Wednesday February 13, 2002 11:23 PM CST
Hi Guys!!! Boy oh boy all kinds of good news! It seems like I'll have to check in more often just to keep up. My husband Rodney heard your Mom on the radio and was very impressed. I was thinking of you today. Do you remember when I used to trick you into eating your salad by seeing how loud you could crunch? Well I tried it today in the kindercare and that trick still works...but you were the first. Love to you all...I'm glad you are at home...all together....that's the way it should be...cya Miss Jeanie
Jeanie Angus-Perkins
- Wednesday February 13, 2002 7:43 PM CST
Caedan, how nice of you to send all of your friends all over the world a special Valentine. Knowing that you are home with your family has made all of our hearts sing! Thanks so much!
Valerie Sawyer <tvsawyer@shaw.ca>
Edmonton, AB Canada - Wednesday February 13, 2002 5:40 PM CST
Hi Caedan

Have a good night sleeping (IN YOUR OWN BED). It might be too quiet. No nurses, buzzers, bells or lights bugging you. Enjoy your family tonight.

Sandy Schram at Growing Concern <SMSCHRAM@HOTMAIL.COM>
London, Ontario Canada - Wednesday February 13, 2002 3:48 PM CST
Maryla, Caedan and Family

Thank you so much for coming on over to Dustin's CaringBridge Web Page, was a nice suprise to have you sign his guestbook.

I am saddened to hear of Caedans second relapse. Be assured that when you arrive here in Toronto to the Bone Marrow Transplant Unit that you will be informed with information and every conern or question you have will be answered. They are wonderful here!! Its the best place in the world to be, thankful we have the best of the best here in Toronto.

As you know Dustin had his transplant on January 17, 2002. He is now is step-down, he is doing pretty good. Cory S., and Bryan S., both London Oncology kids are here for transplant also. Needless to say, you will see familiar faces, which I found quiet warming. Even though we are all going through different stages of transplant be it stem cell or bone marrow, we are all here for the same reason, to see out kids well again. Look forward to seeing you in March, unless we are discharged back to London or home. Best of Luck, May God Bless!!

Take Good Care
Judy (mother of Dustin)



Judy
Chatham, On Canada - Wednesday February 13, 2002 11:10 AM CST
Caedan,

You are getting there!!! Keep up the wonderful work! Our prayers are with you for a speedy recovery.

Lots of love and hugs,

Tina, Rob, Robert, Zachary and Michael
xoxoxoxo

Tina Herzog <Tina.Herzog@sympatico.ca>
- Wednesday February 13, 2002 9:07 AM CST
Hi Maryla ~
I hope by the time you read this, Caedan is HOME SWEET HOME!! We have not stopped sending prayers and good thoughts your way from Las Vegas! I have circled March 6th on our calendar as a VERY special day!! We will continue to check up on your family! Take care, and hugs to all,
Bill, Stacey, Bryce, and Chad

The Wada Family <SLW6204@aol.com>
Las Vegas, NV USA - Tuesday February 12, 2002 9:36 PM CST
Okay...... I've let you off the hook for a few days. It's dumb joke time again.
Why can't you play jokes on a snake?

Because you can never pull their legs!!!!
:))

Tracy M
Windsor , ON Canada - Tuesday February 12, 2002 3:42 PM CST
caedan congrats im so glad that your felling better and that uncle scott is your donor. auntie marala and uncle scott must be so relifed.i did my speach contest and i didnt win any metals. i hope you get better so i can visit soon im looking forword to it.
love:paige

paige bindner-bowers <kimberlycash@sympatico.ca>
LaSalle, canda - Tuesday February 12, 2002 2:52 PM CST
OH HAPPY DAY! I'm so excited for all of you...do dare say it? Going home, that must be a great feeling!
Caedan you are doining it kido! Keep fighting!

The Drouillard Family, Gerard, Kellie, Mallorie, Elise <gman@jet2.net>
LaSalle, - Tuesday February 12, 2002 12:58 AM CST
What wonderful news! I hope you are home in your own bed and watching your own T.V. and eating your own food until March.
Sandy Bradshaw
- Tuesday February 12, 2002 12:28 AM CST
Hi Caedan

Happy New Year!!!!

It's the Chineese New Year - The Year of the Horse

Horses are very strong and so are You. I am glad you have a date

Sandy Schram at Growing Concern <smschram@hotmail.com>
london, ontario canada - Tuesday February 12, 2002 12:19 AM CST
Hi Maryla, Caedan & family,

Glad to hear you have a date. All the best to you all and my prayers are with you. Glad to hear that Caedan is coming home. Take care...thinking of you often. Thanks for your thoughts & wishes Maryla.... Eva lets me know when she speaks to you and passess your messages to me.
Luv Janice & Alexis

Janice <kucyj@lhsc.on.ca>
London, ONT Canada - Tuesday February 12, 2002 12:10 AM CST
Better times are coming your way We just know that this summer will be the best ever God and a special Angel are watching over you Look way up between the clouds to see the light glowing just for you Cadaen Our precious Grandson who is in remmission and is your age will share a special Angel to watch over you The Angels name is The Butterfly
Claude and Mary Guilbert <butterfly17@sympatico.ca>
Sarnia, Ont Canada - Tuesday February 12, 2002 10:02 AM CST
Maryla, Glad to read that Caedan is able to leave the hospital and go home with your family. You have your date for the B.M.T. now the rest of your journey really begins. We are praying for a successful B.M.T. and for strength and support to hold you and Scott up as you walk along side of your son during this tremendous journey. We will be at Sick Kid's on March 7th for Alexander's check-up. I will write you privately to see what would be best to bring for Caedan. I know that the B.M.T. unit is restricted in what can be brought in for the kids. Storming the heavens with prayers for Caedan and your entire family.
Tami Watchurst (mom to Alexander - 9 years A.L.L. o.t. 98-09-10) <leapco@auracom.com>
Orangeville, Ontario Canada - Tuesday February 12, 2002 9:34 AM CST
Let the countdown begin!! Tears of joy again... nice way to start my day. I know you must be terrified, but remember how far you've come and all the people who are pulling for you! We're all VERY VERY excited for you here in my office.
So does this mean Caedan gets to meet the kitties now??? Hope so!

Tracy Mangin
Windsor, ON Canada - Tuesday February 12, 2002 8:22 AM CST
Oh boy, as his mom you must be terrified huh?
We are all pulling for you and praying
you do have a long road ahead of you
but it will be the start of his leukemia-free life, remember that!

Chris
www.geocities.com/goochsplace
<chrisrusso_@hotmail.com>
Bethel, CT - Tuesday February 12, 2002 0:51 AM CST
DEAR CAEDAN AND FAMILY,
We are happy to hear you are going home.March 6th sound like a great date.The sooner you start the sooner you will be heal.We are all praying for you.
Sylvie

sylvie Carpentier <caringbridge.com/mo/pascalewhite>
columbia, mo - Monday February 11, 2002 10:34 PM CST
Just logged into your webpage, after a short absense - my goodness -all the good news at once - remission, and Scott being a near-perfect match!! They couldn't understand why I let out a yell in my office!! I'm ready to break open a bottle of bubbly ginger-ale. I'm almost giddy with happiness - I can image how you felt!

Good to know that all our collective prayers are being heard - there must have been a back-log in the requests up there, however...

All the best to all of you,
Nasir and the gang in Markham


nasir <nasir@drugintelligence.com>
Markham, Ontario Canada - Monday February 11, 2002 2:08 PM CST
hi its aboudi i have a joke what is a fairytale with a fish in it? a fishy tale
bye
p.s. I hope you feel beter.

aboudi
- Monday February 11, 2002 1:56 PM CST
hy caedan how are you doing I hope you get better soon and I hope you come backe to scool from your friend cody

- Monday February 11, 2002 1:46 PM CST
Dear Maryla,
Just found out about this site. I read through all that was here. We send you our love and prayers. Keep being strong.
xoxo Scott's cousin Janet


- Monday February 11, 2002 10:44 AM CST
Hello Everyone.
Wow, what great news I'm reading. I feel badly I have'nt checked in as often as I should. There is a
God, what do you know, he's hearing our prayers. I'm sure
Caedan, and Scott are extremely thrilled. WE ALL ARE.
Have you gotten a date yet for Toronto?
I just told the girls the great news and we all sat here and
cried a few tears. We are just so happy that things are sounding so much brighter for all of you.
It's been a very difficult month (s) you've had to indure
so much. We know your a strong little man and have wonderful
parents to help with those long days in hosp.
We think of you often, take care.
THE DOBBINS

PAM DOBBIN
- Sunday February 10, 2002 8:29 PM CST
Mar , Scott, Caedan, and Cali
Hi guys!!! Well Still I have no computer so I'm sending this from my brother-in-law's house. Hey, it's better than sending it from the library. Anyway Caedan, sorry to hear about your little setback but you can get past it... I know you can cause I saw you play soccer at the bbq in September.
Gord and I are both registered with the Bone Marrow registry and we challenge everyone who has ever logged on this site to register ... it's easy and you could save a life. Do it today. Mar, all my love to you hon, and Hugs to your family. Talk to you soon
P.S. Gord and I noticed that Sandy's last e-mail was at 11:00 on a Friday and we were thinking....isn't she supposed to be working at 11:00 Friday..hmmmm.
xoxoxo

Lori Wightman <no e-mail address boo hoo!.com>
amherstburg, - Saturday February 9, 2002 7:45 PM CST
Hi Caedan! This is Cam Parkes, your neighbour on Haliburton Rd./Circle! Glad to see your getting better! I'm SOOOO glad that your dad is a match! Keep on fighting, and you'll be fine!
Yours truly,
Cameron Parkes
Byron Southwood Public School
Grade six, Miss de Mayo's class.

Cameron M. Parkes <cameron_parkes@hotmail.com>
London ON, , CAN. - Saturday February 9, 2002 6:37 PM CST
Hi Caedan how are you feeling? It's nice to talk to you on the phone all the time. I can hardly wait till you're all better and we can play gameboy on the front porch. Spring's coming!!

From
Cody

P.S say hi to Cali for me.

Cody Besterd
London, On Canada - Saturday February 9, 2002 5:57 AM CST
Sounds like you're feeling better every day! Such a wonderful thing to hear. Waiting anxiously to hear when the transplant date is!! Wish your mom luck on the radio tomorrow...maybe someone can tape the interview so when can all hear it sometime?

Say, did you hear about the mad scientist who put dynamite in his fridge?
They say it blew his cool.
:) :) :)

Tracy Mangin
Windsor, ON Canada - Friday February 8, 2002 1:46 PM CST
Wow, Caedan,
You're laughing and screeching and going for walks?? That's wonderful!!!
And your mom is going to be a star on the radio -- you'll be famous! Wish we could be there to hear it!

John and Sandy Bolton
Amherstburg, ON - Friday February 8, 2002 11:37 AM CST
Oh my gosh, can you stand another joke?

A little girl was talking to her teacher about whales.
The teacher said it was physically impossible for a whale to
swallow a human because even though it was a very large mammal its throat was very small. The little girl stated that Jonah was swallowed by a whale. The teacher reiterated that a whale could not swallow a human; it was physically impossible. The little girl said, "When I get to heaven I will ask Jonah". The teacher asked, "What if Jonah went to hell?" The little girl replied, "Well, then you ask him".

Hope you can smile today.







Amy & Rosie Rumberger <TimRumb@aol.com>
Alameda, CA 94501 - Thursday February 7, 2002 5:38 PM CST
Keep it up Caedan!!!
One day at a time,that strength of yours is on it's way back!
Sending you a million hugs,
Dina

Dina Kenkel <erabankers@aol.com>
West Bloomfield, Mi U.S.A - Thursday February 7, 2002 3:49 PM CST
Okay, silly joke time again.
What did the banana do when the monkey chased it?

The banana split!
:)
Hope you're continuing to feel better every day!

Tracy Mangin
Windsor, ON Canada - Thursday February 7, 2002 12:13 AM CST
HI CAEDAN


AGAIN, MORE GREAT NEWS. Everone here is thinking the best for you and your family. HUGS TO ALL

Sandy at Growing Concern

Sandy Schram <smschram@hotmail.com>
London, Ont Canada - Thursday February 7, 2002 11:11 AM CST
Wishing we lived closer so we could come to visit our hero Caedan! But since we live in the San Francisco Area, maybe Caedan would prefer to come here for a visit sometime! It's a standing offer and my guestroom is always ready! Hey, did you know I asked a man with two black eyes, "Who gave you those black eyes?" He replied, "Nobody gave them to me....I had to FIGHT for them!" Hugs!
Amy & Rosie Rumberger <TimRumb@aol.com>
Alameda, CA USA - Wednesday February 6, 2002 3:59 PM CST
hi Caedan. there are some dr. susse trivya cweschons. If you wont to asck some why dont you heary up befor there all gon. Do you no wuy i 'm ascking you because your a geanus. by wesley.

- Wednesday February 6, 2002 12:37 AM CST
Wednesday,February6,Day2,2002. Dear Caedan, how are you.I am fine right now.I went to Nadeens house.
We put makeup on,and did our hair,and sang and danced.It was very fun.

Good By.
Love,Nicole Fa.

Nicole Fazekas
- Wednesday February 6, 2002 12:35 AM CST
Hello Caedan,
I have been thinking about you a great deal, especially while we have been doing multiplication. You were multiplying in September, I remember. Tell me... if you took all the people who have signed your guest book and multiplied it by all the people who are thinking of you, how many people would that be?

Answer: Lots and lots and lots.

x o Mrs. Inwood.


- Wednesday February 6, 2002 12:34 AM CST
Time for another joke.
What do whales eat?

Fish and SHIPS!!
*Giggle*Giggle*

Tracy M.
Windsor, ON Canada - Tuesday February 5, 2002 3:55 PM CST
Hi!!! Back in Portland, and missing you guys terribly. At first I thought it was merely withdrawl from Tim Horton's, but no, it's Caedan-Cali-Maryla withdrawl :) It's raining here today (big surprise) but at least it's not snow. That snow last week in London was quite a shock to my system (ha, ha). Caedan - hope your stomach gets to feeling better soon (maybe a few ju jubes would help?)

Love,

Stacey <slane@dbuff.com>
Portland, OR - Tuesday February 5, 2002 12:46 AM CST
Dear Caedan,

I know you haven't met us yet, but I know you have pictures of us. We have been waiting patiently for you to get better so we can spend time cuddling you and playing with our toys..and yours too!

We can't wait to hear when the BMT date is - it'll be one step closer! Keep smilin'!

Garfield and Cotton (or any old name you want to give me)
At home - Tuesday February 5, 2002 12:01 AM CST
Hey, is the hospital address on main page the one where we can send him cards to cheer him up while in there???

{any other volunteers in the card-sending dept.????}


chris
www.geocities.com/goochsplace
<chrisrusso_@hotmail.com
>
Bethel, CT - Tuesday February 5, 2002 11:06 AM CST
Got a quick joke for you...
What do cats eat for breakfast??

MICE Krispies!!!
Tee hee!!
Glad to hear your coming along.. hope that leg feel better soon!

Tracy Mangin
Windsor, ON Canada - Monday February 4, 2002 3:59 PM CST
Hi guys!
Just wanted to let you both know how you make someone enjoy coming to work each day! It's an honour for me to share in your lives at the hospital. Despite your bad days you always seem to be able to find laughter, funny stories, new friendships and hope. You can do it!

Lisa <hawthorl@lhsc.on.ca>
London, Ontario Canada - Monday February 4, 2002 2:42 PM CST
Hi Caedan,
I read some of your jokes on Gooch's site. You are too funny! You are also handsome. I loved the super cheerios outfit. How ingenious. If you have extra time, I would love to read some more jokes. Hang in there. You are STRONG & BRAVE!!

Tutee <chasesmiracle@yahoo.com http://www.caringbridge.com/ga/chasesmiracle/>
Ga USA - Sunday February 3, 2002 7:36 PM CST
I am so thrilled to hear the news. Every day is a better day and Scott still must be in shock. As promised the T.H. vouchers are on the way.
Love to you all
Sharon xoxo

Sharon Butler <but7@rogers.com>
Stratford, Ont Canada - Sunday February 3, 2002 4:08 PM CST
Hi, Caedan!

Everyone misses you at school. I'm glad your dad is a match for you. Hope to see you soon! Love, Ryan G.

Ryan Green <tom.green@sympatico.ca>
London, ON Canada - Saturday February 2, 2002 7:51 PM CST
My heart sank with the news received shorty after Xmas. I have been reading the updates constantly and I am thrilled to hear that Scott is going be Caedan's donor. I'm not sure if there is someone up there or whether this is truly fate.
Caedan is one tough little cookie. Just hang on in there.
I am sending daily prayers across the Atlantic.

Jacqui Whittington <WHITTI.FAMILY@virgin.net>
England - Saturday February 2, 2002 2:04 PM CST
Hello Cali,
I just wanted to let you know how wonderful you and your family are for being so strong and courageous through these trying times.I have been fortunate enough to meet your brother Caedan a couple of times when you have come to play with us at growing concern.He is a wonderful young man from what I have heard.I just wanted to let you know that even though we don't know each other well ,I think of you and your family often and hope for all the best.I am so glad he is feeling better.Tell mom she has the best smile when she comes to see us and to keep that smile going. All the best again to you and your family, and Cali I will miss your giggles and smile while I am on mat leave. BIG kiss to you.
Tammy Bonney from sr toddlers at growing concern.

Tammy Bonney <bonneynaz@sympatico.ca>
london, on canada - Saturday February 2, 2002 9:08 AM CST
Maryla, First I read that Caedan was in remission (YES!), then I read that his pain level was significantly diminished (YES!). You son's needs are constant in my prayers and those of my family. I have read through your guestbook and see many old familiar names from All-Kids who are following your journey and supporting you in cyber space. How vividly I remember following Melanie and Travis's B.M.T. journey and look how far he has come. Caedan is going to get the best treatment possible at Sick Kid's....it truly is a place of Miracles. Love and Prayers to you both Maryla.
Tami Watchurst (mom to Alexander - 9 years A.L.L. o.t. 98-09-10) <leapco@auracom.com>
Orangeville, Ontario Canada - Saturday February 2, 2002 8:13 AM CST
Hi Caeden,
Just wanted to drop by and wish you a good weekend
I am still sick with a bad cough myself, but running
around tearing up the house as usual!
- Goochie

Chris
www.geocities.com/goochsplace
<chrisrusso_@hotmail.com>
Bethel, CT - Friday February 1, 2002 12:42 AM CST
Hi Caedan,

A great big hug and hello. I'm glad things are going better.

Sandy at Growing Concern
- Friday February 1, 2002 12:21 AM CST
Caedan, I'm glad to hear the pain is better and I will continue to keep you in my prayers.
Khalita <khalita.jones@duke.edu>
Durham, NC - Friday February 1, 2002 11:43 AM CST
To Caedan and your family. You don't know me, but I have been kept up to date with your situation by Tracy Bestard, Cody and Kyle's mom. Caedan, you are a very brave young man and should be very proud of your accomplishments so far. I was thrilled to hear that you are in remission. Tears of joy for you still come to my eyes when I share your story with others. I am also so happy that it is your dad who will be your hero!
I wish you a speedy BMT.
God Bless, my prayers are with you and your family.

Kim <kjsdgelz@rogers.com>
London, On Canada - Wednesday January 30, 2002 9:45 PM CST
Hi Caedan and family. You won't know who I am, but you may have heard of my family, or at least your dad has. I just thought I'd write a quick note to congratulate you on your remission and on your dad being your donor. How very exciting. My prayers are with you and your family for a quick BMT at Sick Kids. The people there are great! (Well we thought so when we were there) My name is Leslie, and your dad and maybe your mom will know me only as Shane's mom. My mom keeps giving me update as to how you are making out. Keep up the great work, I do understand how hard it is. I'll check in again soon. You are a brave man. God bless you and your family, love Leslie Thomas
Leslie Thomas <fineline01_2000@yahoo.com>
Lucan, Ontario, Canada - Wednesday January 30, 2002 8:45 PM CST
Hi Caedan, glad you are in remission! One step closer to being at home!

Did you know that Dr. Suess' birthday is on Saturday, and the school is having a party? Wish you could be there for it cause you are funny too. I miss hanging out with you and hope you feel much better soon. Your friend Dylan

Dylan Lariviere <bsutherland@introtel.com>
London, ON Canada - Tuesday January 29, 2002 5:40 PM CST
hey caedan!!

we all miss you at school and hope you get better soon! hope i can come vist some time! good luck with every thing!!
your freind marley!!

marley stephenson <lil_moo_mop10@hotmail.com>
london, ont. canada - Tuesday January 29, 2002 4:14 PM CST
Great news! Remission forever! Another silly joke if Caedan can stand it! At the IRS office, the man glumly handed over his taxes due. The lady behind the counter told him "You should always pay your taxes with a smile!" But he replied, "I would have, but you only take CASH!" Doing the happy dance in California!
Amy & Rosie Rumberger <TimRumb@aol.com>
Alameda, CA USA - Tuesday January 29, 2002 4:03 PM CST
Thats great news
We are all praying for you guys
and yes, let Travis' success be your inspiration

Chris

www.caringbridge.com/page/gooch <Chrisrusso_@Hotmail.com>
Bethel, CT - Tuesday January 29, 2002 1:43 AM CST
What an incredible kid Caedan is! His Uncle Mike and I took his 21-year old cousin, Nigel, to the hospital on Saturday night to see Caedan. Nigel thinks he's a Nintendo expert but Caedan whipped him 8 games out of 10! Yeah Caedan!!!
Carol <cfuller@ody.ca>
London, - Monday January 28, 2002 8:28 AM CST
Did you say REMISSION?? UNBELIEVABLE!! You're doing it Caedan... keep fighting!!!
Tracy Mangin
Windsor, ON Canada - Monday January 28, 2002 7:59 AM CST
I just wanted to say hi and let you know my prayers are with your whole family. I wish the very best for Caedan and the family. I was glad to hear of your web site so I could check to see how Caedan is doing. It's hard when I'm not at work to hear everything that is going on. Please say hi to Caedan for me. Sincerely

Karen Gorza (Douglas)
P.S. I was Caedan's Junior Toddler teacher at Growing Concern Child Care Centre. I am presently off on maternity leave that's why I said I haven't heard much.

Karen Gorza <m.k .gorza@rogers.com>
ingersoll, ont canada - Sunday January 27, 2002 9:45 PM CST
We are all so excited for you Caedan, you keep amazing us every day! Sending you big hugs and kisses from LaSalle and still praying everyday.

Kellie, Gerard, Mallorie and Elise <gman@jet2.net>
LaSalle, Canada - Sunday January 27, 2002 8:39 AM CST
REMISSION --YEAH!!!!! Fingers are crossed and prayers continue for this good positive track. You know we are hoping for the BMT to take place as soon as possible so Caedan can get feeling well.
Did you say catch up on schoolwork? Awwww, Mom!

Love and hugs, Karen <hbyc7@rogers.com>
Waterloo, ON - Saturday January 26, 2002 5:27 PM CST
THIS IS ABSOLUTELY WONDERFUL!!!!
My heart feels like it might jump out of my chest I'm so excited! Caedan, you're doing it buddy!!! One day at a time, you keep this outstanding courage up!!
We love you tons, and continue to pray.
Big hugs and kisses,
Dina , Matt, Patrick, Stephen and Sarah

Dina Kenkel <erabankers@aol.com>
West Bloomfield, Mi U.S.A - Saturday January 26, 2002 12:38 AM CST
GREAT NEWS!! So glad to hear that Caedan's in remission already....that's a great sign! Still saying many prayers for you guys.

God bless,

Lisa Agee (mom to Ross dx ALL 10-4-00) <www.caringbridge.com/page/ross>
Camden, AL - Saturday January 26, 2002 10:16 AM CST
Caedan,

I heard this at my dentist the other day and thought you might find it funny.
"Where do Eskimos keep their money?"
"in snow BANKS" Ha Ha Ha"

I hope you have a good weekend

Sandy at Growing Concern <smschram@hotmail.cjom>
London, Ont Can - Friday January 25, 2002 1:43 PM CST
Glad to hear Caedan is at least getting some rest... hope Mom and Dad are getting some too! Still smiling about the good news earlier in the week. I bet you guys are all still up in the clouds. You let us know when Caedan is up to having some company... I'm sure my mom will be there in a flash!
Tracy Mangin
Windsor, ON Canada - Friday January 25, 2002 1:22 PM CST
Maryla, just got online so this is the first time I've seem Caedens webpage. I'm so sorry for all his pain and so happy that Scott is a match that is such wonderful news. We are praying for you all. When this is all over you are going to wonder again how you did it. Hoping you can get back to being a normal family again (whatever that is) soon. Maybe I'll see you at the hospital. Stephanie has an appointment with Dr. Cairney on Tues Feb 5 in the afternoon. Take care Lisa
Lisa Baxter <BaxterPL6@aol.com>
St. Thomas, On - Friday January 25, 2002 9:16 AM CST
Hi Family:
Just want you to know we appreciate the updates. Glad to hear the pain is a little better. Were sending you all of our best wishes from over here on the west coast (where it is raining and raining and raining).

Uncle John, Aunt Christie, and Baby Noah
Vancouver, BC - Thursday January 24, 2002 11:35 PM CST
Thrilled to hear the good news! Keep up the fight Caedan!
Get some sleep M.

Margo, Tom, Kate and Sarah <margojory@hotmail.com>
London, Ont Canada - Thursday January 24, 2002 10:47 PM CST
Fantastic!! It's about time for some good news. We think of all of you so often. You are in our hearts
Mary Lou Lyttle and Robyn <marylou.lyttle@sympatico.ca>
london, on - Thursday January 24, 2002 8:54 PM CST
!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!YEAH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
This is the greatest news ever!!!!!!!!!!
Keep us posted.
Love,Miss Kate.

Kate Lupson <slupson@rogers.com>
London, Ont Canada - Thursday January 24, 2002 5:46 PM CST
If my silly jokes are just "too painful" to hear, let me know and I will STOP. I get these from my kids you know! Did I tell you the one about the lady who kept breaking into song? I told her she wouldn't have to break-in if she only could find the right KEY! [Thinking of you everyday!]
Amy & Rosie Rumberger <TimRumb@aol.com>
Alameda, CA USA - Thursday January 24, 2002 3:44 PM CST
FANTASTIC!!!!
Debbie, Graham and Callum <debbiedonnison@cs.com>
Dorchester, Dorset United Kingdom - Thursday January 24, 2002 2:34 PM CST
GREAT NEWS!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Today is the first day I have smiled while reading your entries.

Troy Palcit <troy@monarch-office.com>
Windsor, - Thursday January 24, 2002 2:22 PM CST
I havn't seen any new entries and I just wanted to let you know everyone is cheering for you.
All the gang at Growing Concern. Hugs to everyone!

Sandy <smschram@hotmail.com>
London, Ont Canada - Thursday January 24, 2002 1:31 PM CST
I'm SO happy to hear your wonderful news. You'll continue to be in my prayers!
Khalita <khalita.jones@duke.edu>
Durham, NC - Thursday January 24, 2002 12:47 AM CST
well!! what are the chances of that happening!??!?!
This is wonderful news! Scott I'm sure must be beaming. And Caedan must be so happy!! Keep up your incredible braveness Caedan - it won't be long now!

Troy <troy@bay-net.on.ca>
- Wednesday January 23, 2002 10:27 PM CST
Still so happy for the great news about Dad being a match! Awesome is too small a word! Time for another really OLD joke. How much did the pirate pay to get his ears pierced??? A bucaneer! Hugs!
Amy & Rosie Rumberger <TimRumb@aol.com>
Alameda, CA USA - Wednesday January 23, 2002 10:20 PM CST
Mary has kindly passed your web site on to me, Maryla, and I am so very happy for you, Scott and Caeden. What wonderful news for all of you. You are in the prayers and thoughts of many people and you are so blessed to have such a brave little boy.
Peg Millson <rmillson@odyssey.on.ca>
London, Canada - Wednesday January 23, 2002 9:58 PM CST
Greetings to the Gallaghers one and all! So thankful to hear such good news for all of you. Tears of joy for a refreshing change. Thanks for keeping everyone of us so well informed. Hoping that the days ahead for Caedan are more comfortable! Looking forward to hearing more great news. Our prayers are with you everynight! Mary, Blair and Matt
<maryerobertson@canada.com>
- Wednesday January 23, 2002 7:56 PM CST
Hi Maryla, WOW I'm still crying! When I was talking to you last night, you never told me how Caedan broke the news to Scott. Here I go again I need a new kleenex! I told my friend Nonie at work all about Caedan. As a cancer survivour she can really relate. Cody, Kyle and even Tim were dancing around the rec room last night. Yes, Cody put down the Gameboy! As always, my prayers are with you. Let me know when I can do the next shift change. With 4 boys over here I could use Cali's company. Love you bunches! Scott (Jose Cuervo)you're my hero!

Tracy Besterd <bestbet@look.ca>
London, Ont - Wednesday January 23, 2002 6:48 PM CST
Good news travels fast. Mary Z told Pat this morning at A&P! You are always on our minds, in our hearts, and in our prayers! We will continue to pull for you, but I know you guys are doing a greater job pulling for each other! Way'd a go Scott! Love the Lariviere's PS: Dylan is thrilled and can't wait to see Caeden
Beth <bsutherland@introtel.com>
London, On Canada - Wednesday January 23, 2002 5:30 PM CST
YAAAHOOO, GRRRRRREEAATTTTTTT, AWESOME, STUPENDOUS, OUTSTANDING, TERRIFIC, WAY TO GO, and all the other words we could think of when we heard the news.

Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Doug, Jen, Alex & Ben

<dandj.harrison@sympatico.ca>
London, ON Canada - Wednesday January 23, 2002 5:11 PM CST
Maryla,
I too am now drowning in joyous tears from Caeden's incredibly profound words to his dad. Kleenex, how about a roll of Bounty, the quicker picker upper. I was so thrilled about the news from Mrs I.,I didn't read your entry first. Dah!

Kelly Cordiner
- Wednesday January 23, 2002 3:10 PM CST
Hello Maryla,
I have just returned from school. Mrs. Inwood has shared the great news with me. I am so happy that Scott is a match for Caeden. You must think you hit the jackpot. I had chills when Sarah told me. We continue to send good prayers for Caeden. I know Caeden still has a very long road ahead, but you must feel some relief with this match. All the best to you, Scott, Cali and a big hug from Dillon to Caeden.
Take care.
Kelly and the boys

Kelly Cordiner <kbcor@sympatico.ca>
London, Canada - Wednesday January 23, 2002 2:55 PM CST
Excellent news for all of you!!! I work with Tracy & she has shared your story with me. Our thoughts & prayers are with you!
Nonie & Trevor
- Wednesday January 23, 2002 10:23 AM CST
Wow!! Amazing!! Subarashi!! Sugoi!!! I am so happy for you all especially Caedan and Scott (Mr. Gallagher). Definitely a ray of sunshine. Keep fighting Caedan..Gambatte!!! Miss you very much. Your friend, John (Mr. A)
John Ashenden <jashenden@hotmail.com>
London, ON Canada - Wednesday January 23, 2002 8:57 AM CST
Maryla

I am so very happy to hear that Scott is a match!! Mary told me about Caedan's relapse, and I was so heartbroken for you. This bone marrow match is the best news ever!! It makes people like me stop and think that yes, I should join the Bone Marrow registry to help someone else out. I started to cry where you wrote that Caedan said to daddy about saving his life. He is so brave. I do hope that the pain he is in subsides and he is more comfortable. I will say a prayer that things go well for you and your family over the next while. If you get a chance, please e-mail me - I would love to hear from you. I wish you nothing but the best Maryla. Please take care, and I will keep a watch on your website.

Doris Hotz <doris.hotz@lhsc.on.ca>
London, - Wednesday January 23, 2002 8:37 AM CST
What wonderful news! Thank you for making MY day!
Todd Klingbyle <tklingbyle@cogeco.ca>
Windsor, ON Canada - Wednesday January 23, 2002 7:59 AM CST
Wow!! That is wonderful, wonderful news. We are so happy for you. We certainly did get out the kleenex.
Sandy Bradshaw
- Wednesday January 23, 2002 7:50 AM CST
One more thing -- for anyone in the U.S. who wants to get into the registry to be a possible match to save someone else's life, check out the National Marrow Donor Program at www.marrow.org or call 1-800-marrow2 to find a location near you to be tested.
It's a relatively easy process to get into the registry. It just takes your commitment to do so.
M, I hope this is ok -- just thought some of your U.S. friends might like this info.
From a mom who's son's life was saved through the kindness of a stranger -- and her gift of life (marrow transplant).
Thanks everyone!
Go Caedan!!!!!!

Melanie <tracerpub@aol.com>
Hoffman Estates, IL USA - Tuesday January 22, 2002 9:55 PM CST
Maryla, Scott, Caedan and Cali,
Please know our prayers are with you all as you go these next steps. What an absolute MIRACLE about Scott being a match! For a parent to match, well, that's REALLY fantastic! Take that as an incredibly good omen!
From one family who's "been there, done that", do know that there IS light at the end of the BMT "tunnel". Caedan WILL make it through. And may Travis be a beacon of hope for you each step of the way.
Maryla, I'm here for you.
With love, hugs, prayers and hope,
Melanie
(mom of Travis, 9, dx 5/98 ALL PH+, MUD BMT 9/98 and doing GREAT!, and Spencer, almost 8, and just fantastic, too!)
www.keeptrying.com

Melanie Goldish <tracerpub@aol.com>
Hoffman Estates, IL - Tuesday January 22, 2002 9:45 PM CST
Hurray!!! I was so thrilled to hear the news at Growing Concern today. Rhonda announced it over the P.A. ( I guess that means you're a star...and I guess you're Dad gets to be one too) This is the best news yet. God bless you all. Miss Jeanie
Jeanie Angus-Perkins
- Tuesday January 22, 2002 9:03 PM CST
Just read the WONDERFUL news about Scott being a match. Awesome News! How Caeden told his Dad was amazing - it made me cry. Patrick, Michelle and Mark all send their good wishes that everything will go as smoothly as possible. Hang in there Caeden! We met you at Rainbow Lake last summer - you can see the strength in your eyes!!!
The Cleminson Family - Windsor <jclem@mnsi.net>
Windsor, Ontario, - Tuesday January 22, 2002 9:03 PM CST
CAEDAN - here in Victoria we are dancing for joy!!! Scott, what wonderful news! Charlyn sends her love and congratulations. Maryla - I love you!
Aunt Annie <anniebowers@shaw.ca>
Victoria, BC - Tuesday January 22, 2002 7:44 PM CST
YES! Big smiles for all of you down here in Alabama!!! I hope that nasty infection clears up soon. Congratulations on a very BIG step towards complete recovery!
Lisa Agee (mom to Ross dx ALL 10-4-00) <www.caringbridge.com/page/ross>
Camden, AL - Tuesday January 22, 2002 6:25 PM CST
I can't see to write this message cause I'm bawling. Oh my oh my, what incredible news. What beautiful wonderful news, and so deserving. All my love, Dahlia.
Dahlia Reich <dahlia.reich@sympatico.ca>
London, - Tuesday January 22, 2002 5:38 PM CST
Unbelievable news!!! PRAISE BE TO GOD! Maryla, Scott, Caedan there are no words....it's a Miracle to be sure. Our prayers have been heard loud and clear! I am in shock after reading your post. Fantastic, absolutely fantastic news. Maryla I am sending you a massive cyber bear hug from one former All-Kids member to another! Ammunition is exactly what this battle needs and lots of it. Praise God for this incredibly wonderful news.
Tami Watchurst (mom to Alexander - 8 years A.L.L. o.t. 98-09-10) <leapco@auracom.com>
Orangeville, Ontario Canada - Tuesday January 22, 2002 5:07 PM CST
WOOHOO!!!! (as Homer would say)
We are so thrilled to hear that your Dad is a match!! And that you got to tell him!!
Our faces are smiling and our hearts are smiling too!!!
We will keep praying for a speedy recovery, Caedan. Keep your chin up! You are the strongest person we know!!

John and Sandy Bolton <jandsbolton@aol.com>
Amherstburg, ON - Tuesday January 22, 2002 2:33 PM CST
Thank God Scott is a good match!
You guys have been through so much already...
we all pray it is just smooth sailing from here on..

Chris
www.caringbridge.com/page/gooch
<Chrisrusso_@hotmail.com>
Bethel, CT - Tuesday January 22, 2002 1:55 PM CST
Congratulations - I'm so happy for you to hear about the great news. Take care. You are in my prayers.
Korri Lane <kl_2000@excite.com>
Dallas, TX USA - Tuesday January 22, 2002 11:57 AM CST
IT'S THE BEST NEWS YET ... CONGRATS CAEDAN & MARY-LA ...PRAYERS DO GET ANSWERED!
CHETNA <CBHATT@ROGER.COM>
- Tuesday January 22, 2002 11:35 AM CST
Caedan,

This is wonderful news for everyone! Congratulations. I am sooooooooooooo happy for you.

Sandy Schram <growingconcern@hotmail.com>
London, Ontario Canada - Tuesday January 22, 2002 11:25 AM CST
Caedan, Maryla, Scott and Cali:
Congratulations!!!!
You can bet I needed my kleenex when I read your latest entry. How absolutely wonderful to hear Scott is going to be Caedan's bone marrow donor. We wish you guys all the best.
Rhonda
and all the gang at GCCC.

rhonda springer <rhonda springer@hotmail.com>
- Tuesday January 22, 2002 11:10 AM CST
hey caedan,


we miss you so much and hope you come back soon. hope you feel better soon.
good luck with everything! your freind marley (moo)

marley stephenson <lil_moo_mop10@hotmail.com>
london, ont. canada - Tuesday January 22, 2002 11:09 AM CST
This is such wonderful news about Scott being a match for Caedan. I am so happy and releived for you. I'll keep praying that things continue to go well for you.
Love,
Mary

Mary Neary <nearyme@aol.com>
Juneau, AK 99801 - Tuesday January 22, 2002 10:39 AM CST
I was so happy for you all last night when Mom called me with the news - now I'm sitting in the office crying after reading the journal. How nice happy tears can be!!!
Keep fighting the good fight, and I'll keep thinking happy thoughts - although not many could be happier than your latest news!

Tracy Mangin
Windsor , ON Canada - Tuesday January 22, 2002 9:04 AM CST
What a BEAUTIFUL gift of news this is!! You're right Mar, the prayers are being heard..and will continue to be!
Caedan, how incredibly proud you must be to have your father be the donor?!! And Scott, which cloud can I find you floating by on, so I can hug you???
Hurray!!
We love you guys,
Dina, Matt, Patrick, Stephen and Sarah Kenkel

Dina Kenkel <erabankers@aol.com>
West Bloomfield, Mi U.S.A - Tuesday January 22, 2002 8:46 AM CST
What wonderful news! I'm so happy that Caeden is a step closer, and a giant step at that, to a bone marrow transplant. You must all be on cloud 9, and rightly so. Hang in there and get Caeden strong and feeling better. I'm sure this good news will give you all a lift. Aren't tears of joy wonderful? Will look forward to more updates.
Mary Rooke <mary.rooke@lhsc.on.ca>
Ingersoll, Ontario, - Tuesday January 22, 2002 8:07 AM CST
YES!!!!!!!!!

I cannot tell you how overjoyed ( for lack of a better word) I am over this great news!!!!!! I could just burst! How I wish I could be there right now to give you all a tight, tight hug!

xoxoxo

Tina Herzog

Tina Herzog <Tina.Herzog@sympatico.ca>
- Monday January 21, 2002 10:45 PM CST
To the Gallagher Family,

I'm thrilled that you have been able to locate a match for Caedan's transplant. I'll spread the good news!

Always thinking about you at Southwood!

Marion Moynihan <m.moynihan@tvdsb.on.ca>
London, ON CANADA - Monday January 21, 2002 10:38 PM CST
Hi Everyone
When Uncle Pruitt Called with the news it certainly made my day. I was so happy I couldn't even imagine how you were all feeling. I called as many people as I could who didn't have a computer and said spread the news.Great News. A BIG HURDLE HAS BEEN CLEARED. THANK YOU GOD.You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Carol

<smangin@mnsi.net>
- Monday January 21, 2002 9:27 PM CST
What fantastic news!!!!! We are so happy for you! Yes, prayers are answered, and we will keep praying that the good guys, the white blood cells, will fight well, and Caedan will grow strong enough for the transplant to go ahead.
Congratulations Scott!

with love, Daniel & Jennifer <dfriesen@ibigroup.com>
Vancouver, BC Canada - Monday January 21, 2002 9:17 PM CST
hi everyone,
we were so thrilled this morning when janet called with the great news........we've been in tears off and on all day as we tell everyone we see. we're all teary again tonight as we read the journal update. noah is in the background squealing with joy at the news. we're thinking of all of you and saying lots of prayers that remission comes quickly. much love from all of us,
christie, john and noah.

aunt christie, uncle john and noah <twobrides@hotmail.com>
vancouver, b.c. - Monday January 21, 2002 9:06 PM CST
So glad to read your good news! How about another joke for Caedan? Mother asks her son, "Why did you put a frog in your sister's bed?" Son replies, "Because I couldn't find a snake!" Tee-hee. Prayers for healing coming your way!
Amy & Rosie Rumberger <TimRumb@aol.com>
Alameda, CA USA - Monday January 21, 2002 7:54 PM CST
WHAT FANTASTIC NEWS!!!!!!!!!!!!!The girls were right, God does answer the prayers of children first. We couldn't be more happy for all of you. Way to go Scott, you must be bursting with pride and relief.
Love The Drouillards <gman@jet2.net>
LaSalle, - Monday January 21, 2002 6:38 PM CST
hey caedan,

how you feelin?? Hope you feel better soon. We miss you so much. Alyssa just got back from St.Martin a cuple of weeks ago.

marley stephenson <lil_moo_mop10@hotmail.com>
london, ont. canada - Monday January 21, 2002 5:01 PM CST
Hey Caedan,
I know you probably don't feel much like joking but we thought you might enjoy these in a few days when you are feeling better.
Q: Why did the cookie go to the doctor?
A: Cause he was feeling crummy!
Q: What did the doctor give the sick pig?
A: Oinkment!
Q: How did the pig go to the hospital?
A: In an hambulance!
Q: Who earns a living by driving his customers away?
A: A cab driver!

Uncle Mike & Aunt Carol <mbowers@ody.ca>
London, ON - Monday January 21, 2002 12:44 AM CST
Hi Caedan,

This short note is to let you know that we miss you and are thinking about you! Your web page is wonderful, and the updated journal allows us to see how you are doing. You are one very special and brave boy! We miss you! I will log on later.

L. Vitols <l.vitols@tvdsb.on.ca>
London, Canada - Monday January 21, 2002 8:56 AM CST
Hello you all! GREAT Hallowe'en pictures, they made me smile! I jointed the Unrelated Bone Marrow Donor Registry last week. Thanks for the info on your home page, great suggestion. Wondering, have you had an introduction to Wellspring (support center)yet? I hear it is a great centre and know quite a few people involved. Let me know if you want more information. Cheers all!!!
Charmaine Graham (nee Fuller) <mailroom@ivey.uwo.ca>
London, ON Canada - Monday January 21, 2002 8:17 AM CST
Hi Caedan, We've decided to tell a joke we thought might help brighten your day.....Why did the spider build a site on the web? To catch computer bugs.
Alex & Doug <dandj.harrison@sympatico.ca>
London, ON Canada - Sunday January 20, 2002 8:08 PM CST
Hi Maryla~
I'm glad to read in Friday's journal that Caedan is more comfortable and getting some much needed rest!! I pray that the weekend has only gotten better for him. Your family continues in our thoughts and prayers daily. I wish so much that we could do more to support you at this trying time!! Take care, and know that our well-wishes are flowing across the miles to you all.
With love, Bill, Stacey, Bryce, and Chad Wada

The Wada Family <SLW6204@aol.com>
Las Vegas, NV USA - Sunday January 20, 2002 6:37 PM CST
Hi Maryla, Scott, Caeden and Cali,

You may not remember me, but we've met. My name is Jocelyne, and I have a son, Jon, who had ALL and relapsed on treatment. He also needed a BMT. We live in Windsor, and a couple of people have forwarded me your name. (Barb Johnson, and Elizabeth Cleminson). They know that we have been through what you are all going through right now. First of all, let me tell you that Jon just got back from the tobaggan hill with his older brother and dad. His transplant was over 3 years ago (from the Unrelated Bone Marrow Donor Registry). Next let me give you my address if you'd like to keep in touch. Jon and I will be in London on January 29. Maybe we can come up for a visit. Hold hard, and don't let the darkness of the tunnel overpower you. Keep your eye on the light at the end of it. Jocelyne - mom to Jon.

<jtbrent@sympatico.ca>
Windsor, ON Canada - Sunday January 20, 2002 5:26 PM CST
Hey Caedan, it's Noah, I know you think that I'm too little to type, but I've snuck into my dad's office (Mom and Dad are sleeping, so as long as I'm quiet, I have the whole house to myself). Anyway, I know that I'm only 7 months old (almost 8) but I want you to know that I am staying up nights thinking about you (my silly parents think that I'm simply not sleeping but they don't understand that I've got wishes to make and other important things). Say hi, to your Mom and Dad for me, I remember that your Mom is really great and I saw your Dad just a few weeks back (he let me play with a beer bottle which was fun) and I like him too.
Lots of love
Your baby cousin Noah

Noah Anand Patrick Woodin
Vancouver, BC CANADA - Friday January 18, 2002 11:12 PM CST
Hi Caedan! Just letting you know that I am thinking about you and hoping that you are feeling better. I loved your Halloween costume but I thought you were "TIGGERMAN"? Do you still have that cool baseball hat with the tail? Anyway, I'm glad I found out about your website. Miss Kate
Kate Lupson <slupson@rogers.com>
London, Ont Canada - Friday January 18, 2002 7:20 PM CST
Caedan, Maryla, Scott & Cali
Are thoughts and prayers are with you! We are taking good care of Cali at school. She loves it. PLEASE let us know if we can do anything for you. We miss seeing your smiling face. We miss you and love you.
Love Miss Rhea & Miss K.K xoxoxox

Rhea Dufily <jeeepnyj@rogers.com>
London, ON Canada - Friday January 18, 2002 4:47 PM CST
Hi Caedan how yu doing ? I'm having a birthday on march the 2. I'm having a sleepover and I was woundering if you wanted to come.Ask your mom first tough write back soon. Your friend Dylan D.
Dylan dyson
- Friday January 18, 2002 12:30 AM CST
I hope you get well. Caedan. Get well soon
marnie C.
- Friday January 18, 2002 12:25 AM CST
To caedan from Nadeen I hope you feel better.I hope you come to school soon we really miss you very much .
nadeen deep
- Friday January 18, 2002 12:23 AM CST
Hi Caedan, Marila and family: I just wanted to let youn know that I've been thinking alot about you these days. I saw your friend Karen Beck-Sanderson last night at the theatre so she caught me up a little. What a grat idea this page is. I love seeing the pictures....God bless...Miss Jeanie
Jeanie Angus-Perkins
- Friday January 18, 2002 10:21 AM CST
Hi Caedan
Wow what a wonderful costume you were wearing for Hallowe'en. That must have been your idea you are such a creative person. How long did it take you to save all of the cheerio boxes? We would have contacted you alot sooner had we known about your great webpage. Nintendo 64 is a fun game to have. I bet you can teach mom and dad some pretty neat tricks on it. Are you the champ of the games? All the teachers at the daycare are cheering for you and wish you well. Talk to you soon. Big hugs and kisses to everyone.
Staff of Growing Concern

nancy craig <nancycraig@hotmail.com>
london, ont canada - Friday January 18, 2002 9:43 AM CST
Hi Mar. so glad to read that the pain is not as bad today. were you able to get the laptop?
thinking of you constantly
hugs to all

troy <troy@bay-net.on.ca>
- Thursday January 17, 2002 11:30 PM CST


- Thursday January 17, 2002 2:53 PM CST
Hi Maryla
Just wanted to drop you a line and let you know that my thoughts and prayers are with you, Caedan, Scott and Callie. I will try to stop by the hospital for a short couple of moments tomorrow if you would like. I pray that Caedan's pain is soon totally under control. Stay strong!
Love Karen


Karen Palmer <k.palmer@lhsc.on.ca>
London, ont Can - Thursday January 17, 2002 1:08 PM CST
Hi Caedan, I'm very glad to hear that the pain is better. Marian says thank you for the picture of you. She says to tell you she put it in her scrapbook with a cool sticker beside it! Maryla, I love you and I'm thinking of you. I wish I could be near. Love to Scott and Cali.
Annie <anniebowers@shaw.ca>
Victoria, BC - Wednesday January 16, 2002 9:34 PM CST
My thoughts and prayers are with your whole family , I like the Hallowe'en costume !
judy <judimath@enoreo.on.ca>
london, ont canada - Wednesday January 16, 2002 9:26 PM CST
Hi Caedan,
I sent you a couple of sound bites of Homer Simpson. In one he says, "The mail, the mail is here. ooooooohhh!" In another one, he says "doh". I hope you like them.
Mike and I hope you had a much better day today.

Carol <cfuller@ody.ca>
London, ON - Wednesday January 16, 2002 9:22 PM CST
maryla scott and caden, hi from kim hoping the pain is now under control. no one should ever suffer in pain don't be afraid tosay so to the staff . Paige is constantly asking about you Caden, hoping she can see you soon. I hope Pruitt did his bone marrow screening and I am hoping for a 100% match. love kim
kim cash <kimberlycash@sympatico.ca>
Lasalle, canada - Wednesday January 16, 2002 8:46 PM CST
i hope you feel better caedan im sorry that your sick .when you feel alot better i will come visit you.i heard your feeling better though. i made it to the finals for my speach im speaking in front of 640 people.bye

paige

paige <kimberlycash@sympatico.ca>
LaSalle, ontario canada - Wednesday January 16, 2002 8:00 PM CST
i hope you feel better caedan im sorry that your sick .when you feel alot better i will come visit you.

paige

paige <kimberlycash@sympatico.ca>
LaSalle, ontario canada - Wednesday January 16, 2002 7:58 PM CST
Hi Caedan, It's Dylan Lariviere here! I hear you are feeling a bit better today! Great news!

I have been taking snow board lessons and it's real fun. I fall on my butt a lot, but it's still fun. Just remember mind over chilli dog! When your feeling better, please call (or have your Mom call) so we can play. I miss you!

Dylan Lariviere <bsutherland@introtel.com>
London, ON Candada - Wednesday January 16, 2002 7:08 PM CST
Hello Caedan,
Although you don't know us, we know and LOVE Carol Fuller. We love your Halloween picture.
We want you to know you are in our thoughts and we believe if all us people are thinking about you, you will be able to feel us backing you up in all that you are facing. We are all with you in spirit! Pretty cool eh?
If there is anything we can do please let us know. Hugs, Tatiana and Mary. (519)649-2513

Tatiana Russell and Mary Di Salvo <tatiana_russell@hotmail.com>
London, Ontario Canada - Wednesday January 16, 2002 5:58 PM CST
Dear Caedan;
I have met heros in my life, I will add you to the list.
It takes guts and courage to go through Chemo. Sometimes just raising your head takes a heroic effort. I know I did it for six years.
I have a good buddy, who climbed Mount Everest: he did it one step at a time.
I know how tough it gets, and the pain can be really bad. Just tell your self you can take it for a minute more, and then another.
And soon enough you will stand on top of your mountain!

Just a new fan
Clark Southoff

Clark Southoff <cwsouth@telusplanet.net>
Calgary, AB Canada - Wednesday January 16, 2002 3:08 PM CST
Caedan, I am sorry to hear you have been having such a rough time since Christmas but am glad that they are finally able to help you with the pain. My thoughts and prayers are with you. I hope to see your smiling face back at school soon. Mrs. Rice
Gail Rice <gailrice@rogers.com>
London, On - Wednesday January 16, 2002 2:24 PM CST
Dear caedan good luck on your hosptel tretment. hope you feel better very very very soon.


from dillon


- Wednesday January 16, 2002 1:52 PM CST
I believe in miracles!
Hope the next one is yours Caedan!
God bless you, your Mom & Dad & sis and all those good caregivers who are doing their best to help you get well.

Love

Joan L.
London, On


- Wednesday January 16, 2002 12:24 AM CST
Hey there Caedan. Looking forward to seeing you soon. I hope your up for a visit soon.

Love you! Lore, Dave and Julia.

Lore <lore.wainwright@bell.ca>
Lon, - Wednesday January 16, 2002 10:26 AM CST
Hi Caedan!
John and I visited with your mom and dad last Sunday and brought two beautiful kitties who are waiting anxiously for you to get better and see them! Your mom has told me that you were thinking of calling the boy Garfield or Chester - both great names!! Keep thinking of the girl kittie's name - I'll give you some tips: she's a little shy, and she's all white. She kinda looks like Kimba the White Lion, do you know who that is? If not, I bet your mom can tell you all about Kimba!!
We love you and keep you in our thoughts always. Give a big hug to your mom for us and get better soon!

John and Sandy Bolton <jandsbolton@aol.com (new!)>
Amherstburg, ON CANADA - Wednesday January 16, 2002 7:58 AM CST
Sending you good energy and strength to help you in today. I will keep you in my prayers and share your story. Thank you for touching my life and know I will think of you often.
Selirra McEwen <syllie37@hotmail.com>
London, Ontario Canada - Wednesday January 16, 2002 7:55 AM CST
Dear Caedan,
I'm sending you big cyberspace {{{{hugs}}}} from Byron. I work with Carol F and she told me about the hard time you're going through just now, and I pray that this tough patch will be over soon and the pain under control.

Maryla, I live in west Byron, off Grandview. If I can help in any way, please let me know by e-mail and I'll get in touch.

Denise Ritchie <dritchie@ivey.uwo.ca>
London, ON Canada - Wednesday January 16, 2002 7:53 AM CST
I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers,
and hope the Cheerio's Superman will be making commercials very soon for General Mills. God be with you and with your spirits.

Robert Hiebert <bobhiebert1@juno.com>
Elfrda, AZ USA - Wednesday January 16, 2002 7:19 AM
Your whole family is in our thoughts and prayers. May Caedan have some relief from the pain today and some joy and laughter.
Alice & Val & Nipper Kat & Charlie Byrd <ami@ody.ca>
London, ON Canada - Wed Jan 16 6:52:54 2002

Hi to all the family........ especially Caedan. I'm Just an ordinary guy from Perth in Western Australia wishing you the very best of luck.
Keep your chin up cobber.
Mal..


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Maryla, Scott, Caedan, and Cali,
Mike and I are thinking of all of you every day, sending our best wishes, thoughts, hopes for you. We love you!

Carol <mbowers@ody.ca>
London, ON -
Maryla, I pray that the pain can be brought under better control with the increase in meds. Remember they are the experts in treating cancer.....but you are the Expert on Caedan! Trust your instincts Maryla, if you feel that things aren't going the way they should and your son is in need of a change in meds or adjustment on dosage than speak up, prod, plea and YELL if that is the only way to get him the help that he needs! You are a wonderful mother Maryla and your love will give you the strength that you need to keep going through this battle. I am so sorry that Caedan is having to endure this BEAST and the treatment in such intensity AGAIN! You have my constant prayers for strength and healing for Caedan and for strength and support for you and Scott. I am with you in prayer, standing right beside you and will continue to do so as your journey carries on.

Love, Tami Watchurst

Tami Watchurst (mom to Alexander - 8 years A.L.L. o.t. 98-09-10) <leapco@auracom.com>
Orangeville, Ontario Canada -
Hi Caedan,
We hope the doctors can continue to keep the pain a bit more under control.
Caedan, you are an amazing and strong boy, and we are so proud to have you in our lives! We're praying hard that the tough stuff is over with soon. Hope you can feel our tight hugs and enormous love!
Love, Dina

Dina Kenkel <erabankers@aol.com>
West Bloomfield, Mi U.S -
Hello to all
We think of you often and our prayers are with you

Mary Lou Lyttle and Robyn <marylou.lyttle@sympatico.ca>
london , on -
I am praying that the doctors figure out the problem VERY soon to get some relief for Caedan.
Go ahead and scream, if you need to, and be assertive ... mommies are good at that ... and sometimes, it is the best thing to make things happen.

Love Karen <hbyc7@rogers.com>
Waterloo, ON -
Hello to Caedan, Cali, Scott and my friend Maryla. I just want you to know that we are thinking about you guys every day and just want to talk with you. Caedan, you are a very brave little boy and very lucky to have a mommy like Maryla at your side all the time. Love you guys, sharon
Sharon <but7@rogers.com>
Stratford, Ont Ca -
Hi Maryla & Caedan & family

Thinking of you all and continuing to send prayers of good health your way. Hang in there Caedan, you are a real trooper inspite of the pain.

Chetna <cbhatt@rogers.com>
London, -
Scream your head off, Maryla. That's the advice of my pediatrician friend who says pain control in children is often woefully inadequate. I interviewed her for that story I did a while ago on advocating for your child in hospital. So scream scream scream. Don't be afraid to scream. I'm over here screaming for you in support and love.
Dahlia <dahlia.reich@sympatico.ca>
London, -
Hi Caedan....My Mom is sending this to you while she is on her break at the hospital.....Did you get the get-well cards we made for you? Hope you are feeling better soon. We just got the photos back from Jordan's birthday party. My mum will bring them up for you the next time she's at work.Take care, Jordan, Zach, Natalie Cahill

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Hi Caedan

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Hi Gallaghers
Love to all.Prayers for all of you to give you all the strength and courage you will need for the next while; and biding my time until we celabrate your recovery Caedan. Boy what a party we'll have. Carol

Carol Mangin <s mangin@mnsi.net>
windsor, -

Dear Gallagher Family, we are praying for you. You are on our minds a lot. God bless you.
From: the Krogmans

Paul & Angie Krogman, Abigail, Isaac, Eve, Noah, Ryan, Cody <krogie6@sympatico.ca>
London, ON Canada -
Hi Caedan, I'm sad that you are sick. My family and I pray for you everyday. I pray that you get well soon. I miss you at school because you make up really funny jokes. I was wondering if you were working on some of your comic books? The secret snow fort is gone now. Is there anything that you need? I hope the pain goes away.
Love: Isaac

Isaac Krogman <krogie6@sympatico.ca>
London, ON Canada -
Hello All
I noticed some people asking how to find out about becoming a bone marrow donor - thought I'd let you know how I did. Go to www.bloodservices.ca, or call 1-877-366-6717 and ask them to send you an information booklet and application. You can download both from the website. Read the phamplet, fill out your application and have someone witness it, then mail it to your nearest Red Cross. Someone from there will contact you to set up an appointment to draw the blood for testing within 2 weeks. Mine went last week - so hopefully I'll hear from them soon.
Just wanted to let you know I'm spreading the word around here about Caeden and kids like him, and some of my office mates are filling out their applications too.
Still thinking good thoughts.....

Tracy Mangin
Windsor, ON Canada -
Hey Guys,

Just wanted you to know you are in our prayers.

God Bless You,

Steven & Kelly Hicks <hicks@cbse.uab.edu>
Birmingham, AL -
Hello, Caedan! Just a brief note to let you know that we are all thinking about you here at Southwood. We'll be sending lots of positive energy your way!
Marion Moynihan <m.moynihan@tvdsb.on.ca>
London, ON CANADA -
Hi all: Hopefully by now, the pain that Caeden was experiencing on Saturday has subsided and he is now feeling better. I think of you every day. I check your website regularly, and you have a wonderful network of supportive friends and family. I particularly enjoyed reading the notes from Caeden's classmates, and I too, would be curious to see Mr. A's haircut!! You certainly have a lot of good friends who really care about you, and are concerned. I hope that each day will be a little bit brighter for you, and you get feeling better and stronger. Take care, and I hope the next update on the website will report that Caeden is much improved!
Mary Rooke <mary.rooke@lhsc.on.ca>
Ingersoll, Ontario, -
If only it were as easy to get Caedan back up as your computer.
I am sitting here saying, "GO, Antibiotics, GO! Do your job!"

Love Karen <hbyc7@rogers.com>
Waterloo, ON -
hello everyone
I just clicked into the updates to see how everyone is.
I did'nt expect to see caedan feeling wonderful, but i had hoped that things would sound better.
those leg pains seem to be horrible, i sure hope they can
find something to releave the pain.
did you find out if you or scott are a match??
i have some time off this week, id like to see you but i'm not sure it's a great time. you tell me!, if i can do anything for you could you call me. i've baked some blueberry muffins ( actually kailey did), i'm putting them in the freezer marked gallaghers.
we are praying huge prayers for you all
i'll keep in touch
take care
pam

Pam Dobbin <kdobbin@xcelco.on.ca>
Petrolia, Ont Canada - Sunday, January 13, 2002 at 07:15 PM (CST)
Mark told me about the incredibly difficult time that all of you are going through. I can't even begin to imagine what it must be like. My prayers and thoughts are with all of you. I am sending MUCH positive energy your way.
Barbara Coulston <bacoulston@hotmail.com>
Toronto, ON Canada - Sunday, January 13, 2002 at 04:34 PM (CST)
Wow Caedan you have an amazing amount of friends. I bet it makes you feel better just reading all their messages. With this many people thinking positive thoughts and praying for you I know you will get better soon. You are a very strong boy. Keep fighting, I know this is a tough thing to go through but you are made of even tougher stuff (you got that from your mom and dad, also very amazing people) and you are going to get better! Andrew is sending you his printmaster pokeman (it is on the cupboard it just hasn't been packaged yet, this week for sure) I hope you will be up soon and able to make some neat stuff with it. We think about you everyday. We are hoping and praying that you feel better soon. Love Lisa, Colin, Andrew, Grant and Eric XOXOXOXOXOXO
Lisa Marontate and The Hill Boys <colin.hill@sympatico.ca>
Lindsay, Ont Canada - Sunday, January 13, 2002 at 04:12 PM (CST)
Hi Caedan - I hope you are feeling better very soon. Marian misses you and says hello! She just had her 6th birthday, can you believe it? We all love you and we're thinking of you. Love,
Aunt Annie <anniebowers@shaw.ca>
Victoria, BC - Sunday, January 13, 2002 at 12:55 PM (CST)
Dear Caedan and family,
Mrs. Inwood told me of your relapse over the Christmas holidays. I have not looked at your web page since December. So I have caught up on all that's been happening and just wanted to let you know that I think of you often and wish you all the best. I hope some day I am lucky enough to have Cali in my class and that you will pop in to say hi when you pick her up at home-time. Take care. Love, Mrs. Johnston

Diana Johnston <johnston5145@rogers.com>
London, Ont. Canada - Sunday, January 13, 2002 at 12:00 PM (CST)
Hi Maryla and Caedan: Wanted to let you know that I sent a message with Shanna to Rainbow Lake this weekend that you are kinda down. They will be thinkin of you Caedan and miss your face. Believe me, it won't be so hot at camp this weekend. You feel better soon! Shanna's mom Colleen
Colleen Zrini <colleen.zrini@LHSC.on.ca or jzrini@sympatico.ca>
London, - Sunday, January 13, 2002 at 07:52 AM (CST)
Hi Maryla,

Said I would mail you once we got back from our trip to New Zealand. Just to let you know all our love and support are flying across the Atlantic to you.

Callum sends his love - he is currently fighting off jet lag, but is back to school tomorrow.

Just to let you know we all signed up a while ago to the bone marrow registry in the UK. Have they found a donor yet for Caedan?

bye for now, Love Debbie (Mum to Callum, CNS relapse 02/98.)


Debbie, graham and Callum <debbiedonnison@cs.com>
Dorchester, Dorset United Kingdom - Sunday, January 13, 2002 at 07:30 AM (CST)
Hi Maryla,

Said I would mail you once we got back from our trip to New Zealand. Just to let you know all our love and support are flying across the Atlantic to you.

Callum sends his love - he is currently fighting off jet lag, but is back to school tomorrow.

Just to let you know we all signed up a while ago to the bone marrow registry in the UK. Have they found a donor yet for Caedan?

bye for now, Love Debbie (Mum to Callum, CNS relapse 02/98.)


Debbie, graham and Callum <debbiedonnison@cs.com>
Dorchester, Dorset United Kingdom - Sunday, January 13, 2002 at 07:30 AM (CST)
Hi to all, I always forget to sign the guestbook but we always read the updates and check out the guestbook entries.
Our thoughts are with you and right above this computer screen is a picture of Caedan and Noah (a screaming very small baby Noah, but Noah none the less) so I always think about Caedan doing his dances to make Noah stop crying and of course we still have all of the great Noah drawings (even the abstract one) up on the wall. Lots of love.
Uncle John, Aunt Christie and baby cousin Noah.

Uncle John, Aunt Christie and baby cousin Noah <twobrides@hotmail.com>
Vancouver, BC CANADA - Saturday, January 12, 2002 at 11:07 PM (CST)
OK, a joke for Caedan. A string walks into a bar and orders a drink and the bartender says, "We don't serve strings here. Are you a string?" The string replied, "I'm afraid so." So the string left the bar, tied himself up on one end and loosened this threads on top. He then walked back into the bar and ordered a drink. The bartender repeats, "We don't serve strings here. Are you a string?" The string replied "I'm a frayed knot".

Hope this made you smile. Thinking of you.

Amy & Rosie Rumberger <TimRumb@aol.com>
Alameda, CA USA - Saturday, January 12, 2002 at 11:01 PM (CST)
Hi Maryla, Caedan, and family ~
Our nonstop prayers are continuing to be sent to heaven above for Caedan to feel better soon soon soon!! Wish we weren't so far away so we could visit for REAL. But for now, just remember that your friends in Las Vegas, Nevada are thinking of you always and sending big {{{{{HUGS}}}}} through cyberspace!!
We will check on you often!!
Take care,
Love, Bill, Stacey, Bryce and Chad

The Wada Family <SLW6204@aol.com>
LAS VEGAS, NV 89128 - Saturday, January 12, 2002 at 09:49 PM (CST)
I will continue to pray for your entire family as you face this. Let me know if there's anything else I can do to help. Take Care.
Khalita <khalita.jones@duke.edu>
Durham, NC - Saturday, January 12, 2002 at 09:22 PM (CST)
Hi Maryla, Caeden and family, just wanted to say hi and let you know we finally found the website or I should say Aaron did. Sending this with lots of hugs and to tell you we'll be in touch. Take care of each other. Love Tami.
Tami Daters <bcdaters@sympatico.ca>
Exeter, Ont Canada - Saturday, January 12, 2002 at 05:56 PM (CST)
Hi Caeden it's josh Robinson. I hope you're feeling better and are out of the hospital soon. Call me if you're feeling good enough for me to visit. I'd like to take you to see the movie Jimmy Neutron Boy Genius when you are out of the hospital. bye Josh
Josh Robinson <pushka1@rogers.com>
London, Ontario Canada - Saturday, January 12, 2002 at 12:47 PM (CST)
Hi Caedan,
I wanted to share one of my best jokes with you. (of course my mom will do the typing)
Why did the football coach go to the bank?
To get a Quarter Back!
I hope you get out of the hospital soon so we can play Backyard Basketball together on the computer!
Love,
Patrick

Patrick Kenkel <erabankers@aol.com>
West Bloomfield, Mi U.S - Saturday, January 12, 2002 at 12:01 PM (CST)
Maryla, Have missed you on the ALLKIDS list! Your kindness is never forgotten. My whole family is in the registry! Praying hard. Hugs to you and Caedan!
Amy (Rosie's Mom) Rumberger <TimRumb@aol.com>
Alameda, CA USA - Friday, January 11, 2002 at 11:33 PM (CST)
Hi Caedan,
I'm just wondering how you're feeling?I think of you often and hope I can visit you soon.We all miss you at school!

Alex Harrison <dandj.harrison@sympatico.ca>
London, - Friday, January 11, 2002 at 04:39 PM (CST)
Hi Caeden, I hope you are feeling better. We miss you at school. Here's a joke, What is a monster's favorite game?.....SWALLOW THE LEADER!! ha ha ha Love, Madisyn
Madisyn Fisher <patriciafisher407@msn.com>
London, ON Canada - Friday, January 11, 2002 at 04:37 PM (CST)
Hi Maryla

We are praying everyday that Caeden's days will get better and that remission will come soon. Call us when you are ready for a visit or if you need anything. I'll keep in touch.

Lisa

Lisa <HowesatHomes@aol.com>
London, Canada - Friday, January 11, 2002 at 03:27 PM (CST)
Dear Maryla and Caedan,

Remember us? I'm so sorry to hear that Caedan's so sick. Caedan is a strong boy and miracles happen every day, so keep the faith and kick some leukemia butt, OK? I'm praying for a marrow match and complete remission. Maryla, I'm here if you need a shoulder. Hang in there, Love, Lisa, mom to Brian and Kevin..p.s. I love the Cheerio man pictures!

Lisa Tignor <TheTigLady@aol.com>
Dumfries, VA USA - Friday, January 11, 2002 at 02:21 PM (CST)
Hi Maryla and Caedan,
I'm so sorry that Caedan is having such a rough time. I am saying prayers for you. I wish there was more I could do to help.
Love,
Mary and Aidan from Juneau

Mary Neary <Nearyme@aol.com>
Juneau, AK 99801 - Friday, January 11, 2002 at 02:12 PM (CST)
http://ligwww.epfl.ch/people/clavien/public_html/ctouch_v3.html

When Caedan is feeling up to it and has access to a hospital or home computer, he might want to cut and paste the above website ... it's a cute frog that reacts by moving your mouse over top of him;-) (It made ME smile).

Love Karen <hbyc7@home.com>
Waterloo, ON - Friday, January 11, 2002 at 01:53 PM (CST)
Hi Caedan! Julia is looking forward to seeing you soon. She's a bit bigger now, all that paper eating has paid off!
Hang in there buddy, Hopefully, the yucky stuff will be over soon.

TO all...please add any direction you can give us on the Bone Marrow Registry...WHO/WHERE to contact, addresses, ect. I'd like to spread the word and if you've found something out, please share with us so we can act quickly. Thanks for your updates Mar on this, We all check them frequently. HUGS and KISSES, Lore and Dave and Julia (who LOVES Brown Bear, Brown Bear)

Lore <lore.wainwright@bell.ca>
London, ON Canada - Friday, January 11, 2002 at 10:04 AM (CST)
HI Caedan
I am so sorry to hear you are in the hospital
and I hope you are doing much better soon
Ron has pneumonia right now his counts are good so we are still home on antibiotics.
Hang in there, you'll be getting outta there soon!

Chris
www.caringbridge.com/page/gooch
<chrisrusso_@hotmail.com>
Bethel, CT - Thursday, January 10, 2002 at 11:22 PM (CST)
Dear Caedan,
I hope you are feeling better soon so I can show you the secret fort at school. We all miss you at school!
Connor Gray

Connor Gray <kimgee21@hotmail.com>
London, Canada - Thursday, January 10, 2002 at 05:26 PM (CST)
Hi,
Love to you all.


Stacey Lane <slane@dbuff.com>
Portland, OR - Thursday, January 10, 2002 at 04:47 PM (CST)
Maryla: I don't know where you find the energy to do all that you do. My thoughts and prayers are with you daily. I was very moved by your journal. Did Scott give you the prayer & Mass cards? One of them is as follows "I said a prayer for you today And know God must have heard - I felt the answer in my heart Although He spoke no word; I didn't ask for wealth or fame(I knew you wouldn't mind)- I asked Him to send treasures Of a far more lasting kind! I asked that He'd be near you At the start of each new day To grant you health and blessings and friends to share your way! I asked for happiness for you In all things great and small. But it was for His loving care I prayer for most of all" Hope this helps in some measure. When can I bring you something for dinner? How about for your daughter?
Anne Cassino <acassino@alwaysgolfing.com>
London, ON Canada - Thursday, January 10, 2002 at 03:44 PM (CST)
Hi Caedan,

I'm so sorry you are not feeling that great. Looks like you have yourself some great friends here. We are praying for you everyday and hope you can get yourself back skiing very soon! If there was ever a person that could fight this, it is you!

Lots of love and hugs,

Tina Herzog

P.S. Please let mom, dad and "Miss Swish-swish" know that they are in our prayers as well.

Tina Herzog <Tina.Herzog@sympatico.ca>
Windsor, - Thursday, January 10, 2002 at 01:16 PM (CST)
Hi caedan hope your feeling better got on a plastic pony ride my dad put 50 sents in and my mom asked said "How is it zoe" and my sister said "it`s great I can feel the fresh air and the wind in my hair.
Haley Ritchie
- Thursday, January 10, 2002 at 12:42 PM (CST)
Dear Caedan we read a book call Miss. Nelsen is missing. Mir. Ashen has a verry funny hair cut.How are you doing. I hope you are feling better. from Rayna.
Rayna
London, Canda - Thursday, January 10, 2002 at 12:40 PM (CST)
Hi Caedan,how are you doing.Today we were reading Mrs.Nellson Is Missing.Your website is great.I hope you get
better very soon.We all miss you very much.It is going great around here.I almost got in your website in my room
with my computer,but I did not.My sister has been buging me a lot.Mrs.Kilty is very nice.I really like your website.
Well I have to go by.Nicole Fazekas


- Thursday, January 10, 2002 at 12:40 PM (CST)
One day a cat name.Jb made a cake.Jb name it cake. Sally and it doll name. Sally too. The End/
marnie
- Thursday, January 10, 2002 at 12:39 PM (CST)
Hi Caedan it's Amber the hole class is writing to you. we are starting to do a story aneyway how are you doing. I hope your cansar is geting better Ddillon D rily mises you. well GOOD BY. FROM AMBER.

- Thursday, January 10, 2002 at 12:39 PM (CST)
Hi Caedan i just wanted to say hello and how are you. In school we are learning new math. On monday we are geting a supply teacher we dont know what her or his name is yet. I hope to see you soon. did you have a good hoilday. I sher did. i hope you feil better. GOOD BY.
Katelyn mills
London, - Thursday, January 10, 2002 at 12:39 PM (CST)
hi caeden I fownd a good book here is a litte bite of it Komodo island is a dangerous place there are deadly snakes and more but thats all bye from mark.

- Thursday, January 10, 2002 at 12:39 PM (CST)
Dear caedan hope your feling better and allso we learned times tabels today.Hope you can come back to shcool vrey vrey soon


from Dillon


- Thursday, January 10, 2002 at 12:38 PM (CST)
Hi Caedan, we were reading Mrs Nelson is back and I know you like books. I wish you were here too! We all miss you very much. I hope you come to read with us when you come back to school. Have a great day! from nadeen

- Thursday, January 10, 2002 at 12:36 PM (CST)
i hope you feel beter soon. i wish you come back soon.your storys were great. we,re righting another story so be here qwick. to caedan . from wesley see you latter .
wesley
London, canada - Thursday, January 10, 2002 at 12:35 PM (CST)
Hi Caedan How are you doing . I hope you feel better soon . from Josh. P.S oops I forgot what I was going to say.
Josh Zimmer
London , Canada - Thursday, January 10, 2002 at 12:34 PM (CST)
Dear Caedan,

Things are pretty good at school. Hope you feel better. At school we made a seceret snow fort that no one knows
about. When you come back to school I'll show you. Your best pal Luke S.


- Thursday, January 10, 2002 at 12:34 PM (CST)
Yo, wassup caedan .Are you feeling okay man? from Kevin P.S call me. My phone number is 657-6514
kevin
- Thursday, January 10, 2002 at 12:34 PM (CST)


- Thursday, January 10, 2002 at 12:34 PM (CST)
Hi Caedan we ALL miss you. I hope you like the stuff I got you.When you feel better mayby you can come visit me sometime oh and bring a nintendo controller. Your friend Dylan D
Dylan D
London, canada - Thursday, January 10, 2002 at 12:33 PM (CST)
i hope you feel beter soon. i wish you come back soon.your storys were great. we,re righting another story so be here qwick. to caedan . from wesley see you latter .
wesley
London, canada - Thursday, January 10, 2002 at 12:29 PM (CST)
i hope u r doing good send back. i hope u come back soon. i hope u get this from:aboudi
aboudi <aboudi_l@hotmail.com>
London, canada - Thursday, January 10, 2002 at 12:27 PM (CST)
Dear Caedan,

Hello. We are pleased that you have a website that we can visit. We are in the computer lab altogether and have all learned how to get to your website. We will check-in with you whenever we are here. I am sending you all our good wishes.
Mrs. Inwood


- Thursday, January 10, 2002 at 12:19 PM (CST)
Hi caedan hope your feeling better I'm feeling graet (:
Haley
- Thursday, January 10, 2002 at 12:17 PM (CST)
Hi Maryla, Caedan and family~
We're just stopping by to say hi again and to see how things are going. Your family is in our prayers every night and we hope Caedan feels better soon........that chemo is nasty stuff! Take care of each other, we think of you folks constantly and pray for better days ahead.
With love, Bill, Stacey, Bryce, and Chad Wada

The Wada Family <SLW6204@aol.com>
Las Vegas, NV USA - Thursday, January 10, 2002 at 10:39 AM (CST)
Hi there. I'm sorry to hear that Caedan is having such a rough time. I will continue to keep him in my prayers. I'm not sure if you remember me (probably not) but we have spoken by email and I gave you my Dr.'s phone number and email in case you were interested in contacting her for further information/advice since she pioneered cord blood transplantation. I thought about you when I was getting my meds this week because we have several nurses here from Canada and they were joking about how they were taking over the clinic (there happened to be more Canadian nurses than American ones in the clinic at the time). Anyways, I wanted to drop a note and say hello and let you know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. Let me know if there's anything else I can do to help you.
Khalita <khalita.jones@duke.edu>
Durham, NC - Thursday, January 10, 2002 at 07:05 AM (CST)
Greetings Caedan, I hope the new chemo isn't making you feel totally awful. Thanks for teaching me a great new card game, I had a wonderful time. I hope to get to visit you again really soon. Love Kellie
Kellie & Family <gman@jet2.net>
LaSalle, Ont Canada - Wednesday, January 09, 2002 at 07:31 PM (CST)
Konnichiwa Caedan san, I wanted to wish you a happy new year. I missed seeing you at my first day back at school today (Jan.9, 2002). I sincerely hope you are keeping your spirits up. I am thinking and praying for you and my family wishes you all the best. I hope you keep your Japanese going and perhaps I can teach you some new worlds via the internet. Gambatte Kudasai (fight buddy)!! Your pal and Science sensei, Mr. A
John, Jennifer, Luke, Makayla and Sanuk Ashenden <jwa@rogers.com>
London, ON Canada - Wednesday, January 09, 2002 at 06:34 PM (CST)
Hi Maryla & family,
Margo has updated me on Caedan's health. Please know that my prayers are with you all..everyday.

Liz Young <eyoung@assante.com>
London, ON Canada - Wednesday, January 09, 2002 at 11:59 AM (CST)
Hay Caedan:

Hope your fellin good...or at least better than you were. We all miss you at school and can't wait for you to get back. We are all thinking about you when your away in Toronto. Good luck with everything.

Stephanie and Moo (Marley) at school... Stephanie is Wesley's sister. <lil_moo_mop10@hotmail.com>
London, ON Canada Eh! - Tuesday, January 08, 2002 at 07:22 PM (CST)
Caedan, I am very sorry to hear that you're not feeling well. I say a prayer every night that you get better.
Ryan Green <dr.mcdermid@Sympatico.ca>
London, ON Canada - Monday, January 07, 2002 at 07:07 PM (CST)
Hi Caeden It's me Josh emailing you. This is not my own email address, it is my moms, anyway I hope you have good luck with your cancer Happy New Year I hope you had a good day today. Hope you get out of the hospital soon. Miss you bye
Josh Robinson <pushka1@rogers.com>
London, On Canada - Monday, January 07, 2002 at 06:58 PM (CST)
Thinking of you...sending special prayers Caedan's way.


Marlene Sorota (Samantha's mom ALL Kids) <MarleneS@aol.com>
Pembroke Pines, FL USA - Saturday, January 05, 2002 at 04:12 PM (CST)
Hello Maryla - Karen Schindler has been keeping me informed on how you have all been doing. So sorry to hear about Caedan's recent set back. Please know that your family of friends extends farther than you are probably aware, and we are all praying for you and sending our love and thoughts your way. Valerie,Tom,Ethan and Charlotte Sawyer, Edmonton
Valerie Sawyer <tvsawyer@telusplanet.ca>
Edmonton, AB Canada - Saturday, January 05, 2002 at 04:03 PM (CST)
Just thinking of you folks (all the time) and checking your website. I am hoping the IV fluids helped Caedan feel a little better and that he could receive the chemo today (Sat.) to be 'on track' with the new protocol.

Love and hugs,

Karen <hbyc7@rogers.com>
Waterloo, ON - Saturday, January 05, 2002 at 12:25 PM (CST)
Hi {{{{{{{{Maryla}}}}}}
I am hugging you tightly and holding your hand and sending many positive thoughts across the miles from Las Vegas, Nevada,USA. Caedan is a strong guy.........he is going to beat this thing once and for all with a truly successful BMT. I just know it!! Keep the faith, honey. We are WITH YOU IN SPIRIT and prayer all the way!! I think of you every day and pray for your family every night!! Big big hugs to Caedan, hope you get to go home soon.
Much love, Stacey

Stacey Wada <SLW6204@aol.com>
Las Vegas, NV USA - Friday, January 04, 2002 at 10:05 PM (CST)
Hello Maryla,
Our hearts are filled with hopes and prayers. We believe in the power of positive thinking. Dillon says that Caeden is strong, smart and has a big heart. We send good thoughts and hugs your way.
Dillon, Kelly, John & Josh Cordiner

Kelly Cordiner <kbcor@sympatico.ca>
London, On canada - Friday, January 04, 2002 at 04:41 PM (CST)
Hopefully he will be just given the iv fluids and sent home... and it wont be a setback... we'll be praying for you.


Chris <chrisrusso_@hotmail.com
www.caringbridge.com/page/gooch
>
Bethel, CT - Thursday, January 03, 2002 at 11:54 PM (CST)
Hi Maryla, Caedan, Scott, and Cali
I was so saddened to read about Caedan's set back. My thoughts and prayers are with each of you and if there is anything you need just say the word and I will be there. I have a girl friend whose daughter had a bone marrow transplant at Sick Kid's in Toronto when she was a child. She is now finishing her doctorate at the University of Edmonton in BioPhysics and will soon leave for a teaching position at the University of Switzerland. There is no doubt in my mind that if anyone has the will and strength to overcome this terrible plight, then it is Caedan or should I say Super Cheerios Man. Love and Best Wishes Always.......Karen

Karen Palmer <k.palmer@lhsc.on.ca>
London, Ont Can - Thursday, January 03, 2002 at 02:20 PM (CST)
Mary-la & Caedan,

Sending you special prayers and to tell you that we are all thinking of you here at work.
Lots of Healing Hugs to Caedan!

Chetna <cbhatt@roger.com>
London, Canada - Thursday, January 03, 2002 at 11:12 AM (CST)
I am a friend of Teri (Thomas's Mom) and I will keep you and your child in my prayers.
Sylvie <Goyettefamily@videotron.ca>
Pointe-Claire, pq Canada - Wednesday, January 02, 2002 at 04:07 PM (CST)
Thinking good thoughts and remembering you in my prayers...
Tracy Mangin
Windsor, ON Canada - Wednesday, January 02, 2002 at 12:06 PM (CST)
Hey Maryla ("Ma Souer")
Troy Palcit had emailed me your webpage and the update on your son. I'm so sorry that you are going through this. My blessings to all of you, and I will pray to God for a speedy recovery!
I am living in the GTA, in Brampton. If you need a place to stay while your son is at Sick Kid's, let me know. I would like to help in any way I can. Please give me a call: 905-459-1665. I'd love to hear from you. Not sure if Troy told you or not, but I have a little one myself. A little girl named Jade. Looks nothing like me! If I hadn't been in the room right when she was born, I would have told them to take this baby back to its mother, cuz ya'll made a mistake. This child is white! She is so precious! I'd love for you to meet my family.
Please keep me posted when you have updates on your son's condition.
Much Love to you and yours,
Debbie XOX

Debbie Brooks <debbiebrooks1866@yahoo.ca>
Brampton, ON Canada - Wednesday, January 02, 2002 at 10:34 AM (CST)
Dear Caedan, Maryla, Scott and Cali,
We just read the upsetting news. Our thoughts, hearts and prayers are with you.
If we can do anything, let us know.
All our Love Lisa and the boys.

<colin.hill@sympatico.ca>
Lindsay, Canada - Tuesday, January 01, 2002 at 07:34 PM (CST)
Caedan,

Phooey!!! It's really doesn't seem fair that you have to go through all this. We think you are such a brave kid and wish that you didn't have to spend so much time in the hospital having all these yucky procedures.

We were looking at your Halloween pictures and you certainly are the super cheerios guy! We're glad to hear you went skiing with your dad too.

You're a super kid, Caedan. We send our love to you, Cali and your mom and dad.

Uncle Mike and Auntie Carol <theblues@sprint.ca>
London, ON - Tuesday, January 01, 2002 at 02:22 PM (CST)
Hi Maryla, Caeden and family, I'm so sorry to hear of Caeden's recent relapse. My heart dropped when I found out. Caeden has been through so much, but he is a fighter and he is going to get through this because we are all praying for him and he is a strong little guy. Our prayers from Michigan are with you. I am from the ALL group on behalf of my Jesse. We send lots of hugs and love from my family.
Erica <curls444@aol.com>
Oak Park, MI USA - Tuesday, January 01, 2002 at 09:17 AM (CST)
I am deeply sorry to hear of Caeden's relapse. I just wanted you to know that someone in Georgia is praying and thinking of you. May God bless you.
Cindy Coffman <www.caringbridge.com/ga/hillarycoffman>
Cumming, GA USA - Tuesday, January 01, 2002 at 03:15 AM (CST)
Hi Maryla, Caeden and family, I'm so sorry to hear of Caeden's relapse. I will be thinking of you all and keep you in my prayers through this most difficult time. If there is anything at all I can do to help, please let me know.
Patricia Fisher (madisyn's mom) <patriciafisher407@msn>
London, ON Canada - Monday, December 31, 2001 at 05:43 PM (CST)
Hello Gallaghers, I'm so deeply sadden to read of Caedans news. My sister Rachel is already a registered bone marrow donor and I will also look into it. I'm going to church tonight and I will say a prayer for Caedan and all of you. Wishing you all happiness and positive thoughts....Hugs and kisses Love always


Ursula <rubraun@hotmail.com>
- Monday, December 31, 2001 at 05:02 PM (CST)
Dear Caedan, Marlya, and Scott,
Sorry to hear that you need a bone marrow transplant and that you have to go though more chemo therapy. At least the nervous system is clear and that is good news. I remember you and your mom from a while back on ALL KIDS. My son Rich finished his treatment this June and is in College now. Will be praying for you all a lot
. Rita, mom to Rich, 19

Rita Guthrie <rguthrie@akron.infi.net>
Wadsworth, OH USA - Monday, December 31, 2001 at 03:34 PM (CST)
Thinking of you at this difficult time, and waiting to hear of a remission and bone marrow match.
Sandy Bradshaw
London, On - Monday, December 31, 2001 at 08:00 AM (CST)
Dear Maryla and Scott: I have managed to get you on my "less than 386" so at least I can get the latest news. I am so sorry this turn of events has happened. Nicol is already in the bone marrow database, so maybe she will come up. Cully and I are both willing, even more than willing, so we will await your instructions to do so.We will wait and hope that maybe there is some mistake in the test of Caedan's bone marrow. That would truly be a gift of the three wisemen. Keep up your strength as I know you must. Love, Cully and Barbara and Nicole.
Barbara DeLory <ax369@chebucto.ns.ca>
Halifax, NS Canada - Sunday, December 30, 2001 at 02:23 PM (CST)
Oh God, I am so sorry to hear of his relapse.
It's a word no parent pays any thought to, but one us "cancer parents" all dread.
I hope and pray a match is found soon and 2002 brings PERMANENT REMISSION.
I will be praying for you.

Chris <chrisrusso_@hotmail.com
www.caringbridge.com/page/gooch
>
Bethel, CT - Sunday, December 30, 2001 at 02:07 AM (CST)
Hi Maryla, Caedan & family,
I just wanted to stop in and say hi and send you a big cyber hug from NY. I am praying for a match to turn up soon, and for the BMT kick this cancer in the butt so it may never return again. Please let us know what we can do to help. Hugs from an ALL-KIDS friend,

Heather, mommy to Brianna <www.caringbridge.com/ny/mylittlesunshine>
Syracuse, NY ***USA*** - Saturday, December 29, 2001 at 09:39 PM (CST)
Maryla,
Just want you to know that I'm thinking of you and your family and saying an extra prayer for Caedan tonight. Keep on skiing, Caedan!
Love,

Lisa Agee (mom to Ross dx ALL 10-4-00) <www.caringbridge.com/page/ross>
Camden, AL - Saturday, December 29, 2001 at 08:47 PM (CST)
Hi,
I've never talked with you before but I wanted to let you know I'm praying for you and your family. I hope there will be a quick discovery of a donor and all will go well for you.

Virginia Larson, Mom to Angel Michael, dx 9/98, went to heaven 10/8/01 <VLarson6@aol.com>
Taylors, SC USA - Saturday, December 29, 2001 at 03:45 PM (CST)
Hi Maryla and Caedan,
We live in the mountains of North Carolina in the US and I have never learned to ski!!!! We do some mean sledding when it snows - which we have not yet had this year. :{
Anyway, I wanted to let you know that it makes me feel a little sad that you are having to have so much medicine again. But I am glad that they figured out that you needed it as quickly as they did so they can make things better faster.
There was a pink gorilla in the zoo. The sign outside his cage said - FORBIDDEN - DO NOT TOUCH THE PINK GORILLA.
A man came up and was looking at the pink gorilla - he read the sign. The gorilla was asleep by the bars - looking around to see if anyone was looking the man crept up to the bars and gently reached out and touched the pink fur.
Suddenly the gorilla jumped up started beating his chest jumping up and down, grabbed the bars of the cage and began to bend them apart. The man ran in panic. He ran through the gates of the zoo - the pink gorilla was right behind him.
He ran downtown, the gorilla was right behind him.
He ran up into the hills - the gorilla was right behind him.
He ran down into the valley - you guessed it - the gorilla was right behind him.
Finally in exhaustion the man lay down under a tree. Okay - he said to himself - I broke the rules - I shouldn't have touched the pink gorilla - I'll take whatever is coming to me . . .
He looked up trembling - here came the pink gorilla -panting.
The gorilla loomed over him. With one pink finger he touched the man on the nose and said "tag, you're it" and ran away.
Hope to read good things on your site very soon.

Pam Haddock, mom to Deiah (16) preB,ALL, dx4/00 high risk <pkhaddock@hotmail.com>
Sylva, NC USA - Saturday, December 29, 2001 at 10:48 AM (CST)
Hey Caedan!
Your Mom said you went skiing tonite! How was that? I only ever went to Boler Mt. once (a very loooooong time ago) and they told me to get off the hill because I was a danger to everyone!

Here's a joke: What do penguins have that no other animal has?

go on - take a guess

give up?

Answer: Baby penguins!! ha ha

B I G hugs to you and Cali (((( ))))

Troy, Marley, Ethan and Caleb

Troy <troy@bay-net.on.ca>
London, - Saturday, December 29, 2001 at 12:21 AM (CST)
Hi Maryla and family~
Thanks for sharing the great Halloween photos! (Caedan, I sure hope your mom didn't make you EAT all those Cheerios before you made the costume! Because then you'd be a "Cereal Killer"...........get it......."serial killer".....okay..........) How was skiing today? Wow, we are jealous.......no good snow in the mountains here yet! I guess that's what we get for living in the desert! We will say extra prayers for your family tonight and check back with you soon to see how Caedan is doing. Hang tough and keep the faith. Love always, Bill, Stacey, Bryce, and Chad

The Wada Family <SLW6204@aol.com>
Las Vegas, NV USA - Friday, December 28, 2001 at 10:00 PM (CST)
I am so sorry to hear Caedan relapsed...we will be praying for a match and remission.

God bless,
Bonnie (ALL-KIDS)

<http://www.caringbridge.com/page/jamiebowman ^I^ >
Columbus, Ohio - Friday, December 28, 2001 at 09:44 PM (CST)
I'm so glad you posted the Hallowe'en pics. I loved them! What sweethearts both kids are.
Happy New Year and love to you all.


Love Karen <hbyc@rogers.com>
Waterloo, - Friday, December 28, 2001 at 08:24 PM (CST)
Hello Gallagher's. Hope you are ready for Santa's visit. Just want to wish you peace and love for 2002.

your friends in Stratford
sharon,martin,ryan and mitchell xoxo

Sharon Butler <sharon@blowestravel.on.ca>
Stratford, On Canada - Thursday, December 20, 2001 at 11:24 AM (CST)
Wishing everyone at the Gallagher house a very Merry Christmas and a happy holiday season. My thoughts continue to be with you and Caeden as he continues his treatments. May 2002 be a happy year for you and may you be blessed with good health and much happiness.
Mary Rooke <mary.rooke@lhsc.on.ca>
Ingersoll, Ontario - Tuesday, December 18, 2001 at 08:16 AM (CST)
Hi - I stumbled upon your page in the ACOR site. I am so sorry to hear of your relapse. My son Ronnie will be 5 in Jan & was diagnosed with ALL in July of 2000. I pray this upcoming year brings you nothing but good luck & health & happiness and that this remission is permanent. God Bless.
Chris <
chrisrusso_@hotmail.com
www.caringbridge.com/page/gooch
>
Bethel, CT - Saturday, December 08, 2001 at 10:47 PM (CST)
Hello Gallaghers
Hope Caedan is still free of those nasty chicken pox and that Cali is feeling better. Think of you often.
Love MA

Mary-Anne Davies <maryanne.davies@lhsc.on.ca>
London, ON Canada - Monday, November 26, 2001 at 11:43 AM (CST)
Hi Maryla,
I'm sorry to hear that Cali has CP. I hope Caedan doesn't get them. Aidan had them when he was on chemo. He got them from his sister. It was scarey but he did OK. With the antiviral treatment Acyclovir they do well. It was a bummer to be in the hospital for xmas though..... I'm thinking you are joking about moving to Alaska but I would love to have you up here!
Have a Happy Thanksgiving!
Love,
Mary, Aidan and Cailey's mom

Mary <nearyme@aol.com>
Juneau, AK 99801 - Thursday, November 22, 2001 at 02:00 PM (CST)
Dear friends,

We were just stopping by to see how Caedan was doing. Sorry to hear about the chicken pox. Our family is also in the middle of hopefully dodging the chicken pox as well. We will know in a few days if Sarah Anne gets them or not. I pray that he does not get them and is able to stay out of the hospital.

God Bless Your Family,

Steven, Kelly, Sarah Anne & Emma Grace Hicks <www.caringbridge.com/al/sarahanne>
Birmingham, AL - Friday, November 16, 2001 at 04:17 PM (CST)
Hi Caedan! I hear Hallowe'en was fun for all of you. What was your costume? We had a good time too. Marian dressed up as a baby-snow-lemur-without-a-tail. You may wonder where we got a costume like that! Hint: it has something to do with her Grandma Ruth... Your Auntie Charlyn came back from her visit to you with some great photos - I sure do miss you guys. Love to your mom and dad, and that wee sister!
Love to you!

Aunt Annie <anniebowers@shaw.ca>
Victoria, BC Canada - Wednesday, November 07, 2001 at 11:07 PM (CST)
Happy Trick or Treating Caedan and Cali!
I trust you won't be doing anything on angels night, huh? Did I ever thell you the story of when your mom had a party on devil's night.... Well, lets just say we weren't really cleaning when the soap went on the neighbour's windows! Not so funny was when I got caught and your Grandpa Bowers had to come in and save the day! We had to do a lot of apologizing that evening...
You would never do that, would you Caedan??
Have a great time! I love your costume idea! Please post the photos on this sight for us to see.
P.S. Good thing you like to share your Halloween chocolate - I know how your mom likes it!

Sandy Bolton <bolton@wincom.net>
Windsor, ON Canada - Tuesday, October 30, 2001 at 11:17 AM (CST)
I'm impressed with your creative costume ideas for Hallowe'en! I hope you'll put pictures of them on your website. I noticed a nice full moon tonight so that, along with mild weather, should make for perfect trick or treating. Devon thinks he will be 'Indiana Jones,' but that could change by Hallowe'en. Tell your Mom that I remember trick or treating in the drizzly snow with her (the year Paige was born) and ask your Mom and Dad if you are having pizza on Hallowe'en.
Karen <hbyc7@home.com>
Waterloo, ON - Monday, October 29, 2001 at 09:09 PM (CST)
Caeden,
Hope you are feeling fine again soon. I'm watching Teletubbies right now while I am writing you this message. What are you doing.

Sandra Rombouts <kamrombouts@hotmail.com>
London, - Thursday, October 18, 2001 at 11:50 AM (CDT)
Hey Guys,
Just a little note to say hi...Heard you and Mike Ginsberg played alittle mini-golf a few weeks ago - yikes what is that big guy like with a metal club?
Caedon - hope that cough gets better. Say hi to Cali for me.

Alex Martiniuk: Camp Trillium
London, Ontario - Monday, October 15, 2001 at 10:33 PM (CDT)
Dear Caedan, you definitely need some new jokes to pass on to hospital staff and kids you see in hospital. The collection here cries out for some much better belly laughs. How's this one. What do you call a dog with no legs. Whatever you want. He's not going to come anyway!!. HAH. Here's another one. Knock Knock. Who's there. Weirdo. Weirdo who? Weirdo you think you're going. And just in time for halloween: Knock Knock. Who's there. Horror. Horror who? Horror ya doing? or Knock knock, who's there. Werewolf. Werewolf who? Werewolf I find a bathroom. or Knock knock, who's there? Voodoo. Voodoo who? Voodoo you think you are?
Hey Caedan, tell your mom I think of her and your family lots and lots and am hoping she's going to come out for dinner next Monday. By the way, we're still eating your wish day hotdogs over here. There were even too many for our street BBQ. Call if you ever need a hotdog. All my love, Dahlia.

Dahlia Reich <dahlia.reich@sympatico.ca>
London, Ont. - Monday, October 15, 2001 at 06:19 PM (CDT)
Hi Guys,
It was so nice to see you all at Pt. Pelee on the first day of fall. It was a fun day and the weather was wonderful. Sometimes getting away from it all, even for a day, is great. XOXO

Jennifer
St. Thomas, ON - Thursday, October 11, 2001 at 05:09 PM (CDT)
Hi Gallaghers, It's Lori and the rest of us Wightman's (Richards). Today I am sending messages from my sister's house (she has a computer) Hey, stop laughing ... it's not as bad as having to go to the library!!!
Caedan, Meghan and Katie have another joke for you:
Knock! Knock !
Who's there?
Boo
Boo Who?
Don't cry! It's not that bad!
Again my apologies... they think it's hilarious.
Love to you all and Mar, I'm writing to you soon.

Lori (Richards) Wightman
- Tuesday, October 09, 2001 at 02:20 PM (CDT)
Hi Caedan,

I'm an old friend of your mom's. I visit your website regularly to know how your progressing. You've always been an inspiration to me for the way you and your family handle adversity. And you have such a wonderful group of friends and family that support you. If only the rest of the world cared for each other like this community does.

I'm glad to hear that the Caedan's Wish day turned out so well. I wish we had been there.

Good luck in everything you do. We'll be praying for you.

Doug Bladecki (& Michele & Nathan) <BladeRPI@aol.com>
Troy, MI USA - Friday, October 05, 2001 at 09:29 AM (CDT)
Hi Caedan! Ali and the family had a great time during our 3 weeks out west this August. We hated to miss the end of soccer season with the rest of "Mighty Thunder". We are thinking about you and wanted to sign in. "Q-What has 2 knees & swims? A- A two-knee fish."
Coach Hugh Rawling <hugh@rawlingfinancial.com>
London, On Canada - Thursday, October 04, 2001 at 10:32 PM (CDT)
Hi folks,
Sounds like Caedan's Wish was spectacular! I'm sorry I missed it. I think of you often and will think of you even more often now, Maryla, that I'm back to work. The place isn't the same without you. Hope things go well for Caedan with school and his upcoming admission.
All the best to you, Love MA

Mary-Anne Davies <maryanne.davies@lhsc.on.ca>
London, ON Canada - Monday, October 01, 2001 at 02:30 PM (CDT)
hi maryla, this is elaine. i'm over at carol's visiting.i hope everything is reasonably well with all of you. i think of you often, and you're always in my prayers. take care and god bless always.
elaine
- Friday, September 28, 2001 at 08:45 AM (CDT)
Wow! What a PARTY! Hi guys, it's Toot & Blue, just thought we would check in and thank you for having us come to Cadeans Wish. We had a wonderful time, (even if Blue's team did cheat outrageously at the soccer game). We came out of the party feeling like part of your huge extended family, so don't hesitate to give us a call if we can ever help out again. By the way there are some really baaaaddd jokes in this guest book, how about a good one? Here it goes: "What do you call a Gorrilla planting flowers? A: Hairy Potter !!!

See ya....Toot & Blue

Toot & Blue <cat.halloaker@sympatico.ca>
London, Ont Canada - Tuesday, September 18, 2001 at 11:30 AM (CDT)
Hello Caedan ~ it sounds like you had a wonderful wonderful day! I just wish we could have been there. You can never have too many balloon hats, right? All of us here are thinking about you. Oh, and thanks to you, Marian has now adopted the beetle buggy game!! She's much better at it than I am...
Love you!

Aunt Annie <annie.bowers@home.com>
Victoria, BC - Sunday, September 16, 2001 at 02:57 PM (CDT)
So nice to see the pics of Caedon's Wish :)
Also great to read about your time at Camp Trillium - the other camper, Patrick, sounds like a perfect inspiration.
I'm glad you met him - that is what Camp Trillium is all about too.

HOpe we'll see you at Pt.Pelee next saturday.

Alex Martiniuk <alexmartiniuk@hotmail.com>
LONDON, Ontario - Sunday, September 16, 2001 at 09:26 AM (CDT)
HELLO GALLAGHERS

WELL JUST HAD TO TELL YOU WHAT A GREAT TIME WE HAD AT CAEDANS WISH. YOUR FRIENDS THREW A FABULOUS DAY FOR YOU.
EVEN THE BEE'S ENJOYED IT. HA HA.
I HOPE THE DAY WAS'NT TOO OVERWHELMING FOR CAEDAN, HE SURE LOOKED LIKE HE HAS HAVEING A GREAT TIME.
IT WAS NICE TO MEET A FEW OF YOUR FRIENDS, I KNOW IT WAS IMPOSSIBLE TO MEET THEM ALL, BUT THE ONE'S THAT INTRODUCED
THEMSELVES TO US SEEMED VERY NICE.
THE GIRLS WERE THRILLED TO HELP FOR THE DAY , THEY REALLY
WANTED TO WIN A PRIZE THOUGH. THY WERE AMAZED AT WHAT GREAT DONATED GIFTS WERE THERE.
PEOPLE ARE JUST WONDERFUL WHEN IT COMES TO GIVING..
I HOPE CAEDAN'S CHEMO IS GOING OK THIS WEEK, WHEN YOU WROTE IN THE JOURNAL THAT YOU LEFT THE HOSPITAL WITH ANOTHER CHILD
CRYING, GOSH THAT BRINGS SHIVERS UP MY SPINE.
I CAN'T FATHAM THAT... THAT POOR CHILD. BELIEVE ME MARYLA
I THINK OF YOU OFTEN AND WISH, OH IF WISHES COULD COME TRUE, THAT ALL THIS WOULD GO AWAY FOR ALL OF YOU.
TAKE CARE MARYLA.
I HAVE PICTURES OF THAT GREAT DAY, I'LL BE AROUND ONE OF
THESE DAYS TO GET THE BARRELLS, HAVE A VISIT AND THINGS FOR THE FREEZER.
TAKE CARE MARYLA
LOVE PAM



- Tuesday, September 11, 2001 at 07:37 PM (CDT)
Caedan,

Welcome back to Southwood! This is Mrs. Moynihan coming to you LIVE from her home office! (Not quite the same as our morning announcements!) It was great to see you at school earlier this week.

Sounds like you had a great Labour Day weekend! Super!

Always remember that my door is open for a visit.

Mrs. Moynihan
Principal, Byron Southwood

Marion Moynihan <m.moynihan@fc.tvdsb.on.ca>
London, ON Canada - Thursday, September 06, 2001 at 10:58 PM (CDT)
Hey Caedan, Thanks for all the fun I had at your Make a Wish party Saturday. I liked the balloon man Toot the best. He made a sword and holder for me. Hope you had fun too! The prizes were great. Hope you can come home soon from hospital so you can go to school and play with your friends. From Matt
Matt Robertson <maryerobertson@canada.com>
London, - Thursday, September 06, 2001 at 08:59 PM (CDT)
Hi Caedan,
I am a friend of Sandy Boltons at work. I have heard so many wonderful things about you. I'm sorry I had to miss your Wish party on Saturday. Sandy shared with all of us that you had a great day and alot of fun. I heard about your tatoo (cool) I'm hoping to see some pictures of that when your Mom scans them on the photo sight. So was your first day of school exciting or was it boring...zzzzzz haha
I hope all your wishes come true and I'll help by praying that they do.
I'll write again soon. I will send you my work e-mail and then when my e-mail at home is hooked up this week I will send it to you.
Talk to you later....


Carolyn Jones <cjones@itwfoils.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Wednesday, September 05, 2001 at 01:08 PM (CDT)
Hey Gallaghers!!!! Was that barbecue fun or what? We had the best time! Mar, I can't begin to tell you how good it was to see you and everyone else. I will be forever grateful to Sandra(still can't say Sandy) for including me.Caedan, Meghan and Katie have a joke for you:
What do ghosts eat for lunch?
BOO-loney sandwiches!!!
They think it's funny....sorry.
Anyway, as before, I'm sending this from the library...I swear for Christmas I'm getting an e-mail address. In the meantime, if you get a chance tell Tina,Dina, Lore and Todd that I loved seeing them and hope it's not another (OH MY GOD) 15 years til it happens again. Hugs and Kisses and Happy wishes Caedan. Love Lori Wightman (Richards)

Lori Wightman <REGULAR Mail...3435 3rd Concession N.>
Amherstburg, on Canada - Tuesday, September 04, 2001 at 12:24 PM (CDT)
Hi Folks,

Hope you all had as good a time as I did. It was great to see so many smiling faces and so much love. I particularly enjoyed seeing some of the people I hadn't seen in awhile (and their new families).

I'm glad I could be a part of the day. Thank you.

Todd Klingbyle <tklingbyle@home.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Monday, September 03, 2001 at 11:32 AM (CDT)
Dear Caedan, Mar, Scott and Cali:
It was SO wonderful to see you at Caedan's Wish celebration on Saturday. It turned out to be a great day, didn't it? Caedan, I know you had fun playing on the Caterpillar - and you ROCKED at soccer! And the firetruck and piniatas sure were fun too, huh?? Do you still have your tattoo from the face painters? Sure hope that silly old bee sting isn't bothering you still.
I know your mom had fun because she got to see a lot of her old friends from Windsor. You and your mom and dad sure have a lot of friends who love and support you!! It was great fun to see you all have fun!
John and I are so glad we were a part of this day to show you how much we want EVERY wish of yours to come true! WE love you lots!!!
P.S. I hope you hang your "guest book" and photos on the wall for some great memories!

Sandy Bolton <bolton@wincom.net or sbolton@itwfoils.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Monday, September 03, 2001 at 11:10 AM (CDT)
Hello Gallagher Family!
Just a quick note to let you know I wish I could make it to the barbecue next weekend, but, I will be working. Hope the weather is beautiful and everyone has a blast! Wonder if Caeden is looking forward to going back to school or not?? I bet Mom is!! Have a great Labour Day Weekend, and take lots of pictures to put up here, okay?


Tracy Mangin <smangin@mnsi.net>
Windsor, ON Canada - Saturday, August 25, 2001 at 11:56 AM (CDT)
Hi Guys,
I just heard about the awesome fund raiser next weekend. I wish I could be there but unfortunately I will be away. I will pray for nice weather and a great turn out. Miss you all...lots of love

Cheryl Fortune <cfortune@applasman.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Thursday, August 23, 2001 at 02:12 PM (CDT)
Hi From Halifax

Hi Maryla, Scott and Family

Hey - I've challenged Don Sanderson - I'll contribute $100 to Caedans Fund if he shaves his head. Sounds like the Trillium camp was fun. Going to be in London on September 19-22 maybe we can get together for lunch. Things are busy here - started my MBA program - tons of work but the class are mega partiers!!!!!! woohooo!!!

Hope things are going well. My prayers are with you and I'll try to send some good vibes your way.

Take Care

Love Jim

Jim Mohr <jim.mohr@cdha.nshealth.ca>
Halifax, NS - Sunday, August 19, 2001 at 06:31 AM (CDT)
Hi all! Glad to hear Camp Trillium was so much fun. I think of you often and look forward to seeing you sometime soon.
Mary-Anne Davies <mcbrian@lweb.net>
London, ON Canada - Saturday, August 18, 2001 at 06:43 PM (CDT)
Hi Guys, it took me long enough to get here! I bet you're surprised. Don't ask Tim to shave his head, he'll look like the Great Pumpkin from Charlie Brown. That's the downside of having fatheaded people in our family. I'm off work this week so we'll definitely have to get together. Remember, you're in our thoughts & prayers. And don't forget to hop over the fence and get some tomatoes!
Tracy Besterd <bestbet@look.ca>
London, Ont, Canada - Saturday, August 18, 2001 at 03:19 PM (CDT)
Hi Caedan, Thanks for the advice on wearing a hat and sunscreen - I'll be sure to do that! The people here at work are looking forward to cutting my hair. One of the guys brought in his barber clippers. I think I'll let them use scissors first, and then clean up the mess with the clippers.
A lot of people are giving you their support and good wishes.
Talk to you soon,

Daniel <dfriesen@ibigroup.com>
Vancouver, BC Canada - Friday, August 17, 2001 at 09:51 PM (CDT)

Kam Boyce <KBoyce@fanshawec.on.ca>
London, ON Canada - Thursday, August 16, 2001 at 03:32 PM (CDT)
Hi there,
Here's a joke for you...
Q: How many gorillas does it take to screw in a light bulb?
A: Only one, but it sure takes a lot of light bulbs!
Have a great day,
Stacey

Stacey Lane <slane@dbuff.com>
Portland, OR - Monday, August 06, 2001 at 12:44 PM (CDT)
Hi Caedan,
We just got back from camping. It was very fun. I wished you were there. I hope to see you before you go to the Hospital.
By for now.

Luke Schindler <klschind@yahoo.ca>
London, ON Canada - Monday, August 06, 2001 at 08:34 AM (CDT)
I check in from time to time to find out how Caedan is doing. Was delighted to hear about your wonderful trip to Camp Trillium and equally as pleased to hear about Patrick being off treatment for relapsed ALL for 6 years! We all need that hope that A) they'll get through relapse treatment and B) that it will continue for a long time. We've managed A) and hoping for B). Here's hoping the same for Caedan. How long has he got to go of treatment.

Love to you all from the UK where we are having a great summer too.

Debbie, Graham and Callum (from ALL-Kids - dx ALL 04/93, CNS relapse 02/98, off tx 12/99 <debbiedonnison@cs.com>
Dorchester, Dorset UK - Sunday, August 05, 2001 at 12:52 PM (CDT)
Hi Caedan,
Uncle Mike asked me if I would mind if he shaved his head. I had to say "no" because I was afraid he would get a real tattoo on his head!
We are glad that you went to Vancouver and to camp. That's wonderful!
You can see pictures of your Uncle Mike at http://www.usc.uwo.ca/chrw/tbnd/russell2.htm

Carol <theblues@sprint.ca>
London, ON - Sunday, August 05, 2001 at 11:36 AM (CDT)
Hi Caedan,

Wow, Camp Trillium sounds great! I know Sarah Anne would absolutely love all the swimming you got to do. Our camp in Alabama is Camp Sam (Smile-A-Mile). We have a family camp event coming up in September and I hope we get to do as much as you did. We will be praying for you and for your neutrophils to come up quickly.

Hope the rest of your summer is great,

Steven Hicks (Sarah Anne's Dad) <www.caringbridge.com/al/sarahanne>
Birmingham, AL - Friday, August 03, 2001 at 08:10 AM (CDT)
Hope Caedan had a good soccer game today, despite the smog advisory! My guys are planning to do a sailing races tonight.

I am glad you had a great time at Camp ... sure sounds like you kept busy!


Karen <hbyc7@home.com>
Waterloo, Ont Canada - Wednesday, August 01, 2001 at 12:18 PM (CDT)
Hi all: Sounds like you had a wonderful, inspiring, and busy time at Camp Trillium. I'm sure it was a nice get-away for all of you. It is nice too to hear of the positive and success cases like Patrick -- I'm sure meeting and seeing him was a boost for all at the camp. Sounds like Caeden is keeping busy and enjoying the summer with soccer, swimming, etc. -- the time is going by all too quickly! I continue to think of you often. Take care and enjoy the lazy days of summer -- we all know they won't last forever!
Mary Rooke <mary.rooke@lhsc.on.ca>
Ingersoll, Ontario, - Wednesday, August 01, 2001 at 07:56 AM (CDT)
Hey Mar! We missed you on the Weekend at Tina's. Hope to get a hold of you this week. Caedan, I can't shave my head because Julia wouldn't know who I am.
Lore W. <lore.wainwright@bell.ca>
London, Canada - Monday, July 16, 2001 at 08:54 AM (CDT)
Hi Caedan!
Thanks for sharing the new picture of you on vacation! You look great, and apparently, you had fun on your trip too!
Hope being in the hospital this weekend turns out to be okay.......you have two things to celebrate on Monday! Coming home, and your Mom's Birthday!! HAPPY BIRTHDAY MARYLA! (How young are you?? ha-ha!) Love, Stacey and Chad

The Wadas <SLW6204@aol.com>
Las Vegas, NV - Friday, July 13, 2001 at 11:56 AM (CDT)
Hello! Hope you guys are enjoying your vacation in Vancouver! We just returned from Niagra Falls yesturday. We had a great time. I love your pics!! Talk to you soon.
Heather and Brianna Kline (ALL-KIDS) <www.caringbridge.com/ny/mylittlesunshine>
Syracuse, NY USA - Wednesday, July 11, 2001 at 11:22 AM (CDT)
Hi Caedan.......oh you luck duck!! As we write this, you are on vacation in Vancouver!! Can't wait to hear all about it when you get home! Is it cold there? Because it is SO HOT here in the desert! We like your soccer picture. Chad plays soccer too, it is his favorite sport. He missed last season, but is all signed up and ready to try this season again! We'll let you know what his new team name is. The Thunder sounds like a cool team name!
Take care buddy! Love, Stacey and Chad

Stacey and Chad Wada <http://www.caringbridge.com/nv/chadschallenge/index.htm>
Las Vegas, NV USA - Friday, June 29, 2001 at 01:54 AM (CDT)
Hello, to all the Gallagher's!! I still check your web page regularly, and am still thinking of you often. I love your idea of everybody shaving their head. Right now we are in the midst of a different experiment. We are trying to grow 18 inch pony tails that we can send to a company that makes wigs for children suffering from cancer treatments. However, we are starting to look a little scruffy, so maybe shaving our heads is a better idea!! Have a great vacation you two. I don't think there is a prettier place in Canada than our West Coast. Have a great summer. Dawn Brooks, P.S. Will we see you at Wonderland this year??
dawn brooks <dbrooks@mnsi.net>
blenheim, ON Canada - Thursday, June 28, 2001 at 11:31 AM (CDT)
You have a wonderful way of spending Canada Day by seeing another part of our country! We look forward to seeing some pics of your trip on your website, when you get back.
Karen Mc. <hbyc7@home.com>
Waterloo, Ont Canada - Tuesday, June 26, 2001 at 09:22 PM (CDT)
Hey all you Gallagher's! Here's a blast from the past for you Mar...it's me, Lori Richards (Wightman)!!! I'm sending all my good thoughts to you guys, especially you Caedan.. you don't know me but ask your Mom about me, she might make you laugh. Anyhow, I'm sending this from the local library because I'm so far behind technologically I might as well be using a stone tablet and chisel. Can't wait to see you guys on Labour Day weekend. All my best to you all! Mar, hug yourself from me o.k?
Lori Wightman
Amherstburg, ON Canada - Tuesday, June 26, 2001 at 05:42 PM (CDT)
Wishing you a great vacation -- enjoy your time out west. I bet the week will fly by for you with your visiting family and friends, as well as the sightseeing. I think of you often and check your website regularly for the updates. Have a wonderful time -- a well-deserved holiday for both of you!
Mary Rooke <mary.rooke@lhsc.on.ca>
Ingersoll, Ontario - Monday, June 25, 2001 at 12:37 PM (CDT)
Hi Caedan; This is your soccer coach to say last night your team the mighty "Thunder" won their game. We all missed not having you out with us and look forward to your return!!!
Hugh Rawling <hugh@rawlingfinancial.com>
London, On Canada - Thursday, June 21, 2001 at 02:37 PM (CDT)
Hi Maryla!

Just thinking of you and sending a lot of hugs to Caedan!

All the best,
Chetna

Chetna <cbhatt@home.com>
London, - Thursday, June 21, 2001 at 01:26 PM (CDT)
Hi Maryla and Caedan, just wishing you all the best for your BBQ, something we Aussies are famous for, I hope everything goes well and you have the best day ever! My 4 year old daughter has ALL too and she just loves sausages from the barbie!!
Take care and best wishes from Australia

Steve Thomas <sthomas@cuttingedge.com.au>
Brisbane, Qld Australia - Wednesday, June 20, 2001 at 11:03 PM (CDT)
Hey Maryla and Caedan! Thomas and I will make an attempt to get to see you on September 1st! How about that??? Thomas' B-day is on the 2nd, so this could make for a fun weekend!
Teri <teri@thomas-aaron-fullerton.org>
Montreal, QC Canada - Wednesday, June 20, 2001 at 02:05 PM (CDT)
Hi Caedan! Our son's name is also Caedan. He is only 10 months old. I loved seeing your pictures. We live on the other side of Canada in British Columbia. Stay strong.
Heather and Caedan

Heather <HeatherCuff@hotmail.com>
Chilliwack, BC Canada - Friday, June 15, 2001 at 01:31 PM (CDT)
Hey Caeden.... Just wanted to drop a note to let you know that we all had a good time coming to see you and Calli and Mom last week. It was nice to see you going to school and feeling good!! Maybe we'll do it again in the summer when you can hang out with all us girls!!!! ( I know, I know, you can think of better ways to spend a day, right? ) Take care, and we'll talk again soon.
Carol, Tracy, Shannon and Miya <smangin@mnsi.net>
Windsor, ON Canada - Tuesday, June 12, 2001 at 06:06 PM (CDT)
Hi caedan
I was one of your first friends inWortly village at the baby club my name is Ellie.
I will think of you and ask my daddy to pray for you

Ellie vanBerkel <mlvanberkel@sympatico.ca>
london, ont canada - Monday, June 11, 2001 at 05:49 PM (CDT)
Happy Belated Birthday Caedan!! I can't believe you're eight already--it makes me feel ancient! I hope you bowled a strike or two.

Hope all is well with you and Scott, Mar...I really like the pictures on the site. It makes me feel like I am not quite so far away.

Hugs to ((((Caedan)))) and ((((Cali)))) from Northern Ontario

Love, Dalas and Amy

Amy and Dalas Forget <forget@ntl.sympatico.ca>
Haileybury, ON - Saturday, June 09, 2001 at 10:15 PM (CDT)


- Saturday, June 09, 2001 at 02:53 PM (CDT)
Hey Caedan,Mar,Scott and Cali!!
Just checked your website to get an update! Today we received CAEDAN'S WISH info. We will be in touch with Sandy! Take Care Buddy
p.s Will you be home wednesday? I'll Call were coming to the dentist, I have a couple cassoroles to drop off! Pam

Ken, Pam, Kailey, Erika, Trevor and forever Taylor Grace ^i^ <kdobbin@xcelco.on.ca>
Petrolia, Ont Canada - Saturday, June 09, 2001 at 02:52 PM (CDT)
Caedan,

Vincristine and soccer all in the same day! Wow, I'm impressed! I have a son named Ross who is 10 and also is being treated for leukemia. He's away at camp this week. I hope those leg cramps get better soon....sometimes Ross has to use a heating pad, and it seems to help.

God bless,

Lisa Agee (mom to Ross dx ALL 10-4-00) <lagee67@hotmail.com>
Camden, AL - Thursday, June 07, 2001 at 12:16 AM (CDT)
Hi Maryla,

Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Hope to see you Labour Day weekend.

Kevin and Dee Petrozzi <petrozzi@mnsi.net>
Amherstburg, Canada - Wednesday, June 06, 2001 at 03:01 PM (CDT)
Hi Guys,
Sorry I haven't been on here sooner. I just found your web address. Thanks for the link to ChildCan. Hope it will help others. Web page looks great, and I enjoyed reading the updates. Keep up the great work and hope all is well with the Gallager family.

Lois Grimes <childcan@lon.imag.net>
London, ON Canada - Wednesday, May 30, 2001 at 09:25 AM (CDT)
Here's a few jokes for you, Caedan.

Patient: Doctor, Doctor When I press with my finger here... it hurts, and here... it hurts, and here... and here... What do you think is wrong with me?
Doctor: You have a broken finger!

Q: What do whales eat?
A: Fish and ships

Q: What did the banana do when the monkey chased it?
A: The banana split

Love from,

Mike and Carol <theblues@sprint.ca>
London, ON - Sunday, May 27, 2001 at 12:11 AM (CDT)
Caedan,
Your pictures are great! I like the one where you are on the front porch with all the snow.Sending good thoughts your way.
Bonnie from Ohio

Bonnie Stephens <rmstephens@worldnet.att.net>
Columbus, Ohio USA - Tuesday, May 22, 2001 at 10:56 PM (CDT)
Good luck at soccer. Ryan starts this week too. Practice on Mondays and games on Wednesdays too. We'll think of you on your soccer field. Glad you liked the pokemon cards.
Sharon <sharon@blowestravel.on.ca>
Stratford, On Canada - Tuesday, May 22, 2001 at 11:45 AM (CDT)
My printer is working so I am taking the page over to your dad.
Have a wonderful weekend the weather is lovely.
I hope you take pictures of mother racoon and babies!
Caedan and Cali must be mesmerized by them.. Caron

c. firsht <cfirsht@aol.com>
- Saturday, May 19, 2001 at 12:53 PM (CDT)
Hi Caedan! I'm glad to hear you're feeling better and playing soccer. It must be a lot of fun. Your cousin Marian says hello!! HAPPY MOTHERS DAY MARYLA!
Love,

Aunt Annie <annie.bowers@home.com>
Victoria, BC Canada - Saturday, May 12, 2001 at 10:12 AM (CDT)
Hey there...glad to here Caedan is feeling a little better. I hope all is well with you all. Thinking of you often. Hey Maryla...isn't that time of year ?????Maybe you should add your BD reminders to this website. hahaha!

Take care
Janice

Janice <kucyj@lhsc.on.ca>
London, Ontario Canada - Wednesday, May 09, 2001 at 01:26 PM (CDT)
Hey Caeden!! Awesome new photo's! Hope your feeling better and Mom is having a better week (stay clear of slow moving vehicles!!) See you next chemeo! Lisa
Lisa Hawthornthwaite <hawthorn@motionlink.net>
London, ON Canada - Tuesday, May 08, 2001 at 10:07 PM (CDT)
Hi Caedan,

I often check your page to see how you are doing. I am so glad to hear that you are feeling better. I think those pictures of the fire truck are the coolest. I would love to get to ride in one some day. Hope you continue to feel better.

Steven Hicks (Sarah Anne's Dad) <www.caringbridge.com/al/sarahanne>
Birmingham, AL - Tuesday, May 08, 2001 at 08:17 AM (CDT)
Hi Caedan. This is your Uncle Mike. I just got back from Victoria on Tuesday. I saw your Aunt Anne and Aunt Charlyn and your cousins Corey, Dustin, Robin and Marian. I had a really great time. I went to a seafood restaurant and I ate some octopus. Pretty weird huh? Anyway I hope you're having a good day. Tell your mom I'll give her a call in the next few days.
Uncle Mike <theblues@sprint.ca>
London, ON Canada - Friday, May 04, 2001 at 03:51 AM (CDT)
Hi Caedan
So you turned the big OH-8! Congrats and many happy returns. Hope you're soon feeling better. Did you get some neat stuff for your birthday? Hope you're feeling better soon.
Take Care.......Cheers........Karen P.

Karen Palmer <k.palmer@lhsc.on.ca>
London, Ont. Canada - Tuesday, May 01, 2001 at 10:08 AM (CDT)
Hi,
Great web site. The pictures are wonderful. Caedan you don't know me, but your mom knows Todd, who I am a friend of. Our prayers are with you.

Dave <Defjr@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Sunday, April 29, 2001 at 08:36 PM (CDT)
Happy Belated Birthday Caedan!!!!! I really hope you had a wonderful time and gave both your parents a headache! Just remember, that is what being 8 years old is all about. Hahaha! (Sorry Mar-you can yell at me later)
Tina Herzog <Tina.Herzog@sympatico.ca>
Windsor, Ont. - Thursday, April 26, 2001 at 02:31 PM (CDT)
Happy Birthday Caedan. Wow, can't believe you're turning 8! (That must mean your mom and dad are really old!!!) Hope you got lots of great stuff for your birthday! Don't eat too much cake and ice cream!


Love from The Hills <colin.hill@sympatico.ca>
Lindsay, Canada - Sunday, April 22, 2001 at 10:02 PM (CDT)
Caedan........
HAPPY HAPPY HAPPY HAPPY HAPPY HAPPY HAPPY HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!
WOW!! So happy to hear you'll get to celebrate at home and not in the hospital!! Please tell us what you're doing and what kinds of cool gifts you receive!! We're singing a birthday song out here in Las Vegas just for you!! HAVE A GREAT, COOL, AWESOME, WONDERFULLY OUTSTANDING DAY!!!
Love from your friends, Stacey and Chad

Stacey and Chad Wada <SLW6204@aol.com>
Las Vegas, NV USA - Sunday, April 22, 2001 at 12:32 AM (CDT)
HI GUYS! Wondering who is winning those on-going "Guess Who" games :) Thinking of you, from a Camp TRillium friend...
Alex Martiniuk <alexmartiniuk@hotmail.com>
London, - Tuesday, April 17, 2001 at 10:35 PM (CDT)
Hi Caedan, Hope the fuzzy guy visited you and Cali. He even came to Stratford. I finally had a chance to visit your site and look at your photos. Ryan and Mitchell would have loved the ride in the firetruck. love and hugs to you and your mom, dad and Calixo
Sharon Butler <sharon@blowestravel.on.ca>
Stratford, on Canada - Tuesday, April 17, 2001 at 12:52 PM (CDT)
Hello Caeden,Maryla, Scott, Cali
We are enjoying the signs of Spring. We watch for the buds of promise. We rest up during the rain and sometimes choose to wallk in it with an umbrella. Anticipation of the summer beaches cause us to check that all is in order with the sand pails and shovels.

LAURA <KFARMER@PACIFICCOAST.NET>
Victoria, BC - Tuesday, April 10, 2001 at 04:11 PM (CDT)
Hi Caedan and all;

We checked out the new photo. That is such a cool snowdrift on your roof! We wonder if it has finally melted?

Karen and Devon


Waterloo, Ont Canada - Saturday, April 07, 2001 at 04:34 PM (CDT)
Hi Caedan
Glad to hear everything went well while Mom was having some fun with her friends. Isn't it great that the weather is getting better and the sun is shining. Are you happy to be back at school? I'll bet you are.
Take care and maybe I'll see you the next time you're at the hospital.
Cheers
Karen (your Mom's friend that you have to tell us to stop talking about food)

Karen Palmer <k.palmer@lhsc.on.ca>
London, Ont Canada - Thursday, April 05, 2001 at 11:36 AM (CDT)
yo caed,

I see you're going to be at school today!?!? is it tuesday already? just got in from a fantastic night of studying...you're welcome to join the boys and i anytime from now until the 27th of april, all-nighters are going to be the order of the day (and in this case night...sorry bad joke)!!!

talk to ya soon

Mike Ginsburg <gins16@hotmail.com>
london, on canada - Tuesday, April 03, 2001 at 01:43 AM (CDT)
Hi Caedan and family,

Love to read your updates. Sorry about the neutrophils not being high enough to start chemo again - Callum's never played the game on his relapse protocol mainly because the chemo is so much stronger. Still let's hope it's making that nasty old leukaemia suffer more!

I hope in spite of the neutrophils that you're feeling ok.
Love
Debbie Graham and Callum (From ALL-Kids)

Debbie Donnison <debbiedonnison@cs.com>
Dorchester, Dorset United Kingdom - Thursday, March 22, 2001 at 02:01 AM (CST)
Hi Caedan!

I know your mom from a ALL Kids board we both go to.....I loved looking at your pictures and all the snow! We don't get much snow in Alabama :( My son Ross is 10 and also has leukemia. Take care!

Lisa and Ross Agee <lagee67@hotmail.com>
Camden, AL USA - Wednesday, March 21, 2001 at 10:23 PM (CST)
Hi Caedan,
I have been having some computer problems at my house and we have just now got everything up and running. You'll be happy to know that I did get your report card comments into Mrs. Moynihan before "THE CRASH". So we are on schedule for March 23.
I'd also like to thank you for the nice card your family sent to me over the loss of my Mother. It was good to get back to school and be with all the kids. You guys always make me feel good. I'll check your webpage again on Sunday to see how you are doing. Do you believe a week could go this fast??!!??!! I hope Dad has a good time skiing and that Cali is finally feeling better. Say hello to your Mom for me.
Take care, Mrs Johnston
P.S. Isn't Mrs Summers cool!


- Thursday, March 15, 2001 at 09:34 PM (CST)
Hi Caedan!
It's Mrs. Summers! I just wanted to thank you for having so much fun with me these past couple of days. I was really impressed with your desire to learn and I could only hope to teach you in my own class in years to come. I found a neat probability game for you that I'll pass along on Monday when I see you at school.
See you soon, Mrs. Summers

Mrs. Summers <hcowx@hotmail.com>
London, ON Canada - Tuesday, March 13, 2001 at 09:21 PM (CST)
Hello Caedan,

I know your mum from ALL-Kids and I just wanted to put a note in here to let you know that I do not stop thinking of you and your family. My son Callum, who also relapsed with ALL and now enjoying life without hospitals, thought your photographs were pretty cool. He was jealous of all the snow you had.

Anyway hope this mail catches you feeling good.
Love
Debbie, Graham and Callum

Debbie Donnison <debbiedonnison@cs.com>
Dorchester, Dorset United Kingdom - Tuesday, March 13, 2001 at 03:34 PM (CST)
Hi Caedan!

It's been a while since I first signed your guestbook - I can't believe I spelled your name wrong! Please forgive me.

Neat picture of you in the fire truck! I bet that was exciting huh? I like the picture of you and Cali too. You look like you're a great BIG brother for her.

love and kisses
Troy, Marley, Ethan and Caleb
xoxoxo


- Monday, March 12, 2001 at 08:37 PM (CST)
Hi Caedan!
We're your friends from the desert......Las Vegas Nevada, USA.......just stopping by to say hi! How are you? The picture of you on your snow covered porch is GREAT! Wow! That's alot of snow!! Have you been able to go back to school? Sure hope so.......Chad missed 6 weeks and finally went back just in time to go on a 3rd grade field trip to the dairy!! (We got a nice taste of some Cookies 'n Cream Ice Cream too......mmmmmmmmm........) Take care buddy.....we look forward to hearing how well you are doing!! Love, Bill, Stacey, Bryce, and Chad Wada P.S. We sure hope Cali is all better too! Hugs to all of you!!

The Wada Family <SLW6204@aol.com>
Las Vegas, NV USA - Sunday, March 11, 2001 at 09:49 PM (CST)
Hi Caedan, I work for Camp Trillium and just wanted to let you know that your web site was incredible. I loved reading through it! I keep my prayers with you that next time I check in I hear that you are doing that much better!
Meg Allen <meg_allen@hotmail.com>
London, ON Canada - Sunday, March 11, 2001 at 01:36 PM (CST)
Hi Caedon hope you are doing good. What is it like to have a tutor come to the house, do they give you more or less work than at school? Have a great day.
The Drouillards <gman@jet2.net>
LaSalle, on Canada - Tuesday, March 06, 2001 at 08:51 AM (CST)
What's up guys?
Caed.....i recently got word that there is a supersize gummy-bear hiding out somewhere in london...he is apparently stealing all of the smaller gummy-bears from the stores and eating them so that he can rule the gummy-bear world..you have no choice but to help me catch him, or eventually neither of us will be able to eat gummy-bears....We both know this can't happen! I have managed to build up a surplus but they're going quick!
I'll call you tomorrow and we'll discuss the details of the mission!
Take care,
Mike (your TIC buddy!)

Mike Ginsburg <gins16@hotmail.com>
London, ON Canada - Tuesday, March 06, 2001 at 12:13 AM (CST)
Hi Caedan, Maryla and family..
Just had to check out the website......it is fantastic!
Maryla and Caedan you are an inspiration to all of us!
My love and prayers to you.
jane

Jane <johnsonja@home.com>
london, ontario canada - Thursday, March 01, 2001 at 06:31 PM (CST)
Hi Caedan from Jake and Kelsey Potts!! We miss you and hope your comming back to school soon. School closed early today so we had extra time to play. We are learning all about money. My favourite subject. I (Kelsey) brought in Mexican coins and an old paper one dollar bill. If you want to see them mom can scan them in and send them to you via the internet. When we were at church on Sunday, Father Gary was speaking about our angry times when we sometimes yell at God. I (Jake) turned around in church and told mom she was always is yelling at God. I think she gave that up for lent. During the 40 days of lent, we are suppose to become a better person I hope this works for mom.

Hi Caedan (Kathy Potts - Jake & Kelsey's mom) - I see Jake talked abount church and yelling at God. I told Jake God understands were not really mad at him, just trying to get his attention. Jake and Kelsey have been busy with beavers, brownies and cursive writing. Kelsey had a brownie swim last Tuesday and Jake will be going out for a beaver campfire next Tuesday. Kelsey wants winter to last another 6 weeks and Mrs. Roy (a neighbour) is ready to put her winter coats away for another season. Looks like snow tonight! We're looking forward to seeing you soon. Let me know if we can scan and send pictures via email.

Jake and Kelsey Potts and momma Potts <aapac@wwdc.com>
London, ON - Thursday, March 01, 2001 at 05:46 PM (CST)
Hi Caedan: This is Josh Zimmer's mom (Mary). Our computer gets a lot of use after school. The older kids claim to be doing homework. Josh couldn't butt them off, so he asked me to send this to you this morning. March came in like a lamb. Do you think it will go out like a lion? The weather's not so hot for tobogganing any more. All the cats are going nuts today. We watched the neighbor's cats chase each other. Then our cat (Phantom) decided to run around our house. I guess he was feeling pretty good. This is exciting because, normally, he just sits on the step observing everybody, and occasionally torments the dog (Shadow) and Josh's little brother (Riley). We think the cat thinks that Riley is some kind of little critter. We also think that if our cat went outside, most people would think he was some kind of lawn ornament. Josh wondered if you might like some company when you are feeling up to it. If so, he challenges you to a game of GO FISH, or maybe you have some better ideas. The dog wants out. Of course we know who will let her out (unlike the song). We think of you and your family alot and wish you well. The Zimmers.
Zimmer Family <bzimmer@odyssey.on.ca>
London, ON Canada - Thursday, March 01, 2001 at 10:07 AM (CST)
Hi Caedan:
I have just visited the website for the first time since Mrs. Johnston gave me the address.
The photos are awesome! Did that snow on the roof ever fall??? I'm glad that I wasn't standing under it if it did? Would there be a way to calculate how much snow and how much it would weigh?
When did you get to ride in the firetruck?

I had a meeting first thing this morning. When I got to school, the Gr. 8's were having fun with dinky cars - they were shooting them down cardboard tubes to find out how fast they were travelling. How fast do you think they would travel? How far do you think they might go? You might want to try your own test. If you try this - I'll give your results to Mrs. S. and we'll compare the results.

Well, I've had a long day and my dog, Casey still needs her walk. It's cold tonight, but she's whining to get out, so I must close.
Bye for now.
Mrs. Thompson

Mrs. Thompson <sthomp6459@home.com>
London, ON Canada - Tuesday, February 27, 2001 at 10:06 PM (CST)
Thanks Maryla for sharing Caedan's wonderful website!
You give alot of hope & inspiration to alot of people by your positive energy and amazing strength!

Keep that beautiful smile going strong and all the best to Caedan & your family!
Take care,
Chetna

Chetna <Cbhatt@home.com>
London, Canada - Tuesday, February 27, 2001 at 08:39 PM (CST)
Wuz up Dude! I was just checkin' out your cool web site.I also wanted to know if you have Pokemon Gold or Silver. I have silver. I hope to send you an e-mail!
Hugs and kisses from my Mom, Dad, Grant, and Eric

Andrew Hill <colin.hill@sympatico.ca>
Lindsay, Ont Canada - Sunday, February 25, 2001 at 07:01 PM (CST)
Hi to the Gallaghers from LaSalle, I love to visit you web page Caedan. How is everyone doing? I bet Cali is running around the house chasing the cat! Take care everyone, remember we are all praying for you and keeping good thoughts. The Drouillards.
Kellie <gman@jet2.net>
LaSalle, Canada - Saturday, February 24, 2001 at 10:41 AM (CST)
Hi Maryla,
You must have superwoman strength! Sending special wishes to you and your family
Wendy Vlasic

Wendy Vlasic <wvlasic@uwo.ca>
London, Canada - Wednesday, February 21, 2001 at 06:49 PM (CST)
Hey, Caedan! Hi from Waterloo. This is the first time this new year that I could check on your web page. Your Mom told me about the fire truck coming to your place so I was excited to see the photos. They're great!
Karen M. and "the boys" <hbyc7@home.com>
Waterloo, On Canada - Tuesday, February 20, 2001 at 08:53 PM (CST)
Hi Caeden and Maryla and Scott and Callie:
Well I have heard about this pg but it took my daughter Susan aka the teckie to find it for me, of course with my every helpful search engine Google. I know from Janet that you are all home this weekend which is wonderful. I can here the happiness in her voice. We in Halifax are again snowed under. When the car comes to a stop sign we must almost get out and see what is coming! Our thoughts are with all of you today and hope that Caedan, you will be able to go back to school soon.
Kisses and wishes of chocolate for Maryla and lots of good things for the other creatures in your house.
Love,
Aunt Barbara and Susan

Barbara DeLory <dowerps@ns.sympatico.ca>
Halifax, NS Canada - Sunday, February 18, 2001 at 09:23 AM (CST)
Hi Caedan
Glad you are home from hospital. Bet you are glad too. Enjoy school on Tuesday
Hugs
Marg

Marguerite <jimandmarg@hay,net>
Grand Bend, ON Canada - Saturday, February 17, 2001 at 11:54 AM (CST)
Maryla
Just to let you know we're keeping updated with what's going on. We are thinking of you all often.
Andrew, Jacqui, Adam and Josh Whittington (Jacqui will write
soon !!)

Andrew Whittington <whitti.family@virgin.net>
Crawley, England - Friday, February 16, 2001 at 03:36 PM (CST)
Hi there! Just had a chance to look at your webpage - the pictures are wonderful. Looks like Scot and Caeden had a great time in the fire truck!! I hope and pray that Caeden gets well, and strong, soon.
PS we have to train him to at least like chocolate - imagine any day without it?

nasir noormohamed <nasirn@interlog.com>
Markham, Ontario CANADA - Friday, February 16, 2001 at 08:32 AM (CST)
If Caeden doesn't like chocolate, he obviously doesn't take after his mom -- Maryla LOVES chocolate!!!! My thoughts and best wishes go out to all of you. I hope Caeden gets feeling better real soon and can be discharged home. I think of you often. I check your website regularly for the updates on how Caeden is doing. Take one day at a time and hopefully each day will become a little brighter. Take care and we'll keep in touch!
Mary Rooke <Mary.rooke@lhsc.on.ca>
Ingersoll, Ontario - Thursday, February 15, 2001 at 01:10 PM (CST)
Hi Caedan,
We missed you today at school for our Valentine"s Day party. Luke brought in your cards and passed them out to the children. We put your "stuff" in a bag and Luke will deliver it to your home. He has really been a good friend. However, I'm sure any of the boys or the girls in the class would be glad to deliver to you. The kids ask almost every day if you'll be in school that day.
I did not know you were back in hospital until I read your Mom's entry in your web page journal. I haven't saved you much school work cause every day I was thinking you might be back. Actually, we haven't done too much serious work with Valentine's Day and all. However, I will get a little package together for you and when you feel up to it you can do it. But most of all we just want you to get back on your feet and come to school. Say hi to your family for me.
Take care,
Mrs. Johnston
P.S. I think I remember you telling me that you didn't like chocolate. Is that true or am I just dreaming?


- Wednesday, February 14, 2001 at 05:22 PM (CST)
Hello Caedan,

We are praying that your hospital stay will be short this time and that your mouth sores heal up real quick. I think it is so neat to see all the messages you get from all over the world. That is so cool! My little girl has leukemia also, and every night she prays for all the other sick kids in the world. Your are a special young man and my family is praying for you.

Steven, Kelly, Sarah Anne & Emma Hicks <www.caringbridge.com/al/sarahanne>
Birmingham, AL - Wednesday, February 14, 2001 at 08:34 AM (CST)
Hi Caedan,

Sorry to hear you are back in the hospital. Just checkin' in on your guestbook and boy oh boy, do you ever have a lot of friends!! You sure are a lucky guy! Looks like your school mates got a chance to log on and see the great stuff you and your mom do to keep us updated on your progress.

We are all hoping you'll feel better real soon.

Take good care,

Sandy Bolton <bolton@wincom.net>
Amherstburg, ON Canada - Tuesday, February 13, 2001 at 02:34 PM (CST)
Maryla and Caeden and Family,
We are sorry to hear that Caeden is in the hospital. We will be praying that the mouth sores get better, and your cough does too. We hope that the hospital stay is a short one, and the time goes by quickly for you all. Take care...we will be thinking of you.
Tammy, Ron, and Emma Hall (ALL-KIDS)
www.caringbridge.com/page/emmahall

The Hall's <halltammy@netscape.net>
Medina, OH USA - Sunday, February 11, 2001 at 10:14 PM (CST)
Hi Caedan,
Sorry to hear you're back in hospital with mouth sores.......hope they clear up really soon. Uncle John and I were thinking about you today and wishing you were here to give him a hand putting together his new desk. He's been working on it all day and the truth is that his progress is pretty slow (but don't tell him I said that). He figures it's kind of like building lego, which I hear you're an expert at, so he could have used your help.
Are you guys getting any sunshine out there yet? Today was a beautiful day here in vancouver and we went for a long walk along the water with our dog, Momo. I'm moving a little slower than usual 'cause my belly gets bigger and bigger. Another three months and you'll have a new little cousin. Do you have any guesses about whether it's a boy or a girl? Any ideas for names? Uncle John wants to call the baby Knud! What do you think?
We think it might be a soccer player like you because it sure does a lot of kicking already. Wakes me up in the middle of the night kicking really hard!
Hope you're home and feeling better really soon.
Hey Caedan, I think Knud is a pretty good name and your dad suggested Huckleberry...which makes it Huckleberry Knud, what do you think? Wish I could be there to hang around with you, perhaps you could teach me how to play Nintendo.
Say hi to your Mom and Dad and baby Sister.
Aunt Christie and Uncle John

christie and john <twobrides@hotmail.com>
vancouver, bc - Sunday, February 11, 2001 at 08:10 PM (CST)
HELLO EVERYONE
JUST GOT YOUR MESSAGE, WE FEEL SO BAD FOR YOU, THOSE MOUTHSORES ARE HORRIBLE. I HOPE YOU SOON WILL BE RID OF THOSE NASTY THINGS, AND YOU'LL BE EATING SOON. YOUR HUNGER REMINDS ME OF THE SHOW SURVIVOR. YOUR ARE A REAL TROOPER BUDDY AND WE CONTINUE TO PRAY AND THINK OF YOU OFTEN.
TONIGHT WE ARE OFF TO A DANCE AT THE HALL WHERE THE BENEFIT FOR TAYLOR WAS. THE PROCEEDS TONIGHT GO TO CHILDREN'S HOSPITAL OF WESTERN ONTARIO. WE HAVE HAD SO MANY PEOPLE IN THE AREA NEED TTHEIR SERVICES THAT IT WILL BE ANOVERWHELMING SUCCESS. WE ARE GOING TONIGHT CAEDAN WITH YOU IN MIND. TAKE CARE BUDDY SEE YOU SOON.
DITTO MAR LISA HAWTHORNWAITE'S COMMENTS!!!!!!!

PAM DOBBIN <kdobbin@xcelco.on.ca>
petrolia, ont canada - Saturday, February 10, 2001 at 04:07 PM (CST)
{{{{Maryla}}}} I'm so sorry to hear that Caedan is back in the hospital!! Hope those nasty mouthsores clear up soon....I know how much they hurt because Chad had them too. Oh, please give Caedan a big hug and kiss from us. Take care and know that we are praying for his speedy recovery!! Love, Stacey and Chad from the ALL KIDS List
Stacey <SLW6204@aol.com>
Las Vegas, NV USA - Saturday, February 10, 2001 at 01:11 AM (CST)
Hi Maryla and caedan, (Scott and Cali) It was so good to see you again, on Monday. You both looked terrific. Nothing like being told you can go home to put a smile on your face.
Caedan, it probably isn't much fun meeting all these new strangers, but believe it or not, I really did know you when you were little, and in the hospital a long time ago. My Son was there too. I have even been to your Dad's house. The one you lived in with your grandma. I think it had a pool?? Any way, I remeber when you were little, and I am glad to see you are getting so big. My son said the worst part of chemotherapy was having his port accessed, and than all the tegaderm bandages. Is that true?? I hope you don't have too much longer to worry about all that. My son has his port in a jar in his room (which I think is sort-of weird, but he likes to keep it. Do you have your first port still?? If you ever wanted to talk to my son, his name is Garrett, and you can email him at this address. Take care of yourself, and give your mom a hug for me. Dawn

dawn brooks ( Lee , Garrett and Matthew) <dbrooks@mnsi.net>
blenheim, ON Canada - Thursday, February 08, 2001 at 06:55 PM (CST)
Caedan,
We have not yet had the opportunity to meet in person. My name is Mrs. Moynihan and I became your new principal in January. I understand that there are days when you are 'under the weather' and need to take some time to build up your strength. I look forward, with great anticipation, to meeting you in person and invite you to visit my office when you return to school -- I have a great poster which you will probably find amusing as well as a jelly bean jar!!

Hope to see you soon,

Mrs. Moynihan

Marion Moynihan <m.moynihan@fc.tvdsb.on.ca>
London, ON Canada - Tuesday, February 06, 2001 at 09:31 PM (CST)
Caedan & Family, what a wonderful idea to make this web page. It is great to hear you are home again!!!
Charmaine Graham (Fuller)-Carol's daughter <mailroom@ivey.uwo.ca>
London, ON Canada - Tuesday, February 06, 2001 at 07:22 AM (CST)
Hi Caedan!
Your Uncle Mike and I loved the pictures of your visit from the fire department. What fun!

Carol <cfuller@ivey.uwo.ca>
London, ON Canada - Tuesday, February 06, 2001 at 05:44 AM (CST)
Hi Caedan it's Josh.Z's sister Alex. i hope you're feeling better,Josh always talks about you! Come back to school soon!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Alex <annoying_alex@hotmail.com>
london, canada - Monday, February 05, 2001 at 05:02 PM (CST)
Hi Caedan
I hope you feel better
Peter.


- Monday, February 05, 2001 at 09:21 AM (CST)
Hi Caedan
I hope you feel better. I hope you come back soon.
Jake


- Monday, February 05, 2001 at 09:21 AM (CST)
Hi Caedan
I hope you're feeling better.
Josh Z.


- Monday, February 05, 2001 at 09:18 AM (CST)
Hi Caedan
Hope you are feeling okay.
Dillon.


- Monday, February 05, 2001 at 09:17 AM (CST)
Hi Caedan
I love you.
Love Ryan


- Monday, February 05, 2001 at 09:15 AM (CST)



Hi Caedan
Miss you.
Amanda



- Monday, February 05, 2001 at 09:14 AM (CST)
Hi Caedan
Hope you come back soon.
Josh R.


- Monday, February 05, 2001 at 09:12 AM (CST)
Hi Caedan
We all miss you. Hope to see you soon.
Kevin


- Monday, February 05, 2001 at 09:11 AM (CST)
Hi Caedan Hope you feel good. from Luke Frezell.

- Monday, February 05, 2001 at 09:08 AM (CST)
Hi Caedan
How are you today? We're having fun at school. I miss you. love Alyssa


- Monday, February 05, 2001 at 09:07 AM (CST)
Hi Caedan
I hope you get feeling better. Come back to school soon.
Luke Schindler


- Monday, February 05, 2001 at 09:05 AM (CST)
Hi Caedan
I miss you. I hope you come back to school soon. Allison


- Monday, February 05, 2001 at 09:01 AM (CST)
Hi Caedan We miss you . by Julie

- Monday, February 05, 2001 at 09:00 AM (CST)
Hi Caedan! How are you doing. You are a good friend!
from Jenna


- Monday, February 05, 2001 at 08:57 AM (CST)
Hi Caedan
I miss you. How are you doing. School is going great.
Love Marley


- Monday, February 05, 2001 at 08:56 AM (CST)
Hi Caedan How are you? I'm fine. We ALL miss. I hope you feel better.
From Taylor


- Monday, February 05, 2001 at 08:55 AM (CST)
Hi Caedan We miss you. From Madisyn

- Monday, February 05, 2001 at 08:55 AM (CST)
Hi Caedan The magzine I gave you is really cool. I got it from Kincarden.
Dylan D.


- Monday, February 05, 2001 at 08:53 AM (CST)
Hi Caedan
How are you feeling? See you soon. Kelsey


- Monday, February 05, 2001 at 08:52 AM (CST)
Hi Caedan
How are you? See you soon. Haley Ritchie


- Monday, February 05, 2001 at 08:50 AM (CST)
Hi Caedan and family,
Today is Friday, February 2 and the groundhog says we will be having 6 more weeks of winter. As of midnight tonight, winter is half over. I am at school and thought I'd see if I could get on your webpage using the computer lab. Success!! I hope your fever has gone and that you and your Mom get a better sleep tonight. Thinking of you. Take care.

Diana Johnston <johnston5145@home.com>
- Friday, February 02, 2001 at 11:00 AM (CST)
Dear Caedan, Maryla, Scott and Calli
What an amazing website, I am so inspired by your strength, creativity and positive approach to dealing with hospitals, doctors and illness. You are truly an inspiration to the healthcare staff and other families coping with childhood cancer.

Lisa <hawthorl@lhsc.on.ca>
London, Ontario Canada - Thursday, February 01, 2001 at 07:39 AM (CST)
Maryla, Scott, Caedon and Cali,
What a great site. Looking forward to hanging out with you guys in the "real".
From all your friends with Camp Trillium!!! :)

Alex Martiniuk <alexmartiniuk@hotmail.com>
London, Ontario Canada - Wednesday, January 31, 2001 at 09:50 PM (CST)
Hi Caedan, I am an OLD friend of your mom's--boy do you ever have the same wonderful smile as she does! We live in Canada's REAL NORTH --Thompson, Manitoba and we are just a train ride away from the polar bears. I have three kids: Alexander, who is almost 7, Alanna, who is 4, and Liam, 18 months. We all hope that everything goes well for you. Please say "hi" to your mom-- she will remember me from high school. If you have any questions about living in the North, just e-mail. And before you ask, I'll tell you that it is COLD!! Usually about minus 30-35 at this time but the kids still play outside!! And no, we don't get polar bears in our yard but we do see black bears and foxes -- and just last week there was a caribou on the golf course!
Do take care, our prayers are with you and your family.

Pam and David Crawford and family <crawford@mb.sympatico.ca>
Thompson, Mb Canada - Wednesday, January 31, 2001 at 06:24 PM (CST)
Hi Caedan! Just wanted to make sure I could get on your Web Page before you go into the hospital on Thursday. Then I'll be able to keep an eye on your progress by looking in on your entries. Take care. See you tomorrow in class.
Diana Johnston <johnston5145@home.com>
London, Canada - Tuesday, January 30, 2001 at 08:49 PM (CST)
Hi from the land with the best snow on earth....I love your web site! What a wonderful, therapeutic idea. I'm MJ's sister and she forwarded it to me. Keep the faith.........
Cathy Babcook <catherinebabcook@home.com>
Salt Lake City, UT USA - Friday, January 26, 2001 at 10:46 PM (CST)
Hello Caeden mom dad and sis,
Glad to hear you are beating the flu bug. It sure was a doozie. It went through here too. Sorry I did not get to see you when I was out there. Really sorry. Best Wishes and Loving hugs from Laura, Kevin, Leanne(5), Amelia(2.5) Anika(6mths)

Laura <kfarmer@pacificcoast.net>
Victoria, B.C. Canada - Friday, January 26, 2001 at 04:30 PM (CST)
Dear Caedan, Cali, Mar, and Scott - the web page is truly amazing - You are and have always been an inspiration to all who know you. Love and best wishes, Mary Jane.
Mary Jane Babcook <tigger@sta.att.ne.jp>
Fujimi, Saitama Japan - Friday, January 26, 2001 at 05:03 AM (CST)
Hi Caedan! I loved the photos of you and the firetruck, and the one of you and Cali. That must have been a lot of fun! Big hugs to all of you. Love,
Auntie Anne <annie.bowers@home.com>
Victoria, BC Canada - Wednesday, January 24, 2001 at 10:29 PM (CST)
Great fire truck pictures Caedan! Are you ever lucky to get to ride in the big truck! You're up higher than when you rode Hobbs!
Brenda & Abbey Kerr <brendakerr87@home.com>
London, On - Wednesday, January 24, 2001 at 08:15 AM (CST)
We've decided WE want to be FIREMEN!! What a great bunch of guys!
Thank you for enabling all of us to be kept up to date on your healing journey. We send you all our love and many prayers, as well as tons/tonnes of kisses, hugs, firm handshakes, and manly pats on the back.

Jenn & Dan Friesen <dfriesen@ibigroup.com>
Vancouver, BC Canada - Monday, January 22, 2001 at 08:55 PM (CST)
Hi Caedan! Thought we'd say hello, while checking out your web page..this is cool! Dylan is already in bed so he'll have to add a note next time. Thinking of you and your family.
Beth and Pat (Dylan Lariviere's Mom and Dad)

Beth Sutherland and Pat Lariviere <Beth.C.Sutherland@Ameritech.com>
London, ON Canada - Monday, January 22, 2001 at 08:35 PM (CST)
Hi Caedan, Kyle says "WASSUP? Do you know what that means in Canada?" Were you surprised when the firetruck came to your house? That looked like fun! I hope your cold goes away soon and you don't have to miss school. Take care, Sue and kyguy (stands for kyle)
Sue Fleischood <zusk711@aol.com www.caringbridge.com/pa/kyle>
Reading, PA USA - Monday, January 22, 2001 at 08:26 PM (CST)
Great Web page Caedan! You look just like one of London's Firefighters riding in that red Fire Engine.

Take care.

Fire Chief, Dave Hodgins

E. David Hodgins, Fire Chiefs <dhodgins@city.london.on.ca>
- Monday, January 22, 2001 at 03:22 PM (CST)
Hello Caedan and Family, Great to see your smiling faces on the website. My ALL girl, Rosie, is fighting the good fight just like you Caedan! Stay strong and positive. We are so proud of you!
Amy Rumberger & Rosie <TimRumb@aol.com>
Alameda, CA USA - Monday, January 22, 2001 at 10:14 AM (CST)
I really liked the picture of you and your sister! I'm looking forward to seeing you back at school soon.
Jenna Oxland <pbox1@hotmail.com>
London, Ont Canada - Friday, January 19, 2001 at 05:14 PM (CST)
What a wonderful idea and a super job on the web page Maryla!
Caedan, lucky for all of us that your mom is a much better web page creator than she is at ethic submissions or coffee covered grants.
I wish you all strength and love. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Hugs and Kisses,
Nancy

Nancy Murray-Parsons <Nancy.MurrayParsons@lhsc.on.ca>
London , ON Canada - Friday, January 19, 2001 at 11:31 AM (CST)
Hi Caedan, Maryla, Scott and Cali. What a great web page, I really liked it and will keep checking it. Lots of love and hugs to you all.
Sharon xo <but7@execulink.com>
Stratford, Ca - Thursday, January 18, 2001 at 09:47 PM (CST)
Hi Caedan. We really like your website. Hope to see you soon. Your Uncle Pruitt and I want to take you out to get a tattoo. Better not tell your mom about it though.
Uncle Mike and Aunt Carol <theblues@sprint.ca>
London, ON Canada - Thursday, January 18, 2001 at 05:55 AM (CST)
Jenna and I are looking at Caedan's web page great idea.

caron firsht <firsht@netcom.ca.>
- Sunday, January 14, 2001 at 07:37 PM (CST)
Hi Maryla and Caedan,
We are also part of the ALL-Kids group. Just wanted to send hugs and sunshine from the deep South!! We are thinking of you and praying for you!

Love,
Sherry, Mom to Kate DX ALL 10\5\00

Sherry <sherrycollings@excite.com>
Cumming, GA USA - Sunday, January 14, 2001 at 08:10 AM (CST)
Maryla,

What a wonderfully supportive network of friends and family you have, your guest book is filed with love!

Just wanted to say hi and let you know Im thinking about you guys, withing you all the best and good health for all.

I have to add.....your name is the best!




Elaine, Jamie's Mom.
Nepean, Ontario Canada - Friday, January 12, 2001 at 09:27 PM (CST)
Thank you for the info on Caedan. We wish you the very best. We also are at CHWO, for Bethany, diagnosed with ALL Sept. 27,99.



Sandy Bradshaw <Jeff -Bradshaw@home.com>
London, Ontario, - Friday, January 12, 2001 at 07:02 PM (CST)
Hey Maryla (and Caedan and Cali and of course my brother Scott). Lots of love and best wishes. I love the web page and it is great to see all of the responses.
Give Cali and Caedan a hug for me.

John and Christie <twobrides@hotmail.com>
- Wednesday, January 10, 2001 at 09:46 PM (CST)
Hi Mar - Can't quite keep up with this technology, Andrew is here taking me through the steps. I'm thinking of you often. I'll "write" soon. Take care, lots of love, Jacqui.
Jacqui Whittington <WHITTI. FAMILY@virgin.net>
England - Wednesday, January 10, 2001 at 01:08 PM (CST)
Wonderful webpage Maryla!
I think of you and your family often and am sending happy thoughts your way. I look forward to visiting your site regularily!

Wendy Vlasic <wvlasic@julian.uwo.ca>
London, ON Canada - Tuesday, January 09, 2001 at 05:14 PM (CST)
Am I impressed with this electronic age! It wasn't too many years ago that Maryla didn't know anything about computers!
Glad to hear everything is well with all the Gallaghers.
Here's big hugs for Caeden ((((((Caeden))))))) and Cali ((((((Cali))))))

Linda Richmond <darichmond@sympatico.ca>
London, Ont N6J 4C7, - Monday, January 08, 2001 at 06:47 PM (CST)
What a great idea Maryla having this website. You did a wonderful job. I am sorry I didn't get back to you since your last E-mail before the holidays...I hope your holidays went well. I wish all the best for your family and especially Caedan for the new year ahead. I miss your smiling face around here.
Janice

Janice Kucy & (Alexis...ruff, ruff) <kucyj@lhsc.on.ca>
London, Ont Canada - Monday, January 08, 2001 at 07:15 AM (CST)
Thinking of all of you and wishing the best.
The Drouillards <gman@jet2.net>
- Saturday, January 06, 2001 at 09:15 AM (CST)


- Thursday, January 04, 2001 at 02:56 PM (CST)
Good to hear from you! This is a wonderful idea! Glad to hear you enjoyed a good holiday season. Wishing you and Scott, Caedan and Cali all the best for 2001. Love, Mary
mary <robertsm@lhsc.on.ca>
London, Canada - Thursday, January 04, 2001 at 09:57 AM (CST)
Hello to the Gallagher family!! Wonderful web page, Mar! Your talents are truly endless. Thanks for keeping us updated. Hope Santa brought Caedan and Cali every thing they wished for this holiday season. Good Health was on all of our wish lists for Caedan. Sending lots of love your way. Take good care. Bye for now.
John and Sandy Bolton (Stiers) <bolton@wincom.net>
Amherstburg, ON Canada - Thursday, January 04, 2001 at 07:05 AM (CST)
I am so impressed. Maryla mastering the web. This sets new heights in IT challenges. All the best. Our prayers are with you. Sending good vibes from Halifax.
Jim Mohr "Alias Gods Gift to the East Coast" <MOTJWM@qe2-hsc.ns.ca>
Halifax , NS Canada - Wednesday, January 03, 2001 at 12:16 PM (CST)
Hey Maryla. Great idea to have a website! I'll be able to keep track of Caedan's progress while I'm off on mat leave. I start my leave next week. All the best to you.
Mary-Anne <mcbrian@lweb.net>
London, Ont - Wednesday, January 03, 2001 at 11:39 AM (CST)
Hello to all--Maryla, Scott, Caedan and Cali. What a beautiful picture! My external email just got up and running yesterday (Jan 2/01) so Mom sent me your web site right away. Wonderful idea--I'll be logging on often. Hope you had a great Christmas. Lots of love from Northern Ontario!
Amy & Dalas Forget <forgeta@mistweb.com>
Haileybury, On Canada - Wednesday, January 03, 2001 at 08:47 AM (CST)
Wow. Lots of love to you all.
Stacey Lane <slane@dbuff.com>
Dallas, TX - Tuesday, January 02, 2001 at 08:32 AM (CST)
Hi Mar!!! Excellent job on the website!! What a wonderful idea. Hope the New Year brings all of you everything you wish for!! Lots of love..Tina, Rob and boys. XOXOXOXOX
Tina Herzog <Tina.Herzog@sympatico.ca>
Windsor, ONT - Monday, January 01, 2001 at 12:35 PM (CST)
Happiest of Holidays to all of you, Ron and I will be thinking of you on Jan 2nd. Glad to hear you had a wonderful Christmas. Best wishes, Love always
Ron and Ursula Braun <rubraun@hotmail.com>
Niagara Falls, Ont Canada - Sunday, December 31, 2000 at 06:28 AM (CST)
Caedan and family...........we are your friends from the ALL KIDS list! Just stopping by to wish you a very Happy New Year!! Glad to hear you get to spend it together at home! We'll be thinking of you all on the 2nd too....
Take care, Bill, Stacey, Bryce and Chad

Stacey <SLW6204@aol.com>
Las Vegas, NV USA - Saturday, December 30, 2000 at 03:33 PM (CST)
May I suggest pictures of Back Hoe's for the photo album.
Hi Caedan.
Great idea Maryla.

Marty Gallagher <marty@summamanagement.com>
Calgary, Canada - Friday, December 29, 2000 at 12:32 PM (CST)
Maryla, Scott, Caedan and Cali! This is such a great idea. Lots of love and all the best for a Happy New Year.
Annie <annie.bowers@home.com>
Victoria, BC Canada - Thursday, December 28, 2000 at 09:41 PM (CST)
Thanks for taking all the time to keep us updated on Caedan's progress. It's great to hear that things are going so well. Lots of love,

Rita and Greg

Rita, Greg, Austin and Aidan Haines <Haines88@home.com>
Scarborough, On Can - Thursday, December 28, 2000 at 08:27 PM (CST)
Hello and Happy Holidays to you and yours; friends and family.
Laura, Kevin, Leanne, and Amelia <KFarmer@PACIFICCOAST.Net>
Victoria, B.C. Canada - Thursday, December 28, 2000 at 04:35 PM (CST)
We are IMPRESSED! What a great idea this web page is -- we'll check back often. DJ says hi to all you guys!
Love Karen Mc.

Karen M. <hbyc7@home.com>
Waterloo, ON Canada - Thursday, December 28, 2000 at 01:32 PM (CST)
Hey Mar- Loved your web page - it looks fabulous! Thanks for keeping us linked to Caedan's progress. Love and best wishes for a peaceful 2001. Sue, Dave, Carter and Sam xo
Susan Gray <grays@claven.fanshawec.on.ca>
London, ON Canada - Thursday, December 28, 2000 at 08:03 AM (CST)
You did a terrific job on this webpage! We are very excited about it on this end! Huge hugs and kisses to Caedan and Cali ( and their wonderful parents)! Enjoy the rest of your holidays. We love you guys! Dina, Matt, Patrick and Stephen Kenkel
Dina Kenkel <erabankers@aol.com>
West Bloomfield, Mi U.S.A - Wednesday, December 27, 2000 at 09:10 PM (CST)
website looks great. get better soon.
matt and dina kenkel <erabankers@aol.com>
- Wednesday, December 27, 2000 at 09:04 PM (CST)
With stuff like this, you guys and Caeden are in for a good year! Congrats, eh?
Rick Rice <rrice@pacificcoast.net>
Victoria, BC Canada, eh? - Wednesday, December 27, 2000 at 08:57 PM (CST)
Great stuff - I too am jealous
Marguerite <jimandmarg@hay,net>
- Wednesday, December 27, 2000 at 02:34 PM (CST)
Great looking Web Page - I'm jealous - I don't think I even know where to start such a thing, but what a great idea!!! So glad to hear you have all had a wonderful Christmas, as we did at this end. We will look for updates in the future and all the best to you, Scott, Caedan, and Cali for the New Year (we have got to try to see you sometime during it!!!)
Jim, Gloria & Jimmy <jghamilton@look.ca>
Richmond Hill, Ontario Canada - Wednesday, December 27, 2000 at 10:27 AM (CST)
Glad to hear you're having happy holidays! Adrian says hello from Australia. Lots of love, Nigel and Janet
Janet, Nigel, Adrian <hadayt@yorku.ca>
Toronto, ON Canada - Wednesday, December 27, 2000 at 10:26 AM (CST)
Great to hear the news. I've been thinking about you guys over the holidays. Mar, if you get a chance this week, give us a call. Big kisses to Cali and a high five to Caeden. Hope Scott is well too. All our best, the Wainwrights.
Lore Wainwright <lore.wainwright@bell.ca>
London , On Can - Wednesday, December 27, 2000 at 10:00 AM (CST)
Hey Mar you truly are a "cyber Mom" now, great job on the page! Merry Christmas, we are sending you all of our best wishes for a New Year filled with love and happiness!
Gerard, Kellie, Mallorie & Elise <gman@jet2.net>
LaSalle, Canada - Wednesday, December 27, 2000 at 08:38 AM (CST)
I hope the holidays fill you with some great memories for the new year and beyond!

Happy Holidays!

P.S. Great job on the web page!

Todd & Dave <tklingbyle@home.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Wednesday, December 27, 2000 at 05:41 AM (CST)
Happy Holidays Cadaen!

Hope you and your family enjoyed a very merry Christmas
xo

Troy, Marley, Ethan and Caleb
- Wednesday, December 27, 2000 at 12:42 AM (CST)

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