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Sunday, March 26, 2006 10:22 AM CST
I hope everyone have hasn't been getting hold on me..I have had has some idea new.I had a MRI on my head and Friday and they find some buggy.
I can't remember to much.
Blessing,
Granny Bonnie
Saturday, January 14, 2006 10:08 AM CST
I haven't been updating because of my chemo treatments.I had my last one Jan 3 rd number #8.Along with those I had the shingles and the croup...so those set backs have really made me weak and unable to do much.
Our family had a nice Christmas and hope 2006 brings us a good year.
In five months our James would have been 20 years old.We miss him more today than yesterday.Love you James!!
Blessings to all,
Granny Bonnie
Tuesday, December 13, 2005 6:30 PM CST Sorry I haven't updated James' website but have been sick from my chemo treatments.I had my 7th CHOP+Rituxan yesterday.My Oncologist tells me if I don't gain some weight before my last treatment in Jan he won't let me take the last one.So I will be working on putting some weight back on over the holidays!I am down to 100lbs.
Monday, October 10, 2005 0:39 AM CDT Our "Light the Night" walk went good this year.We collected $1,238.30 and our banner "Jamie's Team" won for best family and friends!We were down $809. from last year but we thank everyone that donated.
Sunday, June 5, 2005 1:00 AM CDT Today my sweet,sweet grandson would have been 19 and today he would have graduated from High School. So instead of going to his graduation tonight we will be going to the cemetery today with 19 balloons and then back to Rob and Kim's for cake and ice cream.Kim always bakes James' favorite cake (German chocolate).
Wednesday, May 4, 2005 2:32 AM CDT We are starting "early" this year so we can make our goal of $3,000. Our team collected $2,047. last year.
Wednesday, May 4, 2005 2:32 AM CDT We are starting "early" this year so we can make our goal of $3,000. Our team collected $2,047. last year. Monday, March 21, 2005 9:25 AM CST Bryan Bowman
Thursday, February 24, 2005 0:01 AM CST It's been a while since I have updated but just loved James' brother Bryan's essay on Kid's in Kamp.
Thursday, February 24, 2005 0:01 AM CST It's been a while since I have updated but just loved James' brother Bryan's essay on Kid's in Kamp. Thursday, December 16, 2004 11:19 AM CST Most of you probably don't know what Kids In Kamp is. Well, Kids In Kamp is an organization who sets up activities for kids with life threatening cancer. They try to make their live much easier. I was able to go to the Kids In Kamp Christmas party. This organization is near South Hamilton road at the Eastland Career Center. I volunteered at the Kids In Kamp Christmas party. It is when all the kids with life threatening cancer can go play games, eat food, receive gifts, and buy gifts for their loved ones. Though I luckily do not have a life threatening cancer, I got to do some of these things because my brother had life threatening cancer.
Wednesday, February 23, 2005 10:50 PM CST It's been a while since I have updated but just loved James' brother Bryan's essay on Kid's in Kamp. Thursday, December 16, 2004 11:19 AM CST Most of you probably don't know what Kids In Kamp is. Well, Kids In Kamp is an organization who sets up activities for kids with life threatening cancer. They try to make their live much easier. I was able to go to the Kids In Kamp Christmas party. This organization is near South Hamilton road at the Eastland Career Center. I volunteered at the Kids In Kamp Christmas party. It is when all the kids with life threatening cancer can go play games, eat food, receive gifts, and buy gifts for their loved ones. Though I luckily do not have a life threatening cancer, I got to do some of these things because my brother had life threatening cancer.
Saturday, November 27, 2004 11:42 AM CST We are soon approaching the 4th anniversary of James' passing.It still seems fresh like it was just yesterday.
Monday, October 4, 2004 3:32 PM CDT Hello everyone,
Friday September 10, 2004 11:32 PM CDT Hello everyone,
Monday, July 12, 2004 10:58 PM CDT Hello everyone, Thursday, July 8, 2004 10:36 PM CDT I have some pictures I scanned to put on James' site but for some reason they won't unload?
Saturday, June 5, 2004 8:56 AM CDT Our dear sweet Angel we will be celebrating your 18th birthday today.
Friday, June 4, 2004 9:43 AM CDT Tomorrow is your 18th B-day ....instead of going to graduation we will be going to your resting site with the balloons. Wednesday, May 19, 2004 11:35 AM CDT The 19th of every month means another month to mark that you been gone.
Thursday, April 22, 2004 9:35 AM CDT Hello everyone, Friday, April 9, 2004 11:38 PM CDT This is our fourth Easter holiday without you James. Wednesday, March 31, 2004 10:38 PM CST Hello everyone,
Thursday, February 12, 2004 5:05 PM CST It seems I don't update James' webpage much,it's because I have been having health problems.
Sunday, December 28, 2003 7:46 PM CST Getting ready here soon to bring in another year.
Tuesday, December 2, 2003 11:06 PM CST This is a rough time of the year for our family.
Friday, November 14, 2003 5:11 PM CST Another child lost his young life to cancer today.
Thursday, October 30, 2003 7:57 PM CST James loved Halloween, James loved all the holidays in fact.
Wednesday, September 24, 2003 9:17 PM CDT The "Light the Walk" will be held October 4th this year.
Wednesday, August 20, 2003 7:56 PM CDT Today is yet another sad day for our family. James' grandfather Heyman passed a few hours ago.
Thursday, June 5, 2003 10:50 AM CDT Today our sweet, sweet James would have been celebrating his 17th birthday.I will never understand why he was taken from us like so many other children,I guess one day when I join him maybe I will get the answer.
Tuesday, April 15, 2003 6:41 PM CDT It's been a while since I have updated James' page.
Tuesday, April 15, 2003 6:41 PM CDT It's been a while since I have updated James' page. Thursday, February 6, 2003 1:22 AM CST The James Bowman Memorial Open Wrestling Tournament this past Sunday was "Great" I wore my t-shirt proudly.What a great turn out and all the support from the community!
Thursday, February 6, 2003 0:48 AM CST The James Bowman Memorial Open Wrestling Tournment this past Sunday was "Great" I wore my t-shirt proudly.What a great turn out and all the support from the community! Wednesday, January 29, 2003 at 10:53 PM (CST) The kick off for Special Wish was "Great" today at Perry Middle School!
Tuesday, January 21, 2003 at 10:22 PM (CST) January 28th and 29th is the big kick off for Special Wish.
Sunday, January 19, 2003 at 12:02 AM (CST) Today marks 25 months since our "Bub" left.
Saturday, October 5th, 2002 at 12:02 AM (CDT) JAMES BOWMAN'S TEAM 2002
Friday, September 20, 2002 at 01:30 AM (CDT) Join "James' Team" October 5th for the 2002 "Light the Night" for the cure.
Thursday, May 02, 2002 at 10:28 AM (CDT) The second annual James Bowman Fun Run /Walk for the Cure.
Monday, March 11, 2002 at 10:48 AM (CST) The Second Annual James Bowman Fun Run/Walk For The Cure will kick off this year on April 28th.
Monday, Febuary 4, 2002 at 12:07 PM (CST) Upcoming Event!
Sunday ,December 16th 2001 4:30 AM (CST) James always loved the Holidays...he not only thought of the things he wanted on his list...he was always thinking of others too.
Saturday, September 01, 2001 at 12:57 AM (CDT) "James's Team" Light the Night 2001, won for the most money collected in his memory....we are also proud to announce James's Banner took first place this year ( best decorated)by his Aunt Kelly.I will be putting a picture of it in his photo album soon.
Saturday, September 01, 2001 at 12:56 AM (CDT) James Friday, August 31, 2001 at 11:22 PM (CDT) James became our Angel on December 19, 2000 at 7:43 am.
Tuesday, December 19, 2000 at 11:41 AM (CST) Our Brave Warrior lost his fight and became an Angel today.
Sunday December 10, 2000 at 01:00PM (CST) James came home Monday December 4th and Aunt Linda flew back to Dallas on the same day.
November 25th 2000 James came home for Thanksgiving and really enjoyed his dinner and the day.His uncle Chad,aunt Pat, cousins Stacy and Kyle came down from Cleveland to see him.He is back in room 526 at Children's if anyone would like to send him a card to cheer him up!The address is 700 Children's Drive,Columbus,Ohio 43205.
Tuesday, September 19, 2000 at 06:20 PM (CDT) Jamie will be having a BMA and LP done in the morning.We are calling on everyone again to send prayers out his way! Tuesday, September 19, 2000 at 06:04 PM (CDT) Jamie will be having a BMA and LP done in the morning.We are calling on everyone to send prayers out his way! Tuesday, September 12, 2000 at 09:57 AM (CDT) I would like to thank Jeff Graves for taking the time he spent putting the pictures on Jamie's web page. "Thank You Jeff!"
Tuesday, September 12, 2000 at 12:51 AM (CDT) Jamie is back home from a three day stay at Children's Hospital. His treatment went well and his counts are good!
Friday, September 08, 2000 at 04:12 PM (CDT) Friday, September 08, 2000 at 03:49 PM (CDT)
Friday, September 08, 2000 at 04:12 PM (CDT) Friday, September 08, 2000 at 03:49 PM (CDT) Friday, September 08, 2000 at 04:28 AM (CDT) This page has just been created. Please check back for additional updates.
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In just 6 short days it will mark 5 years since James left us and the pain never leaves nor do you ever forget that very day he took his last breath.You wonder "why" him and so many other children had to endure this and then lose their lives...but you never question God as to "why"!I guess HE has a plan for us all.I have lived with NHL for 3 years and 8 months.James lived only 2 years and 4 days with ALL.Questions will go unanswered I guess until we meet our maker.We miss James more today than yesterday and love him with all out hearts!!!!
Please say I prayer for the family of my aunt Ruth that passed December 9th.Sadly I didn't get to attend her funeral yesterday because I had chemo and she lived out of town.She was one of the sweetest women you would ever want to have known.I miss her and love her so very much.
Granny Bonnie
I will post pictures later as I have been pretty much under the weather with chemo treatments and a bad case of shingles.
Blessings to all,
Grandma Bonnie
I am so sad right now writing this thinking of all the kids graduating and going on to college and we will never see our Angel do any of those things.
Please keep us in your prayers we are having a hard time right now.Mainly Rob and Kim (James' parents)
Blessings,
Grandma Bonnie
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Wednesday, May 4, 2005 2:32 AM CDT
We are starting "early" this year so we can make our goal of $3,000. Our team collected $2,047. last year.
Light the Night Walk / Help find a cure by giving!!
Join "Jamie's Team" 2005! Help find a cure for Leukemia & Lymphoma by Giving.Any and all donations are welcome.A donation of $25. or more you will receive an Angel Bear and a donation of $10.or more you will receive a candle "James Jammin Grape": A wonderful grape smell....sweet, juicy, and delicious! Reminds me of my favorite grape Kool-Aid! Color: Dark Purple-
The Angel Bears are 8" in length and are beanie type with a t-shirt commemorating "Jamie's Team 2005".
"Jamie's Team" last year collected $2,047.We want to beat that figure this year but we need your help again...you can make it possible by giving.
We have 55 Angel Bears and 22 candles left, they are selling fast!
Contact me with your order via e-mail or call 793-9715. My mailing address is 7225 Flat Rock Drive Columbus, Ohio 43235.We will deliver local but shipping charges are extra.
If you are not interested in the Bears or Candles you can donate online at www.active.com/donate/ltnColumbu/ltnBStephe2
Thank you for your support in the past and we hope you will join "Jamie's Team" again this year marking our 6th year with the Light the Night Walk for the Cure.
Love & Blessings to all,
Bonnie
Donators: 2005
Michael Dean Baker & family$100.4 bears
Kelly Bowman(Synergy Promotions)$141.
Mike Stimmel $40.1 bear
Mike Althoff $100.
Dave Blake $25.
Jane Baker $5.
Kay Burke $101.
Freda Jenkins $25. 1 bear
Rob Bowman $20. 2 candles
Fran Jo Hall $10. 1 candle
Gretchen Mallory $100.
William Mitchell $25.
Light the Night Walk / Help find a cure by giving!!
Join "Jamie's Team" 2005! Help find a cure for Leukemia & Lymphoma by Giving.Any and all donations are welcome.A donation of $25. or more you will receive an Angel Bear and a donation of $10.or more you will receive a candle "James Jammin Grape": A wonderful grape smell....sweet, juicy, and delicious! Reminds me of my favorite grape Kool-Aid! Color: Dark Purple-
The Angel Bears are 8" in length and are beanie type with a t-shirt commemorating "Jamie's Team 2005".
"Jamie's Team" last year collected $2,047.We want to beat that figure this year but we need your help again...you can make it possible by giving.
We have 55 Angel Bears and 22 candles left, they are selling fast!
Contact me with your order via e-mail or call 793-9715. My mailing address is 7225 Flat Rock Drive Columbus, Ohio 43235.We will deliver local but shipping charges are extra.
If you are not interested in the Bears or Candles you can donate online at www.active.com/donate/ltnColumbu/ltnBStephe2
Thank you for your support in the past and we hope you will join "Jamie's Team" again this year marking our 6th year with the Light the Night Walk for the Cure.
Love & Blessings to all,
Bonnie
Donators: 2005
Michael Dean Baker & family$100.4 bears
Kelly Bowman(Synergy Promotions)$141.
Mike Stimmel $40.1 bear
Mike Althoff $100.
Dave Blake $25.
Jane Baker $5.
Kay Burke $101.
Freda Jenkins $25. 1 bear
Rob Bowman $20. 2 candles
Fran Jo Hall $10. 1 candle
Gretchen Mallory $100.
William Mitchell $25.
Light the Night Walk / Help find a cure by giving!!
Join "Jamie's Team" 2005! Help find a cure for Leukemia & Lymphoma by Giving.Any and all donations are welcome.A donation of $25. or more you will receive an Angel Bear and a donation of $10.or more you will receive a candle "James Jammin Grape": A wonderful grape smell....sweet, juicy, and delicious! Reminds me of my favorite grape Kool-Aid! Color: Dark Purple-
The Angel Bears are 8" in length and are beanie type with a t-shirt commemorating "Jamie's Team 2005".
"Jamie's Team" last year collected $2,047.We want to beat that figure this year but we need your help again...you can make it possible by giving.
We have 55 Angel Bears and 23 candles left, they are selling fast!
Contact me with your order via e-mail or call 793-9715. My mailing address is 7225 Flat Rock Drive Columbus, Ohio 43235.We will deliver local but shipping charges are extra.
If you are not interested in the Bears or Candles you can donate online at www.active.com/donate/ltnColumbu/ltnBStephe2
Thank you for your support in the past and we hope you will join "Jamie's Team" again this year marking our 6th year with the Light the Night Walk for the Cure.
Love & Blessings to all,
Bonnie
Donators:2005
Michael Dean Baker and family $100.
Kelly Bowman(Synergy Promotions)$141.
Mike Stimmel $40.
03/19/05
Never Shall I Forget
Never shall I forget the day my brother died
Never shall I forget though I was only nine
Never shall I forget him being very sick for the last week
Never shall I forget my grandma waking me up
Never shall I forget my dad rushing to tell me the news
Never shall I forget the person who I looked up to
Never shall I forget seeing him not moving
Never shall I forget him in pain no more
Never shall I forget seeing my whole family crying
Never shall I forget those last days with him
Never shall I forget my brother
James is missed more each passing day and there isn't a day that goes by that he isn't thought of with the love in our hearts for him.
Bryan is now 14 and plays football and wrestling (just like his brother James)He is doing good in school and is a fine young man that we are all proud of.
Kaily is 12 and is on a basketball team and doing great in school also.She is such a sweetheart and we are proud of her as well.
The picture of James at the very top of the page, was when his dad took him to a parking lot late one night to let him drive the truck.I think it was around September or November 2000.Oh! that smile on his face is just priceless.It's really hard when all you have is memories.
Blessings,
Grandma Bonnie
James is missed more each passing day and there isn't a day that goes by that he isn't thought of with the love in our hearts for him.
Bryan is now 14 and plays football and wrestling (just like his brother James)He is doing good in school and is a fine young man that we are all proud of.
Kaily is 12 and is on a basketball team and doing great in school also.She is such a sweetheart and we are proud of her as well.
The picture of James at the very top of the page, was when his dad took him to a parking lot late one night to let him drive the truck.I think it was around September or November 2000.Oh! that smile on his face is just priceless.It's really hard when all you have is memories.
Blessings,
Grandma Bonnie
I helped out with games. I helped with four games total. The first game I helped with was the "football game". I had a few number of kids come to that so I switched to the "knock'em down" game. I had a few more come to that. I wanted to have more fun so then I switched to the "cue ball". I had decided to switch to the "steering game", that was the last game I helped with. The way I helped was to help explain to the kids how to play the game. There were many different activities going on at one time and Kids in Kamp needed a lot of volunteers to help everywhere.
Volunteering at the Kids in Kamp Christmas Party made me feel like I was doing something good. It made me feel like I grew up just a little bit. I was a little sad because I felt bad about what the kids have to go through, but I felt good because I knew I was making them happier. I know that because it always made my family happy to go to the Christmas Party.
I learned to help others more because it makes me feel better. I feel like I have learned a lot from my brother and other kids with cancer. I learned to cherish life and the things and people in your life. I had to learn the hard way when my brother died of leukemia. Character traits I had to use were kindness. I also had to be caring.
Service learning is essential in a chills life. It makes you grow up a little.It gives you new character traits. My project helped Kids in Kamp staff their annual Christmas Party. The people I served were kids with cancer. The person that wants to keep volunteering for Kids in Kamp is me!
Bryan Michael Bowman
James is missed more each passing day and there isn't a day that goes by that he isn't thought of with the love in our hearts for him.
Bryan is now 14 and plays football and wrestling (just like his brother James)He is doing good in school and is a fine young man that we are all proud of.
Kaily is 12 and is on a basketball team and doing great in school also.She is such a sweetheart and we are proud of her as well.
The picture of James at the very top of the page, was when his dad took him to a parking lot late one night to let him drive the truck.I think it was around September or November 2000.Oh! that smile on his face is just priceless.It's really hard when all you have is memories.
Blessings,
Grandma Bonnie
I helped out with games. I helped with four games total. The first game I helped with was the "football game". I had a few number of kids come to that so I switched to the "knock'em down" game. I had a few more come to that. I wanted to have more fun so then I switched to the "cue ball". I had decided to switch to the "steering game", that was the last game I helped with. The way I helped was to help explain to the kids how to play the game. There were many different activities going on at one time and Kids in Kamp needed a lot of volunteers to help everywhere.
Volunteering at the Kids in Kamp Christmas Party made me feel like I was doing something good. It made me feel like I grew up just a little bit. I was a little sad because I felt bad about what the kids have to go through, but I felt good because I knew I was making them happier. I know that because it always made my family happy to go to the Christmas Party.
I learned to help others more because it makes me feel better. I feel like I have learned a lot from my brother and other kids with cancer. I learned to cherish life and the things and people in your life. I had to learn the hard way when my brother died of leukemia. Character traits I had to use were kindness. I also had to be caring.
Service learning is essential in a chills life. It makes you grow up a little.It gives you new character traits. My project helped Kids in Kamp staff their annual Christmas Party. The people I served were kids with cancer. The person that wants to keep volunteering for Kids in Kamp is me!
Bryan Michael Bowman
It's just the most hardest time of the year for us by far.
We love and miss him soooo very much!!!!
We wish everyone happy holidays.
Blessings,
Grandma Bonnie
Grandmother raises funds as part of 'Jamie's Team'
By Scott Takac
Worthington News Reporter
In September 2000, James Bowman walked 3 miles to raise money to fight leukemia while stricken with the disease.
Three months later, at 14 and a half, he succumbed to cancer but his grandmother continues the fight with hopes that someday deaths like Jamie’s will be prevented.
Bonnie Stephens participated Saturday with 12 other members of “Jamie’s Team” in the Leukemia & Lymphoma Society’s Light the Night Walk.
Stephens said the team, with about 80 other teams, raised more than $300,000 in the evening walk to raise awareness of blood cancers and funds for cures.
“It was great,” Stephens said of her fifth consecutive year. “We raised more money this year than we did last.”
The event took place at Fred Beekman Park on the Ohio State University campus, where illuminated red and white balloons celebrated and commemorated lives touched by cancer.
“The red ones symbolize fighting cancer and the white ones symbolize surviving cancer,” Stephens said.
While Stephens said Jamie’s memory was enough reason for her to help light the night, her diagnosis with cancer a year and a half after his death could have been another.
Stephens, 61, has non-Hodgkins lymphoma, a type of cancer that is treatable but cannot be cured. She said without Jamie’s inspiration, fighting the disease might have been unbearable.
“He actually cleared the path for me because I can face anything,” she said. “It’s because of him that he’s given me the courage and strength. I would have fallen apart.”
That courage and strength, Stephens said, came from watching her grandson’s compassion and love shine through what could have easily broken his spirit.
“It’s amazing what this child endured in the two years of numerous bone marrow biopsies, numerous spinals, the treatments, the chemo,” she said, adding that Jamie became wise beyond his years while facing the disease.
“It’s amazing how they mature so incredibly fast – not just him; other children I witnessed it,” she said. “... For him to pray and never ask God to take his pain.”
Stephens said Jamie, who attended Kilbourne Middle School, prayed instead for the other children with cancer at Children’s Hospital and celebrated his last Halloween with them.
“He decorated every one of those little kids’ windows and gave out candy,” she said.
Stephens said that compassion was typical of Jamie.
“Oh my gosh, he was ... he loved life,” she said. “This child was so giving and caring.”
Thank you, Scott
Our walk for the cure was great! The weather was on our side and to see all the people walking with red and white balloons lite up was a beautiful site."Jamie's Team" collected $2,047. so far.Team walkers were: Rob, Kim,Bryan and Kaily Bowman (James' parents and siblings.)James' aunt Kelly Bowman and his cousin Isabella.Michael,Rudi, Christina and Mikie Baker(James' uncle,aunt and cousins)
Dr. Kristine Hollern (my PCP)her husband Andy and their daughters Kate and Claire.Cheryl Williams (Kim's long time friend) and a friend to our family.
Grandmother raises funds as part of 'Jamie's Team'
By Scott Takac
Worthington News Reporter
In September 2000, James Bowman walked 3 miles to raise money to fight leukemia while stricken with the disease.
Three months later, at 14 and a half, he succumbed to cancer but his grandmother continues the fight with hopes that someday deaths like Jamie’s will be prevented.
Bonnie Stephens participated Saturday with 12 other members of “Jamie’s Team” in the Leukemia & Lymphoma Society’s Light the Night Walk.
Stephens said the team, with about 80 other teams, raised more than $300,000 in the evening walk to raise awareness of blood cancers and funds for cures.
“It was great,” Stephens said of her fifth consecutive year. “We raised more money this year than we did last.”
The event took place at Fred Beekman Park on the Ohio State University campus, where illuminated red and white balloons celebrated and commemorated lives touched by cancer.
“The red ones symbolize fighting cancer and the white ones symbolize surviving cancer,” Stephens said.
While Stephens said Jamie’s memory was enough reason for her to help light the night, her diagnosis with cancer a year and a half after his death could have been another.
Stephens, 61, has non-Hodgkins lymphoma, a type of cancer that is treatable but cannot be cured. She said without Jamie’s inspiration, fighting the disease might have been unbearable.
“He actually cleared the path for me because I can face anything,” she said. “It’s because of him that he’s given me the courage and strength. I would have fallen apart.”
That courage and strength, Stephens said, came from watching her grandson’s compassion and love shine through what could have easily broken his spirit.
“It’s amazing what this child endured in the two years of numerous bone marrow biopsies, numerous spinals, the treatments, the chemo,” she said, adding that Jamie became wise beyond his years while facing the disease.
“It’s amazing how they mature so incredibly fast – not just him; other children I witnessed it,” she said. “... For him to pray and never ask God to take his pain.”
Stephens said Jamie, who attended Kilbourne Middle School, prayed instead for the other children with cancer at Children’s Hospital and celebrated his last Halloween with them.
“He decorated every one of those little kids’ windows and gave out candy,” she said.
Stephens said that compassion was typical of Jamie.
“Oh my gosh, he was ... he loved life,” she said. “This child was so giving and caring.”
Thank you, Scott
God bless,
Grandma Bonnie
PS.If you haven't made a donation as yet and want to, make your checks out to The Leukemia & Lymphoma Society and mail them to Bonnie Stephens 7225 Flat Rock Drive Columbus, Ohio 43235.Or you can go online to donate www.active.com/donate/ltnColumb/ltnBStephe
I would like to give thanks to:
Kaily Bowman (Co - Team captain)
Bryan Bowman & Worthington Kilbourne Middle School staff
Polly Heyman (James,Bryan & Kaily's grandma)
Kindra France
Michael D. Baker Sr.
Rudi Baker
Christina Baker
Mikie Baker
Isabella Whitt
Pam Wellman
Bill Mitchell
Merri Smith
Ed Butler
Jan Frambes
Steve Kelley (State Farm Insurance)
Dr. Kristine Hollern (Co- Team Captain)
Family Medicine North (staff)
Helen Adkins
Gordon Whitt
Bob Rife
Kay Burke
Mike Althoff
Bill Kotys
Donna Smith
Kim Bowman (Jamie's mom)
Teachers & staff at Evening Street school
Kim's Co- workers,the owners and patrons at Villia Nova
Mike Stimmel
Cheryl Williams
Phyllis Sizemore
Dave Blake
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Essay by Nick Kovach /About Rob Bowman (James'father)
THE LESSONS OF LIVING
I met Rob Bowman through sports, but “Coach” taught me about life: respect, unity, loss, and unconditional love.
At ten I played youth football with a team called the Giants. We were terrible. We had one good game, ALMOST beating the Cowboys. Afterward, the Cowboys’ coach walked away. The assistant coach however, came to our sideline and shook our hands. He was a huge bear, who might be scary…but he was so warm and positive that he made us feel great. He showed us respect.
Later Coach said he wanted to coach us because he wanted players with heart. So he and his son, James joined the team.. That fall, we became Team Giants. We weren’t little guys who played badly. We imagined we WERE giants. Every practice we chanted, “Who are we GIANTS, what are we LARGE” whether Good player or bad, Coach treated us equally, explaining that’s what a team is. He made sure we understood how the team would work together. One by one we joined the “ Angry Dogs”, those that gave 100or the team and by the end we all earned our hats. We won games, and that was great. But he taught us to respect the other team. He always said, “ After you put the guy in front of you on his back, give him a hand after the whistle blows.” We didn’t win the championship, but it didn’t matter. What mattered was working together.
I followed Coach into wrestling, but broke my arm at practice. Two days later James called and said he probably broke his collarbone –there was a lump over the bone. We joked about being sidelined together. But his collarbone wasn’t broken. The lump was a lymph node. He had leukemia.
We were still Team Giants. When James lost his hair, we all got our heads shaved to match. When James was depressed, we had parties, acted silly and took pictures that made him smile on bad days. And Coach was there helping and encouraging us on the way showing his strength.
Two years into treatment, James suddenly got worse, it became apparent he wouldn’t beat the cancer. Despite his grief, Coach was worried about how those of us that knew Jamie would take the news.. After James’ death, Coach told us we were all his sons, and he meant it.
Last fall, Team Giants gathered to watch Rob coach his last youth league game and finally win the championship. We’re now as tall and big as Coach. He introduced us to this year’s team and told what we’re doing now. Some of us play sports, but not everyone. Jim is in theater. I’m a musician. Coach talked about each of us with equal love and respect. He made it clear that all of his former players are one big family.
This fall, Coach will help our high school football program. Many Giants players are returning, to play for him again. I’ll focus on my music instead. Some coaches would be unhappy about this, but not Rob. He says, “We’ll still be on the sidelines together. You’ll be right behind me with that band, helping us win just as much as those boys on the field.”
I am so grateful for all that have donated to The Leukemia & Lymphoma Society in James Bowman's memory.
It means a lot to us and all the children fighting and hoping one day they will find a cure.
God bless,
Grandma Bonnie
PS.If you haven't made a donation as yet and want to, make your checks out to The Leukemia & Lymphoma Society and mail them to Bonnie Stephens 7225 Flat Rock Drive Columbus, Ohio 43235.Or you can go online to donate www.active.com/donate/ltnColumb/ltnBStephe
I would like to give thanks to:
Kaily Bowman (Co - Team captain)
Bryan Bowman & Worthington Kilbourne Middle School staff
Polly Heyman (James,Bryan & Kaily's grandma)
Kindra France
Michael D. Baker Sr.
Rudi Baker
Christina Baker
Mikie Baker
Isabella Whitt
Pam Wellman
Bill Mitchell
Merri Smith
Ed Butler
Jan Frambes
Steve Kelley (State Farm Insurance)
Dr. Kristine Hollern (Co- Team Captain)
Family Medicine North (staff)
Helen Adkins
Gordon Whitt
Bob Rife
Kay Burke
Mike Althoff
Bill Kotys
Donna Smith
Kim Bowman (Jamie's mom)
Teachers & staff at Evening Street school
Kim's Co- workers, owners and patrons at Villia Nova
Mike Stimmel
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Essay by Nick Kovach / Rob Bowman (James'father)
THE LESSONS OF LIVING
I met Rob Bowman through sports, but “Coach” taught me about life: respect, unity, loss, and unconditional love.
At ten I played youth football with a team called the Giants. We were terrible. We had one good game, ALMOST beating the Cowboys. Afterward, the Cowboys’ coach walked away. The assistant coach however, came to our sideline and shook our hands. He was a huge bear, who might be scary…but he was so warm and positive that he made us feel great. He showed us respect.
Later Coach said he wanted to coach us because he wanted players with heart. So he and his son, James joined the team.. That fall, we became Team Giants. We weren’t little guys who played badly. We imagined we WERE giants. Every practice we chanted, “Who are we GIANTS, what are we LARGE” whether Good player or bad, Coach treated us equally, explaining that’s what a team is. He made sure we understood how the team would work together. One by one we joined the “ Angry Dogs”, those that gave 100or the team and by the end we all earned our hats. We won games, and that was great. But he taught us to respect the other team. He always said, “ After you put the guy in front of you on his back, give him a hand after the whistle blows.” We didn’t win the championship, but it didn’t matter. What mattered was working together.
I followed Coach into wrestling, but broke my arm at practice. Two days later James called and said he probably broke his collarbone –there was a lump over the bone. We joked about being sidelined together. But his collarbone wasn’t broken. The lump was a lymph node. He had leukemia.
We were still Team Giants. When James lost his hair, we all got our heads shaved to match. When James was depressed, we had parties, acted silly and took pictures that made him smile on bad days. And Coach was there helping and encouraging us on the way showing his strength.
Two years into treatment, James suddenly got worse, it became apparent he wouldn’t beat the cancer. Despite his grief, Coach was worried about how those of us that knew Jamie would take the news.. After James’ death, Coach told us we were all his sons, and he meant it.
Last fall, Team Giants gathered to watch Rob coach his last youth league game and finally win the championship. We’re now as tall and big as Coach. He introduced us to this year’s team and told what we’re doing now. Some of us play sports, but not everyone. Jim is in theater. I’m a musician. Coach talked about each of us with equal love and respect. He made it clear that all of his former players are one big family.
This fall, Coach will help our high school football program. Many Giants players are returning, to play for him again. I’ll focus on my music instead. Some coaches would be unhappy about this, but not Rob. He says, “We’ll still be on the sidelines together. You’ll be right behind me with that band, helping us win just as much as those boys on the field.”
We have started collecting donations for "Light the Night " walk for the cure.
If you would like to make a donation in James' memory send me a check made out to the Leukemia & Lymphoma Society.
My address is Bonnie Stephens 7225 Flat Rock Drive Columbus, Oho 43235.
Blessings,
Bonnie
We had a nice July 4th and of course we thought of James.
Blessings,
Granny Bonnie
We love and miss you more than anyone could imagine.
Love,
Granny Bonnie
I will never understand and never get over the loss!
Missing and loving you more with each passing day.
Blessings & love,
Granny Bonnie
Today marks 3 years and 5 months....and whom ever said it's gets better as time passes "tell them to call me!"
I love and miss you more with each passing day James.I will never understand why you were taken!
Love you,
Granny Bonnie
xoxoxoxoxoxoxo
I don't update much but try to keep up with what I can.
I do want to get some new pictures up soon that I found of James,Bryan and Kailyn.
Hope everyone had a nice Easter holiday and I want to give thanks to all the visitors and guestbook entries.
Blessings,
Granny Bonnie
Everyone is growing up around me and yet I would have never dreamed in a million years that I wouldn't get to see you grow into a man.
Honestly though you were way older than your age...and that seems to be the standard thing with the cancer.
I will never forget your endurance, courage and love for human life as long as I breath. You have taught me how to face the cancer that has invaded my body.I just hope I can be as brave as you were when my time comes to join you.
Love,
Granny Bonnie
HAPPY EASTER TO ALL!
I don't update much but there isn't a day that goes by I am not thinking of my sweet grandchild!! How if he were here with us right now he would be driving a car, going to the Prom and so many other things.
He is loved and missed so very much.
Blessings,
Grandma Bonnie
I will be getting around soon with some different pictures.
Blessings,
Grandma Bonnie
Hoping and praying 2004 will be a good year for our family.
I had a couple of strokes December 20th. Thank God I got to the hospital fast.I am very grateful.
Blessings,
Bonnie
The 19th will make three years since our James went to Heaven.We miss him more with each passing day.
We would like to wish everyone Happy Hoildays and a Happy New Year.We will keep each and everyone in our prayers and ask you to please do the same with our family.
Blessings,
Grandma Bonnie & Family
He was in James' class at school and they shared the same cabin at camp when they were in the six grade together.
Pray for our children that they find a cure soon to save these young lives.
Blessings,
Bonnie (aka granny)
The last Halloween before he passed James and his best friend Drew live about a block or two from each other and they were setting out on their porches passing out candy talking to each other on the walkie talkies.Then later Drew brought pizza down to James' they ate ,laughed,played music and had a lot of fun. I finally left to give them their space.Kim was out with Bryan & Kaily.
James you are missed tonight as aunt Kelly, Shane,Isabella,Bryan and Kaily were over here tonight trick or treating and then we had dinner. Dad came over to pick the kids up and he had dinner too.
We miss and love you soooo much it hurts!!! It's really hard for grandma to see all these other boys growing up and you are not here to join them.
Love you,
Granny
Our family will be walking in James' honor and memory.
Blessings,
Bonnie
Please keep Kim and the family in your prayers.
Blessings,
Bonnie
We miss him more today than yesterday...he was my buddy, friend and always looked out for his granny.
Sixteen months after he passed I was dx with non hodgkins lymphoma (incureable / but treatable)So needless to say the year 1998 started our nightmare and hasn't let up!
One day (have no idea when) this cancer will take my life also...I just hope I can be as strong and brave as our Angel James was through it all.
He taught me so much in his 14 and a half years...and gave me such joy and happiness too...I just wanted more.
Blessings,
Bonnie (aka granny)
Easter is almost here, so I have been taking colorful flowers over to his grave site. I bought another one to put on tomorrow...I want him to have bunches of beautiful Spring flowers.Kim, the kids and I put red roses,Easter lily and I had put a bunch of different colored daisies.
Kim put a purple windmill made of cloth and it is just beautiful along with the flowers.
We miss him more today than yesterday...he was my buddy, friend and always looked out for his granny.
Sixteen months after he passed I was dx with non hodgkins lymphoma (incureable / but treatable)So needless to say the year 1998 started our nightmare and hasn't let up!
One day (have no idea when) this cancer will take my life also...I just hope I can be as strong and brave as our Angel James was through it all.
He taught me so much in his 14 and a half years...and gave me such joy and happiness too...I just wanted more.
Bryan and Kaily are my rock now along with aunt Kelly's new baby Isabella.
Someone ask me the other day (after hearing we lost James)"how many grandchildren do you have now?" I replied "As of August 6th 2002 I have four" Meaning...James went to Heaven but he still counts and will always. He is my first born grandchild...my number 1# boy always and forever!
We are getting ready for summer and out pool will be opening the second week in May...we will swim and cookout in the back yard and the kids will have fun...etc...but James is always with us no matter what.
Thanks for stopping by and hope we didn't bore you but we love sharing our Angel James.His birthday will be coming up soon June 5th...so if anyone we would like to share a story about James, please feel free to e-mail me with it and I will put in on the front page here...rmstephens@worldnet.att.net.
I will write later about all the charities that involve James at a later date.
Blessings,
Bonnie (aka granny)
If you lose a parent, You lose your past
If you lose a spouse, You lose your present
If you lose a child, You lose your future
Easter is almost here, so I have been taking colorful flowers over to his grave site. I bought another one to put on tomorrow...I want him to have bunches of beautiful Spring flowers.Kim, the kids and I put red roses,Easter lily and I had put a bunch of different colored daisies.
Kim put a purple windmill made of cloth and it is just beautiful along with the flowers.
We miss him more today than yesterday...he was my buddy, friend and always looked out for his granny.
Sixteen months after he passed I was dx with non hodgkins lymphoma (incureable / but treatable)So needless to say the year 1998 started our nightmare and hasn't let up!
One day (have no idea when) this cancer will take my life also...I just hope I can be as strong and brave as our Angel James was through it all.
He taught me so much in his 14 and a half years...and gave me such joy and happiness too...I just wanted more.
Bryan and Kaily are my rock now along with aunt Kelly's new baby Isabella.
Someone ask me the other day (after hearing we lost James)"how many grandchildren do you have now?" I replied "As of August 6th 2002 I have four" Meaning...James went to Heaven but he still counts and will always. He is my first born grandchild...my number 1# boy always and forever!
We are getting ready for summer and out pool will be opening the second week in May...we will swim and cookout in the back yard and the kids will have fun...etc...but James is always with us no matter what.
Thanks for stopping by and hope we didn't bore you but we love sharing our Angel James.His birthday will be coming up soon June 5th...so if anyone we would like to share a story about James, please feel free to e-mail me with it and I will put in on the front page here...rmstephens@worldnet.att.net.
I will write later about all the charities that involve James at a later date.
Blessings,
Bonnie (aka granny)
It was a sad day also...missing our "Bub" but I know he was there in spirit.
Thanks to everyone that help and supported.
Blessings,
Bonnie (aka granny Bonnie)
PS.For all the local Worthington citizens, I hope you caught the front page of the News with Rob and the kids from Perry Middle school on the front page with a story about the Special Wish kick off.The article brought a few tears to my eyes.
To Jamie
December 2002
Written by Margie Fusco
I found your name today,
On papers forgotten in a pocket --
A list of your friends in a program
And then your name, apart
And yet so much a part of that evening.
You told them you would
Keep on fighting.
And you did,
Beyond the odds,
Through immeasurable pain.
You are no longer alone.
Murph and Nick are with you.
A black lab romps
At your heels, young again.
And it's always a fine day for
Riding bikes, roughhousing,
Running those radio-controlled cars.
Do you think of your old friends?
They are tall now,
Growing into life.
Standing next to your father,
He jokes that they dwarf him.
They never could --
each of them stands
in his shadow, always.
And you are with them.
You stand tall beside them,
Making their spines stiffer,
Their spirit stronger,
The courage fiercer,
Their faith deeper.
They know you are there.
They whisper your name
Whenever someone dies,
A silent prayer that you
Will welcome another face.
This is the mystery of the spirit:
How one can live in heaven
And still be so alive to us on earth.
The Bowman & Stephens Families gives thanks to Margie for such a beautiful poem,we love you Margie!
The Worst Day of My Life
By Drew Shafer
I was fifteen years old in my freshman year of high school. This event changed my life forever, and none of my family members were involved.The Bowman family was like the family I never had. Rob and Kim happily married with three children, Kaily, Bryan and James. Their grandmother was also close with the family and was often visiting when I went to their house. She usually tending to the oldest son James, who had leukemia. Though it can be cured if caught in an early stage, James did not pull through. I write of James so that others who go through similar situations may be strengthened by my words.
I was sitting in history class one cold Tuesday morning, when a pass arrived saying that I was wanted in the office. At first I thought nothing of it, but when I was told to bring my stuff with me, I knew exactly what it was. James had not been doing well the past few days and I knew he had lost his battle with leukemia. As I trudged through the snow to his house, I noticed all the cars lined up and down the icy street. All of James's friends and family were there, most of them I didn't know. When I saw James, I immediately burst into tears. He had died in the very chair I had slept in so many nights at his house. I had sat in that chair two nights before as we casually talked about music. There were so many things I wish I could have said to him, but two nights before I had no idea about his worsening condition. A few days after he passed away, it started to sink in. The impact of his death hit me like a freight train. It was hard for me to fathom what life would be like without by best friend being there.
Many people came up to me in the last few day and tried to offer condolences. They had no idea what I was going through because they themselves had never experienced it. When I think about it, I wish I could redo that last day that we talked. The last thing we talked about was a song that we both liked called "NIB". The lyrics of the song aren't exactly sentimental toward the situation, but I have something to remember him by. If only I could speak to him, there are more important things to life than music.
If I were to give advice to someone about what I have learned from this situation I would say, "Live every day as if it were your last". James taught me many things about being strong and persevering, but this really stuck out in my mind. This does not only apply to situations such as these. It also shows how something like holding a grudge can turn against you in the end. I didn't feel any sort of malice toward James, and I am lucky that there were no unresolved issues between us. If there had been, it would only had made the situation more difficult for me.
The whole point behind this essay is to help people realize that many things in life are taken for granted. The best thing now is that James is not suffering anymore. I just wish that no one else would ever have to go through what I did, but I know that cannot come true. My wounds will heal over time, but I will never forget what James taught me.
Drew
Speech for the Tree Dedication and Bell Ringing
In Memory of James Bowman
June 4th,2001
by Nick Kovach
All of us here at the school knew or at least heard about James. The majority of the community also knew him. He touched our lives in many ways, whether he was working on the family car or playing football or wrestling for the Youth Boosters.
We are touched by him still today. He had more courage and strength than all of us put together. He never gave up,though the odds came up against him. The community became touched by his story and began to help raise money for the Leukemia Society. We, as a community,have aided his family and others. Though his body lost the fight, his spirit has enabled us to help others as well.
As I've said before, we all knew James. We miss him and his smile and his laugh. We won't forget James and his everlasting impression upon us. The tree we are planting will make sure that coming generations will remember James too.
Nick
It was a sad day also...missing our "Bub" but I know he was there in spirit.
Thanks to everyone that help and supported.
Blessings,
Bonnie (aka granny Bonnie)
PS.For all the local Worthington citizens, I hope you caught the front page of the News with Rob and the kids from Perry Middle school on the front page with a story about the Special Wish kick off.The article brought a few tears to my eyes.
To Jamie
December 2002
Written by Margie Fusco
I found your name today,
On papers forgotten in a pocket --
A list of your friends in a program
And then your name, apart
And yet so much a part of that evening.
You told them you would
Keep on fighting.
And you did,
Beyond the odds,
Through immeasurable pain.
You are no longer alone.
Murph and Nick are with you.
A black lab romps
At your heels, young again.
And it's always a fine day for
Riding bikes, roughhousing,
Running those radio-controlled cars.
Do you think of your old friends?
They are tall now,
Growing into life.
Standing next to your father,
He jokes that they dwarf him.
They never could --
each of them stands
in his shadow, always.
And you are with them.
You stand tall beside them,
Making their spines stiffer,
Their spirit stronger,
The courage fiercer,
Their faith deeper.
They know you are there.
They whisper your name
Whenever someone dies,
A silent prayer that you
Will welcome another face.
This is the mystery of the spirit:
How one can live in heaven
And still be so alive to us on earth.
The Bowman & Stephens Families gives thanks to Margie for such a beautiful poem,we love you Margie!
The Worst Day of My Life
By Drew Shafer
I was fifteen years old in my freshman year of high school. This event changed my life forever, and none of my family members were involved.The Bowman family was like the family I never had. Rob and Kim happily married with three children, Kaily, Bryan and James. Their grandmother was also close with the family and was often visiting when I went to their house. She usually tending to the oldest son James, who had leukemia. Though it can be cured if caught in an early stage, James did not pull through. I write of James so that others who go through similar situations may be strengthened by my words.
I was sitting in history class one cold Tuesday morning, when a pass arrived saying that I was wanted in the office. At first I thought nothing of it, but when I was told to bring my stuff with me, I knew exactly what it was. James had not been doing well the past few days and I knew he had lost his battle with leukemia. As I trudged through the snow to his house, I noticed all the cars lined up and down the icy street. All of James's friends and family were there, most of them I didn't know. When I saw James, I immediately burst into tears. He had died in the very chair I had slept in so many nights at his house. I had sat in that chair two nights before as we casually talked about music. There were so many things I wish I could have said to him, but two nights before I had no idea about his worsening condition. A few days after he passed away, it started to sink in. The impact of his death hit me like a freight train. It was hard for me to fathom what life would be like without by best friend being there.
Many people came up to me in the last few day and tried to offer condolences. They had no idea what I was going through because they themselves had never experienced it. When I think about it, I wish I could redo that last day that we talked. The last thing we talked about was a song that we both liked called "NIB". The lyrics of the song aren't exactly sentimental toward the situation, but I have something to remember him by. If only I could speak to him, there are more important things to life than music.
If I were to give advice to someone about what I have learned from this situation I would say, "Live every day as if it were your last". James taught me many things about being strong and persevering, but this really stuck out in my mind. This does not only apply to situations such as these. It also shows how something like holding a grudge can turn against you in the end. I didn't feel any sort of malice toward James, and I am lucky that there were no unresolved issues between us. If there had been, it would only had made the situation more difficult for me.
The whole point behind this essay is to help people realize that many things in life are taken for granted. The best thing now is that James is not suffering anymore. I just wish that no one else would ever have to go through what I did, but I know that cannot come true. My wounds will heal over time, but I will never forget what James taught me.
Drew
Speech for the Tree Dedication and Bell Ringing
In Memory of James Bowman
June 4th,2001
by Nick Kovach
All of us here at the school knew or at least heard about James. The majority of the community also knew him. He touched our lives in many ways, whether he was working on the family car or playing football or wrestling for the Youth Boosters.
We are touched by him still today. He had more courage and strength than all of us put together. He never gave up,though the odds came up against him. The community became touched by his story and began to help raise money for the Leukemia Society. We, as a community,have aided his family and others. Though his body lost the fight, his spirit has enabled us to help others as well.
As I've said before, we all knew James. We miss him and his smile and his laugh. We won't forget James and his everlasting impression upon us. The tree we are planting will make sure that coming generations will remember James too.
Nick
Rob's band Panik did a great job and I am so proud of him!
He ask his sister Kelly to come on stage and sing Angel Eyes with him, it was very moving for me as my son Rob wrote the song for James.
Thanks to the band for taking their time from work to play for a good cause.
Blessings,
Bonnie (aka granny Bonnie)
To Jamie
December 2002
Written by Margie Fusco
I found your name today,
On papers forgotten in a pocket --
A list of your friends in a program
And then your name, apart
And yet so much a part of that evening.
You told them you would
Keep on fighting.
And you did,
Beyond the odds,
Through immeasurable pain.
You are no longer alone.
Murph and Nick are with you.
A black lab romps
At your heels, young again.
And it's always a fine day for
Riding bikes, roughhousing,
Running those radio-controlled cars.
Do you think of your old friends?
They are tall now,
Growing into life.
Standing next to your father,
He jokes that they dwarf him.
They never could --
each of them stands
in his shadow, always.
And you are with them.
You stand tall beside them,
Making their spines stiffer,
Their spirit stronger,
The courage fiercer,
Their faith deeper.
They know you are there.
They whisper your name
Whenever someone dies,
A silent prayer that you
Will welcome another face.
This is the mystery of the spirit:
How one can live in heaven
And still be so alive to us on earth.
The Bowman & Stephens Families gives thanks to Margie for such a beautiful poem,we love you Margie!
The Worst Day of My Life
By Drew Shafer
I was fifteen years old in my freshman year of high school. This event changed my life forever, and none of my family members were involved.The Bowman family was like the family I never had. Rob and Kim happily married with three children, Kaily, Bryan and James. Their grandmother was also close with the family and was often visiting when I went to their house. She usually tending to the oldest son James, who had leukemia. Though it can be cured if caught in an early stage, James did not pull through. I write of James so that others who go through similar situations may be strengthened by my words.
I was sitting in history class one cold Tuesday morning, when a pass arrived saying that I was wanted in the office. At first I thought nothing of it, but when I was told to bring my stuff with me, I knew exactly what it was. James had not been doing well the past few days and I knew he had lost his battle with leukemia. As I trudged through the snow to his house, I noticed all the cars lined up and down the icy street. All of James's friends and family were there, most of them I didn't know. When I saw James, I immediately burst into tears. He had died in the very chair I had slept in so many nights at his house. I had sat in that chair two nights before as we casually talked about music. There were so many things I wish I could have said to him, but two nights before I had no idea about his worsening condition. A few days after he passed away, it started to sink in. The impact of his death hit me like a freight train. It was hard for me to fathom what life would be like without by best friend being there.
Many people came up to me in the last few day and tried to offer condolences. They had no idea what I was going through because they themselves had never experienced it. When I think about it, I wish I could redo that last day that we talked. The last thing we talked about was a song that we both liked called "NIB". The lyrics of the song aren't exactly sentimental toward the situation, but I have something to remember him by. If only I could speak to him, there are more important things to life than music.
If I were to give advice to someone about what I have learned from this situation I would say, "Live every day as if it were your last". James taught me many things about being strong and persevering, but this really stuck out in my mind. This does not only apply to situations such as these. It also shows how something like holding a grudge can turn against you in the end. I didn't feel any sort of malice toward James, and I am lucky that there were no unresolved issues between us. If there had been, it would only had made the situation more difficult for me.
The whole point behind this essay is to help people realize that many things in life are taken for granted. The best thing now is that James is not suffering anymore. I just wish that no one else would ever have to go through what I did, but I know that cannot come true. My wounds will heal over time, but I will never forget what James taught me.
Drew
Speech for the Tree Dedication and Bell Ringing
In Memory of James Bowman
June 4th,2001
by Nick Kovach
All of us here at the school knew or at least heard about James. The majority of the community also knew him. He touched our lives in many ways, whether he was working on the family car or playing football or wrestling for the Youth Boosters.
We are touched by him still today. He had more courage and strength than all of us put together. He never gave up,though the odds came up against him. The community became touched by his story and began to help raise money for the Leukemia Society. We, as a community,have aided his family and others. Though his body lost the fight, his spirit has enabled us to help others as well.
As I've said before, we all knew James. We miss him and his smile and his laugh. We won't forget James and his everlasting impression upon us. The tree we are planting will make sure that coming generations will remember James too.
Nick
Rob's (James' dad)band will be playing both dates.It will be held at McCord on the 28th and Kilbourne and Perry on the 29th.
If you are local it is for a good cause, try and make it.
We miss him more as each day passes.
Thanks for all the visitors that still stop by and check on us from time to time.It means a lot to us that people still care.
Blessings,
Bonnie (aka granny Bonnie)
Our "Light the Night" walk October 5th,2002 turned out super!
The weather was on our side...Ohio is simply beautiful in the Fall.
James would be so proud of his team this year...some of them didn't want to stop walking.His new cousin Isabella was there along with his Uncle Mike carrying James' banner.
I just know James was with us during the walk...I could feel his presence.
Love & Blessings to all,
Grandma Bonnie
December is a hard month for our family.It used to be we would be out doing all kinds of things getting ready for Christmas...we still do all these things but since 12/19/00 our lives took on the biggest change that you just had to imagine.We lost our beautiful son,brother,grandson,nephew, cousin and friend!
Here are dates that will forever be in our minds...12/15/98 (Jame was dx with T-cell ALL Leukemia)12/19/00 (James passed)12/22/00 (James went to his resting place)We carry on for the sake of the other children but our holidays will always be sad in our hearts forever.
Keeping your memory alive James...dad will have a sad b-day without his "Bub"
we love and miss you so much sweetheart.
Blessings,
Granny Bonnie
Please light a candle in James' memory on December 19th,2002
To Jamie
December 2002
Written by Margie Fusco
I found your name today,
On papers forgotten in a pocket --
A list of your friends in a program
And then your name, apart
And yet so much a part of that evening.
You told them you would
Keep on fighting.
And you did,
Beyond the odds,
Through immeasurable pain.
You are no longer alone.
Murph and Nick are with you.
A black lab romps
At your heels, young again.
And it's always a fine day for
Riding bikes, roughhousing,
Running those radio-controlled cars.
Do you think of your old friends?
They are tall now,
Growing into life.
Standing next to your father,
He jokes that they dwarf him.
They never could --
each of them stands
in his shadow, always.
And you are with them.
You stand tall beside them,
Making their spines stiffer,
Their spirit stronger,
The courage fiercer,
Their faith deeper.
They know you are there.
They whisper your name
Whenever someone dies,
A silent prayer that you
Will welcome another face.
This is the mystery of the spirit:
How one can live in heaven
And still be so alive to us on earth.
The Bowman & Stephens Families gives thanks to Margie for such a beautiful poem,we love you Margie!
Leukemia & Lymphoma Society of Center Ohio.
Our family and friends will be walking in James' memory and honor.
There was a good turn out and the weather was on our side. I will be putting pictures up soon.
Our family is thankful to Kathy Kneubel, the Evening Street School and the Worthington community for their continuous support of James' memory and honor.
Grandma Bonnie
Proceeds will benefit student scholarships through the James Bowman Endowment Fund and The Center Ohio Chapter of the Leukemia & Lymphoma Society.
Event Coordinator:Kathy Kneubel at Evening Street School 614/883-2850.
The 2nd Annual James Bowman Fun Run/Walk for the Cure this coming May 19th, 2002.
Coordinator:Kathy Kneubel
I will be posting more information later as I receive it.
Thank you,
Grandma Bonnie
I remember the last few days of his life..sharing with me what he wanted to buy Bryan, Kaily,Mom and Dad for Christmas...We know he is with us in spirit and we miss him more than words can say......Please light a candle on December 19th and 25th for this remarkable young man I am proud to call my grandson.
Thank you,
Grandma Bonnie
Our family would like to give a "Big Thanks" to everyone that supported the cause in Memory of James.
God bless,
Grandma Bonnie
Robert James Bowman
6/5/86 ~ 12/19/00
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The Worst Day of My Life
By Drew Shafer
I was fifteen years old in my freshman year of high school. This event changed my life forever, and none of my family members were involved.The Bowman family was like the family I never had. Rob and Kim happily married with three children, Kaily, Bryan and James. Their grandmother was also close with the family and was often visiting when I went to their house. She usually tending to the oldest son James, who had leukemia. Though it can be cured if caught in an early stage, James did not pull through. I write of James so that others who go through similar situations may be strengthened by my words.
I was sitting in history class one cold Tuesday morning, when a pass arrived saying that I was wanted in the office. At first I thought nothing of it, but when I was told to bring my stuff with me, I knew exactly what it was. James had not been doing well the past few days and I knew he had lost his battle with leukemia. As I trudged through the snow to his house, I noticed all the cars lined up and down the icy street. All of James's friends and family were there, most of them I didn't know. When I saw James, I immediately burst into tears. He had died in the very chair I had slept in so many nights at his house. I had sat in that chair two nights before as we casually talked about music. There were so many things I wish I could have said to him, but two nights before I had no idea about his worsening condition. A few days after he passed away, it started to sink in. The impact of his death hit me like a freight train. It was hard for me to fathom what life would be like without by best friend being there.
Many people came up to me in the last few day and tried to offer condolences. They had no idea what I was going through because they themselves had never experienced it. When I think about it, I wish I could redo that last day that we talked. The last thing we talked about was a song that we both liked called "NIB". The lyrics of the song aren't exactly sentimental toward the situation, but I have something to remember him by. If only I could speak to him, there are more important things to life than music.
If I were to give advice to someone about what I have learned from this situation I would say, "Live every day as if it were your last". James taught me many things about being strong and persevering, but this really stuck out in my mind. This does not only apply to situations such as these. It also shows how something like holding a grudge can turn against you in the end. I didn't feel any sort of malice toward James, and I am lucky that there were no unresolved issues between us. If there had been, it would only had made the situation more difficult for me.
The whole point behind this essay is to help people realize that many things in life are taken for granted. The best thing now is that James is not suffering anymore. I just wish that no one else would ever have to go through what I did, but I know that cannot come true. My wounds will heal over time, but I will never forget what James taught me.
Drew
We enjoyed her visit even though we didn't get to do much!
James has been getting cards and gifts every day since he got home.You have made that possible!We thank you so very much for your support.
It is real hard on James not being able to have visitors so the mail helps out a lot.
God bless to all,
Bonnie Stephens
"The Worthington Community and School System"
There just isn't enough words to express and give praise to this community and school system for their support! It is overwhelming how they still continue on a daily basis to support and care for the Bowman Family!
"Walkabout for James"
From Pam Ward's Desk:
What a turnout!! There were at least 1,000 walkers from Evening Street Elementary,Kibourne Middle School and many students from Thomas Worthington High School.
The kids were very enthusiastic and having James there to walk a lap with them was a tremendous boosts.
We also had "great" support from local Business and the Worthington Community,it was a very sucessful fund-raiser.
The best gift of all for the Hoildays is having a friend and reaching out to help them.
We are all thankful for the experience!
Pam Ward
James came home Thanksgiving for the day and really enjoyed his family and dinner.His Uncle Chad,Aunt Pat, his cousins Stacy and Kyle came down from Cleveland for the day to see him.His grandpa and grandma Heyman were there also. He was tired but overall he had a nice day.
James and I have sold over 60 of his Calendars!We are real proud of them if I say so myself "grandma's bragging rights."
We are still taking orders if anyone is interested email me at rmstephens@worldnet.att.net All money goes to James at his address which will be on the return address label.
This has given him a boost to have his own little business and he keeps grandma hopping!
James is fighting a horrible infection and is a very sick young man.We need prayers every day!He is fighting this cancer with such a force but without each and everyone that has been there for him, he wouldn't have gotten this far.
I reiterate our thanks to everyone for the support to have shown this family!!
Sincerely,
Bonnie
God Bless,
Bonnie
"Walkabout for James"
From Pam Ward's Desk: There will be an event called Walkabout for James Bowman. It will be held on Wenesday November 15th ( rain date Thursday November 16th).It is sponsored by the students,staff and parents of Evening Street Elementary and Kilbourne Middle School. Over 850 students from the two schools will be walking laps at the Thomas Worthington H.S. track in the morning and afternoon in support of James. There will also be some support from high school sports teams which should bring the total number of walkers to around 1,000. They will all work to get pledges ahead of time each 1/4 mile lap they walk. Local businesses are also being contacted to ask for their support.Donations may be sent to Evening Street Elementary PTA 885 Evening Street,Worthigton, Ohio 43085 clearly marked with the designation for James.Donations are tax dedutible to the extent of the law. Every bit of the money that is raised will go to the family as we have been able to get contributions to cover event expenses.Hope to see you there!
Pam Ward
Something I would like to share about James by grandma Bonnie:
Last year James wanted to do the "Pasta for Pennys" fund raiser for Leukemia. He started it but got sick so his classmates finished it up and they collected close to $7,000. The school and James were honored this year on September 21st.I will be putting the newspaper article on his web page soon.
James has his personal email addy on
his pager now if you would like to send him a mgs. 6146477243.0005894@pagenet.net
I would like to recognize all the Educators, Staff, and Students at Evening Street School for their support.They have been active in James's care from the start and still continue to do so.The Wothington School System is number #1 in our book!We feel such gratitute toward them for all they have done!!!
James and I having been working on a project the last four weeks. We are real excited about it and will be sharing it with everyone real soon.
OUR PROJECT IS FINISHED!!Jamie has not been able to do odd jobs this past year because of his Leukemia (counts..etc)This is a young man that was out mowing lawns,yard work..etc with his good friend Drew every summer.They had started their own little business and had clients through out the neighborhood.That pretty much had come to a halt with Jamie having set backs. I watched him one day drawing and came up with the idea to put that art to good use.Together we made a one sheet laminated yearly (2001) calendar with Jamie's artwork and picture.He is selling them for $5.00 each.He started selling them a little over a week and so far has sold 45. If anyone would like to buy one of his calendars contact him by eamil rbowman2@columbus.rr.com. or myself at rmstephens@worldnet.att.net
"Light the Night" walk went very well.
"Jamie's Team" collected $1,430. Not bad for getting a late start.The drive starts in June but I didn't get onboard until August 17th.So next year "Look out Columbus" we will take you by storm!!
Notation:We want to extend our thanks and gratitude's to our team and supporters.We couldn't have done it without YOU!
Our family would also like to take the time to give thanks for the cards and letters James receives.They have meant so much to us through this fight.Your support keeps us going.
Sincerely,
Rick and Bonnie Stephens
Everyone has been so supportive, our family can not give enough thanks.
Check out his Photo's,I posted one of his drawings on today. Sure can't tell he likes cars,huh?
"Light the Night" Jamie's Team: We are proud to say "We did pretty darn good" collecting donations!The walk is in two days and we are excited.It's not to late to join us for the walk. Hope to see you there!
Everyone has been so supportive and the family can not give you enough thanks.
Check out his photo's, I posted one of his drawings on today.Sure can't tell he like cars
"Light the Night" Jamie's Team we are proud to say "We did pretty darn good" in collecting donatios! The walk is in two days and we are excited.We pick up our banner tomorrow. It's not to late if you want to walk. Hope to see you there!
Grandma Bonnie
Jamie is back home if you would like to send him a message.The treatment went well and his counts are good!
"Light the Night"
Join "Jamie's Team" on September 21st,2000! We want to make his team number#1 with your help and support. My husband Rick and my good friend Susan Gualtier are running a race for #1 Walkers raising the most donations. It should be interesting to see who wins that race! Last count Susan was in the lead.
Just know that our family is grateful for the prayers and cards everyone has sent our way.
God Bless,
Rick and Bonnie
Send him a message he would love to hear from everyone.
"Light the Night"
Join "Jamie's Team" on September 21st, 2000!We want to make his team number #1
that night.My husband Rick and Susan Gualtier are running a close race for #1 Walkers raising the most money.It should be interesting to see who wins that race. Last count Susan is ahead.
Just know that our family is grateful for the prayers and cards everyone has sent our way.
Jamie was admitted today. He will receive his treatments for three days then back home on Sunday.
He continues to have a positive attitude and I attribute a lot of it from the support he receives from everyone.
The "Night the Light" update: "Jamie's Team" is moving along "Great!" Get your walking shoes out of the closet, the The walk in the 21st. An article is being written for the "Brookside Newsletter", a local neighborhood publication, about the walk." Barb Garrett shared Jamie's story with Anette DiMauro, the edtitor of the newsletter and she wanted to help us get the word out.
Jamie was admitted today. He will receive his treatments for three days then back home on Sunday.
He continues to have a positive attitude and I attribute a lot of it from the support he receives from everyone.
The "Night the Light" update: "Jamie's Team" is moving along "Great!" Get your walking shoes out of the closet, the The walk in the 21st. An article is being written for the "Brookside Newsletter", a local neighborhood publication, about the walk." Barb Garrett shared Jamie's story with Anette DiMauro, the edtitor of the newsletter and she wanted to help us get the word out.