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Hello Chris!
Uncle Brian <ante.brian170@gmail.com>
Staten Island, NY USA - Wednesday, February 28, 2024 7:27 PM CST
Wow, it's been 19 years since you left us, yet you live on in our hearts. Love,
Mom and Dad
- Wednesday, February 28, 2024 6:38 PM CST
Thinking of you, Chris.
Uncle Brian
Staten Island, NY USA - Thursday, February 15, 2024 1:21 PM CST
Happy 30th birthday, Chris! You are still loved very much! Love,
Mom and Dad
- Saturday, January 20, 2024 3:43 PM CST
Your cancer journey started 24 years ago on this day. We remember, Chris. We remember the good and the bad times. We always remember you with love.
Mom and Dad
- Thursday, May 25, 2023 4:38 PM CDT
You left us way too early on this day 18 years ago. Trusting that you are in light and peace, Love,
Mom and Dad
- Tuesday, February 28, 2023 4:56 PM CST
Happy 29th Birthday, Chris! We love you always,
Mom and Dad
- Friday, January 20, 2023 6:32 AM CST
Hey Bugs, we still remember what today means. All of our lives changed on this day so long ago. You are still a part of our lives, and always will be. Love,
Mom and Dad
- Wednesday, May 25, 2022 7:40 PM CDT
Happy 28th Birthday, Chris! We love and miss you!
Mom and Dad
Lakeland, FL USA - Thursday, January 20, 2022 9:44 AM CST
We will always remember you, Chris. Happy Birthday! Love,
Mom and Dad
- Wednesday, January 20, 2021 3:43 PM CST
Hey Kiddo, We still miss you, even after 15 years. Love,
Mom and Dad
- Friday, February 28, 2020 7:14 AM CST
Hey Bugs! It's been 26 six years since we struggled through a snow and ice storm to get you to Bethesda Naval Hospital for you to be born. Earlier that night, we had picked up your Au Pair from Sweden so late that we only got to show her room and the nursery. She didn't get to sleep long that night before we had to wake her up to tell her you were arriving.

You were a bit obstinate during your arrival, but Mom took it in good stead. We were both extremely happy when you finally made your debut.

Needless to say, we continually enjoyed the eleven years in your company.

Love Dad and Mom


Patrick Becker <beckerpat7@aol.com>
- Monday, January 20, 2020 6:26 AM CST
We are quietly remembering that your agony started 20 years ago today, Chris. Thank you for your strength, grace and humor. Love always,
Mom and Dad
- Saturday, May 25, 2019 8:38 AM CDT
Fourteen years ago, you left us, Chris. But we never forget you. Thank you for being the bright star in our lives when you were here. Love always,
Mom and Dad
- Thursday, February 28, 2019 8:56 AM CST
Wow -- it's been 25 years since you came to join our family, Chris. And you are always a member of our family. Our hearts are richer for the love and joy that you brought to us. Happy Birthday! Love always,
Mom and Dad
- Sunday, January 20, 2019 8:45 PM CST
Merry Christmas, Bugs! We love you!
Mom and Dad
- Tuesday, December 25, 2018 9:28 AM CST
We remember when your special journey through the "cancer kid" world began, Chris. And we still remember your inner strength that helped you through it all. You are still never far from our thoughts.
Mom and Dad
- Saturday, May 26, 2018 7:11 AM CDT
Happy 24th Birthday, Chris! You are still remembered and missed. We love you,
Mom and Dad <beckerpat7@aol.com>
Bushnell, FL USA - Saturday, January 20, 2018 6:05 PM CST
Hey Chris. Wonder what life a s 23 year old would have been. We're sure you would gotten even finer with age. Happy Birthday to a kind. brave fun-loving guy.

We hope Genie has linked up with you. We miss here her.

Mom and Dad

Alsion and Pat Becker
NS Guantanamo Bay , Cuba - Friday, January 20, 2017 4:57 PM CST
Merry Christmas, kiddo. We still miss you. Love,
Mom and Dad
- Saturday, December 24, 2016 2:31 PM CST
Hi again Chris,

Wow, our lives sure changed 17 years ago. We still remember you, and always will. You are with us always. Love,

Mom and Dad
- Wednesday, May 25, 2016 7:52 PM CDT
Chris,

We remember you always, but especially on this 11th anniversary of your passing over into your new realm. We will always love you,

Mom and Dad
- Sunday, February 28, 2016 6:58 PM CST
But the just man, though he die early, shall be at rest. For the age that is honorable comes not with the passing of time, nor can it be measured in terms of years. Rather, understanding is the hoary crown for men, and an unsullied life, the attainment of old age.
a friend
- Thursday, February 25, 2016 9:51 PM CST
Hi Chris,

Just wanted you to know that you are still remembered, including on what would have been your 22nd birthday. The only reason we didn't post then was because we were moving on that day. You are with us always. Love,

Mom and Dad
- Friday, January 22, 2016 9:41 PM CST
Remembering you on this 16th anniversary of us learning about your cancer, Chris. We love you.
Mom and Dad <beckerpat7@aol.com>
- Monday, May 25, 2015 4:05 PM CDT
You left us 10 years ago today, Chris, but you have never left our hearts. With love always,
Mom and Dad <beckerpat7@aol.com>
- Saturday, February 28, 2015 3:05 PM CST
Hi Chris, I don't really have much to say except that we all truly miss you so much. I still have your smiley face on your picture and every time a see a candy 'kiss' or 'hug' I think of you :)
Love from you Aunt, Uncle and cousins Nick and Nathan

Pat Schuppert <schuppert@outlook.com>
LaGrange, KY USA - Saturday, February 28, 2015 3:01 PM CST
Hi Chris,

We sent you a Birthday card, but it's probably on the slow-boat, and will get there when it gets there. We're sure you had a happy birthday.

Love,

Uncle Brian, Aunt Christina and Cousin Michael

Brian Ante <ante.brian170@gmail.com>
Staten Island, NY USA - Thursday, January 22, 2015 4:19 AM CST
Happy Birthday Chris!
We do miss your persistent smile, fun-loving nature, pranks, insights, and your perception of the world. It never ceased to amaze us how much pain you endured and still had such an optimistic and appreciative perspective of the world and its people.
As we learn every year, there are many that still remember and miss you.
Love, Mom and Dad

Dad <beckerpat7@aol.com>
Guantanamo Bay, Cuba - Tuesday, January 20, 2015 4:46 AM CST
Here's wishing you a heavenly 21st birthday, Chris. Love always,
Mom and Dad
- Monday, January 19, 2015 9:13 PM CST
Remembering you on this 15th anniversary of us finding out about your cancer, Chris. Love you always,
Mom and Dad <beckerpat7@aol.com>
- Sunday, May 25, 2014 6:37 AM CDT
Sleep peacefully, Chris. With love always,
Mom and Dad <beckerpat7@aol.com>
- Friday, February 28, 2014 3:46 PM CST
Merry Christmas, Bugs. You would have had a good laugh about your little cousin, Michael's concern about Santa's bottom not getting burned by the fires in all of the fireplaces this year. As you know though, Santa has plenty of experience with such matters.

We love you always,

Mom and Dad <beckerpat7@aol.com>
- Wednesday, December 25, 2013 8:31 PM CST
I look forward to the day when I will see Chris again.
Uncle Jonathan <jante01@live.com>
Columbus, Ohio USA - Friday, November 8, 2013 9:02 PM CST
Just read your beautiful and talented sons Christmas poems...they were awesome! I am sure he constantly brings smiles to all the angel's faces in Heaven!!! God Bless you and your family!!
Liz Swinson <swinsonl@bellsouth.net>
Boca Raton, FL US - Tuesday, July 23, 2013 10:52 AM CDT
Hey Bugs: Mom said that Genie had a nice Birthday on the day you picked for her Birthday - April 1st. Genie still gets a laugh from that.


Dad <beckerpat7@aol.com>
- Tuesday, April 2, 2013 8:57 PM CDT
Chris, I still think about you everyday. You are what gets be through each day.. Miss you so much buddy. Love your best friend, Sam.
Sam May <sam_may123@inbox.com>
Tampa, FL USA - Thursday, March 14, 2013 10:36 AM CDT
Wow, Bugs . . . 8 years . . . You are still loved and missed.
Mom and Dad <beckerpat7@aol.com>
- Thursday, February 28, 2013 8:29 PM CST
Happy 19th birthday, Bugs! Love,
Mom and Dad <beckerpat7@aol.com>
- Sunday, January 20, 2013 12:24 AM CST
Remembering you and this day 13 years ago. Love,
Mom and Dad <beckerpat7@aol.com>
- Friday, May 25, 2012 2:50 PM CDT
Thinking of Chris on his birthday.....and the two of you. Sending hugs and good wishes.
Marion

Marion Shapiro <mas10n@aol.com>
New York, NY usa - Wednesday, February 29, 2012 12:25 AM CST
Happy 18th b-day, kiddo.
Mom and Dad <beckerpat7@aol.com>
Tampa, FL USA - Friday, January 20, 2012 6:43 PM CST
Merry Christmas, Chris. ;-)

Love,

Mom <beckerpat7@aol.com>
Tampa, FL USA - Sunday, December 25, 2011 9:17 AM CST
After long hours of research and determination I've found traces of the boy who changed my life.
Fragments of doubt still litter my heart but I hope this is who I think it is.
I only met Chris once, he came to a church meeting with my friend Bobby. I may be wrong but I think we were around ten at the time. When I first met him I asked him why his hair was so short. He said is was because he used to have cancer but he just got over it. I didn't know what to say, but he just smiled and was so sweet. I remember he brought his game-boy with a mega-man game and Bobby brought his yu-gi-oh cards. I became fast friends with Chris, he let me play his mega-man game and he also made up this game were we had to pretend to fall in slow motion when we shot rubber bands at each other. I spent maybe an hour or two with Chris before leaving, and I remember telling myself I was going to call Bobby and have us all play again. My memory of time may be skewed but I vaguely remember that maybe not only two weeks later my mom came into my room to tell me that Chris died.
I had never cried so much in my life as I did that night. My mom told me I kept all my brothers awake because I was bawling my eyes out for him. After that happened I was invited to go to the funeral, but I couldn't bring myself to go, I was just too sad to go and I didn't want to accept the fact he had died. I regret not going to this day. But I do however have a smiley face pin that Bobby's mother gave me that was from the wake and funeral. I still have it to this day, its on my bulletin board. I also have the same mega-man game that we played, its one of the few video games Ive held onto. Ever since Chris died, I never ever forgot his name, it was embedded into my heart. His death has changed the way I look at cancer and life altogether, and it only took one time of my seeing him for this to happen. It pains me to no end that I didn't go to his funeral, but for these past six years I always have Chris on the back of my mind, and through everything the one thing i remember most is his gorgeous smile. He will always be missed but more importantly he will always be loved.

Emily Jeffrey <razzje@aol.com>
FL - Thursday, September 8, 2011 7:03 PM CDT
Just thinking about Chris
Pat Schuppert <pat.schuppert@yum.com>
LaGrange, KY - Friday, August 19, 2011 5:33 PM CDT
Hard to believe you'd be 17 today, Chris. Ingrid and I were thinking about you while we were out walking this morning. We laughed as we remembered the good times we had, we (well Ingrid did) cried as we thought how much you are missed. As a mean and tough dude, you know I can't cry!! We miss your mum and dad too, hopefully their exile in Cuba will end soon!!
Sleep well, Chris, someday we'll meet again and get back to beating up on each other!!!!
Les

Les Davidson <coach_les@yahoo.com>
Cary, nc usa - Monday, February 28, 2011 9:32 PM CST
Six years ago today, the finest person I've ever known died. It was Chris. If he were alive today, he'd be 17 and I do not doubt that I'd still feel the same way as he was as he was even under adversity. His head stone reads "Our kind, brave, fun-loving son," there is a limit on what you can say...inadequate, but it catches most of the high points though.
Dad <beckerpat7@aol.com>
Guantanamo Bay, Cuba - Monday, February 28, 2011 6:23 AM CST
Happy (17th) Birthday Bugs.
Dad <beckerpat7@aol.com>
- Thursday, January 20, 2011 5:26 AM CST
Dear Pat and Alison....Just checking in....remembering Chris and his joyful spirit. What a precious gift he continues to be. You both remain in my thoughts and prayers. With love.....angie
angie laehn <aliemma@hotmail.com>
- Friday, December 10, 2010 2:47 PM CST
Just visiting to remember Chris. Uncle Jonathan
Jonathan Ante <onefinefeller@msn.com>
Columbus, OH USA - Sunday, September 26, 2010 6:12 PM CDT
What a very beautiful synopsis of Chris's diagnosis/early treatment that was new to me. I hope you are both well at Guantanamo Bay.
Uncle Alex <anthe.chtristian@yahoo.com>
Covington, KY USA - Friday, August 13, 2010 10:32 AM CDT
Dear Pat and Alison,
On Pentecost Sunday this year May 23, it was the "deacon's Sunday to preach". I included Chris in my homily for Pentecost as one who most exhibited Joy and Hope -the qualities of the presence of the Holy Spirit in our lives. I also included Takashi Nagai- the mystic of Nagasaki, and Blessed Pope John XXIII as others who exhibited those qualities of God's Spirit's presence in our lives. Thank you for giving us the gift of Chris.
Deacon Greg Kovalesky

Deacon Greg Kovalesky <gkovalesky@stpaulchurch.com >
Tampa, FL USA - Tuesday, June 8, 2010 8:55 AM CDT
I was thinking of Chris today and his amazing resilience throughout his battle. Which also led me to remember the remarkable care he received from two of the best parents I have had the privilege to know! I am still working the night shift in pediatric oncology and I often think of the hugs and kisses I got from Chris' candy dish. Of course, one of my prize possessions is my smiley pin from Chris. I cannot imagine how you must miss him, but please know he lives on in the hearts and memories of his many friends and caregivers!
Elise Webster <eweb113@yahoo.com>
Knoxville, TN - Thursday, February 25, 2010 3:44 PM CST
Just stopping by to wish you both all the blessings of the Season. We are surrounded by so much joy at this time of the year and it is difficult for us when someone we love is missing from our homes. I try to think that it is fortunate we have the gift of memory so that they're aren't ever absent from our hearts. I hope that you both will have good friends and family around you for the holiday, and can share together all that Chris meant to you.
Denise Ward <deniward@shaw.ca>
Winnipeg, Canada - Thursday, December 24, 2009 3:57 PM CST
Just a short message to say I am thinking of you this Christmas.


Love

Vikki
www.postpals.co.uk

Vikki George <viks@postpals.co.uk>
United Kingdom - Wednesday, December 16, 2009 6:02 AM CST
Thinking of you both at Thanksgiving.
Denise Ward <deniward@shaw.ca>
Winnipeg, Canada - Saturday, November 28, 2009 2:39 AM CST
Hello Pat and Allison, we do not write much but we think of you and Chris often and I hold all of you in my heart. It really doesn't seem that long ago that you came to our house for dinner with your new baby and we were all so happy. Life comes along and challenges us in ways we do not understand. You have been through so much and God is with you in your journey. Steve and I send all of you up in prayer. God Bless. Diane Davis
Diane Davis
Alexandria, VA Fairfax - Friday, August 28, 2009 10:24 PM CDT
Alison and Pat,
You may not hear from me often but you and Chris are always in my thoughts. Whenever I visit this page I have the same reaction. I see Chris' picture and feel an overwhelming saddness that is always followed by a big smile when I think of how special he was and the relationship we shared. Hope you are both well.
Love, Marion

Marion Shapiro <mas10n@aol.com>
New York, NY usa - Thursday, July 23, 2009 4:35 PM CDT
Allison and Pat, We'll always remember Chris. He was such a awesome young man. You didn't have to spend alot of time with him to know who he was and how courageous he was. The next time you all go up tell him I still have my "smilie face". No, I'll do it.
Audrey Webster <majic_mamma@hotmail.com>
- Tuesday, May 26, 2009 10:36 AM CDT
May your thoughts and prayers join mine in memory of Chris. Your friend, Kathy Razzano
Kathy Razzano <kathyrazzano@earthlink.net>
Tampa, FL USA - Tuesday, May 26, 2009 8:25 AM CDT
Wishing you both a very happy and Blessed Easter. I hope you're both able to enjoy spending the day with friends and family, sharing memories of Chris, and drawing comfort from the promise and hope that Easter brings us.
Denise Ward <deniward@shaw.ca>
Winnipeg, Canada - Sunday, April 12, 2009 10:06 AM CDT
Just stopping by to say that you're both in my thoughts & prayers today.
Denise Ward <deniward@shaw.ca>
Winnipeg, Canada - Wednesday, March 18, 2009 1:35 AM CDT
Dear Chris,
Another year gone by, you are still missed by all those who knew you, especially this old Scottish guy. Your mum and dad are hanging in, they miss you so much. Marlise is in her first year at medical school, your mum and dad provided her first anatomy books, she is studying hard, hopefully she can help some kids just like you in a few years.
I miss the contests we used to have, I remember you were the Buthead Champion and I was the champion of everything else except uno and hotdog eating!!! I look at your picture on my desk at work every day. I wonder what you'd look like now? Hopefully you would have got your looks from your mum, not your dad!!
Keep practising your uno skills, one day we'll meet again and I intend to take your uno championship from you.
Ingrid wanted you to know she misses you too, you'll always be in our thoughts along with your mum and dad.

Miss you, big man.

Les

Coach Les <coach_les@yahoo.com>
Cary, nc usa - Saturday, February 28, 2009 4:00 PM CST
Remembering Chris always, especially today. Love,
Mom <beckerpat7@aol.com>
Tampa, FL USA - Saturday, February 28, 2009 7:15 AM CST
Happy Birthday Bugs.
Dad <beckerpat7@aol.com>
- Tuesday, January 20, 2009 11:13 AM CST
Happy Birthday, Chris. You are missed. Love,
Mom <beckerpat7@aol.com>
- Monday, January 19, 2009 9:15 PM CST
Just stopping by to wish you both a blessed Christmas, and peace & happiness for the New Year. I hope that you're able to spend it together and enjoy the companionship of friends and family.
Denise Ward <deniward@shaw.ca>
Winnipeg, Canada - Wednesday, December 24, 2008 10:04 PM CST
Hi Pat and Alison,
Just checking in and wanted to say Hello and to tell you that your precious son Chris is forever in our hearts.
What a kind, gentle spirited and loving kiddo he was and we will never, ever forget him! So glad you continue to update his website. It is good to hear what you folks have been up to. Our best wishes always go out to you. We have fond memories of your family. You guys were always a friendly and welcoming face at the hospital and RMH. God Bless you always. With Love, The Hammers

The Hammer's <hammertime311@comcast.net>
Lakeland, MN USA - Sunday, December 7, 2008 10:37 AM CST
heyyy its been a really long time. But not a day goes by that i dont think , and miss that smile of yours . i think about that oversized bike seat that we sat on as genie pulled us through the house. and how we tried to spy on my mom and your dad. so we put motion sencers on the wall, but they never worked. words will never be able to describe how much you are missed by everyone . with all the love in the world brianna .
brianna h.
tampa, FL u.s - Sunday, November 9, 2008 9:35 PM CST
Just stopping by to say you both are often in my thoughts and prayers.
Denise Ward <deniward@shaw.ca>
Winnipeg, Canada - Saturday, November 8, 2008 1:21 PM CST
Hi pat!
It has been a long time since I have seen you or even emailed with you but I wanted to drop a little note to say that we still remember Chris and you and all those "fun times" getting 3F8's in NY. Remember when Chris would give Payton the Madame Alexander dolls from the happy meal boxes? I am sad to hear that you and your wife are going through a year long seperation! That must be very lonely for you both! I do hope that you will find time to be able to visit on occasion. My dad had to leave us for a year once to move to Korea for the Army as well...it was a long year! Anyway, I just wanted to let you know that I do still check in on occasion to see how you all are doing. We are doing well. Not sure if you know we added another kiddo to the family but we did. His name is Ethan and he just turned three. Payton and Madison are doing great. Payton just finished 2nd grade, can you believe it??? And we went to NY June 7-10 for her checkup. she is doing well. Kinda small for her age and suffering from some TERRIBLE teeth(she will end up with a mouth full of implants one day) but otherwise doing well. Madison just finished up Kindergarten and is also doing well. Hope you all have an enjoyable summer.
Gin Bogert

www.caringbridge.org/paytonbogert <vbogert@cfl.rr.com>
- Thursday, June 26, 2008 8:26 AM CDT
Hi Alison!

Haven't heard from you since your relocation to Alexandria, VA. Hope you are getting on fine with that. Wanted to wish you a Happy Mother's Day! You gave such tremendous sacrifices from every angle to be the best, most likeable, responsible and diligent mom any son could've had. Three hundred thousand cheers for Alison!

Uncle Alex from Kentucky <ante_alex@excite.com>
Covington, KY USA - Friday, May 9, 2008 9:48 AM CDT
Dear Alison:
Happy Birthday, and belated
Happy Birthday to Genie.
Its so nice to see an update.
Hope your new job goes well.
Still missing Chris and it
always feels good to see a smile
show up somewhere unexpected.
Love "Aunt" Cathy

Cathy Wachtstetter <Skugalskid@aol.com>
Ft Lauderdale, Fl - Saturday, April 5, 2008 4:59 PM CDT
What a wonderful little write up about Chris in the St. Paul Church bulletin! You are all in my thoughts daily, and I am always thinking of Chris and what a wonderful little man he was.
Tina Lafoe <tlafoe@tampabay.rr.com>
Plant City, FL - Monday, March 31, 2008 7:36 AM CDT
Just stopping by to wish you both a very blessed Easter. This year Easter is so early that we still have a fair bit of snow around, so it's harder to physically get that sense of Spring & renewal. Spiritually though, it's a time that holds so very much meaning and hope. Celebrating a holiday without a beloved family member is not easy, but I hope that the promise of Easter will make it a little easier. Have a very blessed Easter.
Denise Ward <deniward@shaw.ca>
Winnipeg, Manitoba - Saturday, March 22, 2008 6:00 PM CDT
Thinking of Chris... I miss him. Uncle Jonathan
Jonathan <onefinefeller@msn.com>
Columbus , OH USA - Friday, March 14, 2008 4:19 PM CDT
Alison and Pat,
Just wanted you to know you were in our thoughts today,

Ingrid

Ingrid Davidson <ingridd101@yahoo.com>
Largo, FL USA - Thursday, February 28, 2008 8:57 AM CST
Dear Chris,
I was going to call you "Wee Man" like I always did, but you'd be 14 now and growing like a weed. I doubt there would be any eating contests you would not trash me in now, not that you didn't before, but I'd blown out for sure. You would have been bigger than your dad by now and obviously much more handsome (your mum's influence) and smarter (still trying to work this one out) and more athletic (you had a great coach!!) Unfortunately you probably inherited some of your dad's bad genes, like I said before his weird sense of humor and his inherent ability to always be smarter than me!!!
We all still miss you, especially your mum and dad, time doesn't make any difference to that, you made such a big impact on so many of us. I'd like to say it was a positive influence, and it probably was for most people, but I seemed to pick up your habit of playing pranks and tricks and sometimes that doesn't go down to well in the grown up world. When you suck out all the creme in a donut with a straw and replace it with ketchup, some people don't think that's funny!!!
I noticed last weekend, when I stopped by your place, the bushes your mum and dad planted look really good. I told you my girls soccer team had one more game in our tournament to play when I was there, well we didn't do so good in our last game, must have been the coaching!!!
I wish things had turned out differently, but unfortunately they didn't. However, the friendship we had, and that we still have with your mum and dad is one of those special things that you never lose. You are missed, big man, really missed.

Sleep in peace.

Les

Coach Les <coach_les@yahoo.com>
Chapel Hill, nc USA - Thursday, February 28, 2008 8:34 AM CST
Happy Birthday Chris!
Mom <beckerpat7@aol.com>
Tampa, FL USA - Sunday, January 20, 2008 10:03 AM CST
Just dropping a line to say Hello, Happy Holidays and to let you know that you guys remain in my heart and in my prayers. I'm really sorry to hear about the Memorial - that's a shame that someone didn't do something before it was too late. Take Care and God Bless. Your friend - Dee
Dee Houston <dee.houston@usarmyjrotc.com>
Poquoson, VA USA - Thursday, December 27, 2007 1:27 PM CST
Just stopping by to wish you both a very Blessed Christmas and all the best in the New Year. I hope that you're both surrounded by the love of friends and family, and can share special memories of Chris.
Denise Ward <deniward@shaw.ca>
Winnipeg, Canada - Monday, December 24, 2007 11:02 AM CST
Pat and Alison,
I am very upset to hear about Chris's memorial at school. That honestly breaks my heart to hear that.
I can't imagine how this seeming lack of respect makes you feel. I have tears in my eyes reading about it. I am very sorry. You guys put so much energy and love into that memorial.
It was not handled right at all and I am angry and heartbroken this happened.

Chris was such a special and gentle soul, and was such an extraordinary kiddo. I have deep respect for his memory here on earth, and for his parents who were so devoted to him and continue to be devoted to his precious memory.

Thinking of you often, remembering Chris, and keeping you in our prayers.
With Love,
The Hammer's

The Hammer's <hammertime311@comcast.net>
Lakeland, MN USA - Tuesday, December 11, 2007 3:15 PM CST
Thinking of you both as you prepare for Thanksgiving.
Denise Ward <deniward@shaw.ca>
Winnipeg, Canada - Wednesday, November 21, 2007 9:53 PM CST
Happy Thanksgiving
Thinking of your both, with a big Smile,
and knowing Chris is watching from above.
Love "Aunt" Cathy

Cathy Wachtstetter <skugalskid@aol.com>
Ft. Lauderdale, Fl - Wednesday, November 21, 2007 3:18 PM CST
Chris, let your family know how much you are missed by so many. You have not been forgotten.
afriendinvirginia
virginia, va usa - Wednesday, November 14, 2007 7:54 PM CST
I hope the Volksmarch went well and that the lemonade stand raised a lot of money. I really enjoyed your Pongojimmy excerpts, especially reading about how your family traveled through Winnipeg! The arch from the burned out church you described is still standing, and I drive past it every day to work at the St. Boniface Hospital, which is a couple of blocks down the street. There is a small playground on that same side of the street, almost right across the street from the hospital, and I wonder if it's the one that Chris would have played at.
Denise Ward <deniward@shaw.ca>
Winnpeg, Canada - Wednesday, October 17, 2007 10:01 PM CDT
Just stopping by to say hello, and that Chris remains so often in my thoughts, as do both of you.
Denise Ward <deniward@shaw.ca>
Winnipeg, Canada - Thursday, August 16, 2007 2:09 AM CDT
It's nice to see another update and hear that Chris' friend raised so much money at the St. Baldrick's event. It's just one more way that he lives on, in the way his life touched so many other people. I saw the photos, A Mother's Journey, and I don't know that I've ever seen anything that poignant and heart breaking. My thoughts and prayers are with you both, and I know that Chris is always with you.
Denise Ward <deniward@shaw.ca>
Winnipeg, Canada - Wednesday, May 30, 2007 1:02 AM CDT
Happy Birthday Alison
Better Late than never
Hope all is well!
Love, Cathy

Cathy Wachtstetter <skugalskid@aol.com>
Ft Lauderdale, Fl - Wednesday, April 11, 2007 9:35 AM CDT
Pat and Alison,
Wishing you a Happy Easter. My thoughts and love are always with you and Chris. I am now officially Candlelighters of New York City. I know Chris will be helping me.
Love and hugs, Barbara

Barbara Zobian <bzobian@mac.com>
New York city, NY - Sunday, April 8, 2007 5:10 PM CDT
Dear Pat and Alison:
Happy Easter to you both
Saw Easter Eggs at the store tonight
colored and smilie faces on them!
Guess Chris has a part time job this year?
Much Love, "Aunt" Cathy

Cathy Wachtstetter <Skugalskid@aol.com>
Ft Lauderdale, Fl - Saturday, April 7, 2007 11:40 PM CDT
Just stopping by to wish you both a very Blessed Easter. I'm sure you're enjoying much more pleasant weather than we are--Spring is off to a late start here in our part of Canada. I hope that your day is full of happy remembrances of Chris, and that the promise of the Resurrection will comfort you both.
Denise Ward <deniward@shaw.ca>
Winnipeg, Canada - Saturday, April 7, 2007 10:51 AM CDT
Hey Bugs! Thought I'd let you know that we came to see you again but regrettably, didn't have any pranks or gags to leave behind as it was April Fools' Day (which we're sure you knew). We did celebrate Genie's Birthday since today is the day you picked for her Birthday. Miss you!
Dad <beckerpat7@aol.com>
- Sunday, April 1, 2007 6:27 PM CDT
I wanted to come by the site and check in and let you know we are thinking about you. I can see how many lives Chris touched and how he continues to touch lives. Know you are in our prayers.
Love, Tracy and
Katia (a.k.a. "The Ladybug")

Fighting leukemia AML with a vengence!
Sharing Hope on the Wings of a Ladybug



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- Saturday, March 31, 2007 11:15 AM CDT
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viks <viks@postpals.co.uk>
- Tuesday, March 20, 2007 10:52 PM CDT
I often think of Chris, especially when I am feeling low and in need of some courage. Even though I never had the honor of meeting him, when my son was first being treated I used to read his journal and your list updates daily, and they so often brought me a bit of hope that even in this horrible life, there can be some living and fun. So often your posts would talk of chemo or unpleasant procedures in the morning, to be followed by school or karate or a great song or story Chris wrote. Thank you for sharing him with us.
Aimee, mom to Kendall and Zachary, www.caringbridge.com/ny/kendall <aimee1@optonline.net>
Long Island, NY USA - Saturday, March 10, 2007 11:57 AM CST
Hi Alison and Pat
Just wanted you to know that I am thinking of you and of Chris on this day. Chris was one brave fellow who gave other people strength through his illness. I lost my dad to cancer in 2000. I had shared Chris' story with him. Daddy was like honey he is just a little boy and he has not even lived yet and look how strong he is. I'm an old man (71) and have lived my life but he is too young to be going thru so much. Chris' story gave my dad strength to endure. I hope my daddy has met Chris, they would become great pals not doubt. I'm sure he is an inspiration in Heaven just as he was here on earth. God Bless - Your family will remain in my prayers.

Dee Houston <susan.houston@usacc.army.mil>
Poquoson, VA - Wednesday, February 28, 2007 3:28 PM CST
Dear Alison and Pat,
Remembering Chris and thinking of you.
Love,Marion

Marion Shapiro <mas10n@aol.com>
New York, NY USA - Wednesday, February 28, 2007 8:24 AM CST
Dear Chris,
Its been two long years since you were taken from us. There's not a day goes by without someone here thinking about you. You are in your mum and dad's thoughts constantly. I was in Mel's a few weeks ago, I remembered our hot dog eating contest when you blew me away by eating four dogs!! I am in North Caolina now, moved here a few weeks ago. I brought the Butthead game with me. I sit the in the office with my helmet on and toss the balls in the air and try and catch them on my big fat head!!. The other people in the office think I'm a bit strange but you know better!! We had a lot of fun together, sometimes grown-ups are such stick-in-the-muds. I notice your dad is getting more like you every time I see him, you obviously got your impishness (that's a Scottish word I made up) from him. He's even borrowed your weird sense of humor!!! I know you got your good looks from your mum, couldn't have been from your old dad, you probably got your good nature and patience from her too!!!
I have your picture on my desk here in Chapel Hill, right beside Brittany's picture. You two were really something special. Your picture reminds me to do something nutty every day to make someone else's day a little brighter.
I can't believe its been two years, I still miss you, your dad used to think I came over to see him and your mum, boy was he wide of the mark on that one!!
Take care of yourself, wee man. Someday we'll all be re-united again and the games will be re-started and you'll be the Butthead champion and I'll win everything else.

Les

Coach Les <coach_les@yahoo.com>
Chapel Hill, NC - Wednesday, February 28, 2007 7:09 AM CST
Remembering that Chris is gone 2 years and
finding it so hard to believe! Know hes running
around, having fun, and in no pain. Still CHris is
so very missed by so many here. SMILE!!
With much Love!
"Aunt" Cathy

Cathy Wachtstetter <Skugalskid@aol.com>
Ft Lauderdale, Fl - Wednesday, February 28, 2007 6:30 AM CST
Dear Mr. and Mrs.Becker It's me Danielle again and I would like to tell you that this is my painful month and I try to get through it. Alot of my friends are the same way as me and remember Chris and was even very close.I just wanted to say this, and if you feel you need to talk to someone just e-mail me! :)
Danielle Heaney <GotSpeed94@yahoo.com>
Tampa , fl usa - Sunday, February 18, 2007 9:05 PM CST
Alison and Pat,

I wish I had a Chris story to relate and bring a smile to your face, but I only know Chris through you and through this website. I will say that I think of Chris every school day morning, without fail. I drop my daughter off at her elementary school. As I leave, I have to pass by a couple of traffic cones and the crossing guard, and I imagine Chris keeping his classmates safe in the same way all those years he was a crossing guard. It brings a smile to my face every single time, which I am grateful for. It means I arrive at work on an uptick and ready to start the day with a postive attitude, just like, I suspect, Chris did.

Thank you for letting me be part of his virtual life.

VB
http://erinbuenger.blogspot.com

Vickie Buenger <vbuenger@mays.tamu.edu>
Bryan, TX - Friday, February 16, 2007 9:13 AM CST
Way to go James!
Will be glad to support James in memory of Chris
Our Local TV station has a commercial about
Joe DiMaggio Childrens Hosptial that I have seen a couple
times now, showing Christa Barrone. It always makes me feel
so good and makes me think of Chris every time I see it!
My best to you Both. Keep Smiling!

Cathy Wachtstetter <Skugalskid@aol.com>
Ft Lauderdale, Fl - Wednesday, February 14, 2007 10:53 PM CST
I also have an Angel Chris that we lost to cancer...your Angel and my Angel both left on the same day, same year...
I will be thinking of both this Feb. 28th...
www.caringbridge.org/ca/christophersfight
www.christophergist.memory-of.com
www.myspace.beabonemarrowdonor.com

Hugs

Leslie <leslieandian@gmail.com>
Canada - Tuesday, February 6, 2007 9:27 PM CST
Dear Mr. and Mrs.Becker,
My mom told me about this site and I never got to see it. Anyways I saw you guys in the mall 2 weeks ago and wanted to say "hi" and that I miss Chris and he will always be in my heart

Danielle Heaney <www.GotSpeed94@yahoo.com>
Tampa, fl usa - Thursday, February 1, 2007 3:54 PM CST
I'm sure Chris would've loved officially leaving childhood behind and entering his teen years--its hard to believe in a way, and I'm sure more so for both of you. I'm glad that you are both able to give input into a project as valuable as the outreach project. Your experiences over the years will no doubt serve to make it easier on other parents who have to go through the trauma of having a seriously ill child. I continue to believe that the tremendous display created by the azaleas is engineered by Chris, and that he knows how amazed everyone is when they see them so awash in blooms. My prayers for you both continue, and especially so as you're honoring his birthday this weekend.
Denise Ward <deniward@shaw.>
Winnipeg, Canada - Monday, January 22, 2007 1:21 AM CST
I often think of Chris and had not looked at his caring bridge page in a long time. When I did and realized it was his birthday - I had to smile. Chris had a way of helping people remember what was important - not only to him, but to all of those around him. I think in a way I was "supposed" to look and be reminded this was Chris' Day. You are in my thoughts and once again - Chris is always in our memory.
Jackie Nitsche <Jacgnitsche@aol.com>
Weil Der Stadt, Germany - Sunday, January 21, 2007 4:20 PM CST
Happy Birthday Chris! Your spirit is strong in the people who love you.
Tina Lafoe <tlafoe@tampabay.rr.com>
Tampa, FL - Sunday, January 21, 2007 1:07 PM CST
Remembering your Birthday Chris!
Alison and Pat "Smile" today, even if its hard!
Thinking of you Today and Always!
Love, "Aunt" Cathy

Cathy Wachtstetter <Skugalskid@aol.com>
Ft Lauderdale, Fl - Saturday, January 20, 2007 10:01 AM CST
Happy Birthday Bugs!
Dad <beckerpat7@aol.com>
- Saturday, January 20, 2007 6:22 AM CST
I was thinking of Chris this morning, and remembered that his birthday is tomorrow. Wanted to drop by and let you know that my thoughts are with you both as you celebrate the day, and hope that with it comes lots of happy memories.

Lots of love,

Beth <gbd@sympatico.ca>
Ontario, ON Canada - Friday, January 19, 2007 11:27 AM CST
Last night my daughter's school, Rampello Downtown Partnership, held a benefit honoring a young man who passed away at age 11 on February 1, 2006 from cancer, his name is Daniel Frydrych. The children also raised money for Faces of Courage, an organization who helps many families of children with cancer. I thought of you all and Chris during the dinner and how special he also was. From what I know of both boys, I have a feeling they are hanging out together and watching over all of us.
You are always in my prayers. God Bless.

Tina Lafoe <tlafoe@tampabay.rr.com>
Tampa, FL - Friday, January 19, 2007 7:10 AM CST
When the Ante and Schuppert families gathered together at Christmas in the living room in Lexington, KY, I made sure to bring in a lighted candle in honor of Chris, so that there was a sense of presence of him among us while we opened our presents. Maybe somewhere in our hearts or from above, he was watching and feeling joy.
Uncle Alex <ante_alex@excite.com>
Covington, KY USA - Wednesday, December 27, 2006 7:49 PM CST
Dear Becker Family:
Just wanted to check in and let you know that I am thinking about you and hope that the holiday has brought some peace and comfort to both of you. I think of you often and still remember Chris and seeing him at the clinic. He was great fun to be with and will always be missed.
Love,
Shelley

Shelley Coleman <colemans@lls.org>
- Tuesday, December 26, 2006 7:29 PM CST
Just stopping by to wish you both a very Blessed Christmas. I'm so truly sorry that you're having to spend Christmas without Chris; there really aren't words that will comfort you when I'm sure all you both want to do is see and hold him. You both remain in my thoughts and prayers, and I hope the season is a gentle one for you.

Denise Ward <deniward@shaw.>
Winnipeg, c - Sunday, December 24, 2006 8:24 PM CST
Dear Mr. Hallmark,

I am writing to you from heaven, and though it must appear,
A rather strange idea, I see everything from here,
I just popped in to visit, your stores to find a card,
A card of love for my parents, as this day for them is hard,
There must be some mistake I thought, every card you can imagine,
except I could not find a card, from a child that lives in heaven,
they are still a parent too, no matter where I reside,
I had to leave, they understand, but oh the tears they cried,
I thought that if I wrote to you, that you would come to know,
that though I live in heaven now, I still love my parents so,
they talk with me, and dreams with me, we still share laughter too,
memories are our way of speaking now, would you see what you can do?
my parents carry me in their heart, their tears they hide from sight,
they plants flowers in my garden, there my living memory dwells,
they writes to other grieving parents, trying to ease there pain as well,
so you see Mr. Hallmark, though I no longer live on earth,
I must find a way, to remind her of her wondrous worth,
they need to be honored, and be remembered too,
just as the children of the earth will do,
thank you Mr. Hallmark, I know you will do your best,
find a way to tell them, how much they mean to me,
until I can do it for myself, when she joins me in eternity.


I know Christmas must be so hard for you although I can't comprehend how difficult it must be.

All my love,

Viks


viks <viks@postpals.co.uk>
- Friday, December 22, 2006 8:36 AM CST
Chris and Alison:

Merry Christmas. May all the love for Chris shine upon you both. He was so very special and a wonderful gift to all of us.

Pam Clark <pam.clark@fldfs.com>
- Tuesday, December 12, 2006 12:05 AM CST
I miss Chris. :(
Jonathan <onefinefeller@msn.com>
Columbus, OH USA - Friday, December 1, 2006 8:56 PM CST
Good Day Mr. and Mrs. Becker!
We still think about Chris everyday. He was a very kind kid and a great friend! He always had something about him that made everyone seem alright. And we loved his "laughing squirrel voice" it was super hilarious.

We hope you have wonderful holidays!
We will write as much as we can!

Love,
Sam May and Tyler Cram

Sam May & Tyler Cram <SoccerSam921@cs.com <-- [Sam's]>
Tampa, FL USA - Saturday, November 25, 2006 2:08 PM CST
Please allow me to be the first to wish you a very blessed and Happy Thanksgiving, Alison and Pat. I hope you enjoy every moment of today and find yourselves completely care free.

Love,

Alex C. Ante (you brother)

Alex C. Ante <ante_alex@excite.com>
Bellevue, KY USA - Thursday, November 23, 2006 5:28 PM CST
Dear Alison and Pat,
Thinking of you and Angel Chris very often and keeping you in our prayers. So glad you continue to update Chris's site--we always check in on you guys and it is nice to know how you are all doing and what you've been up to.
Chris is truly an unforgetable and beautiful soul.
I am certain he is experiencing a happiness in heaven that is beyond our mortal comprehension.
Thinking of you..
Much Love,
Vic and Sara

The Hammer's <hammertime311@comcast.net>
- Wednesday, November 22, 2006 11:48 PM CST

The Gap

The gap between those who have lost children and those who have not is profoundly difficult to bridge. No one, whose children are well and intact can be expected to understand what parents who have lost children have absorbed and what they bear. Our children come to us through every blade of grass, every crack in the sidewalk, every bowl of breakfast cereal. We seek contact with their atoms, their hairbrush, their toothbrush, their clothing. We reach for what was integrally woven into the fabric of our lives, now torn and shredded.
A black hole has been blown through our souls and, indeed, it often does not allow the light to escape. It is a difficult place. For us to enter there is to be cut deeply, and torn anew, each time we go there, by the jagged edges of our loss. Yet we return, again and again, for that is where our children now reside. This will be so for years to come and it will change us profoundly. At some point in the distant future, the edges of that hole will have tempered and softened but the empty space will remain - a life sentence.
Our friends will change through this. There is no avoiding it. We grieve for our children, in part, through talking about them and our feelings for having lost them. Some go there with us, others cannot and through their denial and a further measure, however unwittingly, to an already heavy burden. Assuming that we may be feeling "better" six months later is simply "to not get it." The excruciating and isolating reality that bereaved parents feel is hermetically sealed from the nature of any other human experience. Thus it is a trap - those whose compassion and insight we most need are those for whom we abhor the experience that would allow them that sensitivity and capacity. And yet, somehow there are those, each in their own fashion, who have found a way to reach us and stay, to our comfort. They have understood, again each in their own way, that our children remain our children through our memory of them. Their memory is sustained through speaking about them and our feelings about their death. Deny this and you deny their life. Deny their life and you no longer have a place in ours.
We recognize that we have moved to an emotional place where it is often very difficult to reach us. Our attempts to be normal are painful and the day to day carries a silent, screaming anguish that accompanies us, sometimes from moment to moment. Were we to give it its own voice we fear we would become truly unreachable, and so we remain "strong" for a host of reasons even as the strength saps our energy and drains our will. Were we to act out our true feelings we would be impossible to be with. We resent having to act normal, yet we dare not do otherwise. People who understand this dynamic are our gold standard. Working our way through this over the years will change us as does every experience - and extreme experience changes one extremely. We know we will have recovered when, as we have read, it is no longer so painful to be normal. We do not know who we will be at that point or who will still be with us.
We have read that the gap is so difficult that, often, bereaved parents must attempt to reach out to friends and relatives or risk losing them. This is our attempt. For those untarnished by such events, who wish to know in some way what they, thankfully, do not know, read this. It may provide a window that is helpful for both sides of the gap.

By
Michael Crenlinsten

LOVE ALWAYS BRENDA MY LOVING DAD'S SITE <brurka@shaw.ca>
EDMONTON,ALBERTA/CANADA, - Wednesday, November 22, 2006 3:23 PM CST
Wishing you both a blessed Thanksgiving.
Tina Lafoe <tlafoe@tampabay.rr.com>
Tampa, FL - Wednesday, November 22, 2006 6:15 AM CST
Dear Alison & Pat,
I just wanted to stop by and wish both a HAPPY THANKSGIVING and let you know I am thinking of you. Thanks for the update on Chris' page.
Love, Marion

marion shapiro <mas10n@aol.com>
New York, NY 10021 - Tuesday, November 21, 2006 4:14 PM CST
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YOUR ALWAYS ON MY MIND TAKE CARE .


LOVE ALWAYS BRENDA MY LOVING DAD'S SITE <brurka@shaw.ca>
EDMONTON ,ALBERTA Canadian Flag, - Monday, November 20, 2006 2:57 PM CST
I'm sure you both have so many memories of Chris from this time of the year from Halloweens and Thanksgivings past. I hope that the happy times you've loved together bring you comfort, and know that you both remain in my prayers.
Denise Ward <deniward@shaw.>
Winnipeg, Canada - Monday, November 6, 2006 10:42 PM CST
Dear Alison and Pat
Alls well at this end
Hope this find you both well too.

Cathy Wachtstetter <Skugalskid@aol.com>
Ft Lauderdale, Fl - Thursday, November 2, 2006 4:28 PM CST
In the rising of the sun and in its going down, we remember him.

In the blowing of the wind and in the chill of winter, we remember him.

In the opening of buds and in the rebirth of spring, we remember him.

In the blueness of the sky and in the warmth of summer, we remember him.

In the rustling of leaves and in the beauty of autumn, we remember him.

In the beginning of the year and when it ends, we remember him.

When we are weary and in need of strength, we remember him.

When we have joys we yearn to share, we remember him.

So long as we live, they too shall live, for they are now a part of us, as we remember him.

anonymous <anonymous@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, October 26, 2006 6:02 PM CDT
Just wanted to drop by to let you know that you all are constantly in my thoughts and prayers. Hope all is well with you as you continue to move on.
Tina Lafoe <tlafoe@tampabay.rr.com>
Tampa, FL - Tuesday, October 17, 2006 2:54 PM CDT
You are always in my thoughts and prayers. I have lots of Chris memories from scouting and what a sweet, funny and extremely inteligent boy that he is. However, I never knew the intensity of his disease, you always gave him the opportunities to lead as "normal" of a childhood as possible along with the other boys. His passing was a shcok to all of us and we miss his 'smiley' face. Reading back on your journal and how little he was when it all began...you are such wonderful parents. May God continue to give you the strength that you need. God bless you,
Lizette Espel & Family <lizette969@yahoo.com>
Tampa, FL USA - Friday, October 13, 2006 8:11 AM CDT
Dear Alison and Pat,
Thinking of you both so much, and always remembering Chris
(and what a gentle soul he was) and keeping you in our prayers.

Much Love,
The Hammer's

The Hammer's <hammertime311@comcast.net>
- Friday, October 13, 2006 0:15 AM CDT
Just stopping by to let you both know you're being thought of and prayed for.
Denise Ward <deniward@shaw.>
Winnipeg, c - Tuesday, October 10, 2006 11:38 PM CDT
Hi Alison and Pat,
Even though it's not your holiday I want to wish you both a HAPPY and HEALTHY Jewish New Year. May this be a "sweet" year. Thinking of you,
Love, Marion

Marion Shapiro <mas10n@aol.com>
New York, NY usa - Sunday, September 24, 2006 7:15 PM CDT
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LOVE ALWAYS BRENDAMY LOVING DAD'S SITE <brurka@shaw.ca>
EDMONTON ,ALBERTA Canadian Flag, - Thursday, September 21, 2006 11:11 PM CDT
Just stopping by to say hello and let you know that I am praying for the requests you have listed on your page as well as for your family.
Jennifer A from the prayer bears and ones who care <sassy_girl913@yahoo.com>
Carrolton, Texas - Thursday, August 31, 2006 6:53 AM CDT
Hope Pat and copilot had a great experience up in the helicopter this week, as part of Pat's "29th birthday anniversary" present to himself... Happy Birthday again, Pat! I will pray for your father's health. Perhaps we can be thankful to Gotd his doctors detected the condition in his leg early.
Uncle Alex <ante_alex@excite.com>
Covington, Ky USA - Saturday, August 26, 2006 1:18 PM CDT


I was posting this picture on Cassie's site, and thought I would swing by your page to say "hello". I hope little allie is doing better.

Lots of love

Viks




viks <viks@postpals.co.uk>
- Sunday, August 20, 2006 11:25 AM CDT
Happy Birthday PAT
HOPE YOU HAVE A GREAT DAY
Think of you both often and
Never see a Smiley face that
I dont remeber Chris.
Love, "Aunt Cathy"

Cathy Wachtstetter <Skugalskid@aol.com>
Ft Lauderdale, Fl - Friday, August 18, 2006 6:36 AM CDT
Still checking up on both of you
Never see a smiley face without thinking of Chris
Pat hope you have a Happy Birthday!
Love, "Aunt" Cathy

Cathy Wachtstetter <Skugalskid@aol.com>
Ft Lauderdale, Fl - Thursday, August 17, 2006 10:09 AM CDT
I'm sorry to hear about little Allie--I hope and pray that she can have the transplant and will keep her in my prayers. Chris, as well of both of you remain in my thoughts and prayers as well. I like reading your diary entries from your travels with Chris when he was just a toddler.
Denise Ward <deniward@shaw.>
Winnipeg, Canada - Wednesday, August 16, 2006 2:45 AM CDT
Your page is an inspiration to me. I will continually keep your family as well as the other people you have mentioned in my prayers.
Jennifer A from the prayer bears and ones who care <sassy_girl913@yahoo.com>
Carrolton, Texasq - Monday, July 31, 2006 11:19 AM CDT
One of my fondest memories was when Chris answered the phone and was in a playful mood. He was reciting the lines from a Harry Potter film (in "Hogwarts"?) and was talking so fast, it was like he was a funny genius. He could go on for hours "living the parts" from the movie, just like he was a true actor. His voice animation, etc. was truly superb. I was thinking of him yesterday and wondering if he's watching us. I just wish the family and friends could gather in the house for a prayer meeting, light a candle and visit his room. Why should we not stay in spiritual touch?! Chris will meet us at the other side, one day.
Uncle Alex <ante_alex@excite.com>
Covington, KY USA - Saturday, July 22, 2006 12:51 AM CDT
Pat & Allison,

I haven't checked in for a while, but I think of you always. I have the two smily face pins on my desk that Chris game me which is a constant reminder of him and you.

Take care!


Barbara Carpanese <barbara@admin.usf.edu>
Wesley Chapel, FL - Friday, July 21, 2006 8:37 AM CDT
Pat and Alison,
Thinking of you both and remembering Chris always.
He is truly shining in heaven.
Our Love,
Sara and Vic

The Hammer's <hammertime311@comcast.net>
- Tuesday, July 18, 2006 8:35 AM CDT
I recognized Chris's story right away in Brian Ante's "CASE STUDY OF ELEMENTARY STUDENT WITH CANCER", posted on our listserve, even though the names and places were changed. I don't know if you still keep up with the list or if it is too painful, but wanted you to know that Chris's struggle still continues to inspire others. That article is important in demonstrating the challenges and triumphs of educating a child with cancer. Chris did amazingly well in school, considering how much of it was in different states and different settings. I still have some of his poems/songs saved. My favorite is "Men in White". What a great description of an MIBG scan! Maybe at some point you could collect some of his writings into a book for publication. His amazing spirit and great sense of humor shine through in his works. Many blessings on you and your family.
Aimee, mom to Kendall and Zachary, www.caringbridge.com/ny/kendall <aimee1@optonline.net>
Long Island, NY USA - Tuesday, July 18, 2006 8:07 AM CDT
Dear Pat:
Just to know your being thought about on Fathers day.
Hope you have a good day. Remember Chris is watching
over you. SMILE!
Love, "Aunt" Cathy

Cathy Wachtstetter <Skugalskid@aol.com>
Ft Lauderdale, Fl - Sunday, June 18, 2006 5:38 PM CDT
Just stopping by to let you know you and Chris are still in my thoughts and prayers. God Bless you.
Tina Lafoe <tlafoe@tampabay.rr.com>
Tampa, FL - Sunday, June 4, 2006 8:01 AM CDT
Dear Alison and Pat,
Hoping you are both well and thinking of Chris.
Love, Marion

Marion Shapiro <mas10n@aol.com>
New York, NY usa - Friday, June 2, 2006 6:14 PM CDT
Dear Alison and Pat,
Still thinking of you and missing Chris.
Love,
Marion

Marion Shapiro <mas10n@aol.com>
New York, NY USA - Thursday, June 1, 2006 7:05 PM CDT
Happy Mothers Day Alison
Wish Chris was here with you today,
but know he is smiling down on you
Have a wonderful day
Love, "Aunt" Cathy

Cathy Wachtstetter <skugalskid@aol.com>
Ft Lauderdale, Fl - Sunday, May 14, 2006 6:36 AM CDT
Just stopping by to wish you a Happy Mother's Day. I know it's not going to be the same kind of Sunday celebration you'd have had with Chris, but...you are his mom, and always will be. You raised a remarkable boy, taught him to respect and think of others, to have a great sense of humour, to be brave when it wasn't always easy to be, and that is no small thing. My prayers are with you.
Denise Ward <deniward@shaw.ca>
Winnipeg, Canada - Sunday, May 14, 2006 1:35 AM CDT
Dear Mr. and Mrs. Becker,
I was just thinking of Cris so i thought that i would sign the guestbook.

i love you guys!!

Love: SAM MAY

Sam <SoccerSam921@cs.com>
Tampa, FL USA - Saturday, May 13, 2006 5:20 PM CDT
May the souls of all the faithful departed through the mercy of God, rest in peace. Amen.
unknown <unknown@unknown.com>
- Saturday, May 6, 2006 10:48 AM CDT
Wishing you both a blessed Easter. I am sure it is so comforting for you both to see how much Chris has remained in everyone's hearts over the past year. I know this will remain the case for years to come.
Tina Lafoe <tlafoe@peoplepc.com>
Tampa, FL - Tuesday, April 18, 2006 11:30 AM CDT
I'm glad that the azaleas continue to bloom, and that the plant beside your garage has shown some promise. I'm sure that Chris has had something to do with this. I hope that the promise of Easter will bring some comfort to you both tomorrow.
Denise Ward <deniward@shaw.ca>
Winnipeg, Canada - Sunday, April 16, 2006 1:04 AM CDT
Wishing you an ever-blessed Easter (in advance) and a happy peaceful belated birthday!

Love,

Uncle Alex (your bro)

Alex C. Ante <ante_alex@excite.com>
Covington/Cincinnati, KY/OH USA - Thursday, April 6, 2006 6:49 PM CDT
Just stopping by to say that I continue to remember you both in my prayers.
Denise Ward <deniward@shaw.ca>
Winnipeg, Canada - Thursday, April 6, 2006 6:40 PM CDT
Happy Birthday Alison. I am thinking about you, Pat and Chris today. Uncle Jonathan
Jonathan <onefinefeller@msn.com>
Columbus, OH USA - Tuesday, April 4, 2006 11:02 AM CDT
Think of you both so often.
Hope all is well!
Please know Chris isnt forgotten!

Cathy Wachtstetter <skygalskid@aol.com>
Ft Lauderdale, Fl - Wednesday, March 29, 2006 10:27 PM CST
I think about Chris so often. I have my smiley face pin on my desk on top of my post it notes(it keeps falling off my name badge :-) so I see it everyday and it always makes me smile. Chris always had a smile for everyone, even when he was sick, and his smile would light up the room. Someone donated the book Zombie Butts From Uranus! the other day and I immediately thought of Chris and his delightful and sometimes interesting taste in literature. I miss having him as my connection to the world of children's literature. He defintely had a love for reading and I remember the times when we read together. He is in my thoughts, as are you both. Please know Chris had a great impact on my life and I remember him with a smile on my face and love in my heart.
Gail Armstrong <armstros@allkids.org>
St. Petersburg, Fl USA - Tuesday, March 14, 2006 9:32 AM CST
Dear Mr. and Mrs. Becker, I've been thinking about you guys recently. I just wanted to let you know that I feel lucky to have met your amazing son. You are right, I never heard an unkind word from him, even when he felt his worst. I am reminded of him daily in some fashion or another.
Shawn Lanier
- Wednesday, March 8, 2006 9:24 PM CST
Dear Alison and Pat,

Hello again. Just wanted to say that I am still thinking about you......and praying you were able to feel Chris' presence and love this past week. I send my love and hugs..............angie

angie laehn <aliemma@hotmail.com>
pepin, wi usa - Monday, March 6, 2006 12:25 AM CST
I had been thinking of you guys and I just signed on, not realizing it was the one year anniversary. Just want to let you know that I am thinking of you. I truly appreciate all the help and 'tips' you have shared with me. I am prepared! We had a few setbacks but things are progressing and we will leave 3/12 for St. Jude. I know that Emily draws strength from all the brave soldiers like your Chris, who have fought beside her in this war. May God Bless You both.
Tricia Lester <pplester169@aol.com>
Seminole, FL - Saturday, March 4, 2006 7:47 PM CST
Dear Allison and Pat:
I too having been thinking about Chris this past week. I had the pleasure of going to his school last Friday to be on the morning show and accept a check from the school for cancer research. I also had the opportunity to go to his safety patrol post and see the beautiful flowers. Everyone at the school had so many wonderful things to say about Chris and they miss him very much as do we all.

You are so right about Chris. I never heard him speak a bad word about anyone or even be angry in clinic. He always had a smile on his face and a smile to give away. Everytime I go to the clinic I miss seeing him and also miss seeing you, Pat.
Please know that Chris will never be forgotten.
Love,
Miss Shelley

Shelley Coleman <horaksr@tampabay.rr.com>
Tampa, FL - Friday, March 3, 2006 7:26 PM CST
I'm sure it's been a difficult week to say the least, remembering Chris' last week. He certainly left his mark on all those he met, in person, and through his website. Chris was a remarkable young man, wise beyond his years, and seemed always to think of others. Some of us spend years trying to develop some of the qualities that came so naturally to Chris, and he is certainly a son to be proud of. My thoughts and prayers are so often with your family.
Denise Ward <deniward@shaw.ca>
Winnipeg, Canada - Friday, March 3, 2006 1:03 AM CST
Dear Alison and Pat, not a day goes by that we don't think about Chris. Wanted you to know we were thinking of you both on this one year anniversary knowing what a difficult and lonley year it's been for you both. Your in my thoughts and prayers. Brianna received her book from Grandpa Joe that was in memory of Chris and has enjoyed reading it and has shared with many of Chris's friends who want to order the book. Chris's memory is still with his friends and they remember him, talk about him and miss him. Take care.
Pam Hallman <phallman@tampabay.rr.com>
Tampa, FL US - Wednesday, March 1, 2006 5:57 PM CST
Dear Allison and Pat,

You all made such an impression on me through the neuroblastoma List. Chris was an amazing kid. Though I never met him, reading his story gives us such a beautiful picture.

Thanks for sharing all you did on the list. You are welcome back any time!! Sara Hammer posted a nice note about Chris yesterday!! She is also a Godsend!!

Love to you all!!

Your Minnesota Friends

The Hollway's
Mary , Bill, Billy, Mike and Molly NB stage 3, 9/93 12+ year survivor.

Mary Hollway <Maryhollway@mn.rr.com>
Edina, MN - Wednesday, March 1, 2006 12:13 AM CST
Allison and Pat:
I can't even begin to imagine what the last year has been like for you both. We have all missed Chris, even those of us who never met him personally. What a wonderful blessing he was for all of us.

Thinking of you both during this anniversary time.

Pam Clark <pamequus@aol.com>
Tallahassee, - Wednesday, March 1, 2006 6:54 AM CST
Praying for your angel and your family tonight.
Blessings, Love Ellen

http://www.caringbridge.org/ma/seanhanson

Ellen Hanson <ehanson89@aol.com>
Cape Cod, Ma - Wednesday, March 1, 2006 1:15 AM CST
Thinking of you on this anniversary of Chris' passing.
I can't imagine what the past year has been like for you.
But know that Chris is watching and is pleased.
I'm sorry that I never knew him, but am still inspired by him. Keep strong and know that you will see Chris again.

michael-Hannah's dad www.caringbridge.org/fl/hannahbannana <madtpa@yahoo.com>
tampa, fl - Tuesday, February 28, 2006 8:50 PM CST
Dearest Chris,
Please wrap your angel wings around your parents today and let them feel the peace that you have felt since you so brilliantly and courageously earned your golden angel wings..
I have a candle lit for you today lil buddy..
Pat and Alison, you both have been in my mind profoudly as you go thru this first anniversary of Chris leaving your arms.. I am sending hugs and love and hoping that you can feel them!!!!!!! Love you both, and love you too Angel Chris..

Peace,

Justine, Mom to Angel Lance www.caringbridge.org/page/lance <justine.saylors@mac.com>
lake oswego, OR United States - Tuesday, February 28, 2006 7:12 PM CST
Hello,
I read your post with the group and wanted to check out your son's site. What brave little warrior's they are? I hate cancer but I hate Neuroblastoma with a passion! I pray that God will continue to give you grace and peace. A fellow parent of a child with Neuroblastoma.
Elena mom to www.caringbridge.org/visit/brianbriscoe

Elena Briscoe <rudybriscoe@sbcglobal.net>
Altus, OK - Tuesday, February 28, 2006 6:01 PM CST
Dearest Alison and Pat,
Please know that I think of you and Chris so often. You are in my prayers........especially today. I can only imagine how much love and joy Chris is sharing and giving in Heaven. May God bring you peace and comfort and strength today and always.............angie

angie laehn <aliemma@hotmail.com>
pepin, wi usa - Tuesday, February 28, 2006 1:44 PM CST
Always thinking of you!!
May God bless you always..

Alma <tetetogo@yahoo.com>
Sterling, VA - Tuesday, February 28, 2006 1:31 PM CST
I've been away from the NB family for so long that I was unaware of Chris' passing. I'm so very very sorry and it's already been a year. You guys were always a steadfast support for myself and Justina. Although, we've never met it seems that we have "known" each other for years. I feel like a real schmuk for not keeping up with your story.
Chris definately left a legacy and path sprinkled and inspired for those of us that are left to be kindled by him.
No human words can ease the pain and loss and the lonliness that I cannot comprehend that you must be feeling. But, I'm awed by your great courage to be the great parents you ARE and continue to be. Chris will forever live on this planet through his own works and your shared memories.
Much Love,
Lisa Korenko, mom to Justina Korenko

Lisa and Justina Korenko <laladedalisa@aol.com>
Lompoc, Ca usa - Tuesday, February 28, 2006 12:29 AM CST
We miss you, wee man.
Alison and Pat, we're thinking of you today, and some other days too!!!

Ingrid and Les

Les Davidson <coach_les@yahoo.com>
Largo, fl Canada - Tuesday, February 28, 2006 10:30 AM CST
Thinking of you today. Chris sounds like a remarkable young man. I would have been honored to have known him. Thank goodness that I will be able to have the priviledge to know him later if not now.
Susan Stein <hilltophedgies@msn.com>
Layton, UT - Tuesday, February 28, 2006 7:50 AM CST
Dear Alison and Pat,
It's hard to believe that a year has passed since Chris became an Angel. He seems to still be with us in so many ways. You are both in my thoughts.
Love, Marion

marion shapiro <mas10n@aol.com>
New York, NY usa - Monday, February 27, 2006 10:18 PM CST
Alison and Pat,
Thinking of Chris so much and believe he is never
very far away.
Sending you all our heartfelt love and prayers,
The Hammer's

The Hammer's <hammertime311@comcast.net>
- Monday, February 27, 2006 9:17 PM CST
Thinking of you both always --- especially this week. I know that our two angels are having so much fun together!
Much love,
The McAfees
Misty, Jeff, and Paul

Misty McAfee <mistymcafee@hotmail.com>
Warner Robins, GA - Monday, February 27, 2006 8:16 PM CST
Dear Alison and Pat:
Hard to believe its already been a year
since Chris left us! He is sure not missed
any less as time goes on. Hang in there
and know hes spreading his smile somewhere
else now.
Miss you so much Chris!
Love "Aunt" Cathy



Cathy Wachtstetter <skugalskid@aol.com>
Ft Lauderdale, Fl - Monday, February 27, 2006 3:34 PM CST
You are both in my thoughts and prayers this week as we recognize the anniversary of the day Chris left us for heaven. Even though he is not physically with us, it is apparent from this web page that he is still impacting people all over. God Bless You.
Tina Lafoe <tlafoe@peoplepc.com>
Tampa, FL - Monday, February 27, 2006 7:08 AM CST
Realizing Tuesday is the anniversary of Chris's departure to heaven, I wanted to let you know I was thinking of him today and suddenly I noticed a license plate on an Ohio SUV in front of me that spelled out: WTH GOD. I thought you should know that little message from heaven came at an increadible timing.

Chris is with God.

Love,

Uncle Alex

Alex C. Ante <ante_alex@excite.com>
Covington, KY Kenton - Sunday, February 26, 2006 3:01 PM CST
Hey just wanted to let you guys know how much we miss chris and how he brightened a gloomy day and he will always be in our hearts and minds.

Brianna Hallman <Bhallman@tampabay.rr.com>
Tampa, FL - Thursday, February 23, 2006 4:52 PM CST
Just wanted to let you know that I checked in to get my Chris update. He is always in my thoughts when I read a joke or see something silly, I think about Chris.
Bless both of you.
Love,
Miss Shelley

Shelley Coleman <colemans@lls.org>
Tampa, FL - Thursday, February 16, 2006 6:53 PM CST
Just wanted to let you know that we had wonderful memories of Chris the other day. Zoe was a classmate with Chris his final year and remembers him all the time. She had just found a happy face pin and just spent some quite time thinking about Chris. She refused to be sad and was telling me about Chris and how wonderful he was. We just wanted to let you know he has not been forgotten and he is remembered for being such a wonderful person. Thank you for sharing him with us, Zoe feels she is a better person for knowing him. We hope all is as well as can be and wish you all the best.
Lisa Cohn <goodskin4u2@msn.com>
Tampa, Fl USA - Thursday, February 2, 2006 4:29 PM CST
I was a fifth grade student at Lake Magdalene twenty years ago when the Challenger disaster occurred and remember the trees that were planted in remembrance. It is so wonderful that you both continue to honor Chris's memory as well as other brave warriors who have taken risks and journeys to benefit all of us. You are both in my thoughts and prayers daily as we approach the anniversary of the day we lost a very brave warrior. God bless you both.
Tina Lafoe <tlafoe@peoplepc.com>
Tampa, FL - Monday, January 30, 2006 7:06 AM CST
Just stopping by to let you both know that you remain in my thoughts and prayers, especially this last week as you have had Chris' birthday to commemorate. I'm glad his azaleas continue to bloom; somehow it's fitting for Chris as he never gave up either.
Denise Ward <deniward@shaw.ca>
Winnipeg, Canada - Tuesday, January 24, 2006 0:26 AM CST
Happy Birthday, Chris!
You are never forgotten and are always alive in our memories and in our hearts.

Love to you both Pat and Alison..

Vic and Sara Hammer <hammertime311@comcast.net>
- Saturday, January 21, 2006 1:04 AM CST
Happy Birthday Bugs. Wish you were here!
Mom and Dad <beckerpat7@aol.com>
Tampa, FL USA - Friday, January 20, 2006 7:06 PM CST

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