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Thinking of you and sending love and prayers from Scotland,Rosi

www.caringbridge.org/hi/kayla

♥
Hannah
M'Boro, TN - Tuesday, October 16, 2007 12:15 AM CDT

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Hannah
M'Boro, TN - Tuesday, October 16, 2007 12:14 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I am thinking of your brave little trooper, and of you, this morning. May God bless you all.

Beneath my signature is the collect of the day.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Keep us, O Lord, constant in faith and zealous in witness, after The examples of your servants Hugh Latimer, Nicholas Ridley, and Thomas Cranmer; that we may live in your fear, die in your favor, and rest in your peace; for the sake of Jesus Christ your Son our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, October 16, 2007 8:44 AM CDT

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Hello Rhonda,Stopped by to say hello from hemet.Thinking of you and wanting you to know someone cares in hemet.sherry
Sherry <cowpies5@aol.com>
- Monday, October 15, 2007 1:53 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

Last night, I had the opportunity to hear some professional storytellers and eat in an inn in Scotia, called the Glen Sanders Mansion. I know I have mentioned Story Sundays to you previously. The tellers, a story quartet, known as Four Stories Tall, are a group I first heard about fifteen years ago, at the New York State Museum, and have since heard with my boys, at our local public library. They often appear at school assemblies, and are the type of tellers that youth, like Connor, always enjoy. When I got home, I thought of Connor a lot and wondered which stories he would have liked best. I am sure the more humorous and scary ones would have been among his choices.

Today is the feast of St. Teresa of Avila. Beneath my signature is one of her sayings and the collect of the day.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Christ has no body now but yours
No hands, no feet on earth but yours
Yours are the eyes through which He looks
compassion on this world
Christ has no body now on earth but yours.

The Collect Of The Day:

Almighty God, who, when the hearts of your people have grown Cold, send your Spirit to relight the flame of your love in their hearts, and raise up faithful ministers to recall your people to their former devotion and service: Mercifully grant that we, following the teaching and example of Teresa of Avila and others, may be filled with your Holy Spirit, may be aflame with zeal for your glory and love for your goodness and hunger for your love, and that our feet may be set upon the path that leads to true holiness; all of which we ask through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, October 15, 2007 12:00 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I did the lay reading for one weekend service, at St. George's. While there, I remembered Connor, in the beauty of holiness. I will leave the collect below.

I do not know if Connor was a baseball fan, or not, but if so, he probably would have been thrilled to see the exciting playoff game we saw on television last night, which went into extra innings. I imagine Connor is experiencing all sorts of sports in heaven, as well as great animals. God bless his sweet spirit.

God bless both of you and all of your loved ones.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Lord, we pray that your grace may always precede and follow us, that we may continually be given to good works; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 234
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, October 14, 2007 1:43 PM CDT

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Deb: Thanks for your concern. I have just had a very frustrating week.

Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

Connor will be remembered, at Eucharist, at St. George's, this weekend. May God bless his sweet spirit.

Today's saint is Edward the Confessor, a King of England. In Christian biographies, the term "confessor" is often used to denote someone who bore significant witness to the faith, by his life, but who did not die a public martyr. It is said that Edward was diligent in public and private worship, generous to the poor, and accessible to subjects who sought redress of grievances. There is a large church, here in Clifton Park, named for him.

God bless you both, and God bless all of Connor's loved ones, friends, and supporters.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

Colette

Collect For The Day:

O God, who called your servant Edward to an earthly throne That he might advance your heavenly kingdom, and gave him zeal for your Church and love for your people: Mercifully grant that we who commemorate him this day may be fruitful in good works, and attain to the glorious crown of your saints; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, October 13, 2007 12:43 AM CDT

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hi rhonda...just stopping in to say i hope all is going well for you...with love and hugs...deb

colette...i'm sorry you're having a difficult time...i hope things are better...with love and hugs...deb
deborah pearce <deborah77@wowway.com>
southgate, MI - Saturday, October 13, 2007 11:06 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I am remembering Connor on another Friday morning. He was remembered, beneath the Jesus and the Children stained glass window, last night.

Whatever is going on with you, at this time, I hope you can relax and enjoy a good weekend.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

A Collect For Fridays:

Almighty God, whose most dear Son went not up to joy but
first he suffered pain, and entered not into glory before he
was crucified: Mercifully grant that we, walking in the way
of the cross, may find it none other than the way of life and
peace; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord. Amen.

The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 99
Written By William Reed Huntington (1838-1909)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, October 12, 2007 8:32 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda, You don't know me. My name is Heidi Barber and I am An RN in a pediatric unit in a hospital in Lansing, Mi. I entered the caring bridge site to leave a message for the family of a patient that recently passed on. However, I started poking around on the sites a little and ran across your story. I started reading (and crying) and I just wanted to let you know that your story, even being a complete stranger, has inspired me and truly touched my heart. It made me get up from my computer, go into my sleeping daughters' room and kiss them and hug them, right then and there while I cried! It is SO important to live each day not knowing what the future holds, and to cherish every second of every minute that you have with the people in your lives that you love. It's hard to remember this in the midst of a chaotic day...baby crying, other two girls fighting, dinner burning, etc...but I will surely be thinking of you and connor in the future when this story plays out, and will remember to thank God for the wonderful, noisy, high-pitched chaos. It sounds like your son had a wonderful mommy and daddy. I am so sorry that your family has had to endure this horrible pain. However, I am a living testimonial that your son is continuing to touch lives, even after he has left this earth! May God continue to grant you strengh and courage. P.S. I take care of oncology patients almost daily, and see the horrible effects that can and do occur...I am not a stranger to this nightmare. But, there was just something so special and evedent about the way you loved you son...THAT is what I wanted you to know!)
Heidi Barber <hlbarber@comcast.net>
Lansing, Mi usa - Thursday, October 11, 2007 10:14 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda,

I know you are a friend of the Legge family. I wonder if you have heard about Lauren's late September emergency. I just saw it myself about a half hour ago.

http://www.caringbridge.org/tn/laurenlegge

Grace and peace,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, October 11, 2007 2:29 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

The last few days have been rather difficult for me. Tonight, I thought of a scripture and a collect, which cheered me, so I will share them here with you.

May God bless you both, and of course, may God bless your sweet golden boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

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Finally, brethren, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is gracious, if there is any excellence, if there is anything worthy of praise, think about these things.

~Philippians 4:8

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Grant us, Lord, not to be anxious about earthly things, but to love things heavenly; and even now, while we are placed among things that are passing away, to hold fast to those that shall endure; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 234
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, October 11, 2007 0:44 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda,

I am up in the night, as it has been noisy with thunderstorms, which are now over. I am thinking of you, and of other strong women, that I know. May God bless you always.

The other day, while I was out with Andrew and Kristen, we saw two claw machines. One was full of toys, while the other held watches and small electronic items. It made me think a lot about Cheyenne Fiveash, who was always a claw machine player, but it also made me think of Connor, who had a similar generous spirit, and who passed during the same week. I think both Cheyenne and Connor would have been interested in these machines, and also in the ice cream cones being sold in that location. Speaking of ice cream, Mr. Wayne Gordon, where are you?

Rhonda, if there is anything, anything at all, that I may be able to do to help you, please call. I am up right now, so if you are reading tonight, you can call, if you wish. In fact, I would never mind even being awakened by your call.

I hope your parents, brothers, and other relatives, are well. May God bless you all.

I am leaving the collect of the day. Paulinus, who died on this date, in 644, was the First Archbishop of York.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

The Collect For October 10:

Almighty and everlasting God, we thank you for your servant Paulinus, whom you called to preach the Gospel to the people of northern England. Raise up in this and every land evangelists and heralds of your kingdom, that your Church may proclaim the unsearchable riches of our Savior Jesus Christ; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, October 10, 2007 1:05 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I hope you both enjoyed the Columbus Day Weekend. I also hope you were able to touch base with Linda, as she celebrated her birthday. My thoughts were with you all during that time, and of course, with sweet Connor.

Beneath my signature is the collect for the day. Robert Grosseteste was Bishop of Lincoln for eighteen years. A promoter of justice, he was a witness to the signing of the Magna Carta. May we have grace to promote justice and healing in our own day.

God bless you all.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

The Collect Of The Day:

O God our heavenly Father, who raised up your faithful Servant Robert Grosseteste to be a bishop and pastor in your Church and to feed your flock: Give to all pastors abundant gifts of your Holy Spirit, that they may minister in your household as true servants of Christ and stewards of your divine mysteries; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, October 9, 2007 12:29 AM CDT

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Happy Columbus Day!

I am thinking of you.

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, October 8, 2007 5:03 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I am remembering Connor, and thinking of you both, today. I hope things are going well for you, and for all of Connor's loved ones, friends, and supporters.

Today is the birthday of Archbishop Desmond Tutu, so I will leave you a quote from him.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Good is stronger than evil; love is stronger than hate; light is stronger than darkness; life is stronger than death. Victory is ours, through him who loves us.

~Desmond Tutu (Noble Peace Prize, 1984)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, October 7, 2007 12:35 AM CDT

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Yesterday I put Connor's name-leaf
on our Pen Pals Prayer Tree.
prayers and love from mrs pam
- Saturday, October 6, 2007 8:29 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

As always, I am thinking of your dear son, Connor. May God bless his sweet spirit.

Perhaps Rhonda and Linda can spend some time, during this long weekend, celebrating Linda's birthday. I hope it is a very happy one.

Beneath my signature, I will add collect for the day.

God bless you always, and God bless all of Connor's other loved ones, Connor's friends, and Connor's supporters.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Almighty God, who gave your servants Thomas More, John Fisher, And William Tyndale boldness to confess the name of our Saviour Jesus Christ before the rulers of this world, and courage to die for this faith: Grant that we may also be ever ready to give a reason for the hope that is in us, and to suffer gladly for the sake of our Lord Jesus Christ, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, October 6, 2007 3:54 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I am thinking of Connor on another Friday. May God bless his sweet spirit.

I hope you are enjoying the same type of beautiful early October weather that we are having, here, in southern Saratoga County, and I hope you are looking forward to a good weekend.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Almighty God, whose most dear Son went not up to joy but
first he suffered pain, and entered not into glory before he
was crucified: Mercifully grant that we, walking in the way
of the cross, may find it none other than the way of life and
peace; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord. Amen.

The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 99
Written By William Reed Huntington (1838-1909)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, October 5, 2007 1:10 PM CDT

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Prayer For Peace
Attributed To St. Francis Of Assisi

Lord, make me an instrument
of Your Peace.
Where there is hatred,
let me sow love;
Where there is injury, pardon;
Where there is doubt, faith;
Where there is darkness, light;
And where there is sadness, joy.
O Divine Master,
grant that I may not so much
seek to be consoled as to console;
To be understood as to understand;
To be loved as to love.
For it is in giving that we receive,
It is in pardoning that we are pardoned,
And it is in dying
that we are born to Eternal Life.

Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I am remembering Connor and thinking of you both, on the feast day of one of the most popular of all saints. Heaven is very full, but perhaps Connor has met this little saint, who loved all kinds of animals. Perhaps, as Francis loved to do, he and Connor are out preaching to birds today. Now there's a thought!

God bless you both, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Hymn Based On Writing Of St. Francis:

All creatures of our God and King,
lift up your voices, let us sing:
Alleluia, alleluia!
Thou burning sun with golden beams,
thou silver moon that gently gleams,
Refrain:
O praise him, O praise him,
Alleluia, alleluia, alleluia!

Thou rushing wind that art so strong,
ye clouds that sail in heaven along,
O praise him, Alleluia!
Thou rising morn, in praise rejoice,
ye lights of evening, find a voice, (R)

Thou flowing water, pure and clear,
make music for thy Lord to hear,
Alleluia, alleluia!
Thou fire so masterful and bright,
that givest man both warmth and light, (R)

Dear mother earth, who day by day
unfoldest blessings on our way,
O praise him, Alleluia!
The flowers and fruits that in thee grow,
let them his glory also show: (R)

And all ye men of tender heart,
forgiving others, take your part,
O sing ye Alleluia!
Ye who long pain and sorrow bear,
praise God and on him cast your care: (R)

And thou, most kind and gentle death,
waiting to hush our latest breath,
O praise him, Alleluia!
Thou leadest home the child of God,
and Christ our Lord the way hath trod: (R)

Let all things their Creator bless,
and worship him in humbleness,
O praise him, Alleluia!
Praise, praise the Father, praise the Son,
and praise the Spirit, Three in One: (R)

Words: after Francis of Assisi (1182-1226);
paraphrase of "Canticle of the Sun" by Francis of Assisi.

Music: Lasst uns erfreuen, 1623

Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/a/a100.html

Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, October 4, 2007 11:22 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda,

Happy Birthday, Plus Two!

Yesterday Andrew and I saw the movie, The Bourne Ultimatum. I thought of Connor during a couple of those action scenes. I am sure he would have loved them, as he did his Back to the Future car and The General Lee. May God bless Connor's sweet spirit, and may God always bless you, and all of Connor's loved ones, friends, and supporters.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, October 3, 2007 8:27 AM CDT

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Happy belated birthday dear Rhonda. I think of you and Eddie often, and of course, precious Connor. I imagine him playing on streets of gold. I miss him still and can only imagine how magnified this is for you and Eddie. I pray that sweet peace is yours, a peace that only our Heavenly Father can give. Your family will always be close to our heart. We love you.
Tammy Legge <tammylegge@comcast.net>
- Tuesday, October 2, 2007 9:20 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda,

Happy Birthday, Plus One! This is something we say in our family, the day after a birthday, to extend the celebration a bit. Despite challenges, I hope you are having a great birthday week.

I am glad to read Claudia's message, and now that she has said it, I will think of Connor when I see deer. I already think of him when I see the image of a deer in the Resurrection/New Life stained glass window, at St. George's.

Some people celebrate today as the Feast of Guardian Angels, so I will leave you some angel quotes in honor of Angel Connor.

God bless you and all of Connor's loved ones.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Music is well said to be the speech of angels.

~Thomas Carlyle

If you can't hear the angels, try quieting the static of worry.

~Valentine Sterling

If trouble hearing Angels song with thine ears, try listening with thy heart.

~Meriel Stelliger

The magnitude of life is overwhelming. Angels are here to help us take it peace by peace.

~Levende Waters

The angels are always near to those who are grieving, to whisper to them that their loved ones are safe in the hand of God.

~Quoted in The Angels' Little Instruction Book by Eileen Elias Freeman, 1994
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, October 2, 2007 9:33 AM CDT

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Hi, Rhonda, Happy Belated Birthday! I hope it was a wonderful day, and I am wishing you a year ahead blessed with much good health and happiness. I think of Connor quite often, and I will never forget his courage and beautiful smile. Love and hugs, Linda
linda champa <lachampa@mintz.com (Audrey's Umbrella)>
boston, ma usa - Tuesday, October 2, 2007 8:41 AM CDT

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Happy Birthday, I hope your day was wonderful. We think of you, Ed and sweet Connor always. He was such a sweet, special boy and had wonderful parents. When I see elk or deer nearby I know Connor can now see them too. Love Claudia and Jean-Paul
Claudia Douesnard <cdouesnard@gmail.com>
Durango, CO USA - Tuesday, October 2, 2007 8:31 AM CDT

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Rhonda, happy Birthday to you dear! I am thinking of you , and praying for all things good this year! For healing, for peace and a new beginning every New day your given... Connor is so so proud of you! I hope you know that! And Im sure he is what gets you through when you dont think you can anymore! You are so sweet, thoughtful, beautiful and loving... and all things good! We all care deeply about you, keep us updated!
Kim <dakk2222@netnitco.net>
IN - Monday, October 1, 2007 8:32 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda,

Happy Birthday! I haven't posted in a while, but do want you to know that you, Eddie, and Connor are never far from my thoughts. I'm sorry to hear about the washout for the relay but congratulations on your ranking!

I hope that your career is going well, and that you and Eddie are at peace. I also trust that Connor is letting you know, in his own special way, that he is watching over you...with much love and many prayers...
Deb and Laura <endyke@speakeasy.net>
Litchfield, NH USA - Monday, October 1, 2007 7:39 PM CDT

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Happy Birthday
Lisa
Mount Juliet, TN USA - Monday, October 1, 2007 6:13 PM CDT

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Happy Birthday, Rhonda!

Dear Rhonda,

May the next year of your life be graced with all the good things of God, including some unexpected surprises. My thoughts and prayers are with you today and with your beloved parents.

As Kathy has written, thank you for sharing Connor with all of us. We know you will see your golden sunshine boy again, and when you do, all shall be well.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

A Birthday Collect:

O God, our times are in your hand: Look with favor, we pray, on you servant Rhonda as she begins another year. Grant that she may grow in wisdom and grace, and strengthen her trust in your goodness all the days of her life; through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 811

Birthday Thought:

Our birth is but a sleep and a forgetting; The soul that rises with us, our life's star, Hath had elsewhere its setting, And cometh from afar; Not in entire forgetfulness, And not in utter nakedness, But trailing clouds of glory do we come from God, who is our home.

~William Wordsworth
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, October 1, 2007 4:50 PM CDT

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Happy Birthday to you...Happy Birthday to you....Happy Birthday dear Rhonda, Happy Birthday to you! Wish we could be together to celebrate our birthdays! Have a day as special as you are! I got a sign from Connor for my birthday...a little lady bug graced my ceiling.:) Thank you so much for your friendship amd for sharing Connor with me.
love and hugs,

Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Monday, October 1, 2007 10:05 AM CDT

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happy birthday rhonda! i hope your day is all you want it to be...with love and hugs...deb
deborah pearce <deborah77@wowway.com>
southgate, MI - Monday, October 1, 2007 8:18 AM CDT

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Rhonda, It's Birthday Eve!

Dear Rhonda,

We share the "Birthday Eve" greeting affectionately in our family. It is a great pleasure to greet you with these words today. We also have birthday and anniversary prayers at our weekend Eucharists at St. George's. I was going to pray for you during birthday prayers at Saturday afternoon Eucharist, but we didn't have any birthday people. (We did, however, have three couples celebrating anniversaries from eight years to forty-six years.)

While at Eucharist, I thought of Connor several times. God bless his sweet spirit, and God bless you.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

The Collect For This Weekend:

O God, you declare your almighty power chiefly in showing mercy and pity: Grant us the fullness of your grace, that we, running to obtain your promises, may become partakers of your heavenly treasure; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 234
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, September 30, 2007 0:56 AM CDT

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Dear Hunley Family,
I just wanted to let you know I was thinking of you. Happy early birthday Mrs. Hunley! I hope you enjoy it.
Love, blessings, and tons of hugs,
Tanya
Tanya Nicole Servis <tanyans83@yahoo.com>
newark, de USA - Saturday, September 29, 2007 9:15 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I am thinking of sweet Connor on the Feast of St. Michael and All Angels. I am sure Connor has met some amazing, strong angels, who serve God night and day.

I will place the collect beneath my signature.

God bless you both, and of course, God bless your dear son, Connor Jordan Hunley.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Everlasting God, who have ordained and constituted in a wonderful Order the ministries of angels and mortals: Mercifully grant that, as your holy angels always serve and worship you in heaven, so by your appointment they may help and defend us here on earth; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, September 29, 2007 2:30 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda,

I believe you have a birthday coming up in three days. I hope you enjoy this weekend and that you have many blessings on Monday.

I am thinking of you and of your sweet sunshine boy.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, September 28, 2007 5:35 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I have been seeing a lot of kids on skateboards, scooter, and bikes, after school this week. We have had July-like weather, which makes me think of Connor, his go-cart, and his bike. I certainly miss the updates on your golden sunshine boy, who will always have a place in my heart and in my prayers.

Beneath my signature, I will add the collect for Fridays. Please pray it with me.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Almighty God, whose most dear Son went not up to joy but
first he suffered pain, and entered not into glory before he
was crucified: Mercifully grant that we, walking in the way
of the cross, may find it none other than the way of life and
peace; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord. Amen.

The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 99
Written By William Reed Huntington (1838-1909)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, September 28, 2007 3:37 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I am remembering Connor and thinking of you both, and of all of Connor's loved ones, friends, and supporters, with love and with prayers. God bless you all.

Beneath my signature is the collect of the day.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Almighty God, who called your servant Vincent de Paul to serve You in the person of those in need: Grant that we, following his example, may fulfil your commandments by defending and supporting the poor, and by loving you with all our hearts, through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, September 27, 2007 1:33 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

After weeks of not stopping at the ice cream stand, I visited De Voe's this afternoon, as the special of the week is pistachio. As I enjoyed my cherry dipped cone, I thought about your sweet sunshine boy and what treat he would have chosen. May God bless him always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, September 27, 2007 0:40 AM CDT

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(((HUGS)))
becky bustin <becky@canusacandlecompany.com>
gallatin, tn - Wednesday, September 26, 2007 3:31 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,
Thinking of you and your sunshine boy...although the sun has not been out all day today, thoughts of Connor make my day sunny!:)
God Bless,
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Tuesday, September 25, 2007 5:27 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

Andrew and I saw the movie, 3:10 to Yuma, yesterday. It is one that I believe Connor would have enjoyed. Andrew has cracked up about the Pinkertons earning $18.00 a day, but I pointed out to him that there was a sign, in the movie, advertising meals for twenty-five cents. I also told him that I can remember a very elderly relative saying she worked for $3.00 a week. Connor would probably shake his head about those amounts.

I am praying for you every day and often several times.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, September 25, 2007 5:19 PM CDT

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just to let you know I am thinking about you this morning and saying a prayer too
Sharon <sholweger5@yahoo.com>
- Monday, September 24, 2007 10:34 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I am thinking of you, and of sweet Connor, on an early autumn evening. I hope you had a good day.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

The summer yields to the autumn winds blowing
While the cool burns the leaves golden red
We harvest fields we planted once knowing
Grains of truth would soon come to a head.

Mystery Healer, I feel your hand above my brow
Into your love I bow.

Again dreams seeming hard to remember
Alluring sleep ever taking its toll
Love redeems like the snows of December
Pure and deep as the infinite soul.

Mystery Healer, I feel your hand above my brow
Into your love I bow.

To meadowlands of the soul's flowering
We return from the roots we have sprung
To understand love we know is empowering
Though we learn from the truth where love hung.

Mystery Healer, I feel your hand above my brow
Into your love I bow.

~Chris Van Cleave
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, September 23, 2007 8:34 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I awoke this morning thinking of Connor, and of you both. May God bless you always.

The collect for this weekend is one of my favorites. I hope it will be meaningful and helpful to you, as well.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Grant us, Lord, not to be anxious about earthly things, but to love things heavenly; and even now, while we are placed among things that are passing away, to hold fast to those that shall endure; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 234
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, September 22, 2007 7:00 AM CDT

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Eddie and Rhonda:

Thinking of you both tonight, as well as your Connor. Our families go way back...further than I care to say out loud! Please let me know if there is anything I can do to help you two. I'm only a short drive away, or my number is listed under Daddy's name.

Love and prayers to you both,

Kriste
My Big Brother - Tracy Lanius <Kristewithane@comcast.net>
Goodlettsville, TN USA - Friday, September 21, 2007 10:34 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I am thinking of Connor on yet another Friday. Today is also the Feast of St. Matthew, the Apostle. I will leave the collect for you.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your beautiful sunshine boy.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

We thank thee, heavenly Father, for the witness of your apostle and evangelist Matthew to the Gospel of your Son our Savior; and we pray that, after his example, we may with ready wills and hearts obey the calling of our Lord to follow him; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, September 21, 2007 2:19 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I got called away from the computer, before I could sign Connor's guest book yesterday. I was here, on his website, as I am each and every day. I do not know any little boy who has been loved more than Connor Jordan Hunley.

Let me echo the words of Kathy and Dave. Please feel free to call me, at any time, when you may wish to talk.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Yesterday's Collect:

Almighty God, who called your servant Theodore of Tarsus from Rome to the see of Canterbury, and gave him gifts of grace and wisdom to establish unity where there had been division, and order where there had been chaos: Create in thy Church, we pray, by the operation of the Holy Spirit, such godly union and concord that it may proclaim, both by word and example, the Gospel of the Prince of Peace; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

Today's Collect:

Almighty God, who called your faithful servants John Coleridge Patteson and his companions to be witnesses and martyrs in the islands of Melanesia, and by their labors and sufferings raised up a people for your own possession: Pour forth your Holy Spirit upon your Church in every land, that by the service and sacrifice of many, your holy Name may be glorified and your kingdom enlarged; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, September 20, 2007 11:51 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda,
Thinking of you on this beautiful sunshine day which brings to mind your sunshine boy.:) I am here for you, e mail me or call if you need a friend to listen:)
Love and hugs,
Kathy M.
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Wednesday, September 19, 2007 4:53 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda, I am praying for you,,, and thinking of you all the time. I know Gods grace will carry you through this awful journey called life. It will get better and you will find happiness again! after all Your A doll! hang in there.
Kim <dakk2222@netnitco.net>
IN - Tuesday, September 18, 2007 10:57 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I am thinking of you, and of your sweet sunshine boy, today. Please be in touch, if there is anything I can do for you.

God bless you always.

Grace and peace,

~Colette

Collect Of The Day:

Heavenly Father, who have taught us that the peacemakers shall Be called the children of God: Grant that, like your servant Dag Hamarskjold, we may always seek to live at peace with our neighbors, and to reconcile those living in strife and enmity; so that in this way we may follow in the footsteps of your beloved Son Jesus Christ our Lord; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park , NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, September 18, 2007 9:00 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda,

I thought of you, when I read yesterday's Peace Quote, so I am including it in Connor's guest book.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

...While we wait, we can learn and grow and become stronger than ever in our convictions. We can be conscientious and creative. And no matter who wants to suppress us or silence us, we can be signs of hope that never, never go away until, someday the star finally shines.

~Joan Chittister, OSB
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, September 17, 2007 2:00 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,
I love comeing to Connor's Caringbridge site and seeing his beautiful smiling face, it makes my day!
We love you and we miss your sunshine boy.
Thinking of you and here for you always!
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Sunday, September 16, 2007 4:48 PM CDT

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thinking of you today.
Sharon <sholweger5@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, September 16, 2007 2:30 PM CDT

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Bring him to the fullness of your peace and glory.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 306

Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I was thinking of this prayer, offered for my boys, in our church, when they were young, earlier this morning. How wonderful it is that Connor is experiencing that peace and glory!

God bless you all.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, September 16, 2007 10:57 AM CDT

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Dear Hunley Family,
I am so glad to see an update and hear that you are doing well. I still drop in about once a week and think of your family and angel Connor often. It's wonderful that you were able to raise so much for Relay. What a spectacular event. I'm sorry it was rained out. Your sweet Connor will never be forgotten. He is truly a hero and inspiration. Please know that I will continue to pray for your family.
Love, blessings, and tons of hugs,
Tanya Nicole Servis
Tanya Nicole Servis <tanyans83@yahoo.com>
Newark, DE USA - Saturday, September 15, 2007 6:50 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I am remembering sweet Connor and praying for both of you. Here is a copy of the collect for this weekend.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

O God, because without you we are not able to please you mercifully grant that your Holy Spirit may in all things direct and rule our hearts; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 233
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, September 15, 2007 1:16 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I just want to let you both know that I am remembering Connor and thinking of you both, once again. If there is anything at all that I can possibly do to help, please feel free to call or to email.

Beneath my signature, I will add the collect for today, which is Holy Cross Day.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Almighty God, whose Son our Savior Jesus Christ was lifted high Upon the cross that he might draw the whole world to himself: Mercifully grant that we, who glory in the mystery of our redemption, may have grace to take up our cross and follow him; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, in glory everlasting. Amen.

Colette
Clifton Park, NY 12065 - Friday, September 14, 2007 10:02 AM CDT

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hoping all is going well...deb
deborah pearce <deborah77@wowway.com>
southgate, MI - Friday, September 14, 2007 6:41 AM CDT

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As a weak limb grows stronger by exercise, so will your faith be strengthened by the very efforts you make in stretching it out toward things unseen.

~James H. Aughey

Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

In difficult times, whatever we do to deep our faith enriches our lives and provides peace. My thoughts and prayers are with you today.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, September 13, 2007 11:28 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,
Thinking of you and your sunshine boy. Know we are only an e-mail or phone call away. We will ALWAYS be here for you.
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Thursday, September 13, 2007 10:37 AM CDT

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Rhonda and Eddie, Im praying for you, I see you changed the update page, and erased some comments about it. I know this is so dificult now , We all just care and mean well! God bless you! Keep fighting!
KIM <dakk2222@netnitco.net>
IN - Thursday, September 13, 2007 9:59 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda,
I keep receiving a message that my e mails that I send to your home e mail address cannot be delivered as you are not a subscriber, yet I did get a reply back from you to the one I sent earlier today???? I am a bit baffled:) (doesn't take much)
take care and know I love you!
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Wednesday, September 12, 2007 12:10 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I woke this morning, remembering Connor, and thinking of you both. May God always bless all three of you.

Today's saint is recognized on the national calendar, but he was especially important for the State of New York, so I will be sure to leave the collect below. Hobart personally established many churches and places of learning. The village of Hobart, where some of our relatives live, was named for him, as was Hobart College.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Revive your Church, Lord God of hosts, whenever it falls into Complacency and sloth, by raising up devoted leaders, like your servant John Henry Hobart whom we remember this day; and grant that their faith and vigor of mind may awaken your people to your message and their mission; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, September 12, 2007 11:31 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,
You are in my thoughts, my prayers and my heart. Connor is forever in my heart too. Remember if you need us for anything we are here....you can e mail me at my home e mail address anytime or call me. WE LOVE YOU!
love and hugs,
Kathya nd Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Wednesday, September 12, 2007 7:29 AM CDT

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sorry about the rain for Relay...
but good job for Connor's team on fundraising!
prayers and love from mrs pam
- Wednesday, September 12, 2007 7:05 AM CDT

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wonderful to get the update. Not too newsy but so glad you are in touch.
Love, H
Holly <hhoxeng@comcast.net>
Denver, - Tuesday, September 11, 2007 11:25 PM CDT

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Hey, y'all...can't get you off my heart or out of my prayers.

Thinking of you in a special way tonight...

Kriste
My Big Brother - Tracy Lanius <Kristewithane@comcast.net>
Goodlettsville, TN USA - Tuesday, September 11, 2007 10:06 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I am thinking of you both, and of course, of Connor, on Patriot Day. A friend of mine, from high school, lost his life, at the World Trade Center, so he, and his wife, also a classmate, are in my thoughts today, as well. May God bless the souls of all of the departed.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Almighty God, we entrust all who are dear to us to your never-failing care and love, for this life and the life to come, knowing that you are doing for them better things than we can desire or pray for, through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 831
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, September 11, 2007 2:42 PM CDT

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Your family is still in my thoughts and prayers.
~laurie
Wakefield, MA - Monday, September 10, 2007 5:36 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

As always, I am thinking of Connor, and of you both, with love and respect. If there is anything I may be able to do, let me know.

Today's collect is beneath my signature.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Grant us, O Lord, to trust in you with all our hearts; for, as you always resist the proud who confide in their own strength, so you never forsake those who make their boast of your mercy; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 233
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, September 9, 2007 5:35 PM CDT

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Everytime you smile at someone, it is an action of love, a gift to that person, a beautiful thing.

~Mother Teresa

Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I am thinking of Connor and his million dollar smile on yet another Friday morning. Connor was beautiful, and he is missed, not only by the folks in Tennessee, but by people in many places. We know, that in Christ, you will see your sweet sunshine boy again.

I hope the two of you are well and looking forward to some qualtity time together over the weekend. I also hope that Nana and Poppy and Beverly and Garvin are also well. God bless you all, and God bless all of Connor's other family, friends, and supporters.

Please pray the collect below with me.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

A Collect For Fridays:

Almighty God, whose most dear Son went not up to joy but
first he suffered pain, and entered not into glory before he
was crucified: Mercifully grant that we, walking in the way
of the cross, may find it none other than the way of life and
peace; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord. Amen.

The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 99
Written By William Reed Huntington (1838-1909)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, September 7, 2007 11:05 AM CDT

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Just a lurker.... who thinks and prays for you often..
hoping you and Martins are finding some happiness and joy


nancy <nmatanes@comcast.net>
- Friday, September 7, 2007 10:40 AM CDT

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We shall never know all the good that a simple smile can do.

~Mother Teresa

Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I am thinking of Connor's wonderful smile and remembering him with respect and love.

I hope you are both well. Please let me know how you are, when you can.

God bless you both, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Here are two collects from earlier in the week. The first recalls a German doctor and Noble Prize winner, who served in Gabon, and the second recalls a Scottish doctor, who served in South Africa.

Heavenly Father, whose Son Jesus Christ came, not to be served But to serve: Give us the grace to follow in his footsteps, and to show forth your love by loving and serving our neighbors, and coming, as did Albert Schweitzer, to the rescue of those in need; for the sake of your Son Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.

Almighty and everlasting God, we thank you for your servant David Livingstone, whom you called to preach the Gospel to the people of Africa. Raise up in this and every land evangelists and heralds of your kingdom, that your Church may proclaim the unsearchable riches of our Savior Jesus Christ; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, September 6, 2007 10:58 AM CDT

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thinking of you
prayers and love from mrs pam
- Thursday, September 6, 2007 7:04 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

Today is the tenth anniversary of the passing of Mother Teresa. Recent information in the news, taken from her letters, indicates that she struggled for years, as many do, with spiritual dryness. Please let the knowledge that the great ones of faith struggle with problems, doubts, and dryness, help you, as you struggle with missing Connor.

I have just paused, here, at my keyboard, to pray for both of you, and to remember sweet Connor.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

Colette

I don't know what God is doing. He knows.  We do not understand, but of one thing I'm sure,  He doesn't make a mistake.

~Mother Teresa (August 27, 1910 - September 5, 1997)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, September 5, 2007 10:23 AM CDT

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When we do the best that we can, we never know what miracle is wrought in our life, or in the life of another.

~Helen Keller

Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

As always, I am thinking of your sunshine boy, Connor, again this morning. I hope you, and all of Connor's friends and loved ones, are well.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

Merciful God, who sent your beloved Son to preach peace to Those who are far off and to those who are near: Raise up in this and every land witnesses, who, after the example of your servant Paul Jones, will stand firm in proclaiming the Gospel of the Prince of Peace, our Savior Jesus Christ, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, September 4, 2007 8:28 AM CDT

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Little Connor you are now playing with my only child louis.
have fun little angel love Louis's Mummyxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
sandra o'connell <sandraoconnell67@msn.com>
worcestershire, uk - Monday, September 3, 2007 8:54 PM CDT

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Happy Labor Day, Rhonda And Eddie (And All Of Connor's Friends)!

I hope everyone can have at least a few minutes of leisure from work and responsibility today.

God bless you all.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Collect For Labor Day:

Almighty God, you have so linked our lives one with another that all we do affects, for good or ill, all other lives: So guide us in the work we do, that we may do it not for self alone, but for the common good; and, as we seek a proper return for our own labor, make us mindful of the rightful aspirations of other workers, and arouse our concern for those who are out of work; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, September 3, 2007 1:00 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

Connor was remembered, in Eucharist, this morning, at St. George's. I also prayed for both of you, for all of Connor's grandparents, and for Connor's other relatives, while beneath the Jesus and the Children stained glass window. May God bless you all.

Beneath my signature, I will add today's collect.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Lord of all power and might, the author and giver of all good things: Graft in our hearts the love of your Name; increase in us true religion; nourish us with all goodness; and bring forth in us the fruit of good works; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God for ever and ever. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 233
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, September 2, 2007 1:38 PM CDT

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thinking of you, today, and always...deb
deborah pearce <deborah77@wowway.com>
southgate, MI - Sunday, September 2, 2007 12:11 AM CDT

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Eddie and Rhonda:

Thinking of the two of you with love tonight. We have birthday anniversaries we are contending with this weekend, and it makes me think of folks in similar situations. You two are tops on my list...but I hate that you are there at all.

I ran across this quote on another site recently. I never thought of it until I read the words...they are so true:

"A wife who loses a husband is called a widow, a husband who loses a wife is called a widower, a child who loses his parents is called an orphan, but there is no word for a parent who loses a child, that's how awful the loss is!"

-J. Neugeboren

Thinking of you two and lifting you up in prayer for comfort, peace and a sure sign from your Sunshine Boy, Connor.

I got sad the other day driving past the elementary school Connor attended. I am sure the start of yet another school year without Connor tears at your hearts. I do hope knowing that you remain on the hearts of so many will bring you some measure of comfort.

Sending gentle hugs your way,

Kriste
My Big Brother - Tracy Lanius <Kristewithane@comcast.net>
Goodlettsville, TN USA - Saturday, September 1, 2007 9:01 PM CDT

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Rhonda and eddie, I am thinking of You and your million dollar smile Boy connor! I know he is with jesus and smiles down on you! I just want you to know that I wont ever forget your sweet connor! he was such an awesome boy! Hugs to you!
KIM <dakk2222@netnitco.net>
IN - Saturday, September 1, 2007 8:05 PM CDT

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Rhonda and eddie, I am thinking of You and your million dollar smile Boy connor! I know he is with jesus and smiles down on you! I just want you to know that I wont ever forget your sweet connor! he was such an awesome boy! Hugs to you!
KIM <dakk2222@netnitco.net>
IN - Saturday, September 1, 2007 8:04 PM CDT

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keep off muvug bnoys
mugu <ema@mugu.com>
cto, ct benin - Saturday, September 1, 2007 5:07 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

My own mind is blank today, so, on another first of the month, I will use some words of the late Henri Nouwen, to try to comfort, encourage, and strengthen you.

Holding On to the Christ

Life is unpredictable. We can be happy one day and sad the next, healthy one day and sick the next, rich one day and poor the next, alive one day and dead the next. So who is there to hold on to? Who is there to feel secure with? Who is there to trust at all times?

Only Jesus, the Christ. He is our Lord, our shepherd, our rock, our stronghold, our refuge, our brother, our guide, and our friend. He came from God to be with us. He died for us, he was raised from the dead to open for us the way to God, and he is seated at God's right hand to welcome us home. With Paul, we must be certain that "neither death nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nothing already in existence and nothing still to come, nor any power, nor the heights nor the depths, nor any created thing whatever, will be able to come between us and the love of God, known to us in Christ Jesus our Lord" (Romans 8:38-39).

~Henri Nouwen (1932-1996)

I am thinking of your sweet sunshine boy today, as I do every day. He is truly with Jesus experiencing joy, wonder, and peace.

God bless you both.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, September 1, 2007 11:25 AM CDT

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Good Morning Rhonda and Eddie,
My first thoughts this morning were of Connor on another 1st day of the month. The sun is shining brightly here and your "sunshine boy" fills my mind and my heart. How blessed I am that he is a part of my life and will always be.
It is Dave's birthday is today, we are going to the wild life sanctuary with our 2 little grandsons to feed the ducks. I will think of Connor while there too, as he loved animals so much.
God Bless you and know you are daily in my prayers and Connor is missed and always in my heart.
I LOVE YOU!
Love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Saturday, September 1, 2007 8:38 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

Connor was remembered in Eucharist last night. I also prayed for both of you, while I was in the nave, at St. George's. May God bless the three of you always.

I hope you, and all of Connor's loved ones, are well and preparing to enjoy a happy Labor Day Weekend.

Beneath my signature, I will add the collect of the day. Aidan is among my favorite saints.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

O loving God, who called your servant Aidan from the peace of a Cloister to re-establish the Christian mission in northern England, and gave him the gifts of gentleness, simplicity, and strength: Grant that we, following his example, may use what you have given us for the relief of human need, and may persevere in commending the saving Gospel of our Redeemer Jesus Christ; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, August 31, 2007 9:35 AM CDT

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thinking of you today, and hoping all is well.

~deb~
deborah pearce <deborah77@wowway.com>
southgate, MI - Thursday, August 30, 2007 5:35 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

As always, I am thinking of your sweet sunshine boy, Connor. May God bless him.

I hope you are both having a good day.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

Almighty God, who by your Holy Spirit give to some the word of Wisdom, to others the word of knowledge, and to others the word of faith: We praise your name for the gifts of grace displayed in your servant John Bunyan, and we pray that by his teaching we may be led to a fuller knowledge of the truth which you have revealed in your Son our Saviour Jesus Christ, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, August 30, 2007 10:45 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,
Not a day goes by without thoughts of your sunshine boy Connor, who brought sunshine to the lives of many around the world and each day there are prayers for you.
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Wednesday, August 29, 2007 9:05 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

Connor was remembered, in Eucharist, this morning. May God bless his sweet spirit.

I hope you, and all of Connor's loved ones, are both safe and well and enjoying the bounty of fresh produce and easy days that make up summer.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, August 29, 2007 6:53 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and eddie! I am thinking of you both and connor! And what him and cheyenne must be doing up there! Connors sweet face just makes me smile when I look at his website! what an amazing child! Connor was such a brave little boy! I know your so proud of him! And I know you will hold him in heaven some day! I pray for you all! and Could never forget your connor!
Kim <dakk2222@netnitco.net>
IN - Wednesday, August 29, 2007 6:09 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

As always, I am thinking about Connor and the two of you. Today's saint, Augustine of Hippo, is a great example of a son, who, like Connor, had a good mother. As the fruits of Monica's example and prayers bore beautiful results in Augustine's life, so the fruits of your examples and prayers bore beautiful results in Connor's life. God bless you both for those gifts to Connor, and to all those who love Connor.

Please give my loving greetings to Nana and Poppi and to Beverly and Garvin.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

He who is filled with love is filled with God himself.

~St. Augustine of Hippo (354-430)

The Collect Of The Day:

O Lord God, the light of the minds that know you, the Life of the souls that love you, and the strength of the hearts that serve you: Help us, following the example of your servant Augustine of Hippo, so to know you that we may truly love you, and so to love you that we may fully serve you, whom to serve is perfect freedom; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, August 28, 2007 9:56 PM CDT

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Happiness is not achieved by the conscious pursuit of happiness; it is generally the by-product of other activities. Your son was an obvious creator of that by-product.
Edie Kennard <wish_i_had_a_dollar@yahoo.com>
St. James, MO USA - Tuesday, August 28, 2007 2:28 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,
Thinking of you and holding Connor close in my heart as always.
love adn hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Monday, August 27, 2007 8:02 PM CDT

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I'm thinking about you.
Lisa
Mount Juliet, TN USA - Monday, August 27, 2007 4:56 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

Today's saints are two priests, who reached out to establish congregations, in dozens of cities, for deaf people. May years ago, while visiting a former college friend, in Philadelphia, she took me to St. Stephen's, where on Sunday afternoons such a congregation meets to celebrate the Eucharist and then share coffee together. It was a fascinating service, and it was awesome to say orally "Our Father," as the congregation said it using American Sign Language. In writing to you, I wonder if Connor ever had any exposure to ASL, or to the sign language of the American Indians. I have worked in classrooms and in scouting programs, where children were taught some Indian signs, often about animals, as the signs were often used, as a way to "talk" silently, during hunting. The other day, Andrew and I were talking about how we did some of the signs together, when he was a little guy. I think Connor would have enjoyed it.

God bless you both, and of course, God bless your sweet little animal doctor, Connor Jordan Hunley.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

O loving God, whose will it is that everyone should come to you and be saved: We bless your Holy Name for your servants Thomas Gallaudet and Henry Winter Syle, whose labors with and for those who are deaf we commemorate today; and we pray that you will continually move your Church to respond in love to the needs of all people; through Jesus Christ, who opened the ears of the deaf, and who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, August 27, 2007 3:46 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

Andrew, Kristen, and I had Happy Ending sundaes this afternoon, at Friendly's. Andrew's was a specialty chocolate, with peanut butter topping, and Kristen's was the same with hot fudge. Mine was pistachio with hot fudge. I wonder what Connor would have selected. Perhaps he would have liked all of them and asked for a large dish with some of each. If he were here, he certainly could have had it.

Not a day passes, when I do not think of your sweet sunshine boy. May God bless his incredible spirit.

God bless you both.

Grace. peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

Grant, O merciful God, that your Church, being gathered together in unity by your Holy Spirit, may show forth your power among all peoples, to the glory of your Name; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 232




Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, August 26, 2007 2:34 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,
Thinking of you...
Love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Sunday, August 26, 2007 12:53 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

Yesterday, Andrew called from work to ask for an ice cream sundae, from DeVoe's. I ended up getting one for both of us, but eating mine in the car, in front of Andrew's work location, as it was too humid to drive it home. I thought of Connor, as I ate, as I almost always do, when having a cold treat. May God bless his sweet spirit.

Today's saint, Louis IX, of France, became king at age twelve. Until he reached his majority, his mother, Blanche of Castile, was regent, and her influence for good is said to have been with him all of his life. I am sure, dear Rhonda, that your influence was always with Connor, and that because you taught Connor to know, love, and serve Christ, that you will see Connor again. What a day that will be!

God bless both of you, Connor's grandparents, and all of Connor's loved ones. Have a good weekend.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

O God, who called your servant Louis of France to an earthly Throne that he might advance your heavenly kingdom, and gave him zeal for your Church and love for your people: Mercifully grant that we who commemorate him this day may be fruitful in good works, and attain to the glorious crown of your saints; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, August 25, 2007 7:36 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda,

I recently found this prayer, and since I think, at least at times, that you may struggle with depression, I am leaving it below. I can't imagine how you could not. I hope the prayer is of some use to you, when you are down, or that you can share it with someone else, who can use it.

God bless you and Eddie each and every day.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Prayer Against Depression

O Christ Jesus,
when all is darkness
and we feel our weakness and helplessness,
give us the sense of Your presence,
Your love, and Your strength.
Help us to have perfect trust
in Your protecting love
and strengthening power,
so that nothing may frighten or worry us,
for, living close to You,
we shall see Your hand,
Your purpose, Your will through all things.

~Saint Ignatius of Loyola
Feast Day: July 31
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, August 24, 2007 12:35 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

Connor was remembered in Holy Eucharist, at St. George's, on Thursday night. I also prayed for you both, that peace, hope, and encouragement, may be with you.

Beneath my signature, I will add the collect for today, the Feast of St. Bartholomew, the Apostle.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Almighty and everlasting God, who gave to your apostle Bartholomew grace truly to believe and to preach your Word: Grant that your Church may love what he believed and preach what he taught; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, August 24, 2007 1:22 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I just want you to know that Elaine and I are thinking of you both, and of all of Connor's many loved ones. May God bless you all.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, August 23, 2007 11:53 AM CDT

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hoping all is well...
deb
deborah pearce <deborah77@wowway.com>
southgate, mi - Wednesday, August 22, 2007 4:34 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I have thought of you and your brave little trooper, Connor, all day today. You are all in my prayers.

I am sorry to not be able to write more, at this time, but Andrew is bringing some people here for dinner, and I need to get going.

Beneath my signature is a collect from earlier this week.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Almighty God, who gave your servant Blaise Pascal a great Intellect, that he might explore the mysteries of your creation, and who kindled in his heart a love for you and a devotion to your service: Mercifully give us your servants, according to our various callings, gifts of excellence in body, mind, and will, and the grace to use them diligently and to your glory, through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, August 22, 2007 4:30 PM CDT

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Dear Friends,

I add my voice to Kathy and Dave's voices. If Rhonda or Eddie is sick, or injured, or if their parents, siblings, or other loved ones are sick, or hurt, we would like to know, so we can pray specifically, and possibly help out in other ways.

Over the past three to five years, all of the Hunleys have become dear, to those who visit and sign this book.

God bless everyone reading this book, and God bless Rhonda and Eddie, their families, and most of all their beautiful sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A, - Tuesday, August 21, 2007 3:20 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie (and anyone else reading this guestbook entry...)
We in "cyber-space" who have always and will always hold Connor so dear to our hearts are concerned and worried about you, Rhonda and Eddie. We have not had any responses to our e mails or phone calls in weeks, maybe even months?
Please let us know if any of you reading this have heard from them I added my e mail address to this entry, PLEASE contact me if you can help us out.
THANK YOU~
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave <kmdm@new.rr.com>
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Tuesday, August 21, 2007 11:25 AM CDT

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rhonda and eddie
thinking of you
mrs pam
st Louis, - Tuesday, August 21, 2007 10:27 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I am thinking of Connor early on another morning. What light was in his face!

If there is anything I may be able to do for you, please let me know. I know other friends of Connor feel the same way.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Yesterday's Collect:

O God, by whose grace your servant Bernard of Clairvaux, Kindled with the flame of your love, became a burning and a shining light in your Church: Grant that we also may be aflame with the spirit of love and discipline, and walk before you as children of light; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, August 21, 2007 2:56 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I have thought of Connor many times today. Both you and your sunshine boy are in my prayers.

Every once in a while, I leave you a prayer from a book that my friend, Gert, gave me several years ago. I am doing that again today. I hope this prayer is a blessing for you.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

O Heart of Love,
I put all my trust in you.
For I fear all things from my own weakness,
but I hope all things from your goodness.

Had I thousand bodies, O my God, a thousand loves
and a thousand lives, I would immolate them all to
Your service.

~Saint Margaret Mary Alacoque
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, August 20, 2007 12:53 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I am thinking of your beautiful son, of you both, and of Nana and Poppy, Beverly and Garvin, and all, once again. May God bless you abundantly!

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

Almighty God, you have given your only Son to be for us a sacrifice for sin, and also an example of godly life: Give us grace to receive thankfully the fruits of his redeeming work, and to follow daily in the blessed steps of his most holy life; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 232
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, August 19, 2007 12:36 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,
THINKING OF YOU AND YOUR SUNSHINE BOY.
MISS YOUR UPDATES AND YOUR SWEET LITTLE BLONDE HAIRED BOY.
LOVE AND HUGS,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S,A. - Sunday, August 19, 2007 8:06 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

Last night, Andrew and I went to a local barbecue and rodeo. As I enjoyed some delicious chicken, a tasty ear of corn, and picnic salads, I thought of Connor. Later, while watching the rodeo clown, I thought of Connor again. I am sure Connor loved outdoor events like that.

Today, I remembered Connor, at Eucharist. May God bless his sweet spirit.

I hope you are well and having a good weekend.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, August 18, 2007 7:13 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I am thinking of Connor on yet another Friday morning. May God bless his sweet spirit.

Connor was remembered, in Eucharist, last night, at St. George's. Our lay witness, a member of the parish, gave an excellent, well organized, and moving talk about herself, her daughter, and her daughter's automobile accident, that left Amy in a wheel chair, but spiritually and mentally more whole than she was before the mishap. Bev's prayers were answered, in ways she never imagined, and her daughter, who now has two college degrees, has been a great blessing and a help to others. Please know that Connor continues to bless those who read this site, and that you will see your sunshine boy again. When you do, all shall be right, and all shall be well.

God bless you both, and of course, God bless Connor.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

The Collect For Fridays:

Almighty God, whose most dear Son went not up to joy but
first he suffered pain, and entered not into glory before he
was crucified: Mercifully grant that we, walking in the way
of the cross, may find it none other than the way of life and
peace; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord. Amen.

The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 99
Written By William Reed Huntington (1838-1909)

And all shall be well, and all shall be well, and all manner of thing shall be well.

~Dame Julian Of Norwich
14th Century Mystic And Spiritual Guide
Feast Day: May 8

Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, August 17, 2007 10:38 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I am thinking of Connor, and of all of his loved ones. God bless you all today, and every day.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, August 16, 2007 10:57 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda,

I woke this morning, dreaming of meeting you at an event designed to honor Connor. I missed Eucharist this morning, as my watch battery is low, and I was running about 40 minutes late, and did not realize it, in time to attend. However, today is the Feast of the Virgin Mary, the mother of Jesus, and it seems a very appropriate day to have had a dream about the mother of Connor. I hope you are well and that communication can be restored soon.

Beneath my signature, I will add the collect for the day. I am praying for you, Eddie, and all of Connor's loved ones, here, at my keyboard, even if I could not do it at church this morning.

God bless you always, and God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

O God, who chose the blessed Virgin Mary to be the mother of Your incarnate Son: Grant that we, who have been redeemed by his blood, may share with her the glory of your eternal kingdom; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, August 15, 2007 10:38 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda,
I can't reach you via your personal e mail address, the e mails I send to you come back to me. I'm not sure if you are having issues with your server or what? Anyway just wanted to let you know WE LOVE YOU AND WE MISS YOUR LITTLE SUNSHINE BOY, who brought us joy beyond words. What an inspiration! He will ALWAYS be in our hearts, and can't wait until the day we see him in person. :) He certainly taught us all a lot about life.
Love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Tuesday, August 14, 2007 4:11 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda,

Barbara Crafton's email for today struck me as something you would appreciate. Since your email is apparently down, I am sending it to you through Connor's guest book. I am sorry that the guest book cannot show the emphasis Crafton showed, by changing her typing style, in certain places, but you will understand why I am sending it, and I hope you will be encouraged, strengthened, and blessed.

God bless you always, and God bless your sweet son, Connor, who like the dead in New Jersey, also remains connected.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

TEAM EDEN

The promised duration of the work day was three hours: nine in the morning until noon, after which we would knock off and celebrate our good work with a pizza lunch. But I am a sorry estimator of how long a task will take, as well as of the volume of things: we needed 14 cubic yards of mulch, not the 7 I had ordered in advance, and the last of the workers left at 2:30, not noon.

Still, all was well. I ordered the missing 7 yards and the nursery delivered them forthwith, a slight smirk on the face of the driver the only price I had to pay for my naivete. The twenty people who promised to come all did, arriving and leaving as they were able; Chris Kozub and his two excellent sons remained until the end -- We're so close! he said, when I told him at 1:30 that he should certainly knock off -- shoveling the last of the mulch mountain that had been deposited right in front of the church and sweeping up the crumbs, until not a trace was left.

How hard they worked, all of them! How the wheelbarrows trundled back and forth, full of their dark, fragrant cargo! Good church people knelt and bent and stretched, pulling weeds and covering the places where they had been with a thick blanket of mulch. The garden grew lovelier with each barrowful of mulch.

I was impressed with the shovelers, and wanted to be one. The blades of their shovels cut so cleanly into the dark mulch, the arc of the handles up and over toward the wheelbarrow was so rhythmic, looked so easy. Several times I approached the pile confidently with my shovel and scooped up a modest load, only to find that I couldn't toss it casually into the barrow as they did without experiencing an immediate and frightening weakness that I know better than to disregard. After a few tries, I gave it up, contenting myself with walking a small bucket of mulch back and forth and crawling under bushes to mulch the out-of-the-way places. They also serve who crawl and mulch, I told myself.

I wondered, as I walked and crawled and stopped to rest -- resting more than most of the others -- if anyone resented what must have looked like my laziness. No, I realized; nobody did. They weren't fussing themselves about me; I was the only one doing that. They were doing their work, enjoying each other's company and the beauty of the day, happy to be helping, satisfied as the beauty of the garden grew and grew around them. Happy to be part of it all. There was no reason for me not to be happy, too. I decided to set my self-absorption aside for the rest of the day.

We sang grace before wolfing down our pizza, the doxology to the beloved "Old One Hundredth." There were choir members there, professional musicians among the gardeners; our voices blended in a harmony that was as lovely a thing as I've heard in a while. The teenagers among us rolled their eyes a bit and caught each other's eyes, stifling embarrassed smiles, but they will remember that the adults in their church when they were young worked together in the garden and sang a song of praise. I am happy to give them that memory, and don't demand that they appreciate it right now. There will be days in the future when they will wish that every day in life could be as simple a joy as that one was.

After everyone was gone, I lay alone on the grass in the garden, aching in every bone and none too clean. I was so glad to rest there, surrounded by the fragrant beds, the dark, woody smell of the new mulch, the butterflies visiting the blossoms of bushes, by the silent, gentle presence of those beloved souls whose earthly remains are interred there. There names are on a brass plaque on the wall; I buried many of them, remember parts of their lives, many of their deaths. They are with Jesus now, I thought to myself, but they are also here, in all this beauty. To keep it lovely, for them and those who love them still, is to honor the arc of life that joins us all, the living and the dead. We have not forgotten you, I told them silently, the heavenly host, as the birds of the earth called to one another, and insects flew in the air.

They answered me. And neither have we forgotten you.

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Doxology

Praise God, from whom all blessings flow,
Praise him, ye creatures here below,
Praise him, above, ye heavenly host,
Praise Father, Son and Holy Ghost.

Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, August 14, 2007 2:42 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie, Its been so long since you update, I wonder if you even read the website anymore.... i just wanted to say I think of you often and your brave little trooper connor! I cant believe its going on 3 yrs. And yet Im sure time stands still for you... im so sorry!
KIM <dakk2222@netnitco.net>
IN - Tuesday, August 14, 2007 12:53 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

Last night, Andrew, Kristen, and I went to see Ratatouille, the Disney/Pixar movie, that was released about a month ago. It was created by Andrew Stanton and the rest of the crew that made the Toy Story movies, A Bug's Life, and several others. I know how much Connor loved Toy Story, and I couldn't help but think of him, as we watched, and on the way home, as we commented upon the movie. God bless Connor always, and God bless both of you.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, August 14, 2007 12:25 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,
Just stopping by to say hi and to let you know not a day goes by without a thought of Connor and prayers for you.

God Bless,
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Monday, August 13, 2007 7:26 PM CDT

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Dear Hunley Family,
I've been thinking of your sweet Connor a lot lately and stopped in to say "hi" and check for an update. I found myself re-reading old journal entries and smiling as I thought about just how amazing Connor truly was. What an incredible boy! Please know that I still stop in about once a week and your family continues to be in my thoughts and prayers.
Love, blessings, and tons of hugs,
Tanya
Tanya Nicole Servis <tanyans83@yahoo.com>
Newark, DE USA - Monday, August 13, 2007 12:17 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I am being called away from the computer, to help Andrew. I just want to let you know, I, too, am missing your sweet sunshine boy.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, August 13, 2007 12:09 AM CDT

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missing your sweet boy!
mrs pam <preschoolpenpals@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, August 12, 2007 9:36 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

Connor's friends are thinking of him today. We all hope that you are OK.

Beneath my signature, I will add the collect of the day.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Grant to us, Lord, we pray, the spirit to think and do always those things that are right, that we, who cannot exist without you, may by you be enabled to live according to your will; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 232
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, August 12, 2007 9:59 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

A sunny day, like today, often makes me think of the sunny, friendly face of your dear son, Connor. God bless his sweet spirit, and God bless both of you.

Many children are out today, riding bikes and scooters and skating in the road. I know Connor would be enjoying himself, in similar ways, if he could.

Today's saint is Clare of Assisi, a friend and coworker of St. Francis. I will leave a quotation and the collect.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Here is a blessing from St. Clare's second letter to Blessed Agnes of Prague:

What you hold may you always hold.
What you do, may you always do and never abandon.
But with swift pace, light step and unswerving feet,
so that even your steps stir up no dust,
Go forward, the spirit of our God has called you.

~Clare Offreduccio, (1194-1253)

Let us have the courage, faith, and grace to go forward.

Today's Collect:

O God, whose blessed Son became poor that we through his poverty Might be rich: Deliver us from an inordinate love of this world, that we, inspired by the devotion of your servant Clare, may serve you with singleness of heart, and attain to the riches of the age to come; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, August 11, 2007 11:45 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I bought some crayons and office supplies, at a back to school sale yesterday and was coloring, when Andrew came in from work. I am not going to tell you how long it has been, since I have had a coloring book! It is something Kristen does to relax, and since we had a rainy night, here, yesterday, it seemed like something fun to do, for a change. The characters in the book are Disney/Pixar, from Cars, Monsters Inc., The Incredibles, and Finding Nemo. Andrew said to not let Kristen see the book, or it would probably disappear, which would be all right with me. Actually, I got extra crayons, as the price was good, and I had planned to get Kristen some "adult" coloring books, from local museums and gift shops, for her birthday. I thought she might like the stained glass windows, intricate designs and shapes, and historical pictures, that such books provide. From listening to Andrew, a copy of the Disney/Pixar book, is also a good idea.

As I colored last night, I thought Connor might like the book, if not the coloring itself. Those Disney/Pixar features are always a lot of fun to watch.

I hope you are both well. I am watching for an email, letter, or site update from you. Please feel free to call, if I can help you in anyway, or if you need a different ear to listen. I am praying for you both, and for all of Connor's loved ones.

Beneath my signature is the collect for Fridays, written by William Reed Huntington, whose feast day was two weeks ago today, and today's collect.

God bless you both, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

A Collect For Fridays:

Almighty God, whose most dear Son went not up to joy but
first he suffered pain, and entered not into glory before he
was crucified: Mercifully grant that we, walking in the way
of the cross, may find it none other than the way of life and
peace; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord. Amen.

The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 99
Written By William Reed Huntington (1838-1909)

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Almighty God, who called your deacon Laurence to serve you with Deeds of love, and gave him the crown of martyrdom: Grant that we, following his example, may fulfil your commandments by defending and supporting the poor, and by loving you with all our hearts, through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, August 10, 2007 9:43 AM CDT

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Good Morning Rhonda and Eddie. I have been thinking of you both and Angel Connor. I hope all is well with both of you. Hayden just started kindergarten this wk. Can you believe it? He loves it. Noah is now playing with Connor's little computer that you gave to Hayden a few yrs back.
Anyways keep in touch. I would love to hear from you all.
Love Always,
Lori
Lori Pierce <hayden01@tds.net>
Mt Juliet, TN - Friday, August 10, 2007 9:35 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I thought of dear Connor, as I was waking up this morning. My thoughts, prayers, and love are with you both and with all of your loved ones.

Beneath my signature, I will leave a quotation and the collect from today's saint, a marytr, during World War 2.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Let us love our enemies, bless those who curse us, pray for Those who persecute us. For love will conquer and will endure for all eternity. And happy are they who live and die in God's love.

~Franz Jagerstatter, August 9, 1943

Almighty and everlasting God, who kindled the flame of your Love in the heart of your holy martyr Franz Jagerstatter: Grant to us, your humble servants, a like faith and power of love, that we who rejoice in his triumph may profit by his example; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigsh with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, August 9, 2007 1:02 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,
Thinking of you and keeping Connor always in our hearts.
WE LOVE YOU and We MISS YOUR SUNSHINE BOY.
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI/ U.S.A. - Wednesday, August 8, 2007 3:10 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

You have heard me mention a dear friend, Gert, several times, and a prayer book she gave me, a few years ago. Today's prayer may be just the thing you need at this time, so, with much love, I leave it for you. Please let Connor's friends know, if we can possibly be of any help to you. We love Connor, and we love you.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Dear God,
Please awaken me from this dream.
I fear, and I chose not to,
I suffer, and I chose not to.
I claim for myself Your resurrection within me,
my perfect health, my perfect healing, my
perfect Self in whom there is no pain or fear.
Every cell of my being is radiant with my love for You.
May my earthly self align with this,
May my human heart stop beating so wildly.
May I remember, dear God, that I live in Your mind
and I belong in Your arms.
For there I am healed, and there I am whole.
You are my divine physician.
You know my terror, although it is not real.
You understand my pain, although it is not
understandable.
You answer with Your spirit.
Dear Lord, please heal me.
I surrender this as I surrender all things.
I trust in You in this and in all things.
I need You, Lord, in this and all things.
Please, dear God.
Amen.

~Marianne Williamson
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, August 8, 2007 3:01 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I am thinking of your golden, sunshine boy this morning, and I will think of him, later today, when I spend some time with Elaine. Connor is truly missed, by many, well beyond your area of Tennessee.

Today's saint is John Mason Neale, another of my favorites. Father Neale enriched English language hymnals by translating and adding dozens of hymns from the Greek, Russian, Latin, and Syrian languages. He also founded the Sisters of St. Margaret, who have a house in New Hartford, NY, which is just outside of Utica.

Neale died on 6 August 1866 at the age of 48. Since 6 August is the Feast of the Transfiguration, he is remembered on 7 August.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless Connor.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

The Collect:

Grant, O God, that in all time of our testing we may know your Presence and obey your will; that, following the example of your servant John Mason Neale, we may with integrity and courage accomplish what you give us to do, and endure what you give us to bear; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

Here is a hymn from Neale which speaks to us of the place where Connor now resides.

O what their joy and their glory must be,
those endless Sabbaths the blessèd ones see;
crown for the valiant, to weary ones rest:
God shall be All, and in all ever blest.

What are the Monarch, his court and his throne?
What are the peace and the joy that they own?
O that the blest ones, who in it have share,
all that they feel could as fully declare!

Truly, "Jerusalem" name we that shore,
city of peace that brings joy evermore;
wish and fulfillment are not severed there,
nor do things prayed for come short of the prayer.

There, where no troubles distraction can bring,
we the sweet anthems of Zion shall sing;
while for thy grace, Lord, their voices of praise
thy blessèd people eternally raise.

Now, in the meantime, with hearts raised on high,
we for that country must yearn and must sigh,
seeking Jerusalem, dear native land,
through our long exile on Babylon's strand.

Low before him with our praises we fall,
of whom and in whom and through whom are all;
of whom, the Father; and in whom, the Son;
and through whom, the Spirit, with them ever One.

Words: Peter Abelard, (1079-1142)
Trans. John Mason Neale, (1818-1866) 1854

Music: O quanta qualia, Regnator orbis (O quanta qualia), 1681

Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/o/o694.html

The Hymnal 1982, #623

Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.

Rhonda, when you can, please let me know that you, Eddie, and all of Connor's loved ones are OK and what you are doing this summer.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, August 7, 2007 9:47 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I remembered Connor, at Holy Eucharist, early this morning. May God bless him, and may God bless both of you.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Collect For The Feast Of The Transfiguration (August 6):

O God, who on the holy mount revealed to chosen witnesses your Well-beloved Son, wonderfully transfigured, in raiment white and glistening: Mercifully grant that we, being delivered from the disquietude of this world, may by faith behold the King in his beauty; who with you, O Father, and you, O Holy Spirit, lives and reigns, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 243

An Appropriate Hymn:

Christ upon the mountain peak
stands alone in glory blazing;
let us, if we dare to speak,
with the saints and angels praise him.
Alleluia!

Trembling at his feet we saw
Moses and Elijah speaking.
All the prophets and the Law
shout through them their joyful greeting.
Alleluia!

Swift the cloud of glory came.
God proclaiming in its thunder
Jesus as his Son by name!
Nations cry aloud in wonder!
Alleluia!

This is God's beloved Son!
Law and prophets before him;
first and last and only One,
let creation now adore him!
Alleluia!

Words: Brian A. Wren (b. 1936)

Music: Mowsley, Cyril Vincent Taylor (b. 1907)

Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/c/c109.html
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, August 6, 2007 9:46 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

Connor was remembered, in Eucharist, yesterday, and he will be remembered, at various celebrations, during the upcoming week. God bless him, and God bless both of you.

I saw an entry, from Linda, in someone's guest book, last night. I know things have to be difficult for both families, but hang in there, holding on to your faith. God knows your pain and your longing, and in God all shall be well.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

Let your continual mercy, O Lord, cleanse and defend your Church; and, because it cannot continue in safety without your help, protect and govern it always by your goodness; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 232
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, August 5, 2007 11:34 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I will be thinking of Connor, beneath the Jesus and the Children window soon, as I always do, at Eucharist. May God bless his sweet spirit, and may God bless both of you.

I am sure Connor knew the famous verse, John 3:16, that is sometimes called the gospel in a nutshell. The inquirer, Nicodemus, went on to help Joseph of Arimathaea, to provide a respectful burial for Jesus. Both are honored this week, Nicodemus on August 3, and Joseph on August 1 (traditional day, July 31, recently moved to make room for Ignatius Loyola on July 31).

I hope you are both well and having a good summer.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

O God, who led the learned scholar and judge Nicodemus to seek For wisdom from the mouth of your Son Jesus Christ, give to all persons, both scholars and others, minds that are open and hearts that are ready to hear the good news of salvation, not rejecting out of hand what seems strange or unfamiliar in it, but carefully studying to understand it; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, August 4, 2007 2:39 PM CDT

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Hi, I just happened across your website - I have no idea how...anyhow, God bless you and best wishes for your future. Your little boy resides where we all hope to be some day. My heart goes out to you.
Susan
Denver, CO - Friday, August 3, 2007 8:06 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

How good it is to read another ice cream story from Mr. Wayne. We haven't had any ice cream here this week, but we do have some Italian ice in the refrigerator, and I had a little strawberry ice before bed last night. Of course, if Connor were here, he and I would have to critique the ice, or maybe better yet, take a run to Jimmy's, a little place here in nearby Halfmoon, that makes its own ice in blueberry, cherry, lemon, lime, chocolate, orange, and a host of other flavors.

I hope you are both well and planning a fun, relaxing weekend.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your brave little trooper.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, August 3, 2007 11:05 AM CDT

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Eddie & Rhonda,

Just returned from a week of church camp. WOW! What a great time for everyone-not just the kids either!! I always get as much, or maybe even more, than any kid at camp. I guess I'm just a kid at heart.

I've been the Jr. High boys counselor the past two summers and this year followed the same group up into the High School age. I actually had some from Jr. High as well as High School. I have been blessed many times over the years through the associations I've had with young people. I've also been blessed through associations with young people in other ways as well. Getting to meet Connor in person and see the remarkable young man that he is provided many blessings. Those blessings continue to work in my life on a daily basis!

I hope the two of you are doing well. I hope your daily walk with our Lord is one that assures you of his love and care for us. Most of all, I hope each day is one day closer to the joyous reunion with your 'sunshine boy'.

I love you guys and I pray that God will give you his peace and comfort as you make this journey.

In Christian love,
Wayne

Connor, I had a great time at camp last week. I was surrounded by a bunch of kids who love God and are great to be with. I know you would have fit right in and had a blast doing all the activities. And you know what? WE HAD ICE CREAM FOR DESSERT ONE NIGHT!! WITH ALL KINDS OF TOPPINGS TOO!! You and I might have tried to sneak some to the cabin for later!

I love you bunches!

Mr. Wayne
Wayne Gordon <wgordon@cscsystems.com>
Hermitage, TN USA - Friday, August 3, 2007 8:21 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I am up in the night, so I thought I would look again at some of Connor's pictures. As you know, his sweet face always makes me smile.

I hope both of you, and all of Connor's loved ones, are well. Please let me know, if there is anything (at all) that I can do.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

A Collect From This Week:

Merciful God, whose servant Joseph of Arimathaea with reverence And godly fear prepared the body of our Lord and Savior for burial, and laid it in his own tomb: Grant to us, your faithful people, grace and courage to love and serve Jesus with sincere devotion all the days of our life; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, August 2, 2007 3:37 AM CDT

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on this another first day of the month you are on my mind and in my heart.
Sharon <sholweger5@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, August 1, 2007 3:14 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I am thinking of Connor, of you, and of all of Connor's many friends and loved ones, on his thirty-three month anniversary. God bless you all.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Death is nothing at all. I have only slipped away into the next room.
I am I, and you are you.
Whatever we were to each other, that we still are.
Call me by my old familiar name, speak to me in the easy way which you always used.
Put no difference in your tone, wear no forced solemnity or sorrow.
Laugh as we always laughed at the little jokes we enjoyed together.
Pray, smile, think of me, pray for me.
Let my name be ever the household word that it always was.
Let it be spoken without a trace of a shadow on it.
Life means all that it ever meant. It is the same as it ever was;
Why should I be out of mind because I am out of sight?
I am waiting for you, for an interval,
somewhere very near, just around the corner.
All is well.

Henry Scott Holland (1847-1918)
Canon of St Paul's Cathedral
Written Upon Learning Of His Own Impending Death
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, August 1, 2007 12:09 AM CDT

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Good Morning Rhonda and Eddie,
Just wanted to stop by and let you know I am thinking of one little special sunshine boy and his mom and dad today as another first of the month has arrived.
WE MISS CONNOR AND WE LOVE YOU!
Love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Wednesday, August 1, 2007 10:59 AM CDT

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I will call into my memory and think about things that bring pleasure, happiness, and spiritual joy.

~St. Ignatius of Loyola (1491-1556)

Dear Rhonda,

I found this quotation a couple of weeks ago, and I liked it enough to save it. I think it speaks volumes to people like you, who love God, your family, other people, and your life experiences. I know that the going is hard for you without your sunshine boy, but you have only to look within to have God, beauty, and your precious memories of Connor. With those things, you will get through, and beyond, anything.

Today is the feast of Ignatius of Loyola, so I will leave the collect beneath my signature.

God bless you and Eddie always, and of course, God bless your darling Connor.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

O God, by whose grace your servant Ignatius, enkindled with the Fire of your love, became a burning and a shining light in your Church: Grant that we also may be aflame with the spirit of love and discipline, and may ever walk before you as children of light; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, July 31, 2007 12:30 AM CDT

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Hi Rhonda and Eddie. I think of you both often. I hope you are both well.

Paige and I have begun a new battle. She was diagnosed with Leukemia. She needs a bone marrow transplant. :o(
www.caringbridge.org/visit/paigehaney
tina <christinahaney@sbcglobal.net>
east liverpool, oh usa - Monday, July 30, 2007 9:57 PM CDT

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Hi Rhonda and Eddie. I think of you often. Wanted to stop by and see how your doing.

Paige and I have begun a new battle with this monster. She was diagnosed with Leukemia about a month ago. She needs a bone marrow transplant. :o(

www.caringbridge.org/visit/paigehaney
Tina <christinahaney@sbcglobal.net>
east liverpool, oh usa - Monday, July 30, 2007 9:49 PM CDT

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You've been on my mind a lot lately. I hope you are doing ok.
Lisa
Mount Juliet, TN USA - Monday, July 30, 2007 7:32 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

Last night, a friend invited me to the Chinese buffet for dinner. I am not sure if Chinese buffets are popular in your area, but many people here love them. They had some great ribs and seafood last night, and there was a cheesy pizza and tons of fruit and desserts that probably would have appealed to a growing boy like Connor.

Today's saint is William Wilberforce, who, because of his faith, worked tirelessly to end the slave trade in Britain. He was one of Lincoln's heroes. I will leave the collect, beneath my signature.

God bless you both. If there is anything I can do for you, please contact me.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Let your continual mercy, O Lord, enkindle in your Church the Never-failing gift of love, that, following the example of your servant William Wilberforce, we may have grace to defend the children of the poor, and maintain the cause of those who have no helper; for the sake of him who gave his life for us, your Son our Savior Jesus Christ, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, July 30, 2007 12:14 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I am lovingly remembering Connor today and thinking of all of his dear family, also with love. I hope you both are well, and I hope his Uncle Johnny, Uncle Chad, Aunt Tammy and Uncle Shelton, cousins, grandparents, and great-grandparents are all well, too.

May Sunday blessings be with you all.

Beneath my signature I will add the collect of the day. It is one of my favorite collects. Please pray it with me today. And also, please let us know how you are.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

O God, the protector of all who trust in you, without whom nothing is strong, nothing is holy: Increase and multiply upon us your mercy; that, with you as our ruler and guide, we may so pass through things temporal, that we lose not the things eternal; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 231
Colette <abc@aol.com>
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, July 29, 2007 1:04 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I add my voice to those, who are concerned that we are unable to reach you, via email. If you can, please let us know, either directly, or by having someone, possibly Linda, update Connor's homepage for you.

Our thoughts and prayers are with you both.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, July 28, 2007 6:38 PM CDT

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Hello Rhonda and Eddie. I hope every thing is fine with you and your families. I have tried to email you several times and it always comes back. I see it has for others too. My prayers are always stil with you, and as another first day of the month draws near my thoughts are with you again. I hope when you read this you can contact me. I am worried. Love and prayers to you.
Sharon <sholweger5@yahoo.com>
- Friday, July 27, 2007 7:06 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I am thinking of you on another hot, humid, summer day. I hope you are well and planning on a good weekend.

Beneath my signature, I will add a collect from earlier in the week, which I did not include on the correct day, as I had to leave the computer, before I could. James is one of our favorite names, and it is Andrew's confirmation name. I will also add today's collect and the collect for Fridays. Please pray them with me.

God bless you both, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

The Collect For July 25 (St. James, The Apostle):

O gracious God, we remember before you today your servant and Apostle James, first among the Twelve to suffer martyrdom for the Name of Jesus Christ; and we pray that you will pour out upon the leaders of your Church that spirit of self-denying service by which alone they may have true authority among your people; through the same Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.

Today's Collect (William Reed Huntington):

O Lord our God, we thank you for instilling in the heart of Your servant William Reed Huntington a fervent love for your Church and its mission in the world; and we pray that, with unflagging faith in your promises, we may make known to all peoples your blessed gift of eternal life; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

The Collect For Fridays:

Almighty God, whose most dear Son went not up to joy but
first he suffered pain, and entered not into glory before he
was crucified: Mercifully grant that we, walking in the way
of the cross, may find it none other than the way of life and
peace; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord. Amen.

The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 99
Written By William Reed Huntington (1838-1909)

Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, July 27, 2007 12:24 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

In the church today, we remember the grandparents of Jesus. My prayers today are for all of Connor's grandparents and great-grandparents. I hope they are all well.

God bless you always, and God bless all of the family of Connor Jordan Hunley.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Almighty God, heavenly Father, we remember in thanksgiving this day the parents of the Blessed Virgin Mary; and we pray that we all may be made one in the heavenly family of your Son Jesus Christ our Lord; who with you and the Holy Spirit lives and reigns, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, July 26, 2007 11:43 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

Last night, was a better night than Monday night, so Andrew and I went to the drive-in theater. We packed an ice chest with meats, cheese, pickles, mustard and mayo, and a variety of beverages. We also brought along small bags of chips, bananas, clementines, and pudding cups. This sounds like a lot of food, and it was, but I like for us to have a choice of food, when we go to the show. The movies were The Transformers and Harry Potter and the Order of the Phoenix. I thought a lot about Andrew, as a child, during the first, as he loved playing with his Transformers and reading his Transformers books. I wondered if Connor had those things. He probably did. May God bless his sweet spirit.

I am being asked to bring a lunch to Andrew at work, so I need to move along.

God bless you both, and God bless all of Connor's loved ones.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, July 25, 2007 12:01 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,
I have tried unsuccessfully to e mail you at your personal e mail address. I have a picture of Lauren I was trying to send. I sent it twice, and it came back twice. Maybe your mail box is full? Anyway just wanted to let you know I am thinking of you. Connor is always on my mind and forever in my heart. I do miss him as I can only imagine how much you and Eddie must. Take gentle care. We love you!

Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Wednesday, July 25, 2007 7:08 AM CDT

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rhonda and eddie! thinking of you, and connor! Wishing things were different, and remembering what a trooper he was! connors face makes me smile! Hugs!
Kim <dakk2222@netnitco.net>
IN - Tuesday, July 24, 2007 9:02 PM CDT

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Mrs. Pam mentioned recently that she cannot see the numbers necessary to add an entry. It just happened to me. I typed in a random number and hit the enter button. I received a message to go back and try again, which I did. This time, I saw the numbers and was successfully able to add my entry. I have had this happen once, or twice, previously, so I thought I would leave my way of responding, hoping it helps her, and possibly others, trying to leave a message for Connor's forever parents.

God bless everyone, who continues to read Connor's site.

Grace and peace,

Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, July 24, 2007 11:33 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

It rained here last night, so Andrew and I ate a leisurely meal and spent the evening talking and reading. He is working on the last Harry Potter book, and I, not quite as much of a fan, am working on the fifth, which is the story now in the theaters. Andrew has always been an avid reader. He has read all of the Potter books, and many other favorites, three and four times. At Connor's age, he read all of the Dunc and Amos books, by Gary Paulsen. Andrew, like Connor, also enjoyed his LEGOs.

God bless you both, and God bless your sweet sunshine boy.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, July 24, 2007 11:26 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

It is pouring here in Clifton Park. We have had about five inches over our usual July average, but I know people in other areas are very dry. If the evening is clear, Andrew and I may go to the drive-in theater. We have enjoyed this, since he was a little fellow. We usually bring along bread, meat, cheese, and mustard, for sandwich making, veggie sticks, or fruit, and juice and soda. We read, or play games, until the movies start. I sometimes wonder if you have a drive-in, in your area, and if Connor enjoyed it like Andrew always has.

Beneath my signature is the collect for the day. It is one of my favorites.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Almighty God, whose blessed Son restored Mary Magdalene to health of body and mind, and called her to be a witness of his resurrection: Mercifully grant that by your grace we may be healed of all of our infirmities and know you in the power of his endless life: who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.

The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 242
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, July 23, 2007 12:30 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

Today is a good day to play, or watch, baseball. When my sons were little, we frequently attended games of the former Albany/Colonie Yankees, at Heritage Park. It was a good day, if they caught, or found, a ball. It was also a good day, whenever they received gate prizes, such as caps, balls, sports cards, fanny packs, or baseball gloves. I sometimes wonder if Connor enjoyed baseball, like my boys always did.

Beneath my signature is the collect for this weekend.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Almighty God, the fountain of all wisdom, you know our necessities before we ask and our ignorance in asking: Have compassion on our weakness, and mercifully give us those things which for our unworthiness we dare not, and for our blindness we cannot ask; through the worthiness of your Son Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 231
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, July 22, 2007 1:44 PM CDT

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Hi there! Just wanted to stop by and wish you a good summer. I'll never forget your baby. Love, Colton and family
laura
bak, ca - Sunday, July 22, 2007 11:58 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I am being called away from my computer, but I just want to remind you that I am thinking of Connor, each and every day, and I am praying for you, and for all of Connor's many loved ones.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, July 21, 2007 1:51 PM CDT

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Rhonda and Eddie
although I continue to check on you, I
haven't been able to let you know because
the numbers don't show on my e-browser.
prayers and love from Missouri
mrs pam
- Saturday, July 21, 2007 9:50 AM CDT

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Animal Prayer

O God, I thank thee
for all the creatures thou hast made,
so perfect in their kind-
great animals like the elephant and the rhinoceros,
humorous animals like the camel and the monkey
friendly ones like the dog and the cat,
working one like the horse and the ox,
timid ones like the squirrel and the rabbit,
majestic ones like the lion and the tiger,
for birds with their songs.
O Lord give us such love for thy creation,
that love may cast out fear,
and all thy creatures see in man
their priest and friend,
through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.

~George Appleton (1902-1993)

Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

This prayer reminds me of Connor every time I come across it. May God bless your little animal doctor.

We finally have a break from the rain. It is sunny, clear, and not humid here today, so far. It is the kind of day that Connor would have loved for biking, skating, and go-carting.

I hope you both enjoy the weekend. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Prayer is essentially man standing before his God in wonder, awe, and humility; man, made in the image of God, responding to his maker.

~George Appleton, Editor Of The Oxford Book Of Prayer
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, July 20, 2007 10:53 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I ran out through hard rain, to get to the car, in order to join Andrew and Kristen, for lunch, at Pizza Hut. As I sat with my pizza and salad, I thought once again about Connor and what he might have chosen from the buffet. I also gave a nod toward the sticker machine knowing how much young boys enjoy buying them.

Beneath my signature, I will add the collect for the day.

God bless you both, and of course, God bless Connor.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Merciful God, who called your servant Macrina to reveal in her life and her teaching the riches of your grace and truth: Mercifully grant that we, following her example, may seek after your wisdom and live according to her way; through Jesus Christ our Savior, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, July 19, 2007 3:08 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I have just spoken with Elaine, whose grandson, Derek, is twenty-seven today. It does not seems possible, as I remember taking him to see children's plays and to amusement parks, when he was a toddler. Elaine and I are both thinking of you and send you our love and good wishes.

God bless you both, and God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, July 18, 2007 4:10 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I have just read Kathy's entry. We also have had a small child accidentally killed by a car, not far from Clifton Park. The little boy's name was Joshua, and he died, in Amsterdam, Friday, on his way to his grandmother's wedding. His mother placed the sleeping toddler in his car seat, on the driveway, to run to help keep his grandmother's wedding gown train clean. Another driver, not knowing Joshua was there, ran over the car seat. As Kathy said, I am sure Connor was there to welcome this seventeen month old boy into the kingdom and the two year old girl.

I know with all my heart that you continue to read Connor's guest book. I hope our entries remind you that Connor was loved well beyond your area of Tennessee and that folks continue to pray for both of you and for your entire family.

Today's saint is Bishop William White. Years ago, I visited his home in Philadelphia, where I knew I was standing in a holy place.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

O Lord, who in a time of turmoil and confusion raised up your Servant William White, and endowed him with wisdom, patience, and a reconciling temper, that he might lead your Church into ways of stability and peace: Hear our prayer, and give us wise and faithful leaders, that through their ministry your people may be blessed and your will be done; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, July 17, 2007 12:02 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,
I am not sure you stop by to read the guest book entries or not? Just wanted to let you know not a day goes by without a thought of Connor. I have spotted several lady bugs and with each one I see I smile and think of Connor. What a special little boy. A little 2 year old girl in our area was accidently run over by her grandpa on Thursday, such a tragic accident, our hearts ache for the parents and grandparents, although we do not know them personally, he is a State Senator in WI. I know Connor met Elliana at Heaven's gate to show her around.
We miss Connor and we love you!
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Monday, July 16, 2007 9:35 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I am remembering sweet Connor and thinking of both of you. I hope you, Connor's grandparents, and the rest of the family, are all doing well.

God bless you all.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, July 16, 2007 5:49 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

Over the years, we have had a number of little rabbits living in our front lawn. We have a little brown bunny this spring/summer, that Andrew and I both delight in watching. I am sure he would amuse Connor, as much as he does us. May God bless your little veterinarian, and may God bless you.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

O Lord, mercifully receive the prayers of your people who call upon you, and grant that they may know and understand what things they ought to do, and also may have grace and power faithfully to accomplish them; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, July 15, 2007 4:39 PM CDT

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Tanja <loyallamb@cogeco.ca>
Canada - Sunday, July 15, 2007 3:17 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I have been thinking about Connor today. May God bless his sweet spirit.

My son treated me to pizza and wings for dinner. We then watched a movie. I hope you had a good Saturday, too.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, July 15, 2007 1:26 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I have just looked through all of Connor's pictures again. His sweet face always makes me smile.

Connor was remembered, in Eucharist, last night, at St. George's, and you, and all of Connor's loved ones, were held up in prayer.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

A Collect For Fridays:

Almighty God, whose most dear Son went not up to joy but
first he suffered pain, and entered not into glory before he
was crucified: Mercifully grant that we, walking in the way
of the cross, may find it none other than the way of life and
peace; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord. Amen.

The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 99
Written By William Reed Huntington (1838-1909)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, July 13, 2007 9:58 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I am thinking of Connor, and of you both, on a beautiful summer day. How I wish he were with you riding his bike and his go-cart and playing with his friend, Jordan, and his cousins!

Beneath my signature, I will add the collect of the day.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Collect For July 12:

Almighty God, who gave to your servant Nathan Soderblom a Special concern for the unity of your Church and the welfare of your people: grant that by the power of your Holy Spirit we may be moved to seek an end to the barriers that divide Christian from Christian, and may show forth your love to all the world in deeds of generosity, through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, July 12, 2007 11:30 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

The birds are singing very sweetly this morning, as I think of your sweetheart, Connor Jordan Hunley. What a wonderful smile and wonderful character he had!

Beneath my signature, I will add the collect of the day.

God bless you both.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Benedict Of Nursia, 11 July 540:

Almighty and everlasting God, whose precepts are the wisdom of A loving Father: Give us grace, following the teaching and example of your servant Benedict, to walk with loving and willing hearts in the school of the Lord's service; let your ears be open to our prayers; and prosper with your blessing the work of our hands; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, July 11, 2007 4:03 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

My church history tells me that today is the anniversary of the death, in 1863, of Clement Clarke Moore, a founder and benefactor of General Theological Seminary, a scholar, and a teacher of languages and theology. He was the son of Dr. Benjamin Moore, Bishop of New York. However, Moore is best known, at this time, for his poem, A Visit From St. Nicholas. I wonder if Connor knew this poem. He certainly knew the figure of Santa Claus.

My thoughts and prayers are with you both and with all of Connor's loved ones.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, July 10, 2007 10:10 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I hope you are staying cool, comfortable, and safe, during these hot, humid days. I hope the same is true for Nana and Poppy, Beverly and Garvin, Uncle Johnny and Uncle Chad, Tabitha and her family, Aunt Tammy and Uncle Shelton and their children, and Linda and Bob and their family. I am thinking of Connor, as I often do.

Beneath my signature, I will add the collect of the day.

God bless you always, and God bless your sweet sunshine boy.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

God of grace and might, we praise you for your servants Aquila and Priscilla, to whom you gave gifts to make the good news known. Raise up, we pray, in every country, heralds and evangelists of your kingdom, so that the world may know the immeasurable riches of our Savior, Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, July 9, 2007 11:53 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

As we begin another week, I am thinking of Connor, and of you both. May Connor be close to you through the communion of the saints.

Yesterday, while serving as lay reader, I remembered Connor in Holy Eucharist. Later, when Kristen got out of work, we went out to celebrate Andrew's birthday. Andrew was sung to in the restaurant and given a free ice cream sundae.

God bless you both, and God bless all of Connor's loved ones.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

A Collect From Morning Prayer (For Use On Sundays):

O God, you make us glad with the weekly remembrance of the glorious resurrection of you Son our Lord: Give us this day such blessing through our worship of you, that the week to come may be spent in your favor; through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 98
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, July 8, 2007 10:27 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I am thinking of you, and I will be remembering sweet Connor, in Holy Eucharist, this weekend. My thoughts and prayers are with you both and with all of Connor's many loved ones.

Beneath my signature, I will add the collect for this weekend.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

O God, you have taught us to keep all your commandments by loving you and our neighbor: Grant us the grace of your Holy Spirit, that we may be devoted to you with our whole heart, and united to one another with pure affection; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 230
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, July 7, 2007 11:14 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

After an evening of summer rain, the birds are singing this morning, here in Clifton Park. They remind me of a quotation from Rose Kennedy, "Birds sing after a storm; why shouldn't people feel as free to delight in whatever remains to them?" I hope you are singing today, as I am sure Connor sings in heaven.

God bless you both, and God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, July 6, 2007 4:57 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,
Thinking of your sunshine boy who brought sunshine to all those who were touched by his life. Thank you for sharing him with us. We miss him so and love you!
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Thursday, July 5, 2007 9:05 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I hope you enjoyed the Fourth of July. Perhaps you were able to spend the day, or some of it, with Nana and Poppy, or with Beverely and Garvin. I hope all four of them are well. I know Connor is missed at every holiday, despite your confidence that he is with God, enjoying eternal life.

My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, July 5, 2007 4:19 AM CDT

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Happy Fourth Of July To All You Beautiful Hunleys!

God bless you always, and God bless America!

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, July 4, 2007 0:05 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

During this week of firework displays, I am thinking of your dear Connor and of his sparkling smile and sparkling personality. I bet he enjoyed holiday picnics, swimming and playing, and fireworks. Connor is certainly missed by all of his internet friends, who come here to see his smiling face and to remember him.

One of early July's saints is Catherine Winkworth. I learned Now Thank We All Our God, when I was around Connor's age, and it has always been one of my favorites. I will include it and the collect beneath my signature.

God bless you both, and of course, God bless your sparkler, Connor Jordan Hunley.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Collect Of The Day For Catherine Winkworth, I July 1878:

Heavenly Father, by whose grace your servant Catherine was Moved to render into English the words of praise which she had heard in the German tongue: grant us a like devotion, that we may be moved to proclaim your glory in sacred song; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

Now thank we all our God,
with heart and hands and voices,
who wondrous things hath done,
in whom his world rejoices;
who from our mother's arms
hath blessed us on our way
with countless gifts of love,
and still is ours today.

O may this bounteous God
through all our life be near us,
with ever-joyful hearts
and blessèd peace to cheer us;
and keep us in his grace,
and guide us when perplexed,
and free us from all ills
in this world and the next.

All praise and thanks to God
the Father now be given,
the Son, and Holy Ghost,
supreme in highest heaven,
the one eternal God,
whom earth and heaven adore;
for thus it was, is now,
and shall be evermore.

Words: Martin Rinkart (1586-1649), 1636
trans. Catherine Winkworth (1827-1878), 1858

Music: Nun danket alle Gott (later form of melody by Johann Crüger, 1598-1662)

Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/n/n139.html

Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, July 3, 2007 10:08 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I am thinking of both of you and remembering sweet Connor today. May God bless everyone in your family, and may God bless all the neighbors, church people, friends, and internet supporters, who love Connor.

My Connor's Courage bracelet is in a special place, and I think of him daily, when I see it.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, July 2, 2007 1:10 PM CDT

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Eddie and Rhonda:

Thinking of you both tonight. We have thought a lot of the 'good old days' lately with Tim Hicks in town. Today I saw his parents, sister and her family, Harold and Juanita, Karen, Wally and his new bride, Mildred Roland....and recently I saw Mr. Widick. What memories those were and I know you are both missing out on sharing "back when I was your age" stories with Connor...

I think of him and you two often...Although your hearts are always with him, I'm sure with fun holidays like the 4th your mind and hearts are especially wistful with rememberances of family cookouts, church social gatherings, fireworks displays, and sparklers for the little ones!

I can only imagine your heartbreak, and I can only imagine the joyful reunion that awaits you in Heaven with your precious sunshine boy. Until then, know that you are held close in thought and prayer more often than you know...

Big hugs from over here,

Kriste
My Big Brother - Tracy Lanius <Kristewithane@comcast.net>
Goodlettsville, TN USA - Sunday, July 1, 2007 11:12 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,
Thought of you often today and of course your sunshine boy who brightened the lives of all who knew him. He was and always will be an inspiration to us. WE LOVE YOU AND WE MISS CONNOR.
Love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Sunday, July 1, 2007 7:17 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I remembered Connor, at Eucharist, at St. George's, on Saturday, and I am remembering him, and thinking of you both, early in the morning on another first of the month. May God help and comfort you, as you continue to miss your sweet sunshine boy.

God bless you, and God bless all of Connor's friends and loved ones.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Grant, O Lord, to all who are bereaved, the spirit of faith and courage, that they may have strength to meet the days to come with steadfastness and patience; not sorrowing as those without hope, but in thankful remembrance of your great goodness, and in joyful expectation of eternal life with those they love. And this we ask in the Name of Jesus Christ our Savior. Amen.

~The Book of Common Prayer, Page 505
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, July 1, 2007 2:43 AM CDT

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Dear Hunley Family,
I just stopped by hoping for an update. I still check in at least once a week even though I don't often sign the guestbook. My prayers are with your family.
Love, blessings, and hugs,
Tanya
Tanya Nicole Servis <tanyans83@yahoo.com>
Newark, DE - Saturday, June 30, 2007 7:52 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I will be remembering sweet Connor, in Eucharist, this weekend. I love coming here and seeing his sunny face, each day. Thank you for keeping Connor's site up for us all.

Beneath my signature, I will add the collect for the weekend.

God bless you always, and God bless Linda and her family, as well.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Almighty God, you have built your Church upon the foundation of the apostles and prophets, Jesus Christ himself being the chief cornerstone: Grant us so to be joined together in unity of spirit by their teaching, that we may be made a holy temple acceptable to you; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 230
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, June 30, 2007 7:49 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I am thinking of Connor, on this, the Feast of St. Peter and St. Paul, a day of remembering their martyrdom, in Rome, in the year 64. I had hoped to be in church early this morning, but was unable to get there. I am, however, remembering Connor, and thinking of both of you, in my prayers, at home today.

I hope you are well and that you will have a good weekend. God bless you both, and God bless Nana and Poppy, Beverly and Garvin, and all of Connor's other family members.

Beneath my signature, I will add the collect of the day.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Almighty God, whose blessed apostles Peter and Paul glorified you by their martyrdom: Grant that your Church, instructed by their teaching and example, and knit together in unity by your Spirit, may ever stand firm upon the one foundation, which is Jesus Christ our Lord; who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, June 29, 2007 8:28 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

Connor was remembered in Eucharist earlier tonight. May God bless his sweet spirit.

God bless you both, and of course, God bless Connor.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette


Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, June 28, 2007 10:41 PM CDT

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Thinking of you and smiling when I think about Connor. All my love.
Kiersten
Nashville, TN - Wednesday, June 27, 2007 8:16 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I remembered Connor in Eucharist this morning. I arrived at church early and spent some time remembering Connor, and several others, from your area, including Kevin, beneath the Resurrection/New Life window. The sun was streaming in, reminding me of the rich promises we all have of life eternal, in Christ. May those promises be real and deep in your lives today.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Father of all, we pray to you for those we love, but see no longer: Grant them your peace; let light perpetual shine upon them; and in your loving wisdom and almighty power, work in them the good purpose of your perfect will; through Jesus Christ our Lord, Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, June 27, 2007 10:41 AM CDT

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Dale Carnegie: Friend Quotations
You can make more friends in two months by becoming interested in other people than you can in two years by trying to get other people interested in you.

quote by Dale Carnegie
Heidi Lynn Parker <twintwoparker@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, June 26, 2007 11:09 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I hope you, and all of Connor's loved ones, are staying cool, safe, and comfortable during this hot, humid day. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, June 26, 2007 1:23 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

Connor was remembered at Eucharist early this morning, the Feast of St. John the Baptist. I also prayed for both of you, while there.

Beneath my signature, I will add a hymn appropriate for the day.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

By All Your Saints Still Striving

By all your saints still striving,
For all your saints at rest,
Your holy Name, O Jesus,
For evermore be blessed.
You rose, our King victorious,
That they might wear the crown
And ever shine in splendor
Reflected from your throne.

Apostles, prophets, martyrs,
And all the noble throng
Who wear the spotless raiment
And raise the ceaseless song:
For them and those whose witness
Is only known to you
By walking in their footsteps
We give you praise anew.

All praise for John the Baptist
Forerunner of the Word,
Our true Elijah, making
A highway for the Lord.
The last and greatest prophet,
He saw the dawning ray
Of light that grows in splendor
Until the perfect day.

Then let us praise the Father
And worship God the Son
And sing to God the Spirit,
Eternal Three in One,
Till all the ransomed number
Who stand before the throne,
Ascribe all pow’r and glory
And praise to God alone.

Words: Horatio Bolton Nelson (1823-1913)

Music: Nyland, Finnish Folk Melody

Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/b/b209a.html
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, June 25, 2007 2:41 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

Connor was remembered in Eucharist on both Saturday and Sunday, beneath the Jesus and the Children stained glass window. While there, I prayed for both of you, for all of Connor's grandparents, and for his aunt, uncles, and cousins. I also remembered Kevin Martin and his family.

Beneath my signature, I will add the collect for the weekend.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

O Lord, make us have perpetual love and reverence for your holy Name, for you never fail to help and govern those whom you have set upon the sure foundation of your loving­kindness; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 230
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, June 24, 2007 11:14 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

Yesterday, Andrew and I saw the new Fantastic Four movie. Connor probably would have enjoyed it.

Today's saint is one of my favorites, as the city of Albany, was named for him. There is a St. Alban window in the cathedral of All Saints. Beneath my signature, I will add the collect.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Almighty God, by whose grace and power your holy martyr Alban Triumphed over suffering and was faithful even unto death: Grant to us, who now remember him with thanksgiving, to be so faithful in our witness to you in this world, that we may receive with him the crown of life; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, June 22, 2007 9:36 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I am thinking of Connor on this, the 400th anniversary of the first known English language communion service in America. While that number seems great to me, a couple I am friends with, at St. George's, grew up in England. The church of their wedding is over 1,500 years old. Of course that sacred spot has nothing on the community where Connor now lives! May God bless his sweet spirit, and may God bless both of you.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, June 21, 2007 11:14 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I am thinking of Connor, of both of you, and of Linda and her family. May God bless you all.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, June 20, 2007 3:23 PM CDT

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Eddie & Rhonda,

Thinking about you this morning and trusting that the blessings of our Lord are there filling your hearts with comfort and peace. I also trust that family and friends are a constant reminder of God's love.

Love you both,
Wayne

Connor, I kind of discovered a new way to eat ice cream recently. 'Smoothies' are the way to go. You get ice cream and your fruit all in one nice drink. We even bought a smoothie maker and have used it already. We have a little ways to go to get it down just right, but it won't take long. Every time I eat ice cream, I think about you because just like ice cream, you are a sweet young guy!

Love you lots!
Mr. Wayne
Wayne Gordon <wgordon@cscsystems.com>
Hermitage, TN USA - Wednesday, June 20, 2007 8:07 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I have been picking out animal pictures to send to Jen and Matt's sons, Liam and Patrick. Of course, this made me think of your little animal doctor, Connor Jordan Hunley. May God bless his sweet spirit, and may God bless both of you.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, June 19, 2007 10:10 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

Sunday night, I drove down to De Voe's for ice cream. As I sat eating a lemon cone dipped in chocolate, I thought of Connor, as I almost always do when eating ice cream. May God bless his sweet spirit.

Today's saint was an Anglican catechist and martyr in Africa. Bernard Mizeki was speared for his faith in Christ. Those trying to assist him saw a bright light and heard the sound of wings. When they got to the place of Mizeki's injury, his body, like that of Elijah, was gone. I will leave the collect, beneath my signature.

God bless you both.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Almighty and everlasting God, who kindled the flame of your Love in the heart of your holy martyr Bernard Mizeki: Grant to us, your humble servants, a like faith and power of love, that we who rejoice in his triumph may profit by his example; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, June 18, 2007 2:46 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I have been thinking of you both a lot today. I know you only had a few completely happy Father's Days and Mother's Days, as Connor became ill at an early age.

I have just paused, here at my keyboard to pray for both of you. May something from those precious celebrations with sweet Connor bring you joy, and maybe even laughter, today, or later this week.

God bless you always, and God bless all of Connor's many loved ones.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, June 17, 2007 3:57 PM CDT

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Eddie:

Thinking of you with love and in a special way this weekend....Rhonda, you are on my heart as well.

Your long time buddy....

Kriste
My Big Brother - Tracy Lanius <Kristewithane@comcast.net>
Goodlettsville, TN USA - Saturday, June 16, 2007 7:45 PM CDT

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Good Morning, Think of you all the time and darling Connor. What a wonderful boy he was. We are all fine here in Durango, it is getting too hot, too early. I think it must be in Tenn. My prayers are always with you.
Claudia <cdouesnard@gmail.com>
Durango, CO USA - Saturday, June 16, 2007 11:37 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I will be remembering your sunshine boy, at Eucharist, later this weekend. As always, may God bless Connor's sweet spirit.

I know Father's Day Weekend is bittersweet for both of you now, but may joy-filled memories of Connor, and the sure and certain hope of heaven, comfort and encourage you. I am also thinking of Nana and Poppy and of Uncle Chad and Uncle Johnny, at this time. May God bless you all.

Beneath my signature, I will add a couple of quotations appropriate for Father's Day.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

Colette

My father didn't tell me how to live; he lived, and let me watch him do it.

~Clarence B. Kelland (1881-1964)

Spread the diaper in the position of the diamond with you at bat. Then fold second base down to home and set the baby on the pitcher's mound. Put first base and third together, bring up home plate and pin the three together. Of course, in case of rain, you gotta call the game and start all over again.

~Jimmy Piersal, on how to diaper a baby, 1968

Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A, - Saturday, June 16, 2007 11:06 AM CDT

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Rhonda and Eddie
thinking of you in my prayers....
mrs pam
- Saturday, June 16, 2007 10:04 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

As the birds sing and the lawn mowers buzz, I am thinking of both of you, and of your dear Connor. Our kids are still in school, although the middle and high schools are in testing mode. I know that many of your schools have been out for a few weeks. I wish Connor were with you, enjoying his bike and his go-cart. He was remembered at Eucharist last night. May God bless his sweet spirit.

Today's saint is one of my favorites. I have used her books during quiet days over the years. I will leave the collect and a quote for you.

God bless you both, and God bless all of Connor's many loved ones, friends, and supporters.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

O God, Origin, Sustainer, and End of all your creatures: Grant That your Church, taught by your servant Evelyn Underhill, guarded evermore by your power, and guided by your Spirit into the light of truth, may continually offer to you all glory and thanksgiving, and attain with your saints to the blessed hope of everlasting life, which you have promised us by our Savior Jesus Christ; who with you and the Holy Spirit lives and reigns, one God, now and for ever. Amen.

Faith is not a refuge from reality. It is a demand that we face reality, with all its difficulties, opportunities, and implications. The true subject matter of religion is not our own little souls, but the Eternal God and His whole mysterious purpose, and our solemn responsibility to Him.

~Evelyn Underhill (1875-1945)

This name is pronounce the English way, with Eve as the first syllable.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, June 15, 2007 12:30 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I expect to remember sweet Connor, at Eucharist, later today. May God bless him, and may God bless both of you.

Beneath my signature is the collect of the day.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Almighty God, who have revealed to your Church your eternal Being of glorious majesty and perfect love as one God in Trinity of Persons: Give us grace that, like your bishop Basil of Caesarea, we may continue steadfast in the confession of this faith, and constant in our worship of you, Father, Son, and Holy Spirit; who live and reign for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, June 14, 2007 12:04 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I am thinking of Connor, and of you both, today. I hope you are having a good week.

Beneath my signature, I will add the collect of the day.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

O God, who by your Holy Spirit gave your servant Antony a love Of the Holy Scriptures, and the gift of expounding them with learning and eloquence, so that your people might be established in sound doctrine and encouraged in the way of righteousness, grant us always an abundance of such preachers, to the glory of your Name and the benefit of your Church; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, June 13, 2007 10:58 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I remembered Connor, last night, in the beauty of holiness, at St. George's. I was there for Eucharist for the Feast of St. Barnabas and a picnic. May God always bless his sweet spirit.

I hope Linda and Bob and their children are all well.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, June 12, 2007 9:57 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I am thinking of your sweet sunshine boy, Connor, once again this morning. It is picnic season here, and I wonder if Connor enjoyed hotdogs, hamburgers, and potato salad as much as I do. I know Connor was always a big help, and I am sure he would have carried gear, set the table, and helped with the grilling. May God bless your thoughts and memories of him.

Beneath my signature, I will add the collect for the day.

God bless you both.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Feast of St. Barnabas (an encourager, like Connor):

Grant, O God, that we may follow the example of your faithful Servant Barnabas, who, seeking not his own renown but the well-being of your Church, gave generously of his life and substance for the relief of the poor and the spread of the Gospel; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A, - Monday, June 11, 2007 8:47 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

We had clowns at St. George's this morning, as we usually do each June. They are from our sister congregation, Prince of Peace Lutheran Church. I have been thinking all morning about how Connor would have reacted to them.

Last night, I also had an opportunity to have a banana split at De Voe's. Their special ice cream flavor this week is banana, which I remember making in an old fashioned ice cream freezer, with my dad, when I was younger. I had the sundae on banana, with one scoop of their daily special yogurt flavor, which was peach. My toppings were cherry, strawberry, and summerberry. It made for interesting and fun eating. As always, with cold treats, I thought of sweet Connor. May God bless him always.

Beneath my signature, I will add the collect of the day.

God bless you both, and God bless Nana and Poppy and Beverly and Garvin, too.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

O God, from whom all good proceeds: Grant that by your inspiration we may think those things that are right, and by your merciful guiding may do them; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 229
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, June 10, 2007 12:32 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I will be remembering sweet Connor at Eucharist later today.

God bless you both.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, June 9, 2007 10:12 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I am thinking of Connor early on another Friday morning.

A little while ago, I was feeling hungry, so I got out the box of wildberry sherbet I have mentioned previously, some blackberries, and a banana. As I ate, I thought about Connor. I wonder what he would have thought of this combination.

God bless you both, and of course, may God bless Connor.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Lord Jesus Christ, you stretched out your arms of love on the hard wood of the cross that everyone might come within the reach of your saving embrace: So clothe us in your Spirit that we, reaching forth our hands in love, may bring those who do not know you to the knowledge and love of you; for the honor of your Name. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 101
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, June 8, 2007 0:25 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I am thinking of Connor, and of both of you, on a beautiful June day. May God bless you all.

Beneath my signature is the collect for today.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette


Almighty God, who in giving us dominion over things on earth Have made us fellow workers in your creation: Grant us such wisdom and reverence toward you that, following the counsel and example of your servant Noah Seattle, we may so use the resources of nature that no one may suffer from our abuse of them, and that generations yet to come may continue to praise you for your bounty; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who with you and the Holy Spirit lives and reigns, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, June 7, 2007 12:47 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I am being called away from the computer, but I just wanted to remind you that I am thinking of Connor, of you, and of all of Connor's loved ones.

God bless you all.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, June 6, 2007 11:41 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I am thinking of your blue-eyed sunshine boy this morning, as I do every morning. I certainly miss stories of Connor's daily doings, and if I do, how many times more must you miss him. May God bless Connor always, and may God provide for you exactly what you need today and always.

Beneath my signature, I will add the collect for today, the Feast of St. Boniface, whose original name was Wynfrith.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Almighty God, who called your faithful servant Boniface to be a
witness and martyr in the lands of Germany and Friesland, and
by his labor and suffering raised up a people for your own
possession: Pour forth your Holy Spirit upon your Church in
every land, that by the service and sacrifice of many your holy
Name may be glorified and your kingdom enlarged; through Jesus
Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy
Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, June 5, 2007 9:33 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I am thinking of sweet Connor early on another Monday morning. May God bless his sweet spirit, and many God bless both of you.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

O God, by whose providence the blood of the martyrs is the seed Of the Church: Grant that we who remember before you the blessed martyrs of Uganda, may, like them, be steadfast in our faith in Jesus Christ, to whom they gave obedience, even unto death, and by their sacrifice brought forth a plentiful harvest; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, June 4, 2007 0:38 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I send you good wishes on Trinity Sunday. Connor has been remembered in Holy Eucharist.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Holy, holy, holy! Lord God Almighty!
Early in the morning our song shall rise to thee.
Holy, holy, holy! Merciful and mighty,
God in three Persons, blessèd Trinity.

Holy, holy, holy! All saints adore thee,
casting down their golden crowns around the glassy sea;
cherubim and seraphim falling down before thee,
which wert, and art, and evermore shalt be.

Holy, holy, holy! Though the darkness hide thee,
though the sinful human eye thy glory may not see,
only thou art holy; there is none beside thee,
perfect in power, in love, and purity.

Holy, holy, holy! Lord God Almighty!
All thy works shall praise thy Name, in earth, and sky, and sea;
Holy, holy, holy! Merciful and mighty,
God in three Persons, blessèd Trinity.

Words: Reginald Heber (1783-1826), 1827

Music: Nicaea, John Bacchus Dykes (1823-1876)

Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/h/h297.html
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, June 3, 2007 11:13 AM CDT

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another first day of the month has come and gone. I did think you you all, just didnt get anything written to you.
I remember in my prayers
I think of you all real often

Sharon <sholweger5@yahoo.com>
- Saturday, June 2, 2007 5:31 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

Earlier this week, one of my aunts was honored for a long and dedicated career as a teacher. Her school and her community celebrated Dora Day. In speaking with a relative on the other side of my family, later that night, I got some deeper insight into the classroom life of Aunt Dora, as this relative has a close friend, who works with Aunt Dora. As Dorothy told me about Aunt Dora, a special education teacher, who comes into her friend's fifth grade classroom, I started thinking of Connor, who would have been in fifth grade this year. You see, there are few things in my life that do not come back to Connor, in one way or another. May God bless his sweet spirit, and may God bless both of you.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, June 2, 2007 10:39 AM CDT

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Good Morning Rhonda and Eddie,
Thinking of a bright eyed, blonde, smiling little boy this morning as another first of the month arrives. (actually he is on our mind EVERY DAY) Know Connor will NEVER be forgotten and always will hold a very special place in our hearts.
WE MISS CONNOR AND WE LOVE YOU!
Love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Friday, June 1, 2007 7:48 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

It's another first of the month. They certainly have been piling up, since Connor passed into heaven. I am thinking of you both, and of Nana and Poppy, Beverly and Garvin, and all of Connor's other loved ones. God bless you all.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

A Collect For Fridays:

Almighty God, whose most dear Son went not up to joy but
first he suffered pain, and entered not into glory before he
was crucified: Mercifully grant that we, walking in the way
of the cross, may find it none other than the way of life and
peace; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord. Amen.

The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 99
Written By William Reed Huntington (1838-1909)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, June 1, 2007 0:39 AM CDT

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Today, as I was searching cafepress.com for a t-shirt that would bring awareness to Childhood Cancer, I came across something that caught my eye instantly. It was the name Connor and the word Courage. Two words that are achingly familiar to me as well. You see, our son's name is also Connor and he too passed away after a 7 year battle with cancer in 2003 - he was 8. I visited your beautiful website and the lovely tribute to your Connor and I couldn't help but get tears in my eyes.
Your love and support showed through the website and I just wanted you to know that although we are complete strangers in this delicate life, we are certainly no strangers to the cross we must bear.
May God bless you and may He keep peace in your hearts.
Kindest regards,
Maria
Maria <fishervita@msn.com>
Farmington, UT USA - Thursday, May 31, 2007 12:14 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I am thinking of sweet Connor on another sunny spring day. The birds are singing, here in Clifton Park, but I am sure Connor is experiencing a much more glorious day, in the nearer presence of Jesus. May God bless Connor, and may God bless both of you.

Today is the Feast of the Visitation (of the expectant Mary to Elizabeth). I will add the collect beneath my signature.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Father in heaven, by your grace the virgin mother of your incarnate Son was blessed in bearing him, but still more blessed in keeping your word: Grant us who honor the exaltation of her lowliness to follow the example of her devotion to your will; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 240-241
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, May 31, 2007 11:01 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I think once again of sweet Connor. The kids in our neighborhood are riding bicycles a lot this week, and I know Connor enjoyed his bike. (I love the picture of him riding, with his head tipped back.) May God bless Connor, and may God bless, comfort, and encourage both of you.

Beneath my signature, is the collect for the day, the Feast of St. Joan of Arc. I have never really understood Joan, and apparently others feel similarly, as she is the only one whose name does not appear in the collect for her feast day.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

O God, by whom the meek are guided in judgement, and light rises up in darkness for the godly: Grant us, in all our doubts and uncertainties, to ask what you would have us do; that the spirit of wisdom may save us from all false choices, that in your light we may see light, and in your straight paths may not stumble, through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, May 30, 2007 10:53 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I hope you had an opportunity to relax during the long weekend. I am thinking of both you , and of sweet Connor, this morning.

Beneath my signature, I will add a collect from this week.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Almighty and everlasting God, we thank you for your servant Apolo Kivebulaya, whom you called to preach the Gospel to the people of Boga in central Africa. Raise up in this and every land evangelists and heralds of your kingdom, that your Church may proclaim the unsearchable riches of our Savior Jesus Christ; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, May 29, 2007 7:52 AM CDT

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Blessings On Memorial Day, Rhonda and Eddie!

If I could, I would visit Connor and Kevin in the mausoleum today. God bless both of you, and God bless Linda, Bob, and the children. Please give my greetings to the Martin-Crockers, Nana and Poppy, and Beverly and Garvin.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

O God, whose beloved Son took children into his arms and blessed them: Give us grace to entrust Connor to your never-failing care and love, and bring us all to your heavenly kingdom; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, page 494
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, May 28, 2007 10:06 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I have been thinking about Connor so very much today. How I wish he could be here, enjoying this holiday weekend with both of you, and with friends, family, and church people. May he be blessed in heaven.

Beneath my signature, I will the collect of the day.

God bless you both, and God bless all of Connor's loved ones.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Almighty God, on this day you opened the way of eternal life to every race and nation by the promised gift of your Holy Spirit: Shed abroad this gift throughout the world by the preaching of the Gospel, that it may reach to the ends of the earth; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 227
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, May 27, 2007 5:50 PM CDT

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Blessings On The Feast Of Pentecost!

Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I remembered Connor at St. George's, on Saturday afternoon, before, during, and after the service. I was lay reader, sharing the familar readings of Pentecost. In our previous parish, and in many of our churches, we wear red on Pentecost and have special foods including a birthday cake, red punch, and banana boats with the names of the fruits of the spirit, on their sails, on this feast. We do not do these things at St. George's, so I think I will worship at the cathedral later in the day, as I like these traditions. Connor will be in my thoughts and prayers while I am in Albany. God bless his sweet spirit.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Hail Thee, Festival Day (Pentecost)

Refrain: Hail thee, festival day!
Blest day that art hallowed forever;
day wherein God from heaven,
shone on the world with his grace.

Lo! in the likeness of fire,
on them that await his appearing,
he whom the Lord foretold,
suddenly, swiftly, descends. Refrain

Forth from the Father he comes
with his sevenfold mystical dowry,
pouring on human souls
infinite riches of God. Refrain

Hark! in a hundred tongues
Christ's own, his chosen Apostles,
preach to a hundred tribes
Christ and his wonderful works. Refrain

Praise to the Spirit of life,
all praise to the Fount of our being,
light that dost lighten all,
life that in all dost abide. Refrain

God, who art giver of all
good gifts and lover of concord,
pour thy balm on our souls,
order our ways in thy peace. Refrain

God Almighty, who fillest
the heaven, the earth and the ocean,
guard us from harm without,
cleanse us from evil within. Refrain

Kindle our lips with his live bright coal
from the hands of the Seraph;
shine in our minds with thy light;
burn in our hearts with thy love. Refrain

Words: Venantius Fortunatus (530-609);
trans. Gabriel Gillett, 1906

Music: Salve, festa dies, Ralph Vaughan Williams (1872-1958)

~The Hymnal 1982, # 225

Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/h/h031.html
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, May 27, 2007 1:58 AM CDT

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Happy Memorial Day Weekend, Hunleys!

I will remember Connor in Holy Eucharist.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, May 26, 2007 1:46 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I am thinking of Connor on another Friday morning. May Connor and both of you be blessed.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

A Collect For Fridays:

Almighty God, whose most dear Son went not up to joy but
first he suffered pain, and entered not into glory before he
was crucified: Mercifully grant that we, walking in the way
of the cross, may find it none other than the way of life and
peace; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord. Amen.

The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 99
Written By William Reed Huntington (1838-1909)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, May 25, 2007 6:20 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

The birds are singing here in Clifton Park. I hope they are singing for you, as well. I am thinking of sweet Connor this morning, as I do every day. May God bless both of you, and Connor, always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

The Collect For May 24:

Lord God, in whose providence Jackson Kemper was chosen first Missionary bishop in this land, and by his arduous labor and travel established congregations in scattered settlements of the West: Grant that the Church may always be faithful to its mission, and have the vision, courage, and perseverance to make known to all peoples the Good News of Jesus Christ; who with you and the Holy Spirit lives and reigns, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, May 24, 2007 7:17 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I imagine it is almost time for the awarding of the Connor J. Hunley Courage Award. How nice that Connor's school is doing this, but how much we would all like to have the living Connor demonstrating his courage and humor day by day. You, and all of Connor's loved ones, are in my thoughts and prayers this morning.

God bless you, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

In honor of Connor, a quote about courage:

Where courage is missing, no other virtue can survive except by accident.

~Sam Johnson
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, May 23, 2007 9:36 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I got hungry in the middle of the night yesterday, so I went to the kitchen, took out Andrew's box of Hood's Wild Berry Sherbet (three flavors: strawberry, blackberry, and raspberry) and a banana, and made myself a treat. As I sat eating it, I wondered what Connor would think of the combination. Thanks to Mr. Wayne, I almost always think of Connor in connection to cool treats.

I hope you, Nana and Poppy, and Beverly and Garvin, are all well. I send regards and love to you all.

God bless you, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, May 22, 2007 8:59 AM CDT

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Good Morning Rhonda and Eddie,
It is a bright sun shiney day and I am thinking of a sunshine boy! WE MISS CONNOR AND WE LOVE YOU!
God Bless,
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U,S,A, - Tuesday, May 22, 2007 8:47 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I remembered Connor at St. George's this morning several times, and I prayed for you both. May God bless you all.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

The Collect For Today:

O God, the King of glory, you have exalted your only Son Jesus Christ with great triumph to your kingdom in heaven: Do not leave us comfortless, but send us your Holy Spirit to strengthen us, and exalt us to that place where our Savior Christ has gone before; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, in glory everlasting. Amen.

The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 226
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, May 20, 2007 9:44 PM CDT

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Rhonda, Eddie, I have been thinking of you and connor! How was the relay for life? Your booth sounds like a great one! I hope it went well. and that your doing o.k! Hoping and praying for all things good for you!
Kim <dakk2222@netnitco.net>
IN - Sunday, May 20, 2007 9:19 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I am thinking of Connor on a very rainy evening. It has been a nasty day, and I haven't accomplished very much. Hopefully, things have been more cheerful and productive where you are and you are having a good weekend.

Beneath my signature, I will add the collect of the day.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

O God of truth and beauty, who richly endowed your bishop Dunstan with skill in music and the working of metals, and with gifts of administration and reforming zeal: Teach us, we pray, to see in you the source of all our talents, and move us to offer them for the adornment of worship and the advancement of true religion; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, May 19, 2007 10:21 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I am thinking of Connor on another Friday morning. May God bless his sweet spirit, and may God bless both of you, and all of Connor's other loved ones.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

A Collect For Fridays:

Almighty God, whose most dear Son went not up to joy but
first he suffered pain, and entered not into glory before he
was crucified: Mercifully grant that we, walking in the way
of the cross, may find it none other than the way of life and
peace; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord. Amen.

The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 99
Written By William Reed Huntington (1838-1909)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, May 18, 2007 9:31 AM CDT

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Blessings On Ascension Day!

Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

In speaking with my son last night, he shared with me something very precious that has happened in his spiritual life this week. It is his experience, so I won't discuss it, but what happened in his life involved something he has done, because he has seen me doing something that I do quietly out of love for our Lord. I know that while on earth Connor saw you act out your faith, and that he is now in heaven, because this is so. What good parents you are! May God bless you all.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

Colette

Grant, we pray, Almighty God, that as we believe your only-begotten Son our Lord Jesus Christ to have ascended into heaven, so we may also in heart and mind there ascend, and with him continually dwell; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

~The Book of Common Prayer, Page 226
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, May 17, 2007 5:14 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

We had thunder and lightning during the night, and now the birds are singing loudly, full of life and joy. May the beauty of God's creation and the sweetness of inward prayer be with you today, and may your memories of Connor be sweet and sustaining. I will be remembering him in Holy Eucharist.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Pray inwardly, even if you do not enjoy it. It does good, though you feel nothing. Yes, even though you think you are doing nothing.

~Julian of Norwich (Feast Day: May 8)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, May 16, 2007 4:10 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I expect today to be a busy day for me, but I am never too busy to stop and greet you, or to think of sweet Connor. God bless you all.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, May 15, 2007 8:18 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I am thinking of you, and of sweet Connor, on another beautiful Monday morning. God bless you all.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, May 14, 2007 10:36 AM CDT

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Rhonda,

I think of you both so very often. I know yesterday was hard on you. Connor couldn't have asked for a better mother!



Kim (Hannah's mom) <kymberleigh321@aol.com>
Murfreesboro, TN - Monday, May 14, 2007 8:40 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda,
Thinking of you and your sunshine boy this Mother's Day. I am sure Connor is telling everyone in Heaven how lucky he is to have the BEST mommy in the world!
God Bless,
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Sunday, May 13, 2007 4:39 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda,

My thoughts are with you, Nana, and Beverly on this Mother's Day morning. May God bless all three of you.

I will be interested in hearing about the Rally for Life that you and Eddie participated in and how all of Team Connor did. I wish I could have been there.

Here in Clifton Park, we had Church Women United May Friendship Day, at St. George's, yesterday. We had women from Clifton Park, Waterford, Malta, Scotia, Schenectady, Ballston Lake, Albany, and other communities, present. I have been planning it since December, and it was well received. Elaine and I were thinking of Connor as we participated and as I drove her home.

Andrew is in Utica, but he called last night to let me know he is OK and will be home soon. How I wish you could receive a call from Connor telling you that he will be with you on Mother's Day, as well!

Beneath my signature, I will add the collect for the day. I am reading at church, this morning, and I will remember Connor in the beauty of holiness.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

The Collect For The Sixth Sunday In Easter:

O God, you have prepared for those who love you such good things as surpass our understanding: Pour into our hearts such love towards you, that we, loving you in all things and above all things, may obtain your promises, which exceed all that we can desire; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 225
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, May 13, 2007 7:09 AM CDT

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With Much Love
Miss Shannon & Miss Samantha "Froggy" <humphity@gmail.com>
Always Missing & Remembering *Connor* - Sunday, May 13, 2007 4:59 AM CDT

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Rhonda: Thinking of you in a special way this weekend. Many thoughts and prayers are focused your way.

With love,

Kriste

P.S.....Sounds like Relay went really well! Congratualtions to you and Eddie, and the whole Connor Team! Can't wait to read your personal update on it.
My Big Brother - Tracy Lanius <Kristewithane@comcast.net>
Goodlettsville, TN USA - Saturday, May 12, 2007 9:17 PM CDT

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Happy Mothers Day! I think I hear a little angel whispering these words to you. May your good memories substain you this day!
Gail Burns <grannygail@aol.com>
Jonesboro, GA - Saturday, May 12, 2007 8:48 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I will be thinking of Connor, while I am in church this weekend. The local high school is collecting bottles and cans, in several of the developments, for the Rally for Life, this weekend. If they come, I will give them a large bag of soda cans, and I will think of Connor, when I do.

God bless you both, and God bless all of Connor's team, and of course, God bless sweet Connor, himself.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, May 12, 2007 0:40 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

Andrew and I were over at the mall yesterday, and while we were there, we encountered two very tame ducks, in the parking lot. Two women, who work in the mall, came out and fed them some pieces of bread. I thought of both Connor and Cheyenne (Roy often mentioned taking her to the park to feed birds.) as we watched. Right now, the morning birds of Clifton Park are singing loudly. I guess it is going to be a good day in southern Saratoga County.

God bless you both, and of course, God bless your sweet animal lover, Connor Jordan Hunley.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

A Collect For Fridays:

Almighty God, whose most dear Son went not up to joy but
first he suffered pain, and entered not into glory before he
was crucified: Mercifully grant that we, walking in the way
of the cross, may find it none other than the way of life and
peace; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord. Amen.

The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 99
Written By William Reed Huntington (1838-1909)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, May 11, 2007 4:20 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I am thinking of Connor on another lovely spring day. May God bless his sweet spirit, and may God bless both of you, and all those serving on Connor's Courage Team, and at Connor's booth, this weekend.

I was up helping kids prepare for exams last night, so I am rather blurry eyed this morning.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Almighty God, who have revealed to your Church your eternal Being of glorious majesty and perfect love as one God in Trinity of Persons: Give us grace that, like your bishop Gregory of Nazianzus, we may continue steadfast in the confession of this faith, and constant in our worship of you, Father, Son and Holy Spirit, who live and reign for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, May 10, 2007 7:10 AM CDT

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Rhonda,
I want to celebrate you and Connor on Mother's Day. You are an amazing mother and loving him has always been the easy part!
Lisa
Mount Juliet, TN USA - Wednesday, May 9, 2007 3:46 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I attended an out-of-town funeral yesterday. Andrew had some major commitments at school, so he couldn't go along. I certainly thought of Connor, as I listened to the minister, and to the folks who shared memories of the gentleman, who died. May God bless them both.

I hope you are having a good week, preparing for the Rally for Life. The man, who died, had an attack last week, playing basketball, but the Rally for Life was one of his favorite charities, so donations were being received yesterday.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, May 9, 2007 8:19 AM CDT

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Hey Rhonda & Eddie,

I think Connor and I may have started something with all this talk about ice cream! I guess the ice cream folks won't mind a bit!!

Last year, I started taking the boys from my church camp cabin out for ice cream on their birthday. So far, I think I've taken about 4-5 out and we have enjoyed a sweet treat together. This past Sunday evening, I took a couple and went enjoyed some of Baskin Robbins finest. That may not be a monumental event unless you consider these 'boys' are about 14 and 15 years old! They would probably prefer that I call them 'young men'. I don't guess you ever get too old for ice cream. I know I like it and I'm getting up there with the age of dirt!

Hope the relay goes well and that there will be many positive results from the efforts.

In Christian love,
Wayne

Connor, I wish we could make a trip for ice cream together. Keep an opening on your calendar for me!
I love you lots!!
Mr. Wayne
Wayne Gordon <wgordon@cscsystems.com>
Hermitage, TN USA - Wednesday, May 9, 2007 7:10 AM CDT

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Hello,
I just stumbled across Connor's page and felt compelled to write. I am currently sitting at Vandy with my 2 year old daughter Kennedy who was just diagnosed with AML on April 16th. She got her chemo duck yesterday, which led me to Gabe, which led me to Connor. What an awesome kid he was! I read through a little of his journal and am inspired by his attitude through his journey. I am inspired by you, his parents, as well for all you continue to do for the cause. I hope the relay for life goes well this weekend. Maybe next year Kennedy and the rest of our family will be able to join you.
God Bless!
Renee Garcia
Kennedy's page
Renee Garcia <CAmommy2KJ@aol.com>
Clarksville, TN USA - Wednesday, May 9, 2007 0:14 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I was unable to resist the pistachio ice cream and had another serving on Monday night. This was in a sundae cup with cherry topping. I also took a hot fudge sundae on chocolate to Andrew at work. I wonder what Connor would say about all of this eating, and I wonder which treats he would choose for himself.

One of my favorite saints is Julian of Norwich. I have liked her, since I was asked to portray her in a play, many years ago, in our previous parish, Grace Church, Waterford. Beneath my signature, I will leave the collect for the day.

God bless you both, and of course, God bless your sunshine boy, Connor.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

The Collect For Julian Of Norwich 8 May 1417:

Lord God, who in your compassion granted to the Lady Julian many revelations of your nurturing and sustaining love: Move our hearts, like hers, to seek you above all things, for in giving us yourself you give us all; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, May 8, 2007 2:50 AM CDT

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I hope Connor's Courage
is quite successful this weekend, that's for sure!
PRAYERS AND LOVE FROM MISSOURI
mrs pam
- Monday, May 7, 2007 6:07 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

The birds have been singing especially often the past couple of days. Perhaps Connor is encouraging them to make a merry melody.

I stopped at De Voe's last night for a pistachio cone, dipped in chocolate. They were doing a booming business. I thought of Connor, as I enjoyed it. I wonder what flavor he would have chosen.

God bless you both, and Nana and Poppi, and Beverly and Garvin, too, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, May 7, 2007 10:43 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

Connor was remembered, beneath the Jesus and the Children window, yesterday, when I was in the nave for Church Women United May Friendship Day rehearsal, and later, when I was there for Eucharist. I always think of Connor, when I see that window. You were also in my prayers, during Eucharist. May God bless you all.

Beneath my signature, I will add the collect for this weekend.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Almighty God, whom truly to know is everlasting life: Grant us so perfectly to know your Son Jesus Christ to be the way, the truth, and the life, that we may steadfastly follow his steps in the way that leads to eternal life; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord, who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 225
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, May 6, 2007 6:51 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I will be remembering sweet Connor, at Eucharist, this weekend. We are having lovely spring weather, so the sun should be streaming in through the Jesus and the Children window.

God bless you both, and of course, God bless Connor.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, May 5, 2007 0:06 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

Good luck with the final touches on the team and booth before next weekend's rally for life. I am sure Connor is being honored by your efforts and those of all the folks helping you.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A, - Friday, May 4, 2007 1:40 AM CDT

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Rhonda and Eddie, I am so glad to hear that you both are doing the relay again. I was hoping we could go this yr but that particular night is Hayden's preschool graduation. Can you believe he will start kindergarten in the fall??? We will be with you in spirit. Please keep in touch and know that we love you both and Angel Connor.

Lori Pierce <hayden01@tds.net>
Mt Juliet, Tn - Thursday, May 3, 2007 11:09 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I have been doing a lot of work on a Church Women United May Friendship Day, planned for Clifton Park, next weekend. The offical date, however, is tomorrow, May 4. I wonder if you are having a Friendship Day in your area, and if Rhonda is attending.

God bless you both, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, May 3, 2007 3:12 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

There's Mr. Wayne, talking about ice cream again. The stand that we like to visit, DeVoe's, is open, but we haven't been there yet this season. In driving by, the other day, I noticed this, and that the flavor of the week is maple cream. They do a great job with maple cream, so perhaps I can stop later in the week. Pistachio is my favorite, and I definitely get there most of the time when they have that. I wonder if Connor would like either of these flavors. He would probably love the chocolate and vanilla twist and all of the dippings and toppings.

I saw the quotation I am sending a couple of weeks ago, and I thought of Connor when I read it.

God bless you both, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

With every friend I love who has been taken into the brown bosom of the earth a part of me has been buried there; but their contribution to my being of happiness, strength and understanding remains to sustain me in an altered world.

~Helen Keller
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, May 2, 2007 10:50 AM CDT

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Hi Eddie & Rhonda,

I wish I had a portable ice cream cooler. That would just about make the menu complete. Sweet treat in memory of a sweet boy!

I hope both of you are finding strength and comfort through God, family, and friends. The relay will surely bring people together-many with common goals, dreams, and memories.

Melanie and I have a donation coming through Taylor and Travis P. I hope and pray that this event will help in the fight to eliminate all forms of cancer.

Keep lookin' up!

Love you both!

Wayne

Hey Connor. Did I see you in the full moon last night? My wife and I sat on the swing and watched the moon come up over the house. It was really big and perfectly round. I thought maybe I saw your smile in there!
I love you bunches!!
Mr. Wayne
Wayne Gordon <wgordon@cscsystems.com>
Hermitage, TN USA - Wednesday, May 2, 2007 8:15 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

It has been two and a half years, since Connor departed to live in heaven. He has been with God for as long as a quarter of his earthly life. It is hard to believe.

I have been remembering Connor, in varies ways today, and you, and all of Connor's loved ones, are in my thoughts and prayers.

God bless you all.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Almighty God, we entrust Connor, and all who are dear to us, to your never-failing care and love, for this life and the life to come, knowing that you are doing for them better things than we can desire or pray for, through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 831
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, May 1, 2007 2:58 PM CDT

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Good Morning Rhonda and Eddie,
Another first day of the month and my thoughts are of a little sunshine boy who captured my heart and inspired me beyond words. Thank you for sharing Connor with us, he will NEVER be forgotten. WE LOVE AND MISS CONNOR! WE LOVE YOU!
(no new grand baby yet!)
Love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Tuesday, May 1, 2007 8:05 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie, I read on Nikie's site that you had updated. So glad to hear from you. I hope you are both doing well and enjoying these beautiful spring days. You're in my prayers, as is your Sunshine Boy. Love and hugs, Linda
linda champa <lachampa@mintz.com (Audrey's Umbrella)>
boston, ma usa - Monday, April 30, 2007 3:38 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

The birds are singing, here in southern Saratoga County, after a rainy Sunday. I know Connor loved mammals. He probably enjoyed birds, too. I imagine he is experiencing birds and mammals, in heaven, like we have never seen on earth.

Today's saint is Catherine of Sienna. Our Daughters of the King chapter, at St. George's, is named after her. She was a mystic and a reformer. I will place the collect beneath my signature.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Everlasting God, who so kindled the flame of holy love in the heart of blessed Catherine of Siena, as she meditated on the passion of your Son our Savior, that she devoted her life to the poor and the sick, and to the peace and unity of the Church: Grant that we also may share in the mystery of Christ's death, and rejoice in the revelation of His Glory, who lives and reigns with the and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, April 30, 2007 4:44 AM CDT

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I just read Connor's story, and was so sad for your loss. My grandneice is currently on this site, and it breaks my heart to know how many children have cancer.
Good luck with your funraiser, and findraiser, Find The Cure For Childhood Cancer, ALL CANCER.
Much Love To You.

Jackie Hurlburt
Fairport, , NY 14450 - Sunday, April 29, 2007 8:07 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

Connor was remembered at Eucharist on Saturday afternoon. Sadly, I now have many children to remember, but Connor is always at the top of my list.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

The Collect For The Fourth Sunday In Easter:

O God, whose Son Jesus is the good shepherd of your people; Grant that when we hear his voice we may know him who calls us each by name, and follow where he leads; who, with you and the Holy Spirit, lives and reigns, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 225
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, April 29, 2007 1:05 AM CDT

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Hi Rhonda and Eddie,
Oh how I wish I lived near and could be on Connor's Team for the Relay for Life! I will definitly be there in spirit and a donation will be in the mail this week in his honor.
Beautiful day here today, haven't golfed yet this year, but going to go tomorrow if our new little grandbaby doesn't arrive before our tee time...we are still waiting. Amanda has a dr. appointment on Monday, so hopefully will know more then. The dr. thought she would have the baby this past week, but guess she was wrong...hopefully this week coming up!:) I will let you know as soon as the little one is born. We are getting a little anxious and everytime the phone rings we think it might be "the call"
Take gentle care and know Connor is always in our hearts and will NEVER be forgotten. WE MISS HIM SO MUCH!
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Saturday, April 28, 2007 9:47 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

Last night, Andrew, Kristen, and I saw the Ringling Bros. & Barnum & Bailey Circus, at the Times Union Center, in Albany. Kristen does not remember ever seeing a circus before, but her father says she was taken to one as a little girl. She was thrilled to see an act involving six magnificent white tigers. I am sure Connor would have loved that act, as well. One of the cats, Spirit, had quite a personality. It made us all laugh talking about her, on the drive home. She reminded me of the picture of Connor teasing Nana.

I will remember Connor at Holy Eucharist later today. May God always bless him.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, April 28, 2007 2:32 PM CDT

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Dear Hunley Family,
It's so great to see an update. I'm glad to hear you will be at relay again in sweet Connor's memory. Please keep us updated on how it goes.
Love, blessings, and tons of hugs,
Tanya
Tanya Nicole Servis <tanyans83@yahoo.com>
Newark, DE USA - Saturday, April 28, 2007 12:35 AM CDT

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Thank you for the update. I'm sure it is hard for you to do. You have such a beautiful way of displaying his pictures. His picture in his go cart is so inspiring for the Relay. I'm proud to see how close you are to your goal. Connor is such an inspiration for all of us. I know he is proud of you as you work to find a cure. I would like to buy a luminary in memory of Connor. Will you please email me and let me know how to do it. We are having problems where I can receive emails but I can't send them. That is why I haven't emailed you personally about it. You are in my prayers often.
Lisa (Tristan's Mama)
Mount Juliet, TN USA - Friday, April 27, 2007 5:11 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

How wonderful to see an update on Connor's site! Thank you for doing this.

We are a bit shaken at St. George's, as a nineteen month old boy, who has been coming to our Thursday night healing services for over a year, died yesterday, in Houston, where he had had treatments and was awaiting a return to Albany Medical Center. I think for most of us, and probably for his family, that this death was unexpected. As involved as our church was with Baby Ryan, I want you to know that Connor's life, passing, and legacy all mean more to me. I have never been so profoundly impacted by a non-relative, as I have by your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.

God bless you all.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

A Collect For Fridays:

Almighty God, whose most dear Son went not up to joy but
first he suffered pain, and entered not into glory before he
was crucified: Mercifully grant that we, walking in the way
of the cross, may find it none other than the way of life and
peace; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord. Amen.

The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 99
Written By William Reed Huntington (1838-1909)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, April 27, 2007 2:06 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I have laryngitis, so I won't be yelling at the circus later this week, but I will be enjoying the talented people and the lovely animals. Since Connor loved horses so much, I know I will think of him, when we see the trained horses.

God bless you both, and God bless your sweet sunshine boy.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, April 26, 2007 0:31 AM CDT

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Rhonda and Eddie I dont sign in often but you know I think about you and Connor every single day
Sharon <sholweger5@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, April 25, 2007 1:55 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I am thinking of sweet Connor, on yet another nice day in southern Saratoga County. I saw my first robin today, so I guess spring has finally arrived in Clifton Park.

Today is the Feast of St. Mark, but I missed Eucharist this morning. I will, however, leave the collect for you.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Almighty God, by the hand of Mark the evangelist you have given to your Church the Gospel of Jesus Christ the Son of God: We thank you for this witness, and pray that we may be firmly grounded in its truth; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 240
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, April 25, 2007 12:40 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I hope you, and all of Connor's uncles, cousins, grandparents, and other loved ones, are well. I am thinking of Connor, as I do every day. God bless his sweet spirit, and God bless all of you.

Beneath my signature is the collect for the day.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Almighty God, by whose grace and power your holy martyrs of Armenia triumphed over suffering and were faithful even unto death: Grant us, who now remember them in thanksgiving, to be so faithful in our witness to you in this world, that we may receive with them the crown of life; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, April 24, 2007 1:32 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I believe I just lost a long message I tried to leave here, in Connor's guest book.

I do agree with Kim. I have always loved the picture of Connor and Basko. Connor was such a good little animal doctor!

Today is the Feast of St. George. Both our parish, and the closest Schenectady parish, are named for this early Christian martyr. I have attended a lot of services and quiet days in both churches. The last I knew, the Schenectady parish has not missed having daily Eucharist, since 1950. I really admire that kind of faithfulness. May we all strive, to be faithful, in little things, when we can, that the Lord may be honored in us, as he most certainly was, in Connor.

George is a saint that would have appealed to Connor, as he was an adventurer, a soldier, and a brave person. Many children enjoy the legend of St. George and the dragon, and he is also known, to a lot of boys, as the patron of Boy Scouting. Beneath my signature, I will add the collect for the day and a hymn that mentions St. George.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Almighty God, who gave to your servant George boldness to confess the Name of our Savior Jesus Christ before the rulers of this world, and courage to die for this faith: Grant that we may always be ready to give a reason for the hope that is in us, and to suffer gladly for the sake of our Lord Jesus Christ; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

Lord God of hosts, within whose hand
dominion rests on sea and land,
before whose word of life or death
the strength of nations is but breath:
O King, enthroned all thrones above,
give strength unto the land we love.

Thou Breath of Life since time began,
breathing upon the lips of man,
hast taught each kindred race to raise
united word to sound thy praise:
so, in this land, join, we beseech,
all hearts and lips in single speech.

To George our Saint thou gavest grace
without one fear all foes to face,
and to confess by faithful death
that Word of Life which was his breath.
O help us, Helper of Saint George,
to fear no bonds that man can forge.

Arm us like him, who in thy trust
beat down the dragon to the dust;
so that we too may tread down sin
and with thy saints a crown may win.
Help us, O God, that we may be
a land acceptable to thee.

Words: Laurence Housman, 1906

Music: Melita (Eternal Father, Strong to Save), Falkland

Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/l/l277.html

Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, April 23, 2007 3:04 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie, thinking of connor and basco today.. I was wondering what ever happened to basco? I always loved that picture of him and the horse. It was such a beautiful day here. I sat outside and was just thinking of connor and wondering how you are!
Kim <dakk2222@netnitco.net>
IN - Sunday, April 22, 2007 10:19 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

Connor was remembered, in Eucharist, Saturday afternoon. I always think of him, when I am beneath the Jesus and the Children window. Saturday was warm and sunny here, and the light streaming through that colored glass, was clearly a foretaste of the kingdom of heaven.

May God bless you both, and may God comfort you through the words, here in Connor's guest book.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Lord, welcome into your calm and peaceful kingdom those who have departed out of this present life to be with you. Grant them rest and a place with the spirits of the just; and give them the life that knows no age, the reward that passes not away, through Christ our Lord. Amen.

~a prayer of St. Ignatius Loyola
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, April 22, 2007 2:07 AM CDT

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Hi Rhonda and Eddie,
Thinking of your sunshine boy, I love coming to this site to see his pictures, his smile brightens the darkest of days. What a treasure! He will forever be in our hearts.
WE LOVE YOU AND MISS CONNOR SO MUCH!
LOVE AND HUGS,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Saturday, April 21, 2007 9:45 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I am thinking of you both, and of Connor. I will remember Connor, in Eucharist, this weekend, as I always do.

Beneath my signature, I will add a familiar prayer that I have been thinking about a lot this week.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

A Prayer Attributed To St. Francis:

Lord, make us instruments of your peace. Where there is hatred, let us sow love; where there is injury, pardon; where there is discord, union; where there is doubt, faith; where there is despair, hope; where there is darkness, light; where there is sadness, joy. Grant that we may not so much seek to be consoled as to console; to be understood as to understand; to be loved as to love. For it is in giving that we receive; it is in pardoning that we are pardoned; and it is in dying that we are born to eternal life. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 833
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, April 21, 2007 2:53 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

We did purchase the circus tickets this afternoon. As I drove home, I had the TV commercials, showing the elephants, in my mind, and I thought of how much my boys loved seeing the huge elephant, King Tusk, when I took them to see Ringling Bros. & Barnum & Bailey, at the Glens Falls Civic Center, as children. I bought them one toy King Tusk, to share, which they played with a lot, and young Andrew did an extensive project on elephants, about a year later, for school. I know Connor must have loved the elephants the way my guys did.

There isn't a day, when I do not think of Connor and all of the things he loved, and all of the things he would have enjoyed, if he had had the chance. May God always bless Connor's sweet spirit and your memories of him.

My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, April 20, 2007 5:55 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

Andrew and I have been talking about the circus, and I think we are going to try to buy tickets Friday afternoon for a performance next week. We are planning to take his girl friend, Kristen, who can't remember ever attending a circus. It will be fun sharing the event with her.

I can remember going to a circus in a tent last summer and sitting in the stands thinking of Connor, Cheyenne, and other youngsters, who would never attend an earthly circus again. It was hot, and Andrew went to buy snow cones, so we could have some liquid. I ended up praying for my CaringBridge children the whole time he was gone, and also as I enjoyed my tasty treat. May God bless Connor's sweet spirit and provide many wonderful adventures for him in heaven.

God bless you both, and also God bless Nana and Poppy and Beverly and Garvin.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, April 19, 2007 3:04 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

Andrew and I had Happy Ending sundaes yesterday, so, of course, I thought of Connor and wondered what type he would choose. God bless Connor, and God bless both of you.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, April 18, 2007 10:14 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I am up in the night, so I thought I would write a note for Connor's guest book. We are still having hard rain here, and certain areas are flooded. I hope you are having better weather and that things are going as well as they can for you, and for all of Connor's many other relatives.

Beneath my signature I am adding a prayer which seems appropriate at a time of national sadness.

God bless you both, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

O Lord Jesus Christ, whose perfect love met death by violence and was not extinguished; so enter the hearts and minds of those affected by violence that frailty may give way to your strength, loss to gain, bitterness to your total and victorious love.

~ a prayer by Susan Williams
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, April 17, 2007 1:24 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and eddie... Thinking of you all and connor. I wanted to stop by and let you know that your bravest little trooper is not forgotten! he was such a beautiful little boy. I remember how brave he truly was when he went through all those procedures. Like cheyenne he was just a special miracle child! I hope you can update and let us know how you are! Your in our hearts and prayers!
Kim <dakk2222@netnitco.net>
IN - Monday, April 16, 2007 10:07 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I have just looked through Connor's pictures again. They certainly help to brighten up another really gray, messy morning.

God bless you both, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, April 16, 2007 6:52 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

Connor was remembered at Eucharist, yesterday afternoon, at St. George's. We are having a wild weather day here today. It is sleeting in Albany, but it is snowing rapidly here in Clifton Park. I had to help Andrew with an errand about an hour ago, and we passed a four car pile up on the Northday only about three miles from home. I hope things are calmer in your area.

God bless you both, and God bless Linda and all of her family. You, and Connor and Kevin, are always in my heart.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, April 15, 2007 1:42 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

We had a very rainy Friday. Today is supposed to be a so-so day, but on Sunday, we are probably going to have a blizzard. The weather people are talking about around two feet of wet, heavy snow, and probable power outages. I will be thinking of you, and of sweet Connor, whether you hear form me, or not. May God bless you all.

Beneath my signature is the collect for today.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

The Collect For The Saturday In Easter Week:

We thank you, heavenly Father, that you have delivered us from the dominion of sin and death and brought us into the kingdom of your Son; and we pray that, as by his death he has recalled us to life, so by his love he may raise us to eternal joys; who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, now and forever. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 224
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, April 14, 2007 1:07 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

We just pledged to the relay team - we're a bit far away to make the race but we'll be with you in spirit!

Connor impacted our lives in so many ways and his influence grows every day through events like this. He is a POWERHOUSE!

Love,
Deb and Laura <deb@endyke.com>
litchfield, nh USA - Friday, April 13, 2007 11:12 PM CDT

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Hi Eddie & Rhonda,

Spring is going full-speed ahead as God works in his creation to provide us beauty and awe. Perhaps some do not see the beauty for circumstances in their life. Maybe they feel there is no reason to celebrate because of a tragedy in their family or friends. They might even feel it wrong to celebrate when someone close is not there to enjoy the moment also.

If there is anything consistent about God, it is the fact that he continues to bless us even when our lives have faced terrible events. He still makes the sun to shine, the rain to fall, the earth to blossom. If God is so concerned with small details (to him), then he must be concerned with his children. Those who walk among us and those whose memories are present within our hearts.

I pray that God's presence within your lives is alive, strong, and comforting. I hope Connor's memories are flooding your heart daily. Connor still influences us. He still gives us the desire to be better. The affect such a young boy could have is almost uncomprehendable!

In Christian love,
Wayne

Connor, the weather is getting warmer. Time to grab a cone and enjoy a sweet and creamy treat! And, to lick it fast enough it doesn't all run down your hand!!
I love you lots! Mr. Wayne
Wayne Gordon <wgordon@cscsystems.com>
Hermitage, TN USA - Friday, April 13, 2007 7:20 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I am thinking of Connor and of the children in his school. I know they get out sooner than our New York State students, so I imagine the committee is beginning to look at youngsters as possible recipients of the Connor J. Hunley Award. May they pick wisely, and may Connor's name stir in the breasts of many, as the award is announced.

I hope you, Nana and Poppy, and Beverly and Garvin, all have a good weekend. God bless you all, and of course, God bless sweet Connor.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

The Collect For The Friday In Easter Week:

Almighty Father, who gave your only Son to die for our sins and to rise for our justification: Give us grace so to put away the leaven of malice and wickedness, that we may always serve you in pureness of living and truth; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 224
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, April 13, 2007 0:22 AM CDT

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To Connor, Rhonda and Eddie,

You have been on my mind lately, so I thought I would drop a little note. I still think of Connor almost every day at work, and we (Trish, me, and the Rad Onc nurses) talk about Connor often and how special he was to all of us. I will remember Connor for the rest of my life. I hope the two of you are doing well. May God bless you both.

Matt Roberts, MD
Matt Roberts, MD <matthew.roberts@vanderbilt.edu>
Franklin, TN USA - Thursday, April 12, 2007 12:01 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

For a couple of weeks, I have been signing a guest book for Michael Billington, a young man with the same type of cancer as Connor. I have learned that Mike passed on at 9:00 this morning. Mike was acquainted with Jeff Newbauer, who also passed of the same recently. Jeff's mother wrote in Mike's book that the guys probably had a 9:00 golf tee off time. I think this could be true, but I also think those guys may be in heaven coaching Ian and Connor in baseball. May God bless their sweet spirits and Richie, Justin, and Jason's spirits, as well.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, April 12, 2007 12:00 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

The birds are singing in Clifton Park this morning. The sun is shining, too. I hope you are having similar lovely weather.

The school children of southern Saratoga County are home this week. I know some families have traveled, but others are at miniature golf, the parks, and the movies this week. I certainly wish that you could be spending this Easter week with sweet Connor.

God bless you both, and of course, God bless Connor.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

The Collect For Wednesday In Easter Week:

O God, whose blessed Son made himself known to his disciples in the breaking of bread: Open the eyes of our faith, that we may behold him in all his redeeming work; who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 223
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, April 11, 2007 8:34 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

We had some homemade ice cream for lunch today, and of course, I thought of Connor and all of the discussion of heavenly ice cream that we have had here in Connor's journal. May God bless Connor's sweet spirit.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, April 10, 2007 5:50 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I am thinking of Connor, and of you both, on a very cold Easter Monday. The birds are singing, so despite the cool weather, it is cheerful here. I hope you can say the same and more.

I remembered Connor, at Easter Eucharist, at St. George's. God bless your sweet sunshine boy, and God bless you both, and also all of Connor's other loved ones.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Collect For The Monday in Easter Week:

Grant, we pray, Almighty God, that we who celebrate with awe the Paschal feast may be found worthy to attain to everlasting joys; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Bottom Of Page 222 - Top Of Page 223
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, April 9, 2007 7:27 AM CDT

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It has been awhile since I stopped by. Just wanted to let you know I still think of you guys often and talk about Conner to people all the time. I am working back at Vandy on nights on 6N. It is a neuro/epi floor. They took over the old children's floor, so it always brings back memories. you take care. love you guys
Jessica Vaughan <jvaughan82@aol.com>
Clarksville, tn - Monday, April 9, 2007 2:28 AM CDT

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Blessings On Easter Morning!

"Welcome, happy morning!"
age to age shall say:
hell today is vanquished,
heaven is won today!
Lo! the dead is living,
God for evermore!
Him their true Creator,
all his works adore!

Refrain:
"Welcome, happy morning!" age to age shall say.

Earth her joy confesses,
clothing her for spring,
all fresh gifts return
with her returning King:
bloom in every meadow,
leaves on every bough,
speak his sorrow ended,
hail his triumph now.

Months in due succession,
days of lengthening light,
hours and passing moments
praise thee in their flight.
Brightness of the morning,
sky and fields and sea,
Vanquisher of darkness,
bring their praise to thee.

Maker and Redeemer,
life and health of all,
thou from heaven beholding
human nature's fall,
of the Father's Godhead
true and only Son,
mankind to deliver,
manhood didst put on.

Thou, of life the Author,
death didst undergo,
tread the path of darkness,
saving strength to show;
come then, true and faithful,
now fulfill thy word,
'tis thine own third morning!
rise, O buried Lord!

Loose the souls long prisoned,
bound with Satan's chain;
all that now is fallen
raise to life again;
show thy face in brightness,
bid the nations see;
bring again our daylight:
day returns with thee!

Words: Fortunatus, (ca. 535-600);
trans. John Ellerton (1826-1893), 1868

Music: Fortunatus (Arthur Seymour Sullivan, 1872)
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/w/w189.html
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, April 8, 2007 1:01 AM CDT

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With Much Love
Miss Shannon & My Baby Bunny <humphity@gmail.com>
Always Missing & Remembering *Connor* - Saturday, April 7, 2007 8:04 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

On this day of holy waiting, may you, and your sweet Connor, be blessed. May today lead to a Holy and Joyous Easter and be a foretaste of the wonderful Day of Resurrection to come.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

O God of unchangeable power and eternal light: Look favorably on your whole Church, that wonderful and sacred mystery; by the effectual working of your providence, carry out in tranquility the plan of salvation; let the whole world see and know that things which were cast down are being raised up, and things which had grown old are being made new, and that all things are being brought to their perfection by him through whom all things were made, your Son Jesus Christ our Lord; who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 280
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, April 7, 2007 11:30 AM CDT

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Thank you so much for the beautiful Easter message. Think of Connor all the time. What a special boy. I hope your Easter is filled with God's love and blessings. We love you. Jean-Paul and Claudia
Claudia Douesnard <cdouesnard@gmail.com>
Durango, CO USA - Saturday, April 7, 2007 10:52 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I have been thinking of Connor, on Good Friday. May Connor, and you, his forever parents, receive all of the blessings of this day.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, April 6, 2007 11:44 PM CDT

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Hoping your family has a wonderful Easter weekend.
Cheri T, Hugs & Hope Club <faith_in_valley@yahoo.com>
GA - Thursday, April 5, 2007 10:22 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

Andrew has been talking about possibly going to the circus together later this month. That makes me think about Connor, his pets, and his great love for animals. May God bless your sweet sunshine boy.

Beneath my signature, I will add the collect for today.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

The Collect For Maundy Thursday:

Almighty Father, whose dear Son, on the night before he suffered, instituted the Sacrament of his Body and Blood: Mercifully grant that we may receive it thankfully in remembrance of Jesus Christ our Lord, who in these holy mysteries gives us a pledge of eternal life; and who now lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 221

Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, April 5, 2007 12:11 AM CDT

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THis is a very nice thing to be doing
Marv Retten <marvretten@hotmail.com>
Westerville, OH 43081 - Thursday, April 5, 2007 7:14 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I will think of Connor in Stations of the Cross today. May God bless his sweet spirit!

I hope you are both well and that all of Connor's family is, also. God bless you all.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Collect For The Wednesday In Holy Week:

Lord God, whose blessed Son our Savior gave his body to be whipped and his face to be spit upon: Give us grace to accept joyfully the sufferings of the present time, confident of the glory that shall be revealed; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 220
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, April 4, 2007 10:31 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I am continuing to think of Connor and some of the things he may have done, and wanted to do, during this Holy Week of the year. When I was his age, I was always glad to see the egg coloring kit arrive in the kitchen. It was something I did on the Saturday before Easter, but the colors showed up in the groceries earlier in the week. I also often went to the community Easter egg hunt. I never won a prize, but some children won things like roller skates and tee shirts. I hope you are enjoying your memories of Connor. God bless you both, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Collect For Tuesday In Holy Week:

O God, by the passion of your blessed Son you made an instrument of shameful death to be for us the means of life: Grant us so to glory in the cross of Christ, that we may gladly suffer shame and loss for the sake of your Son our Savior Jesus Christ; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 220
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, April 3, 2007 9:40 PM CDT

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Blessings On The Monday In Holy Week!

Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I imagine Connor spent this week looking forward to a day or two off at the end of the week and to Easter. My boys always loved getting their Easter package. As very little guys, there would be a Bible book of some kind, sugarless gum, and a few candies. There might be a simple toy, possibly made of wood, or a stuffed animal, and if the weather was good, there would be a container of bubbles. As they got older, the small amount of candy might be surrounded with baseball cards, a video, a ball, and/or a special tee shirt. They loved those treats and a chance to be outside, after a winter of often being inside. I am sure you have many such memories of Connor during Holy Week and on Easter Sunday.

Today's collect is one you already "know." It is the one we use at Morning Prayer each and every Friday, and also as the prayer at the end of the first station, in The Way of the Cross. It is found on page 220 in The Book of Common Prayer, as well as on page 99. I will add it, and also a copy of a prayer I received, from a friend, in my email this morning, beneath my signature.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Collect For The Monday In Holy Week:

Almighty God, whose most dear Son went not up to joy but
first he suffered pain, and entered not into glory before he
was crucified: Mercifully grant that we, walking in the way
of the cross, may find it none other than the way of life and
peace; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord. Amen.

The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 220
Written By William Reed Huntington (1838-1909)

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Prayer For Our Lenten Journey:

All powerful God, by the suffering and death of your Son, strengthen and protect us in our weakness. We ask this through our Lord, Jesus Christ, your Son, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

~Source Unknown
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, April 2, 2007 12:36 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I echo Kathy and Dave's words, and I wish you both, and all of Connor's loved ones, a blessed Palm Sunday and Holy Week.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Collect For Palm Sunday:

Almighty and everliving God, in your tender love for the human race you sent your Son our Savior Jesus Christ to take upon him our nature, and to suffer death upon the cross, giving us the example of his great humility: Mercifully grant that we may walk in the way of his suffering, and also share in his resurrection; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 220
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, April 1, 2007 5:35 PM CDT

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Good Morning Rhonda and Eddie,
Another first day of the month and my thoughts are of a little blonde boy who captured my heart and inspired me beyond words. Thank you for sharing Connor with us, you know he will never be forgotten...he holds a very special place in our hearts and ALWAYS will. WE MISS YOUR SUNSHINE BOY AND LOVE YOU!
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Sunday, April 1, 2007 8:30 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

It is so good to see the two beautiful entries immediately below this one. These are either from new people, or from people who have not signed recently, as I do not remember either name. Connor certainly does continue to influence people, from a wide variety of locations!

As we enter Holy Week, rest assured that I will remember Connor, both in church, and at home. I will also be praying for both of you, for all of Connor's grandparents, for his great-grandmothers, and for his uncles, aunt, and cousins. In fact, I have just paused, here, at my keyboard, to do so, and also to pray for Linda and all of her family. May God bless you all.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Almighty God, who after the creation of the world rested from all you works and sanctified a day of rest for all your creatures: Grant that we, putting away all earthly anxieties, may be duly prepared for the service of your sanctuary, and that our rest here upon earth may be a preparation for the eternal rest promised to your people in heaven; through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 99
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, March 31, 2007 1:51 AM CDT

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To Rhonda, Eddie and especially Connor in heaven. It is so hard to lose anyone close to you. But to lose a little boy, I couldn't even imagine. My prayers are with you and your family. Eileen
Eileen Sciacca
Denver, PA USA - Friday, March 30, 2007 6:07 PM CDT

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Rhonda, Eddie and Connor.....

You will be forever in my prayers... God Bless you all!
Ken Sartini <Sars300@aol.com>
Arlington Heights , Illinois USA - Friday, March 30, 2007 3:03 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I remembered Connor, on my knees, at Eucharist, last night. As a previous writer has said, Connor has left his mark. God bless his sweet spirit, and God bless both of you.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

A Collect For Fridays:

Almighty God, whose most dear Son went not up to joy but
first he suffered pain, and entered not into glory before he
was crucified: Mercifully grant that we, walking in the way
of the cross, may find it none other than the way of life and
peace; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord. Amen.

The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 99
Written By William Reed Huntington (1838-1909)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, March 30, 2007 1:00 PM CDT

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I think about you all the time but you have especially been on my mind the last few weeks. Connor left a beautiful mark on this world. He will never be forgotten.
Lisa
Mt. Juliet, TN USA - Thursday, March 29, 2007 5:39 PM CDT

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I am praying for all you, good luck in all your lifetime endeavors.
Dieter Carbunkle <dcarbunkle@gmail.com>
- Thursday, March 29, 2007 5:13 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

As with every day, I am thinking of you both and remembering sweet Connor. God bless you all.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, March 29, 2007 11:43 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I am thinking of Connor and his courage today. He was a special lad in every way. May God bless his sweet spirit, and may God bless both of you.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, March 28, 2007 1:40 PM CDT

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Thinking of you today. I love seeing Conor's pictures. Seeing his smile never fails to bring a smile to my face. I'm sure he's partying with Richie today on his 16th birthday. I don't sign in very often, but think of you often and of your beautiful son.
Lisa Kingsbury <dldarakingsbury@msn.com>
Sandy, UT - Tuesday, March 27, 2007 1:20 PM CDT

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Hi Eddie & Rhonda,

I hope today is a good day for you. I hope God's blessings are filling your hearts and giving you the comfort and assurance of his love.

One of my other Caring Bridge friends recently had one of his pictures posted where he was eating ice cream on the beach. It was melting and running all over his hand and he had the biggest smile on his face. It just made me think about Connor big time! The innocence of a child eating ice cream and not being bothered in the least that it is running everywhere.

In Christian love,
Wayne

Hey Connor. Thinking about you today and wondering which flavor you would get next time? I bet there are no bad flavors in heaven-am I right? I love you! Mr. Wayne
Wayne Gordon <wgordon@cscsystems.com>
Hermitage, TN USA - Tuesday, March 27, 2007 8:21 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

As the birds sing, "Good Morning," I am thinking of you and remembering sweet Connor. I know Connor loved four legged animals of all types. Did he enjoy birds, as well?

I hope Rhonda's real estate and Eddie's route are both going well. I also hope Nana's work is going well. Please greet Nana and Poppy, too, for me. I am praying for you all.

Today's saint is John Henry Brent. He was missionary bishop to the Philippines, where he displayed ecumenical charity and leadership beyond what was generally known at the time. One of his prayers is currently used at the end of Morning Prayer. I will add a quote, that prayer, and the collect of the day, beneath my signature.

God bless you all.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

The unity of Christendom is not a luxury, but a necessity. The world will go limping until Christ's prayer that all may be one is answered. We must have unity, not at all costs, but at all risks. A unified Church is the only offering we dare present to the coming Christ, for in it alone will He find room to dwell.

~Charles Henry Brent (died March 27, 1929)

Lord Jesus Christ, you stretched out your arms of love on the hard wood of the cross that everyone might come within the reach of your saving embrace: So clothe us in your Spirit that we, reaching forth our hands in love, may bring those who do not know you to the knowledge and love of you; for the honor of your Name. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 101, The End Of Morning Prayer

The Collect For The Feast Of Charles Henry Brent, March 27:

Heavenly Father, whose Son prayed that we all might be one: deliver us from arrogance and prejudice, and give us wisdom and forbearance, that, following your servant Charles Henry Brent, we may be united in one family with all who confess the Name of thy Son Jesus Christ: who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.

Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, March 27, 2007 6:26 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I am thinking of you, and of sweet Connor, on another sunny morning. I have just paused, here at my keyboard, to pray for all of you, and for Nana and Poppy, Beverly and Garvin, Johnny and Chad, Tammy and her family, and all of Connor's great grandmothers. May God bless you all.

Since March 25 fell on a Sunday, this year, we celebrate the Annunciation today. I will place the collect beneath my signature.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Pour your grace into our hearts, O Lord; that we who have known the incarnation of your Son Jesus Christ, announced by an angel to the Virgin Mary, may by his cross and passion be brought unto the glory of his resurrection; who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, page 240
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, March 26, 2007 7:14 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

We had our annual Children at the Well Youth Storytelling this afternoon, in Niskayuna. It was very well attended. A local folk musician, Paul Strausman, wrote a song for the event called "Here in Our Circle." We also had a vegetarian potluck, as part of the three and a half hour event. It was a lot of fun, and I am sure Connor would have loved it.

Beneath my signature, I will add the collect we used this weekend.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Almighty God, you alone can bring into order the unruly wills and affections of sinners: Grant your people grace to love what you command and desire what you promise; that, among the swift and varied changes of the world, our hearts may surely there be fixed where true joys are to be found; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, page 219
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, March 25, 2007 11:37 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I am thinking of you both and remembering Connor on a sunny late March day. I have just paused, here, at my keyboard, to pray for both of you, for Nana and Poppy and Beverly and Garvin, and for all of Connor's other family members. May God comfort, bless, and sustain you all.

Beneath my signature, I will add a prayer I found recently, which might be helpful. I am sure, that despite the passage of time, that you still mourn for Connor and always will. He is missed by many.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Guide Me Through These Dark Days

O Lord, I am torn up with grief.
I know you are there, but I cannot see past
my sorrow and tears.
Be with me, Lord, and do not take
my unhappiness to heart.
Rather, work within me to guide me through
these dark days
and bring your light to my life,
so that I may see your goodness, even in my mourning.

~Maureen Pratt, in Peace in the Storm
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, March 24, 2007 1:09 PM CDT

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Really enjoyed the site, very informative.
Steven Trimmer <scsica@yahoo.com>
New York, NY USA - Friday, March 23, 2007 2:01 PM CDT

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Hi Eddie & Rhonda,
I don't know if you remember me or not but my name is Chris and I came to visit you with Lynn Heath last year. Lynn and I work on her card ministry together so I think of you often as I see your name and address. Please know that we still think of you and are praying for you. God bless you as you continue your struggles and walk with the Lord.

Blessings,
Chris
Chris Altum
Mount Orab, OH USA - Friday, March 23, 2007 1:50 PM CDT

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Thinking of your family and always praying.
God Bless

www.caringbridge.org/visit/kathydubois
Please visit Kathy and leave words of encouragement
Jackie
WPB, FL - Friday, March 23, 2007 9:53 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

Last night, Andrew ordered, went for, and paid for pizza and wings, so that we could watch a DVD that Kristen needed to see for one of her classes, together. He is on spring break, so he and I have also done some shopping together, and we saw Amazing Grace earlier in the week. I wish you could be doing things with Connor this week.

God bless you both, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, March 23, 2007 8:30 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I am thinking of you both, and remembering Connor today. Please let Nana and Poppy and Beverly and Garvin know that I am thinking of them, as well. May God bless you all.

I am adding the collect of the day. I have had some neat prayer cards from The de Koven Society. One of de Koven's sayings is, "The gestures and practices by which we recognize the presence of Christ do not matter. Only Christ matters."

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Almighty and everlasting God, the source and perfection of all virtues, who inspired your servant James de Koven to do what is right and to preach what is true: Grant that all ministers and stewards of your mysteries may impart to your faithful people, by word and example, the knowledge of your grace; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, March 22, 2007 6:28 PM CDT

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Hey I love the site, keep up the great work. I pray to the Lord that he gives you his strength to carry on.
Pastor Gato Ade <gato.ade@gmail.com>
- Thursday, March 22, 2007 5:56 PM CDT

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I just tried to sign the guestbook but it did not take. I just wanted to let you know that I have been thinking of all of you. Connor is in my thoughts often.
We would love to see you both sometime. You would be surprised how big Hayden has gotten.
We love you,
Lori Pierce and family
Lori P <hayden01@tds.net>
Mt Juliet, tn - Thursday, March 22, 2007 2:32 PM CDT

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Rhonda and Eddie, I am just thinking of you both on this spring afternoon. I hope all is well. Please know you all are in my prayers. I think of Connor often.
Love Always,
Lori Pierce
Lori Pierce <hayden01@tds.net>
Mt Juliet, Tn - Thursday, March 22, 2007 2:29 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I am thinking about Connor on the first day of spring. We do not have daffodils here yet, but William Wordsworth's poem about daffodils comes to mind, so I will leave the words, as an expression of beauty for you to enjoy.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

I wandered lonely as a Cloud
That floats on high o'er Vales and Hills,
When all at once I saw a crowd,
A host of golden daffodils;
Beside the lake, beneath the trees,
Fluttering and dancing in the breeze.
Continuous as the stars that shine
And twinkle on the milky way,
They stretched in never-ending line
Along the margin of a bay:
Ten thousand saw I at a glance,
Tossing their heads in sprightly dance.
The waves beside them danced, but they
Out-did the sparkling waves in glee:-
A poet could not but be gay
In such a jocund company:
I gazed-and gazed-but little thought
What wealth the show to me had brought:
For oft when on my couch I lie
In vacant or in pensive mood,
They flash upon that inward eye
Which is the bliss of solitude,
And then my heart with pleasure fills,
And dances with the Daffodils.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, March 21, 2007 5:53 PM CDT

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- Tuesday, March 20, 2007 10:27 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I am thinking of Connor, and of his family, this morning. I hope you, and all the rest, are doing well.

Today's saint is one Connor may have liked, as Cuthbert loved animals. I will place the collect beneath my signature.

God bless you always, and of course God bless your little veternarian, Connor Jordan Hunley.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Almighty God, who called Cuthbert from following the flock to be a shepherd of your people: Mercifully grant that, as he sought in dangerous and remote places those who had erred and strayed from your ways, so we may seek the indifferent and the lost, and lead them back to you; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, March 20, 2007 10:06 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I was wondering why this did not show up in Connor's guest book earlier today. I left it in Jason Archer's book by mistake. I do think of both Connor and Jason a lot, and my prayers are for you, and for Pam and David Archer and their family.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I will remember Connor when I am in church, later today, for the Feast of St. Joseph. I will also think of Connor's paternal grandfather, who had this name.

God bless you both, and of course, God bless Connor.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

The Collect Of The Day:

O God, who from the family of your servant David raised up Joseph to be the guardian of your incarnate Son and the spouse of his virgin mother: Give us grace to imitate his uprightness of life and his obedience to your commands; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, March 19, 2007 5:57 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I am thinking of you both, and of Connor, on the day after a fairly heavy snowstorm. It's funny how some of us loved snow as children, but dread it a bit as adults. Connor being all boy, probably would have been outside this morning, building a fort, if he were here. My hot chocolate pot would have been on and available to him, as it always was for my boys, when they were young.

God bless you both, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

Gracious Father, whose blessed Son Jesus Christ came down from heaven to be the true bread which gives life to the world: Evermore give us this bread, that he may live in us, and we in him; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 219
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, March 18, 2007 10:34 AM CDT

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Happy St. Patrick's Day, Hunleys!

Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I am thinking of Connor, and of you both, on a snowy March day. I hope you are both well.

Since it is St. Patrick's Day, I am including a copy of the long poem, attributed to St. Patrick, known as the Lorica, and also as St. Patrick's Breastplate. The translation given here is by Cecil Frances Alexander, whose husband was Archbishop of Armagh, and thus the direct successor of Patrick. She published nearly 400 poems and hymns of her own, including There is a Green Hill Far Away, Once in Royal David's City, and All Things Bright and Beautiful.

God bless you both, and of course, God bless Connor.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

The Lorica, or, St. Patrick's Breastplate:

I bind unto myself today
the strong Name of the Trinity,
by invocation of the same,
the Three in One, and One in Three.

I bind this day to me forever,
by power of faith, Christ's Incarnation;
his baptism in the Jordan river;
his death on cross for my salvation;
his bursting from the spiced tomb;
his riding up he heavenly way;
his coming at the day of doom:
I bind unto myself today.

I bind unto myself the power
of the great love of cherubim;
the sweet "Well done" in judgement hour;
the service of the seraphim;
confessors' faith, apostles' word,
the patriarchs' prayers, the prophets' scrolls;
all good deeds done unto the Lord,
and purity of virgin souls.

I bind unto myself today
the virtues of the starlit heaven,
the glorious sun's life-giving ray,
the whiteness of the moon at even,
the flashing of the lightning free,
the whirling wind's tempestuous shocks,
the stable earth, the deep salt sea,
around the old eternal rocks.

I bind unto myself today
the power of God to hold and lead,
his eye to watch, his might to stay,
his ear to hearken to my need;
the wisdom of my God to teach,
his hand to guide, his shield to ward;
the word of God to give me speech,
his heavenly host to be my guard.

[Against the demon snares of sin,
the vice that gives temptation force,
the natural lusts that war within,
the hostile men that mar my course;
of few or many, far or nigh,
in every place, and in all hours
against their fierce hostility,
I bind to me these holy powers.

Against all Satan's spells and wiles,
against false words of heresy,
against the knowledge that defiles
against the heart's idolatry,
against the wizard's evil craft,
against the death-wound and the burning
the choking wave and poisoned shaft,
protect me, Christ, till thy returning.]

Christ be with me, Christ within me,
Christ behind me, Christ before me,
Christ beside me, Christ to win me,
Christ to comfort and restore me,
Christ beneath me, Christ above me,
Christ in quiet, Christ in danger,
Christ in hearts of all that love me,
Christ in mouth of friend and stranger.

I bind unto myself the Name,
the strong Name of the Trinity,
by invocation of the same,
the Three in One, and One in Three.
Of whom all nature hath creation,
eternal Father, Spirit, Word:
praise to the Lord of my salvation,
salvation is of Christ the Lord.

Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/i/i024.html

Here is the collect of the day:

Almighty God, who in your providence chose your servant Patrick to be the apostle of the Irish people, to bring those who were wandering in darkness and error to the true light and knowledge of you: Grant us so to walk in that light, that we may come at last to the light of everlasting life; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and ever. Amen.

Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, March 17, 2007 11:36 AM CDT

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With Much Love
Irish Sammi & her Irish Mommy <humphity@gmail.com>
Always Missing & Remembering *Connor* - Saturday, March 17, 2007 10:46 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I have just viewed Connor's pictures, once again. They always make me smile. God bless your sweet sunshine boy.

Since tomorrow is St. Patrick's Day, I will leave you a quote from the saint, himself.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

God in All

He inspires all.
He gives life to all.
He dominates all.
He supports all.
He lights the light of the sun.
He furnishes the light of the night.
He has made springs in dry land.
He is the God of heaven and earth,
   of sea and rivers
   of sun, moon, and stars,
   of the lofty mountain and the lowly valley,
   the God above heaven,
   and in heaven,
   and under heaven.

~St. Patrick, in The Wisdom of the Celts, Compiled by David Adam
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, March 16, 2007 6:29 AM CDT

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lome, kpope togo - Thursday, March 15, 2007 4:01 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I am thinking of Connor, and of you both, on a March day of hard rain, with the potential for sleet and a lot of snow tonight, and all day tomorrow. From time to time, I have mentioned a book of prayer thoughts, given to me by my friend, Gert. Today's thought goes perfectly with our weather, so I am leaving it for you.

God bless you always, and God bless all of Connor's many loved ones, and Linda and all of her family.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

It is the wind and the rain, O Lord, the cold and the storm that make this earth of Thine to blossom and bear its fruit. So in our lives it is storm and stress and hurt and suffering that make real men and women bring the world's work to its highest perfection. Let us learn then in these growing years to respect the harder sterner aspects of life together with its joy and laughter, and to weave them all into the great web which hangs holy to the Lord.

~W.E.B. Du Bois
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, March 15, 2007 12:18 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

Connor was remembered at Stations of the Cross earlier today. May God always bless your sweet sunshine boy.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, March 14, 2007 3:06 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I was unable to sign Connor's guest book yesterday, as we had difficulty with our internet connection, which has only been repaired just now. Andrew and I had lunch at Pizza Hut Buffet, which is becoming a happy Monday habit. They had a really good macaroni and cheese with small pieces of broccoli and of red and orange peppers, which I really enjoyed, along with salad. Andrew had lots and lots of pizza and bread sticks, which is probably what Connor would have enjoyed.

God bless you both. I think about you every day, and you and Connor's grandparents are all in my prayers.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, March 13, 2007 6:05 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I have just viewed Connor's pictures. They always bring me joy. God bless his sweet spirit.

My thoughts are with you both, and with Nana and Poppy. Perhaps the short prayer below will be of some help.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

O God, you are my rock, my rescue, and my refuge. I leave it all quietly to You.

~George Appleton (1902-1993)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, March 11, 2007 12:33 AM CDT

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Hi Rhonda and Eddie,
Spring has sprung here! It is a beautiful day today, I know this weather won't last too long as it is March in WI. but we welcome the break of nice temperatures and beautiful sunshine, reminding us of your sunshine boy.:)
Know he is daily on our minds and in our hearts!
WE MISS CONNOR SO MUCH AND WE LOVE YOU!
Loved Mr. Wayne's entry, so thought provoking and I loved what he said about the ice cream and Connor, what was Connor' favorite flavor, or did he like them all?....last week end Dave and I went to the Dairy Queen for Peanut Buster Parfaits....mmmmmm good!
Take care,
God Bless,
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Saturday, March 10, 2007 2:11 PM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I will remember Connor, at Holy Eucharist, this weekend. I am thinking of you both and of all of Connor's loved ones.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

The Collect For This Weekend:

Almighty God, you know that we have no power in ourselves to help ourselves: Keep us both outwardly in our bodies and inwardly in our souls, that we may be defended from all adversities which may happen to the body, and from all evil thoughts which may assault and hurt the soul; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 218
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, March 10, 2007 10:28 AM CST

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great site
ernesto <Ernesto.Gonzalez4411@yahoo.com>
el paso, tx usa - Friday, March 9, 2007 3:42 PM CST

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Just as at sea those who are carried away from the direction of the harbor bring themselves back on course by a clear sign, so Scripture may guide those adrift on the sea of life back into the harbor of the divine will.

~St. Gregory Of Nyssa

Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I am thinking of you both, and remembering Connor, on another Friday morning. The sun is out, and the birds are singing, here in southern Saratoga County. I hope that is true where you are, as well.

Beneath my signature, I will add the collect of the day.

God bless you always, God bless Nana and Poppy, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Almighty God, who have revealed to your Church your eternal Being of glorious majesty and perfect love as one God in Trinity of Persons: Give us grace that, like your bishop Gregory of Nyssa, we may continue steadfast in the confession of this faith, and constant in our worship of you, Father, Son, and Holy Spirit, who live and reign for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, March 9, 2007 6:37 AM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I am looking at the cute dachshund calendar that Andrew gave me for Christmas. (It is his tradition to give me one for the computer room every year.) The particular picture, for March, reminds me of Connor and his great love for animals. As we imagine Connor having that heavenly ice cream that Mr. Wayne mentions, so we can also see Connor watering the horses and playing with the cats and dogs of God's Country. This image is true, as Jesus, himself, promised to prepare the place.

God bless you both, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

This quote also goes along with what Mr. Wayne wrote.

You who have received so much love, share it with others. Love others the way that God has loved you, with tenderness.

~Mother Teresa
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, March 8, 2007 11:08 AM CST

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Hi Eddie & Rhonda,

I hope today is a good day for you both. I hope that God is continuing to shower you with great blessings and the comfort that you need to make this walk without Connor's physical presence by your side.

I guess we don't always understand the 'why' of life. Why can God allow things to occur that causes pain in the lives of the innocent and undeserving? Why do evil people seem to prosper? Why do children have to die? All very tough questions and none that any human can understand-let alone answer.

Is it possible that young children like Connor are doing God's will even when being physically absent? Absolutely. I believe God's power can live on through the life of someone long after they cross the finish line. Do I believe God 'chooses' certain individuals to take on that role? I'm not sure about that one. I do believe nothing happens in this life without God's directly causing it or indirectly allowing it to occur. But, I'm not sure that God sits on his throne dishing out choices for his creation that includes little children suffering and leaving this life way too soon. Some of it happens because we don't live in a perfect world. Sickness happens. Accidents occur.

If there is anything positive we have to look forward to, it is this... God has prepared the most perfect place for us. It is free from the pain and suffering this life knows. There is no sorrow there. There is no chance of bad things happening. We will be in the presence of God himself. Hopefully, we can find comfort in knowing we have the opportunity of living with God forever.

May God continue to bless you as you bless others. Thank you for the example you live and the care and love you have for Connor, family, and friends.

In Christian love,
Wayne

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Connor, I went to the freezer and got some ice cream a few days back that probably was a little past the good stage. When you see ice crystals hovering around the ice cream, you know the flavor isn't going to be too great. That made me think about the ice cream in Heaven. I bet it's always tasty and plenty of it! You'll have to share your favorite flavor with me one day.
I love you lots! Mr. Wayne
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Wayne Gordon <wgordon@cscsystems.com>
Hermitage, TN USA - Thursday, March 8, 2007 8:02 AM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

Connor was remembered, earlier today, at Stations of the Cross, at St. George's. I also prayed for both of you, and for Nana and Poppy, while in the nave.

Please remember that I am here, if you need anything at all.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, March 7, 2007 2:33 PM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I am thinking of you today, with love and prayers. I am remembering Connor today, with love and prayers, as well. May God bless you all.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, March 6, 2007 2:35 AM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I am thinking of you both, as we begin another work week. I hope this message finds you both doing well in business and in health.

I have just viewed Connor's pictures again. Connor is always in my thoughts and prayers.

God bless you both, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, March 5, 2007 4:22 AM CST

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Hi Rhonda and Eddie,
Thinking of you and your sunshine boy....missing him and loving him with all our hearts...sending love to you two too!
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Sunday, March 4, 2007 8:14 PM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

Our World Day of Prayer Celebration was very beautiful. Many people worked well together to make it a success. The next service, May Fellowship Day, will be at St. George's. I remembered Connor, in prayer, as I entered the sanctuary of St. Edward's, this morning, and later, at Eucharist, at St. George's. May God bless his sweet spirit!

Beneath my signature, I will add the collect for the weekend.

God bless you both.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

O God, whose glory it is always to have mercy: Be gracious to all who have gone astray from your ways, and bring them again with penitent hearts and steadfast faith to embrace and hold fast the unchangeable truth of your Word, Jesus Christ your Son; who with you and the Holy Spirit lives and reigns, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 218
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, March 4, 2007 0:37 AM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

This will be a quickie, as I am getting ready to leave for the Clifton Park/Malta World Day of Prayer Celebration. The topic is United Under God's Tent, and the service was written by ecumenical church women from Paraguay. I have attended many WDP celebrations, over the years, and this is my seventeenth time on the local planning committee. I always enjoy it very much.

While at World Day of Prayer, and later today, at Eucharist, I will remember Connor.

God bless you all.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

Be glad of life because it gives you the chance to love and to work and to play and to look at the stars.

~Henry Van Dyke (wrote lyrics to Joyful, Joyful, We Adore Thee)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, March 3, 2007 7:14 AM CST

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Jesus cannot forget us; we have been graven on the palms of his hands.

~Lois Picillo

Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

Greetings on another Friday in Lent. I am remembering Connor, this morning, and I am thinking of you both, and of all of Connor's other loved ones.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

And through these days of penitence,
and through thy Passiontide,
yea, evermore, in life and death,
Jesus! with us abide.

Abide with us, that so, this life
of suffering over-past,
an Easter of unending joy
we may attain at last!

~Last Two Verses, Hymn Number 142, The Hymnal 1882
Words By Claudia Frances Hernaman (1838-1898)

Music St. Flavian
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/l/l511.html
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, March 2, 2007 6:38 AM CST

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Thinking of you both tonight...

Love to you,

Kriste
My Big Brother - Tracy Lanius <Kristewithane@comcast.net>
Goodlettsville, TN USA - Thursday, March 1, 2007 9:24 PM CST

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Thinking of you and sending love and prayers from Scotland, Rosi

www.caringbridge.org/hi/kayla
rosi <rosipullin@hotmail.com>
glasgow, scotland - Thursday, March 1, 2007 6:29 PM CST

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I'm thinking of you today.
Lisa
Mount Juliet, TN USA - Thursday, March 1, 2007 2:13 PM CST

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Memories, memories......It is the first of the month again, it seems like that day comes faster and faster every month. you know I am thinking of you both with love and prayers. I see Colette has beat me here..... what a faithful person you are Colette. I mostly send emails any more.....
Sharon <sholweger5@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, March 1, 2007 7:07 AM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I was thinking of Connor yesterday and of all of the things that were unique to him, such as his love of go-carts, his pets, Zoe and Doris, his great sense of humor, his courage, and his wonderful smile. Connor is not, and he will not be, forgotten.

My thoughts and prayers are with you both, and with Nana and Poppy, and all of Connor's other loved ones, on another first of the month.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

Nothing loved is ever lost or perished.

~Madeleine L'Engle, in A Ring of Endless Light
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, March 1, 2007 6:31 AM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I expect to attend Eucharist, at St. George's, this morning, and then, later in the day, I will help Father Bill lead Stations of the Cross. I will remember sweet Connor in the chapel, during Eucharist, and later, beneath the Jesus and the Children stained glass window, while I am there either before, or after, Stations. May God always bless all of you, and may God also bless all those other lives that are closely linked with yours.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, February 28, 2007 5:52 AM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

My thoughts are with you both early on another Lenten morning. Since Andrew and Kristen do not have classes, or work, early on Tuesdays, we may go to Pizza Hut for the buffet later in the day. I mentioned it when they were here together last night, and Kristen laughed, as his face lit right up. I think your little hero would probably enjoy it as much as my guy always has.

May your memories of Connor be sweet, and may God bless you all.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Lord, when the times are dark and I feel no joy, may I trust in You. How thankful I am for Your light. Amen.

~Author Unknown
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, February 27, 2007 2:50 AM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I don't have much to say, as I am still struggling with my cold, but I am thinking of you and of your sweet sunshine boy. I am also thinking of Linda, Bob, and their family. May God bless you all!

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, February 26, 2007 6:36 PM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

Since I have had a cold this week, I did not attend church yesterday or today, but I will give you the collect for the first Sunday in Lent. I am pausing, here, at my keyboard to remember Connor and to say a prayer for both of you. I am also praying for all of Connor's grandparents today.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

Almighty God, whose blessed Son was led by the Spirit to be tempted by Satan: Come quickly to help us who are assaulted by many temptations; and, as you know the weaknesses of each of us, let each one find you mighty to save; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer

In Him, Who Is Always Mighty To Save.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, February 25, 2007 11:31 AM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

Earlier this week, I "lost my voice," and now I am up in the night coughing. I am going to try to go back to bed in a few minutes, but thought, since I am up, that I would sign Connor's guest book. I hope you both have avoid all winter illnesses and are having a good month.

Beneath my signature is the collect for the day.

God bless you both, and God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

O Almighty God, who in the place of Judas chose your faithful servant Matthias to be numbered among the Twelve: Grant that your Church, being delivered from false apostles, may always be ordered and guided by faithful and true pastors; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, February 24, 2007 1:22 AM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

May this passage be of help to you today. I remember Connor lovingly, and I am praying for both of you, and for all of Connor's other loved ones.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

Walking With Grief

Do not hurry
as you walk with grief;
it does not help the journey.

Walk slowly,
pausing often:
do not hurry
as you walk with grief.

Be not disturbed
by memories that come unbidden.
Swiftly forgive:
and let Christ speak for you
unspoken words.
Unfinished conversation
will be resolved in Him.
Be not disturbed.

Be gentle with the one
who walks with grief.
If it is you,
be gentle with yourself.
Swiftly forgive;
walk slowly,
pausing often.

Take time, be gentle
as you walk with grief.

COME NOW
Come now
live in us.
Let us stay in You,
since if we be all in You,
we cannot be far from one another,
though some may be in heaven
and some upon earth.

~Adapted from a passage in David Elginbrod by George MacDoanld, in Celtic Daily Prayer From the Northumbria Community
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, February 23, 2007 5:02 AM CST

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Lenten Blessings!

Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

Connor was remembered, at St. George's, last night. I also thought of Kevin, and of others, from your area. I prayed for you and for Linda and Bob and their family. God bless you all.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

In all adversity, our worship of God is joyful, our life is hopeful, our future is secure. There is nothing we can lose on earth that can rob us of the treasure God has given us and will give us.

~The Anglican Digest
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, February 22, 2007 6:05 AM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

Connor was remembered, at a service of Imposition of Ashes and Holy Eucharist, this morning, at St. George's. I thought of him, several times during the service, and I prayed for both of you. I also thought of Linda and Bob and their merged family. May God bless you all!

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

Lord, who throughout these forty days
for us didst fast and pray,
teach us with thee to mourn our sins,
and close by thee to stay.

As thou with Satan didst contend
and didst the victory win,
O give us strength in thee to fight,
in thee to conquer sin.

As thou didst hunger bear and thirst,
so teach us, gracious Lord,
to die to self, and chiefly live
by thy most holy word.

And through these days of penitence,
and through thy Passiontide,
yea, evermore, in life and death,
Jesus! with us abide.

Abide with us, that so, this life
of suffering over-past,
an Easter of unending joy
we may attain at last!

Words: Claudia F. Hernaman, 1873
The Hymnal 1982, # 142

Tune: St. Flavian
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/l/l511.html
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, February 21, 2007 11:32 AM CST

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I just tried to sign in but it wouldn't let me. I just wanted you to know that you are all on my heart today.
I love you and Angel Connor!
Lori pierce <hayden01@tds.net>
Mt Juliet, TN - Wednesday, February 21, 2007 11:24 AM CST

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Rhonda and Eddie--just wanting you to know that you all are on my heart today. I hope you are doing well.
I love you both and Angel Connor,
Lori P
Lori pierce <hayden01@tds.net>
mt Juliet, TN - Wednesday, February 21, 2007 11:23 AM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,
Thinking of you daily and NEVER forgetting your sunshine boy Connor. I haven't signed any Caringbridge sites in quite awhile. I have been down and out with a sore throat and cold, just feeling plain old lousy, but feeling much better today, maybe because it is 40 out today....above zero, not below:)
Take gentle care,
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Tuesday, February 20, 2007 5:35 PM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I am thinking of both of you and remembering Connor on a nice February morning. I will remember him at church tomorrow during the Eucharist for Ash Wednesday.

When my boys were little, they often wanted to light a candle at church. Because of the danger of fire, we had very strict rules about how they could do that, of course. Something got me thinking about doing that with them, this morning, and of the prayer we used to offer, toward the end of our shared candle devotions. It is one that may be of help to you, so I will leave it beneath my signature.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

Almighty God, we entrust all who are dear to us to your never-failing care and love, for this life and the life to come, knowing that you are doing for them better things than we can desire or pray for, through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 831
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, February 20, 2007 9:31 AM CST

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Happy Presidents' Day, Hunleys!

Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

In New York, this is a school vacation week. When my guys were little, we spent it with my aunt and uncle and my cousins and their families. It was a time for playing outside in the snow, going to movies, baking, ice skating, games, bowling, and checking out the area museums. When they got older, visiting time diminished, due to school sports, but, when here, we added Albany River Rats (hockey) Games, to our fun. I am sure similar things would have been on the agenda for Connor. How I wish he could be with you today!

God bless you both, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, February 19, 2007 11:57 AM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

Connor was remembered, in Eucharist, this morning, at St. George's. I also raised both of you, all of Connor's grandparents, and many of Connor's other relatives, in prayer. May God bless you all.

Beneath my signature is the collect for today and one of the hymns used in the service, on this, the last Sunday before Lent.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

O God, who before the passion of your only-begotten Son revealed his glory upon the holy mountain: Grant to us that we, beholding by faith the light of his countenance, may be strengthened to bear our cross, and be changed into his likeness from glory to glory; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 217

O wondrous type! O vision fair
of glory that the Church may share,
which Christ upon the mountain shows,
where brighter than the sun he glows!

With Moses and Elijah nigh
the incarnate Lord holds converse high;
and from the cloud, the Holy One
bears record to the only Son.

With shining face and bright array,
Christ deigns to manifest today
what glory shall be theirs above
who joy in God with perfect love.

And faithful hearts are raised on high
by this great vision's mystery;
for which in joyful strains we raise
the voice of prayer, the hymns of praise.

O Father, with the eternal Son,
and Holy Spirit, ever One,
vouchsafe to bring us by thy grace
to see thy glory face to face.

Words: Latin, fifteenth century

Music: Wareham, melody William Knapp (1698-1768)

Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/o/o709.html

Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, February 18, 2007 1:13 PM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I am thinking of you, early on a Saturday morning. I will be remembering Connor at Eucharist this weekend.

God bless you both on Linda and Bob's wedding day, and God bless them and all of their children, family, and friends.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

Love is a fruit in season at all times, and within reach of every hand.

~Mother Teresa
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, February 17, 2007 5:30 AM CST

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Happy Valentine's Day!!!

With Much Love
Miss Samantha Therese & her Mommy <humphity@gmail.com>
Always Missing & Remembering *Connor* - Wednesday, February 14, 2007 10:12 AM CST

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Hi Rhonda. Just wanted to say hello and wish you a Happy Valentines Day. I know it's never really "happy" when someone is missing, but praying you and Eddie have as good a day as possible.

We think of you often. We continue to wear our "Connor's Courage" gear often and remember one amazing boy.

much love,hope and courage
Carol
Carol (Reid and Randon's page) <dmill3@insightbb.com>
bowling green, ky - Wednesday, February 14, 2007 7:27 AM CST

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Happy Valentine's Day Hunleys!

My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, February 14, 2007 3:57 AM CST

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Happy Valentines Day from our hearts to yours!!

Always in our thougths prayers and hearts...
~*~Samantha's Story~*~
...because growing up is hard enough without cancer!!


karen n sammi <mpbowler1@aol.com>
- Tuesday, February 13, 2007 1:53 PM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I believe you may be having a major snowstorm today. We are supposed to be getting one, beginning late in the afternoon, or early in the evening. I will use this opportunity to wish you both a very Happy Valentine's Day, just in case our internet service is acting up later. May God bless you, Nana and Poppy, Beverly and Garvin, Chad and Johnny, Tabitha and Donnie and the girls, and all of Connor's other loved ones, and may you all be safe and well this week.

Beneath my signature, I will add some of my favorite quotations about love.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

Love doesn't just sit there like a stone; it has to be made, like bread, remade all the time, made new.

~Ursula K. LeGuin

People who love each other fully and truly are the happiest people in the world. They may have little, they may have nothing, but they are happy people. Everything depends on how we love one another.

~Mother Teresa

Duty calls us to do things well, but love makes us do them beautifully.

~Phillips Brooks
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, February 13, 2007 7:34 AM CST

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To love abundantly is to live forever.

~Henry Drummond

Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

Connor loved abundantly, so he lives abundantly in your hearts. May God bless his sweet spirit.

God bless you both, and God bless Nana and Poppy, and all of Connor's other loved ones.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, February 12, 2007 5:25 AM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

That little town north of Syracuse, North Redfield, is, according to our channel 13 weather, at 131 inches of snow, in one weeks's time. It is certainly hard to imagine having to handle that much. We have been dry here for the last few days, and the birds have been singing this morning. They remind me of a beautiful hymn, which I will place below my signature.

My thoughts and prayers are with you today.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

Joyful, joyful, we adore thee,
God of glory, Lord of love;
hearts unfold like flowers before thee,
opening to the sun above.
Melt the clouds of sin and sadness;
drive the dark of doubt away;
Giver of immortal gladness,
fill us with the light of day!

All thy works with joy surround thee,
earth and heaven reflect thy rays,
stars and angels sing around thee,
center of unbroken praise.
Field and forest, vale and mountain,
flowery meadow, flashing sea,
singing bird and flowing fountain
call us to rejoice in thee.

Thou art giving and forgiving,
ever blessing, ever blessed,
wellspring of the joy of living,
ocean depth of happy rest!
Thou our Father, Christ our Brother,
all who live in love are thine;
teach us how to love each other,
lift us to the joy divine.

Mortals, join the mighty chorus,
which the morning stars began;
Father-love is reigning o'er us,
brother love binds man to man.
ever singing, march we onward,
victors in the midst of strife,
joyful music leads us sunward
in the triumph song of life.

Words: Henry Van Dyke, 1908

Music: Hymn to Joy, Ludwig van Beethoven (1770-1827)

Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/j/j251.html
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, February 11, 2007 10:19 AM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie and Mr. Wayne,

We did not have 100 inches of snow. My cousin, Marge, had a lot of snow, but because of constant drifting, she does not know how much she had. She works in Oswego, NY, a 20 minute drive from her home, now confirmed to have had 80 inches, and there is a place named North Redfield, also near her home, which had an official 111 inches. The areas that are hard hit with snow are about a five hour drive from us in Wayne, Oswego, and Lewis Counties. We are in Saratoga County, near Albany, Schenectady, and Rensselaer Counties, and this year, so far, we have had very light amounts of snow.

Elaine has been sick for two weeks. Yesterday, I ran some errands for her, and today, I am taking her a hot lunch and enough food for dinner, as her son, who lives with her, is on a day trip, with his lodge, and will not be home until about midnight. I will eat lunch with her, to help her break up her day. She and I both think of Connor a lot.

I will remember Connor in Eucharist, and I am praying for both Rhonda and Eddie and Linda, Bob, and the children. May God bless you all, and Mr. Wayne Gordon, too.

Beneath my signature, I will add the collect for the day.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

O God, the strength of all who put their trust in you: Mercifully accept our prayers; and because in our weakness we can do nothing good without you, give us the help of your grace, that in keeping your commandments we may please you both in will and deed; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 216
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, February 10, 2007 8:45 AM CST

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I'm thinking of you and your very special Valentine, Connor. He's given strength and hope to so many of us. No one will ever forget his courage, his faith and his beautiful smile. I pray for you both many times throughout the week. Take care.
Lisa
Mount Juliet, TN USA - Friday, February 9, 2007 4:15 PM CST

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Hi Eddie & Rhonda,

Thinking about you guys this morning and hoping that you are doing well. Don't know about you, but I'm ready for some warmer weather! At least we haven't had to deal with all the snow that Colette and some of her neighbors have had! I heard some places had over 100 inches. WOW, you could get lost in there!!

I think about Connor often, but especially if I see a gokart or ice cream!

Many times you hear stories from the bible that speak of people in lesser positions, or how God uses people that we might not consider of 'high esteem' to do his work. When I think about Connor and many others in the Caring Bridge world, I think God chose the very best to spread his messages of love! Connor continues to influence me every single day. His life, as short as it was, continues to work in the lives of others. I don't believe God gave cancer to Connor, but I do believe he allowed Connor to be his ambassador in this world. Connor will be a force for good in the lives of many for a long time!

I love you both and I hope each day brings so many happy memories and the assurance of God's love.

Wayne
Wayne Gordon <wgordon@cscsystems.com>
Hermitage, TN USA - Friday, February 9, 2007 7:39 AM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I thought you might be interested in this. I was speaking with my cousin, who lives near Lake Ontario tonight, and she has only been to work once in the last four days, as she works in Oswego, NY, which has had 70 inches of snow in the last four days. None of her clients kept their appointments, Wednesday, the day she went in, but she was able to work on her records, while there. She also said that a little town, called North Redfield, there in Oswego County, had 111 inches of snow, and that it is snowing, in Oswego and Lewis Counties tonight, at a rate of three to five inches per hour. It makes me cold just thinking about it.

I wonder...Did Connor like snow? Did he ever experience really deep snow? What was his favorite snow activity? As a girl, I always liked sledding and building and playing in snow forts. My older son did not like snow much at all, but he did like shoveling out a place to play winter driveway basketball. Young Andrew loved to roll around and get wet in the snow. As he got older, he enjoyed snowball fights and making forts.

I hope you are well and safe.

God bless you always, and may your memories of Connor be sweet.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

A Collect For Fridays:

Almighty God, whose most dear Son went not up to joy but
first he suffered pain, and entered not into glory before he
was crucified: Mercifully grant that we, walking in the way
of the cross, may find it none other than the way of life and
peace; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord. Amen.

The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 99
Written By William Reed Huntington (1838-1909)


Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, February 9, 2007 0:20 AM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I am glad you were able to share Super Bowl Party Time with Linda. Andrew and Kristen went to a party on Sunday, as well, but he was unlucky enough to have his cell phone slip from his pocket to the floor, when he sat down. When he went to use it, Kristen found it on the floor, stepped on. The screen is smashed, so he can't text, and he also can't see the phone number list. He is still able to call me, and to call those few others, whose numbers he has memorized. I feel bad about this, as the phone was a Christmas present to him, from me, in 2005, and it was a nice one. I guess he has lost many of the pictures he had in the phone as well. In the total scheme of life, this is a little thing, however.

I hope you are both well and that your work is satisfying. I am praying for you, here, at the keyboard, once again.

God bless you, and God bless all of Connor's loved ones.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, February 8, 2007 8:02 AM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I am on the computer quickly on a relatively busy day, but I want to remind you that I am remembering Connor and thinking of you both. I attended morning Eucharist, and I have been with Elaine, who is still not feeling too well.

God bless you both.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

P.S. Thank you, Linda Martin. I will be emailing you later today, or tomorrow, but if for some reason I am unable to do so, please KNOW that you and Bob will be in my prayers on February 17.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, February 7, 2007 3:23 PM CST

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Dear Collette, This is Linda Martin. You will find my email below my posting. I would love to hear from you. The wedding is Feb. 17th.

Rhonda and Eddie - Super Bowl was fun and I am so glad you were able to come. We are looking forward to spending the weekend in Gatlinburg next weekend with everyone. We will have so much fun together.
Linda MArtin <themartin7@bellsouth.net>
Hendersonville, TN - Tuesday, February 6, 2007 7:00 PM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

It was nice to see that someone made a Valentine with Connor's likeness. I am certainly thinking of both of you during this month of groundhogs, Valentines, humor, and love.

Please let Linda know that I am thinking of her and Bob, during this month, when they will become one, at the altar. May God bless them and you.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, February 6, 2007 10:35 AM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

Andrew did not have classes today, and Kristen did not have to go in until mid-afternoon, so we went to Pizza Hut for the lunch buffet. For some reason, the pasta on the bar was extra good. They also had out a lot of pizza types: Pepperoni, Hawaiian, Sausage, Buffalo Chicken, Supreme, and others, as well as Cherry and Apple dessert pizzas. I wonder what ones Connor would have selected. When Andrew was a little guy, he liked to buy a sticker from a machine at Pizza Hut. Probably that would have been fun for Connor, too. May God bless his sweet spirit.

Beneath my signature, I will add the collect for the day.

God bless you both, and God bless all of Connor's many loved ones.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

O God our Father, source of strength to all your saints, who brought the holy martyrs of Japan through the suffering of the cross to the joys of life eternal: Grant that we, being encouraged by their example, may hold fast the faith we profess, even to death itself; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, February 5, 2007 10:59 PM CST

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Hope you have a Happy Valentines Day!!! www.caringbridge.com/visit/brock1
Brock <blueturtle511@aol.com>
Harrisburg, Pa Usa - Monday, February 5, 2007 7:14 PM CST

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Dear Hunley Family,
Just checking in for an update and to let you know you all are still in my prayers and thoughts. I still check in often and continue to be amazed at just how much of an effect Angel Connor has had on me. Hope all is well.
Love and blessings,
Tanya
Tanya Nicole Servis <tanyans83@yahoo.com>
Newark, DE USA - Sunday, February 4, 2007 9:44 PM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I have been having some difficulty with my internet connection today, so I am not sure if my previous message arrived. I do want you to know that Connor is in my thoughts this weekend. I am also praying for both of you, for Nana and Poppy, for Beverly and Garvin, and for all of Connor's loved ones. God bless you all.

I do not believe I have Linda's current email address, so please let her know I am thinking of her, and of her family.

Beneath my signature, I will add the collect for the day.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

Set us free, O God, from the bondage of our sins, and give us the liberty of that abundant life which you have made known to us in your Son our Savior Jesus Christ; who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.

The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 216
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, February 4, 2007 1:52 PM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

Connor has been remembered, at Eucharist, again this weekend. I thought of both of you, of Nana and Poppy, of Johnny and Chad, of Tabitha and her family, and of Beverly and Garvin, while at church, as well. I also remembered Kevin, Jason, Tracy, Karen, Justin, and others from you area, who passed all too quickly. May God bless you all.

The birds are singing outside my window. I hope you are experiencing beauty, where you are, as well.

Elaine is thinking of Connor. She is having a hard weekend, so I expect to be taking her to her chiropractor on Monday.

God bless you always, and God bless your sweet sunshine boy.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, February 4, 2007 11:37 AM CST

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Connor is alive through all of you. Your story touched me and I wanted to sat hello, and your family is in my heart.

You did indeed have (and still do have) one brave boy.


Hugs, Faith

30 year old w/Sticklers Syndrome, Seizures & MSK, Also Ma to Jessica 11 yrs old: Migraines and is on Topamax 25 mg daily and Loratidine & Antonio 7 : Pierre Robin Syndrome, Gerd, Pulmonary stenosis, Cleft Palate, Asthma, Velopharyngeal insufficiency, Mastoid air cell disease, Seizure History, Medullary Sponge Kidney's & Apnea

Meds: Keppra, Pulmnocort, Duoneb, Zantax 2x daily & Zyrtec once a day
WEBPAGE: http://www.caringbridge.org/visit/antonioherrera

http://www.myspace.com/4absdogs


Faith
Orlando, Fl USA - Sunday, February 4, 2007 9:24 AM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

Connor is living on through you, and through all who love him dearly. My thoughts and prayers are with you all today.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

They are not dead who live in lives they leave behind;
In those whom they have blessed, they live a life again,
And shall live, through the years,
Eternal life, and grow each day more beautiful
As time declares their good,
Forgets the rest, and prove.

~Hugh Robert Orr

Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, February 3, 2007 7:34 AM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

Connor was remembered at morning Eucharist, in the Chapel of All Angels, at St. George's, this morning. I was thinking of Connor as I rode to church, when I arrived in the chapel, and throughout the service. I also prayed for both of you, for all of Connor's grandparents, and for Connor's friends and supporters. May God bless you all.

Beneath my signature, I will add the collect of the day.

If you can, please let Linda know I am thinking of her and of her children. They, too, were held in prayer this morning, in the beauty of holiness.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

Collect For The Feast Of The Presentation (February 2):

Almighty and everliving God, we humbly pray that, as your only-begotten Son was this day presented in the temple, so we may be presented to you with pure and clean hearts by Jesus Christ our Lord; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 239
Colette
Clifton Park, NY - Friday, February 2, 2007 12:23 AM CST

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Blessed Father, in whose sight the death of your saints is Precious: We praise you for the abundant grace bestowed upon your servant Connor, the sweet son of Rhonda and Eddie Hunley, and the dear grandson of Diane, Carl, and Beverly. Let his memory continually be blessed among us, O Lord, that we may follow his example of courage, humor, and love, for Jesus Christ's sake, our only Mediator and Advocate. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY - Thursday, February 1, 2007 12:34 AM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie, just dropping by to let you know that you are so often in my thoughts and prayers. I hope today is a good day for you both. Love, Linda
linda champa <lachampa@mintz.com (Audrey's Umbrella)>
boston, ma usa - Thursday, February 1, 2007 7:38 AM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,
Thinking of you and your sunshine boy on this the first day of the month and the 27 month anniversary of Connor's GRAND entrance safety into the loving arms of God.
God Bless and know you are always in our prayers and Connor is forever in our hearts. WE LOVE YOU AND WE MISS CONNOR.
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Thursday, February 1, 2007 6:56 AM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I just want you to know that I am thinking of both of you, of Nana and Poppy, and of all of Connor's many other loved ones, as another first of the month is here. It doesn't seem possible, or right, that sweet Connor has been gone for 27 months. When I started signing his guest book, I never thought this would happen.

God bless you all. You are in my prayers, as I type, and at many other times.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

Grant, O Lord, to all who are bereaved, the spirit of faith and courage, that they may have strength to meet the days to come with steadfastness and patience; not sorrowing as those without hope, but in thankful remembrance of your great goodness, and in joyful expectation of eternal life with those they love. And this we ask in the Name of Jesus Christ our Savior. Amen.

~The Book of Common Prayer, Page 505
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, February 1, 2007 0:21 AM CST

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Dear Rhonda,
I am not sure if you remember me from my days as a Child Life intern at Vanderbilt, but I will surely never forget Connor. I was there the first and second time you came to the ER six years ago. I remember Connor loving Scooby Doo and I remember coloring with him in the playroom. I still have our picture that we took together on the Hem/Onc floor. From Nashville, I went to nursing school and became a Hem/Onc nurse. I have kept up with this website and still pray for you and Eddie all the time. You all made an impression on me that I will never forget. I am now expecting my first child and found out last week that it is a boy. I can only pray that I will be as loving and faithful a parent as you are. Please know thatI am thinking of you still. Much Love.
"Miss Courtney"
Courtney Burris Malouf <courtneyburris@hotmail.com>
Birmingham, AL USA - Wednesday, January 31, 2007 7:34 PM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

On the last day of January, I just want to say that I continue to remember Connor each and every day. May God bless him, and may God bless you both.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

Sorrow is a fruit; God does not make it grow on limbs too weak to bear it.

~Victor Hugo (1802-1885) author, statesman, and champion of human rights
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, January 31, 2007 12:25 AM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I have mentioned to you, at various times, a prayer book, from my friend, Gert. The quotation beneath my name is one of the thoughts for this week. May you feel some hope today.

God bless you both.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

In the middle of winter the buds prepare for spring.
Thank you God for unceasing life.

The dull, brown stalks of spent hydrangeas mirror my spent spirit. Yet green and blue and pink colors dance in my mind's eye for the spring within and without about to come.

I feel your presence in pealing cathedral bells, in insistent cawing crows, in intricate yellow petals of January forsythia, in new growth heralding coming spring.

Thank you God for hope.

~Marian Wright Edelman
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, January 30, 2007 8:51 PM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

Tonight, Andrew wanted a little ice cream, so we had Happy Ending Sundaes, at Friendly's. I thought of Connor as we ordered, as I often do. May God bless his sweet spirit.

I hope you are sleeping well and that you will find the strength and grace you need for the duties at hand this week.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, January 29, 2007 11:57 PM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,
It has been awhile since I have signed in, but that doesn't mean you haven't been thought about and prayed for! My mom has had some health issues and I have been trying to help her out and took her to dr. appointments etc. I think she is on the road to feeling well again. She had an infection in her colon and then the medication from that made her dizzy and sick to her stomach, now she has high potassium, which they are working on to bring down....always something it seems. I took her to the dentist this morning and she looked well and even asked to go shopping after, so I know she is feeling better.:)
Snowing here today, and very cold.
I pick Brandon and Ryan up at 3:30 and then tonight at 6 Dave and I are going to a college basketball game with friends.
Not much more from here,
Take gentle care and remember: WE LOVE YOU AND WE MISS CONNOR!
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Monday, January 29, 2007 12:58 AM CST

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Rhonda and Eddie, I have been thinking of you both and Angel Connor. I read the Bible verse that you said was one of Connor's favorites about the armour of God. I instantly thought of Connor. There are so many reminders. I hope you both are doing well. Please know that you are loved and prayed for.
Lori Pierce and family
Lori P. <hayden01@tds.net>
Mt Juliet, TN - Monday, January 29, 2007 10:06 AM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I have thought of Connor several times today. I think of Connor each and every day. He is not perished. He is not lost. He is with God, and all is well with him. It doesn't make it easy for you, however, so please be in touch, if I can help in any way, any way, at all.

Beneath my signature, I will add the collect we used this weekend.

God bless you both.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

Almighty and everlasting God, you govern all things both in heaven and on earth: Mercifully hear the supplications of your people, and in our time grant us your peace; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 215

Please give my greetings to Nana and Poppy and to Linda and her family. I have paused here, at my keyboard, to pray for all of them, and for both of you.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, January 28, 2007 10:57 PM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

As always, Wayne Gordon has written wisely and lovingly. Last night, I watched Diane Sawyer's story of poor children in Camden, NY. She said some of the viewers might wonder why she and her program did not solve the problems of the three featured children. One reason was that then, they would not be children that journalists could follow, study, and report upon. She also sited that there are so many other children, living in Camden, and throughout the United States, in poverty, and that part of bringing such a story, is providing awareness to others who can help. I truly believes that when God answers prayers in ways we would not prefer, it is, in part, so our witness and our abilities can go forward in helping others. Perhaps in some way, that thought adds to Wayne's thinking and speaks to you in hope, comfort, and/or strength, today. I hope that it does.

God bless you always, and God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley. I will be praying for you all, at Eucharist, this weekend, where I will serve as lector later today.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, January 27, 2007 11:43 AM CST

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Hi Eddie & Rhonda,

I should do a better job of leaving a note, but I do think about Connor each and every day as I do many in the Caring Bridge community. I hope today finds you both receiving some of God's richest blessings!

One of my other Caring Bridge friends, Dakota (www.caringbridge.com/sc/dakota), crossed the finish line a couple of weeks back. Like Connor, I was able to meet Dakota in person. Both of these young men have blessed my life incredibly. I hope those reading this message will visit Dakota's web site and leave a message to his family.

I suppose it's impossible to understand why these things happen to young, innocent children. Many question God's allowing children to suffer and some to cross the finish line. I don't have an answer and suspect no one else does either. But, I do believe God's promises are true and that we all have the opportunity of spending an eternity with him. Connor and Dakota have entered that wonderful promise a little earlier than others!

I hope today provides you both with many wonderful memories of your son. I hope you have the promise deep within your heart of one day joining in that promise.

Connor, be sure and show Dakota around. He's a little older than you but you can count on him being a true friend!

Love to everyone!
Wayne / Mr. Wayne
Wayne Gordon <wgordon@cscsystems.com>
Hermitage, TN USA - Friday, January 26, 2007 8:12 AM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I am thinking of Connor and of both of you, on a cold winter morning. May God bless you all!

I have also been thinking of Phillips Brooks, who has always been one of my favorite saints, and was looking through some of my files on him, earlier this morning, so I will leave you with another Brooks quotation, the collect, and his "For Today," prayer. I hope something in there is helpful to you today.

God bless all of those who love Connor Jordan Hunley, and God bless all people, everywhere, who do things beautifully for God.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

Do not pray for easy lives; pray to be stronger people! Do not pray
for tasks equal to your powers; pray for powers equal to your tasks,
then what you do in your world shall be no miracle, but you shall be a
miracle. Everyday you shall wonder at yourself, at the richness of
life, which has come to you by the grace of God.

~Phillips Brooks (1835-1893)

The Collect For The Feast Of Phillips Brooks, January 23:

O everlasting God, who called your servant Phillips Brooks to the ministry of preaching, and gave him wisdom, charity, and eloquence that he might speak the truth with grace and power: Grant, we pray, that all those whom you call to preach the Gospel may steep themselves in your word, and conform their lives to your will; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

For Today

O God:

Give me strength to live another day;

Let me not turn coward before its difficulties or prove recreant to its duties;

Let me not lose faith in other people;

Keep me sweet and sound of heart, in spite of ingratitude, treachery, or meanness;

Preserve me from minding little stings or giving them;

Help me to keep my heart clean, and to live so honestly and fearlessly that no outward failure can dishearten me or take away the joy of conscious integrity;

Open wide the eyes of my soul that I may see good in all things;

Grant me this day some new vision of thy truth;

Inspire me with the spirit of joy and gladness;

and make me the cup of strength to suffering souls;

in the name of the strong Deliverer, our only Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ.

~By Bishop Phillips Brooks, who penned the lyrics to O Little Town Of Bethlehem

The above prayer is in the inside cover of every issue of Forward Day By Day. Many people pray it day by day. Please join me in praying it today.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, January 26, 2007 6:35 AM CST

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Hey, Eddie and Rhonda...Been thinking of you both a lot lately, and coming here to look at the sweet photo of the three of you. I was given a newsletter by The Compassionate Friends organization, and thought especially of you two as I looked through it to see if there would be some value in it for Momma. I know you can relate so much more as a mother, Rhonda, to what she is feeling, even though Tracy was her much older "child".

Just wanted you to know you've been on my heart more than usual lately. Prayers continue for you both.

Love, love, love you,

Kriste
My Big Brother - Tracy Lanius <Kristewithane@comcast.net>
Goodlettsville, TN USA - Thursday, January 25, 2007 10:30 PM CST

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i wanted to let you know that i think of connor all the time....what a brave young man
tricia <triciabxny@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, January 25, 2007 11:21 AM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

It has been a busy and frustrating week here in our family. I will spare you a lot of details, except to say that various problems and mishaps, and related stress and fatigue, have kept me away from signing guest books. Also, we, and all of our closest friends, are all right.

That said, I want to remind you, that I do think of Connor, each and every day, whether I am able to sign in, or not. God bless you both, God bless Nana and Poppy, and God bless your sweet sunshine boy.

Wednesday was the Feast of Phillips Brooks, the author of the lyrics to O Little Town of Bethlehem, a gifted preacher, and the Bishop of Massachusetts. Beneath my signature, I will add my favorite Brooks quotation, as it does speak of the excellent care you gave Connor, care formed in faith and solid character. I have sent this to you previously, but since you are often in mind, when I see, or hear, the quote, I am sending it again.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

Duty calls us to do things well, but love makes us do them beautifully.

~Phillips Brooks (1835-1893)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, January 25, 2007 0:02 AM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I have remembered Connor and Kevin, at church. May God bless them both, and please remind Linda that I am thinking of her, Bob, and the children.

God bless you both, and of course, God bless your brave little trooper and sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

Nothing loved is ever lost, or perished.

~Madeleine L'Engle, American author
In A Ring of Endless Light
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, January 21, 2007 12:07 AM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

Connor, and many other children, were remembered Saturday afternoon, beneath the Jesus and the Children stained glass window. I also prayed for their parents and other loved ones. Additionally, I prayed for Connor, at the altar rail. May God always bless your sweet sunshine boy.

Beneath my signature, I will add the collect for the day.

Take care of yourselves, and may God bless you both.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

Give us grace, O Lord, to answer readily the call of our Savior Jesus Christ and proclaim to all people the Good News of his salvation, that we and the whole world may perceive the glory of his marvelous works; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 215
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, January 21, 2007 0:03 AM CST

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Think of Connor all the time. What a special boy he was. Now he is in heaven and peaceful. See elk on the road often and even on our property--knowing that Connor sees them too!!! Hope you both are doing well--your faith is such a great help. Love Claudia and Jean-Paul
Claudia Douesnard <cdouesnard@gmail.com>
Durango, CO USA - Saturday, January 20, 2007 2:49 PM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I just want you to know that I am thinking of you both and remembering sweet Connor, on a very windy day in Saratoga County. Please let Nana and Poppy and Linda and her family know that I am thinking of them, as well.

Elaine seems to be better. She is thinking of you, too.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, January 19, 2007 2:15 PM CST

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Joy and joy of best love and mercy of God and take his wisdom in yours hearts and joy for his love endures for ever with peace and hope in harmony,tell God´s wonderful deeds and salvation to men in Christ and pray for blessed revival soon.Thanks and bless.keijo sweden
keijo <keijoleppioja@hotmail.com>
sweden - Friday, January 19, 2007 5:17 AM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I was just about to sign Connor's guest book yesterday, when Elaine called and asked me to drive her to the hospital for some medical testing. It was routine, but she had a case of food poisoning last week, and she still felt weak. When done, we stopped at Friendly Ice Cream, there in Troy, so she could have a bowl of their wonderful chicken noodle soup. The good food and good company perked her up a bit, and she is feeling much better today. Of course, she and I both remember Connor, on a regular basis.

Last night, I was going through our computer files, and I came across some of the pictures of Connor you sent me. I have to say, I laughed aloud, when I saw beautiful pictures of Connor, that I hadn't viewed in a while. Connor sure had a great smile!

God bless your little trooper, and God bless both of you, Nana and Poppy, and all of Connor's other loved ones. Connor will be remembered beneath the Jesus and the Children stained glass tonight.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

What we have once enjoyed, we can never lose...all that we love deeply becomes a part of us.

~Helen Keller
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, January 18, 2007 9:59 AM CST

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God bless you always,
Angel Jen, SOEW
Lite a candle for your angels = Click
Angel Jen, SOEW (Jennie Ruth) <eaglet@mymacs.org>
Nashville Area, TN USA - Thursday, January 18, 2007 2:50 AM CST

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i just wanted to remind you that I come here every day and look at the pictures of you with Connor. I still keep both of you and Linda and the kids in my prayers every day. I hope things are going ok with you.
Sharon <sholweger5@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, January 17, 2007 1:35 PM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,
there is so much I would like to say to you and yet now that I have logged in, my fingers feel stuck on the keyboard. A lot I'd like to say and yet writing it, is different than saying it. "Black on white" makes it definite, kind of 'cold', unaided by the expression of the face or the eyes of the person who wishes to 'say' things.
'Black on white' sometimes does not truely express our feelings, producing words that sometimes can result offensive or even hurtful. No such aim in my intentions.
Maybe I'm not making much sense so far, I don't know.
I wanted to tell you that I cannot fully 'know' how you feel as you are living the unthinkable, as you are sailing such infinite seas of pain. But, I often think of you, especially on Connor's birthday, anniversary or during the Festivities. I could never forget your precious son, I could never forget you. I would like to thank you for having shared the gift of your son with us, his fight, his heart, his character, Connor. I thank you for sharing your hearts with us and for keeping doing so. Thank you for your Faith. Although I never met Connor, I miss him and my heart goes out to you both. I know one day you will hug him again, forever. If I ever met someone who fully understands the true meaning of Christmas, well, that's certainly you. May the God of Love bring you both comfort, each and every day until you hug your son again. Hugs.
Sabrina <morini@agriflex.it>
Italy - Tuesday, January 16, 2007 7:37 AM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

We are having a lot of ice in upstate New York. Large parts of Saratoga County are out of power, and the problem is expected to continue tomorrow, as the ice now melting, will refreeze, and the wind expected will make more branches snap off the trees. We haven't lost anything major, but we have heard snapping, see a lot of twigs down, and have heard sirens much of the day. The Clifton Park Center Mall, and many other Clifton Park businesses, are closed, due to lack of power. I am not complaining, as we have had a mild, fuel saving winter, so far.

I am thinking of you all, and I hope you are safe and well. (I do not know what the condidtions are in your area.)

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, January 15, 2007 4:47 PM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,
Thinking of you! I love coming to this site and looking at the pictures, they warm my heart, even on this cold Jan. evening. They are predicting a big storm for us tonight, we haven't had much snow at all this year just a few flurries here and there, we don't even have a dusting on the ground...Our grass is even green, very unusual for WI.....strange weather patterns everywhere this year:)
Hope all is well, daily you are in our thoughts and our prayers and Connor in our hearts. WE LOVE YOU AND WE MISS CONNOR.
Love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Sunday, January 14, 2007 6:51 PM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

Andrew and I were going to a Story Sunday, at the Glen Sanders Mansion, in Scotia, tonight, but it has been canceled, due to the weather. Right now, it is not doing much here, but we are supposed to have a severe winter mix later in the day and throughout the night. There were to be six tellers tonight, and I believe all live at some distance, so it wasn't worth them taking risks to get here. I believe this is the first time a Story Sunday has ever been canceled.

I did remember Connor, at Eucharist, yesterday afternoon. I was planning to go to church this morning, but I heard cars spinning and the salt trucks outside. It looked very icy on the sidewalk, grass, and driveway, and it also looked dark and drizzly, so I stayed home. It was a good thing, as I later had to help Andrew, and I couldn't walk in the driveway, as it was so slick. He sometimes drives my car, but today was the first time I ever suggested it, as I felt uncomfortable walking in our own driveway to get to the driver's side, when I could get in safely by walking on the grass to the passenger door.

I hope you are both safe and well. My thoughts and prayers are with you, and with all of Connor's other loved ones, and with all of the CaringBridge families in your area.

Beneath my signature, I will add the collect for the day. Please let Linda know I am thinking about her and about all of her loved ones, too.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

Almighty God, whose Son our Savior Jesus Christ is the light of the world: Grant that your people, illumined by your Word and Sacraments, may shine with the radiance of Christ's glory, that he may be known, worshipped, and obeyed to the ends of the earth; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who with you and the Holy Spirit lives and reigns, one God, now and for ever. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 215
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, January 14, 2007 3:26 PM CST

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I still check on you all and think of you often. Thanks so much for your sweet card.

I especially thought of you during the holidays. I know too well that nothing I can say can make any of it better, but I do want you to know that another family hurts so much with you and admires your strength that you use to carry on like you do.

That is so exciting about your real estate career. I always have been interested in real estate too (my mom is an agent in Nashville, semi retired) but have never gone for it. I know you will do great at it and hope to see you become one of those million dollar sellers!!

thinking and praying for you often,
Carol

Carol (Reid and Randon's page) <dmill3@insightbb.com>
Bowlling Green, ky - Saturday, January 13, 2007 8:27 PM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I have just looked, once again, at the marvelous picture of Connor, smiling beneath your Christmas tree, with the cross by his shoulder. Truly, all is well with Connor today, though your hearts continue to be sore. God bless you both, and God bless Nana and Poppy.

Beneath my signature, I will add the collect for today.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

Collect For Feast of Hilary Of Poitiers, 367:

Eternal Father, whose servant Hilary steadfastly confessed your Son Jesus Christ to be true God and true man: We beseech you to keep us firmly grounded in this faith; that we may rejoice to behold his face in heaven who humbled himself to bear our form upon earth, even the same your Son Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, January 13, 2007 8:07 AM CST

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It's been A LONG time since I've signed any CB pages but wanted to stop by & say HI!
Hope things are going well for all of you!
HUGSSSSSSSSS from FREEZING South Dakota

^i^Angel Michaela's Journey^i^




















Jodi <jlsimerly@yahoo.com>
Watertown, SD - Friday, January 12, 2007 1:39 PM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,
Just wanted to let you know you are in our thoughts and prayers and Connor will always be in our hearts.
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Friday, January 12, 2007 1:00 PM CST

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We are healed of a suffering only by expressing it to the full.

~Marcel Proust, novelist (1871-1922)

Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I thought of you, and others in bereavement, when I read this quotation. May God bless you, and all of Connor's loved ones, and of course, may God bless brave Connor himself.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A, - Friday, January 12, 2007 3:23 AM CST

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~Thinking of you and of the Martins.

God bless you all.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, January 11, 2007 11:22 AM CST

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Though my flesh and my heart should waste away, *
God is the strength of my heart and my portion for ever.

~Psalm 73: 26

Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

The above was part of the Psalm used at Eucharist today. It was the verse that jumped out at me.

Connor was remembered at Eucharist, as he always is. May God bless his sweet spirit.

Beneath my signature, I will add the collect for the day. William Laud was an Archbishop of Canterbury, who was martyred on this day in 1645.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

Keep us, O Lord, constant in faith and zealous in witness, That, like your servant William Laud, we may live in your fear, die in your favor, and rest in your peace; for the sake of Jesus Christ your Son our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 11:45 PM CST

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HAD TO STOP BY AND LET YOU KNOW THAT I'M THINKING OF YOU.
LOVE BRENDAMY LOVING ANGELS FOREVER <brurka@shaw.ca>
EDMONTON,ALBERTA/CANADA, - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 7:43 PM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I guess Linda has decided to take Kevin's website down, as I have gotten several messages, from CaringBridge, that it is an invalid website. Please let her know that I am thinking of her, and of her family, and that I will always remember Kevin.

God bless you and Eddie, and God bless Linda and all of her family.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, January 9, 2007 7:38 PM CST

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Rhonda and Eddie I'M thinking of you today
Sharon <sholweger5@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, January 9, 2007 3:27 PM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie and Mr. Wayne,

Several years ago, while traveling in Canada, with a friend, we did some shopping, in a grocery store, in a French speaking area. I was tickled to find a box of Heavenly Hash ice cream, bearing the name "Saviorama." I hope that makes all three of you smile. At the time, it cracked us up.

Last night, Andrew was in a mood for ice cream, so we went to Friendly's. We both had a Happy Ending Sundae of black raspberry ice cream, with blueberry topping. It is one of our favorites.

I am sure that sweet Connor is delighting in the real heavenly ice cream. He is not forgotten, and as Mr. Wayne reminded us, his influence for good, in this world, continues. May God bless his sweet spirit!

God bless the three of you, and God bless all of Connor's loved ones, friends, and supporters.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, January 9, 2007 10:31 AM CST

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Hi Rhonda & Eddie,

Late Merry Christmas and Happy New Year. I was off several days around Christmas and didn't do much visiting. I did get to visit in person a special young man who lives not too far from you all. I was able to meet Taylor, his parents, and brother a few days back. He is such an incredible young man and it was a privilege getting to meet him.

I'm guessing that the holidays were pretty tough on you both? Christmas is a time especially for children and it must be so difficult not being able to watch Connor's face as he enjoys the special times of the season. I hope that his memories and spirit were able to ease some of the emptiness and that family and friends were there also.

Thank you for being the parents who love your son and gave him such a good example to follow. Connor's positive attitude and loving spirit are going to encourage others for a long time. His physical presence is no doubt missed terribly. I hope you are able to travel each day knowing how much of an impact your son has made on us! Thanks so much for sharing him with us-and me!!

I appreciate you both and I love you!
Wayne

Connor, Merry Christmas. Do they celebrate Christmas in Heaven? Probably doesn't matter because somehow I bet just being there is so awesome! If they do celebrate holidays like we do here, then I'm sending you wishes for a grand scoop of your favorite ice cream. It's called Heavenly Rocky Road!! I love you bunches!!!!!

Mr. Wayne
Wayne Gordon <wgordon@cscsystems.com>
Hermitage, TN USA - Monday, January 8, 2007 7:31 PM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I am thinking of you, and of Connor, on a windy January Day. Yesterday, Andrew and I saw a performance of the Gold Dragons, a Chinese acrobatic troupe, at Proctor's Theater, in Schenectady. One part which was especially entertaining involved six men juggling and passing red hats. Another humorous part, involved two people in a lion costume. It was an amazing, colorful show, which Connor would have loved.

Today's saints are five American men, who died, as martyrs, in Ecuador, 51 years ago. Much was made of this event last year, including the release of two or three movies, so you probably know the story. Beneath my signature, I will add the collect.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

Collect For January 8:

Almighty God, who called your faithful servants Nate Saint, Ed McCully, Jim Elliot, Peter Fleming, and Roger Youderian to be witnesses and martyrs to the Huaorani peoples in the rain forests of Ecuador, and by their labors and suffering raised up a people for your own possession: Pour forth your Holy Spirit upon your Church in every land, that by the service and sacrifice of many, your holy Name may be glorified and your kingdom enlarged; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, January 8, 2007 12:15 AM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

Today is my mother's birthday. Even thought she died many years ago, I always think of her on this day. If loss of a middle age parent is difficult for a young woman, now a middle ager herself, the loss of a child has to be extremely difficult. My thoughts and prayers are with you each and every day.

Connor was remembered at the Epiphany service, at St. George's, yesterday. Beneath my signature, I will add today's collect.

God bless you always, and, of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

Father in heaven, who at the baptism of Jesus in the River Jordan proclaimed him your beloved Son and anointed him with the Holy Spirit: Grant that all who are baptized into his Name may keep the covenant they have made, and boldly confess him as Lord and Savior; who with you and the Holy Spirit lives and reigns, one God, in glory everlasting. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 214
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, January 7, 2007 10:44 AM CST

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Glad Epiphany!

Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I will be remembering Connor, at Eucharist, at St. George's, this afternoon. May God always bless your sweet sunshine boy.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

O God, by the leading of a star you manifested your only Son to the peoples of the earth: Lead us, who know you now by faith, to your presence, where we may see your glory face to face; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 214
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, January 6, 2007 3:04 PM CST

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I am sorry to hear about your son Connor. He will always be remembered in our hearts and in our minds. My grandfather passed away about 2 years ago and I feel your pain. Your story is very touching and beautiful. Connor is in a good place and he can rest in peace.
Abilene
http://abileneanderson.tripod.com/
Abilene <tiasumida@gmail.com>
Honolulu, HI USA - Friday, January 5, 2007 11:27 PM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

On the Eve of the Epiphany, I am thinking of the True Light that came into the world over 2,000 years ago, and I am also thinking of that joyful light that was Connor Jordan Hunley. May God always bless your sweet sunshine boy.

My thoughts and prayers are with you and with all of Connor's loved ones.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, January 5, 2007 8:16 AM CST

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Hi Rhonda and Eddie,
I am babysitting Aiden so only time for a quick hello and to let you know you are daily in my thoughts and prayers and Connor is forever in my heart! WE LOVE YOU AND MISS YOUR SUNSHINE BOY!
Love and hugs,

Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Thursday, January 4, 2007 12:24 AM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

Yesterday Andrew and I saw the movie, Eragon. Connor probably would have enjoyed it. I continue to think of him each and every day. May God always bless your brave little trooper.

I have just paused, here at my keyboard, to pray for both of you, for Nana and Poppy, and for all of Connor's other loved ones. I have also prayed for Linda, Bob, and all of their shared children. May deep peace be with you all.

If there is anything at all that I can do for either family, please let me know.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, January 4, 2007 10:42 AM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

On this, the Tenth Day of Christmas, I have just looked through the Christmas pictures of Connor once again. I do not think I have ever seen a more wonderful picture of a child looking into Santa's face! May God bless your sweet sunshine boy always.

Today the church remembers Gladys Aylward, missionary to China, who entered eternal life on January 3, 1970. You may have read her story, The Small Woman, or seen the movie about her life, The Inn of Sixth Happiness, starring Ingrid Bergman, both from the 1950s. A more recent book, called The Little Woman, was published by Moody Press, in 1997. Beneath my signature, I will add the collect.

God bless you both, and God bless Nana and Poppy, and all of Connor's many loved ones. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

Almighty and everlasting God, we thank you for your servant Gladys Aylward, whom you called to preach the Gospel to the people of China. Raise up in this and every land heralds and evangelists of your kingdom, that your Church may make proclaim the unsearchable riches of our Savior Jesus Christ; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, January 3, 2007 10:30 AM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I am thinking of you both, and of all of Connor's loved ones, as we begin a new year. May it be a time for all of us to come closer to our Lord.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

I am no longer my own, but Yours,
Use me as You choose;
rank me alongside whoever You choose;
put me to doing, put me to suffering;
let me be employed for You, or laid aside for You,
raised up for You, or brought down low for You;
let me be full, let me be empty;
let me have all things, let me have nothing;
with my whole heart I freely choose to yield
all things to Your ordering and approval.

So now, God of glory,
Father, Son, and Holy Spirit,
You are mine, and I am Your own.

From New Year Covenant Service
Celtic Daily Prayer, From The Northumbria Community
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, January 2, 2007 3:55 AM CST

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Another first day of the month, this one the first day of another year.......I think of you always on the first of every month rather I write in here or not... I hope you found some moments to be happy over this holiday season. I did......even though the memories are never far in ithe back of my mind. prayers continue
Sharon <sholweger5@yahoo.com>
- Monday, January 1, 2007 3:06 PM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,
Thinking of you and your sunshine boy on this first day of the month...also stopping in to wish you a New Year filled with love, peace and good heath.
God Bless!
WE LOVE YOU AND WE MISS CONNOR SOOOOO MUCH!
love and hugs,

Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Monday, January 1, 2007 7:46 AM CST

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Precious Family, May His Incredible Love bring you all Peace and Comfort for the New Year and beyond--
In memory of your precious young man, Connor...God Bless you all in the New Year...

*Katey's Site* <olsens5@wi.rr.com>
Waukesha, WI - Sunday, December 31, 2006 8:49 PM CST

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Hi Rhonda. I came across your site through Tracy's.
I agree with you, time does not heal wounds, time allows
us a way to handle the hurts. The hurt never goes away,
but God gives us the strength to handle it. I am so
sorry for your loss. I could not imagine loosing a child.
I am so thankful that I was the one that had cancer and
not my husband or children. I pray for your continued
strength from Christ. Love, Lisa
lisa reilly <lreilly00@hotmail.com caringbridge.org/tn/lisar>
memphis, tn usa - Sunday, December 31, 2006 8:45 PM CST

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Psalm 147:3

He heals the brokenhearted *
and binds up their wounds.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 804

Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

That is a portion of the Psalm we are reading in our church today. May God continue to bind you up, to comfort you, and to be near you. May God also do the same for Nana and Poppy, and for all of those who are missing Connor.

Connor is never forgotten in our home. He will be remembered in Holy Eucharist today, as he is week by week. May God bless Connor's sweet spirit.

Beneath my signature, I will add the collect for the day.

God bless you always. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

Almighty God, you have poured upon us the new light of your incarnate Word: Grant that this light, enkindled in our hearts, may shine forth in our lives; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 213
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, December 31, 2006 5:45 AM CST

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I hope your holidays were good. I know Connor was right there with you in spirit. That brave young boy will never be forgotten!
tricia <triciabxny@yahoo.com>
- Saturday, December 30, 2006 9:19 AM CST

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may peace and happiness find you in the new year.
Always in our thougths prayers and hearts...
~*~Samantha's Story~*~
...because growing up is hard enough without cancer!!

karen n sammi <mpbowler1@aol.com>
- Friday, December 29, 2006 12:11 AM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I have just looked through Connor's pictures once again. They truly bring smiles to my face. No wonder you miss him so!

Later today, I will have another Christmas dinner. This one will be with Elaine and her sons, as the younger will be visiting from Elizabethtown. Elaine's church is named after the English martyr, St. Thomas of Canterbury, whose feast day is today. I will add the collect beneath my signature.

God bless you both, and, of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

O Almighty God, by whose grace and power your holy martyr Thomas triumphed over suffering and was faithful even unto death: Grant us, who now remember him with thanksgiving, to be so faithful in our witness to you in this world, that we may receive with him the crown of life; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, December 29, 2006 7:00 AM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I am thinking of you and of "that special angel of yours," too. May God bless you both and, of course, may God bless Connor.

Yesterday, Andrew, his friend, Kristen, and I went to Cooperstown and Oneonta, for the day. How Connor would have enjoyed a gorgeous Christmas tree we saw in the Fenimore House Art Museum, and a mammoth tree we saw in a friend's home! I thought of Connor several times throughout the trip, and I am thinking of him today, on the Feast of the Holy Innocents.

Let us pray today, and every day, for a cure for childhood cancer, of all varieties, so holy innocents, like Connor, will stop dying from this scourge.

Beneath my signature, I will add the collect of the day.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

We remember today, O God, the slaughter of the holy innocents Of Bethlehem by King Herod. Receive, we pray, into the arms of your mercy all innocent victims; and by your great might frustrate the designs of evil tyrants and establish your rule of justice, love, and peace; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, December 28, 2006 12:10 AM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,
Thinking of you and that special little angel of yours.
God Bless,
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Wednesday, December 27, 2006 7:28 PM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I am thinking of you both, of Nana and Poppy, and of Connor, on the Third Day of Christmas and the Feast of St. John, the Apostle. May God bless you all.

Beneath my signature, I will add the collect of the day.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

Shed upon your Church, O Lord, the brightness of your light; That we, being illumined by the teaching of your apostle and evangelist John, may so walk in the light of your truth, that at length we may attain to the fullness of eternal life, through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, December 27, 2006 9:16 AM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I just want you to know that I have thought of Connor several times today. He is often in my thoughts, as are both of you.

Beneath my signature, I will leave the collect for the day, the Feast of St. Stephen.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

We give you thanks, O Lord of glory, for the example of the First martyr Stephen, who looked up to heaven and prayed for his persecutors to your Son Jesus Christ, who stands at your right hand: where he lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, in glory everlasting. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, December 26, 2006 11:14 PM CST

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Just stopping in to let you know I was thinking of you and your precious Connor. Merry Christmas!!
Love and Blessings,
Tanya
Tanya Nicole Servis <tanyans83@yahoo.com>
Newark, DE USA - Tuesday, December 26, 2006 9:15 PM CST

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I hope you survived Xmas. I am thinking and praying for you.
Lori Pierce
Lori <hayden01@tds.net>
Mt Juliet, TN - Tuesday, December 26, 2006 8:58 AM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I am thinking of you both today, on the Second Day of Christmas. I am also remembering your sweet sunshine boy, Connor, today, as I do each and every day. I am sure the days are so hard for you this year. I wish there would be something I could do, or say, to help ease your pain.

I am thinking of Nana and Poppy, too. You, and they, are in my prayers.

Please email, or phone, if I can do ANYTHING, ANYTHING, AT ALL, to help.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

You will show me the path of life; *
in your presence there is fullness of joy,
and in your right hand are pleasures for evermore.

~Psalm 16: 11
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, December 26, 2006 8:49 AM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

Connor was remembered at the late Eucharist, at St. George's, on Christmas Eve, and again, at St. George's, on Christmas morning. May God bless his sweet spirit.

My thoughts and prayers are with you both during these twelve days of Christmas.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, December 26, 2006 0:25 AM CST

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Merry Christmas Rhonda & Eddie!
I am so very sorry for your pain. Although I never met your sweet Sunshine Boy, Connor, I will never forget him or the life lessons he taught me.
Wishing you peace in 2007.
My love & prayers,
Nancy <nclare@bellatlantic.net>
Metuchen, NJ - Monday, December 25, 2006 10:56 PM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,
Sending you Christmas Blessings. Connor was remembered at midnight mass last night. After reading your journal entry yesterday, I went downstairs in our family room to wrap a few gifts and there was a lady bug!:) It brought a smile:) Connor will always be on our minds and in our hearts and thank you for sharing him with us. WE LOVE YOU AND WE MISS YOUR SUNSHINE BOY!
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Monday, December 25, 2006 4:51 PM CST

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Thinking of you both and your families during this Christmas season.
Kim <kymberleigh321@aol.com>
M'boro, tn - Sunday, December 24, 2006 11:15 PM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie--Please know that you and Connor are in my thoughts and prayers. I can not imagine how tough life is without your precious baby. I can understand about not being as estatic about Xmas as you once were. Connor will never be forgotten. You are all loved.
Merry Christmas!
Lori Pierce and family
Lori P, <hayden01@tds.net>
Mt Juliet, TN - Sunday, December 24, 2006 8:22 PM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I am glad you have updated Connor's journal. Thank you for posting some additional pictures. There are two there that I have not seen previously.

Connor was remembered at St. George's this morning, and he will be remembered at Eucharist tonight. Connor is always in my thoughts and prayers.

God bless you both, God bless all of Connor's many loved ones, and of course, God bless Connor.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

Here is the collect for this evening.

O God, you have caused this holy night to shine with the brightness of the true Light: Grant that we, who have known the mystery of that Light on earth, may also enjoy him perfectly in heaven; where with you and the Holy Spirit he lives and reigns, one God, in glory everlasting. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, December 24, 2006 4:59 PM CST

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Dear Rhonda..thanks for the lovely and inspiring update.Praying for you and thinking of your Conner.God Bless you someone who cares in Hemet.Sherry
Sherry <cowpies5@aol.com>
Hemet, ca - Sunday, December 24, 2006 4:18 PM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,
Thank you so much for updating. I am sitting here with tears streaming down my face as I read your journal entry. CONNOR WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN! He will always be a part of our lives and in our hearts and NO ONE has the right to judge how you feel in any way! God Bless you and remember we are always here for you.
Merry Christmas and our thoughts tonight as we attend mid night mass will be of a little angel named Connor who stole our hearts.
Love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Sunday, December 24, 2006 2:52 PM CST

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I'm sending you love and prayers.
Lisa
Mount Juliet, TN USA - Sunday, December 24, 2006 1:27 PM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

As with Sharon, I am thinking of both of you as you approach this second Christmas without Connor. I know it must be hard for you and for Connor's grandparents and other loved ones. All of the holidays are forever changed for you. However, may you be graced to see, above your emptiness and pain, the HOPE that Christ brought as he entered the world "for us and for our salvation."

Connor was remembered at Holy Eucharist, yesterday, at St. George's, and he will be remembered today, in the morning service for the Fourth Sunday in Advent, and tonight, in the Eucharist of the Nativity. With each remembrance of Connor is a deep prayer for your peace and well being. God bless you both, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.

Beneath my signature, I will add the collect for this morning, the morning of the love candle on our Advent wreaths. I will also add the words to a hymn I was thinking, as I came to the computer. The verse that was in my mind was the fourth.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

Purify our conscience, Almighty God, by your daily visitation, that your Son Jesus Christ, at his coming, may find in us a mansion prepared for himself; who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 212

Hark! the glad sound! the Savior comes,
the Savior promised long:
let every heart prepare a throne,
and every voice a song.

He comes the prisoners to release
in Satan's bondage held;
the gates of brass before him burst,
the iron fetters yield.

He comes, the broken heart to bind,
the bleeding soul to cure;
and with the treasures of his grace
to enrich the humble poor.

Our glad hosannas, Prince of Peace,
thy welcome shall proclaim;
and heaven's eternal arches ring
with thy beloved Name.

Words: Philip Doddridge (1702-1751), 1735

Music: Richmond (Thomas Haweis, 1734-1820)

Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/h/h077b.html

Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, December 24, 2006 5:38 AM CST

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Rhonda and Eddie, my thoughts an prayers are with you as you have another Christmas without Connor. I will never forget you and the graciousness you have shown me.
Sharon <sholweger5@yahoo.com>
- Saturday, December 23, 2006 11:02 AM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I did remember Connor at the Community Blue Christmas, on Wednesday, and I also remembered Connor at Holy Eucharist, on Thursday night, which was the Feast of St. Thomas. I am also praying for both of you. May God bless you all.

Beneath my signature, I will add the collect for the Feast of St. Thomas.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

Almighty and everliving God, who strengthened your apostle Thomas with sure and certain faith in your Son's resurrection: Grant us so perfectly and without doubt to believe in Jesus Christ, our Lord and our God, that our faith may never be found wanting in your sight; through him who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, December 23, 2006 0:21 AM CST

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Dear Mr. Hallmark,

I am writing to you from heaven, and though it must appear,
A rather strange idea, I see everything from here,
I just popped in to visit, your stores to find a card,
A card of love for my parents, as this day for them is hard,
There must be some mistake I thought, every card you can imagine,
except I could not find a card, from a child that lives in heaven,
they are still a parent too, no matter where I reside,
I had to leave, they understand, but oh the tears they cried,
I thought that if I wrote to you, that you would come to know,
that though I live in heaven now, I still love my parents so,
they talk with me, and dreams with me, we still share laughter too,
memories are our way of speaking now, would you see what you can do?
my parents carry me in their heart, their tears they hide from sight,
they plants flowers in my garden, there my living memory dwells,
they writes to other grieving parents, trying to ease there pain as well,
so you see Mr. Hallmark, though I no longer live on earth,
I must find a way, to remind her of her wondrous worth,
they need to be honored, and be remembered too,
just as the children of the earth will do,
thank you Mr. Hallmark, I know you will do your best,
find a way to tell them, how much they mean to me,
until I can do it for myself, when she joins me in eternity.


I know Christmas must be so hard for you although I can't comprehend how difficult it must be.

All my love,

Viks


viks <viks@postpals.co.uk>
- Friday, December 22, 2006 8:52 AM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,
I am thinking of you and your sunshine boy! WE LOVE YOU AND WE MISS CONNOR!
Love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Wednesday, December 20, 2006 6:45 PM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I plan to remember Connor during the Clifton Park Community Blue Christmas Service tonight, at Christ Community Reformed Church. May God bless his sweet spirit.

God bless you both, and God bless all of Connor's loved ones.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, December 20, 2006 2:25 PM CST

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keeping you in my thoughts and prayers during the holidays
tricia <triciabxny@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, December 19, 2006 9:35 PM CST

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I'm thinking of you during the Christmas season. I'm sure there aren't any words to describe how hard this time of year is for you. I continue to pray for you often.
Lisa
Mount Juliet, TN USA - Tuesday, December 19, 2006 3:03 PM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I remembered Connor, at the Cathedral of All Saints, in Albany, on Sunday. May God bless your sweet sunshine boy.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, December 18, 2006 2:28 AM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,
Thinking of you and your sunshine boy and just wanted to drop by to tell you so.
WE LOVE YOU AND WE MISS CONNOR!
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Sunday, December 17, 2006 6:40 PM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

Connor was remembered, at Eucharist, this afternoon. I also prayed for both of you, and for Connor's grandparents, in the beauty of holiness.

I really like the Advent Prayers of the People, we use at St. George's, during the four weeks leading up to Christmas. Since they are based on O Come, O Come Emmanuel, which I have previously used, here in Connor's guest book, I will leave the text beneath my signature. Perhaps some word, or phrase, will jump out at you, bringing hope and peace.

God bless you always, and, of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

Deacon: In joyful expectation let us pray to our Savior and Redeemer saying, "Amen! Come, Lord Jesus!"

O Wisdom, from the mouth of the Most High, you reign over all things to the ends of the earth: come and teach us how to live.

People: Amen! Come, Lord Jesus!

O Lord, and head of the house of Israel, you appeared to Moses in the fire of the burning bush and you gave the law on Sinai: come with outstretched arms and ransom us.

Amen! Come, Lord Jesus!

O Branch of Jesse, standing as a sign among the nations, all kings will keep silence before you and all peoples will summon you to their aid: come and set us free and delay no more.

Amen! Come, Lord Jesus!

O Key of David and scepter of the house of Israel, you open and none can shut; you shut and none can open: come and free all captives from their prison.

Amen! Come Lord Jesus!

O Morning Star, splendor of the light eternal and bright Sun of righteousness: come and enlighten all who dwell in darkness and in the shadow of death.

Amen! Come, Lord Jesus.

O King of the nations, you alone can fulfill their desires: Cornerstone, you make opposing nations one: come and save the creatures you fashioned from the clay.

Amen! Come, Lord Jesus!

O Emmanuel, hope of the nations and their Savior: come and save us, Lord our God.

Amen! Come, Lord Jesus!
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, December 16, 2006 11:32 PM CST

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Sending prayers and hugs your way. God Bless.

The Holts
Jeff and Cari Holt (www.caringbridge.org/mn/ryanholt) <cari_holt@hotmail.com>
Buffalo, - Saturday, December 16, 2006 9:31 PM CST

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He comes the broken heart to bind.

~Words From An Advent Hymn By Philip Doddridge

Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I am thinking of you both. The road of bereavement, which you are walking, is so difficult, but remember, God, who gave up his only Son, knows, God cares, and God binds the wounds.

God bless you both.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, December 15, 2006 10:36 AM CST

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Hi Rhonda and Eddie. I visit this site often as I still love seeing Connor's precious face and contagious smile. The time since his passing has not lessened my appreciation for his life and the lessons he so bravely taught me. I love the two of you and pray often for God's grace and peace to sustain you.
Tammy Legge <tammylegge@comcast.net>
Gallatin, TN USA - Friday, December 15, 2006 3:48 AM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I have been here, on Connor's website, at least three times, since I last signed. It has been a busy week, and my brain has been rather numb, at times. I DO want you to know that I think of your brave trooper, Connor Jordan Hunley, every day. Connor was remembered, at Holy Eucharist, at St. George's, on Wednesday morning, and he was remembered at Christ Church, Ballston Spa, NY, at the service of folk music style Advent Lessons and Carols, on Tuesday night. At both of these services, I prayed for both of you, and I also prayed for many of Connor's other loved ones. Connor is not forgotten!

Beneath my signature, I will add the collect for Fridays.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

Almighty God, whose most dear Son went not up to joy but
first he suffered pain, and entered not into glory before he
was crucified: Mercifully grant that we, walking in the way
of the cross, may find it none other than the way of life and
peace; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord. Amen.

The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 99
Written By William Reed Huntington (1838-1909)

Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, December 15, 2006 1:24 AM CST

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Hi Rhonda and Eddie,
Dave has resigned from his job of 18 years and will begin a new one on Dec. 18th. (a much smaller company and maybe more time on his hands:) They had a little going away party for him last week and the card his empolyees gave him had one little lady bug on the front...my thoughts immediately went to Connor..he is with us even in this transition:) Thinking of you and praying for you daily. WE LOVE YOU AND WE MISS CONNOR SO MUCH!
Take gentle care,
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Wednesday, December 13, 2006 5:28 PM CST

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Rhonda: Thanks for your kind note. It's good to be understood, but I also hate that you do know too much, too well.

I had to laugh tonight in reading the paper. I see where Cooter is in town over at his place near Opryland! DoH will never be forgotten, just like Mr. Connor Hunley!

I think of you two often, and look for you at the store when we are up that way. I wondered if you got to attend the candlelight ceremony recently up at the mausoleum? I assume you could see it all from your window if it was too cold out to go, or just too much in general. I went to one at Alive Hospice last week and it was really beautiful, if you had to do it.

Know that you and Eddie remain a part of my thoughts, regardless of how much time passes since Connor's journey to heaven.

Sending lots of love and big hugs to you both,

Kriste
My Big Brother - Tracy Lanius <Kristewithane@comcast.net>
Goodlettsville, TN USA - Tuesday, December 12, 2006 6:59 PM CST

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"Then the angel said to me."Write:Blessed are those who are invited to the wedding supper of Lamb!"And he added he."These are the true words of God!"Joy and joy for our God has repared good future those who are steadfast and those who love him and has taked victory of evil and sin.Now is the blessed advent of great wedding and hope.Help the men that find Jesus,pray for blessed revival soon.Thanks and bless and love.keijo sweden
keijo <keijoleppioja@hotmail.com>
sweden - Tuesday, December 12, 2006 11:47 AM CST

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O come, thou Key of David, come,
and open wide our heavenly home;
make safe the way that leads on high,
and close the path to misery.

Refrain: Rejoice! Rejoice!
Emmanuel shall come to thee, O Israel.

Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

On one of the other CaringBridge websites, I saw your comment about not even having a Christmas tree up. I am sure that I do not know the pain either of you are feeling, but I have gone through Advents, when I have sung over and over, "Close the path to misery." To really sing those words, means one has a hope that it can happen. May you be so graced, this day, even now.

When I have an opportunity, I will send you an article from Today's New York Times, written by Barbara C. Crafton, which touched my heart. It is about what life is like for the parents of a child suicide. There is wisdom in what she has written. Although the situation is different from yours, and from mine, it spoke to me powerfully about one of my losses, and perhaps it will speak to you as well.

God bless you both. I am thinking of you.

~Colette~

The tears run down her face. And she has none to comfort her.

~description of Mary, from Stations of the Cross

Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, December 12, 2006 7:14 AM CST

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Merry Christmas!
Keller, TX - Monday, December 11, 2006 11:16 PM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

The first thing I did at the Quiet Day, yesterday, was to kneel for about twenty minutes, before it began, remembering the children I have known through CaringBridge, beneath the Jesus and the Children stained glass window. Connor was the first one I thought about, and while there, I prayed for both of you. I also prayed for Nana and Poppy, Beverly and Garvin, Chad and Johnny, Tabitha, the great-grandmothers, and Tammy and her family. May God bless you all.

During the free time, between meditations, I explored a table of free Advent aids. The item that appeared to me, is a small violet candle about an inch and a half high. On the front side, it says, "Advent: Oh, Come, Oh, Come, Emmanuel." On the back are some of the names of Jesus (O Wisdom, O Lord, O Branch, O Key, O Dayspring, O King, O Emmanuel), as used in the great Advent hymn, "O, Come, O Come, Emmanuel." I used a lot of the remaining quiet of the day, with the candle in my hand, praying those words.

I have just paused, here, at my keyboard, to pray with my little prayer candle. Perhaps you can join me today.

Beneath my signature, I will add the lyrics.

God bless you always, and God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

O come, O come, Emmanuel,
and ransom captive Israel,
that mourns in lonely exile here
until the Son of God appear.
Refrain:
Rejoice! Rejoice!
Emmanuel shall come to thee, O Israel.

O come, thou Wisdom from on high,
who orderest all things mightily;
to us the path of knowledge show,
and teach us in her ways to go. Refrain

O come, thou Rod of Jesse, free
thine own from Satan's tyranny;
from depths of hell thy people save,
and give them victory over the grave. Refrain

O come, thou Dayspring, come and cheer
our spirits by thine advent here;
disperse the gloomy clouds of night,
and death's dark shadows put to flight. Refrain

O come, thou Key of David, come,
and open wide our heavenly home;
make safe the way that leads on high,
and close the path to misery. Refrain

O come, O come, great Lord of might,
who to thy tribes on Sinai's height
in ancient times once gave the law
in cloud and majesty and awe. Refrain

O come, thou Root of Jesse's tree,
an ensign of thy people be;
before thee rulers silent fall;
all peoples on thy mercy call. Refrain

O come, Desire of nations, bind
in one the hearts of all mankind;
bid thou our sad divisions cease,
and be thyself our King of Peace. Refrain

O come, O come, Emmanuel,
and ransom captive Israel,
that mourns in lonely exile here
until the Son of God appear. Refrain

Words: Latin, ninth century;
trans. John Mason Neale (1818-1866), 1851

Music: Veni, Veni, Emmanuel, Plain Song, Mode One

Hear It At: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/o/o084.html

Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, December 10, 2006 12:12 AM CST

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Rhonda and Eddie-I am thinking of you both and Angel Connor today. Reminders of Connor are still all around my house--the magnet you gave me at the garage sale, the little notepads that you made for Relay, the candle, and of course his little computer that Hayden still plays with. Just letting you know that Connor will never ever be forgotten. Hope you have a great Sunday!
Lori Pierce
Lori <hayden01@tds.net>
Mt Juliet, TN - Sunday, December 10, 2006 10:14 AM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,
Thinking of your little sunshine boy who brought more sunshine into my life than you will ever imagine! We love you and we miss Connor so much!
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Saturday, December 9, 2006 10:46 PM CST

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Enjoy the holidays! Thinking of you at this time and always
tricia <triciabxny@yahoo.com>
- Saturday, December 9, 2006 11:17 AM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I am getting ready to go to the Advent Quiet Day, at St. George's. I took bottled water and food over to the parish kitchen last night, so I can truly enter in silence and absorb the quiet this morning. Every glance at the Jesus and the Children window will be full of thoughts of Connor.

God bless you both, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

Prayer begins by talking to God, but it ends by listening to Him. In the face of Absolute Truth, silence is the soul’s language.

~Fulton J. Sheen
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, December 9, 2006 6:17 AM CST

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Rhonda & Eddie,
Thinking of you and keeping you in my daily prayers.

Kim Crabtree (Hannah's mom) <kymberleigh321@aol.com>
M'boro, Tn USA - Friday, December 8, 2006 7:11 PM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I will be going over to St. George's soon, to hang up some notices for the Advent Quiet Day, which the Daughters wanted me to make and post on all doors. While I am there, I will pause beneath the Jesus and the Children stained glass, to remember Connor.

Please let Nana and Poppy and Beverly and Garvin know that I am thinking of all of them, during this holy Advent season. God bless them, God bless you, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, December 8, 2006 7:13 AM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

This is a very busy day for me, but I wanted to pause, to remember Connor, here at my keyboard, and to greet you, his forever parents.

Beneath my signature, I will add the collect for the day.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

Collect For Feast Of St. Ambrose, Bishop, Teacher, Lyricist:

O God, who gave your servant Ambrose grace eloquently to proclaim your righteousness in the great congregation, and fearlessly to bear reproach for the honor of your Name: Mercifully grant to all bishops and pastors such excellence in preaching and faithfulness in ministering your Word, that your people may be partakers with them of the glory that shall be revealed; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, December 7, 2006 11:42 AM CST

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Hi Rhonda & Eddie!
Thinking of you and hoping you have a good day!
becky bustin <gabustin@aol.com>
gallatin, tn - Wednesday, December 6, 2006 10:38 AM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

One of my favorite pictures of Connor is of him sitting beneath your Christmas tree. I am remembering Connor on the Feast of St. Nicholas, the Bishop. I will leave the collect below.

God bless you both, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

Collect For Nicholas Of Myra, Friend Of Children, Giver Of Gifts, Bishop, 6 December 326:

Almighty God, who in your love gave to your servant Nicholas of Myra a perpetual name for deeds of kindness on land and sea: Grant, we pray, that your Church may never cease to work for the happiness of children, the safety of sailors, the relief of the poor, and the help of those tossed by tempests of doubt or grief; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, December 6, 2006 5:13 AM CST

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Rhonda and Eddie,
Just wanted you to know I think about Connor and your family. Thank you for keeping his website going. :) I went to the links you posted and told the Dabbles and Doodles group about Richie so they could sign his family's guestbook. (You may want to update your page since Richie is now an angel.)

Long distance hugs and prayers throughout the holidays for you, I know that must be difficult.
Cathe L haldagobay.com/Dabbles and Doodles/OWC <haldagobay1@bellsouth.net>
Pensacola, FL - Monday, December 4, 2006 10:04 PM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I am thinking of you both, and of course, I am remembering sweet Connor.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, December 4, 2006 7:13 PM CST

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thinking of you with a prayer in my heart
Sharon <sholweger5@yahoo.com>
- Monday, December 4, 2006 6:15 PM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I am home from St. George's, where I am helping with the children's play, for the early service, on Christmas Eve. I haven't done this since my own boys were small, but it is going to be a lot of fun. As always, when I am involved with elementary school children, I think of Connor. God bless his sweet spirit.

I will be thinking of you both this afternoon, as Elaine and I attend a seasonal organ concert at her church. (I have learned to pray through sacred and classical music concerts in recent years. I will remember Connor and pray for all of his loved ones, each by individual names.)

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

The Collect For The First Sunday In Advent:

Almighty God, give us grace to cast away the works of darkness, and put on the armor of light, now in the time of this mortal life in which your Son Jesus Christ came to visit us in great humility; that in the last day, when he shall come again in his glorious majesty to judge both the living and the dead, we may rise to the life immortal; through him who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 211

Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, December 3, 2006 1:10 PM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I have been thinking of you, and remembering Connor, on a cold and busy day. We had our first Church Women United Human Rights Celebration this morning, in Schenectady. Several wonderful people were honored including the husband of my sons' Godmother and a friend from St. George's, who passed the same week as Connor.

Please give my greetings to Nana and Poppy and Beverly and Garvin, as we begin the Advent season.

God bless you all.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, December 2, 2006 10:36 PM CST

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Hello Rhonda and Eddie!
Just a quick hello from "Beautiful Tomball." I think about the three of you every day and still wear my Conner's Courage bracelet 24/7. If only I had a dollar for each time someone asked me about it and I told them about Conner and you!
Brent Lapsley <blapsley@houston.rr.com>
Tomball, Texas - Saturday, December 2, 2006 9:17 AM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

Simply thinking of you and remembering Connor...

With our love,
Debbie and Laura <endyke@speakeasy.net>
Litchfield, NH USA - Friday, December 1, 2006 11:16 PM CST

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((((HUGS))))
becky <gabustin@aol.com>
gallatin, tn - Friday, December 1, 2006 8:20 PM CST

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Sending love and prayers from Scotland, Rosi

www.caringbridge.org/hi/kayla
rosi <rosipullin@hotmail.com>
Glasgow, Scotland - Friday, December 1, 2006 6:10 PM CST

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thinking of you today as always on the first of the month even if I dont sign the guest book you know I am thinking of you and remembering you in my prayers
Colette... what a faithful person you are to sign so often and to remember every one in prayer.
Sharon <sholweger5@yahoo.com>
- Friday, December 1, 2006 4:57 PM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

It is another first of the month, and I want to remind you that I am remembering Connor and thinking of you both, and of all of Connor's loved ones. It does not seem possible that twenty-five months have passed, since Connor arrived in Heaven. What seems like an eternity to you, is probably like a few moments to Connor, as he lives in a different time system. He is also, no doubt, busy with Cheyenne and all of his special friends, and as Mr. Wayne has said, busy "checking out those heavenly ice cream stands."

Connor was remembered beneath the Jesus and the Children stained glass window and at the altar, last night, at St. George's. While I was there, I prayed for both of you and for Connor's other loved ones. I also remembered all of the Martins and all of the Shannons.

As a prayer card from the Scriptorium says, "Those who love God never meet for the last time." You will see Connor again, and when you do, "All shall be well."

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, December 1, 2006 4:13 AM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I expect to remember sweet Connor, later today, at Eucharist, at St. George's. May God bless his sweet spirit, and you, his forever parents.

I want you to know that I am thinking of both of you and of all of Connor's grandparents, his aunt Tammy and her family, his uncles, and his great-grandmothers. May God bless you all.

Today's saint is St. Andrew, the Apostle. I have just written of this Andrew and other Andrews, to my son, Andrew, who was named for the saint, largely because I love the collect of the day. I will add the collect beneath my signature.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

Almighty God, who gave such grace to your apostle Andrew that he readily obeyed the call of your Son Jesus Christ, and brought his brother with him: Give unto us, who are called by your Word, grace to follow him without delay, and to bring those near to us into his gracious presence; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.

Rhonda, I have often wondered about Connor's names. If there is a story, could you share with us someday?

Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, November 30, 2006 12:14 AM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I attended a funeral, at St. George's, late this morning. While there, I remembered Connor, beneath the Jesus and the Children window, and at the altar rail. Connor will always be a part of my prayer life.

Today is the 88th birthday of Madeleine L'Engle. My boys and I have met her on two occasions. She was sitting in a big chair, in the parish library, at St. George's, on one of those occasions, and she pulled Andrew, then just starting third grade, up onto her lap. He has always remembered that. Today is a good day to leave one of my favorite L'Engle quotes one more time. I will also leave a second L'Engle quote.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

Nothing loved is ever lost or perished.

~Madeleine L'Engle, in A Ring Of Endless Light

Those who believe they believe in God but without passion in the heart, without anguish of mind, without uncertainty, without doubt, and even at times without despair, believe only in the idea of God and not in God himself.

~Madeleine L'Engle (born November 29, 1918)

Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, November 29, 2006 4:42 PM CST

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Rhonda and Eddie, you are my best buddies and I am so THANKFUL for the both of you (even crazy Eddie with his looser jokes) You guys rock. My kids love you too. I don't know what I would have done over this last year without your faithful friendship - through thick and thin, blood tears and sweat! We are true blue friends - FOREVER!!! I LOVE YOU!
Linda Martin <themartin7@bellsouth.net>
Hendersonville, TN - Tuesday, November 28, 2006 9:33 PM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

In contrast to Kathy and Dave's report of snow in Seattle, the church honors King Kamehameha and Queen Emma, of warm, snowless Hawaii, today. James Kiefer tells us, "Although the King's support of the Church of England was perhaps politically motivated, his support of Christianity was not. He and his wife were earnest in their devotion to both the material and the spiritual welfare of their people. The King personally translated the Book of Common Prayer and much of the Hymnal into Hawaiian." Beneath my signature, I will add the collect for the day.

God bless you both, and God bless you sweet sunshine boy.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

O Sovereign God, who raised up (King) Kamehameha (IV) and (Queen) Emma to be rulers in Hawaii, and inspired and enabled them to be diligent in good works for the welfare of their people and the good of your Church: Receive our thanks for their witness to the Gospel; and grant that we, with them, may attain to the crown of glory that never fades away; through Jesus Christ our Savior and Redeemer. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, November 28, 2006 4:35 AM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,
Thinking of you from SNOWY Seattle...it hardly ever snows here, but we are here and believe me it is snowing! The whole city is closed down, we ordered pizza and they called about an hour after we ordered to say they are closing and can't deliver a pizza! Only in Seattle I say.
We went to Vancouver for a few days with Matt and Gretchen, there were 15 inches of snow there....what should have been a 2 hour trip back became a 4 and a half hour trip, we are so happy to be back here safe and sound.
The ride was so nerve racking!!! Matt has a small car and we could only go 25 miles per hour as the highway was covered in about a 6 inches of solid ice. We sure were scared! It is really coming down here right now, I don't think we will be going anywhere tomorrow if it doesn't stop snowing! I hear when we get back to Green Bay we are going to have...yes you guessed it SNOW!
Packer game is about to start so guess I will sign off for now.
WE LOVE YOU AND WE MISS YOUR SUNSHINE BOY!
Take gentle care
love and hugs,

Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Monday, November 27, 2006 7:34 PM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I have just looked through all of Connor's posted pictures, once again. The one of young Connor, in the puppy costume, always makes me smile.

God bless you both, and God bless your sweet sunshine boy.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, November 27, 2006 4:54 AM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

Connor was remembered yesterday, at Eucharist, at St. George's, both beneath the Jesus and the Children window, and at the altar rail. May God bless his sweet spirit.

After church, a friend and I went to Friendly Ice Cream for a salad and some ice cream. I had a banana split made with pistachio, black raspberry, and Vienna mocha chunk. It would be so much fun to take Connor to one of our local eateries for ice cream. I often wonder what item he would choose and what flavors he would select.

Connor is in my heart, and he will not be forgotten.

God bless you both, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy.

Please give my warm greetings to Nana and Poppy and to Beverly and Garvin.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, November 26, 2006 8:26 AM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

Connor will be remembered this weekend, at Eucharist.

Beneath my signature, I will add the collect for Christ the King, the last Sunday in the liturgical year, which is November 26, this year.

God bless you both, and God bless all of Connor's many loved ones and friends. Also, of course, God bless Connor.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

Almighty and everlasting God, whose will it is to restore all things in your well-beloved Son, the King of kings and Lord of lords: Mercifully grant that the peoples of the earth, divided and enslaved by sin, may be freed and brought together under his most gracious rule; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, November 25, 2006 9:25 AM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

Over the past two days, I have eaten more than I should. I hope this is not the case for either of you.

I remembered Connor at the Thanksgiving services at St. George's, and I will be remembering him, at Eucharist, this weekend.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, November 24, 2006 4:50 PM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I just read about Richie. I know Connor and Kevin were there to meet Richie, as he entered heaven. God bless their sweet spirits.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, November 23, 2006 11:10 PM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,
Wishing you Thanksgiving Blessings.
So sorry to hear about Richie. I know Connor was among the angels greeting him.
God Bless..
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Thursday, November 23, 2006 8:46 PM CST

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You are in my thoughts and prayers today -- and I know you feel it so keenly because of Richie.
Love, Holly
Holly <hhoxeng@att.net>
Denver, - Thursday, November 23, 2006 10:15 AM CST

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Rhonda and Eddie-Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you today. As I read that Richie Shannon died, I instantly thought of Connor meeting him to show him around Heaven. I can't imagine how hard holidays are for you. Please know that you are loved and prayed for always.
Lori Pierce
Lori Pierce <hayden01@tds.net>
Mt Juliet, TN - Thursday, November 23, 2006 9:29 AM CST

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Eddie and Rhonda:

Thoughts turn to all those, who like us, have an empty place in our hearts and homes this Thanksgiving. Know that you are always thought of with love, whether it's Thanksgiving, or just any old Thursday.

I know your hearts will be heavy with the Shannon family's today, and I will continue to lift both of your families up.

Love and big hugs,

Kriste
My Big Brother - Tracy Lanius <Kristewithane@comcast.net>
Goodlettsville, TN USA - Thursday, November 23, 2006 8:33 AM CST

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I don't sign in too often anymore, but please know you are always on my mind.
Happy Thanksgiving.
Tina Pirro <kmpirro@msn.com>
Metuchen, NJ - Thursday, November 23, 2006 5:40 AM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

Connor was remembered at Holy Eucharist, in the Chapel of All Angels, at St. George's, Wednesday morning, and in the nave, at St. George's during the Community Thanksgiving Service, on Wednesday evening. Connor will also be remembered on Thursday morning, at Thanksgiving Eucharist. May God always bless your sweet sunshine boy.

On November 22, 1963, President Kennedy was assassinated, but also C.S. Lewis died. Beneath my signature, I will add the collect for Lewis.

God bless you both.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

Almighty God, whose servant C.S.Lewis received of your grace singular gifts of insight in understanding the truth in Christ Jesus, and of eloquence and clarity in presenting that truth to his readers: Raise up in our day faithful interpreters of your Word, that we, being set free from all error and unbelief, may come to the knowledge that makes us wise unto salvation: through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, November 22, 2006 11:46 PM CST

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"Enter his gates with thanksgiving and his courts with praise; give thanks to him and praise his name. For the LORD is good and his love endures forever; his faithfulness continues through all generations."

Psalms 100:4-5 (NIV)

For those who may have an empty chair at the table this year, I know God can fill your heart with cherished memories and help you have the comfort of his love and care.

For those who are facing tough obstacles, waiting for test results, facing surgery or chemo, or spending the holiday in a hospital room, God will give you the strength to guide your steps and I trust family and friends will be there to sustain you.

And for those who may be approaching the finish line, the best is yet to come! You have a loving Father cheering you on and waiting to welcome you into his glory!

Happy Thanksgiving!

In Christian love,

Wayne / Mr. Wayne

Wayne Gordon <wgordon@cscsystems.com>
Hermitage, TN USA - Wednesday, November 22, 2006 8:06 AM CST

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I pray and I sing. And sometimes my prayer is my singing.

~Bobby McFerrin

Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

This quotation is given for today in a book of daily readings that I have, and since today is St. Cecilia's Day, a day for celebrating music, I thought I would send it along. I watched parts of a music awards program on television last night, and since some of the awards were given for country music, I was thinking of you and the Martins.

God bless both of you and all of the Martins, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy.

I will be remembering Connor at morning Eucharist today.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, November 22, 2006 7:39 AM CST

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Rhonda & Eddie:
Just stopping by to wish you a Happy Thanksgiving!
Hugs to the both of you!

Mary A. Taylor <butsie13@aol.com>
Essex, MD USA - Wednesday, November 22, 2006 7:35 AM CST

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CONNOR!!!!!!!!!

IIIIIIIIIIII SUCK!!!! Not just suck but SUCK!!! Double suck! Triple suck!!! ARGH!!! I missed your birthday!!! AGAIN! DANG IT!!! Pleeeeeeease tell the J-man I'm sorry and I dun wanna go to hell for that. I can tell you changed your ways of reminding me though. Last year it was just SO DARN COLD!!! And this year it's SO warm for this time of the year. Thanks matey.

Hey listen Connster, I was looking at your Mom's pic and thought HEY, that lady is sexy enough to do a Playboy centerfold... HUSH Eddie! If you don't like the idea, you're a Saudi chauvinist. So I called my dear friend Artermiy Troitskiy (yeah go ahead, try and pronounce it), the senior editor for Playboy Russia. Rhonda, PACK IT UP BABE!!! :-D

Hope you guys are going on. I'm a student now. Was my first day at school today. YUK!!! It's SOOOOO boring!!!

Stay cool

PS I SO SUCK!!!
Always Remembering Connor Leo & Lenka
Irkutsk, Russia - Wednesday, November 22, 2006 6:12 AM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I, too, am thinking of you both, as Thanksgiving approaches. Actually, rather than thinking of it as a day, I like to think of it as a season, much as I told Connor how we, in our family, celebrate birthdays as a season. I have been humming and singing Now Thank We All Our God throughout this month. I will leave the words, beneath my signature.

God bless you both, and God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

Now thank we all our God,
with heart and hands and voices,
who wondrous things hath done,
in whom his world rejoices;
who from our mother's arms
hath blessed us on our way
with countless gifts of love,
and still is ours today.

O may this bounteous God
through all our life be near us,
with ever-joyful hearts
and blessèd peace to cheer us;
and keep us in his grace,
and guide us when perplexed,
and free us from all ills
in this world and the next.

All praise and thanks to God
the Father now be given,
the Son, and Holy Ghost,
supreme in highest heaven,
the one eternal God,
whom earth and heaven adore;
for thus it was, is now,
and shall be evermore.

Words: Martin Rinkart (1586-1649), 1636
trans. Catherine Winkworth (1827-1878), 1858

Nun danket alle Gott (later form of melody by Johann Crüger, 1598-1662)

Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/n/n139.html
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, November 21, 2006 11:47 AM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,
Thinking of you as Thanksgiving approaches and thanking God that you are a part of our lives. It was an honor "knowing" your sunshine boy, Connor. He will always hold a very special place in our hearts.
Love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Tuesday, November 21, 2006 11:17 AM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I saw a formation of geese flying south this morning. I thought of Connor, and of his great love for animals, as I watched. God bless your sweet sunshine boy, and God bless both of you.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, November 20, 2006 10:30 PM CST

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YOUR ALWAYS ON MY MIND TAKE CARE .

LOVE ALWAYS BRENDA MY LOVING DAD'S SITE <brurka@shaw.ca>
EDMONTON ,ALBERTA , - Monday, November 20, 2006 3:08 PM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

It has been another very rainy day in southern Saratoga County. Andrew seems to have a cold, so I have been out for cough drops and cold medicine, but otherwise, it has been a quiet afternoon and evening. I hope things are better in your part of the country.

The collect for this Sunday has always been one of my favorites. I usually write it inside the front cover of all family Bibles and of all Bibles given as gifts. I will add it beneath my signature.

God bless you both, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

Blessed Lord, who caused all holy Scriptures to be written for our learning: Grant us so to hear them, read, mark, learn, and inwardly digest them, that we may embrace and ever hold fast the blessed hope of everlasting life, which you have given us in our Savior Jesus Christ; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 236
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, November 19, 2006 9:46 PM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

Connor was remembered at Eucharist, at St. George's, this afternoon. We always pray a Psalm, or a Psalm portion, together, at each celebration of the Eucharist. Today's was Psalm 16: 5-11, which is my favorite Psalm portion. I will add the words beneath my signature.

After Eucharist, a friend and I went to a little restaurant, near church, for dinner and dessert. They make their own ice cream, and she and I had hot fudge sundaes on pumpkin ice cream. This is the only flavor I have ever had in this eatery, as the place has only been open a little over a year, and this is only my third time there. The meals are large, so the first time I went, neither Andrew, nor I, could manage a dessert. The next time, I went, I was with the same friend as today, and she and I enjoyed the meal we had last time so much that we repeated the exact same thing today. They have an apple ice cream I will try sometime, and the strawberry really looks awfully good. Of course they have chocolate and mint, which I know many boys enjoy. When I look at the case of cold treats, I wonder what flavor Connor would choose.

Connor is not forgotten, and he never will be.

God bless you both, and God bless your sweet sunshine boy.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

Psalm 16: 5-11, The Book of Common Prayer, Page 600

5. O LORD, YOU are my portion and my cup; *
it is you who uphold my lot.

6. My boundaries enclose a pleasant land; *
indeed, I have a goodly heritage.

7. I will bless the LORD who gives me counsel; *
my heart teaches me, night after night.

8. I have set the LORD always before me; *
because he is at my right hand I shall not fall.

9. My heart, therefore, is glad, and my spirit rejoices; *
my body also shall rest in hope.

10. For you will not abandon me to the grave, *
nor let your holy one see the Pit.

11. You will show me the path of life; *
in your presence there is fullness of joy,
and in your right hand are pleasures for evermore.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, November 19, 2006 0:30 AM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

Andrew's car is sporting four new tires and my check balance is significantly lower. His thanks...priceless.

I know you understand the above, as Connor lived his life in gratitude, mischief, humor, courage, and love. These are gifts of God, and therefore, they are forever.

I will be remembering Connor later today beneath the Jesus and the Children window at St. George's, and I will remember Connor Wednesday evening, at the Community Thanksgiving service, also at St. George's, and Thursday morning, when I will serve as lector, at Thanksgiving Day Eucharist.

God bless you both, and God bless all of Connor's many loved ones. I hope Tabitha and her family are doing well and that she is feeling stronger each and every day.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, November 18, 2006 6:17 AM CST

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Hi Rhonda and Eddie,
Nothing exciting, nothing new, just wanted to let you know I am thinking of you! LOVE YOU AND MISS YOUR SUNSHINE BOY!
Love and hugs,



Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Friday, November 17, 2006 7:12 PM CST

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Thinking of you guys today and wishing you a Happy Thanksgiving.
Chrissy Pierce
Kingsport, TN - Friday, November 17, 2006 1:37 PM CST

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Rhonda and Eddie I just came from Richie's site I can't even imagine what you all went through. What great support your able to be for the Shannon's. May God bless you all as I'm sure your hearts are still heavy. I thank God that you can be there for the Shannon's, for you know exactly how it feels, even miles away. God bless
Lani pantazis <tazisclan@sbcglobal.net>
Sparks, Nv - Friday, November 17, 2006 10:31 AM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I have been planning to buy two new tires for Andrew, before winter. However, he damaged one of his better tires on his way home last night, so I am on my way to purchase a whole new set of tires. I just thought I would write in Connor's guest book, in case I am unable to return to the computer later in the day.

My thoughts and prayers are with you, and with all of Connor's loved ones, with the Martins, and with the Shannons.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, November 17, 2006 9:24 AM CST

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Hello! I hope you are doing good! buh bye
Chelsey
Bainbridge, IN USA - Thursday, November 16, 2006 4:03 PM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

The Interfaith Story Circle of the Tri-Cities Area met at St. George's, on Wednesday night, in the Chapel of All Angels. We lit all of the regular chapel candles, and I brought my special pumpkin cheesecake candle, which I purchased to honor Connor. As I listened to stories, I often glanced at the beautiful orange candle and silently remembered your sweet sunshine boy. May God always bless him.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, November 16, 2006 1:11 AM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

Today is a busy day for me, but I want to say a quick "Hello!" and to remind you that I am remembering your sweet sunshine boy, Connor.

Beneath my signature, I will add the collect for the day.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

O Almighty God, who gave to your servant Albert special gifts of grace to understand and teach the truth as it is in Christ Jesus: Grant that by this teaching we may know you, the one true God, and Jesus Christ whom you have sent: who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, November 15, 2006 10:06 AM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,
I have been thinking a lot about you guys recently, on the anniversary of your beloved Connor's birthday on earth and in Heaven. Although I have not posted, You have all been in my heart, actually, you are always in my heart. May the God of Love comfort you every single day until He reunites you with your Sunshine boy.

My Son Lives in Paradise

The dust has settled on the things
That I have stored away
A favourite toy, for little boy
A jar of dried out clay.

A photograph when you were young
Sits quietly on the shelf
Thoughts of you come drifting back
I just can’t help myself.

A drawing that you made for me
When you were very small
Is framed within this heart of mine
And hangs upon the wall.

A scrapbook lies within the room
Where you once laid your head
Your favorite book, a model car
The pillow on your bed.

I miss you coming in from school
“Hey mom, it’s me, I’m home”
I miss the little words and hugs
The special times we’ve known.

A part of me just disappeared
The day you went away
An empty space now fills my heart
There are no words to say.

A closet filled with memories
Of happy days gone by
A baseball cap and souvenir
Why did you have to die?

The trophies that you won at school
Stand proudly on display
Your many friends can’t understand
Why God called you away.

I hear your voice within the halls
It echoes in the night
I see you in the evening mist
And in the morning light.

So many things you left behind
Are now a memory
But little arms that held me tight
Will always stay with me.

An empty space now fills my heart
My boy, my child, my son
You’ve gone into another world
Where golden dreams are spun.

I do not know the answers
It‘s not for me to know
But I will know the truth one day
Just why you had to go.

My turn will come to leave this world
I’ll gaze into your eyes
God’s perfect plan will be revealed
Up there in paradise.

Author/Written By:
Marilyn Ferguson
©2005


(((HUGS))), Sabrina <morini@agriflex.it>
Italy - Wednesday, November 15, 2006 6:45 AM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

Today is my parents anniversary. Neither of them lived to see their grandchildren. I am so glad that Connor's grandparents all had an opportunity to know him.

Later, in the day, I am going over to St. George's. I will remember Connor, while there.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, November 14, 2006 9:34 AM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

Twelve years ago today, you were rejoicing in the recent birth of thirteen day old Connor. Two years ago, you were beginning bereavement for your sweet sunshine boy, who passed, on All Saints Morning. Of course, both Connor's birth and his death are deeply personal for you, and it is his birth that caused you to rejoice. However, it is interesting to note, that except for our Lord Jesus Christ, for whom both days are celebrated, and also the day of his resurrection, the church always remembers its saints, on the anniversary of their deaths. OK. What I have just written appears to be a simple, meaningless fact, but actually this is really a very profound thing. Please take some time, this week, to think about it, and may your find comfort, strength, and expectation, as you do.

Today's saint is Gregory Palamas, Bishop of Thessalonika, who entered the nearer presence of Christ, at this time, in 1359. I will place the collect beneath my signature. Please join me in praying for the continuation of God's gifts among God's people and for grace to fill his church.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

O God, who by your Holy Spirit give to some the word of wisdom, to others the word of knowledge, and to others the word of faith: We praise you for the gifts of grace manifested in your servant Gregory, and we pray that your Church may never be destitute of such gifts; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who with you and the Holy Spirit lives and reigns, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, November 13, 2006 10:35 AM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I keep forgetting to tell you that we have a ladybug that likes to hang out on our computer table and another ladybug that hangs out on the end table near one of our easy chairs. I do think of Connor, when I see them.

God bless all of you beautiful Hunleys.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, November 12, 2006 10:49 PM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

Connor was remembered, at St. George's, on Saturday afternoon, beneath the Jesus and the Children stained glass, and at the altar rail.

The readings, for this weekend, seem very powerful to me, so I will add the two I read, as lector, beneath my signature.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

The Old Testament Reading: 1 Kings 17:8-16

The word of the LORD came to Elijah, saying, "Go now to Zarephath, which belongs to Sidon, and live there; for I have commanded a widow there to feed you." So he set out and went to Zarephath. When he came to the gate of the town, a widow was there gathering sticks; he called to her and said, "Bring me a little water in a vessel, so that I may drink." As she was going to bring it, he called to her and said, "Bring me a morsel of bread in your hand." But she said, "As the LORD your God lives, I have nothing baked, only a handful of meal in a jar, and a little oil in a jug; I am now gathering a couple of sticks, so that I may go home and prepare it for myself and my son, that we may eat it, and die." Elijah said to her, "Do not be afraid; go and do as you have said; but first make me a little cake of it and bring it to me, and afterwards make something for yourself and your son. For thus says the LORD the God of Israel: The jar of meal will not be emptied and the jug of oil will not fail until the day that the LORD sends rain on the earth." She went and did as Elijah said, so that she as well as he and her household ate for many days. The jar of meal was not emptied, neither did the jug of oil fail, according to the word of the LORD that he spoke by Elijah.

The Epistle: Hebrews 9:24-28

Christ did not enter a sanctuary made by human hands, a mere copy of the true one, but he entered into heaven itself, now to appear in the presence of God on our behalf. Nor was it to offer himself again and again, as the high priest enters the Holy Place year after year with blood that is not his own; for then he would have had to suffer again and again since the foundation of the world. But as it is, he has appeared once for all at the end of the age to remove sin by the sacrifice of himself. And just as it is appointed for mortals to die once, and after that the judgment, so Christ, having been offered once to bear the sins of many, will appear a second time, not to deal with sin, but to save those who are eagerly waiting for him.

Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, November 12, 2006 4:02 AM CST

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Rhonda and Eddie, I dont sign in every day but I am still here and still thinking about you and praying for the two of you and your familys, and of course Linda and the kids and the Shannons too. All this sure makes us more and more homesick for heaven dont it
Sharon <sholweger5@yahoo.com>
- Saturday, November 11, 2006 8:44 PM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I will be reading, at St. George's, later today, and I will remember Connor, while I am there. May God always bless his sweet spirit.

On Veterans Day, let us pray for our veterans, their families, and their caretakers, and let us pray for justice and peace on the earth.

God bless you always, and God bless all of Connor's many loved ones.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

The National Hymn

God of our fathers, whose almighty hand
leads forth in beauty all the starry band
of shining worlds in splendor through the skies,
our grateful songs before thy throne arise.

Thy love divine hath led us in the past,
in this free land by thee our lot is cast;
be thou our ruler, guardian, guide, and stay,
thy word our law, thy paths our chosen way.

From war's alarms, from deadly pestilence,
be thy strong arm our ever sure defense;
thy true religion in our hearts increase,
thy bounteous goodness nourish us in peace.

Refresh thy people on their toilsome way,
lead us from night to never-ending day;
fill all our lives with love and grace divine,
and glory, laud, and praise be ever thine.

Words: Daniel Crane Roberts, 1876

Music: National Hymn

Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/g/g230.html

Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, November 11, 2006 12:15 AM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I continue to remember Connor and to think of you both, and of Connor's other loved ones. I have been up about an hour, as we had a wrong number call, in the middle of the night. It has given me an opportunity to read the Nouwen Society thought, which I did not have a chance to read on Friday. It says a lot to me, and I hope it will provide you with some comfort and strength.

God bless you both, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

Saints, People Like Us

Through baptism we become part of a family much larger than our biological family. It is a family of people "set apart" by God to be light in the darkness. These set-apart people are called saints. Although we tend to think about saints as holy and pious, and picture them with halos above their heads and ecstatic gazes, true saints are much more accessible. They are men and women like us, who live ordinary lives and struggle with ordinary problems. What makes them saints is their clear and unwavering focus on God and God's people. Some of their lives may look quite different, but most of their lives are remarkably similar to our own.

The saints are our brothers and sisters, calling us to become like them.

This thought reminds me of the hymn I have shared previously, by Mrs. L.L. Locket Scott, written for her own children.

#293 In The Hymnal 1982

I sing a song of the saints of God,
Patient and brave and true,
Who toiled and fought and lived and died
For the Lord they loved and knew.
And one was a doctor,
And one was a queen,
And one was a shepherdess on the green:
They were all of them saints of God—and I mean,
God helping, to be one too.

They loved their Lord so dear, so dear,
And his love made them strong;
And they followed the right, for Jesus’ sake,
The whole of their good lives long.
And one was a soldier,
And one was a priest,
And one was slain by a fierce wild beast:
And there’s not any reason—no, not the least,
Why I shouldn’t be one too.

They lived not only in ages past,
There are hundreds of thousands still,
The world is bright with the joyous saints
Who love to do Jesus’ will.
You can meet them in school, or
In lanes, or at sea,
In church, or in trains, or in shops, or at tea,
For the saints of God are just folk like me,
And I mean to be one too.

~Mrs. L.L. Locket Scott

Tune: Grand Isle, John Henry Hopkins (1861-1945)
Hear it at: http://www.geocities.com/rgetman/hymns_list.htm

Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, November 11, 2006 3:06 AM CST

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Hello Rhonda, how are you doing? Me just great I guess, This is Dawn I used to work in the clinic I know you remember me. I just wanted to tell you that I still think of yall every year, I did let a balloon go on his Birthday.... I have got a divorce about a year and 5 months and this has been so hard in me..... I miss him very much,,,,, We need to get together and maybe have lunch
Dawn Walsh <d.1970@hotmail.com>
Chapel Hill, TN Marshall - Thursday, November 9, 2006 8:02 PM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I am remembering Connor and thinking about you both, on another autumn morning. I have no news today, no special words of comfort, or encouragement, and no point, to make. I just want to remind you that I love your sweet sunshine boy, and that I am thinking of Connor once again.

Beneath my signature, I will add the collect for November 8, which I failed to notice yesterday. I am adding it, as I like the part about praising God according to our abilities.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Almighty Father, who moved your servant John Milton to sing of man's disobedience and spiritual death, and of the perfect obedience of your Son Jesus Christ, by which we are restored to life and wholeness: Mercifully grant to us your servants that we may praise you according to our abilities, and may always be found obedient to your will, walking in the footsteps of your well-beloved Son our Savior Jesus Christ; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, November 9, 2006 9:11 AM CST

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Stopping by for a $million dollar$ smile.
June <junehumphrey@yahoo.com>
Goodlettsville, TN - Wednesday, November 8, 2006 11:51 PM CST

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Even beyond the grave there is hope. The God of Life goes on striving in the afterworld; death is a crisis, but not an ending.

~G.A. Studdert Kennedy

Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I found this on a slip of paper in one of my books earlier today. Connor's name was on the same paper, as part of a list of people to remember in church that day. May God bless your sweet sunshine boy.

God bless you both, and God bless your friends the Martins and the Shannons.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, November 8, 2006 7:31 PM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

Last night, when I returned from a class in Albany, the TV was on in the living room, and the last hour of the Country Music Awards was beginning. In watching, I thought of you, of the Martins, of the Shannons, and of other country music lovers I have met through CaringBridge. I also thought of my mother and a trip I made with her to Nashville, when she was quite ill, many years ago. May God bless Connor, Kevin, and my mom, who are no longer on earth, but who are still enjoying their favorite songs and artists.

This morning, I awoke with the words to Who Are These Like Stars Appearing, so perhaps you would like to read, or sing, it today, using the message I left on November 1.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

Now in God's most holy place
blest they stand before his face.

~Heinrich Theobald Schenk, 1719;
trans. Frences Elizabeth Cox, 1841
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, November 7, 2006 7:12 AM CST

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Rhonda,
Thank you so much for sending me "back" to Richie's site. It is such a horrible thing that they are going through and I'm quite sure this is extremely hard on ya'll too. Just wanted to let you know that you are still in my prayers and that Connor remains in my heart.
Missed you!
Helenmary <helenmary77@bellsouth.net>
Gallatin, TN - Monday, November 6, 2006 10:14 PM CST

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RHonda & eddie, remembering connor today and on his birthday last week, and often. I dont know how you do it , but Im so glad you continue on. Connor was the braevest 10 yr old I knew! I cant believe he would be 12 a pre teen. cancer just robs so much! Praying for you.. God is with you every moment!
Kim
IN - Monday, November 6, 2006 9:39 PM CST

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Hi Rhonda and Eddie,
Connor's Birthday balloon sailed away into Heaven a little while ago. Ryan and Brandon helped me release it on the count of 3, it started to drift towards a tree and got stuck in the top branch and the boys yelled "NO NO"....it released itself and off it flew Heavenward.:! They yelled "YEA...YEA!" They stood and watched it until they couldn't see it anymore. They ask me about Connor often, he will always be a part of our lives and always in our hearts.
WE LOVE YOU AND WE MISS YOUR SUNSHINE BOY WHO BROUGHT SUNSHINE TO OUR LIVES.
Love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Monday, November 6, 2006 7:50 PM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I am thinking of sweet Connor, and of both of you, on a sunny autumn day. I was planning to write more in Connor's guest book last night, but I was suddenly given two tickets to an opera, Puccini's La Boheme, at Proctor's Theater, in Schenectady, last night. I called a friend, Carol, to meet me, so we could drive to the theater together. We had a wonderful time, but this is one outing that Connor would not have enjoyed.

God bless you both, and of course, God bless Connor's sweet spirit. Connor is loved, and Connor will not be forgotten.

I have the Martin family and the Shannon family in my prayers today. I know thinking about Richie, being so ill, must be hard for both of you, and also difficult for Connor's other loved ones. May God bless and keep all three families.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, November 6, 2006 12:35 AM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I am thinking of sweet Connor, and of both of you, on a bright autumn day. I was planning to write more in Connor's guest book last night, but I was suddenly gifted with two tickets to an opera, Puccini's La Boheme, at Proctor's Theater, in Schenectady, last night. I grabbed a friend, Carol, to go, and we had a wonderful time, but this is one outing that Connor would not have enjoyed.

God bless you both, and of course, God bless Connor's sweet spirit. Connor is loved, and he will not be forgotten.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, November 6, 2006 12:25 AM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

Connor was remembered this morning at the Cathedral of All Saints, in Albany, NY. I also thought of Ian, Jason, Cheyenne, and several other children, and of Kevin Martin. May all of them be blessed, and may God bless, strengthen, and keep you.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

Today's Gospel:

Matthew 5:1-12
When Jesus saw the crowds, he went up the mountain; and after he sat down, his disciples came to him. Then he began to speak, and taught them, saying:

"Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.
"Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted.
"Blessed are the meek, for they will inherit the earth.
"Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness, for they will be filled.
"Blessed are the merciful, for they will receive mercy.
"Blessed are the pure in heart, for they will see God.
"Blessed are the peacemakers, for they will be called children of God.
"Blessed are those who are persecuted for righteousness' sake, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.
"Blessed are you when people revile you and persecute you and utter all kinds of evil against you falsely on my account. Rejoice and be glad, for your reward is great in heaven, for in the same way they persecuted the prophets who were before you.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, November 5, 2006 4:50 PM CST

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Though we never met, I'll remember Connor always and forever, not just October 31st or November 1st, but daily.
June <junehumphrey@yahoo.com>
Goodlettsville, TN - Sunday, November 5, 2006 4:48 PM CST

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For Mrs. Pam

I have been told that Mrs. Scott was thinking of the following saints when she wrote I Sing a Song of the Saints of God for her own children.

Luke: the doctor
Margaret of Scotland: the queen
Joan of Arc: the shepherdess on the green

Martin of Tours: the soldier
John Donne: the priest
Ignatius: slain by a fierce wild beast

We will be singing this song in our parishes tomorrow morning. Let us sing joyfully and from the heart," For the saints of God are just folk like me, and I mean to be one, too."

Grace and peace,

Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, November 4, 2006 8:32 AM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

The last couple of days have been very busy, and when I have had a minute, to come to the computer, Andrew has been using it for homework and test taking. I have not forgotten you, and certainly I have not forgotten your sweet sunshine boy, Connor. Connor was remembered in Eucharist on Thursday night, at St. George's, during the celebration for All Souls. He was also remembered in a Schenectady church, yesterday, just before, and during the Church Women United World Community Day.

I know Connor's funeral was at noon on November 4, 2004. I will be thinking of you at noon today.

God bless you both, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

Grant, O Lord, to all who are bereaved, the spirit of faith and courage, that they may have strength to meet the days to come with steadfastness and patience; not sorrowing as those without hope, but in thankful remembrance of your great goodness, and in joyful expectation of eternal life with those they love. And this we ask in the Name of Jesus Christ our Savior. Amen.

~The Book of Common Prayer, Page 505
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, November 4, 2006 8:29 AM CST

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Even when I dont come by every day and sign you know you are always on my mind and in my heart and my prayers...
Sharon <sholweger5@yahoo.com>
- Friday, November 3, 2006 7:06 PM CST

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Happy Belated Birthday sweet Connor! Eddie & Rhonda, I haven't posted lately, but I certainly haven't forgotten the impact you and your amazing son have made on my life. My Mom, also, celebrates her birthday on October 31. God Bless you through this what I'm sure has to be a heartbreaking, bitter sweet time of year. You will be in my prayers... Love always
Kim Uldrich <kimberly.uldrich@hcahealthcare.com>
Hendersonville, TN USA - Friday, November 3, 2006 1:39 PM CST

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Eddie and Rhonda, We have been thinking of your family and the celebration for Connor's birthday. He is always in our thoughts and will forever be remembered.
Cerena Albright <Cerena.Albright@Unilever.com>
Clarksville, TN USA - Friday, November 3, 2006 11:34 AM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I continue to remember you sweet sunshine boy and angel-cake, Connor, as I will, as long as I have breath. God has him close, and may God hold you close, as you relive the sad events of two years ago.

Later today, as I attend an All Soul's Day service, I will name Connor to God, as I name my parents, grandparents, aunts and uncles, and favorite teachers.

Beneath my signature, I will add the collect for today.

God bless you always, and God bless Connor.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

O God, the Maker and Redeemer of all believers: Grant to the faithful departed the unsearchable benefits of the passion of your Son; that on the day of his appearing they may be manifested as your children; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.

O blest communion, fellowship divine!
we feebly struggle, they in glory shine;
all are one in thee, for all are thine.
Alleluia, Alleluia!

And when the strife is fierce, the warfare long,
steals on the ear the distant triumph song,
and hearts are brave, again, and arms are strong.
Alleluia, Alleluia!

The golden evening brightens in the west;
soon, soon to faithful warriors comes their rest;
sweet is the calm of paradise the blessed.
Alleluia, Alleluia!

But lo! there breaks a yet more glorious day;
the saints triumphant rise in bright array;
the King of glory passes on his way.
Alleluia, Alleluia!

From earth's wide bounds, from ocean's farthest coast,
through gates of pearl streams in the countless host,
and singing to Father, Son and Holy Ghost:
Alleluia, Alleluia!

Words: William Walsham How, (1823-1897)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, November 2, 2006 10:10 AM CST

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Even though I was gone and running all day yesterday I had Connor and his beautiful smile on my mind all day. I can just picture in my mind our kids goofing around, smiling and laughing, and having a ball. Just think, someday we will again be part of all that.

Thinking about you and sending you hugs.

Roy

Cheyenne's Proud Daddy
www.caringbridge.org/tx/cheyenne5


Roy Fiveash <rfiveash@wcc.net>
San Angelo, TX - Thursday, November 2, 2006 9:35 AM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,
Thinking of you!
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Thursday, November 2, 2006 8:25 AM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I am trying to stay a little closer this week, as I know Connor's anniversary is a hard time for you. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you beautiful Hunleys once again today.

I expect to be at church on Thursday for an All Soul's Service, and I will include Connor with a remembrance of my parents and other loved ones. In some ways, Connor is like a nephew to me, so this is only fitting.

God bless you both, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

Twin Celebrations: All Saints Day (November 1) and All Soul's Day (November 2)

For all the saints, who from their labors rest,
who thee by faith before the world confessed,
thy Name, O Jesus, be forever blessed.
Alleluia, Alleluia!

Thou wast their Rock, their Fortress and their Might;
thou, Lord, their Captain in the well fought fight;
thou, in the darkness drear, their one true Light.
Alleluia, Alleluia!

For the apostles' glorious company,
who bearing forth the cross o'er land and sea,
shook all the mighty world, we sing to Thee:
Alleluia, Alleluia!

For the Evangelists, by whose blest word,
like fourfold streams, the garden of the Lord,
is fair and fruitful, be thy Name adored.
Alleluia, Alleluia!

For Martyrs, who with rapture kindled eye,
saw the bright crown descending from the sky,
and seeing, grasped it, thee we glorify.
Alleluia, Alleluia!

O may thy soldiers, faithful, true, and bold,
fight as the saints who nobly fought of old,
and win, with them the victor's crown of gold.
Alleluia, Alleluia!

O blest communion, fellowship divine!
we feebly struggle, they in glory shine;
all are one in thee, for all are thine.
Alleluia, Alleluia!

And when the strife is fierce, the warfare long,
steals on the ear the distant triumph song,
and hearts are brave, again, and arms are strong.
Alleluia, Alleluia!

The golden evening brightens in the west;
soon, soon to faithful warriors comes their rest;
sweet is the calm of paradise the blessed.
Alleluia, Alleluia!

But lo! there breaks a yet more glorious day;
the saints triumphant rise in bright array;
the King of glory passes on his way.
Alleluia, Alleluia!

From earth's wide bounds, from ocean's farthest coast,
through gates of pearl streams in the countless host,
and singing to Father, Son and Holy Ghost:
Alleluia, Alleluia!

Words: William Walsham How, 1864

Music: Sine nomine

Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/f/f174.html
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, November 2, 2006 0:07 AM CST

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You are in our thoughts today. We are sending our love. We were blessed to have known Connor. He is sadly missed. Caleb talks of him often. I think of him daily, as I have the license plate you designed in honor of Connor. I see his name everyday.
Jeffrey, Debbie, Caleb & Cameron Little <littlecaleb@hotmail.com>
Dickson, TN U.S.A. - Wednesday, November 1, 2006 10:23 PM CST

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you have been on my mind so much today... and I have said a quick prayer every time..... also have said a lot for The Shannon family and for the Martin's too
Sharon <sholweger5@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, November 1, 2006 8:32 PM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I was hoping to be able to get to St. Thomas of Canterbury (Elaine's church) tonight, since I missed the All Saints Eucharist, at St. George's. Although I tired, I was unable to go, but I know that Elaine has been thinking of Connor, and that she planned to remember him in the Eucharist at St. Thomas.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

Who are these like stars appearing,
these, before God's throne who stand?
Each a golden crown is wearing;
who are all this glorious band?
Alleluia! Hark, they sing,
praising loud their heavenly King.

Who are these of dazzling brightness,
clothed in God's own righteousness?
These, whose robes of purest whiteness,
shall their luster still possess,
still untouched by time's rude hand?
Whence came all this glorious band?

These are they who have contended
for their Savior's honor long,
wrestling on till life was ended,
following not the sinful throng;
these who well the fight sustained,
triumph through the Lamb have gained.

These are they whose hearts were riven,
sore with woe and anguish tried,
who in prayer full oft have striven
with the God they glorified;
now, their painful conflict o'er,
God has bid them weep no more.

These, the Almighty contemplating,
did as priests before him stand,
soul and body always waiting
day and night at his command:
now in God's most holy place
blest they stand before his face.

Words: Heinrich Theobald Schenk, 1719;
trans. Frences Elizabeth Cox, 1841, rev. 1864

Music: Zeuch mich (All Saints Old)

Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/w/w441.html

Truly Connor Jordan Hunley is one appearing like a star.

Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, November 1, 2006 8:07 PM CST

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Thinking of you today.....
Maria <mariaw19@hotmail.com>
NJ - Wednesday, November 1, 2006 7:47 PM CST

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Thinking of you,Eddie & sweet little Connor.Praying for you'll also. Love, Donna & Nina
Donna & Nina <daviswel@nctc.com>
Westmworeland, Tn USA - Wednesday, November 1, 2006 6:48 PM CST

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Thinking of you,Eddie & sweet little Connor.Praying for you'll also. Love, Donna & Nina
Donna & Nina <daviswel@nctc.com>
Westmworeland, Tn USA - Wednesday, November 1, 2006 6:48 PM CST

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Thinking of you so much over the last couple days. Happy Birthday to Connor, and Happy Heaven Day today. While I can only imagine how extra hard these 2 days are for you, I can't help but smile thinking of what Heaven is like for Connor. I am so happy that he has been sending you signs. Despite the pain and sadness of missing him, you KNOW he is ok!! Thinking of you all.

Karen (FOA)
Stow, OH - Wednesday, November 1, 2006 6:31 PM CST

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Rhonda and Eddie,
First off, a Happy Birthday to Connor yesterday. My heart is heavy with you today as I know you miss your baby boy so much. My son, Jared, had Connor's wristband on Monday night and was talking about it and smiling. We wore our wristbands a few weeks ago at a fundraiser we had at church for a young lady in our community who is recovering from a bone marrow transplant. She has AML. We all wore some type of cancer shirts so my Mom and I wore Hope shirts from St Jude and my son and I wore our wristbands from Connor and Tyler. We enjoyed telling about them when people asked.
May God Bless you both today and always. You guys are especially in our prayers today. I know that everyday is hard but today is especially a day of reflection. God Bless Connor for being a wonderful witness not only in life here on Earth but while he is in Heaven.
Friends in Christ,
Leslie Ellenburg


Leslie Ellenburg <leslieellenburg@wmconnect.com>
Greeneville, TN - Wednesday, November 1, 2006 3:24 PM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I had a meeting this morning that I could not change, so I missed the parish All Saints Eucharist. However, on my way home, I stopped at the Chapel of All Angels, in St. George's, to remember sweet Connor and to pray for both of you, and for many of Connor's other loved ones.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, November 1, 2006 3:20 PM CST

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Heaven clamoured with Connor's arrival two years ago - a party like none Connor had ever thought possible.

Our hearts ached two years ago - and continue to ache without his presence - as we never had thought they could.

(((HUGS)))
the bustin's <gabustin@aol.com>
gallatin, tn - Wednesday, November 1, 2006 2:54 PM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie, I am remembering Connor today, in all his sweetness, and I am praying for you. Try to remember that they say Heaven's time is different from our time, and Connor is so happy because he knows it is only seconds in Heavenly time until you are all together again. Love, Linda
linda champa <lachampa@mintz.com (Audrey's Umbrella, www.braintrust.org/Audrey)>
boston, ma usa - Wednesday, November 1, 2006 2:03 PM CST

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tears came to my eyes
when I read the questbook
entry...very precious...

sending you lots of love

Craig, lauren, helen and rex

CRAIG
helen <trula1@comcast.net>
- Wednesday, November 1, 2006 1:52 PM CST

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Rhonda and Eddie..Thinking of you and praying you find some comfort in each other remebering your sweet Conner.Sending you hugs from Hemet. Always someone who cares.Sherry
Sherry <cowpies5@aol.com>
Hemet, ca - Wednesday, November 1, 2006 1:32 PM CST

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Thinking of you today and remembering Connor always.
Chrissy Pierce <clpierce@matternandcraig.com>
Kingsport, TN - Wednesday, November 1, 2006 1:32 PM CST

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Connor:

Your presence we miss
Your memory we treasure,
Loving you always
Forgetting you never!

~ Author Unknown ~


Mary A. Taylor <butsie13@aol.com>
Essex, MD USA - Wednesday, November 1, 2006 1:07 PM CST

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Eddie and Rhonda you are in my thoughts and prayers
Love,Tina Pirro <kmpirro@msn.com>
Metuchen, NJ - Wednesday, November 1, 2006 11:03 AM CST

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Praying for you today.
Kris <grannykris@hotmail.com>
Sunnyside, WA - Wednesday, November 1, 2006 10:59 AM CST

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Hi Rhonda and Eddie, Doug and I have been thinking of you. Q-bert has not had another pal like Conner. He was such a cutie! I will always be grateful for his (and your) friendship. Love, Sarah Jane
Sarah Jane and Q-bert
- Wednesday, November 1, 2006 10:51 AM CST

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Thinking of Connor today and of course, his precious family who miss him so much. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Joan Boyle <jbcb@videotron.ca>
Montreal, Quebec Canada - Wednesday, November 1, 2006 10:37 AM CST

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thinking of you today on this second anniversary.
tricia <triciabxny@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, November 1, 2006 10:35 AM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,
Thinking of you and keeping Connor close in our thoughts and always in our hearts as he celebrates year number 2 with Jesus.
WE LOVE YOU AND WE MISS YOUR LITTLE SUNSHINE BOY!
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Wednesday, November 1, 2006 9:52 AM CST

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Thinking of you all today and remembering Connor. It is so hard missing our boys. God bless and comfort you.

Pam Archer
Forever Jason's mom
www.caringbridge.org/tn/jasona/
Pam Archer <davidandpam.archer@comcast.net>
Hendersonville, TN USA - Wednesday, November 1, 2006 8:52 AM CST

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First his birthday here on earth, and now his birthday in life eternal in heaven. Love to you both this day.
Holly
Holly <hhoxeng@att.net>
Denver, - Wednesday, November 1, 2006 8:48 AM CST

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Holding you up today.
Julie <jlpeacock_3@yahoo.com>
MO - Wednesday, November 1, 2006 8:30 AM CST

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I dont think I had ever heard that song posted below, the words are terrific though. my thoughts and prayers are ever with you but especially this day. you are two years closer to being with Connor forever......although I know they have been two hard years
Sharon <sholweger5@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, November 1, 2006 8:04 AM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,
Went to Mass this morning and lit a candle for your special angel. May you find peace today in the love and support of your family and friends.
Ann
Ann <radiogal62@adelphia.net>
Scranton, PA United States of America - Wednesday, November 1, 2006 7:58 AM CST

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Will blow bubbles heavenward to Connor
today at preschool. I Sing a Song of the Saints of God
is one of my favorites, too. Of course, I've always liked
the verse about meeting saints at school. But then
having tea with the queen might be enjoyable, too.

prayers and love, rhonda and eddie....
mrs pam
- Wednesday, November 1, 2006 7:50 AM CST

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Blessings On All Saints Day Morning!

Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I am thinking of you, and of Connor's entry into Heaven, on this date in 2004. I have been humming the children's hymn, I Sing a Song of the Saints of God, so I will place it below my signature. It is a hymn my boys knew well in their growing years. It was sung on both the day of Royce's baptism and of his First Communion, and the boys had a book about the hymn with line drawings of children, in custom, making a parish processional parade to its lyrics. Based on this hymn, I made a car game for the boys, when Andrew was a toddler. Both became quite good at creating questions to try to stump the other and to try to stump Mom.

God bless you both, and of course, God bless sweet Connor. I am praying for you, and for Nana and Poppy, Uncle Johnny and Uncle Chad, Beverly and Garvin, and all of Connor's loved ones today.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

I sing a song of the saints of God,
Patient and brave and true,
Who toiled and fought and lived and died
For the Lord they loved and knew.
And one was a doctor,
And one was a queen,
And one was a shepherdess on the green:
They were all of them saints of God—and I mean,
God helping, to be one too.

They loved their Lord so dear, so dear,
And his love made them strong;
And they followed the right, for Jesus’ sake,
The whole of their good lives long.
And one was a soldier,
And one was a priest,
And one was slain by a fierce wild beast:
And there’s not any reason—no, not the least,
Why I shouldn’t be one too.

They lived not only in ages past,
There are hundreds of thousands still,
The world is bright with the joyous saints
Who love to do Jesus’ will.
You can meet them in school, or
In lanes, or at sea,
In church, or in trains, or in shops, or at tea,
For the saints of God are just folk like me,
And I mean to be one too.

Lyrics: Mrs. L.L. (Locket) Scott, (1898-1986) 1929, Written For Her Own Children. She married John Mortimer Scott, a naval officer, who later became an Anglican priest and served a parish near Dartmoor.

Music: Grand Isle, By Father John Henry Hopkins (1861-1945), Tune Written For The Hymnal 1940

Hear It At: http://www.geocities.com/rgetman/hymns_list.htm

Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, November 1, 2006 7:43 AM CST

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sending you all hugs and strength at this difficult tiime.
april t <vankalen@earthlink.net>
hillsborough, nj usa - Wednesday, November 1, 2006 7:12 AM CST

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2 years...where has the time gone. I can not imagine they pain you go thru each day without your precious Sunshine Boy. Sending LOTS AND LOTS of Hugs and Prayers for you both today. Hugs,
Donna Minshew <minshews@mchsi.com>
Tifton, GA - Wednesday, November 1, 2006 6:53 AM CST

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Hunley's,
Praying for you on this very difficult week. How gut wrenching it must be to celebrate the greatest day of your life, with the worst day of your life. I can't imagine. You will fill my thoughts today.

with love, <Deirdre40@frontiernet.net>
- Wednesday, November 1, 2006 6:44 AM CST

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I can't begin to imagine what you are feeling these days. I pray that you know what a blessing Connor and his parents continue to be to this world. Happy Birthday to Connor and Happy Birthday in Heaven
Kathy
NY - Tuesday, October 31, 2006 10:09 PM CST

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I've never met Connor or your family, but have been keeping up with you via your website. Having never known him personally, I'll still never forget him. Thinking of you during this tough week.

Amy Whitlark
Norcross, GA - Tuesday, October 31, 2006 8:29 PM CST

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i did not send a balloon today as it was rainy and cloud cover was so low but I will either tomorrow or the first decent day we get. I will not ever forget the impact that Connor and his Mama and Daddy have made on me and my life. May you feel all the love and caring and prayers today and everyday
Sharon <sholweger5@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, October 31, 2006 7:53 PM CST

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I can't get through today without telling you that I continue to pray for each of you. Sheri Shannon "introduced" me to Connor a couple of years ago and I just want you to know that I continue to remember him and your family. I pray that you have many good memories over the next days to make you smile in the midst of missing him so much.
Shelly VanBinsbergen <jasonshelly@sasktel.net>
Saskatoon, SK Canada - Tuesday, October 31, 2006 7:02 PM CST

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Happy, happy birthday Connor! Thinking of all of you today and tomorrow and keeping you in my prayers always.
Lauren <dramauknow@yahoo.com>
Clemmons, NC USA - Tuesday, October 31, 2006 6:17 PM CST

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We wish you the happiest of birthdays, Connor! We know that you are having the party to end all parties!

Dearest Rhonda and Eddie, you are always in our thoughts and prayers, but especially so these last few days. We were happy to read that Connor is sending you signs. Keep looking for them and they will keep coming. The bond you share cannot be broken - he is watching over you!
Debbie and Laura <endyke@speakeasy.net>
Litchfield, NH USA - Tuesday, October 31, 2006 5:17 PM CST

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Celebrating Connor and sending prayers to you today, tomorrow and always.
Ann <radiogal62@adelphia.net>
Scranton, PA United States of America - Tuesday, October 31, 2006 5:04 PM CST

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Thinking of you, Rhonda and Eddie, and celebrating that we knew and loved Connor who was born 12 years ago today!!! We are keeping you in our prayers, especially today and tomorrow!
((((HUGS))))
the bustin's <gabustin@aol.com>
gallatin, tn - Tuesday, October 31, 2006 4:11 PM CST

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Happy Birthday Connor!


Mary A. Taylor <butsie13@aol.com>
- Tuesday, October 31, 2006 3:47 PM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I came home a few minutes ago, from releasing a large helium birthday balloon to Connor, at the Kids' Korner, at the Clifton Commons. The balloon's background color was violet, Connor's color, as a child of the King. There were many yellow smiling faces on the balloon, all wearing different types of party hats, and streaks of Connor's favorite color, blue, and our favorite color, red. I wrote Connor's name on the balloon and several messages. As I released it, I said, "Happy Birthday, Angel Connor. God bless you."

The balloon headed north, perhaps to stop in Narnia, before coming to Connor's awaiting hand.

May God bless sweet Connor on his twelfth birthday and always. I know you will see him again, and I know that you will know him and enjoy him, in God's eternal kingdom.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

I feel a strong immortal hope, which bears my mournful spirit up beneath its mountain load; redeemed from death, and grief, and pain, I soon shall find my child again within the arms of God.

~Charles Wesley (1707-1788)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, October 31, 2006 3:06 PM CST

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Thinking about you.
Briana Roehling
Pflugerville, TX - Tuesday, October 31, 2006 3:05 PM CST

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Happy birthday big guy. I just had lunch with your mom and dad and we had mexican - Your mom loves that Queso dip. We always order that. You mommy is really seeing the signs you have sent. Keep doing it little buddy. We love and miss you. We will be sending baloons around 4. Look for them. Can you share one with Mr. Kevin?
Linda Martin <themartin7@bellsouth.net>
Hendersonville, TN - Tuesday, October 31, 2006 2:17 PM CST

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HAPPY BIRTHDAY CONNOR!!Today is your day!!Someone who cares in Hemet.Sherry
Sherry <cowpies5@aol.com>
Hemet, ca - Tuesday, October 31, 2006 1:18 PM CST

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Happy Birthday Buddy: I am sending up many prayers for your family today as not celebrating with you physically is hard. Rhonda and Eddie no words can help you get through these days just know I am thinking and praying for you both.
Marjie <jmr@mahaska.org>
Oskaloosa, IA USA - Tuesday, October 31, 2006 1:12 PM CST

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Thinking of you and Connor on this very special day. Happy Birthday Connor!
Teresa Williams
Munhall, PA USA - Tuesday, October 31, 2006 1:02 PM CST

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Even though we never met, Conner has made a difference in my life. I can hardly wait until we're all united one day soon in heaven. Praying you will have many, many signs of Conner with you today and tomorrow.
June <junehumphrey@yahoo.com>
Goodlettsville, TN - Tuesday, October 31, 2006 12:57 AM CST

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Happy Bday to a great kid! You are being thought of so much on your special day! I wonder what kind of amazing celebration is going on today for you.
We love you,
The Pierce family
Lori P <hayden01@tds.net>
mt Juliet, Tn - Tuesday, October 31, 2006 12:21 AM CST

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Happy Birthday Connor
Mary <miniteasets@mail2world.com>
Worth, IL USA - Tuesday, October 31, 2006 10:44 AM CST

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Happy Birthday, Angel Connor!

You Are Very Special To Me.

A Balloon Will Be Coming Up Later Today From The Children's Area At Clifton Commons.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, October 31, 2006 10:11 AM CST

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Happy Birthday Connor! I have been thinking of you all morning! I will for sure release balloons for you today! We love and miss you!
Cindy Poole <cindy.poole@innlink.com>
Gallatin, tn usa - Tuesday, October 31, 2006 9:53 AM CST

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Just want you to know we are thinking of you and we think of Connor, all the time. Sending kisses and hugs to you Connor. You are with our Lord and someday we will get to meet you. Love Claudia and Jean-Paul
Claudia Douesnard <claudia_jp@frontier.net>
Durango, CO USA - Tuesday, October 31, 2006 9:53 AM CST

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Happy Birthday, Connor. What a special moment 12 years ago today.
I didn't expect an update so I am thrilled to see you. bittersweet, that's the only word that comes to mind today.
Love to you both,
Holly
holly <hhoxeng@att.net>
Denver, - Tuesday, October 31, 2006 9:49 AM CST

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Happy Birthday, Connor, and Happy Halloween. I'm so glad to hear you are showing your parents that you are right there with them. I can't imagine how they miss you. You lived life to the fullest and I know the memories of you are sustaining them. Although I have never met any of you, you have touched my life. I think of you often and the joy and laughter and love you brought to so many. You continue to shine bright! Hold your mommy and daddy close today and every day. These days must be so very hard without you. My thoughts and prayers are with you, Rhonda and Eddie. Today I hope you can focus on the joy you felt when this wonderful young man changed your lives forever. I know you will.
Lisa Kingsbury <dldarakingsbury@msn.com>
Sandy, UT - Tuesday, October 31, 2006 9:35 AM CST

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Happy Birthday Connor!


Jennifer Miles www.caringbridge.com/mn/deemartinson <jennifer.miles@macys.com>
Minneapolis, MN US - Tuesday, October 31, 2006 9:14 AM CST

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HAPPY BIRTHDAY CONNOR!!!!! You should make Cheyenne do her "Happy Dance" for your birthday... It is soooooo funny. Let your mom and dad know that you are around them today, we all need that, you know.. Hug my girl for me.

Cheyenne's Proud Daddy
www.caringbridge.org/tx/cheyenne5
Roy Fiveash <rfiveash@wcc.net>
San Angelo, TX - Tuesday, October 31, 2006 8:48 AM CST

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Birthday Blessings, dear Connor.
That heavenly chorus must be singing up a storm
for you right now!
mrs pam
- Tuesday, October 31, 2006 8:36 AM CST

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Happy Birthday wishes from Bristol CT. I always think of you Connor during this season. That smile still touches me. Hope you catch our balloon.
Laurie Guerriere <mamag@comcast.net>
Bristol, CT USA - Tuesday, October 31, 2006 8:22 AM CST

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Good Morning Rhonda and Eddie,
HAPPY 12TH BIRTHDAY CONNOR! I hear a chorus of angels singing you Happy Birthday! Oh what a celebration must be going on in Heaven today. Thanks sweetie for sending signs to your mommy and daddy and to us too:) You are missed beyond words, our lives were touched by yours and you will FOREVER AND EVER remain in our hearts little sunshine boy.:) Wondering what costume you are wearing today for Halloween?...I am gussing it has a halo and angel wings!:)
WE LOVE YOU AND WE MISS YOU!
love and hugs,

Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Tuesday, October 31, 2006 8:02 AM CST

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Happy Birthday Connor!!! I will send you a balloon later this morning too. and Right now I am sendng much love ... many hugs... and lots of prayers to your forever mama and daddy.
Sharon <sholweger5@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, October 31, 2006 7:59 AM CST

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Happy Birthday Connor! We will send up our balloons later this morning. Remebering Connor, and thinking of you Hunley's.
Mary <MaryKitchen@TumbleweedFoundation.org>
- Tuesday, October 31, 2006 7:31 AM CST

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Happy 12th Birthday, Connor!! We will definately send a balloon up to heaven for you today. With hugs,
Kellie Davideit <kelbri27@optonline.net>
Metuchen, nj usa - Tuesday, October 31, 2006 6:15 AM CST

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Dear Rhonda & Eddie:
I will remember you precious Connor today.
Happy 12th birthday to you Connor!!! We can only imagine what kind of celebration you must be having today in heaven -- I'm sure it is wonderful.
Tina Riga
Somerset, NJ - Tuesday, October 31, 2006 4:24 AM CST

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Dear Rhonda & Eddie,
I'm thinking of you today and remembering Connor.
Although I don't write often, I think of and pray for you often.
HAPPY 12TH BIRTHDAY CONNOR!!!!!!!!!!!!
I'm sure they're having a great big birthday party for you in heaven. Please say hi to Ian & Kevin Martin for me.
~GOD+BLESS THE HUNLEYS~
My love & prayers,
Nancy <nclare@bellatlantic.net>
Metuchen, NJ - Tuesday, October 31, 2006 2:41 AM CST

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Happy Birthday Connor! You are definately missed!!! Eddie & Rhonda, Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers each and every day, but especially today and tomorrow.
Hugs
Donna Minshew <minshews@mchsi.com>
Tifton, GA - Tuesday, October 31, 2006 0:46 AM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I have thought of Connor and how eager he was to enter his double digits, many times today. I have just paused, here at my keyboard to pray for you all.

May your memories of Connor be sweet on Tuesday, his twelfth birthday.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, October 30, 2006 11:06 PM CST

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Thinking and praying for you this week.
Penny
Southaven , MS USA - Monday, October 30, 2006 10:44 PM CST

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Hi Rhonda & Eddie, Just wanted you to know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers this week. I'm sure Connor though absent in body is making himself known to you in special ways. Love and Prayers always, Pam
Pam Coakley <pmskitees@earthlink.net>
Camarillo, c - Monday, October 30, 2006 7:37 PM CST

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Although we never met your sweet Connor, he touched my heart in a way I can never forget him. I hope that the wonderful memories you have of your beautiful son help to sustain you now and forever.
Janice <imyael@gmail.com>
Boca Raton , FL USA - Monday, October 30, 2006 6:06 PM CST

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Hey Rhonda & Eddie!
We love you and are holding you up in prayer!
the bustin's <gabustin@aol.com>
gallatin, tn - Monday, October 30, 2006 1:50 PM CST

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Thinking of you as you relive the day before Conner's birth 12 years ago. I remember Conner always.
June <junehumphrey@yahoo.com>
Goodlettsville, TN - Monday, October 30, 2006 1:33 PM CST

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Thinking of you as Connor's birthday and angel day approach.
Julie <jlpeacock_3@yahoo.com>
MO - Monday, October 30, 2006 12:52 AM CST

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I'm praying for peace and comfort for the difficult days ahead. Connor's life is an example in courage and hope. He's recieved his reward and is encouraging you to stay the course. Remember you will be with Connor again. God bless you.
Much Love,
Teresa
Teresa Myers <kylasue2@msn.com>
Aylett, VA - Monday, October 30, 2006 11:29 AM CST

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Hi Rhonda and Eddie,
Connor visited me again this morning in the form of a lady bug. I took a decoration off my porch, brought it in and there was a little lady bug crawling around on my floor. I love these little "signs" of your sunshine boy. They make me smile. I know this is a difficult time for you,please know you are in our thoughts and our prayers along with many many others that were touched by Connor. He will remain forever in our hearts.
WE LOVE YOU AND WE MISS CONNOR SO MUCH TOO!
love and hugs,

Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Monday, October 30, 2006 10:27 AM CST

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Dear Rhonda & Eddie: Just stopping by to tell you that I'm sending extra thoughts and prayers to you this difficult of weeks. Happy Heavenly Birthday Connor!
Hugs,
Mary A. Taylor

Mary A. Taylor <butsie13@aol.com>
Essex, MD USA - Monday, October 30, 2006 9:27 AM CST

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Dear Rhonda, Eddie & family,

I always have a difficult time finding the words and expressing my thoughts. Maybe it's because I pause and think, this could be Hannah. I know what it's like thinking you may loose a child but I have never experienced loosing a child. I think, what would I want someone to say to me. Words fail me. So I will say what im thinking. I think of Connor with such Happy thoughts. I see his big bright smile or him running around laughing. When Hannah and I talk about Connor we always end up with a smile. He is like the sunshine....bright, cheery and warm!!

My thoughts & prayers are with you!

Psa 91:11 For he shall give his angels charge over thee, to keep thee in all thy ways.
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HAPPY HEAVENLY BIRHTDAY CONNOR!!!



Kim Crabtree <kymberleigh321@aol.com>
Murfreesboro, Tn - Monday, October 30, 2006 8:32 AM CST

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No words seem right, so I pray the Lord provides the comfort and strength you need. God bless!
Cindy Wright
Tennessee, - Monday, October 30, 2006 8:27 AM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie, Nana and Poppy, and All,

I am thinking of you this morning, and of the Fiveash family, on the anniversary of Cheyenne's passing, and two days before that of Connor. I know this has to be a difficult time of the year for both families, and I am praying for both.

In the sure and certain hope and with my love,

~Colette~

Revelation 7:2-4,9-17:

I saw another angel ascending from the rising of the sun, having the seal of the living God, and he called with a loud voice to the four angels who had been given power to damage earth and sea,saying, "Do not damage the earth or the sea or the trees, until we have marked the servants of our God with a seal on their foreheads."

And I heard the number of those who were sealed, one hundred forty-four thousand, sealed out of every tribe of the people of Israel.

After this I looked, and there was a great multitude that no one could count, from every nation, from all tribes and peoples and languages, standing before the throne and before the Lamb, robed in white, with palm branches in their hands. They cried out in a loud voice, saying,

"Salvation belongs to our God who is seated on the throne, and to the Lamb!" And all the angels stood around the throne and around the elders and the four living creatures, and they fell on their faces before the throne and worshiped God,singing,

"Amen! Blessing and glory and wisdom and thanksgiving and honor and power and might be to our God forever and ever! Amen.

"Then one of the elders addressed me, saying, "Who are these, robed in white, and where have they come from? "I said to him, "Sir, you are the one that knows. " Then he said to me, "These are they who have come out of the great ordeal; they have washed their robes and made them white in the blood of the Lamb.

For this reason they are before the throne of God, and worship him day and night within his temple, and the one who is seated on the throne will shelter them. They will hunger no more, and thirst no more; the sun will not strike them, nor any scorching heat; for the Lamb at the center of the throne will be their shepherd, and he will guide them to springs of the water of life, and God will wipe away every tear from their eyes."

Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, October 30, 2006 6:45 AM CST

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Thinking of you this week.
Claire - from the Martin 7 <clairehand@conwaycorp.net>
conway, AR - Sunday, October 29, 2006 10:50 PM CST

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A Letter from Heaven

Mommy and Daddy, I dreamed you a letter
This comes from Heaven above.
Even though I’m up here
I can still feel your love.
In Heaven there is no sorrow
There’s never any pain or fear
And would you believe I’ve not been sick
One time since I’ve been here?
You’d be so proud of me, Mommy and Daddy,
I can do so many things,
And everyone says I look real cute
In my Halo and my wings.
Every year at Christmas
We have a great big tree up here
And guess who gets to be the Angel
On top of the tree this year?
Mommy and Daddy, I dreamed you this letter
That I’m sending you tonight
To tell you not to worry
And let you know that I’m all right.
Sometimes I hear you crying
And I wish you weren’t so sad
Cos I think you’re the best Mom and Dad,
Any Angel ever had.
So please don’t feel bad for me
I’m in God’s tender care
And he wanted me to tell you
That he hears your every prayer.
I know you miss me, Mommy and Daddy,
You know I miss you, too
But remember, me and God
Are always watching over you.
We want you to have a good life
Full of happiness and joy
I’ll see you in your dreams, Mommy and Daddy
Love, Your Little Boy
From Connor with eternal love!

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Dearest Rhonda and Eddie,

I cling to the following promise and hope it brings you some small comfort. Thinking of you always with love and prayers.

Revelation 7:14-17
Then He told me, "These are those who come from the great tribulation, and they've washed their robes, scrubbed them clean in the blood of the Lamb. That's why they're standing before God's Throne. They serve Him day and night in His Temple. The One on the Throne will pitch His tent there for them: no more hunger, no more thirst, no more scorching heat. The Lamb on the Throne will shepherd them, will lead them to spring waters of Life. And God will wipe every last tear from their eyes."

Amen dear Connor, amen! I know our loving God has wiped every tear from your eyes. How we long for the day He will wipe them from our eyes.
Love and many prayers for strength and peace - it never gets any easier :(

Judy and Angel Jennifer


Judy

Judy Crawford <tnderheart@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, October 29, 2006 6:45 PM CST

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I have been thinking of you all praying for your Peace and celebrate that you, Rhonda and Eddie are still here with us but closer to being reunited with Connor.
Gods Blessings
Jim
Jim
- Sunday, October 29, 2006 5:46 PM CST

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Remembering Conner.. today, tommorrow, and always...and thinking of you both. Someone who cares in Hemet.sherry
Sherry <cowpies5@aol.com>
Hemet, ca - Sunday, October 29, 2006 1:17 PM CST

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I've been praying for you both extra hard the last few weeks. You will always be in my prayers especially during Connor's birthday week.
Lisa
Mount Juliet, TN USA - Sunday, October 29, 2006 12:22 AM CST

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I am so glad to see so many entries in Connor's guest book. Connor's friends are remembering him, and we are also praying for both of you, and for Nana and Poppy, and for all of Connor's other family members. May God comfort, bless, and keep you all.

I am sure you are in touch with Linda and her family. It sounds like Tyler had a great birthday. I hope in some way you have had some lightness and joy this weekend. Perhaps it was in helping Tyler to celebrate or in some silliness with Linda. Both families are dear to me and high on my prayer list.

God bless you always, and God bless your sweet sunshine boy.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

Collect For This Weekend:

Almighty and everlasting God, increase in us the gifts of faith, hope, and charity; and, that we may obtain what you promise, make us love what you command; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, October 29, 2006 11:16 AM CST

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Checking on you often, but sending a special prayer this week.
Gayle Lewis
Robinson, TX - Sunday, October 29, 2006 9:45 AM CST

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You and your family are always in my thoughts and prayers. I know the second year is especially hard.
One of the Martin's many friends
- Sunday, October 29, 2006 7:17 AM CST

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Thinking of you this week as always. Thank you for remembering Nikie and Me last week as it was Nikie's 1 year mark. I can't wait till we see our babies again.!!!!That will be the best day ever. I am here for you both if you need a new ear to talk to. Just call.
Lots of Love
Nikie's Mom Forever
Cindy
www.caringbridge.org/tn/nikiegriffin
Cindy <Nikiesheart@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, October 29, 2006 0:04 AM CDT

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Thinking of you this weekend, next week, and always!


Dee Nelson <titanfan217@insightbb.com>
Springfield, IL - Saturday, October 28, 2006 10:02 PM CDT

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Rhonda and Eddie
I will say a special prayer for you tomorrow
as you face the difficult dates coming up
on Halloween and All Saints Day.
With fond memories of Connor...such an extraordinary brave saint!
mrs pam
St Louis, - Saturday, October 28, 2006 9:39 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,
Connor is on my mind and in my heart as always, but especially with Halloween and his birthday and his anniversary date right around the corner. I have been seeing lots of little lady bugs lately, one visited me Friday on my kitchen counter, I just watched it crawl wherever it wanted to.:):):)
Know we are sending up extra prayers for you both.
WE LOVE YOU AND MISS YOUR SUNSHINE BOY WHO WILL FOREVER AND EVER REMAIN WITH US IN OUR HEARTS.
Love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Saturday, October 28, 2006 7:15 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I just want you to know that I am praying for you extra hard this weekend and next week. I accepted a place on a 96 hour prayer wheel, for late tonight, to pray for people on a special faith weekend. I will be praying for those people then, but, since it is raining here, and since my son is out, I have decided to make tonight a really long and special time of prayer. You, and Connor's other loved ones, are at the top of my list.

I am devoting tonight to prayer, but if you should want to talk, later in the weekend, or sometime next week, please feel free to call.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

I have been humming the hymn I left recently a lot today. I'll leave the first verse again.

Christ the victorious, give to your servants
rest with your saints in the regions of light.
Grief and pain ended, and sighing no longer,
there may they find everlasting life.

Words: Carl P. Daw, Jr. (b.1944)

Music: Russia, Alexis Lvov (1799-1870)

Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/c/c104.html

Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, October 28, 2006 5:59 PM CDT

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Thinking of you at this time.
Love,Tina Pirro <kmpirro@msn.com>
Metuchen, NJ - Saturday, October 28, 2006 5:51 PM CDT

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Thinking and Praying for you thoughout this diffcult week. God Bless you,The Padgetts'
Jen Padgett <askjen152@yahoo.com>
Jackson, oh usa - Saturday, October 28, 2006 5:23 PM CDT

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Rhonda & Eddie -

My thoughts often drift to the two of you. What incredible, remarkable, inspirational folks you are. Please know that we are lifting you in prayer as you move through this particularly difficult time of the year, We pray that God will hold you close and provide for your every need!

God Bless You and Keep You!
Julia Proctor <neenees@bellsouth.net>
Goodlettsville, TN - Saturday, October 28, 2006 3:03 PM CDT

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Just thinking of you guys. Sending extra love, hugs and especially prayers for you during the next week.


Donna Minshew <minshews@mchsi.com>
Tifton, GA - Saturday, October 28, 2006 1:00 PM CDT

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Rhonda & Eddie,
It's been awhile since I have visited Connor's site but assure you that I think of you all so often! I am praying for you especially now during Connor's birthday and the anniversary of his heavenly birthday. When I think of Connor and his testimony of God's strength through his ordeal here on earth, what comes to mind is his BEAUTIFUL smile! What a sweet boy he is!! My heart goes out to you both! God has used you all and will continue to in the future in great and glorious ways! Blessings!
Deb Lockwood <debralockwood@verizon.net>
Hamilton, In - Saturday, October 28, 2006 12:49 AM CDT

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An early Happy Birthday to Connor. Thinking of his family....
tricia <triciabxny@yahoo.com>
- Saturday, October 28, 2006 12:35 AM CDT

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Happy Birthday, Connor..We Love you! We miss you!
Love, Donna & Nina
Donna & Nina <daviswel@nctc.com>
Westmoreland, Tn USA - Saturday, October 28, 2006 12:19 AM CDT

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Dearest Rhonda and Eddie,

I know the next couple of days are going to be extremely sad and painful for you. My heart is with you and so are my prayers.

I was thinking of Connor and Jen yesterday and all the precious angels who left this earth too soon. I had to run into town to pick up some groceries and the sky suddenly grew dark and ugly. I said "well Lord, at least it matches my mood." On the way home I was praying to find something for each of us to hold on too. Lord, we miss our kids so much and our hearts are so heavy, I said.

Suddenly I looked into the sky and the most awesome rainbow appeared. Rhonda and Eddie it was huge! I have never seen a rainbow so wide and I swear it seemed to span the entire world. And I know it surely must have spanned from my home to yours. :)

The colors were so beautiful, and vibrant, just like Connor and Jen. It seemed to smile down on me. And I knew God was with us.

So my friends, know my heart was touched and I paused to thank God for Connor and all our angels. May your weekend and the next few days be filled with loving memories, and rainbows. And may God fill your hearts with peace, hope and calm.
Love and hugs
Judy
Jennifer's Memorial Site of Hope
Judy Crawford <tnderheart@yahoo.com>
- Saturday, October 28, 2006 11:00 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie, I am thinking of you both as Connor's 12th bday is just around the corner. I cannot imagine how you are feeling. Please know that you are loved and prayed for.
We love you,
The Pierce family
Lori Pierce <hayden01@tds.net>
Mt Juliet, TN - Saturday, October 28, 2006 10:01 AM CDT

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Thinking of your family during these difficult days and praying that God will bless you with comfort, peace, and Connor's happy signs of his joy in heaven.
Lauren <dramauknow@yahoo.com>
Clemmons, NC USA - Saturday, October 28, 2006 9:41 AM CDT

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Rhonda and Eddie:
No words come to me -- reliving that time two years ago -- my heart goes out to you. Prayers for you.
Love, Holly
Holly <hhoxeng@att.net>
Denver, - Saturday, October 28, 2006 9:36 AM CDT

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Hi Rhonda and Eddie,

I am a friend of the Shannon family. I always remember Connor at this time of the year, so much to remember. I'm praying that this week will flood you with sweet memories as you think of your cute guy.
Shelly Van B <jasonshelly@sasktel.net>
Saskatoon, SK Canada - Saturday, October 28, 2006 9:24 AM CDT

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Your family is in my heart & prayers as Connor's anniversary approaches.
Jenn Hartley <ronjenn696@prodigy.net>
- Saturday, October 28, 2006 8:49 AM CDT

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I just want you to know I am thinking about you today, I know its really hard for you, and I will keep you in thought and prayer. My mom died last year on this day, well, technicaly the 29th but it was Sat night. I am so glad I got to meet you but am still so sorry it was for the reason it was. I will never forget your thoughtfulness in spending a few minutes with me when there were so many waiting in that line.
Sharon <sholweger5@yahoo.com>
- Saturday, October 28, 2006 8:19 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I write, once again, on another rainy Saturday morning, in southern Saratoga County. I hear that we may have up to four inches today.

While out in the car, on Friday, doing errands, I found myself humming "Christ the Victorious." Since I am sure that Connor shares in Christ's eternal victory, I add the words below. Isn't it wonderful that Connor is where grief and pain are ended and sighing is no longer? I know, one day, you shall join him, there.

God bless you both, and God bless your sweet sunshine boy.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

Christ the victorious, give to your servants
rest with your saints in the regions of light.
Grief and pain ended, and sighing no longer,
there may they find everlasting life.

Only immortal one, mighty Creator!
We are your creatures and children of earth.
From earth you formed us, both glorious and mortal,
and to the earth shall we all return.

God-spoken prophecy, word at creation:
"You came from dust and to dust shall return."
Yet at the grave shall we raise up our glad song,
"Alleluia, alleluia!"

Christ the victorious, give to your servants
rest with your saints in the regions of light.
Grief and pain ended, and sighing no longer,
there may they find everlasting life.

Words: Carl P. Daw, Jr. (b.1944)

Music: Russia, Alexis Lvov (1799-1870)

Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/c/c104.html
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, October 28, 2006 0:52 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie, it's almost Halloween, and I am thinking of Connor. Sending you lots of love and hugs today. Linda
linda champa <lachampa@mintz.com (Audrey's Umbrella, www.braintrust.org/Audrey)>
boston, ma usa - Friday, October 27, 2006 12:43 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I am sure the passing of Jeffrey Scott Newbauer, on Wednesday night, brings grief to you and to the families of Jason Archer and Ian Davideit. Connor, Jeff, Jason, and Ian will all always have a place in my heart.

My thoughts and prayers are with you today.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

Nothing loved is ever lost or perished.

~Madeleine L'Engle, in A Ring Of Endless Light

I feel a strong immortal hope, which bears my mournful spirit up beneath its mountain load; redeemed from death, and grief, and pain, I soon shall find my child again within the arms of God.

~Charles Wesley (1707-1788)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, October 27, 2006 10:26 AM CDT

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Rhonda and Eddie I dont come and sign in very often but you know by my emails that I am thinking of you and I know how hard this time of year is for you. I don't know if you let the trick or treaters come, I am sure I couldn't do it.. I keep you both in my nightly prayers.
Sharon <sholweger5@yahoo.com,>
- Thursday, October 26, 2006 1:32 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

Elaine wants me to tell you that she is thinking of you extra hard this month, as her oldest son, David, and Connor both celebrate Halloween birthdays. I often look at Connor in his puppy costume and think about his wonderful smile and how cute he was. I am sure you have many happy and sweet memories of Connor at various Halloweens.

I remember Andrew, at two, not getting the hang of the expression, "Trick or Treat," so instead, banging his pumpkin pail on the counter tops at the mall, where I took the boys for safe Trick or Treating, and yelling, "Gum!" The thought of it makes me smile, and I truly hope that despite your loss of Connor's physical presence, that you can smile, this Halloween, over the funny and loving things Connor did during his Halloweens on earth.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless you beautiful sunshine boy.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, October 26, 2006 11:31 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I am taking a few minutes on a busy day to remember Connor and to think of you both, and of many of Connor's other loved ones and supporters. I have paused, here, at my keyboard, to pray.

God bless you all.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, October 25, 2006 12:22 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I just want you to know that I am remembering Connor, and thinking about you, one week before Connor's birthday. My thoughts are also with Nana and Poppy, Uncle Johnny and Uncle Chad, Beverly and Garvin, and all of Connor's other loved ones.

God bless you all.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, October 24, 2006 11:22 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

Andrew and I went to a Story Sunday, at the Glen Sanders Mansion, in Scotia, last night. One of the tellers was Tom Weakley, from Vermont, who is one of Andrew's favorites. I have to tell you, as I looked at the delight on my son's face, I thought of Connor. I know your sweet sunshine boy would have loved the professional storytelling that we hear, and since the National Storytelling Festival is in Jonesboro, TN, it is likely that he would have had opportunities to hear some of the best, either at the festival, or from some of your area tellers. Each dinner plate had three thin strips of asparagus. Maybe Connor would not have enjoyed that. (I don't remember eating asparagus until I was in junior high.) Otherwise, Connor would have enjoyed such an evening.

I think of Connor every day. He will always be a part of my thoughts and of those of many. God bless his sweet spirit!

Beneath my signature, I will add the collect for today.

God bless you both, and God bless Nana and Poppy, and all of Connor's other loved ones.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

A Collect For The Feast Of James Of Jerusalem, October 23:

Lord Jesus Christ, who set your brother James on the throne of your church in Jerusalem: Grant that as he continually interceded for the sins of your people, and worked to reconcile in one body both Jew and Gentile; so your Church may give itself continually to prayer and to the reconciliation of all who are at variance and enmity, and may ever be an effectual witness for the salvation of all mankind. Grant this, O Son of Man, who are on the right hand of the Father, in the unity of the Spirit, now and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, October 23, 2006 12:53 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,
I tried to post in the guestbook last night, but couldn't an error came up?
Anyway wanted to let you know I am thinking of you, praying for you and missing your sunshine boy. WE LOVE YOU!
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Sunday, October 22, 2006 9:05 PM CDT

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Rhonda & Eddie, I have a better understanding of what you are going thru, and how lonely it is. My nephew, an only child, died last month in a horrific car accident. His 19th bday is this month and my sister is devastated and still in denial and guilt. The house is now deafeningly quiet all the time & she has no idea what to do with herself anymore. I dont know how you've been coping as long as you have. Its been a month for her and she is already at her wits end. Its got to be a long and lonely road, that of a parent forced to outlive a child.
Chris & Gooch
Share the Love.org <chrisrusso_@hotmail.com>
- Sunday, October 22, 2006 2:18 PM CDT

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The Garden of the Saints

The Church is a very human organization but also the garden of God's grace. It is a place where great sanctity keeps blooming. Saints are people who make the living Christ visible to us in a special way. Some saints have given their lives in the service of Christ and his Church; others have spoken and written words that keep nurturing us; some have lived heroically in difficult situations; others have remained hidden in quiet lives of prayer and meditation; some were prophetic voices calling for renewal; others were spiritual strategists setting up large organizations or networks of people; some were healthy and strong; others were quite sick, and often anxious and insecure.

But all of them in their own ways lived in the Church as in a garden where they heard the voice calling them the Beloved and where they found the courage to make Jesus the center of their lives.

~Henri Nouwen (1932-1996)

Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

These words, sent from the Nouwen Society, touched me this morning, so I thought I would share them with you. Beneath my signature, I will add a short quote I have been thinking about recently, which goes along with them.

Never a day passes when I do not remember your sweet sunshine boy, who is now in the nearer presence of Jesus.

God bless you both, and of course, God bless Connor.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

How monotonously alike all the great tyrants and conquerors have been; how gloriously different are the saints.

~C.S. Lewis (1898-1963)

Gratefully. Thankfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, October 22, 2006 1:01 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I tired to post on Friday morning, but the page would not open. I finally saved a copy, hoping to get back during the afternoon, but it didn't happen. I hope you had a good day on Friday, and that you enjoy the weekend.

God bless you both.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

It has been pouring all night here in southern Saratoga County. We are supposed to get up to three inches today. I cannot ever remember such a rainy year.

My thoughts are of Connor on yet another Friday. God bless your sweet sunshine boy, and God bless both of you. Also, bless Nana and Poppy, Uncle Johnny and Uncle Chad, Tabitha and her family, and all of Connor's other loved ones.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

A Collect For Fridays:

Almighty God, whose most dear Son went not up to joy but
first he suffered pain, and entered not into glory before he
was crucified: Mercifully grant that we, walking in the way
of the cross, may find it none other than the way of life and
peace; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord. Amen.

The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 99
Written By William Reed Huntington (1838-1909)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, October 21, 2006 0:42 AM CDT

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Rhonda and Eddie--just wanting you to know that I think of you both and Angel Connor all of the time. Hayden is getting so big and it makes me think of Connor. Please know that you are loved and prayed for. Email me sometime.
Love you,
Lori P.
Lori Pierce <hayden01@tds.net>
Mt Juliet, Tn - Friday, October 20, 2006 12:46 AM CDT

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Stopping by to remember your beautiful boy...
His smile is priceless! I hope you are both doing well and having a nice fall.
Prayers for you both...
Take Care.

Amy <athomas@hansoncomputer.com>
CA - Thursday, October 19, 2006 4:16 PM CDT

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Rhonda and Eddie, You are still forever in our daily prayers and thoughts. We talk of Connor very often with our boys. Seth has just past his four year in remission and we await for the fifth next summer! Your family has such a special place in our hearts.

God Bless,
Scott, Cerena, Austin & Seth Albright

Cerena Albright <Cerena. Albright@Unilever.com>
Clarksville, Tn USA - Thursday, October 19, 2006 9:36 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

While Andrew is working a late shift, I am signing some of the CaringBridge guest books. Connor is always a favorite child to me. I will remember him with a smile, always.

Yesterday, was the Feast of St. Luke, the Physician. I will leave the collect beneath my signature.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

The Collect For The Feast Of St. Luke (October 18):

Almighty God, who inspired your servant Luke the physician to declare in the Gospel the love and healing power of your Son: Graciously continue in your Church the same love and power to heal, to the praise and glory of your Name; through your Son Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 244
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, October 19, 2006 1:24 AM CDT

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Hi Rhonda and Eddie,
Just stopping by to check out the pictures of your sunshine boy, looking at them is always bitter-sweet. I love that smile!:)
Monday, Ryan our middle grandson...(he will be 6 next month) was asking all about Connor. (Connor's pictures are on our fridge) I love telling him about the little boy who captured my heart and inspired me beyond words!!!
WE LOVE YOU AND WE MISS YOUR SUNSHINE BOY.
Take gentle care.
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Wednesday, October 18, 2006 8:42 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I sent a message to Connor's guest book yesterday. I saved it, as I wanted to check on the authorship of the quotation, so I will add it below. It is raining hard, here in southern Saratoga County, as it has been since late last night. Elaine's Bible study was canceled, as it is snowing wet, heavy snow, where her rector lives. She has had a bad cold, so I am glad she does not feel obligated to go out. I am thinking of staying home from a church class tonight, as it is really teeming. It is a good night here, to curl up in a chair and read.

Both Elaine and I are thinking of Connor. We love him, and we love both of you.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

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I loved the boy with the utmost love of which my soul is capable and he is taken from me – yet in the agony of my spirit in surrendering such a treasure, I feel a thousand times richer than if I had never possessed it.

~William Wadsworth, 1812

Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I read these words on the site of another little boy recently, and I immediately thought of you. I am sure you can relate. As Kathy and Dave often write, "I miss Connor, and I am thinking of you."

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

I feel a strong immortal hope, which bears my mournful spirit up beneath its mountain load; redeemed from death, and grief, and pain, I soon shall find my child again within the arms of God.

~Charles Wesley
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, October 17, 2006 4:55 PM CDT

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Hi Eddie & Rhonda,

Thinking about you this morning and hoping that each day is another day full of God's blessings and assurances.

The preacher spoke Sunday morning about the verses in Philippians that tell us to rejoice in everything. I thought, that must be a lot easier said than done. I let the trivial things upset my apple cart. What about all the people facing serious problems? What about the empty chairs around the kitchen table? How do you tell a parent to rejoice when their child has finished the race?

Tough, tough questions for which I do not have an answer. I suppose just as our little children trust us and will jump into our outstretched arms from a high place, so we must trust God completely to catch and hold us.

May God's love continue to help you through days that are full of happy memories and times.

Love you both!
Wayne
Wayne Gordon <wgordon@cscsystems.com>
Hermitage, TN USA - Tuesday, October 17, 2006 9:02 AM CDT

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I don't sign in often, but think of Connor often and pray for you. What a nice message you left in Richie's guestbook. I hope you are doing well and that memories of Connor brighten your days. This month must be very tough, not that any would be easy, but this one especially. Connors pictures always make me smile. What a smile that guy had! My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Lisa Kingsbury <dldarakingsbury@msn.com>
Sandy, UT - Monday, October 16, 2006 7:45 PM CDT

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HOPE YOUR FAMILY DOING GOOD
AMANDA JAYCOX <SUNNYJAYCOX@MSN.COM>
LARAMIE, WY USA - Sunday, October 15, 2006 11:24 PM CDT

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(((HUGS)))
becky bustin <gabustin@aol.com>
gallatin, tn - Sunday, October 15, 2006 8:07 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I have just viewed Connor's pictures again. They always make me smile.

I was thinking of a quotation from St. Teresa of Avila as I signed onto this site. Then it occurred to me that today is her feast day, so I will leave the quote and the collect of the day beneath my signature.

I hope you are both well and that Tabitha is still recovering from her stroke. Please let us know how she is, when you can.

God bless you both, and God bless your sweet sunshine boy.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

Almighty God, who, when the hearts of your people have grown cold, send your Spirit to relight the flame of your love in their hearts, and raise up faithful ministers to recall your people to their former devotion and service: Mercifully grant that we, following the teaching and example of Teresa of Avila and others, may be filled with your Holy Spirit, may be aflame with zeal for your glory and love for your goodness and hunger for your love, and that our feet may be set upon the path that leads to true holiness; the which we ask through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and ever.

From moment to momnt, one can bear much.

~ St. Teresa of Avila (1515-1582)

Gratefully. Thankfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, October 15, 2006 10:49 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

Connor was remembered at Eucharist this afternoon, at St. George's. I sat near the Resurrection/New Life window, which has a deer and a squirrel near the empty tomb. As I viewed the window, I thought of Connor's great love of animals, his desire to be a veterinarian, and all of the animal related experiences he is probably having in heaven. God bless him always.

While in church, I prayed for both of you, for Nana and Poppy, and for many of Connor's other loved ones. May God bless you all.

Beneath my signature, I will add the collect for this weekend.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

Lord, we pray that your grace may always precede and follow us, that we may continually be given to good works; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.

~Proper Nineteen, The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 234
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, October 14, 2006 11:47 PM CDT

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i think about you and Eddie every day Rhonda Just dont siign the book as aften I keep you in my prayers and as you know I email too. Sharon
Sharon <sholweger5@yahoo.com,>
- Friday, October 13, 2006 7:46 PM CDT

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~Thinking of you today and remembering your sunshine boy.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, October 13, 2006 5:03 PM CDT

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You and Eddie have been on my mind a lot lately. I know this month must be extra hard for you. Please know that you both continue to be in my prayers.
Lisa (Tristan's Mama)
Mount Juliet, TN USA - Friday, October 13, 2006 5:00 PM CDT

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I know this must be a rough month for you and I wanted you to know I'm thinking of you and Connor.

with love, <Deirdre40@frontiernet.net>
- Friday, October 13, 2006 7:22 AM CDT

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Thinking of you
June <junehumphrey@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, October 12, 2006 1:59 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

After a night and a morning of rain, the sun has come out, and we have a beautiful fall day, here in southern Saratoga County. I hope you are having a good day where you are. May your thoughts of Connor be sweet, today, as mine are.

I know it is difficult for you, but I hope you can update the journal soon.

Today's saint is Wilfrid, who was an Archbishop of York. He died this day in 709. I will place the collect beneath my signature.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

Heavenly Father, Shepherd of your people, we thank you for your servant Wilfrid, who was faithful in the care and nurture of your flock; and we pray that, following his example and the teaching of his holy life, we may by your grace grow into the stature of the fulness of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, October 12, 2006 11:38 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I am remembering Connor early this morning. I will not forget your sweet sunshine boy.

Today's saint is Paulinus. I will add the collect beneath my signature.

God bless you both.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

Almighty and everlasting God, we thank you for your servant Paulinus, whom you called to preach the Gospel to the people of northern England. Raise up in this and every land evangelists and heralds of your kingdom, that your Church may proclaim the unsearchable riches of our Savior Jesus Christ; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, October 10, 2006 0:50 AM CDT

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Happy Columbus Day!

Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I am thinking of both of you and of sweet Connor today. I hope you have a good day.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, October 9, 2006 10:24 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I have found myself singing a couple of little songs about Columbus, and doing so, makes me wonder what little songs Connor liked. I know you must miss him like crazy, during this, his birthday month. Please remember that you are both in my thoughts and prayers.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, October 9, 2006 0:43 AM CDT

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Hi Rhonda and Eddie,
The lady bugs are invading!:) Everywhere I go lately a little lady bug appears.:) One was on my wind shield yesterday and I just left it there as I drove around town running errands. (Connor was with me)
It is a beautiful fall day in WI. We are golfing tomorrow as it is suppose to be in the 70's...50's next week! Have to get as much golf in as possible before the snow flies.
Missing your little sunshine boy and sending love and hugs your way!

Kathy and Dave
Green Bay , WI. U.S.A. - Saturday, October 7, 2006 2:01 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I have just looked through all of the pictures in Connor's photo album, once again. Today, my eyes rested upon the picture of Connor with Brett, as yesterday, we added a new little girl, Ella Grace, to our extended family. She is the fourth grandchild and first granddaughter of my cousin, Marge. I remember praying for Brett, on the day he was born, and hoping so much that Connor would be an active part of his life and his example. Hopefully, as Brett grows, his parents will tell him all about Connor, and in that way, Connor's courage will take root in Brett's young life.

I will be remembering Connor, at Eucharist, this afternoon, while I am serving as lector. I will also pray for both of you, and for all of Connor's loved ones, while I am at St. George's.

Beneath my signature, I will add the collect for this weekend.

God bless you both.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

Almighty and everlasting God, you are always more ready to hear than we to pray, and to give more than we either desire or deserve: Pour upon us the abundance of your mercy, forgiving us those things of which our conscience is afraid, and giving us those good things for which we are not worthy to ask, except through the merits and mediation of Jesus Christ our Savior; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 234
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, October 7, 2006 11:18 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I have just paused, here at my keyboard, to remember Connor and to pray for both of you, for your parents, siblings, grandparents, and cousins. May God bless you all.

Today the church remembers three English martyrs. I will place their names, dates, and basic facts, along with the collect, beneath my signature. I have been reading their biographies this morning but do not know a lot about any of them. One connection I do have is that a favorite cousin, Jennifer, and her husband, Matt, are both graduates of St. John Fisher College, in Rochester, NY, and with them, Andrew and I have been on the campus.

I hope you have a relaxing Columbus Day Weekend.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

William Tyndale, priest, scholar, martyr
6 October 1536

Thomas More, scholar, martyr (A Man For All Seasons)
6 July 1535

John Fisher, bishop, martyr
22 June 1535

Collect:

Almighty God, who gave your servants Thomas More, John Fisher, and William Tyndale boldness to confess the name of our Saviour Jesus Christ before the rulers of this world, and courage to die for this faith: Grant that we may also be ever ready to give a reason for the hope that is in us, and to suffer gladly for the sake of our Lord Jesus Christ, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and ever. Amen.

Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, October 6, 2006 7:58 AM CDT

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Hi Rhonda and Eddie,

Remembering you and Connor. Your lives have touched so very many people. I respect your courage and the ways you reach out to so many even through all your pain. You won't be forgotten.
Nicole Jesser
Nashville, TN USA - Thursday, October 5, 2006 10:49 AM CDT

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Happy Birthday, Rhonda! Sending many warm thoughts and birthday wishes your way. Love, Linda
linda champa <lachampa@mintz.com (Audrey's Umbrella, www.braintrust.org/Audrey)>
boston, ma usa - Thursday, October 5, 2006 10:27 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I am thinking of Connor on a beautiful autumn day. It's the kind of a day that he would have loved to ride his bike. May God bless his sweet spirit.

Beneath my signature, I will add a song, based on the writing of St. Francis of Assisi.

God bless you both.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

All creatures of our God and King,
lift up your voices, let us sing:
Alleluia, alleluia!
Thou burning sun with golden beams,
thou silver moon that gently gleams,
Refrain:
O praise him, O praise him,
Alleluia, alleluia, alleluia!

Thou rushing wind that art so strong,
ye clouds that sail in heaven along,
O praise him, Alleluia!
Thou rising morn, in praise rejoice,
ye lights of evening, find a voice, (R)

Thou flowing water, pure and clear,
make music for thy Lord to hear,
Alleluia, alleluia!
Thou fire so masterful and bright,
that givest man both warmth and light, (R)

Dear mother earth, who day by day
unfoldest blessings on our way,
O praise him, Alleluia!
The flowers and fruits that in thee grow,
let them his glory also show: (R)

And all ye men of tender heart,
forgiving others, take your part,
O sing ye Alleluia!
Ye who long pain and sorrow bear,
praise God and on him cast your care: (R)

And thou, most kind and gentle death,
waiting to hush our latest breath,
O praise him, Alleluia!
Thou leadest home the child of God,
and Christ our Lord the way hath trod: (R)

Let all things their Creator bless,
and worship him in humbleness,
O praise him, Alleluia!
Praise, praise the Father, praise the Son,
and praise the Spirit, Three in One: (R)

Words: after Francis of Assisi (1182-1226);
paraphrase of "Canticle of the Sun" by Francis of Assisi.

Music: Lasst uns erfreuen
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/a/a100.html
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, October 5, 2006 9:16 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I am thinking of Connor, and of both of you, on the Feast of St. Francis of Assisi. Since Connor loved animals, it seems like an especially good day to pause and remember Connor, as St. Francis called each creature his brother or his sister.

Beneath my signature, I am adding one of St. Francis's prayers.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

~St. Francis of Assisi's prayer in praise of God given to Brother Leo:

You are holy, Lord, the only God,
and Your deeds are wonderful.
You are strong.
You are great.
You are the Most High.
You are Almighty.
You, Holy Father are King of heaven and earth.
You are Three and One, Lord God, all Good.
You are Good, all Good, supreme Good, Lord God, living and true.
You are love. You are wisdom.
You are humility. You are endurance.
You are rest. You are peace.
You are joy and gladness.
You are justice and moderation.
You are all our riches, and You suffice for us.
You are beauty.
You are gentleness.
You are our protector.
You are our guardian and defender.
You are our courage. You are our haven and our hope.
You are our faith, our great consolation.
You are our eternal life, Great and Wonderful Lord,
God Almighty, Merciful Saviour.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, October 4, 2006 11:23 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda, Just wanted to tell you I'am thinking of you all especially Conner.Always remebered ,never forgotten,someone who cares in hemet.Sherry.Happy belated Birthday!
Sherry <cowpies5@aol.com>
Hemet, ca - Tuesday, October 3, 2006 12:24 AM CDT

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You go girl!!
Love your real estate website.
Happy Birthday !!!! So glad you spent it with Linda.
Love, Holly
Holly <hhoxeng@att.net>
Denver, - Tuesday, October 3, 2006 10:58 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

Once again, I am visiting Connor's website, this morning. I really enjoy seeing pictures of Connor and remembering him. I hope there will be a family update soon.

God bless you both, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, October 3, 2006 10:51 AM CDT

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Thinking of you
June <junehumphrey@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, October 3, 2006 9:55 AM CDT

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Happy Birthday Rhonda,

Pennie <pjer79@adelphia.net>
Bomoseen, VT USA - Tuesday, October 3, 2006 6:15 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

At this time, two years ago, Connor's friends were rallying around him to fill your mailbox with birthday cards and treats for him, as he readied to enter his double digits. It was certainly fun for me to find those cards, stickers, and other little items, to share with my favorite third grader. I hope the memory of the love people had for your sweet sunshine boy will fill your hearts this month and be greater than the painful memories of his illness.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, October 2, 2006 9:35 AM CDT

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hey rhonda and eddie i haven't talked to you all in a while.i was just wanting to see what you were up to. well i kno it is a very special day for u today rhonda and i was just wanting to say HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!! well i guess i will talk to you later bi

Jordan Stafford <roberts2070@bellsouth.net>
H'Ville, Tn - Sunday, October 1, 2006 8:13 PM CDT

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Hello Rhonda and Eddie,
From other entries, I see that it is your birthday, Rhonda. HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!!!!! I was just checking to see if there was possibly an update. We miss you guys. Please know that you are often in our thoughts and in our prayers.
Love, Alicia Georgiou <aageorgiou@bellsouth.net>
- Sunday, October 1, 2006 12:53 AM CDT

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Happy Birthday, Dear Rhonda!

Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I greet you on another wet Sunday afternoon, in southern Saratoga County. Since it is Rhonda's birthday, I hope you have a drier, brighter day.

I did not go to church this morning, but I did remember Connor, at two celebrations of the Eucharist yesterday. While I was at St. George's, I prayed for both of you, and for many of Connor's other loved ones, each by individual name.

I am sure it must be difficult celebrating today, as Connor is not with you. Never in a million years would you have thought of this possibility, on the day of Connor's birth, or when you celebrated with the eleven month old child in 1995. I truly wish Connor had never had cancer and that no other families would have to hear a cancer diagnosis. I will continue to pray, in honor of Connor, for preventions, improved treatments, and cures.

Please give Nana my greetings. Today is a special day for her, as are the birthdays of Johnny and Chad. Let her know that I have paused, here at my keyboard, to pray for her, and to pray for her three beautiful children.

God bless you all, always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~


Prayer For A Birthday:

O God, our times are in your hand: Look with favor, we
pray, on you servant, Rhonda, as she begins another year. Grant
that she may grow in wisdom and grace, and strengthen her
trust in your goodness all the days of her life; through Jesus
Christ our Lord. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 830
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, October 1, 2006 12:25 AM CDT

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Good Morning and Happy Birthday Rhonda! Enjoy your special day and may it be as special as your friendship is to me. "God danced the day you were born!" I am glad you were born into my life. As I celebrate today I will be thinking of you.
I am also thinking of you on this the 23 month anniversary of Connor's GRAND entrance into Heaven. I miss him so much and can only imagine how much you and Eddie must. He is on our mind and in our hearts EVERY day.
Hi to Eddie!
God Bless,
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Sunday, October 1, 2006 7:06 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

Connor has been remembered at two celebrations of Eucharist, at St. George's, this weekend. The first was a funeral, and the second was our Saturday afternoon service, which included receiving three new Daughters of the King. I arrived at church early for both, and I prayed for all of your family, each person by individual name, while I was waiting. God bless you all.

Beneath my signature, I will add the collect for this weekend.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

Proper 21: The Collect For The Sunday Closest To September 28

O God, you declare your almighty power chiefly in showing
mercy and pity: Grant us the fullness of your grace, that we,
running to obtain your promises, may become partakers of
your heavenly treasure; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who
lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for
ever and ever. Amen.

The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 234
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, September 30, 2006 11:54 PM CDT

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Eddie and Rhonda: We were out and about today, enjoying the cooler weather here, the beautiful mums in bloom, and all things FALL. I thought of Connor and figured this might be a difficult time of year for you all, and I see that others are thinking the same....not that EVERY day is not difficult for you two.

Just wanted you to know you are always close in my heart, but especially now.

Love,

Kriste
My Big Brother - Tracy Lanius <Kristewithane@comcast.net>
Goodlettsville, TN USA - Saturday, September 30, 2006 10:06 PM CDT

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I know this is a hard time of year for you It is for me too, at the end of the month it will be a year since my mom is gone and of course Its forever a hard time for you. you know I think of you a lot and you and Eddie are always in my prayers.
Sharon <sholweger5@yahoo.com>
- Saturday, September 30, 2006 8:49 PM CDT

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Rhonda & Eddie,
I can only imagine how hard this time of the year is for you. I think of Connor each day and I say a prayer that you both are continuing to cope without him here. I do not take the time to sign the guestbook often, but you are always in my thoughts and prayer.
Hugs,

Donna Minshew <minshews@mchsi.com>
Tifton, GA - Saturday, September 30, 2006 2:07 PM CDT

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Thinking of you and keeping you in our prayers.
Kim <kymberleigh321@aol.com>
M'boro, Tn USA - Friday, September 29, 2006 5:43 PM CDT

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Just wanted to say "hi" and
wish you a wonderful week!
Cheri T <faith_in_valley@yahoo.com>
Georgia - Friday, September 29, 2006 1:10 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

A fall wind is blowing hard, here in Clifton Park, this noon. The small leaves have blown out of most of the trees, although the larger ones, like maple leaves, still grace the branches. As with every day, I think of Connor. May his sweet spirit be blessed.

Yesterday, our Roman Catholic friends, celebrated the Feast of St. Vincent de Paul, who is known as the helper of the poor. I will place a collect, for the day, by James Kiefer, beneath my signature.

Connor will be remembered, in Eucharist, tonight, at St. George's.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

Almighty God, who called your servant Vincent de Paul to serve you in the person of those in need: Grant that we, following his example, may fulfil your commandments by defending and supporting the poor, and by loving you with all our hearts, through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, September 28, 2006 11:26 AM CDT

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Rhonda,

Just checking in on you guys. Congrats on the Real Estate License. Much love... Cheryl
Cheryl & Jordan <cgmyers@cox.net>
Sapulpa, OK USA - Wednesday, September 27, 2006 7:35 PM CDT

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Hi Rhonda and Eddie and "angel Connor", My heart aches for you and I am always thinking of you all when we are at Vanderbilt. Remembering that day we all met and I am so thankful to have the "sunshine" boy in our life. Joey has his picture of him and Connor. They went through it together. Josh is getting ready for radiation. May God continue to give you and Eddie comfort and peace. Until you can hug and see that smiling boy again. Miss and love you guys, Donna and family
Donna Housley <dph1861@comcast.net>
nashville, tn usa - Wednesday, September 27, 2006 8:00 AM CDT

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How great joy and celebrate will have the heavenly angels today ,when one the sinners will repent and be save?And God will joy and joy and pour out his blessing to them in Christ.Help you too that many may find Jesus Christ,pray for blessed revival soon.Thanks and bless.keijo sweden
keijo <keijoleppioja@hotmail.com>
sweden - Tuesday, September 26, 2006 2:22 PM CDT

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Hello Rhonda and Eddie, It is Jessica. I am not sure if you remember me? I was one of Conner's carepartners. I just wanted you to know you are always on my mind. I have my RN license now and am trying to get on at Vanderbilt again. I miss seeing you guys. I will have to contact you one day when I decide to buy a house again. I am getting married in March. I am so glad you updated, I look at Connor's site often to see his smiling face when I feel down and out, he seems to bring me up again. It is always good to hear you and Eddie are doing well. We will have to get together sometime when you aren't busy.E-mail me sometime. I will be in the Rivergate area in October to pick up my wedding dress.You all take care and you will remain in my thoughts and prayers
Jessica Vaughan <jvaughan82@aol.com>
Clarksville , tn - Monday, September 25, 2006 8:47 PM CDT

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LOVE ALWAYS BRENDAMY LOVING DAD'S SITE <brurka@shaw.ca>
EDMONTON ,ALBERTA , - Monday, September 25, 2006 7:36 PM CDT

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Hi Rhonda and Eddie,
Thinking of you and your sunshine boy and just wanted to let you know.:)
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Monday, September 25, 2006 2:35 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

Last night, a friend and I went to a Story Sunday, at the Glen Sanders Mansion, in Scotia. The teller was Motoko, a lively woman, who now lives in the Boston area. She told many stories of her childhood in Japan, introducing them by teaching the audience a simple expression in Japanese, or a refrain from a Japanese song. Her stories were full of humor, and I could not help, especially on a story with several animals in it, think how much Connor would have loved hearing her. May God bless his sweet spirit.

I have just paused, here at my keyboard, to pray for both of you and for many of Connor's loved ones. This especially includes Nana and Poppy and dear Tabitha. May you all be graced in whatever ways you need.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, September 25, 2006 9:33 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

Connor was remembered at Eucharist yesterday, at St. George's. I also prayed for both of you and for many members of Connor's family. May God bless you all.

I have been wondering how Tabitha is doing. Perhaps Rhonda, or Tabitha, can update.

Beneath my signature, I will add the collect for this weekend. It is one of my favorites.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

Grant us, Lord, not to be anxious about earthly things, but to love things heavenly; and even now, while we are placed among things that are passing away, to hold fast to those that shall endure; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 234
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, September 24, 2006 10:26 AM CDT

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Wonder how the real estate in coming along Rhonda. I am so glad you have such a great network of friends and support down there. Thinking of you
Chris & Gooch
Share the Love.org <chrisrusso_@hotmail.com>
- Saturday, September 23, 2006 9:20 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I am thinking of Connor and Cheyenne on her fifteenth birthday. I know they are enjoying abundant life, with God, today and every day.

Connor will be remembered in Eucharist later today.

God bless you both, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, September 23, 2006 12:13 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I am thinking of Connor, of you both, and of all of Connor's loved ones. May God bless you all.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, September 22, 2006 4:26 PM CDT

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Hey there.
Just felt convicted -- I check your site everyday but how do you know that.
So, on that conviction, here I am. Just know that I think of you every day and hope all's going well. Yes, every day probably still brings memories and aches, especially with anniversaries approaching again.
Love,
Holly
Holly <hhoxeng@att.net>
Denver, - Thursday, September 21, 2006 5:02 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I woke today thinking of Connor, and of you, and humming the hymn which I left you a few days ago, Lift High the Cross. What do these two subjects have in common, I wondered. Perhaps little, on the surface, but often in the spiritual world things are more than we can comprehend in the physical world. If you have a chance, use the link I left you on September 14, and hum, sing, or listen to Lift High the Cross.

I will remember all of the Hunleys, at Eucharist tonight, the Feast of St. Matthew, the Apostle. Beneath my signature, I will add the collect.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sonshine boy.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

We thank thee, heavenly Father, for the witness of your apostle and evangelist Matthew to the Gospel of your Son our Savior; and we pray that, after his example, we may with ready wills and hearts obey the calling of our Lord to follow him; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, September 21, 2006 11:43 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I have been here, on Connor's website, on both Monday and Tuesday, but I was called away, both days, before I could sign. Connor was remembered, in Holy Eucharist, earlier today, at St. George's. You, and all of Connor's loved ones, remain in my prayers.

Beneath my signature, I will add the collect of the day.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

Almighty God, who called your faithful servants John Coleridge Patteson and his companions to be witnesses and martyrs in the islands of Melanesia, and by their labors and sufferings raised up a people for your own possession: Pour forth your Holy Spirit upon your Church in every land, that by the service and sacrifice of many, your holy Name may be glorified and your kingdom enlarged; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, September 20, 2006 11:30 AM CDT

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Hi,
Me again, sorry I forgot to mention that we remember with you the 1st anniversary of your dad's death. (I am a bit late tonight with my guestbook entries)
God Bless,
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Sunday, September 17, 2006 8:54 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,
It is raining here and has been dreary all day coupled with the Packer loss AGAIN!:) The best place to go on dreary days is Connor's site and look at all of his pictures with that big beautiful smile of his that melts my heart!!!!
WE LOVE YOU AND WE MISS YOUR SUNSHINE BOY BEYOND WORDS!
love and hugs,


Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Sunday, September 17, 2006 8:43 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I am thinking of you both tonight, as I do every day. I am also thinking of Connor, of course.

This afternoon, while doing some errands, I stopped at DeVoe's for an ice cream cone. It was soft serve twist (chocolate and creamsicle), in a waffle cone. It was very good, but as Mr. Wayne Gordon always points out, it was nowhere as good as the ice cream Connor is having in heaven. There was an active boy on a skateboard in front of the stand, but no sign of any go-carts. It makes me smile thinking of the fun Connor is having in heaven and how healthy he is. Hold on to images like this, and know that your friends continue to hold you in prayer.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

Colette

I feel a strong immortal hope, which bears my mournful spirit up beneath its mountain load; redeemed from death, and grief, and pain, I soon shall find my child again within the arms of God.

~Charles Wesley, Anglican priest and hymn composer (1707-1788)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, September 17, 2006 6:09 PM CDT

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Good Afternoon from Durango, CO. Hope all is going well for you---think and pray for you everday. It is getting colder here--so now we have the heat on. However, the elk and deer are still here. We had a albino racoon in our tree--what a thrill. Have a good week. Love Claudia and Jean-Paul---Crystral and Ricky
Claudia Douesnard <claudia_jp@frontier.net>
Durango, CO USA - Sunday, September 17, 2006 2:55 PM CDT

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Happy Anniversary To You!

Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

What would we ever do without our dear mutual friends, Kathy and Dave, from Greenbay? Kathy is so good about birthdays, anniversaries, and other special days, and with them, I wish you all the best today. Also, with them, I miss your sweet sunshine boy, Connor.

I have just paused, here at my keyboard, to remember Connor, to our heavenly father, and to pray for both of you. I have also prayed for several of Connor's relatives, including Nana and Poppy, Beverly and Garvin, Uncle Johnny and Uncle Chad, and Tabitha, Donnie, and the girls. God bless you all.

Yesterday, I wrote about Holy Cross Day. Beneath my signature, I will add my bishop's collect for the day.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

LORD JESUS, by your Cross and Resurrection you have set us free; you are the Savior of the world. Enable us to see that the way of the Cross is the way of life and give us the willingness to take up our cross and follow you. Amen.

~Daniel William Herzog, Bishop Of Albany, September 14, 2006

Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, September 15, 2006 9:08 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,
HAPPY ANNIVERSARY! Enjoy your special day!
Love you! Miss your sunshine boy!
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Friday, September 15, 2006 7:21 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,
Not a day goes by without thoughts of Connor, he brought such sunshine to my life and lives of so many others. I love to come to this site and look at his pictures, his smile melts my heart. We miss him so much and we love you!
A little lady bug is visiting me on my living room curtain these days and there it will stay:)
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Thursday, September 14, 2006 7:47 PM CDT

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i have been really bad about signing Connor's book lately but Rhonda you know, from when I talk to you, I think of the three of you every day and remember you all when I pray hope things are going good in the real estate business and you have sold a house or two or three by now
Sharon <sholweger5@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, September 14, 2006 7:19 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I am here, on a drab day, in southern Saratoga County, looking at pictures of your dear sunshine boy, who always has a way of making me smile. God bless Connor's sweet spirit.

Today is Holy Cross Day. During the reign of Constantine, first Roman Emperor to profess the Christian faith, his mother, Helena, went to Israel to try find places especially significant to Christians. (She was helped in this by the fact that in their destructions around 135, the Romans had built pagan shrines over many of these sites.) Having located, close together, what she believed to be the sites of the Crucifixion and of the Burial (at locations that modern archaeologists think may be correct), she had built over them the Church of the Holy Sepulchre, which was dedicated on 14 September 335. It has become a day for recognizing the Cross (in a festal atmosphere that would be inappropriate on Good Friday) as a symbol of triumph, as a sign of Christ's victory over death, and a reminder of His promise, "And when I am lifted up, I will draw all men unto me." (John 12:32) Let us rejoice, this day, in the victory we share with our Lord, Jesus Christ, a victory that Connor has experienced.

Beneath my signature, I will add a collect and the words to a related hymn.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

O God, who by the passion of your blessed Son made an instrument of shameful death to be for us the means of life and peace: Grant us so to glory in the cross of Christ, that we may gladly suffer shame and loss for the sake of your Son our Savior Jesus Christ; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

Refrain:
Lift high the cross,
the love of Christ proclaim
till all the world adore
his sacred Name.

Led on their way by this triumphant sign,
the hosts of God in conquering ranks combine. Refrain

Each newborn servant of the Crucified
bears on the brow the seal of him who died. Refrain

O Lord, once lifted on the glorious tree,
as thou hast promised, draw the world to thee. Refrain

Ao shall our song of triumph ever be:
praise to the Crucified for victory.

Words: George William Kitchen and Michael Robert Newbolt, 1916

Music: Crucifer, Syndney Hugo Nicholson (1875-1947)

Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/l/l118.html

Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, September 14, 2006 11:03 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I continue to think of you, and of your sweet sunshine boy. God bless you all.

Today is the Feast of the Holy Cross. Several years ago, while traveling in Israel, with a group from the Cathedral of All Saints, in Albany, I purchased some silver crosses. One, of the three priests traveling in our party, blessed them for me, in a chapel directly above Calvary, where we also celebrate the Eucharist. If I were to go today, I would truly obtain one for Rhonda and one for Linda Martin.

Beneath my signature, I will add the collect for the day.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

Almighty God, whose Son our Savior Jesus Christ was lifted high upon the cross that he might draw the whole world to himself: Mercifully grant that we, who glory in the mystery of our redemption, may have grace to take up our cross and follow him; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, in glory everlasting. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, September 14, 2006 0:12 AM CDT

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I've really been needing that $million dollar smile$ lately. Thanks for continuing to share.
June <junehumphrey@yahoo.com>
Goodlettsville, TN - Wednesday, September 13, 2006 11:20 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

   How nice that Linda's friend, Alicia, visited Connor and Kevin, at the mausoleum, today, but how sad that that is where they are.  Connor's friends, in southern Saratoga County, continue to think of him, and of you all.

   Our power was off for about five and a half hours today, so Andrew and I had our dinner at Denny's.  When he was little, Andrew always had to count the peas in his Denny's vegetable beef soup.  I am sure you have many such memories of Connor eating out, as you have posted restaurant pictures of him, including the one of Connor and Ginny. 

   As you read this, may your memories of Connor be sweet.

   God bless you always.

   Grace, peace, love, and all good,

      ~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, September 11, 2006 9:55 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,
I was just checking ya'lls and Linda's site tonight to see if there were any updates. I hope that you are picking up some real estate clients and staying busy. I know you will be wonderful in that field. I visited Kevin and Conner today. Seeing all of the pictures you put on Conner's mosuleum makes me smile and sad at the same time. I can not even imagine how much you miss him and long to see him again. Both of you are always close to my heart and thoughts.
Love, Alicia <aageorgiou@bellsouth.net>
- Monday, September 11, 2006 9:34 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I have just enjoyed Connor's pictures, once again, and I have also scanned Connor's homepage, pausing here and there to pray for various people along the way. May God richly bless Poppy, who was Connor's special friend, and may God continue to encourage and heal Tabitha. And of course, I am praying, praying, praying, for both of you.

As the nation turns our hearts and our minds to God, in remembrance of those who died in New York, Pennsylvania, and Washington, five years ago, I am remembering a classmate, Thomas William Duffy, who died in the World Trade Center. May Connor's friends all pause to think of this wonderful man, who lived his life with enthusiasm, love, and faith, and to pray for his wife, Cyndy, and for their sons, Jason and Ryan, and for all of Tom's other loved ones.

It seems fitting to add a hymn based on the 23rd Psalm today. I will place it beneath my signature.

God bless you both, and God bless America.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

The King Of Love My Shepherd Is

The King of love my shepherd is,
whose goodness faileth never;
I nothing lack if I am his,
and he is mine for ever.

Where streams of living water flow,
my ransomed soul he leadeth,
and where the verdant pastures grow,
with food celestial feedeth.

Perverse and foolish oft I strayed,
but yet in love He sought me,
and on his shoulder gently laid,
and home, rejoicing, brought me.

In death's dark vale I fear no ill
with thee, dear Lord, beside me;
thy rod and staff my comfort still,
thy cross before to guide me.

Thou spread'st a table in my sight;
thy unction grace bestoweth;
and O what transport of delight
from thy pure chalice floweth!

And so through all the length of days
thy goodness faileth never:
Good Shepherd, may I sing thy praise
within thy house for ever.

Words: Henry Williams Baker (1821-1877), 1868

Music: St. Columba

Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/t/t199b.html
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, September 11, 2006 11:12 AM CDT

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Hugs and oodles of prayers!
Love
Mike and Mary Slade and children <mar-e@rogers.com>
Guelph, Ontario, Canada - Monday, September 11, 2006 8:03 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I expect to remember Connor, in Eucharist, later today. As you know, Connor is always in my thoughts and prayers, when I am in our nave, especially when I am beneath the Jesus and the Children stained glass window.

I am thinking of you, of all of Connor's grandparents, including the great-grandmothers, of Connor's uncles, and of all the rest of his relatives and loved ones. I have just paused, here at my keyboard, to pray for you all. This, of course includes Tabitha, Donnie, and their girls. May complete recovery be hers.

Beneath my signature, I will add a prayer from St. Augustine's Soliloquies.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

O God, come to me in Your kindness. For you are the good and the beautiful, in Whom, by Whom, and through Whom all things are good and beautiful.

~St. Augustine Of Hippo
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, September 9, 2006 7:08 AM CDT

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Hello,
Sorry its been awhile since I signed in, but we check the journal all the time. You are always in our prayers, and thoughts.
Love you Angel Connor.
God be with you.

Love LaKota and her mom Debbie.
http://www.caringbridge.org/mn/laplafcan <LaKotaDeb@hotmail.com>
St.Cloud, MN - Friday, September 8, 2006 12:47 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I am thinking of sweet Connor, with love today. Truly, he is zipping around Heaven, in a go-cart, as he awaits your arrival. He has the ice cream stands located, is caring for the animals, and has connected with Cheyenne, Ian, Kevin, and many others.

May your thoughts of your sunshine boy be full of joy and peace, this day, and every day.

God bless you all.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, September 8, 2006 11:02 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

As always, I am thinking about Connor, here at my keyboard. May God bless his sweet spirit, and may God bless you, his dear parents.

Elaine (Nana) sends along her love.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, September 8, 2006 2:05 AM CDT

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Hi Eddie & Rhonda,

Hope this note finds you both doing well and that God's blessings are continually flowing all over your lives!

One of my neighbors has a gokart which he lets some of the neighborhood kids ride every once in a while. When I'm out in the yard and they crank that thing up, I immediately think about Connor. It's simply refreshing to watch the faces of 8, 9, and 10 year olds having the time of their life. There is something about child hood that just blesses others. The innocence, purity, and truthfulness of a child can be exciting.

Connor may not be here in a physical sense to enjoy riding his gokart, playing a trick on someone, or spending a 'special' moment in your lap. But, he is most definitely 'here' through the many, many wonderful memories he has created. He is here encouraging others to keep fighting hard. He is here spreading God's love and showing us that God can and does use little children to teach us important lessons.

May you continue to walk in the Lord and let him guide your steps through days filled with missing your beautiful son.

In Christian love,
Wayne
Wayne Gordon <wgordon@cscsystems.com>
Hermitage, TN USA - Wednesday, September 6, 2006 8:21 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,
Thinking of you and your sweet sunshine boy who will always be in my heart. Just the mention of his name or looking at his pictures brings a smile to my face... how such a little boy could capture my heart and inspire me beyond words! I thank you for sharing him with us. He will NEVER be forgotten.
WE LOVE YOU AND WE MISS CONNOR!
Love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Tuesday, September 5, 2006 8:23 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

As always, I am remembering Connor and thinking of both of you, and of several of Connor's other loved ones. God bless you all.

Today marks the ninth anniversary of Mother Teresa's entrance into heaven. In honor of the occasion, I will place some of her sayings beneath my signature.

When you can, let us know how Tabitha is.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

"You who have received so much love, share it with others. Love others the way that God has loved you, with tenderness."

"Communion with Christ gives us our strength, our joy, and our love."

"All of us must be saints in this world. Holiness is a duty for you and me. So let's be saints and so give glory to the Father."

"My prayer for you is that you come to understand and have the courage to answer Jesus' call to you with the simple word 'yes'."

"Love does not measure; it just gives."

~Mother Teresa Of Calcutta, Born Agnese Gonxhe Bojaxhiu, In Albania August 27, 1910, Died In India September 5, 1997

Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, September 5, 2006 8:17 PM CDT

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Popping in to say a HUGE hello!!!!!!!!!!!
becky <gabustin@aol.com>
gallatin, tn - Tuesday, September 5, 2006 4:36 PM CDT

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Rhonda
congrats on the real estate license!
thinking of connor with love
mrs pam
- Tuesday, September 5, 2006 7:12 AM CDT

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stop by often but don't sign in.....but today compelled to do so. thinking about you
tricia <triciabxny@yahoo.com>
- Monday, September 4, 2006 12:02 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I was thinking of something to say in Connor's book, when I came onto the computer, this morning. However, the words of Barbara Crafton, from her almost daily email, seem to be more appropriate to share with you, and with other friends, in Tennessee today. May God bless you, the Martins, the Archers, and others, as you read them.

Please remember that I think of Connor each and every day, and that I am praying for you, and for all of Connor's loved ones.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

THE SERMON OF THE FRUIT FLY

This is war: I will have a lovely three-tiered display of fresh fruit in the kitchen and a cloud of fruit flies will form around it within five minutes of my putting it out. Washing the fruit doesn't prevent it, and neither does anything else. I maintain homeland security at the moment only by the measure of hanging a length of flypaper above the fruit.

This is less than satisfactory in many ways, principal among them being the long strip of insect corpses one must reach carefully past in order to snag a peach. And something more: a tendency I have developed to watch the fly paper too intently for inadvertent fatal landings, and to be far too exultant when somebody sticks. This is unseemly in a member of the clergy. The fruit flies are living things, matter all, close enough cousins to me that their DNA structure is an important part of the Human Genome Study.

Where do they come from? Their immediate presence when fruit is brought into a house was an important bit of evidence in support of the ancient theory of spontaneous generation, which held that simple living organisms are brought into being from other substances (rotting meat gives rise to maggots, for example, and mud causes frogs). Many people believed this well into the 19th century, and most parents of teenagers hold to some version of it to this day: unpartnered socks and an infinite number of drinking glasses come into being if a teenager is placed in a closed room overnight.

But fruit flies aren't spontaneously generated. Nothing is. Everything comes from somewhere. Things don't happen for no reason; a thread of causality runs through history, and human beings can trace it if we pay close attention. Note that "cause" and "plan" aren't synonyms: everything has a cause, but not every hangnail means that God is sending you a message.

Here's the cause: the larvae of the prolific fruit fly are tiny. They lay them on the surface of the fruit and in the safe recesses of a stem. They mature quickly -- their whole lives are quick, over in a few weeks. They are attracted by the smell of ripening, which is really a process of fermentation. We are like our winged cousins in this preference: we, too, like to eat fruit just as it begins to rot, a preference Italians recognize in their word for fruit at just the proper peak of ripeness. A perfect peach is "morbida," they say in Rome -- "about to die."

I suppose we die at a proper time ourselves. I suppose there is a peak of human ripeness, a moment when we, too, are morbida, when we have done what needed to be done and can leave without much in the way of regret. We understand this time to come to us at a great old age, and mourn bitterly when death takes one of our number too soon. He was not ready. She was too young. It was the wrong time.

At such times, no cause seems sufficient to the ones left behind. No reason for such a death ever satisfies. And the idea of a plan enrages the bereaved: God couldn't think of any better way to work out his purpose than to take my ten-year-old? No. No. Sorry, but No.

Until we remember that cause and plan aren't the same. That the plan, marrying goodness and existence and love and possibility, transcends the events of life and death, with all their proximate and indirect causes. That existence is more than history, with its linear one-thing-after-another arrangement of the events it contains.

So the cause is of the earth. And the plan partakes of heaven. And the fruit is sweetest just before it dies.

~Barbara C. Crafton, priest and writer
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, September 4, 2006 10:29 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

This is just a short note to let you know that I have been thinking of you this rainy weekend. Hopefully, the weather has been better where you are.

Beneath my signature is the collect for today.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

Proper 17, The Collect For This Weekend:

Lord of all power and might, the author and giver of all good things: Graft in our hearts the love of your Name; increase in us true religion; nourish us with all goodness; and bring forth in us the fruit of good works; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God for ever and ever. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 233
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, September 3, 2006 8:43 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I am sitting here at the computer, sipping a raspberry iced coffee from Dunkin Donuts, that Andrew brought me a few minutes ago. It's been over a week since I have had one of these, but I have become awfully fond of them this summer. It has been a very rainy, dark day here, so the above is the best news I can offer.

Please know that I am thinking of you both, and I am remembering your dear, handsome sunshine boy, today, as I do each and every day. May God bless Connor's sweet spirit, and may God grant you both peace, comfort, strength, and a touch of joy tonight.

I saw a segment on the news today about swallowing difficulty post stroke. I certainly hope this is not a part of Cousin Tabitha's life now, but I immediately prayed for her. I have heard that stroke patients continue to improve for a full year, following their experience, so I am pausing here, at the computer, once again to pray for her. I am also praying for both of you, for Nana and Poppy, and for all of Connor's loved ones.

God bless you always. Also, God bless the Martin 7.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, September 2, 2006 8:04 PM CDT

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I'm thinking of you today.
Lisa
Mount Juliet, TN USA - Friday, September 1, 2006 3:57 PM CDT

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I am remembering you and Eddie today, one another first day of the month along with Linda. It seems the three of us have that tie. and though it is not one that any of us would have chosen, I am glad it brought you into my life I think about you and Eddie every day with a prayer in my heart.... you know I do.
Sharon <sholweger5@yahoo.com>
- Friday, September 1, 2006 1:37 PM CDT

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I know for certain that we never lose the people we love, even to death. They continue to participate in every act, thought, and decision we make. Their love leaves an indelible imprinting in our memories. We find comfort in knowing that our lives have been enriched by having shared their love.

~Leo Buscaglia (1924-1998)

Dear Rhonda, Eddie, and all of Connor's loved ones,

As the day passes, my thoughts and prayers continue with you all. I wish I lived close enough to visit the mausoleum, but I will stop at St. George's to remember Connor, beneath the Jesus and the Children stained glass.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A, - Friday, September 1, 2006 11:30 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,
My mind is somewhat blank today so I will ditto Colette's guestbook entry....I just wanted to let you know we are thinking of you and your sunshine boy. WE MISS CONNOR AND WE LOVE YOU~
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Friday, September 1, 2006 10:19 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I am thinking of you early on the morning of Connor's twenty-two month anniversary. In fact, I have just paused, here, at my keyboard, to say a prayer for both of you. May God continue to comfort, sustain, and strengthen you, and may God bless the sweet spirit of your handsome sunshine boy.

In the sure and certain hope, and with grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

Nothing loved is ever lost, or perished.

~Madeleine L'Engle
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, September 1, 2006 1:10 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I have just viewed Connor's pictures in the photo album again. My eyes were drawn to the picture of him with the car once again. He looks so robust and health, as we know he is in heaven. God bless Connor's sweet spirit, and God bless both of you, his loving forever parents.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, August 31, 2006 10:11 AM CDT

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Eddie and Rhonda...You two continue to be on my heart, especially this week after visiting the mausoleum. I have made attempts, but it's always at the wrong hour.

I was touched by all the tributes there for him and the sweet photos. And even more of a tribute to Connor is how many lives he continues to touch.

You were in my thoughts in a special way tonight, Rhonda, and I just wanted to let you know. Living with a mother who has lost her only son keeps many mothers in the same circumstances on my mind a lot.

Give that husband of yours a hug, and know that the two of you and your Sunshine Boy never stray from my heart.

Kriste Lanius


My Big Brother - Tracy Lanius <Kristewithane@comcast.net>
Goodlettsville, TN USA - Wednesday, August 30, 2006 9:44 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I am here, at my keyboard, remembering your handsome Connor, and praying for both of you, and for all of Connor's other loved ones. May God bless his sweet spirit, and may God bless all of your photos and memories of him.

One of the saints of this week is Augustine, who like Connor, was the delight of his mother's eye. Beneath my signature, I will add one of his prayers.

God bless you both.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

O Holy Spirit, descend plentifully into my heart. Enlighten the dark corners of this neglected dwelling and scatter there Thy cheerful beams.

~St. Augustine Of Hippo
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, August 30, 2006 5:37 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I am thinking of you, and of Connor, on a cool, rainy morning. I saw a bird yesterday, which may have been a goose. It landed in a tree in our front yard, but with all of the leaves, I could not get a good enough look to be sure. The incident, of course, made me think of the poem, "Something Told the Wild Geese," which speaks of fall migration. Where did our summer go?

One of my friends is putting her house on the market in September. I hope Rhonda's real estate business is going well.

God bless you both, and God bless the sweet spirit of your sunshine boy.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, August 29, 2006 9:18 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

Public school has not opened yet, here in New York, but many of the colleges started today. I believe your schools opened last week. I know this must be a tough time for you, as Connor would be in fifth grade, and you would have purchased school supplies, new shoes, and clothes for him. My thoughts and prayers are with you, and also with the Davideits, the Fiveashes, the Duckworths, the Archers, and others, who are not sending a child to school, or to college, this year. God bless you all!

I have just paused, here at my keyboard, to pray for you and the sad families I have named. I have also prayed for Nana and Poppy, Grandma Beverly and Garvin, Uncle Johnny and Uncle Chad, and all those who miss seeing Connor riding his school bus, and telling about his schedule, teachers, and classmates. I have also prayed for Tabitha and her continuing healing.

God bless you all!

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, August 28, 2006 6:18 PM CDT

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Keeping you in my thougths and in my prayer's always.
Love Brenda MY LOVING DAD'S SITE <brurka@shaw.ca>
Edmonton,Alberta/Canada, - Monday, August 28, 2006 3:55 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,
My thoughts are of Connor...he is forever on my mind and in my heart.
God Bless,
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Monday, August 28, 2006 11:12 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I had to smile about Holly's comment about "playing hooky from church." I guess, in a sense, that is what I am doing, as well. I heard the alarm clock go off this morning, and I just laid in the bed and allowed myself to go back to sleep for a while. Officially, I have been to church today, as I went yesterday, and the propers are the Sunday propers on Saturday afternoon.

It is raining hard here today, and it is very overcast. It's the kind of day to turn our hearts and our minds to God privately and to positive thoughts.

One of the first things that comes to my mind is your sunshine boy, with a smile as wide as can be. For some reason I am thinking of Connor's great love of animals today. I am sure that in heaven there are many and that he is delighting in them.

Another positive that I am thinking of today is Mother Teresa, who was born 96 years ago this day, in Albania. It makes me smile to think of her, as she thought of herself, as a pencil, in the hand of a writing God. Beneath my signature, I will add one of her prayers.

I send you both great love, as I pray for great blessings in your lives and in the lives of Nana and Poppy and of all of Connor's other loved ones.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

Make us worthy, Lord,
to serve others throughout the world
who live and die
in poverty and hunger.
Give them, through our hands, this day their daily
bread,
and by our understanding love,
give peace and joy.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, August 27, 2006 10:38 AM CDT

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Hi Rhonda and Eddie:
Happy Sunday morning. I'm playing hooky from church but I'll be doing my praying on my mile walk with the dog and you are always in my prayers.
Love, Holly
Holly <hhoxeng@att.net>
Denver, - Sunday, August 27, 2006 9:43 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

Connor was remembered in Eucharist this afternoon. May God bless his sweet spirit.

I hope Tabitha is well on her way to a good recovery. I have prayed for her each day, since learning of the stroke. I am praying for all of Connor's loved ones. I am also praying for the Martin family.

God bless you all.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, August 26, 2006 11:48 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,
Thinking of you and your sunshine boy!
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Friday, August 25, 2006 8:44 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

Connor was remembered in Eucharist, last night. May God bless his sweet spirit.

It is good to see the entry from Mr. Wayne below. I am sure he is right about Connor and heavenly ice cream!

God bless you both, and God bless all of Connor's loved ones.

Tabitha, I am praying for you today.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, August 25, 2006 11:16 AM CDT

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Eddie & Rhonda,

Hope this day finds you FULL of happy memories of Connor as well as the recipients of some incredible blessings from our Lord!

We began a study of angels in our Sunday morning class and I'm excited to learn more about a subject that seems difficult to grasp. When have you heard a lesson on angels? Along with the Holy Spirit, I guess those are subjects we don't spend a lot of time studying. When I learned of the subject a few weeks back, I couldn't help but think about Connor and so many others. We sometimes use the word "angelic" when describing children and it seems like a fitting word. Having spent many summers at church camp, I've had the opportunity to see children of various ages asleep. Talk about angelic-that's about as sweet as it gets! Even a hulky 17 year old bruiser has a sweet look on his face when he's sleeping.

Every time I look at Connor's pictures, I see a sweet smile that warms my heart. He certainly didn't hold back his loving expressions and he is still able to reach out and spread God's love in incredible ways. When we met at Vanderbilt a few months before he finished his race, we talked about his gokart not having brakes! (I think they were worn out!!) When it was time for me to leave, I told Connor that I loved him. He said, "I love you too". We hugged and he didn't hold back one bit as he showed me how much he loves others. Even though Connor was not quite 10, he was able to show God's love through his words and actions. He learned that from you! Thank you both for instilling good values into your son. Those values will never fade or quit inspiring others.

Connor, I mowed last night until after dark. When I came inside, I sat down and watched a little football and ate some ice cream. It was OK, but I bet it's no where as good as what Heaven has to offer! When I get there, you can show me the best place to get ice cream! I love you!!

In Christian love,
Wayne / Mr. Wayne
Wayne Gordon <wgordon@cscsystems.com>
Hermitage, TN USA - Friday, August 25, 2006 8:16 AM CDT

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HI you know I think about you every day and have you in my prayers at night even when I donn't sign in all the time....
Sharon <sholweger5@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, August 24, 2006 8:40 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

First of all, it is great to see Tabitha posting. I continue to pray for her, and for her family, and of course, for both of you. May God bless sweet Connor and all of his loved ones!

Below is the thought from the book Gert gave me, which prompted me to look for more quotes by Molly Fumia. I add it today, as it is the quote for August 24, in the book.

I hope things are going well for the Martins. They are also in my regular thoughts and prayers.

God bless you all.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

Resurrection. The reversal of what was thought to be absolute. The turning of the midnight into dawn, hatred into love, dying into living anew.

If we look more closely into life, we will find that resurrection is more than hope, it is our experience. The return to life from death is something we understand at our innermost depths, something we feel on the surface of our tender skin. We have come back to life, not only when we start to shake off a shroud of sorrow that has bound us, but when we begin to believe in all that is still, endlessly possible.

We give thanks for all those times we have arisen from the depths or simply taken a tiny step toward something new. May we be empowered by extraordinary second chances. And as we enter the world anew, let us turn the tides of despair into endless waves of hope.

~Molly Fumia
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, August 24, 2006 0:32 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie

I think about Connor and visit this page reguarly, though I don't sign the guestbook every time.
Your wonderful brave son is remembered, and his courageous fight really made an impact on me.
God bless you

Siri
Siri <smnor73@hotmail.com>
Oslo, Norway - Wednesday, August 23, 2006 4:26 PM CDT

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Hey You All. Thanks or the prayeres for myself and my family. I could never put into words what your thoughtfuless means to us. Also, thanks for th support that you continue to give Rhonda and Eddie. Those two are without a doubt the strongest people I know.. After my stroke it has been hard to do day to day stuff but every time I get down I think of how Connor never gave up and how he kept on going and smiling. Thanks again Connor for the encouragement and strength you passed on to us We love you buddy will every peice of our heart.
Tabitha <www.tabiray@hotmail.com>
bethpage, TN USA - Tuesday, August 22, 2006 3:33 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I continue to remember Connor, to view his pictures, and to pray for you, and for all of Connor's other loved ones.

A long time ago, my friend, Gert, gave me a book of daily healing thoughts and prayers. As I was reading today's passage, my eyes fell to the passage for tomorrow, which is a reading on resurrection, by Molly Fumia. I will send that tomorrow, but I have been looking for information on Fumia on the internet, and I am adding another of her quotations beneath my signature. Perhaps it will be a blessing to you. I hope so.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

To be joyful in the universe is a brave and reckless act. The courage for joy springs not from the certainty of human experience, but the surprise. Our astonishment at being loved, our bold willingness to love in return-these wonders promise the possibility of joyfulness, no matter how often and how harshly love seems to be lost.

Therefore, despite the world's sorrows, we give thanks for our loves, for our joys, and for the continued courage to be happily surrendered.

~Molly Fumia
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, August 22, 2006 11:48 AM CDT

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Hi Rhonda and Eddie--I have been thinking about you both and Angel Connor. Thanks for the update and congrats on getting your real estate license. That's awesome.
Love and Prayers,
Lori Pierce
Lori P. <hayden01@tds.net>
Mt Juliet, TN - Tuesday, August 22, 2006 10:37 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,
Thinking of you and your little sun shine boy.
WE LOVE YOU AND WE MISS CONNOR!
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Monday, August 21, 2006 1:11 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I have been thinking of Connor and praying for all of his loved ones a lot today. In fact, I just paused, once again, here at my keyboard, to remember you all.

I had something I was going to share, here in Connor's guest book, today, but in checking my email, today's message from the Nouwen Society, seemed to speak to me. So, I will include it beneath my signature.

God bless all of you beautiful Hunleys!

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

Taking the Sting Out of Death

Dying is returning home. But even though we have been told this many times by many people, we seldom desire to return home. We prefer to stay where we are. We know what we have; we do not know what we will get. Even the most appealing images of the afterlife cannot take away the fear of dying. We cling to life, even when our relationships are difficult, our economic circumstances harsh, and our health quite poor.

Still, Jesus came to take the sting out of death and to help us gradually realise that we don't have to be afraid of death, since death leads us to the place where the deepest desires of our hearts will be satisfied. It is not easy for us to truly believe that, but every little gesture of trust will bring us closer to this truth.

~Henri Nouwen (1932-1996)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, August 21, 2006 10:37 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I just want you to know that I am remembering Connor today and thinking of both of you. I am also thinking of Connor's grandparents, of his uncles, cousins, and aunt, and of his great-grandmothers. May God bless you all!

Please remember that I am here, and please feel free to contact me, at anytime.

Beneath my signature is the collect for the weekend.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

Almighty God, you have given your only Son to be for us a sacrifice for sin, and also an example of godly life: Give us grace to receive thankfully the fruits of his redeeming work, and to follow daily in the blessed steps of his most holy life; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 232
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, August 20, 2006 11:22 AM CDT

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I was posting this picture of Cassie's site, and thought I would swing by your page to say "hello". I'm sorry to hear about your Daddy.

Lots of love

Viks



viks <viks@postpals.co.uk>
- Saturday, August 19, 2006 5:18 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I am thinking of both of you and of Connor. May your weekend be peaceful.

I have just paused, here at the computer, to pray for you, for Connor's grandparents, and for Tabitha, Donnie, and the girls. When you can, let us know how they are doing.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

A Collect For Saturdays:

Almighty God, who after the creation of the world rested from all you works and sanctified a day of rest for all your creatures: Grant that we, putting away all earthly anxieties, may be duly prepared for the service of your sanctuary, and that our rest here upon earth may be a preparation for the eternal rest promised to your people in heaven; through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 99
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, August 19, 2006 1:11 AM CDT

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Hi there.
Just checking in. I know you are busy and I'm so glad when you update. Just wanted you to know I'm checking in and praying for you each day.
Love, Holly
Holly <hhoxeng@att.net>
Denver, - Thursday, August 17, 2006 9:08 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I am sorry I haven't signed the guest book in a few days, although I have been here, for at least a few minutes, every day this week. May God bless you both, God bless all of Connor's relatives and friends, and of course, God bless Connor, himself.

On Monday, Andrew and I took a day trip to Cooperstown and Oneonta. Our primary goal was to view the Grandma Moses exhibit, visiting the Fenimore House. It was well worth the trip! We saw 38 original paintings, some of her personal effects, pictures, and several very helpful timelines.

Then, we went across the street to the Farmer's Museum, as we wanted to see the New York State Carousel, which has recently been added as a permanent exhibit. The carousel was a 22 year project of a retired teacher. He and his friend carved most of the animals for the ride, including a beaver (the New York State animal), a dairy cow, a dog, a bear, and a frog. As we rode the carousel, I noticed the likeness of two men carved on the back of the goat. I thought one might be Martin Van Buren, but we later learned that the teacher and his friend had put their own images there, to remind visitors that "two old goats created the carousel." We were very impressed with the carousel, and I thought several times of Connor and how much he would enjoy the humor and interesting things that make up this ride.

Once again, God bless you!

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, August 17, 2006 9:01 PM CDT

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although I dont sign often I do think of you 3 every single day.....
Sharon <sholweger5@yahoo.com,>
- Wednesday, August 16, 2006 8:09 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,
I really enjoyed reading your update and I loved the story about Conner and his girlfriend. What a heartwarming story!! I just loved it. I just wanted to let you both know that I'm thinking of you.
Love, Alicia Georgiou <aageorgiou@bellsouth.net>
- Wednesday, August 16, 2006 8:18 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,
I haven't signed the guest book in a very long time, I had lost all my favourites from my pc, but now I have some of them back from LaKota's prayer list. Please know that I continue to keep you and your families in my prayers. I wish you well in your new career.
Love and prayers from Scotland, rosi

www.caringbridge.org/hi/kayla
rosi <rosipullin@hotmail.com>
glasgow, scotland - Tuesday, August 15, 2006 5:24 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

How wonderful that there is a little rocker at Vandy with the inscription, "in memory of Connor Hunley." This chair is another way that Connor's legacy of love lives on.

I have just paused to pray for all members of your family and for the writer, who mentioned the chair, and for her son. God bless you all!

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, August 15, 2006 0:21 AM CDT

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Hi Rhonda and Eddie,
Just stopping in to gaze at your sunshine boy! (to lift my spirits) Lost two great friends this week, so have a funeral tomorrow and one on Weds. Tough few days ahead.
WE MISS CONNOR AND WE LOVE YOU!
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Monday, August 14, 2006 8:15 PM CDT

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Rhonda

I had to contact you to tell you this. We had another beautiful baby boy 4 weeks ago. Sadly, he has the same bone marrow disease as Reid and now we know it is genetic and my boys seem to be the only ones in the world. We are now back living at Vandy for the next several months hoping he will be able to have a bone marrow transplant.

I wanted you to know that in our room is a beautiful rocker that I have enjoyed so much with this baby. I noticed the inscription on the back...in memory of Connor Hunley. I feel Connor's presence in this room and know he's giving our little Randon a little of his fight.

I wanted you to know.
love, hope and courage
Carol miller
CAROL MILLER <DMILL3@INSIGHTBB.COM>
BOWLING GREEN, KY - Monday, August 14, 2006 5:17 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda, Eddie, and Extended Family,

I am remembering Connor today, and I am praying for all of you. May you know that you will see Connor again, just as countless others have had that assurance about their loved ones, throughout the centuries.

Beneath my signature, I will add a quote from the great hymn writer, Charles Wesley. It reminds me of you beautiful Hunleys every time I see it.

God bless you all!

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

I feel a strong immortal hope, which bears my mournful spirit up beneath its mountain load; redeemed from death, and grief, and pain, I soon shall find my child again within the arms of God.

~Charles Wesley
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, August 13, 2006 5:01 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

Connor was remembered at Eucharist yesterday afternoon. He is always in my heart, when I am in our nave, and he always will be.

I hope you are having a good weekend. The cooler weather is such a blessing.

Please give my loving greetings to Tabitha. She is in my thoughts and prayers.

Beneath my signature, I will add the collect for this weekend.

God bless you both, and God bless your sunshine boy.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

Grant to us, Lord, we pray, the spirit to think and do always those things that are right, that we, who cannot exist without you, may by you be enabled to live according to your will; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 232
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, August 13, 2006 6:04 AM CDT

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I just read your update and am happy you kept Connors site going.I followed his story for a very long time,and when he passed it broke my heart.I still remember the little guy,and check in occasionally to see how you folks are faring.God Be with You.
Gayle
CT USA - Saturday, August 12, 2006 11:13 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,
Just stopping in to send a hug and say hi...and also to look at Connor's pictures...I love his smile, it brightens my day!
We love you and we miss your sunshine boy!
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Friday, August 11, 2006 8:02 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

Last night, Andrew took me to the Saratoga Performing Arts Center, to hear the Philadelphia Orchestra accompanied by Yo-Yo Ma. We both really love classical music, and cello is one of our favorite instruments. It was a perfect evening for it (clear, not too hot or too cool, and bugless). It really doesn't get much better than that!

While Ma was playing Dvorak, I found myself remembering many of the young people, who have passed, since I have been signing CaringBridge guest books. Connor was first in my prayerful thoughts. God bless his sweet spirit!

It was good to read the note from Mr. Wayne Gordon immediately below. He always has a way with words and is very kind. He has always been one of my favorite CaringBridge posters.

God bless you both! Also, God bless Nana and Poppy and Tabitha and her family.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, August 10, 2006 7:03 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I have been rather busy with church camp and work the past few weeks and apologize for not getting by.
However, a day does not go by that I do not think about Connor and so many others in the Caring Bridge
community. It never ceases to amaze me at the impact these young children are having on so many!

I read Colette's note about the ice cream stands in Heaven and remember that Connor and I were going to
get ice cream before his little body grew weak and he crossed the finish line. I imagine he knows
all the best places, and flavors, that Heaven has to offer. It sure will be grand getting to
enjoy ice cream with him one day!

Congrats to you Rhonda on getting your real estate license. You are so personable and I know that
you will be great dealing with people at a time when they are facing big financial decisions.
I also believe that is going to allow you to share stories to people who may be facing similar circumstances
that you and Eddie have gone through.

You mentioned closing this site. That is a decision only the two of you can make. It will not remove
the influence that Connor has had and will continue to have in the lives of so many. Perhaps it is a way
to help share your grief and then again maybe it is a reminder of things not wishing to be remembered.
Whatever your decision, all of us will stand beside both of you and support you 100%!

Melanie and I send our love to both of you. May each day bring you happy memories of your 'sunshine boy'.

I love you both!

Wayne
Wayne Gordon <wgordon@cscsystems.com>
Hermitage, TN USA - Thursday, August 10, 2006 7:52 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

Andrew and I went out to the half price ice cream sundae sale, at Friendly's, last night. Looking over their wide menu, I thought of Connor, and how he would have enjoyed the occasion. I also thought of the gentleman, who writes here of Connor checking out the ice cream stands in heaven. I am sure that he is, and that someday, you will share a cool treat with Connor, in God's eternal kingdom.

I have just paused, here at my keyboard, to pray for both of you, and for all of Connor's loved ones, each my name. May God grant you assurance and peace, and may God's healing touch be with Tabitha.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, August 8, 2006 12:16 AM CDT

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Hello Rhonda,
First time writing in your guest book, but I have viewed Connor's page since he was ill. His smile is such an inspiraton to me, he was such a lucky boy to have two parents as devoted as the both of you. Best wishes to you!
Wendy <wendygk@msn.com>
Hoboken, nj USA - Tuesday, August 8, 2006 7:44 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda, it was so wonderful to read your post and hear about the different members of your family. You and Eddie and all of your family are in my constant prayers. Much love, Linda
linda champa <lachampa@mintz.com (Audrey's Umbrella, www.braintrust.org/Audrey)>
boston, ma usa - Monday, August 7, 2006 1:23 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I have just looked through Connor's pictures again. Remember, that as we see him flatly on our computer screen, we shall truly see him in heaven, where he will be 3-D, whole, and happy.

Today is the Feast of the Transfiguration. Several years ago, when I was in Israel, I had the opportunity to go to Mount Transfiguration. What an experience! May we all behold Christ, by faith, in his beauty today, and may we honor him in our daily living.

I have just paused to pray for both of you, for Nana and Poppi, for Beverly and Garvin, and for several of Connor's other loved ones. This includes special prayers for Tabitha, Donnie, Chelsea, and Carlee. I hope Tabitha is reading and knows that Connor's friends are praying.

God bless you all!

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

O God, who on the holy mount revealed to chosen witnesses your well-beloved Son, wonderfully transfigured, in raiment white and glistening: Mercifully grant that we, being delivered from the disquietude of this world, may by faith behold the King in his beauty; who with you, O Father, and you, O Holy Spirit, lives and reigns, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 243
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, August 7, 2006 11:34 AM CDT

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It was wonderful reading your post. It's been too long on MY part, though. Not yours.
You're (still) always in my prayers,
Helenmary <Helenmary77@bellsouth.net>
Gallatin, TN 37066 - Sunday, August 6, 2006 11:17 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

Connor was remembered at Eucharist, this morning, at St. George's. I prayed for both of you, for Nana and Poppi, and for others in your family. I also specifically prayed for the well-being of Tabitha, Donnie, and their daughters. Please keep Connor's fans updated on her progress.

We sang a hymn that I really like this morning, which is based on Psalm 72. Perhaps you know it, and can sing it today, as well. Maybe, if you don't, you can give it a try. I'll add a link to the tune I like best for it, which was the one we did this morning.

God bless you always!

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

Hail to the Lord's Anointed,
great David's greater Son!
Hail, in the time appointed,
his reign on earth begun!
He comes to break oppression,
to set the captive free,
to take away transgression,
and rule in equity.

He comes, with succour speedy,
to those who suffer wrong;
to help the poor and needy,
and bid the weak be strong;
to give them songs for sighing,
their darkness turn to light,
whose souls, condemned and dying,
were precious in his sight.

He shall come down like showers
upon the fruitful earth;
love, joy, and hope, like flowers,
spring in his path to birth;
before him, on the mountains,
shall peace the herald go;
and righteousness, in fountains,
from hill to valley flow.

Kings shall fall down before him,
and gold and incense bring;
all nations shall adore him,
his praise all people sing;
to him shall prayer unceasing
and daily vows ascend,
his kingdom still increasing,
a kingdom without end.

O'er every foe victorious,
he on his throne shall rest;
from age to age more glorious,
all-blessing and all-blest.
the tide of time shall never
his covenant remove;
his name shall stand for ever,
his changeless Name of love.

Words: James Montgomery (1771-1854)

Music: Es flog ein kleins Waldvöglein (German)

Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/h/h043a.html

He who sings prayers twice. ~St. Augustine
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, August 6, 2006 6:01 PM CDT

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Thanks so much for the update. I check in often. I love just looking at pictures of Connor. Thoughts & prayers are with you.
Candice Behm <larcanril@comcast.net>
Portland, OR USA - Sunday, August 6, 2006 1:51 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

Connor was remembered at Holy Eucharist this afternoon. I arrived at St. George's early, and I prayed for Nana, before the service, as it is her birthday weekend. I also included Poppi, Beverly and Garvin, Johnny, Chad, Tabitha and her family, and, of course, both of you. May God bless all of Connor's many loved ones!

I shared your journal update with Elaine, who always remembers Connor. There are many, in the Capital District, who remember Connor, with great affection.

Beneath my signature, I will add the collect for this weekend.

God bless you always!

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

Proper 13, The Collect For The Sunday Closest To August 3:

Let your continual mercy, O Lord, cleanse and defend your
Church; and, because it cannot continue in safety without
your help, protect and govern it always by your goodness;
through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you
and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 232
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, August 5, 2006 8:20 PM CDT

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HAPPY BIRTHDAY NANA! Hope your day is as special as you!
God Bless,
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Friday, August 4, 2006 4:54 PM CDT

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Thanks for the update. I have followed your site along with several other caringbridge sites for a few years. I can't imagine the heartache you have gone through, but I know that the Lord carries us through. God bless!
Cindy Wright
Tennessee, - Friday, August 4, 2006 1:13 PM CDT

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Happy Birthday, Nana!

Although we have never met, or communicated, I know you are a very special lady. Not only are you Connor's grandma, but you are the mother of our dear Rhonda. God bless you and your husband always!

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

Here is a collect some people pray each morning. Let's pray it together today.

Lord Jesus Christ, you stretched out your arms of love on
the hard wood of the cross that everyone might come within
the reach of your saving embrace: So clothe us in your Spirit
that we, reaching forth our hands in love, may bring those
who do not know you to the knowledge and love of you; for
the honor of your Name. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 101
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, August 4, 2006 1:54 AM CDT

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Many of us are probably silent too often when we visit the page. I just want you to know I still pray for your family. Connor still "lives on" in us too
Joyce <jdadekia@skidmore.edu>
Albany, NY USA - Thursday, August 3, 2006 8:21 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I have very prayerfully read Rhonda's update in Connor's journal. I believe, with Kathy and Dave, that Tabitha will make a good recovery. She has her youthful age, modern medications, therapy, and lots of prayer, on her side. God bless Tabitha, her husband, Donnie, and their girls. Please keep us updated, as she makes her recovery.

Congratulations, Rhonda, on your real estate license. I have a dear older friend, at St. George's, who is a realtor. She prays for all of her clients, that together, they will find the homes God wants them to have. She is warm, kind, and caring, and she does beautiful things for God, and for his people. Like Charla, I am sure you are, and will continue to do, beautiful things in this very necessary, people helping profession. May God bless you in your new career, always!

Thank you very much for explaining about Ginny. I am smiling as I type, thinking about that potato gun! Not only is Ginny a kind person, but she knew about the kind of gift that would please an active boy like Connor. May God bless Ginny and her husband, Steven!

Thank you for your kind words about me. Connor was among my first three CaringBridge children, and he will always be very special to me. I have learned so much from Connor, and from you both. God bless you always!

For Nana, a very Happy Birthday! You and Poppy are always in my heart.

I will be writing again soon.

God bless the memory of Connor. He will not be forgotten!

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

In Times of Sorrow...

May you see God's light on the path ahead

When the road you walk is dark.

May you always hear,

Even in your hour of sorrow,

The gentle singing of the lark.

When times are hard may hardness

Never turn your heart to stone,

May you always remember

when the shadows fall—

You do not walk alone.

Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, August 3, 2006 12:42 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda,
First I must apologize I sent you an e mail on the first that said 1 year and 10 months without Connor, it has been 1 year and 9 months, sorry for the error.
Thank you so much for your update, Congratulations on getting your real estate license...if we ever move (and we have been talking about it) I will call you for tips on how to sell our house:)
I read your update with tears, I miss your little guy more than words can describe!!! He will NEVER be forgotten by me or many others and I am glad that you are keeping his site open.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY to your mom! (I will be gone most of tomorrow so not sure if I will get on the computer or not?)She and poppy continue to be in my prayers and I will add Tabitha and her family to my prayer list...you wouldn't believe how long my list is!:)
I have a friend from grade school that had a stroke when she was 33, she is now 58 and doing just fine.
REMEMBER WE ARE ALWAYS HERE FOR YOU AND WE LOVE YOU AND MISS YOUR SUNSHINE BOY, WHO SPREAD SUNSHINE AROUND THE WORLD!

love and hugs,

Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Thursday, August 3, 2006 11:50 AM CDT

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As one of those folks that just keeps you in prayers every day and wonders how you are doing, THANK YOU FOR THE UPDATE!!!! So many good things in the midst of always missing that wonderful little boy. And, as I mentioned to Linda, what an amazing bond between the Hunleys and the Martins came out of such a terrible disease.
Enjoy every minute of the real estate business. If I ever manage to move to Nashville (pipe dream at this point), I'll be on your doorstep for help house-hunting!!!
Love to you both,
Holly
Holly <hhoxeng@att.net>
Denver, - Thursday, August 3, 2006 10:20 AM CDT

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Connor and you always have a very special place in my heart.Hugs.
Sabrina <morini@agriflex.it>
Italy - Thursday, August 3, 2006 7:37 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I continue to remember sweet Connor and to think of you, and of all of Connor's other loved ones.

Today's thought, from the Nouwen Society, is one of hope. May it bless you, as it blesses me.

God bless you all!

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

Jesus Takes Away Fatality

The great mystery of the incarnation is that God became human in Jesus so that all human flesh could be clothed with divine life. Our lives are fragile and destined to death. But since God, through Jesus, shared in our fragile and mortal lives, death no longer has the final word. Life has become victorious. Paul writes: "And after this perishable nature has put on imperishability and this mortal nature has put on immortality, then will the words of scripture come true: "Death is swallowed up in victory. Death, where is your victory? Death, where is your sting?" (1 Corinthians 15:54). Jesus has taken away the fatality of our existence and given our lives eternal value.

~Henri Nouwen
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, August 3, 2006 1:25 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

Today marks a very sad anniversary for you and for all of Connor's CaringBridge supporters. My thoughts and prayers have been with you.

I am sorry I did not get to sign the guest book earlier, but I was having some difficulty with our internet service.

God bless you both, and of course, may God always bless your handsome sunshine boy.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

Joy does not simply happen to us. We have to choose joy and keep choosing it every day. It is a choice based on the knowledge that we belong to God and have found in God our refuge and our safety and that nothing, not even death, can take God away from us. Joy is the experience of knowing that you are unconditionally loved and that nothing--sickness, failure, emotional distress, oppression, war, or even death--can take that love away.

~Henri Nouwen (1932-1996)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, August 2, 2006 0:40 AM CDT

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Good Morning Rhonda and Eddie,
Another first day of the month and my thoughts go immediately to your little sunshine boy who brightened the lives of so many. I love that smile!!!! You are in our thoughts and prayers every day but especially today on Connor's 1 year 10 month anniversary into Heaven. WE MISS CONNOR AND WE LOVE YOU!
Love and hugs,

Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Tuesday, August 1, 2006 6:47 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I have just enjoyed some of Connor's pictures, once again. Connor had a wonderful smile.

I am looking forward to the update. If you know, perhaps you can tell us how the Connor statue project, at the farm, is coming. Also, maybe you can tell us who the Ginny is in the photos.

Beneath my signature, I will add the collect for today.

God bless you always, and God bless the dear spirit of your son!

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

Merciful God, whose servant Joseph of Arimathaea with reverence and godly fear prepared the body of our Lord and Savior for burial, and laid it in his own tomb: Grant to us, your faithful people, grace and courage to love and serve Jesus with sincere devotion all the days of our life; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, July 31, 2006 2:47 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I have just been through Connor's photo album once more. The picture of him with the toy soldiers is pretty neat. Andrew and I have watched Toy Story and Toy Story 2, over and over, as I know Connor did.

I hope you both, and Nana and Poppy, are staying cool, comfortable, content, and well, during these brutally hot summer days. I remembered you all, at Eucharist, Saturday afternoon.

God bless you always!

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, July 30, 2006 3:04 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I just got back from vacation and, as usual, checked your website and the Martins right away. I was so happy to see your new pictures of Connor - what a smile! Like others I also await your update, and hope that you are doing well in your new home and job. Laura and I send lots of love and prayers your way, and hope you are managing to stay cool in this relentless heat.
Debbie <endyke@speakeasy.net>
litchfield, NH - Sunday, July 30, 2006 8:17 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

It is good to read the recent note from Lisa, who attends your church. It is always good to hear from someone who actually knew Connor. (And there were many!)

I am eager to read your update, but I know it must be hard to try to write, with Connor now in Heaven.

I am serving as lector, at St. George's, later this afternoon. I will remember Connor, in the beauty of holiness, as I always do. I will also pray for both of you and for all of Connor's other loved ones.

Beneath my signature, I will add the collect for this weekend.

God bless you all!

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

O God, the protector of all who trust in you, without whom nothing is strong, nothing is holy: Increase and multiply upon us your mercy; that, with you as our ruler and guide, we may so pass through things temporal, that we lose not the things eternal; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 231.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, July 29, 2006 2:11 PM CDT

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the pictures are priceless...what a happy young man!
tricia <triciabxny@yahoo.com>
- Friday, July 28, 2006 7:41 AM CDT

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I'm thinking of you today. I thought I would stop and look at Connor's pictures before I start working. He always makes me smile. The church picture from 1997 is how I remember your family. At church, Connor was always grinning. From the other pictures, he must have grinned most all the time. I wish we could have met before Tristan got sick. I think they both would have enjoyed each other's company. They like a lot of the same things. Tristan has been very sick and mostly bedridden this summer. However, he's turned the corner and almost back to his old self. Thank you for posting the pictures. You and Eddie made sure he got to experience a lot of different things. Connor's done more cool things than I have! You are both wonderful parents. We all love and pray for you.
Lisa
Mount Juliet, TN USA - Friday, July 28, 2006 7:16 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I have just been through Connor's pictures again. The picture of Connor running through the water, at Cocoa Beach, and the one of him in the hammock, at the Polynesian Resort, have always been among my favorites. Connor was handsome, and he had a wonderful smile. I miss him!

I am looking forward to the update.

God bless you both!

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, July 27, 2006 5:44 AM CDT

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Dear Hunley Family,
I'm so glad to hear there will soon be an update. While I do subscribe to "no news is good news", I, along with so many others who check in often, have been wondering how things have been going. Hope all is well.
Love, blessings, and tons of hugs,
Tanya Nicole Servis

Tanya Nicole Servis <tamyans83@yahoo.com>
Newark, DE USA - Wednesday, July 26, 2006 9:47 PM CDT

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thanks for the new pictures, and I am looking forward to an update.
You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Tina Pirro <kmpirro@msn.com>
metuchen, nj - Wednesday, July 26, 2006 8:43 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I am just looking through those new pictures of Connor again. Andrew also enjoyed the Back to the Future movies. Connor and Andrew were both typical boys loving cars, speed, auto racing, and interesting driving maneuvers. How wonderful that you have that picture, and so many others, of Connor!

I am looking forward to the journal update.

God bless you both, and God bless the sweet memory of Connor. You will see him again, you will know him, and he will know you. I am sure of that!

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

While grief at the loss of a loved one is great, the joy in receiving them back in the resurrection will be greater.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, July 25, 2006 11:47 PM CDT

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I was just checking in to see if there was an update and saw that one will be coming soon. I look foward to reading it. I did look at your photo album and absolutly loved it. I can only imagine how difficlut it was to go thourgh photos to put on your site. Thank you for continuing to share.
Love, Alicia Georgiou <aageorgiou@bellsouth.net>
- Tuesday, July 25, 2006 1:35 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I have just viewed the great newly posted pictures of Connor. There are about eight there that I have not seen previously. I am so glad you were able to take Connor to Disney World, Universal, and Beech Bend, in 2004.

I am looking forward to the update. Please give my greetings to Nana and Poppy and include them in your news. What a great picture of them with Connor!

Beneath my signature, I will add the collect for today, the Feast of St. James, the Apostle. James is a dear name to me, as it is Andrew's Confirmation name and the name of one of my closest cousins.

God bless you all!

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

O gracious God, we remember before you today your servant and apostle James, first among the Twelve to suffer martyrdom for the Name of Jesus Christ; and we pray that you will pour out upon the leaders of your Church that spirit of self-denying service by which alone they may have true authority among your people; through the same Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 242
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, July 25, 2006 10:33 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I cannot pull up the new pictures, so I assume you are working on the site. You know I remember Connor each day, and I pray for both of you, and for all of Connor's loved ones.

I look forward to seeing those pictures and to reading the update.

God bless you always!

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, July 24, 2006 12:38 AM CDT

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Great to see the pictures of Connor and yet, seeing him so alive and vibrant, it's just a rude awakening (again) that he's gone. Damn disease. Looking forward to the update whenever!
Love, Holly
Holly <hhoxeng@att.net>
Denver, - Monday, July 24, 2006 10:45 AM CDT

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Hi Rhonda and Eddie,
Just checking in and checked out all the photo album...I love looking at pictures of Connor!!!! Looking forward to your update. Thinking and praying for you each and every day! WE MISS CONNOR AND WE LOVE YOU!
Love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Monday, July 24, 2006 8:39 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I have just looked through all of Connor's pictures once again. Our county fair was this past week, so I was drawn to the photo of Connor and Eddie in the ride car.

God bless you all!

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, July 24, 2006 1:24 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

On a rainy summer afternoon, I am thinking of Connor, and holding you both in loving prayers.

Of the summer prayer book collects, today's is one of my favorites.

God bless you always!

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

Almighty God, whose blessed Son restored Mary Magdalene
to health of body and of mind, and called her to be a witness
of his resurrection: Mercifully grant that by your grace we
may be healed from all our infirmities and know you in the
power of his unending life; who with you and the Holy Spirit
lives and reigns, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, July 22, 2006 1:21 PM CDT

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Hey Rhonda and Eddie! I just wanted to stop by to say that we love you and are always thinking of you both and Angel Connor. Take care!
Lori Pierce and family
Lori P. <hayden01@tds.net>
Mt Juliet, TN - Friday, July 21, 2006 12:26 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I am thinking of you and remembering Connor.

May God bless you always!

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, July 21, 2006 5:29 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,
Just sitting here thinking of a special little blonde angel and how much I miss him and how much he taught me in his short life...too short! WE MISS YOUR SUNSHINE BOY AND WE LOVE YOU!
God Bless,
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Thursday, July 20, 2006 8:24 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,
I've loved getting to know both of you at, of all places, the tanning bed!! You're both always so pleasant and kind, even after losing the most precious gift God gave to the both of you. You both inspire me to look past the daily ups and downs of everyday life and focus on the big picture. I wear the bracelet you gave me everyday and whenever I'm feeling down, I look at it, and it INSPIRES me to have courage, just as your son did for many years. Thanks again for being so kind and sharing your son's story with me.
Love always,
Laura
Laura Holzmer <lholzmer@nd.edu>
Hendersonville, TN USA - Thursday, July 20, 2006 2:18 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

Whether I sign Connor's guest book, or not, he is almost always in my thoughts. I hope you, and all of Connor's loved ones are staying cool, comfortable, and safe, during this very hot weather.

God bless you all!

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, July 19, 2006 10:21 PM CDT

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Please know that Lee and I are here for you. We have a wonderful program that can help relieve the pain...not take away the sadness but relieve the pain. It has made a huge difference in our lives.
We love you.
Sue Richardson <suerichardson@comcast.net>
Nashville, Tn USA - Wednesday, July 19, 2006 4:51 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,
Thinking of you...
praying for you...
missing Connor lots with you....
and loving you!!!
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Monday, July 17, 2006 2:13 PM CDT

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When Jesus is near, all is well and nothing seems difficult. When He is absent, all is hard. When Jesus does not speak within, all other comfort is empty, but if He says only a word, it brings great consolation.

~Thomas á Kempis

Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

May you be open to the word of Jesus today.

You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, July 17, 2006 11:34 AM CDT

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just stopping by to let you know you have not been forgotten. Thinking of you always
Tina Pirro <kmpirro@msn.com>
metuchen, nj - Sunday, July 16, 2006 6:37 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

A friend and I attended the rodeo in nearby Ballston Spa on Friday night. I am sure Connor would have loved it! There were a lot of children there sporting western boots and cowboy hats. I enjoyed watching two little cowpokes trying to entertain a baby in his stroller. They made me smile a lot, just as Connor always did.

My thoughts and prayers are with you tonight, as they always are.

God bless you always!

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, July 16, 2006 0:01 AM CDT

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Just stopping by to let you know that I'm thinking of you. God bless and *warm hugs* ><>†<><

*Jennifer C* from Angels on Earth <coopsie78@gmail.com>
Eugene, OR USA - Saturday, July 15, 2006 6:40 PM CDT

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Visit Jeff Paul
Harold Kooiman <hmkooiman@juno.com>
Woodbury, Mn. U.S.A. - Saturday, July 15, 2006 1:27 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

Once again, I am thinking of you on a pleasant Friday afternoon. I hope all is well with Eddie's work and with Rhonda's work and education. If there is anything, at all, that I might be able to do to help you, or any of the families in your area, who are also in bereavement, please do not hesitate to be in touch.

Beneath my signature, I will add a prayer from The Office of Morning Prayer, which always seems especially suitable to pray on Fridays.

God bless you always!

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

Lord Jesus Christ, you stretched out your arms of love on the hard wood of the cross that everyone might come within the reach of your saving embrace: So clothe us in your Spirit that we, reaching forth our hands in love, may bring those who do not know you to the knowledge and love of you; for the honor of your Name. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 101
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, July 14, 2006 12:14 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I am thinking of you on another warm, summer day. I did not stop by yesterday, as we had a full day of rain, often with thunder and lighting. (I seldom use my computer, when it is storming.)

I expect to be at Eucharist tonight, and if I am, I will surely remember Connor, beneath the Jesus and the Children stained glass window.

God bless you always!

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, July 13, 2006 12:48 AM CDT

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Good Morning, Hope things are going well for you. How is everyone? We are fine, here in Durango, think of Connor all the time. What a great smile! We send our love to all of you. XXXOOOO Claudia
Claudia Douesnard <claudia_jp@frontier.net>
Durango, CO USA - Thursday, July 13, 2006 8:23 AM CDT

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I'm thinking about all of you today.
Lisa
Mount Juliet, TN USA - Wednesday, July 12, 2006 10:38 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,
Just thinking of you both and hoping that you are having a nice summer.
Love, Alicia Georgiou <aageorgiou@bellsouth.net>
- Wednesday, July 12, 2006 8:10 AM CDT

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The Prayer Bears
Hailee
wishing you tons of luck on your exam..

melissa <angels4hailee@cox.net>
cavecreek, az usa - Tuesday, July 11, 2006 7:50 PM CDT

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Rhonda and Eddie,
I was just visiting Connor's page and was thinking of you. I keep you all in my prayers. I know seet Connor is looking down on us and sees how much we love him. Michele Stratton
Michele Stratton <rstratto@bellsouth.net>
Burns, TN USA - Tuesday, July 11, 2006 4:12 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

Yesterday, Andrew and I went to Oneonta, to attend the funeral of Baby Alyssa. I certainly thought of Connor, and of all of his loved ones, as we met to say "Good Bye," to a sweet little girl of four months.

Beneath my signature, I will add Madeleine L'Engle's thought from A Ring of Endless Light. I have quoted the ending to it to you previously.

God bless you always!

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

The earth will never be the same again
Rock, water, tree, iron share in this grief
As distant stars participate in pain
A candle snuffed, a falling leaf,
A child's death
Oh this particular loss is heaven mourned
For if no angel cried
If this small one is tossed away as dross
The very galaxies would have lied
How shall we sing our love song now?
In this strange land where all are born to die?
Each tree and bird and rock shows how
The universe is part of this one cry:
That every life is noted and cherished
And nothing loved is every lost or perished.

~Madeleine L'Engle (American author, born 1918)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, July 11, 2006 11:14 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

Once again, I am here on a beautiful morning, thinking of your beautiful sunshine boy, Connor. God bless you, and God bless him!

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, July 10, 2006 6:44 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,
Thinking of you and your sweet little sunshine boy, Connor.
LOVE YOU LOTS!
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Sunday, July 9, 2006 3:21 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I remembered Connor, and the other children I have learned about through Connor's website, at Eucharist yesterday, beneath the Jesus and the Children stained glass window. They are always in my thoughts, when I am in the nave.

God bless you always!

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, July 9, 2006 10:55 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I will be remembering Connor, at Holy Eucharist, later this afternoon. May your thoughts of him, this day, be sweet and peaceful.

Beneath my signature, I will add the collect for this weekend.

God bless you all!

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

O God, you have taught us to keep all your commandments by loving you and our neighbor: Grant us the grace of your Holy Spirit, that we may be devoted to you with our whole heart, and united to one another with pure affection; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 231
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, July 8, 2006 2:09 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I am thinking of Connor, of you, and of your loved ones. May God bless you all!

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, July 7, 2006 0:04 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

A little girl, in our extended family, Alyssa, age four months, joined Connor in heaven this morning. She is one of three grandchildren born to my cousin, Leona, since February 1, from three different of her children. Alyssa, from the Oneonta area, was a preemie, born in Albany, on February 28, because of a medical emergency with her mother, Leona's daughter. She was in Albany Medical Center for about two months, before coming home. She began to be sick about three weeks ago, and was found to have a brain tumor about two weeks ago. Her surgery was unsuccessful. There are far too many children like Connor and Alyssa. Let us continue to pray for better medical treatments and for cures.

As always, I remember Connor Jordan Hunley and think of you, his loving parents.

God bless you all!

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, July 5, 2006 4:46 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,
Thinking of you and your sunshine boy Connor, who brightened the lives of everyone blessed to have known him and who brings joy to our lives at the thought of him.
God Bless,
love and hugs,

Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A, - Wednesday, July 5, 2006 8:55 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I am thinking of you, and of Connor, on this Independence Day.

God bless you all, and God bless America!

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

Lord God Almighty, in whose Name the founders of this country won liberty for themselves and for us, and lit the torch of freedom for nations then unborn: Grant that we and all the people of this land may have grace to maintain our liberties in righteousness and peace; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

~The Book of Common Prayer, Page 242
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, July 4, 2006 7:07 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

You know I am thinking of you and of your sweet Connor.

God bless you always!

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, July 3, 2006 10:29 PM CDT

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Rhonda and Eddie
thinking of you and remembering Connor.
prayers and love from Missouri
mrs pam
- Monday, July 3, 2006 9:47 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I was not on the computer on Saturday to tell you that I thought of your beautiful Sunshine Boy. I am sure Connor's absence is not getting any easier for you. I wish I could do more than visit his website several times each week and remember him in Eucharist, as I did yesterday.

Beneath my signature, I am adding a quote that I hope will be of some comfort.

God bless you both, and God bless Connor!

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

Joy does not simply happen to us. We have to choose joy and keep choosing it every day. It is a choice based on the knowledge that we belong to God and have found in God our refuge and our safety and that nothing, not even death, can take God away from us. Joy is the experience of knowing that you are unconditionally loved and that nothing--sickness, failure, emotional distress, oppression, war, or even death--can take that love away.

~Henri Nouwen (1932-1996)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, July 2, 2006 2:52 AM CDT

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Thinking of Conner and you both.
June <junehumphrey@yahoo.com>
Goodlettsville, TN - Saturday, July 1, 2006 10:24 PM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,
Thinking of you on another first of the month. WE LOVE YOU AND WE MISS YOUR SUNSHINE BOY, CONNOR. We will NEVER forget his smile and his courage. What an inspiration he was to us!
God Bless,
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Saturday, July 1, 2006 8:28 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I just want you to know that I am thinking of you today. My memories of Connor are sweet. I enjoy viewing his pictures, here at his website, several times each week.

God bless you all, and Happy Fourth of July Weekend!

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, June 30, 2006 8:42 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

It is likely that you have seen New York State pictures on your TV this week. The rain continues. The power has flickered tonight, and we have seen pictures of boats rescuing people from the overflowing Mohawk River in nearby Schenectady. The wedding gazebo, at the (Scotia, NY) Glen Sanders Mansion, where I go for Story Sundays, is about 95% under water. We, in the Capital District, have had almost as much June rain as in the record year of 1862, but we are well off compared to the Southern Tier (Binghamton area). We have been checking up on family and friends around the state. Almost everyone, that we have heard from, is physically well, but lots of the folks have water in the basement, ruined agricultural crops, and lost personal effects.

Despite all of the above, Elaine, Andrew, and I are thinking about you. We hope you can update soon.

God bless you both!

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, June 29, 2006 7:23 PM CDT

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Hi Rhonda and Eddie,
Thinking of you! WE LOVE YOU AND WE MISS CONNOR!
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Thursday, June 29, 2006 3:57 PM CDT

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You are on my mind so I thought I would let you know. I pray for you so much. I hope you are enjoying your real estate venture.
Lisa Earhart
Mount Juliet, TN USA - Wednesday, June 28, 2006 5:27 PM CDT

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Rhonda,

It's been awhile since I checked in. I apologize for that.

You, however, have nothing to apologize for. You are having to go through something no one should have to go through.

You have been open and shared so much with us. I only wish there were a way I could help you and Eddie.

There is nothing to be ashamed about with grief. We experience it in our own way. It becomes part of us but does not have to define us. For, really, grief is our way of saying we loved... and still love.

We grieve to the depth we loved.

Along came a Connor - and with him, the love.

Take care, my friend
Jim Warda <Jwarda7@aol.com>
Gurnee, IL USA - Wednesday, June 28, 2006 11:00 AM CDT

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Dear Rhonda and Eddie,

I join June in that wondering. Please feel free to phone, or to email, if there is anything, at all, that I may be able to do to help.

Connor is much loved and much remembered by his CaringBridge friends.

Today's saint is Irenaeus. Beneath my signature, I will add the collect of the day.

God bless you both, and God bless all of Connor's many loved ones.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

Almighty God, who upheld your servant Irenaeus with strength to maintain the truth against every blast of vain doctrine: Keep us, we pray, steadfast in your true religion, that in constancy and peace we may walk in the way that leads to eternal life; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, June 28, 2006 7:38 AM CDT

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Wondering what you've been up to and how you are doing. Remembering Conner daily.
June Humphrey <junehumphrey@yahoo.com>
Goodlettsville, TN - Tuesday, June 27, 2006 11:50 PM CDT

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