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Lisa, I wish I could hug your neck! I've looked for you on social media but no luck. I've wanted to share Toy Drive pics with you each year, but can't seem to find your email. Thank you for always remembering my Connor. You have no idea how much it means to me. I just read your last letter you left at the mausoleum, the other day when I ran across it. You are very special to me, and I hope you see this, because I wanted you to know that. THANK YOU.......for EVERYTHING. I hope you and your family are doing well. Love and Hugs,
Rhonda, Forever Connor's Mommy
Rhonda Hunley Pryor <rhonda.hunley@yahoo.com>
Gallatin, TN USA - Tuesday, January 29, 2019 5:36 PM CST
Hi, Rhonda. I’ve been thinking of you and your handsome boy. I wish him a very Happy Birthday. You both are loved and will never be forgotten.
Lisa Earhart (Tristan’s Mom)
Mount Juliet, Tn USA - Wednesday, October 31, 2018 1:12 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I am sorry that I have not been able to sign Connor's guest book for several weeks. Situations, now resolved, have prevented it.
Today is the 52nd anniversary of C.S. Lewis, a favorite author of many. His Narnia books offer insight and hope for a real life beyond this one with those we love. I will add a quote and the collect of the day.
God bless you always, and God bless Connor and all your other loved ones, who have gone through the Door.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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"When Aslan said you could never go back to Narnia, he meant the Narnia you were thinking of. But that was not the real Narnia. That had a beginning and an end. It was only a shadow or a copy of the real Narnia which has always been there and always will be there: just as our own world, England and all, is only a shadow or copy of something in Aslan's real world. You need not mourn over Narnia, Lucy. All of the old Narnia that mattered, all the dear creatures, have been drawn into the real Narnia through the Door. And of course it is different; as different as a real thing is from a shadow or as waking life is from a dream."
~C.S. Lewis, in The Last Battle, 1956
Today's Collect:
O God of searing truth and surpassing beauty, we give you thanks for Clive Staples Lewis whose sanctified imagination lights fires of faith in young and old alike; Surprise us also with your joy and draw us into that new and abundant life which is ours in Christ Jesus, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
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Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, November 22, 2016 1:33 AM CST
It's been a while since Ive messaged you sweet Connor not that I dont think of you every minute of every day because I do and of your beautiful MOMMY Rhonda!! You are turning 22 next week and I can only imagine what a gorgeous young man you would have become and of all the messsages you'd be getting from the ladies haha that thought made me giggle out loud!! So, it's too early to say Hapy Birthday but I just wanted to say you live on in hearts and we'll never forget you! I'm sure you and DADDY had a special day on Wednesday when you were united back together in heaven and are on gocarts like your mom can see in her thoughts! we are living down here as Christians so we can see YOU, JESUS, and your DADDY again some day soon !!! Ya'll watch over MOMMY and send her signs as often as you can! I can't even imagine the grief inside her beautiful heart but BUDDY she's looking so forward to the day she get's to also reunite in Heaven with you never to miss you again. We love her to pieces and pray for her daily but you are her personal Guardian angel she's very lucky to have you watching over her and I know she knows that too, and also she's still the best mommy in the whole world she has been a great mommy to you still these past almost 12 years and will continue to be until she sees you again.
rest easy Connor but wear your dad out on those go carts and all the fun ya'll are having
we miss you so much
We will see you soon
LOVE YOU ALWAYS
TABITHA<(AUNT TABBI) CHELSEA CARLEE AND WADE
Blessed by you and for all the memories we have
talk to you later when you're the BIRTHDAY BOY!!
HAVE A GREAT DAY IN HEAVEN SUNSHINE! SHINE BRIGHT ON MOMMY
TABITHA (AKINS) PERRY <banddconcretellc@aol.com>
Franklin, Ky USA - Tuesday, October 25, 2016 11:34 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I have often wondered what poetry Connor knew. The poem below is a memory a great novelist, essayist, and poet, which he included in A Child's Garden of Verse. It recalls his own days of illness as a child, sitting in his bed, playing with his toys. I wonder if someone read this to Connor on his bed days. I will be reading it to a little boy I love, as he regains strength after a recent hospitalization.
I hope you are well. Take good care of yourself on these hot, humid July days.
God bless you always, and God bless Connor and all of his loved ones.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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The Land of Counterpane
by Robert Louis Stevenson
When I was sick and lay a-bed,
I had two pillows at my head,
And all my toys beside me lay,
To keep me happy all the day.
And sometimes for an hour or so
I watched my leaden soldiers go,
With different uniforms and drills,
Among the bed-clothes, through the hills;
And sometimes sent my ships in fleets
All up and down among the sheets;
Or brought my trees and houses out,
And planted cities all about.
I was the giant great and still
That sits upon the pillow-hill,
And sees before him, dale and plain,
The pleasant land of counterpane.
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Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, July 24, 2016 12:11 AM CDT
July 19, 1848: More than 300 men and women assemble in the Wesleyan Chapel at Seneca Falls, New York, for the first formal convention to discuss "the social, civil and religious condition and the rights of women." The event has been called the birthplace of the women's rights movement.
~From My Email Today
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Dear Rhonda,
I continue to think of Connor many times a week. You certainly took beautiful care of him and provided him with many educational, fun, and social opportunities. You are a GREAT mother, and you will see the fruit of your attention, prayers, and suffering, when you reunite with Connor in the glorious kingdom of God.
One of the children in our family has been suffering in a major medical center, so, I can relate to what you and your family experienced with Connor's illness in a slightly different way now.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your handsome sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
Colette
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Four American Pioneers of Black Rights and Women's Rights
The Episcopal Church has added to its Calendar four American women who were pioneers in the struggle for black emancipation and for women's votes. The date chosen for commemorating them is the anniversary of the Women's Rights Convention held in Seneca Falls, New York, 19-20 July 1848. They are:
Sojourner Truth (26 November 1883)
Harriet Ross Tubman (10 March 1913)
Elizabeth Cady Stanton (26 October 1902)
Amelia Jenks Bloomer (30 December 1894)
The Collect:
O God, whose Spirit guides us into all truth and makes us free: Strengthen and sustain us as you did your servants Elizabeth, Amelia, Sojourner, and Harriet. Give us vision and courage to stand against oppression and injustice and all that works against the glorious liberty to which you call all your children; through Jesus Christ our Savior, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
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Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, July 19, 2016 11:02 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I had lunch at a Pizza Hut today with some family. While I was there, I thought of Connor and how much young boys enjoy salad bars, pizzas, bread sticks, and wings.
I do hope you are all right and enjoying some of the good things of early July.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, July 7, 2016 10:47 PM CDT
HAPPY FOURTH OF JULY TO ALL!
Dear Rhonda,
I hope that today, tomorrow, or both, you can enjoy a cookout with family or friends. I know if Connor were here, he would be helping. Maybe you can spend some time on a favorite lake or river or in a pool. I know from the pictures I've seen over the years, that Connor would be in favor of that. God bless him, and God bless you.
Now let us pause to remember why we celebrate this weekend. Perhaps some of the quotes below will be helpful.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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Patriotic Quotes
We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness.
~The Declaration of Independence July 4, 1776
We must be free not because we claim freedom, but because we practice it.
~William Faulkner, Writer and Noble Prize Laureate (1897-1962)
When an American says that he loves his country, he means not only that he loves the New England hills, the prairies glistening in the sun, the wide and rising plains, the great mountains, and the sea. He means that he loves an inner air, an inner light in which freedom lives and in which a man can draw the breath of self-respect.
~Adlai E. Stevenson, Politician and Diplomat (1900-1965)
If you take advantage of everything America has to offer, there’s nothing you can’t accomplish.
~Geraldine Ferraro, Attorney and Politican (born 1935)
Ours is the only country deliberately founded on a good idea.
~John Gunther, Journalist and Author (1901-1970)
Freedom has its life in the hearts, the actions, the spirit of men and so it must be daily earned and refreshed - else like a flower cut from its life-giving roots, it will wither and die.
~Dwight D. Eisenhower, Thirty-Fourth President (1890-1969)
Those who won our independence believed liberty to be the secret of happiness and courage to be the secret of liberty.
~Louis D. Brandeis, Supreme Court Justice (1856-1941)
Do what you can, with what you have, where you are.
~Theodore Roosevelt, Twenty-Sixth President (1858-1919)
I look forward to an America that will not be afraid of grace and beauty.
~John F. Kennedy, Thirty-Fifth President (1917-1963)
Enlighten the people generally, and tyranny and oppressions of body and mind will vanish like evil spirits at the dawn of day.
~Thomas Jefferson, Third President (1743-1826)
Freedom is the open window through which pours the sunlight of the human spirit and human dignity.
~Herbert Hoover, Thirty-First President (1874-1963)
I believe in America because we have great dreams, and because we have the opportunity to make those dreams come true.
~Wendell L Willkie, Lawyer and Politician (1892-1944)
You have to love a nation that celebrates its independence every July 4, not with a parade of guns, tanks, and soldiers who file by the White House in a show of strength and muscle, but with family picnics where kids throw Frisbees, the potato salad gets iffy, and the flies die from happiness. You may think you have overeaten, but it is patriotism.
~Erma Bombeck, Columnist and Author (1927-1996)
May the sun in his course visit no land more free, more happy, more lovely, than this our own country!
~Daniel Webster, Statesman and Member of Congress (1782-1852)
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Lord God Almighty, in whose Name the founders of this country won liberty for themselves and for us, and lit the torch of freedom for nations then unborn: Grant that we and all the people of this land may have grace to maintain our liberties in righteousness and peace; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 492
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Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, July 3, 2016 4:21 PM CDT
Happy Independence Day Weekend To All!
Dear Rhonda,
We had a lot of hard rain Friday afternoon and a tornado a few milers north of here. I am writing rapidly, as the wind is picking up again, and I hear thunder in the distance. I hope this note finds you and all of Connor's family well and enjoying the best of early summer life in our diverse and wonderful country.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, July 2, 2016 11:49 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I tried to get here last week to comment on Connor as related to the end of the public school year. The heat and humidity in this part of my house were great, and family things and appointments kept me busy. I did think of Connor in church, where we honored our high school graduates in our services and with a picnic at the end of Sunday morning. (Unfortunately, it was so warm, that many ate and went right home to cool off.) I also thought of Connor on Friday, as the buses were bringing vacation bound children of all levels home. Additionally, I thought of your sunshine boy as I saw tents and people in yards throughout the development Friday afternoon, Saturday, and Sunday, celebrating the achievements of their teens and their high hopes for the future. Connor, of course, did not have the opportunity to graduate, to enter college or vocational school, or to serve his country, but he has been received into the life we all hope to achieve, by the merits of Christ, one bright day. There, Connor is safe, happy, and unconditionally loved. There, he awaits your homecoming with joyful expectation.
God bless you always, God bless your family and close friends, and, of course, God bless your handsome sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
Colette
Today's Collect (for Cyril, Bishop of Alexandria, Theologian):
Heavenly Father, whose servant Cyril steadfastly proclaimed your Son Jesus Christ to be one person, fully God and fully man: Keep us, we pray, constant in faith and worship; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, June 27, 2016 10:10 AM CDT
When our mortal eyes close on this world for the last time, our angels open our spiritual eyes and escort us personally before the face of God. ~Quoted in The Angels' Little Instruction Book by Eileen Elias Freeman, 1994
Dear Rhonda,
I saw this quotation and thought I would share it with you. Be encouraged. Connor has been escorted, has seen the face of God, and has been received into the marvelous kingdom of the saints in light.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park , NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, June 22, 2016 12:09 AM CDT
Happy Father's Day To All Of The Men In Connor's Life!
Dear Rhonda,
I was here yesterday about to leave you a message, when my computer turned itself off. I hope you have been enjoying this Father's Day Weekend with the men in your family. May they, and all the men, who were kind and supportive to Connor, be safe, happy, and blessed today and always.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, June 19, 2016 3:42 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
When I was shopping a few nights ago, I saw three large claw machines in a store entrance way. It made me think of Cheyenne and of Connor. In the store, I bought some super hero shortie pajamas for the little one, who is the joy of my heart. That made me think of Connor again. This morning, I gazed at The Jesus and the Children stained glass window, and that made me remember Connor. Connor is not forgotten.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
Colette
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This quotation was in my email tonight.
When you arise in the morning, think of what a precious privilege it is to be alive, to breathe, to think, to enjoy, to love.
~Marcus Aurelius (26 April 121 - 17 March 180 AD)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, June 12, 2016 9:58 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I hope you are staying cool, comfortable, and well hydrated during this very warm holiday weekend. When I looked at the thermometer yesterday, it said 96. I have not looked today, as it is probably best that I do not see such a number again. Please be sure Connor's grandparents are all right.
As we all continue to enjoy some moments of relaxation today, may we pause to reflect upon those brave men and women, who have lost their lives throughout the generations, in service to our country. God bless them all, and God bless our Veterans and our current military personnel.
God bless you always, and God bless your brave hero, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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O Judge of the nations, we remember before you with grateful hearts the men and women of our country who in the day of decision ventured much for the liberties we now enjoy. Grant that we may not rest until all the people of this land share the benefits of true freedom and gladly accept its disciplines. This we ask in the Name of Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 839
Colette
Clifton Park , NY U.S.A. - Monday, May 30, 2016 1:54 PM CDT
Happy Memorial Day To All!
Dear Rhonda,
Earlier in the week, I drove past De Voe's Rainbow Delights. The sign near the road advertised lemon ice cream, a favorite since my early childhood. I thought perhaps I would stop for a small cone on my way back, but time did not allow. However, I thought of Connor both coming and going. God bless his sweet spirit!
I hope you and all of Connor's loved ones are enjoying a safe, happy holiday weekend.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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God bless all of our American Heroes, their families, and their friends and all of our Veterans. God also bless all who are currently serving.
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Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, May 28, 2016 3:45 AM CDT
Happy Mother's Day To All!
Dear Rhonda,
I apologize for not signing Connor's guest book in over a month. I was here one day in early April and wrote a long entry. When I tried to submit it, I lost the whole thing, and I did not have time to redo it. Soon after that, I came down with a cough and sore throat. By the end of that week, I was finding lots of blood in my mucous and my eyes were weeping. The next day, I had a breathing treatment and was diagnosed with bronchitis and conjunctivitis at urgent care. For several days, I was unable to see well enough to enjoy my computer. Then my computer was down for almost a week. The good news is that I am feeling better and my computer is up and running. I hope you had a better April.
President Lincoln said, "I remember my mother's prayers and they have always followed me. They have clung to me all my life." Many of us hope to be strong, dedicated mothers like that. You ARE a strong, dedicated mother, and Connor has gained much good through your beautiful character and womanly strength. I know Connor is ever so proud of you!
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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A Favorite Prayer Poem:
Blessed be the works of your hands,
O Holy One.
Blessed be these hands that have touched life.
Blessed be these hands that have nurtured creativity.
Blessed be these hands that have held pain.
Blessed be these hands that have embraced with passion.
Blessed be these hands that have tended gardens.
Blessed be these hands that have closed in anger.
Blessed be these hands that have planted new seeds.
Blessed be these hands that have harvested ripe fields.
Blessed be these hands that have cleaned, washed, mopped, scrubbed.
Blessed be these hands that have become knotty with age.
Blessed be these hands that are wrinkled and scarred from doing justice.
Blessed be these hands that have reached out and been received.
Blessed be these hands that hold the promise of the future.
Blessed be the works of your hands,
O Holy One.
By Diann Neu, co-founder of WATER. From Earth Prayers, p. 205
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Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, May 8, 2016 1:03 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Tomorrow marks 141 months since Connor entered eternal life. What an incredible number that is, and what a bittersweet accounting it is for all of Connor's family, friends, fans, and followers, but especially for you. Once again, I extend to you my sympathy and concern. I also send again my assurances that you will see sweet Connor again, and when you do, all shall be well.
Tomorrow also marks the beginning of National Poetry Month, an occasional I have been celebrating for at least ten years. I always set a challenge for myself, but I also announce the month to the children of my family and send them some poetry to read. I have just sent the school-age kids my own list of twenty-two possible ways for them to challenge themselves this year, and I had a talk with our youngest boy about the event last night. If Connor were here, he would receive the same things our older boys will get. An intelligent person like Connor has met other bright people in heaven. Possibly Frost, Tennyson, Whitman, Sandburg, Poe, Wordsworth, and Blake are among them.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless Connor.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, March 31, 2016 5:37 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
This morning, while watching a red pole outside my window, I thought of Connor. How like the cheerful and plucky bird your sunshine boy was! May this message be a spot of spring color joining with joyful resurrection faith for you during Easter Week.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless Connor.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
Colette
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The Collect For The Tuesday In Easter Week:
O God, who by the glorious resurrection of your Son Jesus Christ destroyed death and brought life and immortality to light: Grant that we, who have been raised with him, may abide in his presence and rejoice in the hope of eternal glory; through Jesus Christ our Lord, to whom, with you and the Holy Spirit, be dominion and praise for ever and ever. Amen.
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Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, March 29, 2016 12:23 AM CDT
Surrexit Dominus Vere, Alleluia, Alleluia
Surrexit Christi, Hodie, Alleluia, Alleluia
Dear Rhonda,
I have thought of you and of Connor many times and at several services during Holy Week. Happy Easter to you and to all of your family. May Christ's peace and the joy of his resurrection be with you.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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An Easter Collect:
O God, who made this most holy night to shine with the glory of the Lord's resurrection: Stir up in your Church that Spirit of adoption which is given to us in Baptism, that we, being renewed both in body and mind, may worship you in sincerity and truth; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, March 27, 2016 0:34 AM CDT
Blessings To All Of Connor's Family, Friends, and Loved Ones On Good Friday!
The Collect For Good Friday:
Almighty God, we pray you graciously to behold this your family, for whom our Lord Jesus Christ was willing to be betrayed, and given into the hands of sinners, and to suffer death upon the cross; who now lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, March 25, 2016 2:32 PM CDT
Maundy Thursday Blessings To All!
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of you and of all of your family on this very holy day. May the deep meaning of the scared foot washing, Holy Eucharist, and stripping of the altar inform and strengthen all hearts this evening.
God bless you always, and God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
Colette
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The Collect For Maundy Thursday:
Almighty Father, whose dear Son, on the night before he suffered, instituted the Sacrament of his Body and Blood: Mercifully grant that we may receive it thankfully in remembrance of Jesus Christ our Lord, who in these holy mysteries gives us a pledge of eternal life; and who now lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
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The Epistle:
I received from the Lord what I also handed on to you, that the Lord Jesus on the night when he was betrayed took a loaf of bread, and when he had given thanks, he broke it and said, "This is my body that is for you. Do this in remembrance of me." In the same way he took the cup also, after supper, saying, "This cup is the new covenant in my blood. Do this, as often as you drink it, in remembrance of me." For as often as you eat this bread and drink the cup, you proclaim the Lord's death until he comes.
~1 Corinthians 11:23-26
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Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, March 24, 2016 12:37 AM CDT
Nothing can make up for the absence of someone whom we love, and it would be wrong to try and find a substitute; we must simply hold out and see it through. That sounds very hard at first, but at the same time it is a great consolation, for the gap, as long as it remains unfilled, preserves the bonds between us. It is nonsense to say that God fills the gap; he doesn’t fill it, but on the contrary, he keeps it empty and so helps us to keep alive out former communion with each other, even at the cost of pain.
~Dietrich Bonhoeffer (4 February 1906 - 9 April 1945)
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, March 22, 2016 10:34 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I hope you enjoyed Palm Sunday. I have just finished addressing Easter cards for the children in my family, which I will mail tomorrow. The cards are full of bright stickers. If Connor were here, he would receive holiday mail from me too.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, March 21, 2016 0:01 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Don't forget to set your clock ahead one hour, when you go to bed tonight. The old saying is, "Spring ahead, and fall back." We will "lose" one hour of sleep, but we will gain one more hour of marvelous light each day!
I hope you and all of Connor's loved ones are well and content.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
Colette
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The Collect For The Fifth Sunday In Lent:
Almighty God, you alone can bring into order the unruly wills and affections of sinners: Grant your people grace to love what you command and desire what you promise; that, among the swift and varied changes of the world, our hearts may surely there be fixed where true joys are to be found; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
The Book Of Common Prayer
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Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, March 12, 2016 9:00 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
For the last few days, I have had one of those nasty coughs that goes around during this time of the year. Last night, it would not allow me to be comfortable in bed or to get to sleep. I hope you have not had it. As always, I think of you and your sweet sunshine boy.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
Colette
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The Collect For The Monday In The Fourth Week Of Lent:
O Lord our God, in your holy Sacraments you have given us a foretaste of the good things of your kingdom: Direct us, we pray, in the way that leads to eternal life, that we may come to appear before you in that place of light where you dwell for ever with your saints; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
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Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, March 7, 2016 2:54 PM CST
Happy Leap Day To All!
Dear Rhonda,
We can only give the above greeting once every four years. Kids are often fascinated with such greetings and with the interesting and silly customs that some attach to "special" days. Those with a writing bug create trivia and humor columns for class magazines. Other youngsters make hats and pins to wear. I am sure Connor would have had some fun with this day. His friends and fans certainly miss sweet Connor.
I hope this entry finds you and your family well and anticipating the spring renewing of life.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
Colette
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The Collect For The Monday In The Third Week Of Lent:
Look upon the heart-felt desires of your humble servants, Almighty God, and stretch forth the right hand of your majesty to be our defense against all our enemies; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
~The Book Of Occasional Services
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Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, February 29, 2016 2:47 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I hope you have come to the end of another week in safety, peace, and good health. I hope that your parents, your brothers, Ron, and all of your other loved ones are well. I hope that you have made it through the winds with no damage to your home, your grounds, or your car. I continue to remember sweet Connor with affection and respect.
God bless you always, and God bless Connor and all who love him.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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The Collect For The Saturday In The Second Week Of Lent:
Grant, most merciful Lord, to your faithful people pardon and peace, that they may be cleansed from all their sins, and serve you with a quiet mind; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
~The Book Of Occasional Services
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Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, February 27, 2016 12:21 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I hope this note finds you and all of your loved ones safe, well, and content. It is very windy here tonight, and we heard that the winds reached 70 mph about an hour from here earlier in the week. May God grant us all safety and peace during such weather.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
Colette
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The Collect For The Friday In The Second Week Of Lent:
Grant, O Lord, that as your Son Jesus Christ prayed for his enemies on the cross, so we may have grace to forgive those who wrongfully or scornfully use us, that we ourselves may be able to receive your forgiveness; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
~The Book Of Occasional Services
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Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, February 26, 2016 2:01 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I continue to think of you and Connor. I hope all is well with you and with your loved ones.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
Colette
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The Collect For The Second Sunday In Lent:
O God, whose glory it is always to have mercy: Be gracious to all who have gone astray from your ways, and bring them again with penitent hearts and steadfast faith to embrace and hold fast the unchangeable truth of your Word, Jesus Christ your Son; who with you and the Holy Spirit lives and reigns, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer
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Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, February 21, 2016 2:12 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I hope you have been safe through this rough weather time. In Clifton Park, we had a mixed storm Monday night into Tuesday followed by warmer weather, hard rain, and gusty winds. Sadly, a teenaged girl, in Tupper Lake, was hit by the snowplow, as she walked to school on Tuesday morning. It sounds like she will pull through, but she has multiple injuries including a broken femur, a fractured skull, a seriously damaged liver and spleen, several broken ribs, and a broken shoulder. Those that know her say she is a tiny girl, so it is a great grace that she has survived. Perhaps Angel Connor was there protecting her from greater injury.
May God bless you and your companion.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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The Collect For Wednesday In The First Week Of Lent:
Bless us, O God, in this holy season, in which our hearts seek your help and healing; and so purify us by your discipline that we may grow in grace and in the knowledge of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
~The Book Of Occasional Services
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Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, February 17, 2016 1:29 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
A friend and I attended a Story Sunday at the Glen Sanders Mansion on Sunday night. To mark Valentine's Day, two tellers from Saratoga Springs told stories of how couples met and of love in families. My companion and I ordered Sole Florentine, which was beautifully presented. Connor would have enjoyed the elegant food, the great conversation, and the funnier stories.
I have begun looking for gifts for Tavin's upcoming birthday. Sometimes it is hard to judge the fun value of toys that are packaged for sale. It would be nice if Connor were here to give some direction.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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Collect For The Monday In The First Week Of Lent:
Almighty and everlasting God, mercifully increase in us your gifts of holy discipline, in almsgiving, prayer, and fasting; that our lives may be directed to the fulfilling of your most gracious will; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
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Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, February 15, 2016 2:07 AM CST
Blessings To All On Ash Wednesday!
Dear Rhonda,
I have thought of you and of Connor several times during the past few days. I hope all is well.
God bless you always, and God bless all those who love your sweet sunshine boy.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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An Ash Wednesday Prayer:
God our Father,
You formed us from the dust of the earth
And brought us to new life in Christ
Through the waters of Baptism.
We ask you to change our hearts
As we journey through these forty days of Lent.
Help us to see Jesus in everyone we meet,
And to serve him in all persons,
Especially the poor, the sick and the lonely.
By your grace, may our prayers and sacrifices this Lent
Help us grow closer to each another and to you,
As one family in Jesus.
We make this prayer to you in His name. Amen.
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Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, February 10, 2016 0:39 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
Once again sweet Connor has been remembered in Holy Eucharist. He and you always in my thoughts and prayers. May God bless you both.
On my desk is a pile of stickers and cards for Valentine's Day. I have eight boys and one little girl in my family that will receive them. If Connor were here, he would be included. I hope you receive a message from Connor on or near February 14 and that you enjoy Valentine's Day with your companion.
God bless all of Connor's family, fans, and friends.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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The Sunday Collect:
Almighty and everlasting God, you govern all things both in heaven and on earth: Mercifully hear the supplications of your people, and in our time grant us your peace; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
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The Collect For The Presentation (February 2):
Almighty and everliving God, we humbly pray that, as your only-begotten Son was this day presented in the temple, so we may be presented to you with pure and clean hearts by Jesus Christ our Lord; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
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Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, January 31, 2016 10:07 AM CST
Blessings On The Feast Of The Conversion Of St. Paul!
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of sweet Connor on the day that finishes out the Octave of Prayer for Christian Unity. Jesus prayed that we all may be one, but sadly, we have created divisions and ill will over the years. Connor, whose supporters came from many states, several countries, and various faith traditions, would, I believe, embrace the prayers and actions toward unity.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your dear sunshine boy.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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O God, by the preaching of your apostle Paul you have caused the light of the Gospel to shine throughout the world:
Grant, we pray, that we, having his wonderful conversion in remembrance, may show ourselves thankful to you by following his holy teaching; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, January 25, 2016 11:18 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
Connor was remembered in Holy Eucharist once again.
I hope you and all of your loved ones are well, safe, and comfortable during this time of blizzard.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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The Collect:
Give us grace, O Lord, to answer readily the call of our Savior Jesus Christ and proclaim to all people the Good News of his salvation, that we and the whole world may perceive the glory of his marvelous works; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
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Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, January 24, 2016 0:38 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I continue to remember your sweet sunshine boy. God bless you, and God bless all who love Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, January 18, 2016 2:52 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
Our family had pizza, salad, and wings for dinner last night. As I think of this, I cannot help adding Connor to my thoughts. He would have enjoyed the meal and the table time.
I hope you are safe, well, and content during this dark month and waiting with eager anticipation for the light of spring. It will surely come.
God bless you always, and God bless all of Connor's friends, family, and fans.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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A THOUGHT FOR TODAY:
The hope of a secure and livable world lies with disciplined nonconformists, who are dedicated to justice, peace, and brotherhood. The trailblazers in human, academic, scientific, and religious freedom have always been nonconformists. In any cause that concerns the progress of mankind, put your faith in the nonconformist!
-Martin Luther King, Jr., civil-rights leader (15 Jan 1929-1968)
Dr. King is commemorated as a saint in the Episcopal Church on his death date, which is April 4.
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Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, January 15, 2016 11:27 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
Once again, I have remembered sweet Connor in Holy Eucharist. May he and you be always blessed.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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The Collect For The Baptism Of Our Lord Jesus Christ:
Father in heaven, who at the baptism of Jesus in the River Jordan proclaimed him your beloved Son and anointed him with the Holy Spirit: Grant that all who are baptized into his Name may keep the covenant they have made, and boldly confess him as Lord and Savior; who with you and the Holy Spirit lives and reigns, one God, in glory everlasting. Amen.
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Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, January 10, 2016 12:42 AM CST
Glad Epiphany To All!
Dear Rhonda,
Connor has been remembered during many services and activities of the Christmas season. I hope you and your family have done well and have entered this new year, The Year of Mercy, in peace, in health, and in hope.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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Today's Collect:
O God, by the leading of a star you manifested your only Son to the peoples of the earth: Lead us, who know you now by faith, to your presence, where we may see your glory face to face; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer
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Prayer:
O God, remind us that even though a situation may seem hopeless, you are the God of eternal possibilities. Amen.
~The Upper Room, January 6, 2014
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Hymn:
Over the Hill and Over the Dale
Over the hill and over the dale
Came three kings together
Caring naught for snow and hail
Cold and wind and weather
Now on Persia’s sandy plane
Now where Tigris swells with rain
They their camels tether
Now through Syrian lands they go
Now through Moab faint and slow
Now o’r Edam’s heather.
Over the hill and over the dale
Each king bears a present
Wise men go a child to hale
Monarchs seek a peasant
And in front a star proceeds
Over rocks and rivers leads
Shines with beams incessant
Therefore onward, onward still
Ford the stream and climb the hill
Love makes all things pleasant.
He is God ye go to meet
Therefore incense proffer
He is king ye go to greet
Gold is in your coffer
Also man he comes to share
Every woe that man can bear
Tempter, railer, scoffer
Therefore now against the day
In the grave when him they lay
Myrrh ye also offer.
Over the hill and over the dale,
Riding east together
Caring naught for snow and hail,
Naught for wind and weather
Warned by God from Herod’s door,
Each king turns for home once more
Hearts and footsteps lighter,
Now behind them shines the star
Which they followed from afar,
Shining ever brighter.
~By John Mason Neale (1818-1866)
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Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, January 6, 2016 2:08 AM CST
Blessings To All On St. Stephen's Day!
Dear Rhonda,
I hope you are continuing to enjoy this holiday weekend. Connor would want you to have a good time.
God bless you always, and God bless all of those who love your sweet sunshine boy.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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Hymn For St. Stephen's Day (December 26)
When Stephen, full of power and grace,
Went forth throughout the land,
He bore no shield before his face,
No weapon in his hand;
But only in his heart a flame
And on his lips a sword
Wherewith he smote and overcame
The foemen of the Lord.
When Stephen preached against the laws
And by those laws was tried,
He had no friend to plead his cause,
No spokesman at his side;
But only in his heart a flame
And in his eyes a light
Wherewith God's daybreak to proclaim
And rend the veils of night.
When Stephen, young and doomed to die,
Fell crushed beneath the stones,
He had no curse nor vengeful cry
For those who broke his bones;
But only in his heart a flame
And on his lips a prayer
That God, in sweet forgiveness' name
Should understand and spare.
Let me, O Lord, thy cause defend,
A knight without a sword;
No shield I ask, no faithful friend,
No vengeance, no reward;
But only in my heart a flame
And in my soul a dream,
So that the stones of earthly shame
A jewelled crown may seem.
Lyrics: Jan Struther (1901-1953)
Music: Salvation, melody from Kentucky Harmony, 1816
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, December 26, 2015 8:10 AM CST
Merry Christmas To All!
Dear Rhonda,
Connor was remembered in the late Christmas Eve Eucharist, at St. George's. You were in my thoughts and prayers, as well. Enjoy the color, the music, the poetry, the mystery, and the love of this great twelve day festival, and know that you are held in many thoughts and prayers.
God bless you always, and, of course, God bless your handsome sunshine boy.
Grace, peace, love, and Christmas cheer,
~Colette
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A Collect For Christmas:
Almighty God, you have given your only-begotten Son to take our nature upon him, and to be born this day of a pure virgin: Grant that we, who have been born again and made your children by adoption and grace, may daily be renewed by your Holy Spirit; through our Lord Jesus Christ, to whom with you and the same Spirit be honor and glory, now and for ever. Amen.
~The Book of Common Prayer, Page 213
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, December 25, 2015 1:31 AM CST
Blessings To All On Christmas Eve!
Dear Rhonda,
Connor will be remembered in Holy Eucharist soon. It has been a pleasure to sign his guest book during all of these years.
I pray for you to be able to enter into the cheer, joy, excitement, and wonder of Christmas, knowing that you will see your sweet sunshine boy again.
God bless you always, and God bless all of Connor's family, friends, and supporters.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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A Christmas Prayer
by Robert Louis Stevenson
Loving Father,
Help us remember the birth of Jesus,
that we may share in the song of the angels,
the gladness of the shepherds,
and worship of the wise men.
Close the door of hate
and open the door of love all over the world.
Let kindness come with every gift
and good desires with every greeting.
Deliver us from evil by the blessing
which Christ brings,
and teach us to be merry with clear hearts.
May the Christmas morning
make us happy to be thy children,
and Christmas evening bring us to our beds
with grateful thoughts,
forgiving and forgiven,
for Jesus' sake.
Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, December 24, 2015 8:16 PM CST
Blessings To All On The Feast Of St. Thomas, the Apostle!
This is a day traditionally associated with ordination of priests. Let us remember those who have ministered to us and to our loved ones in distress or in illness especially those, both ordained and unordained, who ministered to Connor during his illness. Let us also remember all those people and parishes named in honor of St. Thomas.
Rhonda, I hear that you have been very busy with Connor's toy drive. You have been very faithful to Connor and to doing good in Connor's name. I am sure Connor KNOWS and appreciates your efforts. We miss Connor and will always hold Connor in high regard.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Everliving God, who strengthened your apostle Thomas with firm and certain faith in your Son's resurrection: Grant us so perfectly and without doubt to believe in Jesus Christ, our Lord and our God, that our faith may never be found wanting in your sight; through him who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, December 21, 2015 4:24 AM CST
Continuing Advent Blessings To All!
Dear Rhonda,
As I received Communion this weekend, I thought of Connor as I often do. Later, I had an errand at Walmart, and as I saw the three claw machines inside the grocery side entrance, I thought about both Connor and Cheyenne. I have thought of Connor many times this month, and with each thought, there is a prayer for you and for all those who love him. God bless you all.
The four Advent candles are now lit. On the days leading up to December 25, we think of PEACE. May the HOPE, LOVE, JOY, and PEACE of this HOLY SEASON be with us all.
I hope you, your parents, your brother, Ron, and all those close to you are well and preparing for a lovely Christmas.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, December 20, 2015 9:52 PM CST
Blessings To All On The Third Sunday In Advent!
Dear Rhonda,
Standing at the altar rail this morning, my eyes fell upon the Jesus and the Children stained glass window. As I looked, I prayed for Connor, Cheyenne, Richie, Jacob, Ian, Justin, and many others, who have passed to eternal life. May it comfort you to know that people continue to remember and love your sweet sunshine boy.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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The Collect:
Stir up your power, O Lord, and with great might come among us; and, because we are sorely hindered by our sins, let your bountiful grace and mercy speedily help and deliver us; through Jesus Christ our Lord, to whom, with you and the Holy Spirit, be honor and glory, now and for ever. Amen.
This day, we light the rose candle, which stands for JOY!
May the JOY of Jesus be with you.
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Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, December 13, 2015 11:10 PM CST
Blessings On St. Andrew's Day!
Today is the Feast of St. Andrew, the Apostle. Within a few miles of our home, there are two Episcopal Churches named St. Andrew's, and there are others in the diocese. Because Andrew was the first apostle and a missionary, his name is very popular in church naming. Personally, I have always loved the name Andrew, even before I knew anyone of this name. I love the collect for this day, and it was a large factor in naming one of my sons.
I have never heard how Connor received his name. Perhaps some day you can let me know.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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The Collect:
Almighty God, who gave such grace to your apostle Andrew that he readily obeyed the call of your Son Jesus Christ, and brought his brother with him: Give us, who are called by your Holy Word, grace to follow him without delay, and to bring those near to us into his gracious presence; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
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Starting on St. Andrew's Feast day, November 30, the following beautiful prayer is traditionally recited fifteen times a day until Christmas. This is a very meditative prayer that helps us increase our awareness of the real meaning of Christmas and helps us prepare ourselves spiritually for His coming.
Hail and blessed be the hour and moment
In which the Son of God was born
Of the most pure Virgin Mary,
at midnight, in Bethlehem,
in the piercing cold.
In that hour vouchsafe, I beseech Thee,
O my God,
to hear my prayer and grant my desires,
[hear mention your request]
through the merits of Our Savior Jesus Christ,
and of His Blessed Mother.
Amen.
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I have never recited this pray, primarily used in Roman Catholic convents and homes, fifteen times a day, but there is value in it, and I have used it several times a day some Decembers.
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Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, November 30, 2015 1:12 PM CST
Blessings To All On The First Sunday In Advent!
Dear Rhonda,
Connor was remembered once again in Holy Eucharist. I think of him whenever I gaze at the Jesus and the Children window or the Resurrection/New Life window.
I am pausing, here, at my keyboard, to pray for you.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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A Shoot Shall Come Forth
Text and Tune By Richard Horn
A shoot shall come forth out of Jesse,
And a bud shall grow out of his roots;
The Spirit of Life shall be with him;
The Spirit of wisdom and truth.
Then the lamb shall lie down with the leopard,
And the lion eat straw with the ox,
For the hand of a Child shall lead them
To the peaceable kingdom of God.
From out of the wells of salvation
Will he draw us the water of life;
His waist shall be girdled with justice;
The heart of his heart shall be love.
Then the lamb shall lie down with the leopard,
And the lion eat straw with the ox,
For the hand of the Child shall lead them
To the peaceful kingdom of God.
He'll come from the end of his heaven,
And the earth shall be torn from its place;
Our lives shall be filled with his radiance;
As flood waters cover the sea.
Then the lamb shall lie down with the leopard,
And the lion eat straw with the ox,
For the hand of a Child shall lead them
To the peaceable kingdom of God.
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The Collect:
Almighty God, give us grace to cast away the works of darkness, and put on the armor of light, now in the time of this mortal life in which your Son Jesus Christ came to visit us in great humility; that in the last day, when he shall come again in his glorious majesty to judge both the living and the dead, we may rise to the life immortal; through him who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
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Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, November 29, 2015 10:46 PM CST
Happy Thanksgiving To All!
Dear Rhonda,
As I make last minute purchases and updates for Thanksgiving, I have been thinking of your sunshine boy and what he would be doing on the day before our largest national holiday. I am sure you have many memories of the school projects Connor made for Thanksgiving and of things you did with Connor as a family. May those memories fill you with joy, warmth, and peace.
I hope you and all of your dear ones are safe, well, and content.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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Grateful To God
May an abundance of gratitude burst forth in us as we reflect upon what we have received ...
May thanksgiving overflow in our hearts and often be proclaimed in our prayer ...
May our baskets of blessings surprise us with their rich diversity of gifts and opportunities for growth …
May all that nourishes and resources our lives bring us daily satisfaction and renewed hope ...
May we slow our hurried pace of life so that we can be aware of--and enjoy--what we too easily take for granted ...
May we always be open, willing and ready to share our blessings with others …
May we never forget the Generous One who loves us lavishly and unconditionally …
Let us give thanks to God, the Giver of all good things. Amen.
Adapted from Out of the Ordinary, by Joyce Rupp
~This prayer was received from the Dominicans of Peace, on November 18, 2015.
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~Wishing You A Happy Thanksgiving Weekend!
and a
Blessed Start To The Advent Season!
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, November 25, 2015 4:26 PM CST
Blessed Feast Of Christ The King To All!
Dear Rhonda,
I have thought about Connor as I have driven past De Voe's Rainbow Orchards and De Voe's Rainbow Delights Ice Cream Stand several times this week. I also thought of both Connor and Cheyenne Fiveash, as I had lunch at Denny's yesterday with my family. She was a big fan of claw machine games, and there was a large one just inside the door with Disney characters, Sponge Bob dolls, and holiday prize items. Later in the day, I stopped at Walmart, and there were three claw machines in a corridor near the grocery section. It does not seem possible that these two generous, vital youth are gone to God's eternal kingdom for eleven years! May you and all of Connor's family find comfort and hope because Connor and Chey are there!
Today is the celebration of the Kingship of Christ and the last Sunday before Advent. It also does not seem possible that another church year has passed and that we have almost completed another calendar year. I trust that overall, you have been safe, well, and content. Please contact me whenever you need specific prayers for yourself or for any of Connor's family.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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Let us praise Jesus Christ our king
for the wonderful things he has done.
He sends out his word to heal us.
He satisfies the thirsty with the water of life.
He fills the hungry with the abundance of his kingdom.
Let us praise Jesus, redeemer and renewer of all things.
May we always trust in his goodness and love,
And have faith in his grace and mercy,
May we always believe he cares about justice and righteousness,
And draw our life from his eternal purposes.
Let us praise Jesus Christ our king and saviour,
May we be filled with the hope and promise of his coming,
And give our lives to follow him.
May we be gripped by his kingdom ways,
And walk with assurance and trust into his grace and peace.
~by Christine Sine
Christine Sine is an Australian physician, founder of Mercy Ships, and executive director of Mustard Seed Association. She and her husband, Tom, live in Seattle and work to advance God's Kingdom.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, November 22, 2015 11:45 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I think of your sweet sunshine boy every day. He was not remembered in Eucharist today, as I am dealing with a bit of a cold, but I am holding Connor in the thoughts and prayers of my heart, here, at my keyboard.
Below I am including a part of Morning Prayer that I used today. I hope you pray it when you find it, as it is a good prayer to offer with Thanksgiving approaching.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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Morning Prayer For Sunday
Prepared For November 15, 2015
INTERCESSIONS
Christ is the sun that never sets, the true light that shines on every man. Let us call out to him in praise:
Lord, you are our life and our salvation.
Creator of the stars, we thank you for your gift, the first rays of the dawn,
— and we commemorate your resurrection.
Lord, you are our life and our salvation.
May your Holy Spirit teach us to do your will today,
— and may your Wisdom guide us always.
Lord, you are our life and our salvation.
Each Sunday give us the joy of gathering as your people,
— around the table of your Word and your Body.
Lord, you are our life and our salvation.
From our hearts we thank you,
— for your countless blessings.
Lord, you are our life and our salvation.
Our Father who art in heaven,
hallowed be thy name.
Thy kingdom come.
Thy will be done on earth, as it is in heaven.
Give us this day our daily bread,
and forgive us our trespasses,
as we forgive those who trespass against us,
and lead us not into temptation,
but deliver us from evil.
Concluding Prayer
Grant us,
we pray, O Lord our God,
the constant gladness of being devoted to you,
for it is full and lasting happiness
to serve with constancy the author of all that is good.
Through our Lord Jesus Christ, your Son,
who lives and reigns with you in the unity of the Holy Spirit,
one God, for ever and ever.
— Amen.
~This is from The Daily Office.org.
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Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, November 15, 2015 11:59 AM CST
Happy Veteran's Day To All!
Dear Rhonda,
On this day when we honor our veterans and other patriots, I am thinking of Connor, a child who had great respect for firefighters, police, and military personnel. I remember the picture of Connor as an honorary fireman. The firefights were good friends to Connor, and Connor was kind to those he met. May God bless them all.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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How important it is for us to recognize and celebrate our heroes and she-roes!
—Maya Angelou (1928-2014)
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The Collect:
Almighty God our Heavenly Father, guide the nations of the world into the way of justice and truth, and establish among them that peace which is the fruit of righteousness, that they may become the kingdom of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. Amen.
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Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, November 11, 2015 1:37 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
Connor has been remembered once again in Holy Eucharist.
I hope you and your loved ones are enjoying a beautiful, long Indian Summer. We have been having gorgeous days here, and we are so thankful.
Below is a prayer thought, which might be helpful to you.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless you sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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A Morning Resolve
I will try this day to live a simple, sincere and serene life, repelling promptly every thought of discontent, anxiety, discouragement, impurity, and self-seeking; cultivating cheerfulness, magnanimity, charity, and the habit of holy silence; exercising economy in expenditure, generosity in giving, carefulness in conversation, diligence in appointed service, fidelity to every trust, and a childlike faith in God.
In particular I will try to be faithful in those habits of prayer, work, study, physical exercise, eating, and sleep which I believe the Holy Spirit has shown me to be right.
And as I cannot in my own strength do this, nor even with a hope of success attempt it, I look to thee, O Lord God my Father, in Jesus my Savior, and ask for the gift of the Holy Spirit. Amen.
~Bishop Charles Henry Brent (1860-1927)
Missionary to the Philippines and
Senior Chaplain for the American Armed Forces in Europe during World War 1
Feast Day: 27 March
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, November 8, 2015 1:31 PM CST
Blessings On The Feast Of All Souls!
Dear Rhonda,
Here is a litany, which I have prayed on this day for the last six years. Please pray it with me, with Connor in mind.
Litany Of Remembrance (We Remember And Give Thanks)
Leader: Those who live no more are with us still in our thoughts and in our words. Who they are and what they did will always be a part of us and what we have become at this moment.
At the rising of the sun, and at its going down, we remember them, and we give thanks.
In the drizzle of the rain, and in the singing of the brook, we remember them, and we give thanks.
On the dark days, on the cloudy days, and on the brilliant days, we remember them, and we give thanks.
At the rustling of the leaves, and in the beauty of autumn, we remember them, and we give thanks.
At the beginning of the year, and when it ends, we remember them, and we give thanks.
When we are weary and in need of strength, we remember them, and we give thanks.
When we have joys we crave to share, we remember them, and we give thanks.
When we have decisions that are difficult to make, we remember them, and we give thanks.
When we have achievements that are based on theirs, we remember them, and we give thanks.
As long as we live, they too, will live; for they are now a part of us, and always we remember them, and we give thanks.
Closing Prayer: Loving God, may I take on the mind and heart of Christ, that I may continue to hear your call for my life and embrace your world through my prayer, my work, and my life with others, in Jesus Christ. Amen.
Source: The Dominican Retreat House, Niskayuna, NY, All Soul's Day, 2010
I do not know where they found the litany, or if one of the sisters wrote it.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, November 2, 2015 1:14 AM CST
Blessed Feast Of All Saints!
Love the saints, men and women, and all the angels, and all the good and just people who serve God day and night.
~St. Colette (1381-1447)
Dear Rhonda,
Connor has been remembered at St. George's both on Saturday and on Sunday. What a light he always was!
Since All Saints Day fell on a Sunday this year, we had a great celebration, at church. The fourth grade class contributed their usual procession of saints carrying shields with the emblems of each saint. Missing this year were the ever popular St. Dominic and the equally popular St. Mary. Maybe their teacher said enough of everyone wanting to be the Mother of our Lord and the saint who is symbolized as a dog carrying a torch. This year none of the saints were common. Some that I remember were Cuthbert, Athanasius, Helen, and Teresa of Avila. Dressing as the saint and learning the saint's story is a great learning experience for the children, and since they tape their reports to the back of the shields, the children are able to read their reports to those gathered, thus continuing the education of older youth and adults.
Following Eucharist, we had a small luncheon featuring cake, fresh fruit, stuffed eggs, veggies and dip, crackers and cheese, nuts, muffins, pepperoni, and beverages. I am sure Connor would have loved it!
My thoughts and prayers are with you as you remember a bittersweet day in your earthly experiences with your sweet sunshine boy. Connor is at peace in the company of all the saints with both capital and lower case letters.
God bless you always, and God bless your lovely Connor.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, November 1, 2015 3:02 PM CST
~Thinking of Connor and His Famiy on His Eleventh Anniversary.
A Friend
- Sunday, November 1, 2015 2:36 PM CST
Happy Halloween To All!
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of both you and Connor 21 years after his birth. The Halloween and birthday pictures you have posted have always been dear to me.
Connor's friend, Elaine, who lives in his area, also has a son born on Halloween. His name is David, and he is old enough to be Connor's uncle. Elaine and her family still think of Connor.
God bless you as you think of all of the customs you and Connor had around his birthday, around Halloween, and around other aspects of autumn life.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, October 31, 2015 4:48 AM CDT
Happy Birthday Tomorrow, Connor!
A little ladybug appeared on my computer table to remind me to wish you a happy birthday, in heaven. You will celebrate with many friends and family, but try, if you can, to send your beautiful mother a sign to remind her that you are safe, well, and happy, in God's eternal kingdom.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace. love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, October 30, 2015 3:53 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
As Connor's anniversary approaches, I have lit a candle at Barbara Crafton's Geranium Farm. Connor will never be forgotten. May God grant you all that you need to keep going at this point in your bereavement.
God bless you always, and God bless all of Connor's loved ones.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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+ This candle is for Connor Jordan Hunley from Tennessee +
for the memory of sweet Connor, age 10, to comfort and sustain his mother, Rhonda
~ this candle was lit by Colette from New York
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May the HOPE of HEAVEN give you peace, strength, and energy.
In the sure and certain hope of the resurrection and with my love.
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, October 25, 2015 10:32 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Connor would have loved the Story Sunday last night. It was a fundraiser for the Animal Protective Society, performed by Saratoga Springs teller, Christie Keegan. My friends and I filled a table for nine with four people being new to Story Sundays. Seven of us had the Saratoga potato chip encrusted scrod, which was wonderful! Your little animal protector, Connor, would have enjoyed this evening.
I hope you are well.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY 12065 - Monday, October 5, 2015 3:21 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of you and remembering sweet Connor. I hope all is well with you and with your loved ones.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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This collect is a favorite.
Today's Collect (Proper 20):
Grant us, Lord, not to be anxious about earthly things, but to love things heavenly; and even now, while we are placed among things that are passing away, to hold fast to those that shall endure; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
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Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, September 20, 2015 11:48 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I cannot believe how long it has been, since I have signed sweet Connor's guest book. I have visited the book a few times, since I wrote to you of the passing of Kathy M.'s mother, but I have not had time or something to say each time.
Connor is being remembered in Holy Eucharist. I also thought of him Wednesday, while I ate my lunch at De Voe's. I had an ear of their own sweet corn, a cup of homemade chicken vegetable soup, and a sausage sandwich with onions and peppers. Connor would have probably enjoyed all of these things. I had a cup of cool water, the best drink in the world, with my food, but did not have dessert. Connor could have had a cold treat of ice cream or a sundae, if he had been with me. He probably would have, as young men have tremendous appetites!
I hope you are well.
I do not think I have ever written to you of the saint for August 30, as he has been added to our calendar recently. I will leave a short biography, as Bishop Grafton is not widely known, and other material.
God bless you always. I am pausing, now, at my keyboard, to pray for you.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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The Commemoration Of Charles Chapman Grafton, Bishop of Fond Du Lac and Ecumenist, 30 August 1912
Charles Chapman Grafton (b. April 12, 1830 - d.August 30, 1912) was the second Bishop of the Diocese of Fond du Lac. Born in Boston, Massachusetts, he was a supporter of the Oxford Movement, an affiliation of High Church Anglicans that led to Anglo-Catholicism in The Episcopal Church. Prior to his election as bishop, Grafton was Rector of Church of the Advent in Boston.
Grafton was consecrated on April 25, 1888 at St. Paul's Cathedral, Fond du Lac by William E. McLaren of Chicago, Alexander Burgess of Quincy, and George F. Seymour of Springfield. Grafton founded the Anglican religious order Sisterhood of the Holy Nativity and was a founding member of the Society of St. John the Evangelist.
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One Of The Readings For Charles Chapman Grafton:
16 Then the sons of Aaron shouted;
they blew their trumpets of hammered metal;
they sounded a mighty fanfare
as a reminder before the Most High.
17 Then all the people together quickly
fell to the ground on their faces
to worship their Lord,
the Almighty, God Most High.
18 Then the singers praised him with their voices
in sweet and full-toned melody.*
19 And the people of the Lord Most High offered
their prayers before the Merciful One,
until the order of worship of the Lord was ended,
and they completed his ritual.
20 Then Simon* came down and raised his hands
over the whole congregation of Israelites,
to pronounce the blessing of the Lord with his lips,
and to glory in his name;
21 and they bowed down in worship a second time,
to receive the blessing from the Most High.
~Sirach 50:16-21, New Revised Standard Version
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The Collect For Charles Chapman Grafton:
Loving God, you called Charles Chapman Grafton to be a bishop in your Church and endowed him with a burning zeal for souls: Grant that, following his example, we may ever live for the extension of your kingdom, that your glory may be the chief end of our lives, your will the law of our conduct, your love the motive of our actions, and Christ’s life the model and mold of our own; through the same Jesus Christ, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, throughout all ages. Amen.
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Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, August 30, 2015 12:42 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I am not sure if you have heard that the mother of one of Connor's biggest supporters, Kathy M., died on Monday. The calling hours begin on Thursday, from 4-8, and continue on Friday morning at 10:00, before the funeral at 11;00. Please keep Kathy and Dave and all of their family in your prayers on Thursday and Friday and in the days to come.
Thank you, and God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, August 20, 2015 0:27 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I hope you are staying cool, hydrated, and safe on these hazy, hot, humid August days. Connor is often in my thoughts and prayers. This was especially true as I watched the delight on the faces of several young boys during twin sacred concerts and the pleasure on young and old faces in the dining hall, as ice cream was served up, at Sundaes on Sundays, at the Dominican Retreat House, on August 16.
Take care, and God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good.
~Colette
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Father,
keep in mind your holy covenant,
sealed with the blood of the Lamb.
Forgive the sins of your people
and let this new day bring us closer to salvation.
We ask this through our Lord Jesus Christ, your Son,
who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit,
one God, for ever and ever.
— Amen.
May the Lord bless us,
protect us from all evil and bring us to everlasting life.
— Amen.
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Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, August 19, 2015 1:30 AM CDT
I want to let you know that your donation in the memory of your son Connor was a great blessing. We spent many nights at Vanderbilt Children's Hospital and the rocking chair provided comfort to my son and ourselves. Thank you.
Tim Harrell
NOLENSVILLE, Tennessee United States - Saturday, August 15, 2015 1:14 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
As always, I am thinking of you and Connor.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, August 10, 2015 1:49 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I was thinking of you and Connor while riding in my car on Thursday. It has been a while since I have heard from or about you, and I do hope that you are doing well. Stay safe and well hydrated on these humid days of summer.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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Take Lord, Receive
by John Foley, SJ
based on a prayer by Ignatius Loyola
Take, Lord, receive all my liberty,
my memory, understanding, my entire will.
(Refrain)
Give me only your love and your grace:
that's enough for me.
Your love and your grace are enough for me.
Take, Lord, receive all I have and possess.
You have given all to me; now I return it.
(Ref.)
Take, Lord, receive, all is yours now;
dispose of it wholly, according to your will.
(Ref.)
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Suscipe Prayer
by Ignatius of Loyola
Take, Lord, and receive all my liberty,
my memory, my understanding,
and my entire will,
All I have and call my own.
You have given all to me.
To you, Lord, I return it.
Everything is yours; do with it what you will.
Give me only your love and your grace,
that is enough for me.
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Ignatius Loyola (October 23, 1491 - July 31, 1556) was a Spanish knight from a Basque noble family, hermit, priest since 1537, and theologian.
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The Collect:
O God, by whose grace your servant Ignatius, enkindled with the fire of your love, became a burning and a shining light in your Church: Grant that we also may be aflame with the spirit of love and discipline, and may ever walk before you as children of light, through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
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Other Prayers:
O God,
who raised up Saint Ignatius of Loyola
in your Church to further the greater glory of your name,
grant that by his help we may imitate him in fighting
the good fight on earth and merit to receive with him a crown in heaven.
Through our Lord Jesus Christ, your Son,
who lives and reigns with you in the unity of the Holy Spirit,
one God, for ever and ever.
Amen.
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May the Lord bless us,
protect us from all evil and bring us to everlasting life.
Amen.
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Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, July 31, 2015 1:27 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Today is a day, when many think of the gift of sacred music. I do not know if Connor liked church music, but, it is likely that with so much of it written, performed, and recorded, that he would have had a few favorite pieces. Let us think today of the liturgical music that has shaped and supported us over the years and give thanks for the composers and musicians that have prepared great works to the honor and glory of God.
God bless you always, God bless Connor, and God bless those who shared all kinds of music with Connor.
Grace, peace, love, and joy,
~Colette
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The Collect for Johann Sebastian Bach, George Frederick Handel, and Henry Purcell, Composers, 1750, 1759, 1695:
Almighty God, beautiful in majesty and majestic in holiness: You gave to your musicians Johann Sebastian Bach, George Frederick Handel, and Henry Purcell grace to show forth your glory in their music. May we be also moved to sound out your praises as a foretaste of your eternal glory: through Jesus Christ our Savior, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
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Bach gave us God's word. Mozart gave us God's laughter. Beethoven gave us God's fire. God gave us Music that we might pray without words.
~sign in the choir room at St. George's Episcopal Church, Clifton Park, NY
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Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, July 28, 2015 3:36 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Connor has been remembered in Holy Eucharist once again. Deacon Maureen gave a great sermon on bread and water in our daily lives and in the life of the church.
I have not heard from or about you in several weeks, and I hope you are well.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your handsome son.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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The Collect For The Feast Of St. James, Apostle:
O gracious God, we remember before you today your servant and apostle James, first among the Twelve to suffer martyrdom for the Name of Jesus Christ; and we pray that you will pour out upon the leaders of your Church that spirit of self-denying service by which alone they may have true authority among your people; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
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Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, July 26, 2015 0:17 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
As the Saratoga Race Track opens for another season, I think of you and Connor. My guys loved to visit the track to watch the horses being groomed and walked. When my younger son was small, he enjoyed a horse called "Quick Mischief." The name was apt. I think Connor would have liked that horse, too.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
O God,
protector of those who hope in you,
without whom nothing has firm foundation, nothing is holy,
bestow in abundance your mercy upon us and grant that,
with you as our ruler and guide, we may use the good things that pass
in such a way as to hold fast even now to those that ever endure.
Through our Lord Jesus Christ, your Son,
who lives and reigns with you in the unity of the Holy Spirit,
one God, for ever and ever.
Amen.
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May the Lord bless us,
protect us from all evil and bring us to everlasting life.
Amen.
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Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, July 25, 2015 0:42 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Connor was remembered as I gazed at a beautiful garden from the dental cleaning chair earlier this afternoon. Connor would have loved the view and would have enjoyed the great lunch I had near the dental office.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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The Collect For Saint Mary Magdalene, July 22:
Almighty God, whose blessed Son restored Mary Magdalene
to health of body and of mind, and called her to be a witness
of his resurrection: Mercifully grant that by your grace we
may be healed from all our infirmities and know you in the
power of his unending life; who with you and the Holy Spirit
lives and reigns, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
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Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, July 22, 2015 2:17 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Connor was remembered in Holy Eucharist this past weekend, and I am thinking of him early this morning. May it comfort you to know that Connor is never far from my thoughts.
God bless both you and Connor always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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May the Lord bless us, protect us from all evil and bring us to everlasting life. Amen.
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Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, July 21, 2015 1:45 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I hope you are doing well on this hazy, hot, humid, summer day. Today's saint, Kateri Tekakwitha, would probably be of interest to Connor, as she was a young person, who struggled with medical problems. She was also known, like Connor, to be friendly and helpful to all. She lived not far from our home, in the area near Gloversville, and at one time, I visited her shrine. There is a two campus Catholic Church, in Schenectady, named in her honor. From time to time, they host our faith-based, youth storytellers, the Children at the Well.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless Connor and all of Connor's other family, his friends, and his fans.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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O God, who desired the Virgin Saint Kateri Tekakwitha to flower among Native Americans in a life of innocence, grant, through her intercession, that when all are gathered into your Church from every nation, tribe and tongue, they may magnify you in a single canticle of praise. Through our Lord Jesus Christ, your Son, who lives and reigns with you in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
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Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, July 14, 2015 5:14 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
A quote that came with today's Chicken Soup got me wanting to know more about the author and to thinking of other quotes that seemed related. I was unable to learn anything significant about C.C. Scott, but here is the quote:
"The human spirit is stronger than anything that can happen to it."
This is true in our lives as mothers and is also something Connor knew and lived. God bless that sweet sunshine boy of yours. Connor was remembered in Holy Eucharist on Sunday.
I hope you have a great week, safe and secure, in the heart of God.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, July 13, 2015 0:17 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of you and remembering your sweet sunshine boy. What a light he was!
God bless you always, and of course, God bless that sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley. You will be reunited with him in that place where there is light perpetual.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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A Morning Prayer:
Lord, true light and source of all light, listen to our morning prayer. Turn our thoughts to what is holy and may we ever live in the light of your love. We ask this through our Lord Jesus Christ, your Son, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, July 9, 2015 2:12 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I continue to think of you and of Connor. May this week be a good one for you.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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A Morning Prayer:
Almighty Father, you have brought us to the light of a new day: keep us safe the whole day through from every sinful inclination. May all our thoughts, words and actions aim at doing what is pleasing in your sight. We ask this through our Lord Jesus Christ, your Son, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
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Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, July 6, 2015 0:30 AM CDT
Happy Independence Day Weekend To All!
Dear Rhonda,
I hope you are enjoying this holiday weekend. We shared pizza with a friend on Friday, made our own brunch on Saturday, and attended a birthday party on Saturday night. Of course, we are also remembering those who struggled to bring our country into existence and those who work today to keep it safe and free.
Below are some quotes that seem suitable for this patriotic weekend.
God bless you always, and God bless the U.S.A.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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Quotes For Independence Day:
Those who won our independence believed liberty to be the secret of happiness and courage to be the secret of liberty.
~Louis D. Brandeis, Supreme Court Justice (1856-1941)
Liberty, when it begins to take root, is a plant of rapid growth.
~George Washington, First President (1732-1799)
Where liberty dwells, there is my country.
~Benjamin Franklin, Statesman (1706-1790)
This country, with its institutions, belongs to the people who inhabit it. Whenever they shall grow weary of the existing government, they can exercise their constitutional right of amending it, or exercise their revolutionary right to overthrow it.
~Abraham Lincoln, Sixteenth President (1809-1865)
Do what you can, with what you have, where you are.
~Theodore Roosevelt, Twenty-Sixth President (1858-1919)
I look forward to an America that will not be afraid of grace and beauty.
~John F. Kennedy, Thirty-Fifth President (1917-1963)
Enlighten the people generally, and tyranny and oppressions of body and mind will vanish like evil spirits at the dawn of day.
~Thomas Jefferson, Third President (1743-1826)
I believe in America because we have great dreams, and because we have the opportunity to make those dreams come true.
~Wendell L Willkie, Lawyer and Politician (1892-1944)
Freedom lies in being bold.
~Robert Frost, Poet (1874-1964)
Freedom is the open window through which pours the sunlight of the human spirit and human dignity.
~Herbert Hoover, Thirty-First President (1874-1963)
Happily for America, happily, we trust, for the whole human race, they pursued a new and more noble course. They accomplished a revolution which has no parallel in the annals of human society.
~James Madison, Fourth President (1751-1836)
You have to love a nation that celebrates its independence every July 4, not with a parade of guns, tanks, and soldiers who file by the White House in a show of strength and muscle, but with family picnics where kids throw Frisbees, the potato salad gets iffy, and the flies die from happiness. You may think you have overeaten, but it is patriotism.
~Erma Bombeck, Columnist (1927-1996)
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Lord God Almighty, in whose Name the founders of this country won liberty for themselves and for us, and lit the torch of freedom for nations then unborn: Grant that we and all the people of this land may have grace to maintain our liberties in righteousness and peace; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 492
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, July 5, 2015 1:26 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
As many times as I have seen the picture of you and Connor you now have posted on Connor's main page, I am surprised at how much it hit me to see Connor's profile tonight. I cannot find words to tell you of my thoughts in seeing this dear photo.
Today, of course, is Canada Day. I have several friends, who were born in Canada, and I know many people who have Canadian ancestors. We are close enough to Canada, that many Canadians come to this area for holidays and recreation. There is one eatery in town that they particularly like, because it is close to the Northway, next to a gas station, has great food, and is open many hours a day. Most of them are lovely people.
I hope you are well and looking forward to our national holiday this weekend.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, July 1, 2015 4:33 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I continue to wish you well and to remember sweet Connor often. May the love of God and of Connor sustain, strengthen, and encourage you.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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The Collect for St. Peter and St. Paul, Apostles and Martyrs (29 June 64):
Almighty God, whose blessed apostles Peter and Paul glorified you by their martyrdom: Grant that your Church, instructed by their teaching and example, and knit together in unity by your Spirit, may ever stand firm upon the one foundation, which is Jesus Christ our Lord; who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
This is a Red Letter Holy Day.
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Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, June 29, 2015 11:01 PM CDT
Happy Father's Day To All The Dads In Our Families!
Dear Rhonda,
I have just thought of the men in Connor's life. May every one of them, and you, his Forever Mother, be blessed.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, June 21, 2015 7:20 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
As the school year wraps up, here in southern Saratoga County, I am thinking of Connor. Children here are signed up for camps and fun summer day activities. Bicycles, skates, and driveway hockey, lacrosse, and basketball games are popping up all over. Last night, the ice cream truck made its first tour through the development. Connor would have been laughing and playing with the neighborhood boys. I hope you are having encouraging and happy thoughts.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your handsome son.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, June 17, 2015 9:20 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Yesterday, I went to my first picnic of the season. Everyone raved about my chopped salad, which was fun and easy to prepare. I added baby corn, which even a professional chef present, had never thought to use. Connor would have enjoyed the meats, salads, veggies, devil eggs, meatball, and desserts. I hope you are safe and well and doing some good seasonal activities.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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The Collect For Evelyn Underhill, Theologian and Mystic, 15 June 1941:
O God, Origin, Sustainer, and End of all your creatures: Grant that your Church, taught by your servant Evelyn Underhill, guarded evermore by your power, and guided by your Spirit into the light of truth, may continually offer to you all glory and thanksgiving, and attain with your saints to the blessed hope of everlasting life, which you have promised us by our Savior Jesus Christ; who with you and the Holy Spirit lives and reigns, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, June 15, 2015 1:16 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Despite a week of stormy weather, I hope you are safe, well, and content.
Friday afternoon, I stopped at De Voe's for peach ice cream. I always think of Connor when I am at this summer stand.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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The Collect For St. Anthony Of Padua (Also Known As St. Anthony Of Lisbon), 1195-1231:
Almighty ever-living God, who gave Saint Anthony of Padua to your people as an outstanding preacher and an intercessor in their need, grant that, with his assistance, as we follow the teachings of the Christian life, we may know your help in every trial. Through our Lord Jesus Christ, your Son, who lives and reigns with you in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, June 13, 2015 1:42 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
After church, some of us had an opportunity to get some chicken at another church nearby, where the youth are raising money to go to work camp. I know Connor would love both preparing and eating barbecue! This coming Saturday, the kids of St. George's, are having a huge rummage sale to raise funds for their annual trip to Philadelphia, where they will be doing projects to help a church and its neighborhood. Connor had a helping heart, and it is likely that he would have made a youth mission at least once. God bless Connor, and God bless you.
Below is a quotation I have been sharing today with some battling illness and others having various problems. Maybe it will speak encouragement and hope to you.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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In all adversity, our worship of God is joyful, our life is hopeful, our future is secure. There is nothing we can lose on earth that can rob us of the treasures God has given us and will give us.
~The Anglican Digest
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, June 7, 2015 9:58 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I am remembering Connor on another first of the month. God bless him!
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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Collect For Justin Martyr, Philosopher, Apologist, And Martyr, 1 June 167:
Almighty and everlasting God, who found your martyr Justin wandering from teacher to teacher, seeking the true God, and revealed to him the sublime wisdom of your eternal Word: Grant that all who seek you, or a deeper knowledge of you, may find and be found by you; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, June 1, 2015 0:46 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Yesterday, while eating strawberries and ice cream, I thought of your dear sunshine boy. I am sure he is partaking in sweet tastes beyond our knowing in God's eternal kingdom.
I hope you are enjoying happy spring days.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Whatever happens, always remember the mysterious riches of human nature and the nearness of God.
~Phillips Brooks (!835-1893), Episcopal Bishop of Massachusetts
Brooks was beloved by the people, a gifted preacher, and writer of the lyrics to O Little Town of Bethlehem. His commemoration is on January 23.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, May 30, 2015 10:18 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Yesterday, we spent some time with friends, at a Pizza Hut Buffet. Our Clifton Park Pizza Hut building was old and fell into disrepair, so it was shut down about two years ago. Several of the other huts were in similar straights, so they, too, have closed in the last few years. The one we went to Monday, is a newer building, in very good repair, so hopefully, we can go from time to time for a long while. Such an eatery makes me think of Connor, who was always enthusiastic about fun places. He would have loved the salad, pasta, bread sticks, pizza, wings, and dessert!
I hope you had some fun and some good companionship over the holiday weekend.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, May 26, 2015 1:42 AM CDT
Happy Memorial Day To All!
Dear Rhonda,
In watching boys riding bikes in this development, I am reminded of Connor and his bicycle and his go-kart.
May we all enjoy some moments of family or friendship companionship and of relaxation this week, and may we all pause to reflect upon those brave individuals, who have lost their lives throughout the generations, in service to our country.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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O Judge of the nations, we remember before you with grateful hearts the men and women of our country who in the day of decision ventured much for the liberties we now enjoy. Grant that we may not rest until all the people of this land share the benefits of true freedom and gladly accept its disciplines. This we ask in the Name of Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 839
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, May 25, 2015 10:11 AM CDT
Blessings On Pentecost To All!
Dear Rhonda,
Many people wore red to church today as a reminder of the power that came upon the apostles after Christ's Ascension. I always enjoy seeing red dresses, red suit coats, and red shirts and ties. I am sure Connor would look sharp on a day like this.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless Connor.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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A Favorite Hymn For Pentecost:
Refrain: Hail thee, festival day!
Blest day that art hallowed forever;
day wherein God from heaven,
shone on the world with his grace.
Lo! in the likeness of fire,
on them that await his appearing,
he whom the Lord foretold,
suddenly, swiftly, descends. Refrain
Forth from the Father he comes
with his sevenfold mystical dowry,
pouring on human souls
infinite riches of God. Refrain
Hark! in a hundred tongues
Christ's own, his chosen Apostles,
preach to a hundred tribes
Christ and his wonderful works. Refrain
Praise to the Spirit of life,
all praise to the Fount of our being,
light that dost lighten all,
life that in all dost abide. Refrain
God, who art giver of all
good gifts and lover of concord,
pour thy balm on our souls,
order our ways in thy peace. Refrain
God Almighty, who fillest
the heaven, the earth and the ocean,
guard us from harm without,
cleanse us from evil within. Refrain
Kindle our lips with his live bright coal
from the hands of the Seraph;
shine in our minds with thy light;
burn in our hearts with thy love. Refrain
Words: Venantius Fortunatus (530-609);
trans. Gabriel Gillett, 1906
Music: Salve, festa dies
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The Collect For Pentecost:
Almighty God, on this day you opened the way of eternal life to every race and nation by the promised gift of your Holy Spirit: Shed abroad this gift throughout the world by the preaching of the Gospel, that it may reach to the ends of the earth; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, May 24, 2015 3:03 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Connor was remembered in Holy Eucharist over the weekend. Whenever I am at St. George's, Connor remains in my thoughts in the beauty of holiness.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, May 18, 2015 0:35 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I was thinking about you and Connor at Mother's Day, but I was unable to leave a message, here, in Connor's guest book. I am sure that occasion is a bittersweet day for you. You were in my thoughts and prayers.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, May 15, 2015 0:27 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Once again, Connor has been remembered in weekend celebrations of the Eucharist.
Despite a long and harsh winter, in the last few days, I have seen daffodils, tulips, and cherry blossoms. The world is always renewed, and faith tells us, that despite our moods and outward circumstances, we can look forward to the promise of a new life after our earthly bodies die. You will be seeing sweet Connor again in a new and perfect world where all shall be well.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, May 4, 2015 0:26 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of you and remembering your sweet sunshine boy on another first of the month.
God bless you both.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, May 1, 2015 11:49 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
While eating my first spring ice cream cone, I thought of Connor. I was at a Stewart's Shop, where 38 flavors will be on sale all next week. Wouldn't Connor enjoy such delicious choices!
I hope you and your companion are doing well. Let me know if there are specific things I can hold in prayer for you and for your family.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, April 26, 2015 0:53 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I thought of you and of Connor several times Wednesday and just wanted to let you know. In my online devotional reading for today, it speaks of strong women. That is both you and me. Let us never forget it! Below is the thought of the day and prayer of the day from The Upper Room.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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Thought: God’s word can change our lives.
Prayer: Dear Lord, please never let us forget that whatever we are going through, we can be strong in you. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, April 9, 2015 3:39 AM CDT
Exult, let them exult, the hosts of heaven,
exult, let Angel ministers of God exult,
let the trumpet of salvation
sound aloud our mighty King's triumph!
Be glad, let earth be glad, as glory floods her,
ablaze with light from her eternal King,
let all corners of the earth be glad,
knowing an end to gloom and darkness.
Rejoice, let Mother Church also rejoice,
arrayed with the lightning of his glory,
let this holy building shake with joy,
filled with the mighty voices of the peoples.
Alleluia! The Lord Is Risen!
He Is Risen Indeed! Alleluia!
Happy Easter to all, but most especially to Rhonda!
Grace and peace,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, April 5, 2015 0:49 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
My thoughts and prayers are with you during this, the last part of Holy Week.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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The Collect For Maundy Thursday:
Almighty Father, whose dear Son, on the night before he suffered, instituted the Sacrament of his Body and Blood: Mercifully grant that we may receive it thankfully in remembrance of Jesus Christ our Lord, who in these holy mysteries gives us a pledge of eternal life; and who now lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, April 2, 2015 1:39 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I am committing once again to reading some poetry each day during April, which is National Poetry Month. I am working to get the boys in my family on board. My grandson is still under three, so for him, I will share nursery rhymes and limericks, but the older boys will be reading Poe, Whitman, Dickinson, Wordsworth, and others. Perhaps Connor had some favorites. It is a good time to think of those and of the ones you might have shared as he grew.
God bless you always, and God bless the memory of your sweet sunshine boy.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, March 31, 2015 2:55 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
After another dark, rainy day, we actually had some sunshine around dinner time. No matter how dull the weather may be in Tennessee, I hope you are having happy thoughts of your sunshine boy.
God bless both you and Connor.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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Unconditional Love
Fifth Week of Lent
An excerpt from Home Tonight, Henri J.M. Nouwen
When we freely allow fear to dominate and change us, we live in misery far from our home of unconditional love.
Meanwhile Jesus, our example, says to the disciples and to us, "Don't be afraid. Perfect love casts out fear." He walked freely, lived freely, and carried on an intimate relationship with the One who sent him into the world. Throughout the nights or early mornings Jesus spent time communing with the One who loved him. Among his last words he tells us, "As the Father has loved me, so I also love you. . . . If you keep my word, the Father and I will come to you and we will make our home in you. . . . I will send you my Spirit, who will dwell with you forever, and will remind you of all I have said to you." Jesus came to convince us that
Our Maker's love is pure gift, unearned and free.
We are free to relate with the Source of all life or not.
A great love embraces all the love that you and I
have ever known, from father, mother, spouses, brothers,
sisters, children, teachers, friends, partners, or counselors.
Welcoming unconditional love automatically makes
us more like the Unconditional Lover.
Divine love lasts forever.
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Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, March 28, 2015 3:00 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
It was snowing slightly at the end of the day today, a perfect night for pancakes, eggs, and juice. Our little man was so delight to see these comfort foods. I am sure Connor had items that pleased and supported him, as well.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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Sharing A Prayer For Peaceful Rest:
Dear Lord Jesus, as I rest in the comfort of your love, I ask to experience your gentle embrace as you tenderly wrap your loving arms around me. I trust your compassionate care will bring peace to my mind, serenity to my heart, and renewal to my spirit.
In your loving embrace, I ask that you grant me a peaceful night’s rest. Please purify my dreams, cleanse my subconscious, and wash my thoughts with the purity of your infinite love. Please minister to my heart, mind, body, soul, and spirit as I rest in your compassionate care tonight.
Please send forth your protective angels to stand guard over me as I sleep. May your angelic army destroy all curses, hindrances, and demonic influences that have been sent against my ability to experience a peaceful night’s rest. I ask that your heavenly host protect me as I stay awake and watch over me as I sleep, that awake I may keep watch with Christ, and asleep, rest in his peace. Amen.
~from a booklet called Healing Power Prayers, author unknown
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, March 26, 2015 3:19 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
As always, Connor is being remembered. I hope all is well with you and with all of your family.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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The Collect:
Almighty God, you alone can bring into order the unruly wills and affections of sinners: Grant your people grace to love what you command and desire what you promise; that, among the swift and varied changes of the world, our hearts may surely there be fixed where true joys are to be found; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, March 21, 2015 9:17 PM CDT
Hello To All On World Storytelling Day!
Dear Rhonda,
It is kind of difficult to wish you a happy first day of Spring, when so much of the country continues to have wintry weather. Therefore, I send you instead wishes for a special day that is within everyone's ability to celebrate. Pause for a minute and think of some of Connor's favorite stories. Perhaps he liked to listen to Bible stories, tall tales, mythology, stories of great patriots, or family lore. With whom can you share some of Connor's favorites or Connor's own life story today or later this weekend?
God bless you always, and of course God bless Connor.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, March 20, 2015 1:34 AM CDT
Blessings On The Feast Of St. Joseph!
Dear Rhonda,
This is a quick note to remind you that I am remembering Connor this week. Your sunshine boy is often in the thoughts of his friends.
Below is a prayer I think you will enjoy. May all of your dreams be sweet, full of God, and full of hopes for eternal life in God's kingdom with Connor.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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Prayer for Dreamers
God of our waking and our sleeping,
in every age,
you have spoken to your prophets
in dreams and visions
and have promised that
our sons and daughters shall prophesy
through your Spirit.
Through the dreams of young Joseph,
you saved your people from famine.
In visions of King Solomon,
you blessed your land with wisdom.
Because of dreams,
elder Joseph acted quickly
to protect your only Son from harm.
And through the revelation announced to Mary,
you brought forth a new King and a new dream
for all the world.
Bless those who continue to seek you in dreams.
Open their ears to hear you in their visions,
loosen their tongues to speak your word,
strengthen their hands to respond swiftly in action,
and embolden their hearts that what they hear in the dark
they may proclaim in the light.
Make us all dreamers who tirelessly pursue
the vision of your Kingdom.
We ask this through Christ our Lord.
Amen.
~ Diana Macalintal, The Work of Your Hands, reprinted in Give Us This Day, March, 2015, page 12
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Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, March 19, 2015 1:54 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I was hoping to wish you a Happy St. Patrick's Day, before hitting the bed Monday night, but I was awfully tired and did not get to Connor's website. I hope you had a day of friendship, faith, humor, and good cheer. Perhaps you also had a lovely meal of corned beef and cabbage. I enjoyed my traditional boiled dinner at a Celtic Day of story and prayer and went out with friends, who had forgotten about St. Patrick's Day, for Japanese food for dinner. What a great day!
God bless you always, and of course, God bless sweet Connor.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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The Collect:
Almighty God, who in your providence chose your servant Patrick to be the apostle of the Irish people, to bring those who were wandering in darkness and error to the true light and knowledge of you: Grant us so to walk in that light, that we may come at last to the light of everlasting life; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, March 18, 2015 2:46 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I am back from a writing workshop, which was fascinating and fun. In looking over one of the handouts, there are many questions that apply to both being a parent and being a child. I am sure it would be interesting to see how Connor would respond to areas such as earliest memories, family make up and characteristics, vacations, and holidays. Maybe you can journal or talk about some of these things as we continue our Lenten journeys.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, March 11, 2015 1:02 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Connor has been remembered once again in Holy Eucharist.
God bless you both always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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The Collect For The Third Sunday In Lent:
Almighty God, you know that we have no power in ourselves to help ourselves: Keep us both outwardly in our bodies and inwardly in our souls, that we may be defended from all adversities which may happen to the body, and from all evil thoughts which may assault and hurt the soul; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, March 7, 2015 11:39 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I heard last night that this month of February, 2015, will probably go down in the record books, in nearby Albany, as either the third or fourth coldest month in the 195 years of weather records. Up here, January is usually our coldest month, so having such a bitter February is unusual. Although I do not get a lot of information about your area, friends who live in Maryland and Virginia report cold weather and hardships in their towns, as well. I hope you and all of Connor's friends, family, and fans are safe, well, and comfortable.
As we journey through Lent, perhaps one or more of the short prayers below will be of some help.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless Connor.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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Dear God, help us to see your love even in the most difficult situations. In Christ’s name, we pray. Amen.
This is the Upper Room Prayer for February 19, 2015.
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Dear Lord, help us during this Lenten season to look beyond ourselves and give to those in need. In Jesus’ name we pray. Amen.
This is the Upper Room Prayer for February 18, 2015 (Ash Wednesday).
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God of all comfort, help us to be a conduit for your love. Amen.
This is the Upper Room Prayer for February 17, 2015.
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Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, February 27, 2015 10:50 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
We had a Simple Supper at church tonight, and as I think of the sights, sounds, and flavors of it, I think of your sunshine boy. How children enjoy community parties!
We are having bitter cold weather here. This month will probably go down as the coldest February we have had. I have heard that there have been great hardships in your state due to harsh weather. I hope you are safe, well, and at peace.
God bless you always, and God bless all who have loved your handsome son.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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Today's Collect:
O Almighty God, who in the place of Judas chose your faithful servant Matthias to be numbered among the Twelve: Grant that your Church, being delivered from false apostles, may always be ordered and guided by faithful and true pastors; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
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Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, February 24, 2015 2:49 AM CST
Happy Valentine's Day To All!
Dear Rhonda,
While in a store Friday, I picked up a sweet board book about hugging for the little guy, who means so much to me. The book is wonderfully illustrated, and I know Connor would approve.
Here is a thought on love I received in my email a few minutes ago.
I spent a while before the Blessed Sacrament. I could feel that even though I was silent before Him, Jesus understood me, and this was enough to let me experience deep peace.
~Leonie Martin also known as St. Francois-Therese of the Visitation
Commentary On The Quote From The Colettines:
Dear Little hearts,
Prayer is a matter of loving, of giving ourselves to God as we are and how we are at any specific time, a surrender of our real authentic self, no matter how empty and barren we may feel at the time. It is also the time when we simply allow God to love us.
This is beautifully put by Leonie, just being silent before Jesus in the Holy Sacrament with that realization that Jesus knew all what was in her heart, all the unspoken words and desires, fears and expectations, that he was loving her just as she was.
That is a fruit of trust and confidence in his great love.
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God bless you always, dear Rhonda, and God bless all of Connor's friends, family, and supporters, and all who read the above words and take them to heart.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, February 14, 2015 3:11 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
As Valentine's Day approaches, I am thinking of you and of your sweet sunshine boy. May your weekend be filled with love from those around you and hope for the future.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, February 10, 2015 2:37 PM CST
Feast Of Saint Josephine Bakhita
Dear Rhonda,
I received in my email today a lovely 14 minute video about Bakhita, a child kidnapped and enslaved in the Sudan, during the late 1800s. Eventually, she was sold to an Italian and taken to Italy, where she gained her freedom and also learned about our Lord Jesus Christ. She lived her life, in ways similar to Connor, known for her gentleness, cheerfulness, and big smile. She was canonized as a saint, in the Roman Catholic Church, in 2000, just over fifty years after her death on February 8, 1947. However, her example, also like Connor's, extends well beyond her native country and Italy and beyond her race, inspiring many to live a faith-filled, loving, and grateful existence. Her story also calls us to work and pray against all forms of slavery and oppression wherever they may be.
Here is the link to the video. Please listen to the music and watch the story of a life made whole and happy by faith. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9vYh8YR_Ons
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, February 8, 2015 5:09 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I have visited Connor's guest book three or four times this week, but I have not left any messages. It has been a busy week, trying to manage a lot of snow, helping some ill people out, and doing various business. Both Connor and you were remembered, in Holy Eucharist, Saturday afternoon.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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Today's Collect:
Set us free, O God, from the bondage of our sins, and give us the liberty of that abundant life which you have made known to us in your Son our Savior Jesus Christ; who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
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Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, February 8, 2015 3:16 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
Neither Connor's team nor our team made it into the Superbowl this year, but my son is at a friend's house enjoying pizza, wings, and other treats. It's a good evening for guy time.
I hope you have had a good weekend.
God bless you always.
Grace and peace,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, February 1, 2015 6:57 PM CST
I can look at the joy and pure happiness in Connor's face in ANY photo taken of him, and just know, deep inside, with a strong certainty, that he is running, happy, laughing, loving and loved where he is now. What an incredible example he set, and what an awesome example of what a mother can really be that Rhonda is. i am proud to know her. my heart is with you, always.
Jeremy Gann <ganntv@aol.com>
New York, NY - Sunday, February 1, 2015 3:53 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
One of my storytelling friends lost his beloved dog, Jonah, during a house fire Friday. Perhaps Connor was there to welcome Jonah home and to run with him. There may have been many other children at heaven's gate to accompany Jonah, as Kent is the Director of Camp Fowler, in the Adirondacks, and Jonah was the camp's summer dog. Last Sunday night, Kent was one of three tellers at the Story Sunday, at the Glen Sanders Mansion, and one of his stories was about the noble Jonah.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless Connor.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, January 31, 2015 0:48 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
Many of us spent good parts of the day today digging out from another snow storm. We got less than half of what we were expected to get, due to a change in the track of the storm and dry atmospheric conditions, but we still had chores to do.
I hope you are and have been safe, healthy, and content this winter. You and your family are in my prayers.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, January 29, 2015 3:24 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
Connor was remembered once again in Holy Eucharist this past weekend, as he always is beneath the Jesus and the Children stained glass window. This time, I also thought of about twenty other children and teens, whose books I have signed. May all of them be safe, at peace, and happy in the nearer presence of our blessed Lord.
I hope you and your companion are warm, safe, and content on this snowy morning.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, January 27, 2015 2:47 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
Many things have happened this week that make me think of you and of your sunshine boy. One was sharing pancakes, hand games, and a toy car with a little honey that is dear to me. Another involved cleaning out my car. (Connor was always so helpful.) And still another involved hearing some stories Tuesday night.
I hope you are well, safe, and feeling the encouragement that comes with deep faith, happy memories, and the love of family and friends. I believe you have all in abundance.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your handsome son, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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Today's Collect For St. Vincent, Deacon of Saragossa And Martyr, 304:
Almighty God, your deacon Vincent, upheld by you, was not terrified by threats nor overcome by torments: Strengthen us to endure all adversity with invincible and steadfast faith; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
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Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, January 22, 2015 1:43 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
Connor was remembered in Holy Eucharist this weekend, as he always is.
Sunday afternoon, I was one of eight storytellers, who performed at Word Plays. The theme was Locked Out, and my story was a rather sober story based on events in my family that happened about five years ago. It was also an inspirational story. However, my friends AnneMarie and Joe both told humorous stories. Hers was about being locked out of a house she was visiting, in a posh neighborhood, wearing only a thin, cotton night gown. His was about being locked out of his car in a remote area. Connor would have laughed as loudly as I did.
I hope this note finds you well and that my description reminds you of humor you shared with your sweet sunshine boy.
Peace and blessing be with you always.
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, January 19, 2015 1:15 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
We had another 4-5 inches of snow on Monday and are now going into the deep freeze again for about a week. It makes one glad to have adequate shelter.
I hope you and all of those dear to you are safe, well, and content.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, January 13, 2015 3:01 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I thought of sweet Connor many times during our family Eucharist this morning and also during Eucharist yesterday. We sang several of the most beloved Epiphany hymns this morning. Connor would have enjoyed them.
God bless you both always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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Today's Collect:
Father in heaven, who at the baptism of Jesus in the River Jordan proclaimed him your beloved Son and anointed him with the Holy Spirit: Grant that all who are baptized into his Name may keep the covenant they have made, and boldly confess him as Lord and Savior; who with you and the Holy Spirit lives and reigns, one God, in glory everlasting. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, January 11, 2015 2:19 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
We are still sitting beneath lit Christmas trees in upstate New York, so it is a joy to see the Christmas tree border on Connor's home page. I do love the picture of young Connor and his Mommy on that page.
God bless you both.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, January 10, 2015 2:20 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I hope you are safe, well. and content during these blustery winter days. My power was out for about two hours during a recent ice storm. It is my hope that all of your utilities stay on, and that when you are tired or discouraged, you look to spring with hope. As surely as the next season will come, so eternal life with Connor will also come.
God bless you always,
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, January 9, 2015 3:11 AM CST
Glad Epiphany To All!
Dear Rhonda,
Throughout the Twelve Days, Connor Jordan Hunley was remembered in Holy Eucharist. Leaving a drug store, a few days ago, I saw a claw machine full of baseball player dolls, toy elephants, tigers, and bears, and other assorted toys, and I thought of Cheyenne and Connor. May they be playing joyfully in Heaven today.
Here, once again is the Epiphany hymn I like so much.
Over the Hill and Over the Dale
By John Mason Neale
Over the hill and over the dale
Came three kings together
Caring naught for snow and hail
Cold and wind and weather
Now on Persia’s sandy plane
Now where Tigris swells with rain
They their camels tether
Now through Syrian lands they go
Now through Moab faint and slow
Now o’r Edam’s heather.
Over the hill and over the dale
Each king bears a present
Wise men go a child to hale
Monarchs seek a peasant
And in front a star proceeds
Over rocks and rivers leads
Shines with beams incessant
Therefore onward, onward still
Ford the stream and climb the hill
Love makes all things pleasant.
He is God ye go to meet
Therefore incense proffer
He is king ye go to greet
Gold is in your coffer
Also man he comes to share
Every woe that man can bear
Tempter, railer, scoffer
Therefore now against the day
In the grave when him they lay
Myrrh ye also offer.
Over the hill and over the dale,
Riding east together
Caring naught for snow and hail,
Naught for wind and weather
Warned by God from Herod’s door,
Each king turns for home once more
Hearts and footsteps lighter,
Now behind them shines the star
Which they followed from afar,
Shining ever brighter.
May our hearts rejoice in the hope those wise scholars had.
God bless you always, and God bless sweet Connor.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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Today's Collect:
O God, by the leading of a star you manifested your only Son to the peoples of the earth: Lead us, who know you now by faith, to your presence, where we may see your glory face to face; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
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Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, January 6, 2015 1:45 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I look forward to the update on Connor's toy drive and appreciate the greeting on the home page.
Saturday, the Third Day of Christmas, was the Feast of St. John. When my guys were little, I always gave them small gifts on all twelve days. We also attended Eucharist on the red letter days during school vacation. Connor has been remembered on many red letter days over the years including at Eucharist this weekend.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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The Collect:
Shed upon your Church, O Lord, the brightness of your light, that we, being illumined by the teaching of your apostle and evangelist John, may so walk in the light of your truth, that at length we may attain to the fullness of eternal life; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, December 28, 2014 1:50 AM CST
Merry Christmas To All!
Dear Rhonda,
Sweet Connor was remembered in Holy Eucharist last night, and he will be remembered in Christmas Day Eucharist, in a short while. Connor is always in my thoughts, when I am in the beauty of holiness, at St. George's. I cannot believe I have not signed this book all December. I have been busy with an adorable little man in my family, the publishing of our storytellers' anthology, a little doctoring (all is well), some car trouble, and a variety of other things, but that is not an excuse.
You know I love both you and Connor. May today be a day of peace and joy for you and your dear ones.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, December 25, 2014 8:51 AM CST
Happy Thanksgiving Weekend To All!
Dear Rhonda,
Connor has been remembered in several services of Thanksgiving this year. May he and all of his loved ones always be blessed.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, November 28, 2014 2:10 AM CST
Happy Veteran's Day To All!
Dear Rhonda,
On Sunday, we had our annual Scottish liturgy at St. George's, and a friend and I spent the evening listening to The Scottish musicians known as The Battlefield Band, at the 8th Step Coffee House. Probably Connor would have enjoyed the double dose of bagpipes as much as I did.
I hope you and your family are well.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Collect For Armistice Day (Veterans' Day), 11 November 1918:
Almighty God our Heavenly Father, guide the nations of the world into the way of justice and truth, and establish among them that peace which is the fruit of righteousness, that they may become the kingdom of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, November 10, 2014 7:56 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
Connor was remembered on All Soul's Day. As you know, Jesus Christ conquered death through his own suffering and death on the cross and by his resurrection. In Him is the source of our hope and light whatever darkness we might currently face. His love for us and those that we love is endless. Because of this, you will see Connor again, and when you do, all shall be well.
God bless you always, and God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
A Prayer Used On All Soul's Day:
Lord,
welcome into your calm
and peaceful kingdom
those who have departed
out of this present life
to be with you.
Grant them rest
and a place with the spirits of the just;
and give them the life that knows no age,
the reward that passes not away,
through Christ our Lord. Amen.
~St. Ignatius Loyola
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Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, November 4, 2014 0:17 AM CST
Blessings To All On All Saints Sunday!
Dear Rhonda,
This morning, at church, our fourth graders delighted us with the annual procession of saints. This year's class dressed as several old favorites such as Mary, Elizabeth, Luke, Margaret, and Dominic. I also noticed Polycarp and Andrew of Crete. Of course, we sang all of the verses of "I Sing a Song of the Saints of God" and of several other hymns. While this was happening, I glanced at the Jesus and the Children stained glass window and remembered Connor and other CaringBridge kids. May you and all of their loved ones be at peace.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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A Favorite Hymn For All Saints' Day:
I sing a song of the saints of God,
Patient and brave and true,
Who toiled and fought and lived and died
For the Lord they loved and knew.
And one was a doctor, (Luke)
And one was a queen, (Margaret of Scotland)
And one was a shepherdess on the green: (Joan of Arc)
They were all of them saints of God—and I mean,
God helping, to be one too.
They loved their Lord so dear, so dear,
And his love made them strong;
And they followed the right, for Jesus’ sake,
The whole of their good lives long.
And one was a soldier, (Martin of Tours)
And one was a priest, (John Donne)
And one was slain by a fierce wild beast: (Ignatius)
And there’s not any reason—no, not the least,
Why I shouldn’t be one too.
They lived not only in ages past,
There are hundreds of thousands still,
The world is bright with the joyous saints
Who love to do Jesus’ will.
You can meet them in school, or
In lanes, or at sea,
In church, or in trains, or in shops, or at tea,
For the saints of God are just folk like me,
And I mean to be one too.
Lyrics: Mrs. L.L. (Locket) Scott, (1898-1986) 1929, Written For Her Own Children.
Music: Grand Isle, By Father John Henry Hopkins (1861-1945), Tune Written For The Hymnal 1940
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All Saints Prayer By The Eighth Bishop Of Albany (Episcopal):
LORD JESUS, as your Saints glorified you by their lives in their day, so let our lives glorify you now: fill us with the gifts of faith, hope and charity, and foster in us the fruits of your Holy Spirit; strengthened by the fellowship of all your Saints, and aided by their prayers, may we seek after all virtuous and godly living. Amen.
~Daniel William Herzog
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, November 2, 2014 11:42 PM CST
Love the saints, men and women, and all the angels, and all the good and just people who serve God day and night.
~St. Colette
Blessed Feast Of All Saints!
Dear Rhonda,
I think of Connor this All Saints Day ten years after what our friend Kathy calls "Connor's grand entrance into heaven." Truly, Connor did arrive safely in a place of joy, peace, and perfect freedom, where he was surrounded by a great company of saints from every place, race, and condition. Today, I think of Connor and of several of my own heroes, and I give thanks for all. May you pause and do likewise.
God bless you always, and God bless Connor.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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Let Us Pray:
O God, the King of saints, we praise and glorify your holy Name for Connor and all your servants who have finished their course in your faith and fear: for the blessed Virgin Mary; for the holy patriarchs, prophets, apostles, and martyrs; and for all your other righteous servants, known to us and unknown; and we pray that, encouraged by their examples, aided by their prayers, and strengthened by their fellowship, we also may be partakers of the inheritance of the saints in light; through the merits of your Son Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.
~The Book OF Common Prayer
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, November 1, 2014 11:49 AM CDT
Happy Halloween Birthday, Connor!
Rhonda, I am thinking of you.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, October 31, 2014 4:03 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Near the tenth anniversary of Connor's passing, I am thinking of him, of you, and of all of his friends and family. I have lit a candle for Connor at Barbara C. Crafton's Geranium Farm, and I will remember him in Eucharist this weekend.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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This is a copy of the candle:
+ This candle is for Connor Jordan Hunley from Tenneesee +
for the repose of the soul of young Connor, who died on November 1, 2004 and for peace for Rhonda and all of Connor`s loved ones
~ this candle was lit by Colette from New York
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Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, October 30, 2014 4:16 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
At a dinner meeting on Thursday night, two young men, from Union College, made a short presention. As it turned out, the younger lad grew up in my hometown, so I sought the boys out for conversation at dismissal. Both were handsome and polite, just as Connor was. May God bless them all.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, October 24, 2014 3:14 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I have seen many of the claw machines that Cheyenne Fiveash enjoyed so much lately. These games always make me think of both Connor and Cheyenne. May you and Roy and Donna be given sweet dreams of your children this fall.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, October 11, 2014 1:23 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I hope you are enjoying your birthday week. I did not get on the computer Wednesday to wish you a happy day, as I needed to have my plumber come and had projects and family activities. I have thought of you and Connor several times this week. This included while having a fall ice cream cone at DeVoe's Rainbow Delights last night.
Today, the Feast of St. Francis, is a perfect time to remember your little animal doctor, Connor. Perhaps they are together this morning enjoying the animals of heaven.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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Blessed are you, Lord God, maker of all living creatures. On the fifth and sixth days of creation, you called forth fish in the sea, birds in the air and animals on the land. You inspired St. Francis to call all of them his brothers and sisters. We ask you to bless the animals and all living creatures. By the power of your love, enable them to live according to your plan. May we always praise you for all your beauty in creation. Blessed are you, Lord our God, in all your creatures! Amen.
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If we endure things patiently and with gladness thinking on the sufferings of our blessed Lord, and bearing all for the love of Him: herein is perfect joy.
~St. Francis Of Assisi (1186-1226)
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Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, October 4, 2014 9:08 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I hope you and your loved ones are all well. I continue to think of you and to remember sweet Connor.
May your upcoming birthday be a perfect day.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, September 28, 2014 4:15 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
We stopped at DeVoe's last night for dinner. As I savored an ear of corn and a dish of salt potatoes, I thought of Connor as I always do at this local produce and ice cream shop. I am sure you shared similar fun foods with Connor hundreds of times. How blessed those meals were!
I am pausing, here, at my keyboard, to pray for you, your parents, and all of Connor's loved ones.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, September 20, 2014 11:43 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
One again, Connor was remembered in the beauty of holiness yesterday. Connor has been thought of in many circumstances of my recent daily life such driving, eating late summer vegetables, and having ice cream. These are quiet activities that I did while praying for him ten years ago. Connor will never be forgotten.
I hope all is well with you and with all of Connor's family, friends, and supporters.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, September 15, 2014 5:36 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Connor will be remembered with several CaringBridge youth and with the Victims of 9/11 as I worship tomorrow. May you and all of the families and friends be given new encouragement, peace, and hope.
God bless you always, and God bless your handsome sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, September 10, 2014 2:35 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Many of our public schools started today. Moms and Dads and Grandparents were busy tonight helping to cover books, organizing papers and folders, and completing forms for teachers, school nurses, and offices. At this point, Connor might be away at college, appreticeship, or the military, but to you, and to those with whom you have shared him, he is still a sweet little sunshine boy. May God bless him, and may God bless you.
When you can, please let me know how you are.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, September 4, 2014 10:30 PM CDT
Happy Labor Day Weekend To All Of Connor's Loved Ones!
Dear Rhonda,
One night this weekend, we took Tavin to a local amusement park to ride. While there, I thought of Connor. He would have found some good rides and tasty treats at Hoffman's Playland.
Tonight, while doing errands, I had dinner at De Voe's Rainbow Delights. Once again, Connor found have found something to enjoy.
I hope you are well and at peace.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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Prayer Of Blessing The Work Of Our Hands
Blessed be the works of your hands,
O Holy One.
Blessed be these hands that have touched life.
Blessed be these hands that have nurtured creativity.
Blessed be these hands that have held pain.
Blessed be these hands that have embraced with passion.
Blessed be these hands that have tended gardens.
Blessed be these hands that have closed in anger.
Blessed be these hands that have planted new seeds.
Blessed be these hands that have harvested ripe fields.
Blessed be these hands that have cleaned, washed, mopped, scrubbed.
Blessed be these hands that have become knotty with age.
Blessed be these hands that are wrinkled and scarred from doing justice.
Blessed be these hands that have reached out and been received.
Blessed be these hands that hold the promise of the future.
Blessed be the works of your hands.
O Holy One.
~From The Project Prayer In America
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Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, August 29, 2014 9:00 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
My computer was down for a few days, but I continue to thinking of you and of your sunshine boy. Connor was remembered in Holy Eucharist this morning. I also thought of him Friday night, when I had an ear of corn and a cold treat, at De Voe's. How children enjoy ice cream!
God bless you always, and God bless all of Connor's family, friends, and fans.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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Today's Collect:
Almighty God, you have given your only Son to be for us a sacrifice for sin, and also an example of godly life: Give us grace to receive thankfully the fruits of his redeeming work, and to follow daily in the blessed steps of his most holy life; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
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Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, August 17, 2014 10:33 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I continue to think of you and to remember sweet Connor.
God bless you always.
Grace and peace,
~Colette
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Today's Collect:
Let your continual mercy, O Lord, cleanse and defend your Church; and, because it cannot continue in safety without your help, protect and govern it always by your goodness; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, August 3, 2014 4:20 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I've started to sign Connor's guest book many times this month, but things, including lots of summer storms, have interrupted. I continue to remember you and Connor beneath the Jesus and the Children stained glass window.
God bless you always, and God bless all of Connor's friends, family, and supporters.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, July 30, 2014 1:45 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
A week ago, I had a dipped cone at DeVoe's. I always think of Connor when I have anything at that food stand. I hope you had a peaceful, fun, safe, and enjoyable Fourth. Anytime with a toddler is great, so I enjoyed the weekend very much.
Connor was remembered at the altar of St. George's once again.
God bless you always, and God bless your sweet sunshine boy.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, July 7, 2014 9:57 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
The children are out of school up here now and can be seen playing in driveways, yards, parks, and playgrounds. They are also seen with ice cream cones, cool beverages, ice pops, and other treats. On Saturday, I spoke with a young lad manning the cash box at his parents garage sale and then watched another boy mowing his family's lawn. May these words and the experience of summer children in your own area bring you gentle smiles and a peaceful spirit this week. Both you and Connor remain in my prayers.
God bless you always, and God bless all of Connor's family, friends, and supporters.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, June 23, 2014 3:26 PM CDT
Blessed Trinity Sunday To All!
Dear Rhonda,
Connor was remembered at Holy Eucharist yesterday as he always is. God bless you both.
My thoughts are with all of the men close to Connor on Father's Day.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect For Trinity Sunday:
Almighty and everlasting God, you have given to us your servants grace, by the confession of a true faith, to acknowledge the glory of the eternal Trinity, and in the power of your divine Majesty to worship the Unity: Keep us steadfast in this faith and worship, and bring us at last to see you in your one and eternal glory, O Father; who with the Son and the Holy Spirit live and reign, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, June 15, 2014 6:45 AM CDT
Blessings To All On Pentecost!
Dear Rhonda,
Connor was remembered in joyous Pentecost services at the Dominican Retreat House and at St. George's. I believe he would have enjoyed the wide variety of red vestments, frontals, and clothes, and I know he would have enjoyed the fantastic desserts.
God bless you always, and may your memories and thoughts of your sweet sunshine boy he bright, peaceful, and powerful throughout this festive season.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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O God, who on this day taught the hearts of your faithful people by sending to them the light of your Holy Spirit: Grant us by the same Spirit to have a right judgment in all things, and evermore to rejoice in his holy comfort; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord, who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, June 8, 2014 2:51 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
This is just a short note to let you know that I am thinking of you and of all of Connor's loved ones at the time of his expected high school graduation. As sad as it is that Connor did not see this life milestone, we know that he has seen many other joys in God's eternal kingdom, where there is neither sorrow nor tears. We also know that you will see Connor again, and on that day, all shall be well.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless Connor.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, June 6, 2014 3:05 AM CDT
Happy Memorial Day To All!
Dear Rhonda,
Connor was remembered at Holy Eucharist again this weekend. You were also in my thoughts and prayers while I was in the beauty of holiness.
May we all enjoy some moments of family or friendship companionship and of relaxation this week, and may we all pause to reflect upon those brave individuals, who have lost their lives throughout the generations, in service to our country.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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O Judge of the nations, we remember before you with grateful hearts the men and women of our country who in the day of decision ventured much for the liberties we now enjoy. Grant that we may not rest until all the people of this land share the benefits of true freedom and gladly accept its disciplines. This we ask in the Name of Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 839
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Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, May 25, 2014 1:29 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Our sweet Tavin has learned to ride a bicycle, and the picture his dad gave me of him on his bike reminds me of all the things you shared about Connor and his bike. A big smile has come upon my face as I think of these beautiful boys!
You and Connor were in my thoughts and prayers at Eucharist this weekend. May God bless you both.
When you can, let Connor's friends know how you are and how we can best pray for you.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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Today's Collect:
Almighty God, whom truly to know is everlasting life: Grant us so perfectly to know your Son Jesus Christ to be the way, the truth, and the life, that we may steadfastly follow his steps in the way that leads to eternal life; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord, who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
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Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, May 18, 2014 10:21 PM CDT
I remember my mother's prayers and they have always followed me. They have clung to me all my life.
~Abraham Lincoln (1809-1865)
Dear Rhonda,
Just as the prayers of Nancy Hanks clung to her son, who became one of our greatest presidents, so have your prayers and love clung to Connor. Some day, you will be with Connor in a place of joy and love, and you will see the effects of those prayers with your own eyes, and at that moment, all shall be well.
Connor and you were in my heart at Eucharist this weekend, and you are also in my prayers, as I sit at my keyboard. May God bless you abundantly!
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect (Good Shepherd Sunday):
O God, whose Son Jesus is the good shepherd of your people: Grant that when we hear his voice we may know him who calls us each by name, and follow where he leads; who, with you and the Holy Spirit, lives and reigns, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
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Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, May 11, 2014 3:41 PM CDT
Happy Mother's Day To All!
Dear Rhonda,
We have about six weeks of school before our teachers and students have summer vacation. I have been thinking about that for the past few days. Although you close down for summer earlier, I have included Connor in a lot of my thinking about how fast summer is coming and what people I know plan to do. Of course, Connor's name is now coming up in your area, as a committee meets to select the recipient of Connor's scholarship one more time. May these days be blessed for teachers and staff members who knew your beautiful sunshine boy, and may some of today's students learn about the kind, caring child Connor was.
I hope you, and all the mothers around you, enjoy this Mother's Day Week-End.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
Colette
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However time or circumstance may come between a mother and Her child, their lives are interwoven forever.
~Pam Brown
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You will see sweet Connor again, and when you do, all shall be well.
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Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, May 10, 2014 0:46 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I am sorry not to have gotten here on May 1 to express my continuing sorrow over the passing of your dear son, Connor. I cannot believe how the days, months, and years have increased since November 1, 2004. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, May 3, 2014 0:38 AM CDT
Surrexit Dominus Vere, Alleluia, Alleluia
Surrexit Christi, Hodie, Alleluia, Alleluia
Dear Rhonda,
I have thought of you and of Connor many times and at several services during Holy Week and Easter. May Christ's peace and the joy of his resurrection be with you.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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An Easter Collect:
Almighty God, who through your only-begotten Son Jesus Christ overcame death and opened to us the gate of everlasting life: Grant that we, who celebrate with joy the day of the Lord's resurrection, may be raised from the death of sin by your life-giving Spirit; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, N Y U.S.A. - Sunday, April 20, 2014 10:59 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
While I was savoring soup and a sandwich today, I thought about Connor and about how much he liked to help in the kitchen and to eat. We have had boys in the development playing lacrosse and soccer in the driveways. No double Connor would have loved joining in. May your early spring memories of your sunshine boy be sweet, comforting, and refreshing today.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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The Collect For Richard Of Chichester (3 April 1253):
We thank you, Lord God, for all the benefits you have given us in your Son Jesus Christ, our most merciful Redeemer, Friend, and Brother, and for all the pains and insults he has borne for us; and we pray that, following the example of your saintly bishop Richard of Chichester, we may see Christ more clearly, love him more dearly, and follow him more nearly; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, now and for ever. Amen.
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Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, April 3, 2014 3:05 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I just want you to know that I have thought of both you and Connor on this mid-Lent Sunday (Mothering Sunday) and throughout the weekend. Perhaps you have had a bite of the simnel cake traditionally associated with this day or a hot cross bun. Truly, I hope you have been refreshed in body and in mind as another name for this day mentions.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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The Collect For The Fourth Sunday In Lent (Refreshment Sunday):
Gracious Father, whose blessed Son Jesus Christ came down from heaven to be the true bread which gives life to the world: Evermore give us this bread, that he may live in us, and we in him; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
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Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, March 30, 2014 9:26 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Whether I sign Connor's guest book or not, I continue to think of him in many ways, at many times. Connor was a brave, beautiful boy!
Last night, I watched some CARS cartoons with a little guy that I love. I gave him a CARS board book for Christmas, and I have a CARS playset and three extra cars for his upcoming birthday. I am sure that Connor would have enjoyed these things, as well.
May your memories of a playful and loving Connor fill your heart with joy today and often.
God bless you always, and God bless all of Connor's family, friends, and fans. There are many.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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Here is a prayer that was in my email today. It is a part of today's Upper Room.
O God, work through me, love through me, heal through me. Amen.
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Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, March 27, 2014 12:03 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I hope you and your family are well. My thoughts are with all of Connor's loved ones, as we continue on our Lenten journey.
God bless you always.
Grace and peace,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, March 26, 2014 2:33 AM CDT
Happy First Day Of Spring To Rhonda And Family!
Dear Rhonda,
If Connor were here with me today, I would show him some of the spring poems in my files. (I am leaving you one below.) I would take him outside and let him listen to the sounds of nature and dig in the softening earth. We might even go to the Commons, covered with ice enough to skate on Monday, and see if we could fly a kite, as I did with my own boys. I am sure you have many memories of spring activities with Connor, and I hope they bring joy to your heart today.
God bless you always, and God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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I Hear Spring Breathing
by Joyce Rupp
I hear Spring breathing softly,
her quiet respiration
rising and falling
through the heavy snow banks
gurgling in the sunshine.
I hear the slow, steady intake
of mid-February air
stirring the awakening crocus.
I hear the sigh
of the oak tree’s terminal buds,
warm wind stretching them out
beneath the turquoise sky.
I hear my own lungs
inhaling and exhaling
with renewed hope,
ready for the coming
of green and the shedding
of all that is grayed
with Winter’s feigned death.
From: My Soul Feels Lean: Poems of Loss and Restoration
Available March 11, 2013
Joyce Rupp is a Roman Catholic nun, who belongs to the Order of the Sisters of Mary (OSM).
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Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, March 20, 2014 3:31 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
As we approach the first day of spring, I am thinking of you and remembering your sunshine boy.
God bless you, and God bless all of Connor's friends, family, and fans.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, March 18, 2014 3:30 PM CDT
Beauty is not in the face; beauty is a light in the heart.
~Kahlil Gibran
Dear Rhonda,
When I read this quote earlier this week, I thought of your handsome sunshine boy, who had both a beautiful face and a beautiful heart. Even when I do not write something, here in Connor's book, I do think of him and of you.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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Today's Collect:
Almighty God, whose blessed Son was led by the Spirit to be tempted by Satan: Come quickly to help us who are assaulted by many temptations; and, as you know the weaknesses of each of us, let each one find you mighty to save; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
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Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, March 9, 2014 5:14 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
We are ending February with it being the seventh snowiest on record (since 1885). We also had temperatures lower than normal on nineteen days. March is coming in windy and cold, but spring has to be around the corner.
Know that I am thinking of your sweet sunshine boy on yet another first and that I am pausing to pray for you. I hope you are safe, well, and content.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, March 1, 2014 0:03 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
Saturday was the ninth's birthday of one of the boys in our family. I certainly remember many things about Connor as a nine year old. Isn't it wonderful that we have great memories of your golden son!
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, February 23, 2014 0:56 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
A tree near our house has been full of robins many times a day for the past few days. They certainly bring cheer to a long winter! We usually do not have robins in February, so perhaps they are a gift from your sunshine boy. May God bless him!
I hope you and all of your loved ones are well.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, February 19, 2014 0:01 AM CST
Happy Valentine's Day Rhonda And Family!
Here is a beautiful, short video for you to watch:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bT4jzG73Kv0
God bless you all.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, February 14, 2014 11:13 AM CST
Happy Valentine's Day To All!
Dear Rhonda,
I was just preparing some electronic Valentine mail. I ended up using some things elementary school children said about love, and of course that made me think of you and of your sweet sunshine boy. The comment I liked best was from a six year old boys who said, "When someone loves you, the way they say your name is different. You just know that your name is safe in their mouth."
We are in the middle of a huge snowstorm. We could have as much as 20 inches of new snow on the ground by morning. I hope you and all of Connor's family are safe, well, and content.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, February 13, 2014 8:17 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
The schools are closed today due to snow. I am sure that Connor, like all kids, enjoyed an unexpected vacation. Our snow here is perfect for packing. I am sure Connor enjoyed making snowballs and snow castles.
I hope you and your loved ones are safe, well, and happy and that the electric is on in your home.
God bless you always, and God bless all those who lovingly remember Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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Holiness is knowing we have tasted God and knowing that we can never be satisfied with just that taste. It is choosing, in spite of our fear, to go more deeply.
~Joyce Rupp
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Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, February 5, 2014 11:57 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
My son and his little boy are having a small Super Bowl Party tonight. Pizza and wings have been ordered. This makes me think of Connor and how much he enjoyed your Tennessee team. May peace and all good surround all of your memories of Connor.
God bless you always, and God bless all of Connor's many friends, family members, and fans.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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The Collect For The Fourth Sunday After Epiphany:
Almighty and everlasting God, you govern all things both in
heaven and on earth: Mercifully hear the supplications of
your people, and in our time grant us your peace; through
Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the
Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 215
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Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, February 2, 2014 11:55 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
For several weeks, our Daughters of the King group has been praying for a ten year old local boy suffering with Niemann-Pick disease. On Friday, JP was sworn in as an Honorary Troy Police Officer and spent a day riding with an officer and working with a K9. This made me think of Connor. There aren't too many things that do not make me think of your sunshine boy. May God bless him!
I hope all is well with you.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, February 1, 2014 8:11 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I could not help but think of Connor last night, at the Story Sunday at the Glen Sanders Mansion. Our tellers were the Three Spirits (Kent Busman, Joe Doolittle, and Harlan Ratmeyer). The name of the program was "Stories of Home, Hearth, and All That Jazz." Joe invited a local jazz band to appear and to play before and after dinner. Connor would have loved the delicious banquet food, the thought-provoking stories, and the great table conversation, but Connor would have delighted in the next thing. Each table had a mysterious paper bag, which when opened, was shown to be filled with red clown noses, and one person at each table was given a kazoo. This enabled us to have a silly march around the room as the band played "When the Saints Go Marching In." What joy!
I hope my thoughts of Connor in our Capital District have made you smile, and I hope you know and believe that Connor is experiencing joy with all the saints today in God's eternal kingdom.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, January 27, 2014 11:45 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
Connor was thought of at church again this afternoon. I hope all is well with you and with all of your family.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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Today's Collect:
Almighty God, whose Son our Savior Jesus Christ is the light of the world: Grant that your people, illumined by your Word and Sacraments, may shine with the radiance of Christ's glory, that he may be known, worshipped, and obeyed to the ends of the earth; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who with you and the Holy Spirit lives and reigns, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
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Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, January 18, 2014 10:33 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
Connor was remembered in Holy Eucharist once again today. May your thoughts of your son be beautiful, comforting, hopeful, and sweet, and may all of your family join you in eager anticipation of your heavenly reunion.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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Today's Collect:
Father in heaven, who at the baptism of Jesus in the River Jordan proclaimed him your beloved Son and anointed him with the Holy Spirit: Grant that all who are baptized into his Name may keep the covenant they have made, and boldly confess him as Lord and Savior; who with you and the Holy Spirit lives and reigns, one God, in glory everlasting. Amen.
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Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, January 12, 2014 8:56 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I just want to remind you that I am thinking of you and remembering dear Connor. May your faith be strong and your hope high.
I hope you and those you love are staying warm and safe during this dark and cold month. A third of it is down, and we will soon me into the lighter time of February.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, January 10, 2014 9:52 AM CST
Glad Epiphany To All!
Dear Rhonda,
I hope the beginning of another work week and the feast that honors the sharing of the savior with all races and nationalities of people will find you well, happy, and motivated. My love and prayers are with you and with all of your family.
Below is the collect for today and the Upper Room Prayer for today. I like them both. I am also adding my favorite Epiphany hymn, one I have shared with you previously, but that has a good message for us all this year.
Grace, peace, love, and seeking endless possibilities,
~Colette
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Today's Collect:
O God, by the leading of a star you manifested your only Son to the peoples of the earth: Lead us, who know you now by faith, to your presence, where we may see your glory face to face; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer
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Prayer: O God, remind us that even though a situation may seem hopeless, you are the God of eternal possibilities. Amen.
~The Upper Room, January 6, 2014
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Over the Hill and Over the Dale
Over the hill and over the dale
Came three kings together
Caring naught for snow and hail
Cold and wind and weather
Now on Persia’s sandy plane
Now where Tigris swells with rain
They their camels tether
Now through Syrian lands they go
Now through Moab faint and slow
Now o’r Edam’s heather.
Over the hill and over the dale
Each king bears a present
Wise men go a child to hale
Monarchs seek a peasant
And in front a star proceeds
Over rocks and rivers leads
Shines with beams incessant
Therefore onward, onward still
Ford the stream and climb the hill
Love makes all things pleasant.
He is God ye go to meet
Therefore incense proffer
He is king ye go to greet
Gold is in your coffer
Also man he comes to share
Every woe that man can bear
Tempter, railer, scoffer
Therefore now against the day
In the grave when him they lay
Myrrh ye also offer.
Over the hill and over the dale,
Riding east together
Caring naught for snow and hail,
Naught for wind and weather
Warned by God from Herod’s door,
Each king turns for home once more
Hearts and footsteps lighter,
Now behind them shines the star
Which they followed from afar,
Shining ever brighter.
~By John Mason Neale (1818-1866)
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Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, January 6, 2014 10:09 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
After doing quite a bit of shoveling, many of us spent a quiet night just enjoying the colors, tastes, and sounds of the last days of Christmas. I hope you and your dear companion are safe, well, and happy at this time.
God bless you always, and God bless all of Connor's family, friends, and supporters.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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Christmas is a season of joy and charity. May God make you very rich in both.
~Phillips Brooks (adapted)
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Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, January 4, 2014 2:30 AM CST
Happy New Year To All!
Dear Rhonda,
I am sorry I was unable to sign Connor's Guest book yesterday. I have been busy with a long evening out on New Year's Eve and with my family for the day and the evening yesterday. However, Connor and you were in my thoughts and prayers. I hope you and your loved ones were able to share many good minutes, as well.
Below is a short prayer a friend sent to me today.
Grace, peace, love, and expectant longing,
~Colette
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O God, help me to lean toward the future with expectant longing for what you have in store for me and for all creation. Amen.
(Martin Copenhaver: Still Speaking Daily Devotions 12/28/13)
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Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, January 2, 2014 10:48 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
When I was at church for the Feast of the Holy Innocents, I thought of the boys of Bethlehem slaughtered by a fearful king, and I thought of Connor and many others, who have died of cancer and other awful illnesses. May all of those innocents rest in peace.
God bless you always, and God bless your golden sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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We remember today, O God, the slaughter of the holy innocents of Bethlehem by King Herod. Receive, we pray, into the arms of your mercy all innocent victims; and by your great might frustrate the designs of evil tyrants and establish your rule of justice, love, and peace; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
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Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, December 28, 2013 10:22 PM CST
Merry Christmas To All Of Connor's Loved Ones!
Dear Rhonda,
Connor was remembered in Holy Eucharist last night, and he will be remembered again in Eucharist this morning.
For today, I wish you a good time with people you love and confidence in the reality and in the goodness of the world to come. You will be seeing Connor and other loved ones again.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and the joy of Jesus,
~Colette
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Almighty God, you have given your only-begotten Son to take our nature upon him, and to be born this day of a pure virgin: Grant that we, who have been born again and made your children by adoption and grace, may daily be renewed by your Holy Spirit; through our Lord Jesus Christ, to whom with you and the same Spirit be honor and glory, now and for ever. Amen.
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Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, December 25, 2013 8:19 AM CST
Blessings To All On Christmas Eve!
Dear Rhonda,
Connor was in my thoughts on Sunday as we has a service of Advent Lessons and Carols, at St. George's and later in the day, when I joined a friend for a traditional Service of Nine Lessons and Carols, at Immaculate Conception Church, in Glenville. Both were truly prayerful and truly beautiful, and Connor would have loved the Christmas cookies and other treats.
Connor will be in my thoughts at Midnight Mass tonight. We start with a rich choral prelude and then Eucharist by candlelight with incense. My oldest insisted on attending this service as a five year old, as he wanted to hear the harp. I know Connor would find similar things to enjoy. May your thoughts of Connor be sweet and full of hope and joy.
God bless you always, and God bless all of Connor's friends, family, and fans.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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The Collect For Christmas Eve:
O God, you have caused this holy night to shine with the brightness of the true Light: Grant that we, who have known the mystery of that Light on earth, may also enjoy him perfectly in heaven; where with you and the Holy Spirit he lives and reigns, one God, in glory everlasting. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, December 24, 2013 12:04 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
Thank you for the beautiful card, with a picture of Connor. I have remembered Connor on this Fourth Sunday in Advent, in Holy Eucharist. You know I will never forget your sweet sunshine boy.
Later in the week, I hope you can celebrate a warm and wonderful Christmas with those you love. May your thoughts and memories of Connor be sweet, peaceful, and encouraging.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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Today's Collect:
Purify our conscience, Almighty God, by your daily visitation, that your Son Jesus Christ, at his coming, may find in us a mansion prepared for himself; who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
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Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, December 22, 2013 12:33 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
As always, I have remembered Connor once again in Holy Eucharist.
Below is a prayer you may like.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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An Advent Prayer
May the Lord indeed help us quiet our hearts and listen for His voice each day. May we diligently seek to know His presence, rather than allowing our anxious thoughts to distract us and may He tune our ears to hear His counsel. Lord Jesus, Master of both the light and the darkness, send your Holy Spirit upon our preparations for Christmas.
We who have so much to do seek quiet spaces to hear your voice each day.
We who are anxious over many things look forward to your coming among us.
We who are blessed in so many ways long for the complete joy of your kingdom.
We whose hearts are heavy seek the joy of your presence.
We are your people, walking in darkness, yet seeking the light, to you we say, “Come Lord Jesus!”
~by Henri J.M. Nouwen (1932-1996)
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Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, December 16, 2013 4:03 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
As we light the third candle in our Advent wreaths, the rose candle for JOY, I think of the joy that Connor brought to you, and I give thanks for it.
God bless you always, and God bless your golden sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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The Collect For The Third Sunday In Advent:
Stir up your power, O Lord, and with great might come among us; and, because we are sorely hindered by our sins, let your bountiful grace and mercy speedily help and deliver us; through Jesus Christ our Lord, to whom, with you and the Holy Spirit, be honor and glory, now and for ever. Amen.
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Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, December 14, 2013 9:20 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of the beautiful picture of Connor with Santa. I also thought of this picture several times on Friday, which was the Feast of St. Nicholas. May good memories of Christmases with your sunshine boy cheer you throughout this holy season.
God bless you always, and God bless all of your family.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, December 9, 2013 10:02 PM CST
Every word was once a poem.
~Ralph Waldo Emerson, writer and philosopher (1803-1882)
Dear Rhonda,
I just found this quotation in my email. Let the eternal Word, whose Advent we celebrate this month, be poetry in your soul, as you live in hope and joyfully await the day of your reunion with Connor.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, December 8, 2013 11:17 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I hope you and your family have been safe this week.
We are now lighting the second violet candle in our Advent wreaths. This candle symbolizes LOVE. What marvelous love there is between you and Connor! Let that love embrace, strengthen, and encourage you.
God bless you always, and God bless all those who love Connor.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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The Collect For The Second Sunday Of Advent:
Merciful God, who sent your messengers the prophets to preach repentance and prepare the way for our salvation: Give us grace to heed their warnings and forsake our sins, that we may greet with joy the coming of Jesus Christ our Redeemer; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 211
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, December 7, 2013 11:57 PM CST
I do think about Conner this time of year. I also pray for his very loving parents.
Keith Keebler Company <Unclekeith16@aol.com>
ALA - Friday, December 6, 2013 8:38 PM CST
Hey, Rhonda. Our toy drop off is next week at Vandy. This is our 13th year to donate toys to the hospital. Tristan has had many very rocky years but it is hard to believe his brain surgery was 13 years ago. He's been in and out of the hospital several times over the years. One time, we almost lost him that week. He would've been there on his 8th birthday. However, the doctor released him from Special Care at 8:00 pm the night before. That way he would wake up in his bed on his birthday morning. There are so many kind and special people there to care and love our children. Picking out gifts to donate to Vandy is one of my favorite Christmas activities. I can't believe you collected enough toys for a tractor trailer truck last year. That's amazing! I know Connor was laughing and yelling to his friends - that's my Mom!!! Good job Mama!
Lisa (Tristan's Mama)
Mount Juliet, TN USA - Friday, December 6, 2013 1:57 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
Although we have had a dusting to about two inches of snow on a few occasions this year, we may be getting our first major storm this weekend. It is supposed to come in in two waves with each section bringing in about four to five inches. This makes me think of Connor and of how much he enjoyed snow. I am sure you have favorite memories of Connor playing in the snow. May those those images put a smile on your face and gladden your heart as you await your awesome reunion with your dear sunshine boy.
God bless you always, and, of course, God bless Connor.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, December 5, 2013 11:23 PM CST
I thought of you and Connor today! <3
ChemoAngel Mary A. Taylor
Mary A. Taylor <butsie13@aol.com>
Essex, MD - Sunday, December 1, 2013 7:23 PM CST
Blessings On The First Sunday In Advent!
Dear Rhonda,
It does not seem possible that I am writing to you so soon about Advent. We light the first violet candle in our Advent wreaths today, the candle that represents HOPE. Perhaps more than any person I know, you know about hope. Scripture tells us that those who hope will not be disappointed, so continue to hope and to long for the day when you will be reunited with your wonderful sunshine boy. On that day, all shall be well.
This weekend, we are having a Toys for Tots Toy Collection in our development. One of our favorite restaurants, LT's, collected for the same today, with a fire engine in their parking lot. I know Connor is proud of the work you do to collect and donate toys in his name.
I love the picture you have posted on Connor's home page. Connor was a handsome boy, and he will appear handsome when you see him in heaven.
God bless you always, God bless your parents and family, and, of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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An Advent Prayer:
God of hope, you sent your son, Jesus Christ, into a world of fear to bring glad tidings of your love: turn our hearts from fear to hope and inspire us to share the Good News. Amen.
~A Forward Day By Day Prayer
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Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, December 1, 2013 1:32 AM CST
Blessings On The Feast Of St. Andrew!
Dear Rhonda,
In my family life and in my errands of the past few days, I have been thinking of Connor, knowing that you and Connor did many similar things. May memories of holidays, projects, and fun times, with your sunshine boy, bring you peace for today and hope for the future.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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The Collect For The Feast Of St. Andrew, The Apostle:
Almighty God, who gave such grace to your apostle Andrew that he readily obeyed the call of your Son Jesus Christ, and brought his brother with him: Give unto us, who are called by your Word, grace to follow him without delay, and to bring those near to us into his gracious presence; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 237
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, November 30, 2013 1:28 AM CST
Happy Thanksgiving To All!
Dear Rhonda,
I have been here, at Connor's website, three or four times this week, but I have been unable to sign. Thank you for the kind words you wrote on November 23. They touched my heart!
I thought of Connor a lot last weekend, as I told the story of Snake's Skin, at Word Plays, at Proctor's Theater. This is a deeply spiritual tale, which I mentioned in Connor's guest book on February 1. The story was well received.
I had a small turkey dinner with my grandson, Tavin, tonight. He loves turkey and all the trimmings, as I am sure Connor did. I expect to eat with Tavin again later in the weekend. Thank you for asking about him.
I hope you have some good family time this weekend. You are in my prayers this Thanksgiving Day morning.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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Here is a prayer from the Native American people of New York State, which Connor would like.
We return thanks to our mother, the earth,
which sustains us.
We return thanks to the rivers and streams,
which supply us with water.
We return thanks to all herbs, which furnish
medicines for the care of our diseases.
We return thanks to the corn, and to her sisters,
the beans and squash, which give us life.
We return thanks to the bushes and trees,
which provide us with fruit.
We return thanks to the wind,
which, moving the air, has banished diseases.
We return thanks to the moon and stars,
which have given us their light when the sun was gone.
We return thanks to the sun, that has looked upon
the earth with a beneficent eye.
Lastly, we return thanks to the Great Spirit,
in whom is embodied all goodness, and who
directs all things for the good of all creation.
~An Iroquois Prayer
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, November 28, 2013 4:42 AM CST
Thank you, my sweet friend, Colette, for your beautiful entries into Connor's guest book. You are such an amazing lady and wonderful example. I hope your grand baby is doing well. :) I love you!
Connor's Mom <Rhonda.hunley@yahoo.com>
Gallatin, TN USA - Saturday, November 23, 2013 8:16 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I have been thinking about both you and Connor a lot today. Someone was telling me about her cat, and that made me think about Connor and Zoe. A friend and I had a simple supper in a bagel shop, and that made me think about how much Connor enjoyed good food. Finally, I have been working on a story to tell at a local theater later this month, and that made me think of how much boys enjoy hearing stories. I hope you continue to find things that bring you close to Connor and that those things bring you peace.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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The Collect For Elizabeth Of Hungary, Princess And Philanthropist, 19 November 1231:
Almighty God, by your grace your servant Elizabeth of Hungary recognized and honored Jesus in the poor of this world: Grant that we, following her example, may with love and gladness serve those in any need or trouble, in the name and for the sake of Jesus Christ, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Not far from our home, St. Elizabeth Hospital, which has served the poor since 1861, is located in Utica. Its foundress, Marianne Cope, who also founded St. Joseph Hospital, in Syracuse, was canonized by the Roman Catholic Church, last October.
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Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, November 19, 2013 2:07 AM CST
I love you Rhonda. I have been reading Connor's story today, and it continues to touch my heart. LaDonna
LaDonna
Nashville, TN USA - Monday, November 18, 2013 7:48 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
Once again, Connor has been remembered in Holy Eucharist. May God bless his sweet spirit!
Below is a thought on thanking, which may be of help to you.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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Thanking is
a true understanding of
who we really are.
With reverence and awe
we turn ourselves around
towards the working
that our good Lord incites us
to do,
enjoying and thanking
with our real selves.
True thanking is
to enjoy God.
~Julian of Norwich
(version by Brendan Doyle)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, November 16, 2013 11:51 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I have just viewed Connor's pictures as I often do. He was so handsome!
Connor was in my thoughts at church on Sunday morning when we celebrated our Scottish history. As always, the service was beautiful and impressive, and the pipe band was loud. I also thought of him Sunday afternoon, at Tellabration, and later when a group of us went out for Chinese food. If I, a member of Connor's support team, think of him often several times a day, I can only imagine the number of times you think of your sweet sunshine boy. Connor is clearly not forgotten, and he is clearly loved.
God bless you always, and God bless your handsome sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, November 11, 2013 2:27 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I continue to think of Connor often. One time was last Sunday when our fourth graders, at St. George's, presented their saint costumes, shields, and stories. This year, of course, we had the ever popular St. Dominic, with a dog on his shield, and also Joan of Arc, Anne, Catherine, and several others. I thought it was neat that children portrayed saints that appeal to them, no matter what the gender. My friend's little boy, Luke, for example, was Joan of Arc, and two different girls were Dominic, each making the dog with different style ears.
I also thought of Connor today while eating ice cream and cake with a little one, who is very dear to me.
I hope this note finds you well. You are often in my prayers.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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Here is something that was in my email a couple of days ago, which I thought you might like.
Whenever there is a problem, repeat over and over:
All is well.
Everything is working out for my highest good.
Out of this situation only good will come.
I am safe.
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Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, November 9, 2013 11:20 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
Connor was remembered during the Church Women United World Community Day, at St. Stephen's Episcopal Church, in Schenectady, on Friday morning, and at the All Saint's Day service, at St. George's Episcopal Church, in Clifton Park, on Friday night. He is in my thoughts early this morning, All Soul's Day. May God bless his sweet spirit, and may God bless you and all those that Connor loved.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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Litany Of Remembrance (We Remember And Give Thanks)
Leader: Those who live no more are with us still in our thoughts and in our words. Who they are and what they did will always be a part of us and what we have become at this moment.
At the rising of the sun, and at its going down, we remember them, and we give thanks.
In the drizzle of the rain, and in the singing of the brook, we remember them, and we give thanks.
On the dark days, on the cloudy days, and on the brilliant days, we remember them, and we give thanks.
At the rustling of the leaves, and in the beauty of autumn, we remember them, and we give thanks.
At the beginning of the year, and when it ends, we remember them, and we give thanks.
When we are weary and in need of strength, we remember them, and we give thanks.
When we have joys we crave to share, we remember them, and we give thanks.
When we have decisions that are difficult to make, we remember them, and we give thanks.
When we have achievements that are based on theirs, we remember them, and we give thanks.
As long as we live, they too, will live; for they are now a part of us, and always we remember them, and we give thanks.
Closing Prayer: Loving God, may I take on the mind and heart of Christ, that I may continue to hear your call for my life and embrace your world through my prayer, my work, and my life with others, in Jesus Christ. Amen.
Source: The Dominican Retreat House, Niskayuna, NY, in 2010
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Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, November 2, 2013 2:43 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
A candle burns for Connor at Barbara Crafton's Geranium Farm. Here is a copy of the candle.
Grace and peace,
~Colette
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+ This candle is for Connor Jordan Hunley from Tennessee +
for Connor on the ninth anniversary of his passing into eternal life and for comfort and peace for his mother, Rhonda
~ this candle was lit by Colette from New York
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Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, November 1, 2013 2:14 AM CDT
Blessed Feast Of All Saints!
Dear Rhonda,
I know today is a hard anniversary for you and for all those in Connor's family. May it help, just a little, to know that today is the day when many think of all the large saints, who served God in their generations; when children dress as these apostles, leaders, and martyrs; and when many are in church. May it also help to know that I am praying for you.
Yesterday, I heard from Kim, one of Connor's friends, who was trying to leave you a message, but could not, as she was having difficulty with the guest book. Connor is loved and missed nine years after his passing.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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A Favorite Hymn For All Saints' Day:
I sing a song of the saints of God,
Patient and brave and true,
Who toiled and fought and lived and died
For the Lord they loved and knew.
And one was a doctor, (Luke)
And one was a queen, (Margaret of Scotland)
And one was a shepherdess on the green: (Joan of Arc)
They were all of them saints of God—and I mean,
God helping, to be one too.
They loved their Lord so dear, so dear,
And his love made them strong;
And they followed the right, for Jesus’ sake,
The whole of their good lives long.
And one was a soldier, (Martin of Tours)
And one was a priest, (John Donne)
And one was slain by a fierce wild beast: (Ignatius)
And there’s not any reason—no, not the least,
Why I shouldn’t be one too.
They lived not only in ages past,
There are hundreds of thousands still,
The world is bright with the joyous saints
Who love to do Jesus’ will.
You can meet them in school, or
In lanes, or at sea,
In church, or in trains, or in shops, or at tea,
For the saints of God are just folk like me,
And I mean to be one too.
Lyrics: Mrs. L.L. (Locket) Scott, (1898-1986) 1929, Written For Her Own Children. She married John Mortimer Scott, a naval officer, who later became an Anglican priest and served a parish near Dartmoor.
Music: Grand Isle, By Father John Henry Hopkins (1861-1945), Tune Written For The Hymnal 1940
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All Saints Prayer By The Eighth Bishop Of Albany (Episcopal):
LORD JESUS, as your Saints glorified you by their lives in their day, so let our lives glorify you now: fill us with the gifts of faith, hope and charity, and foster in us the fruits of your Holy Spirit; strengthened by the fellowship of all your Saints, and aided by their prayers, may we seek after all virtuous and godly living. Amen.
~Daniel William Herzog
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Know that Connor's love for you continues, that Connor is safe with God and with all the company of heaven, and that you will see Connor again.
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Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, November 1, 2013 0:52 AM CDT
Happy 19th Birthday Connor! Love you and miss you. You will always be in my heart. You inspired me beyond words. Thanks for the sign today!
Kathy M.
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Thursday, October 31, 2013 9:04 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I have an appointment, so I am hurrying to get there, but I did want to sign Connor's guest book on his nineteenth birthday. Both you and Connor are in my thoughts and prayers this Halloween.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, October 31, 2013 10:03 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Today is Cheyenne Fiveash's anniversary, and Friday is Connor's. I always think of both of these kids as we approach Halloween. I love the fact that Connor's birthday was on Halloween and that you haved posted his first Halloween picture. May your memories of sweet Connor be peaceful and sustaining. If I can be of some specific help to you, please let me know.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, October 30, 2013 1:47 PM CDT
thinking of you love you and you know you are in my prayers always.
Sharon <sholweger5@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, October 30, 2013 12:51 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
When you can, let me know how you are and how I can best pray for you and for your family.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, October 14, 2013 11:17 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I hope you had a wonderful birthday. I have thought of you several times this week.
Today, the Feast of St. Francis, is a perfect time to remember your little animal doctor, Connor. Perhaps they are together this morning enjoying the animals of heaven.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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Blessed are you, Lord God, maker of all living creatures. On the fifth and sixth days of creation, you called forth fish in the sea, birds in the air and animals on the land. You inspired St. Francis to call all of them his brothers and sisters. We ask you to bless the animals and all living creatures. By the power of your love, enable them to live according to your plan. May we always praise you for all your beauty in creation. Blessed are you, Lord our God, in all your creatures! Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, October 4, 2013 3:20 AM CDT
It's Birthday Eve, Rhonda!
Dear Rhonda,
A few hours before your birthday, I am here to send you good wishes for a happy day. I hope you can celebrate, in health, by doing something you will really enjoy.
God bless you always, and God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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Watch over your child, Rhonda, O Lord, as her days increase; bless and guide her wherever she may be. Strengthen her when she stands; comfort her when discouraged or sorrowful; raise her up if she fall; and in her heart may your peace which passes understanding abide all the days of her life; through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.
~Tradional Birthday Prayer: The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 811
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Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, September 30, 2013 8:18 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Earlier today, I thought of Connor and his potato gun. Our little Tavin has a robot that shoots. How boys enjoy active toys! Connor always made you, and many others, smile. What a great gift that was! May your thoughts, this week, of your sweet sunshine boy be peaceful and sweet.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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Sunday's Collect (A Favorite):
Grant us, Lord, not to be anxious about earthly things, but to love things heavenly; and even now, while we are placed among things that are passing away, to hold fast to those that shall endure; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, September 23, 2013 5:00 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I have thought of your sweet sunshine boy several times in recent days. Once was while our family watched our beloved Bills pull off an exciting win in the last minute of play yesterday. My menfolks made a great deal of noise shouting, punching the air, and jumping up and down. This made me recall what a huge fan of the Titans Connor was. One of the other times was at a Running the River Coffee House last night. I think Connor would have especially enjoyed the TV western theme song medley which included Johnny Yuma, Palladin, and Rawhide. I think Connor would have enjoyed all of the Beatles songs, the Irish, Southern, and original fiddle tunes, and the great snacks, too. Connor will never be forgotten.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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Today's Collect:
God, who by the preaching of your blessed servant and bishop Ninian caused the light of the Gospel to shine in the land of Britain: Grant, we pray, that, having his life and labors in remembrance, we may show our thankfulness by following the example of his zeal and patience; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, September 16, 2013 12:57 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Today was our parish picnic. I thought about Connor as I enjoyed a plate of grilled meat and salads. May God bless his sweet spirit.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, September 8, 2013 6:41 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
As I observed busses bringing kids home from school today, I thought of Connor. He will always be safe, happy, and close to God awaiting the day of your reunion with him. What a glad day that will be!
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, September 4, 2013 4:08 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Connor was remembered once again in Holy Eucharist. After church, while doing some errands, I stopped at De Voe's summer food stand and purchased a sandwich, an ear of their own sweet corn, and a dish of lemon ice cream. As I ate, I thought of your sunshine boy and how much he would enjoy the day, the atmosphere, and the treats. Connor could have had any meal he wanted.
I hope this entry finds you safe, well, and doing things you enjoy.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, September 3, 2013 1:03 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
As another work week begins, I am thinking of you and of sweet Connor. May God bless you both.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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The Collect For The Commemoration Of Florence Nightingale, Nurse And Reformer, 12 August 1910:
Life-giving God, who alone have power over life and death, over health and sickness: Give power, wisdom, and gentleness to those who follow the lead of your servant Florence Nightingale, that they, bearing with them your presence, may not only heal but bless, and shine as lanterns of hope in the darkest hours of pain and fear; through Jesus Christ, the healer of body and soul, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
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Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, August 12, 2013 1:05 AM CDT
Oh heart, if one should say to you that the soul perishes like the body, answer that the flower withers, but the seed remains.
~Kahlil Gibran
Dear Rhonda,
I thought of you when I saw this quotation. Do know that I continue to remember Connor with great love and deep respect. May God bless his sweet spirit.
God bless you always, and God bless all those who knew and loved your sunshine boy.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, August 5, 2013 3:24 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
On this, The Feast Of St. James, I remembered Connor in Holy Eucharist as I so often do. James is a very special saint to me as one of my boys used this name as his Confirmation name. Below is one hymn often sung on this day.
God bless you always, and God bless all of Connor's many family members, friends, and fans. My thoughts and prayers are with you and with your loved ones tonight.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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By all your saints still striving, for all your saints at rest,
Your holy Name, O Jesus. for evermore be blessed.
You rose, our King victorious, that they might wear the crown
And ever shine in splendor reflected from your throne.
O Lord, for James, we praise you, who fell to Herod's sword.
He drank the cup of suffering and thus fulfilled your word.
Lord, curb our vain impatience for glory and for fame,
Equip us for such sufferings as glorify your Name.
Then let us praise the Father and worship God the Son
And sing to God the Spirit, eternal Three in One,
Till all the ransomed number who stand before the throne
Ascribe all power and glory and praise to God alone.
Words: Horatio Bolton Nelson (1823-1913); ver. Hymnal, 1982
Music: King's Lynn, English melody; adapt. Ralph Vaughan Williams (1872-1958)
or Nyland, Finnish folk melody; adapt. David Evans (1874-1948)
Hear Nyland at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/b/b209a.html
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Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, July 25, 2013 9:09 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Once again, Connor was remembered in Holy Eucharist this past weekend.
While I was out today, I drove past both Guptil's and De Voe's ice cream stands. It was early, so Guptil's was not yet open, but I thought of Connor as I drove near those summer eateries. If he were here, he could have had any cool treat of his choice, and we could also bring a box of ice cream home.
God bless your sweet sunshine boy, and God bless you.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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Today's Collect:
Almighty God, whose blessed Son restored Mary Magdalene to health of body and of mind, and called her to be a witness of his resurrection: Mercifully grant that by your grace we may be healed from all our infirmities and know you in the power of his unending life; who with you and the Holy Spirit lives and reigns, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, July 22, 2013 4:42 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I hope you and all of your loved ones are safe, cool, and comfortable in this very hot, humid weather. I also hope you did not suffer any losses during the flooding earlier this month.
As always, I am remembering Connor with a big smile in my heart.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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Today's Collect:
God of the Covenant and Lord of the Exodus, by the hand of Moses you delivered your chosen people from cruel enslavement: We give you thanks for Raoul Wallenberg and all those Righteous Gentiles who with compassion, courage and resourcefulness rescued thousands of your children from certain death. Grant that, in the power of your Spirit, we may protect the innocent of every race and creed in the Name of Jesus Christ, strong Deliverer of us all; who with you and the Holy Spirit lives and reigns, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
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Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, July 16, 2013 8:54 PM CDT
Happy Fourth Of July To All!
Dear Rhonda,
On this major national holiday, I am thinking of you and remembering your smiley son, Connor. If he were here, I am sure Connor would be helping with a clam bake, barbecue, picnic, or fireworks party. May your memories of Connor be sweet today and throughout this patriotic weekend.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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The Collect For Independence Day:
Lord God Almighty, in whose Name the founders of this country won liberty for themselves and for us, and lit the torch of freedom for nations then unborn: Grant that we and all the people of this land may have grace to maintain our liberties in righteousness and peace; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, July 4, 2013 4:11 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of you and remembering Connor at the beginning of another month. I am sorry I did not get here on the first, but there was a lot of storm activity in this area on Monday night, when I wanted to visit Connor's website.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, July 2, 2013 3:50 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
This piece of wisdom was in email I received from the Colettines today. May its message help you.
Trust above all things that God knows best no matter how incomprehensible it may seem to us.
You remain in my thoughts and prayers.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, June 29, 2013 1:55 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
On a hot, humid weekend, I just want to say that I am continuing to remember Connor beneath the Jesus and the Children stained glass window. God bless him, and God bless you.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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Today's Collect:
O Lord, make us have perpetual love and reverence for your holy Name, for you never fail to help and govern those whom you have set upon the sure foundation of your lovingkindness; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, June 23, 2013 3:26 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I had an opportunity to contribute some money for the Rally for Life, while shopping at Price Chopper today. As I dropped the money into the kettle, I thought of Connor, Cheyenne, Richie, Jason, Jacob, Ian, Justin, Jeffrey, Jeffery, and several others. May you and all of the other families know today that these young heroes are not forgotten.
As summer starts in a few hours, may you be peaceful and encouraged.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, June 20, 2013 1:25 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
As the school year wraps up here in Saratoga County, I think of your dear Connor, who would already be out for the summer. I saw a group of about twelve teens walking to Panara Bread as they apparently left school after NYS testing this noon. No doubt, Connor would be enjoying his bicycle, skates, go-cart, friends, and pets. May you be blessed as you remember good summer experiences with your sweet sunshine boy.
God bless you always, and God bless all of Connor's relatives, friends, and supporters.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, June 18, 2013 1:24 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Yesterday, when driving past Niskayuna High School, I saw a banner for the Rally for Life, while is tonight. Of course, this made me think of Connor, as many things do. May God always bless your dear sunshine boy.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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The Collect For Basil The Great, Theologian, 379
Almighty God, who has revealed to your Church your eternal Being of glorious majesty and perfect love as one God in Trinity of Persons: Give us grace that, like your bishop Basil of Caesarea, we may continue steadfast in the confession of this faith, and constant in our worship of you, Father, Son, and Holy Spirit; who live and reign for ever and ever. Amen.
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Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, June 14, 2013 7:33 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Connor has been remembered in Holy Eucharist once again. Your sunshine boy is often in my thoughts and prayers.
God bless you, and God bless Connor.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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Today's Collect:
O God, from whom all good proceeds: Grant that by your inspiration we may think those things that are right, and by your merciful guiding may do them; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, June 9, 2013 10:51 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
When I saw this little essay on hands in my email, I thought of you. We all need to note the last paragraph often on a daily basis.
God bless you, and God bless your sweet sunshine boy, who is well and safe in God's ample hands.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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Hands!
A basketball in my hands is worth about $19.
A basketball in Michael Jordan's hands is worth about $33 million.
It depends whose hands it's in.
A baseball in my hands is worth about $6.
A baseball in Roger Clemens' hands is worth $475 million.
It depends on whose hands it's in.
A tennis racket is useless in my hands.
A tennis racket in Andre Agassi's hands is worth millions.
It depends whose hands it's in.
A rod in my hands will keep away an angry dog
A rod in Moses' hands will part the mighty sea.
It depends whose hands it's in.
A slingshot in my hands is a kid's toy.
A slingshot in David's hand is a mighty weapon.
It depends whose hands it's in.
Two fish and 5 loaves of bread in my hands is a couple of fish sandwiches.
Two fish and 5 loaves of bread in Jesus' hands will feed thousands.
It depends whose hands it's in.
Nails in my hands might produce a birdhouse.
Nails in Jesus Christ's hands will
Produce salvation for the entire world.
It depends whose hands it's in.
As you see now, it depends whose hands it's in.
So put your concerns, your worries, your fears, your hopes, your dreams, your families, and your relationships in God's hands because...
It depends whose hands it's in.
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Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, June 6, 2013 11:26 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
This verse from today's lectionary readings relates to Connor. Revelation 14:13 - And I heard a voice from heaven saying, ‘Write this: Blessed are the dead who from now on die in the Lord.’ ‘Yes,’ says the Spirit, ‘they will rest from their labours, for their deeds follow them.’
God bless Connor's sweet spirit, and God bless you.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, June 6, 2013 2:02 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I have been here at least five times, since I last wrote. I often feel that I have some words that may be helpful to you, but I have been blank each time I have intended to leave a message.
Someone showed me the short essay, "My Shoes." In a perfect world, you and all the other mothers who have lost a child to pediatric cancer, and all of the Gold Star Mothers, would not have had to suffer, but that is not how the real world is. In a perfect world, God's unique and beloved son would not have had to suffer, but he did, and through his redeeming work, we all can have eternal life. May you find strength and comfort in this fact, which I know you know, today. May what you know, be fresh, strong, hopeful, and redeeming in your heart. May you rest your head and your heart in God's ample arms of grace, comfort, peace, and love.
God bless you always, and God bless all those who surround you with care and love.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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Nothing loved is ever lost or perished.
~Madeleine L'Engle, in A Ring of Endless Light, Newberry Honor Book
If you haven't read L'Engle, maybe it is time to try. She has written over 50 books, and many of them can be found in most libraries.
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Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, June 4, 2013 0:40 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
This is a short school week, but no doubt a busy week for faculty and staff. At Connor's elementary school, a committee is probably still seeking a suitable recipient for the Connor J. Hunley Award. Perhaps you or your mother can attend the ceremony and present the award. May those, who knew Connor, delight to hear his name mentioned one more time at Goodlettsville Elementary School.
God bless you always, and God bless your dear sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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Here is an appropriate quote, which was in my email today.
I don't know what your destiny will be, but one thing I do know: the only ones among you who will be really happy are those who have sought and found how to serve.
~Albert Schweitzer, philosopher, physician, musician, Nobel laureate (1875-1965)
At a tender age, Connor knew how to serve. What an example he has been to many, many people!
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Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, May 28, 2013 1:53 PM CDT
Blessings On Memorial Day!
Dear Rhonda,
Due to the weather, I did not attend a Memorial Day Parade, Clam Bake, Barbecue, or Picnic this year. However, for some reason, I remembered the year, in late elementary school, when I was chosen to carry the American Flag next to a girl carrying the Girl Scout Flag. I also remember marching in a variety of patriotic parades with my boys. Perhaps you and Connor marched as well. I am sure you have many remembrances of your golden boy during spring holidays. May some of those memories comfort, strengthen, and encourage you this week.
Maybe you had some barbecued or fried chicken today, or perhaps a juicy steak, a sausage sandwich, ribs, hamburgers and hotdogs, or some grilled salmon. I hope so. I also hope this weekend is launching you into a good summer season.
God bless you always, and God bless all of your loved ones.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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O Judge of the nations, we remember before you with grateful hearts the men and women of our country who in the day of decision ventured much for the liberties we now enjoy. Grant that we may not rest until all the people of this land share the benefits of true freedom and gladly accept its disciplines. This we ask in the Name of Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 839
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, May 27, 2013 5:33 PM CDT
Blessings To All On Trinity Sunday!
Dear Rhonda,
Once again, you have been remembered in Eucharist. Because of the rain, after church, we went to Ruby Tuesdays for lunch. It has been months since I have had such lovely tomatoes! Their deep red color and fresh, sweet taste makes me long for summer. Connor would have definitely enjoyed that great salad bar!
I hope you can enjoy a parade or a family activity tomorrow and that you will have a good week. God bless you and all of your loved ones.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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The Collect For Trinity Sunday:
Almighty and everlasting God, you have given to us your servants grace, by the confession of a true faith, to acknowledge the glory of the eternal Trinity, and in the power of your divine Majesty to worship the Unity: Keep us steadfast in this faith and worship, and bring us at last to see you in your one and eternal glory, O Father; who with the Son and the Holy Spirit live and reign, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, May 26, 2013 9:54 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Once again, Connor was remembered in Holy Eucharist this afternoon. May God always bless you, your sweet sunshine boy, and your complete family.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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The Collect For The Venerable Bede, Priest, Monk, and Scholar (25 May 735):
Heavenly Father, who called your servant Bede, while still a child, to devote his life to your service in the disciplines of religion and scholarship: Grant that as he labored in the Spirit to bring the riches of your truth to his generation, so we, in our various vocations, may strive to make you known in all the world; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, May 25, 2013 8:39 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda and Family,
This is just a little note to let you know I am thinking of you all at Memorial Day.
I once had a prayer card, which said, "Those who love God never meet for the last time." It was from the nuns at All Saints Convent, Catonsville, Maryland. I know you know that this is true.
God bless you all.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
Colette
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Father of all, we pray to you for those we love, but see no
longer: Grant them your peace; let light perpetual shine upon
them; and, in your loving wisdom and almighty power, work
in them the good purpose of your perfect will; through Jesus
Christ our Lord. Amen.
The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 504
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Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, May 24, 2013 5:56 PM CDT
Happy Pentecost To All!
Dear Rhonda,
As always, I think of your dear Connor on important days. I am sure Connor would have enjoyed the color, pageantry, and rich music of this day. May God bless his sweet spirit.
God bless you always, and God bless all of Connor's family, friends, and supporters.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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Almighty God, on this day you opened the way of eternal life to every race and nation by the promised gift of your Holy Spirit: Shed abroad this gift throughout the world by the preaching of the Gospel, that it may reach to the ends of the earth; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, May 19, 2013 1:21 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I will return on Sunday if I have a chance, but I do want to wish you a blessed Pentecost. I can picture Connor in a red shirt and an attractive tie, or maybe in a red suit coat to mark the day. May you have a beautiful vision of your sunshine boy.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, May 18, 2013 1:54 AM CDT
Blessed Ascension Sunday, And Happy Mother's Day To All!
Dear Rhonda,
I have thought of you and of your golden boy, Connor, often this weekend. I am praying hard for your peace of mind and peace of heart on a day that must be bittersweet for you. May God bless you and give your assurance, hope, and happy memories throughout the week. I wish all of the women in your family blessings on this day of honoring mothers, as well.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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The Collect For The Seventh Sunday In Easter (Ascension Sunday):
O God, the King of glory, you have exalted your only Son Jesus Christ with great triumph to your kingdom in heaven: Do not leave us comfortless, but send us your Holy Spirit to strengthen us, and exalt us to that place where our Savior Christ has gone before; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, in glory everlasting. Amen.
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A Hymn For Ascension:
Hail the day that sees him rise, Alleluia!
Glorious to his native his skies; Alleluia!
Christ awhile to mortals given, Alleluia!
Enters now the highest heaven! Alleluia!
There the glorious triumph waits; Alleluia!
Lift your heads, eternal gates! Alleluia!
Wide unfold the radiant scene; Alleluia!
Take the King of glory in! Alleluia!
See! he lifts his hands above; Alleluia!
See! he shows the prints of love: Alleluia!
Hark! his gracious lips bestow, Alleluia!
Blessings on his Church below. Alleluia!
Lord beyond our mortal sight, Alleluia!
Raise our hearts to reach thy height, Alleluia!
There thy face unclouded see, Alleluia!
Find our heaven of heavens in thee, Alleluia!
Words: Charles Wesley (1707-1788), 1739
Music: Llanfair By Robert Williams (1781-1821)
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/h/h025.html
Grateful. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, May 12, 2013 6:16 PM CDT
Rhonda,
I'm thinking about you and your sweet son today. You are an amazing mother and Connor has always been so proud of you. You are the love of his life. I will be praying extra hard for you today.
Lisa
Mount Juliet, TN USA - Sunday, May 12, 2013 8:06 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
As usual, I have thought of Connor several times this weekend. May God bless his sweet spirit.
I hope you, and all of Connor's loved ones, are well.
God bless you this Rogation Day and always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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The Collect For The Sixth Sunday Of Easter:
O God, you have prepared for those who love you such good things as surpass our understanding: Pour into our hearts such love towards you, that we, loving you in all things and above all things, may obtain your promises, which exceed all that we can desire; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
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Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, May 5, 2013 11:50 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
As you mark eight and a half years since the departure of Connor for heaven, I am sorry I could not get here earlier. Both of you have been in my thoughts many times today. God bless you always, and God bless all of Connor's many loved ones.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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The Collect For Philip And James, Apostles (May 1):
Almighty God, who gave to your apostles Philip and James grace and strength to bear witness to the truth: Grant that we, being mindful of their victory of faith, may glorify in life and death the Name of our Lord Jesus Christ; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, May 1, 2013 10:50 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Last night, I waved a young bicyclist through an intersection, the first child cyclist I have seen this spring. This morning, I discovered that my cherry tree is finally budding. We are having a very late spring, but we are having one, now, over a month past the official beginning of the season. I am sure you have many spring memories of Connor on his bicycle, driving a relative's tractor, playing outside with his pets, and whizzing in his go-cart. May those memories, and others, flood you with joy today.
God bless you always, and God bless all of Connor's many friends, relatives, and supporters. He is dear to us all.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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Today's Collect (For St. Mark, The Evangelist):
Almighty God, by the hand of Mark the evangelist you have given to your Church the Gospel of Jesus Christ the Son of God: We thank you for this witness, and pray that we may be firmly grounded in its truth; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, April 25, 2013 1:30 PM CDT
Blessings To All On The Feast Of St. George!
Dear Rhonda,
For many years, our parish of St. George's, had a family festival on the Sunday afternoon nearest to St. George Day. The heart of the festival was a St. George and the Dragon Pageant, but refreshments were also served. When Andrew was small, one particularly exuberant St. George kicked the dragon's cave in a very noisy way, causing young Andrew to cry. A cookie quickly calmed those tears and brought a smile back to Andrew's face. Perhaps Connor and you also attended a St. George Pageant, or maybe you attended a children's science demonstration, a puppet show, or a Sesame Street Presentation. May good memories of Connor at the performance bring you peace and joy today.
Please know that I am praying for you at the close of this St. George Day and that I prayed for you Sunday at St. George's. God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley. We will both hug him in heaven.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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Hymn With Reference To St. George:
Tune Used With Eternal Father Strong To Save, #608, The Hymnal 1982
Lord God of Hosts, Within Whose Hand
Lord God of hosts, within whose hand
dominion rests on sea and land,
before whose word of life or death
the strength of nations is but breath:
O King, enthroned all thrones above,
give strength unto the land we love.
Thou Breath of Life since time began,
breathing upon the lips of man,
hast taught each kindred race to raise
united word to sound thy praise:
so, in this land, join, we beseech,
all hearts and lips in single speech.
To George our Saint thou gavest grace
without one fear all foes to face,
and to confess by faithful death
that Word of Life which was his breath.
O help us, Helper of Saint George,
to fear no bonds that man can forge.
Arm us like him, who in thy trust
beat down the dragon to the dust;
so that we too may tread down sin
and with thy saints a crown may win.
Help us, O God, that we may be
a land acceptable to thee.
Words: Laurence Housman, 1906
Music: Melita, by John Bacchus Dykes (1823-1876)
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/l/l277.html
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Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, April 23, 2013 11:36 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Connor was in my thoughts yesterday, as I approached the altar rail facing the Jesus and the Children stained glass window. May God always bless, hold, and keep your sweet sunshine boy, and may you know that you will be reunited with Connor one day.
Today's saint is Anselm. Below is one of his hymns, which I like, as it speaks of healing, and the collect.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
A Song Of St. Anselm:
Jesus, as a mother you gather your people to you:
you are gentle with us as a mother with her children;
Often you weep over our sins and our pride:
tenderly you draw us from hatred and judgement.
You comfort us in sorrow and bind up our wounds:
in sickness you nurse us,
and with pure milk you feed us.
Jesus, by your dying we are born to new life:
by your anguish and labour we come forth in joy.
Despair turns to hope through your sweet goodness:
through your gentleness we find comfort in fear.
Your warmth gives life to the dead:
your touch makes sinners righteous.
Lord Jesus, in your mercy heal us:
in your love and tenderness remake us.
In your compassion bring grace and forgiveness:
for the beauty of heaven may your love prepare us.
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The Collect For Anselm Of Canterbury, Monk, Archbishop, Theologian, 21 April 1109:
Almighty God, who raised up your servant Anselm to teach the Church of his day to understand its faith in your eternal Being, perfect justice, and saving mercy: Provide your Church in every age with devout and learned scholars and teachers, that we may be able to give a reason for the hope that is in us; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, April 22, 2013 4:39 AM CDT
Gratitude makes sense of our past, brings peace for today, and creates a vision for tomorrow. Gratitude unlocks the fullness of life. It turns what we have into enough, and more. It turns denial into acceptance, chaos to order, confusion to clarity. It can turn a meal into a feast, a house into a home, a stranger into a friend.
~Melody Beattie, American writer (b. 1948)
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Dear Rhonda,
I have been thinking of this quote a lot this week, so I thought I would share it with you. Right now, I am pausing, here at my keyboard, to pray for several, including you. May God bless you all.
Our area was hit with sleet, freezing rain, and wet snow last night. It is not too bad here, but we understand the commuting conditions are bad this morning. Since we are over a third of the way through April, we hope to see the grass green up and some spring blooms soon.
Take good care of yourself and know that you and your sweet sunshine boy remain in my loving thoughts and frequent prayers.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, April 12, 2013 7:18 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
It is snowing rather hard here this morning. We already have an inch on the ground. I bet if your dear sunshine boy was here, he would take the opportunity to make a few snowballs while the making is possible.
I am praying this morning for a friend's daughter, who is a young mother. She is having cancer surgery in about a half hour. I certainly hate this disease.
God bless you always, and God bless all of your beautiful family.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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The Collect For The Tuesday In Easter Week:
O God, who by the glorious resurrection of your Son Jesus Christ destroyed death and brought life and immortality to light: Grant that we, who have been raised with him, may abide in his presence and rejoice in the hope of eternal glory; through Jesus Christ our Lord, to whom, with you and the Holy Spirit, be dominion and praise for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, April 2, 2013 9:01 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
It is snowing rather hard here this morning. We already have an inch on the ground. I bet if your dear sunshine boy was here, he would take the opportunity to make a few snowballs while the making is possible.
I am praying this morning for a friend's daughter, who is a young mother. She is having cancer surgery in about a half hour. I certainly hate this disease.
God bless you always, and God bless all of your beautiful family.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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The Collect For The Tuesday In Easter Week:
O God, who by the glorious resurrection of your Son Jesus Christ destroyed death and brought life and immortality to light: Grant that we, who have been raised with him, may abide in his presence and rejoice in the hope of eternal glory; through Jesus Christ our Lord, to whom, with you and the Holy Spirit, be dominion and praise for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, April 2, 2013 9:01 AM CDT
Easter Blessings To All!
Dear Rhonda,
Connor was remembered at St. George's both at the Great Vigil of Easter and at an Easter service this morning. Connor is never out of thought when I am in the beauty of holiness.
I hope you are having a happy day with those you love.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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An Easter Collect:
Almighty God, who through your only-begotten Son Jesus Christ overcame death and opened to us the gate of everlasting life: Grant that we, who celebrate with joy the day of the Lord's resurrection, may be raised from the death of sin by your life-giving Spirit; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, March 31, 2013 1:05 PM CDT
Holy Saturday Night
Dear Rhonda,
I thought of you when I reread this poem by Barbara Crafton earlier today, but I did not have time to share it with you then. I know you will relate to it.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless sweet Connor.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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Mother, this is your son
This is not my son.
You are my son.
This is my son's friend.
He is about your age.
He is strong and vital, as you were.
just this morning.
before they began to do
what they are doing to you now,
Before they drove nails into your hands
as if they were blocks of wood,
before this happened to my baby.
Now, we stand and watch,
your best friend and I.
I cannot bear to see,
but neither can I bear to leave.
And neither can he. And so, I do love him.
I love him for staying.
So I will not argue with you now
about this.
I won't allow our last talk
to be an argument.
I want so much to help you get through
this it tastes like blood in my mouth.
And there isn't anything else I can do
to help you since they won't let me come
near you, let alone touch you.
They won't even let me give you a drink.
I can't even brush your hair
out of your eyes.
You are going quickly now.
This cannot last much longer.
So all right. When this is over,
it will be John and I.
I will love him,
because he will remember you.
And you will be
all I'll want to talk about,
for a long time after this is over,
long after most people think
it's time I got over it.
But there was a time you lived in me:
I held you safe right here,
under my heart,
in the place
where you have an open wound.
You were part of my body then.
I would be part of yours now.
I would leap
to take your place up there.
I would laugh
if they drove nails into my hands
instead of yours.
I would look down at you
looking up and I would see
your chest heave with your crying
and mine would heave
with my failing breathing
and I would shout, "He lives!"
and send my last breath to the sky,
Thanksgiving.
Yesterday and today, this is what we have wanted. This is the bargain we have imagined: My life for his, okay? Do we have a deal?
We have no deal. There are no deals. We wait for Resurrrection, and we do not understand.
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Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, March 31, 2013 0:09 AM CDT
Blessings On Good Friday!
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of you on this day when we celebrate great good coming out of deep suffering. Please remember that although Connor suffered on earth, and is very much missed on earth, that he now lives, through the merits of Jesus, and celebrates in heaven.
May you, your parents, your brothers, and all the others in your family, look forward to a good day on Sunday.
Grace, peace, love, and hope,
~Colette
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The Collect For Good Friday:
Almighty God, we pray you graciously to behold this your family, for whom our Lord Jesus Christ was willing to be betrayed, and given into the hands of sinners, and to suffer death upon the cross; who now lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, March 29, 2013 1:44 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I will be thinking of sweet Connor as I attend the Maundy Thursday liturgy and as I take my turn in the Garden of Repose tonight. Your precious son is always in my thoughts and prayers.
God bless you always, and God bless your family. When you can, let me know how you all are.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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The Collect For Maundy Thursday:
Almighty Father, whose dear Son, on the night before he suffered, instituted the Sacrament of his Body and Blood: Mercifully grant that we may receive it thankfully in remembrance of Jesus Christ our Lord, who in these holy mysteries gives us a pledge of eternal life; and who now lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, March 28, 2013 5:28 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Yesterday, I picked up some Easter books for family members. If Connor were here, I would have purchased something for him. God bless him always, and God bless you.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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The Collect For The Wednesday In Holy Week:
Lord God, whose blessed Son our Savior gave his body to be whipped and his face to be spit upon: Give us grace to accept joyfully the sufferings of the present time, confident of the glory that shall be revealed; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, March 27, 2013 1:25 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Today I am remembering some of the wonderful things that I did with my boys during Holy Week and thinking of the things you probably did with sweet Connor during this same period. Coloring and hiding Easter eggs was always a fun activity. Reading and acting out Bible stories was another one, as was eating warm, hot cross buns. I do hope that your memories of Connor are joyful, peaceful, and hopeful.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your dear sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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The Collect For The Monday In Holy Week:
Almighty God, whose dear Son went not up to joy but first he suffered pain, and entered not into glory before he was crucified: Mercifully grant that we, walking in the way of the cross, may find it none other that the way of life and peace; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, March 25, 2013 3:49 PM CDT
Blessings On Palm Sunday!
Dear Rhonda,
I have thought of you and of Connor during this day. I hope you and your family could enjoy a festive Palm Sunday dinner and/or a happy outing.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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The Collect For The Sunday Of The Passion:
Almighty and everliving God, in your tender love for the human race you sent your Son our Savior Jesus Christ to take upon him our nature, and to suffer death upon the cross, giving us the example of his great humility: Mercifully grant that we may walk in the way of his suffering, and also share in his resurrection; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, March 24, 2013 9:36 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
We are running about 40 degrees cooler than we did at this time in March last year. I have not seen children playing in the yards or parks yet, although last night, at storytelling, I told a tale of kite flying in March when Andrew was in elementary school. I do hope you have a lovely day on Palm Sunday filled with color, life, and hope, followed by a glorious Easter. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, March 23, 2013 5:54 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
As with many days, I am thinking of you and of Connor today. May your thoughts, dreams, and memories of your darling sunshine boy be sweet, hopeful, and strengthening. I wish you and your family a beautiful Palm Sunday, an inspiring Holy Week, and a Joyous Easter.
Below is the collect of the day and a thought from the writings of James de Koven, who sought to deepen our sense of the real presence in the Eucharist.
Grace, peace, love, and anticipating many victories,
~Colette
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Christian faith is to surrender the will, to humble the pride, to become like a little child; to believe in the unseen; to know that there is another world than that about us, to enter it by Baptism, to live in it by the Holy Communion; to be guided by the voice and hand of an invisible Master; to be drawn nearer and nearer to that blessed Home of which death is only the portal; to see the solemn pageant of the world’s great activities go marching by as in a spectacle; to be in it, yet far above it; to despise none of its beauty or goodness or excellence, and yet to have the life hid with Christ in God; above its din and noise, to hear celestial harmonies; in the midst of its hurry and bustle, to be at peace; to care neither for its honors nor its persecutions; sober in prosperity, patient and resigned in adversity, at rest in life, at rest in death, one with Christ for ever – this is the victory that overcometh the world, even our faith!
~Blessed James de Koven (1831-1879)
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The Collect:
Almighty and everlasting God, the source and perfection of all virtues, who inspired your servant James de Koven to do what is right and to preach what is true: Grant that all ministers and stewards of your mysteries may impart to your faithful people, by word and example, the knowledge of your grace; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
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Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, March 22, 2013 1:08 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I am sorry I did not get here on St. Patrick's Day. We had a busy day, which included attending an Irish themed Story Sunday, at the Glen Sanders Mansion. The music, stories, food, and fellowship were all plentiful.
Today is the Feast of St. Joseph, a day as popular among the Polish as St. Patrick's Day is among the Irish. I think we can all benefit from paying attention to both saints, as they have much to offer to us in our day.
As I remember, Connor had a loved one named Joe. May all of our memories of good people named Joseph or nicknamed Joe, be a source of strength and blessing to us this week.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
A Collect For The Feast of St. Joseph:
O God, who from the family of your servant David raised up Joseph to be the guardian of your incarnate Son and the spouse of his virgin mother: Give us grace to imitate his uprightness of life and his obedience to your commands; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, March 19, 2013 5:10 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of Connor. I hope all is well with you and with all of his loved ones.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, March 14, 2013 1:28 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of you very early on Mothering Sunday (Mid-Lent Sunday) morning. May you have sweet thoughts of Connor today.
God bless you, and God bless your mother, as well.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Gracious Father, whose blessed Son Jesus Christ came down from heaven to be the true bread which gives life to the world: Evermore give us this bread, that he may live in us, and we in him; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, March 10, 2013 3:12 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I have been remembering Connor this Lenten season in Eucharist and in Stations of the Cross. Our church offers the Stations twice a week, and I know of some other places where I can go to pray them with a group. I have also been using some beautifully written and beautifully presented Dominican Stations published on February 13 over my computer about three times a week. The chief writer on the project is a personal friend of mine, who lives in this area. You can try them at http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WID_1MWhd70&feature=youtu.be
God bless you, and God bless all those whose lives are closely linked with yours.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, March 5, 2013 3:09 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
We have had two special meals at church this weekend, and Sunday night, we ate at the Chinese buffet across from our favorite movie theater, before seeing a film. I am sure sweet Connor would have enjoyed all of the delightful dishes we had. May God bless you and him.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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The Collect For The Monday In The Second Week Of Lent:
Let your Spirit, O Lord, come into the midst of us to wash us with the pure water of repentance, and prepare us to be always a living sacrifice to you; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
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Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, February 25, 2013 4:42 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
For several years now, my friend, Joe, has sent out a Psalm a Day during Lent. The Psalm he selected for Friday is Psalm 8, a family favorite.
When my boys were young, we often stopped in the chapel of St. George's to pray. I would encourage each boy to pick one Psalm for us to pray aloud. We did this as a family, and on Cub Scout nights, we often did this with my friend, Bettye, and with her sons, Brenton and Brian, who were also there for scouts. Andrew often chose Psalm 8. Here is The Book of Common Prayer version that we used.
Psalm 8
Domine, Dominus noster (BCP page, 592)
1. O LORD our Governor, *
how exalted is your Name in all the world!
2. Out of the mouths of infants and children *
your majesty is praised above the heavens.
3. You have set up a stronghold against your adversaries, *
to quell the enemy and the avenger.
4. When I consider your heavens, the work of your fingers, *
the moon and the stars you have set in their courses,
5. What is man that you should be mindful of him? *
the son of man that you should seek him out?
6. You have made him but little lower than the angels; *
you adorn him with glory and honor;
7. You give him mastery over the works of your hands; *
you put all things under his feet:
8. All sheep and oxen, *
even the wild beasts of the field,
9. The birds of the air, the fish of the sea, *
and whatsoever walks in the paths of the sea.
10. O LORD our Governor, *
how exalted is your Name in all the world!
I fell for Andrew's little trick about this Psalm every time. As we prayed aloud, all went well until we got to the bottom. Then Andrew would change the end of verse 9 to "and whatsoever walks in the paths of the mommies."
I hope you are smiling. It still warms my heart to think about it.
Below is today's Lenten collect from The Book of Occasional Services.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor, who also enjoyed little tricks.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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The Collect For The First Saturday In Lent:
O God, by your Word you marvelously carry out the work of reconciliation: Grant that in our Lenten fast we may be devoted to you with all our hearts, and united with one another in prayer and holy love; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
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Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, February 23, 2013 1:37 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
No doubt Connor inherited his awesome smile from you!
God bless you always, and, of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, February 10, 2013 1:58 PM CST
I do not know of your sadness, but I know of your love. I see a beautiful smile on your face in the pictures on facebook. I will always keep you in my prayers! I hope to meet you someday as I know that through reading much of this blog you are quite a woman! Love, Lori
Lori Peach <loripeach1121@gmail.com>
Gallatin, TN USA - Friday, February 8, 2013 9:36 AM CST
Blessings On The Feast Of The Presentation!
Dear Rhonda,
There are many layers of meaning and many traditions related to this day, the fortieth day after Christmas. A good place to start reviewing is Luke 2:22-40.
I hope you are feeling well this weekend and enjoying those around you.
Please know that your sweet sunshine boy is thought of often. Connor has a special place in my heart, and he will remain there.
Grace, peace, love, and a clean heart,
~Colette
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Today's Collect:
Almighty and everliving God, we humbly pray that, as your only-begotten Son was this day presented in the temple, so we may be presented to you with pure and clean hearts by Jesus Christ our Lord; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
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Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, February 2, 2013 12:33 AM CST
I stopped by to "see" Connor and to read some of the guest book entries from faithful Colette. I know I don't write here often as I write to you on a different site. I will NEVER forget this is where I met Connor and you via Jeanne S. who asked me to pray for Connor, it was an honor to do so. Thank you Rhonda for sharing him with us, he was an inspiration beyond words. I miss him, I love him and I will forever carry him in my heart. Love you!
Kathy M.
Green Bay, WI U.S.A. - Friday, February 1, 2013 3:14 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I have thought of Connor several times this week, including as I was reviewing the story I told last night. Here are the bones of the story.
Snake seems to be dying, so his friends, Bear and Fox, are taking him to the animals' meeting rock hoping the sun will please and revive him. On their way, they are met and joined by several of Snake's friends, including his buddy, Rabbit. After Bear gently places Snake on the rock where he loves to bask in the sun, Snake continues to fade, so it is obvious that Snake really is dying. Fox runs to find the Sky Wizard, who lives with them in the woods. The Wizard kneels along side Snake and ministers to him gently stoking his skin and then whispering something to him. All the animals wait quietly for hours as the Wizard kneels by Snake. Suddenly, the Wizard rises with Snake's gray, lifeless skin in his hand. Some of the animals gasp, and others cry until Mouse, who because of his small size is close to the rock, notices that Snake is alive. In fact, Snake's red and yellow skin is bigger and more vivid than ever! The Wizard leads the animals to the glen while Bear, who carried Snake to the meeting rock carries him again, but this time only because Snake moves slower than the others. Fox digs a hole, and the Wizard buries Snake's old skin. Then, the Wizard dismisses the animals to return to their homes to work and play. After the fast animals scamper and bound away, only Snake and Rabbit remain. Rabbit asks Snake what happened and what the Wizard said to him. Snake, normally a great talker, is unable to express the deep change that the Wizard produced in him, so Rabbit stands near him and gently places a paw on the back of Snake's head. This helps Snake, who finally says, "He looked deep into my eyes with such love, such strength, and such power that I knew everything was going to be all right. Then, he whispered to me, 'Let go of your skin, and go to the place where you are more than your skin,' and that is exactly what happened."
I am sure that Connor understands this story, as he has experienced something similar. May God, whose Son taught by story, bless him, and may God bless you as you read and ponder.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, February 1, 2013 10:10 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I just want to remind you that I am thinking of you and remembering sweet Connor. May your faith be strong and your hope high.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Almighty God, whose Son our Savior Jesus Christ is the light of the world: Grant that your people, illumined by your Word and Sacraments, may shine with the radiance of Christ's glory, that he may be known, worshipped, and obeyed to the ends of the earth; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who with you and the Holy Spirit lives and reigns, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, January 20, 2013 3:46 PM CST
Glad Epiphany To All!
Dear Rhonda,
On this day of celebration, I am thinking about you and remembering sweet Connor.
Below is a copy of my favorite Epiphany song and a copy of the collect of the day. We know that whenever we truly encounter Christ, we travel in new ways and we experience lighter hearts.
Grace, peace, love, and the light of His star,
~Colette
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Over the Hill and Over the Dale
Over the hill and over the dale
Came three kings together
Caring naught for snow and hail
Cold and wind and weather
Now on Persia’s sandy plane
Now where Tigris swells with rain
They their camels tether
Now through Syrian lands they go
Now through Moab faint and slow
Now o’r Edam’s heather.
Over the hill and over the dale
Each king bears a present
Wise men go a child to hale
Monarchs seek a peasant
And in front a star proceeds
Over rocks and rivers leads
Shines with beams incessant
Therefore onward, onward still
Ford the stream and climb the hill
Love makes all things pleasant.
He is God ye go to meet
Therefore incense proffer
He is king ye go to greet
Gold is in your coffer
Also man he comes to share
Every woe that man can bear
Tempter, railer, scoffer
Therefore now against the day
In the grave when him they lay
Myrrh ye also offer.
Over the hill and over the dale,
Riding east together
Caring naught for snow and hail,
Naught for wind and weather
Warned by God from Herod’s door,
Each king turns for home once more
Hearts and footsteps lighter,
Now behind them shines the star
Which they followed from afar,
Shining ever brighter.
~By John Mason Neale (1818-1866)
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The Collect For The Feast Of The Epiphany:
O God, by the leading of a star you manifested your only Son to the peoples of the earth: Lead us, who know you now by faith, to your presence, where we may see your glory face to face; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
~The Book of Common Prayer, Page 214
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Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, January 6, 2013 12:08 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
In the warm glow of Christmas lights, I continue to pray for your peace and for blessing for you and for your entire family.
Below is one of my favorite collects.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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O God, who wonderfully created, and yet more wonderfully restored, the dignity of human nature: Grant that we may share the divine life of him who humbled himself to share our humanity, you Son Jesus Christ; who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
~The Book of Common Prayer, Page 214
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, January 3, 2013 8:10 PM CST
Happy New Year To All!
Dear Rhonda,
As we start a new year, I wish you peace, hope, prosperity, health, and vitality.
God bless you always, and God bless all of Connor's friends, family, and supporters.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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The Collect For The Eighth Day of Christmas (See Luke 2:21):
Eternal Father, you gave to your incarnate Son the holy name of Jesus to be the sign of our salvation: Plant in every heart, we pray, the love of him who is the Savior of the world, our Lord Jesus Christ; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, in glory everlasting. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 213
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, January 1, 2013 10:40 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
On Saturday, we had our third snowstorm in five days. As I cleared the snow, I thought of Connor, knowing your sunshine boy would be a helper on such a day.
I hope you had a good time on Christmas Day and are enjoying the remaining days of Christmas.
Grace, peace, love, and Christmas cheer,
~Colette
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The Collect For The First Sunday After Christmas:
Almighty God, you have poured upon us the new light of your incarnate Word: Grant that this light, enkindled in our hearts, may shine forth in our lives; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, December 30, 2012 0:40 AM CST
Merry Christmas To All!
Dear Rhonda,
Connor was remembered in the late Christmas Eve Eucharist, at St. George's. You were in my thoughts and prayers, as well. Enjoy the music, the poetry, the mystery, and the love of this great festival, and know that you are held in many thoughts and prayers.
God bless you always, and, of course, God bless your darling sunshine boy.
Grace, peace, love, and Christmas cheer,
~Colette
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A Collect For Christmas:
Almighty God, you have given your only-begotten Son to take our nature upon him, and to be born this day of a pure virgin: Grant that we, who have been born again and made your children by adoption and grace, may daily be renewed by your Holy Spirit; through our Lord Jesus Christ, to whom with you and the same Spirit be honor and glory, now and for ever. Amen.
~The Book of Common Prayer, Page 213
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, December 25, 2012 1:03 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
Connor was remembered this past weekend, once again, in Holy Eucharist. It has been a pleasure to sign his guest book for over nine years.
I pray for you to be able to enter into the cheer, joy, excitement, and wonder of Christmas, knowing that you will see your sweet sunshine boy again.
God bless you always, and God bless all of Connor's friends, family, and supporters.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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A Christmas Prayer
by Robert Louis Stevenson
Loving Father,
Help us remember the birth of Jesus,
that we may share in the song of the angels,
the gladness of the shepherds,
and worship of the wise men.
Close the door of hate
and open the door of love all over the world.
Let kindness come with every gift
and good desires with every greeting.
Deliver us from evil by the blessing
which Christ brings,
and teach us to be merry with clear hearts.
May the Christmas morning
make us happy to be thy children,
and Christmas evening bring us to our beds
with grateful thoughts,
forgiving and forgiven,
for Jesus' sake.
Amen.
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Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, December 24, 2012 12:35 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
One of the sweetest pictures I have ever seen of Connor is of him sitting on Santa's Lap. Today was the day that children, particularly in Dutch families, set out their shoes for St. Nicholas to fill with fruit, candy, and coins. Other families have a recitation or reading of Clement Clarke Moore's "A Visit from St. Nicholas," on December 6.
I am sure you have many memories of things you did with Connor during the winter days of longing and preparation for Christmas. May those thoughts keep you in good cheer this month.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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Today's Collect:
Almighty God, who in your love gave to your servant Nicholas of Myra a perpetual name for deeds of kindness on land and sea: Grant, we pray, that your Church may never cease to work for the happiness of children, the safety of sailors, the relief of the poor, and the help of those tossed by tempests of doubt or grief; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, December 6, 2012 11:05 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I continue to think of you and of dear Connor during these lovely early Advent Days. Perhaps you will join me in thankfully thinking of the true meaning of the season today.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and hope,
~Colette
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Quote For The Advent Season:
The celebration of Christmas is not a sentimental waiting for a baby to be born… We do the Gospel no favor when we make Jesus, the Eternal Christ, into a perpetual baby, a baby able to ask little or no adult response from us. We Franciscans have always believed that the Incarnation was already the Redemption, because in Jesus’ birth God was already saying that it was good to be human, and God was on our side.
~Father Richard Rohr, O.F.M.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, December 5, 2012 12:37 AM CST
Blessings To All On The First Sunday In Advent!
Dear Rhonda,
When my guys were little, we had a lovely white porcelain Advent wreath with the words, "Hope, Love, Joy, and Peace" written one on each side. It held the traditional three violet candles and one rose candle. It was never lit, because I did not want them trying to pray with the wreath alone and catching themselves or the house on fire, but it still held a strong meaning in their faith formation. The boys also had a new Advent calendar each year, and they enjoyed opening the numbered windows, seeing the hidden pictures, and watching the story of redemption fill the paper card. I am sure you had special things you did in your house during Advents when Connor was young. May the remembrance of them, and the hope that our Heavenly Father offers us in Jesus, fill your heart with joy and contentment this Advent season.
God bless you always, and God bless your sweet sunshine boy.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
Colette
The Collect:
Almighty God, give us grace to cast away the works of darkness, and put on the armor of light, now in the time of this mortal life in which your Son Jesus Christ came to visit us in great humility; that in the last day, when he shall come again in his glorious majesty to judge both the living and the dead, we may rise to the life immortal; through him who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 211
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, December 2, 2012 6:04 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I just want you to know that you and Connor are in my thoughts and prayers today.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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Today's Collect:
O Sovereign God, who raised up (King) Kamehameha (IV) and (Queen) Emma to be rulers in Hawaii, and inspired and enabled them to be diligent in good works for the welfare of their people and the good of your Church: Receive our thanks for their witness to the Gospel; and grant that we, with them, may attain to the crown of glory that never fades away; through Jesus Christ our Savior and Redeemer, who with you and the Holy Spirit lives and reigns, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, November 28, 2012 11:25 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I hope you enjoyed Thanksgiving as much as we did. Our gathering included over twenty people, and the appetizers were particularly delightful. I am sure Connor would have enjoyed them and the whole table of teens that devoured pounds of turkey and all the trimmings. Please know that Connor is often in my thoughts and prayers and that he is remembered by several friends here in the Capital District.
God bless you always, and God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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The Collect For The Feast Of Christ The King:
Almighty and everlasting God, whose will it is to restore all things in your well-beloved Son, the King of kings and Lord of lords: Mercifully grant that the peoples of the earth, divided and enslaved by sin, may be freed and brought together under his most gracious rule; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, November 24, 2012 11:13 PM CST
Blessings To All Of Connor's Loved Ones On Thanksgiving!
Dear Rhonda,
What a joy it is to view Connor's pictures on Thanksgiving Morning! I know Connor lived a life of love, fun, and thanksgiving. May he always be blessed.
Below is a prayer, which I received last night from my friend, Marni. I believe it was sent to her by Magnificat Magazine. Enjoy it, and enjoy your Thanksgiving celebration.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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Most merciful Father,
your gifts of love are countless
and your goodness infinite.
On this Thanksgiving Day we come before you
with gratitude for your kindness:
open our hearts to concern for others
so that we may share your gifts
of loving service with all your people.
We ask this through our Lord Jesus Christ, your Son,
who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit,
one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, November 22, 2012 8:49 AM CST
Blessings On Veteran's Day!
Dear Rhonda,
I have just read yesterday's Chicken Soup. The title, "Mr. Sunshine," made me think of sweet Connor. You and he remain in my thoughts and prayers.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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Collect For Armistice Day (Veterans' Day), 11 November 1918:
Almighty God our Heavenly Father, guide the nations of the world into the way of justice and truth, and establish among them that peace which is the fruit of righteousness, that they may become the kingdom of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, November 11, 2012 4:01 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I just finished packing up some older boy boxes for the Daughters of the King collection of Christmas gifts for disadvantaged children. I couldn't help but think of Connor as I did this. Truly, he would be one of the generous youth making up his own boxes for this or some other charity, if he could. I also suspect, that if he were with me, he couldn't resist launching the toy helicopters I included.
I hope you are well and are enjoying happy thoughts of your dear sunshine boy.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, November 10, 2012 10:34 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I just want to remind you that I am thinking of you and of Connor. I know that Connor will always be in the thoughts of some of his playmates, classmates, and church friends, even though most of them were too young to sign Connor's book, when Connor was sick. I know this because I remember two girls in my hometown, who died of leukemia, when I was about eight. I have never expressed my remembrances of Barbara and Gail to their families, and I would not have any way of knowing how to reach them now, but I remember. Connor, like those girls, will not be forgotten. (We remember them, and we give thanks. See my entry on November 2.)
Below is a short prayer that may be of some help to you.
God bless you always, and God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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Dear God,
We give you praise for giving us lives of meaning and purpose whose value can never be destroyed by tragic events. Amen.
~author unknown
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, November 8, 2012 12:08 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I've been out to Tellabration today, but I wanted to stop tonight to let you know that Connor and you were in my thoughts and prayers at Eucharist on both Saturday and Sunday.
Since today is All Saints Sunday, I am leaving you a traditional blessing which speaks of Christ and his Saints.
God bless you always, and God bless all those who are dear to you.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
May Christ and His Saints stand between you and harm.
Mary and her Son.
Patrick with his staff.
Martin with his mantle.
Brigid with her veil.
Michael with his shield.
And God over all with His strong right hand.
~A Celtic Blessing
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, November 4, 2012 11:48 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I've just skimmed the messages you posted last November. I hope you have received memories of Connor and words of encouragement from many of your FaceBook friends. Connor definitely touched many hearts, and all of us are changed in some way by knowing him.
Remember these words from the litany I left you earlier this week:
As long as we live, they too, will live; for they are now a part of us, and always, we remember them, and we give thanks.
God bless you always. You and Connor's relatives and friends are in my thoughts and prayers.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect For This Weekend:
Almighty and merciful God, it is only by your gift that your faithful people offer you true and laudable service: Grant that we may run without stumbling to obtain your heavenly promises; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, November 3, 2012 12:39 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I have been remembering Connor at various times thoughout the day. Below is a litany I particularly like for All Soul's Day.
God bless you always. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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Litany Of Remembrance (We Remember And Give Thanks)
Leader: Those who live no more are with us still in our thoughts and in our words. Who they are and what they did will always be a part of us and what we have become at this moment.
At the rising of the sun, and at its going down, we remember them, and we give thanks.
In the drizzle of the rain, and in the singing of the brook, we remember them, and we give thanks.
On the dark days, on the cloudy days, and on the brilliant days, we remember them, and we give thanks.
At the rustling of the leaves, and in the beauty of autumn, we remember them, and we give thanks.
At the beginning of the year, and when it ends, we remember them, and we give thanks.
When we are weary and in need of strength, we remember them, and we give thanks.
When we have joys we crave to share, we remember them, and we give thanks.
When we have decisions that are difficult to make, we remember them, and we give thanks.
When we have achievements that are based on theirs, we remember them, and we give thanks.
As long as we live, they too, will live; for they are now a part of us, and always we remember them, and we give thanks.
Closing Prayer: Loving God, may I take on the mind and heart of Christ, that I may continue to hear your call for my life and embrace your world through my prayer, my work, and my life with others, in Jesus Christ. Amen
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, November 2, 2012 2:43 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Below is the candle I just lit for Connor at Barbara Crafton's Geranium Farm. You can view it there whenever you wish.
+ This candle is for Connor Jordan Hunley from Tennessee +
for Connor, a beautiful boy, on the eighth anniversary of his passing into eternal life and for hope, strength, and peace for his mother, Rhonda
~ this candle was lit by Colette from New York
The address is: http://www.geraniumfarm.org/candles.cfm
God bless you, and God bless all those who love Connor.
Grace, peace, love, and hope,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, November 1, 2012 11:15 PM CDT
Blessings On The Feast Of All Saints!
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of you on this great Holy Day, which is also the eighth anniversary of Connor's passing. It does not seem possible that so much time has passed.
I have thought of Connor many times today. In a few minutes, I will light another candle for him at Barbara Crafton's Geranium Farm.
My prayers are with you and with your family. God bless you always, and of course, God bless your beautiful son, Connor Jordan Hunley, who is now one of the delights of heaven.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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The Collect For All Saints Day:
Almighty God, you have knit together your elect in one communion and fellowship in the mystical body of your Son Christ our Lord: Give us grace so to follow your blessed saints in all virtuous and godly living, that we may come to those ineffable joys that you have prepared for those who truly love you; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who with you and the Holy Spirit lives and reigns, one God, in glory everlasting. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, November 1, 2012 10:58 PM CDT
Thinking of Connor on his birthday....
Heidi
- Wednesday, October 31, 2012 5:10 PM CDT
Rhonda, I'm thinking of you and your precious Connor on his birthday.
Lisa Earhart
Mount Juliet, TN USA - Wednesday, October 31, 2012 8:17 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of you and of your parents and brothers on Connor's eighteenth birthday. I have always loved the picture of Connor dressed as a Dalmatian puppy on his first Halloween/birthday. He was very cute, and I am sure that memories of that day and of other well birthdays bring you great joy.
God bless you always, and God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, October 31, 2012 0:35 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Like Mrs. Pam, I, too, am remembering sweet Connor today, tomorrow on his earthly birthday, and on Thursday on the anniversary of his birth into eternity. My love and devotion have been with both you and Connor during many months of his young life and during the eight years since his passing. God bless you both.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, October 30, 2012 9:14 PM CDT
Remembering Connor today, and, of course, tomorrow on his earthly birthday, and also on All Saints' Day, his heavenly birthday.
Mrs Pam
- Tuesday, October 30, 2012 8:45 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Since Hurricane Sandy is beginning to trouble our area, I am quickly signing Connor's guest book, while I can. I am not worried about flooding here, but we have been told to prepare for large scale power outages. If that happens, I will probably not be able to sign on October 31 and possibly not on November 1 either. You know, whether I write or not, that I think of Connor often, and I pray for you.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, October 29, 2012 4:32 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
As always, I am thinking of you and of your sweet sunshine boy. Below is an awesome quote I found in my email this week. I think you will relate to it.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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Death destroys the body, as the scaffolding is destroyed after the building is up and finished. And he whose building is up rejoices at the destruction of the scaffolding and of the body.
~Leo Tolstoy, novelist and philosopher (1828-1910)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, October 24, 2012 4:11 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
A lady bug on my desk has reminded me to come and sign Connor's guest book. I wonder what he would think of the amazing stories I heard last night at our 100th Story Sunday performance and if he would have chosen the sliced sirloin both my companion and I enjoyed. I also wonder what he would think of the hard rain we had a couple days ago, here in southern Saratoga County, almost three inches in 24 hours!
I hope you and all of your loved ones are well, safe, and content.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, October 23, 2012 0:00 AM CDT
Happy Birthday, Rhonda!
Dear Rhonda,
I hope you enjoyed some ice cream and cake today or perhaps over the past weekend. Both you and Connor were remembered in prayer at St. George's yesterday. May the year ahead be rich in health and safety, and in peace and prosperity.
God bless you always, and God bless your beautiful sunshine boy. I will be thinking of Connor often this week, as many churches are doing their annual blessing of animals.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Watch over ypur child, Rhonda, O Lord, as her days increase; bless and guide her wherever she may be. Strengthen her when she stands; comfort her when discouraged or sorrowful; raise her up if she fall; and in her heart may ypur peace which passes understanding abide all the days of her life; through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.
~Tradional Birthday Prayer: The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 811
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, October 1, 2012 10:45 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I thought of Connor several times yesterday. At Proctor's Theater, in Schenectady, we had the first Word Plays of our sixth season. The topic was "The Other F Words." Stephen Leslie's story of the 2011 Flood in Schoharie was very moving, as was Fran Combs Berger's story of the F-5 Oklahoma Tornado that she and eight other family members endured when she was only three years old. Six other stories, on such topics as friendship, frogs, faith, and family, rounded out a very enjoyable afternoon. Connor would have loved the stories, the refreshments, and the fun.
Next was a Coffee House featuring "Running the River." These four musicians perform a variety of original pieces, traditional songs, folk pieces, television theme songs, and hits recorded by the Kingston Trio, the Beatles, and Johnny Cash, using guitars, bass, fiddle, mandolin, drum, and kazoo. The audience laughed, danced, and sang along while consuming a variety of hot and cold drinks, finger foods, and fresh cookies. Again, I am sure Connor would have loved it.
I hope all is well with you, with Connor's grandparents, and with Connor's uncles. Please let me know, whenever you have prayer concerns, as I would love to pray for your needs and those of all of Connor's loved ones.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, September 24, 2012 12:12 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Today is Cheyenne Fiveash's 21st birthday. I often remember Connor and Cheyenne together, as they had several things in common. I am sure they have found each other in heaven, and probably Connor is helping her celebrate today.
Below is today's collect. It is one of my favorites.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect
Grant us, Lord, not to be anxious about earthly things, but to love things heavenly; and even now, while we are placed among things that are passing away, to hold fast to those that shall endure; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, September 23, 2012 0:57 AM CDT
Autumn Blessings To All!
Dear Rhonda,
Connor was remembered in Holy Eucharist this afternoon. I also thought of him today, remembering a birthday card I sent him, when I spoke to him about how much my boys enjoyed pumpkin seeds and how much we all enjoyed pumpkin bread, pumpkin muffins, pumpkin pudding, and pumpkin pie. May God bless Connor's beautiful spirit!
When you can, let me know how you and your loved ones are.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
Colette
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~Sharing An Autumn Prayer:
O God of wonder and mystery, you gave us Jesus to go before us and to show us a way to new life through our dying: As the season of autumn reminds us that all living things must die, so must our faith in the life Jesus promised encourage us to embrace life's potential, rather than being saddened by life's endings, may we find, in the wisdom of your creation, the constantly renewing love that reassures us of your presence. With our eyes on the tree of life and its spectacular beauty, may we remain always in Jesus. Amen.
~Sister Karen Berry
in Prayer Services for Parishes
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, September 22, 2012 9:20 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Tomorrow is United Nations Peace Day. Many are pausing, at noon, to pray for world peace. I believe it is an idea that your kind and loving son would have embraced. Perhaps you and all of Connor's family and friends can join in the prayers in Connor's honor then, or whenever you read this note.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, September 20, 2012 5:28 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
The title of today's Chicken Soup story is "Running with a Smile." How that reminds me of Connor, who lived with a smile!
May God bless your sweet sunshine boy, and may God bless you and your family.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, September 18, 2012 3:59 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Since Connor enjoyed good food, I thought of him several times during the past few days. Once was at a Greek/Italian restaurant in our area, where a number of us treated our friend, Deacon Maureen, as she prepares to live abroad for two years. Another time was on Saturday, when Andrew, Kristen, Tavin, and I had lunch at Brooks' Barbecue, in Oneonta, with older friends. The third time was at our parish picnic yesterday. I am sure Connor would have found many great tastes to enjoy there! I also remembered Connor Sunday beneath the Jesus and the Children stained glass, as I often do.
God bless you always, and God bless your sweet sunshine boy.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, September 10, 2012 4:01 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I am remembering Connor and thinking of you as another month begins. I hope you are enjoying this Labor Day Weekend.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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The Collect Used This Weekend:
Lord of all power and might, the author and giver of all good things: Graft in our hearts the love of your Name; increase in us true religion; nourish us with all goodness; and bring forth in us the fruit of good works; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, September 2, 2012 3:31 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I do not know where August has gone, but I do want you to know that I thought of Connor this morning at Eucharist. We had lots of fun things going on after church, and he probably would have enjoyed the morning.
This afternoon, I went to an ice cream social and concert. Stewart's donated the ice cream, and the people hosting the event supplied all kinds of sauces, sprinkles, fruit, and nuts. My sundae was on mint cookie crumble, a flavor Connor may have enjoyed.
Please know that I continue to hold both you and Connor in my thoughts and prayers.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Grant, O merciful God, that your Church, being gathered together in unity by your Holy Spirit, may show forth your power among all peoples, to the glory of your Name; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, August 26, 2012 8:57 PM CDT
Blessings On The Feast Of St. Mary!
Welcome, Mary, sister in faith;
the Lord has surely chosen you.
The life leaps within me
to herald the fruit of your womb
which is Jesus!
Who am I
that the mother of my Lord
should come to me?
Pray with me now,
and always.
Amen.
Weep, Mary, a mother's tears.
Your son must die,
thrust high in agony.
Alone in suffering,
separated from His Father's smile
by sin we laid upon Him.
Blessed is He
who comes in the name of the Lord.
Now, Mary, be mother to John
and all who will lean, like him,
close to the heart of Christ,
and watch with Him in the hour of death,
Amen.
You, Mary, who knew His grace,
now you're with the Lord.
Blessed is any who walks with God,
then is not here, but taken - to Jesus!
Hold us, Mary, at peace with God;
join with the prayers of the penitent,
now and at the gate to life.
Amen.
~Andy Raine, Picking Up the Rosary
As quoted in Celtic Daily Prayer From the Northumbria Community, c. 2002.
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Dear Rhonda,
Once again, I am thinking of sweet Connor and of you. I hope all is well with you.
Below is today's collect and a hymn I associate with this day. Verse two clearly speaks of the mother of our Lord.
God bless you always, and God bless your dear son, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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The Collect:
O God, you have taken to yourself the blessed Virgin Mary, mother of your incarnate Son: Grant that we, who have been redeemed by his blood, may share with her the glory of your eternal kingdom; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
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An Appropriate Hymn (#618, The Hymnal 1982)
Ye watchers and ye holy ones,
bright seraphs, cherubim, and thrones,
raise the glad strain,
Alleluia!
Cry out, dominions, princedoms, powers,
virtues, archangels, angels' choirs,
Refrain:
Alleluia! alleluia! alleluia!
Alleluia! alleluia!
O higher than the cherubim,
more glorious than the seraphim,
lead their praises,
Alleluia!
Thou bearer of the eternal Word,
most gracious, magnify the Lord, Refrain
Respond, ye souls in endless rest,
ye patriarchs and prophets blest,
Alleluia,
alleluia!
Ye holy twelve, ye martyrs strong,
all saints triumphant, raise the song, Refrain
O friends, in gladness let us sing,
supernal anthems echoing,
Alleluia,
alleluia!
To God the Father, God the Son,
and God the Spirit, Three in One, Refrain
Words: Athelstan Riley (1858-1945), 1906
Music: Lasst uns erfreuen (Geistliche Catholische Kirchengeäng, Cologne, 1623)
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/y/y023.html
Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, August 15, 2012 11:02 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
We have had a busy and wet week. Today, after church, I went to a baby shower for a couple Andrew has known for a long time. They are expecting a little girl, Louisiana, in early November. It was lovely in every way, the baby received some beautiful things, and the food was a large spread which Connor would have enjoyed.
Yesterday, I did the readings at St. George's. During the service, Tavin was baptized. He did really well throughout the service, the picture taking, and his party. Once again, Connor would have enjoyed the great food.
God bless you today and every day.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect For This Weekend:
Grant to us, Lord, we pray, the spirit to think and do always those things that are right, that we, who cannot exist without you, may by you be enabled to live according to your will; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, August 12, 2012 10:55 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I have thought of Connor several times this week, but I haven't been able to get here to write in his guest book. I hope you are staying cool, calm, comfortable, and happy during these warm, summer days. I also hope all of Connor's friends and loved ones are doing well.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet, sunshine boy.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
One place where I thought of you was at St. George's last weekend. Below is the collect, one of my favorites. I was planning to send it to you later that evening, but I did not have a chance, so here it is.
O God, the protector of all who trust in you, without whom nothing is strong, nothing is holy: Increase and multiply upon us your mercy; that, with you as our ruler and guide, we may so pass through things temporal, that we lose not the things eternal; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, August 2, 2012 11:06 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Connor was remembered in Holy Eucharist earlier today, and I thought of him as I was enjoying brunch with my family. I hope you and your parents are well, safe, and comfortable today and have enjoyed a beautiful summer day as much as I did.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Almighty God, the fountain of all wisdom, you know our necessities before we ask and our ignorance in asking: Have compassion on our weakness, and mercifully give us those things which for our unworthiness we dare not, and for our blindness we cannot ask; through the worthiness of your Son Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, July 22, 2012 9:16 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I hope you and all of Connor's friends and loved ones are staying cool and comfortable during this hot, humid weather. I also hope you can relax and enjoy some of your favorite things during the weekend.
As always, Connor will be remembered in the beauty of holiness.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, July 13, 2012 3:23 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
It hit me that you might enjoy today's thought from Upper Room. May something in it bring you comfort or new insight today.
God bless you always, God bless Connor, and God bless all those who helped Connor while he was on earth.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
In God’s Hands
Read Psalm 31:1-8
I am the LORD, your God, who takes hold of your right hand and says to you, Do not fear; I will help you.
~Isaiah 41:13 (NIV)
Today's Devotional
One of the lessons we teach our young children is to hold the hand of an adult when crossing the street so they will be safe. But my teenaged grandsons still like to hold their grandma’s hand as a sign of affection and care. They hold the hands of their girlfriends out of affection and love. Throughout our lives, we trust the hands of others as we experience care and comfort and are held in love.
In a spiritual sense, we are invited to place ourselves in the hands of God, our protector, just as Jesus did on the cross. (See Luke 23:46.) We do not know what lies ahead for any of us. Our paths may take frightening detours or turns. We may feel as though we are being pursued by enemies. Sometimes we go down to the pit of despair with feelings of fear and doubt. We need someone to hold us during our difficult times.
Whether we are just beginning life or nearing the end of our course, we are invited to trust God to guide us and protect us. We give thanks for the many loving hands that hold us — those of parents, grandparents, friends, and spouses. But by far the best hands that hold us are the hands of God. These hands that form us, hold us in faithful and steadfast love.
Sandi Marr (Ontario, Canada)
Thought for the Day: “If God is for us, who can be against us?” (Rom. 8:31)
Prayer: Dear God, thank you for all who lift us up and support us. Remind us to rely on you above all others. Amen.
Prayer Focus: Those not reared by caring parents
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How wonderful that Connor had loving parents, grandparents, uncles, and other caring adults in his life!
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, July 11, 2012 2:36 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Last night, on Jeopardy, another question dealt with the raising of the Hunley. Of course, at the mention of this name, I immediately thought of you and of Connor. Today, I have visited the website, Friends of the Hunley, which I found very interesting. I am sure that Connor would have been interested in learning all about the submarine largely financed and invented by Horace Lawson Hunley. Perhaps, since Horace was from Tennessee, he was a relative.
God bless you, Connor, and all who are interested in the submarine, the Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, July 7, 2012 11:37 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I hope you enjoyed the fireworks as much as we did this year. I am sure Connor would have enjoyed a good display.
My thoughts and prayers are with you today, as always.
God bless you always, and of course God bless your dear sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, July 6, 2012 3:09 PM CDT
Happy Fourth Of July To All Of Connor's Family And Friends!
Dear Rhonda,
This is the first opportunity I have had to get to Connor's guest book for a couple of days. I hope you are enjoying some of your favorite Independence Day activities. If you haven't been able to do so, maybe you can celebrate our freedom and American way of life during the coming weekend.
Be assured that I am thinking of you today, and I am also thinking of sweet Connor.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Lord God Almighty, in whose Name the founders of this country won liberty for themselves and for us, and lit the torch of freedom for nations then unborn: Grant that we and all the people of this land may have grace to maintain our liberties in righteousness and peace; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
~The Book Of Common prayer, Page 242
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, July 4, 2012 4:49 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I have been unable to sign Connor's guest book for the past few days, but please know that I have thought of both you and Connor several times. I hope all is well.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Almighty God, you have built your Church upon the foundation of the apostles and prophets, Jesus Christ himself being the chief cornerstone: Grant us so to be joined together in unity of spirit by their teaching, that we may be made a holy temple acceptable to you; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, July 1, 2012 6:01 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Connor was remembered in Eucharist yesterday afternoon. I also learned that the church is planning an outing to a home Tri-City ValleyCats game. I am sure Connor would enjoy such an evening.
You are in my thoughts and prayers once again today.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, June 24, 2012 5:55 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Today is the Feast of St. Alban, the first known martyr of Britain, and the person for whom nearby Albany, NY, was named. There is a St. Alban's window, in the Cathedral of All Saints, in Albany, where my son, Andrew, was Confirmed.
Also, this morning, at about 10:00, many of the elementary school children ended their year of learning. I am sure the local pools, miniature golf facilities, parks, ice cream stands, and ball fields will be busy this afternoon.
I am thinking of Connor. I know he would be glad to have the freedom of these warm days to ride his bike, play with his pets, hang out with his friends, zoom in his go-cart, and go fishing. May thoughts of a well and happy Connor fill you with peace and joy.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your marvelous sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Almighty God, by whose grace and power your holy martyr Alban triumphed over suffering and was faithful even unto death: Grant to us, who now remember him with thanksgiving, to be so faithful in our witness to you in this world, that we may receive with him the crown of life; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, June 22, 2012 12:23 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
While out of town yesterday, I stopped at a favorite eatery there and had a whitefish dinner. It is a place I have often taken my boys, so I thought of them and of Connor. May all of them be blessed today.
We are having a spell of weather in the high 90s, which feels like 105. What a blessing to have air conditioning! I hope you and all of Connor's loved ones are cool, safe, and well.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Noontime Prayer
The sun has climbed the hill, the day is on the downward slope.
Between the morning and the afternoon, stand I here with my soul,
and lift it up.
My soul is heavy with sunshine, and steeped with strength.
The sunbeams have filled me like a honeycomb,
It is the moment of fulness,
And the top of the morning.
~From D. H. Lawrence's The Plumed Serpent
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, June 21, 2012 10:39 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
This week, I have heard the ice cream truck in the development for the first time this season. I have also smelled chicken, steak, and burgers grilling throughout the area. One of our neighbors rented a bouncy-bounce and some other carnival equipment for their weekend party. Kids are out on their bikes and skateboards, and our parks and tennis and basketball courts are busy. I know Connor would enjoy every bit of it. May your memories of Connor using his go-cart, skates, and bike bring you joy and peace today.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, June 19, 2012 12:02 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
While out on errands today, I paused at DeVoe's for a pistachio ice cream cone dipped in cherry. As I sat eating it, I thought of Connor. I know he would have enjoyed one of Devoe's cold treats and maybe a sandwich, too.
I hope you and your family are well.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Almighty and everlasting God, who kindled the flame of your love in the heart of your holy martyr Bernard Mizeki: Grant to us, your humble servants, a like faith and power of love, that we who rejoice in his triumph may profit by his example; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, June 18, 2012 8:48 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Before heading out for a Father's Day Barbecue, I wish to say that I am thinking of you and of all the men who are close to Connor. I hope you all have a good day.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Father's Day Prayer
Our Father in heaven,
You are our Creator. In You we live and move and have our being. We bow our knees before You. Through Your relationship with Your Son Jesus, You have provided us with a pattern of ordering our lives. All fatherhood is derived from You.
We thank You for our fathers. Grant to them strength out of the rich treasury of Your glory. May Your Holy Spirit dwell within their innermost being in power. Bless them mightily. Amen.
By Jill Woodliff, editor of Lent and Beyond
C olette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, June 17, 2012 9:33 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Tonight, I saw teenage boys chasing each other on skateboards and running along side of each other in the road in front of our house. It was a perfect time to be active, and I am sure, if Connor were here, he would be in the thick of positive activity.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your handsome sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect (For Basil The Great, Bishop And Theologian):
Almighty God, who has revealed to your Church your eternal Being of glorious majesty and perfect love as one God in Trinity of Persons: Give us grace that, like your bishop Basil of Caesarea, we may continue steadfast in the confession of this faith, and constant in our worship of you, Father, Son, and Holy Spirit; who live and reign for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, June 14, 2012 8:53 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
On this sixth anniversary of Jacob Duckworth's arrival in heaven, I think of Jacob, Connor, Cheyenne, Richie, and many others. May God bless them all.
Connor would probably be interested in today's saint, an Indian of the Ojibwa clan, who under the name of John Johnson, became the first Indian ordained in the Episcopal Church. Enmegahbowh, originally a Medicine Man, served the church, in Minnesota, for over fifty years, first as deacon, then as priest. He died on this date in 1902, at the age of 95. Below is the collect.
God bless you always, and God bless all those who have loved and stood by Jacob, Connor, Cheyenne, and Richie.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect For Enmegahbowh (name means "the man who stands by his people"), priest and missionary, 12 June 1902:
Almighty God, you led your pilgrim people of old with fire and cloud; grant that the ministers of your church, following the example of blessed Enmegahbowh, may stand before your holy people, leading them with fiery zeal and gentle humility. This we ask through Jesus, the Christ, who lives and reigns with you in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God now and forever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, June 12, 2012 12:12 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Connor was remembered in various services over the weekend. One was a fortieth anniversary for Elaine's parish. After that service, most of the people stayed for lunch. I imagine Connor would have loved the huge sandwich platters with six or seven different kinds of sandwiches on a large variety of breads. I know he would have enjoyed all of the desserts.
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Grant, O God, that we may follow the example of your faithful servant Barnabas, who, seeking not his own renown but the well-being of your Church, gave generously of his life and substance for the relief of the poor and the spread of the Gospel; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, June 11, 2012 6:20 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
An author many boys like, Ray Bradbury, died earlier this week. I wonder if Connor would have enjoyed his novels and short stories as much as Andrew has.
God bless you always, and God bless your bright sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
If you enjoy living, it is not difficult to keep the sense of wonder.
Ray Bradbury, American author (August 22, 1920- June 5, 2012)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, June 8, 2012 1:27 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I thought of Connor tonight at a Taize service. Today was the Feast of Corpus Christi, so I leave an appropriate prayer thought below.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Draw me O Jesus into the living silence
Of your love..
Let me rest in your presence
without words.....
That you may dwell in me
And I
in you.
When I am still, O Sweet Blessed Spirit
May I know you, my GOD!
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, June 7, 2012 10:58 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
While doing errands early last night, I saw a beautiful rainbow from my car window. It really made me think of Connor, so I thought you should know.
Today, someone sent me a prayer to use to honor cancer patients, past and present, and to use to pray for cures. The person sending it said that cancer is the topic of prayer the first Wednesday of every month at the National Shrine of St. Jude, on Chicago's South Side. (Think the late comedian, Danny Thomas.) I had not know about this prayer practice, but I will try to remember it and make special prayers for cancer breakthroughs again on July 4, August 1, September 5, and the following first Wednesdays. The prayer I received is below. Those wishing to name specific people may insert names using the word "especially," after the word "offered."
God bless you always, and God bless your sweet sunshine boy, for whom, I offer this prayer today.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
We pray together:
God of healing mercy, in Jesus your Son you stretch out your hand in compassion, restoring the sinner, healing the sick, and lifting up those bowed down. Embrace us now in your loving care, particularly those afflicted with cancer, for whom this intention is offered. May the Spirit of Jesus bring us all health in soul and body, that with joy and thanksgiving we may praise you for your goodness, through the same Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, June 6, 2012 7:15 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
This noon, I had an opportunity to grab some lunch at Pizza Hut. I imagine Connor would have enjoyed the salad and pizza serving bars, the cold soda, and the hot wings. Near one of the doors, there is a claw machine. Today, it was filled with Teddy bear baseballers, super heroes, and toy animals. Cheyenne Fiveash loved these machines and enjoyed winning items to pass along to other children. Today, I imagined Connor and Chey working the lever and capturing toys to give out. It was a great daydream!
May your thoughts of Connor be sweet this week, and may you be safe and happy.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect (For Boniface, Bishop, Missionary, Martyr, 5 June, 754):
Almighty God, who called your faithful servant Boniface to be a witness and martyr in the lands of Germany and Friesland, and by his labor and suffering raised up a people for your own possession: Pour forth your Holy Spirit upon your Church in every land, that by the service and sacrifice of many your holy Name may be glorified and your kingdom enlarged; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, June 5, 2012 3:39 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
This has been a day of spring showers, probably not a lot unlike the day in Connor's photo album, where he is pictured holding his umbrella. As water gently bathes the earth, may Connor's love gently bathe you in the promise of eternal life.
You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect (For JOHN XXIII {Angelo Guiseppe Roncalli}, Bishop of Rome, 1963):
Lord of all truth and peace, you raised up your bishop John to be servant of the servants of God and gave him wisdom to call for the work of renewing your Church: Grant that, following his example, we may reach out to other Christians to clasp them with the love of your Son, and labor throughout the nations of the world to kindle a desire for justice and peace; through Jesus Christ, who is alive and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, June 4, 2012 6:33 PM CDT
Blessings On Trinity Sunday!
Dear Rhonda,
Connor has been remembered once again in Holy Eucharist.
Below is one of the songs sung here, in church, this morning. Our friend, Maxine, used it as she provided music for our house blessing many years ago.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your golden sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Holy God, we praise thy Name;
Lord of all, we bow before thee!
All on earth thy scepter claim,
all in heaven above adore thee;
infinite thy vast domain,
everlasting is thy reign.
Hark! the loud celestial hymn
angel choirs above are raising,
cherubim and seraphim,
in unceasing chorus praising;
fill the heavens with sweet accord:
Holy, holy, holy, Lord.
Lo! the apostolic train
join the sacred Name to hallow;
prophets swell the loud refrain,
and the white robed martyrs follow;
and from morn to set of sun,
through the Church the song goes on.
Holy Father, Holy Son,
Holy Spirit, Three we name thee;
while in essence only One,
undivided God we claim thee;
and adoring bend the knee,
while we own the mystery.
Words: Ignaz Franz (1719-1790), 1774;
trans. Clarence Augustus Walworth (1820-1900), 1858
Music: Grosser Gott
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/h/h290.html
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, June 3, 2012 11:31 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of you on another spring weekend. I hope your plans are as happy as mine.
Connor will be remembered in Eucharist, as we honor the Trinity at all of our services this weekend.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect For Trinity Sunday:
Almighty and everlasting God, you have given to us your servants grace, by the confession of a true faith, to acknowledge the glory of the eternal Trinity, and in the power of your divine Majesty to worship the Unity: Keep us steadfast in this faith and worship, and bring us at last to see you in your one and eternal glory, O Father; who with the Son and the Holy Spirit live and reign, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, June 2, 2012 11:37 AM CDT
...91 months
Those who love God never meet for the last time.
~Prayer Card From All Saints Convent, Catonsville, Maryland
God bless you, Rhonda. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect (For Frederick Denison Maurice, Priest And Theologian):
Almighty God, who restored our human nature to heavenly glory through the perfect obedience of our Savior Jesus Christ: Keep alive in your Church, we pray, a passion for justice and truth; that, like your servant Federick Denison Maurice, we may work and pray for the triumph of the kingdom of your Christ; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Of Maurice, Charles Kingsley said, "He was the most beautiful human soul whom God has ever allowed me to meet." Of course, to many, sweet Connor was also a beautiful soul."
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, June 1, 2012 5:35 PM CDT
Too often we underestimate the power of a touch, a smile, a kind word, a listening ear, an honest compliment, or the smallest act of caring, all of which have the potential to turn a life around.
~Leo Buscaglia, author (1924-1998)
Dear Rhonda,
Connor was a child always full of smiles, kindness, and helpfulness. He lived the quote above. May God always bless your beautiful sunshine boy.
I do pray for you often, but please let me know whenever you, or your loved ones, need some specific, special prayers.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect For The Feast Of The Visitation:
Father in heaven, by your grace the virgin mother of your incarnate Son was blessed in bearing him, but still more blessed in keeping your word: Grant us who honor the exaltation of her lowliness to follow the example of her devotion to your will; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, May 31, 2012 5:53 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I was unable to write in Connor's book on Tuesday due to our power being out late afternoon and evening, because of high winds and hard rain in our area. It was a humid, hot day, so while running errands, I paused at Guptill's for a pistachio cone. As you know, I almost always think of Connor when having a cold treat.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your kind and smiley sunshine boy.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Holy God, whose power is made perfect in weakness: we honor you for the calling of Jeanne d’Arc, who, though young, rose up in valor to bear your standard for her country, and endured with grace and fortitude both victory and defeat; and we pray that we, like Jeanne, may bear witness to the truth that is in us to friends and enemies alike, and, encouraged by the companionship of your saints, give ourselves bravely to the struggle for justice in our time; through Christ our Savior, who with you and the Holy Spirit lives and reigns, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, May 30, 2012 11:04 PM CDT
Happy Memorial Day!
Dear Rhonda,
I hope you have been able to do something you find relaxing and fun this holiday weekend, if not today, on either Saturday or Sunday. You are in my thoughts very deeply on this weekend, which my mother called Decoration. I am sure you are keeping Connor's mausoleum area well decorated, and perhaps you now have a memory garden or a memory corner for him where you live. May you find peace as you are in these places.
My friend, Marni, sent me a hymn which was sent to her by Magnificat magazine. She says the words can be sung to either the tune to "No Form of Human Framing," or "O God, Before Whose Altar." The problem is that neither of us thinks we know either of those hymns. The words are worth a look, so they will be beneath my signature.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your loving son, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Remember, Lord the fallen
Who died in fields of war,
In flaming clouds, in screaming crowds,
On streets that are no more,
That we today might waken
And greet this day in peace
With grateful prayer for those who bear
The storms that never cease.
Remember friends and strangers,
And those forgotten now,
Whose names are known to you alone,
Before whose love we bow
And ask that you surround them
With mercy's endless light
That they may live, and we forgive
The foe they went to fight.
Remember, Lord, the living,
Who bear the pain of loss -
A death she died who stood beside
Her Son upon the cross.
Remember all your children,
The dead and those who weep,
And make us one beneath the sun
Where love will never sleep.
Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, N Y U.S.A. - Monday, May 28, 2012 3:59 PM CDT
Blessings To All On The Feast Of Pentecost!
Dear Rhonda,
I always enjoy it when the frontal on the altar and the vestments are bright red. I think Connor would enjoy the bright red colors in church, too.
This Pentecost, Tavin, now seven weeks old, made his first visit to St. George's. Father Henry, who visited him in the hospital, sped across the narthex to say hello to him and see how he had grown and changed before the service began. At Communion, Andrew proudly carried his son to the altar rail for a blessing, as I rested my hand lightly on the side of his face. It was beautiful, as I am sure Connor's visits to your church were always beautiful. May the memories of sweet Connor, in God's house, flood your heart with joy and hope today.
God bless you and all of your loved ones.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
A Collect For Pentecost:
Almighty God, on this day you opened the way of eternal life to every race and nation by the promised gift of your Holy Spirit: Shed abroad this gift throughout the world by the preaching of the Gospel, that it may reach to the ends of the earth; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
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Here is one of my favorite hymns for Pentecost.
Refrain: Hail thee, festival day!
Blest day that art hallowed forever;
day wherein God from heaven,
shone on the world with his grace.
Lo! in the likeness of fire,
on them that await his appearing,
he whom the Lord foretold,
suddenly, swiftly, descends. Refrain
Forth from the Father he comes
with his sevenfold mystical dowry,
pouring on human souls
infinite riches of God. Refrain
Hark! in a hundred tongues
Christ's own, his chosen Apostles,
preach to a hundred tribes
Christ and his wonderful works. Refrain
Praise to the Spirit of life,
all praise to the Fount of our being,
light that dost lighten all,
life that in all dost abide. Refrain
God, who art giver of all
good gifts and lover of concord,
pour thy balm on our souls,
order our ways in thy peace. Refrain
God Almighty, who fillest
the heaven, the earth and the ocean,
guard us from harm without,
cleanse us from evil within. Refrain
Kindle our lips with his live bright coal
from the hands of the Seraph;
shine in our minds with thy light;
burn in our hearts with thy love. Refrain
Words: Venantius Fortunatus (530-609);
trans. Gabriel Gillett, 1906
Music: Salve, festa dies, Ralph Vaughan Williams (1872-1958)
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/h/h031.html
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If Connor had worn a red sports coat and a red tie to church today to celebrate the occasion, I am sure he would have looked very handsome. Let's try to wear a red outfit or a red accessory this week to honor the Holy Spirit. As we do, let us joyfully remember Connor and all of our relatives who are with Connor in heaven.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, May 27, 2012 10:32 PM CDT
DEAR MIKE TRUKA,
I hope all gets well soon. You are in my prayers. I miss your smiling face. You were so sweet to help me many times at work. Now that I am retired I think of you and many of my other workbuddies. I am praying for you to get well soon. You will be in my prayers and thanks again for all your kindness aa a workbuddy. God bless you and your family.
Sharon Hawk
Sharon Hawk <SHAWK51@aol.com>
Edwardsville, IL UNITED STATES - Friday, May 25, 2012 6:05 PM CDT
Happy Memorial Day Weekend To All Of Connor's Friends And Family!
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of you on what seems to be the start of an especially lovely Memorial Day Weekend. I hope you have some time to do something you will enjoy, and I also hope you have pleasant memories of the Memorial Day activities you enjoyed with Connor.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Prayers For Use At Memorial Day
For Heroic Service:
O Judge of the nations, we remember before you with grateful hearts the men and women of our country who in the day of decision ventured much for the liberties we now enjoy. Grant that we may not rest until all the people of this land share the benefits of true freedom and gladly accept its disciplines. This we ask in the Name of Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 839
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For Those In The Armed Forces Of Our Country:
Almighty God, we commend to your gracious care and keeping all the men and women of our armed forces at home and abroad. Defend them day by day with your heavenly grace; strengthen them in their trials and temptations; give them courage to face the perils which beset them; and grant them a sense of your abiding presence wherever they may be; through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 823
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, May 25, 2012 5:36 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Once again, I have paused to look through Connor's online photo album. Since it is raining here today, I was drawn to the picture of Connor holding his umbrella. I also enjoyed all of the pictures of Connor on your family trip to Florida, in May, 2004. And I certainly remember reading of the excitement when you got home from that trip, and Connor found his new go-cart. May these and other memories of your photogenic son bring you joy and peace today.
God bless you always, God bless the people with Connor in the pictures, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, May 22, 2012 12:04 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Connor was remembered in Holy Eucharist on Ascension and also on Friday, Saturday, and Sunday. May God always bless both you and your beautiful sunshine boy.
I especially thought of Connor at St. George's on Sunday morning as six boys and five girls, all completing second grade, received their "official" First Communion. The boys were all in suits or dress pants, shirts, ties, and vests, and the girls were all in white gowns. They processed in with the choir and the clergy, presented their golden books to Father Henry, and helped present an instructed Eucharist to the congregation. I am sure their beauty, innocence, charm, and eagerness would have reminded you of Connor.
Another time I thought of Connor in recent days was on Thursday afternoon while eating a lemon ice cream cone dipped in cherry, at DeVoe's Rainbow Delights, next to their Rainbow Orchard. One of the other special flavors that day was peace frozen yogurt. If Connor were here, he could have had either or vanilla, chocolate, or twist.
I hope you are doing well. Take good care of yourself, and remember that you are greatly loved.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect For John Eliot, Missionary To The American Indians, 21 May 1690:
Great Creator, source of mercy, we thank you for the imagination and conviction of your evangelist, John Eliot, who brought both literacy and the Bible to the Algonquin people, and reshaped their communities into fellowships of Christ to serve you and give you praise; and we pray that we may so desire to share your Good News with others that we labor for mutual understanding and trust; through Jesus Christ our Savior, who with you and the Holy Spirit lives and reigns, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, May 21, 2012 7:14 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Everything seems so vibrantly green here this week. I hope you are enjoying nature's colors as much as I am, and I hope everything is all right with you and with your family.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, May 16, 2012 2:18 PM CDT
The loveliest masterpiece of the heart of God is the heart of a mother.
~Therese of Lisieux (1873-1897)
HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY, RHONDA!
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Dear Rhonda,
Connor was remembered in Holy Eucharist on Friday, Saturday, and Sunday. May you sense his sweet presence with you today.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
"Bless all mothers, that their love may be deep and tender, and that they may lead their children to know and do what is good, living not for themselves alone, but for God and for others. Amen."
~Conclusion Of Prayer Used At St. George's This Morning
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, May 13, 2012 12:21 AM CDT
Rhonda, I'm thinking of you and your sweet Connor today on Mother's Day. You are the Mama we all should strive to be like. You are the type of Mama God intended all the children to have. I hope Connor can send you a special sign today as he smiles down from heaven.
Lisa (Tristan's Mama)
Mount Juliet, TN USA - Sunday, May 13, 2012 8:57 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Your sunshine boy was remembered in Holy Eucharist on both Saturday and Sunday. After the Saturday service, we held our annual Epiphany Auction to raise money to provide medical, dental, and eye related services for needy young people in the area. All we treated to a lovely Mexican buffet, which I am sure sweet Connor would have enjoyed.
I hope you are safe, well, and enjoying some of the good things in life. My thoughts and prayers are with you and with your family.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, May 7, 2012 0:54 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Our elementary schools will be breaking for summer in seven weeks, but I know the time is much shorter where you are. The faculty, staff, and parent helpers must be working on the Goodlettsville Elementary School Award Assembly at this time. How good that Connor's name will be proclaimed in connection with the Connor J. Hunley Award! I know it pleases you to hear his name spoken in such a large gathering and that it also delights the hearts of his teachers and others who knew and loved your kind, smiley, sunshine boy. Connor lives on in the hearts and minds of many in your area, but also in the hearts and minds of his friends here in Southern Saratoga County, New York. May God bless his sweet spirit.
You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, May 3, 2012 10:27 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Could it be possible that seven and a half years have passed? I am thinking of Connor and of his charming smile today and remembering him with respect and love.
God bless you always, and of course God bless your beautiful sunshine boy.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Lord, welcome into your calm and peaceful kingdom those who have departed out of this present life to be with you. Grant them rest and a place with the spirits of the just; and give them the life that knows no age, the reward that passes not away, through Christ our Lord. Amen.
~a prayer of St. Ignatius Loyola
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, May 1, 2012 4:18 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Thinking of your sweet sunshine boy today as do each day. His picture is on my computer desk and also my fridge smiling at me and encourages me to start each day with a smile no matter what the circumstances. I wanted to let you know that while in Milwaukee last week end for a wedding I saw 3 large lady bugs made of plaster of paris on a building, of course I immediately thought of Connor and luckily had my camera along to snap a picture. I will download it soon and send it to you. I miss Connor, he was an inspiration in my life and will NEVER be forgotten. You are in my prayers daily and I love you! xoxoxoxo
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, Wi. U.S.A. - Tuesday, May 1, 2012 8:25 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
While out today doing errands, I resisted the desire to have an ice cream cone. However, I thought, if Connor were here, I would have to treat him, even though I did not get one for myself. Connor continues to come to mind often, when desserts are served or discussed. May God bless his sweet spirit.
I hope things are well with you. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Collect For Sarah Josepha Buell Hale, Editor And Prophetic Witness, April 30, 1879:
Gracious God, we bless your Name for the vision and witness of Sarah Hale, whose advocacy for the ministry of women helped to support the deaconess movement. Make us grateful for your many blessings, that we may come closer to Christ in our own families; through Jesus Christ our Savior, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Hale wrote a book of children's poetry that included "Mary Had a Little Lamb." Connor may have enjoyed that book.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, April 30, 2012 3:39 PM CDT
Blessings To All On Good Shepherd Sunday!
Dear Rhonda,
Connor has been remembered in Holy Eucharist on Saturday and on Sunday, beneath the Jesus and the Children Stained Glass Window, at St. George's. Our Psalm this day is always #23, and we always sing some hymns with this theme. Below is one we did not sing this year, but which I like, and the collect.
God bless you always, and God bless all those who love your beautiful sunshine boy.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The King of love my shepherd is,
whose goodness faileth never;
I nothing lack if I am his,
and he is mine for ever.
Where streams of living water flow,
my ransomed soul he leadeth,
and where the verdant pastures grow,
with food celestial feedeth.
Perverse and foolish oft I strayed,
but yet in love He sought me,
and on his shoulder gently laid,
and home, rejoicing, brought me.
In death's dark vale I fear no ill
with thee, dear Lord, beside me;
thy rod and staff my comfort still,
thy cross before to guide me.
Thou spread'st a table in my sight;
thy unction grace bestoweth;
and O what transport of delight
from thy pure chalice floweth!
And so through all the length of days
thy goodness faileth never:
Good Shepherd, may I sing thy praise
within thy house for ever.
Words: Henry Williams Baker (1821-1877), 1868
Music: St. Columba (Irish Melody)
Hear It At: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/t/t199b.html
Or
Music: Dominus regit me (John Bacchus Dykes, 1823-1876)
Hear It At: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/t/t199.html
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The Collect For The Fourth Sunday Of Easter:
O God, whose Son Jesus is the good shepherd of your people: Grant that when we hear his voice we may know him who calls us each by name, and follow where he leads; who, with you and the Holy Spirit, lives and reigns, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, April 29, 2012 3:40 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
It is a very windy day, here, in southern Saratoga County. On a day like this, my boys and I would often recite together Christina Rossetti's well known poem, "Who Has Seen the Wind?" Surely, if Connor were here, I would teach it to him. I will leave a copy below and the collect, as my church honors her today for her incarnational and other spiritual poetry.
God bless you always. You and Connor are in my thoughts and prayers.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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Who Has Seen The Wind?
by Christian Rossetti (1830-1894)
Who has seen the wind?
Neither I nor you:
But when the leaves hang trembling
The wind is passing thro'.
Who has seen the wind?
Neither you nor I:
But when the trees bow down their heads
The wind is passing by.
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O God, whom heaven cannot hold, you inspired Christina Rossetti to express the mystery of the Incarnation through her poems: Help us to follow her example in giving our hearts to Christ, who is love; and who is alive and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, in glory everlasting. Amen.
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Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, April 27, 2012 9:31 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Last night, I attended a Staged Reading of The Book Thief at our public library. It was beautifully and powerfully read with audio visual support. Connor probably would have loved the presentation, and I know he would have enjoyed the community giveaways and refreshments that were included.
I think of you and your bright sunshine boy often. God bless you both.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect For Robert Hunt: Priest And First Chaplain At Jamestown, 1608:
Almighty God, we bless your Name for the life and witness of Robert Hunt, first chaplain to the Jamestown colony, whose community knew him as an honest, religious and courageous divine who, in his short life, endured great hardships without complaint. Help us, like him, to work for reconciliation and healing wherever we may be placed; through Jesus Christ your Son, who with you and the Holy Spirit lives and reigns, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, April 26, 2012 6:55 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
We escaped the snow late Sunday and early Monday, but in talking to a friend in Ithaca, they had close to ten inches and lost a much loved apple tree, a Japanese maple tree, and many lilies. I hope you have been safe and comfortable throughout the month.
Today is the Feast of St. Mark. I will remember Connor in Eucharist.
God bless you and all of Connor's loved ones.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect For April 25:
Almighty God, who by the hand of Mark the evangelist have given to your Church the Gospel of Jesus Christ the Son of God: We thank you for this witness, and pray that we may be firmly grounded in its truth; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, April 25, 2012 0:15 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I should have made reference to St. George in my entry on Monday, as April 23 is St. George Day. When my boys were little, we always tried to attend a St. George Party. Most of these events involved a St. George and the Dragon Pageant, which was always fun for all except one year when Andrew was little. The child portraying the dragon did an especially good job of kicking a box loudly, which caused my toddler to cry, but he was soon all smiles when the food treats came out. I am sure Connor would have had fun at a St. George Party.
God bless you, and God bless your beautiful sunshine boy.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect For St. George's Day:
Almighty God, who gave to your servant George boldness to confess the Name of our Savior Jesus Christ before the rulers of this world, and courage to die for this faith: Grant that we may always be ready to give a reason for the hope that is in us, and to suffer gladly for the sake of our Lord Jesus Christ; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, April 24, 2012 0:32 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I was over to visit Tavin on Thursday night, and I was busy on the weekend with Riverway Storytelling Festival. Last night, I attended a coffee house which was done by a favorite Catskill Mountain singer. He plays guitar, banjo, mountain dulcimer, fiddle, piano, mandolin, and hammered dulcimer. I believe Connor would have enjoyed both the stories and the music, and I know he would have loved the food at both events.
Connor was also in my thoughts at church this weekend. I always remember him beneath the Jesus and the Children stained glass window. You were in my prayers, at Eucharist, as well.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
A Collect For The Easter Season:
Let your people. O Lord, rejoice for ever that they have been renewed in spirit; and let the joy of our adoption as your sons and daughters strengthen the hope of our glorious resurrection in Jesus Christ our Lord; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, April 23, 2012 4:17 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Connor was remembered in Holy Eucharist on both Saturday and Sunday. The Easter music was lovely. I am enjoying these fifty glorious days of Easter, and I hope you are, as well. May the resurrection of our Lord Jesus Christ give you renewed hope for a sure and certain reunion with Connor and with all those you have loved, but no longer see.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
A Collect For This Week:
Grant, O Lord, that we may live in the Paschal mystery that the joy of the fifty days may continually strengthen us and assure us of our salvation; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, April 16, 2012 11:52 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
The Riverway Storytelling Festival is this coming week. There are about thirty events spread around the Capital District. If Connor were here, I would enjoy bringing him to some of these programs. Perhaps on the way home, we could stop for ice cream.
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect For Easter Saturday:
We thank you, heavenly Father, that you have delivered us from the dominion of sin and death and brought us into the kingdom of you Son; and we pray that, as by his death he has recalled us to life, so by his love he may raise us to eternal joys; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, April 14, 2012 7:23 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I received this thought for Easter Monday in my email today. I thought it might be helpful to you and to Connor's family. God bless you all.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Christ has died, Christ has risen – sorrow and joy unite.
Meditation for Easter Monday
The cross is the main symbol of our faith, and it invites us to find hope where we see pain and to reaffirm the resurrection where we see death. The call to be grateful is a call to trust that every moment of our life can be claimed as the way of the cross that leads to new life. Can we be grateful for everything that has happened in our life - not just the good things but for all that has brought us to today?
In the world's eyes, there is an enormous distinction between good times and bad, between sorrow and joy. But in the eyes of God, they are never separated. Our ministry is to help people gradually let go of their resentment and discover that right in the middle of suffering there is blessing. Where there is pain, there is healing. Where there is mourning, there is dancing. Where there is poverty, there is the Kingdom of God.
~Henri Nouwen (1932-1996) from A Spirituality of Living by Henri J.M. Nouwen
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The Collect For Easter Monday:
Grant, we pray, Almighty God, that we who celebrate with awe the Paschal feast may be found worthy to attain to everlasting joys; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, April 9, 2012 9:21 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
As I drove to The Cathedral of All Saints for Easter Eucharist this beloved Easter hymn was being played on the radio.
Jesus Christ is risen today, Alleluia!
our triumphant holy day, Alleluia!
who did once upon the cross, Alleluia!
suffer to redeem our loss. Alleluia!
Hymns of praise then let us sing, Alleluia!
unto Christ, our heavenly King, Alleluia!
who endured the cross and grave, Alleluia!
sinners to redeem and save. Alleluia!
But the pains which he endured, Alleluia!
our salvation have procured, Alleluia!
now above the sky he's King, Alleluia!
where the angels ever sing. Alleluia!
Sing we to our God above, Alleluia!
praise eternal as his love, Alleluia!
praise him, all ye heavenly host, Alleluia!
Father, Son, and Holy Ghost. Alleluia!
Words: Compleat Psalmodist, 1749
Stanza 4, Charles Wesley (1707-1788)
Music: Easter Hymn, from Lyra Davidica, 11708; adapt. The Compleat Psalmodist, 1749
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/j/j038.html
I wonder how many people listened to it or sang it this morning.
You and Connor have been in my thoughts and prayers today.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, April 8, 2012 9:35 PM CDT
Happy Easter To All Of Connor's Loved Ones!
Dear Rhonda,
Connor was in my thoughts at the Easter Vigil earlier today, at St. George's.
It was good talking with you on Friday night.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
A Collect For Easter:
Almighty God, who through your only-begotten Son Jesus Christ overcame death and opened to us the gate of everlasting life: Grant that we, who celebrate with joy the day of the Lord's resurrection, may be raised from the death of sin by your life-giving Spirit; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, April 7, 2012 10:51 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
The weather here has been so lovely that one thinks it is much later in the year than it is. Of course, spring brings to mind the Connor Jordan Hunley Award. I am sure the principal and staff are beginning to think about who should be on the list of possible recipients. I hope you can get to school to help present the award.
God bless you as we complete the two weeks leading up to Easter.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect for the Friday in the Fourth Week of Lent:
O God, you have given us the good news of your abounding love in your Son Jesus Christ: So fill our hearts with thankfulness that we may rejoice to proclaim the good tidings we have received; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, March 23, 2012 10:31 PM CDT
Happy Spring To All Of Connor's Family And Friends!
Dear Rhonda,
May this spring be a time of new thoughts, new insights, and new life for you as you ponder the deep new life that Connor now lives with God.
Below is a prayer which you may enjoy.
God bless you always.
Grace and peace,
~Colette
O Lord,
May we today be touched by grace, fascinated and
moved by this your creation, energized by the
power of new growth at work in your world.
May we move beyond viewing this life only through a
frame, but
touch it and be touched by it,
know it and be known by it,
love it and be loved by it.
May our bodies, our minds, and our spirits, learn a new
rhythm paced by the rhythmic pulse of the
whole created order.
May spring come to us, be in us, and recreate life in us.
May we forge a new friendship with the natural
world and discover a new affinity with beauty,
with life, and with the Cosmic Christ in whom
all things were created in heaven and on earth,
visible or invisible, whether thrones or
dominions or principalities or authorities...for
all things were created through him and for him.
In his name.
Amen.
~Chinook Psalter
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, March 20, 2012 0:06 AM CDT
Happy St. Patrick's Day To All Of Connor's Friends And Family!
Dear Rhonda,
Here's a prayer that was used at one of my recent storytelling days. Perhaps it will offer you a blessing today as you remember your dear sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and friendship,
~Colette
A Friendship Blessing:
May you be blessed with good friends.
May you learn to be a good friend to yourself.
May you be able to journey to that place in your soul
where there is great love, warmth, feeling, and
forgiveness.
May this change you.
May it transfigure that which is negative, distant, or cold
in you.
May you be brought to the real passion, kinship, and
affinity of belonging.
May you treasure your friends.
May you be good to them, and may you be there for them. May they bring you all the blessings challenges, truth, and
light that you need for your journey.
May you never be isolated.
May you always be in the gentle nest of your anam cara.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, March 17, 2012 10:29 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I have been involved with lots of storytelling this week. Two of the programs also included corned beef and cabbage dinners. I am sure Connor would have enjoyed the tales, the opportunities to tell his own stories, the traditional music, and the great seasonal food.
Happy St. Patrick's Day. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect For Friday In The Third Week Of Lent:
Grant us, O Lord our Strength, to have a True Love of your Holy Name; so that, trusting in your grace, we may fear no earthly evil, nor fix our hearts on earthly goods, but may rejoice in your full salvation; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, March 16, 2012 11:24 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
A few nights ago, we had an opportunity to see the movie, War Horse. Early parts of the movie, as the youth, Albert, trained and cared for the horse, Joey, reminded me of Connor and Basko. Connor's friends will not forget his enjoyment of Basko and of other animals.
God bless you always.
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect For Sunday In The Third Week Of Lent:
Almighty God, you know that we have no power in ourselves to help ourselves: Keep us both outwardly in our bodies and inwardly in our souls, that we may be defended from all adversities which may happen to the body, and from all evil thoughts which may assault and hurt the soul; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, March 11, 2012 6:51 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
As upstate New York is covered with fresh snow, I am thinking of you and of sweet Connor. It does not seem possible that he passed into eternal life 88 months ago. But be assured, that as you knew then that Connor was in another dimension, waiting for you, that Connor remains there, ready to greet you one bright day.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and hope,
~Colette
The Collect For Thursday In The First Week Of Lent:
Strengthen us, O Lord, by your grace, that in your might we may overcome all spiritual enemies, and with pure hearts serve you; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, March 1, 2012 8:55 AM CST
Nothing can replace the deep peace we come to know when we are living in his sweet will.
~A Saying Of The Colettines
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of you, and of Connor, on the first Sunday in Lent. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Here is the beginning of the Gospel we had today.
In those days Jesus came from Nazareth of Galilee and was baptized by John in the Jordan. And just as he was coming up out of the water, he saw the heavens torn apart and the Spirit descending like a dove on him. And a voice came from heaven, "You are my Son, the Beloved; with you I am well pleased."
~Mark, Chapter One
I know that you were always well pleased with Connor, and I am sure his heavenly Father is also pleased with Connor. Hold that thought in your heart this week.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Almighty God, whose blessed Son was led by the Spirit to be tempted by Satan: Come quickly to help us who are assaulted by many temptations; and, as you know the weaknesses of each of us, let each one find you mighty to save; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, February 26, 2012 12:40 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
Connor was remembered in the Ash Wednesday Liturgy. May God bless you both.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, February 23, 2012 0:36 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I hope you are enjoying this Presidents' Day Weekend. As always, my thoughts and prayers are with you.
God bless you, and of course, God bless your sunshine boy.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, February 19, 2012 12:02 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I hope you have felt how deeply you are loved today. May God bless both you and your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Almighty and everlasting God, who kindled the flame of your love in the heart of your holy martyr Valentine: Grant to us, your humble servants, a like faith and power of love, that we who rejoice in his triumph may profit by his example; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, February 14, 2012 8:54 PM CST
Happy Valentine's Day To All Of Connor's Loved Ones!
Dear Rhonda,
I hope you are staying well and safe during these wintery days. My thoughts and prayers are with you regularly.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, February 13, 2012 12:25 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of you and remembering sweet Connor on another first of the month. No one who has visited Connor's website several times will ever forget your beautiful sunshine boy.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Everliving God, we rejoice today in the fellowship of your blessed servant Brigid, and we give you thanks for her life of devoted service. Inspire us with life and light, and give us perseverance to serve you all our days; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who with you and the Holy Spirit lives and reigns, one God, world without end.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, February 1, 2012 0:33 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
Connor was remembered in Holy Eucharist both on Saturday and this morning. May God always bless his sweet spirit.
I hope all is well with you and with your family. Please let me know whenever there are things I can pray about for you.
Below is a copy of a hymn for this Sunday that I like and also a copy of the collect.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The sinless one to Jordan came,
and in the river shared our stain;
God's righteousness he thus fulfilled,
and chose the path his Father willed.
Uprising from the waters there,
the Father's voice did then declare
that Christ, the Son of God, had come
to lead his scattered people home.
Above him see the heavenly Dove,
the sign of God the Father's love,
now by the Holy Spirit shed
upon the Son's anointed head.
How blest that mission then begun
to heal and save a race undone!
Straight to the wilderness he goes
to wrestle with his people's foes.
O Christ, may we baptized from sin,
go forth with you a world to win:
grant us the Holy Spirit's power
to shield us in temptation's hour.
On you may all your people feed,
and know that you are the Bread indeed,
who gives eternal life to those
that with you died and with you rose.
Words: George B. Timms (b. 1910)
Music: Solemnis haec festivitas, melody from Graduale, 1685
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/t/t337.html
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Father in heaven, who at the baptism of Jesus in the River Jordan proclaimed him your beloved Son and anointed him with the Holy Spirit: Grant that all who are baptized into his Name may keep the covenant they have made, and boldly confess him as Lord and Savior; who with you and the Holy Spirit lives and reigns, one God, in glory everlasting. Amen.
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Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, January 8, 2012 8:55 PM CST
Glad Epiphany To All!
Dear Rhonda,
Early on a Friday morning, I am thinking of you and of Connor. Today is Epiphany, a major holy day. I will leave you the lyrics to one of my favorite Epiphany hymns. Written by John Mason Neale, who also wrote Good King Wenceslas, it appears on some of the Nowell, Sing We Clear recordings of Tony Barrand and John Roberts and on William Pint and Felicia Dale's album, When I See Winter Return. If you know it, perhaps you can sing it. If not, read the words carefully. I especially like the part about returning with "hearts and footsteps lighter," as we have all known this healing at some time or another in our walk with the Lord.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Over the Hill and Over the Dale
by John Mason Neale
Over the hill and over the dale
Came three kings together
Caring naught for snow and hail
Cold and wind and weather
Now on Persia’s sandy plane
Now where Tigris swells with rain
They their camels tether
Now through Syrian lands they go
Now through Moab faint and slow
Now o’r Edam’s heather.
Over the hill and over the dale
Each king bears a present
Wise men go a child to hale
Monarchs seek a peasant
And in front a star proceeds
Over rocks and rivers leads
Shines with beams incessant
Therefore onward, onward still
Ford the stream and climb the hill
Love makes all things pleasant.
He is God ye go to meet
Therefore incense proffer
He is king ye go to greet
Gold is in your coffer
Also man he comes to share
Every woe that man can bear
Tempter, railer, scoffer
Therefore now against the day
In the grave when him they lay
Myrrh ye also offer.
Over the hill and over the dale,
Riding east together
Caring naught for snow and hail,
Naught for wind and weather
Warned by God from Herod’s door,
Each king turns for home once more
Hearts and footsteps lighter,
Now behind them shines the star
Which they followed from afar,
Shining ever brighter.
Today's Collect:
O God, by the leading of a star you manifested your only Son to the peoples of the earth: Lead us, who know you now by faith, to your presence, where we may see your glory face to face; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, January 6, 2012 1:43 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
Greetings to you, and to all of Connor's friends, on Twelfth Night! When my sons were little, we used to go to the party at Fort Crailo, near Albany, where old fashioned gingerbread and other treats were served. I am sure Connor would have enjoyed the traditional food, costumes, and music.
Connor has been remembered in several celebrations during these holy Twelve Days.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
As we conclude the Christmas season tonight, let us reflect on this thought:
Work of Christmas Begins
By Howard Thurman (adapted)
When the song of the angels is stilled,
when the star in the sky is gone,
when the kings and princes are home,
when the shepherds are back with the flocks,
then the work of Christmas begins:
to find the lost,
to heal those broken in spirit,
to feed the hungry,
to release the oppressed,
to rebuild the nations,
to bring peace among all peoples,
to make a little music with the heart…
And to radiate the Light of Christ,
every day, in every way, in all that we do and in all that we say.
Then the work of Christmas begins.
The message of the Feast of Epiphany announces to all people, everywhere:
Rise up in splendor…your light has come,
The Glory of the Lord shines upon you!
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, January 5, 2012 5:46 PM CST
Blessings On The Feast Of The Holy Name Of Jesus To All Of Connor's Family And Friends!
Dear Rhonda,
What a nice surprise to see a picture of Connor and Bosko on the home page! I know that many people loved to hear about them.
Connor was remembered in Holy Eucharist both on Saturday and this morning. You are also in my thoughts and prayers.
May the new year ahead be, for you, rich in hope, faith, health, opportunity, friendship, and good memories.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
A Hymn For The Feast Of The Holy Name Of Jesus:
To the Name of our salvation,
laud and honor let us pay,
which for many a generation
hid in God's foreknowledge lay;
but with holy exultation
we may sing aloud today.
Jesus is the Name we treasure;
Name beyond what words can tell;
Name of gladness, Name of pleasure,
ear and heart delighting well;
Name of sweetness, passing measure,
saving us from sin and hell.
'Tis the Name for adoration,
Name for songs of victory,
Name for holy meditation
in this vale of misery,
Name for joyful veneration
by the citizens on high.
'Tis the Name that whoso preacheth
speaks like music to the ear;
who in prayer this Name beseecheth
sweetest comfort findeth near;
who its perfect wisdom reacheth,
heavenly joy possesseth here.
Jesus is the Name exalted
over every other name;
in this Name, whene'er assaulted,
we can put our foes to shame;
strength to them who else had halted,
eyes to blind, and feet to lame.
Therefore we in love adoring,
this most blessèd Name revere;
holy Jesus, thee imploring
so to write it in us here,
that hereafter, heavenward soaring,
we may sing with angels there.
Words: Latin, fifthteenth century;
trans. Hymns Ancient & Modern, 1860;
based on that of John Mason Neale, 1851
Music: Oriel, Casper Ett (1788-1847)
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/t/t753.html
Other tunes used wth these words are Grafton and St. Nicholas.
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The Collect For The Feast Of The Holy Name Of Jesus:
Eternal Father, you gave to your incarnate Son the holy name of Jesus to be the sign of our salvation: Plant in every heart, we pray, the love of him who is the Savior of the world, our Lord Jesus Christ; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, in glory everlasting. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 213
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, January 1, 2012 6:22 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I have thought of Connor several times during this Christmas Week. May God bless his sweet spirit, and may God bless you.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, December 31, 2011 0:00 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I intended to write you again after church yesterday morning, but when I got home from Eucharist, the power was off in the house. It stayed off for the next three hours, so I did food preparation in lantern light. Connor was remembered, in the beauty of holiness both on Christmas Eve and on Christmas Day. You were in my thoughts as well.
Today is the Feast of St. Stephen, the first Christian marytr. Perhaps during as past Christmas time, you have sung Good King Wenceslas with Connor. The king and his page, in the song, were celebrating this feast.
Good King Wenceslas looked out, on the Feast of Stephen,
When the snow lay round about, deep and crisp and even;
Brightly shone the moon that night, tho' the frost was cruel,
When a poor man came in sight, gath'ring winter fuel.
"Hither, page, and stand by me, if thou know'st it, telling,
Yonder peasant, who is he? Where and what his dwelling?"
"Sire, he lives a good league hence, underneath the mountain;
Right against the forest fence, by Saint Agnes' fountain."
"Bring me flesh, and bring me wine, bring me pine logs hither:
Thou and I will see him dine, when we bear them thither."
Page and monarch, forth they went, forth they went together;
Through the rude wind's wild lament and the bitter weather.
"Sire, the night is darker now, and the winds blow stronger;
Fails my heart, I know not how, I can go no longer."
"Mark my footsteps, my good page. Treadst thou in them boldly:
Thou shalt find the winter's rage freeze thy blood less coldly."
In his master's steps he trod, where the snow lay dinted;
Heat was in the very sod which the saint had printed.
Therefore, Christian men, be sure, wealth or rank possessing,
Ye who now will bless the poor, shall yourselves find blessing.
~John Mason Neale (1818-1866)
God bless you always, and of course, God bless Connor.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
We give you thanks, O Lord of glory, for the example of the first martyr Stephen, who looked up to heaven and prayed for his persecutors to your Son Jesus Christ, who stands at your right hand: where he lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, in glory everlasting. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, December 26, 2011 3:47 PM CST
Merry Christmas To All Of Connor's Friends And Family!
God bless you all.
Grace, peace, love, and joy,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, December 25, 2011 0:53 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I have thought of Connor many times during the last few days at church, out shopping, and at special seasonal activities. I wish I had him here with me today to help with last minute gift wrapping and food preparation.
God bless you on this holy night.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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Christmas Eve Prayer Offered In Space:
Give us, O God, the vision which can see Your love in the world in spite of human failure.
Give us the faith to trust Your goodness in spite of our ignorance and weakness.
Give us the knowledge that we may continue to pray with understanding hearts.
And show us what each one of us can do to set forward the coming of the day of universal peace.
~Frank Borman, Apollo 8 Space Mission, 1968
Wishing you peace and happiness at Christmas,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, December 24, 2011 1:56 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
Connor and you were remembered, at Eucharist, this afternoon.
Today is the day some of us begin praying and/or singing the seven traditional O Antiphons leading up to the Feast of the Nativity. The Prayers of the People format that we used today is based on those antiphons. I will leave the prayers below.
God bless you always, and, of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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Deacon: In joyful expectation let us pray to our Savior and Redeemer saying, "Amen! Come, Lord Jesus!"
O Wisdom, from the mouth of the Most High, you reign over all things to the ends of the earth: come and teach us how to live.
People: Amen! Come, Lord Jesus!
O Lord, and head of the house of Israel, you appeared to Moses in the fire of the burning bush and you gave the law on Sinai: come with outstretched arms and ransom us.
Amen! Come, Lord Jesus!
O Branch of Jesse, standing as a sign among the nations, all kings will keep silence before you and all peoples will summon you to their aid: come and set us free and delay no more.
Amen! Come, Lord Jesus!
O Key of David and scepter of the house of Israel, you open and none can shut; you shut and none can open: come and free all captives from their prison.
Amen! Come Lord Jesus!
O Morning Star, splendor of the light eternal and bright Sun of righteousness: come and enlighten all who dwell in darkness and in the shadow of death.
Amen! Come, Lord Jesus.
O King of the nations, you alone can fulfill their desires: Cornerstone, you make opposing nations one: come and save the creatures you fashioned from the clay.
Amen! Come, Lord Jesus!
O Emmanuel, hope of the nations and their Savior: come and save us, Lord our God.
Amen! Come, Lord Jesus!
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Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, December 17, 2011 8:52 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I thought I had signed Connor's guest book two or three times during these busy days of early December. Now that I am here, apparently, I have not. I certainly have thought of Connor in regular celebration of the Eucharist, in an Advent Quiet Day, in two Advent Days of Reflection, in listening to Advent music, and in watching a variety of Christmas specials. I am sure you are thinking of the many fun and good things that you did with Connor leading up to Christmas. May your personal memories be filled with hope, love, joy, and peace.
Today's saint is Lucy. My Andrew saw a character actor portraying Lucy, when he was an older toddler. That Christmas friends of our family gave Andrew a toy lamb. When asked what he would call her, Andrew announced "Lucy Mary," and added, "for the one with the light and the mother of Jesus." Saint Lucy's name means "light," and she is often depicted wearing a crown of lighted candles. What little one would not be impressed!
Below is the collect for the day.
God bless you, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Loving God, for the salvation of all you gave Jesus Christ as light to a world in darkness: Illumine us, with your daughter Lucy, with the light of Christ, that by the merits of his passion we may be led to eternal life; through the same Jesus Christ, who with you and the Holy Spirit lives and reigns, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, December 14, 2011 11:37 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
Today is the Feast of St. Andrew, the Apostle. It is for this man of God that my younger son was named. Perhaps some day you will tell me about how Connor was named.
God bless you, and God bless our boys.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Almighty God, who gave such grace to your apostle Andrew that he readily obeyed the call of your Son Jesus Christ, and brought his brother with him: Give unto us, who are called by your Word, grace to follow him without delay, and to bring those near to us into his gracious presence; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
~The Collect For The Feast Of St. Andrew (November 30)
The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 237
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, November 30, 2011 5:14 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
This week, as we light the first violet candle in our Advent wreaths, the hope candle, may your hope of heaven, and of a reunion with Connor, glow brightly.
Here is a traditional Advent hymn, which I enjoyed and learned at the cathedral yesterday.
Come, Thou Redeemer of the earth,
And manifest Thy virgin-birth:
Let every age adoring fall,
Such birth befits the God of all.
Begotten of no human will,
But of the Spirit, Thou art still
The Word of God in flesh arrayed,
The Saviour, now to man displayed.
O equal to Thy Father, thou!
Gird on thy fleshly mantle now,
The weakness of our mortal state
With deathless might invigorate.
Thy cradle here shall glitter bright,
And darkness glow with newborn light,
No more shall night extinguish day,
Where love's bright beams their pow'r display.
O Jesu, Virgin born, to thee
Eternal praise and glory be,
Whom with the Father we adore
And Holy Spirit, evermore.
Words: Saint Ambrose of Milan (340-397), Trans. John Mason Neale (1818-1866)
Music: Puer Nobis Nascitur, Michael Praetorius (1571-1621)
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/u/u013.html
God bless you always, and God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, November 28, 2011 5:34 PM CST
Blessings To All On Advent Sunday!
Dear Rhonda,
I have thought of Connor several times this weekend, but especially at The Cathedral of All Saints this afternoon, during the Service of Advent Lessons and Carols. My boys always loved the cathedral and this service, and I am sure Connor would have enjoyed it as well.
I hope you are all right and doing good things for yourself and for those around you.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect For 1 Advent:
Almighty God, give us grace to cast away the works of darkness, and put on the armor of light, now in the time of this mortal life in which your Son Jesus Christ came to visit us in great humility; that in the last day, when he shall come again in his glorious majesty to judge both the living and the dead, we may rise to the life immortal; through him who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, November 27, 2011 11:02 PM CST
Happy Thanksgiving To All Of Connor's Friends And Family!
Dear Rhonda,
I have been thinking about Connor today especially as I ate a piece of warm pumpkin pie a few hours ago. I am sure Connor enjoyed the tastes and smells associated with the biggest feast of the year.
God bless you as you remember the good holidays you had with Connor and as you anticipate the sweet reunion you will have with him in that place were there is neither sighing nor tears, but life eternal.
Below is my favorite Thanksgiving hymn. Perhaps you sang it with Connor when he was a little guy, as I sang it with my sons.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
Colette
Now thank we all our God,
with heart and hands and voices,
who wondrous things hath done,
in whom his world rejoices;
who from our mother's arms
hath blessed us on our way
with countless gifts of love,
and still is ours today.
O may this bounteous God
through all our life be near us,
with ever-joyful hearts
and blessèd peace to cheer us;
and keep us in his grace,
and guide us when perplexed,
and free us from all ills
in this world and the next.
All praise and thanks to God
the Father now be given,
the Son, and Holy Ghost,
supreme in highest heaven,
the one eternal God,
whom earth and heaven adore;
for thus it was, is now,
and shall be evermore.
Words: Martin Rinkart (1586-1649), 1636
trans. Catherine Winkworth (1827-1878), 1858
Music: Nun danket alle Gott (later form of melody by Johann Crüger, 1598-1662)
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/n/n139.html
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, November 24, 2011 2:10 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
On this date, in 1963, three famous people died. They were President Kennedy, Aldous Huxley, and C.S. Lewis. My boys always loved the Lewis series, The Chronicles of Narnia. Andrew totally wore our the set of seven Narnia books my mother had given to me, so I bought him a large book containing all seven stories. I hope Connor had a chance to know these beloved books. I am including a quote from the last book before I leave the collect of the day.
God bless you always, and God bless all those who know who Aslan really is.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
"When Aslan said you could never go back to Narnia, he meant the Narnia you were thinking of. But that was not the real Narnia. That had a beginning and an end. It was only a shadow or a copy of the real Narnia which has always been there and always will be there: just as our own world, England and all, is only a shadow or copy of something in Aslan's real world. You need not mourn over Narnia, Lucy. All of the old Narnia that mattered, all the dear creatures, have been drawn into the real Narnia through the Door. And of course it is different; as different as a real thing is from a shadow or as waking life is from a dream."
~C.S. Lewis, in The Last Battle, 1956
Today's Collect:
O God of searing truth and surpassing beauty, we give you thanks for Clive Staples Lewis whose sanctified imagination lights fires of faith in young and old alike; Surprise us also with your joy and draw us into that new and abundant life which is ours in Christ Jesus, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, November 22, 2011 9:00 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
Over the weekend, Connor was remembered in a service for the Feast of Christ the King. It does not seem possible that we are only three days away from Thanksgiving and about a week away from the beginning of Advent. Also, over the weekend, we had a chance to see the movie, A Dolphin's Tail. I know Connor would have enjoyed it.
I hope you are well.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
O God most glorious, whose praises are sung night and day by your saints and angels in heaven: We give you thanks for William Byrd, John Merbecke and Thomas Tallis, whose music has enriched the praise that your Church offers you here on earth. Grant, we pray, to all who are touched by the power of music such glimpses of eternity that we may be made ready to join your saints in heaven and behold your glory unveiled for evermore; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
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A Thomas Tallis Hymn:
Praise to the Holiest in the height,
and in the depth be praise;
in all his words most wonderful,
most sure in all his ways!
O loving wisdom of our God!
When all was sin and shame,
a second Adam to the fight
and to the rescue came.
O wisest love! that flesh and blood,
which did in Adam fail,
should strive afresh against the foe,
should strive, and should prevail;
and that the highest gift of grace
should flesh and blood refine:
God's presence and his very self,
and essence all-divine.
O generous love! that he who smote
in man for man the foe,
the double agony in Man
for man should undergo.
And in the garden secretly,
and on the cross on high,
should teach his brethren, and inspire
to suffer and to die.
Praise to the Holiest in the height,
and in the depth be praise;
in all his words most wonderful,
most sure in all his ways!
Words: John Henry Newman (1801-1890), 1866
Music: First Mode Melody (Thomas Tallis, 1505-1585)
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/p/p101b.html
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, November 21, 2011 6:00 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I thought of Connor last Sunday, when the children's procession entered St. George's, on All Saints' Sunday. I noticed young people dressed as St. Leonard, St. Mary, St. Edward, and the ever popular St. Dominick. (The children love to dress as Dominick, as his shield contains a dog carrying a torch. Connor would probably like that as much as our kids do.)
I also thought of Connor today, as we had the Kirking of the Tartans. This was done in honor of St. Margaret of Scotland, St. Columba, St. Aiden, and the gift of the American Episcopate through the Consecration of Samuel Seabury, in Aberdeen, Scotland, on November 14, in 1796. Connor would have enjoyed the sounds and colors involved, including the pipes and drums of the New York State Corrections Pipe Band.
I hope all is well with you.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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GOD ALONE
There is no real occasion for tumult, strain, conflict, anxiety, once we have reached the living conviction that God is All. All takes place within God. God alone matters; God alone is. Our spiritual life is God's affair, because whatever we may think to the contrary, it is really produced by God's steady attraction and our humble and self-forgetful response to it. It consists in being drawn, at God's pace and in God's way, to the place where God wants us to be.
~Evelyn Underhill, in The Soul's Delight
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, November 13, 2011 4:08 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
Thank you for posting the picture of Connor's balloon launch and the beautiful words that your friends wrote in your Facebook pages. That so many balloons were sent to Connor, and that over thirty people sent you encouraging words, speaks volumes about both your sweet sunshine boy and you! When I have an opportunity, I will remember Connor in a Eucharist for All Souls' Day.
God bless you always, and God bless all of Connor's many friends and relatives.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Who are these like stars appearing,
these, before God's throne who stand?
Each a golden crown is wearing;
who are all this glorious band?
Alleluia! Hark, they sing,
praising loud their heavenly King.
Who are these of dazzling brightness,
clothed in God's own righteousness?
These, whose robes of purest whiteness,
shall their luster still possess,
still untouched by time's rude hand?
Whence came all this glorious band?
These are they who have contended
for their Savior's honor long,
wrestling on till life was ended,
following not the sinful throng;
these who well the fight sustained,
triumph through the Lamb have gained.
These are they whose hearts were riven,
sore with woe and anguish tried,
who in prayer full oft have striven
with the God they glorified;
now, their painful conflict o'er,
God has bid them weep no more.
These, the Almighty contemplating,
did as priests before him stand,
soul and body always waiting
day and night at his command:
now in God's most holy place
blest they stand before his face.
Words: Heinrich Theobald Schenk, 1719;
trans. Frences Elizabeth Cox, 1841, rev. 1864
Music: Zeuch mich (All Saints Old)
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/w/w441.html
Truly Connor Jordan Hunley is one appearing like a star.
Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, November 2, 2011 1:08 AM CDT
Remembering Connor....
Heidi
- Tuesday, November 1, 2011 7:33 AM CDT
Blessings To All On The Feast Of All Saints!
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of you on this great Holy Day, which is also the seventh anniversary of Connor's passing. A few hours ago, I was looking through some of my files and came across several pictures of Connor. One was of him wading with his grandfather, another was of him wearing a big floppy hat, and still another was of him with his arms wrapped around his dad's neck. I am sure you know exactly which pictures I viewed, and that those images, and other good memories, bring you joy.
I have lit a candle for Connor today at Barbara Cawthorne Crafton's Geranium Farm. Here is the message.
+ This candle is for Connor Jordan Hunley from Tennessee +
for Connor, a child, on the seventh anniversary of his passing into eternal life and for peace and hope for his mother, Rhonda
~ this candle was lit by Colette from New York
You can view the candle at: http://www.geraniumfarm.org/candles.cfm
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your wonderful son, Connor Jordan Hunley, who is now one of the joys of heaven.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, November 1, 2011 1:48 AM CDT
Thinking of you tonight, Rhonda. Connor often comes to mind. I hope you're doing well and have many more good days than bad.
Shelly (friend of Richie Shannon's)
Shelly VanB <jsvanb@sasktel.net>
Saskatoon, SK canada - Monday, October 31, 2011 8:05 PM CDT
Happy Birthday Connor!
Lisa
Mt. Juliet, TN USA - Monday, October 31, 2011 5:01 PM CDT
To All Of Connor's Family And Friends:
On Connor's seventeenth birthday, my thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, October 31, 2011 0:14 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
With the expected Nor'Easter yesterday afternoon and evening and with possible power outages here today, I wrote my message about the Eve of Halloween very early yesterday morning. Since our power is still on, I am able to visit today, as well.
Connor was remembered in Holy Eucharist yesterday when Andrew, Kristen, and I went to church. I prayed for you, there, in the beauty of holiness, as well.
May memories of good Halloweens and birthday activities, with Connor, bright joy to your heart and a smile to your face. He truly was a sunshine boy, and he truly awaits you in God's eternal kingdom.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your beloved son, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, October 30, 2011 10:18 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Once again, on the Eve of Halloween, I am thinking of you and of your sweet sunshine boy. The picture of young Connor, in his Halloween costume, has always been one of my favorites. May the good Halloweens you had with Connor, and the hope of heaven, bring you joy and comfort today.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless Connor.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, October 29, 2011 1:17 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of you as Connor's birthday approaches. Connor was remembered beneath the Jesus and the Children stained glass window this past weekend.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, October 24, 2011 11:19 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I thought about Connor as I prepared to read in church on Saturday afternoon. May God always bless you, and may God also always bless Connor.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, October 9, 2011 1:28 AM CDT
Blessings To All On The Feast Of St. Francis Of Assisi!
Dear Rhonda,
I always think of Connor and Cheyenne on this day, as they both loved animals. May they be blessed in God's eternal kingdom, and may you, and all of Connor's loved ones, also be blessed.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Collect For October 4:
Most high, omnipotent, good Lord, grant your people grace Gladly to renounce the vanities of this world; that, following the way of blessed Francis, we may for love of you delight in your whole creation with perfect joy; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
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For All God's Creatures
O God, we thank thee,
for all the creatures thou hast made,
so perfect in their kind --
great animals like the elephant and the rhinoceros,
humorous animals like the camel and the monkey,
friendly ones like the dog and the cat,
working ones like the horse and the ox,
timid ones like the squirrel and the rabbit,
majestic ones like the lion and the tiger,
for birds with their songs.
O God, give us such love for thy creation,
that love may cast out fear,
and all thy creatures -- and thy creation,
see in men and women like us
their priest and their friend.
~George Appleton
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, October 4, 2011 11:13 AM CDT
Happy Birthday, Plus One, Rhonda!
I continue to think of you, and I hope all is going well.
God bless you always.
Grace and peace,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, October 2, 2011 12:07 AM CDT
Happy Birthday, Rhonda!
Dear Rhonda,
I hope you can enjoy some ice cream and cake as you celebrate your birthday today. May the year ahead be rich in health and safety, peace, opportunity, and companionship.
God bless you always, and God bless your sweet sunshine boy. I will be thinking of Connor often this weekend, as many churches are doing their annual blessing of animals.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Watch over thy child, O Lord, as her days increase; bless and guide her wherever she may be. Strengthen her when she stands; comfort her when discouraged or sorrowful; raise her up if she fall; and in her heart may thy peace which passeth understanding abide all the days of her life; through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.
~Tradional Birthday Prayer: The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 811
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, October 1, 2011 9:31 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I don't know where the month of September has gone. I do continue to remember sweet Connor and to think of you. I hope you enjoy your upcoming birthday.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, September 26, 2011 11:54 PM CDT
Happy Labor Day Weekend To Rhonda And To All Of Connor's Family And Friends!
Dear Rhonda,
While out on errands today, I stopped at De Voe's for a peach frozen yogurt cone. I was in a hurry, so I ate in my car, rather than finding and using a picnic table. Even so, I thought of your sunshine boy, as I ate. May God bless his sweet spirit.
I hope you are well and can enjoy the long weekend.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Collect For Labor Day:
Almighty God, you have so linked our lives one with another that all we do affects, for good or ill, all other lives: So guide us in the work we do, that we may do it not for self alone, but for the common good; and, as we seek a proper return for our own labor, make us mindful of the rightful aspirations of other workers, and arouse our concern for those who are out of work; though Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 825
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, September 2, 2011 5:05 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
We have had some odd weather during the last ten days or so with tornados, an earthquake, and the hurricane. We have not suffered any personal losses but the two daughters-in-law of our relatives, in Hobart, both had family members with huge losses, including one woman who lost her life, when her house was swept away. I hope that you and all of Connor's family and friends are safe and well.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Aidan of Lindisfarne has always been one of my favorites. His feast was August 31. The collect is below.
O loving God, who called your servant Aidan from the peace of a cloister to re-establish the Christian mission in northern England, and gave him the gifts of gentleness, simplicity, and strength: Grant that we, following his example, may use what you have given us for the relief of human need, and may persevere in commending the saving Gospel of our Redeemer Jesus Christ; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, September 1, 2011 1:16 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
This morning, I read at church. Of course, Connor is always a part of my prayers, there, in the beauty of holiness.
Saturday, my friend and I went to Cooperstown to participate in some storytelling. She is very found of Irish stories, and she told a new story of Finn MacCool that Connor would have loved. All of the tellers were good, but he would have also enjoyed a teller, who brought a dancing wooden man.
I hope you are well and staying cool.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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Today's Collect:
Grant to us, Lord, we pray, the spirit to think and do always those things that are right, that we, who cannot exist without you, may by you be enabled to live according to your will; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, August 7, 2011 11:16 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of you, and of Connor, on another summer day. I hope all is well.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Collect For Samuel Ferguson, Missionary Bishop For West Africa (August 2, 1916):
Almighty God, we bless you for moving your servant Samuel Ferguson to minister in Liberia, expanding the missionary vision of your Church in education and ministry. Stir up in us a zeal for your mission and a yearning for your holy Word; through Jesus Christ, who with you and the Holy Spirit lives and reigns, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, August 2, 2011 4:28 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I thought of Connor several times during Eucharist this morning. I think he would have enjoyed the brunch we had afterwards.
God bless you always.
Grace and peace,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, July 31, 2011 9:58 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Today the church honors musicians, who have created magnificent pieces for choir and congregational use. Interestingly, today's Upper Room, was written by a chorister, who spoke of "earworms," those tunes that get into our minds and keep going and going. Sometimes, I think I am strange, as a commercial ditty, even one from years ago, will get into my thoughts, and try as I might, it just continues. It is good to know that even the folks, who know a lot more about music than I do, have this happen. For the author, she finds snatches of anthems and hymns often repeated, and has come to realize that this is a means for her "to pray without ceasing." Maybe, today, you can hear sweet Connor's voice singing with you, as he did as a small child, perhaps in the car, or before going to bed. May that voice bring you hope and peace, as you will hear it again, at a time, and in a place where all shall be well forever.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
July 28, The Collect For:
J. S. Bach, Musician 28 July 1750
George Frederick Handel, Musician 14 April 1759
Heinrich Schuetz, Musician 6 November 1672
Almighty God, beautiful in majesty and majestic in holiness, who have taught us in Holy Scripture to sing your praises, and who have given to your servants Johann Sebastian Bach, George Frederick Handel, and Heinrich Schuetz grace to show forth your glory in their music: Be with all your servants who write and make music for your people, that with joy we on earth may glimpse your beauty, and at length may know the inexhaustible richness of your new creation in Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.
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A couple of nights ago, a Jeopardy question was about the Civil War submarine, The H.L. Hunley. I thought of you and of Connor, of course.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, July 28, 2011 9:08 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Connor was remembered in Eucharist over the weekend, as he always is.
I have heard from one of Connor's friends that you are enjoying a lot of boating this summer. I am so glad for you.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
O gracious God, we remember before you today your servant and apostle James, first among the Twelve to suffer martyrdom for the Name of Jesus Christ; and we pray that you will pour out upon the leaders of your Church that spirit of self-denying service by which alone they may have true authority among your people; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, July 25, 2011 5:27 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I hope you are staying as cool and comfortable as possible in this very hot weather. Remember to stay well hydrated.
God bless you, and, of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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Today's Collect:
Almighty God, whose blessed Son restored Mary Magdalene to health of body and mind, and called her to be a witness of his resurrection: Mercifully grant that by your grace we may be healed of all our infirmities and know you in the power of his endless life; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, July 22, 2011 11:44 AM CDT
There are stars whose radiance is visible on Earth though they have long been extinct. There are people whose brilliance continues to light the world though they are no longer among the living. These lights are particularly bright when the night is dark. They light the way for humankind.
~Hannah Senesh, poet, playwright, and paratrooper (1921-1944)
Dear Rhonda,
I received this quote in my email today, and immediately, I thought of sweet Connor. He was remembered in Eucharist yesterday, as he always is. May God bless his gentle spirit.
I hope all is well with you and with your loved ones.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Here is the collect that Father Henry used yesterday.
Merciful God, who called your servant Macrina to reveal in her life and her teaching the riches of your grace and truth: Mercifully grant that we, following her example, may seek after your wisdom and live according to her way; through Jesus Christ our Savior, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Macrina was the sister of Basil the Great (14 June), Gregory of Nyssa (9 March), and Peter of Sebastea. She counseled them, prayed with and for them, and helped shape their ministries.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, July 21, 2011 5:56 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Andrew, Kristen, and I went to a family wedding out-of-town yesterday. It was a time of refreshment for us after the shock and sadness of last week.
While at church, this morning, I thought of Connor as I do at each Eucharist. May God bless his sweet spirit.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Almighty God, the fountain of all wisdom, you know our necessities before we ask and our ignorance in asking: Have compassion on our weakness, and mercifully give us those things which for our unworthiness we dare not, and for our blindness we cannot ask; through the worthiness of your Son Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, July 17, 2011 12:23 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Wednesday, Andrew was a pall bearer for the first time helping his two longtime friends and their little brother with the funeral of their aunt. Andrew, Kristen, and I were with this dear family for a long time, and he and she were with them Tuesday night as well. Death is never easy, but it is so hard dealing with an unnecessary, violent death. This experience has been heavy on our minds since the murder on Saturday, and none of us has much to say that does not relate to it and to the thanksgiving for each other and for those close to Andrew including this family.
Below is the collect for July 13.
Grace and peace,
~Colette
Almighty and everlasting God, we thank you for your servant Silas, whom you called to preach the Gospel to the peoples of Turkey, Greece and Macedonia. Raise up in this and every land evangelists and heralds of your kingdom, that your Church may proclaim the unsearchable riches of our Savior Jesus Christ; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, July 14, 2011 2:53 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Connor was remembered in Holy Eucharist on Saturday and on Sunday. I thought of your little veterinarian as I watched two young rabbits on our lawn on Sunday night. May God bless Connor's sweet spirit.
This has been an upsetting weekend for a lot of people. The aunt of two of Andrew's best friends entered heaven violently on Saturday after being shot by her ex-husband. She had lived in the same house as those boys for a while when the guys were all in high school, so Andrew, who still calls those parents "Mom and Dad," had always called her "Aunt Kathy." Andrew was with her at a social gathering only a week before her death and had told me, when he came home, how much he enjoyed seeing her once again. Andrew and I have both felt sick to our stomachs since learning about the murder.
Today is the Feast of St. Benedict. Below are some quotes and the collect.
Grace and peace,
~Colette
Quotes From St. Benedict:
Whatever good work you begin to do, beg of God with most earnest prayer to perfect it.
Prayer ought to be short and pure, unless it be prolonged by the inspiration of Divine grace.
Listen and attend with the ear of your heart.
He who labors as he prays lifts his heart to God with his hands.
Do what is before you.
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The Collect For Benedict, Founder of Western Monasticism 11 July 540:
Almighty and everlasting God, whose precepts are the wisdom of a loving Father: Give us grace, following the teaching and example of your servant Benedict, to walk with loving and willing hearts in the school of the Lord's service; let your ears be open to our prayers; and prosper with your blessing the work of our hands; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
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Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, July 11, 2011 1:19 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Today our democracy is 235 years old. I have been sitting here, at my keyboard, remembering the ways in which our family celebrated independence, when my boys were young. One thing we did several years in a row was to attend a baseball game of the former Albany/Colonie Yankees. After the game, there was always a long and delightful fireworks display. We also often traveled with relatives to attend a parade and to hear my cousin, Jim, a New York State Senator, give a speech. The community parade and speech was generally followed by a picnic and a birthday cake for my Uncle Wes, whose birthday was July 4. I am sure you did similar things with Connor. May memories of those things bring a smile to your face and joy to your heart.
I am on my way out the door to watch the local fireworks while having a hamburger. I hope you have a chance to do something similar and fun tonight.
Beneath my signature, I will add some patriotic quotes and the collect of the day.
God bless you always, God bless your sunshine boy, and God bless America.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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Patriotic Quotes
We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness.
~The Declaration of Independence July 4, 1776
We must be free not because we claim freedom, but because we practice it.
~William Faulkner (1897-1962)
This country will not be a good place for any of us to live in unless we make it a good place for all of us to live in.
~Theodore Roosevelt
Patriotism is not short, frenzied outbursts of emotion, but the tranquil and steady dedication of a lifetime.
~Adlai Stevenson
My God! How little do my countrymen know what precious blessings they are in possession of, and which no other people on earth enjoy!
~Thomas Jefferson
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Lord God Almighty, in whose Name the founders of this country won liberty for themselves and for us, and lit the torch of freedom for nations then unborn: Grant that we and all the people of this land may have grace to maintain our liberties in righteousness and peace; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 242
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, July 4, 2011 7:23 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I hope you are having a less rainy day than we are having. I also hope that today or tomorrow you can enjoy some of the great seasonal food that makes your heart glad.
Connor was remembered in Holy Eucharist both on Saturday and on Sunday. This morning, our last hymn was the one below. Because the tune is familiar, having different lyrics catches us up into the meaning of the words.
As always, God bless you, and God bless all of your loved ones.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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Today's Collect (The Third Sunday After Pentecost):
O God, you have taught us to keep all your commandments by loving you and our neighbor: Grant us the grace of your Holy Spirit, that we may be devoted to you with our whole heart, and united to one another with pure affection; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
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Hymn #716 (The Hymnal 1982):
God bless our native land;
firm may she ever stand
through storm and night:
when the wild tempests rave,
ruler of wind and wave,
do thou our country save
by thy great might.
For her our prayers shall rise
to God, above the skies;
on him we wait;
thou who art ever nigh,
guarding with watchful eye,
to thee aloud we cry,
God save the state!
And not to us alone,
but be thy mercies known
from shore to shore.
Lord, make the nations see
that men should brothers be
and form one family
the wide world o'er.
Words: stanzas 1-2, Siegfried August Mahlmann, 1815;
stanza 3, William E. Hickson, 1835
Music: America (My Country 'Tis Of Thee), From Thesaurus Musicus, 1745
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/g/g119.html
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, July 3, 2011 2:10 PM CDT
Happy Fourth Of July Weekend To All Of Connor's Family And Friends!
Dear Rhonda,
Having raised a family of boys, I am sure Connor loved this holiday weekend, especially the noise of it and the food. May you have a chance to celebrate our country and also an opportunity to think of the things Connor enjoyed at this time of the year.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
You have to love a nation that celebrates its independence every July 4, not with a parade of guns, tanks, and soldiers who file by the White House in a show of strength and muscle, but with family picnics where kids throw Frisbees, the potato salad gets iffy, and the flies die from happiness. You may think you have overeaten, but it is patriotism.
~Erma Bombeck (1927-1996)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, July 2, 2011 8:42 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Thank you for the kind words left here on June 26. I have been here a couple of times this week, but I had to leave the computer before I could reply. There are those we have never met, who we love with all our hearts. I love you, too.
Connor and your Grandma Cass were remembered in Holy Eucharist on Thursday morning. It was the Feast of Peter and Paul. The collect is below.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Almighty God, whose blessed apostles Peter and Paul glorified you by their martyrdom: Grant that your Church, instructed by their teaching and example, and knit together in unity by your Spirit, may ever stand firm upon the one foundation, which is Jesus Christ our Lord; who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, July 1, 2011 11:42 PM CDT
Thank you, Colette, for all of the sweet messages regarding the passing of my Grandma. Thank you for ALL of the messages you leave. :) It warms my heart to know that Grandma is now taking care of Connor in Heaven, until I can get there. :)
I love you and I hope you're doing well.
~Rhonda, Forever Connor's Mommy
Rhonda Hunley <rhonda.hunley@yahoo.com>
Gallatin, TN USA - Sunday, June 26, 2011 8:48 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I continue to think of you, your mother, your brothers, your aunt, your cousins, and all who mourns for your grandmother. May God bless you all.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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Grant, O Lord, to all who are bereaved the spirit of faith and courage, that they may have strength to meet the days to come with steadfastness and patience; not sorrowing as those without hope, but in thankful remembrance of your great goodness, and in the joyful expectation of eternal life with those they love. And this we ask in the Name of Jesus Christ our Savior. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 505
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, June 25, 2011 9:14 AM CDT
Blessings To All On The Feast Of St. John The Baptist!
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of you on this Red Letter Holy Day. May you have strength as you attend your grandmother's funeral and as you provide support and encouragement to your mother and others who will miss Grandma Cass.
God bless you always, and God bless all those who mourn.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Almighty God, by whose providence your servant John the Baptist was wonderfully born, and sent to prepare the way of your Son our Savior by preaching repentance: Make us so to follow his teaching and holy life, that we may truly repent according to his preaching; and, following his example, constantly speak the truth, boldly rebuke vice, and patiently suffer for the truth's sake; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
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By all your saints still striving, for all your saints at rest,
Your holy Name, O Jesus. for evermore be blessed.
You rose, our King victorious, that they might wear the crown
And ever shine in splendor reflected from your throne.
All praise for John the Baptist, forerunner of the Word,
our true Elijah, making a highway for the Lord.
The last and greatest prophet, he saw the dawning ray
of light that grows in splendor until the perfect day.
Then let us praise the Father and worship God the Son
And sing to God the Spirit, eternal Three in One,
Till all the ransomed number who stand before the throne
Ascribe all power and glory and praise to God alone.
Words: Horatio Bolton Nelson (1823-1913); ver. Hymnal, 1982
Music: King's Lynn, English melody; adapt. Ralph Vaughan Williams (1872-1958)
or Nyland, Finnish folk melody; adapt. David Evans (1874-1948)
Hear Nyland at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/b/b209a.html
Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, June 24, 2011 10:38 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
My thoughts and prayers have been with you today and will be with you on Friday during the funeral of your grandmother.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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A Collect For Fridays:
Almighty God, whose most dear Son went not up to joy but
first he suffered pain, and entered not into glory before he
was crucified: Mercifully grant that we, walking in the way
of the cross, may find it none other than the way of life and
peace; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord. Amen.
The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 99
Written By William Reed Huntington (1838-1909)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, June 23, 2011 11:25 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I am sorry to learn, through one of Connor's friends, of the passing of your Grandma Cass. I hope she was not sick and did not suffer in any way. May you have comfort in knowing that another loved one is with Connor in God's eternal kingdom.
God bless you always, and God bless Connor and your grandmother.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Almighty God, we entrust all who are dear to us to your never-failing care and love, for this life and the life to come, knowing that you are doing for them better things than we can desire or pray for, through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 831
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, June 22, 2011 1:24 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
At noon today, our Aunt Dora was honored at the New York State Senate Chamber, in Albany, upon her retirement as the longest tenured teacher in the state. She spent over sixty years in the classroom, and will not focus her attention working as a literacy volunteer and tutoring children, who have learning difficulties, at an office, in her church. We are certainly proud of Aunt Dora!
Perhaps in reading my remarks, you will think of some of your own teachers and of some of Connor's. Educators are such remarkable people.
Since your schools dismiss for summer earlier than ours, I am sure the Connor J. Hunley Award was given a few weeks ago. May the student receiving it be blessed, and may you smile knowing that Connor's name continues to be mentioned in his school.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, June 20, 2011 5:13 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I have remembered Connor in Euchrist once again. May God bless you and all who knew and loved your sweet sunshine boy.
Grace and peace,
~Colette
The Collect For Trinity Sunday:
Almighty and everlasting God, you have given to us your servants grace, by the confession of a true faith, to acknowledge the glory of the eternal Trinity, and in the power of your divine Majesty to worship the Unity: Keep us steadfast in this faith and worship, and bring us at last to see you in your one and eternal glory, O Father; who with the Son and the Holy Spirit live and reign, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, June 19, 2011 11:47 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I have remembered Connor once again in Eucharist. Father Henry spoke of how Evelyn Underhill understood that mysticism is for ordinary people, not just monks and nuns. In many ways, she returned the laity of Anglican, Roman, and Orthodox Communities to a living connection to the Holy Spirit, at a time when the Pentecostal Movement was forming in the United States. I will leave a quote and the collect below.
May you know that your connection with God is complete, even if you do not feel it. It is always a connection to sweet Connor, of course. When your experience is difficult, offer it up.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect For The Feast Of Evelyn Underhill, Theologian And Mystic (1875-1945):
O God, Origin, Sustainer, and End of all your creatures: Grant that your Church, taught by your servant Evelyn Underhill, guarded evermore by your power, and guided by your Spirit into the light of truth, may continually offer to you all glory and thanksgiving, and attain with your saints to the blessed hope of everlasting life, which you have promised us by our Savior Jesus Christ; who with you and the Holy Spirit lives and reigns, one God, now and for ever. Amen
You can also offer your prayers, obedience, and endurance of dryness to Our Lord, for the good of other souls, and then you have practiced intercession. Never mind if it all seems for the time very second-hand. The less you get out of it, the nearer it approaches to being something worth offering; and the humiliation of not being able to feel as devout as we want to be, is excellent for most of us. Use vocal prayer... very slowly, trying to realize the meaning with which it is charged and remember that... you are only a unit in the Chorus of the Church, so that the others will make good the shortcomings you cannot help.
~Evelyn Underhill
Colette
Clifton Park, NY 12065 - Wednesday, June 15, 2011 3:47 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking about Connor's great smile. Below is a quote from Mother Teresa of Calcutta on smiling, which speaks to how Connor lived.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy.
Grace, peace, love, and many smiles,
~Colette
The person who gives with a smile is the best giver because God loves a cheerful giver.
~Mother Teresa (1910-1997)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, June 14, 2011 12:04 AM CDT
Blessings To All On The Feast Of Pentecost!
Dear Rhonda,
As we don our red garments to show our connection to the Holy Spirit, we remember those, including sweet Connor, who have finished their earthly work. Their example burns brightly before us.
God bless you always,
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
A Collect For Pentecost:
O God, who on this day taught the hearts of your faithful people by sending to them the light of your Holy Spirit: Grant us by the same Spirit to have a right judgment in all things, and evermore to rejoice in his holy comfort; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord, who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, June 12, 2011 7:32 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
When I was at Eucharist yesterday, Father John Henry taught about Justin the Martyr as it was his feast day. As I am sitting at my computer, I am thinking about the names Jordan, Justin, and James the middle name of Connor and the Confirmation names of my boys. I am smiling as I hope you are.
God bless you always, and God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect For Justin, Philosopher, Apologist, And Martyr, 1 June 167:
Almighty and everlasting God, who found your martyr Justin wandering from teacher to teacher, seeking the true God, and revealed to him the sublime wisdom of your eternal Word: Grant that all who seek you, or a deeper knowledge of you, may find and be found by you; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, June 2, 2011 1:04 AM CDT
...79 months
Those who love God never meet for the last time.
~Prayer Card From All Saints Convent, Catonsville, Maryland
God bless you, Rhonda. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, June 1, 2011 7:30 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Today is a day when those of us who are mothers can connect with the mother of our Lord. Out of your love for Jesus, you can form a relationship with his mother, and out of your love for Connor, you can use your connection to Mary to help young relatives and friends. May God grant you grace as you use some of the skills you developed while Connor was on this earth.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Collect For The Feast Of The Visitation:
Father in heaven, by whose grace the virgin mother of your Incarnate Son was blessed in bearing him, but still more blessed in keeping your word: Grant us who honor the exaltation of her lowliness to follow the example of her devotion to your will; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, May 31, 2011 8:51 PM CDT
Just as a mother holds her child's face in her hands to cover it with kisses, so does God hold (us).
~St. John Vianney
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking about you today. May the words above be an encouragement to you.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, May 30, 2011 7:52 AM CDT
Happy Memorial Day To All!
Dear Rhonda,
Last year, at this time, your brother, Johnny, was recovering from injuries. I hope this Memorial Day Weekend is marked by health and vitality for your both.
I remembered Connor, at Eucharist, on both Saturday and Sunday. I have also thought of him as we were eating some special foods the past few days. Connor was always such a good food preparation helper.
Below I will share two prayers appropriate to use today.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
For Heroic Service:
O Judge of the nations, we remember before you with grateful hearts the men and women of our country who in the day of decision ventured much for the liberties we now enjoy. Grant that we may not rest until all the people of this land share the benefits of true freedom and gladly accept its disciplines. This we ask in the Name of Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 839
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For Those In The Armed Forces Of Our Country:
Almighty God, we commend to your gracious care and keeping all the men and women of our armed forces at home and abroad. Defend them day by day with your heavenly grace; strengthen them in their trials and temptations; give them courage to face the perils which beset them; and grant them a sense of your abiding presence wherever they may be; through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.
The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 823
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, May 29, 2011 11:33 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I thought of Connor when I read at church earlier today. The collect used is one of my favorites. I will leave it below.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless Connor.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
O God, you have prepared for those who love you such good things as surpass our understanding: Pour into our hearts such love towards you, that we, loving you in all things and above all things, may obtain your promises, which exceed all that we can desire; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, May 28, 2011 9:15 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
A few days ago, I stopped at DeVoe's to have a lemon ice cream cone dipped in cherry. Since kids enjoy ice cream so much that is one place where I often think of Connor. Truly if he were here, he could have any sandwich, salad, and drink, along with any cold treat, even if I was just having ice cream.
I also remembered Connor at Holy Eucharist yesterday. We had eleven second graders receive First Communion. All looked sweet in white dresses or suits. It was such a proud time for their families.
I do hope you are doing well.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless you sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, May 23, 2011 7:15 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I heard from one of Connor's friends recently that you had an encounter with a wild animal and were injured. May the physical and emotional wounds heal as your little veterinarian looks down upon you in love.
The title of today's Upper Room offering is "A Hope-filled Future." May you smile as you reflect on that phrase.
I have had no recent news of the Martin-Crocker Family. Please give Linda my kind regards.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY 12065 - Saturday, May 21, 2011 8:24 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Connor and you were in my thoughts, at church, on Good Shepherd Sunday. May God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY 12065 - Monday, May 16, 2011 2:25 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
A friend sent me this prayer today, and since we are a week from Mother's Day, I thought I would pass it along to you. As always, I thought of you and Connor at St. George's today. God bless you both.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Mother of Mercy,
the cries of the world keep me awake at night.
I rise from my bed, but I cannot locate the source of the
wailing.
It is everywhere, Mother, coming from all directions,
and my heart is shattered by the sheer intensity of suffering.
You of boundless compassion,
expand my heart so that I can contain the pain.
Focus my mind so that I can arrive at viable solutions,
and energize my body so that I can engage in effective
action.
Give me the courage to follow the crumbs of heartbreak
all the way home to the place where I can be of real service.
Let me dip my fingers into the dew of your compassion
and scatter it now over the fevered brow of this world.
~Mirabai Starr, from Mother of God Similar to Fire
From A Maryknoll Book of Inspiration
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, May 1, 2011 6:05 PM CDT
Blessed Eastertide To All!
Dear Rhonda,
Connor was remembered in the Easter Eve Vigil and the Easter Morning services at St. George's. You were in my thoughts and prayers as well.
Here is a poem I found in my email tonight, which you may enjoy.
Easter Sunday
With fear and trembling
We approach the grave of our shattered dreams.
Who will roll back the stone of ignorance?
O God, the tomb is empty!
What can this mean? Who has done this?
Where is the One in whom alone our hearts find rest?
Tears blur Mary Magdalene's vision.
Sorrow closes her mind to the miracle
Standing as a stranger before her.
Speak, O Risen Lord, our name,
Like you once spoke Mary's to her
When all creation gasped
As eternal darkness bowed to everlasting dawn.
Amen, alleluia!
~Father Joseph Veneroso, M.M.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, April 24, 2011 11:45 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I am sorry that I was unable to get here during the day on Palm Sunday, but I want you to know that I thought of you, and of sweet Connor, while in church with my family. Following the service, my son and his girl friend took me out to brunch. I hope your day was as happy and as blessed as mine.
Connor will be remembered in several special Holy Week services, and of course, I will also pray for you.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect For The Sunday Of The Passion:
Almighty and everliving God, in your tender love for the human race you sent your Son our Savior Jesus Christ to take upon him our nature, and to suffer death upon the cross, giving us the example of his great humility: Mercifully grant that we may walk in the way of his suffering, and also share in his resurrection; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
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Traditional Palm Sunday Processional Hymn:
Refrain:
All glory, laud, and honor
to thee, Redeemer, King!
to whom the lips of children
made sweet hosannas ring.
Thou art the King of Israel,
thou David's royal Son,
who in the Lord's Name comest,
the King and Blessed One. Refrain
The company of angels
are praising thee on high;
and mortal men and all things
created make reply. Refrain
The people of the Hebrews
with palms before thee went;
our praise and prayer and anthems
before thee we present. Refrain
To thee before thy passion
they sang their hymns of praise;
to thee, now high exalted,
our melody we raise. Refrain
Thou didst accept their praises;
accept the prayers we bring,
who in all good delightest,
thou good and gracious King. Refrain
Words: Theodulph of Orleans (ca. 750-821), ca. 820
Trans. John Mason Neale (1818-1866), 1854,
as altered in Hymns Ancient and Modern
Music: St. Theodulph (Valet will ich dir geben),
(Melchior Teschner, 1584-1635, arranged William Henry Monk, 1823-1889)
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/a/a108.html
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, April 18, 2011 3:11 AM CDT
Only in that place of pain can you discover a much deeper sense of belonging that is more intimate than any belonging the world can offer. It comes from the depths of loneliness and moves us to true communion with God.
~Henri Nouwen
Dear Rhonda,
This thought was in an email I received for the fifth week of Lent. It is not what many of us would like to hear, but it is true. In emptiness and loneliness, we find God more deeply than in plenty and companionship. May you know God deeply and truly as you continue along without Connor, and in it all, may your thoughts of Connor be sweet.
Connor was remembered in Holy Eucharist on Saturday and on Sunday. I am so glad you shared Connor via this website. I know someday I will meet you both.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect For Monday In The Fifth Week Of Lent:
Be gracious to your people, we entreat you, O Lord, that they, repenting day by day of the things that displease you, may be more and more filled with love of you and of your commandments; and, being supported by your grace in this life, may come to the full enjoyment of eternal life in you everlasting kingdom; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, April 11, 2011 11:43 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
God bless you and all mothers on Mothering Sunday. This celebration started in Europe years ago. On Mid-Lent Sunday, the apprentices were sent home to spend some time with their mothers. The master's wife would prepare a Simnel Cake for each lad to take to his mother. Those boys too far away to go home would visit their local cathedral, The Mother Church of the region, to pray for their mothers. Twice a year, this day and the third Sunday in Lent, the clergy wear rose vestments. Yesterday, a beautiful rose stole and chasuble were blessed, at St. George's, for this purpose. It brought joy to many hearts. May reading this gladden your heart, and may thoughts of your sunshine boy be sweet.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Gracious Father, whose blessed Son Jesus Christ came down from heaven to be the true bread which gives life to the world: Evermore give us this bread, that he may live in us, and we in him; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, April 3, 2011 10:41 AM CDT
Through the weeks of deep snow
we walked above the ground
on fallen sky, as though we did
not come of root and leaf, as though
we had only air and weather
for our difficult home.
But now
as March warms, and the rivulets
run like birdsongs on the slopes,
and the branches of light sing in the hills,
slowly we return to earth.
~Wendell Barry (born 1934)
Dear Rhonda,
After a long, hard winter, this poem strikes a chord. Certainly if Connor were here, I would share this, other poetry, and story with him. May God bless him, and may God bless you.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, March 24, 2011 10:33 AM CDT
Rhonda, I hope all is well.
May the memories of connor live on forever.
love ya
Hannah's hope*
Hannah <hryals@yahoo.com>
m'boro, tn - Wednesday, March 23, 2011 2:08 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Connor was remembered in Holy Eucharist on both Saturday and Sunday. I hope all is well with you.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect For The Monday In The Second Week Of Lent:
Let your Spirit, O Lord, come into the midst of us to wash us with the pure water of repentance, and prepare us to be always a living sacrifice to you; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, March 21, 2011 8:11 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
When our family was in church together last night, I offered prayers for you and Connor once again, beneath the Jesus and the Children stained glass window. May God bless, comfort, and strengthen you during this holy season of reflection and prayer.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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The glory of these forty days
we celebrate with songs of praise;
for Christ, through whom all things were made,
himself has fasted and has prayed.
Alone and fasting Moses saw
the loving God who gave the law;
and to Elijah, fasting, came
the steeds and chariots of flame.
So Daniel trained his mystic sight,
delivered from the lions' might;
and John, the Bridegroom's friend, became
the herald of Messiah's name.
Then grant us, Lord, like them to be
full oft in fast and prayer with thee;
our spirits strengthen with thy grace,
and give us joy to see thy face.
O Father, Son, and Spirit blest,
to thee be every prayer addressed,
who art in three-fold Name adored,
from age to age, the only Lord.
Words: Latin, sixth century;
trans. Maurice F. Bell, 1906
Colette
Clifton Park, NY abc@aol.com - Sunday, March 13, 2011 10:55 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
As we sit at the door of Lent, I want to share a quote with you, that I have offered to someone in fresh bereavement this month. May the quote, and this holy season of spiritual growth, both be blessings to you.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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When Jesus is near, all is well and nothing seems difficult. When He is absent, all is hard. When Jesus does not speak within, all other comfort is empty, but if He says only a word, it brings great consolation.
~Thomas á Kempis
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, March 8, 2011 11:39 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I have been here a few times this week, but I did not have anything either inspriational or newsy to share with you or with Connor's friends. I have held both you and Connor and Linda Martin Crocker and all of her loved ones in my thoughts and prayers all week. May God bless you all.
Last night, Andrew and I had dinner with sixteen members of our family, as some were in Albany for business and some were in the area for a long ski weekend. The food was great, and there was a lot of laughing and hugging going on. I hope you are enjoying some good times with your family.
When you can, send me an email, so I know how I can best pray for you.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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Today's Collect:
Creator God, we thank you for bringing your missionary John Roberts from his native land to live and teach your Gospel in a spirit of respect and amity among the Shoshone and Arapahoe peoples in their own language; and we pray that we also may share the Good News of your Christ with all we meet as friends brought together by your Holy Spirit; for you are one God, Father, Son, and Holy Spirit, living and true, to the ages of ages. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, February 25, 2011 2:31 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I have heard through one of Connor's friends that Linda Martin's husband, Bob Crocker, passed away suddenly. I am very sorry to learn of another major sadness for such a good friend of yours and someone who was always so kind to Connor. If you can, please express my sympathy to Linda and to her family.
God bless you always, and God bless Linda and her children.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, February 17, 2011 7:20 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I have been thinking of you and of your sunshine boy during this Valentine's Day Week. I hope all is well.
God bless you always.
Grace and peace,
Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, February 16, 2011 1:10 AM CST
Hi, Rhonda. I've been thinking about you and your sweet boy lately. I do not know Savannah personally. However since she lives in the great metropolis of Mt. Juliet like we do, I have prayed for her and followed her journey for several years. She has one of those amazing smiles like Connor. Their entire faces light up when they smile. I check Connor's site often, but I don't always know what to say. I think of you and Connor often. When I do, I always say a prayer for you. I'm so thankful God chose you to be Connor's Mommy. He is such an incredible gift. You deserved that beautiful boy of yours. I know Connor continues to be so proud of your strength and courage. Loving him has always been the easy part!!!
Lisa
Mount Juliet, TN USA - Friday, February 4, 2011 2:31 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I am sorry I have not signed Connor's book at all this week. We have been dealing with a lot of snow and lots of other activity.
I am sorry to learn that yet another child in your area is ill. I do think of Connor and other young people who were sick at the same time, regularly, beneath The Jesus and the Children window.
God bless you, Savannah and her family, and all touched by childhood cancer.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, February 4, 2011 8:33 AM CST
Thank you to all of you who still stop by to visit. :)
I have a very important favor to ask, PLEASE visit the following page, read her story (very similar to Connor's), and put her on any and every prayer chain you can. She lives about 30 minutes from where I live. Gorgeous little Savannah....... http://www.caringbridge.org/visit/savannahswandal
Thanks so much!
Wishing you all a BLESSED DAY!
(((HUGS)))
Rhonda, Forever Connor's Mommy
Rhonda <rhonda.hunley@yahoo.com>
Gallatin, TN USA - Monday, January 31, 2011 10:38 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I am still enjoying the beautiful picture of Connor and Santa you have posted on Connor's homepage. Thank you so much.
Earlier this week, we celebrated the Feast of Phillips Brooks. It got past me this year for three reasons. The actually date was a Sunday, the transferred date (January 24) was a hectic day for us, and we have had our minds on the weather more this January than in any year since 2005. Beneath my signature, I will add the collect for Phillips Brooks, a favorite American saint, and my favorite Brooks saying. I have shared the saying with you several times previously, but I still believe it speaks to how you parented Connor.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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My Favorite Phillips Brooks Quote:
Duty calls us to do things well, but love makes us do them beautifully.
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The Collect For Phillips Brooks:
O everlasting God, you revealed truth to your servant Phillips Brooks, and so formed and molded his mind and heart that he was able to mediate that truth with grace and power: Grant, we pray, that all whom you call to preach the Gospel may steep themselves in your Word, and conform their lives to your will; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
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Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, January 25, 2011 11:31 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
This week, we have cleaned up after three large snowfalls and have had an elderly relative in a nearby hospital. I am sorry I have not signed Connor's book. I hope all is well with you.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, January 22, 2011 9:52 AM CST
Dear Rhonda
I haven't been on here in a long while, but wanted you to know that I still care and remember how brave your wee boy was. Love and prayers from Scotland,Rosi
www.caringbridge.org/hi/kayla
rosi <rosipullin@hotmail.com>
glasgow, scotland - Monday, January 10, 2011 4:14 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
As Andrew and his girl friend were in church with me for 2 Christmas, I thought of you and of your sunshine boy. May God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect (one of my favorites):
O God, who wonderfully created, and yet more wonderfully restored, the dignity of human nature: Grant that we may share the divine life of him who humbled himself to share our humanity, your Son Jesus Christ; who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, January 2, 2011 2:35 PM CST
Happy New Year To All!
Dear Rhonda,
A while ago, I watched the Tournament of Roses. Before I fix the holiday meal, I want you to know that I am thinking of you today. May this new of 2011 be a time of deep peace, quiet joy, and many blessings.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect (The Eighth Day of Christmas, Feast of the Holy Name of Jesus):
Eternal Father, who gave to your incarnate Son the holy name of
Jesus to be the sign of our salvation: Plant in every heart, we
pray, the love of him who is the Savior of the world, our Lord
Jesus Christ; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy
Spirit, one God, in glory everlasting. Amen.
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New Year's Prayer
Oh Thou, who art ever the same,
Grant us so to pass through
the new year with faithful hearts,
that we may be able in all things
to please Thy loving eyes. Amen.
~Mozarabic, 700 A.D.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, January 1, 2011 12:52 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
Connor was remembered this morning, in The Chapel of All Angels, at St. George's. May all Holy Innocents be blessed.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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Today's Collect:
We remember today, O God, the slaughter of the holy innocents of Bethlehem by King Herod. Receive, we pray, into the arms of your mercy all innocent victims; and by your great might frustrate the designs of evil tyrants and establish your rule of justice, love, and peace; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, December 29, 2010 3:33 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
Thank you for posting once again the beautiful picture of Connor with Santa. It is one of my favorite Christmas pictures of all time.
Today we have celebrated St. Stephen's Day, in the snow, like in the carol "Good King Wenceslas." For us, it seemed good to clear our drive and walkways.
Below is another hymn for the day. I cannot find a link to a midi, but maybe you know the tune. If you do, please sing it with me. If not, read the words.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless Connor.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
When Stephen, full of power and grace,
Went forth throughout the land,
He bore no shield before his face,
No weapon in his hand;
But only in his heart a flame
And on his lips a sword
Wherewith he smote and overcame
The foemen of the Lord.
When Stephen preached against the laws
And by those laws was tried,
He had no friend to plead his cause,
No spokesman at his side;
But only in his heart a flame
And in his eyes a light
Wherewith God's daybreak to proclaim
And rend the veils of night.
When Stephen, young and doomed to die,
Fell crushed beneath the stones,
He had no curse nor vengeful cry
For those who broke his bones;
But only in his heart a flame
And on his lips a prayer
That God, in sweet forgiveness' name
Should understand and spare.
Let me, O Lord, thy cause defend,
A knight without a sword;
No shield I ask, no faithful friend,
No vengeance, no reward;
But only in my heart a flame
And in my soul a dream,
So that the stones of earthly shame
A jewelled crown may seem.
Lyrics: Jan Struther (1901-1953)
Music: Salvation, melody from Kentucky Harmony, 1816
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, December 27, 2010 8:55 PM CST
Merry Christmas
Lisa
Mount Juliet, TN USA - Saturday, December 25, 2010 2:46 PM CST
MERRY CHRISTMAS TO ALL!
Dear Rhonda,
You and Connor were remembered in Holy Eucharist on Christmas Eve. May God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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A Christmas Prayer
by Robert Louis Stevenson
Loving Father,
Help us remember the birth of Jesus,
that we may share in the song of the angels,
the gladness of the shepherds,
and worship of the wise men.
Close the door of hate
and open the door of love all over the world.
Let kindness come with every gift
and good desires with every greeting.
Deliver us from evil by the blessing
which Christ brings,
and teach us to be merry with clear hearts.
May the Christmas morning
make us happy to be thy children,
and Christmas evening bring us to our beds
with grateful thoughts,
forgiving and forgiven,
for Jesus' sake.
Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY 12065 - Saturday, December 25, 2010 1:10 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
We had our Community Blue Christmas tonight. I think it was especially well done this year. I hope you have opportunities to remember Connor within a faith community.
Below is a song I found earlier this month, which you may enjoy.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Come Darkness, Come Light, By Mary Chapin Carpenter
COME DARKNESS, COME LIGHT
COME NEW STAR SHINING BRIGHT
COME LOVE TO THIS WORLD TONIGHT
ALLELUJAH
COME BROKEN, COME WHOLE
COME WOUNDED IN YOUR SOUL
COME ANY WAY THAT YOU KNOW
ALLELUJAH
THERE’S A HUMBLE STABLE
AND A LIGHT WITHIN
THERE’S AN ANGEL HOVERING
AND THREE WISE MEN
TODAY THE BABY’S BORN IN BETHLEHEM
ALLELUJAH
COME DOUBTING, COME SURE
COME FEARFUL TO THIS DOOR
COME SEE WHAT LOVE IS FOR
ALLELUJAH
INSTR. (BRIDGE)
COME RUNNING, COME WALKING SLOW
COME WEARY ON YOUR BROKEN ROAD
COME SEE HIM,
SHED YOUR HEAVY LOAD
ALLELUJAH
THERE’S A HUMBLE STABLE
AND A LIGHT WITHIN
THERE’S AN ANGEL HOVERING
AND THREE WISE MEN
TODAY THE BABY’S BORN IN BETHLEHEM
ALLELUJAH
COME DARKNESS, COME LIGHT
COME NEW STAR SHINING BRIGHT
COME LOVE TO THIS WORLD TONIGHT
ALLELUJAH
COME DARKNESS, COME LIGHT
COME NEW STAR SHINING BRIGHT
COME LOVE TO THIS WORLD TONIGHT
ALLELUJAH
THERE’S A HUMBLE STABLE
ALLELUJAH
AND A LIGHT WITHIN
ALLELUJAH
TODAY A BABY’S BORN
ALLELUJAH
Hear it at: http://www.tsrocks.com/m/mary-chapin_carpenter_texts/come_darkness_come_light.html
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, December 22, 2010 2:48 AM CST
thinking of you this holiday season
tricia <triciabxny@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, December 19, 2010 9:43 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
As we light the final candle in our Advent wreaths, I wish to remind you that Connor has been in my thoughts and prayers many times during this holy season of hope, love, joy, and peace.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect For 4 Advent:
Purify our conscience, Almighty God, by your daily visitation, that your Son Jesus Christ, at his coming, may find in us a mansion prepared for himself; who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, December 18, 2010 11:15 PM CST
Hi, Rhonda. I thought about you while dropping off our toys at Vandy last week. I know you always do that too in memory of your sweet Connor. I hope we bring some smiles to the precious children's faces in the hospital this year. As Christmas day approaches, I hope Connor sends you many wonderful signs. I know he is so proud of you.
Lisa
Mount Juliet, TN USA - Monday, December 13, 2010 5:18 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I was unable to sign Connor's guest book yesterday, on St. Nicholas Day, but I did think of him all day. Together, Connor and the saint are in the nearer presence of the Lord. May God bless them both.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Let’s not forget the real
St. Nicholas, who, like all
the saints, points to Jesus.
~St. Anthony Messenger
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, December 7, 2010 6:48 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I remembered you and Connor during an Advent Quiet Day today. I hope things are going well for you.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, December 4, 2010 9:38 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of you and of Connor on another first of the month. He was in my prayers, while I was in the chapel at a St. Andrew's Day program yesterday. May God bless you both.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
I have been thinking about this Advent hymn this morning. If you know the tune, please sing it with me. If not read it today.
A Shoot Shall Come Forth
Text and Tune By Richard Horn
A shoot shall come forth out of Jesse,
And a bud shall grow out of his roots;
The Spirit of Life shall be with him;
The Spirit of wisdom and truth.
Then the lamb shall lie down with the leopard,
And the lion eat straw with the ox,
For the hand of a Child shall lead them
To the peaceable kingdom of God.
From out of the wells of salvation
Will he draw us the water of life;
His waist shall be girdled with justice;
The heart of his heart shall be love.
Then the lamb shall lie down with the leopard,
And the lion eat straw with the ox,
For the hand of the Child shall lead them
To the peaceful kingdom of God.
He'll come from the end of his heaven,
And the earth shall be torn from its place;
Our lives shall be filled with his radiance;
As flood waters cover the sea.
Then the lamb shall lie down with the leopard,
And the lion eat straw with the ox,
For the hand of a Child shall lead them
To the peaceable kingdom of God.
This is a promise. When you arrive, you will find Connor there waiting.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, December 1, 2010 10:55 AM CST
Rhonda,
I'm thinking of you and Connor tonight.
Lisa
Mount Juliet, TN USA - Tuesday, November 30, 2010 5:27 PM CST
Blessings To All This Advent Season!
Dear Rhonda,
I thought of you, as I read at Eucharist, on Saturday afternoon, as we began the Advent season, lighting the first purple candle, the one that represents HOPE. May your heart be full of hope, as we prepare to celebrate the birth of the Holy Child of Bethlehem.
I also thought of you Monday night, as we watched the CMA Country Christmas, especially when Martina McBride sang "O Holy Night." I know you like her, and I know you like this song.
You have never told me how Connor came to be named, but I am sure I have told you that my son was named, largely because I love today's collect, which is below. Please pray it with me, when you can.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless sweet Connor.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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Today's Collect
Almighty God, who gave such grace to your apostle Andrew that he readily obeyed the call of your Son Jesus Christ, and brought his brother with him: Give unto us, who are called by your Word, grace to follow him without delay, and to bring those near to us into his gracious presence; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
~The Collect For The Feast Of St. Andrew (November 30)
The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 237
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Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, November 30, 2010 1:08 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I thought of Connor during our Clifton Park Community Thanksgiving last night. The words below were on the bulletin cover, and I thought you might enjoy them.
My thoughts and prayers are with you during this weekend of thanksgiving, food, family and friends, and faith.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sunshine boy.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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From the first bright light of morning
To the last warm glow of dusk;
Every breath we take is sacred,
For it is God's gift to us.
In the season of our plenty,
In the season of our need;
We will find His grace sufficient
We will find His love complete.
In thanksgiving, let us praise Him;
In thanksgiving, let us sing
Songs of praise and adoration
To our gracious Lord and King.
~ Claire Cloninger
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, November 24, 2010 11:53 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
As Thanksgiving Day approaches, I am thinking of you and of sweet Connor. He was such a good helper that I am sure you always had a great holiday dinner.
Below is a hymn I have been singing this week. You may know it, as the lyrics appeared in the musical Godspell, sung to another tune. I have been singing both tunes.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
We plow the fields, and scatter
the good seed on the land,
but it is fed and watered
by God's almighty hand;
he sends the snow in winter,
the warmth to swell the grain,
the breezes and the sunshine,
and soft refreshing rain.
Refrain:
All good gifts around us
are sent from heaven above,
then thank the Lord, O thank the Lord
for all his love.
He only is the Maker
of all things near and far;
he paints the wayside flower,
he lights the evening star;
the winds and waves obey him,
by him the birds are fed;
much more to us, his children,
he gives our daily bread. Refrain
We thank thee, then, O Father,
for all things bright and good,
the seed time and the harvest,
our life, our health, and food;
no gifts have we to offer,
for all thy love imparts,
and, what thou most desirest,
our humble, thankful hearts. Refrain
Words: Matthias Claudius, 1782;
trans. Jane Montgomery Campbell, 1861
Music: Wir pflügen
Hear it at http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/w/w113.html
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, November 23, 2010 5:43 PM CST
I'm from the Huntsville AL. district of Kelloggs out of the Knoxville Zone. I remember all the prayers that went up
on Connor's behalf back then, and I still try to remember to pray for you especially this time of year. I never got to meet you or Connor, but we have a mutual friend, Jesus. Heaven will surely be worth it all.
Keith <Unclekeith16@aol.com>
- Tuesday, November 16, 2010 9:05 AM CST
Blessings To All On All Saint's Sunday!
Dear Rhonda,
Connor was remembered in Holy Eucharist Saturday afternoon and Sunday morning. Both were services honoring all of God's Saints. When you have time, perhaps you can sing one of the hymns we used. I will place it beneath my signature.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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Ye watchers and ye holy ones,
bright seraphs, cherubim, and thrones,
raise the glad strain,
Alleluia!
Cry out, dominions, princedoms, powers,
virtues, archangels, angels' choirs,
Refrain:
Alleluia! alleluia! alleluia!
Alleluia! alleluia!
O higher than the cherubim,
more glorious than the seraphim,
lead their praises,
Alleluia!
Thou bearer of the eternal Word,
most gracious, magnify the Lord, Refrain
Respond, ye souls in endless rest,
ye patriarchs and prophets blest,
Alleluia!
Ye holy twelve, ye martyrs strong,
all saints triumphant, raise the song, Refrain
O friends, in gladness let us sing,
supernal anthems echoing,
Alleluia!
To God the Father, God the Son,
and God the Spirit, Three in One, Refrain
Words: John Athelstan Laurie Riley (1858-1945), 1906
Music: Lasst uns erfreuen (Geistliche Catholische Kirchengeäng, Cologne, 1623)
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/y/y023.html
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, November 7, 2010 11:20 PM CST
Just stopping by to say I been thinking of all of you, and especially Connor. I have a Grandson now, and took him on his first trick or treating this year. I thought of Connor, I remembered it was his Birthday and wished him a Happy Birthday:)I used to send Connor cards from Hugs and Hope:) Please know you are all in my thoughts and prayers..
Gina Muella <GinaM65@aol.com >
Monterey Park, CA United States - Friday, November 5, 2010 12:40 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Connor was remembered at Morning Prayer and at Eucharist, yesterday, during an All Soul's Day program. Below is a copy of the beautiful litany of remembrance, which we used.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Litany Of Remembrance (We Remember And Give Thanks)
Leader: Those who live no more are with us still in our thoughts and in our words. Who they are and what they did will always be a part of us and what we have become at this moment.
At the rising of the sun, and at its going down, we remember them, and we give thanks.
In the drizzle of the rain, and in the singing of the brook, we remember them, and we give thanks.
On the dark days, on the cloudy days, and on the brilliant days, we remember them, and we give thanks.
At the rustling of the leaves, and in the beauty of autumn, we remember them, and we give thanks.
At the beginning of the year, and when it ends, we remember them, and we give thanks.
When we are weary and in need of strength, we remember them, and we give thanks.
When we have joys we crave to share, we remember them, and we give thanks.
When we have decisions that are difficult to make, we remember them, and we give thanks.
When we have achievements that are based on theirs, we remember them, and we give thanks.
As long as we live, they too, will live; for they are now a part of us, and always we remember them, and we give thanks.
Closing Prayer: Loving God, may I take on the mind and heart of Christ, that I may continue to hear your call for my life and embrace your world through my prayer, my work, and my life with others, in Jesus Christ. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, November 3, 2010 7:53 PM CDT
Hi Rhonda,
You know I left my message for you on this special day of Connor receiving his angel wings 6 years ago on your facebook page, butI just wanted to stop by here too to let you know how much it means that you have shared Connor with us and that he will NEVER be forgotten. Love you!
Kathy and Dave M.
- Monday, November 1, 2010 7:05 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I have already thought of you and of sweet Connor many times today. It is difficult to know what to say on this, Connor's sixth anniversary. Faith teaches us that we will be reunited with our loved ones in God's eternal kingdom. I do not doubt that, and I do not believe that you do either. I hope that my words will encourage and support and not seem pat or trivial.
God bless you, and God bless all of Connor's many family members and friends.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
We give you thanks, O God, for setting us among the community of the saints, and for allowing the grace they showed in their lives to continue in ours -- for in your kingdom, nothing is ever completely lost.
~From A Partial Litany Of The Saints, By Barbara C. Crafton
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, November 1, 2010 12:17 AM CDT
Lisa, my new email address is rhonda.hunley@yahoo.com. Thank you for your sweet words.... :)
Connor's Mommy <rhonda.hunley@yahoo.com>
- Monday, November 1, 2010 7:19 AM CDT
I tried to email you. However, I got a message that it didn't go through. I'm leaving another post for you here instead. I always remember Connor on his birthday. He was such a special and vibrant child. I’m sorry I could not send you a card this year. I have misplaced your address. I want you to know he will never be forgotten. His light will always shine brightly on this earth. You are an incredible person and mother. I know your pain never lessens. However, I also know you will be with Connor again and in an instant your pain will be gone. I pray Connor shows you many special signs today and tomorrow.
If there is ever anything that I can do for you, please let me know. You are a very special person.
With love,
Lisa - Tristan's Mama
Mount Juliet, TN USA - Sunday, October 31, 2010 1:49 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I love that you posted a picture that Connor drew. Thank you for sharing so much of him with us. I am sad that I never met him in person, but I feel like I knew him and he taught me more in the few years that I "knew" him through Caringbridge than anyone has taught me in my life. He left footprints on my heart and I will NEVER ever forget your sunshine boy, who lit up my life with his smile. At church we have a bulletin board with pictures of loved ones who have gone to Heaven and Connor's picture will be posted on that board this week. Love you to the moon and back!
love and hugs,
Kathy Mikulsky
Green Bat, WI - Sunday, October 31, 2010 12:58 AM CDT
Happy Birthday sweet Connor. You are so special and so very loved. Rhonda, I pray for you often. You are an amazing mother.
Lisa
Mount Juliet, TN USA - Sunday, October 31, 2010 12:11 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Thank you for posting Connor's drawing of himself. It shows the confidence and strength he knew he had.
I am staying close to you today in thought and prayer. God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
And can it be that in a world so full and busy, the loss of one creature makes a void in any heart so wide and deep that nothing but the width and depth of eternity can fill it up.
~Charles Dickens
I KNOW you will see Connor again, and when you do, all shall be well.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, October 31, 2010 11:05 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of you during the early hours of Connor's birthday. Both you and Connor were remembered in Holy Eucharist on Saturday afternoon.
Grace, peace, love, and hope,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, October 31, 2010 0:56 AM CDT
I am so sorry to read about Johnny.
I will be thinking of you and sweet Connor tomorrow and Monday, that's for sure!
prayers and love from Mrs. Pam
- Saturday, October 30, 2010 10:07 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
On the Eve of Halloween, I am thinking of your Halloween Sunshine Boy. The picture of baby Connor, in the puppy costume, has always been one of my favorites. May the good Halloweens you had with Connor bring you joy and comfort today.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless Connor.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, October 30, 2010 10:48 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
A ladybug just landed on my computer desk, a sign that I should write in sweet Connor's guest book. I hope you feel Connor as we all prepare for Halloween.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless Connor.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, October 26, 2010 11:39 AM CDT
I'm thinking of you and Connor today. Thank you so much for sharing him with all of us. It was a pleasure to learn about him through your writings. I hope he will send you many special signs this week as his birthday countdown continues.
Lisa
Mount Juliet, TN USA - Sunday, October 24, 2010 9:08 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I thought of Connor several times at the Medieval Faire, at the Cathedral of All Saints, in Albany, yesterday. Some of those times included during the enthronement of the boy bishop, while eating in the undercroft, and during the Punch and Judy Show. Andrew has always loved the Medieval Faire, and I believe Connor would enjoy it, too.
I hope you and all of Connor's loved ones are doing well.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, October 24, 2010 5:01 PM CDT
Blessings To All On The Feast Of St. Luke!
Dear Rhonda,
I remembered Connor in Eucharist yesterday, and I thought of you. May God bless you both.
Yesterday afternoon, we saw the movie, Secretariat. It was one I know Connor would have enjoyed.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Almighty God, who inspired your servant Luke the physician to declare in the Gospel the love and healing power of your Son: Graciously continue in your Church the same love and power to heal, to the praise and glory of your Name; through your Son Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, October 18, 2010 8:55 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
We had an Order of St. Luke Healing Mission, at St. George's, this weekend. While I was there, I remembered Connor in Holy Eucharist.
I hope your brother, Johnny, is fully recovered from his accident, and I hope both you and Johnny are doing well this month.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
From The Prayer Card Of The Mission:
In the name of God
and trusting in His might alone,
receive Christ's healing touch
to make you whole.
May Christ bring you wholeness
of body, mind, and spirit,
deliver you from every evil,
and give you His peace.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, October 16, 2010 11:24 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I was over at church tonight, and while there, I remembered both you and Connor.
God bless you always.
Grace and peace,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, October 15, 2010 11:59 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
A lot has been going on here, but I do continue to think of both you and Connor. I am pausing, here, at my keyboard to pray.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect (Edward The Confessor, 1066):
O God, who called your servant Edward to an an earthly throne that he might advance your heavenly kingdom, and gave him zeal for your Church and love for your people: Mercifully grant that we who commemorate him this day may be fruitful in good works, and attain to the glorious crown of your saints; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, October 13, 2010 2:44 PM CDT
Rhonda,
Just thinking of you and your sweet son Connor.
Lisa
Mount Juliet, TN USA - Sunday, October 10, 2010 5:29 PM CDT
Rhonda,
Hope all is well with you and Connor. Im sure he is and was a wonderful young man..I want to tell you that both of ya'll have been an inspiration to me in the short time that I knew ya'll..What a wonderful young man and a fantastic mom..
Take Care,
Bob
Bob S
TN - Saturday, October 9, 2010 3:17 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
On this day, when household pets and farm animals are often blessed in honor of St. Francis of Assisi, I am thinking of your dear Connor. Yesterday afternoon, Father Henry blessed many animals in the church parking lot. This ceremony is always well attended by St. George members and others, often coming from miles away to attend. May memories of Connor and his animals bring smiles to your face and joy to your heart.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless Connor Jordan Hunley, his little veterinarian.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Most high, omnipotent, good Lord, grant your people grace gladly to renounce the vanities of this world; that, following the way of blessed Francis, we may for love of you delight in your whole creation with perfect joy; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, October 4, 2010 10:00 AM CDT
Happy Birthday Weekend, Rhonda!
Dear Rhonda,
I am sorry I did not have an opportunity to post yesterday. I do hope you enjoyed your special day and that your celebration continues this weekend. I am pausing, here, at my keyboard, to remember Connor and to pray for you, your mother and father, and your brothers.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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O God, our times are in your hand: Look with favor, we pray, on you servant Rhonda as she begins another year. Grant that she may grow in wisdom and grace, and strengthen her trust in your goodness all the days of her life; through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 811
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, October 2, 2010 6:37 AM CDT
Rhonda, I'm thinking of you today. It is October. I always think of it as Connor's month. Extra prayers are being prayed for you. I hope he sends you many signs as we move closer to his Halloween birthday.
Lisa Earhart
Mount Juliet, Tn USA - Friday, October 1, 2010 9:48 PM CDT
Autumn Blessings To All!
Dear Rhonda,
I was going to send you autumn greetings earlier in the week, but I have been very busy. Some of my activity has included two nights out with friends in story. One of the guys did a wonderful job in telling Brer Rabbit and the Tar Baby after the tellers had dinner together on Tuesday. I loved that story as a child, and I know Connor would have enjoyed Dave's version.
I am pausing here at my keyboard to pray for you and for all of Connor's many loved ones.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
Colette
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~Sharing An Autumn Prayer:
O God of wonder and mystery, you gave us Jesus to go before us and to show us a way to new life through our dying: As the season of autumn reminds us that all living things must die, so must our faith in the life Jesus promised encourage us to embrace life's potential, rather than being saddened by life's endings, may we find, in the wisdom of your creation, the constantly renewing love that reassures us of your presence. With our eyes on the tree of life and its spectacular beauty, may we remain always in Jesus. Amen.
~Sister Karen Berry
in Prayer Services for Parishes
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, September 24, 2010 2:43 PM CDT
Blessings To All On Holy Cross Day!
Dear Rhonda,
Today is Primary Day in New York. There are many important fall campaigns that will be influenced by today's votes including the list of candidates for governor. I wonder if Connor would enjoy doing his "patriotic duty" as much as my son does.
Today is also Holy Cross Day, so I am leaving you the collect and a hymn associated with the day. This hymn is also the National Hymn of The Daughters of the King.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless Connor.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect For Holy Cross Day (September 14):
Almighty God, whose Son our Savior Jesus Christ was lifted high upon the cross that he might draw the whole world to himself: Mercifully grant that we, who glory in the mystery of our redemption, may have grace to take up our cross and follow him; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, in glory everlasting. Amen.
Hymn Often Sung On Holy Cross Day:
Refrain:
Lift high the cross,
the love of Christ proclaim
till all the world adore
his sacred Name.
Come, brethren, follow where our Captain trod,
our King victorious, Christ the Son of God. Refrain
Led on their way by this triumphant sign,
the hosts of God in conquering ranks combine. Refrain
Each newborn soldier of the Crucified
bears on the brow the seal of him who died. Refrain
This is the sign which Satan's legions fear
and angels veil their faces to rever. Refrain
Saved by this Cross whereon their Lord was slain,
the sons of Adam their lost home regain. Refrain
From north and south, from east and west they raise
in growing unison their songs of praise. Refrain
O Lord, once lifted on the glorious tree,
as thou hast promised, draw the world to thee. Refrain
Let every race and every language tell
of him who saves our souls from death and hell. Refrain
From farthest regions let their homage bring,
and on his Cross adore their Savior King. Refrain
Set up thy throne, that earth's despair may cease
beneath the shadow of its healing peace. Refrain
For thy blest Cross which doth for all atone
creation's praises rise before thy throne.
Refrain Words: George William Kitchen and Michael Robert Newbolt, 1916
Music: Crucifer: Sydney Hugo Nicholson (1875-1947)
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/l/l118.htmlhttp://www.oremus.org/hymnal/l/l118.html
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, September 14, 2010 4:03 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
May God also bless all those, who perished serving others on 9/11/01, and may God bless your brave little trooper, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Mychal's Prayer:
Lord, take me where You want me to go;
Let me meet who You want me to meet;
Tell me what You want me to say, and
Keep me out of Your way.
~Written by Franciscan Friar, Mychal F. Judge, killed by debris at age 68, World Trade Center, 11th September 2001. At one time, Father Mychal served at Siena College, here in upstate New York.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, September 11, 2010 2:34 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I hope you are well and enjoying this late summer weekend. My thoughts and prayers are with you and Connor as always.
Today is Mother Teresa's thirteenth anniversary. Since Connor was a smiler, I am adding some of her sayings about smiling. I hope you enjoy them.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
Colette
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Every time you smile at someone, it is an action of love, a gift to that person, a beautiful thing.
Let us always meet each other with smile, for the smile is the beginning of love.
Peace begins with a smile.
We shall never know all the good that a simple smile can do.
Smile at each other, smile at your wife, smile at your husband, smile at your children, smile at each other -- it doesn't matter who it is -- and that will help you to grow up in greater love for each other.
Let us make one point, that we meet each other with a smile, when it is difficult to smile. Smile at each other, make time for each other in your family.
Speak tenderly to them. Let there be kindness in your face, in your eyes, in your smile, in the warmth of your greeting. Always have a cheerful smile. Don't only give your care, but give your heart as well.
True holiness consists in doing God's will with a smile.
++++++++++
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, September 5, 2010 5:25 AM CDT
Happy Labor Day Weekend To All!
Dear Rhonda,
As always, I am thinking of you and of Connor during this holiday period. May the memories you have of Connor, in early September, strengthen and support you today.
Since Mother Teresa's thirteenth anniversary is tomorrow, I am including one of my favorite Mother Teresa quotes.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Prayer enlarges the heart until it is capable of containing God’s gift of Himself.
~Mother Teresa (1910-1997)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, September 4, 2010 11:17 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of you and Connor on another really hot summer day. If he were in Clifton Park, I would have to take him down to De Voe's for dinner or for an ice cream treat.
Earlier this week, I attended a "Breakfast with the Saints" morning on Mother Teresa of Calcutta. I am going to include the prayer we used to conclude our time together. I think you will like it.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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Radiating Christ
By Cardinal John Henry Newman
(21 February 1801-11 August 1890)
Dear Jesus, help us to spread your fragrance everywhere we go.
Flood our souls with your spirit and life.
Penetrate and possess our whole being so utterly, that our lives may only be a radiance of yours.
Shine through us, and be so in us, that every soul we come in contact with may feel your presence in our soul.
Let them look up and see no longer us, but only Jesus!
Stay with us, and then we shall begin to shine as you shine; so to shine as to be a light to others; the light O Jesus, will be all from you, none of it will be ours; it will be you, shining on others through us.
Let us thus praise you in the way you love best, by shining on those around us.
Let us preach you without preaching, not by words but by our example, by the catching force, the sympathetic influence of what we do, the evident fullness of the love our hearts bear to you.
Amen.
~Mother Teresa of Calcutta recited this prayer every day of her life.
(26 August 1910-5 September 1997)
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Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, September 2, 2010 4:20 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of you and Connor on another first of the month. I hope all is well with you and that your brother's recovery is complete.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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To show great love for God and our neighbor we need not do great things. It is how much love we put in the doing that makes our offering something beautiful for God.
~Mother Teresa of Calcutta
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, September 1, 2010 7:03 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I had a dipped frozen yogurt cone a few days ago, and as I licked, I thought of Connor. Below is a poem, which may speak comfort to you today.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Memories
There is a place
that we call Memory —
A province by itself
which, though unseen,
is home and haven
to the heart —
and there,
in peace and beauty,
waiting,
are those with whom
we shared our yesterdays.
by Nancy Cassell
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, August 21, 2010 10:51 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I have been here a couple of times, but have not left messages. I just want you to know that I continue to think of you and of sweet Connor. May Connor lead you in being and doing good for the sake of our Lord.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Those who do good as opportunity offers are sowing seeds all the time, and they need not doubt the harvest.
~Author Unknown
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, August 19, 2010 7:54 AM CDT
Blessings To All On The Feast Of St. Mary!
Dear Rhonda,
I have just come inside, and riding on my blouse was a lady bug. Of course, I always think of Connor when I see one of these. May God bless your dear sunshine boy!
I hope you, your parents, Johnny, and Chad are all doing well. Let us know about Johnny, when you can.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
O God, you have taken to yourself the blessed Virgin Mary, mother of your incarnate Son: Grant that we, who have been redeemed by his blood, may share with her the glory of your eternal kingdom; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
An Appropriate Hymn (Note The Second Verse.):
Ye watchers and ye holy ones,
bright seraphs, cherubim, and thrones,
raise the glad strain,
Alleluia!
Cry out, dominions, princedoms, powers,
virtues, archangels, angels' choirs,
Refrain:
Alleluia! alleluia! alleluia!
Alleluia! alleluia!
O higher than the cherubim,
more glorious than the seraphim,
lead their praises,
Alleluia!
Thou bearer of the eternal Word,
most gracious, magnify the Lord, Refrain
Respond, ye souls in endless rest,
ye patriarchs and prophets blest,
Alleluia,
alleluia!
Ye holy twelve, ye martyrs strong,
all saints triumphant, raise the song, Refrain
O friends, in gladness let us sing,
supernal anthems echoing,
Alleluia,
alleluia!
To God the Father, God the Son,
and God the Spirit, Three in One, Refrain
Words: Athelstan Riley (1858-1945), 1906
Music: Lasst uns erfreuen (Geistliche Catholische Kirchengeäng, Cologne, 1623)
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/y/y023.html
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Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, August 16, 2010 4:37 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Connor has been remembered in weekend Eucharist. May God bless his sweet spirit.
Yesterday afternoon, I attended a family birthday party for a little girl, age one. Her great aunt, ninety-one, was also given a birthday cake. Connor would have enjoyed the Hawaiian theme, the party games, the clown, the basketball, and the great variety of food.
I hope you are doing well and that your brother, Johnny, is nearing the completion of his recovery.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Almighty God, you have given your only Son to be for us a sacrifice for sin, and also an example of godly life: Give us grace to receive thankfully the fruits of his redeeming work, and to follow daily in the blessed steps of his most holy life; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, August 15, 2010 10:30 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I have not forgotten about you and Connor, but I have been to a family gathering out-of-town. When I returned home, I did a day at a Day of Reflection at a local retreat house, where I thought of Connor before receiving Communion. May God bless Connor's sweet spirit.
I hope you are safe, well, and content.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Since I was with beautiful Dominican nuns on August 10, the collect for St. Clare, also a nun, seems especially appropriate.
The Collect For Clare Of Assisi, Nun (And Friend Of St. Francis), 11 August 1253:
O God, whose blessed Son became poor that we through his poverty might be rich: Deliver us from an inordinate love of this world, that we, inspired by the devotion of your servant Clare, may serve you with singleness of heart, and attain to the riches of the age to come; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, August 12, 2010 2:00 AM CDT
Blessings To All On The Feast Of The Transfiguration!
Dear Rhonda,
In listening and working with stories this week, I have often thought of your sweet sunshine boy, Connor. May happy thoughts of your dear one be with you on this Major Holy Day.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
O God, who on the holy mount revealed to chosen witnesses your well-beloved Son, wonderfully transfigured, in raiment white and glistening: Mercifully grant that we, being delivered from the disquietude of this world, may by faith behold the King in his beauty; who with you, O Father, and you, O Holy Spirit, lives and reigns, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
An Appropriate Hymn:
Christ upon the mountain peak
stands alone in glory blazing;
let us, if we dare to speak,
with the saints and angels praise him.
Alleluia!
Trembling at his feet we saw
Moses and Elijah speaking.
All the prophets and the Law
shout through them their joyful greeting.
Alleluia!
Swift the cloud of glory came.
God proclaiming in its thunder
Jesus as his Son by name!
Nations cry aloud in wonder!
Alleluia!
This is God's beloved Son!
Law and prophets before him;
first and last and only One,
let creation now adore him!
Alleluia!
Lyrics: Brian Wren (b. 1936)
Music: Mowsley, Cyril V. Taylor (b. 1907)
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/c/c109.html
Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, August 6, 2010 12:32 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Sitting on a yellow aluminum picnic table, at De Voe's, last night, enjoying a summer treat, I thought of Connor. I had their homemade Manhattan Clam Chowder, and a sandwich, but many other people had De Voe's homegrown sweet corn and salt potatoes. I was too full for ice cream, but if Connor had been along, he could have had any cold treat he wanted.
I am thinking of you today.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect For Oswald, King Of Northumbria, Martyr (August 5, 642):
Lord God, whose servant Oswald the King sent for preachers to bring the Good News of salvation to the people of his country, and stood beside the preacher Aidan and interpreted his words into the Anglo-Saxon language: Place in our hearts a concern for those who have not heard the message of your love; and where we have not the ability to reach them ourselves, grant us the discernment and the charity to uphold those who do have it, that your way may be known upon earth, your saving health among all nations, through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Ghost, one God, now and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, August 5, 2010 9:48 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I have been greeting you, in honor of Connor, on the first of the month for 69 months now. Last weekend, Father Henry talked with our people about the Lord's Prayer. Among other things, he asked who taught us to pray, who taught us that prayer, and how many times we have prayed it throughout our lives. Of course, no one present could possibly say how many times, anymore than I can possibly say how many times I have viewed Connor's guest book, or how many times I have signed it since his passing. It is a great honor, but it is also one reoccurring task that I truly wish I did not have to ever do.
As always, I thought of both you and Connor at Eucharist on Saturday afternoon and this morning. May God bless you both.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Sharing A Quote From Henri J.M. Nouwen:
Holding On to the Christ
Life is unpredictable. We can be happy one day and sad the next, healthy one day and sick the next, rich one day and poor the next, alive one day and dead the next. So who is there to hold on to? Who is there to feel secure with? Who is there to trust at all times?
Only Jesus, the Christ. He is our Lord, our shepherd, our rock, our stronghold, our refuge, our brother, our guide, and our friend. He came from God to be with us. He died for us, he was raised from the dead to open for us the way to God, and he is seated at God's right hand to welcome us home. With Paul, we must be certain that "neither death nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nothing already in existence and nothing still to come, nor any power, nor the heights nor the depths, nor any created thing whatever, will be able to come between us and the love of God, known to us in Christ Jesus our Lord" (Romans 8:38-39).
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, August 1, 2010 5:51 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I apologize for not signing Connor's guest book in several days. I have been quite busy, but I have remembered you and Connor at Eucharist, and I will think of you both beneath The Jesus and the Children stained glass later this weekend.
I hope Johnny is feeling strong, well, and able. May God bless you and your brother.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Merciful God, whose servant Joseph of Arimathaea with reverence and godly fear prepared the body of our Lord and Savior for burial, and laid it in his own tomb: Grant to us, your faithful people, grace and courage to love and serve Jesus with sincere devotion all the days of our life; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, July 31, 2010 1:00 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
This has been a week of story for us. Last night, I had an opportunity to listen to two of my friends give a presentation called "Portraits From High Places: Stories of Saratoga and the Adirondacks." I think Connor would have enjoyed the whole night, but he would have probably liked Margaret's French Canadian Adirondack Werewolf story most. Betty's tale of a twelve year old boy Warrensburg boy, who joined the World War Two Skywatchers, and Margaret's The Witch of Saratoga would have probably been close seconds.
Below is today's collect, which is also one of my favorites. May your brother, Johnny, be healed of all of his injuries from the accident, and may you both, and all of Connor's friends, know our Lord Jesus, in the power of his resurrection, as the collect asks.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect For Mary Magdalene, First Witness of the Resurrection:
Almighty God, whose blessed Son restored Mary Magdalene to health of body and mind, and called her to be a witness of his resurrection: Mercifully grant that by your grace we may be healed of all our infirmities and know you in the power of his endless life; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, July 22, 2010 12:47 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
This morning, I am trying out some bits of songs related to a historical telling I am doing tonight. What I need is a friend to listen and to encourage. I am sure your sunshine boy would be a help, and since there is a rascal in my story, I know Connor would quickly be drawn in.
Connor was remembered, at St. George's, on both Saturday afternoon and Sunday morning, as he is at each celebration of the Eucharist. May God bless Connor, and may God bless you and all of Connor's family, friends, and supporters.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect For Macrina the Younger, Monastic and Teacher
19 July 379:
Merciful God, who called your servant Macrina to reveal in her life and her teaching the riches of your grace and truth: Mercifully grant that we, following her example, may seek after your wisdom and live according to her way; through Jesus Christ our Savior, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, July 19, 2010 11:10 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Connor was remembered in Eucharist this afternoon. As I prayed for him beneath the Jesus and the Children stained glass window, I also prayed for you and Eddie, your parents, your brothers, and others closely linked to Connor.
It has been raining here tonight, and I just heard a loud clap of thunder, so I am going to close this without sharing details about seeing CATS at Proctor's Theater last night. My power could go off before I complete the tasks necessary to add this entry, if I don't hurry.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, July 17, 2010 10:57 PM CDT
checking loretta hayes
Sandra Stovall
- Friday, July 16, 2010 8:02 PM CDT
Hi, Rhonda. I'm thinking about you.
Lisa
Mt. Juliet, TN USA - Wednesday, July 14, 2010 5:55 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
As I came to Connor's site today, I offered a prayer for the healing of his Uncle Johnny, and I also prayed for you. May God bless sweet Connor and all of Connor's family.
Try to stay cool and comfortable during these warm July days.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect For Benedict, Founder of Western Monasticism 11 July 540:
Almighty and everlasting God, whose precepts are the wisdom of a loving Father: Give us grace, following the teaching and example of your servant Benedict, to walk with loving and willing hearts in the school of the Lord's service; let your ears be open to our prayers; and prosper with your blessing the work of our hands; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, July 12, 2010 11:43 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Last night, I saw "Steps to Suffrage," a historical musical youth drama at the recently opened Boght Arts Center, in nearly Boght Corners. The enthusiasm and energy of the young thespians was just great. One of the lads, who has a natural sense of mischief, reminded me of Connor. May God bless both of those fellows.
Connor was remembered in Holy Eucharist yesterday afternoon as he always is.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
O Lord, mercifully receive the prayers of your people who call upon you, and grant that they may know and understand what things they ought to do, and also may have grace and power faithfully to accomplish them; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, July 11, 2010 8:59 AM CDT
My sweetness is to wake in the night
after days of dry heat, hearing the rain.
~Wendell Berry (American poet, born August 5, 1934)
Dear Rhonda,
After enduring the worst hot spell we have had in almost eight years, it was a joy to awaken to the sounds of rain. The earth is dry and people's lawns were dying. We really needed the steady, gentle rain we had during the night.
I am pausing, now, at my keyboard, to remember Connor and to pray for you, your parents, Johnny, Chad, and all. I hope Johnny's mobility and vitality are increasing day by day.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, July 10, 2010 11:00 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
It has been brutally hot here this week. I have not heard how the weather is in your area. I hope you are staying safe and comfortable.
Last night, we went to an evening of storytelling and music from the Mohawk Valley. It was delightful! I think Connor would have enjoyed the program and also the Stewart's Ice Cream, cookies, and lemonade provided at intermission.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, July 8, 2010 9:09 PM CDT
just read the update. i pray that your brother is doing well
tricia <triciabxny@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, July 4, 2010 11:56 PM CDT
Happy Fourth Of July To All!
Dear Rhonda,
While at church, I remembered sweet Connor and prayed for you and for all of your family. May God bless you all, and may God bless our country.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
God of our fathers, whose almighty hand
leads forth in beauty all the starry band
of shining worlds in splendor through the skies,
our grateful songs before thy throne arise.
Thy love divine hath led us in the past,
in this free land by thee our lot is cast;
be thou our ruler, guardian, guide, and stay,
thy word our law, thy paths our chosen way.
From war's alarms, from deadly pestilence,
be thy strong arm our ever sure defense;
thy true religion in our hearts increase,
thy bounteous goodness nourish us in peace.
Refresh thy people on their toilsome way,
lead us from night to never-ending day;
fill all our lives with love and grace divine,
and glory, laud, and praise be ever thine.
Words: Daniel Crane Roberts (1841-1907), 1876
Music: National Hymn, George William Warren (1882-1902)
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/g/g230.html
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, July 4, 2010 1:20 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I look daily for additional information about your brother, Johnny, and I have asked those who follow you on FaceBook. I am going to believe the old saying, "No news is good news," but I am pausing, here, at my keyboard, to pray for Johnny and his continuing recovery. May his feet and legs become strengthened so that he can walk and enjoy life to its fullest once again. Also, may you, your parents, Chad, and Johnny all enjoy this Fourth of July Weekend.
Sweet Connor will be remembered in Holy Eucharist as he always is.
Below is the collect for Independence Day and some patriotic quotations I have seen in recent days. Please pray the prayer with me and think of the founders of our country and of the brave men and women serving in the military today.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your wonderful sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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The Collect For Independence Day:
Lord God Almighty, in whose Name the founders of this country won liberty for themselves and for us, and lit the torch of freedom for nations then unborn: Grant that we and all the people of this land may have grace to maintain our liberties in righteousness and peace; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 242
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A Few Patriotic Quotes:
Those who won our independence believed liberty to be the secret of happiness and courage to be the secret of liberty.
~Louis D. Brandeis
What we need are critical lovers of America - patriots who express their faith in their country by working to improve it.
~Hubert H. Humphrey
When an American says that he loves his country, he means not only that he loves the New England hills, the prairies glistening in the sun, the wide and rising plains, the great mountains, and the sea. He means that he loves an inner air, an inner light in which freedom lives and in which a man can draw the breath of self-respect.
~Adlai Stevenson
This country will not be a good place for any of us to live in unless we make it a good place for all of us to live in.
~Theodore Roosevelt
My God! How little do my countrymen know what precious blessings they are in possession of, and which no other people on earth enjoy!
~Thomas Jefferson
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, July 3, 2010 2:13 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
There's nothing special to say today, but as always, I am thinking of you and Connor and sending good wishes your way.
God bless you always, and God bless Johnny and all of Connor's loved ones.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
A Collect For Fridays:
Almighty God, whose most dear Son went not up to joy but
first he suffered pain, and entered not into glory before he
was crucified: Mercifully grant that we, walking in the way
of the cross, may find it none other than the way of life and
peace; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord. Amen.
The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 99
Written By William Reed Huntington (1838-1909)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, July 2, 2010 4:27 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
On another first of the month, I am thinking of you and remembering dear Connor. May God bless you both.
I hope your brother is doing well with his therapy and that both of you will be able to enjoy some good family time with your parents this weekend.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect For Catherine Winkworth, Hymnwriter and Educator, 1 July 1878:
Heavenly Father, by whose grace your servant Catherine was moved to render into English the words of praise which she had heard in the German tongue: grant us a like devotion, that we may be moved to proclaim your glory in sacred song; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
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Here are words to a hymn Miss Winkworth translated. Perhaps you can sing it with me.
Lift up your heads, ye mighty gates;
behold the King of glory waits!
The King of kings is drawing near;
the Savior of the world is here.
O blest the land, the city blest,
where Christ the ruler is confessed!
O happy hearts and happy homes
to whom this King of triumph comes!
Fling wide the portals of your heart;
make it a temple, set apart
from earthly use for heaven's employ,
adorned with prayer and love and joy.
Redeemer, come, with us abide;
our hearts to thee we open wide;
let us thy inner presence feel;
thy grace and love in us reveal.
Thy Holy Spirit lead us on
until our glorious goal is won;
eternal praise, eternal fame
be offered, Savior, to thy Name!
Lyrics: Georg Weissel (1590-1635), 1642;
Translated By Catherine Winkworth (1827-1878), 1855
Music: Truro
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/l/l131.html
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, July 1, 2010 5:57 PM CDT
Rhonda,
Thank you for sharing Connor's story with us today. He was beautiful. So handsome. So kind. So sweet.
My heart is heavy for your loss. I am glad I now know about Connor Jordan Hunley.
Much love,
Erin
Erin Daunic <edaunic@starsnashville.org>
Nashville, TN USA - Thursday, July 1, 2010 2:41 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
For some reason, the note I thought I left here yesterday has not recorded. Since I was working on getting the hymn material, I saved it as I worked, so I am adding it below.
We actually had a Peter and Paul service at St. George's today, and Connor was remembered in that celebration of the Eucharist.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of you and of sweet Connor as I do every day. I am also pausing to pray for you and for all of Connor's many loved ones, each by name.
Today we remember the martyrdoms of Peter and Paul. The date is the anniversary of a day, under the Valerian persecution, when what was believed to be the remains of the two apostles were moved temporarily to prevent them from falling into the hands of the persecutors. Here is what St. Augustine said about this day.
Both apostles share the same feast day, for these two were one; and even though they suffered on different days, they were as one. Peter went first, and Paul followed. And so we celebrate this day made holy for us by the apostles' blood. Let us embrace what they believed, their life, their labors, their sufferings, their preaching, and their confession of faith.
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The Collect For St. Peter and St. Paul, Apostles and Martyrs, 29 June 64:
Almighty God, whose blessed apostles Peter and Paul glorified you by their martyrdom: Grant that your Church, instructed by their teaching and example, and knit together in unity by your Spirit, may ever stand firm upon the one foundation, which is Jesus Christ our Lord; who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
I hope you are looking forward to the upcoming Fourth of July Weekend and that you can celebrate with a brother who is well on his way to complete mobility. God bless you both, and of course, God bless Connor.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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Two stalwart trees both rooted in faith and holy love,
by hope of God united they reach to heaven above.
One on a cross is martyred, one by the sword is slain;
both triumph in their dying, both glorious sainthood gain.
The words of Paul assure us of Christ's redeeming word;
the works of Peter show us how we may serve the Lord.
All glory to the Father, all glory to the Son,
who with the Holy Spirit, now reign, blest Three in One.
Words: Latin, translated by Anne K. LeCroy (b. 1930)
You can sing these words to the tune of Nyland, which I have left here previously. You can also find two other tunes in the Oremus Online Hymnal as numbers 273 and 274. (http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/82.html)
Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, June 30, 2010 2:53 PM CDT
hey girl hope every thing is ok with you
reid <reidwallace34@gmail.com>
mount pleasant, sc usa - Monday, June 28, 2010 6:55 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Connor has been remembered in Holy Eucharist. While in church, I prayed for you, Johnny, and all of your family. God bless you always.
This afternoon, Andrew, Kristen, and I had an ice cream cone at De Voe's. The favor of the week did not appeal to us, so we had regular cones with either sprinkles or dip. My first cone of the season (yes, late this year) was chocolate dipped in cherry. As always, it was tasty. Certainly if Connor were here, he could have had any cone or other treat of his choice.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Almighty God, you have built your Church upon the foundation of the apostles and prophets, Jesus Christ himself being the chief cornerstone: Grant us so to be joined together in unity of spirit by their teaching, that we may be made a holy temple acceptable to you; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, June 27, 2010 6:17 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I've been outside doing some chores. I know you often miss Connor, when you are working at home as he was always such a good helper. May God bless you both today.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, June 26, 2010 12:43 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Yesterday's feast reminds me that Christmas is now six months away. Today's email brought me five pieces from Celtic Women including two Christmas selections. In playing them and in searching for others, I decided to send those carols and hymns on with a wish for Happy Christmas in June (not July, as we sometimes hear) to a few friends. One of the pieces, O Holy Night, made me think of you, as I know it is one of your favorites. Maybe just thinking about that lovely music we normally enjoy in December, will make you smile and will bring back pleasant memories of Christmases spent with your sweet sunshine boy.
Right now, I am pausing, here at my keyboard, to pray for Johnny's complete healing and for many blessings for you and for all of your family.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, June 25, 2010 12:51 AM CDT
Blessings To All On The Feast Of St. John The Baptist!
Dear Rhonda,
Connor has been remembered in Eucharist on this Red Letter Holy Day. I am also praying for you, Johnny, your parents, and Chad today. I hope Johnny is making good progress. Please give a Johnny update, when you can.
Andrew is traveling this week. His plane was in a storm on the way out, so he was very late, and his ride was no longer available. He spent $40.00 on a cab to his hotel and had some difficulties checking in after midnight, even though the reservation was made and paid for in advance. He was supposed to be home late last night, but one of the planes he was using had mechanical problems, so he missed the connecting flight and also both alternative flights home. He did not get a chance to eat from yesterday at noon until 6:30 this morning and did not appreciate sleeping in the airport. Hopefully, he is boarding a flight to Albany, as I write. Andrew has flown alone previously, but never with so many snags. We will both be glad when he is home!
I hope you, and all of Connor's relatives, are having a much easier week.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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Today's Collect:
Almighty God, by whose providence your servant John the Baptist was wonderfully born, and sent to prepare the way of your Son our Savior by preaching repentance: Make us so to follow his teaching and holy life, that we may truly repent according to his preaching; and, following his example, constantly speak the truth, boldly rebuke vice, and patiently suffer for the truth's sake; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
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By all your saints still striving, for all your saints at rest,
Your holy Name, O Jesus. for evermore be blessed.
You rose, our King victorious, that they might wear the crown
And ever shine in splendor reflected from your throne.
All praise for John the Baptist, forerunner of the Word,
our true Elijah, making a highway for the Lord.
The last and greatest prophet, he saw the dawning ray
of light that grows in splendor until the perfect day.
Then let us praise the Father and worship God the Son
And sing to God the Spirit, eternal Three in One,
Till all the ransomed number who stand before the throne
Ascribe all power and glory and praise to God alone.
Words: Horatio Bolton Nelson (1823-1913); ver. Hymnal, 1982
Music: King's Lynn, English melody; adapt. Ralph Vaughan Williams (1872-1958)
or Nyland, Finnish folk melody; adapt. David Evans (1874-1948)
Hear Nyland at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/b/b209a.html
Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, June 24, 2010 9:04 AM CDT
Summer Blessings To All!
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of you and of Connor on the first day of summer. I know he would be glad to have the freedom of these warm days to ride his bike, play with his pets, ride his skateboard, zoom in his go-cart, and go fishing. May thoughts of a well and happy Connor fill your heart with peace and joy.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Sharing A Summer Solstice Poem:
The heavens bespeak the glory of God.
The firmament ablaze, a text of his works.
Dawn whispers to sunset
Dark to dark the word passes; glory glory.
All in all a great silence,
no tongue's clamor-
yet the web of the world trembles
conscious, as of great winds passing.
The bridegroom's tent is raised,
a cry goes up: He comes! a radiant sun
rejoicing, presiding, his wedding day.
From end to end of the universe his progress.
No creature, no least being but catches fire from him.
Daniel Berrigan (born May 9, 1921)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, June 21, 2010 9:56 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I hope you, Chad, and Johnny could all spend some time with your dad today and that he enjoyed a good Father's Day.
As always, I remembered Connor in Holy Eucharist.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, June 21, 2010 0:06 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I am sorry I have not been here often this week. We have had problems with all of the family cars, so we have been spending time in garages, sharing rides, and picking up the slack when others cannot be in their usual spots.
I am thinking of you, Johnny, your parents, and Chad, and I am remembering Connor.
God bless you all.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, June 19, 2010 10:07 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Connor was remembered in Eucharist on Sunday. Both Father and Mother Henry are away today, so we did not have our usual service, but I am remembering your sunshine boy, here, at my keyboard.
I have been out of town attending a storytelling festival. I did think of Connor during a long recitation of a lively Stephen Vincent Benét poem and while listening to humorous stories and folk stories. May God always bless your little hero.
We are still praying for Johnny and for all those supporting and treating him.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect For Joseph Butler, Bishop Of Durham, Theologian (16 June 1752):
O God, who by your Holy Spirit give to some the word of wisdom, To others the word of knowledge, and to others the word of faith: We praise your Name for the gifts of grace manifested in your servant Joseph Butler, and we pray that your Church may never be destitute of such gifts; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who with you and the Holy Spirit lives and reigns, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, June 16, 2010 11:53 AM CDT
Hi Rhonda,
I'm happy to hear that your brother is making good progress, and I continue to say prayers for his rapid recovery. Thinking of you and hoping that you are well..,
Deb
Litchfield, NH USA - Wednesday, June 16, 2010 11:01 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
On this fourth anniversary of Jacob Duckworth's arrival in heaven, I think of Jacob, Connor, Cheyenne, and many others. May God bless them all.
I am pausing now to pray for Johnny's complete recovery and to pray for you, your parents, and Chad. God bless you all.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Give us, O Lord, a steadfast heart, which no unworthy affection may drag downwards; give us an unconquered heart, which no tribulation can wear out; give us an upright heart, which no unworthy purpose may tempt aside. Bestow upon us also, O Lord our God, understanding to know you, diligence to seek you, wisdom to find you, and a faithfulness that may finally embrace you; through Jesus Christ our Lord.
~Thomas Aquinas
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, June 12, 2010 11:10 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I have thought many times today of Connor. May God bless him always, and may God also bless you, your parents, Johnny, and Chad.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Grant, O God, that we may follow the example of your faithful servant Barnabas, who, seeking not his own renown but the well-being of your Church, gave generously of his life and substance for the relief of the poor and the spread of the Gospel; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, June 11, 2010 3:57 PM CDT
Divine aid is available to those who seek it from their hearts humbly and devoutly.
~St. Bonaventure
Dear Rhonda,
Let the above words be real for you and for Johnny today. I am pausing, here, at my keyboard, to pray for both of you and to remember your sunshine boy, whose site I have been visiting for over seven years. May God bless you all.
Below is a hymn I always associate with St. Columba's Day, which was yesterday. I have been humming and singing snatches of it for the past few days. I hope you can sing it with me, when you find it.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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Be thou my vision, O Lord of my heart;
all else be nought to me, save that thou art-
thou my best thought,- by day or by night,
waking or sleeping, thy presence my light.
Be thou my wisdom, and thou my true word;
I ever with thee and thou with me, Lord;
thou my great Father; thine own may I be;
thou in my dwelling, and I one with thee.
High King of heaven, when victory is won,
may I reach heaven's joys, bright heaven's Sun!
Heart of my heart,- whatever befall,
still be thou my vision, O Ruler of all.
Lyrics: Ancient Irish hymn;
trans. Mary Byrne, 1905, and versified by Eleanor Hull, 1912
Music: Slane (Irish)
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/b/b021.html
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, June 10, 2010 2:30 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
It is pouring here right now. I had to smile as I looked at Connor's face as his homepage came up, as he is the kind of guy who would be out playing in the water. May God bless Connor's sweet spirit.
I have just paused, here, at my keyboard, to pray for Connor's Uncle Johnny and for you, as well.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect For Columba, Abbot Of Iona And Missionary (9 June 597):
O God, who by the preaching of your blessed servant Columba caused the light of the Gospel to shine in Scotland: Grant, we pray, that, having his life and labors in remembrance, we may show our thankfulness to you by following the example of his zeal and patience; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, June 9, 2010 2:50 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I am working with some folk tales for one of my storytelling groups, and as I am doing so, I am thinking that Connor would enjoy many of these stories. God bless your sweet sunshine boy, and God bless you.
Each day, I pray several times for your brother, Johnny. I hope he is making a strong recovery.
God bless all of your family.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
A Line From A Healing Prayer:
Let the Holy Spirit come to Johnny's aid that he might live each day in the joy for which you fashioned him.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A, - Tuesday, June 8, 2010 5:54 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
This is a special anniversary in Andrew's life. I know you had many special days with Connor, as well. May you and your sweet sunshine boy be blessed today as you remember and reflect upon those special milestones in his life.
I am pausing, here, at my keyboard, to pray for you, Connor, and Johnny.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, June 7, 2010 12:57 AM CDT
Blessings To All On The Feast Of Corpus Christi!
Dear Rhonda,
On this third spring festival, I am remembering Connor and thinking of you and of all your family. May God bless you all.
I have just paused, here, at my keyboard to pray for Johnny's injured feet and legs to be strenghtened, so he will once again walk, and walk with dignity and in peace.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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Word made flesh, the bread he taketh,
by his word his Flesh to be;
wine his sacred Blood he maketh,
though the senses fail to see;
faith alone the true heart waketh
to behold the mystery.
Therefore we, before him bending,
this great Sacrament revere;
types and shadows have their ending,
for the newer rite is here;
faith, our outward sense befriending,
makes our inward vision clear.
Lyrics: Thomas Aquinas (1225?-1274)
Music: Pange lingua, plainsong, 14th century
The Hymnal 1982, #329, verses 4 and 5
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/n/n130.html
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, June 6, 2010 12:18 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
As always, I am thinking of you and sweet Connor. I will remember him in Eucharist, and while in church, I will pray for your brother's recovery.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect For Boniface, Bishop, Missionary, And Martyr, 5 June 754:
Almighty God, who called your faithful servant Boniface to be a witness and martyr in the lands of Germany and Friesland, and by his labor and suffering raised up a people for your own possession: Pour forth your Holy Spirit upon your Church in every land, that by the service and sacrifice of many your holy Name may be glorified and your kingdom enlarged; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, June 5, 2010 12:03 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
On another Friday, I am thinking of you and of Connor. Of course, I am also praying for your brother, Johnny, and for all who are helping him to regain his health and mobility. May God bless you all.
Today's saint is associated with the area of my childhood, Otsego County, New York. In a fourteen year period, it is said that Daniel Nash preached to many Indians, baptized about 500 people, and founded at least twelve churches. He is commemorated here, in the Albany Diocese, as an example of the missionary zeal, which should be a part of the life of each Christian.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
A Collect for the Commemoration of Daniel Nash, Missionary June 4 1837:
O God, you called your servant Daniel Nash to the hills and valleys of a new frontier to preach the Gospel and build your Church. Grant that your Church in this and every generation may be filled with zeal for the Gospel of your Son Jesus Christ, and a willingness to serve all people in His Name; this we ask through Him who, with You and the Holy Spirit lives and reigns now and forever. Amen
Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, June 4, 2010 11:06 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Once again, I am thinking of you and of all of your family. If he has not yet left the hospital, I hope Johnny can do that soon and that he will be comfortable during the time he is with your parents.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect For The Martyrs Of Uganda (3 June 1886):
O God, by whose providence the blood of the martyrs is the seed of the Church: Grant that we who remember before you the blessed martyrs of Uganda, may, like them, be steadfast in our faith in Jesus Christ, to whom they gave obedience, even unto death, and by their sacrifice brought forth a plentiful harvest; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, June 3, 2010 12:45 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Last night, at our Daughters of the King meeting, we decided to continue your brother on our prayer list for the entire month of June. A few minutes ago, I saw the information you posted on Connor's home page. Thank you very much. I am glad Johnny is doing well enough to leave the hospital. May his progress continue.
While at Eucharist this morning, I remembered Connor, and I also prayed for Johnny, your parents, Chad, and you. God bless you all.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect (For The Martyrs Of Lyons, 2 June, 177):
Grant, O Lord, we pray, that we who keep the feast of the holy Martyrs Blandina and her companions may be rooted and grounded in love of you, and may endure the sufferings of this life for the glory that shall be revealed in us; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, June 2, 2010 2:57 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of you and Connor on another first of the month. I am also praying for your brother, Johnny, your parents, and Johnny's complete medical team. May God bless you all.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Collect For Justin Martyr, Philosopher, Apologist, And Martyr, 1 June 167:
Almighty and everlasting God, who found your martyr Justin wandering from teacher to teacher, seeking the true God, and revealed to him the sublime wisdom of your eternal Word: Grant that all who seek you, or a deeper knowledge of you, may find and be found by you; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, June 1, 2010 9:51 AM CDT
Happy Memorial Day To All!
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking about you, and of Connor, on this day, when we remember those who have died in service to our country, and when many of us also decorate the graves of our family members. May you have peace today, and may your brother, Johnny, be content, courageous, and able, as he works through his recovery.
God bless you always, and God bless all of Connor's family and friends.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Prayers For Use At Memorial Day:
O Judge of the nations, we remember before you with grateful hearts the men and women of our country who in the day of decision ventured much for the liberties we now enjoy. Grant that we may not rest until all the people of this land share the benefits of true freedom and gladly accept its disciplines. This we ask in the Name of Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 839
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, May 31, 2010 12:33 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I'm thinking of you and sending prayers.
Deb
Deb
Litchfield, NH USA - Monday, May 31, 2010 6:18 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I have recently found an email from one of Connor's friends saying that your brother, Johnny, also broke his eye socket in his accident. I can't imagine how painful that injury must be. Please know that I am praying for him several times each day, and that after reading about the socket, I put out another prayer request to friends at St. George's and a few others. May healing be his, and may you, your parents, and Chad have peace and hope.
Below is the collect for today. It is one of my favorites.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect (The Visitation, May 31):
Father in heaven, by your grace the virgin mother of your incarnate Son was blessed in bearing him, but still more blessed in keeping your word: Grant us who honor the exaltation of her lowliness to follow the example of her devotion to your will; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, May 31, 2010 2:15 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Yesterday, when I read at Holy Eucharist, I remembered sweet Connor and prayed for you, Johnny, and all of your family. May God provide comfort, strength, and courage to all who have need of it.
This morning, I woke thinking of Connor, so I have visited Connor's page at Children of Promise. How awesome it is that his page there and this website still exist for Connor's friends to use as they remember him!
Right now, I am pausing, here, at my keyboard, to pray for Johnny and his complete medical team and also for you and for your sunshine boy. God bless you all.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect (Trinity Sunday):
Almighty and everlasting God, you have given to us your servants grace, by the confession of a true faith, to acknowledge the glory of the eternal Trinity, and in the power of your divine Majesty to worship the Unity: Keep us steadfast in this faith and worship, and bring us at last to see you in your one and eternal glory, O Father; who with the Son and the Holy Spirit live and reign, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, May 30, 2010 12:06 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
The lawns are really growing, so Andrew is getting out the mower. It makes me think of the picture of Connor on the tractor. May God bless both of these guys.
I hope your brother, Johnny, is healing, as well as can be expected and will make a full recovery. He, you, and all of your family are in our prayers.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Collect For Juraj Tranovsky, Hymnwriter, 29 May 1637:
Almighty God, who have taught your people to praise you in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs: We thank you for your servants to whom you have given skill in the writing of hymns, especially at this time for Juraj Tranovsky, and we pray that by your grace we may sing your praises joyfully in this life, and finally attain to the harmony of the life to come; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, May 29, 2010 11:38 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I have just received word, through one of Connor's friends, that your brother, Johnny, will not be able to walk for about six months. His accident must have been really horrible for him to have so much to overcome. I have paused, once again, to pray for Johnny. May Johnny find God able as he recovers from his injuries, and may he have courage and faith to face and overcome each and every challenge.
There are some of us who do not do Face Book. We would love to know what is happening, so we can pray more effectively. Perhaps you can copy your Johnny updates here. I am sure Connor would be happy to be a way for his Uncle Johnny to receive extra prayer, at this time.
God bless you, Johnny, Johnny's complete medical team, and all of your loved ones.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The collect for Fridays is always appropriate, but it seems especially apt with Johnny's injuries in mind, so I leave it once again.
A Collect For Fridays:
Almighty God, whose most dear Son went not up to joy but
first he suffered pain, and entered not into glory before he
was crucified: Mercifully grant that we, walking in the way
of the cross, may find it none other than the way of life and
peace; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord. Amen.
The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 99
Written By William Reed Huntington (1838-1909)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, May 28, 2010 12:06 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I know it will be difficult for you to enter the patriotic celebrations coming up this weekend or to relax at a picnic, but rest assured that your friends in the Capital District of New York are praying for your brother, for you, and for all of your loved ones.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
For Heroic Service:
O Judge of the nations, we remember before you with grateful hearts the men and women of our country who in the day of decision ventured much for the liberties we now enjoy. Grant that we may not rest until all the people of this land share the benefits of true freedom and gladly accept its disciplines. This we ask in the Name of Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 839
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For Those In The Armed Forces Of Our Country:
Almighty God, we commend to your gracious care and keeping all the men and women of our armed forces at home and abroad. Defend them day by day with your heavenly grace; strengthen them in their trials and temptations; give them courage to face the perils which beset them; and grant them a sense of your abiding presence wherever they may be; through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.
The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 823
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, May 28, 2010 9:49 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Elaine wants you to know that she is sorry to learn of Johnny's accident and injuries. We, and some of our friends, are praying for all of your family at this time.
God bless you all.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect For John Calvin, Theologian, 27 May 1564:
Grant to us, Lord, we pray, the spirit to think and do always those things that are right; that we, who cannot do any thing that is good without you, may by you be enabled to live according to your will; and, taught by the writings of your servant John Calvin, may see in the blessings you give us the fruits, not of our deserving, but of your pure bounty; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, May 27, 2010 4:54 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I am hoping that your brother, Johnny, is recovering well from his injuries. We are praying for him and for a young man from Mechanicville, critically injured in a motorcycle accident over the weekend. If there is anything further that we may be able to do, please let me know.
Probably the Connor J. Hunley Award has been given out, as your school year closes ahead of ours. I hope you enjoyed the ceremony.
God bless you always, and God bless Johnny, Chad, your parents, and all of your other loved ones.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Yesterday's Collect:
O Lord our God, who by your Son Jesus Christ called your apostles and sent them forth to preach the Gospel to the nations: We bless your holy name for your servant Augustine, first Archbishop of Canterbury, whose labors in propagating your Church among the English people we commemorate today; and we pray that all whom you call and send may do your will, and bide your time, and see your glory; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, May 27, 2010 7:23 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Connor was remembered in morning Eucharist today, and prayers were offered for your brother, Johnny. I hope he is making good recovery progress.
God bless you and all of your family. Please let you mother know that I am holding Johnny in my thoughts and prayers.
The prayers below can be used to pray for a sick or injured person by adding a name and changing the pronouns. They are among my favorite prayers for this use.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Prayers For Use By A Sick Person
From The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 461
For Trust in God
O God, the source of all health: So fill my heart with faith in your love, that with calm expectancy I may make room for your power to possess me, and gracefully accept your healing; through Jesus Christ the Lord. Amen.
In Pain
Lord Jesus Christ, by your patience in suffering you hallowed earthly pain and gave us the example of obedience to your Father's will: Be near me in my time of weakness and pain; sustain me by your grace, that my strength and courage may not fail; heal me according to your will; and help me always to believe that what happens to me here is of little account if you hold me in eternal life, the Lord and my God. Amen.
For Sleep
O heavenly Father, you give your children sleep for the refreshing of soul and body: Grant me this gift, I pray; keep me in that perfect peace which you have promised to those whose minds are fixed on you; and give me such a sense of your presence, that in the hours of silence I may enjoy the blessed assurance of your love; through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.
In the Morning
This is another day, O Lord. I know not what it will bring forth, but make me ready, Lord, for whatever it may be. If I am to stand up, help me to stand bravely. If I am to sit still, help me to sit quietly. If I am to lie low, help me to do it patiently. And if I am to do nothing, let me do it gallantly. Make these words more than words, and give me the Spirit of Jesus. Amen.
Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, May 26, 2010 2:42 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I am continuing to pray for you, Johnny, Johnny's complete medical team, your mom, you dad, and Chad. May the comfort, peace, and healing of Christ be with you all.
God bless you, and of course, God bless sweet Connor.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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A Traditional Prayer For Healing:
The almighty Lord, who is a strong tower for all who put their trust in him, whom all things in heaven, on earth, and under the earth bow and obey, be now and evermore your defense. May you know and believe that the only name under heaven given for health and salvation is the name of our Lord, Jesus Christ. Amen.
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If you need a compassionate and listening ear, please feel free to call me, night or day.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, May 25, 2010 5:07 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of you and your brother, Johnny, this morning. May his medical team be caring and vigilant. You, Johnny, and your parents are in my thoughts and prayers.
Today's saint, Bede, is known by many, thanks to our English teachers. Below are the lyrics to an Ascension hymn that he wrote.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless Connor.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
A hymn of glory let us sing;
New songs throughout the world shall ring:
Christ, by a road before untrod,
Now rises to the throne of God.
The holy apostolic band
Upon the Mount of Olives stand;
And with his followers they see
Their Lord's ascending majesty.
To them the angels drawing nigh,
"Why stand and gaze upon the sky?
This is the Savior," thus they say;
"This is his glorious triumph day.
"Again shall ye behold him so
As ye today have seen him go,
In glorious pomp ascending high,
Up to the portals of the sky."
O risen Christ, ascended Lord,
All praise to thee let earth accord,
Who art, while endless ages run,
With Father and with Spirit one.
Collect For Bede the Venerable, Priest, Monk, Scholar,
25 May 735:
Heavenly Father, who called your servant Bede, while still a child, to devote his life to your service in the disciplines of religion and scholarship: Grant that as he labored in the Spirit to bring the riches of your truth to his generation, so we, in our various vocations, may strive to make you known in all the world; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, May 25, 2010 8:07 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I understand from one of our mutual friends that your older brother, Johnny, has been injured in an auto accident. Both of you are in my thoughts and prayers tonight.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, May 24, 2010 11:39 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Today's saint is a hero that Connor might have enjoyed learning about. So many boys have loved stories of our westward expansion.
I hope you are doing well. Please send an email from time to time, when you are able.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect For Jackson Kemper, Bishop, Missionary, 24 May 1870:
Lord God, in whose providence Jackson Kemper was chosen first missionary bishop in this land, and by his arduous labor and travel established congregations in scattered settlements of the West: Grant that the Church may always be faithful to its mission, and have the vision, courage, and perseverance to make known to all peoples the Good News of Jesus Christ; who with you and the Holy Spirit lives and reigns, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, May 24, 2010 11:35 AM CDT
Blessings To All On The Feast Of Pentecost!
Dear Rhonda,
Connor was remembered in Holy Eucharist this morning. Pentecost has always been one of our favorite holy days, as we love the red colored clothing that many people wear and the red altar clothes. It is also a festival not generally spoiled by commercialism, although a very young Andrew once suggested marketing "Pentecost Pizza."
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
O God, who on this day taught the hearts of your faithful people by sending to them the light of your Holy Spirit: Grant us by the same Spirit to have a right judgment in all things, and evermore to rejoice in his holy comfort; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord, who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
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Hail this joyful day's return,
hail the Pentecostal morn,
morn when our ascended Lord
on his Church his Spirit poured! Alleluia!
Like to clove tongues of flame
on the twelve the Spirit came--
tongues, that earth may hear their call,
fire, that love may burn in all. Alleluia!
Lord, to you your people bend;
unto us your Spirit send;
blessings of this sacred day
grant us, dearest Lord, we pray. Alleluia!
You who did our forebears guide,
with their children still abide;
grant us pardon, grant us peace,
till our earthly wanderings cease. Alleluia!
Words: Attributed to Hilary of Poitiers (fourth century);
trans. Robert Campbell (1814-1868), alt.
Music: Sonne der Gerechtigkeit, Beata nobis gaudia
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/h/h036.html
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, May 23, 2010 3:29 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
On another Friday, I am remembering Connor and thinking of you. God bless you both.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
A Collect For Fridays:
Almighty God, whose most dear Son went not up to joy but
first he suffered pain, and entered not into glory before he
was crucified: Mercifully grant that we, walking in the way
of the cross, may find it none other than the way of life and
peace; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord. Amen.
The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 99
Written By William Reed Huntington (1838-1909)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, May 21, 2010 12:09 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
As the school year winds down, I am thinking of your sunshine boy, who helped his teachers and enjoyed his friends. Connor also surely loved his go-cart, his bike, and his pets.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless sweet Connor and all of his companions in heaven.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect For Alcuin, Deacon, Scholar, And Abbot Of Tours, 20 May 804:
Almighty God, who in a rude and barbarous age raised up your deacon Alcuin to rekindle the light of learning: Illumine our minds, we pray, that amid the uncertainties and confusions of our own time we may show forth your eternal truth, through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, May 20, 2010 11:42 AM CDT
thinking of you
tricia <triciabxny@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, May 19, 2010 11:42 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
When I read today's collect, I thought of Connor and all of the nurses who cared for him during his illness. I know many of them were dedicated, kind, professional and gentle. May they and their families be blessed on this day when many honor them, and may you and all of Connor's loved ones be at peace today.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect For Florence Nightingale, Nurse, Renewer Of Society, 18 May 1910:
Life-giving God, who alone have power over life and death, over health and sickness: Give power, wisdom, and gentleness to those who follow the example of your servant Florence Nightingale, that they, bearing with them your Presence, may not only heal but bless, and shine as lanterns of hope in the darkest hours of pain and fear, through Jesus Christ, the healer of body and soul, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, May 18, 2010 11:47 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Connor was remembered in Eucharist on Saturday afternoon and Sunday morning. I also prayed for you, while at St. George's.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect For Erik, King of Sweden, Martyr, 17 May 1160:
O God, who called your servant Erik of Sweden to an earthly throne that he might advance your heavenly kingdom, and gave him zeal for your Church and love for your people: Mercifully grant that we who commemorate him this day may be fruitful in good works, and attain to the glorious crown of your saints; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, May 17, 2010 5:56 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
After light snow on the weekend and a cold, wet week, we got up to around 80 degrees today and had some humidity. The kids were definitely out playing ball and riding bikes this afternoon. Connor would have enjoyed a day like this one. Let the Ascension of our Lord encourage you about your future.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
These lyrics were written by William C. Dix to be a Communion hymn for Ascension Day.
Alleluia! sing to Jesus!
His the scepter, his the throne.
Alleluia! His the triumph,
his the victory alone.
Hark! the songs of peaceful Zion
thunder like a mighty flood.
Jesus out of every nation
hath redeemed us by his blood.
Alleluia! not as orphans
are we left in sorrow now;
Alleluia! He is near us,
faith believes, nor questions how;
Though the cloud from sight received him
when the forty days were o'er
shall our hearts forget his promise,
'I am with you evermore'?
Alleluia! bread of heaven,
here on earth our food and stay!
Alleluia! here the sinful
flee to thee from day to day.
Intercessor, Friend of sinners,
earth's Redeemer, plead for me.
Where the songs of all the sinless
sweep across the crystal sea.
Alleluia! King eternal,
thee the Lord of lords we own;
Alleluia! born of Mary,
earth thy footstool,
heaven thy throne.
Thou within the veil hast entered,
robed in flesh, our great High Priest.
Thou on earth both Priest and Victim
in the Eucharistic Feast.
Words: William Chatterton Dix (1837-1898), 1867
Music: Hyfrydol (Rowland Hugh Prichard, 1811-1887)
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/a/a213.html
Hydrydol is the most well-known tune for "Alleluia! Sing to Jesus" today, but below is a link to a tune for the words by Samuel S. Wesley.
Music: Alleluia (Samuel Sebastian Wesley, 1810-1876)
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/a/a213a.html
Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, May 14, 2010 11:47 PM CDT
Blessings To All On The Feast Of The Ascension!
Dear Rhonda,
Connor has been remembered in Holy Eucharist on this feast day.
I hope all is well with you and with all of Connor's loved ones.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
A Collect For The Ascension:
Grant, we pray, Almighty God, that as we believe your only-begotten Son our Lord Jesus Christ to have ascended into heaven, so we may also in heart and mind there ascend, and with him continually dwell; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, May 13, 2010 10:42 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
A friend and I went to Saratoga Springs to hear some storytelling tonight. There was a King Arthur story that I am sure Connor would have enjoyed.
Connor was remembered in Holy Eucharist this morning. May God always bless your sweet sunshine boy.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, May 12, 2010 11:24 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Andrew took me out for my Mother's Day visit to the tulips in Washington Park and for dinner at Red Lobster last night. As always, it was a treat. Of course, I thought of you and your sunshine boy then, and at church Sunday morning. May God bless you both.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, May 11, 2010 10:11 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
It won't be long before the Connor J. Hunley Award is given out at the elementary school award ceremony. May the mention of Connor's name honor him and delight the hearts that love him.
God bless you and your courageous son always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Almighty God, who have revealed to your Church your eternal Being of glorious majesty and perfect love as one God in Trinity of Persons: Give us grace that, like your bishop Gregory of Nazianzus, we may continue steadfast in the confession of this faith, and constant in our worship of you, Father, Son and Holy Spirit, who live and reign for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, May 10, 2010 9:21 AM CDT
Happy Mother's Day To All!
Dear Rhonda,
I thought of you and of Connor at Eucharist yesterday and today. You are indeed a special mother, and I know that Connor was, and is, blessed in having you as his mom.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
A Few Quotes On Motherhood:
The heart of a mother is a deep abyss at the bottom of which you will always find forgiveness.
~Honore' de Balzac (1799-1850)
A mother is the truest friend we have, when trials, heavy and sudden, fall upon us; when adversity takes the place of prosperity; when friends who rejoice with us in our sunshine, desert us when troubles thicken around us, still will she cling to us, and endeavor by her kind precepts and counsels to dissipate the clouds of darkness, and cause peace to return to our hearts.
~Washington Irving (1783-1859)
My mother was the most beautiful woman I ever saw. All I am I owe to my mother. I attribute all my success in life to the moral, intellectual and physical education I received from her.
~George Washington (1732-1799)
Motherhood from the outset demands the total gift of self.
~Author Unknown
If I am Thy child, O God, it is because Thou gavest me such a mother.
~St. Augustine (354-430) speaking of his mother, St. Monnica whose feast day is May 4.
Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, May 9, 2010 2:51 PM CDT
Rhonda,
I'm thinking of you as Mother's Day approaches. You are an incredible woman and an amazing Christian Mama. You will be in my prayers when I fall asleep tonight and again when I wake up tomorrow morning. I know God and Connor are with you every day. You have one on each side of you holding your hand. I pray Connor sends you a very special sign tomorrow.
Lisa - Tristan's Mama
Mount Juliet, TN USA - Saturday, May 8, 2010 5:10 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Earlier this week, we marked the Feast of St. Monnica. The story of Monnica and Augustine reminds us that bond between a mother and son is one of the most powerful and enduring. May you rejoice today that your bond with Connor is not broken and that you will see Connor again in heaven.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect For Monnica, Mother of Augustine of Hippo, 4 May 387:
O Lord, who through spiritual discipline strengthened your servant Monnica to persevere in offering her love and prayers and tears for the conversion of her husband and of Augustine their son: Deepen our devotion, we pray, and use us in accordance with your will to bring others, even our own kindred, to acknowledge Jesus Christ as Savior and Lord; who with you and the Holy Spirit lives and reigns, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, May 6, 2010 4:17 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Connor has been remembered in Eucharist once again. We had six handsome little boys and two darling little girls receive First Eucharist this morning, at St. George's. Each child received gifts from the parish including a cross, a Bible and an Anglican Rosary.
I hope you are safe, well, and content.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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Today's Collect:
Almighty God, whom truly to know is everlasting life: Grant us so perfectly to know your Son Jesus Christ to be the way, the truth, and the life, that we may steadfastly follow his steps in the way that leads to eternal life; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord, who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, May 2, 2010 10:04 PM CDT
All our love from Oldfields is with the Gould Family.
Parny Hagerman <hagerman@oldfieldsschool.org>
Glencoe , MD - Saturday, May 1, 2010 4:53 PM CDT
...66 months
Dear Rhonda,
In many ways, it does not seem possible that Connor has been in heaven for five and a half years. May it comfort you today to know that Connor's friends remember him and that they hold you in their most loving prayers.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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Alleluia, alleluia, alleluia!
The strife is o'er, the battle done,
the victory of life is won;
the song of truiumph has begun.
Alleluia!
Alleluia, alleluia, alleluia!
Lord! by the stripes which wounded thee,
from death's dread sting thy servants free,
that we may live and sing to thee.
Alleluia!
Words: Symphonia Sirenum Selectarum, 1695;
trans. Francis Pott (1832-1909)
Music: Victory, Giovanni Pierluigi da Palestrina (1525-1594);
adapt. and arr. William Henry Monk (1823-1889)
I have quoted verses one and five.
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/t/t368.html
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Be absolutely assured, that in our merciful and loving Lord, you will see Connor again.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, May 1, 2010 11:34 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Connor was remembered in Eucharist this morning. May God bless his sweet spirit.
Since it is almost noon, I will leave you some thoughts from a Celtic form of Noon Prayer. I hope you enjoy them.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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As the press of work ceases at noon
May God's rest be upon us.
As the sun rides high at noon,
May the Son of Righteousness shine upon us.
As the rain refreshes the stained, stale land
May the Spirit bring rain upon our dry ground.
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Lead me from death to life,
from falsehood to truth.
Lead me from despair to hope,
from fear to trust.
Lead me from hate to love,
from war to peace.
Deep peace of the Son of Peace
fill our hearts, our workplaces, our universe.
Bless us now Lord, in the middle of the day;
Be with us and all who are dear to us;
Be in the eye of all who see us;
Keep us in the beautiful attitudes
Joyful, simple, and gentle.
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May the eye of the great God of glory,
The eye of the Virgin's son,
The eye of the gentle Spirit,
Aid and shepherd us in every moment,
Pour upon us mildly and generously
hour by hour.
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Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, April 28, 2010 10:37 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I was having difficulty posting earlier in the day. I just wanted to say that Connor was remembered in Eucharist on both Saturday and Sunday. Following the family service today, we had a parish luncheon. Once again, I know Connor would have enjoyed all of the great food. May God bless his sweet spirit, and may God bless you.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect (Good Shepherd Sunday):
O God, whose Son Jesus is the good shepherd of your people: Grant that when we hear his voice we may know him who calls us each by name, and follow where he leads; who, with you and the Holy Spirit, lives and reigns, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
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The King of love my shepherd is,
whose goodness faileth never;
I nothing lack if I am his,
and he is mine for ever.
Where streams of living water flow,
my ransomed soul he leadeth,
and where the verdant pastures grow,
with food celestial feedeth.
Perverse and foolish oft I strayed,
but yet in love He sought me,
and on his shoulder gently laid,
and home, rejoicing, brought me.
In death's dark vale I fear no ill
with thee, dear Lord, beside me;
thy rod and staff my comfort still,
thy cross before to guide me.
Thou spread'st a table in my sight;
thy unction grace bestoweth;
and O what transport of delight
from thy pure chalice floweth!
And so through all the length of days
thy goodness faileth never:
Good Shepherd, may I sing thy praise
within thy house for ever.
Words: Henry Williams Baker (1821-1877), 1868
Music: Dominus regit me (John Bacchus Dykes, 1823-1876)
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/t/t199.html
Or This Music: St. Columba, Irish Melody
Hear It At: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/t/t199b.html
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, April 25, 2010 11:50 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I have not had a lot of time on the computer this week, due to family matters, work, and story, but I have remembered sweet Connor in the Eucharist, and I have thought of him in the telling and the in listening. May God bless him.
I hope you are well and enjoying the spring blooms.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect For St. George, Soldier and Martyr, 23 April 303:
Almighty God, who gave to your servant George boldness to confess the Name of our Savior Jesus Christ before the rulers of this world, and courage to die for this faith: Grant that we may always be ready to give a reason for the hope that is in us, and to suffer gladly for the sake of our Lord Jesus Christ; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, April 23, 2010 3:40 PM CDT
I'm so sorry to hear about Chance. He is in a better place now nomore pain for him. It's very hard losing a loved one. You will be missed but you will not be lost. We all know that your happy now but it hurts all of us at the same time. We all will be together again one day. We love you!!!
Amanda Lutz <Lilbabygirl2532@yahoo.com>
Fort Wayne, In - Tuesday, April 20, 2010 0:10 AM CDT
My thoughts and prayers go out to you all.
Ilyse Jubran
- Monday, April 19, 2010 6:42 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
In studying poetry this week and in participating in three evenings of storytelling, I have often thought about Connor. How I would love to share these good things with him, as I know you shared many good things with your marvelous sunshine boy. God bless you both.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
A Collect For The Second Week In Easter:
O Lord, you have saved us through the Paschal mystery of Christ: Continue to support your people with heavenly gifts, that we may attain true liberty, and enjoy the happiness of heaven which we have begun to taste on earth: through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, April 17, 2010 9:04 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
As I listen to birds singing, I think of you and of your little veterinarian, Connor Jordan Hunley. Connor, was touched, as a child, by God, as was today's saint, Bernadette. May both of them be remembered and blessed.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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The Collect For Bernadette Of Lourdes, Nun And Visionary, 16 April 1879:
Gracious Father, whose Son Jesus Christ went about healing the sick: We praise you for the gift of healing, whether granted directly or through the work of dedicated physicians, surgeons, and nurses; and we pray you to keep us always grateful for deliverance from illness whenever it pleases you to heal us, and patient and cheerful in affliction when for any reason you call us to endure it; and this we ask through your Son Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, now and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, April 16, 2010 12:02 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Earlier this week, I attended a program, at the Dominican Retreat House, in Niskayuna, called "Breakfast With the Saints," where I heard a marvelous presentation on the life and work of St. Damien. Damien's service to others, since his childhood, was not unlike Connor's. May God bless them both.
I am pausing, here, at my keyboard, to pray for you, as I did yesterday, at Holy Eucharist.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect For Damien Van Veuster, Priest, Missionary, And Martyr, 1889:
Almighty Father, we praise your name for your servant Damien, missionary to the lepers, and for all those who, following in the footsteps of your beloved Son, have preached the good news of salvation to the despised and rejected of the earth, not counting the cost to themselves; and we pray that your love for us may enkindle in our hearts an answering love for you and our neighbors, and that your grace may give us wisdom to see the opportunities you give us to serve you, and the courage to grasp them; that in all things we may be made conformable unto the image of the same your Son our Savior Jesus Christ, who now lives and reigns with you in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, now and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, April 15, 2010 9:34 AM CDT
Where you used to be, there is a hole in the world, which I find myself constantly walking around in the daytime, and falling in at night.
~Edna St. Vincent Millay, American lyrical poet and playwright (1892-1950)
Dear Rhonda,
As is my custom in recent years, during April, I celebrate National Poetry Month by trying to read at least one set of poems a day. In doing so, I found the above quote, about a week ago, which made me think of you and all the other CaringBridge mothers that I remember in my prayers. May God bless you, Pam Archer, Donna Fiveash, Sheri Shannon, Julie Sample, Kellie Davideit, and all the other brave women, whose children are now in heaven.
Sunday night, I heard two Native American storytellers. Their tales were marvelous, and I thought of Connor a lot, as I listened. May God bless your sweet sunshine boy.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, April 14, 2010 7:28 AM CDT
It is only when you suffer that you really understand.
~Jules Verne, science fiction author (1828-1905)
Dear Rhonda,
I thought of you, when I read this quote. Connor and you were both remembered in Holy Eucharist over the weekend, and I thought of him as I listened to native American stories and music done by Joseph Bruchac and his son, Jesse, last night, at the Glen Sanders Mansion.
God bless you, Connor, and all of your family.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Almighty God, we praise you for the men and women you have sent to call the Church to its tasks and renew its life, such as your servants Mikael Agricola, Paavali Juusten, Paavo Henrik Ruotsalainen, and Lars Levi Laestadius, whom you called to preach to the peoples of Sweden, Lapland, and Finland. Raise up in our own day teachers and prophets inspired by your Spirit, whose voices will give strength to your Church and proclaim the reality of your kingdom; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, April 12, 2010 7:55 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Today will be a day of family, food, stories, and celebration for us. I often do think of sweet Connor when telling or listening to stories and when surrounded with good eating opportunities. May God bless his gentle spirit.
I hope you have a good day, and may God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect For The Octave of Easter (2 Easter):
Almighty and everlasting God, who in the Paschal mystery established the new covenant of reconciliation: Grant that all who have been reborn into the fellowship of Christ's Body may show forth in their lives what they profess by their faith; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, April 11, 2010 7:01 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Connor was remembered in Eucharist this afternoon. I hope all is well with you, his forever Mom.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect For Easter Saturday:
We thank you, heavenly Father, that you have delivered us from the dominion of sin and death and brought us into the kingdom of you Son; and we pray that, as by his death he has recalled us to life, so by his love he may raise us to eternal joys; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, April 10, 2010 7:32 PM CDT
Hi Rhonda,
I was just outside and was watching how beautiful the day is and I saw a few yellow moth type butterflies,I thought it was odd that they were out this early.It made me think of Connor and what I asked him to show me.I will never forget that day.
Whenever I see the jets pass by,I remember what you said.
I believe all things happen for a reason.I have no way of ever understanding why things happened to Connor,maybe to help others,show them things,give them courage,maybe restore some adults faith,I dont have a clue.I am sure one day we will know and maybe understand.I do know why God picked you to be Connors mom.He knew what he was doing there,and Connor as your son.I feel you both made each others life have balance.I know one thing for sure,he couldnt have found a better mom if he could have chosen for himself.Maybe he did choose.Life is complicated at times and I do know as far I am concerned.I am amazed everyday from getting to know you and about Connor.I am so honored to get to know about him.I always wish you the happiest day,everyday.If there is ever a day that it isn't,you should tell me, so we can change it.
kevin <mustang1499@ymail.com>
Hickory, nc usa - Saturday, April 10, 2010 5:52 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I hope you and your parents are doing well. I am thinking of the three of you and of all of Connor's loved ones today.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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The Collect For Easter Friday:
Almighty Father, who gave your only Son to die for our sins and to rise for our justification: Give us grace so to put away the leaven of malice and wickedness, that we may always serve you in pureness of living and truth; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, April 9, 2010 3:03 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I continue to think of you and of Connor during this beautiful Easter Week.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect For Easter Thursday:
Almighty and everlasting God, who in the Paschal mystery established the new covenant of reconciliation: Grant that all who have been reborn into the fellowship of Christ's Body may show forth in their lives what they profess by their faith; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, April 8, 2010 10:53 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
We reached just under 90 degrees today. The kids were out in force enjoying all kinds of sports and games. I know if Connor were here, he would have been in the thick of it. God bless your sunshine boy.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect For Easter Wednesday:
O God, whose blessed Son made himself known to his disciples in the breaking of bread: Open the eyes of our faith, that we may behold him in all his redeeming work; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, April 7, 2010 10:59 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
The school children are enjoying these longer days. One sees Little League teams at the parks, kids on skate boards, and families riding by on bicycles. I am sure, if he could, Connor would be out and about in his go-cart. May God bless his sweet spirit!
I hope you are in health and are enjoying a good spring.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect For Easter Tuesday:
O God, who by the glorious resurrection of you Son Jesus Christ destroyed death and brought life and immortality to light: Grant that we, who have been raised with him, may abide in his presence and rejoice in the hope of eternal glory; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, April 6, 2010 12:15 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I hope you had an Easter dinner as delicious as the one Andrew and I enjoyed. Connor was remembered in a beautiful and joyous Easter Eucharist.
God bless you always.
Grace and peace,
~Colette
The Collect For Easter Monday:
Grant, we pray, Almighty God, that we who celebrate with awe the Paschal Feast may be found worthy to attain to everlasting joys; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, April 5, 2010 8:15 PM CDT
Blessings On Easter Morning!
"Welcome, happy morning!"
age to age shall say:
hell today is vanquished,
heaven is won today!
Lo! the dead is living,
God for evermore!
Him their true Creator,
all his works adore!
Refrain:
"Welcome, happy morning!" age to age shall say.
Earth her joy confesses,
clothing her for spring,
all fresh gifts return
with her returning King:
bloom in every meadow,
leaves on every bough,
speak his sorrow ended,
hail his triumph now.
Months in due succession,
days of lengthening light,
hours and passing moments
praise thee in their flight.
Brightness of the morning,
sky and fields and sea,
Vanquisher of darkness,
bring their praise to thee.
Maker and Redeemer,
life and health of all,
thou from heaven beholding
human nature's fall,
of the Father's Godhead
true and only Son,
mankind to deliver,
manhood didst put on.
Thou, of life the Author,
death didst undergo,
tread the path of darkness,
saving strength to show;
come then, true and faithful,
now fulfill thy word,
'tis thine own third morning!
rise, O buried Lord!
Loose the souls long prisoned,
bound with Satan's chain;
all that now is fallen
raise to life again;
show thy face in brightness,
bid the nations see;
bring again our daylight:
day returns with thee!
Words: Fortunatus, (ca. 535-600);
trans. John Ellerton (1826-1893), 1868
Music: Fortunatus (Arthur Seymour Sullivan, 1872)
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/w/w189.html
Connor will be remembered in Eucharist!
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, April 4, 2010 1:09 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I have been thinking of you and of Connor on this day of holy waiting. May God bless you both.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
O God, Creator of heaven and earth: Grant that, as the crucified body of your dear Son was laid in the tomb and rested on this holy Sabbath, so we may await with him the coming of the third day, and rise with him to newness of life; who now lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, April 3, 2010 8:21 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I have been thinking of you and Connor often during this Holy Week.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect For Good Friday:
Almighty God, we pray you graciously to behold this your family, for whom our Lord Jesus Christ was willing to be betrayed, and given into the hands of sinners, and to suffer death upon the cross; who now lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, April 2, 2010 10:12 PM CDT
Palm Sunday Greetings To All!
Dear Rhonda,
Today, in my mind's eye, I have seen my son, as a toddler, sitting on cathedral steps next to piles of Palms to be distributed to the worshippers. This reminded me of taking him, as an elementary school boy, to greenhouses on Palm Sunday afternoons to view the displays and to have a cup of punch. I am sure you have many memories of Connor on this day. May they bring you peace and comfort this week.
Connor was remembered in Eucharist on both Saturday and Sunday. He will be in my prayers often during Holy Week.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect For The Sunday Of The Passion:
Almighty and everliving God, in your tender love for the human race you sent your Son our Savior Jesus Christ to take upon him our nature, and to suffer death upon the cross, giving us the example of his great humility: Mercifully grant that we may walk in the way of his suffering, and also share in his resurrection; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
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Traditional Palm Sunday Processional Hymn:
Refrain:
All glory, laud, and honor
to thee, Redeemer, King!
to whom the lips of children
made sweet hosannas ring.
Thou art the King of Israel,
thou David's royal Son,
who in the Lord's Name comest,
the King and Blessed One. Refrain
The company of angels
are praising thee on high;
and mortal men and all things
created make reply. Refrain
The people of the Hebrews
with palms before thee went;
our praise and prayer and anthems
before thee we present. Refrain
To thee before thy passion
they sang their hymns of praise;
to thee, now high exalted,
our melody we raise. Refrain
Thou didst accept their praises;
accept the prayers we bring,
who in all good delightest,
thou good and gracious King. Refrain
Words: Theodulph of Orleans (ca. 750-821), ca. 820
Trans. John Mason Neale (1818-1866), 1854,
as altered in Hymns Ancient and Modern
Music: St. Theodulph (Valet will ich dir geben),
(Melchior Teschner, 1584-1635, arranged William Henry Monk, 1823-1889)
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/a/a108.html
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, March 28, 2010 6:04 PM CDT
thinking of you and of course connor
tricia <triciabxny@yahoo.com>
- Saturday, March 27, 2010 10:33 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
This morning, I saw my first cardinal of spring. Of course I thought of Connor as I watched and admired his magnificient color. May you spot many animals that Connor loved during these days of increasing light.
I will remember Connor in Eucharist tomorrow and during the upcoming Holy Week services, and I will be praying for all of your family.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect(For Gregory The Illuminator, 23 March 332):
Almighty God, whose will it is to be glorified in your saints, and who raised up your servant Gregory the Illuminator to be a light in the world, and to preach the Gospel to the people of Armenia: Shine, we pray, in our hearts, that we also in our generation may show forth your praise, who called us out of darkness into your marvelous light; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, March 23, 2010 9:14 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Connor has been remembered in Eucharist. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect For The Fifth Sunday In Lent:
Almighty God, you alone can bring into order the unruly wills and affections of sinners: Grant your people grace to love what you command and desire what you promise; that, among the swift and varied changes of the world, our hearts may surely there be fixed where true joys are to be found; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 219
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, March 21, 2010 4:06 PM CDT
God's Blessings To All On The First Day Of Spring!
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of you with encouragement and love as we bid good-bye to a long winter and welcome in the spring. I hope you are feeling well and encouraged today. Having daylight until about 7:30 each night has made me think of all of those nights, a few years ago, when we rushed out to the Little League fields. I am sure you have similar happy memories of spring nights with Connor as he rode Bosko, used his bike, skated, and did other spring activities. May those memories be sweet and full of hope for the future in God's eternal kingdom.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
March 20
Vernal Equinox
Everywhere is the green of new growth,
The amazing sight of the renewal of the earth.
We watch the grass once again emerging from the ground.
We notice the bright green atop the dark green on the pines,
the fir, the hemlock, the spruce, the cedar.
The alder is already in leaf.
The old plum trees still blossom, leaf, and give forth fruit.
The locust is late as always.
Everywhere and always the song of birds...bees
raiding the orchard, raccoon prowling at
nightfall, the earthworm tunneling the garden,
chickens and rabbits pecking and nibbling, the
goats tugging to reach new delights...all are the
ubiquitous energies of life.
O Lord,
May we today be touched by grace, fascinated and
moved by this your creation, energized by the
power of new growth at work in your world.
May we move beyond viewing this life only through a
frame, but
touch it and be touched by it,
know it and be known by it,
love it and be loved by it.
May our bodies, our minds, and our spirits, learn a new
rhythm paced by the rhythmic pulse of the
whole created order.
May spring come to us, be in us, and recreate life in us.
May we forge a new friendship with the natural
world and discover a new affinity with beauty,
with life, and with the Cosmic Christ in whom
all things were created in heaven and on earth,
visible or invisible, whether thrones or
dominions or principalities or authorities...for
all things were created through him and for him.
In his name.
Amen.
~Chinook Psalter
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, March 20, 2010 11:39 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of Connor and of his grandfather, Joe, on the Feast of St. Joseph. May God bless both of them, and may God bless all those who love them.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
O God, who from the family of your servant David raised up Joseph to be the guardian of your incarnate Son and the spouse of his virgin mother: Give us grace to imitate his uprightness of life and his obedience to your commands; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, March 19, 2010 2:41 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Today is the third anniversary of the passing of Jeffery, age 20, from Florida. I learned of Jeffery from either Cheyenne's guest book or Connor's, so I think of all three of them and of their parents today. I am pausing, here, at my keyboard, to pray for both you and Eddie.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect, The Collect For Tuesday In The Fourth Week Of Lent:
O God, with you is the well of life, and in your light we see light: Quench our thirst with living water, and flood our darkened minds with heavenly light; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, March 16, 2010 10:08 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Following a long line of greeting mothers on Mid-Lent Sunday (Mothering Sunday), I salute you today. Perhaps you will have a taste of Simnel Cake or Mothering Sunday Buns. May thoughts of your sunshine boy, Connor, be sweet today.
I am pausing to pray for you, as I did earlier at Eucharist. God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Gracious Father, whose blessed Son Jesus Christ came down from heaven to be the true bread which gives life to the world: Evermore give us this bread, that he may live in us, and we in him; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, March 14, 2010 10:25 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I am seeing the photo of Connor holding his umbrella in my mind's eye and thinking of you on a drizzly day. I guess the birds the wetness, as they have been singing.
God bless you always, and God bless all of your family.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect For The Saturday In The Third Week Of Lent:
O God, you know us to be set in the midst of so many and great dangers, that by reason of the frailty of our nature we cannot always stand upright: Grant us such strength and protection as may support us in all dangers, and carry us through all temptations; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, March 13, 2010 10:42 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I continue to think of your handsome sunshine boy many times each day. May God always bless both Connor and you.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect For The Friday In The Third Week Of Lent:
Grant us, O Lord our Strength, to have a True Love of your Holy Name; so that, trusting in your grace, we may fear no earthly evil, nor fix our hearts on earthly goods, but may rejoice in your full salvation; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, March 12, 2010 11:47 PM CST
When we love God's will, we find Him and own His joy in all things.
~Thomas Merton In New Seeds of Contemplation
Dear Rhonda,
I thought I would share those words from a Lenten reflection I received from the Merton Institute earlier today. May you know the joy of the Lord today!
Connor was remembered in Eucharist and in Stations of the Cross yesterday. May God always bless your sweet sunshine boy.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect For The Thursday In The Third Week Of Lent:
Keep watch over you church, O Lord, with your unfailing love; and, since it is grounded in human weakness and cannot maintain itself without your aid, protect it from all danger, and keep it in the way of salvation; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, March 11, 2010 11:30 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I have been surrounded by stories this past week. On Sunday alone, I heard over a dozen stories including Celtic Stories by Barry Marshall and his wife, Jeri Burns, at the Glen Sanders Mansion and spiritual stories from Jewish and Christian tellers at Temple Gates of Heaven. As Andrew always enjoys these offerings, I am sure Connor would have delighted in them, particularly the silly ones.
God bless your sunshine boy, and God bless you.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect (For Edward King, Bishop Of Lincoln, 8 March 1910):
O God, our heavenly Father, who raised up your faithful servant Edward to be a bishop and pastor in your Church and to feed your flock: Give abundantly to all pastors the gifts of your Holy Spirit, that they may minister in your household as true servants of Christ and stewards of your divine mysteries; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, March 8, 2010 11:43 AM CST
Christ is faithful to the work he has begun in us.
Dear Rhonda,
The above words were in one of the devotional books I used this morning. They seem to go along with what the person directly below me wrote, here, in Connor's guest book. I hope they are a blessing for you today.
A couple of nights ago, a friend and I went up to Queensbury to hear the renown Boston area storyteller, Jay O'Callahan, as he told his impressive 75 minute story about NASA, "Forged by the Stars." I am sure Connor would have said something similar to the "WOW!" I said to my companion, as the telling ended. May God bless your sweet sunshine boy!
I hope you are safe and well this weekend.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect For The Saturday In The Second Week Of Lent:
Grant, most merciful Lord, to your faithful people pardon and peace, that they may be cleansed from all their sins, and serve you with a quiet mind; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, March 6, 2010 7:45 AM CST
Rhonda,
I think God knew what He was doing making you late tonight. No one wants to talk about death, or the possibility looming over our heads. . .in my case I get the, "Here she goes again" look. I appreciate you sharing your sons story with me and listening to mine.
Yep. . .God knew what He was doing this night.
Sincerely,
Merry, Jarah, & Todd Browning
(neighbors below)
Merry Browning <maeb94@yahoo.com>
Gallatin, TN 37066 - Friday, March 5, 2010 7:38 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I thought of you and of Connor both at Eucharist and at Stations of the Cross today. May God bless you abundantly.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Lord God, who inspired your servants John and Charles Wesley with burning zeal for the sanctification of souls, and endowed them with eloquence in speech and song: Kindle in your Church, we entreat you, such fervor, that those whose faith has cooled may be warmed, and those who have not known Christ may turn to him and be saved; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, March 3, 2010 11:03 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
Even on the days when I do not sign, I think of you and your sunshine boy. I hope all is going well in your life.
Right now, I am pausing at my keyboard to pray for you and for your brothers, Johnny and Chad, on the Feast of St. Chad.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect For Chad Of Lichfield, 2 March 672:
Almighty God, whose servant Chad, for the peace of the Church, relinquished cheerfully the honors that had been thrust upon him, only to be rewarded with equal responsibility: Keep us, we pray, from thinking of ourselves more highly than we ought to think, and ready at all times to step aside for others, (in honor preferring one another,) that the cause of Christ may be advanced; in the name of him who washed his disciples' feet, your Son Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, March 2, 2010 5:45 PM CST
Hi Connor,I have just been reflecting back on how everything in my life is and the hope of what I want it to be.You know,you did things that changed peoples lives and I could only hope to do.I want so many things to happen and you know its not just for me.I of course want things to happen and I want them for others too.All the things that have happened to me this year have been so wonderful.I think you know how I feel and think.I try to keep everyone in mind with all I do.I guess there are times I ask myself,am I worthy,do I deserve to be happy.I know what makes me happy,extremely happy actually.I guess you know,the question comes to mind.Do I have the same effect on others as much as they have on me.I hope so,You know,you still affect people that you never even met.You give them hope and from all I have seen,a unconditional love.I try to always do that.Maybe one day I will meet you and get to talk about some of the things you want to talk about and do.I know someone who you know,that simply adores you and has a undieing love for you.Its more than just a motherly love too,you two were eternal partners.I think thats so awesome.Well,I just had to stop by and say hi and tell you what was on my mind.You know I believe I have some guidence from others and you know what I am talking about.I appreciate all that you show me.I will be by soon.Always watch over our angel.
you know who I am. <mustang1499@ymail.com>
- Monday, March 1, 2010 9:39 PM CST
Hope things are still going good for you. My e-mail has
changed - I have changed it - hope I keep getting the
updates.
Bobbie Homan <bhhoman@lighttube.net>
Tullahoma, TN USA - Sunday, February 28, 2010 12:59 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I have been thinking of you and your family and of the Martins. Someone told me that Linda's mom passed away about a week ago. May God bless Linda and all of her loved ones, and may God bless you.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect For George Herbert, Priest and Poet 27 February 1633:
Our God and King, who called your servant George Herbert from the pursuit of worldly honors to be a pastor of souls, a poet, and a priest in your temple: Give us grace, we pray, joyfully to perform the tasks you give us to do, knowing that nothing is menial or common that is done for your sake; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park , NY U.S.A. - Saturday, February 27, 2010 2:02 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I have just paused, here, at my keyboard, to pray for you. May you have a good weekend.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Collect For The Friday In The First Week Of Lent:
Lord Christ, our eternal Redeemer, grant us such fellowship in your sufferings, that filled with your Holy Spirit, we may subdue the flesh to the spirit, and the spirit to you, and at the last attain to the glory of your resurrection; who live and reign with the Father and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, February 26, 2010 12:47 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
Everything is a glare of ice, here, in southern Saratoga County, after it rained all night on our shoveled walks and driveways. Since there is a lot of traffic, most of the roads are good, but the walking, despite constant care efforts, is dangerous. I hope things are more pleasant where you are.
Know that you and your sweet sunshine boy are loved.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect For Ethelbert of Kent, King and Confessor
25 February 560:
O God, who called your servant Ethelbert of Kent to an earthly throne that he might advance your heavenly kingdom, and gave him zeal for your Church and love for your people: Mercifully grant that we who commemorate him this day may be fruitful in good works, and attain to the glorious crown of your saints; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, February 25, 2010 10:38 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
As you know, I seldom miss Eucharist on a major holy day, but I did today, due to about twelve inches of heavy, wet, new snow. Even so, I thought of your sweet sunshine boy. May God bless Connor Jordan Hunley and all of the company of heaven.
I hope you are safe and well.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Almighty God, who in the place of Judas chose your faithful servant Matthias to be numbered among the Twelve: Grant that your Church, being delivered from false apostles, may always be guided and governed by faithful and true pastors; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, February 24, 2010 8:59 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
It is nice to read the note from Paula in Connor's guest book. Her words make me believe that you are doing well, and that your face is still lighting up, when you talk about your sunshine boy. May God bless you both.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect For The First Sunday In Lent:
Almighty God, whose blessed Son was led by the Spirit to be tempted by Satan: Come quickly to help us who are assaulted by many temptations; and, as you know the weaknesses of each of us, let each one find you mighty to save; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, February 21, 2010 8:56 PM CST
Dear Connor:
Although I never had the pleasure of knowing you, I was honored to meet your mom today. She is a fantastic lady, and is your biggest fan!
My mom lives in heaven, too. She just got there in October. Will you do me a favor and adopt her to be your grandma there? She is a great cook, and loves to be with fun, smart angels like you.
Thank you so much! I look forward to meeting you one day.
Your new friend,
Paula
Paula Mosley
Hendersonville, TN - Thursday, February 18, 2010 5:31 PM CST
Blessed Lent To All!
Dear Rhonda,
I have thought of you and sweet Connor several times today at home and at church. I hope all is well with you.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
We sang this hymn at St. George's tonight. It is my favorite Lenten hymn. Perhaps you can sing it with me some time this week.
Lord, who throughout these forty days
for us didst fast and pray,
teach us with thee to mourn our sins,
and close by thee to stay.
As thou with Satan didst contend
and didst the victory win,
O give us strength in thee to fight,
in thee to conquer sin.
As thou didst hunger bear and thirst,
so teach us, gracious Lord,
to die to self, and chiefly live
by thy most holy word.
And through these days of penitence,
and through thy Passiontide,
yea, evermore, in life and death,
Jesus! with us abide.
Abide with us, that so, this life
of suffering over-past,
an Easter of unending joy
we may attain at last!
Words: Claudia F. Hernaman, 1873
Music: St. Flavian, Melody From Day's Psalter, 1562
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/l/l511.html
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The Collect For Ash Wednesday:
Almighty and everlasting God, you hate nothing you have made and forgive the sins of all who are penitent: Create and make in us new and contrite hearts, that we, worthily lamenting our sins and acknowledging our wretchedness, may obtain of you, the God of all mercy, perfect remission and forgiveness; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, February 17, 2010 11:05 PM CST
Hi there Connor,its me again.It has been a little while since visiting you and I am sorry for that.Alot has been going on and I have been trying hard to get things in order and it seems I havent been too sucessful in getting things like I wanted as fast as I wanted.I am sure you know all that has happened to me and dealing with a psycho.I didnt want to even talk about that.Anyway,its Valentines day and I hope it was an absolutely wonderful one for you.I know at least one sweetheart that loves and misses you very much.She has such love for you,it will never die.I know what you mean to her and that is wonderful also.I hope you have someone up there to share your time with.I guess time is non-existant there.I just had to write you.Time just goes by so fast and all the petty things in my life seem to just waste it.I am trying to control that.I will be by to see you soon.I have some time I am going to spend with you this week.I recieved a pic of all your decorations and it looked great ,I just need to see it myself and of course talk with you a bit.I know how quick time goes by and I wont let it get away from me so fast.I know you are having a lovely day,full of love and joy,I feel God sends all love and makes our hearts feel his love.I mean thats what life is all about,Love.I hope you have a wonderful evening.See you soon.
kevin bradshaw <mustang1499@ymail.com>
hickory, nc usa - Sunday, February 14, 2010 7:58 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I had an opportunity to view a "Valentine" movie and eat some pizza at church last night. The movie was called "Fireproof." It was made about two years ago, and it seems to be popular at various churches this February. The teens were having a baby-sitting night, to raise money for their mission trip, so the parish hall was also filled with pizza boxes. I had a delicious slice of veggie pizza, and later, when we ran out of that type, I had a slice of all meat. I am sure Connor would have found some pizza to his liking and a cup of milk or a glass of soda, as well.
I will add the collect for Valentine's Day that is most familiar to me and some quotes about love below.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
We must begin with love, continue with love, and end with love.
~St. Francis de Sales
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Love is a fruit in season at all times and within the reach of every hand.
~Mother Teresa of Calcutta
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A Christian should always remember that the value of his good works is not based on their number and excellence, but on the love of God which prompts him to do these things.
~ St.John of the Cross
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There is no creature made that can understand how much and how sweetly and how tenderly our Maker loves us.
~Julian of Norwich
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In the evening of our life, we shall be judged by love, namely, by the sincerity of our love for God, for our neighbor, for our soul.
~St. John of the Cross
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The Collect For Valentine's Day:
Almighty and everlasting God, who kindled the flame of your love in the heart of your holy martyr Valentine: Grant to us, your humble servants, a like faith and power of love, that we who rejoice in his triumph may profit by his example; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, February 14, 2010 12:13 AM CST
Happy Valentine's Day To All!
Dear Rhonda,
Today I have thought of young children having their Valentine's parties at school, hoping their heart shaped envelope or decorated shoe box would overflow with cards, eating heart shaped cookies and special cupcakes, and playing games. I have also thought of junior high boys buying carnations for young ladies and high school kids going out for a movie and pizza. I am sure young Connor enjoyed this day, as sure as I am that Connor now marks it in heaven, where all is love and joy.
I hope you have a good weekend and that you receive at least one special seasonal surprise.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
A Traditional Collect For Valentine's Day:
Grant, we beseech thee, O Almighty God, that we who solemnize the festival of blessed Valentine, thy martyr, may, by his intercession, be delivered from all the evils that threaten us through Christ our Lord. Amen
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, February 12, 2010 3:55 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
The wind and the snow are picking up here, in southern Saratoga County. Several of the schools closed, or are closing early, this afternoon, particularly south of Albany, where the storm will be most intense. I have remembered Connor this morning, in Holy Eucharist, and I thought of him on Monday night, when Andrew and I went to Cafe Lena, to hear Tom Weakley, a Vermont teller and humorist.
I hope you are safe, well, and content.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect (For St. Scholastica, Twin Of St. Benedict, Virgin And Religious Founder, c. 543):
O God, to show us where innocence leads, you made the soul of your virgin Saint Scholastica soar to heaven like a dove in flight. Grant through her merits and her prayers that we may so live in innocence as to attain to joys everlasting. This we ask through our Lord Jesus Christ, your Son, who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, forever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, February 10, 2010 3:07 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
Connor has been remembered in Holy Eucharist, again this weekend. I also thought of Connor a lot last night, as a teller friend, invited me to his church, in Scotia, for a story evening. Many of the very youngest of the kids came in pajamas with a sleeping bag, quilt, or beanbag. People of all ages enjoyed the stories, a great gospel choir, and the food treats. I know Connor would have laughed as loud as anyone at the humorous pieces.
I hope you have been safe and well during these snowy and stormy times.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, February 7, 2010 11:19 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of you, and remembering sweet Connor, on yet another Friday morning. I hope you, and all of Connor's loved ones, are well.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect (For The Martyrs of Japan, 5 February 1597):
O God our Father, source of strength to all your saints, who brought the holy martyrs of Japan through the suffering of the cross to the joys of life eternal: Grant that we, being encouraged by their example, may hold fast the faith we profess, even to death itself; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
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A Collect For Fridays:
Almighty God, whose most dear Son went not up to joy but
first he suffered pain, and entered not into glory before he
was crucified: Mercifully grant that we, walking in the way
of the cross, may find it none other than the way of life and
peace; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord. Amen.
The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 99
Written By William Reed Huntington (1838-1909)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, February 5, 2010 6:39 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
Connor is being thought of on a Red Letter Holy Day. God bless his sweet spirit, and God bless you.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect (The Presentation):
Almighty and everliving God, we humbly pray that, as your only-begotten Son was this day presented in the temple, so we may be presented to you with pure and clean hearts by Jesus Christ our Lord; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, February 2, 2010 3:02 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I thought of Connor several times last night during an evening of song and stories, at the Glen Sanders Mansion. One of the teller, Joe Doolittle, loves to give out red clown noses on the subway in New York City, while working as a chaplain's assistant at Albany Medical Center, in his church, and at other places. Last night, Joe had the wait staff bring a bowl of red noses to each of over twenty large tables, as a second dessert. Connor would have whooped for joy in the fun that those props created.
I hope you are doing well. One of the other tellers, Harlan Ratmeyer, was in Nashville earlier in the day, and he told us the roads were snagged due to heavy snow.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Collect For Bridget Of Kildare, Abbess, 1 February 523:
Everliving God, we rejoice today in the fellowship of your blessed servant Brigid, and we give you thanks for her life of devoted service. Inspire us with life and light, and give us perseverance to serve you all our days; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who with you and the Holy Spirit lives and reigns, one God, world without end. Amen.
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Be thou my vision, O Lord of my heart;
all else be nought to me, save that thou art-
thou my best thought,- by day or by night,
waking or sleeping, thy presence my light.
Be thou my wisdom, and thou my true word;
I ever with thee and thou with me, Lord;
thou my great Father; thine own may I be;
thou in my dwelling, and I one with thee.
High King of heaven, when victory is won,
may I reach heaven's joys, bright heaven's Sun!
Heart of my own heart, - whatever befall,
still be my vision, O Ruler of all.
Lyrics: Irish, ca 700; versified Mary Elizabeth Byrne (1880-1931);
tr. Eleanor H. Hull (1860-1935), alt.
Music: Slane, Irish ballad melody; adapt. The Church Hymnary, 1927
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/b/b021.html
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, February 1, 2010 1:08 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of you today and wishing you well. Connor will be remembered once again in Holy Eucharist.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Blessed Lord, in whose sight the death of your saints is precious: We praise your name for your abundant grace bestowed upon your servant Charles, king and martyr; by which he was enabled so cheerfully to follow the steps of his blessed Master and Savior in a constant patient suffering of all barbarous indignities, and at last resisting unto blood, and even then, according to the same pattern, praying for his murderers. Let his memory, O Lord, be ever blessed among us, that we may follow the example of his courage and constancy and great charity; for Jesus Christ's sake, our only Mediator and Advocate. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, January 30, 2010 2:29 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
Connor has been remembered once again in Holy Eucharist. Later in the day, I made a quick trip to the grocery store, where I saw a claw machine full of hockey bears, Spider-Man dolls, and toy animals, which made me think of both Connor and Cheyenne Fiveash. May God bless their sweet spirits.
I am pausing, here, at my keybaord, to pray for you.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
A Prayer of St. Chrysostom (Today's Saint):
Almighty God, you have given us grace at this time with one accord to make our common supplication to you; and you have promised through your well-beloved Son that when two or three are gathered together in his Name you will be in the midst of them: Fulfill now, O Lord, our desires and petitions as may be best for us; granting us in this world knowledge of your truth, and in the age to come life everlasting. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 102
(As Used During Morning Prayer, Rite 2)
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The Collect For St. John Chrysostom, Bishop Of Antioch And Of Constantinople, Preacher, Theologian, And Liturgist, 407:
O God, who gave to your servant John Chrysostom grace eloquently to proclaim your righteousness in the great congregation, and fearlessly to bear reproach for the honor of your Name: Mercifully grant to all bishops and pastors such excellency in preaching, and fidelity in ministering your Word, that your people shall be partakers with them of the glory that shall be revealed; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, January 27, 2010 2:37 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of you on a late January day, when the sun has been out and the young people have been playing in the snow free roads. I know Connor would have enjoyed such a day.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Almighty God, who called Timothy, Titus, and Silas to be evangelists and teachers, and made them strong to endure hardship: Strengthen us to stand fast in adversity, and to live righteous and godly lives in this present time, that with sure confidence we may look for our blessed hope, the glorious appearing of our great God and Savior Jesus Christ; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, January 26, 2010 4:17 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
Connor was remembered in weekend Eucharist, and he is being remembered on a red letter holy day today. Today is also the last day of the Octave of Prayer for Christian Unity.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect (The Conversion Of St. Paul):
O God, who by the preaching of your apostle Paul have caused the light of the Gospel to shine throughout the world: Grant, we pray, that we, having his wonderful conversion in remembrance, may show ourselves thankful to you by following his holy teaching; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, January 25, 2010 12:46 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
Last night, I was talking on the phone with my friend, Pat, who lives in another state. As we spoke, she asked me how you are. Then, she preceded to tell me that although she never signed Connor's guest book, that she thinks of Connor often. I thought you should know. There must be times when you think that you are the only one thinking of sweet Connor, but I can assure you that it is not true. Your sunshine boy lives in many hearts.
Today is the commemoration of the passing of Phillips Brooks, who, as you know, is one of my favorite saints. One of my favorite stories of Brooks is about a five year old girl, who asked her mother why she had not seen her friend, the bishop recently. When told that Brooks had gone to heaven, the child announced, "Oh, Mama, how happy the angels will be!" Truly the angels were delighted to see Phillips Brooks, just as they were delighted to see your sweet sunshine boy. Perhaps Connor and Brooks are throwing a few snowballs in the kingdom today.
I am doing the lay reading, at St. George's this afternoon, and while there, I will remember Connor in the beauty of holiness.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless Connor and all of Connor's family, friends, and fans.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
O everlasting God, you revealed truth to your servant Phillips Brooks, and so formed and molded his mind and heart that he was able to mediate that truth with grace and power: Grant, we pray, that all whom you call to preach the Gospel may steep themselves in your Word, and conform their lives to your will; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
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Duty calls us to do things well, but love makes us do them beautifully.
~Phillips Brooks (1835-1893)
As I have told you many times, in your parenting of Connor, you lived these words of Bishop Brooks. May you now live them in other aspects of your life, as you await your reunion with your son.
When you can, send me an email, so Pat and I will know how you are.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, January 23, 2010 2:20 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
Connor was remembered in Eucharist yesterday. Father Henry spoke of the martyr Fabian, so I will leave that collect below.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect For Fabian, Bishop And Martyr, 250:
O God, who in your providence called your servant Fabian to the office of Bishop, and guided him so to strengthen thy Church that it stood fast in the day of persecution: Grant that those whom you call to any ministry in the Church may be obedient to your call in all humility, and be enabled to carry out their tasks with diligence and faithfulness; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, January 21, 2010 12:22 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
This noon, Andrew and I had the buffet at Pizza Hut. As I looked toward the door we had not used, there was a claw machine filled with a large selection of toy bears, dogs, and cats. Of course, I thought of Cheyenne Fiveash, who loved these machines, and of Connor, who had so much in common with Chey. May God bless their sweet spirits.
I hope all is well with you and with all of Connor's family.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Collect For The Confession Of Peter The Apostle (January 18):
Almighty Father, who inspired Simon Peter, first among the apostles, to confess Jesus as Messiah and Son of the Living God: Keep your Church steadfast upon the rock of this faith, that in unity and peace we may proclaim the one truth and follow the one Lord, our Savior Jesus Christ; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, January 18, 2010 5:02 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
Connor has been remembered in Holy Eucharist. I am thinking of you.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Almighty God, whose Son our Savior Jesus Christ is the light of the world: Grant that your people, illumined by your Word and Sacraments, may shine with the radiance of Christ's glory, that he may be known, worshipped, and obeyed to the ends of the earth; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who with you and the Holy Spirit lives and reigns, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, January 17, 2010 3:31 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
Today I think about your example as a person of prayer. You enriched sweet Connor's life by teaching him about our Lord Jesus Christ and by praying with and for him. You have also encouraged many of those who visit Connor's website. God bless you for that, and let us continue to pray.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
There are so many ways of praying and listening to God that no one person could possibly use them all, but all of us can use some of them.
~Barbara Cawthorne Crafton
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, January 16, 2010 11:27 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I wonder how many Fridays I have visited Connor's book and also how many times I have shared the William Reed Huntington Prayer for Fridays. I know it has been a lot.
I will add that prayer again, and I will also include a Ted Loder prayer I read this morning.
God bless you always, and God bless Connor and all of Connor's loved ones, friends, and supporters.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
A Collect For Fridays:
Almighty God, whose most dear Son went not up to joy but
first he suffered pain, and entered not into glory before he
was crucified: Mercifully grant that we, walking in the way
of the cross, may find it none other than the way of life and
peace; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord. Amen.
The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 99
Written By William Reed Huntington (1838-1909)
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Empower me
to be a bold participant,
rather than a timid saint in waiting,
in the difficult ordinariness of now;
to exercise the authority of honesty,
rather than to defer to power,
or deceive to get it;
to influence someone for justice,
rather than impress anyone for gain;
and, by grace, to find treasures
of joy, or friendship, of peace
hidden in the fields of the daily
you give me to plow.
~Ted Loder
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, January 15, 2010 7:57 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I have thought of Connor several times today. I hope you are all right.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, January 14, 2010 7:52 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I've been reading poetry and thinking of saints today. I discovered a website where many children's poems were listed. I believe Connor would have enjoyed several of those poems. I would have enjoyed sharing some of them with him.
I hope you are well, safe, and content.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Collect For Hilary Of Poitiers, Bishop And Doctor (13 January 367):
Eternal Father, whose servant Hilary steadfastly confessed your Son Jesus Christ to be true God and true man: We beseech you to keep us firmly grounded in this faith; that we may rejoice to behold his face in heaven who humbled himself to bear our form upon earth, even the same your Son Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, January 13, 2010 12:59 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I, too, thank you for keeping Connor's website up. It is a privilege to come here, day by day, and see Connor's smiling face, knowing that he is safe, well, and happy in God's eternal kingdom.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless sweet Connor.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect For Aelred Of Rievaulx, Abbot (12 January 1167):
Pour into our hearts, O God, the Holy Spirit's gift of love, that we, clasping each the other's hand, may share the joy of friendship, human and divine, and with your servant Aelred draw many to your community of love; through Jesus Christ the Righteous, who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, now and forever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, January 12, 2010 11:27 AM CST
After all these years of following connor's journey I decided to thank youfor keeping up this site. It gives me peace to know there is a way to go on.After losing a daughter in 1978 I still want answers . She was only 14 and I still remember the touch and smell of her. It hasn't got any easier. God bless you
sandi slezak <johnjrs@centurytel.net>
wabeno , wi usa - Monday, January 11, 2010 7:56 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
Today is the birthday of a dear family friend. As I think about this, I am looking at the smiling photo of Connor with his birthday cake. Oh my, how boys enjoy a chocolate birthday cake!
Last night, I went to a Story Sunday, at the Glen Sanders Mansion. The name of the program was "Stories and Songs from the Adirondacks and Beyond." Two of the stories were about young boys of long ago creating a little winter mischief. Those stories made me think of Connor, who would have enjoyed the tales, the music, and the food.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, January 11, 2010 3:50 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
Connor has been remembered in Holy Eucharist on both Saturday and Sunday. I hope all is well with you and with all of Connor's many loved ones.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Father in heaven, who at the baptism of Jesus in the River Jordan proclaimed him your beloved Son and anointed him with the Holy Spirit: Grant that all who are baptized into his Name may keep the covenant they have made, and boldly confess him as Lord and Savior; who with you and the Holy Spirit lives and reigns, one God, in glory everlasting. Amen.
An Epiphany Hymn:
Songs of thankfulness and praise,
Jesus, Lord, to thee we raise,
manifested by the star
to the sages from afar;
branch of royal David's stem
in thy birth at Bethlehem;
anthems be to thee addressed,
God in man made manifest.
Manifest at Jordan's stream,
Prophet, Priest and King supreme;
and at Cana, wedding guest,
in thy Godhead manifest;
manifest in power divine,
changing water into wine;
anthems be to thee addressed,
God in man made manifest.
Manifest in making whole
palsied limbs and fainting soul;
manifest in valiant fight,
quelling all the devil's might;
manifest in gracious will,
ever bringing good from ill;
anthems be to thee addressed,
God in man made manifest.
Sun and moon shall darkened be,
stars shall fall, the heavens shall flee;
Christ will then like lightning shine,
all will see his glorious sign;
all will then the trumpet hear,
all will see the Judge appear;
thou by all wilt be confessed,
God in man made manifest.
Grant us grace to see thee, Lord,
mirrored in thy holy Word;
may we imitate thee now,
and be pure, as pure art thou;
that we like to thee may be
at thy great Epiphany;
and may praise thee, ever blest,
God in man made manifest.
Words: Christopher Wordsworth (1807-1885), 1862
Music: Salzburg, Melody Jakob Hintze (1622-1702), Harmony Johann Sebastian Bach (1685-1750)
Hear It At: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/s/s264.html
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, January 10, 2010 1:49 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
We finally have some sun after many overcast days. May God bless you, and your sweet sunshine boy, today and every day.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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Today's Collect (For Julia Chester Emery):
O Almighty God, who have surrounded us with a great cloud of witnesses: Grant that we, encouraged by the good example of your servant Julia, may persevere in running the race that is set before us, until at last we may with her attain to your eternal joy; through Jesus Christ, the pioneer and perfecter of our faith, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, January 9, 2010 12:03 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
As always, I am remembering sweet Connor and thinking of you today. God bless you both.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Almighty God, who called your faithful servants Nate Saint, Ed McCully, Jim Elliot, Peter Fleming, and Roger Youderian to be witnesses and martyrs to the Huaorani peoples in the rain forests of Ecuador, and by their labors and suffering raised up a people for your own possession: Pour forth your Holy Spirit upon your Church in every land, that by the service and sacrifice of many, your holy Name may be glorified and your kingdom enlarged; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, January 8, 2010 10:11 AM CST
Glad Epiphany To All!
Dear Rhonda,
Connor has been remembered in Eucharist today. May God bless his sweet spirit, and may God bless all who dwell with him where they need no created light.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
O God, by the leading of a star you manifested your only Son to the peoples of the earth: Lead us, who know you now by faith, to your presence, where we may see your glory face to face; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 214
An Epiphany Hymn:
As with gladness men of old
did the guiding star behold;
as with joy they hailed its light,
leading onward, beaming bright;
so, most gracious Lord, may we
evermore be led to thee.
As with joyful steps they sped
to that lowly manger-bed;
there to bend the knee before
him whom heaven and earth adore;
so may we with willing feet
ever seek the mercy seat.
As they offered gifts most rare
at that manger rude and bare;
so may we with holy joy,
pure and free from sin's alloy,
all our costliest treasures bring,
Christ! to thee, our heavenly King.
Holy Jesus! every day
keep us in the narrow way;
and, when earthly things are past,
bring our ransomed souls at last
where they need no star to guide,
where no clouds thy glory hide.
In the heavenly country bright,
need they no created light;
thou its light, its joy, its crown,
thou its sun which goes not down;
there for ever may we sing
alleluias to our King.
Words: William Chatterton Dix (1837-1898), 1860
Music: Dix (Conrad Kocher, 1786-1872, arranged William Henry Monk, 1823-1889)
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/a/a371.html
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, January 6, 2010 9:04 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
Greetings to you, and to all of Connor's friends, on Twelfth Night! When my boys were little, we used to go to the party at Fort Crailo, in Rensselaer, where old fashioned gingerbread and other treats were served. I am sure Connor would have enjoyed the traditional food, music, and excitement.
Connor has been remembered in several celebrations of the Eucharist, during these holy Twelve Days.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless Connor.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
As we conclude the Christmas season tonight, let us reflect on this thought:
Work of Christmas Begins
By Howard Thurman (adapted)
When the song of the angels is stilled,
when the star in the sky is gone,
when the kings and princes are home,
when the shepherds are back with the flocks,
then the work of Christmas begins:
to find the lost,
to heal those broken in spirit,
to feed the hungry,
to release the oppressed,
to rebuild the nations,
to bring peace among all peoples,
to make a little music with the heart…
And to radiate the Light of Christ,
every day, in every way, in all that we do and in all that we say.
Then the work of Christmas begins.
The message of the Feast of Epiphany announces to all people, everywhere:
Rise up in splendor…your light has come,
The Glory of the Lord shines upon you!
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, January 5, 2010 12:33 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
Yesterday Andrew and I saw and enjoyed the movie, Sherlock Holmes. Andrew, an avid reader, has read most, if not all, of the Sir Arthur Conan Doyle stories. I think Connor would have enjoyed this movie, as well.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sunshine boy.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Almighty and everlasting God, we thank you for your servant Gladys Aylward, whom you called to preach the Gospel to the people of China. Raise up in this and every land heralds and evangelists of your kingdom, that your Church may make proclaim the unsearchable riches of our Savior Jesus Christ; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, January 4, 2010 3:53 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of you, of Connor, and of all of your family today. I hope you are safe, well, and content.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, January 3, 2010 12:25 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
Connor has been remembered in Holy Eucharist on a blustery day. I hope all is well with you.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect:
O God, who wonderfully created, and yet more wonderfully restored, the dignity of human nature: Grant that we may share the divine life of him who humbled himself to share our humanity, your Son Jesus Christ; who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, January 2, 2010 10:56 PM CST
Happy New Year To All!
Dear Rhonda,
Before I turn on the Tournament of Roses, I want you to know that I am thinking of you today. I hope you have a good holiday meal, and I hope you take comfort, as you think of the Holy Name of Jesus, in remembering the naming of Connor. May 2010 be a time of deep peace, quiet joy, and many blessings for you.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect (The Eighth Day of Christmas, Feast of the Holy Name of Jesus):
Eternal Father, who gave to your incarnate Son the holy name of
Jesus to be the sign of our salvation: Plant in every heart, we
pray, the love of him who is the Savior of the world, our Lord
Jesus Christ; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy
Spirit, one God, in glory everlasting. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, January 1, 2010 10:00 AM CST
Blessings To All On New Year's Eve!
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, December 31, 2009 4:42 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
Once again, Connor has been remembered in Eucharist. Today's saint is St. Thomas of Canterbury. That is the name of our friend, Elaine's church. Of course, Elaine was one of Connor's active prayer supporters. She continues to think of Connor and of all of his loved ones.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
A Collect For Today:
O God, our strength and our salvation, who called your servant Thomas Becket to be a shepherd of your people and a defender of your Church: Keep your household from all evil and raise up among us faithful pastors and leaders who are wise in the ways of the Gospel; through Jesus Christ the shepherd of our souls, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, December 30, 2009 11:46 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
Today we celebrate the Feast of the Holy Innocents. Let us pray for a cure for childhood cancer, of all varieties, so holy innocents, like Connor, will stop dying from this terrible scourge. Below is the collect of the day and a hymn.
God bless you always, and God bless Connor, and those with Connor, in God's heavenly country.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
We remember today, O God, the slaughter of the holy innocents of Bethlehem by King Herod. Receive, we pray, into the arms of your mercy all innocent victims; and by your great might frustrate the designs of evil tyrants and establish your rule of justice, love, and peace; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
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By all your saints still striving, for all your saints at rest,
Your holy Name, O Jesus. for evermore be blessed.
You rose, our King victorious, that they might wear the crown
And ever shine in splendor reflected from your throne.
Praise for your infant marytrs, whom your mysterious love
Called early from life's conflicts to share your peace above.
O Rachel, cease your weeping; they're free from pain and cares.
Lord, grant us crowns as brilliant and lives as pure as theirs.
Then let us praise the Father and worship God the Son
And sing to God the Spirit, eternal Three in One,
Till all the ransomed number who stand before the throne
Ascribe all power and glory and praise to God alone.
Words: Horatio Bolton Nelson (1823-1913); ver. Hymnal, 1982
Music: King's Lynn, English melody; adapt. Ralph Vaughan Williams (1872-1958)
or Nyland, Finnish folk melody; adapt. David Evans (1874-1948)
Hear Nyland at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/b/b209a.html
Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, December 29, 2009 3:56 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
As the church celebrates St. John's Day today, let us remember all those named for this apostle and all those, who like Connor, lived in St. John's way.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless Connor.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Shed upon your Church, O Lord, the brightness of your light; That we, being illumined by the teaching of your apostle and evangelist John, may so walk in the light of your truth, that at length we may attain to the fullness of eternal life, through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, December 28, 2009 3:40 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
When I read at St. George's yesterday, and when I attended both Eucharist and Christmas Lessons and Carols today, Connor was in my thoughts and prayers. I also prayed for you and for other loved ones of Connor. May God bless you all.
I hope you have been enjoying this Christmas Weekend and will enjoy the remaining days of Christmas. May this season of blessing give you hope for a joyous reunion with Connor and for many other good things to come.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Almighty God, you have poured upon us the new light of your incarnate Word: Grant that this light, enkindled in our hearts, may shine forth in our lives; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
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A Christmas Affirmation
by John Killinger
I believe that Christmas is more than a time for parties and ornaments; it is a time for remembering Christ and the incarnation of God’s love in human flesh. I believe there are gifts more important than the ones under the Christmas tree, such as the things we teach our children, the way we share ourselves with friends, and the industry with which we set about reshaping the world in our time. I believe that the finest carols are often sung by the poorest voices, from hearts made warm by the wonder of the season. I believe in the angel’s message that we should not be afraid – that the Child of Bethlehem is able to overcome all anxieties and insecurities. I believe in prayer and quietness as ways of appropriating Christmas – that if I wait in silence I will experience the presence of the One born in the stable, for Jesus lives today as surely as he lived then. I believe in going away from Christmas as the Magi went – another way. I want to be different when these days are past – more centered, more thoughtful, more caring. And I believe God will help me. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, December 27, 2009 2:57 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
Connor was remembered in Christmas Eucharist, and Connor will be remembered later today on the Feast of St. Stephen, the Protomartyr. Perhaps you have sung Good King Wenceslas with him. The king and his page, in the song, were celebrating this feast.
Good King Wenceslas looked out, on the Feast of Stephen,
When the snow lay round about, deep and crisp and even;
Brightly shone the moon that night, tho' the frost was cruel,
When a poor man came in sight, gath'ring winter fuel.
"Hither, page, and stand by me, if thou know'st it, telling,
Yonder peasant, who is he? Where and what his dwelling?"
"Sire, he lives a good league hence, underneath the mountain;
Right against the forest fence, by Saint Agnes' fountain."
"Bring me flesh, and bring me wine, bring me pine logs hither:
Thou and I will see him dine, when we bear them thither."
Page and monarch, forth they went, forth they went together;
Through the rude wind's wild lament and the bitter weather.
"Sire, the night is darker now, and the winds blow stronger;
Fails my heart, I know not how, I can go no longer."
"Mark my footsteps, my good page. Treadst thou in them boldly:
Thou shalt find the winter's rage freeze thy blood less coldly."
In his master's steps he trod, where the snow lay dinted;
Heat was in the very sod which the saint had printed.
Therefore, Christian men, be sure, wealth or rank possessing,
Ye who now will bless the poor, shall yourselves find blessing.
~John Mason Neale (1818-1866)
God bless you always, and of course, God bless Connor.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
We give you thanks, O Lord of glory, for the example of the first martyr Stephen, who looked up to heaven and prayed for his persecutors to your Son Jesus Christ, who stands at your right hand: where he lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, in glory everlasting. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, December 26, 2009 12:49 AM CST
Hodie Christus natus est
hodie Salvator apparuit:
hodie in terra canunt Angeli,
laetantur Archangeli:
hodie exsultant justi, dicentes:
Gloria in excelsis Deo, alleluja.
Today is Christ born;
today the Savior has appeared;
today the Angels sing,
the Archangels rejoice;
today the righteous rejoice, saying:
Glory to God in the highest. Alleluia!
Dear Rhonda,
God bless you on this blessed Christmas morning!
Connor was remembered in Holy Eucharist, on Christmas Eve, at St. George's. Our music was beautiful. One of Andrew's friends has two degrees in performance cello. She was home to play at our late service. Another music major played his trumpet, and we had a flute soloist, too. The choir also did an excellent job with the vocal and bell choir pieces. I wonder what selections Connor would have enjoyed.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
Colette
This Morning's Collect:
Almighty God, you have given your only-begotten Son to take our nature upon him, and to be born this day of a pure virgin: Grant that we, who have been born again and made your children by adoption and grace, may daily be renewed by your Holy Spirit; through our Lord Jesus Christ, to whom with you and the same Spirit be honor and glory, now and for ever. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 213
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, December 25, 2009 1:14 AM CST
Christmas is the season of opening our hearts and our homes
in celebration of the Savior who makes our hearts His home.
Wishing you a very Blessed Christmas, Rhonda.
prayers and love from Mrs. Pam
- Thursday, December 24, 2009 9:19 PM CST
I'm praying for you. Merry Christmas to you and your most special Angel Connor.
Lisa
Mount Juliet, TN USA - Thursday, December 24, 2009 8:09 PM CST
Christmas Eve Blessings To All!
Dear Rhonda,
I just want to remind you that you are in my prayers tonight.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Tonight's Collect:
O God, you have caused this holy night to shine with the brightness of the true Light: Grant that we, who have known the mystery of that Light on earth, may also enjoy him perfectly in heaven; where with you and the Holy Spirit he lives and reigns, one God, in glory everlasting. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, December 24, 2009 3:58 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
May your worship tonight, or tomorrow, be filled with joy and praise. I am thinking of you, of your family, and of sweet Connor, at this lovely time of the year.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
LORD JESUS, as we contemplate your en-flesh-ment,
so that you could be like us in all ways but sin:
give us hearts filled with faith and gratitude,
that in this Christ-Mass we make experience Your redeeming love.
Amen.
~A Prayer By Daniel William Herzog
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, December 24, 2009 10:14 AM CST
Today's Antiphon Hymn Verse
O come, O come, Emmanuel,
and ransom captive Israel,
that mourns in lowly exile here
until the Son of God appear.
Rejoice! Rejoice!
Emmanuel shall come to thee, O Israel!
Dear Rhonda,
Last night, I went out for a Christmas party with a group of women, including some who prayed for Connor, when he was ill. There certainly are people in the Clifton Park area, who think of Connor and who wish you well during this holy time of the year.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
A Christmas Prayer
by Robert Louis Stevenson
Loving Father,
Help us remember the birth of Jesus,
that we may share in the song of the angels,
the gladness of the shepherds,
and worship of the wise men.
Close the door of hate
and open the door of love all over the world.
Let kindness come with every gift
and good desires with every greeting.
Deliver us from evil by the blessing
which Christ brings,
and teach us to be merry with clear hearts.
May the Christmas morning
make us happy to be thy children,
and Christmas evening bring us to our beds
with grateful thoughts,
forgiving and forgiven,
for Jesus' sake.
Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, December 23, 2009 10:10 AM CST
Having never met you or Connor I will never forget him!
God Bless!!
Nancy <nancy.matanes@hubinternational.com>
Berkley , ma - Tuesday, December 22, 2009 8:49 PM CST
Today's Antiphon Verse:
O come, thou Dayspring from on high,
and cheer us by thy drawing nigh;
disperse the gloomy clouds of night,
and death's dark shadows put to flight.
Rejoice! Rejoice!
Emmanuel shall come to thee O Israel!
Dear Rhonda,
I remembered Connor and prayed for you during the Clifton Park Community Blue Christmas tonight. God bless you both always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Everliving God, who strengthened your apostle Thomas with firm and certain faith in your Son's resurrection: Grant us so perfectly and without doubt to believe in Jesus Christ, our Lord and our God, that our faith may never be found wanting in your sight; through him who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, December 21, 2009 11:20 PM CST
Be Silent
God cannot leave things empty; that would be to contradict his own nature and justice. Therefore, you must be silent. Then the Word of this birth can be spoken in you and you will be able to hear him. But be certain of this: if you try to speak then He must be silent. There is no better way of serving the Word than in being silent and listening. So if you come out of yourself completely, God will wholly enter in; to the degree you come out, to that degree will he enter, neither more nor less.
~Johannes Tauler, 14 Century German Dominican mystic and preacher
Dear Rhonda,
Connor has been remembered in Holy Eucharist, and Connor will be remembered in Advent Quiet Compline later tonight.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your dear sunshine boy.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Antiphon Verse:
O come, thou Key of David, come,
and open wide our heavenly home;
make safe the way that leads on high,
and close the path to misery.
Rejoice! Rejoice!
Emmanuel shall come to thee, O Israel!
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, December 20, 2009 4:54 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
We are marking a special day in our family life today. Andrew wanted to celebrate with pizza and wings, so that is what we have done. He wanted white broccoli today, but he often chooses pepperoni and sausage. I always wonder what kind of pizza Connor would request.
God bless you, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's O Antiphon:
O come thou branch of Jesse's tree,
Free them from Satan's tyranny
That trust thy mighty power to save,
And give them victory over the grave.
Rejoice! Rejoice!
Emmanuel shall come to thee, O Israel.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, December 19, 2009 5:02 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
One week before Christmas Day, Connor is remembered in the smell of gingerbread, the taste of cookies, and many other things that delight the hearts of boys everywhere.
I am pausing, here, at my keyboard, to pray for you.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Antiphon Verse:
O come, O come, thou Lord of might,
who to the tribes on Sinai's height
in ancient times didst give the law,
in cloud, and majesty, and awe.
Rejoice! Rejoice! Emmanuel shall come to thee, O Israel!
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, December 18, 2009 8:27 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
Connor has been remembered in Holy Eucharist today.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, December 16, 2009 4:18 PM CST
Just a short message to say I am thinking of you this Christmas.
Love
Vikki
www.postpals.co.uk
Vikki George <viks@postpals.co.uk>
United Kingdom - Wednesday, December 16, 2009 6:06 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of you and remembering sweet Connor today. I hope you are enjoying the scents, sounds, and sights of the season.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
A Prayer From St. Augustine Of Hippo:
O Word before all time, by whom time was made, born in time although you are eternal life, You call us who are bound by time and make us eternal.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, December 15, 2009 11:09 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
This is just a quick note to say that I am thinking of you and of dear Connor. God bless you always, and God bless Connor and of all of Connor's family, friends, and supporters.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
O God, by whose grace your servant John of the Cross, kindled with the flame of your love, became a burning and a shining light in your Church: Grant that we also may be aflame with the spirit of love and discipline, and walk before you as children of light; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, December 14, 2009 9:48 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
As we light the rose Advent candle, for joy, I am thinking of you and of sweet Connor. God bless you both.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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Today's Collect:
Stir up your power, O Lord, and with great might come among us; and, because we are sorely hindered by our sins, let your bountiful grace and mercy speedily help and deliver us; through Jesus Christ our Lord, to whom, with you and the Holy Spirit, be honor and glory, now and for ever. Amen.
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Hark! the glad sound! the Savior comes,
the Savior promised long:
let every heart prepare a throne,
and every voice a song.
He comes the prisoners to release
in Satan's bondage held;
the gates of brass before him burst,
the iron fetters yield.
He comes, the broken heart to bind,
the bleeding soul to cure;
and with the treasures of his grace
to enrich the humble poor.
Our glad hosannas, Prince of Peace,
thy welcome shall proclaim;
and heaven's eternal arches ring
with thy beloved Name.
Words by Philip Doddridge (1702-1751), 1735
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, December 13, 2009 12:36 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
This is a quick note to remind you that I am thinking of you today. God loves you very much.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Grant, O God, that in all time of our testing we may know your presence and obey your will; that, following the example of your servant Samuel Johnson, we may with integrity and courage accomplish what you give us to do, and endure what you give us to bear; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, December 12, 2009 7:49 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I am praying for you on another windy day. It sounds like a locomotive is passing by.
This morning, I stopped at Saratoga Sweet to buy a peppermint pig. I am sure Connor would have loved sampling some of their goodies.
God bless you always, and God bless your sweet sunshine boy.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Almighty and everlasting God, we thank you for your servant Lars Olsen Skrefsrud, whom you called to preach the Gospel to the Santal people of northern India. Raise up in this and every land heralds and evangelists of your kingdom, that your Church may proclaim the unsearchable riches of our Savior Jesus Christ; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, December 11, 2009 12:32 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
We ended up with nine to ten inches of snow on Wednesday, followed by a little sleet to make everything slippery. Andrew worked like a beaver to clean things up, doing an excellent job, as I know Connor would have. May God bless those sweet boys!
I hope you are safe, well, and comfortable.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect For The Commemoration Of Thomas Merton, Monk, Poet, And Spiritual Writer, 10 December, 1968:
O God, who by your Holy Spirit give to some the word of wisdom, to others the word of knowledge, and to others the word of faith: We praise your Name for the gifts of grace manifested in your servant Thomas Merton, and we pray that your Church may never be destitute of such gifts; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who with you and the Holy Spirit lives and reigns, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
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One Of Merton's Best Known Prayers:
My Lord God, I have no idea where I am going. I do not see the road ahead of me. I cannot know for certain where it will end. Nor do I really know myself, and the fact that I think I am doing your will does not mean that I am actually doing so. But I believe that the desire to please you does in fact please you. And I hope I have that desire in all that I am doing. I hope that I will never do anything apart from that desire. And I know that if I do this you will lead me by the right road though I may know nothing about it. Therefore will I trust you always though I may seem to be lost and in the shadow of death. I will not fear, for you are with me, and you will never leave me to face my perils alone.
~Thomas Merton, in Thoughts in Solitude
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, December 10, 2009 4:46 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
We are having a snowy day here in southern Saratoga County today. Since the morning commute was hectic, some of the schools were closed, and others were delayed. Connor probably would have made time for a sled ride, even if he had to catch his school bus. You know I think of him, and of you, each and every day.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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Here is something I used to say with my boys on a snowy day.
"Thumbs in the thumb-place,
Fingers all together!"
This is the song
We sing in mitten-weather.
When it is cold,
It doesn't matter whether
Mittens are wool,
Or made of finest leather.
This is the song
We sing in mitten-weather:
"Thumbs in the thumb-place,
Fingers all together!"
~Marie Louise Allen
No doubt, Connor would have had wet mittens on a morning like this, from making snowballs!
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, December 9, 2009 12:07 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
As I have done December errands, I have been thinking of you and remembering sweet Connor. May God bless you both.
Below is a quote from St. Ambrose, one of this week's holy people.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Lord Jesus Christ, you are for me medicine when I am sick; you are my strength when I need help; you are my life when I fear death; you are the way when I long for heaven; you are light when all is dark; you are my food when I need nourishment.
~St. Ambrose of Milan (c.337-397)
The Collect:
O God, who gave your servant Ambrose grace eloquently to proclaim your righteousness in the great congregation, and fearlessly to bear reproach for the honor of your Name: Mercifully grant to all bishops and pastors such excellence in preaching and faithfulness in ministering your Word, that your people may be partakers with them of the glory that shall be revealed; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, December 8, 2009 4:14 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
Connor has been remembered in watching some of the holiday classic cartoons, in seeing children with Santa, and in seasonal services. I know your sunshine boy was a sweet blessing to you, day by day, and often a blessing to his teachers, classmates, and members of his medical team. God bless his sweet spirit.
Below is an ancient hymn for St. Nicholas Day, which is a new one for me this year. Perhaps you can sing it on this day, when children receive gold wrapped candy coins, in honor of the holy bishop of Myra. (Because of the historic connection to the Dutch, in this area, some school children put their shoes outside the classroom door today to find apples, small toys, and gold wrapped chocolate candy before going home.)
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Hymn For St. Nicholas Day (December 6)
Let us lift our joyful voices
in sweet, well-tuned harmony;
sing of Nicholas the blessed
and his works of clemency.
As a child he studied closely
God's good Word and holy ways.
Called by God to be a bishop:
serving through his final days.
To the poor, the sick, the orphans,
works of mercy did he show;
miracles of God's great goodness
and his love for all to know.
Money needed for a ransom
of three maidens, bound and sold;
retribution paid he for them,
with three rings of bishop's gold.
Praying on a ship most ancient,
tossed about the nagging sea;
calm became the swelling waters;
God looked down and heard his plea.
Nicholas, your works remembered,
as we all rejoice this day;
Guide us through the stormy tempest,
help us not to lose our way.
Lyrics: eleventh century Latin
Tune: Stuttgard
Hear It At: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/e/e004.html
Stuttgart is used as the tune for three hymns in the Hymnal 1982. They are number 66 (Come, Thou Long-Expected Jesus), number 127 (Earth Has Manya Noble City), and number 414 (God, My King, Thy Might Confessing).
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, December 7, 2009 5:49 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
Connor was remembered this weekend in an Advent Quiet Day and in both the usual Saturday night and Sunday morning Eucharists. May God bless his sweet spirit.
I am pausing, here, at my key board, to pray for you, and for all of Connor's many loved ones, each by name.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect For The Second Sunday In Advent:
Merciful God, who sent your messengers the prophets to preach repentance and prepare the way for our salvation: Give us grace to heed their warnings and forsake our sins, that we may greet with joy the coming of Jesus Christ our Redeemer; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
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Hark! a thrilling voice is sounding.
"Christ is nigh," it seems to say;
"Cast away the works of darkness,
O ye children of the day."
Wakened by the solemn warning,
from earth's bondage us rise;
Christ, our sun, all sloth dispelling,
shines upon the morning skies.
Lo! the Lamb, so long expected,
comes with pardon down from heaven;
let us haste, with tears of sorrow,
one and all to be forgiven;
so when next he comes with glory,
and the world is wrapped in fear,
may he with his mercy shield us,
and with words of love draw near.
Honor, glory, might, and blessing
to the Father and the Son,
with the everlasting Spirit,
while eternal ages run.
Words: Latin, sixth century; trans. Edward Caswall (1814-1878) as "Hark, an awful voice is sounding." Murray's Hymnal of 1852 changed the first line to "a thrilling voice" and Hymns Ancient & Modern of 1861 altered the text further into its present form.
Music: Merton (William Henry Monk, 1823-1889)
Hear It At: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/h/h064.html
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, December 6, 2009 11:24 PM CST
Blessings To All On The Feast Of St. Nicholas!
Dear Rhonda,
On the morning of St. Nicholas Day, I am thinking of your dear Connor. The picture of Connor and Santa is one of the best I have ever seen. I am sure you are viewing it during these days leading up to Christmas.
God bless you, Connor, and all children everywhere.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Almighty God, who in your love gave to your servant Nicholas of Myra a perpetual name for deeds of kindness on land and sea: Grant, we pray, that your Church may never cease to work for the happiness of children, the safety of sailors, the relief of the poor, and the help of those tossed by tempests of doubt or grief; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
A Children's Saint Nicholas Hymn (to be used at a St. Nicholas pageant or visitation):
Children everywhere agree
Each December now to be
Ready, eager, all to greet
The great saint we wait to meet.
Bearing gifts, he first recalls
If we have been good at all,
In our work, at home or play
All before St Nicholas day.
With his helpers at his side,
Celebrating far and wide,
He's the real Santa Claus,
Hail our kind St Nicholas
Now he leads us one and all
To the Christmas manger stall
Sees the babe, he bows the knee
For the prince of peace—tis he!
So in Myra stories told
His great love, his actions bold,
Pilgrims now to Bari go
So the legends all may know.
Now the day of joy and fun
Ole St Nick, his work is done,
Says goodbye to young and old
By whom still his tales are told.
Lyrics By Lay Canon James M. Rosenthal
Music: Monkland, melody from Freylinghausen, 1704; adapted by John Antes (1740-1811), arranged by John Bernard Wilkes (1785-1869)
Hear It At:http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/l/l103.html
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, December 6, 2009 7:36 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
Connor was remembered today in an Advent Quiet Day. While there, I also prayed for you.
The book I brought with me to the Quiet Day is a collection from the writings of Thomas Merton. One of his prayers ends with these words:
"Give us the grace to use this Advent season as a time for our own growth and the growth of our spiritual community. Amen."
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect For The Commemoration Of Clement Of Alexandria, Teacher And Apologist, 5 December 213?:
O God of unsearchable mystery, who led Clement of Alexandria to find in ancient philosophy a path to knowledge of your Word: Grant that your Church may recognize true wisdom, wherever it is found, knowing that wisdom come from you and leads to you; through our Teacher Jesus Christ, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, December 5, 2009 2:51 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I certainly agree with Lisa in all that she said about how you honor Connor in your toy donation to Vanderbilt Children's Hospital. You also act in the spirit of St. Nicholas, whose feast is celebrated this weekend. I know that in this donation, and in many other things, your sunshine boy loves you.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Collect For The Commemoration Of John Of Damascus, Hymn-Writer, Defender Of Icons, 4 December 750:
Confirm our minds, O Lord, in the mysteries of the true faith, set forth with power by your servant John of Damscus; that we, with him, confessing Jesus to be true God and true Man, and singing the praises of the risen Lord, may, by the power of the resurrection, attain to eternal joy; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for evermore. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, December 4, 2009 7:09 AM CST
I'm thinking of you. I know you donate toys in memory of Connor to Vanderbilt Children's Hospital each Christmas. It is such a special way to honor him and put smiles on the children and parents faces that spend Christmas at the hospital. Since Tristan's brain surgery, we've always left toys as well. Our drop off date is Monday morning. I know Connor smiles at you as you unload the toys. I know there are parents that thank God for the gifts given to their children. I'm wishing you peace, comfort and love for Christmas.
Lisa
Mount Juliet, TN USA - Thursday, December 3, 2009 9:32 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
May the Advent gifts of hope, peace, joy, and love be with you today and always. I am thinking of you, Connor, and all of your family.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Almighty and everlasting God, we thank you for your servants Francis Xavier, Channing Moore Williams, Robert Morrison, Karl Guetzlaff, and James Hudson Taylor, whom you called to preach the Gospel to the peoples of Asia. Raise up, we pray, in this and every land heralds and evangelists of your kingdom, that your Church may proclaim the unsearchable riches of our Saviour Jesus Christ; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, December 3, 2009 10:04 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I thought of Connor as I opened my first Christmas card earlier this week. Pictured were people of many nationalities, birds, a dog, and a deer. The quotation said, "Out beyond ideas of wrongdoing and rightdoing, there is a field. I'll meet you there."
Over the years, those of many backgrounds have come here to unite with you in prayer for Connor, and since his passing, to remember Connor with thankful hearts. May the peace offered to you support and encourage you today, as you journey through Advent, which is always a season of hope.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Almighty and everlasting God, we thank you for your servant Channing Moore Williams, whom you called to preach the Gospel to the peoples of China and Japan. Raise up, we pray, in this and every land heralds and evangelists of your kingdom, that your Church may proclaim the unsearchable riches of our Saviour Jesus Christ; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, December 2, 2009 7:15 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of you today with love and prayers.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless Connor.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect For Nicholas Ferrar, Deacon And Man Of Prayer (Founder Of Little Gidding, A Community Devoted To Prayer, Fasting, And Almsgiving), 1 December 1637:
Lord God, make us so reflect your perfect love; that, with your deacon Nicholas Ferrar and his household, we may rule ourselves according to your Word, and serve you with our whole heart; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, December 1, 2009 2:40 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
Thinking of you!
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Tuesday, December 1, 2009 11:57 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
Today is my son's name day. As I have enjoyed all it means to be a mom to a "lovable character," I have thought of you and Connor. I am sure that if he could, Connor would tell those reading his guest book that his "biggest and best blessing" is you.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
~The Collect For The Feast Of St. Andrew:
Almighty God, who gave such grace to your apostle Andrew that he readily obeyed the call of your Son Jesus Christ, and brought his brother with him: Give unto us, who are called by your Word, grace to follow him without delay, and to bring those near to us into his gracious presence; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 237
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, November 30, 2009 9:40 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
Not a day goes by without thoughts of Connor...his sweet smiling face is on my fridge and on my desk. Miss him and will always have him in my heart.
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Monday, November 30, 2009 2:59 PM CST
Blessings To All On The First Sunday In Advent!
Dear Rhonda,
Connor has been remembered, in Holy Eucharist, on Saturday and Sunday. May God always bless his sweet spirit.
This morning, we sang five Advent hymns, at St. George's. One was new to me. It was sung to the tune of Forest Green, which I left you two days ago, so I will add the words below.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Bless'd be the God of Israel who comes to set us free
and raises up new hope for us: a branch of David's tree.
So have the prophets long declared that with a mighty arm
God would turn back our enemies and all who wish us harm.
With promised mercy will God still the covenant recall,
the oath once sworn to Abraham, from foes to save us all;
that we might worship without fear and offer lives of praise,
in holiness and righteousness to serve God all our days.
My child, as prophet of the Lord you will prepare the way,
to tell God's people they are saved from sin's eternal sway.
Then shall God's mercy from on high shine forth and never cease
to drive away the gloom of death and lead us into peace.
Words: Carl P. Daw, Jr. b. 1944
Music: Forest Green, an old English folk tune, arranged by Ralph Vaughan Williams (1872-1958)
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/i/i127.html
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, November 29, 2009 11:52 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of Connor on a very windy day. The forecasters said the power might go out, but we have ours, and I have not heard of others who are without. I hope you are safe, warm, and comfortable.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless Connor and all of Connor's friends, loved ones, and supporters.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
O Sovereign God, who raised up (King) Kamehameha (IV) and (Queen) Emma to be rulers in Hawaii, and inspired and enabled them to be diligent in good works for the welfare of their people and the good of your Church: Receive our thanks for their witness to the Gospel; and grant that we, with them, may attain to the crown of glory that never fades away; through Jesus Christ our Savior and Redeemer,
who with you and the Holy Spirit lives and reigns, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, November 28, 2009 12:43 AM CST
Rhonda, here is a link to the tune that is generally used to sing the Isaac Watts hymn I left you earlier today. Watts also wrote O God Our Help in Ages Past.
http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/i/i127.html
The name of the tune is Forest Green, and it is by Ralph Vaughan Williams. You may have heard O Little Town of Bethlehem sung to Forest Green.
Once again, I hope you are enjoying this weekend of Thanksgivings.
Grace and peace,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, November 27, 2009 5:06 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
Good morning! I hope you were able to have an enjoyable Thanksgiving meal yesterday. If not, perhaps you can enjoy some friends, family, and food today or later in the weekend.
It does not seem possible that we will enter Advent this weekend. I will be doing one set of the lay readings, at St. George's. While there, I will remember sweet Connor, in the beauty of holiness.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless Connor.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect For Isaac Watts, Hymn-Writer, 25 November 1748:
Almighty God, who gave to your servant Isaac Watts singular gifts of rendering your praises in verse, that he might write for your Church an abundant supply of psalms, and hymns, and spiritual songs: Stir up the hearts of your people, that they may joyfully sing your praises in this life and the life to come; through your Son Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
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I have heard that as a child at prayer, Watts saw a mouse run up a rope. He began to laugh quietly at the creature's antics, so his father asked him why. Always quick to rhyme, young Isaac replied, "A little mouse for want of stairs, ran up a rope to say its prayers." His father thought the lad lacked proper reverence, so spanked him. I can image Connor finding the same humor in the mouse's behavior, and I know he would not have been punished.
Here is my favorite Watts hymn.
I sing th'almighty power of God,
that made the mountains rise,
that spread the flowing seas abroad,
and built the lofty skies.
I sing the wisdom that ordained
the sun to rule the day;
the moon shines full at God's command,
and all the stars obey.
I sing the goodness of the Lord,
who filled the earth with food,
who formed the creatures through the Word,
and then pronounced them good.
Lord, how thy wonders are displayed,
where'er I turn my eye,
if I survey the ground I tread,
or gaze upon the sky.
There's not a plant or flower below,
but makes thy glories known,
and clouds arise, and tempests blow,
by order from thy throne;
while all that borrows life from thee
is ever in thy care;
and everywhere that we can be,
thou, God art present there.
~Isaac Watts, 1715
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, November 27, 2009 4:44 AM CST
Happy Thanksgiving To All!
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of you today. You have given me, and many others, a gift in sharing your beautiful son with us. Connor is always a part of my heart.
Below is my favorite Thanksgiving Prayer and today's collect. If you have some time, please pray them with me.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
A Litany of Thanksgiving:
Let us give thanks to God our Father for all his gifts so freely bestowed upon us.
For the beauty and wonder of creation, in earth and sky and sea,
R: We thank you, Lord.
For all that is gracious in the lives of men and women, revealing the image of Christ,
R: We thank you, Lord.
For our daily food and drink, our homes and families, and our friends,
R: We thank you, Lord.
For minds to think, and hearts to love, and hands to serve,
R: We thank you, Lord.
For health and strength to work, and leisure to rest and play,
R: We thank you, Lord.
For the brave and courageous, who are patient in suffering and faithful in adversity,
R: We thank you, Lord.
For all valiant seekers after truth, liberty, and justice,
R: We thank you, Lord.
For the communion of saints, in all times and places,
R: We thank you, Lord.
Above all, we give you thanks for the great mercies and promises given to us in Christ Jesus our Lord:
R: To him be praise and glory, with you, O Father, and the Holy Spirit, now and for ever. Amen.
The Book of Common Prayer, Page 837
The Collect For Thanksgiving Day:
Almighty and gracious Father, we give you thanks for the fruits of the earth in their season and for the labors of those who harvest them. Make us, we pray, faithful stewards of your great bounty, for the provision of our necessities and the relief of all who are in need, to the glory of your Name; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 246
Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, November 26, 2009 11:08 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
This morning, I remembered Connor in Holy Eucharist. I was planning to do it again, tonight, when St. George's hosted the Community Thanksgiving, but alas, I misread the bulletin, missing the service, as it was last night. I am too young to be having all of these "senior moments."
Today's saint is James Otis Sargent Huntington, who founded the Order of the Holy Cross. I have been to its mother house, in West Park, New York, many times. One of the engravings there says, "The Cross is the Tree of Life." I will leave a favorite Huntington quote and the collect below.
God bless you, dear Rhonda. You are ever in my thoughts and prayers.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Holiness is the brightness of divine love, and love is never idle; it must accomplish great things.
~James Otis Sargent Huntington (1854-1935)
The Collect For James Otis Sargent Huntington, Founder
25 November 1884: (This is his profession date. He died on June 28, 1935.)
O loving God, by whose grace your servant James Huntington gathered a community dedicated to love and discipline and devotion to the holy Cross of our Savior Jesus Christ: Send your blessing upon all who proclaim Christ crucified, and move the hearts of many to look upon him and be saved; who with you and the Holy Spirit lives and reigns, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, November 25, 2009 4:53 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
Two days before Thanksgiving, I am think of you and of your sweet sunshine boy, Connor. He was always such a helpful person. I know he would be helping you this week with all the holiday chores. He would also be sampling all the goodies.
I hope you are looking forward to the holiday with friends or family. Connor would want you to have an enjoyable meal and good company.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Gratitude unlocks the fullness of life. It turns what we have into enough, and more. It turns denial into acceptance, chaos to order, confusion to clarity. It can turn a meal into a feast, a house into a home, a stranger into a friend. Gratitude makes sense of our past, brings peace for today, and creates a vision for tomorrow.
~Melody Beattie
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, November 24, 2009 11:00 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
On Richie Shannon's third anniversary, I am thinking of dear Connor and of Richie. Truly, in many ways, those boys were similar, and yet, in their eyes, there was always a unique sparkle. May God bless both of them, and also may God bless all of their loved ones, friends, and fans.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
I believe in Christianity as I believe that the sun has risen: not only because I see it, but because by it I see everything else.
C.S. Lewis (1898-1963)
Collect For C.S. Lewis, Scholar And Spiritual Writer, 22 November 1963 (Transferred Because The 22nd Fell On A Sunday This Year):
Almighty God, whose servant C.S. Lewis received of your grace singular gifts of insight in understanding the truth in Christ Jesus, and of eloquence and clarity in presenting that truth to his readers: Raise up in our day faithful interpreters of your Word, that we, being set free from all error and unbelief, may come to the knowledge that makes us wise unto salvation: through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, November 23, 2009 4:44 PM CST
Blessings On The Feast Of Christ The King!
Dear Rhonda,
Once again, Connor has been remembered in Holy Eucharist. While at church, I also paused to pray for you, and I am pausing, once again, as I write in Connor's book.
On this date, in 1963, three famous people died. They were President Kennedy, Aldous Huxley, and C.S. Lewis. I am including a quote from Lewis before I leave the collect of the day.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
"When Aslan said you could never go back to Narnia, he meant the Narnia you were thinking of. But that was not the real Narnia. That had a beginning and an end. It was only a shadow or a copy of the real Narnia which has always been there and always will be there: just as our own world, England and all, is only a shadow or copy of something in Aslan's real world. You need not mourn over Narnia, Lucy. All of the old Narnia that mattered, all the dear creatures, have been drawn into the real Narnia through the Door. And of course it is different; as different as a real thing is from a shadow or as waking life is from a dream."
~C.S. Lewis, in The Last Battle, 1956
Today's Collect:
Almighty and everlasting God, whose will it is to restore all things in your well beloved Son, the King of kings and Lord of lords: Mercifully grant that the peoples of the earth, divided and enslaved by sin, may be freed and brought together under his most gracious rule; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, November 22, 2009 11:29 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
Last night, I attended a party hosted by a new friend. Two people I met, when I met her, were also in attendance, along with a dear friend from the past, who introduced us, and some new to me. I had a ball! This reminds me of Connor, who had a gift for making and keeping friends. That sunshine boy of yours was really special! May God bless Connor today and every day.
I am pausing, here, at my keyboard, to pray for both you and Connor, and I will pray again during Holy Eucharist.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Collect For Dionysius of Alexandria, Bishop And Scholar,
21 November 265:
O God, who have enlightened your Church by the teaching of your servant Dionysius: Enrich us evermore with your heavenly grace, and raise up faithful witnesses who by their life and doctrine will set forth the truth of your salvation; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, November 21, 2009 11:05 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
Today's Upper Room meditation was written by a mother, whose only son, died as a child. Of course, I thought of you, and of sweet Connor, as I read. The mother writes of walking "a path of sorrow," and of eventually coming to "a new normal." You and I know that bereavement living is being "on the edge of tears." The selection ends with the thought that in ministering to someone else, in a similar position, we generally find ourselves not forgetting our loved one, but healed of the pain their departure caused. May you find increased healing and peace in your life as you live every day, walking in the way of the cross, which we know is always the way of life and peace.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
A Collect For Fridays:
Almighty God, whose most dear Son went not up to joy but
first he suffered pain, and entered not into glory before he
was crucified: Mercifully grant that we, walking in the way
of the cross, may find it none other than the way of life and
peace; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord. Amen.
The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 99
Written By William Reed Huntington (1838-1909)
P.S. If you would like a copy of the meditation, let me know, and I will provide one.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, November 20, 2009 10:30 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of you and of your sunshine boy. May God always bless you.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Collect For The Commemoration Of Elizabeth Of Hungary, Princess And Philanthropist, 19 November 1231:
Almighty God, by whose grace your servant Elizabeth of Hungary recognized and honored Jesus in the poor of this world: Grant that we, following her example, may with love and gladness serve those in any need or trouble, in the name and for the sake of Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
In our extended area, St. Elizabeth Hospital, in Utica, was named for this St. Elizabeth, not the mother of John the Baptist, as some might think. Throughout the world, there are many hospitals bearing the name of the princess, who used her personal wealth to provide medical care to the needy.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, November 19, 2009 2:48 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
Connor was remembered in Holy Eucharist this morning. Earlier in the week, I attended a Tellabration, in Schenectady, and as I laughed at the humor, I thought of your sunshine boy. May God bless Connor's sweet spirit.
Let me know if I can be of any help or encouragement to you or to your family.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect For The Commemoration Of Hilda of Whitby, Abbess And Peacemaker, 18 November 680:
O God of peace, by whose grace the abbess Hilda was endowed with gifts of justice, prudence, and strength to rule as a wise mother over the nuns and monks of her household, and to become a trusted and reconciling friend to leaders of the Church: Give us the grace to recognize and accept the varied gifts you bestow on men and women, that our common life may be enriched and your gracious will be done, through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, November 18, 2009 4:39 PM CST
Sorry I missed Connor's BDay. I think of him and you often.
tricia <triciabxny@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, November 17, 2009 1:59 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
Today's saint, Hugh of Lincoln, had many similarities to sweet Connor. Hugh was said to be kind, caring, and have a great wit. He also was an animal lover. James Kiefer wrote of Hugh, "He was fond of animals, and they of him. Birds and squirrels came readily to his hand. He had a swan that would feed from his hand, follow him about, and keep guard over his bed, so that no one could approach it without being attacked."
I am pausing, here at my keyboard, to pray for you and for your sunshine boy.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Collect For The Commemoration Of Hugh of Lincoln, Bishop, Protector Of The Oppressed, 17 November 1200:
O holy God, who endowed your servant and bishop Hugh of Lincoln with wise and cheerful boldness, and taught him to commend the discipline of holy life to kings and princes: Grant that we also, rejoicing in the Good News of your mercy, and fearing nothing but the loss of you, may be bold to speak the truth in love, in the name of Jesus Christ our Redeemer, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, November 17, 2009 11:22 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I was here several hours ago and had an entry almost done, when I had some difficulty with my computer. I do want you to know that I remembered Connor, in Holy Eucharist, this weekend, and while there, I also prayed for you. May God bless you both.
We had our annual Scottish Liturgy and the Kirking of the Tartans, at St. George's, on Sunday morning. If Connor enjoyed bagpipes as much as Andrew also has, Connor would have been very excited about the service, and if he did not, he probably would have enjoyed the Short Bread, at the parish coffee hour.
One of the reasons for the Scottish Liturgy is to honor the memory of Samuel Seabury, our first presiding bishop, and the gift of the American Episcopate (November 14). Another is to remember good queen, Margaret of Scotland, whose feast day is today. She is one of the saints referred to in the first verse of the children's song which I often quote.
I sing a song of the saints of God,
Patient and brave and true,
Who toiled and fought and lived and died
For the Lord they loved and knew.
And one was a doctor, (Luke)
And one was a queen, (Margaret of Scotland)
And one was a shepherdess on the green: (Joan of Arc)
They were all of them saints of God—and I mean,
God helping, to be one too.
Lyrics: Mrs. L.L. (Locket) Scott, (1898-1986) 1929
I hope all is well with you and with all of Connor's other loved ones.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect For The Commemoration Of Margaret, Queen of Scotland, 16 November 1093:
O God, who called your servant Margaret to an earthly throne that she might advance your heavenly kingdom, and gave her zeal for your church and love for your people: Mercifully grant that we who commemorate her this day may be fruitful in good works, and attain to the glorious crown of your saints; though Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, November 16, 2009 11:12 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of you and of Connor on a cold, rainy morning. When I stepped onto my porch, there was some ice on the surface. This is kind of hard to take, when people were outside in shorts a couple of days ago.
Right now, I am pausing, here at my keyboard, to remember Connor and to pray for each member of Connor's family, by name.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Collect For The Consecration of Samuel Seabury, Bishop
(Bestowal Of The American Episcopate), 14 November 1784:
We give you thanks, O Lord our God, for your goodness in bestowing upon this Church the gift of the episcopate, which we celebrate in this remembrance of the consecration of Samuel Seabury; and we pray that, joined together in unity with our bishops, and nourished by your holy Sacraments, we may proclaim the Gospel of redemption with apostolic zeal; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
The consecration papers for Samuel Seabury are in the Cathedral of All Saints, here, in Albany.
Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, November 14, 2009 8:34 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of you and of your sunshine boy today. Connor will be remembered, in Eucharist, this weekend.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Collect For Gregory Palamas, Monk, Mystic, And Theologian, 1359:
O God, who by your Holy Spirit give to some the word of wisdom, to others the word of knowledge, and to others the word of faith: We praise you for the gifts of grace manifested in your servant Gregory, and we pray that your Church may never be destitute of such gifts; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who with you and the Holy Spirit lives and reigns, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, November 13, 2009 3:44 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I am praying for you this morning. I hope all is well. If there is anything I can do, please contact me.
God bless you always, and God bless all of Connor's loving family, friends, and supporters.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect For Charles Simeon, Teacher, Promotor Of Missionary Work, 12 November 1836:
O loving God, who order all things by your unerring wisdom and unbounded love: Grant us in all things to see your hand; that, following the example and teaching of your servant Charles Simeon, we may walk with Christ in all simplicity, and serve you with a quiet and contented mind; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
I have been thinking of this hymn. Perhaps you can sing it with me today.
Blest are the pure in heart,
for they shall see our God;
the secret of the Lord is theirs,
their soul is Christ's abode.
The Lord, who left the heavens
our life and peace to bring,
to dwell in lowliness with us,
our pattern and our King;
he to the lowly soul
will still himself impart
and for his dwelling and his throne
will chose the pure in heart.
Lord, we thy presence seek;
may ours this blessing be;
give us a pure and lowly heart,
a temple fit for thee.
Words: stanzas 1 & 3, John Keble (1792-1866), 1818;
stanzas 2 & 4, William John Hall (1793-1861)
Music: Franconia (Harmonischer Liederschatz, 1738)
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/b/b144.html
Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, November 12, 2009 7:07 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
Your brave little trooper, Connor Jordan Hunley, was remembered in Holy Eucharist, at St. George's, this morning. Father Henry gave an excellent teaching about today's saint, Martin of Tours, and I remembered a children's play, "And One Was a Soldier," in which my son portrayed St. Martin. The outfit was pretty sharp. I imagine Connor would have liked it.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless Connor.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collects:
Collect For Martin Of Tours, Bishop And Theologian, 11 November 397:
Lord God of hosts, who clothed your servant Martin the soldier with the spirit of sacrifice, and set him as a bishop in your Church to be a defender of the catholic faith: Give us grace to follow in his holy steps, that at the last we may be found clothed with righteousness in the dwellings of peace; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Collect For Armistice Day (Veterans' Day), 11 November 1918:
Almighty God our Heavenly Father, guide the nations of the world into the way of justice and truth, and establish among them that peace which is the fruit of righteousness, that they may become the kingdom of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. Amen.
Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, November 11, 2009 9:15 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
During a very busy week, I still pause, to remember Connor, at home and at church. God bless you and your sweet sunshine boy.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect For Leo The Great, Bishop, Doctor, 10 November 461:
O Lord our God, grant that your Church, following the teaching of your servant Leo of Rome, may hold fast the great mystery of our redemption, and adore the one Christ, true God and true Man, neither divided from our human nature nor separate from your divine Being; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, November 10, 2009 3:46 PM CST
I always remember Connor and his smile, thinking of you this time of year.
Laurie Olsen <scrapmusiclaurie@yahoo.com>
Colchester, CT - Monday, November 9, 2009 8:02 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
While I served as lector, at Eucharist, yesterday, I remembered sweet Connor beneath the Resurrection/New Life Window. I am leaving you one of the readings and the collect. I am also pausing, here at my keyboard, to pray for you.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless Connor and all of his many friends, loved ones, and fans.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Christ did not enter a sanctuary made by human hands, a mere copy of the true one, but he entered into heaven itself, now to appear in the presence of God on our behalf. Nor was it to offer himself again and again, as the high priest enters the Holy Place year after year with blood that is not his own; for then he would have had to suffer again and again since the foundation of the world. But as it is, he has appeared once for all at the end of the age to remove sin by the sacrifice of himself. And just as it is appointed for mortals to die once, and after that the judgment, so Christ, having been offered once to bear the sins of many, will appear a second time, not to deal with sin, but to save those who are eagerly waiting for him.
~Hebrews 9:24-28
The Collect:
O God, whose blessed Son came into the world that he might destroy the works of the devil and make us children of God and heirs of eternal life: Grant that, having this hope, we may purify ourselves as he is pure; that, when he comes again with power and great glory, we may be made like him in his eternal and glorious kingdom; where he lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, November 8, 2009 12:51 AM CST
Something Told the Wild Geese
Something told the wild geese
It was time to go.
Though the fields lay golden
Something whispered, "snow."
Leaves were green and stirring,
Berries, luster-glossed,
But beneath warm feathers
But something cautioned, "frost."
All the sagging orchards
Steamed with amber spices
But each wild breast stiffened
At remembered ice.
Something told the wild geese
It was time to fly -
Summer sun was on their wings,
Winter in their cry.
~Rachel Field
Dear Rhonda,
I thought I would share a poem that I have been thinking about this week. It is one I have shared with many children, over the years, and that I would share with Connor, if I could. Usually, I watch the geese in their migration, but I have not seen them this year.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, November 7, 2009 12:38 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of you and remembering Connor on another Friday.
God bless you, Connor, and all of Connor's many loved ones.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
A Collect For Fridays:
Almighty God, whose most dear Son went not up to joy but
first he suffered pain, and entered not into glory before he
was crucified: Mercifully grant that we, walking in the way
of the cross, may find it none other than the way of life and
peace; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord. Amen.
The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 99
Written By William Reed Huntington (1838-1909)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, November 6, 2009 6:23 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
While running errands yesterday, I bought a reversible cap for the gift box I am preparing for a ten year old boy. One side of the cap is red with black trim, and the other is solid black. It is now resting next to a red and black football, a red tooth brush and cinnamon flavored floss, a package of bouncy balls, a box of colored pencils, a red toy car, and many other treats. I have certainly thought of your sunshine boy, as I have been collecting. If he were here, Connor could have helped in the purchasing and organizing of this box, and he could have taken it to the altar for blessing on the weekend.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, November 5, 2009 11:06 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
Earlier today I remembered Connor in Holy Eucharist. Right now, I am pausing, here at my keyboard, to pray for you.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect For The Commemoration Of Richard Hooker, Priest And Theologian:
O God of truth and peace, who raised up your servant Richard Hooker in a day of bitter controversy to defend with sound reasoning and great charity the catholic and reformed religion: Grant that we may maintain that middle way, not as a compromise for the sake of peace, but as a comprehension for the sake of truth; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, November 4, 2009 4:06 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
Today's Upper Room was written by a father, who had to tell his six year old daughter, that her five year old brother had died. He used the promise in John 14: 1-4, to do so. This is how the authored ended:
Much time has passed, but I often reflect on my conversation with my daughter that day. Jesus spoke of God's providing room in heaven for all who believe.
Assurance of our final home is found in Jesus' words: "I am going there to prepare a place for you" (John 14:2). Now I understand that Jesus may not have been speaking of a physical place at all but of something more meaningful: a promise that where he is, we will be also.
I know that you know and believe this promise. You will see sweet Connor again, and when you do, "All shall be well."
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
O Almighty God, the God of the spirits of all flesh, who by a voice from heaven proclaimed, Blessed are the dead who die in the Lord: Multiply, we pray, to those who rest in Jesus the abundant blessings of your love, that the good work which you have begun in them may be made perfect unto the day of Jesus Christ. And of your mercy, O heavenly Father, grant that we, who now serve you on earth, may at last, together with them, be partakers of the inheritance of the saints in light; for the sake of your Son Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, November 3, 2009 9:04 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of sweet Connor, of Cheyenne Fiveash, and of the children, teens, and adults of Tennessee, that I learned of through Connor's website, who have passed to their heavenly dwellings, on this twin feast to All Saint's Day. May God bless you, and may God bless all of the other families missing someone special.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Collect For The Day of All Souls, 2 November:
Father of all, we pray to you for those we love, but see no longer: Grant them your peace; let light perpetual shine upon them; and in your loving wisdom and almighty power, work in them the good purpose of your perfect will; through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, November 2, 2009 12:33 AM CST
We are remembering Connor today in New Hampshire. Coincidentally, we have also been visited by many ladybugs! We send our love and support on this day and every day.
Deb and Laura
Litchfield, NH USA - Sunday, November 1, 2009 8:34 PM CST
Thinking of you today...
Maria Walters <mariaw19@hotmail.com>
North Cape May, NJ 08204 - Sunday, November 1, 2009 1:47 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
By writing in Connor's guest book three times today, I am just trying to stay close to you on a bittersweet anniversary. This morning, at St. George's, some of the young people processed in dressed as saints. I noticed St. Patrick, St. Mary, St. Dominick, St. Dorothy, and St. Dennis. Looking at the children, I wondered what saint Connor would have chosen and who would have helped him prepare his hagiography to be shared with the people. Following Eucharist, we had a luncheon in the parish hall. I am sure Connor would have filled his plate!
God bless you always, and of course, God bless Connor.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect For The Feast Of All Saints:
Almighty God, you have knit together your elect in one communion and fellowship in the mystical body of your Son Christ our Lord: Give us grace so to follow your blessed saints in all virtuous and godly living, that we may come to those ineffable joys that you have prepared for those who truly love you; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who with you and the Holy Spirit lives and reigns, one God, in glory everlasting. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, November 1, 2009 1:36 PM CST
Connor, You are so special that your site has been visited over 855,000 times. That does not count all the times we've thought about you at Church or work or the store...You've been in our hearts a very long time. You always will be. Rhonda and Eddie, I'm praying for you both today.
Lisa
Mount Juliet, TN USA - Sunday, November 1, 2009 7:58 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I, too, will remember sweet Connor, in Eucharist this morning. While there, and also as I prepare to leave, I will be praying for you and for all of Connor's many loved ones.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Almighty God, we remember before you today your faithful servant Connor, and we pray that, having opened to him the gates of larger life, you will receive him more and more into your joyful service, that he may win with you and all your servants everywhere the eternal victory, through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, November 1, 2009 7:51 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I will be in church at the hour Connor passed away and prayers will be offered for you on this day, the day Connor received his angel wings 5 years ago. In the way too short of time that he was on this earth he taught a lot of people how to live. His smile lit up the world and he will always be in our hearts. Miss you sunshine boy and love you!
One NEVER gets over the loss of a loved one! My dad died over 28 years ago and I still miss him!
God Bless you...love ya!
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Sunday, November 1, 2009 6:47 AM CST
Blessings To All On The Feast Of All Saints!
Dear Rhonda,
I remembered Connor in the Vigil Eucharist for the Feast of All Saints, at St. George's, where I served as lector, yesterday afternoon. I have also lit a candle for Connor at Barbara Crafton's Geranium Farm Website, which will burn there this whole week. Here is what the candle says.
+ This candle is for Connor Jordan Hunley from Tennessee +
for Connor on the fifth anniversary of his passing into eternal life
~ this candle was lit by Colette from Clifton Park, NY
You can view the candle at this address.
http://www.geraniumfarm.org/candles.cfm
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, one of the delights of heaven, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, November 1, 2009 1:05 AM CST
Happy 15th Birthday to Connor! Laura's Facebok entry today was "Happy Birthday and RIP" - Connor is remembered around the world today for the sunshine he brought to the lives of so many. God bless and much love...
Deb and Laura <endyke@speakeasy.net>
Litchfield, NH USA - Saturday, October 31, 2009 11:43 PM CDT
Rhonda, thanks for the update! Wow - I have been following this journey since day one when you had posted. This child has sooooo stuck in my mind through the years. I have a 16 year old and cannot process what you have been through. This child will always be thought about - that is apparent through this web site. I just wanted to let you know that I am thinking of you and of course Conner on this special day. God Bless You!
Julie <Julie_Weeks@ymail.com>
MN - Saturday, October 31, 2009 9:59 PM CDT
Happy Birthday Connor.... Rhonda and Eddie I know you miss your boy so much. It doesnt matter if you have one or 10 you still miss the one thats gone. a nd you always will... May GOD give you peace today.
Sharon <sholweger5@yahoo.com>
- Saturday, October 31, 2009 1:56 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of you, and of all of Connor's family, on his fifteenth birthday. Truly you were blessed in his birth, his infancy, and his childhood, and Connor was blessed in you, a devoted, loving mother. I was so glad to see a birthday picture of Connor and an update, when I signed onto his site earlier today. He was such a handsome, funny, and loving boy.
Even though you will see Connor again, I know you are not over Connor's passing, and sensible people would not even consider such a thing. If you need a listening ear, or if you want to share some of your memories, I am always here, only a mouse click, or a phone call, away.
God bless you always, and God bless your sweet sunshine boy.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, October 31, 2009 12:02 AM CDT
Rhonda
praying for you today on Connor's 15th birthday, and remembering
him especially tomorrow on All Saint's Day and his 5th heavenly birthday.
Mrs Pam
St. Louis, - Saturday, October 31, 2009 10:41 AM CDT
Thinking of Connor today and his loving family, especially you, Rhonda, and of course, Eddie. Those who expect you to be "over it" don't know what love is, or what it is to do without someone so integral to your life. Prayers, sweet thoughts, gentle hugs being sent your way today. I think of Connor often, and am sure he would be quite the heartbreaker at 15!
Loads of love,
Kriste Lanius
My Big Brother - Tracy Lanius <Kristewithane@comcast.net>
Goodlettsville, TN USA - Saturday, October 31, 2009 9:44 AM CDT
Happy Birthday Sunshine Boy! Oh how I miss you too....your mom's journal entry has me crying here. She is one awesome lady and you were so blessed to have her as your mom and she was so blessed to have you as her sweet, kind, caring, loving, son. Connor you will NEVER be forgotten. Tomorrow on All Saints Day I will be placing your picture on a bulletin board at our church and lighting a blessed candle for you, I am sure with tears in my eyes.
I love you and you will forever be in my heart.
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Saturday, October 31, 2009 8:31 AM CDT
Happy Birthday Connor!
Lisa
Mount Juliet, TN USA - Saturday, October 31, 2009 4:42 AM CDT
I have to be honest. I haven't visited Connor's site in probably 2 years. For some reason today, as I get ready to nap before heading out to work.. his name came into my head and I HAD to visit his caringbridge. I remembered the address too!!
I was astonished to see that TOMORROW is his birthday, and Nov 1 marks 5 years that he has left you. I think there is a reason I felt compelled to come to your site right at this moment.
Thinking of you all.
Karin
www.caringbridge.org/visit/canadakarin
Karin
canada - Friday, October 30, 2009 3:53 PM CDT
To All The Hunley Family:
I am thinking of you all as we near Connor's fifteenth birthday and his fifth anniversary. May your faith in God, and in the promises of Christ, and your love for each other sustain and comfort you on these days of remembrance and always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
I am praying the following prayer naming each one of you.
Grant, O Lord, to all who are bereaved, the spirit of faith and courage, that they may have strength to meet the days to come with steadfastness and patience; not sorrowing as those without hope, but in thankful remembrance of your great goodness, and in joyful expectation of eternal life with those they love. And this we ask in the Name of Jesus Christ our Savior. Amen.
~The Book of Common Prayer, Page 505
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, October 30, 2009 12:27 AM CDT
((HUGS))
Jennifer Hartley <hartley1025@verizon.net>
- Friday, October 30, 2009 9:37 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda, Im thinking of you and remembering connor. I pray for strength to endure these anniversaries , as im sure they cant get easier.I hope your doing well, Update the site sometime. Im praying for you as Connor turns 15 tomorrow with Our Lord! Happy Birthday connor! We havent forgotten you! Not ever!
kim <dakk2222@comcast.net>
- Thursday, October 29, 2009 8:38 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I can't believe after almost six years of signing Connor's book regularly that I called you Linda yesterday. I was thinking of Linda Martin and her family, as I wrote to you, and the signer directly in front of me was a Linda, but honestly, I am usually not so silly. I guess you can chalk that error up to hurrying, or maybe what my friend, Father Don, about thirty years older, likes to call a senior moment. Anyway, I am thinking of you, and I did remember Connor in the celebration of the Eucharist and in my thoughts for the holy day yesterday.
We have had some pumpkin pudding today. If I remember correctly, Connor enjoyed the tastes and colors of autumn. He was truly a special boy!
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Almighty God, who called your faithful servants James Hannington and his companions to be witnesses and martyrs in Africa, and by their labors and sufferings raised up a people for your own possession: Pour forth your Holy Spirit upon your Church in every land, that by the service and sacrifice of many, your holy Name may be glorified and your kingdom enlarged; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, October 29, 2009 6:00 PM CDT
Rhonda and Eddie to if you read this, you are in my thoughts every day but especially these few days right now. I always keep you in prayer too
Sharon <sholweger5@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, October 29, 2009 5:26 PM CDT
Dear Linda,
Connor was remembered in Holy Eucharist earlier on this red letter day. My thoughts and prayers are with you, as you approach Connor's birthday and the anniversary of his passing. If you need a listening ear, I am here.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
O God, we thank you for the glorious company of the apostles, and especially on this day for Simon and Jude; and we pray that, as they were faithful and zealous in their mission, so we may with ardent devotion make known the love and mercy of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, October 28, 2009 4:44 PM CDT
Just letting you know that you are in my thoughts and prayers as this difficult weekend approaches.
Linda in PA
- Wednesday, October 28, 2009 12:18 AM CDT
I'm thinking of all of you. I know this week is very hard. I'll continue to keep you in my prayers.
Lisa
Mount Juliet, TN USA - Wednesday, October 28, 2009 11:12 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of you, of Connor, and of all of Connor's friends, family, and fans today. May God bless you all.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
A Thought For Today:
It is always possible to begin behaving as a Christian, or at least more like a true Christian than we have done before.
~William Temple (1881-1944)
Today's Collect:
O God, our heavenly Father, who raised up your faithful servant William Temple to be a bishop and pastor in your Church and to feed your flock: Give abundantly to all pastors the gifts of your Holy Spirit, that they may minister in your household as true servants of Christ and stewards of your divine mysteries; through the same Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the same Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, October 27, 2009 12:42 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
We certainly appreciated the exciting Yankee game yesterday and are glad to see the team we have followed over the years enter the World Series. I do not know if Connor liked baseball, but I do know that he was a Tennessee Titans fan. (Our Bills also won yesterday and last Sunday after a less than glorious early season.) I hope you are finding things to do and to watch that you enjoy as much as we enjoy Yankee baseball.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Collect For The Commemoration Of Alfred The Great, King Of The West Saxons, 26 October 899:
O Sovereign Lord, who brought your servant Alfred to a troubled throne that he might establish peace in a ravaged land and revive learning and the arts among the people: Awake in us also a keen desire to increase our understanding while we are in this world, and an eager longing to reach that endless life where all will be made clear; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, October 26, 2009 5:55 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
As always, you and Connor are a part of my weekend prayers. God bless you both.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Almighty and everlasting God, increase in us the gifts of faith, hope, and charity; and, that we may obtain what you promise, make us love what you command; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, October 25, 2009 2:16 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
It has been raining hard here for the last fifteen hours or so. I had planned to go the Cathedral of All Saints for the enthronement of the boy bishop and his ride through the city of Albany, but it did not seem to be a good idea. Instead, I have spent time with some of the music of the four German composers named in today collect and with hymns of other German composers translated by Catherine Winkworth. I will leave one of Paul Gerhardt hymns below. Since it is a Compline hymn, perhaps you can sing it as the sun goes down some night this week.
God bless you always, and of course God bless your dear sunshine boy.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Almighty God, who through your holy Apostle have taught us to praise you in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs: We give you thanks this day for the gift of writing great hymns which you gave to your servants Philipp Nicolai, Johann Heermann, Paul Gerhardt, and Joachim Neander; and we pray that your Church may never lack those with the gifts of writing words and music to your praise, and may be ever filled with the desire to praise and thank you for your great goodness; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
A Hymn By Paul Gerhardt:
The duteous day now closeth,
each flower and tree reposeth,
shade creeps o'er wild and wood:
let us, as night is falling,
on God our Maker calling,
give thanks to him, the Giver good.
Now all the heavenly splendor
breaks forth in starlight tender
from myriad worlds unknown;
and man, this marvel seeing,
forget his selfish being
for joy of beauty not his own.
His care he drowneth yonder,
lost in the abyss of wonder;
to heaven his soul doth steal:
this life he disesteemeth,
the day it is that dreameth,
that doth from truth his vision seal.
Awhile his mortal blindness
may miss God's lovingkindness
and grope in faithless strife;
but when life's day is over,
shall death's fair night discover
the fields of everlasting life.
Words: Paul Gerhardt, 1648;
trans. Robert Seymour Bridges, 1899
Music: O Welt, ich muß dich lassen
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/t/t118.html
Gratefully. Thankfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, October 24, 2009 9:53 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
During the last 24 hours, I have seen ladybugs five or six times, and when I was speaking with a friend, on the phone, she also had seen ladybugs. They always remind me of Connor. May God bless his sweet spirit.
I am pausing, here, at my keyboard, to pray for you. God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect For The Feast Of James of Jerusalem, Bishop and Martyr (New Testament):
Lord Jesus Christ, who set your brother James on the throne of your church in Jerusalem: Grant that as he continually interceded for the sins of your people, and worked to reconcile in one body both Jew and Gentile; so your Church may give itself continually to prayer and to the reconciliation of all who are at variance and enmity, and may ever be an effectual witness for the salvation of all mankind. Grant this, O Son of Man, who are on the right hand of the Father, in the unity of the Spirit, now and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, October 23, 2009 7:47 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
We are having lovely weather, here, in southern Saratoga County. I have seen kids riding bikes, skateboarding, and playing soccer and football. Of course, we are also gathering apples, pumpkins, and pears and making some delicious treats. I am sure Connor would love every minute of it. I am thinking of you both.
God bless you always, and God bless all of Connor's family, friends, and supporters.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Thinking of the autumn fruit, a line from an apple poem by Joyce Sutphen comes to mind. It is a fun line that would have made Connor smile.
Soon they will be married to butter and live with
cinnamon and sugar, happily ever after.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, October 22, 2009 12:45 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Making snacks for a meeting last night, I thought about the times when I would have to defend meeting food from hungry boys. I am sure, as Connor's mother, you remember those times. Of course, Connor was always a good helper, too. He might have been running the popcorn popper, frosting the cupcakes, cutting out cookies, or making the banana bread. May God bless your sweet sunshine boy today.
I am pausing, here, at my keyboard, to pray for you.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
O God of the nations, who gave to your faithful servant Henry Martyn a brilliant mind, a loving heart, and a gift for languages, that he might translate the Scriptures and other holy writings for the peoples of India and Persia: Inspire in us a love like his, eager to commit both life and talents to you who gave them; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, October 21, 2009 12:07 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Three of today's eight saints were martyred less than 35 miles from our home, at Auriesville, NY, in the Fonda, NY area. Isaac Jogues, the best known, was severely mutilated by the Mohawks, in 1642, at the time of the death of Goupil, but returned after being rescued by Dutch settlers from Albany, to continue teaching the way of Jesus. He and Lalande were murdered in mid-October, 1664. The Auriesville Shrine has been a place of worship and prayer for those of many Christian traditions for over one hundred years. I believe that Connor would have enjoyed a tour of the shrine and learning of these men, and of Kateri Tekakwitha, the Lily of the Mohawks, who was born ten years after the death of the latter two men. After accepting Jesus as Lord, she too was martyred. The collect is below.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Collect For Jesuit Martyrs Of North America 19 October 1646
Antony Daniel, Charles Garnier, Noel Chabanel, Isaac Jogues, John Lalande, John de Brebeuf, Gabriel Lalemant, Rene Goupil:
O Almighty God, by whose grace and power your holy martyrs Antony Daniel, Charles Garnier, Gabriel Lalemant, Isaac Jogues, John de Brebeuf, John Lalande, Noel Chabanel, and Rene Goupil triumphed over suffering and were faithful even to death: Grant us, who now remember them in thanksgiving, to be so faithful in our witness to you in this world, that we may receive with them the crown of life; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, October 20, 2009 3:40 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Connor was remembered in Eucharist over the weekend. We also had a traditional turkey dinner. Since Andrew loves fruit, I had a general fruit salad and an apple based fruit salad. He had several portions and was very happy about the fresh fruit. I wonder what foods Connor would have chosen.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless you sunshine boy.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect (Feast Of St. Luke):
Almighty God, who inspired your servant Luke the physician to declare in the Gospel the love and healing power of your Son: Graciously continue in your Church the same love and power to heal, to the praise and glory of your Name; through your Son Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, October 19, 2009 12:20 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of you, and of Connor, on a cool fall morning. May God bless you both.
As little ones, my boys used to sing about today's saint. "And one was slain by a fierce wild beast." I am sure, if Connor were here, they would have taught him this song. I will leave the full hymn below, as I have previously.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect For Ignatius of Antioch, Bishop and Martyr, 17 October 107:
Almighty God, we praise you for your bishop and martyr Ignatius of Antioch, who offered himself as grain to be ground by the teeth of wild beasts that he might present to you the pure bread of sacrifice. Accept the willing tribute of our lives, and give us a share in the pure and spotless offering of your Son Jesus Christ; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
I Sing A Song Of The Saints Of God
I sing a song of the saints of God,
Patient and brave and true,
Who toiled and fought and lived and died
For the Lord they loved and knew.
And one was a doctor, (Luke)
And one was a queen, (Margaret of Scotland)
And one was a shepherdess on the green: (Joan of Arc)
They were all of them saints of God—and I mean,
God helping, to be one too.
They loved their Lord so dear, so dear,
And his love made them strong;
And they followed the right, for Jesus’ sake,
The whole of their good lives long.
And one was a soldier, (Martin of Tours)
And one was a priest, (John Donne)
And one was slain by a fierce wild beast: (Ignatius)
And there’s not any reason—no, not the least,
Why I shouldn’t be one too.
They lived not only in ages past,
There are hundreds of thousands still,
The world is bright with the joyous saints
Who love to do Jesus’ will.
You can meet them in school, or
In lanes, or at sea,
In church, or in trains, or in shops, or at tea,
For the saints of God are just folk like me,
And I mean to be one too.
Lyrics: Mrs. L.L. (Locket) Scott, (1898-1986) 1929
Music: Grand Isle, By Father John Henry Hopkins (1861-1945)
Hear It At: http://www.geocities.com/rgetman/hymns_list.htm
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, October 17, 2009 10:53 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
If you have a chance to read today's Upper Room, I think the image there of a tree damaged by a storm, but still bearing cones and beauty, may help you. If you cannot find it, email me, as I have saved the complete meditation, which is too long to include here, and I can send you a copy.
I am pausing, here, at my keyboard to remember your sunshine boy and to pray for you and for all of Connor's family.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect (For The Oxford Martyrs):
Keep us, O Lord, constant in faith and zealous in witness, after the examples of your servants Hugh Latimer, Nicholas Ridley, and Thomas Cranmer; that we may live in your fear, die in your favor, and rest in your peace; for the sake of Jesus Christ your Son our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, October 16, 2009 12:12 AM CDT
I'm thinking of you today. I pray for you always.
Lisa
Mount Juliet, TN USA - Thursday, October 15, 2009 9:46 AM CDT
Christ has no body now but yours.
No hands, no feet on earth but yours.
Yours are the eyes through which He looks
compassion on this world.
Christ has no body now on earth but yours.
~St. Teresa Of Avila (1515-1582)
Dear Rhonda,
These words are probably the best known of St. Teresa of Avila. May we remember them today, and may we know that as we live them, we honor Christ our Lord, and we also honor our loved ones who await us in Heaven.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Collect For The Commemoration Of Teresa of Avila, Reformer and Contemplative,15 October 1582:
O God, who by your Holy Spirit moved Teresa of Avila to manifest to your Church the way of perfection: Grant us, we pray, to be nourished by her excellent teaching, and enkindle within us a keen and unquenchable longing for true holiness; through Jesus Christ, the joy of loving hearts, who with you and the Holy Spirit lives and reigns, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
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It is love alone that gives worth to all things.
~Teresa Of Avila
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Truly Connor knew love.
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Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, October 15, 2009 5:28 AM CDT
Rhonda,I know this month weighs heavy on your heart,and its easy to forget about the wonders and miracles that had happened,but,just know that he is taken care of by God now and that all that you did for him,well he is trying to show you the love you showed him,so now, he is looking out for you.You know that sometimes things happen for reasons that we have no clue why,and alot of times we are just too close to see the big picture of things.I dont have a clue why things happened and we may be gone ourselves,before we find out.I dont have first hand experience with losing someone like you did and I wont even try to guess how much you have went through,but I will tell you that you are a very special person and that lots of people love you and find you extraordinary.You had a very special son and lots of people know that he was and that you are a very special mom and thats why people have never forgotten you either.So try to just remember all the good times and just take a deep breath and try to relax a moment.I am the worlds worst for being upset over someone I love so dearly.I just want to remind you of all the good things in life and give you the reminder of that when its time everyone we love will all be together.Please try to stay the course and know that all will be good again soon.I just want you to be happy and I know Connor wants that too.Love is what makes life worth while.Im sure you know all this,I just want you to try to stay happy and focus on the good things in life.Its sort of like when you get a bill in the mail,we dont have the money for it and the next thing,we get another,and another,so we get depressed and tend to forget all the good things in life and start focusing on bad,so dont do that,focus on all the good things and life has a way of taking care of the bills.
KEVIN BRADSHAW <mustang1499@ymail.com>
HICKORY, NC USA - Wednesday, October 14, 2009 10:25 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Andrew was in the mood for pizza last night, so we went to the little Italian restuarant about a mile from our home. They have the best food there including an elegant salad, which comes with the pizza. We certainly enjoyed every bite, and we left with two boxes of leftovers. Our pizza had sausage topping, and often, on such an outing, I wonder what topping Connor would choose. God bless that sunshine boy of yours!
I am pausing, at my keyboard, to pray for you and for all of Connor's loved ones. God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Collect For Edward The Confessor, King, 13 October 1066:
O God, who called your servant Edward to an earthly throne that he might advance your heavenly kingdom, and gave him zeal for your Church and love for your people: Mercifully grant that we who commemorate him this day may be fruitful in good works, and attain to the glorious crown of your saints; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, October 13, 2009 12:17 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Connor was remembered in Eucharist this weekend, as he always is. We were also busy participating in the town's free recycling program and cleaning up our yard. Watching Andrew with the lawn tractor reminded me of the photo of Connor driving the big tractor.
I hope you are safe and well and enjoying the final day of this Columbus holiday.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect For Wilfrid, Archbishop of York 12 October 709:
Heavenly Father, Shepherd of your people, we thank you for your servant Wilfrid, who was faithful in the care and nurture of your flock; and we pray that, following his example and the teaching of his holy life, we may by your grace grow into the stature of the fulness of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, October 12, 2009 7:36 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I have been noticing Halloween cards and costume items in the stores for several weeks now. Since Connor's birthday was on Halloween, I imagine Connor planned his Halloween celebrations for weeks in advance. I am sure he was often excited just thinking about where he would go and what he would wear. I have seen the picture of a very young Connor dressed as a puppy. One of the years I enjoyed most with my boys is when they both wanted to be firemen. They were really cute with their little stick on mustaches, boots, helmets, and raincoats. I can pretty much tell people what they wore at each age, just as I am sure you know what Connor wore each Halloween. May thinking of those costumes, activities, and Connor's birthday cakes bring a smile to your face and cheer to your heart today.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Collect For Paulinus, Missionary, First Archbishop of York,
10 October 644:
Almighty and everlasting God, we thank you for your servant Paulinus, whom you called to preach the Gospel to the people of northern England. Raise up in this and every land evangelists and heralds of your kingdom, that your Church may proclaim the unsearchable riches of our Savior Jesus Christ; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, October 10, 2009 3:34 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
In coming home from Eucharist, healing, and dinner at church last night, I was thinking of how much my boys always loved to eat at church. The more food the better. I think Connor probably enjoyed an abundant table like that as well. May God bless your sunshine boy today and always.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Collect For The Commemoration Of Robert Grosseteste 9 October 1253:
O God our heavenly Father, who raised up your faithful servant Robert Grosseteste to be a bishop and pastor in your Church and to feed your flock: Give to all pastors abundant gifts of your Holy Spirit, that they may minister in your household as true servants of Christ and stewards of your divine mysteries; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, October 9, 2009 5:44 AM CDT
This is so sad Rhonda..I hate seeing a child go through something like this.Prayer to the family and thanks for sharing this with us.
Ricky L Shrum <rickyshrum@att.net>
Murfreesboro, Tn USA - Thursday, October 8, 2009 5:51 PM CDT
Sorrow looks back,
Worry looks around,
Faith looks up.
~Ralph Waldo Emerson
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of you and remembering sweet Connor on a beautiful autumn day. I hope you, and all of Connor's loved ones, are well and content.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, October 8, 2009 11:54 AM CDT
Thinking of you and sending love and prayers from Scotland, Rosi
www.caringbridge.org/hi/kayla
Rosi Pullin <rosipullin@hotmail.com>
Glasgow, - Wednesday, October 7, 2009 5:52 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of you on a very windy day. I hope you are safe, well, and content.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Collect For Henry Melchior Muhlenberg, Patriarch of American Lutherans, 7 October 1787:
Heavenly Father, Shepherd of your people, we thank you for your servant Henry Melchior Muhlenberg, who was faithful in the care and nurture of your flock; and we pray that, following his example and the teaching of his holy life, we my by your grace grow into the stature of the fullness of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, October 7, 2009 2:37 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I have been doing some study of the three martyrs, who are remembered today. For me, their stories are complicated, and we may both ask what they have to do with Connor. There is a link, which is found in More's words before his death in which he trusts that all of God's people will "merrily meet" in heaven. May your faith tell you that that is so, even today, even this moment, as you read of it.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley, who waits for you in the glorious kingdom.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
"More I have not to say, my lords, but that like as the blessed Apostle St. Paul, as we read in the Acts of the Apostles, was present and consented to the death of St. Stephen, and kept their clothes that stoned him to death, and yet they be now both twain holy saints in Heaven, and shall continue there friends for ever, so I verily trust, and shall right heartily pray, that though your lordships have now here in earth been Judges to my condemnation, we may yet hereafter in Heaven right merrily all meet together, to our everlasting salvation. And thus I desire Almighty God to preserve and defend the King's Majesty, and to send him good counsel."
~Thomas More's closing words to the court that sentenced him to death.
Today's Collect:
Almighty God, who gave your servants Thomas More, John Fisher, and William Tyndale boldness to confess the name of our Saviour Jesus Christ before the rulers of this world, and courage to die for this faith: Grant that we may also be ever ready to give a reason for the hope that is in us, and to suffer gladly for the sake of our Lord Jesus Christ, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and ever. Amen.
Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, October 6, 2009 9:30 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Last night, I attended a Story Sunday at the Glen Sanders Mansion, in Scotia. The featured teller was Motoko, originally from Japan, and now from Amherst, Massachusetts. She does a lot with mime and she tells about growing up in Japan, traditional Japanese tales, and stories of raising her son, Charlie. If you were in the area, I would love to take you to one of our Story Sundays.
As with every day, I am thinking of you and of Connor.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
We praise your name, O God, for all the dedicated women from the time of the apostles down to the present, who have undertaken to minister in the name of Christ to the needs of the church and of the world; and we thank you for moving your servants Theodor Fliedner and William Passavant to recognize their calling, and to work for its formal recognition; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, October 5, 2009 10:18 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Early on Sunday morning, I am sending you greetings. Connor was remembered in Holy Eucharist Saturday afternoon and will also be remembered in some of my other activities in honor of St. Francis.
God bless you always, and God bless Connor and all of the animals he loved.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Hymn Based On Writing Of St. Francis:
All creatures of our God and King,
lift up your voices, let us sing:
Alleluia, alleluia!
Thou burning sun with golden beams,
thou silver moon that gently gleams,
Refrain:
O praise him, O praise him,
Alleluia, alleluia, alleluia!
Thou rushing wind that art so strong,
ye clouds that sail in heaven along,
O praise him, Alleluia!
Thou rising morn, in praise rejoice,
ye lights of evening, find a voice, (R)
Thou flowing water, pure and clear,
make music for thy Lord to hear,
Alleluia, alleluia!
Thou fire so masterful and bright,
that givest man both warmth and light, (R)
Dear mother earth, who day by day
unfoldest blessings on our way,
O praise him, Alleluia!
The flowers and fruits that in thee grow,
let them his glory also show: (R)
And all ye men of tender heart,
forgiving others, take your part,
O sing ye Alleluia!
Ye who long pain and sorrow bear,
praise God and on him cast your care: (R)
And thou, most kind and gentle death,
waiting to hush our latest breath,
O praise him, Alleluia!
Thou leadest home the child of God,
and Christ our Lord the way hath trod: (R)
Let all things their Creator bless,
and worship him in humbleness,
O praise him, Alleluia!
Praise, praise the Father, praise the Son,
and praise the Spirit, Three in One: (R)
Words: after Francis of Assisi (1182-1226);
paraphrase of "Canticle of the Sun" by Francis of Assisi.
Music: Lasst uns erfreuen, 1623
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/a/a100.html
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, October 4, 2009 7:06 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I believe Connor would love this weekend, as many parishes are having ceremonies of blessing of animals in honor of St. Francis of Assisi. At St. George's, we will do it on Sunday afternoon, but the rite will be done today, at our Spiritual Life Center, near Greenwich, and at the Cathedral of All Saints, in Albany. I imagine we will have a goodly assortment of cats and dogs and a few cages of birds here, in Clifton Park, with perhaps a couple of horse trailers and maybe a few sheep and goats. However, in New York City, at the Cathedral of St. John the Divine, the entry procession will include elephants, camels, and other exotic creatures. Connor would be so impressed!
I hope you are well and continuing to celebrate your birthday.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless Connor.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
If we endure things patiently and with gladness thinking on the sufferings of our blessed Lord, and bearing all for the love of Him: herein is perfect joy.
~St. Francis Of Assisi
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The Collect:
The Collect For St. Francis Of Assisi:
Most high, omnipotent, good Lord, grant your people grace gladly to renounce the vanities of this world; that, following the way of blessed Francis, we may for love of you delight in your whole creation with perfect joy; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, October 3, 2009 4:06 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Happy Belated Birthday! I hope you had a chance to relax and renew this week. We're thinking of you in NH as we watch the leaves start to turn and the leaf-peepers (tourists :-)) come out in full force. But there are still dahlias, hydrangeas, and herbs in the garden and I haven't picked the last of the jalapenos off the plants, so summer's not quite over yet!
Sending you a day filled with blue skies, abundant sunshine, and beautiful colors...
Deb
Litchfield, NH USA - Friday, October 2, 2009 7:02 PM CDT
Happy Birthday, Plus One!
Dear Rhonda,
In our family, we continue the joy of a birthday, for a few days, by saying plus one, or plus another number. Since your birthday was a Thursday this year, I hope you can celebrate more over the weekend.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless Connor and all of his family, friends, and supporters.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
A Collect For Fridays:
Almighty God, whose most dear Son went not up to joy but
first he suffered pain, and entered not into glory before he
was crucified: Mercifully grant that we, walking in the way
of the cross, may find it none other than the way of life and
peace; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord. Amen.
The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 99
Written By William Reed Huntington (1838-1909)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, October 2, 2009 2:04 AM CDT
Happy bday, Rhonda!! Hope all is well.
Lori P <hayden01@tds.net>
Mt Juliet, TN - Thursday, October 1, 2009 6:40 PM CDT
HAPPY BIRTHDAY, RHONDA! Sending you love and hugs and wishes for a wonderful year. Linda
Linda Champa <lachampa@mintz.com (Audrey's Umbrella)>
Boston, MA USA - Thursday, October 1, 2009 11:17 AM CDT
Happy Birthday, Rhonda.
prayers and love from Mrs. Pam
- Thursday, October 1, 2009 9:43 AM CDT
Good Morning Rhonda,
My entry is two fold today...one to wish you a VERY HAPPY BIRTHDAY and the other to let you know that I am thinking of your sunshine boy, especially on this day the first of the month, and your birthday. I hope he sends you a birthday sign in one form or another. I know he is in Heaven beaming down on you. He is forever in your heart and forever in mine. I will always be grateful that you shared him with me, he was truly an inspiration!
God Bless,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Thursday, October 1, 2009 6:25 AM CDT
A THOUGHT FOR TODAY:
Today you are You,
that is truer than true.
There is no one alive
who is Youer than You.
~Dr. Seuss, Author And Illustrator (1904-1991)
From His Book, Happy Birthday To You!
Dear Rhonda,
Happy Birthday! May today, and the days ahead, be filled with grace, peace, and encouragement. I also hope you have some gifts, many cards, and some cake and ice cream.
Today I am thinking of the family of your birth. May God bless your mother, her husband, your brothers, and Tabitha. I hope you can spend some time with them soon.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Prayer For A Birthday:
O God, our times are in your hand: Look with favor, we pray, on you servant, Rhonda, as she begins another year. Grant that she may grow in wisdom and grace, and strengthen her trust in your goodness all the days of her life; through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 811
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, October 1, 2009 0:32 AM CDT
Still thinking of you and Angel Connor. I hope you have peace in your life as I pray for you.
Lori P <hayden01@tds.net>
Mt Juliet, TN - Wednesday, September 30, 2009 3:41 PM CDT
Rhonda, "It's Birthday Eve!"
Dear Rhonda,
We use the three words above in our family on the day before a birthday. It is with the greatest of pleasure that I say them to Connor's forever mother today. I also send you a big hug.
May God bless you always, and of course, may God bless your sweet sunshine boy, too.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Collect For Jerome, Scholar, Translator, and Theologian
30 September 420:
O Lord, O God of truth, whose Word is a lantern to our feet and a light upon our path: We give you thanks for your servant Jerome, and those who, following in his steps, have labored to render the Holy Scriptures in the language of the people; and we pray that your Holy Spirit will overshadow us as we read the written Word, and that Christ, the living Word, will transform us according to your righteous will; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, September 30, 2009 0:42 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I am remembering Connor and thinking of you on this holy day of Michaelmas. May God bless you both.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect For The Feast Of St. Michael And All Angels:
Everlasting God, who have ordained and constituted in a wonderful order the ministries of angels and mortals: Mercifully grant that, as your holy angels always serve and worship you in heaven, so by your appointment they may help and defend us here on earth; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, September 29, 2009 11:44 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I have been thinking of you, and of Connor, on a busy and rainy early fall day. I hope you are doing well and enjoying the best of the autumn season.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect (For Vincent De Paul, Helper Of The Poor):
Almighty God, who called your servant Vincent de Paul to serve you in the person of those in need: Grant that we, following his example, may fulfil your commandments by defending and supporting the poor, and by loving you with all our hearts, through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, September 28, 2009 4:49 PM CDT
I've been thinking about you. I hope you are doing ok. I've always wondered...the picture of Connor in the water. Is he looking for crawdads in Gatlinburg? You can tell he's having a great time! I know October is extra hard for you. I hope Connor can send you many special signs.
Lisa
Mount Juliet, TN USA - Monday, September 28, 2009 3:30 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I thought of you, and of your sunshine boy, several times, during morning Eucharist today. God bless you both.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, September 27, 2009 1:56 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I served as lector at Eucharist this afternoon. While at St. George's, I remembered you and sweet Connor in my prayers, as I gazed at the Jesus and the Children stained glass window. If you were here, you would be eligible for your birthday prayer at any of our weekend services (today or tomorrow), as your birthday is coming up in a few days. May it be a very happy one, and may you have an entire week full of blessings.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect:
O God, you declare your almighty power chiefly in showing mercy and pity: Grant us the fullness of your grace, that we, running to obtain your promises, may become partakers of your heavenly treasure; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, September 26, 2009 10:57 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of you, and remembering Connor, on another Friday morning. I hope you are doing well and enjoying these early autumn days.
I believe Connor would appreciate today's saint. Sergius enjoyed the outdoors, and like Holy Francis of Assisi, Sergius attracted animals to his presence. I will leave the collect below.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect For Sergius, Abbot Of Holy Trinity, 25 September 1392:
O God, whose blessed Son became poor that we through his poverty might be rich: Deliver us from an inordinate love of this world, that we, inspired by the devotion of your servant Sergius of Moscow, may serve you with singleness of heart, and attain to the riches of the age to come; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
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A Collect For Fridays:
Almighty God, whose most dear Son went not up to joy but
first he suffered pain, and entered not into glory before he
was crucified: Mercifully grant that we, walking in the way
of the cross, may find it none other than the way of life and
peace; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord. Amen.
The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 99
Written By William Reed Huntington (1838-1909)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, September 25, 2009 7:33 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I have just been viewing some of Connor's pictures. Connor certainly was a smiler! It is wonderful that you have left Connor's site up, so his friends, no matter what computer they are on, can see his pictures, whenever we wish.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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Everytime you smile at someone, it is an action of love, a gift to that person, a beautiful thing.
~Mother Teresa
Connor gave his smiles abundantly to all, but especially to you. What precious things those smiles were!
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, September 24, 2009 11:46 AM CDT
As I look through the photos of you and Connor,I know that each minute you two had together was extraordinary,I know the love you have for him is tremendous.I have to think about these things,although life seems unfair and is.I feel you tried to give him a lifetime of love in the short time he was here.I know you and him had a special life and Im sure he knew that and thats why he tried so hard to protect you from his fate.I would have been honored to know him personally.People have to fight for things they want and others appreciate the fight and honor the fight that they went through,knowing how hard the struggle for them had to be,and for all those involved.I am deeply touched by all the love you have shown and all the pain you have went through.Just know life brought you alot of joy through him to you and you will be back together one day.I also feel he is your guardian angel and will look over you.The signs he sends you,show how much love he wants to give you back.I hope you know that there are others in your life that have a tremendous love for you as well and that you are loved like you loved him.So try to have a wonderful day and know that you are loved.
Kevin Brian Bradshaw <mustang1499@ymail.com>
Hickory, nc United States - Thursday, September 24, 2009 7:30 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Today would have been Cheyenne's eighteenth birthday. I often think of Connor and Cheyenne together, as so many things were similar in their lives and as I learned of her here, on Connor's website. May God bless them both.
I am pausing, here at my keyboard, to pray for you and for all of Connor's loved ones.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, September 23, 2009 4:16 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
As autumn begins, I am thinking of you and of Connor. I hope you enjoy this season of color and of harvest.
Below I am adding a favorite seasonal poem. I hope you find a blessing in it.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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The summer yields to the autumn winds blowing
While the cool burns the leaves golden red
We harvest fields we planted once knowing
Grains of truth would soon come to a head.
Mystery Healer, I feel your hand above my brow
Into your love I bow.
Again dreams seeming hard to remember
Alluring sleep ever taking its toll
Love redeems like the snows of December
Pure and deep as the infinite soul.
Mystery Healer, I feel your hand above my brow
Into your love I bow.
To meadowlands of the soul's flowering
We return from the roots we have sprung
To understand love we know is empowering
Though we learn from the truth where love hung.
Mystery Healer, I feel your hand above my brow
Into your love I bow.
~Chris Van Cleave (American musician and songwriter)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, September 22, 2009 4:07 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I am hurrying around today, but I do want to say a quick, "Hello!" to you and to remind you that I am thinking of you, and of sweet Connor, as usual.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect (Feast of St. Matthew, A Red Letter Day):
We thank you, heavenly Father, for the witness of your apostle and evangelist Matthew to the Gospel of your Son our Savior; and we pray that, after his example, we may with ready wills and hearts obey the calling of our Lord to follow him; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, September 21, 2009 11:25 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Once again, your sunshine boy has been remembered in Holy Eucharist. I sat near the Resurrection/New Life window, where the depicted deer often reminds me of Connor and of his great love for all animals. May God bless him, and you, always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
Colette
Today's Collect:
Grant us, Lord, not to be anxious about earthly things, but to love things heavenly; and even now, while we are placed among things that are passing away, to hold fast to those that shall endure; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 234
This is one of my all time favorite collects. Perhaps we can all use it throughout the week.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, September 20, 2009 11:12 AM CDT
God has so much rich treasure hidden in the bible and in the Spirit and life in Christ with peace and harmony in good future and joy,be thanksful and win and be glad for he is coming,thanks and bless and pray,keijo sweden
keijo <keijo.leppioja@hotmail.com>
sweden - Sunday, September 20, 2009 2:21 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Nearby Troy is beginning its octave of Quadricentennial Celebration today. This event marks the 400th anniversary of Henry Hudson's voyage up the Hudson. Each day has a theme related to an early family or business, or to one of the years ending in 09. Andrew hopes to go over, at least once, and I am sure your sunshine boy would also enjoy the events, foods, and music, if he were here.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless Connor.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Collect For The Commemoration Of Theodore Of Tarsus, Archbishop Of Canterbury, 19 September 690:
Almighty God, who called your servant Theodore of Tarsus from Rome to the see of Canterbury, and gave him gifts of grace and wisdom to establish unity where there had been division, and order where there had been chaos: Create in thy Church, we pray, by the operation of the Holy Spirit, such godly union and concord that it may proclaim, both by word and example, the Gospel of the Prince of Peace; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, September 19, 2009 4:04 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Today is a beautiful, sunny late summer day, the kind that your sweet sunshine boy would love. School is out for the weekend, and I imagine, if he could, that Connor would be riding his bike, playing outside with his pets, and maybe with his potato gun, or zooming in his go-cart. May thoughts of an active, healthy Connor bless your heart today, for that is how he is in heaven.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Grant, O God, that in all time of our testing we may know your presence and obey your will; that, following the examples of your servants Edward Pusey, Richard Froude, John Keble, and John Newman, we may with integrity and courage accomplish what you give us to do, and endure what you give us to bear; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Edward B. Pusey died 18 September, 1882. The others, named in the collect, passed into eternity between 1836 and 1890.)
Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, September 18, 2009 2:58 PM CDT
11 Look at the rainbow, and praise him who made it;
it is exceedingly beautiful in its brightness.
12 It encircles the sky with its glorious arc;
the hands of the Most High have stretched it out.
~Ecclesiasticus 43: 11-12 (also known as Sirach 43: 11-12)
Dear Rhonda,
As I read these verses, a part of the reading appointed for today, I think of you, of your sweet sunshine boy, and of many rainbows observed. Several poems and songs, mentioning these arcs of color, also come to mind, as well as many Scripture passages. Truly there is promise of blessing for you and for Connor in this symbol.
An Irish blessing comes to mind, as well. I leave it for you.
May God give you for every storm a rainbow, for every tear a smile, for every care a promise and a blessing in each trial. For every problem life sends, a faithful friend to share, for every sigh a sweet song, and an answer for each prayer.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Collect For Hildegard of Bingen, Visionary, ("a feather on the breath of God"), 17 September 1179:
O God, by whose grace your servant Hildegard, kindled with the fire of your love, became a burning and shining light in your Church: Grant that we also may be aflame with the spirit of love and discipline, and walk before you as children of light; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, September 17, 2009 7:16 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Email just brought me the news of baby boys born to families in our parish. One child's Christian name is Brennan Patrick, and the other's name is Tate David. For you, all such events remind you of the birth of your own dear Connor Jordan. May that memory bring you joy and peace today.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless Connor.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect: For Ninian of Galloway, Bishop, Missionary to Scotland, 16 September 430:
O God, who by the preaching of your blessed servant and bishop Ninian caused the light of the Gospel to shine in the land of Britain: Grant, we pray, that, having his life and labors in remembrance, we may show our thankfulness by following the example of his zeal and patience; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, September 16, 2009 10:40 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of you and remembering sweet Connor early on another morning. I hope you are well and content.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Almighty God, who moved your servant Dante Alighieri to portray in magificent poetry your steadfast rejection of sin, your loving correction of those who repent, and the joy of abiding in your presence forever: Grant us the grace to acknowledge our sins and to see clearly the utter emptiness of life without you, the grace to amend our lives and to embrace willingly the means by which you perfect us in holiness and love for you, and the grace to abide in your will and rejoice in your presence both in this life and in the life to come; the which we ask through Jesus Christ our Savior, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, September 15, 2009 1:36 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Last night, we saw a triple feature, at the nearby Malta Drive-In Theater. Being that today is a school day, I would never think of taking a youngster, but we did have fun. Such an outing reminds me of many summer nights, at the drive-in, when my boys were small. I am not sure if Connor ever experienced the drive-in movies, but most kids enjoy them, so I am sure, if he did, that Connor had a good evening.
Today is Holy Cross Day, so I am leaving you the collect and a hymn associated with the day.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless sweet Connor.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect For Holy Cross Day (September 14):
Almighty God, whose Son our Savior Jesus Christ was lifted high upon the cross that he might draw the whole world to himself: Mercifully grant that we, who glory in the mystery of our redemption, may have grace to take up our cross and follow him; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, in glory everlasting. Amen.
Hymn Often Sung On Holy Cross Day:
Refrain:
Lift high the cross,
the love of Christ proclaim
till all the world adore
his sacred Name.
Come, brethren, follow where our Captain trod,
our King victorious, Christ the Son of God. Refrain
Led on their way by this triumphant sign,
the hosts of God in conquering ranks combine. Refrain
Each newborn soldier of the Crucified
bears on the brow the seal of him who died. Refrain
This is the sign which Satan's legions fear
and angels veil their faces to rever. Refrain
Saved by this Cross whereon their Lord was slain,
the sons of Adam their lost home regain. Refrain
From north and south, from east and west they raise
in growing unison their songs of praise. Refrain
O Lord, once lifted on the glorious tree,
as thou hast promised, draw the world to thee. Refrain
Let every race and every language tell
of him who saves our souls from death and hell. Refrain
From farthest regions let their homage bring,
and on his Cross adore their Savior King. Refrain
Set up thy throne, that earth's despair may cease
beneath the shadow of its healing peace. Refrain
For thy blest Cross which doth for all atone
creation's praises rise before thy throne.
Refrain Words: George William Kitchen and Michael Robert Newbolt, 1916
Music: Crucifer: Sydney Hugo Nicholson (1875-1947)
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/l/l118.htmlhttp://www.oremus.org/hymnal/l/l118.html
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, September 14, 2009 10:58 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Connor was remembered in Eucharist both on Saturday and on Sunday of this week-end. After the principle service today, we had our annual parish picnic, featuring our traditional "mile long" serving table. I know Connor would have enjoyed that wonderful spread of food.
As always, my thoughts and prayers are with you.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
O God, because without you we are not able to please you, mercifully grant that your Holy Spirit may in all things direct and rule our hearts; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, September 13, 2009 2:00 PM CDT
Rhonda, I think of you and Connor often. You are ALWAYS in my prayers. I light a candle for both of you every Sunday in church. God Bless you both and I hope this finds you well. You may contact me if you wish using my e mail addres.
Ken
Ken Sartini <Sars300@aol.com>
- Sunday, September 13, 2009 8:12 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of you, of Connor, and of your whole family, on a beautiful September morning. Autumn fragrances and football are in the air.
Today's saint is recognized on the national calendar, but he was especially important for the State of New York, so I will be sure to leave the collect below. Hobart personally established many churches and places of learning. The village of Hobart, where our relatives, Dorothy and Bill, live, was named for him, as was Hobart College, in Geneva, New York.
It is said that Bishop Hobart was a short man, with thick glasses. He was not the kind of person from whom one would expect greatness. But, like your sunshine boy, Hobart was determined. During his time as Bishop of New York, he made important contacts with the Iroquois Indians, started General Theological Seminary, in New York City, and Geneva College (now called Hobart College), quintupled the number of clergy in the state, helped found over 100 new parishes, wrote tracts that led to better knowledge of the faith among lay people and to a revival of the church in England, and personally confirmed over 15,000 people, largely along the frontier. Let us always remember that ordinary people like John Henry Hobart, and also like you and like me, can, and do, make a difference.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect, Commemoration Of John Henry Hobart, Pioneer Bishop Of New York (1775-1830):
Revive your Church, Lord God of hosts, whenever it falls into complacency and sloth, by raising up devoted leaders, like your servant John Henry Hobart whom we remember this day; and grant that their faith and vigor of mind may awaken your people to your message and their mission; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, September 12, 2009 9:56 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I thought of you, as I read the Upper Room today. I am sending you the last of the meditation, as it speaks to me about the terrible ordeal you have faced in Connor's death. May these words, from a layman, strength and encourage you, and all others, reading them today.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Terrorist attacks, global economic collapse, natural disasters, accidents, illness, and other losses can threaten to crush us, deface us, and tear us to shreds. But can the worst events that we encounter ever destroy our value? After all, whose are we? The Lord says, "I have called you by name, you are mine" (Isa. 43:1). The apostle Paul stressed that nothing "will be able to separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord" (Rom. 8:39).
The Bible tells us that whatever happens, even when the worst has been done, the last word still belongs to God. Nothing that happens can diminish our worth to our God, who holds, sustains, and cherishes us.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, September 11, 2009 9:58 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Early in the morning, on the anniversary of the 9/11 attack, I am thinking of you, of Connor, and of those brave souls that perished in New York City, in Pennsylvania, and at the Pentagon. Among those individuals are two somewhat connected to me. One was a classmate in high school, whose wife was also a classmate, and the other was a priest, who at one time served at Siena College, a few miles from our home. (A prayer of that priest is below.) May God bless your hero, Connor Jordan Hunley, and may God also bless all those, who perished serving others on 9/11/01.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Mychal's Prayer:
Lord, take me where You want me to go;
Let me meet who You want me to meet;
Tell me what You want me to say, and
Keep me out of Your way.
~Written by Franciscan Friar, Mychal F. Judge, killed by debris at age 68, World Trade Center, 11th September 2001
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, September 11, 2009 2:40 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
As always, I am thinking of you and of sweet Connor. I hope all is well with you and with all of Connor's loved ones. If there are specific things I can pray for you, do not hesitate to be in touch.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Almighty and everlasting God, we thank you for your servant Alexander Crummell, whom you called to preach the Gospel to those who were far off and to those who were near. Raise up in this and every land evangelists and heralds of your kingdom, that your Church may proclaim the unsearchable riches of our Savior Jesus Christ, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, September 10, 2009 2:31 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Connor was remembered in Eucharist this morning. If he were living and residing in New York, he would have been on his way to eighth grade this morning. There, in Tennessee, Connor would have already spent a week, or two, as an upper classman, in middle school. I know that Connor would have been handsome, eager, funny, helpful, and kind to all.
May your thoughts of your sweet sunshine boy be full of peace and assurance that you will see Connor again.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
A Prayer For Schools And Colleges:
O Eternal God, bless all schools, colleges, and universities that they may be lively centers for sound learning, new discovery, and the pursuit of wisdom; and grant that those who teach and those who learn may find you to be the source of all truth; through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 824
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, September 9, 2009 3:38 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I am up in the night, so before trying to return to bed, I will sign Connor's guest book. For most children, here, today is the last day before returning to class on Wednesday, a time to label clothing and school supplies and to organize those new backpacks. I am sure, if he were here, Connor would be busy.
Over the weekend, many remembered two medical missionaries, Albert Schweitzer, born in Alsace, Germany, now a part of France, in 1875, and David Livingstone, born in Blantyne, Scotland, in 1813. These two are remembered in early September, because Schweitzer, also a theologian, philosopher, organist, and authority on Bach, died on September 5, 1965. (Livingstone died on May 1, 1873.) Their collects are below.
God bless you always, and God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley, who will always be a part of my thoughts and prayers.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Heavenly Father, whose Son Jesus Christ came, not to be served but to serve: Give us the grace to follow in his footsteps, and to show forth your love by loving and serving our neighbors, and coming, as did Albert Schweitzer, to the rescue of those in need; for the sake of your Son Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Almighty and everlasting God, we thank you for your servant David Livingstone, whom you called to preach the Gospel to the people of Africa. Raise up in this and every land evangelists and heralds of your kingdom, that your Church may proclaim the unsearchable riches of our Savior Jesus Christ; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, September 8, 2009 2:20 AM CDT
Happy Labor Day To All!
Dear Rhonda,
Andrew and I had a busy day today, so we decided to slip into Pizza Hut for the buffet lunch. As always, it was good. Today, they seemed to have an especially appealing selection of items for making a tossed salad, but we also had some pizza, pasta, and bread sticks.
I hope you have had some time to relax during this long weekend.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless Connor.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Collect For Labor Day
Almighty God, you have so linked our lives one with another that all we do affects, for good or ill, all other lives: So guide us in the work we do, that we may do it not for self alone, but for the common good; and, as we seek a proper return for our own labor, make us mindful of the rightful aspirations of other workers, and arouse our concern for those who are out of work; though Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 825
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, September 7, 2009 4:32 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Connor has been remembered in the beauty of holiness once again. I am also pausing, here at my keyboard, to pray for you and for all of Connor's loved ones.
Over the years, I have often read from Mother Teresa. I am leaving a few quotes from her work below. I have selected several that mention smiling and love, as Connor had such a terrific smile and lived a life of giving and receiving love.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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Mother Teresa (1910-1997) Quotes:
Be faithful in small things because it is in them that your strength lies.
Everytime you smile at someone, it is an action of love, a gift to that person, a beautiful thing.
In this life we cannot do great things. We can only do small things with great love.
Kind words can be short and easy to speak, but their echoes are truly endless.
Let us always meet each other with smile, for the smile is the beginning of love.
Love is a fruit in season at all times, and within reach of every hand.
Peace begins with a smile.
Spread love everywhere you go. Let no one ever come to you without leaving happier.
We need to find God, and he cannot be found in noise and restlessness. God is the friend of silence. See how nature - trees, flowers, grass- grows in silence; see the stars, the moon and the sun, how they move in silence... We need silence to be able to touch souls.
We shall never know all the good that a simple smile can do.
Words which do not give the light of Christ increase the darkness.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, September 6, 2009 11:19 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of you, and of your sunshine boy, on a beautiful early September day. I will be holding you both in my prayers, as I serve as lay reader at Eucharist.
Since today is Mother Teresa's twelfth anniversary, I will leave as quote from her below.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Prayer enlarges the heart until it is capable of containing God’s gift of Himself.
~Mother Teresa (1910-1997)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, September 5, 2009 11:53 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Once again, I am thinking of you and of your dear sunshine boy. When my boys were little, if the weather was good, we always had an outdoor outing on this weekend just before our New York schools open. One thing they enjoyed doing was packing a picnic and going to the canal to watch the boats pass through the locks. Sometimes the care taker would invite us to come into the building and watch him work up close. I am sure Connor would have enjoyed seeing the locks raise and lower the boats and waving to the people aboard.
May your memories of Labor Day Weekends spent with Connor comfort and sustain you.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Prayer For Labor Day
On this weekend, when we rest from our usual labors, loving Father, we pray for all who shoulder the tasks of human labor—in the marketplace, in factories and offices, in the professions, and in family living.
We thank you, Lord, for the gift and opportunity of work; may our efforts always be pure of heart, for the good of others and the glory of your name.
We lift up to you all who long for just employment and those who work to defend the rights and needs of workers everywhere.
May those of us who are now retired always remember that we still make a valuable contribution to our Church and our world by our prayers and deeds of charity.
May our working and our resting all give praise to you until the day we share together in eternal rest with all our departed in your Kingdom as you live and reign Father, Son, and Holy Spirit, one God, forever and ever. Amen.
~As Shared By The Archdiocese Of Detroit (Roman Catholic)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, September 4, 2009 9:43 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Once again, I have viewed pictures of your sweet sunshine boy today. It is wonderful of you to keep Connor's site up, so all of his friends can view his photos whenever and wherever we are. Thank you for being so thoughtful.
May God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect (From The Lutheran Calendar), For The Commemoration Of Nikolai Grundtvig 3 September 1872:
Almighty God, we praise you for the men and women you have sent to call the Church to its tasks and renew its life, such as your servant Nikolai Grundtvig. Raise up in our own day teachers and prophets inspired by your Spirit, whose voices will give strength to your Church and proclaim the reality of your kingdom; through your Son, Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, September 3, 2009 4:20 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Your sunshine boy was in my thoughts soon after I awoke this morning. Connor's legacy of good humor, bravery, and living each day to its fullest continues and is strong. May God bless him always.
I hope you are enjoying these early September days. There is one small patch of autumn orange on the tree outside my bedroom window.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Almighty God, we remember before you this day the blessed martyrs of New Guinea, who, following the example of their Savior, laid down their lives for their friends; and we pray that we, who honor their memory, may imitate their loyalty and faith; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, September 2, 2009 11:44 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
It has been brought to my attention that I forgot to write in Connor's guestbook on the first day of the month. Sweet Colette, who is so faithful in writing each day to you missed my post and e mailed me to see if I was okay as she knows we have lots happening here with Dave's sibblings having serious health problems etc. etc. (Thank you Colette for caring)
I am so sorry I forgot to write...I even had my calendar marked, all I can say is it is brain over load, and please accept my heartfelt appologies. You know I will NEVER forget your little sunshine boy who brightened my life and taught me how to live it to the fullest! I love him and always will.
God Bless my friend,
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Wednesday, September 2, 2009 6:48 AM CDT
Hi Rhonda,
It's a lovely day, filled with bright sunshine here in New Hampshire. I'm thinking of you and your sunshine boy...
Deb <deb@endyke.com>
Litchfield, NH USA - Tuesday, September 1, 2009 3:12 PM CDT
Just want you to know,I am thinking about you,I hate so very much that Connor went through all he did,such an awesome child,I cant tell you how much I hate all that happened,I can tell you that I feel you made such a difference in his life and that you were there for him and that you enriched his life and made him happy.You are such an incredible lady and I know everyone knows that.
Kevin Brian Bradshaw <mustang1499@ymail.com>
Hickory, nc United States - Tuesday, September 1, 2009 8:37 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of you, and remembering your beautiful Connor, on another first of the month.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The person who has lived the most is not the one who has lived the longest, but the one with the richest experiences.
~Jean-Jacques Rousseau
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, September 1, 2009 2:21 AM CDT
Hey, Rhonda. I just want you to know that I am thinking about you.
Lisa
Mount Juliet, TN USA - Monday, August 31, 2009 6:02 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
This weekend, I attended the ordination of the gal who served as youth minister, at St. George's, when my sons were teens. Our former rector, Father Bill, presented Jennifer to her current and future bishops, for the laying on of hands. A most tasty buffet dinner followed.
It is a shame that Connor did not live long enough to be a part of a youth group, but his life was full and happy, due to your love, energy, and commitment, and due the goodness of many other relatives, friends, and supporters. He was able to visit the Disney park in Florida, rode his bike, drove a tractor, had pets, and even zoomed in his go-cart. I am sure Connor is now experiencing joys in heaven that we cannot possibly imagine.
May you smile today, as you think of Connor living with our God of grace, power, love, and abundance.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless Connor and all of his other loved ones, friends, and supporters.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Lord of all power and might, the author and giver of all good things: Graft in our hearts the love of your Name; increase in us true religion; nourish us with all goodness; and bring forth in us the fruit of good works; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God for ever and ever. Amen.
The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 233
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, August 30, 2009 5:46 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Today's thought from the Nouwen Society is one I am sure you often find true in your own experience. I am including the words of Henri Nouwen below.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
The Companionship of the Dead
By Henri J.M. Nouwen (1932-1996)
As we grow older we have more and more people to remember, people who have died before us. It is very important to remember those who have loved us and those we have loved. Remembering them means letting their spirits inspire us in our daily lives. They can become part of our spiritual communities and gently help us as we make decisions on our journeys. Parents, spouses, children, and friends can become true spiritual companions after they have died. Sometimes they can become even more intimate to us after death than when they were with us in life.
Remembering the dead is choosing their ongoing companionship.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, August 29, 2009 11:21 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Today's collect reminds me of many visits to St. Stephen's Church, Philadelphia, which houses a congregation of people from Camden and Philadelphia, who are deaf. I have enjoyed participating in their beautifully signed liturgy and in their coffee hours.
When my boys were young, we had a membership in the New York State Youth Theater. When I could, we would attend the signed performances, as it gave an added dimension to the viewing the plays. My boys were interested in American Sign Language and in Native American Sign Language, as I am sure Connor would have been.
May memories of your golden sunshine boy be sweet this day and always.
God bless you.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
O loving God, whose will it is that everyone should come to you and be saved: We bless your Holy Name for your servants Thomas Gallaudet and Henry Winter Syle, whose labors with and for those who are deaf we commemorate today; and we pray that you will continually move your Church to respond in love to the needs of all people; through Jesus Christ, who opened the ears of the deaf, and who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, August 27, 2009 9:21 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
It is so good to see Deb's entry in Connor's book. Yes, we do live near Troy, where Deb's son, Kyle, is a freshman, at Rensselaer. Kyle must be very bright, as only the sharpest students have a chance to be attend there. I know you join me in wishing Kyle all the best.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, August 27, 2009 0:02 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
It has been a while since I've signed your guest book, and I hope you are doing well. We've been busy packing Kyle off to college at Rensselaer Polytechnic Institute in Troy, NY, about a half hour away from where Colette lives. He is in the Navy ROTC program and will play football this fall for the Engineers. Laura is now a sophomore at Bishop Guertin High School and is missing her brother very much.
I hope that Connor continues to send signs of his love for you. He is not forgotten here in New Hampshire.
Deb <endyke@speakeasy.net>
Litchfield, NH USA - Wednesday, August 26, 2009 4:07 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
As the summer vacation comes to a close and the students begin returning to their classrooms, I am thinking of you and of Connor. I know this must be a sad and lonely time for you, and so my thoughts and prayers are with you.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Collect For Louis 1X, King Of France, 25 August 1270:
O God, who called your servant Louis of France to an earthly throne that he might advance your heavenly kingdom, and gave him zeal for your Church and love for your people: Mercifully grant that we who commemorate him this day may be fruitful in good works, and attain to the glorious crown of your saints; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, August 25, 2009 3:43 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
This holy day always makes me smile, as one Christmas my boys gave me a soft, white Teddy bear, which I named Thomas Bartholomew. We certainly had years of fun with that toy! May sweet remembrances of family toys, during Connor's childhood, bring a smile to your heart this week.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Almighty and everlasting God, who gave to your apostle Bartholomew grace truly to believe and to preach your Word: Grant that your Church may love what he believed and preach what he taught; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, August 24, 2009 11:08 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Once again, I thought I signed Connor's guest book yesterday, but my comments do not appear. Anyway, sweet Connor was remembered in Holy Eucharist, and I prayed for you, there, in the beauty of holiness.
God bless you, Connor, and all of Connor's loved ones.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect For Sunday:
Grant, O merciful God, that your Church, being gathered together in unity by your Holy Spirit, may show forth your power among all peoples, to the glory of your Name; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, August 24, 2009 3:54 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I will be reading at one of the services, at St. George's, this weekend. While there, I will remember Connor, as I always do.
I have been thinking of the topic "joy" this week, so I will leave you some joy quotes from my files. I hope you enjoy them.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless sweet Connor.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Joy is the holy fire that keeps our purpose warm and our intelligence aglow.
~Helen Keller
Joy can be real only if people look upon their life as a service, and have a definite object in life outside themselves and their personal happiness.
~Leo Nikolaevich Tolstoy
Joy does not simply happen to us. We have to choose joy and keep choosing it every day.
~Henri Nouwen
Weeping may endure for a night,
but joy comes in the morning.
~Psalm 30:5
Joy is a mystery because it can happen anywhere, anytime, even under the most unpromising circumstances, even in the midst of suffering, with tears in its eyes.
~Frederich Buechner
Joy is not a feeling in us. Joy does not enter into us. We enter into joy: “Enter into the joy of your Lord” (Mt 25:21).
~Peter Kreeft, in Making Sense Out of Suffering
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Heavenly Father,
we thank you that by water and the Holy Spirit
you have bestowed upon us the forgiveness of sin,
and have raised us to the new life of grace.
Sustain us, O Lord, in your Holy Spirit
and renew in us an inquiring and discerning heart,
the courage to will and to persevere,
a spirit to know and to love you,
and the gift of joy and wonder in all your works.
Amen.
~Book of Common Prayer, Page 308, Adapted
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, August 22, 2009 11:25 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I have thought about Connor off and on all day today. His courage, joy, and love were always commendable traits. Truly Connor is now enjoying the peace and plenty of God's eternal kingdom.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Almighty God, who gave your servant Blaise Pascal a great intellect, that he might explore the mysteries of your creation, and who kindled in his heart a love for you and a devotion to your service: Mercifully give us your servants, according to our various callings, gifts of excellence in body, mind, and will, and the grace to use them diligently and to your glory, through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, August 21, 2009 3:15 PM CDT
well,I know he was your pride and joy,as he would have been for anyone,I feel so bad that you and him had to go through it.such a tragedy.We may never know the reasons for it all and maybe its just life,not being fair and all.I know that life isnt fair,I feel we do direct our destiny to a certain point.I wont even try to imagine the pain you have went through,I know i cant.I look and see such sweet wonderful people and know that he was your life,Im sure hes looking over you ,some people think not,just because they dont see them,well you can feel him im sure,just like the wind,you cant see it,but you know its there and you can feel it.just know im thinking about you and everything that happened and my heart is feeling some of your pain.I truely hope nobody else would have to go through what you have,but,you know its life and i know they will.I do know he has a truely wonderful mom,that loved him,you can see it,I am so disappointed in medicene now a days.Its such a damn shame.I just want you to know that i feel that you made his life as wonderful as possible.I see that you loved him and he surely knowed that too and love will make the biggest difference in anyones life.
Kevin Brian Bradshaw <mustang1499@ymail.com>
Hickory, nc United States - Wednesday, August 19, 2009 4:53 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Connor was remembered in Holy Eucharist this morning.
Today's saint is Helena, one in a long list of holy woman, who, like you, influenced her son for good. She is also known for finding the "true cross."
Instead of teaching about Helena, Father Henry chose to teach about yesterday's faithful servant, William Porcher DuBose. Since I left the DuBose collect yesterday, I am leaving the St. Helena collect today.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Almighty God, who called your servant Helena to an earthly throne so that she might advance your heavenly kingdom, and filled her with zeal for your Church and love for your people; Grant to us your people that we may be fruitful in good works, and steadfast in our faith in you, and finally by your mercy may attain everlasting life; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, August 19, 2009 3:50 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
The new baby girl in our extended family is adorable, as most babies are. She has had to return to the hospital for a few days, as she has developed jaundice. I am sure she will be fine soon.
Once again, I am thinking of sweet Connor and praying for you.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Almighty God, who gave to your servant William Porcher DuBose special gifts of grace to understand the Scriptures and to teach the truth as it is in Christ Jesus: Grant that by this teaching we may know you, the one true God, and Jesus Christ whom you have sent; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, August 18, 2009 12:01 AM CDT
Rhonda,you know how I feel about you,I am still upset for your loss,I feel so bad ,he really shouldnt have had to go through this,but,you know life isnt fair,if it was i would have went instead.Im so sorry for it all ,I truely am.
Kevin Brian Bradshaw <mustang1499@ymail.com>
Hickory, nc United States - Monday, August 17, 2009 7:27 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Four Cub Scouts received their God and Family Award, at St. George's, this morning. Two were brothers, Callum and Connor. Of course, that second name always reminds me of your sunshine boy. May God bless those four youngsters, and may God bless Connor Jordan Hunley.
I hope you are well and are having a good weekend.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Almighty God, you have given your only Son to be for us a sacrifice for sin, and also an example of godly life: Give us grace to receive thankfully the fruits of his redeeming work, and to follow daily in the blessed steps of his most holy life; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, August 16, 2009 3:46 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of you, and of Connor, on a day often associated with a mother and her son. You and Connor lived that special closeness that Mary lived with her unique child. May you be blessed today in your thoughts of that.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
O God, who chose the blessed Virgin Mary to be the mother of your incarnate Son: Grant that we, who have been redeemed by his blood, may share with her the glory of your eternal kingdom; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, August 15, 2009 9:15 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Yesterday morning we added a new little girl, Nora Amelia, to our extended family. She is the first grandchild of my cousin, Jim. Hearing about her reminds me of the excitement you and Connor felt about the birth of his cousin, Brett. May God's richest blessings be with them all.
Several years ago, I had the opportunity to travel in Israel and Jordan. I was there for today's feast called The Feast of the Virgin Mary by most Anglicans, the Assumption by most Roman Catholics by most Roman Catholics, and the Dormition by most Eastern Orthodox. Of course, all holy days honoring Mary primarily honor her divine Son. I will place the collect at the bottom of this message.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
O God, who chose the blessed Virgin Mary to be the mother of your incarnate Son: Grant that we, who have been redeemed by his blood, may share with her the glory of your eternal kingdom; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. O God, who have taken to yourself the blessed Virgin Mary, mother of your incarnate Son: Grant that we, who have been redeemed by his blood, may share with her the glory of your eternal kingdom; through your Son Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, August 15, 2009 0:53 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
While at church, earlier today, I remembered Connor in holy Eucharist. May God bless his sweet spirit.
I hope you are doing well and enjoying happy summer days.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Collect For Hippolytus, Bishop, Scholar, And Martyr (12 August 235):
O God, who have enlightened your Church by the teaching of your servant Hippolytus: Enrich us evermore, we pray, with your heavenly grace, and raise up faithful witnesses who by their life and doctrine will set forth the truth of your salvation; through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, August 12, 2009 11:10 PM CDT
omg i just cant see to write hardly,Im so sorry,I know theres nothing I can say to ever make things better
Kevin Brian Bradshaw <mustang1499@ymail.com>
Hickory, nc United States - Wednesday, August 12, 2009 8:14 AM CDT
Place your mind before the mirror of eternity! Place your soul in the brilliance of glory! And transform your entire being into the image of the Godhead Itself through contemplation.
~St. Clare Of Assisi (1194-1253)
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of you on a hot summer day. I believe the old terminology "dog days of summer" would well apply. If Connor were here, no double he would be swimming, or fishing, today.
I hope you, your parents, and all of Connor's loved ones, friends, and supporters are well. Perhaps some are having an ice cream cone or other cool treat. We may go down to De Voe's later, as the flavor of the week is one of my favorites, lemon.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your golden sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect For St. Clare Of Assisi (Clare Offreduccio), 11 August 1253:
O God, whose blessed Son became poor that we through his poverty might be rich: Deliver us from an inordinate love of this world, that we, inspired by the devotion of your servant Clare, may serve you with singleness of heart, and attain to the riches of the age to come; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, August 11, 2009 4:15 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Today's saint, Laurence, was brave in the face of adversity. Connor was also courageous, so today is a good day to remember Connor's bravery and to rejoice in the victory he has won.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Almighty God, who called your deacon Laurence to serve you with deeds of love, and gave him the crown of martyrdom: Grant that we, following his example, may fulfil your commandments by defending and supporting the poor, and by loving you with all our hearts, through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, August 10, 2009 9:20 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Connor was remembered in Holy Eucharist this weekend.
I hope you are well.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Grant to us, Lord, we pray, the spirit to think and do always those things that are right, that we, who cannot exist without you, may by you be enabled to live according to your will; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, August 9, 2009 6:18 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
A phrase from today's collect leaps out at me. It says, "with integrity and courage." How well those words speak of your little hero! It also describes the way you have lived since Connor's passing. May God bless you both.
Today's holy person is John Mason Neale, who suffered much to worship as he believed appropriate. He was a major translator of hymns from Latin, Greek, Russian, and Syrian, into English. He also wrote many hymns including "Good King Wenceslas." I have chosen one of the 45 Neale hymns in our hymnal to leave for you today.
I hope you are well, and I wish you a good weekend.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect For John Mason Neale, 6 August 1866, Commemorated Annually On 7 August, Due To The Major Holy Day Of Our Lord (The Transfiguration) Being 6 August:
Grant, O God, that in all time of our testing we may know your presence and obey your will; that, following the example of your servant John Mason Neale, we may with integrity and courage accomplish what you give us to do, and endure what you give us to bear; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
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O very God of very God,
and very Light of very Light,
whose feet this earth's dark valley trod
that so it might be bright:
Our hopes are weak, our fears are strong,
thick darkness blinds our eyes;
cold is the night; thy people long
that thou, their Sun, wouldst rise.
And even now, though dull and gray,
the east is brightening fast,
and kindling to the perfect day
that never shall be past.
O guide us till our path is done,
and we have reached the shore
where thou, our everlasting Sun,
art shining evermore!
We wait in faith, and turn our face
to where the daylight springs,
till thou shalt come our gloom to chase,
with healing in thy wings.
Words: John Mason Neale, 1846
Music: Bangor
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/o/o685.html
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, August 7, 2009 10:29 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
As I do everyday, I am thinking of your sunshine boy. May God bless his sweet spirit.
I also have been humming and thinking about one of the hymns for the Feast of the Transfiguration for several hours. Then, when I came onto my computer, I found an electronic card, which had an icon for the day. I will leave the collect and the hymn below.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
O God, who on the holy mount revealed to chosen witnesses your well-beloved Son, wonderfully transfigured, in raiment white and glistening: Mercifully grant that we, being delivered from the disquietude of this world, may by faith behold the King in his beauty; who with you, O Father, and you, O Holy Spirit, lives and reigns, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
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Christ upon the mountain peak
stands alone in glory blazing;
let us, if we dare to speak,
with the saints and angels praise him.
Alleluia!
Trembling at his feet we saw
Moses and Elijah speaking.
All the prophets and the Law
shout through them their joyful greeting.
Alleluia!
Swift the cloud of glory came.
God proclaiming in its thunder
Jesus as his Son by name!
Nations cry aloud in wonder!
Alleluia!
This is God's beloved Son!
Law and prophets before him;
first and last and only One,
let creation now adore him!
Alleluia!
Words: Brian A. Wren (born 1936)
Music: Mowsley, Cyril Vincent Taylor (born 1907)
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/c/c109.html
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, August 6, 2009 0:21 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Once again, I am thinking of you and of sweet Connor, while I am at my keyboard. I am pausing to pray for you.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Lord God our King, who by the hand of your servant Oswald lifted up the standard of the cross in the land of Northumbria, that your Gospel might be preached in that land: Plant the standard of the cross in our hearts, and let your grace shine forth in our lives, so that many may be drawn to the knowledge and love of you; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, August 5, 2009 3:25 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I thought I left a message here, in Connor's guest book, yesterday, but it did not seem to post. I don't know why. Since many people know the story of Jesus and Nicodemus, and since I am sure Connor knew John 3:16, I will leave yesterday's collect, as I thought I did then.
Today we remember, John-Baptist Vianney (4 August 1859), better known as the curate of Ars. I will leave his collect at the extreme bottom.
God bless you always, and God bless all of Connor's other family members, his friends, and his supporters.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Yesterday's Collect:
O God, who led the learned scholar and judge Nicodemus to seek for wisdom from the mouth of your Son Jesus Christ, give to all persons, both scholars and others, minds that are open and hearts that are ready to hear the good news of salvation, not rejecting out of hand what seems strange or unfamiliar in it, but carefully studying to understand it; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and ever. Amen.
Today's Collect:
Heavenly Father, Shepherd of your people, we thank you for your servant John, who was faithful in the care and nurture of your flock; and we pray that, following his example and the teaching of his holy life, we may by your grace grow into the stature of the fullness of our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, August 4, 2009 7:47 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Connor has been remembered in Holy Eucharist once again. May God bless his sweet spirit.
We have continued to have rain. We were supposed to go to a rodeo on Friday night, but Friday was another very wet day. Instead, we went to see the movie, "Up." Andrew laughed throughout, and I know Connor would have enjoyed it.
Take care, and have a good week.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
Colette
Today's Collect:
Let your continual mercy, O Lord, cleanse and defend your Church; and, because it cannot continue in safety without your help, protect and govern it always by your goodness; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 232
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, August 2, 2009 11:10 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I have thought of you, and of sweet Connor, many times today. May you have all the grace, hope, comfort, and assurance that you need.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The angels are always near to those who are grieving, to whisper to them that their loved ones are safe in the hand of God.
~Quoted in The Angels' Little Instruction Book by Eileen Elias Freeman, 1994
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, August 1, 2009 9:13 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Thinking of you and a blonde haired sweet heart who captured my heart and remains there FOREVER!
God Bless,
Love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Saturday, August 1, 2009 6:40 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Looking at the picture of Connor on the homepage brings back many happy memories of playing with my boys, in water, when they were of a similar age. However, today, trying to wade with a child would be dangerous, as it is raining hard again. Two days ago, some areas, not far from here, had record amounts of rain, including Kinderhook, which had just under six and a half inches, in about eight hours. They showed pictures on television of men, almost washed away, trying to cross roads, and Kinderhook could get two or three more inches today. Here, near Albany, we will end this July as about number four in the most rainfall category. I hope you are having enough water, but not nearly this much.
As always, I am thinking of you, and of your sunshine boy. God bless you both.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Merciful God, whose servant Joseph of Arimathaea with reverence and godly fear prepared the body of our Lord and Savior for burial, and laid it in his own tomb: Grant to us, your faithful people, grace and courage to love and serve Jesus with sincere devotion all the days of our life; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, July 31, 2009 9:27 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
We finally have a good day, and children are outside on bikes, skates, and skateboards. I know that Connor would be riding his bike and his go-cart, if he could. I certainly think of your dear sunshine boy often, especially when I witness kids on the move or playing with their pets.
I hope you and your parents are well.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Collect For The Commemoration Of William Wilberforce, 30 July 1833:
Let your continual mercy, O Lord, enkindle in your Church the Never-failing gift of love, that, following the example of your servant William Wilberforce, we may have grace to defend the children of the poor, and maintain the cause of those who have no helper; for the sake of him who gave his life for us, your Son our Savior Jesus Christ, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, July 30, 2009 3:08 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Both you and Connor were in my thoughts several times, at Eucharist, this morning. May God bless you both.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
O God, heavenly Father, your Son Jesus Christ enjoyed rest and refreshment in the home of Mary and Martha of Bethany: Give us the will to love you, open our hearts to hear you, and strengthen our hands to serve you in others for his sake; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, July 29, 2009 4:13 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I am hurrying a little today, but I wanted to sign Connor's guest book. I hope you are safe, well, and cool, in this humid weather.
As you know, I enjoy church music. I have just checked out my hymnal to see how much of the music originated with the three men remembered by James E. Kiefer today. Twenty of the hymns are by Bach, which is no surprise, as he is considered the best writer of hymn music ever. Five are from Handel, and one is by Schuetz, although I think I would find many more from him, if I had a Lutheran book. I am sure you and Connor shared Handel's "Joy to the World" many times.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Remembering
J. S. Bach, Musician 28 July 1750
George Frederick Handel, Musician 14 April 1759
Heinrich Schuetz, Musician 6 November 1672
To Learn More, See James Kiefer's Christian Biographies at: http://elvis.rowan.edu/~kilroy/JEK/home.html
Today's Collect:
Almighty God, beautiful in majesty and majestic in holiness, who have taught us in Holy Scripture to sing your praises, and who have given to your servants Johann Sebastian Bach, George Frederick Handel, and Heinrich Schuetz grace to show forth your glory in their music: Be with all your servants who write and make music for your people, that with joy we on earth may glimpse your beauty, and at length may know the inexhaustible richness of your new creation in Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, July 28, 2009 8:55 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I am up in the night, am thinking of Connor, and have paused, here, at my keyboard, to pray for you. God bless you today and every day.
Today marks the occasion of the 100th anniversary of the death of William Reed Huntington, who was for 26 years rector of Grace Church, New York City. His collect, about walking in the way of the cross, is one of my favorites. I often leave it for you on Fridays, and it is also used on the Monday in Holy Week and at the first station in The Way of the Cross. I will leave Huntington's prayer and today's collect below.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
Colette
Almighty God, whose most dear Son went not up to joy but
first he suffered pain, and entered not into glory before he
was crucified: Mercifully grant that we, walking in the way
of the cross, may find it none other than the way of life and
peace; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord. Amen.
~Written By William Reed Huntington (1838-1909)
Today's Collect (July 27):
O Lord our God, we thank you for instilling in the heart of your servant William Reed Huntington a fervent love for your Church and its mission in the world; and we pray that, with unflagging faith in your promises, we may make known to all peoples your blessed gift of eternal life; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, July 27, 2009 3:23 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Connor was remembered in Holy Eucharist, this morning, at St. George's. We also had beautiful flute and piano music, provided by four members of the congregation. I think Connor would have enjoyed it.
Below is the collect. It is one of my favorites. Please pray it with me.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
O God, the protector of all who trust in you, without whom nothing is strong, nothing is holy: Increase and multiply upon us your mercy; that, with you as our ruler and guide, we may so pass through things temporal, that we lose not the things eternal; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, July 26, 2009 1:53 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Today is the Feast of St. James. One of my favorite cousins is a James, now as an adult called Jim, but as a boy, James or Jimmy. I have always loved this name, but when my boys were small, I never told them about it. However, when he was starting third grade, Andrew went up to his teacher and told her, "I have just added James to my name, so now you can call me A.J." (There were a couple of boys in his class who had initial names.) As she told me, she added, "What a rip!" After that point, many of Andrew's elementary school friends, and even a few of the teachers, called him "A.J." Years later, when Andrew was confirmed, he used James as his confirmation name, and I gave him a pocket watch engraved with "Andrew James," and a phrase from the confirmation prayer.
I have always wondered about Connor's name. I am sure there is a story, but I guess you wish to keep it private. There are some things about our children that we, like Mary, ponder in our hearts.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
O gracious God, we remember before you today your servant and apostle James, first among the Twelve to suffer martyrdom for the Name of Jesus Christ; and we pray that you will pour out upon the leaders of your Church that spirit of self-denying service by which alone they may have true authority among your people; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
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By all your saints still striving, for all your saints at rest,
Your holy Name, O Jesus. for evermore be blessed.
You rose, our King victorious, that they might wear the crown
And ever shine in splendor reflected from your throne.
O Lord, for James, we praise you, who fell to Herod's sword.
He drank the cup of suffering and thus fulfilled your word.
Lord, curb our vain impatience for glory and for fame,
Equip us for such sufferings as glorify you Name.
Then let us praise the Father and worship God the Son
And sing to God the Spirit, eternal Three in One,
Till all the ransomed number who stand before the throne
Ascribe all power and glory and praise to God alone.
Words: Horatio Bolton Nelson (1823-1913); ver. Hymnal, 1982
Music: King's Lynn, English melody; adapt. Ralph Vaughan Williams (1872-1958)
or Nyland, Finnish folk melody; adapt. David Evans (1874-1948)
Hear Nyland at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/b/b209a.html
Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, July 25, 2009 5:13 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I have heard that Linda Martin's brother, Parker, died yesterday. I hope Linda is hanging in there, as she, like you, has had a lot to bear in the last few years. If you can, please let Connor's friends know how both you and Linda are doing.
Today's saint is Thomas à Kempis, priest, monk, and spiritual writer, who died in 1471. I will leave a quotation and the collect.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
When God bestows Spiritual comfort, receive it with a grateful heart; but remember that it comes of God's free gift, and not of your own merit. Do not be proud, nor over joyful, nor foolishly presumptuous; rather, be the more humble for this gift, more cautious, and more prudent in all your doings, for this hour will pass, and temptation will follow it. When comfort is withdrawn, do not immediately despair, but humbly and patiently await the will of Heaven; for God is able to restore you to a consolation even richer than before. This is nothing new or strange to those who know the ways of God, for the great Saints and Prophets of old often experienced these changes. ...Indeed, the temptation that precedes is often a sign of comfort to follow. For heavenly comfort is promised to those who have been tried and tempted."To him who overcomes," says God, "I will give to eat of the Tree of Life."
The Collect:
Holy Father, who have nourished and strengthened your Church by the writings of your servant Thomas a Kempis: Grant that we may learn from him to know what we ought to know, to love what we ought to love, to praise what highly pleases you, and always to seek to know and follow your will; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, July 24, 2009 10:00 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
By my side, is a package of silly frog stickers. They remind me of sweet Connor, who was always an animal lover. I wish I could send him a few sheets of these stickers today.
Today's saint, Birgitta of Sweden, 23 July 1373, is known for her Revelations, which are primarily meditations on the Passion of Christ. A passage follows:
Blessed are you, my Lord Jesus Christ. Fearing your passion and death, you poured forth blood from your innocent body like sweat, and still you accomplished your redemption as you desired and gave us the clearest proof of your love for all men.
Eternal blessing be yours, my Lord Jesus Christ, because in your last agony you held out to sinners the hope of pardon, when in your mercy you promised the glory of paradise to the penitent thief.
Blessed may you be, my Lord Jesus Christ. You redeemed our souls with your precious blood and most holy death, and in your mercy you led them from exile back to eternal life.
The Collect:
O God, who by your Holy Spirit give to some the word of wisdom, to others the word of knowledge, and to others the word of faith: We praise your Name for the gifts of grace manifested in your servant Birgitta, and we pray that your Church may never be destitute of such gifts; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who with you and the Holy Spirit lives and reigns, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, July 23, 2009 7:47 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I apologize for not signing Connor's guest book in a few days, but he was remembered in two celebrations of the Eucharist this past weekend, and in a Holy Day Eucharist this morning. Today's collect has always been among my favorites, so I will leave it for you.
I hope you are safe, happy, and content.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Almighty God, whose blessed Son restored Mary Magdalene to health of body and of mind, and called her to be a witness of his resurrection: Mercifully grant that by your grace we may be healed from all our infirmities and know you in the power of his unending life; who with you and the Holy Spirit lives and reigns, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 242
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, July 22, 2009 5:04 PM CDT
Dear Loved Ones of Teresa Kemp
It seems like only yesterday Teresa was s student at RHS and every one was seeing her involved with so many activities and in my keyboarding class.
Taylor was just like her mother when she had Tai Chi in the 5th grade with the senior citizens. She always gave it 100% and had a big smile on her face when she finished each session.
It is indead a pleasure to see students to continue their education--especially in teaching. Teresa was truly "cut out" to be a teacher with all of creative ideas to make learning fun. She could always turn the worst game into somethng positive.
I wish each one of you--Sue, Gary, Christine, Jason, and John--much comfort, peace, and many happy memories of both of these loved ones to get you through the difficult time. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Mary Ann Talbot, RHS Director of Special Services
Mary Ann Talbot <matalbot@embarqmail.com>
Baxter Springs, KS Cherokee - Wednesday, July 22, 2009 5:25 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I put our planned dinner on hold last night, as Andrew really wanted pepperoni pizza. I KNOW you always acted in similar ways when it came to pleasing Connor. Truly you were the best mother he could have had, and truly you are dear to his heart even now.
William White, who is remembered today, was our first presiding bishop. I have visited his home on my travels to Philadelphia.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
O Lord, who in a time of turmoil and confusion raised up your servant William White, and endowed him with wisdom, patience, and a reconciling temper, that he might lead your Church into ways of stability and peace: Hear our prayer, and give us wise and faithful leaders, that through their ministry your people may be blessed and your will be done; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, July 17, 2009 10:12 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I intended to sign Connor's guest book yesterday, but it was a busy day for me. Then, in the evening, some of the Daughters of the King went out to dinner, to honor one of our own, who is moving back to her native England soon. The meal was so-so, but the table conversation was great.
I hope you are having many opportunities to enjoy social and cultural things.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
O God, who called your servants Olga and her grandson Vladimir to an earthly throne that they might advance your heavenly kingdom, and gave them zeal for your Church and love for your people: Mercifully grant that we who commomorate them this day may be fruitful in good works, and attain to the glorious crown of your saints; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, July 15, 2009 3:11 AM CDT
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delhi, delhi india - Tuesday, July 14, 2009 6:48 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
The thought for today, in The Upper Room, is, "Never, never, never give up. Keep praying." It hit me straight between the eyes, as I was talking with a longtime friend last night, who is having some concerns about her young adult son. She has told him that she will pray for him every day, until her dying day. Truly, you always prayed, advocated, and worked for Connor, and truly he knew it and loved you for it, and also just for who you are. Someday, you will be reunited with Connor and feel his strong arms around you, and on that day, all shall be well. In the meantime, pray fervently for all of your concerns and praise God for who God is.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect For Silas, Missionary Companion of Paul:
Almighty and everlasting God, we thank you for your servant Silas, whom you called to preach the Gospel to the peoples of Turkey, Greece and Macedonia. Raise up in this and every land evangelists and heralds of your kingdom, that your Church may proclaim the unsearchable riches of our Savior Jesus Christ; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, July 13, 2009 9:34 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Connor has been remembered in Holy Eucharist. May God always bless you and your sweet sunshine boy.
We are going down to DeVoe's soon, as their flavor of the week is pistachio. I may have my cone dipped in cherry. I wonder what Connor would think of that.
Grace and peace,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
O Lord, mercifully receive the prayers of your people who call upon you, and grant that they may know and understand what things they ought to do, and also may have grace and power faithfully to accomplish them; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, July 12, 2009 1:24 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
It is about to rain here again. Connor would probably not enjoy so much harsh rain, but if he were here, we would see some movies, play laser tag, bowl, roller skate, and have some pizza.
I hope you are doing well.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
Colette
Quotes From Today's Saint, Benedict Of Nursia, Abbot At Monte Cassino, Founder Of Western Monasticism, c. 540:
Listen and attend with the ear of your heart.
The first step of humility is unhesitating obedience, which comes naturally to those who cherish Christ above all.
He who labors as he prays lifts his heart to God with his hands.
The Collect:
Almighty and everlasting God, your precepts are the wisdom of a loving Father: Give us grace, following the teaching and example of your servant Benedict, to walk with loving and willing hearts in the school of the Lord's service; let your ears be open to our prayers; and prosper with your blessing the work of our hands; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, July 11, 2009 11:46 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
It is another Friday morning, and as always, on Fridays, I am thinking of you in connection with the collect for Fridays by William Reed Huntington. May we both walk in the way of the Cross today, as it is the only way to life and peace.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your dear son, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Almighty God, whose most dear Son went not up to joy but
first he suffered pain, and entered not into glory before he
was crucified: Mercifully grant that we, walking in the way
of the cross, may find it none other than the way of life and
peace; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord. Amen.
The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 99
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, July 10, 2009 9:20 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
A couple of days ago, we had a cone at De Voe's Rainbow Delights. Connor would love the place, as it is next to De Voe's Rainbow Orchards and their Rainbow Orchard year round produce stand. One can have a slice of fresh pie made with their home-grown fruit and topped with their good ice cream, but on Sunday, I had an orange-pineapple cone, while Andrew enjoyed a chocolate cone. It was very good, and it was nice being outside without a storm.
I am pausing, here, at my keyboard, to pray for you.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
God of grace and might, we praise you for your servants Aquila and Priscilla, to whom you gave gifts to make the good news known. Raise up, we pray, in every country, evangelists and heralds of your kingdom, so that the world may know the immeasurable riches of our Savior, Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, July 8, 2009 9:09 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
This is a quick note at a time when we are not having an electrical storm. We have had a lot of hail, thunder, lightening, rain, and wind for about ten days.
I hope you are safe, well, and content. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, July 8, 2009 0:00 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
As always, I am thinking of you, and of sweet Connor, today. May God bless you both.
Today's collect makes me think of my cousin, Jennifer, as she met her husband, Matt, when they were both students at St. John Fisher College, in Rochester.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Almighty God, who gave to your servants John Huss, John Fisher, and Thomas More boldness to confess the Name of our Savior Jesus Christ before the rulers of this world, and courage to die for this faith: Grant that we may always be ready to give a reason for the hope that is in us, and to suffer gladly for the sake of our Lord Jesus Christ; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, July 6, 2009 4:30 PM CDT
WOW RHONDA,CONNOR LOOKS LIKE HE WAS HAPPY ALL THE TIME,YOU ARE A VERY STRONG AND AMAZING WOMAN AND I CAN TELL YOU WAS A GREAT MOM AND STILL ARE,OCTOBER IS A HARD MONTH FOR ME AS WELL CAUSE I LOST MY LITTLE BROTHER THE DAY BEFORE HOLLOWEEN,I LOVE YOU RHONDA,YOU ARE A GREAT PERSON...REST IN PEACE CONNOR,ENJOY HEAVEN LITTLE MAN.
BRAD HICKS <bradhicks66@yahoo.com>
PATTERSON, AR USA - Sunday, July 5, 2009 12:59 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I hope you are having a good weekend. I saw some Fourth of July riddles, and I wondered what Connor would have thought of them.
Connor was remembered in Holy Eucharist, and I prayed for you, there, in the beauty of holiness.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
O God, you have taught us to keep all your commandments by loving you and our neighbor: Grant us the grace of your Holy Spirit, that we may be devoted to you with our whole heart, and united to one another with pure affection; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, July 5, 2009 12:06 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Today our democracy is 233 years old. I have been sitting here, at my keyboard, remembering the ways in which our family celebrated independence, when my boys were little. We always attended at least one fireworks display, and we also often traveled with relatives to hear my cousin, a New York State Senator, give a speech. The community parade and speech was generally followed by a picnic and a birthday cake for my uncle, whose birthday was July 4. I am sure you did similar things with Connor. May memories of those things bring a smile to your face and joy to your heart today.
Beneath my signature, I will add some patriotic quotes and the collect of the day.
God bless you always, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, and God bless America.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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Patriotic Quotes
We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness.
~The Declaration of Independence July 4, 1776
We must be free not because we claim freedom, but because we practice it.
~William Faulkner (1897-1962)
When an American says that he loves his country, he means not only that he loves the New England hills, the prairies glistening in the sun, the wide and rising plains, the great mountains, and the sea. He means that he loves an inner air, an inner light in which freedom lives and in which a man can draw the breath of self-respect.
~Adlai E. Stevenson (1900-1965)
If you take advantage of everything America has to offer, there’s nothing you can’t accomplish.
~Geraldine Ferraro (born 1935)
Oh, it's home again and home again, America for me!
I want a ship that's westward bound to plough the rolling sea
To the blessed land of Room Enough beyond the ocean bars,
Where the air is full of sunlight and the flag is full of stars.
~Henry Van Dyke (1852-1933)
Ours is the only country deliberately founded on a good idea.
~John Gunther (1901-1970)
If our country is worth dying for in time of war let us resolve that it is truly worth living for in time of peace.
~Hamilton Fish (1888-1991)
Freedom has its life in the hearts, the actions, the spirit of men and so it must be daily earned and refreshed - else like a flower cut from its life-giving roots, it will wither and die.
~Dwight D. Eisenhower (1890-1969)
You have to love a nation that celebrates its independence every July 4, not with a parade of guns, tanks, and soldiers who file by the White House in a show of strength and muscle, but with family picnics where kids throw Frisbees, the potato salad gets iffy, and the flies die from happiness. You may think you have overeaten, but it is patriotism.
~Erma Bombeck (1927-1996)
May the sun in his course visit no land more free, more happy, more lovely, than this our own country!
~Daniel Webster (1782-1852)
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Lord God Almighty, in whose Name the founders of this country won liberty for themselves and for us, and lit the torch of freedom for nations then unborn: Grant that we and all the people of this land may have grace to maintain our liberties in righteousness and peace; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 242
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, July 4, 2009 5:48 AM CDT
Happy Fourth Of July Weekend To All!
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of you and remembering sweet Connor on another Friday.
We are continuing to have rough weather, and I hear more thunder in the distance. It was on television last night that we ended up with 2.3 inches of rain on Wednesday, and nearby Latham had 3.8 inches. Another community, about a thirty minute drive away, had almost seven inches. We have also had a lot of hail. The evenings are expected to be all right for fireworks, but Saturday and Sunday afternoons may be quite wet. I hope you are having more enjoyable weather and that you can do something fun and relaxing.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
A Collect For Fridays:
Almighty God, whose most dear Son went not up to joy but
first he suffered pain, and entered not into glory before he
was crucified: Mercifully grant that we, walking in the way
of the cross, may find it none other than the way of life and
peace; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord. Amen.
The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 99
Written By William Reed Huntington (1838-1909)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, July 3, 2009 2:53 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
We are expecting more severe thunderstorms later today, tomorrow, and Saturday, so I am trying to write in Connor's book before the threatening weather sets in again. I believe I just heard some thunder in the distance.
I would like to thank both you and Tanya, from Delaware, for the kind and encouraging words you expressed about me over the weekend. They really mean a lot to me and to my family. To use Tanya's words, "may God's protection, blessing, comfort, and love surround you" both, and may He grant you both cheer, joy, peace, and provision, as well.
If I am able to see the fireworks this year, I will remember how much your sunshine boy loved them.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
An Early July Collect Remembering Catherine Winkworth, 1 July 1878:
Heavenly Father, by whose grace your servant Catherine was moved to render into English the words of praise which she had heard in the German tongue: grant us a like devotion, that we may be moved to proclaim your glory in sacred song; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, July 2, 2009 10:01 AM CDT
Rhonda,
I just wanted to let you know that I haven't forgotten about you or Connor. His magnetic picture is still on my refrigerator with that great smile. I was looking for your e mail address but I guess I lost it.... anyway, God Bless you and yours... and especially Connor, I am sure that he is looking down at you from above. I hope that you are doing well now. (Please feel free to contact me IF you have time....I think of you both often)
Ken
Ken Sartini <Sars300@aol.com>
Arlington Heights , Illinois USA - Wednesday, July 1, 2009 4:21 PM CDT
Although the time of remembering our loved one's passing always tugs at our hearts, the assurance of their joys in heaven helps us move on with comfort and a confident hope that we will see each other again.
~Roy Lessin
Dear Rhonda,
I found this quote a few days ago, so I am sharing it with you on another first of the month. We have severe storm warnings in our area, so I am not going to write a lot now, but I am remembering sweet Connor, and I am praying for you. I have had car trouble, now resolved, the weather has been very unsettled, and in general, the last few days have been hectic. Despite it all, Connor was remembered in Sunday Eucharist, and you have both been in my thoughts and prayers.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, July 1, 2009 3:29 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of you and your blue eyed blonde angel today on another first day of the month. Know Connor is forever in our hearts and you are daily in our prayers.
God Bless,
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave <kamik48@att.net>
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Wednesday, July 1, 2009 3:23 PM CDT
Rhonda, you've been on my mind a lot lately. I know Connor loved fireworks. I think of him whenever I see them exploding in the air. I'm sure his big beautiful smile was shining as brightly as the explosions. When we all get to Heaven, it will be so nice to meet Connor in person. Thank you for sharing him with all of us.
Lisa
Mount Juliet, Tn USA - Tuesday, June 30, 2009 6:18 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I dropped by Connor's page today on a whim...it has been quite a while since I've visited this site although I've followed Connor's story since 2003. I don't often sign the guestbook as I usually prefer to remain a silent prayer warrior. However, I do scroll through the guestbook entries and am always moved by Colette's entries and loyalty. Like you, I would also like to thank her. I know that her entries are meant for you, yet she encourages me also with her faith and the collects she leaves so often. Rhonda, thank you for keeping Connor's page up as a tribute to your wonderful sunshine boy. It remains a place of hope and strength. Colette, thank you so very much for sharing your kindness with the world. May God's blessing be with you always. You are a true angel on Earth and you have no idea how much your words help others. Your entries have inspired and encouraged me on many occasions and allowed me to leave this page feeling better than I did when I came. I apologize for the length of this entry but like Rhonda, I feel the need to publicly thank you for all that you continue to do. May God's protection, blessing, comfort, and love surround you and Rhonda always.
Love, blessings, and tons of hugs,
Tanya
Tanya <tanyans83@yahoo.com>
DE God Bless America - Sunday, June 28, 2009 1:27 PM CDT
Colette,
I just wanted to thank you, right here on Connor's page, for your faithfulness to us. For anyone else reading this, Colette has been there since she first found Connor's page when he was going through treatment. She encouraged him with cards, gifts, and most all, her sweet, heartfelt entries in this guestbook. And now, going on FIVE years later, she continues to sign just about every day! Colette, you are an Earth Angel, as I've told you before. Your entries uplift me, and I'm so thankful for you. I "borrowed" a quote you posted on the 55th month anniversary of Connor's entry into Heaven (June 1st), and posted it on my Facebook.
Thank you, you are SUCH a blessing.....
I love you,
(((Hugs)))
~Rhonda, Forever Connor's Mommy :)
Connor's Mom <rshunley@comcast.net>
Hendersonville, TN 37075 - Saturday, June 27, 2009 10:19 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
As the birds sing, here in southern Saratoga County, I am thinking of Connor, as I do every day. May assurance of a reunion with Connor, in God's heavenly kingdom, bring you hope and joy this early summer weekend.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Collect For Cyril, Bishop Of Alexandria, Theologian, 27 June 444:
Heavenly Father, whose servant Cyril steadfastly proclaimed your Son Jesus Christ to be one person, fully God and fully man: Keep us, we pray, constant in faith and worship; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, June 27, 2009 9:18 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
As the school year comes to a close, here, in New York, I am thinking of Connor and what he might be doing with his time during the summer months. I know that memories of Connor riding his bike, building with his Legos, and enjoying water activities must make you smile. Be assured that you will see Connor again, and that when you do, all shall be well.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Almighty God, we praise you for the men and women you have sent to call the Church to its tasks and renew its life, such as your servant Philip Melanchthon. Raise up in our own day teachers and prophets inspired by your Spirit, whose voices will give strength to your Church and proclaim the reality of your kingdom; through your Son, Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, June 25, 2009 11:28 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Connor was remembered Wednesday morning, in Holy Eucharist. I think of you both often.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Collect For Wednesday (The Nativity Of John The Baptist):
Almighty God, by whose providence your servant John the Baptist was wonderfully born, and sent to prepare the way of your Son our Savior by preaching repentance: Make us so to follow his teaching and holy life, that we may truly repent according to his preaching; and, following his example, constantly speak the truth, boldly rebuke vice, and patiently suffer for the truth's sake; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, June 24, 2009 11:35 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of you and of Connor on a beautiful early summer morning. I hope you are well.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Sharing A Summer Prayer:
May the openness that Summer brings be a gift to us-
To open the windows of our lives to other people,
To open our homes to share the hospitality of table and church.
Open our minds to revel in the beauty of nature-
The smell of newly mown grass
The morning dew on the rosebud
The scent of honeysuckle on the evening air
The open spaces offering relaxation and a change of pace.
Open our hearts to your love and may your Spirit rest with
each one of us.
~Rosemary Wass
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, June 23, 2009 9:56 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Today's saint is Alban, the first known martyr of England. When my boys were little, they enjoyed seeing the St. Alban stained glass window at the Cathedral of All Saints, in Albany. Certainly there were pictures that Connor enjoyed and things he liked to make with crayons and clay. May thoughts of those things bring you comfort today.
God bless you always, and of course God bless your dear son, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Almighty God, by whose grace and power your holy martyr Alban triumphed over suffering and was faithful even unto death: Grant to us, who now remember him with thanksgiving, to be so faithful in our witness to you in this world, that we may receive with him the crown of life; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, June 22, 2009 10:07 AM CDT
Summer Blessings To All Of Connor's Family, Friends, And Supporters!
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of you and of Connor today. I hope all is well and that you are enjoying the first day of summer. When you can, please drop me a line.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
O Lord, make us have perpetual love and reverence for your holy Name, for you never fail to help and govern those whom you have set upon the sure foundation of your lovingkindness; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, June 21, 2009 3:47 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
While remembering Connor this weekend, I am thinking of Eddie, your father, your brothers, and the other important men in Connor's life. May you, and all of them, be blessed on Father's Day.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
I watched a small man with thick calluses on both hands work fifteen and sixteen hours a day. I saw him once literally bleed from the bottoms of his feet, a man who came here uneducated, alone, unable to speak the language, who taught me all I needed to know about faith and hard work by the simple eloquence of his example.
~Mario Cuomo, 52nd Governor Of New York (born June 15, 1932)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, June 20, 2009 8:09 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
This is a special date in our family life. I know you have many special anniversaries as well, and I pray that you remember some of those good times with a happy heart today.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, June 19, 2009 5:27 PM CDT
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who every one who will call on the name of the Lord will be saved ,hallelujah glory and thanks to Lord for he is coming be blessed and joy and praise,keijo sweden
keijo <keijo.leppioja@hotmail.com>
sweden - Friday, June 19, 2009 1:48 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of you, and remembering sweet Connor, during this busy time of the year. I hope you and your family are well and at peace.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Faith is to believe what you do not yet see; the reward for this faith is to see what you believe.
~St. Augustine Of Hippo (354-430)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, June 17, 2009 7:11 PM CDT
To my fellow classmate John Henry, thoughts a prayers go out to you.
Paige Peltier Fenton <Paigeart10@cox.net>
Tulsa, OK - Wednesday, June 17, 2009 7:29 AM CDT
Anyone can carry his burden, however hard, until nightfall. Anyone can do his work, however hard, for one day. Anyone can live sweetly, patiently, lovingly, purely till the sun goes down. And this is all that life really means.
~Robert Louis Stevenson, Scottish novelist, poet, essayist, and travel writer (1850-1894)
Dear Rhonda,
I saw this quote in a magazine, while waiting in an office earlier today. I thought you would like it.
I hope you, and all of Connor's loved ones, are well.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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Collect For The Commemoration Of Joseph Butler, Bishop Of Durham, Theologian, 16 June 1752:
O God, who by your Holy Spirit give to some the word of wisdom, to others the word of knowledge, and to others the word of faith: We praise your Name for the gifts of grace manifested in your servant Joseph Butler, and we pray that your Church may never be destitute of such gifts; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who with you and the Holy Spirit lives and reigns, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, June 16, 2009 5:33 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
We had our dinner at DeVoe's Rainbow Delights last night. Andrew treated me to a sausage sandwich with onions and peppers and a drink. I treated him to a cone for dessert. It was a lovely night to be out on a picnic table. If Connor had been with us, he could have chosen anything he wanted.
God bless you always. I hope all is well.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, June 13, 2009 9:18 AM CDT
You say grace before meals. All right. But I say grace before the concert and the opera, and grace before the play and pantomime, and grace before I open a book, and grace before sketching, painting, swimming, fencing, boxing, walking, playing, dancing and grace before I dip the pen in the ink.
~Gilbert Keith Chesterton, writer (1874-1936)
Dear Rhonda,
Yesterday, while receiving Communion, my position along the altar rail faced the Jesus and the Children stained glass window. As I gazed upon the figure of Jesus surrounded by children, I remembered sweet Connor, and I prayed for you. I hope you are safe, well, and content.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Collect For The Commemoration Of G.K. Chesterton, 12 June 1936:
Almighty God, who gave to your servant Gilbert the gift of a Ready tongue and pen, and endued him with zeal to use them in your service: Mercifully grant to each of us, that we may well and truly answer anyone who asks of us a reason for the hope that is in us; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, June 12, 2009 11:17 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
The birds have been singing in Clifton Park all day today. They often make me think of Connor. May God bless his sweet spirit.
I hope you are all right. When you can, please let me know.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect (For Columba, Abbot of Iona and Missionary
9 June 597):
O God, who by the preaching of your blessed servant Columba caused the light of the Gospel to shine in Scotland: Grant, we pray, that, having his life and labors in remembrance, we may show our thankfulness to you by following the example of his zeal and patience; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
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Be thou my vision, O Lord of my heart,
be all else but naught to me, save that thou art;
be thou my best thought in the day and the night,
both waking and sleeping, thy presence my light.
Be thou my wisdom, be thou my true word,
be thou ever with me, and I with thee Lord;
be thou my great Father, and I thy true son;
be thou in me dwelling, and I with thee one.
Be thou my breastplate, my sword for the fight;
be thou my whole armor, be thou my true might;
be thou my soul's shelter, be thou my strong tower:
O raise thou me heavenward, great Power of my power.
Riches I heed not, nor man's empty praise:
be thou mine inheritance now and always;
be thou and thou only the first in my heart;
O Sovereign of heaven, my treasure thou art.
High King of heaven, thou heaven's bright sun,
O grant me its joys after victory is won;
great Heart of my own heart, whatever befall,
still be thou my vision, O Ruler of all.
Lyrics: Ancient Irish hymn;
trans. Mary Byrne, 1905, and versified by Eleanor Hull, 1912
Music: Slane (Irish)
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/b/b021.html
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, June 9, 2009 3:39 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Earlier today I was thinking of the importance of gratitude. Later I read James Kiefer's hagiography of Noah Seattle, which seemed connected to me. Below is the collect of the day.
God bless you, and God bless your sweet sunshine boy, who loved animals and nature.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Almighty God, who in giving us dominion over things on earth have made us fellow workers in your creation: Grant us such wisdom and reverence toward you that, following the counsel and example of your servants Noah Seattle and Black Elk, we may so use the resources of nature that no one may suffer from our abuse of them, and that generations yet to come may continue to praise you for your bounty; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who with you and the Holy Spirit lives and reigns, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, June 8, 2009 1:00 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
It is always a great joy to come here and view all of the lovely pictures of Connor. Thank you for keeping his site up for all of his friends to view.
As always, both you and Connor were in my prayers when I was at church, and I am pausing, here, at my keyboard, to pray again.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect (Trinity Sunday):
Almighty and everlasting God, you have given to us your servants grace, by the confession of a true faith, to acknowledge the glory of the eternal Trinity, and in the power of your divine Majesty to worship the Unity: Keep us steadfast in this faith and worship, and bring us at last to see you in your one and eternal glory, O Father; who with the Son and the Holy Spirit live and reign, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, June 7, 2009 10:53 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Connor will be remembered in Holy Eucharist this weekend, as he always is.
Someone sent me a beautiful prayer this morning. I will leave a copy for you beneath my signature. I have not seen the book this prayer came from, but my friend says it is a wonderful book.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
A PRAYER FOR JOY
O God of marvel and mystery, make me joyous!
Bless me with the healing and forgiving power of laughter.
Help me to delight in life’s wonderment and surprises.
Preserve me from sanctimonious solemnity and morose morality, and deliver me from the vanity of regrets.
Remove me from the perverse tendency to make mountains out of the molehills of my life.
Help me to regard the duck’s waddle, the monkey’s antics and my own foibles with the same sense of humor.
Remind me that I am important, not for what I do but for what I am—your child, created in your image.
Help me to realize that it is your love that gives meaning to my existence, and that joy and laughter and singing are echoes to that tremendous love.
Let me not forget to be joyful!
Let me not be too hurried to be cheerful.
Let me not be too busy to smile.
I ask these things, my Lord and my God, so that someday I may join with all the mirthful saints and singing angels in praising you eternally. Amen.
~Theresa Cotter in Christ is Risen: Celebrating Lent, Easter and Pentecost
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, June 6, 2009 2:45 PM CDT
thinking of you
tricia <triciabxny@yahoo.com>
- Saturday, June 6, 2009 10:37 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I am remembering Connor on another Friday. I am also pausing, here, at my keyboard, to pray for you.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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Today's Collect (For Boniface, Bishop, Missionary, And Martyr, 5 June 754):
Almighty God, who called your faithful servant Boniface to be a
witness and martyr in the lands of Germany and Friesland, and
by his labor and suffering raised up a people for your own
possession: Pour forth your Holy Spirit upon your Church in
every land, that by the service and sacrifice of many your holy
Name may be glorified and your kingdom enlarged; through Jesus
Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy
Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, June 5, 2009 11:16 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Late yesterday, I had my first ice cream cone of the spring/summer season. It was one of DeVoe's lovely flavor of the week soft served treats. As I sat on a bench and licked, I thought of your sunshine boy, and of how much most children enjoy ice cream. I wondered if Connor would have chosen the flavor I had, coconut pineapple, or if he would have opted instead for chocolate, vanilla, a dipped cone, or a frozen yogurt. If he were with me, Connor could have had a hotdog, or any sandwich he wanted, as well as a cool treat. May God bless his sweet spirit.
I am pausing, here, at my keyboard, to pray for you and for all of Connor's loved ones.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect (For John XXXIII, Who Died June 4. 1963):
Almighty God, whose will it is to heal all division and discord among those who call upon the name of your Son: We thank you for the good will shown in your servant John, and we pray that we may always be ready to hear our fellow Christians with humility and a willingness to learn, and may also speak the truth in love, to the healing of faction and the renewed witness of your people; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, now and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, June 4, 2009 3:25 PM CDT
Even beyond the grave there is hope. The God of Life goes on striving in the afterworld; death is a crisis, but not an ending.
~G.A. Studdert Kennedy (1883-1929)
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of you this morning, and I am remembering your golden sunshine boy.
God bless you, and God bless all of Connor's many friends and loved ones.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, June 3, 2009 8:57 AM CDT
Rhonda
thinking of you
prayers and love from Mrs. Pam
- Tuesday, June 2, 2009 2:56 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
When my older son was Confirmed, he was about the age that Connor would be now. It was early June, he thought Justin was an interesting saint, and he also had a close friend named Justin, so he used the name "Justin," as his Confirmation name. I will leave the collect for you.
May the name "Justin" and the name "Connor" stir up images of character and bravery today.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Almighty and everlasting God, who found your martyr Justin wandering from teacher to teacher, seeking the true God, and revealed to him the sublime wisdom of your eternal Word: Grant that all who seek you, or a deeper knowledge of you, may find and be found by you; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, June 2, 2009 9:31 AM CDT
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toronto, on Canada - Tuesday, June 2, 2009 3:32 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Because May 31 fell on a Sunday this year, the church is remembering the Visitation of the Virgin Mary today. In many ways, all of us who are mothers, share in Mary's motherhood of the Holy Child. So, may we too, be blessed, as the collect says, in keeping God's word.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Father in heaven, by whose grace the virgin mother of your incarnate Son was blessed in bearing him, but still more blessed in keeping your word: Grant us who honor the exaltation of her lowliness to follow the example of her devotion to your will; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, June 1, 2009 12:11 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Thinking of you today and your little blonde haired boy who was so much a part of your life and lives on in your heart and the hearts of all those who were blessed to have him in theirs...us included! God Bless and know you are daily in our prayers....I saw a little lady bug while we were in Michigan this past week end for a wedding and my thoughts were of Connor. :):):)
Take gentle care,
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave <kamik48@att.net>
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Monday, June 1, 2009 10:04 AM CDT
...55 months
Dear Rhonda,
I know it is hard to press on in faith and some days, it may seem impossible, but Pentecost teaches that in our baptisms, we have the power to endure. You CAN do it.
I am thinking of you today, and I am remembering sweet Connor.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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I feel a strong immortal hope, which bears my mournful spirit up beneath its mountain load; redeemed from death, and grief, and pain, I soon shall find my child again within the arms of God.
~Charles Wesley (1707-1788)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, June 1, 2009 6:41 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
On a windy Pentecost afternoon, I am thinking of you and remembering Connor. I read the lessons at one of our services, including a long lesson from Acts 2, with many difficult names identifying groups of ancient peoples.
I hope you are well and that you have had a good weekend.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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Here's one of my favorite Pentecost hymns. Perhaps you can sing some of it today.
Refrain: Hail thee, festival day!
Blest day that art hallowed forever;
day wherein God from heaven,
shone on the world with his grace.
Lo! in the likeness of fire,
on them that await his appearing,
he whom the Lord foretold,
suddenly, swiftly, descends. Refrain
Forth from the Father he comes
with his sevenfold mystical dowry,
pouring on human souls
infinite riches of God. Refrain
Hark! in a hundred tongues
Christ's own, his chosen Apostles,
preach to a hundred tribes
Christ and his wonderful works. Refrain
Praise to the Spirit of life,
all praise to the Fount of our being,
light that dost lighten all,
life that in all dost abide. Refrain
God, who art giver of all
good gifts and lover of concord,
pour thy balm on our souls,
order our ways in thy peace. Refrain
God Almighty, who fillest
the heaven, the earth and the ocean,
guard us from harm without,
cleanse us from evil within. Refrain
Kindle our lips with his live bright coal
from the hands of the Seraph;
shine in our minds with thy light;
burn in our hearts with thy love. Refrain
Words: Venantius Fortunatus (530-609);
trans. Gabriel Gillett, 1906
Music: Salve, festa dies
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/h/h031.html
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, May 31, 2009 5:30 PM CDT
I sing a song of the saints of God,
Patient and brave and true,
Who toiled and fought and lived and died
For the Lord they loved and knew.
And one was a doctor,
And one was a queen,
And one was a shepherdess on the green:
They were all of them saints of God—and I mean,
God helping, to be one too.
~Mrs. L.L. Scott (1898-1986)
Dear Rhonda,
I know I have shared the hymn above in its entirety with you previously. The "shepherdess on the green," Joan of Arc, is remembered today 578 years after her death. Over twenty movies and more than 20,000 books have been written about her, but she still remains a puzzle to many of us today. We remember Joan, in the words of James E. Kiefer, "not for winning military victories, or even because her visions were necessarily authentic, but because, being persuaded of the will of God for her life, she responded in faith and obedience to that will as she understood it." May we be able to also respond to that Will in our own time.
I am thinking of you and of your handsome sunshine boy today, and I will remember Connor in Holy Eucharist.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect (For Joan Of Arc, Visionary, 30 May 1431)
O God, by whom the meek are guided in judgement, and light rises up in darkness for the godly: Grant us, in all our doubts and uncertainties, to ask what you would have us do; that the spirit of wisdom may save us from all false choices, that in your light we may see light, and in your straight paths may not stumble, through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, May 30, 2009 10:02 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Once again, I am thinking of you, and of sweet Connor. I hope you and Connor's grandparents are well.
Today's collect reminds me of the joy and the value in singing to God. I know that acappella singing is very important in your faith tradition, and I hope that you will use your voice to praise God today. I am adding the collect and another related collect.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect (For Juraj Tranovsky, 29 May 1637):
Almighty God, who have taught your people to praise you in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs: We thank you for your servants to whom you have given skill in the writing of hymns, especially at this time for Juraj Tranovsky, and we pray that by your grace we may sing your praises joyfully in this life, and finally attain to the harmony of the life to come; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
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For Church Musicians And Artists:
O God, whom saints and angels delight to worship in heaven: Be ever present with your servants who seek through art and music to perfect the praises offered by your people on earth; and grant to them even now glimpses of your beauty, and make them worthy at length to behold it unveiled forevermore; through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 819
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, May 29, 2009 8:34 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Between tonight's raindrops, two young teens are playing ball in the road. I wonder if Connor would enjoy toss and catch as much as these fellows do. May God bless your sweet sunshine boy.
I hope you are having a good spring.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, May 28, 2009 5:59 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of you and of your sweet sunshine boy on a rainy spring day. In my mind's eye, I am thinking of the picture of Connor holding his umbrella.
God bless you always, and God bless all those everywhere who love Connor.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Grant to us, Lord, we pray, the spirit to think and do always those things that are right; that we, who cannot do any thing that is good without you, may by you be enabled to live according to your will; and, taught by the writings of your servant John Calvin, may see in the blessings you give us the fruits, not of our deserving, but of your pure bounty; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, May 27, 2009 4:25 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of you, and of your sweet sunshine boy, today. May you have peace in your heart.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect For St. Augustine Of Canterbury, Missionary And Bishop (605):
O Lord our God, who by your Son Jesus Christ called your apostles and sent them forth to preach the Gospel to the nations: We bless your holy name for your servant Augustine, first Archbishop of Canterbury, whose labors in propagating your Church among the English people we commemorate today; and we pray that all whom you call and send may do your will, and bide your time, and see your glory; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, May 26, 2009 11:28 AM CDT
Happy Memorial Day To All Of Connor's Family, Friends, And Supporters!
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of you on a clear, pleasant Memorial Day afternoon. I hope you have had adequate time to remember, reflect, and pray during this long weekend.
Connor has been remembered in Holy Eucharist.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Prayer For Our Country
Almighty God, who hast given us this good land for our heritage: We humbly beseech thee that we may always prove ourselves a people mindful of thy favor and glad to do thy will. Bless our land with honorable industry, sound learning, and pure manners. Save us from violence, discord, and confusion; from pride and arrogance, and from every evil way. Defend our liberties, and fashion into one united people the multitudes brought hither out of many kindreds and tongues. Endue with the spirit of wisdom those to whom in thy Name we entrust the authority of government, that there may be justice and peace at home, and that, through obedience to thy law, we may show forth thy praise among the nations of the earth In the time of prosperity, fill our hearts with thankfulness, and in the day of trouble, suffer not our trust in thee to fail; all which we ask through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 820
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, May 25, 2009 4:24 PM CDT
Blessings To All On Ascension Sunday!
Dear Rhonda,
Connor was remembered before the altar this morning, at Eucharist. May God bless his sweet spirit.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
O God, the King of glory, you have exalted your only Son Jesus Christ with great triumph to your kingdom in heaven: Do not leave us comfortless, but send us your Holy Spirit to strengthen us, and exalt us to that place where our Savior Christ has gone before; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, in glory everlasting. Amen.
See, the Conqueror mounts in triumph; see the King in royal state,
riding on the clouds, his chariot,
to his heavenly palace gate.
Hark! the choirs of angel voices
joyful alleluias sing,
and the portals high are lifted
to receive their heavenly King.
Who is this that comes in glory,
with the trump of jubilee?
Lord of battles, God of armies,
he has gained the victory.
he who on the cross did suffer,
he who from the grave arose,
he has vanquished sin and Satan,
he by death has spoiled his foes.
While he raised his hands in blessing,
he was parted from his friends
while their eager eyes behold him,
he upon the clouds ascends;
he who walked with God and pleased him,
preaching truth and doom to come,
he, our Enoch, is translated
to his everlasting home.
Now our heavenly Aaron enters,
with his blood, within the veil;
Joshua now is come to Canaan,
and the kings before him quail;
now he plants the tribes of Israel
in their promised resting place;
now our great Elijah offers
double portion of his grace.
He has raised our human nature
on the clouds to God's right hand;
there we sit in heavenly places,
there with him in glory stand:
Jesus reigns, adored by angels;
man with God is on the throne;
mighty Lord, in thine ascension
we by faith behold our own.
Glory be to God the Father,
glory be to God the Son,
dying, risen, ascending for us,
who the heavenly realm has won;
glory to the Holy Spirit,
to One God in persons Three;
glory both in earth and heaven,
glory, endless glory, be.
Words: Christopher Wordsworth (1807-1885), 1862
Christopher Wordsworth is one of my favorite English poets. I hope you enjoy these words, which were sung at St. George's this morning.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, May 24, 2009 11:16 AM CDT
Blessings To All On Ascension Sunday!
Dear Rhonda,
Connor was remembered before the altar this morning, at Eucharist. May God bless his sweet spirit.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
O God, the King of glory, you have exalted your only Son Jesus Christ with great triumph to your kingdom in heaven: Do not leave us comfortless, but send us your Holy Spirit to strengthen us, and exalt us to that place where our Savior Christ has gone before; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, in glory everlasting. Amen.
See, the Conqueror mounts in triumph; see the King in royal state,
riding on the clouds, his chariot,
to his heavenly palace gate.
Hark! the choirs of angel voices
joyful alleluias sing,
and the portals high are lifted
to receive their heavenly King.
Who is this that comes in glory,
with the trump of jubilee?
Lord of battles, God of armies,
he has gained the victory.
he who on the cross did suffer,
he who from the grave arose,
he has vanquished sin and Satan,
he by death has spoiled his foes.
While he raised his hands in blessing,
he was parted from his friends
while their eager eyes behold him,
he upon the clouds ascends;
he who walked with God and pleased him,
preaching truth and doom to come,
he, our Enoch, is translated
to his everlasting home.
Now our heavenly Aaron enters,
with his blood, within the veil;
Joshua now is come to Canaan,
and the kings before him quail;
now he plants the tribes of Israel
in their promised resting place;
now our great Elijah offers
double portion of his grace.
He has raised our human nature
on the clouds to God's right hand;
there we sit in heavenly places,
there with him in glory stand:
Jesus reigns, adored by angels;
man with God is on the throne;
mighty Lord, in thine ascension
we by faith behold our own.
Glory be to God the Father,
glory be to God the Son,
dying, risen, ascending for us,
who the heavenly realm has won;
glory to the Holy Spirit,
to One God in persons Three;
glory both in earth and heaven,
glory, endless glory, be.
Words: Christopher Wordsworth (1807-1885), 1862
Christopher Wordsworth is one of my favorite English poets. I hope you enjoy these words, which were sung at St. George's this morning.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, May 24, 2009 11:16 AM CDT
Happy Memorial Day Weekend To All!
Dear Rhonda,
I know with your work for a retailer that you may not have much time off on, and around, holidays, as the stores, and the offices supporting the stores, are often open. However, I hope you can have some relaxing time this weekend.
My mother always called Memorial Day "Decoration Day," as we always fixed up all of our cemetery plots that day. I am sure you have Connor's resting place looking beautiful. You are both in my thoughts and prayers.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
Colette
This thought was in my email today.
Where there is Love and Wisdom, there is neither Fear nor Ignorance.
Where there is Patience and Humility, there is neither Anger nor Annoyance.
Where there is Poverty and Joy, there is neither Cupidity nor Avarice.
Where there is Peace and Contemplation, there is neither Care nor Restlessness.
Where there is the Fear of God to guard the dwelling, there no enemy can enter.
Where there is Mercy and Prudence, there is neither Excess nor Harshness.
~St. Francis of Assisi (1181/1182-1226)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, May 23, 2009 11:05 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
While I was waiting for the Ascension Day service to start last night, I was praying some of the Ascension hymns. I will leave you one I found that I have never used before and another of the collects.
I remembered sweet Connor, there, in the beauty of holiness, and I prayed for you, as I am doing today.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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A hymn of glory let us sing,
new hymns throughout the world shall ring;
by a new way none ever trod
Christ takes his place--the throne of God!
You are a present joy, O Lord;
you will be ever our reward;
and great the light in you we see
to guide us to eternity.
O risen Christ, ascended Lord,
all praise to you let earth accord,
who are, while endless ages run,
with Father and with Spirit, One.
Words: The Venerable Bede (673-735);
trans. verses 1-2: Elizabeth Rundles Charles (1828-1896)
verse 3: Benjamin Webb (1819-1885).
as altered in The Hymnal 1982
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/a/a019.html
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An Ascension Collect:
Almighty God, whose blessed Son our Savior Jesus Christ ascended far above all heavens that he might fill all things: Mercifully give us faith to perceive that, according to his promise, he abides with his Church on earth, even to the end of the ages; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, in glory everlasting. Amen.
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Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, May 22, 2009 12:31 AM CDT
Blessings On The Feast Of Ascension!
Dear Rhonda,
I will remember Connor when I receive Communion later today. I will also pray for you, there, in the beauty of holiness.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Grant, we pray, Almighty God, that as we believe your only-begotten Son our Lord Jesus Christ to have ascended into heaven, so we may also in heart and mind there ascend, and with him continually dwell; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, May 20, 2009 11:42 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Connor was remembered in Holy Eucharist this morning. Father Henry taught about the saint of the day, Alcuin, saying that anyone who has ever attended a group Bible study, church history class, spiritual life seminar, or prayer group owes a lot to Alcuin, as he promoted those and the saving of books in a dark period. Let us give thanks for Alcuin and his followers today.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Collect For Alcuin: Deacon, Scholar, and Abbot of Tours (20 May 804):
Almighty God, who in a rude and barbarous age raised up your Deacon Alcuin to rekindle the light of learning: Illumine our minds, we pray, that amid the uncertainties and confusions of our own time we may show forth your eternal truth, through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, May 20, 2009 11:13 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Today the people of New York are voting for school boards, school budgets, and school related propositions. Such an occasion always reminds me of my boys as students and of other children I have loved and supported over the years, including sweet Connor. May God bless his spirit.
I hope you and all of Connor's loved ones are well, safe, and content.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect (For Dunstan of Canterbury, Monk and Archbishop, 19 May 988):
O God of truth and beauty, who richly endowed your bishop Dunstan with skill in music and the working of metals, and with gifts of administration and reforming zeal: Teach us, we pray, to see in you the source of all our talents, and move us to offer them for the adornment of worship and the advancement of true religion; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, May 19, 2009 12:49 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of you, and remembering Connor, on another cool, spring morning. The hint of new life is in the air. May we be open, grateful, and expectant.
I am leaving you a short poem I like very much.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
On Waking
By John O'Donohue, Irish Mystic (1954-2008)
I give thanks for arriving
Safely in a new dawn,
For the gift of eyes
To see the world,
The gift of mind
To feel at home
In my life.
The waves of possibility
Breaking on the shore of dawn,
The harvest of the past
That awaits my hunger,
And all the furtherings
This new day will bring.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, May 18, 2009 7:11 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Connor was remembered in Eucharist on Saturday afternoon, as I gazed at the Jesus and the Children stained glass window.
After the service, I joined my cousin, from western New York, who had been to meetings in the Plattsburgh area, for dinner about twenty miles north of here, before she started home to western New York. It was so wonderful spending a couple of hours with her.
Linda Martin's note makes me think of Ryan's friend, Richie Shannon, who probably would have also graduated this year. There are many milestones that both Connor and Richie will not achieve, but both have earned the highest award of all, the Crown of Life. May we aspire to achieve the victory those boys have attained.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect (Another Favorite):
O God, you have prepared for those who love you such good things as surpass our understanding: Pour into our hearts such love towards you, that we, loving you in all things and above all things, may obtain your promises, which exceed all that we can desire; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, May 17, 2009 3:48 AM CDT
This is from the MARTIN-7 for all of you who followed us...Ryan is graduating tomorrow night from High School. We miss Kevin so much everytime we have another mile-stone that he isn't here for. Ryan is going off to college in the fall. I just wanted you all to know that we are all doing well here in Tennessee.
Linda Martin-Crocker <crockers217@comcast.net>
Hendersonville, TN - Friday, May 15, 2009 10:49 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Early one night this week, Andrew took me to Albany, to see thousands of tulips, in Washington Park. They were gorgeous. I hope you, too, are experiencing beauty in your life this week.
As always, I am remembering Connor, with a smile in my heart.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, May 14, 2009 10:02 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
As many of us are enjoying plants, flowers, chocolates, and perfumes from Mother's Day, I hope you are having sweet memories of Connor. He was a beautiful boy, and I am sure you will see and know him again. My thoughts and prayers are with you today and every day.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Quote From A May Saint:
There is no creature made that can understand how much and how sweetly and how tenderly our Maker loves us.
~Julian Of Norwich (c.1342-c.1416)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, May 11, 2009 9:22 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I have thought of you many times today. I know you miss your sweet sunshine boy.
I hope you have been able to spend sometime with your mother. She is also in my thoughts and prayers.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Almighty God, whom truly to know is everlasting life: Grant us so perfectly to know your Son Jesus Christ to be the way, the truth, and the life, that we may steadfastly follow his steps in the way that leads to eternal life; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord, who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, May 10, 2009 9:45 PM CDT
HAPPY MOTHERS DAY Rhonda
tricia <triciabxny@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, May 10, 2009 9:17 PM CDT
I guess once wasn't enough.:):):) ..sorry my previous entry was entered twice?
Kathy
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Sunday, May 10, 2009 8:30 AM CDT
Good Morning Rhonda,
Happy Mother's Day! I am sure a little blonde hair boy with angel wings is sending his love today to his special, wonderful, awesome, caring,kind,loving, mom. Your love for Connor remains forever in your heart and the hearts of all those whose lives he touched. God Bless you...and know you are daily in my thoughts and in my prayers.
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Sunday, May 10, 2009 8:28 AM CDT
Good Morning Rhonda,
Happy Mother's Day! I am sure a little blonde hair boy with angel wings is sending his love today to his special, wonderful, awesome, caring,kind,loving, mom. Your love for Connor remains forever in your heart and the hearts of all those whose lives he touched. God Bless you...and know you are daily in my thoughts and in my prayers.
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Sunday, May 10, 2009 8:28 AM CDT
Weekend Blessings To All Mothers!
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of you, of your mother, and of all nurturing women in Connor's life, on this Mother's Day Weekend. May you all be well and be blessed.
Connor will be remembered at Eucharist.
In the poem below, there is a mention of that place where Connor now dwells. May it bring hope to your soul.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
To My Mother
~by Wendell Berry (born 1934)
I was your rebellious son,
do you remember? Sometimes
I wonder if you do remember,
so complete has your forgiveness been.
So complete has your forgiveness been
I wonder sometimes if it did not
precede my wrong, and I erred,
safe found, within your love,
prepared ahead of me, the way home,
or my bed at night, so that almost
I should forgive you, who perhaps
foresaw the worst that I might do,
and forgave before I could act,
causing me to smile now, looking back,
to see how paltry was my worst,
compared to your forgiveness of it
already given. And this, then,
is the vision of that Heaven of which
we have heard, where those who love
each other have forgiven each other,
where, for that, the leaves are green,
the light a music in the air,
and all is unentangled,
and all is undismayed.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, May 9, 2009 12:50 AM CDT
Hi Rhonda,
I just want you to know that I'm thinking of you on Mother's Day weekend. God sure gave Connor a beautiful and special Mama. With love and hugs.
Lisa
Mount Juliet, TN USA - Friday, May 8, 2009 4:34 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking about you and remembering sweet Connor on another Friday. God bless you both.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
A Collect For Fridays:
Almighty God, whose most dear Son went not up to joy but
first he suffered pain, and entered not into glory before he
was crucified: Mercifully grant that we, walking in the way
of the cross, may find it none other than the way of life and
peace; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord. Amen.
The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 99
Written By William Reed Huntington (1838-1909)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, May 8, 2009 3:23 PM CDT
Jesus said to her, “Everyone who drinks of this water will be thirsty again, but those who drink of the water that I will give them will never be thirsty. The water that I will give will become in them a spring of water gushing up to eternal life.” ~John 4: 13-14
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Dear Rhonda,
Today's rain will green up the lawns and nourish the blossoms for the weekend's Albany Tulip Festival. May the water of life, nourish your soul today, as you remember your beautiful sunshine boy.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, May 7, 2009 6:58 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
At this time, when the Connor J. Hunley award is given out, may the name of Connor, pronounced at his school, bring a smile to all of Connor's teachers and friends, who hear it.
God bless you, and God bless all of Connor's many loved ones.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, May 6, 2009 12:41 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of you and of Connor on another pretty spring day. We have a beautiful pink tree in our yard, which brings great joy. I have also been watching the birds. I hope you, too, have some cheerful signs of new life to enjoy.
May God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Spring Blessing
The blessing of the signs of spring be yours today:
The new life visible in the fields be a sign of new life in you,
The birds building nests be a sign of belief in the future for you,
The tiny flowers on grassy bands be a sign of the small but
significant things in your life.
May the blessing of God,
Sower of seed,
Nurturer of hope and
Gardener of harmony,
Stay with you today and always.
~Rosemary Wass
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, May 5, 2009 11:21 AM CDT
I'm sorry you had another rainy weekend for the Relay. It rained very hard here since Friday. I hope the weather was better in your area. Your dedication to Relay for Life and your dedication to Connor is so inspiring. I know God and Connor are always smiling down on you. God blessed you by giving you your precious Connor. God blessed Connor by giving him you. You are thought and prayed for often.
Lisa
Mount Juliet, TN USA - Monday, May 4, 2009 5:00 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
As the story of Monnica and Augustine reminds us, the bond between a mother and son is one of the most powerful and enduring. Truly, your bond with Connor is deeper and stronger than most. May you rejoice today that that bond is not broken, and that you will see Connor again, in that place where there is fullness of joy, peace, and celebration.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
O Lord, who through spiritual discipline strengthened your servant Monnica to persevere in offering her love and prayers and tears for the conversion of her husband and of Augustine their son: Deepen our devotion, we pray, and use us in accordance with your will to bring others, even our own kindred, to acknowledge Jesus Christ as Savior and Lord; who with you and the Holy Spirit lives and reigns, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colete
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, May 4, 2009 12:43 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I have remembered Connor, in Eucharist for Good Shepherd Sunday. May God bless you today, as you remember your son.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
O God, whose Son Jesus is the good shepherd of your people: Grant that when we hear his voice we may know him who calls us each by name, and follow where he leads; who, with you and the Holy Spirit, lives and reigns, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, May 3, 2009 3:20 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I cannot believe that four and a half years have passed, since Connor left his earthly home for his heavenly dwelling. What a bittersweet anniversary this is for you, for all of Connor's family, and for all of his fans! Yet, we are not like those who have no hope. Connor will be seen, known, and loved again, in that place where there is no sorrow or grief, but only life eternal. You can count on it.
In the meantime, Connor is remembered in our thoughts, prayers, and candle lighting.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet son, Connor Jordan Hunley, your hero, and our hero, too.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Almighty God, who gave to your apostles Philip and James grace and strength to bear witness to the truth: Grant that we, being mindful of their victory of faith, may glorify in life and death the Name of our Lord Jesus Christ; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 240
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, May 1, 2009 10:05 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of a blonde little sunshine boy who captured my heart and taught me how to live life to the fullest..,also thinking of you on this day....actually he and you are in my thoughts and prayers EVERY day! God Bless you.
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI, U.S.A. - Friday, May 1, 2009 8:35 AM CDT
Tim we are keeping up with you at Church. Our Prayers and thoughts are with you and your family.
Carol and Buzz Hamblin <hamblin@gbta.net>
Lewis, KS USA - Sunday, April 26, 2009 11:34 PM CDT
Rhonda, I was watching my son Andrew today and how big and tall he is. and of course reminds me to always remember connor because they are both oct 94 babies. and 15 is around the corner.. then 16 and driving. And It always reminds me to be thankful for every min with them. Our kyle is the same age as cheyenne fiveash and prom was this week.. I just cant help but wonder what the kids would be doing. I think of connor and cheyenne all the time. Praying for you!
kim <dakk2222@comcast.net>
indiana - Sunday, April 26, 2009 10:28 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Today is a beautiful day, the kind of day that Connor would use for bike riding and other outside activities. May God bless his sweet spirit.
I hope you and all of Connor's loved ones are well.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Almighty God, who by the hand of Mark the evangelist have given To your Church the Gospel of Jesus Christ the Son of God: We thank you for this witness, and pray that we may be firmly grounded in its truth; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, April 25, 2009 3:07 PM CDT
Blessings To All On St. George's Day!
Dear Rhonda,
I am smiling thinking of events on this day in years past. One year, at the annual St. George's pageant, at St. George's, as the child portraying the saint, kicked the dragon's cave, a startled young Andrew began to cry. Minutes later, the same young Andrew was all smiles, when tasty treats were served.
I wonder, did Connor ever see this pageant? What plays and shows did Connor enjoy? Did he ever participate in a play? What role did he have? You know the answer to these questions. May they be a source of joyful remembrance to you today.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Almighty God, who gave to your servant George boldness to confess the Name of our Savior Jesus Christ before the rulers of this world, and courage to die for this faith: Grant that we may always be ready to give a reason for the hope that is in us, and to suffer gladly for the sake of our Lord Jesus Christ; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
God bless us all, when we exercise courage over ourselves, in times of difficulty, and courage in faith, to witness to the Name of Jesus.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, April 23, 2009 10:03 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Connor was remembered at Holy Eucharist today. Father Henry taught about St. Anselm, who lived from about 1033 until 21 April 1109. He was Archbishop of Canterbury for fifteen and a half years. I will leave one of his prayers and the collect for you.
While at church, I prayed for you. If you need a listening ear, please send an email, or call.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
A Prayer of Anselm
My God,
I pray that I may so know you and love you
that I may rejoice in you.
And if I may not do so fully in this life
let me go steadily on
to the day when I come to that fullness ...
Let me receive
That which you promised through your truth,
that my joy may be full.
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Almighty God, who raised up your servant Anselm to teach the Church of his day to understand its faith in your eternal Being, perfect justice, and saving mercy: Provide your Church in every age with devout and learned scholars and teachers, that we may be able to give a reason for the hope that is in us; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, April 22, 2009 5:56 PM CDT
Rhonda, I came here to see Connors precious Smile! And hoping he leads me to Panda tissue.. Of course its a product of china.... Of course I had to email china and ask where Oh where can it be here in the USA.. How did dollar general get it ect?? I have emailed dollar general too! Sure I could by Northern... Or Cottonelle.. but there is No cute panda on the package... I just would giggle when I put the panda tissue in my cart.. so so cute! I found a website in china for it.. I cant read Chinese... so that site is of No use to me. LOL then I get an email from sweet collette that says.. It sounds like a product of china! LOl Gotta love collette! now if she could just read chinese and help me track the Bum.. tissue down! I know I know I have to much time on my hands. Dollar general HELP! Next step Im contacting oprah! No not really.. she would yell at me for not buying american! Well Hope all is well with you... I will let you know when I get a case of panda delivered to my door and the shipping is more than the rolls!
kim AKA panda Hunter! <dakk2222@comcast.net>
indiana - Monday, April 20, 2009 2:47 PM CDT
Rhonda, I came here to see Connors precious Smile! And hoping he leads me to Panda tissue.. Of course its a product of china.... Of course I had to email china and ask where Oh where can it be here in the USA.. How did dollar general get it ect?? I have emailed dollar general too! Sure I could by Northern... Or Cottonelle.. but there is No cute panda on the package... I just would giggle when I put the panda tissue in my cart.. so so cute! I found a website in china for it.. I cant read Chinese... so that site is of No use to me. LOL then I get an email from sweet collette that says.. It sounds like a product of china! LOl Gotta love collette! now if she could just read chinese and help me track the Bum.. tissue down! I know I know I have to much time on my hands. Dollar general HELP! Next step Im contacting oprah! No not really.. she would yell at me for not buying american! Well Hope all is well with you... I will let you know when I get a case of panda delivered to my door and the shipping is more than the rolls!
kim AKA panda Hunter! <dakk2222@comcast.net>
indiana - Monday, April 20, 2009 2:47 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Once again, I am looking at Connor's website, as I do every day. May God bless his sweet spirit.
Since this is Poetry Month, I am trying to read at least one poem every day. Today, I have read several by John Donne, who was an attorney and a priest. From 1621 until his death in 1631, Donne served as Dean of St. Paul's Cathedral, in London. I will leave what is probably his best known poem beneath my signature.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Death, Be Not Proud (Holy Sonnet 10)
Death, be not proud, though some have called thee
Mighty and dreadful, for thou are not so;
For those whom thou think'st thou dost overthrow
Die not, poor Death, nor yet canst thou kill me.
From rest and sleep, which but thy pictures be,
Much pleasure; then from thee much more must flow,
And soonest our best men with thee do go,
Rest of their bones, and soul's delivery.
Thou'art slave to fate, chance, kings, and desperate men,
And dost with poison, war, and sickness dwell,
And poppy'or charms can make us sleep as well
And better than thy stroke; why swell'st thou then?
One short sleep past, we wake eternally,
And death shall be no more; Death, thou shalt die.
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Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, April 18, 2009 12:57 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
As always, I am thinking of you and of Connor. Although it has been very cold here this week, it has been sunny, and I know the kids are glad to be on vacation. If Connor were here with me, we would have gone to a movie, or two, and also gone to a new (to me) nature museum in the Albany Pine Bush. We also would have flown kites at the Clifton Commons or gone roller skating. I am sure you are thinking of all you could have done with Connor this week and missing him very much.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect (Friday In Easter Week):
Almighty Father, who gave your only Son to die for our sins and to rise for our justification: Give us grace so to put away the leaven of malice and wickedness, that we may always serve you in pureness of living and truth; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 224
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, April 17, 2009 11:28 AM CDT
Rhonda, I am sorry I havent been faithful in coming here. I havent been on cheyenns site either.. but I think of connor and cheyenne alot.. they became angels so close to each other. I hope your doing o.k and moving on with some happy things in your life. I hope the real estate starts to pick up for you! Are you still at dollar general?? I had to laugh I think of you when I go into our local one.. and they stopped carrying PANDA Toilet paper.. it was a great soft fluffy brand.. My favorite! well its GONE!!! so what happened to it?? can they get it back?? Im actually going to contact the district here and ask! LOL I think of you and precious connor so much. I need to be faithful and jump on here and let you know.. Im trying to get better again!
Kim <dakk2222@comcast.net>
indiana - Thursday, April 16, 2009 10:45 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Connor was remembered in Holy Eucharist this morning. I also prayed for you and for all of Connor's loved ones.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
O God, whose blessed Son made himself known to his disciples in the breaking of bread: Open the eyes of our faith, that we may behold him in all his redeeming work; who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 223
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, April 15, 2009 4:42 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
As we continue Easter Week, I am thinking of you and remembering sweet Connor. I hope you could spend some time this past weekend with your mother, father, and brothers, and I hope all are well. May God bless you all.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
O God, who by the glorious resurrection of your Son Jesus Christ destroyed death and brought life and immortality to light: Grant that we, who have been raised with him, may abide in his presence and rejoice in the hope of eternal glory; through Jesus Christ our Lord, to whom, with you and the Holy Spirit, be dominion and praise for ever and ever. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 223
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, April 14, 2009 4:27 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of you on Easter Monday and remembering Connor.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Grant, we pray, Almighty God, that we who celebrate with awe the Paschal feast may be found worthy to attain to everlasting joys; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, April 13, 2009 3:06 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
We're sending you Easter blessings from New Hampshire - and thinking of Connor every time we spot a ladybug :-) They love my laundry room!
Deb <endyke@speakeasy.net>
Litchfield, NH USA - Sunday, April 12, 2009 10:40 PM CDT
Easter Joy And Blessings To All!
Dear Rhonda,
Connor has been remembered in Easter Eucharist.
I hope you are having a good day. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
God bless you always, and God bless all of Connor's friends and loved ones.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Almighty God, who through your only-begotten Son Jesus Christ overcame death and opened to us the gate of everlasting life: Grant that we, who celebrate with joy the day of the Lord's resurrection, may be raised from the death of sin by your life-giving Spirit; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
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Jesus Christ is risen today, Alleluia!
our triumphant holy day, Alleluia!
who did once upon the cross, Alleluia!
suffer to redeem our loss. Alleluia!
Hymns of praise then let us sing, Alleluia!
unto Christ, our heavenly King, Alleluia!
who endured the cross and grave, Alleluia!
sinners to redeem and save. Alleluia!
But the pains which he endured, Alleluia!
our salvation have procured, Alleluia!
now above the sky he's King, Alleluia!
where the angels ever sing. Alleluia!
Sing we to our God above, Alleluia!
praise eternal as his love, Alleluia!
praise him, all ye heavenly host, Alleluia!
Father, Son, and Holy Ghost. Alleluia!
Words: Compleat Psalmodist, 1749
Stanza 4, Charles Wesley (1707-1788)
Music: Easter Hymn, from Lyra Davidica, 11708; adapt. The Compleat Psalmodist, 1749
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/j/j038.html
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Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, April 12, 2009 12:53 AM CDT
Happy Easter
tricia <triciabxny@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, April 12, 2009 10:02 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of you, and of all of Connor's family, on this day of holy resting.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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O Sorrow Deep!
O sorrow deep! Who would not weep
with heartfelt pain and sighing!
God the Father's only Son
in the tomb is lying.
The Paschal Lamb, like Isaac's ram,
in blood was offered for us,
pouring out the life that he
might to life restore us.
Blest shall they be eternally
who ponder in their weeping
that the glorious Prince of Life
should in death be sleeping.
O Jesus blest, my help and rest,
who tears I pray thee, hear me:
now, and even unto death,
dearest Lord, be near me.
Words: St. 1, Friedrich von Spee (1591-1635); tr. Charles Winfred Douglas (1867-1944). Sts. 2-3, James Waring McCrady (b. 1938). St. 4, Johann Rist (1607-1667); tr. Charles Winfred Douglas (1867-1944)
Music: O Traurigkeit
The Hymnal 1982, #173
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/o/o594.html
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, April 11, 2009 11:26 AM CDT
Love and prayers from Scotland,Rosi
www.caringbridge.org/hi/kayla
Rosi Pullin <rosipullin@hotmail.com>
Glasgow, - Friday, April 10, 2009 6:32 PM CDT
I was looking for my Ryan J. Betsinger on Facebook. My Ryan is 17, and lives in Sycamore,Illinois He is my grandson. Have a great day.
Colleen Elizabeth Betsinger <redfox7348@aol.com>
Saint Charles, Il USA - Thursday, April 9, 2009 12:07 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Connor was remembered on Wednesday in morning Eucharist, mid-day Stations of the Cross, and evening Tenebrae. I will continue to think of both you and your sweet son, as this most holy week continues.
As lads, my boys enjoyed this week. We always attended all of the services and a Maundy Thursday potluck and colored eggs. I know you have dear memories of Connor at this time of the year, as well. May those memories be sweet for you today.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Almighty Father, whose dear Son, on the night before he suffered, instituted the Sacrament of his Body and Blood: Mercifully grant that we may receive it thankfully in remembrance of Jesus Christ our Lord, who in these holy mysteries gives us a pledge of eternal life; and who now lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, April 9, 2009 9:40 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I continue to think about one of my all time favorite little blond boys during this most holy week. God bless Connor, and God bless you.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Collect For The Wednesday In Holy Week:
Lord God, whose blessed Son our Savior gave his body to be whipped and his face to be spit upon: Give us grace to accept joyfully the sufferings of the present time, confident of the glory that shall be revealed; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 220
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, April 8, 2009 3:52 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Connor was remembered this morning in Holy Eucharist, as he will be remembered throughout this Holy Week. May God bless Connor's sweet spirit.
I hope you are doing well.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Almighty God, whose most dear Son went not up to joy but
first he suffered pain, and entered not into glory before he
was crucified: Mercifully grant that we, walking in the way
of the cross, may find it none other than the way of life and
peace; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord. Amen.
~The Collect For The Monday In Holy Week, The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 220
If this looks familiar, it is, as we also use this collect every Friday.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, April 6, 2009 12:02 AM CDT
~Palm Sunday Blessings To All!
Dear Rhonda,
As my son and I enjoyed spinach omelets on a cold Palm Sunday, I thought of my CaringBridge friends. Connor will be remembered in many services this week.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect For The Sunday Of The Passion (Palm Sunday):
Almighty and everliving God, in your tender love for the human race you sent your Son our Savior Jesus Christ to take upon him our nature, and to suffer death upon the cross, giving us the example of his great humility: Mercifully grant that we may walk in the way of his suffering, and also share in his resurrection; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
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Traditional Palm Sunday Processional Hymn:
Refrain:
All glory, laud, and honor
to thee, Redeemer, King!
to whom the lips of children
made sweet hosannas ring.
Thou art the King of Israel,
thou David's royal Son,
who in the Lord's Name comest,
the King and Blessed One. Refrain
The company of angels
are praising thee on high;
and mortal men and all things
created make reply. Refrain
The people of the Hebrews
with palms before thee went;
our praise and prayer and anthems
before thee we present. Refrain
To thee before thy passion
they sang their hymns of praise;
to thee, now high exalted,
our melody we raise. Refrain
Thou didst accept their praises;
accept the prayers we bring,
who in all good delightest,
thou good and gracious King. Refrain
Words: Theodulph of Orleans (ca. 750-821), ca. 820
Trans. John Mason Neale (1818-1866), 1854,
as altered in Hymns Ancient and Modern
Music: St. Theodulph (Valet will ich dir geben),
(Melchior Teschner, 1584-1635, arranged William Henry Monk, 1823-1889)
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/a/a108.html
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, April 5, 2009 4:06 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I just want you to know that I am thinking of you and of sweet Connor. I hope all is well with you and with all of Connor's friends and relatives.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Almighty God, by the hand of Moses your servant you led your people out of slavery, and made them free at last; Grant that your Church, following the example of your prophet Martin Luther King, may resist oppression in the name of your love, and may secure for all your children the blessed liberty of the Gospel of Jesus Christ; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, April 4, 2009 9:23 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I was having a little difficulty with my internet connection on April 1, but I was remembering Connor and thinking of you and of all of Connor's other loved ones. May God bless you all.
Since yesterday was the first day of National Poetry Month, and since I have been thinking of an Antoine de Saint-Exuperty poem for a few days now, I will leave it beneath my signature. Your family, like mine, lived as the poet talked, and our boys were enriched by all we did with, and for, them.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Generation To Generation
In a house which becomes a home,
one hands down and another takes up
the heritage of mind and heart,
laughter and tears, musings and deeds.
Love, like a carefully loaded ship,
crosses the gulf between the generations.
Therefore, we do not neglect the ceremonies
of our passage: when we wed, when we die,
and when we are blessed with a child;
When we depart and when we return;
When we plant and when we harvest.
Let us bring up our children. It is not
the place of some official to hand to them
their heritage.
If others impart to our children our knowledge
and ideals, they will lose all of us that is
wordless and full of wonder.
Let us build memories in our children,
lest they drag out joyless lives,
lest they allow treasures to be lost because
they have not been given the keys.
We live, not by things, but by the meanings
of things. It is needful to transmit the passwords
from generation to generation.
~ Antoine de Saint-Exupery (1900-1944), Author Of The Little Prince
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, April 2, 2009 3:29 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I just wrote an e mail and then they asked for the confirmation # and there wasn't one there so I think I lost what I wrote so here goes again.
I am thinking of your sweet Connor and you today on this first day of the month. I imagine Connor is playing April Fools Pranks in Heaven on all the angels there. (mother nature is playing pranks on us here as it is more like winter than spring.)
Know you are daily in my prayers.
God Bless,
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Wednesday, April 1, 2009 11:51 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
It has been a busy week, but I have remembered Connor in various Lenten services. I hope you are doing well.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Friday's Collect (For The Fourth Friday In Lenten):
O God, you have given us the good news of your abounding love in your Son Jesus Christ: So fill our hearts with thankfulness that we may rejoice to proclaim the good tidings we have received; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, March 28, 2009 1:08 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
A lot of things have come up in discussion, in recent days, about animals. It has made me think of Connor a little more often than usual. May God bless your sweet little animal doctor, and may God bless you.
I am leaving a prayer in thanksgiving for animals, which I hope you enjoy.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
For All God's Creatures
O God, we thank thee,
for all the creatures thou hast made,
so perfect in their kind --
great animals like the elephant and the rhinoceros,
humorous animals like the camel and the monkey,
friendly ones like the dog and the cat,
working ones like the horse and the ox,
timid ones like the squirrel and the rabbit,
majestic ones like the lion and the tiger,
for birds with their songs.
O God, give us such love for thy creation,
that love may cast out fear,
and all thy creatures -- and thy creation,
see in men and women like us
their priest and their friend.
~George Appleton
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, March 24, 2009 12:23 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of you, and of sweet Connor, on a cold late March day. I hope you and Connor's grandparents are well.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect (Monday in the Fourth Week of Lent):
O Lord our God, in your Holy Sacraments you have given us a foretaste of the good things of your kingdom: Direct us, we pray, in the way that leads to eternal life, that we may come to appear before you in that place of light where you dwell forever with your saints; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, March 23, 2009 11:02 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Connor was remembered in weekend Holy Eucharist, and while at St. George's, I prayed for you and for many of Connor's loved ones. I hope you are doing well, as we begin spring.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect (A Favorite):
Gracious Father, whose blessed Son Jesus Christ came down from heaven to be the true bread which gives life to the world: Evermore give us this bread, that he may live in us, and we in him; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 219
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, March 22, 2009 11:20 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I thought I left a St. Patrick's Day message early Tuesday morning, but I guess it did not register. I hope, if you like it, that you had a traditional Corn Beef and Cabbage dinner. I also hope you had a chance to hear some Irish stories and jokes.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect For March 17:
Almighty God, in your providence you chose your servant Patrick to be the apostle of the Irish people, to bring those who were wandering in darkness and error to the true light and knowledge of you: Grant us so to walk in that light that we may come at last to the light of everlasting life; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, March 18, 2009 1:40 AM CDT
Good luck with the Relay. I know it will be in a few weeks. It is such a wonderful tribute to Connor. Take care.
Lisa
Mount Juliet, TN USA - Tuesday, March 17, 2009 9:18 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I have been here several times tbis past week, but I have not had time enough to leave a message. I hope you and all of Connor's loved ones are doing well. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Forty days and forty nights
thou wast fasting in the wild;
forty days and forty nights
tempted, and yet undefiled.
Should not we thy sorrow share
and from worldly joys abstain,
fasting with unceasing prayer,
strong with thee to suffer pain?
Then if Satan on us press,
Jesus, Savior, hear our call!
Victor in the wilderness,
grant we may not faint or fall!
So shall we have peace divine:
holier gladness ours shall be;
round us, too, shall angels shine,
such as ministered to thee.
Keep, O keep us, Savior dear,
ever constant by thy side;
that we thee we may appear
at the eternal Eastertide.
Words: George Hunt Smyttan (1822-1870), 1856
Music: Aus der Tiefe rufe ich (Heinlein) (Nürnbergisches Gesangbuch, 1676, attributed to Martin Herbst, 1654-1681)
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/f/f242.html
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, March 15, 2009 2:44 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I haven't signed in a long time, and I'm so sorry. I'm sending you hugs and special prayers for a peaceful and prosperous week.
Deb
Litchfield, NH USA - Tuesday, March 10, 2009 5:24 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Connor has been remembered in Eucharist. May God bless your sweet sunshine boy. It's hard to believe that Connor would be well into his teens (almost 14 and a half).
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
O God, whose glory it is always to have mercy: Be gracious to all who have gone astray from your ways, and bring them again with penitent hearts and steadfast faith to embrace and hold fast the unchangeable truth of your Word, Jesus Christ your Son; who with you and the Holy Spirit lives and reigns, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 218
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, March 8, 2009 11:25 AM CDT
thinking of Connor's family
tricia <triciabxny@yahoo.com>
- Saturday, March 7, 2009 12:26 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of you and of Connor today. May God bless you both.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect (For Saturday In The First Week Of Lent):
O God, by your Word you marvelously carry out the work of reconciliation: Grant that in our Lenten fast we may be devoted to you with all our hearts, and united with one another in prayer and holy love; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, March 7, 2009 10:07 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
Connor was remembered in Holy Eucharist and at Stations of the Cross, earlier this week.
Last night, I had dinner out with Andrew. Coming home, I thought of Connor and how much he and you would have enjoyed a similar meal.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Collect For The Friday In The First Week Of Lent:
Lord Christ, our eternal Redeemer, grant us such fellowship in your sufferings, that filled with your Holy Spirit, we may subdue the flesh to the spirit, and the spirit to you, and at the last attain to the glory of your resurrection; who live and reign with the Father and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, March 6, 2009 0:28 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of you and your sweet sunshine boy who brought sunshine into the lives of everyone he touched with his courage,inspiration and that beautiful smile that lit up the world!
God Bless,
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Sunday, March 1, 2009 4:37 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of you, and of sweet Connor, on another first of the month. May God give you comfort, strength, and courage.
God bless you, Eddie, and all of Connor's loved ones.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Almighty God, whose blessed Son was led by the Spirit to be tempted by Satan; Come quickly to help us who are assaulted by many temptations; and, as you know the weaknesses of each of us, let each one find you mighty to save; through Jesus Christ your Son my Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 218
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, March 1, 2009 11:06 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of you, and of your brave little trooper, Connor, this morning. I will also remember Connor, in Eucharist.
God bless you always, and God bless your little hero.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect For The Saturday After Ash Wednesday:
Almighty and everlasting God, mercifully look upon our infirmities, and in all our dangers and necessities stretch forth your right hand to help and defend us; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
~Lesser Feasts And Fasts
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, February 28, 2009 9:44 AM CST
Prayer enlarges the heart until it is capable of containing God’s gift of Himself.
~Mother Teresa (1910-1997)
Dear Rhonda,
On the first Friday of Lent, it seems good to think of the words of Mother Teresa. Those who keep a holy (prayerful) Lent know the joy of receiving our Lord afresh and alive on Easter.
One of the men of St. George's is emailing a Psalm a day, based on the favorite Psalms of the lay readers of the parish. He began the season with his favorite, and he honors me by sending my favorite today. Please honor God by praying it with me.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Psalm 16: 5-11, The Book of Common Prayer, Page 600
5. O LORD, YOU are my portion and my cup; *
it is you who uphold my lot.
6. My boundaries enclose a pleasant land; *
indeed, I have a goodly heritage.
7. I will bless the LORD who gives me counsel; *
my heart teaches me, night after night.
8. I have set the LORD always before me; *
because he is at my right hand I shall not fall.
9. My heart, therefore, is glad, and my spirit rejoices; *
my body also shall rest in hope.
10. For you will not abandon me to the grave, *
nor let your holy one see the Pit.
11. You will show me the path of life; *
in your presence there is fullness of joy,
and in your right hand are pleasures for evermore.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, February 27, 2009 8:47 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
Thinking of you and your sunshine boy. He will ALWAYS be in my heart.
Love and hugs,
Kathy
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Thursday, February 26, 2009 9:07 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
As Lent begins, I am thinking of you, Connor, and all of Connor's loved ones. I glanced at the Resurrection/New Life stained glass, at St. George's, while there yesterday, for the imposition of ashes, and thought of Connor and his enjoyment of animals and of nature, in general. God bless his sweet spirit.
I hope you, your parents, and all of Connor's other family members are doing well.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Lord, who throughout these forty days
for us didst fast and pray,
teach us with thee to mourn our sins,
and close by thee to stay.
As thou with Satan didst contend
and didst the victory win,
O give us strength in thee to fight,
in thee to conquer sin.
As thou didst hunger bear and thirst,
so teach us, gracious Lord,
to die to self, and chiefly live
by thy most holy word.
And through these days of penitence,
and through thy Passiontide,
yea, evermore, in life and death,
Jesus! with us abide.
Abide with us, that so, this life
of suffering over-past,
an Easter of unending joy
we may attain at last!
Words: Claudia F. Hernaman, 1873
Music: St. Flavian
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/l/l511.html
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, February 26, 2009 11:14 AM CST
Happy Mardi Gras To All!
Dear Rhonda,
When my boys were little, we always enjoyed a Shrove Tuesday Pancake Supper on this day. My older boy could really pack the cakes in! Pancakes, especially my blueberry pannies, are still one of Andrew's favorite meals. Will you be having pancakes tonight?
As always, I am thinking of Connor. May God always bless him.
God bless you and all of your loved ones.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Collect For February 24:
God, who in the place of Judas chose your faithful servant Matthias to be numbered among the Twelve: Grant that your Church, being delivered from false apostles, may always be guided and governed by faithful and true pastors; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, February 24, 2009 10:21 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I have been here a few times this week. There has not been too much to say, but I do want you to know that I am thinking of you and of your sweet sunshine boy, Connor.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, February 20, 2009 10:02 AM CST
Happy President's Week To All!
Dear Rhonda,
I have just finished sending President's Day greetings to the children in our extended family. I added about a dozen cute dog pictures, as the oldest child is only six and a half, so I have to keep things light for them. I would love to be able to send such greetings to Connor.
You were in my thoughts and prayers, when I was at Eucharist yesterday. May God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, February 16, 2009 12:37 AM CST
thinking of you and our angels..missing them so dearly
DeAnna~Chase's Moma FOREVR!!! <Chasesmiracle@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, February 15, 2009 10:10 AM CST
Dearest Rhonda. We have been so blessed to have you come in to our lives and therefore being able to hear about Conners' journey. I am most certain he was an amazing little boy because his mommy certainly is. Love you lots..Kim Eddie & Family
Kim & Eddie Dorris <kimmy62@comcast.net>
Hendersonville, TN USA - Sunday, February 15, 2009 9:12 AM CST
Happy Valentine's Day To All!
Dear Rhonda,
I have thought of you, and of sweet Connor, several times this week. I hope things are going well, there in the Hendersonville area.
Since today is Valentine's Day, I will leave you a few of my favorite quotes on love.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
We must begin with love, continue with love, and end with love.
~St. Francis de Sales
+++
To fall in love with God is the greatest of romances. To seek Him the greatest treasure. To find Him the greatest human achievement.
~St. Augustine
+++
We may not be able to give much, but we can always give the joy that springs in a heart that is in love with God.
~Mother Teresa Of Calcutta
+++
Love Him totally who gave Himself totally for your love.
~St. Claire of Assisi
+++
Duty calls us to do things well, but love makes us do them beautifully.
~Phillips Brooks
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, February 14, 2009 2:26 AM CST
I'm thinking about you and your so very special valentine, Connor.
Lisa
Mount Juliet, TN USA - Friday, February 13, 2009 6:20 PM CST
My thoughts & prayers are w/ you! Connor your a real HERO!
Love, Renee
Renee Lammons <brslammonss@yahoo.com>
Houston, TX USA - Friday, February 13, 2009 1:29 PM CST
Rhonda and Eddie: Thinking of you both, and praying for a successful Relay this year.
Big hugs,
Kriste
My Big Brother - Tracy Lanius <Kristewithane@comcast.net>
Goodlettsville, TN USA - Wednesday, February 11, 2009 9:44 PM CST
thinking of you;wishing you the best
tricia <triciabxny@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, February 11, 2009 2:45 PM CST
looking for some one to corespond with
samuel1 <chigozie_schi@yahoo.com>
abidjan, abidjan i vory coast - Wednesday, February 11, 2009 4:19 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I have just finished preparing Valentines for the children of our family. How I wish Connor was here, so I could make one for him. May God bless his sweet spirit.
I hope you are doing well.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, February 9, 2009 9:59 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
Yesterday, Andrew and I had lunch at the Pizza Hut Buffet. It has been a couple of months since we have been there, so it was a greatly appreciated break from the humdrum of a really long winter. The Super Bowl made me hungry for wings, so we ordered a basket, to go with our buffet selections. It was a tasty, fun, and relaxing meal.
Connor will be remembered in Eucharist this weekend. While at the service, I will pray for you.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
From Today's Reading From The Nouwen Society:
Gentle is the one who is attentive to the strengths and weaknesses of the other and enjoys being together more than accomplishing something. A gentle person treads lightly, listens carefully, looks tenderly, and touches with reverence. A gentle person knows that true growth requires nurture, not force. Let's dress ourselves with gentleness. In our tough and often unbending world our gentleness can be a vivid reminder of the presence of God among us.
~Henri Nouwen (1932-1996)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, February 7, 2009 12:18 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of you and remembering dear Connor on another Friday.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
A Collect For Fridays:
Almighty God, whose most dear Son went not up to joy but
first he suffered pain, and entered not into glory before he
was crucified: Mercifully grant that we, walking in the way
of the cross, may find it none other than the way of life and
peace; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord. Amen.
The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 99
Written By William Reed Huntington (1838-1909)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, February 6, 2009 9:38 AM CST
Dear Sherry and family,
Alan and I have you in our prayers. We wish you continued progress in your road to recovery...Sally & Alan Klein
Sally Klein <sallyotg@suddenlink.net>
Vienna, WV USA - Thursday, February 5, 2009 6:23 AM CST
we misss you very much !!!!
Bill &Mary Crook <crookwf@comcast.net>
goodlettsville, tn USA - Wednesday, February 4, 2009 12:15 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
Andrew and I are eager for pictures of the new family baby. My cousin now has six grandsons and one granddaughter. I enjoy them all.
Many times, when I see pictures of one of the older kids holding one of the younger, I think of the picture of Connor holding Brett. God bless your sweet sunshine boy.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Almighty and everlasting God, you sent your servant Anskar as an apostle to the people of Scandinavia, and enabled him to lay a firm foundation for their conversion, though he did not see the results of his labors: Keep your Church from discouragement in the day of small things, knowing that when you have begun a good work you will bring it to a fruitful conclusion; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, February 3, 2009 9:43 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
A couple of hours ago, my cousin, Marge, called to tell me that her son, Rick, and his wife, Anita, had a baby boy, they plan to call Wes, this morning, at 5:01. Marge and I have been in touch regularly, as this birth approached, and last night, she called to tell me that the newcomer was on his way. Thank God for another healthy family baby and for all healthy children everywhere.
Today is the Feast of the Presentation. I will leave the collect below.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Almighty and everliving God, we humbly pray that, as your only-begotten Son was this day presented in the temple, so we may be presented to you with pure and clean hearts by Jesus Christ our Lord; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, February 2, 2009 11:13 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
As the sun shines brightly this morning in Green Bay my thoughts are of a little blonde haired sunshine boy. He will NEVER be forgotten. A few of his pictures adorn my computer desk and whenever Brandon is here and playing on the computer he acknowledges Connor's pictures. I do miss Connor's earthly presence, but I feel him near me often.
God Bless you and know you are daily in my prayers.
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Sunday, February 1, 2009 10:58 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
Connor was remembered, in Holy Eucharist, yesterday. After the service, we enjoyed an Italian dinner, sponsored by the youth group. The kids were working hard, but also having a lot of fun. I am sure Connor would have enjoyed the evening.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Almighty and everlasting God, you govern all things both in heaven and on earth: Mercifully hear the supplications of your people, and in our time grant us your peace; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, February 1, 2009 10:20 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
Connor was remembered, in Eucharist, when I did the lay reading yesterday. Connor is a solid thread in my prayer life and in the prayers of many others. God bless his sweet spirit!
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Give us grace, O Lord, to answer readily the call of our Savior Jesus Christ and proclaim to all people the Good News of his salvation, that we and the whole world may perceive the glory of his marvelous works; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 215
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, January 25, 2009 11:44 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
Today is the commemoration of Bishop Phillips Brooks, who penned the lyrics to "O Little Town of Bethlehem." Brooks was known as a friend of children. After he died, a five year old girl asked her mother why she had not seen him recently. When her mother told her that Brooks had gone to heaven, the child exclaimed, "Oh, Mama, how happy the angels will be."
Truly the little girl was right, and truly the angels were also happy to have Connor enter the glorious kingdom.
Beneath my signature, I will add today's collect and my favorite Brooks quotation. Truly you, in your care for Connor, are an example of the bishop's words.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
O everlasting God, you revealed truth to your servant Phillips Brooks, and so formed and molded his mind and heart that he was able to mediate that truth with grace and power: Grant, we pray, that all whom you call to preach the Gospel may steep themselves in your Word, and conform their lives to your will; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
+++
Duty calls us to do things well, but love makes us do them beautifully.
~Phillips Brooks (1835-1893)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, January 23, 2009 12:10 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of your little sunshine boy who brightened the lives of all those who were blessed to know him. Though I was never fortunate enough to meet him in person he alway has held a very special place in my heart and always will. You are in my prayers daily.
I fell on the ice a few weeks ago and ended up in the emergency room with stitches in my finger and a very sore rib/side. This week has been my best week in a few, although still a bit sore I am able to move much easier. I am lucky I did not break anything, I fell hard on our back porch which is concrete, my rib hit the step.
Miss hearing from you. Take care
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Thursday, January 22, 2009 4:37 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
This is a quickie to remind you that I am thinking of Connor, and of you, today. May God bless you both.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect (I am struck by the words, "invincible and steadfast faith." May we ask for and receive this gift today.) :
Almighty God, whose deacon Vincent, upheld by you, was not terrified by threats nor overcome by torments: Strengthen us to endure all adversity with invincible and steadfast faith; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, January 22, 2009 12:23 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of you and hoping you are all right. If there is anything I may be able to do to help, please be in touch.
We are awaiting the birth of a child in our extended family. The young couple has a little girl, Ella Grace, who is three. As I think of the child, who will be born any day now, I remember the picture you posted of Connor and Brett.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Almighty and everlasting God, you choose those whom the world deems powerless to put the powerful to shame: Grant us so to cherish the memory of your youthful martyr Agnes, that we may share her pure and steadfast faith in you; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, January 21, 2009 11:13 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of you on this historic day. I wonder if Connor would have enjoyed the inauguration and other national observances as much as my boys always did. My sons were into scouting, sports, church, music, and community service, when they were in their early teens. I wonder what may have interested Connor. Surely animals and fast vehicles would have been a part of Connor's life.
God bless you always, and God bless our nation.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, January 20, 2009 9:24 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of you, on a snowy winter evening. Connor has been remembered in Eucharist, and it is about time for some hot drinks, at our house. I hope and pray that all is well with you and with all of Connor's loved ones.
Below is the first prayer for the Week of Christian Unity, which began today.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
God of compassion, you have loved and forgiven us in Christ, and sought to reconcile the entire human race in that redeeming love. Look with favor upon us, who work and pray for the unity of divided Christian communities. Grant us the experience of being brothers and sisters in your love. May we be one, one in your hand. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, January 18, 2009 5:45 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of you, at the end of a very cold week. We may reach temperatures around 28 toward the middle of next week, which would be a real heat wave. I hope you are safe, warm, and well.
Today's saint is Antony, an abbot in Egypt, who died on 17 January, 356. His biography was written by Athanasius, who said of him: "Who ever met him grieving and failed to go away rejoicing?" I will leave the collect below.
God bless you always, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, and God bless all of Connor's loved ones and friends. (I am naming several of those relatives and friends to the Lord, while I am at Connor's site.)
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
O God, who by your Holy Spirit enabled your servant Antony to Withstand the temptations of the world, the flesh, and the devil: Give us grace, with pure hearts and minds, to follow you, the only God; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, January 17, 2009 1:30 PM CST
Rhonda--please know I am thinking of you and Angel Connor. You are all still in my heart, thoughts, and prayers.
We love you! Hayden is 7--can you believe it?
Lori Pierce
Lori <hayden01@tds.net>
Mt Juliet, Tn - Thursday, January 15, 2009 3:38 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
For a couple of days, I have been thinking about a prayer of St. Ambrose. I will leave it here, so it can help you, too.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Lord Jesus Christ, you are for me medicine when I am sick; you are my strength when I need help; you are my life when I fear death; you are the way when I long for heaven; you are light when all is dark; you are my food when I need nourishment.
~St. Ambrose of Milan (c.337-397)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, January 15, 2009 2:20 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
As always, I am thinking of you, and of sweet Connor.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
O Lord our God, you raised up your servant Hilary to be a champion of the catholic faith: Keep us steadfast in that true faith which we professed at our baptism, that we may rejoice in having you for our Father, and may abide in your Son, in the fellowship of the Holy Spirit; who live and reign for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, January 13, 2009 11:24 PM CST
Your site uplifted me. Thank you
Dane Charity <danecharity@yahoo.com>
Tampa, FL USA - Monday, January 12, 2009 7:33 PM CST
Blessings On The Feast Of The Baptism Of Our Lord!
Dear Rhonda,
Connor has been remembered in Holy Eucharist this weekend. After church yesterday, a friend and I went to IHOP for dinner. It began snowing, as we were about to leave the restaurant, and we got about eight inches of fluffy, light snow overnight. Connor would have delighted in the abundance of soft snow.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Father in heaven, who at the baptism of Jesus in the River Jordan proclaimed him your beloved Son and anointed him with the Holy Spirit: Grant that all who are baptized into his Name may keep the covenant they have made, and boldly confess him as Lord and Savior; who with you and the Holy Spirit lives and reigns, one God, in glory everlasting. Amen.
The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 214
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, January 11, 2009 12:57 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
As always, I am thinking of you and of sweet Connor. God bless you on another day of walking in the way of the cross.
As I came to this site, I found myself humming the Epiphany hymn, by John Mason Neale, which I left you on Tuesday. Here is a bit of it again.
Warned by God from Herod’s door,
Each king turns for home once more
Hearts and footsteps lighter.
+ Remember, no one ever truly encounters the living Christ, with out her heart and footsteps becoming lighter. +
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
A Collect For Fridays:
Almighty God, whose most dear Son went not up to joy but
first he suffered pain, and entered not into glory before he
was crucified: Mercifully grant that we, walking in the way
of the cross, may find it none other than the way of life and
peace; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord. Amen.
The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 99
Written By William Reed Huntington (1838-1909)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, January 9, 2009 12:42 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
We have had another mixed weather night and morning, with a lot of ice coming down on top of snow. It is very slippery walking out there, but this time, our power stayed on, and as far as I know, most others also have electricity, too.
In doing my spiritual reading, I came across two related quotes that I want to share with you.
May you know the strength and depth of God today, and may you always be blessed.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
Colette
+++
I have no other helper than you, no other father, I pray to you.
Only you can help me. My present misery is too great.
Despair grips me, and I am at my wit's end,
O Lord, Creator, Ruler of the World, Father.
I thank you that you have brought me through.
How strong the pain was - but you were stronger.
How deep the fall was - but you were even deeper.
How dark the night was - but you were the noonday sun in it.
You are our father, our mother, our brother, and our friend.
~an African prayer
for January 7
in Prayers for Healing: 365 Blessings, Poems, and Meditations from Around the World
edited by Maggie Oman
+++
One who is at peace can draw good from everything.
~Gerald Groote, Dutch preacher, 1340-1384
Peace Thought for January 7
~from Peacemaking Day By Day, Volume 2
Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, January 7, 2009 12:26 AM CST
Glad Epiphany To All!
Dear Rhonda,
On this holy day, I am thinking of you, and of sweet Connor. We are having nasty weather, and I am not feeling my best, so I did not get out to Eucharist tonight. I am contenting myself singing some of my favorite Epiphany hymns. I will include the John Mason Neale hymn that not many people know, but which is probably my favorite. Tony Barrand and John Roberts, who study and perform traditional music, are the ones that introduced it to me. It is on a couple of their Nowell Sing We Clear albums and also on a Pint and Dale recording.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Over the Hill and Over the Dale
by John Mason Neale
Over the hill and over the dale
Came three kings together
Caring naught for snow and hail
Cold and wind and weather
Now on Persia’s sandy plane
Now where Tigris swells with rain
They their camels tether
Now through Syrian lands they go
Now through Moab faint and slow
Now o’r Edam’s heather.
Over the hill and over the dale
Each king bears a present
Wise men go a child to hale
Monarchs seek a peasant
And in front a star proceeds
Over rocks and rivers leads
Shines with beams incessant
Therefore onward, onward still
Ford the stream and climb the hill
Love makes all things pleasant.
He is God ye go to meet
Therefore incense proffer
He is king ye go to greet
Gold is in your coffer
Also man he comes to share
Every woe that man can bear
Tempter, railer, scoffer
Therefore now against the day
In the grave when him they lay
Myrrh ye also offer.
Over the hill and over the dale,
Riding east together
Caring naught for snow and hail,
Naught for wind and weather
Warned by God from Herod’s door,
Each king turns for home once more
Hearts and footsteps lighter,
Now behind them shines the star
Which they followed from afar,
Shining ever brighter.
Today's Collect:
O God, by the leading of a star you manifested your only Son to the peoples of the earth: Lead us, who know you now by faith, to your presence, where we may see your glory face to face; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, January 6, 2009 7:01 PM CST
Rhonda, just wanted to let you know that you and Connor are on my mind. I am so glad the holidays are over. They are so very painful now.
I am so very proud of our warriors. They had SO MUCH strength & courage.
Praying you have comfort and get lots signs from Connor.
WWW.caringbridge.com/visit/miracle2
DeAnna~Longing to be with my son, Chase <Chasesmiracle@yahoo.com>
- Monday, January 5, 2009 5:36 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
Greetings to you, and to all of Connor's friends on Twelfth Night! When my boys were little, we used to go to the party at Fort Crailo, in Rensselaer. I am sure Connor would have enjoyed the traditional food treats, music, and gaiety.
I have just learned that one of Connor's best supporters, a special lady from Arkansas, is celebrating her birthday today. God bless you, Sharon!
Connor has been remembered in several celebrations of the Eucharist, during these holy Twelve Days.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless Connor.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, January 5, 2009 3:09 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
A friend sent me a forward about a young boy, with leukemia, being made an honorary fireman. As I read, I could not help thinking about Connor and the picture of him in his fireman's outfit on the homepage. I also thought of Connor's Disney trips, his ride in the General Lee, and his go-kart. Despite suffering and evil in the world, many people are so good. Of course, when the ill person was Connor, it was easy to be good.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect (another of my favorites):
O God, who wonderfully created, and yet more wonderfully restored, the dignity of human nature: Grant that we may share the divine life of him who humbled himself to share our humanity, your Son Jesus Christ; who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, January 4, 2009 1:06 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of you, and remembering Connor, as I listen to the wind blow. We have had a very windy start to the new year.
Yesterday, Andrew treated me to a showing of the movie, Valkyrie. We enjoy history, so we liked it.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Almighty and everlasting God, we thank you for your servant Gladys Aylward, whom you called to preach the Gospel to the people of China. Raise up in this and every land heralds and evangelists of your kingdom, that your Church may make proclaim the unsearchable riches of our Savior Jesus Christ; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, January 3, 2009 12:47 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
Thinking of Connor and you on this first day of the month and the New Year. He will always be in my heart and my life was blessed and enriched by knowing that sweet little blonde boy with a heart so big and courage so strong.
God Bless you.
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Thursday, January 1, 2009 7:51 PM CST
Happy New Year To All!
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of you, as we begin a new year. My 2009 be a time of peace, prosperity, and blessings for you.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect (Feast of the Holy Name of Jesus):
Today's Collect:
Eternal Father, who gave to your incarnate Son the holy name of
Jesus to be the sign of our salvation: Plant in every heart, we
pray, the love of him who is the Savior of the world, our Lord
Jesus Christ; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy
Spirit, one God, in glory everlasting. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, January 1, 2009 9:49 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of you on New Year's Eve.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, December 31, 2008 8:21 PM CST
HI I just wanted to let you know that not a day passes that I do not remember your Connor and you. Today its been 15 years since i lost my Mike,
Sharon <sholweger5@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, December 30, 2008 7:37 PM CST
"And new command I give you:Love one another.As I have loved you,so you must love another."this is my dear greeting to you all who love Christ and will exsept him with joy and hope and watching theys hearts that stand in Christ,so win too your neighbor to him and pray and joy,thanks and bless and joy,keijo sweden
keijo <keijo.leppioja@hotmail.com>
södertälje, sweden - Monday, December 29, 2008 11:04 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
Yesterday, I received three beautifully framed pictures of my boys celebrating Christmases in their childhood. I cannot help comparing them to the picture of Connor with Santa and the picture of Connor beneath your tree. The look on Connor's face, as he gazed at Santa was priceless.
Today we remember the Holy Innocents, the first to die for Christ. The collect is below.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
Colette
We remember today, O God, the slaughter of the holy innocents of Bethlehem by King Herod. Receive, we pray, into the arms of your mercy all innocent victims; and by your great might frustrate the designs of evil tyrants and establish your rule of justice, love, and peace; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, December 29, 2008 9:13 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
Connor was remembered in Eucharist, on Saturday afternoon. He was also remembered earlier in the week on Christmas Eve and Christmas Day.
Andrew and I have a busy day planned for today, so I am signing early, to be sure I do.
God bless you always, and God bless all of Connor's loved ones.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Almighty God, you have poured upon us the new light of your incarnate Word: Grant that this light, enkindled in our hearts, may shine forth in our lives; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, December 28, 2008 3:26 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I have just read a good article about customs for the Twelve Days of Christmas, in homes, and in churches. It makes me think of years past, when my boys were growing up. I am sure the topic could bring to your mind many delightful thoughts of Connor. I love the picture of him, beneath your family Christmas tree! May your memories of your own childhood Christmases, and your memories of Christmases with Connor, bring you joy and peace today.
Today is the Feast of St. John, the Apostle. I will leave you the collect, and the verse for St. John from For All Your Saints Still Striving.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Shed upon your Church, O Lord, the brightness of your light, that we, being illumined by the teaching of your apostle and evangelist John, may so walk in the light of your truth, that at length we may attain to the fullness of eternal life; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
+++
By all your saints still striving, for all your saints at rest,
Your holy Name, O Jesus. for evermore be blessed.
You rose, our King victorious, that they might wear the crown
And ever shine in splendor reflected from your throne.
For John, your beloved disciple, exiled to Patmos' shore,
And for his faithful record, we praise you evermore;
Praise for the mystic vision his words to us unfold.
Instill in us his longing, your glory to behold.
Then let us praise the Father and worship God the Son
And sing to God the Spirit, eternal Three in One,
Till all the ransomed number who stand before the throne
Ascribe all power and glory and praise to God alone.
Words: Horatio Bolton Nelson (1823-1913); ver. Hymnal, 1982
Music: King's Lynn, English melody; adapt. Ralph Vaughan Williams (1872-1958)
or Nyland, Finnish folk melody; adapt. David Evans (1874-1948)
Hear Nyland at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/b/b209a.html
Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, December 27, 2008 11:13 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
Today is the Feast of St. Stephen the Protomartyr. Stephen was on my list of boys' names, which reminds me that I never heard the story of Connor's name. Perhaps someday you will share it.
God bless you, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
We give you thanks, O Lord of glory, for the example of the first martyr Stephen, who looked up to heaven and prayed for his persecutors to your Son Jesus Christ, who stands at your right hand; where he lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, in glory everlasting. Amen.
+++
Perhaps you can take a minute to sing this hymn with me.
By all your saints still striving, for all your saints at rest,
Your holy Name, O Jesus. for evermore be blessed.
You rose, our King victorious, that they might wear the crown
And ever shine in splendor reflected from your throne.
All praise, O Lord, for Stephen who, martyred saw you stand
To help in times of torment, to plead at God's right hand.
Like you, our suffering Savior, his enemies he blessed,
With "Lord, receive my spirit," his faith, in death, confessed.
Then let us praise the Father and worship God the Son
And sing to God the Spirit, eternal Three in One,
Till all the ransomed number who stand before the throne
Ascribe all power and glory and praise to God alone.
Words: Horatio Bolton Nelson (1823-1913); ver. Hymnal, 1982
Music: King's Lynn, English melody; adapt. Ralph Vaughan Williams (1872-1958)
or Nyland, Finnish folk melody; adapt. David Evans (1874-1948)
Hear Nyland at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/b/b209a.html
Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, December 26, 2008 10:08 AM CST
Merry Christmas!
Just wanted to stop by and let you know we're holding your family in our heart today and always.
God bless!
The Garcia Family,
Frank, Renee, Kassidy, Kameron, Kennedy & Keeghan
http://www.myspecialks.com
http://www.carepages.com/carepages/kennedygarcia
Renee Garcia <CAmommy2KJ@aol.com>
Clarksville, TN - Thursday, December 25, 2008 8:29 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
Thinking of you and your sunshine boy this blessed day. God Bless you and know your sweet boy is always on our minds and in our hearts.
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Thursday, December 25, 2008 5:43 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I read at St. George's, this morning. While there, I remembered Connor in Holy Eucharist, and I prayed for you.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
O God, you make us glad by the yearly festival of the birth of your only Son Jesus Christ: Grant that we, who joyfully receive him as our Redeemer, may with sure confidence behold him when he comes to be our Judge; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, December 25, 2008 2:37 PM CST
Ronda
thinking of you this Christmas day
prayers and love from Mrs. Pam
- Thursday, December 25, 2008 11:19 AM CST
Hodie Christus natus est
hodie Salvator apparuit:
hodie in terra canunt Angeli,
laetantur Archangeli:
hodie exsultant justi, dicentes:
Gloria in excelsis Deo, alleluja.
Today is Christ born;
today the Savior has appeared;
today the Angels sing,
the Archangels rejoice;
today the righteous rejoice, saying:
Glory to God in the highest. Alleluia!
God bless you all on this blessed Christmas morning!
Connor was remembered in Holy Eucharist, on Christmas Eve, at St. George's. Andrew and I had five guests with us. What a lovely thing to happen!
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
Colette
This Morning's Collect:
Almighty God, you have given your only-begotten Son to take our nature upon him, and to be born this day of a pure virgin: Grant that we, who have been born again and made your children by adoption and grace, may daily be renewed by your Holy Spirit; through our Lord Jesus Christ, to whom with you and the same Spirit be honor and glory, now and for ever. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 213
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, December 25, 2008 1:37 AM CST
A Christmas Prayer
by Robert Louis Stevenson
Loving Father,
Help us remember the birth of Jesus,
that we may share in the song of the angels,
the gladness of the shepherds,
and worship of the wise men.
Close the door of hate
and open the door of love all over the world.
Let kindness come with every gift
and good desires with every greeting.
Deliver us from evil by the blessing
which Christ brings,
and teach us to be merry with clear hearts.
May the Christmas morning
make us happy to be thy children,
and Christmas evening bring us to our beds
with grateful thoughts,
forgiving and forgiven,
for Jesus' sake.
Amen.
God bless you, dear Rhonda. I am thinking of you tonight.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, December 24, 2008 3:21 PM CST
Christmas Blessings To All!
Dear Rhonda,
May your worship tonight, or tomorrow, be filled with joy and praise. I am thinking of you, and of sweet Connor, at this holy time of the year.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
LORD JESUS, as we contemplate your en-flesh-ment,
so that you could be like us in all ways but sin:
give us hearts filled with faith and gratitude,
that in this Christ-Mass we make experience Your redeeming love.
~A Prayer By Daniel William Herzog
Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, December 24, 2008 9:43 AM CST
merry christmas rhonda...i know connor will be with you tonight and tomorrow...love and hugs...deb
deborah pearce <deborahmp64@gmail.com>
southgate, MI - Wednesday, December 24, 2008 7:01 AM CST
I'm thinking of each one of you during the Christmas season. I hope Connor can send you a special sign on Christmas day.
Lisa
Mount Juliet, TN USA - Tuesday, December 23, 2008 8:59 PM CST
Rhonda, I have been thinking of you so much, and connor. I know it seems like an eternity to you that he has been gone.. It doesnt feel like 4 yrs could of passed though to me. You have come so far from those early days when thinking of surviving this 4 yrs later seemed so impossiple to bare. We pray for you. And are thinking of you especially during the Lords Birthday celebration! connor is celebrating with jesus again... can you even imagine that? it is more than we can ever imagine. Peace to you and your family.
Kim <dakk2222@comcast.net>
IN - Monday, December 22, 2008 10:07 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
Today is another blustery December day. We have fresh snow, but, due to the wind, few children will be playing outside, after school.
We are marking the Feast of St. Thomas, the Apostle, today. (It is normally celebrated on December 21, and is often the day of winter ordinations, but it was transferred, due to Sunday, which is always a Feast of Our Lord.) I will leave the collect and a hymn below.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless Connor.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Almighty and everliving God, who strengthened your apostle Thomas With sure and certain faith in your Son's resurrection: Grant us so perfectly and without doubt to believe in Jesus Christ, our Lord and our God, that our faith may never be found wanting in your sight; through him who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
By all your saints still striving, for all your saints at rest,
Your holy Name, O Jesus. for evermore be blessed.
You rose, our King victorious, that they might wear the crown
And ever shine in splendor reflected from your throne.
All praise, O Lord, for Thomas whose short-lived doubtings prove
Your perfect two-fold nature, the depth of your true love.
To all who live with questions a steadfast faith afford;
And grant us grace to know you, made flesh, yet God and Lord.
Then let us praise the Father and worship God the Son
And sing to God the Spirit, eternal Three in One,
Till all the ransomed number who stand before the throne
Ascribe all power and glory and praise to God alone.
Words: Horatio Bolton Nelson (1823-1913); ver. Hymnal, 1982
Music: King's Lynn, English melody; adapt. Ralph Vaughan Williams (1872-1958)
or Nyland, Finnish folk melody; adapt. David Evans (1874-1948)
Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, December 22, 2008 12:26 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
This weekend, we lit the peace candle in our parish Advent wreath, and many of us light the peace candle in our homes, at mealtime, or as we sit reading, or having family time. May you know the deep peace of Christ this week.
Tonight is the Blue Christmas, in Clifton Park. I almost always attend, but the snow is coming down, at a good clip, so I will stay home and sip hot chocolate, thinking about those in bereavement this year, and those sad because of illness, job loss, income reduction, and other hardships.
I hope you are at peace, safe, and comfortable.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless Connor.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect (one of my favorites):
Purify our conscience, Almighty God, by your daily visitation, that your Son Jesus Christ, at his coming, may find in us a mansion prepared for himself; who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, December 21, 2008 3:23 PM CST
Rhonda,
Just thought that I would look at Connor's sweet face & saw the update. Sorry that we have missed the Toy Drive this year. Not a day goes by that I don't think of Connor.Hope that you'll have a good Christmas.Maybe we can come to the Relay.We do miss him alot.
Donna Davis <daviswel@nctc.com>
Westmoreland, tn USA - Saturday, December 20, 2008 12:15 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
Many of us in the Great Northeast are getting back to normal now after the Ice Storm of December 11 and 12. Please pray for those still without heat, lights, and/or phone service, especially the elderly, children, and the disabled.
I am thinking of dear Connor, and of you, during this week of lighting the rose candle for JOY.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, December 15, 2008 9:41 AM CST
Rhonda,
I am was thinking of you today and wanted to say hello. Its hard to believe its been 4 years since Connor died. I still remember clearly you guys coming in and the fun we had. You are in my prayers. Michele Stratton
Michele Stratton <rstratto@bellsouth.net>
Burns, TN USA - Friday, December 12, 2008 3:26 PM CST
Thinking of you, Rhonda, and Connor tonight.
Can't wait to be with our boys!
DeAnna~Chase's Moma FOREVER!!! <Chasesmiracle@yahoo.com>
US - Tuesday, December 9, 2008 8:53 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
During this week of lighting the "love" candle in our Advent wreaths, I am thinking of you and your son, who was full of God's love.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
People, Look East
Text By Eleanor Farjeon
People, look East. The time is near
Of the crowning of the year.
Make your house fair as you are able,
Trim the hearth and set the table.
People, look East and sing today:
Love, the guest, is on the way.
Furrows, be glad. Though earth is bare,
One more seed is planted there:
Give up your strength the seed to nourish,
That in course the flower may flourish.
People, look East and sing today:
Love, the rose, is on the way.
Birds, though you long have ceased to build,
Guard the nest that must be filled.
Even the hour when wings are frozen
God for fledging time has chosen.
People, look East and sing today:
Love, the bird, is on the way.
Stars, keep the watch. When night is dim
One more light the bowl shall brim,
Shining beyond the frosty weather,
Bright as sun and moon together.
People, look East and sing today:
Love, the star, is on the way.
Angels, announce with shouts of mirth
Christ who brings new life to earth.
Set every peak and valley humming
With the word, the Lord is coming.
People, look East and sing today:
Love, the Lord, is on the way.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, December 9, 2008 8:24 AM CST
Rhonda
I hope Connor's Toy Drive brings lots of happiness to the children
in the hospital this Christmas season.
prayers and love from Mrs. Pam
- Tuesday, December 9, 2008 8:00 AM CST
Blessings To All On St. Nicholas Day!
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of your dear sunshine boy, on St. Nicholas Day. My boys used to put their shoes out on this day, to receive an orange, a candy cane, and some gold wrapped chocolate coins. It was also the day we began our annual reading of The Life and Times of St. Nicholas.
I am sure you have many memories of things you did with Connor during these winter days of longing and preparation for Christmas. May those thoughts keep you in good cheer this month.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Almighty God, who in your love gave to your servant Nicholas of Myra a perpetual name for deeds of kindness on land and sea: Grant, we pray, that your Church may never cease to work for the happiness of children, the safety of sailors, the relief of the poor, and the help of those tossed by tempests of doubt or grief; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, December 6, 2008 11:06 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of you, and of sweet Connor, on another Friday morning. I hope you are well and are having a productive and holy Advent.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
O God of unsearchable mystery, who led Clement of Alexandria to Find in ancient philosophy a path to knowledge of your Word: Grant that your Church may recognize true wisdom, wherever it is found, knowing that wisdom come from you and leads to you; through our Teacher Jesus Christ, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, December 5, 2008 6:44 AM CST
have a blessed holiday season
tricia <triciabxny@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, December 3, 2008 2:01 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
We had a touch of snow here yesterday, as well, but with a temperature close to 50 today, it has all melted away. My cousin, who lives near Oswego, had twenty inches on the ground, when I talked with her, last Monday.
Of course, I think of your sweet Connor every day. He has a place in my heart, as he does in Kathy's.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Lord God, make us so reflect your perfect love; that, with your Deacon Nicholas Ferrar and his household, we may rule ourselves according to your Word, and serve you with our whole heart; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, December 1, 2008 4:09 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
Thinking of you and your little sunshine boy on this another first day of the month. I love the new picture you added of Connor...it is now in my Connor file of pictures. Visiting his site makes me smile when I see him. He certainly touched my life and although I don't write often you are daily in my prayers and Connor will forever be in my thoughts and in my heart.
It snowed hard here all night and when I woke up we were like in a winter wonderland...I imagine Connor would be out playing in the snow if he had lived in WI. We don't really like it that much, but our grandsons love it!!!!
I have a dental appointment and I dread going out in this, I would rather stay in where it is warm, cozy and safe.
Take gentle care...love ya!
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Monday, December 1, 2008 8:56 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
It surprised me to see that Pat Kashtock learned that I had quoted her "Dancing Feet," in Connor's book and wrote to you. Sometime I will try to view her website, as I am sure you will also.
I have been thinking of you, as we lit the first Advent Candle. This one symbolizes hope, one of the great themes of the season. May you find home with you, as you pass through a holy and healthy Advent.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, November 30, 2008 9:09 PM CST
Hi Rhonda -- I am the person who wrote the Dancing Feet devotional for the Upper Room. My daughter, Heidi, died in the same year as your son. Heidi died as a result of long term radiation effects. It was long and hard, but like your Connor, she smiled through so much of it.
Shortly before she died, she told a friend of ours that she had to stay here until that time because there were things she "had to do." Then she said, "but they are done, now, and it is time for me to go home."
She did not tell us that, but after she spoke with our friend, she became extra happy. We had a wonderful few weeks where she seemed almost her old self again.
I have a web page if you would be interested:
http://patkashtock.squarespace.com/
I divided it into three sections. The first one called "Conversations" are more along the line of devotionals.
The second part has to do with Heidi. I add content as I can get to it.
I am so sorry to read that your marriage suffered from going through this. A critical illness of a child tends to prey on marriages because the situation is so hard on the family. I am really, really sorry. It seems one huge heartbreak would have been more than enough.
Prayers and blessings to you,
Pat Kashtock
Pat Kashtock <Zairezia@aol.com>
Woodbridge, VA USA - Saturday, November 29, 2008 4:52 PM CST
Remembering 14 year old Connor today and wishing you comfort and more "signs of love".
"There will be a day with no more tears and no more pain" & that day is when we're REUNITED with our lil men! Oh what a GLORIOUS,WONDERFUL DAY that WILL BE!!!!
"FOREVER missing my son, my HERO...*Chase*!!!"
DeAnna~Chase's Moma FOREVER!!! www.caringbridge.org/visit/miracle2
- Friday, November 28, 2008 6:13 PM CST
Happy Thanksgiving, To All!
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of you, and of all of Connor's other loved one, on this great feast day. God bless you all.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Now thank we all our God,
with heart and hands and voices,
who wondrous things hath done,
in whom his world rejoices;
who from our mother's arms
hath blessed us on our way
with countless gifts of love,
and still is ours today.
O may this bounteous God
through all our life be near us,
with ever-joyful hearts
and blessèd peace to cheer us;
and keep us in his grace,
and guide us when perplexed,
and free us from all ills
in this world and the next.
All praise and thanks to God
the Father now be given,
the Son, and Holy Ghost,
supreme in highest heaven,
the one eternal God,
whom earth and heaven adore;
for thus it was, is now,
and shall be evermore.
Words: Martin Rinkart (1586-1649), 1636
trans. Catherine Winkworth (1827-1878), 1858
Music: Nun danket alle Gott (later form of melody by Johann Crüger, 1598-1662)
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/n/n139.html
Gratefully. Thankfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, November 27, 2008 11:18 AM CST
~Blessings On Thanksgiving Eve!
Dear Rhonda,
I have been thinking of what a young Connor might have been like on this day. Perhaps he would be smelling the apple, pumpkin, mince, and/or pecan pies baking in the oven, helping to cut up the fruit and vegetables, stirring the stuffing, "stealing" the olives and pickles, and sticking his fingers in those pies. May your memories bring you smiles and peace.
Together, let us express our gratitude to God, the Father of all, and God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Gratitude unlocks the fullness of life. It turns what we have into enough, and more. It turns denial into acceptance, chaos to order, confusion to clarity. It can turn a meal into a feast, a house into a home, a stranger into a friend. Gratitude makes sense of our past, brings peace for today, and creates a vision for tomorrow.
~Melody Beattie
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, November 26, 2008 1:27 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
This week, two saints named Andrew are celebrated. One is Andrew Dung-Lac, a Vietnamese martyr, and the other is St. Andrew the Apostle, for whom my son was named. As we go through this week of thanks giving, let us name to God all those who have gone on before us, including those saints with a capital letter, who have become our friends, and those saints, including Connor, that we have known and loved on earth.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley. I would still enjoy hearing the story of Connor's name, when you can share.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, November 25, 2008 5:24 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of you, and of Connor, on another cold November day. It is likely that Connor would have enjoyed the wonders that this time of the year brings, with Thanksgiving dinners, football games, and Advent approaching. May your happy memories sustain and encourage you.
Today's saint is Clement of Rome. When I have spent time with friends, in Philadelphia, I have always attended Eucharist at St. Clement's, near their home. The entire building was moved to its existing location, using logs as rollers, many years ago. I am sure Connor would have thought the pictures of the move interesting.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless sweet Connor.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Almighty God, who chose your servant Clement of Rome to recall the Church in Corinth to obedience and stability: Grant that your Church may be grounded and settled in your truth by the indwelling of the Holy Spirit, and may evermore be kept blameless in your service; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, November 24, 2008 3:14 PM CST
Blessings On The Feast Of Christ The King!
Dear Rhonda,
Connor has been remembered on another Sunday, this one specifically the last Sunday of the church year. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
"When Aslan said you could never go back to Narnia, he meant the Narnia you were thinking of. But that was not the real Narnia. That had a beginning and an end. It was only a shadow or a copy of the real Narnia which has always been there and always will be there: just as our own world, England and all, is only a shadow or copy of something in Aslan's real world. You need not mourn over Narnia, Lucy. All of the old Narnia that mattered, all the dear creatures, have been drawn into the real Narnia through the Door. And of course it is different; as different as a real thing is from a shadow or as waking life is from a dream."
~C.S. Lewis, in The Last Battle, 1956
Today's Collect:
Almighty and everlasting God, whose will it is to restore all things in your well¯beloved Son, the King of kings and Lord of lords: Mercifully grant that the peoples of the earth, divided and enslaved by sin, may be freed and brought together under his most gracious rule; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, November 23, 2008 1:47 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I visited Connor's site two times yesterday, but each time, I had to leave, before I could post a note. It was the Feast of C.S. Lewis, a time to think of children, Narnia, ourselves, and all those things that truly endure. Lewis once said that prayer might not change anything else, but he knew it changed him. That is something real to ponder.
God bless you, and of course, God bless sweet Connor.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Collect For C.S. Lewis, Scholar And Spiritual Writer, 22 November 1963:
Almighty God, whose servant C.S. Lewis received of your grace singular gifts of insight in understanding the truth in Christ Jesus, and of eloquence and clarity in presenting that truth to his readers: Raise up in our day faithful interpreters of your Word, that we, being set free from all error and unbelief, may come to the knowledge that makes us wise unto salvation: through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, November 23, 2008 1:30 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I was so glad to see an update when I visited Connor's page today. It is truly amazing how an incredible young man whom I have never had the honor of meeting continues to inspire me. I am glad to hear that things are going well and that you are still doing the toy drive and Relay for Life. I know Connor is looking down on you and smiling proudly. Please know that your family continues to be in my thoughts and prayers. Even though I do not sign in often, I check frequently for updates.
Love, blessings and tons of hugs,
Tanya
Tanya <tanyans83@yahoo.com>
DE USA - Friday, November 21, 2008 8:12 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
Earlier today, I was reading about Bishop Dionysius, who served during an uncertain economic time, similar to our own. May God grant us wise church and civic leaders and an earnest desire to live faithfully and fairly, so we may get through these hard days.
I am thinking of you, and of Connor.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Collect For Dionysius Of Alexandria, Bishop And Scholar
21 November 265:
O God, who have enlightened your Church by the teaching of your servant Dionysius: Enrich us evermore with your heavenly grace, and raise up faithful witnesses who by their life and doctrine will set forth the truth of your salvation; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and ever.
Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, November 21, 2008 12:28 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I have had an interesting morning, and I am so glad that all has turned out well. I hope you are well and happy today.
I am thinking of you, and of your dear sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Collect For Feast Of Edmund Of East Anglia, King And Martyr, 20 November 870:
O God of ineffable mercy, who gave grace and fortitude to blessed Edmund the king to triumph over the enemy of his people by nobly dying for your Name: Bestow on us your servants the shield of faith, with which we can withstand the assaults of our ancient enemy; through Jesus Christ our Redeemer, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, November 20, 2008 1:50 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
The ladybug is on another part of the lamp shade. I guess it likes it here, in our computer area. It certainly makes me think of your little animal doctor, Connor.
I hope you are doing well. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, November 19, 2008 8:35 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
Last night, I spotted a ladybug on the shape of my lamp, here on my computer table. Of course, I thought of your lovebug, Connor. May God bless you both.
I hope you are thinking about a good Thanksgiving. Perhaps you can attend a community service, as we plan to do.
On Monday the church honored Margaret of Scotland, who was the queen in the children's hymn I often quote, "I Sing a Song of the Saints of God." Today, we honor Elizabeth of Hungary. Both used their high place in life to serve those in need, honoring Christ in their generations. I will leave their collects below.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Collect For Margaret, Queen of Scotland, 16 November 1093:
O God, who called your servant Margaret to an earthly throne that she might advance your heavenly kingdom, and gave her zeal for your church and love for your people: Mercifully grant that we who commemorate her this day may be fruitful in good works, and attain to the glorious crown of your saints; though Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Collect For Elizabeth of Hungary, Princess and Philantropist, 19 November 1231:
Almighty God, by whose grace your servant Elizabeth of Hungary recognized and honored Jesus in the poor of this world: Grant that we, following her example, may with love and gladness serve those in any need or trouble, in the name and for the sake of through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
The numerous "St. Elizabeth's Hospitals" throughout the world are for the most part named, not for the Biblical Elizabeth, the mother of John the Baptist, but for this princess of Hungary. She was concerned for the relief of the poor and the sick, and with her husband's consent she used her dowry money for their relief. During a famine and epidemic in 1226, while her husband was away in Italy, she sold her jewels and established a hospital where she nursed the sick, and opened the royal granaries to feed the hungry. (James E. Keifer's Christian Biographies)
The brother of one of Andrew's close friends, was hurt in an autombile accident over the weekend and is being treated at St. Elizabeth Hosptial, Utica, NY.
Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, November 19, 2008 8:20 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
Today's Upper Room, called "Dancing Feet," is a meditation, written by a mother, who lost her child to leukemia. I certainly thought of you, and of Connor, as I read.
The mother, Patricia Hammell Kashtock, ended her short meditation, with this paragraph.
"Now, her new, strong feet move gracefully in the warmth of God's presence. In heaven, my daughter dances with joy again, without fear or pain, in light that will never fade. She is with God who is love and who will not let her go. Her joy will never end."
As you think of Connor this day, may you have grace to know that Connor is alive in God's eternal kingdom, where there is no suffering or pain. Connor's joy is full, and it will not end. Someday, you will enter into that joy, and all shall be well.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Collect For Hilda Of Whitby, Abbess And Peacemaker, 18 November 680:
O God of peace, by whose grace the abbess Hilda was endowed with gifts of justice, prudence, and strength to rule as a wise mother over the nuns and monks of her household, and to become a trusted and reconciling friend to leaders of the Church: Give us the grace to recognize and accept the varied gifts you bestow on men and women, that our common life may be enriched and your gracious will be done, through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, November 18, 2008 12:23 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
In reading of today's saint, Hugh of Lincoln, it occurs to me that he and Connor were very much alike in loving animals. James Kiefer wrote of Hugh:
He was fond of animals, and they of him. Birds and squirrels came readily to his hand. He had a swan that would feed from his hand, follow him about, and keep guard over his bed, so that no one could approach it without being attacked.
Perhaps Connor and blessed Hugh are enjoying a day in heaven today.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless Connor.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Collect For Hugh of Lincoln, Bishop, Protector of the Oppressed, 17 November 1200:
O holy God, who endowed your servant and bishop Hugh of Lincoln with wise and cheerful boldness, and taught him to commend the discipline of holy life to kings and princes: Grant that we also, rejoicing in the Good News of your mercy, and fearing nothing but the loss of you, may be bold to speak the truth in love, in the name of Jesus Christ our Redeemer, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, November 17, 2008 5:53 PM CST
its hard to beleive its been 4 years and yet it seems like forever dont it? I keep you in my thoughts and prayers....
Sharon <sholweger5@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, November 16, 2008 7:01 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
In reading about today's saint, Albert the Great, I learned that Albert was so curious about eagles that he had himself lowered down a cliff and into an eagle's nest. As I read that, I thought, "Now there is something Connor would do."
God bless you, and of course, God bless your sweet animal lover, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
O Almighty God, who gave to your servant Albert special gifts of grace to understand and teach the truth as it is in Christ Jesus: Grant that by this teaching we may know you, the one true God, and Jesus Christ whom you have sent: who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, November 15, 2008 11:35 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
On a sunny autumn day, I am thinking of Connor. I am sure that he would be eating lots of pumpkin and apple treats, if he were here in bodily form.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless Connor.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
We give you thanks, O Lord our God, for your goodness in bestowing upon this Church the gift of the episcopate, which we celebrate in this remembrance of the consecration of Samuel Seabury; and we pray that, joined together in unity with our bishops, and nourished by your holy Sacraments, we may proclaim the Gospel of redemption with apostolic zeal; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, November 14, 2008 9:13 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
Thank you for updating Connor's home page and for sharing a picture of Connor, which I don't recall seeing previously.
In reading the comment just below mine, and in reading many comments in Connor's guest book these past four years, it is accurate to say that Connor taught us about eternal life. Since we spoke of William Barclay, at a class, at St. George's, today, I will add a quote from Barclay from another source.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Lord, help us so to live that when your call comes, at morning, at midday, or at evening, it may find us ready, our work completed, and our hearts at peace with you, so that we may enter at last with joy into your nearer presence and into life eternal.
~William Barclay (1907-1978)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, November 13, 2008 5:37 PM CST
I thought of Connor this morning. I have probably shared this with you Rhonda, but praying for that little angel and his family literally changed my life forever. I have been a Christian for a long time, but praying for (and loving!) a little boy that I never met (and that brings tears to my eyes even now) truly changed me from the inside out and I will be forever grateful to you and that precious little warrior of yours. Have a very blessed holiday and know you remain in my thoughts and prayers often.
Kim Uldrich <kaykay23@comcast.net>
Hendersonville, TN USA - Thursday, November 13, 2008 11:16 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
As always, I am thinking of you and remembering your brave little trooper. What a blessing Connor was!
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
O Lord our God, grant that your Church, following the teaching of your servant Leo of Rome, may hold fast the great mystery of our redemption, and adore the one Christ, true God and true Man, neither divided from our human nature nor separate from your divine Being; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, November 10, 2008 9:25 AM CST
Rhonda, just wanted you to know that I'm thinking of you and your family today. I saw an angel figure that had dark blonde hair the other day & I thought of Connor. Maybe he was sending me a message to say hi. :) I love getting my 'connections of love' as I call them from Chase. They give me great comfort.
I pray you have strength & comfort today and plenty of signs always.
DeAnna~Chase's moma FOREVER!!! <Chasesmiracle@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, November 9, 2008 4:07 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
The lawnmower is buzzing nextdoor, and I am getting ready to do some of my own work. I just want to remind you that I am thinking of you and remembering Connor.
God bless you, and God bless all of Connor's family, friends, and supporters.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
O God, whose blessed Son came into the world that he might destroy the works of the devil and make us children of God and heirs of eternal life: Grant that, having this hope, we may purify ourselves as he is pure; that, when he comes again with power and great glory, we may be made like him in his eternal and glorious kingdom; where he lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, November 9, 2008 10:47 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I will let the Epistle Lesson for this weekend speak for me today. It is below.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
1 Thessalonians 4:13-18:
We do not want you to be uninformed, brothers and sisters, about those who have died, so that you may not grieve as others do who have no hope. For since we believe that Jesus died and rose again, even so, through Jesus, God will bring with him those who have died. For this we declare to you by the word of the Lord, that we who are alive, who are left until the coming of the Lord, will by no means precede those who have died. For the Lord himself, with a cry of command, with the archangel's call and with the sound of God's trumpet, will descend from heaven, and the dead in Christ will rise first. Then we who are alive, who are left, will be caught up in the clouds together with them to meet the Lord in the air; and so we will be with the Lord forever. Therefore encourage one another with these words.
Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, November 8, 2008 3:04 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
Once more, on a Friday morning, I am thinking of you and remembering dear Connor. God bless you both.
I hope Nana and Poppy are doing well. Please give them a warm greeting from me.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Treasure the love you receive above all.
It will survive long after your good health has vanished.
~Og Mandino (1923-1996)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, November 7, 2008 1:38 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
The quotation I am leaving today has been in my head a few times this week, when I have thought of you, so I guess I am supposed to share it.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sunshine boy. Connor truly is missed, but I know we will all experience him again, and that when we do, Connor will be more himself than he ever has been, and so will we.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
In the end what matters is not how good we are, but how good God is. Not how much we love Him, but how much He loves us. And God loves us whoever we are, whatever we've done or failed to do, whatever we believe or can't.
~Archbishop Desmond Tutu (South Africa)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, November 6, 2008 7:48 PM CST
thinking of Connor so i stopped by
tricia <triciabxny@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, November 5, 2008 12:56 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
Today I am remembering Connor and several children and adults that I learned about through Connor's website. I am also praying for you and for all who are in any form of bereavement.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, with the wonderful smile, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
O God of wonder and mystery, you gave us Jesus to go before us and to show us a way to new life through our dying: As the season of autumn reminds us that all living things must die, so must our faith in the life Jesus promised encourage us to embrace life's potential, rather than being saddened by life's endings, may we find, in the wisdom of your creation, the constantly renewing love that reassures us of your presence. With our eyes on the tree of life and its spectacular beauty, may we remain always in Jesus. Amen.
~Sister Karen Berry
in Prayer Services for Parishes
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, November 5, 2008 8:56 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I had a ladybug land on my head last night. Of course, you know who I thought of, when I reached up and pulled it out of my hair.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
I feel a strong immortal hope, which bears my mournful spirit up beneath its mountain load; redeemed from death, and grief, and pain, I soon shall find my child again within the arms of God.
~Charles Wesley
++++++++
Nothing loved is ever lost or perished.
~Madeleine L'Engle, in A Ring of Endless Light, Newberry Honor Book
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, November 4, 2008 10:57 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I had planned to be at the polls, at this time, but a small household problem has brought me and my plumber together, instead. I hope you are safe and well today. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
God bless you, God bless Connor, and God bless our country.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, November 4, 2008 9:34 AM CST
Blessings On All Soul's Day!
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of you, and remembering Connor, on this twin feast to All Saints Day. May you find peace and encouragement throughout the day.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless that sweet soul, your sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Father of all, we pray to you for those we love, but see no longer: Grant them your peace; let light perpetual shine upon them; and in your loving wisdom and almighty power, work in them the good purpose of your perfect will; through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, November 3, 2008 0:25 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I just want you to know that I am thinking of you many times each day during this weekend of remembrance. May God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Help us, in the midst of things we cannot understand, to believe and trust in the communion of saints, the forgiveness of sins, and the resurrection to life everlasting.
~From The Book Of Common Prayer
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, November 2, 2008 3:56 PM CST
Blessings On All Saints Sunday!
Dear Rhonda,
I thought of Connor several times, during our All Saints Eucharist, yesterday. While there, I also prayed for you.
I think it is very cool that so many of Connor's friends have had lady bug encounters this week. Truly, Connor is with those he loves.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
O blest communion, fellowship divine!
we feebly struggle, they in glory shine;
all are one in thee, for all are thine.
Alleluia, Alleluia!
Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, November 2, 2008 3:56 AM CST
Rhonda,
Sydney and I are praying for you on this special rememberance weekend. We also had a ladybug encounter today as we walked out of the movie theater. Sydney had on her ladybug earrings. We were walking out of the theater and she found two lady bugs on the floor by the door. We rescued them and delivered them to a nearby shrub when we noticed at least a half dozen of them flying all around us. I thought of you and Connor. We are blessed to know you and of your precious son. We are grateful for your friendship.
Love you,
Elizabeth
Gallatin, TN USA - Saturday, November 1, 2008 8:37 PM CDT
Rhonda, I had an abudance of ladybugs all over the screens.. we have cornfields behind us.. and we were blessed with many many ladybugs.. I thought of connor as they arrived yesterday On his birthday.. Pretty cool huh?? again today... they are here.. Im thinking of you and sweet connor.. On his 4th birthday with jesus.. Sometimes it seem s like its been 10 yrs.. other times it seems you were just writing about him... I love to come and look at his sweet smile.. It always makes me smile.. Praying always for your strength daily. Happy Birthday sweet connor.. You will never be forgotten! Not ever!
Kim <dakk2222@comcast.net>
IN - Saturday, November 1, 2008 7:29 PM CDT
Rhonda,
thinking of you on Connor's Heavenly birthday.
prayers and love from Mrs. Pam
- Saturday, November 1, 2008 6:10 PM CDT
I am thinking aboutyou today too... prayers
Sharon <sholweger5@yahoo.com>
- Saturday, November 1, 2008 4:48 PM CDT
i guess connor was busy yesterday, as i too, had 2 ladybugs in my house! one was on my computer screen and the other on a basket on the desk. our daughter(who is a ladybug lover)stopped by on her way to a party to show us her costume,found the first one. love and hugs...deb
deborah pearce <deborah77@wowway.com>
southgate, MI - Saturday, November 1, 2008 3:22 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I had to smile, in reading Kathy's note, as I have had two lady bug experiences this week, as well. I never gave them much thought at all until I learned about Connor.
I am writing twice today, as I want to assure you that you are in my thoughts and prayers especially on this bittersweet anniversary. When you can, please join me in singing a hymn that I know I will sing in church this weekend. For All the Saints always lifts me beyond my circumstances, and I know it will boost you as well.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
For all the saints, who from their labors rest,
who thee by faith before the world confessed,
thy Name, O Jesus, be forever blessed.
Alleluia, Alleluia!
Thou wast their Rock, their Fortress and their Might;
thou, Lord, their Captain in the well fought fight;
thou, in the darkness drear, their one true Light.
Alleluia, Alleluia!
For the apostles' glorious company,
who bearing forth the cross o'er land and sea,
shook all the mighty world, we sing to Thee:
Alleluia, Alleluia!
For the Evangelists, by whose blest word,
like fourfold streams, the garden of the Lord,
is fair and fruitful, be thy Name adored.
Alleluia, Alleluia!
For Martyrs, who with rapture kindled eye,
saw the bright crown descending from the sky,
and seeing, grasped it, thee we glorify.
Alleluia, Alleluia!
O may thy soldiers, faithful, true, and bold,
fight as the saints who nobly fought of old,
and win, with them the victor's crown of gold.
Alleluia, Alleluia!
O blest communion, fellowship divine!
we feebly struggle, they in glory shine;
all are one in thee, for all are thine.
Alleluia, Alleluia!
And when the strife is fierce, the warfare long,
steals on the ear the distant triumph song,
and hearts are brave, again, and arms are strong.
Alleluia, Alleluia!
The golden evening brightens in the west;
soon, soon to faithful warriors comes their rest;
sweet is the calm of paradise the blessed.
Alleluia, Alleluia!
But lo! there breaks a yet more glorious day;
the saints triumphant rise in bright array;
the King of glory passes on his way.
Alleluia, Alleluia!
From earth's wide bounds, from ocean's farthest coast,
through gates of pearl streams in the countless host,
and singing to Father, Son and Holy Ghost:
Alleluia, Alleluia!
Words: William Walsham How, 1864
Music: Sine nomine
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/f/f174.html
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, November 1, 2008 1:21 PM CDT
I'm thinking of you today.
Lisa
Mount Juliet, TN USA - Saturday, November 1, 2008 10:50 AM CDT
Thinking of you today.......
Maria <mariaw19@hotmail.com>
NJ - Saturday, November 1, 2008 8:37 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Thinking of you today and your sunshine boy on the 4th anniversary of his arrival into Heaven.
I saw two lady bugs yesterday...one was on the car door handle when I went to open it up to take my mom to the dr. to have her hip checked....I said "oh look mom it's a lady bug and today is Connor's birthday" I smiled and said "that just made my day!" Then the other was crawling on our end table when I sat down between trick or treaters....again a smile. I know he is here in spirit and I love the way he appears to let me know:)
Know you are prayed for daily and I miss Connor and I love you both!
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Saturday, November 1, 2008 8:15 AM CDT
And see how beautiful is our Jesus, when he die for our all sin and sickness and he rise from dead and he is life with power of God. Joy and and let he save us from this the wicked the world.Win and help th emn that find him,thanks and bless and hope,keijo sweden
keijo <keijo.leppioja@hotmail.com>
sweden - Saturday, November 1, 2008 6:26 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of you on Connor's fourth anniversary. Somehow, it doesn't seem possible.
Today our new rector, Father John Henry, will be installed. I will remember Connor during the service, and I will pray for you.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
One Of The Collects For All Saints Day:
Almighty and everlasting God, we give you most high praise and hearty thanks for the wonderful grace and virtue declared in all your saints, who have been the chosen vessels of your grace, and the lights of the world in their times: for Abraham, the father of believers, and Sarah his wife; for Moses the lawgiver, and Aaron the priest; for Miriam and Joshua, Deborah and Gideon, and Samuel with Hannah his mother, and for all the holy patriarchs; for Isaiah and all the prophets; for the Blessed Virgin Mary, the mother of Jesus Christ our Lord and God; for Peter and Paul and all the apostles; for Mary and Martha, and Mary Magdalene; for Stephen, the first martyr, and for all the martyrs; and for all your other righteous servants, known to us and unknown; and we beseech you that, rejoicing in their fellowship, encouraged by their examples, and aided by their prayers, we also may run with steadfastness the race that is set before us, and finish our course in faith; and that at the day of the general resurrection, we, with all those who are of the mystical body of your Son, may be set on his right hand, and hear his most joyful voice: "Come, you blessed of my Father, inherit the kingdom prepared for you from the foundation of the world." Grant this, O Father, for the sake of your Son Jesus Christ, our only Mediator and Advocate. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, November 1, 2008 2:31 AM CDT
I always remember Connor's birthday. Hope this finds you well, Rhonda. I prayed for you today as I thought of that cute boy with such a sweet smile.
Shelly VanB <jayandshel@msn.com>
Saskatoon, Sk - Friday, October 31, 2008 8:12 PM CDT
Happy Birthday Connor love a Mummy to another Angelxxxxx
sandra o'connell <sandraoconnel67@msn.com>
uk, uk - Friday, October 31, 2008 2:53 PM CDT
happy birthday connor! love and hugs...deb
deborah pearce <deborah77@wowway.com>
southgate, mi - Friday, October 31, 2008 1:41 PM CDT
Happy Birthday Connor
Mel - Canada
- Friday, October 31, 2008 11:44 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of you on Connor's fourteenth birthday. What a blessing he was to you, and what a blessing Connor was to the world!
God bless you as you launch that special balloon later today.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, October 31, 2008 9:41 AM CDT
**Happy Birthday, My Sunshine Boy! Mommy loves and misses you SO MUCH! Watch for your birthday balloons this afternoon! Can't wait until I'm there to celebrate with you! All my love for eternity!
Mommy
Connor's Mommy Forever <rshunley@comcast.net>
Hendersonville, TN USA - Friday, October 31, 2008 7:58 AM CDT
thinking of Connor on his earthly birthday
prayers and love from Mrs. Pam
st. Louis, mO - Friday, October 31, 2008 7:50 AM CDT
Good Morning Rhonda,
Thinking of you today as Connor celebrates another birthday among angels. I am certain there is some go cart races today in Heaven and lots of birthday cake, ice cream and balloons. We miss your sunshine boy and thank you for allowing him to be a part of our lives through his journey. He truly was and always will be an inspiration to many. He will forever be in our hearts.
God Bless,
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Friday, October 31, 2008 7:32 AM CDT
Thinking of Connor and of you. I am sorry to hear of your divorce. I hope you are well. The things you are doing to honor Connor's life are just wonderful, he would be so proud. He will always be remembered. By people who never knew him. Praying for peace and comfort for you
Lisa Kingsbury <dldarakingsbury@msn.com>
Sandty, ut - Thursday, October 30, 2008 1:16 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I am remembering many of the things of Connor's life, such as his enjoyment of his go-cart and his bike, his ability to joke and tease, his marvelous smile, and his super hugs. He will be in my thoughts and prayers, when I am at church, later in the day.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless Connor.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
When Jesus lived upon the earth
so many years ago
He called the children close
Because he loved them so
And with that tendersness of old
That same sweet, gentle way
He holds your little loved one close
Within his arms today
And you'll find comfort in your faith
That in his home above
The God of little Children
Gives your little one his love
So think of your little darling
Lighthearted Happy and Free
Playing in God's promised land
Where the is joy eternal
~Helen Steiner Rice
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, October 30, 2008 6:53 AM CDT
Rhonda and Eddie:
Thinking of you SO much as October 31 and November 1 draw near. No other words, just emotions.
Love, H
Holly Hoxeng
Denver, CO USA - Wednesday, October 29, 2008 5:39 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
On another cold, windy fall day, I am thinking of you and remembering sweet Connor.
God bless you, and God bless all of your loved ones.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Precious in your sight, O Lord, is the death of your saints, whose faithful witness, by your providence, has its great reward: We give you thanks for your martyrs James Hannington and his companions, who purchased with their blood a road unto Uganda for the proclamation of the Gospel; and we pray that with them we also may obtain the crown of righteousness which is laid up for all who love the appearing of our Savior Jesus Christ; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, October 29, 2008 1:41 PM CDT
Rhonda, I have had you in my thoughts as this week is here. I know these are the hard days to get past. Just know that so many of us still think about you and say a prayer for you. and far to many of us have been there and kow how hard it is. Its hard for me to beleive that nearly 15 years have passed since I last saw my son, MIke. seems like just yesterday
Sharon <sholweger5@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, October 29, 2008 10:55 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Laura and I are thinking of Connor as October draws to a close. I wish you peace and continued signs of Connor's presence. You are always in our prayers.
Deb
Litchfield, NH USA - Tuesday, October 28, 2008 9:38 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
We are having hard rain, here, in southern Saratoga County. As the temperatures drop tonight, we are expecting a nasty, heavy, wet snow. This is not good, as most of the trees around here still had almost full foliage last night, so with a heavy snow and lots of leaves, limbs, and even whole trees, could come down causing power outages. We are expecting 2-4 inches here, and that is enough to cause that type of occurrence, but areas in the Tug Hill and in the Adirondacks probably will get up to a foot.
I hope you are well, safe, and content. I am thinking of you, and of all those whose lives are closely linked with you and with Connor. May God bless you all.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Collect For Today, The Feast Of St. Simon and St. Jude, Apostles:
O God, we thank you for the glorious company of the apostles, and especially on this day for Simon and Jude; and we pray that, as they were faithful and zealous in their mission, so we may with ardent devotion make known the love and mercy of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, October 28, 2008 11:27 AM CDT
Hi Rhonda-
Just thinking of you (Eddie too) these next few days. I hope all is well, our thoughts and prayers are always with you.
Kristen <kristen@gmail.com>
Minneapolis, mn 55122 - Monday, October 27, 2008 11:05 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I am especially thinking of you, during this the anniversary week of Connor's birth. I know you were eagerly waiting to see and hold your child fourteen years ago. May you now, know with certainty, that you will see and hold Connor Jordan Hunley again, in that place where there is now sighing or pain, but only life eternal.
Earlier this month I wrote to you about Archbishop William Temple. Today is his Feast Day, so I leave you the collect and a quote.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
O God, who by your Holy Spirit give to some the word of wisdom, to others the word of knowledge, and to others the word of faith: We praise your Name for the gifts of grace manifested in your servant William Temple, and we pray that your Church may never be destitute of such gifts; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who with you and the Holy Spirit lives and reigns, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
A Quote From William Temple (1881-1944):
In the days of His earthly ministry, only those could speak to him who came where He was: if He was in Galilee, men could not find Him in Jerusalem; if He was in Jerusalem, men could not find Him in Galilee. His Ascension means that He is perfectly united with God; we are with Him wherever we are present to God; and that is everywhere and always. Because He is "in Heaven" He is everywhere on earth: because He is ascended, He is here now. Our devotion is not to hold us by the empty tomb; it must lift up our hearts to heaven so that we too "in heart and mind thither ascend and with Him continually dwell": it must also send us forth into the world to do His will; and these are not two things, but one.
Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, October 27, 2008 12:21 AM CDT
I'm thinking of you as Connor's birthday week approaches. I hope he can send you some special signs this week. With love and prayers.
Lisa
Mount Juliet, TN USA - Sunday, October 26, 2008 8:28 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I am listning to a football game, as I type to you today, and I have been watching the World Series. I know Connor followed the Titans and enjoyed sports. He would have loved this beautiful autumn day. May God bless his sweet spirit.
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Almighty and everlasting God, increase in us the gifts of faith, hope, and charity; and, that we may obtain what you promise, make us love what you command; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, October 26, 2008 3:15 PM CDT
Hi Rhonda!
Lisa Lowrey, Kambryn's mom, and I have set up a Vanderbilt Children's Hemonc Forum for our families, past and present, to get together and chat. Our hope is that we can have a place for families going through active treatment to get to know each other... families whose kids are done with treatment can talk about what's next and families with angels to connect for friendship and support. We also hope to start raising awareness for Childhood Cancer here in Middle Tennessee as well as help the families going through active treatment. Basically this is one solid place to connect and hopefully help find a cure for this horrible cancer that has drawn our families together. Check it out and let us know what you think. If you have any ideas or questions we would love to hear them! Also, please feel free to pass this info along to other Vanderbilt families... I know I have missed several, so the more we get the word out the better the forum will be! We hope to see you over there!
Vanderbilt Hemonc Heroes
Renee & Kennedy
www.carepages.com/carepages/kennedygarcia
www.myspecialks.com
Renee Garcia <CAmommy2KJ@aol.com>
Clarksville, TN - Saturday, October 25, 2008 3:07 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Connor will be remembered in Holy Eucharist today, and I will pray for you beneath the Jesus and the Children stained glass window, as I do, at each Eucharist. I hope you are safe and well and having a good weekend.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Heavenly Father, who gives to us your servants gifts differing according to our calling: We praise you for the gift bestowed upon your servant Geoffrey Chaucer, of writing poems concerning human nature and human loves and desires, and showing us in them a guide that points to you, the love which you bear toward us, and the love we ought to have, and by your grace are being brought to have, for you, through your well-beloved Son Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, October 25, 2008 1:54 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I have been thinking of you, and of Connor, this week. May God bless you both.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Almighty God, who through your holy Apostle have taught us to praise you in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs: We give you thanks this day for the gift of writing great hymns which you gave to your servants Philipp Nicolai, Johann Heermann, Paul Gerhardt, and Joachim Neander; and we pray that your Church may never lack those with the gifts of writing words and music to your praise, and may be ever filled with the desire to praise and thank you for your great goodness; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
How bright appears the Morning Star,
with mercy beaming from afar;
the host of heaven rejoices;
O righteous Branch, O Jesse's Rod!
Thou Son of Man and Son of God!
We, too, will lift our voices:
Jesus, Jesus!
Holy, holy, yet most lowly,
draw thou near us;
great Emmanuel, come and hear us.
Though circled by the hosts on high,
he deigned to cast a pitying eye
upon his helpless creature;
the whole creation's Head and Lord,
by highest seraphim adored,
assumed our very nature;
Jesus, grant us,
through thy merit, to inherit
thy salvation;
hear, O hear our supplication.
Rejoice, ye heavens; thou earth, reply;
with praise, ye sinners, fill the sky,
for this his Incarnation.
Incarnate God, put forth thy power,
ride on, ride on, great Conqueror,
till all know thy salvation.
Amen, amen!
Alleluia, alleluia!
Praise be given
evermore, by earth and heaven.
Words: Philipp Nicolai, 1597;
paraphrased in Psalmodia Germanica, 1722
and altered by William Mercer, 1855, 1859.
Music: Wie schön leuchtet (Frankfort)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, October 24, 2008 1:53 PM CDT
Thinking of you... Colton's family
www.caringbridge.org/ca/coltonmeyer
Laura
ca - Tuesday, October 21, 2008 11:53 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of you today.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
O God of the nations, who gave to your faithful servant Henry Martyn a brilliant mind, a loving heart, and a gift for languages, that he might translate the Scriptures and other holy writings for the peoples of India and Persia: Inspire in us a love like his, eager to commit both life and talents to you who gave them; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, October 21, 2008 7:02 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Last night, I went to the Glen Sanders Mansion, to hear some stories. The teller, Elizabeth Ellis, was born and raised, I believe, in your area, and I know she often tells at the National Storytelling Festival in Jonesboro. She comes up here, from her current home, near Dallas, Texas, about once a year to teach and to tell. She did a wonderful job. I know Connor would love good tellers like Elizabeth.
My thoughts and prayers are will you.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
O Almighty God, by whose grace and power your holy martyrs Antony Daniel, Charles Garnier, Gabriel Lalemant, Isaac Jogues, John de Brebeuf, John Lalande, Noel Chabanel, and Rene Goupil triumphed over suffering and were faithful even to death: Grant us, who now remember them in thanksgiving, to be so faithful in our witness to you in this world, that we may receive with them the crown of life; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
I know that Connor Jordan Hunley has recieved that crown of life.
Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, October 20, 2008 8:28 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Connor was remembered in Holy Eucharist yesterday, the Feast of St. Luke, and he will be remembered again today. May you feel God's love and Connor's love with you this day and every day.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Almighty and everlasting God, in Christ you have revealed your glory among the nations: Preserve the works of your mercy, that your Church throughout the world may persevere with steadfast faith in the confession of your Name; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, October 19, 2008 5:58 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of you, and of Connor, on another weekend. I hope all is going well for you.
One of this week's saints is Teresa of Avila. I will leave a quote from her below.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Prayer is not just spending time with the Lord. It is partly that - but if it ends there, it is fruitless. No, prayer is dynamic. Authentic prayer changes us - unmasks us - strips us - indicates where growth is needed. Authentic prayer never leads us to complacency, but needles us - makes us uneasy at times. It leads us to true self-knowledge, to true humility.
~Teresa Of Avila (1515-1582)
The Collect:
Almighty God, who, when the hearts of your people have grown cold, send your Spirit to relight the flame of your love in their hearts, and raise up faithful ministers to recall your people to their former devotion and service: Mercifully grant that we, following the teaching and example of Teresa of Avila and others, may be filled with your Holy Spirit, may be aflame with zeal for your glory and love for your goodness and hunger for your love, and that our feet may be set upon the path that leads to true holiness; the which we ask through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, October 18, 2008 5:06 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Since many of Connor's friends come to you via the internet, I leave for you today's collect for "St. Sam, Patron Saint of the Internet." Schereschewsky, a European Jew, accepted Jesus as his Lord and Savior, and trained for the Episcopal priesthood. After ordination, he spent 41 years in China, and was consecrated bishop of Shanghai. After being paralyzed, he gave up his bishopric and spent over twenty years, in a chair, typing Biblical translations with his one remaining useful finger. May we, with like confidence, have faith that God will use our talents, despite our infirmities and shortcomings.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless Connor.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Collect For Samuel Isaac Joseph Schereschewsky (14 October 1906):
O God, who in your providence called Joseph Schereschewsky from his home in Eastern Europe to the ministry of this Church, and sent him as a missionary to China, upholding him in his infirmity, that he might translate the Holy Scriptures into languages of that land: Lead us, we pray, to commit our lives and talents to you, in the confidence that when you give your servants any work to do, you also supply the strength to do it; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
P.S. A ladybug landed on my lap, as I was reading the other night. Of course, I thought of Connor right away.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, October 14, 2008 11:21 AM CDT
Happy Columbus Day To All!
Dear Rhonda,
When my boys were little, I always planned an outdoor outing for the Columbus Day holiday. One year, we hiked the Saratoga Battlefield and ate a picnic lunch on the trail. Another year, we visited Stone Bridge and Caves, where we hiked the trail twice, visited the gift and gem shops, and ate a picnic lunch. Another trip was to Fort William Henry, and a fourth trip was to Fort Ticonderoga. As the guys got older, they had school sports commitments on Columbus Day, so the family outings stopped. Those outings are good things to remember, with fondness, as are your fall holiday memories of Connor. May your memories bring you joy today and every day.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, October 13, 2008 11:19 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
We had a lovely autumn afternoon, here in southern Saratoga County. Andrew and I did some errands. Then we stopped at Friendly Ice Cream for a late lunch. I had a fish sandwich, broccoli, water, and a Happy Ending Sundae of pistachio with hot chocolate. As I ate that cold treat, I thought of Connor and wondered what ice cream he would have ordered.
Both you and Connor are in my thoughts and prayers.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
O God of light and love, you illumined your Church through the witness of your servant William Temple: Inspire us, we pray, by his teaching and example, that we may rejoice with courage, confidence, and faith in the Word made flesh, and may be led to establish that city which has justice for its foundation and love for its law; through Jeus Christ, the light of the world, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Quote From William Temple (One Of My Favorite Archbishops):
Worship is the submission of all of our nature to God.
It is the quickening of conscience by His holiness, nourishment of mind by His truth, purifying of imagination by His beauty, opening of the heart to His love, and submission of will to His purpose.
And all this gathered up in adoration is the greatest of human expressions of which we are capable.
~Archbishop William Temple (1881-1944)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, October 11, 2008 8:08 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Dave and I walked the breast cancer walk this morning and upon completing it I sat down on a bench to enjoy a bagel and some juice and a little lady bug landed on my lap:) You know who was with me this day!:) I do miss hearing from you and I miss your sunshine boy. The sun is shining brightly today and it seems more like summer than fall, we are enjoying each precious second of this day.
God Bless and know you are prayed for daily and you and Connor are forever in my heart.
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Saturday, October 11, 2008 1:17 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
As always, I will remember sweet Connor, in Holy Eucharist, this weekend. I will pray for you, while I am at St. George's. May God bless you both.
I hope you are at peace and having a good weekend.
Beneath my signature, I am leaving a prayer, which may be of interest during this difficult time. I like the last part of it, as it reminds us of where are true joy is always found.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Prayer For The Current Financial Situation
From The Church Of England
Lord God, we live in disturbing days:
across the world,
prices rise,
debts increase,
banks collapse,
jobs are taken away,
and fragile security is under threat.
Loving God, meet us in our fear and hear our prayer:
be a tower of strength amidst the shifting sands,
and a light in the darkness;
help us receive your gift of peace,
and fix our hearts where true joys are to be found,
in Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, October 11, 2008 5:07 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
It has been a while since you have emailed me, or updated Connor's homepage. If you can, will you please do one or the other? I know other friends of Connor would appreciate your news, as well.
As always, my thoughts and prayers are with you.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Collect For The Feast Of Robert Grosseteste (Bishop Of Lincoln), October 9, 1253:
O God our heavenly Father, who raised up your faithful Servant Robert Grosseteste to be a bishop and pastor in your Church and to feed your flock: Give to all pastors abundant gifts of your Holy Spirit, that they may minister in your household as true servants of Christ and stewards of your divine mysteries; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
+++
A Collect For Fridays (By William Reed Huntington):
Almighty God, whose most dear Son went not up to joy but
first he suffered pain, and entered not into glory before he
was crucified: Mercifully grant that we, walking in the way
of the cross, may find it none other than the way of life and
peace; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, October 10, 2008 4:28 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Yesterday Andrew and I went to see the movie, Eagle Eye. It was a good action thriller, which kept us engaged throughout, and of course, I enjoyed being out with my son. I thought of Connor, coming home, as I know he loved car action scenes. God bless his sweet spirit.
My thoughts and prayers are with you today.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Almighty God, who gave your servants Thomas More, John Fisher, and William Tyndale boldness to confess the name of our Saviour Jesus Christ before the rulers of this world, and courage to die for this faith: Grant that we may also be ever ready to give a reason for the hope that is in us, and to suffer gladly for the sake of our Lord Jesus Christ, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, October 6, 2008 1:53 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Today churches and church parking lots are full of household pets and farm animals, as we bless animals and remember St. Francis of Assisi. I had hoped to go to the Cathedral of All Saints to attend the event this morning, but a late night last night got in the way. However, if Connor had been here, I would have gotten up, and we would have had lunch out on the way home.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sunshine boy. I lift you both up to the Lord, during Eucharist, this weekend.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Collect:
Most high, omnipotent, good Lord, grant your people grace Gladly to renounce the vanities of this world; that, following the way of blessed Francis, we may for love of you delight in your whole creation with perfect joy; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
If we endure things patiently and with gladness thinking on the sufferings of our blessed Lord, and bearing all for the love of Him: herein is perfect joy.
~St. Francis Of Assisi
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, October 4, 2008 2:31 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
On Friday afternoon, I hope you are continuing to enjoy your birthday week and at the beginning of a good weekend. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Lord Jesus Christ, you stretched out your arms of love on
the hard wood of the cross that everyone might come within
the reach of your saving embrace: So clothe us in your Spirit
that we, reaching forth our hands in love, may bring those
who do not know you to the knowledge and love of you; for
the honor of your Name. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 101
Colette <abc@aol.com>
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, October 3, 2008 2:04 PM CDT
Hey Connor,
The doc said I need to watch my sweets so I've been buying sugar-free ice cream. It's not quite the same, but ice cream is ice cream! Not sure what I'm going to do Christmas when its time to make fudge. Guess we'll try using Splenda and see how that works.
Thank you for the blessings and encouragement that are a part of my life because of you. I miss getting to see your smiling face but my heart is full of great memories of an incredible young man. I love you!
Mr. Wayne
Wayne Gordon <wgordon@cscsystems.com>
Hermitage, TN USA - Friday, October 3, 2008 9:25 AM CDT
And Jesus took our sin aways ,when he died on the cross and sickness and gave to us new life in peace and joy and health,let us be thanksful and praise him and worship him with thanks given and love,winning the sinners hearts to him.Thanks and bless and hope,pray,keijo sweden
keijo <keijo.leppioja@hotmail.com>
sweden - Friday, October 3, 2008 3:26 AM CDT
Happy Birthday, Plus One!
Dear Rhonda,
As you continue enjoying your birthday week, I want to thank you for sharing Connor with all of the readers of this site. You have gifted us, by letting us know about your brave, handsome, and mischievous son. We are grateful.
I hope you are nibbling a little cake today and enjoying your cards, notes, and gifts.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
A Birthday Thought:
We turn, not older with years, but newer each day.
~Emily Dickinson
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, October 2, 2008 2:31 PM CDT
Hi Rhonda,
Happy Birthday my dear friend! Thought of you often today. I celebrated my birthday with my mom at the nursing home, I brought cup cakes that Brandon and I made. He loves to cook, tomorrow Aiden and I are making my birthday cake as we are celebrating my birthday tomorrow with the little guys.
Take gentle care know you are loved and Connor is forever in my heart. Miss that sun shine boy with the smile that lit up the world.
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Wednesday, October 1, 2008 7:51 PM CDT
Rhonda, I wanted to say HAPPY BIRTHDAY!! I hope today is filled with lots of new hopes and dreams..Of course cake and ice cream... and you dont look a day over 29! keep up the good work! eat lots of cake and ice cream! I think connor is in heaven sending hugs to you . I hope you know you are loved...Much more than you know,, by your friends and family.. your a very special person... that 1 in a million you find! that is why connor was so amazing.. he had you as his mommy! i just smile when I see his infectious grin on his face in his pictures.. what an amazing angel you have watching over you! Until your with connor again.... we are all here for you!
Kim <dakk2222@netnitco.net>
IN - Wednesday, October 1, 2008 5:20 PM CDT
Happy Birthday to you i hope its been a good one.
Sharon <sholweger5@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, October 1, 2008 5:17 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Happy Birthday! May today, and the days ahead, be filled with grace, hope, and encouragement. I also hope you have some gifts, many cards, and a piece of birthday cake.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless Connor, too.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Watch over thy child, O Lord, as her days increase; bless and guide her wherever she may be. Strengthen her when she stands; comfort her when discouraged or sorrowful; raise her up if she fall; and in her heart may thy peace which passeth understanding abide all the days of her life; through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 811
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, October 1, 2008 3:57 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Happy Birthday! I am sending you a never-ending hug and Laura send birthday greetings as well...
Deb and Laura <endyke@speakeasy.net>
Litchfield, NH USA - Tuesday, September 30, 2008 8:33 PM CDT
Rhonda, "It's Birthday Eve!"
Dear Rhonda,
We use the three words above in our family on the day before a birthday. It is with the greatest of pleasure that I say them to Connor's forever mother today.
May God bless you always, and of course, may God bless sweet Connor, too.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
O Lord, O God of truth, whose Word is a lantern to our feet and a light upon our path: We give you thanks for your servant Jerome, and those who, following in his steps, have labored to render the Holy Scriptures in the language of the people; and we pray that your Holy Spirit will overshadow us as we read the written Word, and that Christ, the living Word, will transform us according to your righteous will; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, September 30, 2008 8:02 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I had a busy and enjoyable weekend with cousins and their babies visiting. Jameson, age eight months, who is from Rochester, is beginning to walk and is very social, cute, and funny. Finn, from Boston, is only two months old, so although sweet, not as much fun yet. Being with the boys made me think of Connor with Brett.
I do hope you are well.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect For The Feast Of St. Michael And All Angels (September 29):
Everlasting God, who have ordained and constituted in a wonderful Order the ministries of angels and mortals: Mercifully grant that, as your holy angels always serve and worship you in heaven, so by your appointment they may help and defend us here on earth; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, September 29, 2008 4:46 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
It is raining here in southern Saratoga County, but I hope you are having a good day. I also hope you have a good weekend, possibly celebrating your birthday, a few days early, with your family.
I am leaving you today's collect commemorating Lancelot Andrewes (1555-1626), Bishop of Winchester. He was a great scholar and preacher and a member of the committee that produced the King James Translation of the Bible. He probably contributed more to that work than any other person.
God bless you always, and God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
Colette
O Lord and Father, our King and God, by whose grace the Church was enriched by the great learning and eloquent preaching of your servant Lancelot Andrewes, but even more by his example of biblical and liturgical prayer: Conform our lives, like his, to the image of Christ, that our hearts may love you, our minds serve you, and our lips proclaim the greatness of your mercy; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, September 26, 2008 12:48 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
As always, I am thinking of you and of your sunshine boy, Connor. May God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect
O God, whose blessed Son became poor that we through his poverty might be rich: Deliver us from an inordinate love of this world, that we, inspired by the devotion of your servant Sergius of Moscow, may serve you with singleness of heart, and attain to the riches of the age to come; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, September 25, 2008 1:29 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Helmets and go-carts also remind me of your sweet sunshine boy. May your thoughts of Connor be sweet and happy today.
Earlier this week, many people of faith marked the anniversary of the death of Henri Nouwen. I will leave you one of my favorite Nouwen quotes.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Real prayer penetrates to the marrow of the soul and leaves nothing untouched. The prayer of the heart is prayer that does not allow us to limit our relationship with God to interesting words or pious emotion...In our hearts we come to see ourselves as sinners embraced by the mercy of God. Thus the prayer of the heart is the prayer of truth.
~Henri J.M. Nouwen (1932-1996)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, September 24, 2008 11:05 AM CDT
this is from a greeting card but the thought is still the same
Nothing new
nothng clever
just thinking of you
same as ever.
I think of you so often and always say a prayer for you when I do. I hope thngs are getting a little esier for you as time passes but I also know the pain is always there. its just waiting to jump out when you least expect it
Sharon <sholweger5@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, September 23, 2008 6:17 PM CDT
thinking of you today
Love and prayers from Scotland,Rosi
www.caringbridge.org/hi/kayla
Rosi Pullin <rosipullin@hotmail.com>
- Tuesday, September 23, 2008 5:40 PM CDT
Hey Connor,
One of my neighbors has a gokart and will occasionally get it out for a ride. He's about 14 now and gokarts aren't quite as important as when he was younger, so I don't get to see it running too often. Seeing it the other day reminded me of a special young man who continues to bless my life daily. As I watched Joseph pulling on that starter rope I thought about you and how God uses you to reach so many in his kingdom!
I love you bunches!!
Mr. Wayne
Wayne Gordon <wgordon@cscsystems.com>
Hermitage, TN USA - Tuesday, September 23, 2008 8:34 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of you on a beautiful first day of autumn. I hope all is well with you and with all of Connor's many loved ones.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
We thank you, heavenly Father, for the witness of your apostle and evangelist Matthew to the Gospel of your Son our Savior; and we pray that, after his example, we may with ready wills and hearts obey the calling of our Lord to follow him; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, September 22, 2008 5:09 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Connor has been remembered in Holy Eucharist once again. I always think of your sweet sunshine boy, when I am in church, and I always pray for you.
Please let me know if I can do anything for you.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect (One Of My Favorites):
Grant us, Lord, not to be anxious about earthly things, but to love things heavenly; and even now, while we are placed among things that are passing away, to hold fast to those that shall endure; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, September 21, 2008 2:18 PM CDT
He who has surrendered himself to it knows that the Way ends on the Cross--even when it is leading through the jubilation of Gennesaret or the triumphal entry into Jerusalem.
~Dag Hammarskjöld (1905-1961)
Dear Rhonda,
As young people, my boys were always interested in individuals like Hammarskjöld. Perhaps Connor has met him in their heavenly country.
My thoughts and prayers are with you today.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Heavenly Father, who have taught us that the peacemakers shall be called the children of God: Grant that, like your servant Dag Hammarskjöld, we may always seek to live at peace with our neighbors, and to reconcile those living in strife and enmity; so that in this way we may follow in the footsteps of your beloved Son Jesus Christ our Lord; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, September 18, 2008 9:57 AM CDT
Underneath all the texts, all the sacred psalms and canticles, these watery varieties of sounds and silences, terrifying, mysterious, whirling and sometimes gestating and gentle must somehow be felt in the pulse, ebb, and flow of the music that sings in me. My new song must float like a feather on the breath of God.
Hildegard Of Bingen
Dear Rhonda,
I left you that quote from Hildegard, as I did not have much to say on my own. I do love singing, especially when I am singing to God, and I believe you do, as well. May our songs float like feathers to God and to Connor.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect: Feast Of Hildegard Of Bingen, 17 September 1179
O God, by whose grace your servant Hildegard, kindled with the fire of your love, became a burning and shining light in your Church: Grant that we also may be aflame with the spirit of love and discipline, and walk before you as children of light; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, September 17, 2008 2:33 PM CDT
The soul is healed by being with children.
~Fyodor Dostoyevsky, novelist (1821-1881)
Dear Rhonda,
The thought above was in my email today. I know Connor was such a wonderful child that it may be hard for you to see other parents enjoying their children, but I hope that you can spend time with children of friends and family, as there is healing in being with young people.
God bless you. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Collect For The Feast Of Ninian Of Galloway,
Bishop, Missionary To Scotland, 16 September 430:
O God, who by the preaching of your blessed servant and bishop Ninian caused the light of the Gospel to shine in the land of Britain: Grant, we pray, that, having his life and labors in remembrance, we may show our thankfulness by following the example of his zeal and patience; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, September 16, 2008 11:54 AM CDT
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Guests at participating Chili’s restaurants can contribute to St. Jude in multiple ways:
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Cindy Choi
Miami, FL - Monday, September 15, 2008 4:15 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Last night, we attended a gala storytelling banquet. In reflecting on an amazing evening, I think Connor would have enjoyed the humorous tellings offered by women from Saratoga Springs and from Albany and the dessert. I know I did.
Today is the Feast of the Holy Cross. We have two churches in our diocese that carry this name. I was fortune enough to visit the church in Jerusalem, near where St. Helena discovered the true cross, several years ago. I will leave the collect below.
God bless both you and Connor.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Almighty God, whose Son our Savior Jesus Christ was lifted high upon the cross that he might draw the whole world to himself: Mercifully grant that we, who glory in the mystery of our redemption, may have grace to take up our cross and follow him; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, in glory everlasting. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, September 15, 2008 9:22 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I am remembering sweet Connor and thinking of you on a beautiful late summer afternoon. I hope you are enjoying the weekend. There are many cancer awareness/fund-raisers going on. Perhaps you are involved in one of them. If so, may your activity bring Connor's story to the attention of new people and help find cures.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
I know for certain that we never lose the people we love, even to death. They continue to participate in every act, thought and decision we make. Their love leaves an indelible imprint in our memories. We find comfort in knowing that our lives have been enriched by having shared their love.
~Leo F. Buscaglia (1924-1998)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, September 13, 2008 2:36 PM CDT
stopped by to tell you that I'm thinking about you and the Martin7
tricia <triciabxny@yahoo.com>
- Saturday, September 13, 2008 9:28 AM CDT
Rhonda
just wanted you to know that I was thinking of you
and your sweet Connor
prayers and love from Mrs. Pam
- Friday, September 12, 2008 5:14 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I am pausing, here, at my keyboard, to pray for you. May God bless you and your sweet sunshine boy.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect, Feast Of John Henry Hobart, Pioneer Bishop Of New York (1775-1830):
Revive your Church, Lord God of hosts, whenever it falls into complacency and sloth, by raising up devoted leaders, like your servant John Henry Hobart whom we remember this day; and grant that their faith and vigor of mind may awaken your people to your message and their mission; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, September 12, 2008 2:11 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I have thought of you, and of your family, often on Patriot's Day, and I have also thought of a man from my hometown, who died in the World Trade Center. May God bless the souls of all the faithful departed.
A friend sent me a card containing the prayer below from The Book of Common Prayer. The word "catholic" in the prayer refers to the whole church of Christ.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
O God, whose days are without end, and whose mercies cannot be numbered: Make us, we pray, deeply aware of the shortness and uncertainty of human life; and let your Holy Spirit lead us in holiness and righteousness all our days; that, when we shall have served you in our generation, we may be gathered to our ancestors, having the testimony of a good conscience, in the communion of the Catholic Church, in the confidence of a certain faith, in the comfort of a religious and holy hope, in favor with you, our God, and in perfect charity with the world. All this we ask through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, September 11, 2008 11:45 PM CDT
rhonda.. I emailed you. but wanted to sign... thanks again for keeping up connors site.. he was such a brave young man... and soo handsome.. Our middle child andrew was also born in oct of 94... and has often said how cool connor was, and how strong he was. He said ( mom I could never be that sick and still be happy like connor) We were just talking about him earlier today... connor set an example to so many people.. even kids his age.. we will always remember connor.. and smile!
Kim <dakk2222@netnitco.net>
IN - Wednesday, September 10, 2008 5:52 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Now that school is back in full swing, soccer and football are being played by youth of all ages, here, in southern Saratoga County. The kids are also beginning to plan for Halloween. I am sure Connor would have been looking forward to that day, as it was also his birthday. May God bless Connor always, and may God bless you and all of Connor's other loved ones, too.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Almighty and everlasting God, we thank you for your servant Alexander Crummell, whom you called to preach the Gospel to those who were far off and to those who were near. Raise up in this and every land evangelists and heralds of your kingdom, that your Church may proclaim the unsearchable riches of our Savior Jesus Christ, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, September 10, 2008 3:42 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Someone is using a lawn tractor in our area, and the sound of it makes me think of the picture of Connor driving the tractor. How all of the young guys enjoy things with wheels!
You are in my loving thoughts today.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Here's a quote, from Mother Teresa, that always makes me smile.
When I was crossing into Gaza, I was asked at the checkpost whether I was carrying any weapons. I replied: Oh yes, my prayer books.
Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, September 8, 2008 4:26 PM CDT
Rhonda,
Yesterday I helped give a bridal shower for my niece Sarah and a little boy 1 year old was there and his name was Connor, he had the biggest smile and reminded me of your sweet sunshine boy. I do miss him!!! I am thankful for the short time I "knew" him and for the lessons he taught me about being courageous and to live life to the fullest each and every precious day.
Note: Thank you for the awesome entry Mr. Wayne....Connor will forever be in my heart!:) Colette, you are always so faithful in writing. I love your quotes and the prayers you include. Mother Teresa was one of my favorites and I took the name Theresa for my confirmation name.:)
God Bless everyone reading this and especially Rhonda.
We love you!
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Sunday, September 7, 2008 12:51 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Both you and Connor were in my thoughts and prayers, during Eucharist last night. When the service was over, a friend and I had dinner at IHOP. We tried the Louisiana Bananas Foster Pancakes, which have been advertised. They came topped with a large scoop of vanilla ice cream, and they were yummy. I wonder what Connor would have thought of them, or of some of the other specialty pancakes they served.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Prayer enlarges the heart until it is capable of containing God’s gift of Himself.
~Mother Teresa
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, September 7, 2008 11:45 AM CDT
Let us always meet each other with smile, for the smile is the beginning of love.
~Mother Teresa
Dear Rhonda,
So many of Mother Teresa's sayings were about smiling, and certainly one thing Connor was known for was his smile. May God bless them both and all the faithful departed.
I am reading at one Eucharist, this weekend, and while I am at church, I will remember Connor, and I will also hold you up in my prayers.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect:
Grant us, O Lord, to trust in you with all our hearts; for, as you always resist the proud who confide in their own strength, so you never forsake those who make their boast of your mercy; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 233
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, September 6, 2008 1:22 PM CDT
Hey to everyone who visits Connor's web site and signs his guestbook!
Life happens. People get involved in their hectic schedules. Without meaning to, we often get 'lost' in our daily routines and may forget those who are important to us.
Maybe you feel as I do when you think often about a special person like Connor. Hardly a day goes by that this young man doesn't enter my thought process. However, I fail to take the time to come here and say a few words. It's so easy to let the hustle and bustle take over and we forget that some may need the blessing of a few minutes of our time.
God's plans for us are quite easy to understand and yet can be difficult to follow. I think that is why he uses the innocence of a young child to reach out and gently let us know there are things more important than our full and busy schedule.
I cannot visit here without thanking Connor for his incredible gift of being a mighty soldier in God's army! Although his physical walk is finished, he will continue to be a strong influence in many lives. I think about the scripture that states unless we become like little children, we cannot inherit the kingdom of heaven. God knows what he is doing.
Thank you Connor for being such a good guy!!
In Christian love,
Mr. Wayne
Wayne Gordon <wgordon@cscsystems.com>
Hermitage, TN USA - Friday, September 5, 2008 4:06 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
My thoughts are with you on another Friday morning. May we all, "walking in the way of the cross, may find it none other than the way of life and peace," today and every day.
Since today is Mother Teresa's eleventh anniversary, I will leave her daily prayer below.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Dear Jesus, help me to spread Thy fragrance everywhere I go. Flood my soul with Thy spirit and love. Penetrate and possess my whole being so utterly that all my life may only be a radiance of Thine.
~Mother Teresa's Daily Prayer, by Cardinal Newman
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, September 5, 2008 11:21 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Today is a beautiful summer day, so it is easy to think of Connor buzzing about on his go-cart and also riding his bike. He was one active young man! Connor will always be missed by all of his friends and supporters.
God bless you always, and God bless all of Connor's dear ones.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Merciful God, who sent your beloved Son to preach peace to those who are far off and to those who are near: Raise up in this and every land witnesses, who, after the example of your servant Paul Jones, will stand firm in proclaiming the Gospel of the Prince of Peace, our Savior Jesus Christ, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, September 4, 2008 1:48 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
The school busses are roaring through our development. Today is the first day of school here, and those busses have been going for almost an hour. I think back to young Connor and to my own boys, in new shoes and clothes, and to the hopes, dreams, and excitement of a new beginning. I also think of fall sports and a return to Christian education which would follow on the weekend. My thoughts are sweet, and I hope that yours are as well.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect:
Almighty God, we remember before you this day the blessed martyrs of New Guinea, who, following the example of their Savior, laid down their lives for their friends; and we pray that we, who honor their memory, may imitate their loyalty and faith; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, September 3, 2008 6:41 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of you and of Connor today. May God bless you both.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
All of the good that you will do will come not from the fact that you have allowed yourself, in obedience of faith, to be used by God's love. Think of this more and gradually you will free yourself from the need to prove yourself, and you can be more open to the power that will work through you without you knowing it.
~Thomas Merton (1915-1968)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, September 2, 2008 8:01 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Aiden of Lindisfarne is one of my favorite saints, so I am leaving his collect below. His day is usually August 31, but with that date being a Sunday, he was remembered today.
I have thought of Connor many times today, and another of his friends emailed me to say that she had, as well. Connor will not be forgotten by those who signed his guest book faithfully during his illness, but even more importantly, Connor is always in the heart and mind of God.
God bless you both.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
O loving God, who called your servant Aidan from the peace of a cloister to re-establish the Christian mission in northern England, and gave him the gifts of gentleness, simplicity, and strength: Grant that we, following his example, may use what you have given us for the relief of human need, and may persevere in commending the saving Gospel of our Redeemer Jesus Christ; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, September 1, 2008 9:11 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
On another first of the month, I am thinking of sweet Connor and how much we all miss him. May God give you special grace to go through whatever emotions today brings, and may you never lose sight of the tree of life.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless Connor.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
O God of wonder and mystery, you gave us Jesus to go before us and to show us a way to new life through our dying: As the season of autumn reminds us that all living things must die, so must our faith in the life Jesus promised encourage us to embrace life's potential, rather than being saddened by life's endings, may we find, in the wisdom of your creation, the constantly renewing love that reassures us of your presence. With our eyes on the tree of life and its spectacular beauty, may we remain always in Jesus. Amen.
~Sister Karen Berry
in Prayer Services for Parishes
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, September 1, 2008 11:59 AM CDT
Good Morning Rhonda,
Thinking of you today and a little blonde haired boy who captured my heart and is forever in my heart. I miss your sunshine boy and I love you.
Please know I am always here for you and pray for you daily.
God Bless,
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay , WI. U.S.A. - Monday, September 1, 2008 7:32 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Andrew took me out to lunch today, and I enjoyed my time with him very much. I do not sign guest books very much now either, but I do try to get to Connor's book often as he was so very special. Like Sharon, I hope you are doing all right.
God bless you, and of course, God bless sweet Connor.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, August 31, 2008 3:39 PM CDT
I do not sign very often any more Rhonda but I do think of you so often. I hope things are ok.
Sharon <sholweger5@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, August 31, 2008 8:48 AM CDT
Happy Labor Day Weekend To All!
Dear Rhonda,
Connor will be remembered, in Holy Eucharist, this weekend, as he is every time I am at church.
May God nourish you with all good things, especially hope.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect:
Lord of all power and might, the author and giver of all good things: Graft in our hearts the love of your Name; increase in us true religion; nourish us with all goodness; and bring forth in us the fruit of good works; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God for ever and ever. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 233
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, August 30, 2008 12:32 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
The news and the history of this week have made me think a lot of a young man, who like our Lord Jesus, gave his life for others. Today I leave you the collect for Jonathan Daniels, who died on August 20, 1965. A seminarian, his action in stepping in front of another, to prevent her death, still speaks louder than any words he could have preached.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet son, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
O God of justice and compassion, who put down the proud and the mighty from their place, and lift up the poor and afflicted: We give you thanks for your faithful witness Jonathan Myrick Daniels, who, in the midst of injustice and violence, risked and gave his life for another; and we pray that we, following his example, may make no peace with oppression; through Jesus Christ the just one: who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, August 29, 2008 10:03 AM CDT
Regarding Connor's page. Thank you so much! My 3yo daughter has been through a battle with cancer and is now in remission. She is like a normal little girl but I am now finding it hard to greive and move on. Reading Connor's page helped me alot. Thank you!
Nicole Conway <jasonconway@optusnet.com.au>
Brisbane, Qld Australia - Thursday, August 28, 2008 11:18 PM CDT
Of this I am certain, that no one has ever died who was not destined to die some time. Now the end of life puts the longest life on a par with the shortest... And of what consequence is it what kind of death puts an end to life, since he who has died once is not forced to go through the same ordeal a second time? They, then, who are destined to die, need not be careful to inquire what death they are to die, but into what place death will usher them.
~St. Augustine of Hippo (354-430)
Feast Day: August 28
Dear Rhonda,
I hope these words from St. Augustine of Hippo will be comforting to you today, as you think of Connor and others who have gone before you. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Lord God, the light of the minds that know you, the life of the souls that love you, and the strength of the hearts that serve you: Help us, following the example of your servant Augustine of Hippo, so to know you that we may truly love you, and so to love you that we may fully serve you, whom to serve is perfect freedom; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, August 28, 2008 10:31 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Last night, Andrew wanted pizza. As I watched him, smiling as he placed the order, I thought of your smiling sunshine boy, and I wondered what Connor would have chosen, had he placed the order.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
O loving God, whose will it is that everyone should come to you and be saved: We bless your Holy Name for your servants Thomas Gallaudet and Henry Winter Syle, whose labors with and for those who are deaf we commemorate today; and we pray that you will continually move your Church to respond in love to the needs of all people; through Jesus Christ, who opened the ears of the deaf, and who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, August 27, 2008 1:30 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Today's saint is Bartholomew. One of my connections with this name is that when they were young, my boys gave me a white teddy bear that I named Thomas Bartholomew. We had such a good time with that bear! I am sure little stories like this one make you think of dozens of sweet things Connor did as a little guys, and I hope those thoughts make your heart smile.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Almighty and everlasting God, who gave to your apostle Bartholomew grace truly to believe and to preach your Word: Grant that your Church may love what he believed and preach what he taught; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, August 25, 2008 11:32 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I was watching televison last night and a little lady bug crawled all around the t.v. screen, I just sat and watched it as it circled around and around and I immediatly thought of a little blonde haired boy with a smile that could light up the world and who captured my heart many years ago and I will NEVER forget him or his courage. I miss that little boy and know you do with all your heart...just know he touched so many lives and he will ALWAYS be in our hearts. I miss hearing from you, hope you are doing okay. You are daily in my prayers.
Love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Sunday, August 24, 2008 8:49 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Blessings to you on a beautiful Sunday afternoon. I am thinking of you, Connor, and all of your loved ones.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Grant, O merciful God, that your Church, being gathered together in unity by your Holy Spirit, may show forth your power among all peoples, to the glory of your Name; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 232
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, August 24, 2008 2:30 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Our cousin, Jennifer's oldest boy, Liam, is six today. It does not seem possible. Where does all the time go?
I hope you are doing well. You, and all of your loved ones, are in my thoughts and prayers.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, August 23, 2008 9:00 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of you, and remembering Connor, on yet another Friday. May God bless you both.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
A Collect For Fridays:
Almighty God, whose most dear Son went not up to joy but
first he suffered pain, and entered not into glory before he
was crucified: Mercifully grant that we, walking in the way
of the cross, may find it none other than the way of life and
peace; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord. Amen.
The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 99
Written By William Reed Huntington (1838-1909)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, August 22, 2008 12:47 AM CDT
Rhonda
thinking of you
prayers and love from mrs pam
- Thursday, August 21, 2008 4:50 PM CDT
I think of you many times during the week. Each time, I pray for you. I know God has you in the palm of His hand. I check in just to look at Connor's sweet face. He's an inspiration to so many of us. Your love for him radiates through this site. If there is anything that I can do for you, please let me know.
Lisa
Mount Juliet, TN USA - Thursday, August 21, 2008 3:42 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I know you are reading Connor's guest book. May God bless you today and every day, and of course may God bless sweet Connor.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Almighty God, who gave your servant Blaise Pascal a great intellect, that he might explore the mysteries of your creation, and who kindled in his heart a love for you and a devotion to your service: Mercifully give us your servants, according to our various callings, gifts of excellence in body, mind, and will, and the grace to use them diligently and to your glory, through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, August 21, 2008 1:17 PM CDT
Hello Rhonda and all readers,
I know this site was kept live by Rhonda for others. Can anyone tell us how Rhonda is doing and or if she is in touch. Thank you and apologies for using the page in this way.
ALL Friends to Connor
- Wednesday, August 20, 2008 10:01 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
In reading today's collect, I thought of Connor, who truly was a child of light. May God bless you both today and every day.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
O God, by whose grace your servant Bernard of Clairvaux, kindled with the flame of your love, became a burning and a shining light in your Church: Grant that we also may be aflame with the spirit of love and discipline, and walk before you as children of light; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, August 20, 2008 12:53 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Over the past few days, three friends have died, and I have three friends battling breast cancer. Life is often uncertain, but all of these departed had faith, as did Connor, so are hearts, although hurting, are not like those without hope. We will see them again.
Today's saint is Helena, mother of Constantine, and finder of the True Cross. Several years ago, while in the Holy Land, I attended two worship services in the church she helped to build.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your dear son, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
Colette
Today's Collect:
Almighty God, who called your servant Helena to an earthly throne so that she might advance your heavenly kingdom, and filled her with zeal for your Church and love for your people; Grant to us your people that we may be fruitful in good works, and steadfast in our faith in you, and finally by your mercy may attain everlasting life; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, August 19, 2008 7:34 AM CDT
rhonda, im thinking of you.... and connor alot lately. We were laying at the beach and the clouds formed and looked like angels, I was thinking of sweet connor and cheyenne and maxie. and wondering what they are all doing... Summer is almost over school starts here this week.. the housing market is still awful here.. so i was thinking of you in real estate. I think its still bad all over.. Praying for you with that as well.. thank you for keeping connors page here. I come look at his sweet face many times.. without signing.. and to pray for you.. I should get better at letting you know i was here.
Kim <dakk2222@netnitco.net>
IN - Monday, August 18, 2008 6:51 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I stopped at DeVoe's yesterday, as they advertised lemon ice cream, which is one of my favorites. I had my cone dipped in chocolate, and as I ate, I wondered, as I often do, what cool treat Connor would have chosen. May God bless your sweet, sunshine boy, and may God bless you.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Almighty God, who gave to your servant William Porcher DuBose special gifts of grace to understand the Scriptures and to teach the truth as it is in Christ Jesus: Grant that by this teaching we may know you, the one true God, and Jesus Christ whom you have sent; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, August 18, 2008 12:43 AM CDT
thinking of you
tricia <triciabxny@yahoo.com>
- Saturday, August 16, 2008 9:52 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
On a day when many think of mothers, I send you greetings and love. God bless you always, God bless your mother, and of course, God bless sweet Connor.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
A Collect For The Feast Of St. Mary:
O God, who have taken to yourself the blessed Virgin Mary, mother of your incarnate Son: Grant that we, who have been redeemed by his blood, may share with her the glory of your eternal kingdom; through your Son Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Also see the second verse below, a tribute to the mother of our Lord.
Ye watchers and ye holy ones,
bright seraphs, cherubim, and thrones,
raise the glad strain,
Alleluia!
Cry out, dominions, princedoms, powers,
virtues, archangels, angels' choirs,
Refrain:
Alleluia! alleluia! alleluia!
Alleluia! alleluia!
O higher than the cherubim,
more glorious than the seraphim,
lead their praises,
Alleluia!
Thou bearer of the eternal Word,
most gracious, magnify the Lord, Refrain
Respond, ye souls in endless rest,
ye patriarchs and prophets blest,
Alleluia,
alleluia!
Ye holy twelve, ye martyrs strong,
all saints triumphant, raise the song, Refrain
O friends, in gladness let us sing,
supernal anthems echoing,
Alleluia,
alleluia!
To God the Father, God the Son,
and God the Spirit, Three in One, Refrain
Words: Athelstan Riley (1858-1945), 1906
Music: Lasst uns erfreuen (Geistliche Catholische Kirchengeäng, Cologne, 1623)
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/y/y023.html
Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, August 15, 2008 3:17 PM CDT
This has been a long time since writting, but I still think about the sunshine boy. Alot of little things bring back the times when I couldn't stay away from the site. Hope all is fine in your life too!
sandi slezak <slezak@ez-net.com>
wabeno, wi usa - Friday, August 15, 2008 7:42 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
We have a little sunshine this morning after another very overcast and rainy week. It is good to come here and see the sunshine on Connor's sweet face. May God bless him, and may God bless you.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Most loving Father, whose Son Jesus Christ came to give his life as a ransom for many: Give us the grace, as you did to your servant Maximilian Kolbe, to be always ready to come to the aid of those in need or distress, not counting the cost; that so we may follow in the footsteps of your Son Jesus Christ our Lord; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, August 14, 2008 8:09 AM CDT
Rhonda, I am thinking of you today. Hayden started 1st grade yesterday. I can't believe it. I hope you are doing well. I love getting to see Connor's smiling face when I come to his site. He will always be in my heart.
Love,
Lori
Lori Pierce <hayden01@tds.net>
Mt Juliet, Tn - Tuesday, August 12, 2008 12:12 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Today is the birthday of one of my favorite cousins. It is a good day for me to think of Connor, and of his cousins, and to pray for them all, and for you.
Connor was remembered, in Eucharist, at St. George's, on Saturday, when I served as lay reader.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
O God, whose blessed Son became poor that we through his poverty might be rich: Deliver us from an inordinate love of this world, that we, inspired by the devotion of your servant Clare, may serve you with singleness of heart, and attain to the riches of the age to come; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, August 11, 2008 1:10 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
What a privilege to come here to see Connor's pictures today! The one of young Connor, in the puppy costume, touched my heart especially, this morning.
Last night, I watched the opening ceremony of the Olympics, on television. I wonder what Connor would have thought of so many people and of the pageantry. May God bless his sweet spirit.
I hope you are well. I would love to hear from you.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Almighty and everlasting God, who kindled the flame of your love in the heart of your holy martyr Franz Jägerstätter: Grant to us, your humble servants, a like faith and power of love, that we who rejoice in his triumph may profit by his example; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, August 9, 2008 11:32 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I hope you are well. I will think of you, and of sweet Connor, when I read at church, over the weekend. God bless you both.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
O God of the prophets, who opened the eyes of your servant Dominic to perceive a famine of hearing the word of the Lord, and moved him, and those he drew about him, to satisfy that hunger with sound preaching and fervent devotion: Make your Church, dear Lord, in this and every age, attentive to the hungers of the world, and quick to respond in love to those who are perishing; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, August 8, 2008 12:28 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Andrew is taking care of five cats for three different families this week, while they are on vacation. Two of the cats, Alex and Houdini, are Kristen's. This makes me think of Connor and his cat, Zoe. Connor had so much fun with her.
I hope you are well and enjoying good weather.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Lord God, whose servant Oswald the King sent for preachers to bring the Good News of salvation to the people of his country, and stood beside the preacher Aidan and interpreted his words into the Anglo-Saxon language: Place in our hearts a concern for those who have not heard the message of your love; and where we have not the ability to reach them ourselves, grant us the discernment and the charity to uphold those who do have it, that your way may be known upon earth, your saving health among all nations, through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Ghost, one God, now and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, August 5, 2008 9:12 AM CDT
another first of the month has passed us by sometimes they seem to fly by and sometimes to drag.... I think of you every day and how much I know you miss Connor
Sharon <sholweger5@yahoo.com>
- Saturday, August 2, 2008 6:44 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
After a spurt of heavy rain, the birds are singing and we are having a pleasant summer afternoon, here in southern Saratoga County. I hope you and your loved ones are enjoying a good day, as well.
I will remember Connor, in Holy Eucharist, this weekend, as I always do.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless Connor.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect:
Gracious Father, by whose hand your servant Simon Peter was most wonderfully delivered out of prison and from impending death: Grant us, in all the changes and chances of this mortal life, to dread nothing but the loss of you, and to cast all our care upon you, who care for us. When disasters lie ahead, help us to avoid them if we may, and to endure them if we must, knowing that we walk with him who endured all for us, your Son our Savior Jesus Christ, who now lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, August 2, 2008 1:41 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
As we enter another month, I am thinking of you and of dear Connor. May your faith remind you that you will see Connor again, and when you do, "All shall be well."
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Almighty God, we entrust all who are dear to us to your never-failing care and love, for this life and the life to come, knowing that you are doing for them better things than we can desire or pray for, through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 831
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, August 1, 2008 11:54 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I just want you to know that I am thinking of you today.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless sweet Connor.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
Colette
Today's Collect:
Merciful God, whose servant Joseph of Arimathaea with reverence and godly fear prepared the body of our Lord and Savior for burial, and laid it in his own tomb: Grant to us, your faithful people, grace and courage to love and serve Jesus with sincere devotion all the days of our life; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, July 31, 2008 9:37 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
It is another warm, summer day, in southern Saratoga County. I hope you are enjoying the rich produce of the earth, the touch of the sun, and peace in your heart.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Let your continual mercy, O Lord, enkindle in your Church the never-failing gift of love, that, following the example of your servant William Wilberforce, we may have grace to defend the children of the poor, and maintain the cause of those who have no helper; for the sake of him who gave his life for us, your Son our Savior Jesus Christ, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, July 30, 2008 11:08 AM CDT
Rhonda
thinking of you
prayers and love from mrs pam
- Monday, July 28, 2008 4:28 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I hope you have had a safe and pleasant weekend. I have thought of Connor many times these past few days. Connor will always be someone special in my heart.
Today the church remembers a great leader in William Reed Huntington, the rector for 21 years (1862-1883) at All Saints' Church in Worcester, Massachusetts, and for 26 years (1883-1909) at Grace Church, New York City. He died 26 July 1909, and his feast is marked on 27 July. He is the author of the collect I often leave you on Fridays.
"Almighty God, whose dear Son went not up to joy but first he suffered pain, and entered not into glory before he was crucified: Mercifully grant that we, walking in the way of the cross, may find it none other than the way of life and peace; through the same thy Son Jesus Christ our Lord."
This is a prayer that has brought me through and beyond many hard experiences. May it always be a help to you, as well.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless Connor.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
O Lord our God, we thank you for instilling in the heart of your servant William Reed Huntington a fervent love for your Church and its mission in the world; and we pray that, with unflagging faith in your promises, we may make known to all peoples your blessed gift of eternal life; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, July 28, 2008 1:25 PM CDT
Hi Rhonda,
I participated in my first Relay for Life on Friday evening. I surprised my Uncle Pat and his family and went to Two Rivers (about 45 minutes from here) to walk with them in my Aunt Char's honor. It was such a moving experience. I walked the very first lap alone as it was for survivors and I didn't know a single survivor there...I cried as I walked and people clapped and cheered. I wore my Connor blue bracelet and thought of him, Cheyenne, Tyler, my dad, Aunt Char and many others who have inspired me through their courageous journeys through cancer. I hope to attend again next year.
Hope things are well for you, miss hearing from you and updates about what is happening in your life. We have had a rough few weeks here, but we keep trudging along. A dear friends dad was killed in a car accident last week, his funeral will be Weds. Also my sister Kris' sister in law passed away last week...lots of "little" things in between that do put things into perspective but none the less are worrisome.
Take gentle care, and know that Connor is forever in my heart.
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Sunday, July 27, 2008 3:42 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I have just viewed Connor's pictures again. One that always stands out is one you sent me of a very young Connor, wading in some water, with Poppi. How fitting as today the church remembers the maternal grandparents of Jesus.
God bless you always, and God bless your mother and father, your brothers, and sweet Connor.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Almighty God, heavenly Father, we remember in thanksgiving this day the parents of the Blessed Virgin Mary; and we pray that we all may be made one in the heavenly family of your Son Jesus Christ our Lord; who with you and the Holy Spirit lives and reigns, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, July 26, 2008 1:26 PM CDT
O gracious God, we remember before you today your servant and apostle James, first among the Twelve to suffer martyrdom for the Name of Jesus Christ; and we pray that you will pour out upon the leaders of your Church that spirit of self-denying service by which alone they may have true authority among your people; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Dear Rhonda,
Greetings to you on the Feast of St. James. Our church, down in Oneonta, is named for this saint, and Andrew's confirmation name is also James.
I wonder if Connor enjoyed names as much as Andrew always has. Andrew's elementary school librarian, called him "a namer," long before Andrew informed his third grade teacher that he had just added "James" to his name and she could call him "AJ." Soon after that, Andrew asked me to help him list all of his nicknames. When we got to about 150, with still many more names to list, I declared him to be "the man with a thousand names," much to his delight.
Connor certainly had a great name. I am sure there is a story to his name, and someday, I would love to hear it.
When you can, please let me know how you are. I know your life is different, with Connor in heaven, but with God's help, it is also good.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
A Collect For Fridays:
Almighty God, whose most dear Son went not up to joy but
first he suffered pain, and entered not into glory before he
was crucified: Mercifully grant that we, walking in the way
of the cross, may find it none other than the way of life and
peace; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord. Amen.
The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 99
Written By William Reed Huntington (1838-1909)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, July 25, 2008 10:13 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
In our extended family, we have a new baby boy, born yesterday, in Boston. His name is Finian, and he joins a brother, Henry, who will be four, in October. Events like this make me think of Connor holding his little cousin. May God bless Connor's sweet spirit, and may God bless you.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, July 19, 2008 8:18 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
How quickly the time passes from one Friday to the next! Once again, I am praying for you and remembering sweet Connor on the day when many pray William Reed Huntington's prayer. I hope all is well with you and with all of Connor's loved ones. Hopefully, you can update soon.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
A Collect For Fridays:
Almighty God, whose most dear Son went not up to joy but
first he suffered pain, and entered not into glory before he
was crucified: Mercifully grant that we, walking in the way
of the cross, may find it none other than the way of life and
peace; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord. Amen.
The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 99
Written By William Reed Huntington (1838-1909)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, July 18, 2008 5:35 AM CDT
Thinking of you today and always!!!!
Jessica Locklear (Vaughan) <jvaughan82@aol.com>
clarksville, tn - Tuesday, July 15, 2008 5:12 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
It does not seem possible that today is the fifteenth of July already. We have been happy and busy. I hope the same has been true for you, although I know that your life is forever changed with Connor living in another dimension.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
O God, who called your servants Olga and her grandson Vladimir to an earthly throne that they might advance your heavenly kingdom, and gave them zeal for your Church and love for your people: Mercifully grant that we who commemorate them this day may be fruitful in good works, and attain to the glorious crown of your saints; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, July 15, 2008 7:55 AM CDT
Holiness is knowing we have tasted God and knowing that we can never be satisfied with just that taste. It is choosing, in spite of our fear, to go more deeply.
~Joyce Rupp
Dear Rhonda,
I thought you might like the quotation from Joyce Rupp, one of my favorite spiritual writers. May God bless you today and every day.
It does not seem that it could possibly be another Friday already. Let us continue walking in the way of the cross, as in it we will find life and peace.
Grace, peace, love, and all good to Connor's forever mother,
~Colette
A Collect For Fridays:
Almighty God, whose most dear Son went not up to joy but
first he suffered pain, and entered not into glory before he
was crucified: Mercifully grant that we, walking in the way
of the cross, may find it none other than the way of life and
peace; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord. Amen.
The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 99
Written By William Reed Huntington (1838-1909)
Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, July 11, 2008 10:10 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Andrew is on his way to a concert. It is a lovely time of the year to go hear music. I wonder what Connor would think of all the concerts in parks and arenas. Some include fireworks.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, July 8, 2008 5:34 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I hope you are enjoying this Fourth of July weekend. Connor was remembered in Holy Eucharist on Saturday, as he always is.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless Connor.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect:
O God, you have taught us to keep all your commandments by loving you and our neighbor: Grant us the grace of your Holy Spirit, that we may be devoted to you with our whole heart, and united to one another with pure affection; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, July 6, 2008 10:46 AM CDT
I really love your song "God Bless the USA." Keep up the great work for Jesus.
Shelia Turner <sheliaann_1978@live.com>
Hammond, IN USA - Saturday, July 5, 2008 8:10 AM CDT
Happy Fourth Of July To All!
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of you, of Connor, and of all of Connor's family, fans and supporters, on this Independence Day. May God bless you all.
One picture that has been coming to me, off and on, during the last few days, is the one of a young Connor wading in water with his poppy. It is a precious image to have. I am sure there are lots of little ones enjoying their grandfathers and grandmothers this weekend. Connor was blessed in having your parents in his life. They were terrific! Please give them my love.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
Colette
The Collect For Independence Day:
Lord God Almighty, in whose Name the founders of this country won liberty for themselves and for us, and lit the torch of freedom for nations then unborn: Grant that we and all the people of this land may have grace to maintain our liberties in righteousness and peace; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 242
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, July 4, 2008 4:41 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Both Lori and Kim have spoken well this week. What awesome sites indeed are Connor's in heaven, and truly someone thinks of you, at every part, of every day.
Earlier this week, Catherine Winkworth was remembered for her work in hymnal translation. I will leave the collect and one of her best known hymns.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless sweet Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Heavenly Father, by whose grace your servant Catherine was moved to render into English the words of praise which she had heard in the German tongue: grant us a like devotion, that we may be moved to proclaim your glory in sacred song; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Blessed Jesus, at thy word
we are gathered all to hear thee;
let our hearts and souls be stirred
now to seek and love and fear thee,
by thy teachings, true 1 and holy,
drawn from earth to love thee solely.
All our knowledge, sense, and sight
lie in deepest darkness shrouded
till thy Spirit breaks our night
with the beams of truth unclouded.
thou alone to God canst win us;
thou must work all good within us.
Glorious Lord, thyself impart,
Light of Light, from God proceeding;
open thou our ears and heart,
help us by thy Spirit's pleading;
hear the cry thy church 2 raises,
hear and bless our prayers and praises.
1 some have "sweet"
2 some have "people"
Words: Tobias Clausnitzer (1619-1684), 1667;
Translation Catherine Winkworth (1827-1878), 1858
Music: Liebster Jesu (Johann Rudolph Ahle, 1625-1673)
Hear It At: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/b/b134.html
Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, July 3, 2008 4:57 AM CDT
rhonda, thinking of connor on the first again... and often.. and I think of you.... I hope your doing o.k... update us when you can... Happy 4th of july! Your always in someones hearts and prayers! Kim
Kim <dakk2222@netnitco.net>
IN - Wednesday, July 2, 2008 3:45 PM CDT
Hi Rhonda--I am thinking of you and angel Connor. I am reading a book called 90 minutes in Heaven and as it is describing Heaven--I am thinking of Connor. What awesome sites he must be seeing. I hope you have a Happy and Safe 4th of July!
Lori
Lori Pierce <hayden01@tds.net>
Mt Juliet, TN - Wednesday, July 2, 2008 8:09 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I was unable to sign Connor's book during the day on July 1, but I was thinking of him, and of you. May God bless you both.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, July 2, 2008 2:03 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of a little blonde haired boy who stole my heart on another first day of the month. Birds are singing, and my thoughts are of Connor. I MISS HIM and WILL NEVER FORGET HIM! Also miss hearing from you.
love and hugs,
Kathy
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Tuesday, July 1, 2008 6:49 PM CDT
another first of the month........ and here we are missing our boys still. I went to Ga in June and visited Mike's grave and took him some purple flowers It's been a long time since Dec 1993 but I sitll miss him so much. I still think about you every day Rhonda.....
Sharon <sholweger5@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, July 1, 2008 5:23 PM CDT
hi rhonda...just wanted to let you know i'm thinking of you today. i haven't left a message in a while. i had surgery a month ago, and am having some complications. i could certainly use some of connor's courage! with love and hugs...deb
deborah pearce <deborah77@wowway.com>
southgate, MI - Tuesday, July 1, 2008 10:05 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I have thought of sweet Connor in prayer, in shopping, and in eating this weekend. I certainly miss Connor, and I also miss seeing updates, here on Connor's website. I am sure this time of the year was often exciting for Connor with carnivals, fairs, circuses, and rodeos making the rounds from area to area. We have amusement rides, games, and foods set up in the parking lot behind our main local shopping mall. One can see the Ferris Wheel at night, for quite a distance. It always looks so pretty.
I hope you, and all of Connor's loved ones, are well.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Almighty God, whose blessed apostles Peter and Paul glorified you by their martyrdom: Grant that your Church, instructed by their teaching and example, and knit together in unity by your Spirit, may ever stand firm upon the one foundation, which is Jesus Christ our Lord; who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, June 30, 2008 2:11 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
How the time from Friday to Friday passes! Once again, I am praying for you and remembering Connor on the day when many pray William Reed Huntington's prayer. I hope all is well with you and with all of Connor's loved ones.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
A Collect For Fridays:
Almighty God, whose most dear Son went not up to joy but
first he suffered pain, and entered not into glory before he
was crucified: Mercifully grant that we, walking in the way
of the cross, may find it none other than the way of life and
peace; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord. Amen.
The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 99
Written By William Reed Huntington (1838-1909)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, June 27, 2008 6:32 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
As the thunder rumbles on another humid June afternoon, I am thinking of you, and of sweet Connor. May God bless you both.
Today's saint is John the Baptist. I will leave the collect.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Almighty God, by whose providence your servant John the Baptist was wonderfully born, and sent to prepare the way of your Son our Savior by preaching repentance: Make us so to follow his teaching and holy life, that we may truly repent according to his preaching; and, following his example, constantly speak the truth, boldly rebuke vice, and patiently suffer for the truth's sake; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, June 24, 2008 12:50 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Today is the Feast of St. Alban, the first known martyr of Britain, and the person for whom nearby Albany, NY, was named. There is a St. Alban's window, in the Cathedral of All Saints, where my son, Andrew, was Confirmed.
Connor and you are in my thoughts today, as always. God bless you both, and God bless all those close to you, and all of Connor's fans and supporters.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Almighty God, by whose grace and power your holy martyr Alban triumphed over suffering and was faithful even unto death: Grant to us, who now remember him with thanksgiving, to be so faithful in our witness to you in this world, that we may receive with him the crown of life; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, June 23, 2008 7:53 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Connor was remembered several times during the morning liturgy, at St. George's, on Sunday, June 22. May you and your golden boy always be blessed.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Sunday's Collect:
O Lord, make us have perpetual love and reverence for your holy Name, for you never fail to help and govern those whom you have set upon the sure foundation of your lovingkindness; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, June 23, 2008 0:19 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of you on another Friday morning. I hope all is well.
God bless you, and of course, God bless your sweet son, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
A Collect For Fridays:
Almighty God, whose most dear Son went not up to joy but
first he suffered pain, and entered not into glory before he
was crucified: Mercifully grant that we, walking in the way
of the cross, may find it none other than the way of life and
peace; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord. Amen.
The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 99
Written By William Reed Huntington (1838-1909)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, June 20, 2008 1:51 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
This is the final week of school for most of the kids in New York. I know that young people, in Tennessee, are already out. I will often think of Connor as I watch our neighborhood children riding their bikes, playing ball, skateboarding, and riding their scooters. (We don't have any go-karters in this development.)
God bless you always, and of course, God bless Connor.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Almighty and everlasting God, who kindled the flame of your Love in the heart of your holy martyr Bernard Mizeki: Grant to us, your humble servants, a like faith and power of love, that we who rejoice in his triumph may profit by his example; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, June 18, 2008 3:51 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
We have had quite a weather day, here, in upstate New York, today. Colonie, about a fifteen minute drive away, had golf ball sized hail. Other areas had nickel and penny sized hail stones. There was a tornado down near Poughkeepsie. We are safe and sound. Our power did not even flicker, but it sure rained hard. I hope you are safe, well, and comfortable.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Please give Nana and Poppy, Tabitha and her family, and your brothers a "Hello!" from me.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Almighty God, we entrust all who are dear to us to your never-failing care and love, for this life and the life to come, knowing that you are doing for them better things than we can desire or pray for, through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 831
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, June 16, 2008 9:46 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I hope you are enjoying Father's Day with Poppy and your mother. God bless all three of you, and God bless Connor.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, June 15, 2008 2:56 PM CDT
Happy Flag Day To All!
Dear Rhonda,
I guess almost everyone loves a parade. One of the largest Flag Day Parades in our nation is held each June, in nearby Troy, NY, the home of Uncle Sam Wilson, meat packer during the War of 1812. We have missed it this year, as it was held earlier in the week, but our thoughts are toward our country this morning.
Our thoughts are also toward you and Connor. He will be remembered in the celebration of the Holy Eucharist, at St. George's.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless sweet Connor.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, June 14, 2008 8:25 AM CDT
Love wholly and not partially. God does not have parts but is present totally everywhere. God does not want only a part of you….Give all of yourself and God will give you all of himself.
~From the writings of St. Anthony of Padua
Dear Rhonda,
It's another Friday, and I am thinking of you, and of sweet Connor, once again. May God bless you both.
Today's saint is Anthony, also spelled Antony. I will leave the collects below.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
O God, who by your Holy Spirit gave your servant Antony a love Of the Holy Scriptures, and the gift of expounding them with learning and eloquence, so that your people might be established in sound doctrine and encouraged in the way of righteousness, grant us always an abundance of such preachers, to the glory of your Name and the benefit of your Church; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, June 13, 2008 12:56 AM CDT
Faith means believing the unbelievable. Hope means hoping when everything seems hopeless.
~Gilbert Keith Chesterton (1874-1936)
Dear Rhonda,
I hope you are having a good week. I also hope all of Connor's grandparents and other loved ones are doing well. When you can, please let Connor's fans know how everyone is.
Today's saint is Gilbert Keith Chesterton. I have read him, at times, over the years, but still don't really know or understand him. I will leave the collect beneath my signature.
God bless you always, and God bless sweet Connor.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Almighty God, who gave to your servant Gilbert the gift of a ready tongue and pen, and endued him with zeal to use them in your service: Mercifully grant to each of us, that we may well and truly answer anyone who asks of us a reason for the hope that is in us; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, June 12, 2008 2:17 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
The birds are singing, here, in southern Saratoga County, and I am thinking of you and of Connor. God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Grant, O God, that we may follow the example of your faithful servant Barnabas, who, seeking not his own renown but the well-being of your Church, gave generously of his life and substance for the relief of the poor and the spread of the Gospel; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, June 11, 2008 1:23 PM CDT
Heavy hearts, like heavy clouds in the sky, are best relieved by the letting of a little water.
~Christopher Morley, writer (1890-1957)
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of you today. Try to stay cool and well hydrated during this heat wave.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet boy, Connor.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, June 10, 2008 9:18 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I hope you are staying cool, safe, and comfortable, during this heat wave. I also hope all of Connor's grandparents are safe and well, in this difficult weather. Please give them my greetings.
I am not exactly sure when the school year ends in Tennessee, but I know it is earlier than it is here. I am wondering if the Connor J. Hunley Award has been given out yet. May this recognition honor worthy students each year and keep the name of Connor alive at his school.
Today's saint is Columba. I will leave a hymn sung, to the tune St. Columba, and the collect.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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O God, who by the preaching of your blessed servant Columba caused the light of the Gospel to shine in Scotland: Grant, we pray, that, having his life and labors in remembrance, we may show our thankfulness to you by following the example of his zeal and patience; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
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The King Of Love My Shepherd Is
The King of love my shepherd is,
whose goodness faileth never;
I nothing lack if I am his,
and he is mine for ever.
Where streams of living water flow,
my ransomed soul he leadeth,
and where the verdant pastures grow,
with food celestial feedeth.
Perverse and foolish oft I strayed,
but yet in love He sought me,
and on his shoulder gently laid,
and home, rejoicing, brought me.
In death's dark vale I fear no ill
with thee, dear Lord, beside me;
thy rod and staff my comfort still,
thy cross before to guide me.
Thou spread'st a table in my sight;
thy unction grace bestoweth;
and O what transport of delight
from thy pure chalice floweth!
And so through all the length of days
thy goodness faileth never:
Good Shepherd, may I sing thy praise
within thy house for ever.
Words: Henry Williams Baker (1821-1877), 1868
Music: St. Columba, Irish melody
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/t/t199b.html
Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, June 9, 2008 11:11 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I am home from church, as I read at the early service this morning. Our deacon of forty-one years, a gentleman well into his 80s, is retiring from the active clergy schedule. Today's early Eucharist was Al's last "official" service. He will continue to visit the sick and shut-ins, and I know he will assist, from time to time, for funerals, baptisms, and other services. However, after forty-one years of seldom missing a Sunday, he will no longer "have" to be at church, in heat and humidity, during hard rain, and when the ground is covered with snow. We will miss him.
All of us have benefited from faithful people like Al, over the years. Perhaps today is a good day to review who those people in our lives are, in prayer. May God bless them, and may God bless you.
Of course, while I was at St. George's, Connor was remembered, beneath the Jesus and the Children stained glass window.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
O God, from whom all good proceeds: Grant that by your inspiration we may think those things that are right, and by your merciful guiding may do them; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, June 8, 2008 10:50 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I have just looked through all of Connor's pictures again. They always make me smile.
God bless you, and God bless your golden boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
A Collect For Fridays:
Almighty God, whose most dear Son went not up to joy but
first he suffered pain, and entered not into glory before he
was crucified: Mercifully grant that we, walking in the way
of the cross, may find it none other than the way of life and
peace; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord. Amen.
The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 99
Written By William Reed Huntington (1838-1909)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, June 6, 2008 1:31 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Our power has been off briefly twice today and once last night. I guess this may be connected to the thunderstorms we have had off and on. I hope you have not had even minor interruptions and that you are safe, well, and content.
As always, Connor is in my heart.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sunshine boy.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Almighty God, who called your faithful servant Boniface to be a
witness and martyr in the lands of Germany and Friesland, and
by his labor and suffering raised up a people for your own
possession: Pour forth your Holy Spirit upon your Church in
every land, that by the service and sacrifice of many your holy
Name may be glorified and your kingdom enlarged; through Jesus
Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy
Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, June 5, 2008 9:40 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
This morning, I read at Holy Eucharist, at St. George's. While there, I remembered Connor, in the beauty of holiness.
God bless you always, and God bless Connor.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Almighty God, whose will it is to heal all division and discord among those who call upon the name of your Son: We thank you for the good will shown in your servant John (born Angelo Roncalli), and we pray that we may always be ready to hear our fellow Christians with humility and a willingness to learn, and may also speak the truth in love, to the healing of faction and the renewed witness of your people; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, now and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, June 4, 2008 10:37 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of you and your dear son, Connor, on a lovely June day. May God comfort, bless, and encourage you and all of Connor's family, friends, and supporters.
I hope you are safe, well, and enjoying this pleasant weather.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
O God, by whose providence the blood of the martyrs is the seed of the Church: Grant that we who remember before you the blessed martyrs of Uganda, may, like them, be steadfast in our faith in Jesus Christ, to whom they gave obedience, even unto death, and by their sacrifice brought forth a plentiful harvest; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, June 3, 2008 1:47 PM CDT
"Here I am Lord and can´t do nothing without you even today ,"and the death will take his victim again today and those who believe will enter in to pradice and to God,but those who had forsked Christ will cast into fire, so let us stop the evil that take his victim again in Jesus name.Pray for blessed revival soon,thanks and bless and hope,keijo sweden
keijo leppioja <keijo.leppioja@hotmail.com>
sweden - Monday, June 2, 2008 2:49 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Once again, I am thinking of both you and Connor. Please let me know if there is anything I can do for you this week.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Collect For The Feast Of The Martyrs Of Lyons:
Grant, O Lord, we pray, that we who keep the feast of the holy martyrs Blandina and her companions may be rooted and grounded in love of you, and may endure the sufferings of this life for the glory that shall be revealed in us; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, June 2, 2008 10:55 AM CDT
hi rhonda...just wanted to stop by and let you know i'm thinking ofyou.
love and hugs...deb
deborah pearce <deborah77@wowway.com>
southgate, MI - Sunday, June 1, 2008 5:36 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I think of you, Connor, and all of Connor's loved ones on another first of the month. May God bless you all.
Andrew and I may go to the drive-in movies tonight, or some night this week, as there are two movies playing which we would like to see. I wonder if Connor ever had an opportunity to go to a drive-in theater. One of the first times Andrew ever went to the drive-in, Snow White was playing. He and his brother were in the back of the car on a quilt. When the witch came on the screen, all of a sudden, Andrew was between me and the steering wheel! In some ways it would be nice to have a little one like that again.
God bless you always, and enjoy the month of June.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
O God, your never-failing providence sets in order all things both in heaven and earth: Put away from us, we entreat you, all hurtful things, and give us those things which are profitable for us; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, June 1, 2008 1:41 PM CDT
Here we are at another 1st day of the month. I think of you often but always will remember the signifinace of the 1st in the lives of you and me and Linda. May we all feel the peace that only GOD can give. and all the love of our family and friends....
Sharon <sholweger5@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, June 1, 2008 9:31 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Thinking of you and your sunshine boy Connor on another first day of the month. The birds are chirping and the sun is shining here this morning and my thoughts are of Connor and my Aunt Charlotte. My Aunt Char passed away on Friday evening. We are all going to miss her earthly presence. We are happy for her, sad for us. She was my mom's youngest sister....speaking of mom she will be 88 on Thursday. She has had a rough year so far this year health-wise but is doing much better.
Hope all is going well for you. Miss hearing from you.
Remember Connor will always be in our hearts and NEVER forgotten. I love coming to his site to see his smile.:)
Take gentle care,
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Sunday, June 1, 2008 6:51 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Connor was remembered in Holy Eucharist this afternoon, at St. George's. I thought of him, while gazing at both the Jesus and the Children and the Resurrection/New Creation stained glass windows.
Beneath my signature is the collect for the Feast of the Visitation, which was celebrated today.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your golden boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Collect For The Feast Of The Visitation:
Father in heaven, by whose grace the virgin mother of your Incarnate Son was blessed in bearing him, but still more blessed in keeping your word: Grant us who honor the exaltation of her lowliness to follow the example of her devotion to your will; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, May 31, 2008 11:31 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Today's saint has always been a hard one for me to understand, but Joan of Arc was important enough for Mrs. L.L. Scott to include in her beloved children's hymn, I Sing a Song of the Saints of God. Therefore, I have been making another try. I am sure there are some strong ties between your child saint, Connor Jordan Hunley, and this teen saint, as both were faithful to the vision of Christ that they had.
Here is the hymn, which I know I have shared with you previously. It is one many children know, but it is also often sung with the most joy and enthusiasm by their parents and grandparents. Beloved, this hymn is also used at a lot of funerals. I have added the names of the saints that I have heard Mrs. Scott was writing about. Mrs. Scott was married to John Mortimer Scott, a naval officer, who later became an Anglican priest and served a parish near Dartmoor. She wrote all of her hymns for her own children, who often suggested a topic.
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I Sing A Song Of The Saints Of God
I sing a song of the saints of God,
Patient and brave and true,
Who toiled and fought and lived and died
For the Lord they loved and knew.
And one was a doctor, (Luke)
And one was a queen, (Margaret of Scotland)
And one was a shepherdess on the green: (Joan of Arc)
They were all of them saints of God—and I mean,
God helping, to be one too.
They loved their Lord so dear, so dear,
And his love made them strong;
And they followed the right, for Jesus’ sake,
The whole of their good lives long.
And one was a soldier, (Martin of Tours)
And one was a priest, (John Donne)
And one was slain by a fierce wild beast: (Ignatius)
And there’s not any reason—no, not the least,
Why I shouldn’t be one too.
They lived not only in ages past,
There are hundreds of thousands still,
The world is bright with the joyous saints
Who love to do Jesus’ will.
You can meet them in school, or
In lanes, or at sea,
In church, or in trains, or in shops, or at tea,
For the saints of God are just folk like me,
And I mean to be one too.
Lyrics: Mrs. L.L. (Locket) Scott, (1898-1986) 1929
Music: Grand Isle, By Father John Henry Hopkins (1861-1945)
Hear It At: http://www.geocities.com/rgetman/hymns_list.htm
I hope you enjoy the weekend.
God bless you, and God bless Connor.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Collect For Joan Of Arc, 1431:
O God, by whom the meek are guided in judgement, and light rises up in darkness for the godly: Grant us, in all our doubts and uncertainties, to ask what you would have us do; that the spirit of wisdom may save us from all false choices, that in your light we may see light, and in your straight paths may not stumble, through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, May 30, 2008 2:42 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Last night, Andrew, Kristen, Wendy, and I went to a storytelling/New York State food sampling, at a TV studio, in Schenectady. The tellings were recorded for future broadcast. The audience was all adults, but three of the four tellers sang with us, so kids would have enjoyed it, too. About half of the stories were about chocolate, one of the main foods sampled. We had a chocolate fountain in which we dipped strawberries, pound cake, pears, peaches, apples, bananas, and lady fingers. That chocolate came from Uncle Sam's, in Schenectady, a wonderful family owned and operated business that ships candy all over the country. I know Connor would have enjoyed sampling the wares.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless Connor.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, May 28, 2008 1:39 PM CDT
Hi Connor,
Been a little while since I 'dropped' by. All the kids are either out of school or will be shortly. I bet you loved summer break as most kids do-especially boys!
Summer usually means a few enjoyable things besides being out of school. Swimming, vacations, ICE CREAM, ICE CREAM, etc., etc., etc.....
I hope all your family is doing great. You continue to bless my life daily. I think you will always be a part of so many people's hearts! You bless us incredibly and help us look for the good in each day.
Thank you for being my friend and an encouragement to all of us!
Love you lots!
Mr. Wayne
Wayne Gordon <wgordon@cscsystems.com>
Hermitage, TN USA - Wednesday, May 28, 2008 9:38 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of you and of Connor on a sunny May day. I hope you enjoyed the holiday weekend and are safe and well.
I am adding today's collect and a quotation from St. Augustine of Canterbury. Apparently, he liked my favorite Psalm portion, Psalm 16: 5-11, too.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect Of The Day:
O Lord our God, who by your Son Jesus Christ called your Apostles and sent them forth to preach the Gospel to the nations: We bless your holy name for your servant Augustine, first Archbishop of Canterbury, whose labors in propagating your Church among the English people we commemorate today; and we pray that all whom you call and send may do your will, and bide your time, and see your glory; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Quote From St. Augustine Of Canterbury:
God, in his promises to hear our prayers, is desirous to bestow Himself upon us; if you find anything better than Him, ask it; but if you ask anything beneath Him, you put an affront upon Him, and hurt yourself by preferring to Him a creature which He framed: Pray in the spirit and sentiment of love, in which the royal prophet said to Him, 'Thou, O Lord, are my portion.' Let others choose to themselves portions among creatures, for my part, You are my portion, You alone I have chosen for my whole inheritance.
Colette
Clfton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, May 27, 2008 2:22 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of you and Connor on Memorial Day. It is windy here today, a perfect day for kite flying. Many years ago, I taught Andrew to fly a kite one windy winter day, in St. George's parking lot, while his brother was acolyting a second service. He now flies his kites, whenever he has a chance. I am sure he would show Connor the ropes, if he could, and I know he would love to help Connor shoot his potato gun.
Beneath my signature, I will add a litany I like to pray on Memorial Day.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
A Litany For the Nation
Almighty God, giver of all good things: We thank you for the natural majesty and beauty of this land. They restore us, though we often destroy them.
Heal us.
We thank you for the great resources of this nation. They make us rich, though we often exploit them.
Forgive us.
We thank you for the men and women who have made this country strong. They are models for us, though we often fall short of them.
Inspire us.
We thank you for the torch of liberty which has been lit in this land. It has drawn people from every nation, though we have often hidden from its light.
Enlighten us.
We thank you for the faith we have inherited in all its rich variety. It sustains our life, though we have been faithless again and again.
Renew us.
Help us, O Lord, to finish the good work here begun. Strengthen our efforts to blot out ignorance and prejudice, and to abolish poverty and crime. And hasten the day when all our people, with many voices in one united chorus, will glorify your holy Name.
Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 839
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, May 26, 2008 1:25 PM CDT
When reviled, we bless; when persecuted, we endure; when slandered, we speak kindly.
~From The Second Reading Today (In 1 Corinthians 4)
Dear Rhonda,
Connor was remembered in Eucharist this morning, at St. George's. I was one of two lay readers. The other was Father Bill's wife, Barbara. The above quotation is from toward the end of my reading.
After church, Andrew and Kristen took me to Red Lobster, where I enjoyed tilapia in a bag and other treats. They are good to me, as Connor was always good to you.
God bless you always, and God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Grant, O Lord, that the course of this world may be peaceably governed by your providence; and that your Church may joyfully serve you in confidence and serenity; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, May 25, 2008 7:15 PM CDT
A Safe And Happy Memorial Day Weekend To All!
Dear Rhonda,
Once again, I think of you and Connor. No doubt you have many happy memories of Connor, at the time of the unofficial kick off to summer. We have often had cookouts during this weekend, as I am sure you have, too. I bet Connor loved the excitement and the tastes of this weekend. In fifth, or sixth grade, I once carried the American flag in a long parade. Perhaps Connor marched, or rode on a float, too. May all of your thoughts of Connor be sweet, affirming, and blessed by God.
Today's collect connects to our Memorial Day thoughts about our military personnel, faithful until the end. I will place it beneath my signature. May we with them, and with Connor, attain the Lord's crown of victory over evil, suffering, and death.
God bless you always, and God bless all of Connor's loved ones, friends, and supporters.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Almighty God, by whose grace and power your holy martyrs of Armenia triumphed over suffering and were faithful even unto death: Grant us, who now remember them in thanksgiving, to be so faithful in our witness to you in this world, that we may receive with them the crown of life; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, May 24, 2008 5:35 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Kathy's discussion of children and insects reminds me of a time Andrew got in trouble in elementary school. His science teacher wanted the students to collect around a hundred different insects, identify them, and mount them on cardboard. Having a tender heart, Andrew would not poison even one insect, no less beautiful butterflies, in order to display them. That is life affirming behavior that Connor would also choose.
I think of your sweet sunshine boy every day. God bless him, and God bless you.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Please pray the collect for Fridays with me.
Almighty God, whose most dear Son went not up to joy but
first he suffered pain, and entered not into glory before he
was crucified: Mercifully grant that we, walking in the way
of the cross, may find it none other than the way of life and
peace; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord. Amen.
The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 99
Written By William Reed Huntington (1838-1909)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, May 23, 2008 4:46 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
It has been awhile since I have written in Connor's guestbook but that does not mean I have not thought of him or you. I pray each day for you and for Connor to watch over you. I know he would love this time of the year when spring returns and all of the signs of spirng abound....flowers, birds building nests, lady bugs, bugs in general...etc. etc. Yesterday while Aiden was here a strange little bug landed on the window of the front door, Aiden and I got a maganifying glass to check it out:) Reminded me of something Connor might do. I do miss your sunshine boy and he will forever be remembered.
take gentle care,
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Friday, May 23, 2008 6:37 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and with your family. If you can, please update, or send me an email. I would like to know how you all are doing.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless Connor.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
In the cross, He showed us how we are to bear suffering. In His resurrection, He showed us what we are to hope for.
~St. Augustine Of Hippo
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, May 22, 2008 1:17 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Yesterday was statewide school budget vote day here in New York. All of the budgets in our immediate area passed, despite the problems in the economy. This included Shenendehowa, Albany, East Greenbush, Saratoga, Troy, Lansingburgh, Ballston Spa, Scotia, Burnt Hills, Niskayuna, Schenectady, and Waterford. The only budgets that I heard of that went down were in South Glens Falls, Averill Park, Duanesburg, Northville, and Schodack, all quite a drive away. We elected two new school board members here in Clifton Park.
Last night, Andrew and I had a Happy Ending Sundae, at Friendly's. It was Swiss chocolate topping on a new peanut butter ice cream flavor. I wondered what Connor would have thought about it. As always, you and Connor are in my thoughts and prayers this week.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, May 21, 2008 2:23 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of you on a very windy afternoon, in southern Saratoga County. When he can, Andrew goes kite flying on days like this. I am sure Connor would have enjoyed it, too, and Andrew, always a good helper, would have loved to teach him some technique.
Today is the anniversary of an important spiritual occasion in my life, so I share the collect of the day, with great pleasure. May this knowledge give you the desire to reflect upon some of the special occasions in your relationship with our Lord.
God bless you dear Rhonda, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
O God of truth and beauty, who richly endowed your bishop Dunstan with skill in music and the working of metals, and with gifts of administration and reforming zeal: Teach us, we pray, to see in you the source of all our talents, and move us to offer them for the adornment of worship and the advancement of true religion; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, May 19, 2008 1:30 PM CDT
thinking of you
tricia <triciabxny@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, May 18, 2008 11:10 PM CDT
Blessed Trinity Sunday To All!
Dear Rhonda,
Connor has been remembered throughout the weekend, as he always is. May God bless both you and your dear sunshine boy.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Almighty and everlasting God, you have given to us your servants grace, by the confession of a true faith, to acknowledge the glory of the eternal Trinity, and in the power of your divine Majesty to worship the Unity: Keep us steadfast in this faith and worship, and bring us at last to see you in your one and eternal glory, O Father; who with the Son and the Holy Spirit live and reign, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, May 18, 2008 2:13 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Until it started to rain, Andrew was out with mower and weedwacker, working on our lawn. Remembering the great picture of Connor on the tractor, and knowing how helpful Connor always was at school, I am sure, if he could, teenage Connor would be a good help in your yard. My how I miss your sweet sunshine boy!
I know it is not always easy to hang in there, especially when one has lost a beloved family member, but you do have what it takes to endure.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless sweet Connor. You are both in my thoughts and prayers.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Endurance is not just the ability to bear a hard thing, but to turn it into glory.
~William Barclay (1906-1978)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, May 17, 2008 5:52 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of you and Connor on another Friday morning. God bless you both.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
A Collect For Fridays:
Almighty God, whose most dear Son went not up to joy but
first he suffered pain, and entered not into glory before he
was crucified: Mercifully grant that we, walking in the way
of the cross, may find it none other than the way of life and
peace; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord. Amen.
The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 99
Written By William Reed Huntington (1838-1909)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, May 16, 2008 2:50 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Once more, I am viewing Connor's wonderful pictures and thinking of both of you. May God bless you always.
Sixty years ago yesterday, the State of Israel was founded. A much older wisdom asks us to, "Pray for the peace of Israel." Let's take a minute to do that today.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, May 15, 2008 1:31 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I have just heard the music of an ice cream truck, going through our neighborhood. This is the first time I have noticed it this year, and it, along with all the singing birds and lovely flowers, is a real sign of spring. I am sure that ice cream music brought a smile to Connor's face, as it does to most children. You cannot imagine how often I think of your sweet sunshine boy!
God bless you always, and God bless sweet Connor and all of Connor's relatives, friends, and supporters.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
It is likely that Connor knew this traditional American saying.
I scream, you scream, we all scream for ice cream.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, May 13, 2008 5:27 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
As the school year begins to draw to a close (about one month earlier where you are than here), I think of the school award ceremony there, and the Connor J. Hunley Award. May the awarding of the prize, given in the name of you sweet sunshine boy, be an occasion of joy and fond remembrance for you, and may the hearts of many students, teachers, and visitors be stirred by Connor's story.
Beneath my signature is the collect for the saint of the day for May 12, which I forgot to leave, on Saturday. Perhaps I was not thinking of Gregory of Nazianzus, as we honor three other Gregorys, in March, and one in November.
God bless you always, and of course God bless your golden boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Almighty God, who have revealed to your Church your eternal Being of glorious majesty and perfect love as one God in Trinity of Persons: Give us grace that, like your bishop Gregory of Nazianzus, we may continue steadfast in the confession of this faith, and constant in our worship of you, Father, Son and Holy Spirit, who live and reign for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, May 13, 2008 7:01 AM CDT
rhonda, i was thinking of you and hoping you had great memories of connor this weekend... You are a great mom! one of the best! you always will be! connor was so blessed to get you for his momma!! i know he was looking down on you sunday!
Kim <dakk2222@netnitco.net>
IN - Monday, May 12, 2008 3:04 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of you and of Connor today. I hope you are doing well in business and can have a good week.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Heavenly Father, whose most dear Son, as He walked the way of The Cross, accepted the service of Simon of Cyrene to carry his physical burden for him: grant us each the grace gladly to bear one another's burdens, for the love of him who said, "As you did it to the least of these my brethren, you did it to me," your Son Jesus Christ our Lord, who now lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, May 12, 2008 1:10 PM CDT
Happy Mother's Day
tricia <triciabxny@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, May 11, 2008 8:47 PM CDT
Rhonda
thinking of you and Connor
on Mother's Day....
prayers and love from mrs pam
- Sunday, May 11, 2008 6:10 PM CDT
Rhonda: Thinking of you in a special way on this Mother's Day.
With love and prayers, and thoughts of your Sunshine Boy,
Kriste
My Big Brother - Tracy Lanius <Kristewithane@comcast.net>
Goodlettsville, TN USA - Sunday, May 11, 2008 1:30 PM CDT
hi rhonda...i just wanted you to know i'm thinking about you today. if ever i can do anything, please let me know. i hope your day is filled with love and happiness...
love and hugs...
deb
deborah pearce <deborah77@wowway.com>
southgate, MI - Sunday, May 11, 2008 11:28 AM CDT
Greetings To All On The Feast Of Pentecost:
Dear Rhonda,
Connor will be in my thoughts today, as we celebrate the birthday of the church. It is not often that this great feast of the Holy Spirit also falls on Mother's Day. Here in the Capital District, of New York, is it also the Albany Tulip Fest, in honor of our Dutch heritage. What a busy day for folks involved in all!
I hope you, your parents, and your brothers are all doing well. I am sure you are all missing Connor, but I know you have terrific memories of your brave little trooper and that you WILL see Connor again.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless sweet Connor.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect:
O God, who on this day taught the hearts of your faithful people by sending to them the light of your Holy Spirit: Grant us by the same Spirit to have a right judgment in all things, and evermore to rejoice in his holy comfort; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord, who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, May 11, 2008 1:08 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Happy Mother's Day!
Love, blessings, and tons of hugs,
Tanya
Tanya <tanyans83@yahoo.com>
DE USA - Saturday, May 10, 2008 8:36 PM CDT
My mother had a great deal of trouble with me, but I think she enjoyed it.
~Mark Twain (1835-1910)
Dear Rhonda,
Those of us who have had rascal sons, enjoyed every minute of child rearing, and our boys call us blessed.
May your thoughts of Connor be sweet this weekend. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, May 10, 2008 7:58 PM CDT
Rhonda, I know we are approaching Mother's Day. Please remember to celebrate being a wonderful mommy to Connor. I hope he sends you lots of signs tomorrow. You are in my thoughts.
Happy Mother's Day!
Lori
Lori Pierce <hayden01@tds.net>
Mt Juliet, TN - Saturday, May 10, 2008 4:42 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
As Mother's Day approaches, I just want you to know that I am thinking of you. It has to be hard for you with your sweet sunshine boy in heaven. However, that cannot negate the wonderful years that Connor lived on earth, and the fact that you will be with Connor again, in heaven. I will pray extra hard, and extra often, for you this weekend.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your golden boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
Colette
I will be lighting a candle for you at Barbara Crafton's Geranium Farms.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, May 9, 2008 5:40 PM CDT
Rhonda -
Wishing you a pleasant weekend and a Mothers Day with a glimpse at the Peace that Connor knows. You are a wonderful Mom to him.
Blessings,
Jim Fleming
Jim
- Friday, May 9, 2008 4:23 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
As always, pulling up Connor's website and seeing his sweet, handsome face, brings joy to me. Thank you for keeping this site up.
Today is the Feast of Julian of Norwich, for over twenty years, one of my favorites. Beneath my signature, I will leave the collect.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless Connor.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Lord God, who in your compassion granted to the Lady Julian Many revelations of your nurturing and sustaining love: Move our hearts, like hers, to seek you above all things, for in giving us yourself you give us all; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, May 8, 2008 12:48 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
At least at one time, you would be up in the night. A friend has shared a Night Prayer, from New Zealand, with me, today, so I thought I would pass it on to you.
God bless you always, and God bless your sweet sunshine boy.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Night Prayer
Lord,
it is night.
The night is for stillness.
Let us be still in the presence of God.
It is night after a long day.
What has been done has been done;
what has not been done has not been done;
let it be.
The night is dark.
Let our fears of the darkness of the world and of our own lives
rest in you.
The night is quiet.
Let the quietness of your peace enfold us,
all dear to us,
and all who have no peace.
The night heralds the dawn.
Let us look expectantly to a new day,
new joys,
new possibilities.
In your name we pray.
Amen.
~New Zealand Prayer Book, page 184
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, May 8, 2008 1:42 AM CDT
A Sioux Prayer
O our Father, the Sky, hear us
and make us strong.
O our Mother, the Earth, hear us
and give us support.
O Spirit of the East,
send us your Wisdom.
O Spirit of the South,
may we tread your path of life.
O Spirit of the West,
may we always be ready for the long journey.
O Spirit of the North, purify us
with your cleansing winds.
Dear Rhonda,
This prayer was in one of my prayer books, as the prayer of the day for Sunday. It seemed especially appropriate, as Andrew and I spent the evening, at a Story Sunday, with the Native American author and teller, Joseph Bruchac, providing the stories. Joe, who is a familiar teller to us, also lead us in simple greetings in his Abenaki language, and in singing his traditional songs. I am sure Connor would have enjoyed it very much. Indeed, if Connor had been with us, I would have purchased one of Joe's books for him, as I did for Andrew.
I hope all is well with you and that you are enjoying a good spring.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your golden boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, May 6, 2008 11:28 PM CDT
rhonda... thinking of you and connor today.... and colette actually... she is the most faithful questbook friend, and prayer warrior i have ever had the pleasure to knowing through caringbridge... you have alot of support.... know that your in my thoughts and prayers as you continue to find your way...God bless you!
Kim <dakk2222@netnitco.net>
IN - Tuesday, May 6, 2008 5:17 PM CDT
thinking about you
tricia <triciabxny@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, May 6, 2008 8:59 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
On a day when the church remembers a great mother, I salute you, and I hold you in my thoughts and prayers.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Collect For The Commemoration Of Monnica, Mother of Augustine of Hippo:
O Lord, who through spiritual discipline strengthened your servant Monnica to persevere in offering her love and prayers and tears for the conversion of her husband and of Augustine their son: Deepen our devotion, we pray, and use us in accordance with your will to bring others, even our own kindred, to acknowledge Jesus Christ as Savior and Lord; who with you and the Holy Spirit lives and reigns, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, May 5, 2008 1:22 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I have been watching a bird build a nest in a pink flowering tree, near my bedroom window. As I watched, I thought of your little veterinarian, Connor. May God bless you, and sweet Connor, always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, May 4, 2008 2:00 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Connor was remembered in Holy Eucharist this afternoon. A beautiful young boy was baptized. I have known Sean's dad and grandparents for a long time. It is always special to renew my own baptismal covenant during such a service.
When the Eucharist was over, I stayed in church, a while, as I almost always do, to pray for you, and also to pray for all of Connor's other relatives, each by name. May God bless you all.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Collect For The Seventh Sunday In Easter:
O God, the King of glory, you have exalted your only Son Jesus Christ with great triumph to your kingdom in heaven: Do not leave us comfortless, but send us your Holy Spirit to strengthen us, and exalt us to that place where our Savior Christ has gone before; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, in glory everlasting. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, May 3, 2008 10:38 PM CDT
Rhonda, I have been thinking of you alot lately. My neighbor Savannah just had a relapse of rhabdo and her parents are waiting until the end of the weekend to tell her so she can enjoy the rest of the weekend being carefree. She is a precious 7 yr old old little blonde girl. In many ways she is Connor's counterpart. I hope he is sending strength down to her as she is about to face another battle with this dreaded disease. Please visit her site, http://www.caringbridge.org/visit/savannahswandal.
Love,
Lori
Lori <hayden01@tds.net>
Mt Juliet, TN - Saturday, May 3, 2008 2:23 PM CDT
dear rhoda and naomi and mr and mrs williams have a nice day with blessings sent down from above take care may the lord guide ya in his pathways all day long
liane davies <www.rhianjones@hotmail.com>
tredegar , sw uk - Friday, May 2, 2008 5:14 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Connor was remembered on bended knees, at Eucharist, during the Feast of the Ascension. When the service was over, those who wished, went to the parish hall for pizza, tossed salad, soda, and ice cream. We had about twenty teenagers there. I am sure Connor would have fit right in with those young people.
I can hear a train in the distance. It reminds me of many evenings when Andrew was little. Either the train, or perhaps rain, would wake him up, and he would come looking for me. "Mom, do you want to be rascals tonight?" he would ask.
"Sure, pull on some clothes," I would answer, and we would either go out riding in the car, for about a half hour, pull into the drive-in at Taco Bell, or go into Denny's for a midnight snack. How much we both enjoyed those "rascal outings!"
I am sure you have many similar warm, family memories of Connor. May those remembrances give you peace and joy during the weekend, and at many other times.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet son, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Collect For The Feast Of St. Philip and St. James, Apostles:
Almighty God, who gave to your apostles Philip and James grace and strength to bear witness to the truth: Grant that we, being mindful of their victory of faith, may glorify in life and death the Name of our Lord Jesus Christ; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
By all your saints still striving,
for all your saints at rest,
your holy Name, O Jesus
for evermore be blessed.
You rose, our King victorious,
that we might wear the crown
and ever shine in splendor
reflected from your throne.
We praise you, Lord, for Philip,
blest guide to Greek and Jew,
and for young James the faithful,
who heard and followed you.
O grant us grace to know you,
the victor in the strife,
that we with all your servants
may wear the crown of life.
Then let us praise the Father
and worship God the Son
and sing to God the Spirit,
eternal Three in One,
till all the ransomed number
who stand before the throne
ascribe all power and glory
and praise to God alone.
Words: Horatio Bolton Nelson (1823-1913); ver. Hymnal 1982
Music: King's Lynn, English melody; adapt. Ralph Vaughan Williams (1872-1958)
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/b/b209.html
The Hymnal 1982, #231
Music: Nyland, Finnish folk melody; adapt. David Evans (1874-1948)
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/b/b209.html
The Hymnal 1982, #232
Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, May 2, 2008 1:40 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Sorry I didn't sign in earlier today as planned, but had the little guys here and had them earlier than usual this morning and they were here later than usual, then Dave and I went with them to the Red Robin for a burger. I have been thinking of you and Connor ALL day though. I know the first day of each month is hard for you. I do pray for you daily and Connor is and will forever be in my heart. Sunshine boy he was, and we who were able to be touched by his life are so blessed. He truly was an inspiration. WE LOVE YOU AND MISS YOUR LITTLE ANGEL.
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Thursday, May 1, 2008 8:21 PM CDT
hi rhonda...just wanted to let you know i'm thinking of you...
love and hugs...deb
deborah pearce <deborah77@wowway.com>
southgate, MI - Thursday, May 1, 2008 6:15 PM CDT
Rhonda, thinking about you as always and keeping you in my prayers too. I did not end up coming your way.. gas is getting to expensive to make a long trip.
Sharon <sholweger5@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, May 1, 2008 5:15 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Blessings on the Feast of the Ascension! Connor will be remembered in Holy Eucharist.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Grant, we pray, Almighty God, that as we believe your only-begotten Son our Lord Jesus Christ to have ascended into heaven, so we may also in heart and mind there ascend, and with him continually dwell; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, May 1, 2008 1:17 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of you as you mark the three and a half saddest years in your life. My prayers are with you.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Almighty God, Father of mercies and giver of comfort: Deal graciously, we pray, with all who mourn; that casting all their cares on you, they may know the consolation of you love; through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.
~The Book of Common Prayer, Page 505
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, May 1, 2008 3:03 AM CDT
Please keep Savannah in your prayers, everyone! Rhonda, this is a sweet neighbor of mine and she is fighting the beast. I hate cancer. I found it ironic that her mom calls her sunshine girl just like Connor is your sunshine boy!
http://www.caringbridge.org/visit/savannahswandal.
Lori Pierce <hayden01@tds.net>
Mt Juliet, - Wednesday, April 30, 2008 6:16 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Lawn mowers are sounding, here in southern Saratoga County today. It seems good to hear them after two cold, rainy days. I am picturing Connor on the big mower, as I write to you. That sure was a great picture!
God bless you and all of Connor's relatives, friends, and supporters, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
An Easter Collect:
O Lord, you open the portals of your kingdom to those who have been reborn by water and the Spirit: Increase the grace you have given to your children, that those whom you have cleansed from sin may attain to all your promises; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, April 30, 2008 1:40 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda
Just letting you know that I still think of Connor, and that I pray for you.
Love from Scotland,rosi
www.caringbridge.org/hi/kayla
Rosi Pullin <rosipullin@hotmail.com>
- Tuesday, April 29, 2008 2:57 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
The sun is shining in Clifton Park today, and I am hoping you are having a good day, too.
I would like to ask you, and all of Connor's friends, to pray for Samuel, a ten and a half year old boy, from Clifton Park, who is a patient at Children's Hospital, in Philadelphia. Sam's grandmother, Gert, is a storyteller, a good friend of mine, and the founder of our faith based story circle. I have been praying for Sam, since when he was in the womb, as testing revealed that he had half a heart. Sam, who had surgery on his heart, the day he was born, is in Philadelphia for testing and to have a pacemaker replaced. Thank you.
Today's saint is Catherine of Sienna, a reformer and spiritual teacher, who died on this date in 1380. Our Daughters of the King, at St. George's, is St. Catherine of Sienna Chapter, in her honor. I will leave the collect beneath my signature.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
Colette
Everlasting God, who so kindled the flame of holy love in the Heart of blessed Catherine of Siena, as she meditated on the passion of your Son our Savior, that she devoted her life to the poor and the sick, and to the peace and unity of the Church: Grant that we also may share in the mystery of Christ's death, and rejoice in the revelation of His Glory, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, April 29, 2008 2:02 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
It rained here throughout the night and is raining yet. Believe it, or not, after the very moist winter, we had, the lawns needed this rain. I hope, whatever the weather is, there in Tennessee, that there is sunshine in your heart.
God bless you always, and God bless sweet Connor.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
An Easter Collect:
O Lord, you have given us the grace to know the resurrection of your Son: Grant that the Holy Spirit, by his love, may raise us to the newness of life; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, April 28, 2008 1:09 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I thought of Connor several times today, including while having ice cream, at Friendly's, with Andrew. He had a peanut butter topping on vanilla/peanut butter ice cream, and I had blueberry topping on black raspberry. Of course, since Andrew likes blueberries, he leaned over and took a few spoons of my treat, which was more than OK with me. I wonder if Connor would have liked either of these sundaes, or if perhaps a banana split or a hot fudge on chocolate would have been more to his liking.
I hope you have had a good weekend. God bless you always, and God bless your sweet sunshine boy.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect (One Of My Favorites):
O God, you have prepared for those who love you such good things as surpass our understanding: Pour into our hearts such love towards you, that we, loving you in all things and above all things, may obtain your promises, which exceed all that we can desire; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 225
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, April 27, 2008 11:07 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Andrew and I had a late lunch at De Voe's Rainbow Delights yesterday. He had a hotdog, soda, fries, and a chocolate cone. I had a sausage sandwich with onions and peppers, fries, and a pistachio cone. There was a slight breeze there, and we really enjoyed being at a picnic table together. As always, when I have ice cream, I think about Connor and what he might have ordered. If I were treating, Connor could have had anything he wanted.
God bless you, and of course, God bless you sweet sunshine boy.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
A Collect From This Week:
Almighty God, by whose grace and power your holy martyrs of Armenia triumphed over suffering and were faithful even unto death: Grant us, who now remember them in thanksgiving, to be so faithful in our witness to you in this world, that we may receive with them the crown of life; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, April 26, 2008 3:32 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Today is St. Mark's Day, and Father Bill is away, so there was not a Eucharist, at St. George's. It seems funny to me to not be attending a Red Letter Day service, but I will be remembering Connor in the beauty of holiness, over the weekend.
I hope you are well and anticipating a good weekend.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Almighty God, by the hand of Mark the evangelist you have given to your Church the Gospel of Jesus Christ the Son of God: We thank you for this witness, and pray that we may be firmly grounded in its truth; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Since I could not receive today, I have been singing. Perhaps you will join me in this hymn that mentions St. Mark.
By all your saints still striving,
for all your saints at rest,
your holy Name, O Jesus
for evermore be blessed.
You rose, our King victorious,
that we might wear the crown
and ever shine in splendor
reflected from your throne.
For Mark, O Lord we praise you,
the weak by grace made strong:
his witness in his Gospel
becomes victorious song.
May we, in all our weakness,
receive your power divine,
and all, as faithful branches
grow strong in you, the Vine.
Then let us praise the Father
and worship God the Son
and sing to God the Spirit,
eternal Three in One,
till all the ransomed number
who stand before the throne
ascribe all power and glory
and praise to God alone.
Words: Horatio Bolton Nelson (1823-1913); ver. Hymnal 1982
Music: King's Lynn, English melody; adapt. Ralph Vaughan Williams (1872-1958)
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/b/b209.html
The Hymnal 1982, #231
Music: Nyland, Finnish folk melody; adapt. David Evans (1874-1948)
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/b/b209.html
The Hymnal 1982, #232
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, April 25, 2008 2:23 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
The news, in our area, has been sad this week. A 21 year old man, missing from Albany, since December, was pulled out of the Hudson, on Tuesday. Another area man, age 38, fell into the Hudson, while repairing a pier, in Troy, on Wednesday, and also died. Today, there was a massive fire in Johnstown, which destroyed five factory buildings and damaged about a dozen homes. I sure hope the news has been happier in your area.
As always, I am thinking of Connor and praying for you.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, April 24, 2008 6:37 PM CDT
Happy St. George's Day To All!
Dear Rhonda,
Many things have made me think of Connor this week, as the trees and flowers begin to bloom and the sun shines gently, in southern Saratoga County. I know that your Connor memories are sweet, as mine are.
Today makes me smile, as I remember St. George and the Dragon pageants from years gone by. If Connor were here, we would let him have the role of the noble soldier today.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Collect For The Commemoration Of St. George, The Martyr:
Almighty God, who gave to your servant George boldness to Confess the Name of our Savior Jesus Christ before the rulers of this world, and courage to die for this faith: Grant that we may always be ready to give a reason for the hope that is in us, and to suffer gladly for the sake of our Lord Jesus Christ; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, April 23, 2008 12:58 AM CDT
rhonda, i have been thinking of you so much..I hope your starting to put the pieces of your new life together... I pray for your strength.. and think of connor.. his smile absolutely is unforgettable! Just wanted you to know! we wont forget connor!
Kim <dakk2222@netnitco.net>
- Tuesday, April 22, 2008 9:19 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Thought often of Connor today as the sun shined brightly, it was so nice and warm and the flowers are finally blooming and there are lady bugs galore around here:)
Pray daily for you and Connor's pictures grace my fridge and my computer desk:) Miss him...love you!
Take gentle care my friend,
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Tuesday, April 22, 2008 9:10 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
What a joy to come here and view the wonderful pictures of Connor on a beautiful spring day! One of my favorites is of him holding the umbrella, because of his smile there. Of course I always love the picture of Connor in the hammock, the one of him running through the water, and the one of young Connor in his puppy costume.
As we remember Anselm of Canterbury, I share one of his Anselm's songs.
God bless you always, and thank you for keeping Connor's site up and open.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
A Song of Anselm:
Jesus, as a mother you gather your people to you:
You are gentle with us as a mother with her children;
Often you weep over our sins and our pride:
tenderly you draw us from hatred and judgement.
You comfort us in sorrow and bind up our wounds:
in sickness you nurse us,
and with pure milk you feed us.
Jesus, by your dying we are born to new life:
by your anguish and labour we come forth in joy.
Despair turns to hope through your sweet goodness:
through your gentleness we find comfort in fear.
Your warmth gives life to the dead:
your touch makes sinners righteous.
Lord Jesus, in your mercy heal us:
in your love and tenderness remake us.
In your compassion bring grace and forgiveness:
for the beauty of heaven may your love prepare us.
The Collect:
Almighty God, who raised up your servant Anselm to teach the Church of his day to understand its faith in your eternal Being, perfect justice, and saving mercy: Provide your Church in every age with devout and learned scholars and teachers, that we may be able to give a reason for the hope that is in us; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, April 21, 2008 1:10 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I have been looking through those wonderful pictures of Connor again. I love the one of him running through the water! May God bless Connor always.
Both you and Connor were remembered in Holy Eucharist yesterday. After the service, a friend and I had dinner at the Chinese buffet. They have new decorations which would have delighted Connor, as they did me. My friend had four desserts, but I had some shrimp instead. I am sure Connor would have opted for the sweets, too.
I hope you are well, and I hope you have a good week.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Almighty God, whom truly to know is everlasting life: Grant us so perfectly to know your Son Jesus Christ to be the way, the truth, and the life, that we may steadfastly follow his steps in the way that leads to eternal life; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord, who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, April 20, 2008 5:06 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking about you and Connor on another Friday. May God bless you both.
Andrew has been sick this week and has been a little grumpy. This reminds me of how good your brave little trooper always was.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
A Collect For Fridays:
Almighty God, whose most dear Son went not up to joy but
first he suffered pain, and entered not into glory before he
was crucified: Mercifully grant that we, walking in the way
of the cross, may find it none other than the way of life and
peace; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord. Amen.
The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 99
Written By William Reed Huntington (1838-1909)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, April 18, 2008 10:01 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I pray for you all the time, and I am so sorry about you, and Eddy. Know that we are praying for you.
LaKota, she is now in 4th grade, she loves school a lot. It will be 4 years in May that she had her transplant.
Thinking of you.
Love LaKota, and her mom Debbie.
http://www.caringbridge.org/mn/laplafcan <LaKotaDeb@hotmail.com>
St.Cloud, MN - Thursday, April 17, 2008 11:23 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I was one of the lucky ones to escape out of cubedom today around mid-morning, and my only comment about this day was "GLORIOUS!" Clear blue skies, pure blessed sunshine, and temps in the low 70s. I now appreciate how flowers feel in the spring :-)
I'm thinking of you and Connor on this beautiful day.
Deb <endyke@speakeasy.net>
Litchfield, NH - Thursday, April 17, 2008 11:05 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I am sure it is nearing the time when people at Connor's school will begin looking for the 2008 recipient of Connor's Courage Award. May the fruit of their search be good, honor Connor, and bring joy to your heart.
God bless you always, and God bless Connor.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Deb: Thank you for your kind words. Your entries always make me smile, too. Most of all, all kind words left here, comfort Rhonda and Connor's other loved ones. Keep writing.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, April 17, 2008 1:06 PM CDT
hi rhonda...just dropping by to say hey, and i hope all is well with you.
colette...i enjoy your stories...you always make me smile!
love and hugs...deb
deborah pearce <deborah77@wowway.com>
southgate, MI - Wednesday, April 16, 2008 7:01 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
A few minutes ago, I learned of the passing of Canon Rue Moore, a priest that used to supply, at our previous parish, Grace Church, Waterford, when our rector was ill, or on vacation. This news saddened me, as Rue was a brilliant and kind man, but it also made me think of another priest, who supplied at Grace, during the same time period. His name was Father James Imler.
My boys liked both of these clergy. One night, when the boys were young, near the time we had visited the Bird Sanctuary, in Petersburg, NY, they spotted Father Imler, in a crowd. They were so excited to see him that one of them shouted out, "Look, Mom, there's Father Emu!"
Rhonda, I hope you are chuckling.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your golden boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Collect For The Commemoration Of Marie Bernarde ("Bernadette") Soubirous, 16 April 1879:
Gracious Father, whose Son Jesus Christ went about healing the Sick: We praise you for the gift of healing, whether granted directly or through the work of dedicated physicians, surgeons, and nurses; and we pray you to keep us always grateful for deliverance from illness whenever it pleases you to heal us, and patient and cheerful in affliction when for any reason you call us to endure it; and this we ask through your Son Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, now and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, April 16, 2008 1:05 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda.
Once again, I am at my keyboard thinking of sweet Connor. May God bless him always.
I hope you are having a good spring and doing well in business. Please let me know, if there is anything I can do to help.
God bless you, your parents, and all of your family.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Collect For The Commemoration Of Damien The Leper, 15 April 1889:
Almighty Father, we praise your name for those who, following in the footsteps of your beloved Son, have preached the good news of salvation to the despised and rejected of the earth, not counting the cost to themselves; and we pray that your love for us may enkindle in our hearts an answering love for you and our neighbors, and that your grace may give us wisdom to see the opportunities you give us to serve you, and the courage to grasp them; that in all things we may be made conformable unto the image of the same your Son our Savior Jesus Christ, who now lives and reigns with you in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, now and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, April 15, 2008 3:09 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Sunday afternoon, Andrew decided to treat Kristen and I to dinner at the Red Lobster, which is one of my favorite places. We had a lovely time, although we all had a difficult time choosing from the ample menu. I was even able to bring home a couple of their excellent Cheddar Bay Biscuits. One of Cheyenne's favorite foods was shrimp, so I thought of Connor and Cheyenne, when the waitress brought a shrimp appetizer to our table. They are always linked in my thoughts, and of course, they are always in my prayers.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect For The Fourth Sunday In Easter:
O God, whose Son Jesus is the good shepherd of your people; Grant that when we hear his voice we may know him who calls us each by name, and follow where he leads; who, with you and the Holy Spirit, lives and reigns, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, April 14, 2008 0:46 AM CDT
My son was just diagnosed with cancer, his 15mos old, I can't imagine losing him to this nor do I want to. You seem so strong and positive, I just hope I can hold the same mentality during all of this, the fear of relapse is so surreal and scary. Thanks again for telling your story and allowing others like me to see the strength and love that is unconditional and never ending. Your heroes yourselves.
Shannon Staino <sstaino@comcast.net>
Swainton, NJ USA - Saturday, April 12, 2008 7:54 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
It is another wet weekend, here in southern Saratoga County, so I am planning to watch a baseball game on TV. My boys always have enjoyed watching baseball, and both were Little League players. I wonder if Connor liked baseball, as well. (I know he enjoyed the Tennessee Titans.)
God bless you always, and of course, God bless sweet Connor.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
An Easter Collect:
Let you people. O Lord, rejoice for ever that they have been renewed in spirit; and let the joy of our adoption as your sons and daughters strengthen the hope of our glorious resurrection in Jesus Christ our Lord; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, April 12, 2008 2:10 PM CDT
~Thinking of all of Connor's loved ones.
Grace and peace,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, April 12, 2008 1:28 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Yesterday, while entering the grocery store, I was watching the associate return carts from the parking lot to the sidewalk, near the entrance. He was using a seven-wheeled device the store owns to propel the carts through the lot, and I started studying its wheels. That led to thoughts of Connor and his go-cart. May God bless Connor's sweet, active spirit.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Almighty and everlasting God, we thank you for your servant George Augustus Selwyn, whom you called to preach the Gospel to the peoples of New Zealand and Melanesia, and to lay a firm foundation for the growth of your Church in many nations. Raise up in this and every land evangelists and heralds of your kingdom, that your Church may proclaim the unsearchable riches of our Savior Jesus Christ; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, April 11, 2008 2:20 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of you and Connor today. May God always bless and keep you.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
O God, by whose grace your servant William Law, kindled with the fire of your love, became a burning and shining light in your Church: Grant that we also may be aflame with the spirit of love and discipline, and may ever walk before you as children of light; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
~The writings of William Law had profound influence on John and Charles Wesley, William Wilberforce, Henry Venn, George Whitefield, and Thomas Scott. The courageous life of Connor Hunley had profound effect on thousands of ordinary people. May God bless them both.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, April 9, 2008 12:57 AM CDT
Rhonda, I hope all is going well for you. Please know I always think of you and Angel Connor.
Love,
Lori Pierce
Lori P <hayden01@tds.net>
mt juliet, TN - Wednesday, April 9, 2008 9:50 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
This is a short note to remind you that I am thinking of you, and of Connor, today. God bless you both.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Do not let your Church close its eyes, O Lord, to the plight of the poor and neglected, the homeless and the destitute, the old and the sick, the lonely and those who have no one to care for them. Give us the vision and compassion with which you so richly endowed your servant William Augustus Muhlenberg, that we may labor tirelessly to heal those who are broken in body or spirit, and to turn their sorrow into joy; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
May your sorrow turn into joy today, knowing that Connor lives with our merciful Lord.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, April 8, 2008 1:14 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Last night, I had an opportunity to hear some wonderful stories. I am sure Connor would have enjoyed them, particularly the story of four boys, who decided to take a cooling swim in the Ballston Water Tower, on a hot day, many years ago, before the rise of air conditioning. As the residents left the mills to go home and bathe, the water, in the tower, went down, and they were stuck inside the tower. I think Connor would have related to those boys and been absorbed in their story. May God bless his sweet spirit.
I hope you are well, safe, and having a good week.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
O God, who by your Holy Spirit give to some the word of wisdom, To others the word of knowledge, and to others the word of faith: We praise you for the gifts of preaching through visual representation that you gave to your servants Albrecht Duerer and Michaelangelo Buonarroti, and we pray that your Church may never be destitute of such gifts; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns, with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, April 7, 2008 1:44 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of sweet Connor today, and I have paused, here, at my keyboard, to pray for you. A few minutes ago, I received a "Cancer Candle," which I sent along in honor of family members and friends, who have died from this terrible disease. Connor was one of those, in my thoughts, as I did so. He has also been remembered in Eucharist, once again.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Another Easter Collect:
O Lord, the life of the faithful, the glory of the saints, and the delight of those who trust in you: Hear our supplications, and quench, we pray, the thirst of those who long for your promises; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, April 6, 2008 1:51 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I hope you are having a good weekend. Connor will be remembered in Eucharist this weekend.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
A Peace Thought:
When we yield to discouragement, it is usually because we give too much thought to the past and to the future.
~St. Therese Of Lisieux
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, April 5, 2008 2:09 PM CDT
Thinking of you....
becky bustin
gallatin, tn - Friday, April 4, 2008 3:11 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
The things Deb wrote are basically true in upstate New York, as well. We have very little snow left in Clifton Park, except where it is piled up, in banks, in parking lots, but not far from us, in Indian Lake, people still have over three feet of snow on their lawns. Last night, we had another mixed wintery mix, which continues now, as very cold rain. People are beginning to wonder if spring will ever come, but, of course, we know that it will.
I hope you, and all of Connor's loved ones, are safe, well, and comfortable.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
A Collect For The 50 Days Of Easter:
O Lord, you have saved us through the Paschal mystery of Christ: Continue to support your people with heavenly gifts, that we may attain true liberty, and enjoy the happiness of heaven which we have begun to taste on earth: through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, April 4, 2008 1:07 PM CDT
It's been a long time since I stopped by and signed the guestbook, but we think of you often. What a LONG winter it's been here in the Northeast. But the robins are in the yard, the snow is almost gone, the chives are coming up in the garden and I'm back on the football volunteer committee...for this fall...so SPRING HAS ARRIVED!!!!
We send much love and many prayers.
Deb and Laura
Litchfield, NH USA - Thursday, April 3, 2008 10:48 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Today is the feast of St. Richard of Chichester, a bishop in the Church. Those of us with little learning, like myself, know Richard chiefly for his prayer, which was adapted and sung in the musical Godspell, as Day By Day. Let us all, on the anniversary of Richard's death, pray with him to see our Lord more clearly, love Him more dearly, and follow Him more nearly, just as Connor, and all the people of heaven do.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your golden boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect:
We thank you, Lord God, for all the benefits you have given us in your Son Jesus Christ, our most merciful Redeemer, Friend, and Brother, and for all the pains and insults he has borne for us; and we pray that, following the example of your saintly bishop Richard of Chichester, we may see Christ more clearly, love him more dearly, and follow him more nearly; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, April 3, 2008 11:32 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
We had another wintery mess last night, so people are beginning to ask, "Will spring ever come?" Of course it will, but how comforting to know that Connor is in a land, where the weather is always pleasant and good things are in abundance. May God bless his sweet spirit, and may God bless you.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Collect For April 2:
Teach thy Church, O Lord, we pray, to value and support pioneering and courageous missionaries, whom you call, as you called your servant James Lloyd Breck, to preach and teach, and plant your Church in new regions; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, April 2, 2008 10:20 AM CDT
hi rhonda...i just wanted to let you know i'm thinking about you. isn't your relay for life coming up this month?
love and hugs...deb
deborah pearce <deborah77@wowway.com>
southgate, MI - Tuesday, April 1, 2008 7:49 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Along with Kathy, I am thinking of what April Fool's Day jokes Connor may be making in heaven. I can remember, as a preschooler, running to the window, as my dad told me there was a green dog outside. That was the first and last time he got me on April 1. I am not sure if families and school children pay much attention to April Fool's Day anymore, but I know my Aunt Catherine does, as today is her anniversary, and she misses Uncle Ronald. I KNOW you are missing Connor, and I hope fond memories of fun times and great hugs bring you joy and comfort today.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless Connor Jordan Hunley. All of his fans miss him.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, April 1, 2008 12:24 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Another first day of the month and my thoughts are with you. It is April Fool's day and I wonder what tricks Connor is playing in Heaven? I think of him so much, I love to look at his pictures which make me smile even on the saddest of days. Mother Nature played a trick on us last night, it snowed AGAIN!!!! Waiting patiently for Spring to arrive, it has been a tough winter here this year. "Hope Springs Eternal" is on my calendar for the month of April. I like that quote:)
Hope you are well, we are doing fine here. My physical was A okay.... next the dreaded mammogram, but I know it saved my life once, so have to have the courage to go:) Made the appointment for late April.
I loved Mr. Wayne's guestbook entry!:) I saw go cart streaks in the sky the other day and of course Connor came to mind. I sure do miss that little guy along with many others whose hearts he touched. WE LOVE YOU!
take gentle care,
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Tuesday, April 1, 2008 7:29 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
It was sleeting and cold, when I went out to Holy Day Eucharist, this morning. Connor was remembered in the beauty of the service.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sunshine boy.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, March 31, 2008 4:41 PM CDT
Thinking of you this morning
with lots of love and prayers.
I just want you to know
so many of us still care....
I just woke awhile ago with this little thought on my heart so wanted to remind you so many of us are stil out here just don't sign in much any more..... shame on us!!!!!
Sharon <sholweger5@yahoo.com>
- Monday, March 31, 2008 5:51 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Andrew, Kristen, and I had some lunch at Friendly's today. There is a claw machine in the lobby, which always makes me think of Connor and Cheyenne.
I hope you have had a good weekend.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, March 30, 2008 11:15 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I was at church most of the day today, and I thought of Connor several times, particularly in the Eucharist. The afternoon sun was streaming through the Jesus and the Children stained glass window, reflecting beautiful sky shades of orange, purple, and pink, a foretaste of heaven. May God bless Connor always.
My thoughts and prayers are with you tonight.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect For Easter Saturday:
We thank you, heavenly Father, that you have delivered us from the dominion of sin and death and brought us into the kingdom of you Son; and we pray that, as by his death he has recalled us to life, so by his love he may raise us to eternal joys; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, March 29, 2008 11:11 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
We are having another snowy day. I think Connor would be excited by a day like today, as the snow is good packing snow. I certainly miss him.
I hope you are well, safe, and comfortable.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sunshine boy.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Collect For Easter Friday:
Almighty Father, who gave your only Son to die for our sins and to rise for our justification: Give us grace so to put away the leaven of malice and wickedness, that we may always serve you in pureness of living and truth; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, March 28, 2008 8:18 AM CDT
Hi to Connor, family, and friends,
I was driving back from a job today and the road was a two-lane country type road with farms on either side. I passed two gokarts that were riding along side one of the farms and the kids looked to be having a lot of fun. I think of Connor riding his gokart and I'm always amused when I think about him hitting the AC unit while riding around his house. (That must have sounded like a bomb inside the house!)
Connor, I hope you are having the time of your life getting to enjoy all of God's glory. I guess the brakes don't wear out on heaven's gokarts.
May God richly bless each of you that are Connor's family and friends. May Connor's memories flood your hearts and fill you with pride as you think of the remarkable young man he is.
In Christian love,
Mr. Wayne
Wayne Gordon <wgordon@cscsystems.com>
Hermitage, TN USA - Thursday, March 27, 2008 10:17 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
This is another quick note to let you know I am thinking of you and of all of Connor's loved ones.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Collect For Easter Thursday:
Almighty and everlasting God, who in the Paschal mystery established the new covenant of reconciliation: Grant that all who have been reborn into the fellowship of Christ's Body may show forth in their lives what they profess by their faith; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, March 27, 2008 12:51 AM CDT
I think of you often.
Lisa
Mount Juliet, TN USA - Wednesday, March 26, 2008 4:50 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of you, Nana and Poppi, and Connor's uncles, Johnny and Chad, today. I hope all of you are well. Perhaps you could update to let us know how everyone is.
Today's collect is one of my favorites. Please pray it with me.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless sweet Connor.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Collect For Easter Wednesday:
O God, whose blessed Son made himself known to his disciples in the breaking of bread: Open the eyes of our faith, that we may behold him in all his redeeming work; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, March 26, 2008 10:37 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
People are beginning to talk about going to see the circus. Such talk is a sure sign of spring, although we are expecting a wintery mix again tonight and into Wednesday. I am sure your sweet sunshine boy would enjoy all of the animals that Ringling Brothers, Barnum, and Bailey bring. My guys always loved the elephants.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your golden boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Collect For Easter Tuesday:
O God, who by the glorious resurrection of you Son Jesus Christ destroyed death and brought life and immortality to light: Grant that we, who have been raised with him, may abide in his presence and rejoice in the hope of eternal glory; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, March 25, 2008 11:22 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
This is another quickie to remind you that Connor is thought of and that you are in my prayers. I hope you have a good Easter Week.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Collect For Easter Monday:
Grant, we pray, Almighty God, that we who celebrate with awe the Paschal Feast may be found worthy to attain to everlasting joys; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, March 24, 2008 2:47 PM CDT
Happy Easter, Rhonda!
Connor was remembered at the Easter Vigil, at St. George's. He is always in my thoughts and prayers.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless Connor.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Almighty God, who through your only begotten Son Jesus Christ overcame death and opened to us the gate of everlasting life: Grant that we, who celebrate with joy the day of the Lord's resurrection, may be raised from the death of sin by your life-giving Spirit; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, March 23, 2008 1:43 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I echo Sharon's words. May you have the strength and courage of Christ each and every day. God bless you, and God bless your sweet sunshine boy.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
O God, Creator of heaven and earth: Grant that, as the crucified body of your dear Son was laid in the tomb and rested on this holy Sabbath, so we may await with him the coming of the third day, and rise with him to newness of life; who now lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, March 22, 2008 2:35 PM CDT
Rhonda, I do not sign in to often but I think about you and Connor every single day and pray for you to be strong...
Sharon <sholweger5@yahoo.com>
- Friday, March 21, 2008 10:41 AM CDT
Dear Loved Ones Of Connor,
I am thinking of you this morning, knowing that your connection with this day is strong, because of Connor. May God bless you all.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect For Good Friday:
Almighty God, we pray you graciously to behold this your family (the assembled church), for whom our Lord Jesus Christ was willing to be betrayed, and given into the hands of sinners, and to suffer death upon the cross; who now lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, March 21, 2008 9:22 AM CDT
Rhonda
I was thinking about Connor
during this Holy Week with the
anticipation of celebrating Easter,
and the gift of eternal life.
This is my first 2008 visit.
I am indeed sorry to hear about Eddie and you.
prayers and love from Mrs. Pam
- Thursday, March 20, 2008 6:02 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
At a time of the week, when the children are beginning to enjoy some school vacation, I am thinking of you and your dear sunshine boy. At his age, my boys were enthusiastic about spring sports, dying eggs, and hoping for a few treats in their Easter baskets. I am sure Connor enjoyed some of the same things, and I know you miss him terribly. I am pausing, here, at my keyboard, to pray for you, and for all of Connor's many other loved ones, each by name.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect For Maundy Thursday:
Almighty Father, whose dear Son, on the night before he suffered, instituted the Sacrament of his Body and Blood: Mercifully grant that we may receive it thankfully in remembrance of Jesus Christ our Lord, who in these holy mysteries gives us a pledge of eternal life; and who now lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, March 20, 2008 12:31 AM CDT
wishing you a Happy Easter
tricia <triciabxny@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, March 19, 2008 4:54 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
May the spiritual messages of this Holy Week provide assurance for you, in every way.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless Connor.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Collect For Wednesday In Holy Week:
Lord God, whose blessed Son our Savior gave his body to be whipped and his face to be spit upon: Give us grace to accept joyfully the sufferings of the present time, confident of the glory that shall be revealed; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, March 19, 2008 10:52 AM CDT
Hi Rhonda,
I was just sitting here thinking it has been a long time since I have written in Connor's guestbook. Just wanted to let you know I think of him every day and pray for you daily too.
God Bless,
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Tuesday, March 18, 2008 5:09 PM CDT
A donation is being made in Connor's name. You are in our prayers.
Mike Hock <azbiglawdog@gmail.com>
Toronto, ON Canada - Tuesday, March 18, 2008 3:35 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of you, and remembering Connor, today. May God bless you both.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Collect For Tuesday In Holy Week:
O God, by the passion of your blessed Son you made an instrument of shameful death to be for us the means of life: Grant us so to glory in the cross of Christ, that we may gladly suffer shame and loss for the sake of your Son our Savior Jesus Christ; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, March 18, 2008 12:49 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
This is a quickie to wish you a Happy St. Patrick's Day. May the cheer and humor of the day lift you and give you some joy.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Almighty God, in your providence you chose your servant Patrick to be the apostle of the Irish people, to bring those who were wandering in darkness and error to the true light and knowledge of you: Grant us so to walk in that light that we may come at last to the light of everlasting life; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, March 17, 2008 1:01 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I have been thinking of you throughout the day. This was always an exciting day, when my boys were young, and I am sure you have many memories of Connor, from this holy day. May those memories be sweet, as you rest tonight, and as you go about your week, and may God always bless you.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Here is the song that we sing, year after year, to begin the Palm Procession. If you have time, perhaps you can sing it, too.
Refrain:
All glory, laud, and honor
to thee, Redeemer, King!
to whom the lips of children
made sweet hosannas ring.
Thou art the King of Israel,
thou David's royal Son,
who in the Lord's Name comest,
the King and Blessed One. Refrain
The company of angels
are praising thee on high;
and mortal men and all things
created make reply. Refrain
The people of the Hebrews
with palms before thee went;
our praise and prayer and anthems
before thee we present. Refrain
To thee before thy passion
they sang their hymns of praise;
to thee, now high exalted,
our melody we raise. Refrain
Thou didst accept their praises;
accept the prayers we bring,
who in all good delightest,
thou good and gracious King. Refrain
Words: Theodulph of Orleans (ca. 750-821), ca. 820
Trans. John Mason Neale (1818-1866), 1854,
as altered in Hymns Ancient and Modern
Music: St. Theodulph (Valet will ich dir geben),
(Melchior Teschner, 1584-1635, arranged William Henry Monk, 1823-1889)
Hear It At http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/a/a108.html
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, March 16, 2008 4:54 PM CDT
~Palm Sunday Blessings To You All!
Dear Rhonda,
We had the reading of the Passion, at Saturday afternoon Eucharist today, and it will be done again, tomorrow, at all of the services. It is always such a solemn, reverent occasion.
My thoughts are with you tonight, and I will remember Connor, and think of you, throughout Holy Week.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect For The Sunday Of The Passion (Palm Sunday):
Almighty and everliving God, in your tender love for the human race you sent your Son our Savior Jesus Christ to take upon him our nature, and to suffer death upon the cross, giving us the example of his great humility: Mercifully grant that we may walk in the way of his suffering, and also share in his resurrection; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, March 15, 2008 9:18 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I greet you on another Friday. I am sure you know that I continue to think of Connor, and of all of his family. Connor will never be forgotten.
God bless you all as we mark Palm Sunday and Holy Week.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
A Collect For Fridays:
Almighty God, whose most dear Son went not up to joy but
first he suffered pain, and entered not into glory before he
was crucified: Mercifully grant that we, walking in the way
of the cross, may find it none other than the way of life and
peace; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord. Amen.
The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 99
Written By William Reed Huntington (1838-1909)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, March 14, 2008 11:07 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
My companion and I enjoyed an evening of Irish Stories, at the Glen Sanders Mansion, on Sunday night. Many of the stories were humorous, and I am sure Connor would have enjoyed them. We also had a very good meal.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Almighty and merciful God, who raised up Gregory of Rome to Be a servant of the servants of God, and inspired him to send missionaries to preach the Gospel to the English people: Preserve in your Church the catholic and apostolic faith they taught, that your people, being fruitful in every good work, may receive the crown of glory that never fades away; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, March 12, 2008 1:10 AM CDT
Rhonda, I am just thinking of you and Angel Connor. When we got the snow the other day I wondered what Connor would have thought of it. I am sure he would have loved it. Hopefully he is having some snowball fights on the streets of gold. Take care!
Lori Pierce <hayden01@tds.net>
Mt Juliet, tn - Monday, March 10, 2008 2:44 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
I attended an Irish Day of story and prayer yesterday, and I will be going to hear some more Irish stories tonight. I am thinking of Connor in connection to some of the things I have learned and to the enjoyment of the time. May God bless his sweet spirit.
God bless you, and God bless all of Connor's other loved ones, friends, and supporters.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Almighty God, you alone can bring into order the unruly wills and affections of sinners: Grant your people grace to love what you command and desire what you promise; that, among the swift and varied changes of the world, our hearts may surely there be fixed where true joys are to be found; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, March 9, 2008 1:51 PM CDT
thinking of you
tricia <triciabxny@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, March 9, 2008 10:52 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Thinking of you and just wanted to let you know!:)
God Bless,
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Saturday, March 8, 2008 8:04 PM CST
hi rhonda...just wanted to let you know i'm thinking about you.
love and hugs...deb
deborah pearce <deborah77@wowway.com>
southgate, MI - Thursday, March 6, 2008 6:09 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
As always, I am thinking of Connor, and of you. I hope you are safe and well this week.
We have had a lot of mixed winter weather again, with a total of two and a half inches of rain yesterday. February was the second wettest February on record in this area, and the way March has begun, we might reach some record this month, as well.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, March 6, 2008 12:08 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
This is a quick note to let you know I am thinking of Connor, and of you.
God bless you both.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Lord God, you inspired your servants John and Charles Wesley with burning zeal for the sanctification of souls, and endowed them with eloquence in speech and song; Kindle in your Church, we entreat you, such fervor, that those whose faith has cooled may be warmed, and those who have not known Christ may turn to him and be saved; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, March 4, 2008 1:24 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
Connor was remembered in Holy Eucharist Saturday afternoon, and he will be remembered in the celebration throughout the coming week.
I seldom buy bread, as Andrew and I don't eat enough of it to finish a loaf, and then it spoils. However, we had pasta and sauce one night this week, and we did have some fresh bread sticks with it. It really tasted good.
I think we need to think of the joy of eating good bread when we read the Scriptures about bread and when we pray today's collect.
I hope you are having a good weekend.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
Colette
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The Collect For 4 Lent:
Gracious Father, whose blessed Son Jesus Christ came down from heaven to be the true bread which gives life to the world: Evermore give us this bread, that he may live in us, and we in him; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 219
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, March 2, 2008 6:39 AM CST
Rhonda and Eddie:
Thinking of you both tonight with love.
Kriste
My Big Brother - Tracy Lanius <Kristewithane@comcast.net>
Goodlettsville, TN USA - Saturday, March 1, 2008 10:40 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
Thought of your sunshine boy often today (he brings a smile to my face)and also thought of you on another first day of the month. Know Connor is always in my heart and you are always in my prayers.
God Bless,
love and hugs,
Kathy
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Saturday, March 1, 2008 6:51 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
As we begin the month of March, I am thinking of you and remembering sweet Connor. May God bless you both.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Almighty God, who called your servant David to be a faithful and wise steward of your mysteries for the people of Wales: Mercifully grant that, following his purity of life and zeal for the gospel of Christ, we may with him receive the crown of everlasting life; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and ever. Amen.
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Last Words Of David Of Wales: Be joyful, brothers and sisters. Keep your faith and do the little things that you have seen and heard from me.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, March 1, 2008 1:49 AM CST
Hi Rhonda, I am thinking of you today with a prayer in my heart.
Sharon <sholweger5@yahoo.com>
- Friday, February 29, 2008 6:16 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
Connor was remembered in Holy Eucharist last night, at St. George's. Following the service, we had a wonderful simple supper of ziti with sausage and tossed salad. My boys always loved church suppers. I wonder if Connor did.
We are having a bitter cold spell here. I hope you are safe, warm, and content. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
God bless you always, and God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
A Collect For Fridays:
Almighty God, whose most dear Son went not up to joy but
first he suffered pain, and entered not into glory before he
was crucified: Mercifully grant that we, walking in the way
of the cross, may find it none other than the way of life and
peace; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord. Amen.
The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 99
Written By William Reed Huntington (1838-1909)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, February 29, 2008 4:14 AM CST
Hey Connor,
We finally got a little snow yesterday and all the kids were excited being out of school for the day. We didn't get quite enough to make snow ice cream though. It's been a few years since I've had some. It was always fun going out into the yard and finding a huge pile of clean snow just right for making snow ice cream. (Got to watch out and make sure you don't get any snow that's been visited by the critters!) Maybe we'll get a good snow yet. I know the school kids won't mind at all!!
I guess you are surrounded by all kinds of neat stuff and maybe snow ice cream is there anytime you want it. Neato!! Thanks for the great example you continue to shower down on us. There isn't a day I don't thank God for allowing us to meet here in this life and I'm looking forward to seeing you again!
Love,
Mr. Wayne
Wayne Gordon <wgordon@cscsystems.com>
Hermitage, TN USA - Thursday, February 28, 2008 7:12 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
We have had several hours of blustery weather this week, so far. It is getting to be a regular thing that we have a mixed weather day each week on Tuesday. It will continue to snow today until toward noon, and we may have more on Friday. It is good to have a comfortable home.
Connor is often in my thoughts and prayers. You are, too. I hope all is well.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Our God and King, who called your servant George Herbert from The pursuit of worldly honors to be a pastor of souls, a poet, and a priest in your temple: Give us grace, we pray, joyfully to perform the tasks you give us to do, knowing that nothing is menial or common that is done for your sake; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, February 27, 2008 2:04 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
Just stopping by to let you know that you are on my mind and Connor is in my heart.
I have been busy with my mom since her knee surgery and haven't been on the computer too much, that does not mean you are not in my prayers each and every day!
Mom is doing well, I take her to the dr. to get her staples out and for a check up on Mar. 4th. She is getting around pretty good, but is so sore after her exercises.
Take gentle care,
God Bless,
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Tuesday, February 26, 2008 5:54 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
Preparing to share with you, it occurs to me that I have missed morning Eucharist on a red letter day. This is something I seldom do. I was thinking about it on Saturday and knew what time Father Bill planned the service, but then, with my mind running in a dozen other places, I went to bed, not thinking about it, so did not get out of the house to go. This reminds me of a sign that I have seen many times and that you may have seen, too. It is worded in various ways, but the gist of each poster is, "Thank you, Lord, that although I may forget about you, you never forget about me." When our faith is weak, we are frustrated, or we are afraid, may that thought comfort and sustain us.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless Connor.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
O Almighty God, who in the place of Judas chose your faithful Servant Matthias to be numbered among the Twelve: Grant that your Church, being delivered from false apostles, may always be ordered and guided by faithful and true pastors; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, February 25, 2008 8:56 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
Connor was remembered in Holy Eucharist Saturday afternoon. We are having chancel dramas, in place of sermons, during Lent. The one this weekend was about the role of the camel in Scripture. There was a fellow about Connor's age working with Mother Laurie and doing a wonderful job. It made me think of Connor.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
Colette
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Collect For The Second Sunday in Lent:
O God, whose glory it is always to have mercy: Be gracious to all who have gone astry from your ways, and bring them again with penitent hearts and steadfast faith to embrace and hold fast the unchangeable truth of your Word, Jesus Christ your Son; who with you and the Holy Spirit lives and reigns, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 218
Deb, stay well, and God bless you.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, February 24, 2008 1:52 AM CST
hi rhonda...just wanted to say hi and let you know i'm thinking of you.
colette...you ended your day friday the way ours started!
love and hugs...deb
deborah pearce <deborah77@wowway.com>
southgate, MI - Saturday, February 23, 2008 2:49 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I have been thinking about Connor on another mixed weather day, which ended with three inches of fresh powder. I bet Connor enjoyed playing in stuff like that.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, February 23, 2008 0:41 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
A song by Mary Chapin Carpenter has been going through my mind, so I will leave the lyrics for you. For those of us, who know grace, I believe one day we will find heaven to be a lot like Carpenter explains it. May these words bring you hope and comfort today.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless Connor.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
My Heaven
By Mary Chapin Carpenter
Album: Between Here And Gone
Hear It On National Public Radio Broadcast Of November 25, 2004
Nothing shatters nothing breaks
Nothing hurts and nothing aches
We've got ourselves one helluva place in my heaven
Looking down at the world below
A bunch of whining, fighting schmo's
Up here we've got none of those, in my heaven
There's pools and lakes and hills and mountains
Music, art, and lighted fountains
Who needs bucks here, no one's counting
In my heaven
No one works, we all just play
We pick the weather everyday
If you change your mind, that's ok, in my heaven
Grandma's up here, Grandpa too
In a condo with to-die-for views
There's presidents and movie stars
You just come as you are
No one's lost and no one's missing
No more parting just hugs and kissing
And all these stars are just for wishing
In my heaven
There's little white lights everywhere
Your childhood dog in Dad's old chair
And more memories than my heart can hold
When Eva's singing "Fields of Gold"
There's neighbors, theives and long lost lovers
Villains, poets, kings and mothers
Up here we forgive each other, in my heaven
For every soul that's down there waiting,
Holding on, still hesitating
We say a prayer of levitating, in my heaven
You can look back at your life and lot
But it can't matter what you're not
By the time you're here, we're all we've got
In my heaven
In my heaven
In my heaven
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, February 22, 2008 5:10 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
While the children of upstate New York, are home on school vacation, I cannot help but think of Connor and what he might be doing under similar circumstances. My boys and I used to go down to Steamer Ten, a youth theater, in Albany, to see puppeteers, actors, magicians, and ventriloquists, at least once, most years. We also went to movies, museums, and malls, at this time. We spent a few days in my hometown, too, where we stayed with relatives. The boys liked playing outside in the snow with their cousins, playing cards and other games with them, and eating family food favorites. I am sure Connor would have enjoyed many of those things, as well.
God bless you always. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
O God, by whose grace your servant Cecile Isherwood, enkindled with the fire of your love, became a burning and a shining light in your Church: Grant that we also may be aflame with the spirit of love and discipline, and may ever walk before you as children of light; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, February 20, 2008 12:56 AM CST
God bless you today.
Grace and peace,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, February 19, 2008 12:56 AM CST
stopping by to say hello...always thinking about you and wishing you the best.
tricia <triciabxny@yahoo.com>
- Monday, February 18, 2008 6:47 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
Sitting here watching the snow fall and thinking how much fun Connor would have building a snowman. We have had about 10 inches of snow since yesterday. Our total so far this year is 71 inches and we still have the rest of Feb. all of March and maybe even April. I am sure we will set some kind of record this year. The kids didn't have school today so I didn't have Brandon and Ryan here today. I plan to go up to the hospital to visit my mom when Dave gets home if the roads aren't too bad. He can't visit her as he has a nasty cold and she doesn't need that right now and I hope I don't catch it either!:)
My Aunt Char is back in the hospital. I haven't heard yet today how things are going.
Not much other news from here..know you are daily in my prayers and Connor is forever in my heart.
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Monday, February 18, 2008 4:43 PM CST
Happy President's Day To All Of Connor's Family, Friends, And Supporters!
Dear Rhonda,
I hope you have enjoyed this extended weekend and that you are safe and well.
I thought of both Connor and you, when I was at Eucharist. I also thought of Connor while watching a beautiful cardinal and several bluejays, this morning.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, February 18, 2008 4:15 PM CST
Hi Rhonda! I just wanted you to know that I have been thinking of you. I wonder what kind of Valentine's Day Connor had. I bet it was a blast.
Take care,
Lori P.
Lori Pierce <hayden01@tds.net>
mt julie t, tn - Monday, February 18, 2008 12:35 AM CST
Hi..... I'm a lurker here... Just wanted to say that I am sorry about the divorce. I hope you and Eddie find some peace in your lives and remember all the good times that Connor blessed you with.
Jennifer Hartley <hartley1025@verizon.net>
- Monday, February 18, 2008 12:25 AM CST
hi rhonda...although i haven't signed in a while, i wanted to let you know i'm still thinking about you. i've had a rough couple of weeks.i hope all is good with you.
love and hugs...deb
deborah pearce <deborah77@wowway.com>
southgate, MI - Monday, February 18, 2008 8:57 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
Early on a February morning, I am thinking of Connor, of you, and of all of Connor's loved ones. May God bless you all.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
O God of compassion, who opened the eyes of your servant Thomas Bray to see the needs of the Church in the New World, and led him to found societies to meet those needs: Make the Church in this land diligent at all times to propagate the Gospel among those who have not received it, and to promote the spread of Christian knowledge; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, February 15, 2008 1:42 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
Happy Valentine's Day. May God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Almighty and everlasting God, who kindled the flame of your love in the heart of your holy martyr Valentine: Grant to us, your humble servants, a like faith and power of love, that we who rejoice in his triumph may profit by his example; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, February 14, 2008 8:56 AM CST
I'm thinking of your very special valentine, Connor. I know he sends his love to the both of you everyday.
Lisa
Mount Juliet, TN USA - Wednesday, February 13, 2008 3:36 PM CST
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Dear Rhonda,
I attended a wonderful Story Sunday, at the Glen Sanders Mansion, on Sunday night. As always, I thought of Connor, both as I listened, and as I reflected upon the stories later. One of the tellers, Fran Yardley, of Saranac Lake, ended the evening by reciting a well known poem by one of my favorite poets, Robert Frost. I'll leave it beneath my signature, as it says something very deep about the life choices we have both made.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
Colette
THE ROAD NOT TAKEN
Two roads diverged in a yellow wood,
And sorry I could not travel both
And be one traveler, long I stood
And looked down one as far as I could
To where it bent in the undergrowth;
Then took the other, just as fair,
And having perhaps the better claim,
Because it was grassy and wanted wear;
Though as for that the passing there
Had worn them really about the same,
And both that morning equally lay
In leaves no step had trodden black.
Oh, I kept the first for another day!
Yet knowing how way leads on to way,
I doubted if I should ever come back.
I shall be telling this with a sigh
Somewhere ages and ages hence:
Two roads diverged in a wood, and I-
I took the one less traveled by,
And that has made all the difference.
~Robert Frost (1874-1963)
Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, February 12, 2008 10:44 AM CST
Dear Rhonda, I am so glad you kept the pages down. I miss everything about Connor and was quite depress after I couldn't get int the site. Hope you were safe during the storms. I pray for you and Eddie every day. Keep the faith and find your peace.
sandi slezak <slezak@ez-net.com>
wabeno , wi usa - Sunday, February 10, 2008 10:54 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I was speaking with my cousin, Marge, last night, as yesterday was her late mother's birthday. She told me that her newest grandson, Baby Jameson, is receiving a special, pre-baptismal prayer, in church, this morning. Of course, our thoughts and prayers are with them all at this very happy time.
As with Kathy and Dave, I hope you, Linda and her family, and all of Connor's friends and loved ones, are well, after the storms of Tuesday. Our snow did not accumulate as much as I thought it would.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect (First Sunday In Lent):
Almighty God, whose blessed Son was led by the Spirit to be tempted by Satan: Come quickly to help us who are assaulted by many temptations; and, as you know the weaknesses of each of us, let each one find you mighty to save; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, February 10, 2008 6:21 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
Are you and the Martin-Crocker's okay? I saw where tornadoes hit but I have no idea if they hit near you or not? I am praying NOT!!
I have had a rough week, my Aunt Char (my mom's youngest sister) was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer on Monday. It happened so fast, she was fine the week before and then the next week she finds herself in the hospital having surgery,they did not remove the tumor and it has spread to her liver. She is still in the hospital and will have some big decisions to make when she sees her oncologist after her release from the hospital in another week or so. I have not seen her yet as the family has requested no visitors or phone calls and we will honor that request.
My mom is having a total knee replacement on Tues. so I will be busy with her for a few weeks for sure, maybe longer depending on how fast she recovers.
At any rate wanted to let you know you are in my thoughts and Connor is always in my heart.
love you lots!
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Saturday, February 9, 2008 10:29 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of you, and of Connor, as I do every day. May God bless you both.
Andrew is doing some extra work for his company today, so I took him a lunch a few hours ago. It was snowing hard, when I went out, but, due to relatively warm temperatures, it had not started to accumulate. We could end up with several inches, if it continues.
I hope you are safe, well, and enjoying some of the good things in life, this weekend.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, February 9, 2008 6:30 PM CST
Rhonda..i'am glad I checked this link again haven't been able to get in due to being locked.Thinking of you and your Sunshine boy he really is.I'am sorry about you and Eddie.I'am very happy to hear you will keep this page.Hoping all is well ..from the papers here in California it shows devastation in 5 states from the tornado. Keeping you in my thoughts,someone who cares in Hemet.sherry
Sherry <cowpies5@aol.com>
Hemet, ca - Thursday, February 7, 2008 2:18 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
Connor was remembered in Holy Eucharist yesterday. We had four Ash Wednesday services, at St. George's. As much as I wanted to attend, at night, to enjoy the choir and to sing myself, I went at 12:10, as we were expecting a wintery mix, in the evening. Andrew had to attend a business meeting, locally, last night, and he told me the driving was rough, and he was glad I was able to stay in.
I hope you, your family, and the Martins, are all safe, after the tornado on Tuesday night.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless sweet Connor.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Lord, who throughout these forty days
for us didst fast and pray,
teach us with thee to mourn our sins,
and close by thee to stay.
As thou with Satan didst contend
and didst the victory win,
O give us strength in thee to fight,
in thee to conquer sin.
As thou didst hunger bear and thirst,
so teach us, gracious Lord,
to die to self, and chiefly live
by thy most holy word.
And through these days of penitence,
and through thy Passiontide,
yea, evermore, in life and death,
Jesus! with us abide.
Abide with us, that so, this life
of suffering over-past,
an Easter of unending joy
we may attain at last!
Words: Claudia Frances Hernaman, 1873
Music: St. Flavian, Melody From Day's Psalter
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/l/l511.html
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, February 7, 2008 11:21 AM CST
I pray that the tornados didn't affect you at all.....or the Martin 7. I think of them all the time.
tricia <triciabxny@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, February 6, 2008 11:16 PM CST
Had you on my mind today.
~FOREVER missing my lil man~
DeAnna ~ Chase's heartbroken moma
USA - Wednesday, February 6, 2008 3:20 PM CST
I'm a friend of the Shannon's (Richie Shannon from Nevada). I was just thinking of you this morning as I watched the news about the tornadoes going through, I just thought I'd let you know that Connor often comes to mind and when he does, I stop and pray for you and Eddie. I pray you'll both find joy again, somehow.
Take care,
shelly vanb <jasonshelly@sasktel.net>
saskatoon, sk canada - Wednesday, February 6, 2008 2:05 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
On this Ash Wednesday, I am remembering Connor in all of my prayers. May God bless his sweet spirit, and may God bless you.
I heard of the storm in Tennessee, while watching some of the political coverage. I did not hear much information, so I hope you, Eddie, and all of Connor's loved ones, friends, and supporters, are safe.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
LENT
Remind me, God, of the dust
From which I came and
Unto which I shall return.
Let me treasure every breath
And every moment You have given me.
Help me live fully each day
As if it were my last.
Into Your hands, O Lord,
I commend my spirit
Confident I shall one day
See you face to face.
And on that day, this dust
Will once again be glorified
To form Your holy temple
Forever.
Amen.
~ Father Joseph Veneroso, M.M.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, February 6, 2008 10:59 AM CST
thinking of Connor today.
tricia <triciabxny@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, February 5, 2008 12:55 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I am up, in the night, listening to the pounding rain, and appreciating that the weather is warm enough that it is coming down as liquid, not snow, sleet, and freezing rain. I thought sure that I had signed Connor's guest book Monday morning. (I was indeed on my computer and thinking of him, but I now realize that, in the midst of a lot of email and prayer requests, I did not.) May God bless you both.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Monday's Collect:
O God, who by your Spirit called Cornelius the Centurion to be
the first Christian among the Gentiles: Grant to your Church in
every nation a ready mind and will to proclaim your love to all
who turn to you with unfeigned hope and faith; for the sake of
Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the
Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, February 5, 2008 4:42 AM CST
I'm crying now, this page is so beautiful. You're doing good work. We should always think of the children.
Josine <JosineBressas1@gmail.com>
US - Monday, February 4, 2008 10:47 PM CST
Hi, Rhonda...I am so sorry to hear for the first time of your estrangement and divorce. I know this happenstance pales in comparison to losing a child, but nevertheless since I have been through it myself, I think it is a lot like an emotional heart attack...never fun and always heart-wrenching. I have often heard that losing a child can contribute to the dissolution of an otherwise healthy marriage. Whatever the reason and however long it takes you & Eddie to rebound emotionally, know that I will keep you both in my prayers. Divorce is just a nasty (albeit sometimes necessary) situation. I have often thought of and prayed for you during Connor's illness and after his passing. I shall continue to keep you & Eddie in my thoughts & prayers.
Suzanne M. Gorman <sq6969@comcast.net>
Monmouth Junction, NJ USA - Monday, February 4, 2008 6:02 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
Just had to stop by for my Connor fix. That smiling face of his makes my day!
We are suppose to get sleet, ice and snow AGAIN tonight. I am so tired of winter, but Colette is right it is staying lighter longer (Dave and I have noticed) and February is a short month although there is one extra day this year:)
My Aunt Char is safely at her destination in Milwaukee (about 2 hours from here for her scheduled surgery tomorrow) She will be in the hospital approximately two weeks if all goes well. I am very close to my aunt..my mom only has 2 sisters left. Mom's surgery for her knee is Feb. 12th...I will be busy this next few week taking her to a few appointments etc. and the following busy visiting her in the hospital. She will be there about a week and then moved to the physical therapy floor for another week, but I will keep you daily in my prayers.
We are off to my sister's to watch the Super Bowl, our hearts aren't really in it since the Packers should have been there, but we will go and laugh and eat and eat and have a fun time with her family. My niece is home from La Crosse with her little 5 month old baby, I will play with him while the guys watch football.:)
take gentle care, know I am here for you and I will always have your sunshine boy in my heart.
God Bless,
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Sunday, February 3, 2008 4:49 PM CST
Rhonda,
I am so glad you did not shut down Connor's site. It seems like forever since I have left you a message. I think of Connor all the time. I am a Hospice nurse now and it helps me to see his shinning face on those bad days. You continue to be in my thoughts and prayers.
Jessica Locklear (Vaughan) <jvaughan82@aol.com>
Clarksville , TN - Sunday, February 3, 2008 3:10 PM CST
Dear Rhonda and Eddie,
Connor was remembered in Holy Eucharist this weekend. One of the lessons I read, as lector, yesterday, was from Hebrews 2. I was especially impressed with these words. "He (Jesus) had to become like his brothers and sisters in every respect, so that he might be a merciful and faithful priest in the service of God, to make a sacrifice of atonement for the sins of the people. Because he himself was tested by what he suffered, he is able to help those being tested." May those words bless, strengthen, and encourage you today.
If you watch the Super Bowl, enjoy it. We are not fans of either of these teams, but there is a lot of interest in the game, in this area, because both teams are more or less local teams. Perhaps next year, Connor's Titans will be in it, or maybe our Bills.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
Colette
Collect For Last Sunday After Epiphany:
O. God, who before the passion of your only begotten Son, revealed his glory upon the mountain: Grant to us that we, beholding by faith the light of his countenance, may be strengthened to bear our cross, and be changed into his likeness from glory to glory; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 217
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, February 3, 2008 2:10 PM CST
Rhonda and Eddie:
Thinking of you both, and of course your sweet Connor. May memories of his smiling face warm your hearts.
Hugs to you both,
Kriste
My Big Brother - Tracy Lanius <Kristewithane@comcast.net>
Goodlettsville, TN USA - Sunday, February 3, 2008 8:39 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
As I was getting into my car, to do some errands, last night, despite the ice on the windshield and the wintery mixed mess coming down, I was encouraged. February is the shortest month, and it is also one in which we see, if we look, an increase in daylight. May you receive some encouragement in this thought today.
This is the Feast of the Presentation of Jesus (in the temple). I expect to be doing the lay reading at Eucharist, and I will remember Connor, there, in the beauty of holiness. May God bless his sweet spirit.
Please remember that I am here, and I am willing too help in any way that I can.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
Colette
Today's Collect:
Almighty and everliving God, we humbly pray that, as your Only-begotten Son was this day presented in the temple, so we may be presented to you with pure and clean hearts by Jesus Christ our Lord; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 239
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, February 2, 2008 11:12 AM CST
hi rhonda...thinking of you,today,and always...
love and hugs...deb
deborah pearce <deborah77@wowway.com>
southgate, MI - Friday, February 1, 2008 9:04 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
Sorry I am so late today in writing. Thinking of you and your sunshine boy on this first day of February. It is snowy and dreary here again today. We are awaiting Spring and know it is a longgggg way off!:)
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Friday, February 1, 2008 4:31 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I am remembering sweet Connor, and thinking about you, and all of Connor's many loved ones, on another first of the month. It has been snowing and sleeting, here, in southern Saratoga County. Cars are coming through the area carefully. I hope that you are safe, well, and comfortable today.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
O God, whose blessed Son became poor that we through his
poverty might be rich: Deliver us from an inordinate love of
this world, that, following the example of your servant Bridget,
we may serve you with singleness of heart, and attain to the
riches of the world to come; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who
lives and reigns with you in the unity of the Holy Spirit,
one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, February 1, 2008 11:49 AM CST
I was shocked;then disappointed when after coming here the last few weeks to find that the site was password protected. I see by comments/dates in the guestbook that it was open to some during that time. Sending my prayers
tricia <triciabxny@yahoo.com>
- Friday, February 1, 2008 10:43 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
We are having that wind and chill, in the Capital District of New York, today, which Kathy and Dave mentioned earlier in the week. It sounds like a train is passing my window! I hope you are safe, warm, and comfortable.
Monday, our extended family grew, with the birth of a nine pound, one ounce little boy, in Rochester. His name is Jameson, and he joins two older brothers, William, called Liam, and Patrick. In thinking of it, I keep remembering the birth of Connor's cousin, Brett, and seeing the picture of Connor, holding Brett, in my mind's eye.
It was good to see the entry from Tabitha. May she, and all of her loved ones, be blessed.
God bless you, and of course, God bless dear Connor.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Commemoration Of Charles 1, King And Martyr, 30 January 1649:
Blessed Lord, in whose sight the death of your saints is precious: We praise your name for your abundant grace bestowed upon your servant Charles, king and martyr; by which he was enabled so cheerfully to follow the steps of his blessed Master and Savior in a constant patient suffering of all barbarous indignities, and at last resisting unto blood, and even then, according to the same pattern, praying for his murderers. Let his memory, O Lord, be ever blessed among us, that we may follow the example of his courage and constancy and great charity; for Jesus Christ's sake, our only Mediator and Advocate. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, January 30, 2008 12:30 AM CST
Good afternoon Connor. I am thinking of you and missing you very much as I know your parents are too. Boy, you have the best Mommy ever. Protect her and send her extra comfort as I'm sure you always do. She is so lucky to have you and we were all better to have known you. I can't say enough how proud we all are of you. You are in our thought and hearts forever. Love you and miss your beautiful face and smile. Sorry I have had difficulty communicating for a while but you are never off my mind. Bye for now I will see you again someday. I LOVE YOU BUDDY!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Tabitha <www.tabiray@hotmail.com>
Westmoreland, TN USA - Wednesday, January 30, 2008 11:46 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
Thinking of you and hoping you are finding peace.
I come here often to see the smiling face of your sweet Connor. It brightens many of my days, even some of the down and out days. I think we are all having a bit of the winter blahs around here. It has been a rough January and tomorrow they are predicting 40-50 mile an hour winds, a wind chill of -30 and 6 inches of snow! We have had over 45 inches of snow this year already, and we still have Feb. and March to go! Guess I know where I will be tomorrow...hibernating!!!
God Bless you and know you are always on my mind and in my prayers and Connor is forever in my heart.
Oh, Dave finally passed that nasty kidney stone. All 3 of the boys e mailed me and asked me what he named it and if it was a girl or a boy:) Silly guys!
take gentle care of you and know you are loved from the frozen tundra of Green Bay!:)
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Monday, January 28, 2008 10:05 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
Yesterday afternoon, Andrew, Kristen, and I attended the Albany Invitational Professional Bull Riding, at the Times Union Center. Andrew, who watches regularly on television, was very excited to be there, and I know that Connor would have enjoyed it, as well. In addition to the sport, the lights, fireworks, and music added to the fun and excitement.
I have just looked through all of Connor's pictures on this site again. Thanks for sharing them.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless sweet Connor.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Almighty God, who called Timothy, Titus, and Silas to be evangelists and teachers, and made them strong to endure hardship: Strengthen us to stand fast in adversity, and to live righteous and godly lives in this present time, that with sure confidence we may look for our blessed hope, the glorious appearing of our great God and Savior Jesus Christ; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, January 28, 2008 11:16 AM CST
Hi Rhonda,
Thinking of you and your sunshine boy. Sending love and lots of hugs.
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Sunday, January 27, 2008 4:50 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
Connor has been remembered in Holy Eucharist this weekend. While there, I also said a prayer for you. May God bless you both.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect For The Third Sunday After The Epiphany:
Give us grace, O Lord, to answer readily the call of our Savior Jesus Christ and proclaim to all people the Good News of his salvation, that we and the whole world may perceive the glory of his marvelous works; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 215
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, January 27, 2008 10:23 AM CST
hi rhonda...thinking of you, and hoping things are getting better...love and hugs...deb
deborah pearce <deborah77@wowway.com>
southgate, MI - Saturday, January 26, 2008 4:07 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I will remember Connor in Eucharist this weekend. Whenever I do, I always add a prayer for you.
God bless you always, and enjoy this lovely weekend.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Yesterday's Collect:
O God, by the preaching of your apostle Paul you have caused the light of the Gospel to shine throughout the world: Grant, we pray, that we, having his wonderful conversion in remembrance, may show ourselves thankful to you by following his holy teaching; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, January 26, 2008 11:30 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
As with every day, I am remembering your golden boy, Connor, and thinking of you. I hope you have a good weekend.
I am leaving another thought from Phillips Brooks.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Every true prayer has its background and its foreground. The foreground of prayer is the intense, immediate desire for a certain blessing which seems to be absolutely necessary for the soul to have; the background of prayer is the quiet, earnest desire that the will of God, whatever it may be, should be done. What a picture is the perfect prayer of Jesus in Gethsemane! In front burns the strong desire to escape death and to live; but behind there stands, calm and strong, the craving of the whole life for the doing of the will of God... Leave out the foreground, let there be no expression of the will of him who prays, and there is left a pure submission which is almost fatalism. Leave out the background, let there be no acceptance of the will of God, and the prayer is only an expression of self-will, a petulant claiming of the uncorrected choice of him who prays. Only when the two are there together, the special desire resting on the universal submission, the universal submission opening into the special desire, is the picture perfect and the prayer complete.
~Bishop Phillips Brooks (1835-1893)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, January 25, 2008 11:06 AM CST
hi rhonda...thinking of you...love and hugs...deb
deborah pearce <deborah77@wowway.com>
southgate, MI - Thursday, January 24, 2008 7:05 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
As always, I am thinking of you and of your sweet sunshine boy, Connor. May God bless you both.
Below is my favorite quotation, from Phillips Brooks. I have sent it to you before, but it continues to speak to me of the wonderful care you always provided for Connor.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Duty calls us to do things well, but love makes us do them beautifully.
~Phillips Brooks, Bishop Of Massachusetts (1893-1893)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, January 24, 2008 6:09 PM CST
Hi
Just stopping in to check in, and thanking you for keeping the sight open. I know with the recent trouble w/comments it would have easier for you to have closed the page instead of the steps to keep it open and free of problems. I appreciate it and thank you. Even if we don't talk much I think of you A LOT and Often as well of course CONNOR, that goes w/out saying. I still have his picture, the one that is down the side of the page on my frig. Love you, call me anytime.
Love Nikies mom Cindy
www.caringbridge.org/tn/nikiegriffin
cindy <travelingirlusa@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, January 24, 2008 7:48 AM CST
Thinking of you right now. :)
becky b
gallatin, tn - Wednesday, January 23, 2008 9:27 PM CST
Hi Rhonda,
Just stopping by to say hi. Missing your sunshine boy but loving being able to see his sweet smiling face on this site.
Love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Wednesday, January 23, 2008 9:06 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
The sun is out today, and I am thinking of your sweet sunshine boy, Connor. What a blessing it is to know his story and to be able to write in his guest book!
Today's saint is Bishop Phillips Brooks, often considered the best preacher of his day, and one of my favorites. I believe he and Connor had a lot in common. A Boston daily newspaper once wrote of Brooks, "The day opened cloudy and cheerless, but about noon Phillips Brooks came downtown and then everything brightened up." What a gift to bring sunshine to others! God bless them both.
May you have a good day, and God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Collect For The Feast of Phillips Brooks (1835-1893):
O everlasting God, who called your servant Phillips Brooks to the ministry of preaching, and gave him wisdom, charity, and eloquence that he might speak the truth with grace and power: Grant, we pray, that all those whom you call to preach the Gospel may steep themselves in your word, and conform their lives to your will; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, January 23, 2008 10:41 AM CST
hi rhonda...just popping in on this cold, cold night to let you know i'm here and thinking about you. love and hugs...deb
deborah pearce <deborah77@wowway.com>
southgate, MI - Tuesday, January 22, 2008 7:32 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
This is a quickie to remind you that I am thinking of Connor, and of you, today. May God bless you both.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Almighty God, whose deacon Vincent, upheld by you, was not terrified by threats nor overcome by torments: Strengthen us to endure all adversity with invincible and steadfast faith; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, January 22, 2008 12:45 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I thought of Connor, at our Winter Lights Telling yesterday. He would have loved stories by my friends Marni Gillard, Kent Busman, Joe Doolittle, and Nancy Marie Payne. He would have also enjoyed the cookies and the punch. Perhaps he would also have been among the young men chosen to light the opening candles. We all know that Connor always let his light shine. May God bless his sweet spirit, and may God bless you.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Almighty and everlasting God, you choose those whom the World deems powerless to put the powerful to shame: Grant us so to cherish the memory of your youthful martyr Agnes, that we may share her pure and steadfast faith in you; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, January 21, 2008 12:53 AM CST
greetings from the tundra! love and hugs...deb
deborah pearce <deborah77@wowway.com>
southgate, MI - Sunday, January 20, 2008 7:42 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
Stopping by with a BIG hug and a warm hi from COLD Green Bay!:) I am blessed to be one of the lucky ones to be able to continue to write in Connor's guestbook:)
God Bless,
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Sunday, January 20, 2008 5:00 PM CST
I thought I signed in when I visited this morning but I guess I didn't. (just figured it out I probably pushed the clear button at the end I am good at that!!!) I agree with every one that's said its cold out !!! it sure is.!!! A day of staying in a pampering sounds great. Just want you to know you're thought about every day with love and prayers.
Sharon <sholweger5@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, January 20, 2008 1:14 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I was watching the birds outside my window this morning and thinking of your little veterinarian, Connor. They seemed so cold. I hope you are warm, safe, and comfortable today. Know that you are surrounded with love and prayers from Connor's friends and supporters, and cling to those things that are good.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless sweet Connor.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is pleasing, whatever is commendable, if there is any excellence and if there is anything worthy of praise, think about these things.
~Philippians 4:8
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, January 20, 2008 11:15 AM CST
Hi Rhonda,
I hope you're staying warm - it's chilly down your way! I wish you a lazy Sunday with nothing to do but pamper yourself. Sending hugs...
Deb and Laura
Litchfield, NH USA - Sunday, January 20, 2008 9:46 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I will be remembering Connor, in Holy Eucharist, later this weekend. You are both always in my thoughts and prayers.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
O Great Spirit, whose breath gives life to the world and whose voice is heard in soft breeze, we need your strength and wisdom. May we walk in beauty. May our eyes ever behold the red and purple sunset. Make us wise so that we may understand what you have taught us. Help us learn the lessons you have hidden in every leaf and rock. Make us always ready to come to you with clean hands and straight eyes, so when life fades, as the fading sunset, our spirits may come to you without shame.
~From A Native American Prayer (Today's Peace Thought)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, January 19, 2008 1:20 PM CST
stopping by to let you know you are both in my prayers
tricia <triciabxny@yahoo.com>
- Friday, January 18, 2008 11:17 PM CST
You are in my prayers today.
Lisa
Mount Juliet, TN USA - Friday, January 18, 2008 5:15 PM CST
God bless you all.
Grace and peace,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, January 18, 2008 12:29 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
As always, I am thinking of you and remembering Connor.
Today's saint is Antony of Egypt. His biography was written by Athanasius, who said of him: "Who ever met him grieving and failed to go away rejoicing?" Let us strive to be a similar help to those around us.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect:
O God, who by your Holy Spirit enabled your servant Antony to withstand the temptations of the world, the flesh, and the devil: Give us grace, with pure hearts and minds, to follow you, the only God; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, January 17, 2008 11:28 AM CST
hi rhonda...just stopping by to let you know i'm thinking about you. hope all is well...love and hugs...deb
deborah pearce <deborah77@wowway.com>
southgate, MI - Wednesday, January 16, 2008 7:46 PM CST
I am continuing to think of you.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, January 16, 2008 10:47 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
This is just a short note to let you know that I am thinking of you, and of sweet Connor, today. God bless you both.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Eternal Father, whose servant Hilary steadfastly confessed your Son Jesus Christ to be true God and true man: We beseech you to keep us firmly grounded in this faith; that we may rejoice to behold his face in heaven who humbled himself to bear our form upon earth, even the same your Son Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, January 15, 2008 12:51 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I thought of your sweet sunshine boy, last night, while listening to Epiphany and Wonder Stories, at the Glen Sanders Mansion, in Scotia. I believe he would have loved a beautiful story about the magi, told by Kent Busman, and humorous stories by both Kent and Joe Doolittle.
God bless you, and of course, God bless your dear son, Connor Jordan Hunley.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Peace Thought:
I don't know what your destiny will be, but one thing I know - the only ones among you who will be really happy are those who have sought and found how to serve.
~Albert Schweitzer
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, January 14, 2008 1:34 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
Andrew, Kristen, and I went to the Cracker Barrel for a late lunch yesterday. Although we have had this restaurant in the area for at least ten years, this is the first time Andrew and I have eaten there. It was sort of fun to look at the stuffed animals, candy, books, and other items while waiting for our table. I think Connor would have enjoyed this.
God bless you, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Father in heaven, who at the baptism of Jesus in the River Jordan proclaimed him your beloved Son and anointed him with the Holy Spirit: Grant that all who are baptized into his Name may keep the covenant they have made, and boldly confess him as Lord and Savior; who with you and the Holy Spirit lives and reigns, one God, in glory everlasting. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, January 13, 2008 12:23 AM CST
Dear Rhonda
Although I don't sign Conner's guest book very often I do think of him as one of the dear angels whom I know through caringbridge. I also continue to pray for your whole family, love and prayers from Scotland,Rosi
www.caringbridge.org/hi/kayla
Rosi Pullin <rosipullin@hotmail.com>
- Saturday, January 12, 2008 7:10 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
Once again, I am thinking of your golden sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley. He will be remembered in story and in Eucharist this weekend.
If there is anything I can do to help, please be in touch.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Collect For The Feast Of Aelred Of Rievaulx, 12 January 1167:
Pour into our hearts, O God, the Holy Spirit's gift of love, That we, clasping each the other's hand, may share the joy of friendship, human and divine, and with your servant Aelred draw many to your community of love; through Jesus Christ the Righteous, who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, now and forever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, January 12, 2008 9:57 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
Just stopping in to check out that beautiful smile of Connor's which always makes me smile. I am so happy that you are keeping Connor's Caringbridge site.:)
Know you are daily in my prayers along with Eddie and your extended families.
Love ya!
God Bless
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Friday, January 11, 2008 9:54 PM CST
In the face of suffering, one has no right to turn away, not to see. ... When someone suffers, and it is not you, they come first. Their suffering gives them priority. ... To watch over another who grieves is a more urgent duty than to think of God.
~Elie Wiesel, Holocaust Survivor, in Peacemaking Day By Day
This is one of the reasons why Connor's friends are here, day after day, week after week, month after month. Rhonda, you, and Eddie, are in our thoughts and prayers.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, January 11, 2008 12:22 AM CST
Dear Hunley Family,
I'm so glad to hear that Connor's page will stay up. I find a lot of spiritual comfort in his story as well as through entries in the guest book- particularly those posted by Ms. Colette. Mr. Wayne's entry brought tears to my eyes as he was so beautifully able to express what so many of us are feeling. Your family's faith in God has led me closer to Him and Connor will always remain one of my heroes. Love, blessings, and tons of hugs,
Tanya
Tanya Nicole Servis <tanyans83@yahoo.com>
Newark, DE USA - Thursday, January 10, 2008 9:06 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I don't think I have said how glad I am that you are keeping Connor's guest book open. Even when I do not write, it is of the first places I go, when I sign onto the internet. May God bless you and your sweet sunshine boy.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Keep us, O Lord, constant in faith and zealous in witness, That, like your servant William Laud, we may live in your fear, die in your favor, and rest in your peace; for the sake of Jesus Christ your Son our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, January 10, 2008 7:29 PM CST
hi rhonda...just wanted to let you know i'm thinking about you...love and hugs...deb
deborah pearce <deborah77@wowway.com>
southgate, MI - Thursday, January 10, 2008 6:30 PM CST
Rhonda,
I'm glad you are keeping Connor's page up. His was the first Caringbridge page I ever read - shortly after Ian's diagnosis. And I remember crying when I read of his relapses. I pull up this page just to look at Connor's picture. I am sorry to read of your and Eddie's parting. That must have been a difficult and draining road to travel. But as someone has already posted, you will always have been parents to a wonderful child. Take care,
Kellie Davideit (Angel Ian's mom) <kelbri27@optonline.net>
Metuchen, nj usa - Wednesday, January 9, 2008 3:00 PM CST
Rhonda,
I just wanted to check in on you and see if Connor's page was still here. I have not vistited in a long time, but you are still in my prayers. Sending you my love and prayers.
Missy Spears Calvert <calfive@nctc.com>
Westmoreland, Tn US - Wednesday, January 9, 2008 1:40 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
Mr. Wayne's comments brought tears....what a beautiful tribute to Connor. Connor in the short years he was on earth touched many lives, probably more than you are aware of...as there are many who read who do not sign in. Thank you Mr. Wayne for the kind words, you are truly an online Caringbridge friend, as is Colette. Colette and I exchange e mails often and I appreciate the time she takes to write in so many Caringbridge guestbooks...she truly is a treasure on earth.
God Bless all those who visit these sites and God Bless Rhonda and Eddie.
Love ya Connor, and you will ALWAYS be in my heart.
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Wednesday, January 9, 2008 1:02 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
After writing here quickly last night, I rushed over to a meeting, at church. As I was leaving my car, the Cub Scouts and their parents, were coming out of their meeting. One mother walked past my car, carrying her son and kissing him. In that moment, I thought of us both. Only God knows how many times we have carried our sons in our arms, kissing them, or gently touching their faces, or their hair, as we walked. Today we each have one that we carry in our hearts and that we touch only in memory, but we have been so blessed to be their mothers.
God bless you, and God bless our boys.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, January 9, 2008 11:56 AM CST
thinking of you;just wanted to let you know.
tricia <triciabxny@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, January 9, 2008 10:47 AM CST
Good morning to everyone!
Rhonda, you wrote that leaving Connor's web site up was a good idea if it only helped one person. I suggest that number is way too low! I believe Connor's life IS touching a bunch of people from all over. To say that Connor is helping me be a better person is an understatement. Connor, along with several others in the Caring Bridge community, is helping me daily to be more of the person God wants me to be. God uses the innocence of youth in reaching out to share his love. God's ability to work through the life of a 10 year old is nothing extradionary in and of itself. The willingness to allow my life to be influenced by a 10 year old speaks so much about Connor, his character, his attitude, and his willingness to allow God to work through him!
Where else can one be touched by the love of so many-most of whom you have never met and most likely never will this side of eternity? Where else can you be inspired by the words of people from so many different places? Where else can you see God's care and concern for his children be displayed so lovingly? There is a certain appreciation for our family, friends, coworkers, peers, and all of the other relationships we have in a personal way. And yet, there is something very special and unique about 'meeting' people you will never see in person. There may be barriers to the relationships one has through something like Caring Bridge, but there is also something very special about the people that you do 'meet' here. In just about every instance you will meet people who have the ability to love and lift others up. I hesitate to mention individuals for fear of leaving someone out, but I think about Colette and Kathy & Dave. There are others also who visit here regularly.
Rhonda and Eddie, I am sorry your paths have taken you in different directions. But, you will always be Connors parents. Your love for him and his love for you will never be diminished. Please continue to serve God with all your heart, mind, and soul!
Connor, you are the young man who fills my heart with joy because you are such a happy person. You have allowed God to work through you to reach others. Thank you so very much for blessing my life with your positive attitude, happy spirit, and desire to please our Lord!
PS. I'm think vanilla bean right now-what about you?
In Christian love,
Wayne / Mr. Wayne
Wayne Gordon <wgordon@cscsystems.com>
Hermitage, TN USA - Wednesday, January 9, 2008 7:37 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
This is just a quickie to say that I am thinking of Connor and of all of his loved ones.
Thanks to all of Connor's friends, who left kind words about me. Connor is the best, and Connor has great fans.
God bless you all.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, January 8, 2008 6:28 PM CST
hey rhonda...i'll second that emotion! colette is awesome! i'm so glad you decided to keep the site open. do you ever see linda martin anymore? here's hoping your year is off to a great start. with love and hugs...deb
deborah pearce <deborah77@wowway.com>
southgate, MI - Monday, January 7, 2008 7:53 PM CST
Me too, Tricia. Colette is the BEST! But, of course, I love you all!
Connor's Mom <realtorrhonda@att.blackberry.net>
Hville, TN USA - Monday, January 7, 2008 2:41 PM CST
I jst love Colette's message!
tricia <triciabxny@yahoo.com>
- Monday, January 7, 2008 10:22 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
Yesterday, in her children's sermon, Mother Laurie gave each child a star to wear, as a reminder that they are to let their light shine. Connor certainly always let his light shine. Oh, how we all love him!
God bless you, and of course, God bless Connor.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, January 7, 2008 9:18 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
Thank you from the bottom of my heart for continuing Connor's Caringbridge site. I cried tears of joy when I read it would continue. You know I would continue to support you either way, it was your decision to make. I pray for you and for Eddie daily. I pray you find the peace you are seeking. Eddie's guestbook entry was heart wrenching, I could feel his pain as I have felt yours so many times through this site. I know this has been such a difficult journey for you both. I hope in some small way I have helped you and I will continue to be there for you ALWAYS, just as Connor will ALWAYS be in my heart. Thank you for sharing him with us. WE LOVE YOU AND MISS YOUR SUNSHINE BOY!
Love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Sunday, January 6, 2008 8:08 PM CST
Rhonda:
Just wanted you to know I'm thinking of you tonight.
God bless you,
Kriste
My Big Brother - Tracy Lanius <Kristewithane@comcast.net>
Goodlettsville, TN USA - Sunday, January 6, 2008 7:52 PM CST
Dear Rhonda and Eddie
Thank you for sharing your story about Conner.We just lost our five year old to the Rhabdo. Sharing your story about Conner helped us to grieve for our Grahm.
Sincerely
Jeff & Judy
Jeff Jahr & Judy Moon <ejeffgreen@yahoo.com>
Berkley, MI USA - Sunday, January 6, 2008 6:02 PM CST
Glad Epiphany To All!
Dear Rhonda and Eddie,
Connor will be remembered in Holy Eucharist later today. He is always in my thoughts, especially beneath the Jesus and the Children stained glass window. God bless his sweet spirit.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
OVER THE HILL AND OVER THE DALE
By John Mason Neale (1818-1866)
Over the hill and over the dale, Came three kings together
Caring naught for snow and hail, Cold and wind and weather.
Now on Persia's sandy plane, Now where Tigris swells with rain
They their camels tether.
Now through Syrian lands they go, Now through Moab faint and slow
Now o'r Edam's heather.
Over the hill and over the dale, Each king bears a present
Wise men go a child to hale, Monarchs seek a peasant.
And in front a star proceeds, Over rocks and rivers leads
Shines with beams incessant.
Therefore onward, onward still, Ford the stream and climb the hill
Love makes all things pleasant.
He is God ye go to meet, Therefore incense proffer
He is king ye go to greet, Gold is in your coffer.
Also man he comes to share, Every woe that man can bear
Tempter, railer, scoffer.
Therefore now against the day, In the grave when him they lay
Myrrh ye also offer.
Over the hill and over the dale, Riding east together
Caring naught for snow and hail, Naught for wind and weather
Warned by God from Herod's door, Each king turns for home once more
Hearts and footsteps lighter.
Now behind them shines the star, Which they followed from afar,
Shining ever brighter.
Collect For The Feast Of The Epiphany (January 6):
O God, by the leading of a star you manifested your only Son to the peoples of the earth: Lead us, who know you now by faith, to your presence, where we may see your glory face to face; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 214
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, January 6, 2008 0:57 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
It is good to see the new border on Connor's homepage. Yes, that boy's smile lights up the world! May God bless Connor Jordan Hunley.
I do pray for you and for Eddie. You have both been through so much. May God grant you both peace.
As we conclude the Christmas season tonight, Twelfth Night, let us reflect on this thought:
Work of Christmas Begins
By Howard Thurman (adapted)
"When the song of the angels is stilled,
when the star in the sky is gone,
when the kings and princes are home,
when the shepherds are back with the flocks,
then the work of Christmas begins:
to find the lost,
to heal those broken in spirit,
to feed the hungry,
to release the oppressed,
to rebuild the nations,
to bring peace among all peoples,
to make a little music with the heart…
And to radiate the Light of Christ,
every day, in every way, in all that we do and in all that we say.
Then the work of Christmas begins.
The message of the Feast of Epiphany announces to all people, everywhere:
Rise up in splendor…your light has come,
The Glory of the Lord shines upon you!
Let the work of Christmas begin, and let it begin with you."
Please let me know, if I can help in any way.
God bless you always, and God bless all of Connor's loved ones, friends, and supporters.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, January 5, 2008 11:18 AM CST
It was nice to hear from Connor's Daddy (guestbook).I'm sorry for the continued pain in both your lives. I'm sure Connor would have wanted things to turn out differently.i pray that you both find a peace in your lives
tricia <triciabxny@yahoo.com>
- Saturday, January 5, 2008 11:11 AM CST
~Peace to both Connor's Mommy and Connor's Daddy.
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, January 4, 2008 10:08 AM CST
To Connor my only child and the only true meaning of my existance:I cried tears of joy the day you were born, tears of sorrow the day you died. Nothing or no one can ever make well the constant pain I feel inside. My only prayer is that someday when I stand before God in his great judgement day ,that he'll say well done ,someones been waiting for you , and from behind all his glory you'll come in to view. And together we'll enter the promised land, and for all eternity walk hand in hand. May God bless each of you who have over many years supported us with thoughts, prayers, and encouragement. I know Connors mom is planning to shut this page down soon. Just wanted to give my thanks to you all. THANK YOU ! CONNOR, I miss you so so so much, more with each passing day, I know you are in a perfect place ,free from the evil, and ugliness of this world. Zoe(Connor,s Cat) has been very very loving today I know she misses you too! Matt:5:44
Connor's dad <edroc1967@comcast.net>
Hville, Tn usa - Thursday, January 3, 2008 10:18 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I was thinking of Connor, as we cleaned up from another snowstorm yesterday. If I understood the weather people correctly, we have already had more than half of our usual annual snowfall.
I hope you are safe, warm, and well, during this blustery time.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Almighty and everlasting God, we thank you for your servant Gladys Aylward, whom you called to preach the Gospel to the people of China. Raise up in this and every land heralds and evangelists of your kingdom, that your Church may make proclaim the unsearchable riches of our Savior Jesus Christ; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, January 3, 2008 11:16 AM CST
Remember your servant Connor, O Lord, according to the favor which you bear to your people; and grant that, increasing in knowledge and love of you, he may go from strength to strength in the life of perfect service in your heavenly kingdom; through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.
God bless your beautiful sunshine boy.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, January 2, 2008 12:13 AM CST
Rhonda, pleae know that I am thinking and praying for you. I know it must be difficult for you to take down Connor's page but something you feel you must do. Thanks for sharing Connor with us. He will never be forgotten. Hayden still has his computer and it has now passed down to Noah who is 2.Connor's candles that you made are still up in my house. The button with his picture is in my jewelry box and he looks up to me when I open it. You are a wonderful person and I am glad I got to know you. Please email me sometime and we can have coffee or something. Hayden just lost his from tooth. I can't believe it. Take care!
Lori Pierce <hayden01@tds.net>
Mt Juliet, TN - Wednesday, January 2, 2008 7:53 AM CST
Dear Rhonda,
I continue to remember sweet Connor and to think of you, and of Connor's many other loved ones. May all be blessed in this new year.
Beneath my signature is the end of a long prayer by Deacon J, from Barbara C. Crafton's Geranium Farm website. You can read it all by visiting the website and going to the section "More or Less Church."
I hope you have a good day.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
During this upcoming year tune my heart
to seek Your truth,
to listen for Your voice,
to learn Your ways and incorporate them in my life,
to speak Your love,
to remain faithful regardless of setbacks
one day at a time, one person at a time, one heart at a time.
Like your servant Francis, make me an instrument of Your peace
in and to this broken world. Amen.
By K.L. Joanna Depue, Known As Deacon J
From Barbara Crafton's Geranium Farm
January 2, 2008
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, January 2, 2008 6:44 AM CST
Hopping over to Say Im thinking of connor today... and that beautiful smile that just made people smile! One of my favorite pictures is of him with basko... He looks so content with basko... I love all the pictures actually! He looked so much like you.. but then I see eddie in some of the photos too! But as mom we like to think they look like us... they do... We will just keep that to ourselves. I know the First isnt a good day.. but I hope today is the First of many new things for you!
Kim <dakk2222@netnitco.net>
IN - Tuesday, January 1, 2008 6:40 PM CST
Happy New Year To All!
Dear Rhonda,
May grace, hope, peace, health, and good things be with you in this new year of 2008. This website has touched many hearts. Thank you for sharing Connor with the world through it. He, and his awesome mother, will never be forgotten. God bless you both.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
New Year's Prayer
Oh Thou, who art ever the same,
Grant us so to pass through
the new year with faithful hearts,
that we may be able in all things
to please Thy loving eyes. Amen.
~Mozarabic, 700 A.D.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, January 1, 2008 4:23 PM CST
Dear Rhonda,
Thinking of a little blonde haired blue eyed sunshine boy today on another first of the month and the beginning of a New Year. Wishing you a blessed New Year filled with peace. I am here whenever you need me for ANYTHING. God Bless you for sharing the life of Connor with us, he remains forever in my heart, and you will forever be my friend....someday soon I hope to meet you in TN. to give you a big hug and thank you in person for being such an inspiration to all of us here in cyber space through Connor's Caringbridge site. If you choose to close down Connor's site that is your choice and no one should judge you for that. Please know that I have saved all the pictures on this site of Connor and put them onto a cd so I can look at him whenever I need a lift in my life. His smile brightens the darkest of days.:)
God Bless,
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Tuesday, January 1, 2008 11:51 AM CST
Dear Hunley Family,
Happy New Year! I wish you all nothing but the best in 2008. I will continue to pray for your family always. Connor will always be one of my heroes and I have nothing but respect and admiration for your entire family. Wherever life takes you, may you find peace, joy, and comfort. Love, blessings, and tons of hugs,
Tanya
Tanya Nicole Servis <tanyans83@yahoo.com>
Newark, DE USA - Tuesday, January 1, 2008 10:50 AM CST
I know that you know that I am thinking about you as another first of the month rolls around... and I will continue to remember you especially on the first of every month for many years to come. every day that passes is one day sooner we will be together in heaven with our boys.
Sharon <sholweger5@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, January 1, 2008 9:24 AM CST
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