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Happy Birthday Grandma Pat! What an inspiration you are! We love you and look forward to seeing you soon! xoxoxo
Johnathan, Kristi, & Lilli Grace <jklong2@hotmail.com>
- Monday, February 8, 2010 2:29 PM CST

Hi Grandma Pat. It has been a while since I last posted but this latest news (7 October) is excellent and I think we should tell the world, which I will do, if you don't mind. I have just returned from a visit to various brain tumour conferences in Oregon and Berlin and will be speaking in Taipei (Taiwan) at the end of this month where I will certainly tell the patients and families of your news. Best wishes. Denis Strangman, Chair, International Brain Tumour Alliance.
Denis Strangman <chair@theibta.org>
Canberra, ACT Australia - Sunday, October 11, 2009 9:15 PM CDT

Hi Grandma Pat! We loved seeing you and Grandpa Jimmy at Christmas. It was a very special Christmas for us, as it was Lilli's first. As everyone opened their gifts, it was so nice for me to be able to watch and reflect on how life is changing... how all of us grandkids (inlaw included) :) are growing up and how sweet the little ones are. I cant believe how grown Rebecca already seems, as well as Shaun, and even little Lilli. Of course, as you say... you always knew you were a "GREAT grandma!" I found a good quote today...

"Life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass...it's about learning to dance in the rain."
Kristi, Johnathan, & Lilli Grace <jklong2@hotmail.com>
- Thursday, January 22, 2009 9:16 AM CST

Hope you're doing better,and hope you will get well soon and be able to get out soon.
daniel lentz <kllentz@embarqmail.com>
Abbottstown, pa u.s.a - Wednesday, December 10, 2008 8:12 PM CST

Hi Grandma Pat. What an amazing story. You are an inspiration! We had a successful international brain tumour awareness week (21-27 October)this year and will organise a similar one in 2008 (26 October - 1 November). See: www.theibta.org Happy Christmas to you and your family.
Denis Strangman <string@hotkey.net.au>
Canberra, ACT Australia - Saturday, December 15, 2007 5:17 AM CST

Hi Grandma Pat. I haven't signed in quite some time, so I just wanted to say hello. I truly enjoyed seeing you at Christmas ~ you looked wonderful! Johnathan and I have been enjoying married life, and my first year of teaching has been challenging but rewarding (half way over). This year was quite busy with graduations, our new jobs, our wedding, babies, and the health of Johnathan's dad. Our hearts and lives have gone from emotional rollercoaster highs and lows this year... but I wouldnt trade that for anything. We have been growing together for over five years, and have officially became a family. The rest of our families have grown alot in the past year or two, and have made us all closer. You are part of that, Grandma Pat, and we love you lots. I always leave you with a quote - and I sometimes find them in the wierdest places. This one is from a Nike Shoes ad, and (if you can get past the initial cornyness) is pretty true.

"Life isn't about keeping score. It's not about how many people call you and it's not about who you've dated, are dating, or haven't dated at all. It isn't about who you've kissed, what sport you play, or which guy or girl likes you. It's not about your shoes or your hair or the colour of your skin or where you live or go to school. In fact, it's not about grades, money, clothes, or colleges that accept you or not. Life isn't about if you have lots of friends, or if you are alone, and it's not about how accepted or unaccepted you are. Life just isn't about that. But life is about who you love and who you hurt. It's about how you feel about yourself. It's about trust, happiness, and compassion. It's about sticking up for your friends and replacing inner hate with love. Life is about avoiding jealousy, overcoming ignorance, and building confidence. It's about what you say and what you mean. It's about seeing people for who they are and not what they have. Most of all, it is about choosing to use your life to touch someone else's in a way that could never have been achieved otherwise. These choices are what life's about."-- Nike ad
Love, Kristi (& Johnathan) <JKLong2@hotmail.com>
Raleigh, NC USA - Thursday, December 28, 2006 10:30 AM CST

Hi Grandma Pat

Missed out on those apple pies again! I see the State Fair has been on. I was in the US again last month but I need an excuse to get to your area and say Hello. This time I went to NY, Chicago, San Francisco and Toronto. You can follow my journey here: www.theibta.org We have selected 21-27 October 2007 for the inaugural International Brain Tumor Awareness Week - that gives you 12 months to plan something special to help us celebrate it! Best wishes, you are an inspiration to many.
Denis Strangman <string@hotkey.net.au>
Canberra, ACT Australia - Wednesday, October 25, 2006 9:26 AM CDT

Hey Grandma Pat! I was very glad that you were at the wedding!! (read the back of the program, in case no one mentioned it) :) Johnathan and I just got back from our honeymoon today, and it was great! I am sitting here right now trying not to be too nervous about teaching kindergarten tomorrow - as it is my first day of teaching ever! I hope the kids like me! :) Anyways, we love you lots, and miss you already!
Love, Mr. & Mrs. Johnathan Long oooo ahhh <JKLong2@hotmail.com (*new address)>
CITY: Raleigh, STATE: Elated USA - Sunday, July 9, 2006 10:09 PM CDT

Hey Everione im so glad things are doing well i hope i can get up there or call pretty soon between work and my daughter im busy (haha) well my email address is cassies i dont have one i guess i really dont need one but i miss everybody and hope to see you soon. see or talk to you soon
Ronnie

Ronnie Duval <kdboots97@im2cool.com>
kinston, nc Grifton - Monday, July 3, 2006 12:34 AM CDT

Hi Melodie and "Grandma Pat" Thanks for signing the guestbook on my website. I love hearing from long-term survivors, and I am so glad to here you are doing well. God can work miracles in our lives, and you are proof of that. I am about 21/2 years on my journey, tumor free. I work full-time and have been off of all meds for nearly two months. Outside of fatigue once in a while, I feel pretty good. It sounds like your feeling well also. Praise God! Please take care of yourself, and we'll keep you in our prayers.
Mike Messinger <messingerm@gvhp.com>
Jenison, MI - Thursday, May 11, 2006 4:07 PM CDT

Hi Grandma Pat, I just wanted to share something with you and everyone who reads your website: make sure you tell those you care about that you love them every day. Yesterday, I was in the copy room talking to a very sweet first grade teacher that I have bus duty with each day. Neither she, nor I had any idea that at that very moment, her husband (while driving to work) had a heart attack and caused him to have an accident. He died. She was visited by two policemen here at school yesterday shortly after I saw her, and taken to the hospital to recieve the news. I heard the news this morning during our teacher's meeting. I still am so shocked that it really happenned to her. You just never know what might happen or who you might affect. I love you lots! Love, Kristi

Kristi <kr59073@appstate.edu>
Raleigh, NC USA - Tuesday, April 4, 2006 12:22 AM CDT

Happy Birthday Grandma Pat! :) "Guess How Much I Love You?" "I Love You As High As I Can Hop!" ~ Little Nutbrown Hare (bunnies = love of course!)
Kristi & Johnathan :) <kr59073@appstate.edu>
Raleigh, NC USA - Thursday, February 9, 2006 5:04 AM CST

Hi Grandma Pat
My name is Tony Farmer. I work with Wendy at Pitney Bowes. Two and a half weeks ago, we found out that my wife Melissa has breast cancer. Wendy is a close friend and over the last couple of weeks she has been a shoulder I have leaned on. What a wonderful person she is. Know that the experiences your family has deal with over the last few years has allowed Wendy to give me much needed advise and strength. Wendy has sent Melissa and I two fish that we will have in our posession from this day forward. Know also in your heart that the grace and power of our God has been passed on through Wendy to others that face some (certainly not all) of the struggles you have face over the last few years. My Prayers are with you and your family.
Sincerely Tony Farmer
Tony Farmer <tony.farmer@pb.com>
Lizella, GA USA - Wednesday, January 18, 2006 12:16 AM CST

Hi Grandma Pat! Johnathan and I were just watching the Disney movie, The Rescuers, and I heard a cute quote on the movie, here it is (love, Kristi)...
"Faith is a blue bird, we see from afar. It's for real and as sure as the first evening star, you can't touch it or buy it or wrap it up tight but it's there just the same, making things turn out right." ~ Rufus the Cat
Kristi & Johnathan :) <kr59073@appstate.edu>
Raleighwood, NC USA - Wednesday, January 4, 2006 6:33 PM CST

Hi Grandma Pat. You are absolutely amazing - plus your family. I was in the US last month but it was a rushed trip, on my way to the European Cancer Conference in France, otherwise I would have looked you up - and maybe tasted one of those apple pies! All the best for Christmas.
Denis Strangman <string@hotkey.net.au>
Canberra, ACT Australia - Friday, December 16, 2005 5:29 PM CST

Hi Grandma Pat. How are you? I hate that you and grandpa Jimmy are the only people that we werent able to see over Thanksgiving, I was hoping you'd be able to come to grandpa Hallie's. Thats okay, I am looking forward to seeing you this upcoming weekend at J's graduation. I found my wedding dress (yay!) and my invitations, and Johnathan and I just set a date for the wedding today. I miss you lots, cant wait to see you next weekend, and am ready for this week to be over. I hope all is well with you. I have to go work on my three major math projects that are due tomorrow (my math professor is a nazi). Love you lots, Kristi
Kristi <kr59073@appstate.edu>
boone, nc usa - Sunday, December 4, 2005 6:05 PM CST

Hey Grandma Pat. I hope you are doing okay. I look forward to moving home before Christmas and being able to see you more... I am just looking forward to Christmas in general. Getting through school, among other things, is tough... but things will get better. I love you lots and miss you...
"I know that if I ever go looking for my heart's desire, I'll never go any farther than my own backyard.
For if it isn't there, I never really lost it." ~ Dorothy (Wizard of Oz)
Kristi <kr59073@appstate.edu>
Boone, NC USA - Sunday, November 13, 2005 9:08 PM CST

Hi Grandma Pat. It was good to see you this weekend at the fair. I know you are probably glad its over though. I found this quote, and like it alot. Anyways, love you, Kristi....
"One day someone's loved one died.
And on that clear, cold morning, in the warmth of their bedroom, they
were struck with the pain of learning that sometimes there isn't any
more. No more hugs, no more phone calls. Sometimes what we care about
the most goes away, never to return before we can say goodbye. So while
we can, its best we love, care, fix it when its broken, and take care
of it when its sick. This is true for marriage, friends, and family.
And children with bad report cards, dogs with bad hips, and aging
parents and grandparents. We keep them because theyre worth it, and we
cherish them. Some things we keep - like a best friend who moved away
or a classmate we grew up with. There are just some things that make us
happy, no matter what. Life is important, and so are the people we know
- so keep them close, and say I love you."
<3 Mr. Sniffles <3

Kristi <kr59073@appstate.edu>
BOOne, NC USA - Tuesday, October 25, 2005 5:30 PM CDT

Hi Grandma Pat,
Debie here from Australia, I signed your guestbook on 8th August 05. Just wanted to share some good news with you and your family. My mum, Pam, had her 1st MRI this week. She had surgery 1st May 05 on GBM. The Doctors were pretty pleased. There are marks on her brain but they suggest that it is surgery and ray damage, not tumour. She looks great the last two weeks and seems to be doing a little more as time goes by. God Bless.
debie mooney <debieann6161@hotmail.com>
gundagai, nsw australia - Wednesday, September 28, 2005 6:45 AM CDT

Hi Grandma Pat. Johnathan and I are doing pretty good. I just wanted to send you this quote that I found, its called "A winner's Creed"... (have a good night, love, me)... "If you think you are beaten, you are; If you think you dare not, you dont; If you'd like to win, but think you cant, Its almost a cinch you wont. If you think you'll lose, youre lost; for out in the world we find success begins with a person's will, It's all in the state of mind. Life's battles don't always go to the stronger or faster hand; but sooner or later the person who wins is the one who thinks I CAN."
Krispi <kr59073@appstate.edu>
Boone, NC USA - Monday, September 19, 2005 9:15 PM CDT

Hi Grandma Pat and Wanda! It has been a very long time since I have checked in - I have now moved to Los Angeles, was married on April 17th, and am now 4 months pregnant. I am SO HAPPY to read you all are still doing great!!!!! You are still in my thoughts and prayers, and I was very happy to read the latest report tonight. Take care and I will continue to check in!
Sheri Hauke, Butch Hauke's daughter <shauke@comcast.net>
Los Angeles, CA USA - Thursday, September 8, 2005 11:20 PM CDT

Hi Grandma Pat. I am glad to hear that you are doing well. We miss you, and hope to come home in a few weeks to see you. My baby bunny, Mr. Sniffles, passed away on Friday, and I love this quote that a friend sent me... "Though sharing your life with ones that are more fragile than your own can doom you to heartbreak... The moments you share with that soul will always be remembered in your heart." Love you.
Kristi <kr59073@appstate.edu>
Boone, NC USA - Tuesday, September 6, 2005 9:29 AM CDT

Happy Birthday Mrs. Long (mom). We love you lots!!
Kristi & Johnathan <kr59073@appstate.edu>
Boone, NC USA - Monday, August 8, 2005 8:20 AM CDT

Hi Grandma Pat, My mum Pam, has a similar story as yours. We hope her journey goes along the same road as yours. Sounds like you have a great family around you. God Bless and keep well. We continue to read your story in hope. Love Debie
debie mooney <debieann6161@hotmail.com>
gundagai, n.s.w. australia - Monday, August 8, 2005 7:28 AM CDT

Hi Grandma Pat, this is John from Australia diagnosed july 04 so just made 1 year and intending to follow your lead and celebrate many more 'anniversaries' in the future. You're amazing, Sending you the best of wishes from down under.May the sun smile brightly at the sight of your face,the rain that falls upon you be but a gentle mist and may God always hold you gently in the palm of His hand.
John Daly <alldalys@optusnet.com.au>
Perth, WA Australia - Saturday, August 6, 2005 6:54 AM CDT

Hi Grandma Pat! How are you? I am really enjoying our new apartment, I think we are finally done unpacking and completely moved in! My best friend, Jen, flew down here yesterday, so she will be visiting until Tuesday. And then next weekend, Johnathans parents are coming up to the cabin. I'm so excited about it!! Anyways, I love you so much, and I hope you are still doing well. Thanks for the pickles, they are great! I wanted to share with you a portion of a song I really like. Love you lots, Kristi (& Johnathan)

..."If I had a map, to lead you down life�s path, I�d give it to you, but I don�t. So, go on� Cry hard, laugh loud, be humble, stand proud, and don�t be afraid of your fears. Let love break your heart, just be who you are� all of this, all that there is, I wish for you�. ~ Jessica Andrews, �I wish for you�
Kristi <KR59073@appstate.edu>
Boone, NC USA - Friday, August 5, 2005 10:26 AM CDT

hoping and faithful
debieann mooney
gundagai, n.s.w. australia - Wednesday, August 3, 2005 1:33 AM CDT

Hi Grandma Pat

Sorry I missed your birthday (I sometimes forget mine!). Great to read that you are doing well. I visited the US last May but didn't get down your way. We established an international group at Edinburgh (UK), see - www.theibta.org All the best.
Denis Strangman <string@hotkey.net.au>
Canberra, ACT Australia - Sunday, July 31, 2005 8:42 AM CDT

Hi Pat. Wanda tells us you are getting along well. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
John B. Long Jr. <j.long.jr@worldnet.att.net>
Oak Island , N C USA - Saturday, July 16, 2005 11:09 AM CDT

Hey grandma Pat. I'm really glad you have a computer now so you can get your messages! :) Johnathans gonna be a trooper and go to the computer lab with me for most of the night. I officially have three papers to do, another extra credit paper and project, and a powerpoint presentation on lemons and limes (random, i know) - all due by tomorrow. SUMMER SCHOOL's over on Friday!!! yay. Well, we love you lots. I just thought I'd leave you this cute quote I found: (I had to read it about three times before getting it, lol). "it doesn't happen all at once...You become. It takes a long time. Thats why it doesn't happen to people who break easily or have sharp edges. Generally, by the time you are Real, most of your hair has been loved off and you get loose in the joints and very shabby. But these things don't matter at all because once you are Real you can't be ugly, except to people who don't understand."
~ the velveteen rabbit
Krispi (& ***Johnathan***) <kr59073@appstate.edu>
Boone, NC USA - Monday, June 20, 2005 5:37 PM CDT

Hey grandma Pat. I havent sent you a poem in a long time, and I like this one alot. Love you bunches! "To let go isnt to forget, not think about, or ignore. It doesnt leave feelings of anger or jealousy or regret. Letting go isnt winning and it isnt losing. Its not about pride and its not about how u appear, and its not obsessing or dwelling on the past. Letting go isnt blocking memories or thinking sad thoughts and doesnt leave emptiness, hurt or sadness. Its not giving in or giving up. Letting go isnt about loss and its not defeat. To let go is to cherish memories, but to overcome and to move on. It is having an open mind and confidence in the future. Letting go is accepting. It is learning and experiencing and growing. To let go is to be thankful for the experiences that made u laugh, made u cry and made u grow. Its about all that you have, all that you had and all that you will soon gain. Letting go is having the courage to accept change, and the strength to keep moving. It is realizing that the heart can sometimes be the most potent remedy. To let go is to open a door, to clear a path and to set yourself free..." ~ author unknown
Kristi :) <kr59073@appstate.edu>
Boone, NC USA - Thursday, June 16, 2005 10:51 PM CDT

Hi Grandma Pat! How are you? I hope you are doing well! Johnathan and I are staying busy... we both have work, and I have summer school - at least the campus is really beautiful in the summer. I'm at the computer lab in between classes right now, procrastinating writing a paper - they keep the workload coming in the summer, but I enjoy getting a class or two out of the way in just 5 weeks. We hope to see you eventually... it seems like forever, but Johnathan only has off of work on Saturdays and that makes it hard to come to Raleigh. This weekend we are hoping to meet Johnathans parents in Charlotte for father's day. Next week will be my last week of summer school, and I think that Wendy (& Melodie?) had mentioned coming up the weekend of the 24th - it would be nice to see them and the kids - maybe you could come! Well, that is what is happenning with us. You are always in our prayers and keep checkin your mailbox! :)
Love, Kristi (& Johnathan) <kr59073@appstate.edu>
Boone, NC USA - Tuesday, June 14, 2005 11:25 AM CDT

Happy Early Birthday Wishes to Rebecca and Grandpa Hallie! I hope everyone is doing well! I started summer school yesterday (for the 4th summer in a row... yay), and will have it four hours a day for the next month or so. Speaking of which, I gotta go get ready and write a quick paper, but I hope to see yall soon. Love, Kristi
Kristi <KR59073@appstate.edu>
Boone, NC USA - Wednesday, May 25, 2005 7:59 AM CDT

Hi Grandma Pat. I am glad to hear you are doing well. I woke up early this morning and couldnt go back to sleep (I hate when that happens on a Saturday), so I thought I'd write you. It's been beautiful up here lately... however, can you believe that we are supposed to get SNOW today?? Its April!! Boone weather is soo weird... wind gusts tonight are supposed to get up to 80 miles an hour!! When I get done working this afternoon, I'm gonna come home and stay put. Anyways, I'm so glad that you seem to be feeling really well, and you are always in our thoughts and prayers. Love you lots!! :)
Kristi (and Johnathan) <kr59073@appstate.edu>
Boone, NC USA - Saturday, April 2, 2005 7:37 AM CST

Hey Grandma Pat! I am glad to hear that you are doing well. We up here in boone are doing pretty well too... Johnathan's playing raquetball right now, and I am here trying to finish up some homework and projects. It's amazing how much paperwork, and how many hoops you have to jump through to become a teacher!! Anyways, we are supposed to get up to 8 inches of snow tonight starting at midnight - keep your fingers crossed that App will cancel classes tomorrow so we dont have to go to school in the snow! Thursday we are supposed to get 6 or more inches on top of this snow! I'm ready for Spring and Easter, how about you? Well, I just wanted to let you know that we are thinking about you and miss you very much! You are always in our prayers. :)
Love, Kristi (& Johnathan) <kr59073@appstate.edu>
BOOooNoomorEsnow!, NC USA - Tuesday, March 15, 2005 8:54 PM CST

Hey Grandma Pat. I hope you are doing well! I heard you got a new computer for your birthday, so I thought that I would sign and let you know that Johnathan and I are thinking about you! We just got back from Madison's cheerleading competition and she did great!! It was a lot of fun. :) I'm gettin ready to go pick up the pictures from it at Walmart, so I'll be sure to send you some! Anyways, I think I'm gonna go get comfy and head out to Walmart, but I love you lots!! ps: SMILE!!
Kristi :) <kr59073@appstate.edu>
Boone, NC USA - Saturday, February 19, 2005 4:47 PM CST

Happy Birthday Grandma Pat!! We love you and miss you very much!!
Love, Kristi and Johnathan <kr59073@appstate.edu & jl47662@appstate.edu>
Boone, NC USA - Wednesday, February 9, 2005 12:11 AM CST

Hi Grandma Pat. So much for "unseasonably warm weather," its about 6 degrees here right now with a wind chill of -30...brrr! Its nice not to have school today, and due to the icy roads and weather, I dont have work either. However, I'm used to being up early for class so here I am. Plus, Johnathan came in here this morning and asked me to help him turn all the faucets on so the pipes dont freeze... the heat upstairs is broke, so we have been turning on a bunch of little heaters to try to stay warm!Johnathan has 16 hours of class, and I have 17... so we stay pretty busy. But, I'd like to go skiing sometime soon now that it has snowed last night (not today though... tooo cold!) Johnathan talked to Wendy, Summer, and Spencer yesterday on the phone. :) Summer told Johnathan that she and Spencer had played clue yesterday with Wendy and Melodie... and that Wendy won, so Johnathan convinced her that Wendy cheated. :) Haha. Anyways, we miss you and love you lots! I hope you and Grandpa Jimmy are doing well. Love, Kristi (and Johnathan)
Kristi :) <kr59073@appstate.edu>
Boone (the antarctic), NC USA - Monday, January 17, 2005 7:28 AM CST

Hey Grandma, Hope you are doing well. School has started back and me and Kristi are getting back into the swing of things. I have some really good classes and I am looking forward to them. Tomorrow I am driving out to Beach Mtn. for a class outing to work on wind turbine. I thought it was sort of cool. OK Well I am off to do some homework.

P.s. We are having unseasonably warm weather.
Johnathan Long <jl47662@appstate.edu>
Boone, NC US - Tuesday, January 11, 2005 6:26 PM CST

Hi Grandma Pat
It is great that you are doing so well. You remain a truly great inspiration to many. The events in Asia have reminded us how fragile life can be. My daughter travelled to Phuket in Thailand regularly for holiday breaks, luckily not this Christmas time.
Happy New Year.
Denis Strangman <string@hotkey.net.au>
Canberra, ACT Australia - Monday, January 3, 2005 6:50 PM CST

Merry Christmas, Aunt Pat! Hope you get snow instead of ice like we have.

Carol Ann <carol.kelly@direcway.com>
Kinston, NC USA - Sunday, December 26, 2004 2:30 PM CST

Hey Grandma Pat! How are you doing? We are having alot of fun up here in NYC!! It was really cool to see the statue of liberty from the airplane yesterday! Times Square was a madhouse last night, but lots of fun. We were trying to get someone to take our picture last night in times square, and nobody would listen or take it... so Johnathan yells, "We're not asking for Money, we just want someone to take our picture!!" (it was hilarious!!) so, then these nice people took our picture (and then asked US if we had any money, haha). We also went into the famous "Virgin Records" store right there. Anndd... something I noticed here is that it seems like everyone stands really close to the edge of the subway platform (not me!!)... and noone seems to think its a bad idea. We are really close to Madison avenue ;) (we are off of park avenue and 24th street). You just dont realize how much walking you do by the end of the day. Well we are gettin ready to go to Soho and Greenwich Village today because they are supposed to be really neat areas (cobblestone streets, etc.)... Yesterday it took Johnathan awhile to figure out that everytime someone honked up here, to not turn around and wave because it IS NOT a friend from Boone honkin at you. LOL. Anyways, I'd better go, Johnathans in the shower, and I need to finish up gettin ready. We are sooo excited about seeing you and everyone at Christmas and we love you bunches!!!
Love, Kristi and Johnathan <kr59073@appstate.edu>
NYC!!!!!, NY USA - Sunday, December 19, 2004 7:56 AM CST

Hi Grandma Pat. How are you doing? I am so glad that you came up with Johnathan's parents. I am looking forward to seeing you again at Christmas. Johnathan and I put christmas lights on his porch, and tree in his front yard last night and we saw a handful of flurries! The temperature has dropped quite a bit in the last two weeks, and I'm sure it will drop just as much in the next two weeks. Tonight its so foggy and rainy that you cant hardly see your hand in front of your face. However, earlier today it was all clear and I keep trying to tell Johnathan that I think I saw a bear cub in the woods beside my apartment... he thinks I was hallucinating. Ha ha. I am in the computer lab right now because this is our last full week of class (lots of projects due) and next week starts our finals. So, I'd better get back to work. I love you lots and I hope you are doing well. :)
Love, Kristi <kr59073@appstate.edu>
Boone, NC USA - Tuesday, November 30, 2004 8:02 PM CST

Hi Grandma Pat! It was so great to see you at the fair! Johnathan says to tell you not to work too hard! Johnathan and I really enjoyed you walking around with us (our apologies to Melodie though, hehe). We are back in Boone now, and it is absolutely frigid outside! Its in the Low Thirties!! I think we have seen the last of the warm weather! We may take the new puppy on the parkway to play tomorrow afternoon when Johnathan gets off work. It is so beautiful outside because the leaves are nearly at their peak. Well, I have to go to bed, but we love you and miss you lots!
Kristi (and Johnathan) <kr59073@appstate.edu>
Booone-is-cold!, NC USA - Friday, October 15, 2004 10:36 PM CDT

Hey Grandma, How have you been? I had a minute so I thought I would drop you a line. It is a nice day here so me and my roommates and Kristi and her roommate are outside burning some leaves and stuff that fell down during the hurricanes. We have the radio out and are making a big day of it. Anyway, just thinking about you and glad to here you are doing well. Me and Kristi are coming home on the 13th and will be there for the first day of the Fair. So I am sure we will see you then. Love you grandma.
The Favorite Grandson (Johnathan for those who don't know) <jl47662@appstate.edu>
Boone, NC - Friday, October 1, 2004 2:24 PM CDT

Hey Grandma Pat. How are you doing? I'm pretty good. We just got into the full swing of school this week - finally our senior year! I'm just hanging out for a little bit while Johnathan and his roommates play paintball in the woods behind their house. I took a picture of them - they look like they were ready for war! Haha. I hope you are doing well, and I love you lots! I thought this was a cool quote: "People take different roads seeking fulfillment and happiness. Just because they're not on your road doesn't mean they've gotten lost." Have a good night!
Love, Kristi (: <kr59073@appstate.edu>
Boone, NC USA - Friday, August 27, 2004 7:16 PM CDT

Hey Grandma Pat. How are you doing? I hope you had a great fourth of July! The fireworks up here echo off the mountains and sound like thunder. Johnathan and I just started our second session of summer school this week. We are volunteering to help animals get adopted tomorrow... and I think we get to do it at the Doc Watson Festival. It should be alot of fun. There is a bobcat that lives around Johnathans house and it ran right past my leg tonight!! Then, we just came back to Johnathans house, and we saw it run out of the yard again! I am NOT a cat person! haha. I hope you are doing well, and I love you lots! I heard this quote and thought you might like it: "The pieces fall into place eventually, so until then laugh at the confusion and live for the moment." Anyways, have a great day!
Love, Kristi (and Johnathan) <KR59073@appstate.edu>
Boone, NC USA - Friday, July 9, 2004 10:36 PM CDT

Hey Grandma Pat. How are you? I got the letter you sent me ~ Thank You! The picture of you and Rebecca is beutiful! I am so glad that you don't have to go back to the doctor for awhile! Johnathan and I are doing good. We went camping last weekend, and I believe that might be the first day of the entire summer that it has not rained up here!! Anyways, we love you lots. Have a good day! :)
Kristi & Johnathan <kr59073@appstate.edu>
Boone, NC USA - Thursday, June 17, 2004 5:41 PM CDT

Happy 89th Birthday Grandpa Hallie!!! We love you and miss you lots!!! (:
Love, Kristi and Johnathan (: <kr59073@appstate.edu>
Boone, NC USA - Thursday, June 3, 2004 4:35 PM CDT

Congrats Melodie! (:
Kristi & Johnathan <kr59073@appstate.edu>
Boone, NC USA - Thursday, May 27, 2004 2:37 PM CDT

Hey Grandma Pat. Happy Mother's Day! I hope you are doing well. Johnathan and I will be coming to see you on Friday. We are enjoying our small break from school (summer classes start May 25th). It's so beautiful at the beach right now ~ having just gotten done with final exams I am really appreciating it. I have recently learned what it means to trust God to see you through whatever obstacles come your way... and I just wanted to remind you that He gives us His promise to be faithful to us and there when we need Him most. I love you lots... have a great day. (ps - "God didnt promise days without pain, laughter without sorrow, sun without rain; but He did promise strength for the day, comfort for the tears, and light for the way."
Kristi <KR59073@appstate.edu>
Vacationing @ Oak Island with Johnathan, NC USA - Sunday, May 9, 2004 9:44 PM CDT

Hey Grandma Pat. I was just sitting here with Johnathan watchin TV, and I got the strongest urge to come check on you and write to you. :) It is so wonderful that your blood counts are better this week, and that they are going to hold off on the bone marrow thing!! I was just reading through the journal entries from the beginning, and I realized how much you have been through... and OVERCOME! You are steadily progressing, and have a peace that just radiates from you!!! We ALL love you so much, and are so glad that you are doing so well. Luke 11:9,10 - "And I say unto you, Ask, and it shall be given you; seek, and ye shall find; knock, and it shall be opened unto you. For every one that asketh recieveth; and he that seeketh findeth; and to him that knocketh it shall be opened."
Kristi :) <kr59073@appstate.edu>
Boone, NC USA - Friday, April 16, 2004 7:33 PM CDT

Hey Grandma Pat. How are you doing? I am really praying for you to heal ~ in regards to the bone marrow situation. This poem seemed to fit you all around: "That best portion of a good man's life, his little, nameless, unremembered acts of kindness and of love." I miss you lots, and I love you. Love, Kristi (Johnathan also sends his love)

Kristi (: <kr59073@appstate.edu>
Boone, NC USA - Saturday, April 3, 2004 2:27 PM CST

Hey Grandma Pat. It was so good to see you over the break. I just wanted to let you know that I will send you a copy of the picture I took of you and grandpa Jimmy as soon as I get it developed. You looked so beautiful, and we had a great time visiting with you two!!! Love, Kristi (& Johnathan) :)
Kristi (: <kr59073@appstate.edu>
Boone, NC USA - Thursday, March 18, 2004 5:33 PM CST

Hey Grandma Pat. I hope you are doing well. School is goin alright... but maybe it will be cancelled within the next day or two!! We are supposed to get 8-14 Inches of snow!!! starting later tonight through Friday (according to good ole Ray at Boone weather) haha. Anyways, I just wanted to say hello, and let you know that your in my thoughts and prayers. Love, Kristi
Kristi <kr59073@appstate.edu>
Brrrrr--ooone, NC USA - Wednesday, February 25, 2004 5:20 PM CST

Hi from Danbury, CT training.
Ill be home Friday.
Love Wendy
Wendy Jacobs <wendy.jacobs@pb.com>
- Thursday, February 5, 2004 3:36 PM CST

Hey Grandma Pat. How are you doing? I just woke up to a few inches of snow! It has been unbelievably cold up here... the other morning I went to class and it was 9 degrees, but the wind made it feel like -15. BRRR! Johnathan and I are really enjoying school, we go skiing/snowboarding every Tuesday night for our class. I have a new job at the Geoffrey Beene outlet store in Blowing Rock, and I really enjoy it. I get great discounts! I will be sending you a snail mail letter this week in case you dont get this message. I hope you get a computer soon, that would be great! Anyways, I love you and have a great day!
Kristi (: <KR59073@appstate.edu>
BOONE/frigidville, NC USA - Sunday, January 25, 2004 10:30 AM CST

Hi Ms Pat.... My name is fran and we are a family at RCA.We have three sons that attend RCA and we also go to Free Will.
Matter of fact my son Joshua was at your booth with Madison this year. She is a wonderful young lady. I just wanted to "Amen" to the wise statements you have made. Our son Jonathan is 9 years old and he has been diagnosed on Oct 13th with "Chronic Myelogenous Leukemia". We take everyday now more as a blessing then we have ever. We are in His peace I do believe because of
all the wonderful folks that have included Jonathan in their prayers.
Take care.....and your testimony will be a blessing to whomever reads it... www.caringbridge.org nc/jonathan
fran
knightdale, nc wake - Saturday, January 17, 2004 10:23 AM CST

Congratulations on making past 3 years! Since you and my mother were diagnosed the same day, I like to check the website and see how everyone is doing. My prayers continue to be with you all. God's Blessings.
M. Lisa Santana <santana81@comcast.net>
Ferndale, WA USA - Monday, January 12, 2004 6:29 PM CST

Happy New Years, Aunt Pat. Hope to see you soon.
Carol Ann
Carol Ann <carol.kelly@direcway.com>
Kinston, NC USA - Thursday, January 1, 2004 11:29 AM CST

Happy Christmas to Grandma Pat and all her family. May you continue on your remarkable path, which is an inspiration to many.
Denis Strangman <string@hotkey.net.au>
Canberra, ACT Australia - Sunday, December 21, 2003 4:20 AM CST

Hi Grandma Pat. I hope you are doing well. It has been unusually warm for November. So warm that yesterday, Johnathan and I and ten of our friends went and cooked out at a nearby park. I am sure that it will be quite cold when we get back from Thanksgiving though. I will try to write you a snail-mail letter soon. :) Take care! Love, Kristi
Kristi Romito <KR59073@appstate.edu>
Boone, NC USA - Sunday, November 23, 2003 3:03 PM CST

Great news! I'm so happy that someone is beating this. I still check your site frequently and keep you all in my prayers.
Fondly, M.C.
Mary Clare Hurt <QMB28@aol>
Parma, Oh USA - Saturday, September 13, 2003 8:28 AM CDT

Hey Grandma Pat. How are you doing?! I hope you have a GREAT time at your class reunion. However, I do wish that you could come up and see Johnathan and I this weekend too. I am soo excited to be up here!!! We just started classes today, and have spend some of the evening hooking up my internet. I hope you liked the postcard with the kittens... :) I am not too much on cats cuz I am allergic to 'em, but I love puppies... I wish I could have one up here, but its too much hassle. Anyways, I just wanted to tell you hey and let you know I'm thinking about you. Have a great day! Love, Kristi ;)
Kristi <KR59073@appstate.edu>
BOONE!!!!! :), NC USA - Monday, August 25, 2003 10:13 PM CDT

"Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away." Hey grandma Pat, I just wanted to drop you a line and tell you i love you, and I'm thinking bout you, and sorry i havent written you another letter lately, I will send one out soon. Love, kristi
Kristi <KR59073@appstate.edu>
Raleigh, NC USA - Sunday, June 22, 2003 8:28 PM CDT

KEEP UP THE GOOD PROGRESS AND WISH YOU CONTINUED GOOD HEALTH AND HAPPINESS. FOUND YOUR PAGE WHILE DOING RESEARCH FOR MY BROTHER JUST RECENTLY DIAGNOSED (4 MONTHS). HOPE HE WILL BE AS STRONG AS YOU. GOD BLESS
ARLETTE R. FATTA <frictionworld@cwjamaica.com>
KINGSTON, JAMAICA - Thursday, June 19, 2003 3:21 PM CDT

Grandma Pat,

I'm still thinking of you often and continue to keep you and your family in my prayers. My sister-in-law, Mary Clare, and her daughter Megan were at Duke this year for the Angels walk--I plan on joining them in the walk next year and look forward to meeting all of you wonderful people then!
Peace
Monica Hurt <mauntmo27@aol.com>
Milwaukee, wi USA - Saturday, May 17, 2003 3:12 PM CDT

Hi, My mom was also diagnosed with Glioblastoma Multiforme on March 31,2003. It just blew me and my siblings away. Ever since then it's like we are starving to find someone who knows how drastic it changes everything and just what we are going through. Mom is in her second week of radiation.
Amy Roark <amyjroark@hotmail.com>
Mtn. City, Tn. Johnson - Thursday, May 8, 2003 6:42 PM CDT

Hey Grandma Pat. How are you doing? Sorry I havent signed in awhile... Johnathan told me that they arent printing out the messages every week until alot of people sign it... so you really havent been getting my messages, Soooo I wrote you a "snail mail" letter, lol. I mailed it today. We had alot of fun at Easter, and the food was very good! I hope that you are having a good week, and I will talk to you soon.
PS~ Smile :).... good picture!!
Krispi <KR59073@appstate.edu>
Raleigh, NC USA - Monday, April 28, 2003 8:18 AM CDT

Happy Easter to Grandma Pat and all her family! Hope everyone finds one of those hidden Easter eggs.
Denis Strangman <string@hotkey.net.au>
Canberra, ACT Australia - Friday, April 18, 2003 11:56 PM CDT

Wanda, You should have seen the smile on Summer's face when I showed her the pictures! We had a great day at Moma's.

Wendy A. Jacobs <jacobswa@aol.com>
- Sunday, April 13, 2003 7:58 PM CDT

Grandmapat, my granddaughter, Melissa Matthews is also being
treated at Duke by Dr. Friedman. We pray for your continued
good progress. With all good wishes for a speedy recovery
from your brain tumor. Grannyflo (Florence Matthews)
Florence Matthews <flo_cannon@mindspring.com>
Pineville , La. USA - Sunday, April 6, 2003 11:01 PM CDT

CONGRATULATIONS!!! That's great news!
Sorry to have missed you at the Angels Among Us walk, if you were there. We did look for you. We spent the first 18hs. of our trip in the Duke ER. My daugher Megan had a cyst on her ovary and was in quite a bit of pain. When we arrived, we droped our luggage at the hotel and headed to the ER. I'm happy to report that she is doing well now.
What would a trip to Duke be without a trip to the ER?!
I pray that all continues to go well.
Fondly, M.C.
Mary Clare Hurt <QMB28@aol.com>
Parma, Oh USA - Saturday, April 5, 2003 0:43 AM CST

Hey Grandma Pat. How are you doing today? I wish that we had gotten to see you this past weekend. I am sorry that you didnt feel up to going, and I hope that you are feeling better. Johnathan and I went to see Grandpa Hallie a few days ago, and he seems to be doing pretty well. I am praying for you, and I hope that you have a wonderful day!
Kristi <kchelle19@hotmail.com>
Raleigh, NC USA - Monday, March 17, 2003 7:35 AM CST

Hey Grandma Pat. I have been praying for you to continue feeling good! I just loaded myself up on painkiller cuz i have neck problems, but it just kicked in so i feel much better now. Well, lets see... Johnathan is going to spend the night with Brent & Scott (twins) from App. tomorrow so he wont be heading this way til Saturday. Thats good though, cuz they live in Asheville, and that will break up the trip for him and he will be more rested driving. Anyways, i hope that you have a great day tomorrow and you continue to do great! I love you. :)
Kristi <kchelle19@hotmail.com>
Raleigh, NC USA - Thursday, March 6, 2003 8:31 PM CST

hey grandma pat. how are you doing? i just got home from my modeling class, and i am about to go call johnathan, BUT... i just wanted to say hey, and let you know that you were being thought of! have a good night. Love, Kristi ;)
Kristi <kchelle19@hotmail.com>
Raleigh, NC USA - Wednesday, March 5, 2003 9:21 PM CST

hey Grandma Pat. How are you doing? Johnathan will be home the day after tomorrow! I am so excited, cuz I miss him alot! Are you all rested from getting back from your trip? I hope so. I hope that you have a good day! Love, Kristi
Kristi <kchelle19@hotmail.com>
Raleigh, NC USA - Wednesday, March 5, 2003 7:34 AM CST

Hey Grandma Pat, how are you? I dont know what happenned to the entry I put in yesterday, thats weird, it was there last night. Oh well. I hope that your doctors appointment went well today. Johnathan comes home Friday, and we arent going to john & jeanettes cuz they wont be home... but, we may do something else. I've not felt so good for the past day or two, its probably just nerves. Do you think you could spare a procrit shot? :) Just kidding. You seem to be feeling much better these days, and I am very thankful. I'm goin to lay down, but I will continue to pray for you to do well and feel well! Love, me
Kristi <kchelle19@hotmail.com>
Raleigh, NC USA - Monday, March 3, 2003 7:06 PM CST

Dear Grandma Pat, It is so wonderful to continually check your website and find that all is well. I continue to pray for you and your family.
God Bless!
M. Lisa Santana <msantana@marykay.com>
Ferndale , WA USA - Monday, March 3, 2003 9:27 AM CST

Hey Grandma Pat. How are you doing? My nephew, Karson spent the night last night. We were playin and I said "ouch, i broke my nail"... with all the sweetness he could muster up, he said "aww, aunt kissti, i'll pray for you." :) I have been up since six am with him. So, i might be takin a nap here soon. I hope that you are doing good! Johnathan comes home Friday for spring break, an we will hopefully be going to john and jeanettes that night until tuesday... so, maybe around thursday we can come see you if you'll be home cuz then on saturday we will probably be goin to charlotte to see madison play handbells... so, hopefully thursday is a good day for us to come see you! Have a great day! love, Kristi
Kristi <kchelle19@hotmail.com>
Raleigh, NC USA - Saturday, March 1, 2003 8:16 AM CST

Hey Grandma Pat. How are you today? I am sleepy... we had our half-way "Progress Celebration" in our modeling class tonight, it was fun... but now I am tired. :) I hope that you have a good day tomorrow. Love, Kristi
PS ~ (todays quote:) "Don't worry about who doesnt like you, instead, cherish the relationships you have with those who do love you."
Kristi <kchelle19@hotmail.com>
Raleigh, NC USA - Wednesday, February 26, 2003 8:46 PM CST

Hey Grandma Pat! How are you doing? I Hope that you are doing well, and that you had a wonderful birthday! I have gotta go get ready for class in a second, but I just wanted you to know that I am still praying for you! Have a great day! Love, Kristi
Kristi <kchelle19@hotmail.com>
Raleigh, NC USA - Friday, February 14, 2003 5:58 AM CST

HAPPY BIRTHDAY, GRANDMA PAT!!!!! I hope you know just how special you are! and... I hope that this has been a WONDERFUL birthday for you. As always, I am praying for you. :) Have a great day! I love you lots! ~ Kristi
Kristi <kchelle19@hotmail.com>
Raleigh, NC USA - Sunday, February 9, 2003 6:32 PM CST

Hey grandma pat. I hope that you have a good day. Love you lots. ~ Kristi
Kristi <kchelle19@hotmail.com>
Raleigh, NC USA - Sunday, February 2, 2003 3:22 PM CST

Hey Grandma, I am glad to hear that you have been doing well lately. I am sorry that I didn't get to see you my last time home. I will try to get out that way my next time home. I love you grandma and hope everything goes well in the next few weeks. I will get out there and see you as soon as i can.
Johnathan (your favorite grandson ;-p) <jl47662@cp.appstate.edu>
Boone, NC Watauga - Friday, January 31, 2003 at 01:18 AM (CST)

Thanks Melodie
for the update
- Wednesday, January 29, 2003 at 04:18 PM (CST)

Hey Grandma Pat. I am still praying for you. :) This is a sweet prayer, its called the "Guardian Angel Prayer:" Angel of God, my guardian dear, to whom God's love commits me here, ever this day (or night) be at my side, to light and guard, to rule and guide, Amen. ..... Love, Kristi

Kristi <kchelle19@hotmail.com>
Raleigh, NC USA - Tuesday, January 21, 2003 at 06:57 PM (CST)

Hey Grandma Pat, I found this poem, and I thought that it might be comforting to anyone who is in this situation right now...
"No Tears Past The Gate"...
"Someone new has entered
our eternal home above ~
the heavenly gate has opened wide
to welcome one you love.
We cannot help the tears that fall-
our hearts need time to grieve
when earthly life has ended
and a loved one has to leave.
Yet even in the saddest time,
we know our Savior lives,
and we can trust completely
in the promise that He gives~
that in a glad reunion with the Lord
our loves one wait
to welcome us in joy
with no more tears
beyond the gate!"
Love, Kristi <kchelle19@hotmail.com>
Raleigh, NC USA - Saturday, January 18, 2003 at 05:27 PM (CST)

Hey Grandma Pat! How are you doing? I bet your new floor and carpet sure is pretty! I hope that you are having a good day! I miss you. Johnathan should be coming home on Friday! (I cant wait!!!!!!!!!!) School is going good. The highlight of my weeks are when I go to my modeling class on Wednesday nights. I have been doing it since November. It is really fun, and the other girls in my class are very sweet. Johnathan is glad that I finally have a couple of friends. :) Well, I will keep praying for you, and keep on takin plenty of naps ;)! Love, Kristi
Kristi :) <kchelle19@hotmail.com>
Raleigh, NC USA - Friday, January 17, 2003 at 06:48 PM (CST)

Hey Grandma Pat. How are you doing? I have been praying for you to fight off that cold and feel better! I turned twenty January 9th. I cant believe that I'm not a teenager anymore. :P Johnathan went back to college yesterday morning, and I have held up VERY well. I have not cried at all (much improved, LOL)... I guess maybe Brenda's passing put things in perspective for me. I am praying for you and your family also... Revelation 21:4, "And God shall wipe away all tears from their eyes; and there shall be no more death, neither sorrow, nor crying, neither shall there be any more pain:" ~~Love, Kristi ~~
Kristi :) <kchelle19@hotmail.com>
Raleigh, NC USA - Monday, January 13, 2003 at 08:25 PM (CST)

Happy Aniversary Grandma Pat!
I'm so happy for you. Somebody out there is going to beat this thing and it might as well be you!
I will keep you on my prayer list however, just in case.
God Bless, Mary Clare
Mary Clare Hurt <QMB28@aol.com>
Parma, Oh USA - Sunday, January 12, 2003 at 06:27 PM (CST)

Hey Aunt Pat! We are gratefull for your prayers and visits during our time of sorrow. Hope you all are doing well.
Robbie Dawson <rdawson88@hotmail.com>
Hookerton, NC usa - Friday, January 10, 2003 at 08:24 PM (CST)

Dear Grandma Pat and family,

My deepest sympathies on the recent death of your niece. It is always difficult to lose someone you love, especially when they are so young. My prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time.
Fondly, Mary Clare Hurt
Mary Clare Hurt <QMB28@aol.com>
Parma, Oh USA - Tuesday, January 07, 2003 at 06:36 AM (CST)

Hey Grandma Pat. I really thank you for the shirt, and towels that you got me. I have already worn the shirt! :) I will pray for your niece. Have a great day! SMILE!!! Love, Kristi
Kristi :) <kchelle19@hotmail.com>
Raleigh, NC USA - Friday, January 03, 2003 at 05:21 PM (CST)

Hi Grandma Pat. I hope you continue to do well and that all your family have a blessed and enjoyable Christmas. Down here in Australia we have had some really hot weather, although it is cooler now.
Denis Strangman & family <string@hotkey.net.au>
Canberra, ACT Australia - Monday, December 23, 2002 at 07:41 AM (CST)

Hey Grandma Pat! I look forward to seeing you on Christmas Eve! I hope that you are having a good day, and feeling better. Tell Wendy happy birthday from me, and I will see you soon. ps~ "A friend is someone who knows the song in your heart, and can sing it back to you when you have forgotten the words." Love, Kristi
Kristi <kchelle19@hotmail.com>
Raleigh, NC USA - Saturday, December 21, 2002 at 05:40 PM (CST)

Hey Grandma Pat! How are you doing? I hope that you are doing good! I am done with school, and Johnathan gets home Wednesday so things are pretty good. I am extremely excited about Christmas! We will be celebrating it at your house a week from tomorrow!!! :) Johnathan gets home Wednesday, and I can't wait. (He wont have to leave me at the end of the weekend!! :) Well, I am gonna head to bed... but first I am gonna try salt water to help this ulcer that is going to overtake my mouth if I dont do something! LOL ;) I love you lots! I cant wait to see you! Love, Kristi
(PS~ SMILE!!!) PSS~ "Our life may be filled with Angels we never recognize... and we, too, may act as God's angels in the lives of others when we allow God's Spirit to use us..."
Kristi :) <kchelle19@hotmail.com>
Raleigh, NC USA - Monday, December 16, 2002 at 09:47 PM (CST)

Hey Grandma Pat! That is wonderful news! Thank you very much for the Christmas Card!! I hope that you have a wonderful day. and I will see you at christmas, if not before. I am not feeling that good right now...I told my mom that I wasnt feeling good, and she told me that my nephew has a virus...so, I might be getting one from him. (I realllly hope not!) but anyways, I am really glad to hear that news. :) see you soon. love, kristi
Kristi <kchelle19@hotmail.com>
Raleigh, NC USA - Saturday, December 14, 2002 at 03:32 PM (CST)

Hey Grandma Pat. It was good to see you on Thanksgiving and also on Sunday. One of my best friends died four years ago on Sunday :( soooo I am just ready to get through the week. Its never good to have an anniversary like that near a holiday. I miss Johnathan TERRIBLY already!!!! I seem to be doing everything tonight BUT studying for my finals tomorrow, lets just pray for snow, ;). Please keep me informed about Grandpa Halie, why do they think he has had mini strokes??? Please Let me know!! I hope your MRI results come back ok. I will see you at Christmas, if not before. I am praying for you, please pray for my finals... Spanish II is gonna take a pure-T miracle! Talk to you soon. Love, Kristi
Kristi <kchelle19@hotmail.com>
Raleigh, NC USA - Tuesday, December 03, 2002 at 09:37 PM (CST)

Hey Grandma Pat! This week is finally over, and so begin my finals... but first, Thanksgiving! One of my favorite things are the pictures that Anne Geddes takes of new born babies. I love babies, and so this is especially precious to me. One of the quotes I found on an ecard was this "There are two ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle." (by Albert Einstein) They have this picture beside that quote, and the picture is of a teeny tiny preemie baby laying on its side in between someones hands. It is soo cute! Anyways, i hope that you have a good day! Love, Kristi :)
Kristi <kchelle19@hotmail.com>
Raleigh, NC USA - Friday, November 22, 2002 at 07:00 PM (CST)

Hey Grandma Pat! How are you today? I hope you are doing good. I am looking forward to seeing you on Thanksgiving! I just wanted to let you know about something...The Breast Cancer site is having trouble getting enough people to click on it daily to meet their quota of donating at least one free mammogram a day to an underprivileged woman. It takes less than a minute to go to their site and click on "Fund Free Mammograms" for free (pink window in the middle). (There is nothing to sign up for and no cost to you.) The corporate sponsors/advertisers use the number of daily visits to donate a mammogram in exchange for advertising. Here's the website - Pass it along to all your friends!! www.thebreastcancersite.com Thanks!!! I miss you alot, and good luck finding the MRI's!!! See ya in a week!! :) smile!
Kristi <kchelle19@hotmail.com>
Raleigh, NC USA - Thursday, November 21, 2002 at 06:13 PM (CST)

Hey Grandma Pat. I am glad that you are feeling better these days, and that Brenda is doing good. I am looking forward to seeing you at Thanksgiving. It's not that long from now. It will be nice for me and Johnathan to finally get to see you :). I got accepted to go to Appalachian in the Fall of 2003... so I am glad even though it is a long ways off. My MRI of my brain and spinal cord only proved the inflamation, and my doctor is saying that i have alot of muscle spasms in my trapezius muscle. She has finally given me some medicine that seems to be helping!!! It's been a rough day in "paradise" here today, lol. Just Kidding. Problems only make me look forward to, and get excited that Christmas is coming up. Anyways, I love you and miss you. Have a great day! Love, Krispi
Kristi <kchelle19@hotmail.com>
Raleigh, NC USA - Monday, November 18, 2002 at 06:28 PM (CST)

Hi my name is Matt from Australia

I am putting together a site at remissions.net which provides a free homepage listing service for peole like yourself who have a serious illness.

So that any one who has been recently diagnosed can go to the site and see that they are not alone and their situation is not hopeless, any one can be listed all you have to do is go www.remissions.net and follow the links to the Add your homepage form and fill it in and your site will be included in the next update.

Regards and good luck with your struggle Matt
Matthew <matt@remissions.net>
Cannberra, ACT Australia - Sunday, November 17, 2002 at 07:06 PM (CST)

Hey, I meant to include this a second ago..."Angels offer hope. Not each of us will receive a physical healing, miracle, or rescue when we want it, but a spiritual one." (by Karen Goldman) I thought it was encouraging. smile. love, Kristi
Kristi <kchelle19@hotmail.com>
Raleigh, NC USA - Friday, November 08, 2002 at 06:21 PM (CST)

Hey Grandma Pat. How are you doing?! I am glad to hear that your MRI's came back good. I went to the doctor yesterday, and got a flu shot... so i dont feel all that wonderful today. I also had a pain-killer shot in my hip. I have had these neck and back problems that give me bad headaches... forever! So, my doctor wants me to have an MRI done of my brain and spinal cord this sunday at 4. I am not really looking forward to it, but thats ok i guess. Its too bad that we missed each other at the fair. I wish that I would have been able to see you. Johnathan will be home a week from today. Its been a month since he has been home, so we will try to come see you. Have a good day. Love, Kristi :)
Kristi <kchelle19@hotmail.com>
Raleigh, NC USA - Friday, November 08, 2002 at 06:16 PM (CST)

Hey Grandma Pat! I am glad to hear that you got to go to the fair some this year!!! I will also remember to pray for Brenda. It's less than two months til christmas! I registered for my Spring Semester classes at wake tech today, and I will have my associates degree by the end of the summer... soooo hopefully i will be accepted to go to appalachian in the fall. It was a really rough month, and I am glad to see it go. :) I hope that this month will be better, and I am praying that you will continue to do well. I love you lots!
Kristi <kchelle19@hotmail.com>
Raleigh, NC USA - Thursday, October 31, 2002 at 09:13 PM (CST)

Hey... I meant to include this poem in my entry a minute ago, sooo here it is: (i hope you like it :)... "An angel kissed my tears away today when I was sad. I wasn't feeling quite myself, my day had been so bad. I felt a warmth brush by me that quickly dried my tears; A gentle, kind, and loving touch that seemed to hold me near. Immediately, I felt so much better and the day seemed brighter, too. I guess thats just the way you feel when an Angel comforts you."
Kristi <kchelle19@hotmail.com>
Raleigh, NC USA - Sunday, October 20, 2002 at 06:30 PM (CDT)

Hey Grandma Pat. I was hoping to see you at the fair booth this weekend, but I didnt. Hopefully I will see you sometime soon. Johnathan MIGHT come home this upcoming weekend, and then we would go to the fair again with my family if he did that, so hopefully you will be there and that will all work out. If not, I will see you soon, cuz whenever Johnathan does come home I would reallly like to go to Hill Ridge Farms and pick out a pumpkin and then we could stop by your house. I hope that you are doing good. My head hurts, so I am gonna go lay down, but I hope you are good. LOVE, Kristi
Kristi <kchelle19@hotmail.com>
Raleigh, NC USA - Sunday, October 20, 2002 at 06:19 PM (CDT)

Hey Grandma Pat! wanna know something funny? I got my hair colored and the lady called my mom over there and showed her that I had ten or more Gray Hairs!! I am only 19 years old!! lol. She said if I had a rough week then thats probably what they came from and that it will go away when the hair regrows. :P Anyways, I liked your quote Mrs. Long (about looking up at heaven). Grandma Pat, maybe me and Johnathan can come see you and maybe everyone would want to go to Hill Ridge Farms. (yes, i KNOW its a little Kid thing to do, but I still like it :) I will see you soon, LOVE You (mean it) ~ Kristi
Kristi <kchelle19@hotmail.com>
Raleigh, NC USA - Saturday, October 12, 2002 at 01:12 PM (CDT)

Hey Grandma Pat! How are you doing? I am doing better than I was, thats for sure. First, the baby went home last night, and he is soo much better! That is a miracle, because he was sooo very sick that we almost lost him. And, I had found out from Appalachian that I cant get in until I take these two science courses here next semester, so I will reapply and go this fall after I get my associates degree here. I was REALLY upset, but its alright. Johnathans mom told me that it is ok, because they did Not tell me that I cant come,.. just not right yet. So, I hope that you are doing good. I am excited about the fair. School is hard, (I am taking alot of hours and working) but I try not to stress out about it too much. Johnathan will be home for a couple days for fall break on Wednesday night, so that is definitely the hightlight of my month so far! I miss him alot, and I have had a rough couple of weeks without him here, so seeing him should really help alot. Well, i miss you and I hope that we can come see you. Love, Kristi
Kristi <kchelle19@hotmail.com>
Raleigh, NC USA - Friday, October 11, 2002 at 01:20 PM (CDT)

Hi. Good news on the baby. He was only at Duke for two days, in which he improved drastically. He was taken off of the breathing machine and oxygen, and he is actually being given half an ounce of food now!! They just transported him back to the NICU at Raleigh Comm. He had pneumonia for sure , and maybe a couple of infections, but he is doing so much better. Thanks for your prayers, hopefully he will only be in there for a week or so. Love, Kristi
Kristi <kchelle19@hotmail.com>
Raleigh, NC USA - Sunday, October 06, 2002 at 04:12 PM (CDT)

Hey, well, we have a slight improvement with the baby. He is on a breathing machine, and he was on 100% oxygen, but they have lowered the oxygen level some..and, they can tell by his monitor that he is trying to breathe a little on his own also. But please continue to pray for him. thanks, love, kristi

Kristi <kchelle19@hotmail.com>
Raleigh, NC USA - Saturday, October 05, 2002 at 10:13 AM (CDT)

Hey Grandma Pat. How are you today? Well, I just wanted to ask you to pray for my nephew ~ Kade. He was transported from Raleigh Comm. Hospital to Duke today, and is "Critically Ill" as they put it. I just got back from visiting him. He is fighting for his life, so please keep him in your prayers. Well, I am gonna go to bed cuz I promised Johnathan that I would go to bed as soon as possible. Just talking to him on the phone is soothing right now. I love you. I'll keep you posted. Love, Kristi
Kristi <kchelle19@hotmail.com>
Raleigh, NC USA - Friday, October 04, 2002 at 10:45 PM (CDT)

Hey grandma pat. I am sorry that you are having to have those shots, but i am glad that you are doing ok. I will continue to pray for you... please pray for my nephew, Kade, if you get a chance. he wont be getting out of the NICU for awhile. he is very sick. without making this really long, i will just update you when we see an improvement. for now, no one can hold him, his breathing is funny and he has pneumonia. there is more to that, but i dont feel that good so i am gonna go. i just wanted to tell you that i was thinking about you. love, kristi

Kristi <kchelle19@hotmail.com>
Raleigh, NC USA - Friday, October 04, 2002 at 06:58 AM (CDT)

Hey Grandma Pat. How are you doing? I became an aunt for the second time tonight, ... when my nephew Kaden Romito was born at 9pm ~ weighing 8 pounds, and 9 ounces (he was only an once smaller than I was). He is pretty healthy I think, however, they are keeping in the NICU for a few days.If I am ever sad about something, being around a sweet child seems to help, and I guess God knew just what I needed because I have been able to play with Kaden's older brother Karson all afternoon. He is precious. My brother, Karson, and I were all sitting there eating dinner at the hospital and Kris asked Karson who my boyfriend is (because Karson Loves Johnathan!) Well, Karson always says Johnathan is my boyfriend, but tonight it was so sweet... he said "Me!" and "I love her sooo much!" lol. Well, I am gonna go to bed. Tomorrow is work instead of school. I love you and I hope to see you soon when my life stops the tornado that it is in right now. Love, Kristi
Kristi <kchelle19@hotmail.com>
Raleigh, NC USA - Wednesday, October 02, 2002 at 10:04 PM (CDT)

Hey Grandma Pat. I went searching for inspirational christian poems tonight, and I found one that suits
me well at the moment. I hope that you are doing great, and maybe you will like this too....(Love, Kristi)

FRIENDLY OBSTACLES

For every hill I�ve had to climb,
For every stone that bruised my feet,
For all the blood and sweat and grime,
For blinding storms and burning heart,
My heart sings but a grateful song -
These were the things that made me strong!

For all the heartaches and the tears,
For all the anguish and the pain,
For gloomy days and fruitless years,
And for the hopes that lie in vain,
I do give thanks for now I know
These were the things that helped me grow!

�Tis not the softer things of life
Which stimulates man�s will to strive;
But bleak adversity and strife
Do most to keep man�s will alive,
O�er rose-strewn paths the weaklings creep
But brave hearts dare to climb the steep.

~ Author Unknown ~
Kristi <kchelle19@hotmail.com>
Raleigh, NC USA - Tuesday, October 01, 2002 at 07:04 PM (CDT)

Hey Grandma Pat! You looked pretty and seemed to be in good spirits yesterday. I hope to see you again soon. I usually give you a poem or a quote, so this time I think that I am gonna give you one that Johnathan picked out and framed beside our picture. I have looked at it so many times that I have got it memorized... it goes like this: ~My Friend~
"I'd like to build the perfect friend, someone whose minded strong. The face of an angel she would have and hair that's very long. I'd make her smile light up the room, put twinkles in her eyes. Her voice would shame the sweetest song, and laughter lift the skies. She'd always be considerate, sensitive and kind. She'd be the first to lend a hand when others fall behind. Integrity would be her strength to make her follow through. If I look just close enough that perfect friend is you." ~ It's one of my favorites! Love, Kristi
Kristi <kchelle19@hotmail.com>
Raleigh, NC USA - Sunday, September 29, 2002 at 06:28 PM (CDT)

Hey Grandma Pat! I am still Praying for you! Love, Kristi
ps~ "Kind words are short and easy to speak, yet their echos are truly endless."
Kristi <kchelle19@hotmail.com>
Raleigh, NC USA - Tuesday, September 17, 2002 at 08:04 PM (CDT)

Hey Grandma Pat. How are you doing today? I hope that you arent too upset about having to go to the doctor. I had school and work today, so I am kinda tired. I am very excited to see Johnathan this weekend!!!! It will be fun if we can have him a birthday cookout. I am still a little worried about my great grandma cuz they postponed her surgery for her cancer that she was supposed to have the other day because they wanted to make sure that her pathologist could be there. I cant believe its been a whole Year since Sept. 11, its so sad. It was my Aunt's 40th birthday of all days! Anyways, I Hope that you are feeling ok... i will talk to you soon. PS ~ I heard this quote in my speech class, and it helps me to have to get through some every day tough things, maybe you will like it ~ "If it were easy, Everybody would do it." ~ Love, Kristi ~
Kristi <kchelle19@hotmail.com>
Raleigh, NC USA - Wednesday, September 11, 2002 at 06:47 PM (CDT)

Hey Grandma Pat! I heard a cute quote today, it goes: "Seven days without laughing makes one weak!" So, how have you been doing? I hope to see you next weekend! I miss you lots! Have a great day! Love, Kristi
ps~ Just a note ~ I just found out that my great grandma has skin cancer, and is having surgery tomorrow... please pray that it has not spread, and they can get it all.
Kristi <kchelle19@hotmail.com>
Raleigh, NC USA - Wednesday, September 04, 2002 at 06:19 PM (CDT)

Hi grandma Pat, how are you today? I am a little perkier than I was the other day when I signed on, so maybe i can write you a little more. Johnathans mom has called a couple times to check on me, so thats made me feel alot better. :) You looked good at the cookout! I hope that you are still feeling good! It has rained a LOT in the past day or two, but it has been much needed! You looked cute in the pictures on this web page... Johnathan looked cute over there beside you cuz he was caught stretching out when the picture was taken. :) Well, I hope that you have a good day.. and I will probably see you when Johnathan comes home for his birthday. i love you! smile!
Krispi :) <kchelle19@hotmail.com>
Raleigh, NC USA - Wednesday, August 28, 2002 at 08:14 PM (CDT)

Just a quick note to let you all know that I am still around. Forgive me for not having replied to the personal note from Wanda following my brother's passing. Wanda, I currently don't have home access to a computer -- right now, I'm at the public library. I have returned to my home in Wisconsin after having spent the past year with my brother Bob, Mary Clare, and their girls in Ohio. I so appreciate your kind words and thoughts! I know Mary Clare wrote last week. She mentioned the "numbness" that she feels -- I also have a degree of that! My father passed away in Ohio also -- a month and a day following Bob's death. I feel very blessed that I was able to spend the past year with both my brother and my father! I know I have not processed all that has happened this past year, but I do know that I will be forever a changed person. I hope that God's blessings have made me a stronger person, a more compassionate person, and one who is thankful every day for being alive. Grandma Pat, you of course continue to be in my prayers. I'm actually praying for your entire family! May God give you continued strength in your journey! You all are one of the blessings that God has bestowed upon me this past year!
Monica Hurt <hurtma@mail.milwaukee.k12.wi.us>
Milwaukee, WI USA - Wednesday, August 28, 2002 at 12:38 PM (CDT)

Hi Grandma Pat. You looked beautiful yesterday. I am having a rough weekend, so I am just going to leave you with a quote, ok? It's by John Greenleaf Whittier:
"With silence only as their benediction, God's angels come, Where, in the shadow of great affliction, the sould sits dumb." Love, Kristi
Kristi <kchelle19@hotmail.com>
Raleigh, NC USA - Sunday, August 25, 2002 at 09:16 AM (CDT)

Grandma Pat,
It's wonderful that you are doing so well. I check in every so often to see how you and the family are doing. My mom is still doing good and is determined to get out of her wheel chair (my dad won't take her to the movies until she is). Take care, and I'm still praying for you and your family. And if you saw a wild turkey, then you saw a wild turkey!

M. Lisa Santana <msantana@marykay.com>
Ferndale, WA USA - Saturday, August 24, 2002 at 10:03 AM (CDT)

Dear Wanda, grandma Pat and family,

Please forgive me for not having sent a greeting before now. I know that my sister-in-law, Monica, communicated with you and she kept me informed. I am just now getting around to doing some things that I haven't had time to do in the past several months.
I am trying very hard to cope with the death of my beloved husband, Bob...one day at a time, one baby step at a time.
I miss him terribly.
Grandma Pat, you have been on my prayer list ever since Monica found your site. I rejoice in your good health and progress. I will continue to pray for you and your family and to monitor your site.
Thank you for keeping us in your prayers and your kind expression of sympathy.
God Bless, Mary Clare Hurt

God Bless, Mary Clare Hurt
Mary Clare Hurt <QMB28@aol.com>
Parma, Oh USA - Friday, August 23, 2002 at 07:52 PM (CDT)

Hey Grandma Pat! I hope that you are doing good today. I can't wait to see you on Saturday at the cook out for Johnathan. I heard that you got a hair cut a few days ago and that it looks beautiful!!!! :) :) :) Well, I just wanted to drop you a line... now its time for me to go beg Johnathan to help me with my College Algebra... joy :P You have a great day tomorrow!! LOVE YOU, mean it, ~ Krispi :)
Kristi :) <kchelle19@hotmail.com>
Raleigh, NC USA - Thursday, August 22, 2002 at 07:22 PM (CDT)

Hi Grandma Pat - A Japanese steak house? You certainly have some strange eating houses in the USA. Anyway, hope you enjoyed the outing. All the best from Downunder!
Denis Strangman <string@hotkey.net.au>
Canberra, ACT Australia - Monday, August 19, 2002 at 09:00 AM (CDT)

Hey Grandma Pat! I cant wait to see you again! Me and Johnathan went to see Granddaddy Hallie the other day, and I think he is going to be ok. He's really sweet. :) Anyways, I hope that you have a great day, and I cant wait to see you soon! Love, Kristi :) ..... ps- Smile!
Kristi :) <kchelle19@hotmail.com>
Raleigh, NC USA - Friday, August 16, 2002 at 08:17 PM (CDT)

Hey Grandma Pat! Your outfit looked so pretty on Thursday night! (All that worrying about what to wear payed off.) I just wanted to tell you a cute poem that I found...." No two moments are ever the same, no tree or plant the same shape as the next. Every moment and every color in life are inextricable combined to be shared as one." Have a great day! I love you :)
Kristi :) <kchelle19@hotmail.com>
Raleigh, NC USA - Sunday, August 11, 2002 at 10:46 AM (CDT)

Way to go Melodie!! Sometimes we have to get stuck by the thorns, in order to appreciate the roses!!
Eddy & Brenda <eddyd@coastalnet.com>
Grifton, NC - Wednesday, August 07, 2002 at 11:21 AM (CDT)

Good Luck with your fight, We will be praying for you and your family. I saw you on by baby brothers (he's 33) web page(www.Hofstrom.com)he too is fighting the same fight, but I feel you both are so lucky to have so many Dr. to help you. I know you both will win the fight, they will find some thing to make things go back to normal.
I wish you all the happyness and comfort in the world,to you and your family.
Melanie (Hofstrom)Waite
Clinton, WI USA - Thursday, August 01, 2002 at 11:39 PM (CDT)

hey grandma!! i was just going to let you know that i have been praying for you and all of my friends and their churchs have been praying for you. you are in God's will and you will be just fine ;). i will try to come out there sometime soon, but volleyball practice starts today. so i guess i will come out there over the weekend sometime. just hang in there grandma....ur doing GREAT!!!
Madison
Raleigh, NC USA - Thursday, August 01, 2002 at 09:59 AM (CDT)

Hey! It was good to see you and talk to you last night! You definitely seem like you are feeling better! :) Have a great day! See ya soon! Love, Krispi :)
Kristi :) smile!
Raleigh, NC USA - Sunday, July 21, 2002 at 06:50 PM (CDT)

Aunt Pat and girls it was REALLY great seeing you. I hate that it had to be under those circumstances. Pat you really look great. Kinda seemed like old times, all of us together. Lets all get together but NOT in a hospital!!!!
Love to all....
Donna
Roanoke, VA USA - Wednesday, July 17, 2002 at 08:37 AM (CDT)

Hey Grandma Pat. You are looking prettier every day - your hair has grown back really pretty. I am praying for you and Grandpa Jimmy. I hope Theda gets better soon. You have been very supportive of her while she has been in the hospital! Anyways, I think that me and Johnathan are headed to the hospital after awhile. Have a great day! See ya soon :) LOVE, Kristi :)
Krispi <kchelle19@hotmail.com>
Raleigh, NC USA - Monday, July 15, 2002 at 05:33 PM (CDT)

hey grandma..sorry i haven't talked to you lately, but this summer has been REALLY busy! i just got home yesterday from Charlotte (Charlotte/beaches), and it was a blast! i hope to see you soon, and it sounds like all is well with ya! i have been praying for you and Theda and i know that the Lord's plan will be done! love you bunches!!!!
Madison <Volleychik09@aol.com>
Raleigh, NC USA - Friday, July 12, 2002 at 10:13 AM (CDT)

Hey Grandma Pat! Don't let those doctors make you feel old! :) You know how the song goes..."Fairy tales can come true, it could happen to you, if you're Young At Heart..." (I love that song ~ if you havent heard it, then watch the movie "It Could Happen To You" cuz it is my favorite movie!) I just wanted to touch base with you, so you have a great day!!! ps~smile!
Krispi ~ Michelle <kchelle19@hotmail.com>
Raleigh, NC USA - Friday, July 05, 2002 at 03:19 PM (CDT)

WOW!!!! whoo-hoo. NO BREAST CANCER!!! :) That certainly is an answer to prayer! I am so glad that you felt good and warm enough to put on shorts!!! It seems longer than a week or two since I have seen ya, so me and Johnathan will have to make the journey back out that way soon. :) I am soo glad that you are feeling good. We love you bunches (that comes from me And Johnathan cuz he just walked in)! Have a great day! and.... don't forget to remind Mr.Long that you are overdue on a celebration at Kanki that was promised to you!!! You deserve to be able to eat as much as you possibly can! :) See ya later! smile :) ~ I Peter 5:6,7
Krispi :) <kchelle19@hotmail.com>
Raleigh, NC USA - Tuesday, July 02, 2002 at 05:15 PM (CDT)

Sounds like a true "survivor adventure" at the beach !!! All of you should start a new TV series !! Glad to hear that all of you were able to go, even if it did get a little stressful..you will always have those "mental-stress pictures" to laugh about for years to come. Aunt Pat, I'm sure you enjoyed your stay. The Lord is truely working miracles every where we turn. Especially with you. So glad to hear the "great" news about the mammogram and no tumor activity. God is SO GOOD. We love you and will continue praying that His graces will continue to astound us! See you soon.
Debbie Flinchum <DJKLEENE@AOL.COM>
Blacksburg, Va - Tuesday, July 02, 2002 at 12:27 PM (CDT)

hey grandma
I am so proud of you for everything that you have done....you are such an inspiration, and i hope that you keep on doing well. I know that God has definetly had His hand upon you through all of this!
Madison <Volleychik09@aol.com>
Raleigh, NC USA - Friday, June 21, 2002 at 10:35 AM (CDT)

Hey Grandma Pat! I am soo glad that you are feeling better! Everyone has seemed alot happier now that we know you are feeling good. WE love you very much!!! Have a great day! Love, Krispi ;)
Kristi <kchelle19@hotmail.com>
Raleigh, NC USA - Tuesday, June 11, 2002 at 05:40 PM (CDT)

hey "grandma"...it's nice to hear that you have been doing better these days!! i am continuing to pray for you!! and i hope that God will heal you SOON!!! you have been such an inspiration to all...and we love you!!!
Courtney Young (Madison's friend) <Venuschik2001@yahoo.com>
Raleigh, NC USA - Monday, June 10, 2002 at 08:54 AM (CDT)

Hey Grandma Pat! It was sooo good to see you yesterday! I had a wonderful time, and you looked great!!!! :) Hope to see you again soon. Love, Kristi :)
Kristi <kchelle19@hotmail.com>
Raleigh, NC USA - Monday, June 03, 2002 at 04:50 PM (CDT)

Hey Grandma Pat,
I have been praying for you and i hope you feel better!
Heather <allstar112887@aol.com>
Raleigh, Nc US - Monday, June 03, 2002 at 04:34 PM (CDT)

Hey Grandma Pat! I am soo glad that you are doing good! I sure do miss you! Johnathan and I are at Cape Hatteras with my family right now, and we have been really busy ~ but having a blast! We come home tomorrow, so VERY SOON we will have to come visit you. I love you! Have a great day!smile!
ps~ Johnathan says Hey :)
Kristi :) <kchelle19@hotmail.com>
Raleigh, NC USA - Friday, May 31, 2002 at 11:15 AM (CDT)

I just wanted to let you know that your whole family is an inspiration to me. "Grandma Pat" you are in my prayers, I have a deep admiration for your strength. God bless each of you today and for always. Warmest regards, Paula Cantwell www.cantwellscorner.com (inspirational writing)
Paula Cantwell <PaulaFCantwell@aol.com>
Ashburn, VA USA - Tuesday, May 28, 2002 at 07:46 PM (CDT)

Grandma Pat --

Know that you are still in my prayers. A very big "thank you" for signing my brother Bob's guestbook -- also thank you, Wanda & Wendy! It was a bright moment during these difficult days to hear your good news from Duke! Bob heads back to Duke next week and we're hoping and praying for good news. Keep strong! Remembering also new friends Dave Tangen and John Hydrick in my thoughts and prayers!
Monica Hurt <auntmo27@aol.com>
Parma, OH (& Milw., WI), USA - Tuesday, May 28, 2002 at 11:47 AM (CDT)

It was so good seeing you and uncle Jimmy this past weekend. I think you look great! You always have that loving smile. I hope that all the people didn't wear you out!!!! Sorry I missed the girls, next time I come I will come see you. Take care and I will talk with you soon.
Donna <SY811@aol.com>
Roanoke, Va 24012 - Tuesday, May 28, 2002 at 07:41 AM (CDT)

hey grandma...it looks as if things are going somewhat better for you!! i am SO happy that the reports have come back so good for you! it's amazing what the Lord can do sometimes!! i hope that He continues to heal you, and i look forward to see you much much better one day!!! i know that if anybody can make it through this "stuff"(cancer) than..you are the one who can!!! i believe in you, and i think that several others do too...and we are proud of you!! i love you so much and i will see you sometime soon (maybe Thursday). LOVE YOU!!
Madison <VolleyChik09@aol.com>
Raleigh, NC USA - Monday, May 27, 2002 at 08:11 PM (CDT)

Hey!!! I am soo happy for you! That is wonderful news!!! I hope that you have a great day and feel better :) SMILE :)
LOVE YA, (mean it) Krispi :)
Kristi :) <kchelle19@hotmail.com>
Raleigh, NC USA - Friday, May 24, 2002 at 03:23 PM (CDT)

Just a note to GrandMa Pat's Sister, Aunt Tootsie and Uncle Larry. Thanks for visiting with Mom last Saturday. Also thanks for the great pies and cake you brought. Mom enjoyed your visit a lot.
Wendy <jacobwa@aol.com>
- Tuesday, May 21, 2002 at 11:15 AM (CDT)

Hey Grandma Pat. I am glad that you are feeling better. ( I am sitting in my computer course at Wake Tech right now... probably not sposed to be doing this LOL oops, its ok though ;) anyways, I am praying right now for your MRI to go well. You are probably there right now. I love you lots! If Mrs.Long is still planning on comin out to see you tonight, then me and J.L. will try to go with her. I hope that you are having a good day! Love, Kristi :)
Kristi :) <kchelle19@hotmail.com>
Raleigh, NC USA - Monday, May 20, 2002 at 08:45 AM (CDT)

I understand your feelings, I understand your grand Ma's feelings and how she is going through.
I, myself just came out from the hospital having a brain tumor operation, 2 months ago.
Suddenly life changes, the feelings changes ...

Wishing you all and your Grand Ma, the very best, the happiest moments of Life.
Sincerely,
Vinit <vnn@idx.com.au>
Sydney, Australia - Sunday, May 19, 2002 at 06:17 PM (CDT)

hey grandma...its great to hear that you have been doing so well lately!!! i hope that you continue to do well!! i will see you soon (bkz school gets out on Wednesday - i will have more time). I LOVE YOU SO MUCH, and i look forward to seeing you soon!!!
Madison <VolleyChik09@aol.com>
Raleigh, NC USA - Sunday, May 19, 2002 at 05:58 PM (CDT)

"Sometimes we're forced to slow down, to contemplate what really matters, and to let ourselves heal as others care for us. As difficult as it is in this fast-paced life, every brief rest can be a times of rejuvenation. And a time to let ourselves be loved, May you take the time to heal, and may you always know how very much you are loved." Love, Krispi :)
Kristi :) <kchelle19@hotmail.com>
Raleigh, NC USA - Thursday, May 16, 2002 at 10:51 PM (CDT)

Hey grandma Pat! I am soo glad to hear that you were able to eat good today! I will keep on prayin for you the rest of the week though also. I love you, and miss you. Have a great day!!!!! Love, Krispi :) smile!
ps~ "He who smiles rather than rages is always the stronger." - Gary Romain
Kristi :) <kchelle19@hotmail.com>
Raleigh, NC USA - Monday, May 13, 2002 at 09:29 PM (CDT)

Prayers and best wishes to grandma
Peter <mail@p-goeke.de>
Germany - Monday, May 13, 2002 at 04:37 PM (CDT)

hey grandma. HAPPY MOTHERS DAY everyone!!! i am glad that you are feeling somewhat better today - and i hope that you continue to feel better each day. you are always in my thoughts and prayers, and i know that the Lord has some reason for putting us all threw this. i hope that you have a grat week and i will see you next week sometime (when school gets out - YEA). I LOVE YOU SO MUCH GRANDMA!!!
Madison <VolleyChik09@aol.com>
Raleigh, NC USA - Sunday, May 12, 2002 at 05:06 PM (CDT)

hey grandma Pat - glad to hear that you are feeling better. i am praying for you all the time, and hope you will be healed by the grace of God!!! i love you SO much.

- love your "grandaughter"

Courtney Young (Madisons friend) - <VenusChik2001@yahoo.com>
Raleigh, NC USA - all the way!!! - Saturday, May 11, 2002 at 10:45 AM (CDT)

Hi, hope you are feeling better. I keep tabs on you everyday on this site. I will be in NC the end of the month and will come see you. Let me know if I can do anything for you. Love, Donna
Donna Kleene <sy811@aol.com>
roanoke, va usa - Thursday, May 09, 2002 at 07:40 AM (CDT)

Hey! I am glad that you are feeling better, and I hope (and PRAY!!!) that you continue to feel better :) I am home in raleigh now for the summer, so I will come see you as soon as johnathan gets home next week. I am praying for you :)
Kristi :) smile! <kchelle19@hotmail.com>
Raleigh, NC USA - Tuesday, May 07, 2002 at 09:42 PM (CDT)

"If God brings you to it, He will bring you threw it!" ~ i am still praying for you! I am glad you are doin a little better now then the other day! Love, Kristi
Kristi <kchelle19@hotmail.com>
Winston-Salem, NC USA - Thursday, May 02, 2002 at 09:47 AM (CDT)

hey grandma!!!! i look forward to seeing you sometime soon. we are proud of you, and just "hang in there". i will talk to you later. LOVE YOU SO MUCH!!!! c-ya later. bye :)

Madison <VolleyChik09@aol.com>
Raleigh, NC USA!! all the way! - Wednesday, May 01, 2002 at 02:31 PM (CDT)

Hi! I just read the updated page, bless your heart, you should have Just taken your last dosage. I am praying right now that you dont get sick! I LOVE YOU!!!! take it easy! Love, Kristi
Kristi :) <kchelle19@hotmail.com>
Winston-Salem, NC USA - Tuesday, April 30, 2002 at 08:41 PM (CDT)

Hey grandma Pat. I Hope you are doin good. I miss you. I prayed for you lots this evening, you just seemed to be on my mind. :) "God didnt promise days without pain,laughter without sorrow, sun without rain, but He did promise strength for the day, comfort for the tears, and light for the way." Love, Kristi
Kristi :) <kchelle19@hotmail.com>
Winston-Salem, NC USA - Sunday, April 28, 2002 at 09:04 PM (CDT)

Hey lady :) I am glad that you are almost off of this chemo treatment. I hope you are feeling ok. I will see ya soon :) smile!
"Women are like teabags; you never know how strong they are until you put them into hot water!" ~ I like this one :)
Kristi <kchelle19@hotmail.com>
Winston-Salem, NC USA - Saturday, April 27, 2002 at 10:16 PM (CDT)

Hey lady, i hope you are stil feeling good. i miss you. i am soo excited about all the funds that were raised for the BTC on Saturday, I know you are too. I will keep praying for you. Love, Krispi :) smile!
Kristi :) <kchelle19@hotmail.com>
Winston-Salem, NC USA - Monday, April 22, 2002 at 04:06 PM (CDT)

Grandma Pat, Wanda, and Family --
Just checking in and wanted to say a big congratulations and thank you for your efforts on behalf of all brain tumor patients! Grandma Pat, keep hanging in there! Do you guys know David M. Bailey (www.davidmbailey.com)? Saw his performance last night along with many family members. He is AWESOME! What an inspiration! Joy and Peace to you all!
Love.
Monica Hurt <auntmo27@aol.com>
Parma, OH (& Milw., WI), USA - Monday, April 22, 2002 at 07:44 AM (CDT)

hey....how is everything going?? school is almost out and then i should be able to possibly see everyone this summer (those of you that i know)!!! i usually don't get much "say so" in everything, but i do want to say thanks to everyone for donations and thoughts. it is really encouraging to see my mom (Wanda) and my grandma (Pat) so excited. thanks again for everything that everyone has done. even if you didn't or couldn't give a donation, just the thoughts and prayers make all the difference. MAY GODS WILL BE DONE!!!
Madison <VolleyChik09@aol.com>
Raleigh, NC USA - Sunday, April 21, 2002 at 11:35 AM (CDT)

Hi Everyone, This is Wendy, GrandmaPat's Middle Daughter. I feel like I have to identify myself because I don't help with the web site very much.

I just wanted to Thank Everyone for helping us raise Funds for the Duke BTC. Mom was so interested to hear all about it when we returned today. I gave her the visor, bumper sticker, Angel pin we bought her, and the homemade button Spencer made for everyone. The buttons said " I love GrandMa Pat".

Thanks to Madison, Heather, Lynn and Melissa for helping push Summer's and Jacob's stollers today during the Family Fun Walk. It took all of us to get them around. Duke is built on the mosts unlevel ground in North Carolina. The trails went down hills, around ponds, up and down steps, though the frat yards, all over the campus.

Wanda was so excited everytime she went to her mailbox and someone had sent a donation. She would call me each day to give me a total. Mom was kept informed on the total as it grew and grew. We were very proud of the $3,100 we were able to collect. We know it is only because of you, our friends and family, that we were able to do it. We appreciate it more that we can put into words. If you could only see how excited Mom was about this. It pleased her to be able to help with the research.

Thanks again.
From the heart,
Wendy

Wendy Anderson Jacobs <jacobwa@aol.com>
Youngsville, NC - Saturday, April 20, 2002 at 09:20 PM (CDT)

Hey grandma Pat!! I am sooo glad to hear that you are feeling a little better. You have been in my prayers more then once a day lately! That is GREAT about all of the money raised for the walk. I will continue to pray for you, you take care k? Love, Krispi :)
ps~ "Optimism is essential to achievement and it is also the foundation of courage and true progress."
Kristi :) <kchelle19@hotmail.com>
Winston-Salem, NC USA - Saturday, April 20, 2002 at 06:51 PM (CDT)

Grandma Pat and Family - My name is Megan and my Dad is Bob Hurt. I know that Wanda has exchanged e-mail with my Aunt Monica. I just wanted to jump in and let you all know that my prayers are with all of you. I spent a long time yesterday reading your journal entries. Your family sounds a lot like our family. Big, loving, close, supportive, etc.... I wish we could have all come down for the Angels Among Us Walk this weekend. Please know that we will be there in spirit. Again, thinking positive thoughts about you and the rest of the brain tumor families out there.
Megan Rego <MrsRego@aol.com>
Westlake, OH - Friday, April 19, 2002 at 09:22 AM (CDT)

Grandma Pat --

Just wanted you to let you know that Wanda passed on your info re: CPT-11. She is doing a wonderful job! Look forward to meeting you one day -- perhaps our paths will cross during one of the Duke visits!
Love and prayers.

Monica <auntmo27@aol.com>
Parma, OH (& Milw., WI), USA - Thursday, April 18, 2002 at 12:42 PM (CDT)

Hey Grandma Pat! I hope that you are having a good day! You are ALWAYS in my prayers. We didnt get to see you this weekend, but we should be back home again towards the beginning of May when me and Johnathan get out of school. yay! lol. i hope that you are feeling good. get plenty of rest ok? if you get a chance, you can look at 1 Peter 5:6,7.... those verses always make me feel better. i love you :)
Kristi <kchelle19@hotmail.com>
Winston-Salem, NC USA - Tuesday, April 16, 2002 at 02:53 PM (CDT)

The beauty of today was increased immensely when I found your website Pat! God bless your family (especially Wanda) for getting the story out. My brother has also been treating for a GBM since last July. What a blessing that he has been treating at Duke also since this past Dec. At Duke there is hope!! I found it most interesting that you have been receiving CPT-11 -- my brother begins this tomorrow. I have been praying extra hard and hope that this will work! Prayers and positive thoughts to you and your brave family! Your journal entries have boosted my spirits!!

Monica <auntmo27@aol.com>
Parma, OH (& Milw., WI), USA - Tuesday, April 16, 2002 at 01:00 PM (CDT)

Hey! How are you today? I hope you are feeling good. I had quite a scare last night, I found out that my little cousin Jessica ran out in front of a car when she was chasing her dog. Thank God the car had just enough time to stop! I have Several exams this week, but I think I am prepared enough. I hope to see you this weekend. You take care, ok? Love ya!!! smile! :)
Krispi :) <kchelle19@hotmail.com>
Winston-Salem, NC USA - Monday, April 08, 2002 at 09:30 AM (CDT)

Hey! I Love you!!! i am soo glad that the switch-up on medicines didnt effect you too badly! i was prayin about it. i will talk to you soon, and i cant wait to see you! LOVE, KRisti :) smile!
Kristi :) <kchelle19@hotmail.com`>
Winston-Salem, NC` USA - Friday, April 05, 2002 at 10:37 PM (CST)

Hey lady! how are you feeling? I hope that you are doing well. I cant wait to see you again. Maybe I can see you a week from saturday when me and johnathan will be back in raleigh for cliff's wedding. i will talk to you soon. smile! love, krispi :)
Kristi <kchelle19@hotmail.com>
Winston-Salem, NC USA - Wednesday, April 03, 2002 at 09:12 AM (CST)

Girls and I got back safely from Dallas today. Had beautiful weather Friday and Today while flying. Guess what! It STORMED Friday night and Saturday and until noon on Sunday while we were in Texas. Oh, well!
Morgan is growing up all too fast! (Why is it that 3 1/2 year olds seem so much smarter than we are?) I'm sure you see that with Summer and Jacob each day, but, only seeing Morgan every 4 months, it's a RUDE AWAKENING FOR US! Hope all is going well with you. Will be back in Raleigh soon. Til then, take care. Will talk with you soon. Love, Carolyn and Johnny
Carolyn Eddins <eddinsck@aol.com>
Max Meadows, VA USA - Monday, April 01, 2002 at 09:17 PM (CST)

Hey! I hope you are feeling good today! (I wasn't too perky when I signed this last night, so I am gonna give you a cute quote... :) Have a great day!!
"You may search my time-worn face,
you'll find a merry eye that twinkles,
I am NOT an old lady,
Just a little girl with wrinkles!!" :)
~ Edythe E. Bregnard
Kristi :) <kchelle19@hotmail.com>
Raleigh, NC USA - Wednesday, March 27, 2002 at 07:21 AM (CST)

Hi grandma Pat. I hope you are feeling better now that tonight was your last round of that chemo! I love you, and I am praying for you. see ya soon. Love, me
ps~make sure you eat enough, k? you are skinny-mini enough already :) lol bye
Kristi :) <kchelle19@hotmail.com>
Raleigh, NC USA - Tuesday, March 26, 2002 at 09:36 PM (CST)

I believe that the ultimate solution is money for research. If we as a society spent even half the money we spend for the development of worthless, useless technical gadgets, on cancer research, I believe that people would not be suffering the way they are. As someone who has overcome a life-threatening illness, I thank God for every day on this earth. Keep hope alive!

Michael J. Costas <Minimaxi@optonline.net>
River Vale, NJ USA - Monday, March 25, 2002 at 12:28 PM (CST)

hey grandma, how are you doing? its been a long week, but a good one. Volleyball try-outs are Monday, and i am so excited. maybe you can come see some of my games. i guess i better go now, but i just wanted to say that you are the greatest. you are constantly in my thoughts, and prayers. have a great day!!! I LUV YOU BUNCHES!!
Madison <VolleyChik09@aol.com>
Raleigh, NC USA - Wednesday, March 20, 2002 at 04:53 PM (CST)

Hi grandma Pat. How are you today? I hope you are doing well. I am tired today, but I am ok. I am praying for you!
~Love, Kristi
Kristi :) <kchelle19@hotmail.com>
Winston-Salem, NC USA - Monday, March 18, 2002 at 04:03 PM (CST)

Hi grandma Pat! I wish I could see you soon. I have a sweet poem for ya. Love, me :)
"In the quiet moments when the hurt is hard to bear,
May love become your shelter, and may the beauty of
precious memories be your comfort. You are held in
gentle thought and prayer." ~ i love you :) smile!
Kristi : <kchelle19@hotmail.com>
Winston-Salem, NC USA - Thursday, March 07, 2002 at 12:08 PM (CST)

hey grandma!!! how have you been doing these days? it was nice to see you the other day, and you looked great!! i hope that i can see ya again next weekend, when i am not so busy. talk to you soon. i LUV YOU BUNCHES.

Madison <VolleyChik09@aol.com>
Raleigh, NC USA - Saturday, March 02, 2002 at 11:46 AM (CST)

Hi grandma Pat! I miss you! How are you doing? I hope you are doin well! I love you lots! :) smile!
"The guardian angels of life sometimes fly so high as to be beyond our sight, but they are always looking down upon us." ~ Jean Paul Richter...and... "For He shall give His angels charge over thee, to keep thee in all thy ways." ~ Psalm 91:11
Kristi :) <kchelle19@hotmail.com>
Raleigh, NC USA - Friday, March 01, 2002 at 10:04 PM (CST)

WAY TO GO MELODIE!!!!! You didn't exactly lose them, because I found some of them!!!!!!!
Donna Kleene <SY811@aol.com>
Roanoke, va - Friday, March 01, 2002 at 08:12 AM (CST)

Hey, no news is great news! Hope all is well in NC it is cold here in VA. Just wanted you to know I was thinking of you and hope you have a great day!
Donna Kleene <sy811@aol.com>
roanoke, va usa - Thursday, February 28, 2002 at 08:30 AM (CST)

Hey! I know that I just signed this the other day... but I just found this saying, and I thougtht it was too cute! Love, Kristi :)
"It is better to have laugh wrinkles than worry warts!" :)
Kristi :) <kchelle19@hotmail.com>
Winston-Salem, NC USA - Wednesday, February 27, 2002 at 01:53 PM (CST)

Hi grandma Pat! I hope you are having a good day! I miss you! Love, Kristi :) smile!

"To realize the value of ONE YEAR, ask a student who failed a grade......to realize the value of ONE MONTH, ask a mother who gave birth to a premature baby..... to realize the value of ONE WEEK, ask the editor of a weekly newspaper....to realize the value of ONE HOUR, ask the lovers who are waiting to meet.... to realize the value of ONE MINUTE, ask the person who just missed the train.... to realize the value of ONE SECOND, ask a person who just avoided an accident.... to realize the value of ONE MILLISECOND, ask the person who won a silver medal in the Olympics.... Treasure every moment that you have! And treasure it more because you shared it with someone special, special enough to spend your time. "

Kristi :) <kchelle19@hotmail.com>
Winston-Salem, NC USA - Tuesday, February 26, 2002 at 12:26 PM (CST)

hey grandma!! how is ur day going? i hope urs is going great. well, i guess i better be going now, but i just wanted to let you know that u r always in my thoughts and prayers. and, you are the BEST GRANDMA THAT I COULD HAVE ASKED FOR!!!! i luv ya BUNCHES, always!!
Madison <VolleyChik09@aol.com>
Raleigh, NC USA - Wednesday February 20, 2002 2:36 PM CST

Hi grandma Pat! I hope you are having a great day! You are always in my prayers. :)
"The harder you fall, the higher you bounce."
~ anonymous
Kristi :) <kchelle19@hotmail.com>
Winston-Salem, NC USA - Tuesday February 19, 2002 9:10 AM CST

Boy, things sounds as though they are going great. Seems like everytime Tom and I turn around, we are hearing of more and more miracles. At church during the last month we have had 3 cancer patients tell of positive results and healing, (the doctors don't know everything !!!)
Hope you enjoyed your birthday. Celebrating for days it sounds like it. ENJOY....
Tom and I will be in Raleigh March 1-2. We want to see you and Jimmy hopefully on Saturday, March 2. Will let you know as time gets closer. Sunday, March 3 we are driving on to Myrtle Beach for the week. (This is going to be our honeymoon !!)
Things are crazy around here trying to get tax stuff together. Tom's tax return looks like the J.C. PENNEY catalog !!! I would hate to see what Bill Gates return looks like. Probably the size of a set of encyclopedias.
Keep believing and we'll keep praying. Love to all of you.
Debbie Flinchum <DJKLEENE@AOL.COM>
Blacksburg, Va USA - Friday February 15, 2002 8:10 AM CST

Pat, It is good to hear that you are doing so well.I know that you probably don't know me but you sure know my dad. Dad and I have sorta kept up with you through Ishmael. But he didn't tell me you had your own website. I found that out through Tootsie and thanks to Carol for sending the address along to me. We also have a new Formy-Duval webpage up and you can check it out at http://freepages.genealogy.rootsweb.com/~formyduval
You can see a bunch of your Formy-Duval family genealogy on this site so that is my present to you.You have a rich French ancestery. My Dad ( Charlie Formy-Duval) wanted me to tell you hello for him and to let you know that he is praying for your full recovery and for you to take care and follow the doctor's advice. We will continue to keep you in our thoughts and prayers.
Mike Formy-Duval <cmfd@weblnk.net>
Lake Waccamaw, NC USA - Thursday February 14, 2002 9:48 PM CST

Hi Grandma Pat and Wanda... just checking in to say hello and a belated Happy Birthday! Good to read you are doing so well with the Chemo - keep up the good work TROOPER!!! I am praying for you guys. Love, Sheri
Sheri Hauke <shauke@ikon.com>
Scottsdale, AZ USA - Wednesday February 13, 2002 0:24 AM CST

Hi grandma Pat! It was so good to see you this weekend! I hope you had a wonderful birthday! I have a poem for you: (Love, Kristi :)
Happiness vs. Joy-
"Happiness is an atmosphere you can live in sometimes when you're lucky. Joy is a light that fills you with hope, faith, and love." - by: Adela Rogers St. Johns
Kristi :) <kchelle19@hotmail.com>
Winston-Salem, NC USA - Monday February 11, 2002 3:36 PM CST

Hope you had a great birthday yesterday grandma. i enjoyed spending some time with you, and you looked great!! i hope everything went well on your birthday. we are praying for you always, and you are always in our thoughts day and night. may God bless you, and may He have many more blessings in your life. talk to you soon!!!!! luv ya!

Madison ( grandma pats 13 year old granddaughter ) <Volleychik09@aol.com>
Raleigh, NC USA - Monday February 11, 2002 8:43 AM CST

Happy Birthday Pat it is easy to remember you birthday because its the same as mine. It is strange how my family and your family share alot of birthdays. Each time there is a new edition to the family I will call Wanda so we can figure out who else has the same birthday. Don't party to hard today!!! I will be checking back or talking with Wanda for updates. Take care and hope you have a great birthday
Kathy <kwadd0258@aol.com>
Wake Forest, - Saturday February 9, 2002 12:24 AM CST

Hi, I am so happy to hear that things are going good for you. I think 2002 is going to be a great year for you and your family. I check on you everyday on this site. I am grateful to your girls for keeping this site going and the new updates! Hope to see you soon.
Donna Kleene <SY811@aol.com>
Roanoke, VA usa - Thursday February 7, 2002 7:29 AM CST

Hello Aunt Pat. yes I am guilty of not keeping in touch. Our computer here at work has been tied up with the guys using it all the time....SO, I asked Tom to have our office at home wired so we can get on internet at home. Got it wired last Friday, not on line yet though.
We FINALLY got some snow this morning. Was a surprise for everyone. Not much though, was gone by lunch. But very cold and windy.
Going to be going through Raleigh either March 1 or 2, hopefully will get out to see you. If you feel up to it maybe the four of us can go out for dinner. Either way, would love to see you and visit a little. Wanted to come out last time, but I remember how tired Tom used to get, and still does, from being up for a while without resting. He is pushing himself right now working 10-12 hour days. But he's a man, stubborn as a mule !!!!
Glad to hear things are stable and no change. You are in our prayer request every Sunday at church and of course everyday with us.
Another birthday ??? Well let's see, you should be about 39 this year. Can't be much older because it seems just like yesterday you and mom were pushing baby strollers and all of us were downtown or at the fair. So see, you can't be much older. (That way I don't get any older either !!!)
Keep up the spirits...God will take care of the rest.
Remember we love you very much.
Debbie <DJKLEENE@AOL.COM>
- Monday February 4, 2002 5:04 PM CST

Hey grandma Pat, how are you? I haven't seen you since about Christmas, but me and Johnathan are coming home this weekend so we will be Sure to come see you - I am looking forward to it! I am glad to have heard that your last check-up went well. Have a great day!
"If God had a refrigerator, your picture would be on it.
If He had a wallet, your photo would be in it.
He sends you flowers every spring.
He sends you a sunrise every morning.
Whenever you want to talk, He listens.
He can live anywhere in the universe, but He chose...
Your heart. Face it, friend - He is crazy about you!
God didn't promise days without pain, laughter without
Sorrow, sun without rain, but He did promise strength for
The day, comfort for the tears, and light for the way.
Love, Kristi :) smile!
Kristi Romito <kchelle19@hotmail.com>
Winston-Salem, NC USA - Sunday February 3, 2002 2:12 PM CST

Hello everyone,

I'm so glad to hear that Pat is doing so well. I just found your website thru Marg Strangman's site and will be sure to bookmark it so I can check back from time to time.

My mother-in-law, Peggy was diagnosed with glioblastoma in March 2001. Her road has been a very difficult one to say the least, so I'm pleased to know that Pat's road has been somewhat better.

Peggy has been bedridden for the last 3 months as her muscles have withered greatly and her mental alertness varies from day to day. The hardest part for all of us was her beligerent phase....she became someone we didn't even know. We've recently hired a home health agency to assist us with her care and they have been wonderful to us and to Peggy.

Pat, I'll be praying for you and your family. Please know there are many out here in cyberspace that have never personally met you, but we care about you and wish you all the best.

Amy

Amy <AmyBolton@aol.com>
High Point, NC - Tuesday January 29, 2002 5:53 PM CST

hey grandma, just checking in on you. i am proud of you for doing so great with this "bad stuff". i love you, and hand in there. hope to see you soon. bye.
Madison <VolleyChik09@aol.com>
Raleigh, NC USA - Monday January 28, 2002 6:52 PM CST

Pat, Congratulations on your excellent check-up! Yes, it's been a long year, but the worst is behind! Hope you were lucky on the scratch tickets we mailed! Plan to go to NC next week. We'll see you then.
Love, Carolyn and Johnny
Carolyn & Johnny Eddins <eddinsck@aol.com>
Max Meadows, VA US - Saturday, January 12, 2002 at 09:36 PM (CST)

Hi, this is Wendy, Grandma Pat's middle daughter.
Happy Birthday Jacob. 3 years old! He is grandma Pat's youngest grandkid. The Grandkids have lifted her spirits so much. She sure loves them all.

At the Dollar Store Mama found Chex Mix snack food. She has fallen in love with it. It it sooooo good to see her eat so hardy again.

She was in such a great mood when I stopped by with the kids on Thursday evening. Summer got her silver fish charm. Dad ordered her a small charm to go on her new silver necklace. It's just like her Grandma's, she loves it.

Hello to everyone in Kinston. Hope Brenda is doing well.
Take Care, Wendy
Wendy Jacobs <jacobswa@aol.com>
Youngsville, (Snowville), NC - Friday, January 11, 2002 at 08:32 PM (CST)

Hi Grandma Pat

You have problems with snow? We have just returned from the beach in Queensland, Australia, and one day my son Gregory (15 YO) got so burnt on his back he tried everything, aloe vera, sliced tomatoes. Now it is okay, just that he leaves a trail of peeling skin everywhere he goes!

Prayers and best wishes for 2002.
Denis Strangman <string@hotkey.net.au>
Canberra, ACT Australia - Thursday, January 10, 2002 at 06:04 AM (CST)

WAY TO GO ON YOUR BLOODWORK!!!!!! I enjoyed talking with you the other day. Sounds like you had a good christmas. NOW you get snow, here in Roanoke, VA we only got a few flakes....Keep up the great work. Love ya! Donna
Donna Kleene <sy811@aol.com>
Roanoke, VA USA - Friday, January 04, 2002 at 08:11 AM (CST)

Hello it is 11:30pm and STILL snowing in Raleigh NC

Kathy
- Wednesday, January 02, 2002 at 10:24 PM (CST)

hey grandma, i hope that you are having a good day. have a happy new year. hope to see ya b4 new years. luv ya always.
MADISON ( grandma pats oldest grandaughter ) <volleychik09@aol.com>
raleigh, nc usa - Saturday, December 29, 2001 at 01:50 PM (CST)

GOOD LUCK MY PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU.I've just been told I have GBM.
God bless you folks!!!
SCOTT HURST <HUR967@AOL.COM>
HINCKLEY, ILL U.S.A. - Friday, December 28, 2001 at 09:06 PM (CST)

I appreciate the insight.I've just been diagnosed with GBM.
GOD BLESS YOU FOLKS!!!!
Hurst Donald(Scott) <hur967>
Hinckley, ill U.S.A. - Friday, December 28, 2001 at 08:56 PM (CST)

If you have never had any of PAT and Jimmys Chicken Salad You have never had chicken salad. It is the best.
Merry Christmas to all have a safe Holiday.

Kathy <kwadd0258@aol.com>
Wake Forest, - Sunday, December 23, 2001 at 01:51 PM (CST)

Guess what? Only 15 more days til Christmas !!!! Now doesn't that just get the heart pumping....sounds as though things are going great. The wedding went off very smoothly and was quite pretty to have been so simple. Everyone got different poses and angles for pictures, therefore we have a really good variety. As soon as we get them all together I'll get some copies to you. Donna was absolutely beautiful. She met me at the beauty shop that morning and we both let my beautician do our makeup. It's a wonder what makeup can do for us.!!!! We are just glad it's over, so things can settle down. Tom is pushing himself too much lately. Can't make him realize how much his body has been through and it is going to take more than just a month or two to get this body back to normal. In fact there are some things that will never be the same, such as his seliva glands. It really bothers him, because he wants so much to sing in the church choir. I just keep reminding him that maybe God has other plans for him.
Tell everyone hello for me. We hope to get to Raleigh soon, but may wait til after the holidays. (safer on the roads)
Our love to all of you. Let us know if you need anything. Our prayers are ALWAYS with you.
Debbie Kleene (now Flinchum) <DJKLEENE@AOL.COM>
Blacksburg, Va. - Monday, December 10, 2001 at 02:17 PM (CST)

Hey, Mrs.Anderson!! How are you? This is Kristi (aka~ Johnathan's girlfriend :) I hope you are feeling alright today. You are always in my prayers! I think I will leave you with one of my favorite poems: it's called "Whisper of Angel Wings."
"Today I stumbled and once again
Was lifted by an unseen hand.
What comfort and joy that knowledge brings
For I hear the whisper of angel wings.
The guardian angels God sends to all
To bear us up when we stumble and fall,
Trust Him, my friend, and often you'll hear
The whisper of angel wings hovering near." ~anonymous
Kristi Romito <kchelle19@hotmail.com>
Raleigh, NC USA - Saturday, December 08, 2001 at 10:57 PM (CST)

Hi Grandma Pat and Wanda - Wanda, hope you are feeling better today! Just checking in to say hi and let you know you guys are in my thoughts every day. Grandma Pat, hope the last IV chemo went real smooth today - good job!
Thanks for your prayers for Dad. He has literally no energy at all right now - we are hoping that this will change soon!!
Take GOOD care! Love, Sheri
Sheri Hauke <shauke@ikon.com>
Scottsdale`, AZ USA - Thursday, November 29, 2001 at 05:41 PM (CST)

Hi Aunt Pat! I finally squeezed your website address out of Lauren and Lindsay, and now *I* have it bookmarked. It was wonderful to see you at Rachel's wedding-you looked so beautiful. You are often in my thoughts, especially at work when I take care of a GBM patient in our radiation-oncology clinic. I hope you get the kindest, gentlest, nurse there is, because you deserve the best. Take good care-you are in my prayers.
Pam Couey (ex-Inman!) <pinman1029@aol.com>
Carrboro, NC USA - Monday, November 26, 2001 at 07:12 PM (CST)

Happy Thanksgiving Pat,Jimmy,Wanda,Barney,Madisin,Johnathan,Wendy Felton,Spencer,lil Summer,Melonie,Stuart and Jacob.
Thinking of all of you.
Wanda I will have sales papers ready for us to plot our journey for Friday morning. I CAN"T WAIT.
Please over look any mis spelled words I had my eyes checked this afternoon and can barly see the keyboard.
Love You guys
Kathy <kwadd0258@aol.com>
Wake Forest, USA - Wednesday, November 21, 2001 at 06:24 PM (CST)

Hi

The counter says I am visitor number 6,000. Congratulations! Do I get a prize of one of those strange dishes I read about in the diary occasionally :-) Just kidding but the only food I recognise is when you mention that someone was "shelling peas". I think I know what that means - I assume they are also green over there in the USA. I hope Grandma Pat is feeling better. I know what dehydration is like. A couple of years ago one of of my sons went on a trek over the wartime Kokoda Trail in the jungle in Papua New Guinea and didn't take enough water. As a result he became dehydrated and had to be helped to walk. Keep up the water intake.

Prayers and best wishes
Denis Strangman <string@hotkey.net.au>
Canberra, ACT Australia - Monday, November 19, 2001 at 04:22 AM (CST)

It's me again Aunt Pat. Well one week from today I will be doing it again...They say 3's a charm, let's hope so...Wedding plans are coming together. Just will be glad when it's over with. If you and Jimmy feel up to coming up Tom and I would like to get you a motel room so you won't have to drive straight back. If you can't make it, I will definately be thinking of you. (Wish me Luck !!!!) Gotta get this marriage thing right sooner or later (ha-ha). I'm really just into collecting diamonds!!
Have a great weekend. Talk to you later.
Love ya...Deb
Debbie Kleene <DJKLEENE@AOL>
Blacksburg, Va. - Friday, November 16, 2001 at 11:11 AM (CST)

Good morning Aunt Pat. Heard that these last few days haven't been the best. I have a little saying at my desk that I read each day, especially when things just aren't going so great...it reads..."The way I see it, if you want the rainbow, you gotta put up with the rain" (by Dolly Parton) Oh how true. It is by faith alone that will get us through anything. You are in our prayers always, along with your family. We are only a call away if any of you need anything, or just want to talk. We love you.
The one thing we all must remember is that the only thing we have on this earth that is ours, is our family. Family will always be there for each other, in both good and bad times. Love always.
Debbie Kleene <DJKLEENE@AOL>
Blacksburg, Va. - Thursday, November 15, 2001 at 09:26 AM (CST)

Hi Grandma Pat... Just checking in to say Hi and that I loved the pictures from the fair! Wish I could have brought my Dad ALL the way there too taste the yummy food and meet you in action!
Sounds like you are doing really well - keeping that tumor in its place! Hang in there and keep up the good work OK.
Dad is doing OK... he's on CLOUD 9 with the Arizona Diamondback World Series Championship... if happiness and joy could kill his tumor he would be home free :)

We think and pray for you and your family every day.

Lots of Love, Sheri
Sheri Hauke <shauke@ikon.com>
Scottsdale, AZ USA - Tuesday, November 06, 2001 at 10:51 AM (CST)

Hi Aunt Pat, I took a trip down memory lane and it made me smile. Remember all the times I stayed there and "the gang" played in the play house, had to walk to the store atleast 2 or 3 times a day. Played on the small hill with the ditch in front of the house and tracked mud in and you always telling me not to pick up Skippy because she might bite. I treasure those memories and look forward to making more!
Donna Kleene <SY811@aol.com>
roanoke, va usa - Monday, November 05, 2001 at 01:20 PM (CST)

Aunt Pat, we sure were glad to see you and the rest of the gang on Saturday. I hope ya'll enjoyed it as much as we did. By the way, out of all the desserts, your peach cobbler was the first one gone. Tell Uncle Jimmy we missed him, but understand. Take care and let's do this more often.
Carol Ann <mkelly@coastalnet.com>
Kinston, NC US - Monday, October 29, 2001 at 03:50 PM (CST)

HELLO ANDERSONS I ENJOYED WORKING AT THE FAIR THIS YEAR HOPE TO COME BACK NEXT YEAR
ADAM ALLEN <FIREFIGHTER_27596@YAHOO.COM>
YOUNGSVILLE, NC USA - Sunday, October 21, 2001 at 07:10 PM (CDT)

Hello Aunt Pat. Just wanted to let you know, no matter how much you have trained your daughters, they just don't have the touch for the cobbler that you do....Just didn't taste the same. (Sorry cousins!!!) Hope all is well. Don't overdo it. Rest and enjoy the peace and quiet while the rest are working their "hind-ends" off. It was great talking to you Sunday. We'll be back to Raleigh soon. All our love and prayers.
Love ya, Debbie
Debbie Kleene <DJKLEENE@AOL>
Blacksburg, Va. - Tuesday, October 16, 2001 at 12:56 PM (CDT)

Hello Grandma Pat! For the rest of us not from the south...
please explain what a pig pick'n is. Thanks. I'm keeping you all in my prayers. Lisa-
M. Lisa Santana <santana81@home.com>
Ferndale, WA USA - Sunday, October 14, 2001 at 11:17 PM (CDT)

Hey - it's Wanda - Good thing I check the journal entry before I started updating tonight (this morning). I am home earlier than I thought. It is only 1:00am - I am waiting on the aprons to finish washing so I can put them in the dryer. Wendy is right - We (I) missed Mom VERY MUCH today at the fair. Everyone loves "Ms. Pat" and they ALL send their best wishes and prayers from the North Carolina State Fair. I LOVE YOU MOM........Love, Wanda
Wanda
Raleigh, NC USA!!!! - Friday, October 12, 2001 at 11:50 PM (CDT)

Wanda, What's the Big Calligraphy job? Grandma Pat, I hope you are feeling better. My mom is still taking the Temador, however this last round made her very sick and her anti-nausia meds did not work. Her latest MRI didn't show any signs of change. God bless you all! Lisa-
M. Lisa Santana <santana81@home.com>
Ferndale, wa - Tuesday, October 09, 2001 at 08:49 PM (CDT)

Hello Aunt Pat. Glad to hear you are beating the battle that is going on inside of your body. (Tom said it's like a major war inside of you) Sounds like you are keeping busy trying to keep everything in line for the fair. We are planning to be down on the 12th. Hopefully we will see you then. We will definately see you before we leave Raleigh on Sunday. Keep smiling, brighter days are coming.
Our prayers are with all of you. Love, Debbie
Debbie Kleene <DJKLEENE@AOL>
Blacksburg, Va USA - Tuesday, October 09, 2001 at 02:18 PM (CDT)

Still thinking of you all. Love always Darryl , Sally and Michael Davoren
Michael Davoren <mjdavoren@bigpond.co.au>
Brisbane, Qld Australia - Monday, October 08, 2001 at 06:04 AM (CDT)

Well, if Aunt Pat is supervising everything, then at least we can rest easy that things will be ready by Oct. 12th. !!!
As usual, the women of this world have to make sure things are done right.....( Bet Uncle Jimmy will get me for that comment..) Hope this note finds you feeling better. We are getting excited about the fair. Looking forward to seeing everyone too. I know we are "INEXPERIENCED" in the art of working the booth, but there may be other things that we can help with. Just let us know. Glad to hear that Aunt Pat is getting out of the house and enjoying some of this beautiful fall weather. Talk to you soon. Our love to all of you.
Debbie Kleene <DJKLEENE>
Blacksburg, Va - Tuesday, October 02, 2001 at 09:25 AM (CDT)

Hello Aunt Pat. Haven't had much of a chance this week to get with you. Tom has been real sick also with his radiation treatments. Throat full of blisters and his salava glands no longer function. He finally slept all night last night for the first time in months.

Tom said to tell you to hang in there. Better days are ahead. He can relate to how you feel with the chemo reactions.
We are looking forward to seeing everyone again. Hopefully by the fair, Tom will be up to traveling. (not to mention that he talks of nothing but getting some of your cobbler!!)
Time is getting away from me lately. We are planning to get married on Nov. 23, and I never seem to be able to get everything coordinated. Just to be having a small ceremony, it is turning into a lot of work. Talmadge is wanting the "wedding" thing. I'll keep you posted on details.
Tell everyone hello for us. See you soon. Our love and prayers are with you always.
Debbie Kleene <DJKLEENE@AOL>
- Thursday, September 27, 2001 at 12:44 PM (CDT)

Hi everyone - sorry to hear you were feeling bad this weekend Wanda and Grandma Pat too! Sounds like things are getting better though - good.
My Dad (Butch) drinks a tablespoon of liquid chlorophyl (its a green tasteless liquid) every morning in a small glass of cold water. I buy it at my local healthfood store. Since he has done this, his blood counts have always stayed in the normal range! We read this tip from the book Thats UNAcceptable - the book the 8 year gbm tumor survivor wrote - and she drank the stuff everyday. Just a suggestion to help keep those counts up!

Dad says HI to Grandma Pat - I printed your pictures and showed them to him yesterday. He says you look wonderful - and asks "whats her secret!" He has gained almost 40 pounds from taking the decadron. Any helpful hints?

We are praying for you every day Grandma Pat - and Dad says its OK if some days you don't feel like saying anything, he dosen't either. Its all part of this crazy rollercoaster ride we are on!

Keep the faith, Love, Sheri
Sheri Hauke <shauke@ikon.com>
Scottsdale, AZ USA - Tuesday, September 25, 2001 at 06:21 PM (CDT)

Hi. I hope you have a nice day today.
Bill Breeze <bbreeze@justice.com>
Durham, NC USA - Thursday, September 20, 2001 at 05:19 AM (CDT)

Hi to all of you. Hope that Pat is having a better day to-day. Thinking of you.
Brenda W. Alexander <balex5832@aol.com>
Raleigh, NC - Wednesday, September 19, 2001 at 02:09 PM (CDT)

Happy 40th Anniversary Mom (Grandma Pat) and Dad (Grandpa Jimmy)!

I love you.

Wendy
Youngsville, NC - Tuesday, September 18, 2001 at 09:43 PM (CDT)

Hi, it was really great seeing you, Wanda and Wendy. I am sorry I can't get there as often as I want to. Just know that you are on my mind and in my prayers! I am here if you or anyone needs me! I love Ya! Donna
Donna Kleene <sy811@aol.com>
Roanoke, va USA - Tuesday, September 18, 2001 at 08:04 AM (CDT)

Wanda
You are right about one thing. It's not as physically demanding on the spouse, but it sure wears on your emotions!! Tell Uncle Jimmy to keep on keeping on and together they will win.
Eddy
Eddy Dawson <eddyd@coastalnet.com>
Grifton, NC - Sunday, September 16, 2001 at 08:47 PM (CDT)

Hi - just checking in to see how Thursday went...glad it went "ok"... minus the muffin! Being nauseous is NO FUN. My Dad took the drug Zofran for his nausea - it did wonders - was that what your mom took?

Hope you all enjoy a nice weekend.

We just found out today my Dad will have his second brain surgery next Tuesday 9/18 - yikes. Our nerves are already sizzling.

Talk to you soon and take care, Sheri

Sheri Hauke <shauke@ikon.com>
Scottsdale, AZ USA - Friday, September 14, 2001 at 06:18 PM (CDT)

Just wanted to check on you this afternoon before I leave for home. Sounds like the chemo was a lot of "fun". Tom said he can really relate to your experience.( Especially the muffin part) Remember we love you and tell Wanda she's really getting old now that her son is 18!!!
All of you have a great weekend. After a week like this, we all need one. Our love to all of you.
Debbie Kleene <DJKLEENE@AOL>
- Friday, September 14, 2001 at 04:33 PM (CDT)

It's Thurs. morn. and I'm sure you are at your treatment. Tom and I are praying for you and hope you get through this as well as you have the other obsticles you have faced. Tom's radiation has really affected his throat. Has blisters all in his mouth and down this throat. Can't swallow at times. But as Wanda said, after Tuesday, our problems are very small compared to what others are facing. Just another situation to show us how precious every day is and we should let our loved ones know our feelings. Tell Uncle Jimmy we said hello and let us know if he needs anything. Our prayers are with all of you.
Debbie Kleene <DJKLEENE@AOL>
Blacksburg, Va - Thursday, September 13, 2001 at 07:41 AM (CDT)

Aunt Pat, Uncle Jimmy, and the rest of the family, our thoughts will be with you all day tomorrow. Keep up the faith. Wanda, please update as early as possible. Thanks.
Carol Ann <mkelly@coastalnet.com>
Kinston, NC - Wednesday, September 12, 2001 at 07:47 PM (CDT)

Hi Grandma Pat - I just wanted you to know our family here in Phoenix, Arizona is praying for you now too! We will especially pray for a good day this Thursday with your new treatment. Sounds like you make a mean cobbler - YUMMMMMM! Keep up the good work.

My Dad, Butch, also has a gbm - diagnosed in Feb 2001. Your wonderful daughter Wanda posted a message on our family web site - isn't this internet thing amazing!

It sounds like you are in great hands way over there...we will keep up the prayers for you and your family!!!

Love, Sheri Hauke
Sheri Hauke <shauke@ikon.com>
Scottsdale, AZ USA - Wednesday, September 12, 2001 at 12:38 AM (CDT)

Pat, I'm very pleased to read that your MRI had a good reading. I've been off line for a few weeks and have been anxious to see how you are doing. My mom is doing good too!
God Bless.
M. Lisa Santana <santana81@home.com>
Ferndale, WA USA - Sunday, September 09, 2001 at 11:32 PM (CDT)

Hey Grandma!! I miss you soo much. I wish i could still call you every couple days or so, but phone cards are getting expensive. I hope you are keeping an eye on mom and dad and madison for me. I hope all of your tests go well and that the new treatment works out. I love you grandma and i am praying for you!!!!!
Johnathan (the favorite grandson-- : - p ) <jl47662@cp.appstate.edu>
Bone, NC Watauga - Thursday, September 06, 2001 at 06:33 PM (CDT)

Took a look at the pics. Aunt Pat you look like you are going for a modeling job...walk straight, chin up, turn your head......yep, you are starting a new career.
Keep up the high spirits, I love it when the doctors get totally puzzled because you are doing so well. Tell them it's all in the secret recipe for the cobbler!!! Love ya. Deb
Debbie Kleene <DJKLEENE@AOL.COM>
- Thursday, September 06, 2001 at 09:28 AM (CDT)

Sounds as though everything is going well. Hate that you have to take the IV chemo though. Tom said if your veins are good and they don't have trouble taking blood, he would recommend staying away from the port-a cath. It really bothered him. The only advantage is they don't have to stick you every time you turn around.
Tom's radiation has caused his throat to become raw. Now on nothing but liquids. (But loving the milkshakes)
Our love to all, Debbie
Debbie Kleene <DJKLEENE@AOL.COM>
Blacksburg, Va - Wednesday, September 05, 2001 at 01:43 PM (CDT)

All the best to you all. I found you through the extraordinary "Marg's Journey" Website. It is so comforting to know I am really not as alone as I thought. My thoughs are with you all.
Love Michael
Website: http://www.caringbridge.com/co/darryl/
Michael Davoren <mjdavoren@bigpond.com.au>
Brisbane, Qld Australia - Monday, September 03, 2001 at 08:00 AM (CDT)

We enjoyed seeing everyone this last weekend. It has been too long since we have seen everyone. Wendy, my mom commented that it had been about 30 years since she heard that much laughing and screaming around the house. Pat, you looked great and we hope that we did not wear you out too much.

Best wishes and God Bless.
Wes <wkleene@aol.com>
Springfield, VA United States - Friday, August 31, 2001 at 11:28 AM (CDT)

It was great to have "most" of us together last weekend. Sorry Melodie had to work. Wanda, the pics are great. Can't wait to see the prints from all the cameras clicking on Saturday. Aunt Pat, you looked so good it was almost shocking. Pink is definately your color. So glad you and Jimmy were able to come over for some family time and pics, especially with Wes moving to Texas. (some of us have better sense!!!) Looking forward to October as usual...which of course is the ONLY time Tom will get his cobbler!! Remember we love you and you are ALWAYS IN OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS.
Debbie Kleene <DJKLEENE@AOL.COM>
Blacksburg, Va usa - Thursday, August 30, 2001 at 03:02 PM (CDT)

I just wanted to make one corrections to today's journal entry. Summer helped Grandma Pat make it and Summer called it "em-uh-nade", there wasn't an "L" in it, I'am sure. She said it twice for me and Grandpa Jimmy. He about cracked up laughing. Just wanted to make that little correction.

Wendy
Youngsville, NC - Thursday, August 23, 2001 at 08:15 PM (CDT)

Wanda, Great new pictures.
Pat, what a lovely home you have. It has very "Welcome" feeling. I love porches.
M. Lisa Santana <santana81@home.com>
Ferndale, WA USA - Wednesday, August 22, 2001 at 11:31 AM (CDT)

Hi, Pat
This is from Buddy and family. We hope you are feeling well
and getting stronger. I saw Latham today and talked with him. He seems to be doing okay. We just wanted to let you know that you and your family are in our prayers and we will continue to check up on you.
God bless,
Buddy, Letha Mae, Cheryl and Tara
Buddy Evans <budevans@atmc.net>
Shallotte, NC USA - Tuesday, August 21, 2001 at 08:04 PM (CDT)

Wanda, please update with new pictures if you have any.

- Friday, August 17, 2001 at 10:15 PM (CDT)

Hi everyone! We are home. I might try to update tonight. It is still a little emotional leaving my first at college. Just when I think I'm OK - I'll look at something or someone will say something and I just start CRYING.
Wanda
Raleigh, NC USA - Sunday, August 12, 2001 at 05:54 PM (CDT)

Hi Everyone. I am suppose to be updating the page today but my Sisters, Wanda and Melodie, have changed the password on me. Wanda is getting Johnathan settled in at college and Melodie is working at the hospital. Mom's blood came back fine so Duke has ordered her next meds to be given on Tuesday. I spoke with her and asked her "How do you feel this morning and what would you like everyone one in the world to know about you today?" Her reply was I am "Doing Fine" and "Tell them I enjoyed seeing everyone at the party on Thursday". I'll do a better update when I GET THE PASSWORD....I guess I am not as in the loop as I thought I was....Wendy
Wendy (Sister without the password) <jacobswa@aol.com>
Youngsville, NC - Saturday, August 11, 2001 at 09:41 AM (CDT)

Nice to read that Pat is rolling along comfortably. Keep it up! You people lead a busy family life. I liked that comment about Joanathan only coming home from College when his clothes need washing. I, also, have occasional visits from various offspring apparently solicitous for my welfare and then I realise that the big attraction is the washing machine and the clothes dryer :-)
Denis Strangman <string@hotkey.net.au>
Canberra, ACT Australia - Friday, August 10, 2001 at 12:19 AM (CDT)

Wanda, Happy belated Birthday! Don't worry, you may enjoy having one less in the house. Then again I come from the stand point of having 8 and 5 year olds. They are driving me crazy. When is school starting? Not soon enough for me! I'm glad to hear all is well with Pat. You all take care.
M. Lisa Santana <santana81@home.com>
Ferndale , WA USA - Thursday, August 09, 2001 at 11:23 AM (CDT)

Hi Pat glad to hear the bone scan was good. Sounds like Johnathan had a nice GOING Away party Sunday. I called Wanda to wish her a Happy Birthday tonight and by the time we finished she had me in tears and Johnathan laughing a both of us. When I ask when he would be coming back home his reply was when his clothes needed washing and according to what he had packed at that time he will be back really quick. "GOOD LUCK JOHNATHAN" Keep in Touch!!
Kathy <kwadd0258@aol.com>
- Wednesday, August 08, 2001 at 10:32 PM (CDT)

Hi Wanda and Happy Birthday!!!! I won't mention how old she is because I am only 16 months behind her. What was Mom (Pat) thinking? (Wanda enjoys seeing new entries on the guestbook.....so heres one for you Wanda.)
Wendy
Wendy Jacobs <jacobswa@aol.com>
Youngsville, NC - Wednesday, August 08, 2001 at 04:05 PM (CDT)

It's me again Aunt Pat. Saw the pics from Wanda's house. Johnathan and Barney were a sight!!!! Everyone else looked great. Glad to hear the bone scan was good. Had me a little worried there....Not much news, still working 10-12 hrs a day right now trying to get ready for those WILD COLLEGE KIDS....(Wanda, do you understand that comment???)
When these kids get away from their parents, they become a total new species!!! Talk to you later. Our love to all,
Debbie
Deborah Kleene <DJKLEENE@AOL.COM>
BLACKSBURG, VA - Monday, August 06, 2001 at 05:38 PM (CDT)

Just wanted to say hello. Tell Uncle Jimmy my spagetti sauce turned out okay. Not as good as his though. But it was edible. Which after I accomplished the sauce, I attempted the cobbler. BIG MISTAKE...need to experiment more with it. Cobbler was SO DRY, no juices, and the topping part, well we'll just say that I hope the animals in the field liked it. Just don't have the touch for the right combination of ingrediants yet. Guess Tom will have to wait til October for some "edible" cobbler!!!!
Hope you are feeling well. Tom starts his radiation around the 10th of Aug.
Tell everyone hello for us. Talk to you soon. Our love to all of you. Love, Debbie

PS. THANKS TO MY COUSINS FOR KEEPING US UPDATED WITH AUNT PAT. EVEN THOUGH WE ARE NOT THERE, WE ARE ALWAYS THINKING AND PRAYING FOR EACH OF YOU. AND SHOULD YOU NEED US, OR ANYTHING, WE WILL BE THERE.
Debbie Kleene <DJKLEENE@AOL.COM>
Blacksburg, va USA - Wednesday, August 01, 2001 at 09:00 AM (CDT)

Dear Pat and Family, Thanks for the journal I just discovered it tonight and read the entire journal, I will check in with it everyday, My family is dealing with the same Dx, My Mother in law Dx on March 15,2001, I will keep you in my Prayers God Bless, Debbie
Debbie <Flowergrl1962@aol.com>
Rocky Point, N.Y. USA - Monday, July 23, 2001 at 08:15 PM (CDT)

GOAT BURGERS????NOW YOU REALLY HAVE THE FAMILY TALKING ON BOTH SIDES!!!!ANDERSON & DAUGHTERS, SPECIALTY "GOAT BURGERS". I WOULD MUCH RATHER HAVE SOME OF THAT FRESH CORN THAN GOAT BURGERS. SOUNDS LIKE YOU'RE DOING GOOD. AND THE PICTURES WERE GREAT. I LOVED YOUR OUTFIT YOU WORE TO THE WEDDING. WELL, BACK TO WORK...LOVE, DEBBIE
DEBORAH KLEENE <DJKLEENE@AOL.COM>
BLACSKBURG, VA USA - Wednesday, July 18, 2001 at 03:38 PM (CDT)

Great new pictures! Summer sure is cute.
Take care.
M. Lisa Santana
Ferndale, WA - Tuesday, July 17, 2001 at 07:49 AM (CDT)

Aunt Pat, if you go with goat burgers, we have about 15 WELL FED, pampered goats, but you have to kill and dress them. I can eat them, but not kill them. Have fun in Charlotte! Tell everyone hello for us.
Carol Ann and Kelly <mkelly@coastalnet.com>
Kinston, NC USA - Friday, July 13, 2001 at 06:46 PM (CDT)

Hello Pat, I'm glad you made it to the beach. Go and enjoy yourself and your family. That is how we plan on following this journey with my mother. (She was dx. on 1-11-01.) My mom wants to see Kartchner Caverns in Arizona. So this month when my family and I fly to San Diego to see her, we will drive over to Arizona and take her to the caverns. My prayers are with you and your family.
M. Lisa Santana <santana81@home.com>
Ferndale, WA USA - Thursday, July 12, 2001 at 12:54 PM (CDT)

Sounds like you got good news yesterday. I have always known you were a fighter! How was the beach? I keep up with your updates everyday and keep you on my mind.
I just got the news that I have been promoted to Regional Supervisor effective the 25th. I am planning a trip to NC soon and will come by to see you!
Love, Donna
Donna Kleene
Roanoke, va USA - Thursday, July 12, 2001 at 08:50 AM (CDT)

Hello Aunt Pat, Sounds as though you are living the jet-set life!!!!Glad you went to beach. A change of scenery is always good. Especially the change for fresh seafood. We're thinking of you always. Hang in there. Tell everyone hello for us.
Debbie Kleene <DJKLEENE@AOL.COM>
BLACKSBURG, VA USA - Tuesday, July 10, 2001 at 09:33 AM (CDT)

Pat I am glad you decided to go to the beach. You will have a great time. I wish I could have gone this week, Gary came home yesterday with 100 ears of corn so you know what I have been doing (last week it was green beans). I just can't understand why Wanda does not like to do the canning thing. HAHA but its ok anyone who will get up at 4am to go shopping with me is alright. I can't wait until we take our journey this year. OH!!! Jimmy corrected me real fast on who made the chicken salad around your house but... It is still the best I have ever eaten. You take care and Gary and I are thinking of you. <):)
Kathy <kwadd0258@aol.com>
Wake Forest, - Wednesday, July 04, 2001 at 09:11 PM (CDT)

Hi to Pat and family.

Thank you for your kind comments about my wife Marg. She had a tremendous "Celebration of Life" and I have uploaded some photos here:
http://www.geocities.com/oldparl/journey.htm
Re the "Fish sign". You might find this webpage interesting, which is from another website I maintain:
http://www.geocities.com/string_au/murdoch.htm
They discovered a Fish sign which had been hidden away for 72 years.
Re the chemo: sounds like Temozolomide (Temodar / Temodal). If tablets are being ordered in, remember that they cannot be divided, in order to get the right dose, and the dose might change from Round to Round, so various combinations might be needed.
Your diary is very good.

Prayers and best wishes

Denis Strangman
Canberra
Australia
PS That Easter Bonnet looks great!
Denis Strangman <string@hotkey.net.au>
- Monday, July 02, 2001 at 03:34 AM (CDT)

Hi Aunt Pat, Just wanted to say hello and let you know Tom and I are thinking about you. Enjoyed our visit on the 17th. Looking forward to coming back. I'm going to attempt your cobbler this weekend. (I'll let you know!!!)
Our love to all of you.
Debbie <DJKLEENE@AOL.COM>
BLACKSBURG, VA USA - Wednesday, June 27, 2001 at 03:03 PM (CDT)

Hi Pat, Glad to see that you are doing well. Burning toast reminds me of my Father's pancakes, if they are not burnt they are not Dad's. I suppose he is making them for all his pals in heaven now. It was wonderful to see Wendy last week in CT. She is my little sister. I wish she was close by so we could shop together. I liked the pair of pants she had that I just went out and got me a pair just like hers. Thats one good thing about being so far apart. I hope you are up to going to the beach in July. We are going to the beach in July also. We go to the New Jersey shore and I really love the beach. My husband Frank and I are going with his son and wife and our grandaughter, we can't wait. Have a good week. Anne Rodriguez
Anne Rodriguez <ACRFJR79@aol.com>
BEACON FALLS, ct - Wednesday, June 20, 2001 at 12:32 PM (CDT)

Hi Wanda's mom! I work with Wanda and have been keeping up with the entries since they began. I know you don't know who I am, but I wanted to tell you I've been thinking about you anyway. Good luck & take care of yourself!
Erin Gough
Raleigh, NC 27613 - Monday, June 18, 2001 at 02:32 PM (CDT)

Hi Aunt Pat, I saw the pictures on the web site and some that mom had taken, YOU REALLY LOOK GREAT! I think you look younger than I do, those grey hairs keep coming in! I am in my new house and keeping busy with work and fixing up the house. Keep the good work up and SMILE! Love You! Donna
Donna Kleene <sy811@aol.com >
roanoke, va usa - Tuesday, June 12, 2001 at 10:28 AM (CDT)

Pat, I really enjoy the pictures, since I really have never met you. I will keep you my prayers as always.
Anne Rodriguez <ACRFJR79@aol.com>
BEACON FALLS, ct usa - Monday, June 04, 2001 at 08:37 AM (CDT)

Hi Pat, I just love the Easter Bonnet. I talked with Wanda she told me you got a thumbs up from Duke today. That is great!! Pics of you and Jonathan were really good. I am so proud of him and I know all of you are too. I can remember changing his diapers just as if it was yesterday. I went through pictures of him and Cliff Sunday and cried for a hour. Gary just looked at me and laughed. Cliff will graduate Sunday and I can't wait to see how much he laughs then.
Kathy <kwadd0258@aol.com>
NC - Thursday, May 31, 2001 at 08:02 PM (CDT)

Hello Wendy and family,

Don and I thoroughly enjoyed reading up on your mom. One thing that struck us was the amount of love and true sense of family that came through. How wonderful that you are all so close and able to communicate so well. That is really a blessing. We are in prayer for you all, especially for you, Pat. God Bless, Don and Teresa Meanor
Don and Teresa Meanor <donmeanor@aol.com>
Charlotte, NC - Friday, May 25, 2001 at 09:06 AM (CDT)

Pat, Glad to hear you had a good checkup yesterday. You are always in the thoughts and prayers.
Anne Rodriguez <ACRFJR79@aol.com>
BEACON FALLS, ct - Tuesday, May 22, 2001 at 09:41 AM (CDT)

Thanks so much for keeping us updated. Days when Mama doesn't call Pat I check and report back to her. You're in our thoughts and prayers. We love you. Suzanne & family
Suzanne Willden <siwillden@aol.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Sunday, May 20, 2001 at 06:58 PM (CDT)

Well if she wants to start painting we have a bedroom that could use a fresh coat of paint!! On the opinion deal, I thought that the Formy-Duvals always expressed their opinions. The ones I know do!! We are thinking about all of you and are keeping you in our prayers!!
Eddy and Brenda <eddyd@coastalnet.com>
Grifton, NC - Saturday, May 12, 2001 at 03:28 PM (CDT)

I hope all is well with you. I am trying to plan a weekend to come see you. I moved into my new house this past weekend. Everything is packed up so I am lucky to find clothes to come to work!!!! ha-ha.

You are constantly in my thoughts and prayers!
I love Ya! Donna
Donna Kleene <Sy811@aol.com>
Roanoke, VA - Wednesday, May 02, 2001 at 09:01 AM (CDT)

Dear Pat and Family,
I know what you are all going through and I pray that the "Good Lord" will shine upon you all through this rough road. It sounds like you have a "Huge Team of Supporters" with you and I am proud of you and all your family. Your "strength" in yourself and your family is so so INSPIRING. I will remember you all in my prayers! Good Luck and keep smiling! With Love, Marcey and Tribe
Marcia Talbott <lmt99@soltec.net>
Potomac, IL U.S.A. - Monday, April 30, 2001 at 01:27 AM (CDT)

Pat and Jimmy, both of you know if there is anything we can do, we are only a phone call away. Carol Ann checks the web site every day for us. Both of you are in our thoughts daily. Jimmy, if you need to just talk, I'm here. Pat, keep up the good spirits and positive attitude.
Laytham & Eleanor
Kinston, NC USA - Sunday, April 29, 2001 at 08:32 AM (CDT)

Pat
To have both breast cancer and a brain tumour at the same time is awfully bad luck. We hope they can deal effectively with the breast cancer and let you concentrate on the brain tumour.
Prayers and best wishes
Denis & Marg Strangman <string@hotkey.net.au>
Canberra, Australia - Sunday, April 29, 2001 at 01:51 AM (CDT)

Hi Pat this is Gary and Kathy. We are thinking about you. Gary said to tell Jimmy that he lives next door to Terry Meares and the next time he comes by and you are with him he better stop. That you are his Grandma Pat to!!
Kathy Waddell <kwadd0258@aol.com>
Wake Forest, NC - Saturday, April 28, 2001 at 05:16 PM (CDT)

Pat I am at Wanda's. Wendy and Summer are here also. I am enjoying seeing them. I want you to know that we are still thinking about you and you are in our prayers! Jimmy please know that we are thinking about you also.
With Love,
Melva & Jimmy
- Saturday, April 28, 2001 at 11:34 AM (CDT)

Aunt Pat, Haven't talked to you for a while, but we sure are glad to see you are doing ok. Tell everyone hello, and our prayers and thoughts are with you all.
Love,
Ronnie, Cassie, Ryan, Nicholas, and Kelsie

Cassie Formy-Duval <cduval@coastalnet.com>
Grifton, NC Lenoir - Friday, April 27, 2001 at 08:33 PM (CDT)

It's Wendy (the middle daughter), I know what she was laughing about. She cracked up on me!!!! I just made one statement about this man she saw and the next thing I knew she had to hang up because she was laughing so hard. A good laugh was had by all.
Wendy Anderson Jacobs
- Tuesday, April 24, 2001 at 04:05 PM (CDT)

Hi Pat. This is Shannon Felton's sister. I wish you all hte luck in the world.
Shannon Tingen <smt122875@excite.com>
Roxboro, NC USA - Friday, April 20, 2001 at 09:55 AM (CDT)

Hi Grandma Pat. Hope you get well soon. Love, Spencer
Spencer Jacobs, Grandson <jacobswa@aol.com>
Youngsville, NC 27596 - Thursday, April 19, 2001 at 10:34 AM (CDT)

Steward Goswick <ffd667@aol.com>
Franklinton, NC USA - Saturday, April 14, 2001 at 11:22 PM (CDT)

Hi! I am Melodie, Pat's favorite daughter and personal driver. Mom I am so proud of you, I know this is the toughest battle you will ever face. But I know that you have the strength and the faith in God to beat this. I Love you with all my heart!!!!
Melodie Goswick <MelGoswick@aol.com>
Franklinton, NC USA - Friday, April 13, 2001 at 08:50 PM (CDT)

I am sorry I missed you wed. Jimmy said you were there earlier in the day.

Hang in there and continue fighting. You are a fighter and I admire that!!!!!
Donna Kleene <sy811@aol.com >
Roanoke, va 24019 - Friday, April 13, 2001 at 10:28 AM (CDT)

Pat, I am so happy that your visit to Duke yesterday was such a positive one. I will continue to keep you in my thoughts and prayers daily. Wear the "Angel" and she will protect you on your next journey. Anne Rodriguez
Anne Rodriguez <ACRFJR79@aol.com>
BEACON FALLS, ct usa - Friday, April 13, 2001 at 06:42 AM (CDT)

Hi Everyone! This is Wendy, Grandmapat's middle daughter. We are so proud of how well she is doing. We are learning to love and enjoy every minute with each other. Hope you all have a wonderful Easter. Please keep praying for her. Prayers are being answered here.
Wendy Anderson Jacobs <jacobswa@aol.com>
Youngsville, NC 27596 - Thursday, April 12, 2001 at 03:54 PM (CDT)

I like that comment about how it is okay to breathe. Marg (gbm iv) once went under the MRI and I think the technician forgot to tell her that she could exhale now! Prayers and best wishes.
Denis & Marg Strangman <string@hotkey.net.au>
Canberra, Australia - Thursday, April 12, 2001 at 06:57 AM (CDT)

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